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Speaker 1: Who's Alex's worst person in the world today, Who's Alex's

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Speaker 1: worst person in the world today? All right, So this

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Speaker 1: person or people or whoever, it's not something that's very

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Speaker 1: easy to spot. So unless like you're paying attention to

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Speaker 1: a conversation throughout the whole way and have conversations with

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Speaker 1: the same person all the time, then it might be

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Speaker 1: really hard to spot. But people who bring the conversation

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Speaker 1: back to themselves all the time, like say, you're talking

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Speaker 1: about basketball and how you how you made twenty points

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Speaker 1: in one game, right, and this person's like, oh my

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Speaker 1: gosh and high school, Like I made twenty five points

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Speaker 1: is one time? Like yeah, it doesn't matter what it is,

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Speaker 1: they like bring it back to themselves. Yeah, that happens

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Speaker 1: a lot in conversations. We're talking about something random that

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Speaker 1: really doesn't even pertain to either person in the conversation,

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Speaker 1: and someone to bring it back to themselves all the time,

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Speaker 1: Like it's a far stretch. They'll bring it back to themselves,

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Speaker 1: like almost like they have to make up have the

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Speaker 1: story just to bring it back to themselves. So, I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's a few people that I noticed do this all

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Speaker 1: the time, and it's really weird to me because what

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Speaker 1: I mean, it might even be something that like I

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Speaker 1: don't really care to talk about myself, you know, I don't.

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Speaker 1: But if I was to be talking about myself and

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Speaker 1: it's something important or that I want to be talking about,

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Speaker 1: it's really awkward and then like I'm trying to bring

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Speaker 1: it back to the conversation. Like I think the worst

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Speaker 1: example is when people who are speaking about like a

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Speaker 1: personal thing, and then the other piece, the other person,

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Speaker 1: will try and bring it back to something that's happened

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Speaker 1: to them that is maybe like worse so that it

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Speaker 1: kind of eradicates what the person before them is said. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so it's like, you know, oh, I'm dealing with this

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Speaker 1: really hard issue right now, and they're like, well, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm delso dealing with a really hard issues. Yeah really Yeah,

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Speaker 1: okay cool? Does that make mine less? Yeah? Valuable? I

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Speaker 1: guess you don't care about what we were just talking about, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know. And it's not selfish. It's not selfish to

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Speaker 1: be like, I'm dealing with something and you're important to

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Speaker 1: me to have a conversation with about it, So let's

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Speaker 1: talk about this and then move on to your thing.

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Speaker 1: When we've made it through that. Yeah, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: but people do it all the time, and even while

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Speaker 1: we're talking about this, you want to be like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't like that. But then I'm like, is that

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Speaker 1: bring the conversation back to myself? Am I doing it now?

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Speaker 1: You don't want to be doing that. I feel like

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Speaker 1: people don't even realize that they do it, though, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't think so, they don't. I think a lot

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Speaker 1: of people, I myself sometimes do it just so that

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Speaker 1: I can make the other person feel like they have

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Speaker 1: someone to relate to. Yeah, But also at the same time,

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Speaker 1: I'm like very conscious of the fact that I don't

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Speaker 1: want to sound like I'm not listening right right and

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Speaker 1: just want to talk about yourself. Yeah, And like after

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Speaker 1: every comment about stuff, like I've actually just kind of

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Speaker 1: been in conversations where I'm having a conversation as normal,

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Speaker 1: Like people do respond like and you go back and

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Speaker 1: forth with with what you guys, you know, having comment

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Speaker 1: or if like whatever you guys are talking about, you

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Speaker 1: guys are going to have similar stories. Maybe it's not

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Speaker 1: always serious, but when like everything like it's brought back

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Speaker 1: to them, like they just want to keep talking about themselves. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like if you saw a pair of pants or

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Speaker 1: you bought a pair of pants and you're like, I

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Speaker 1: bought this new pair of pants, and they're like, could

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Speaker 1: you imagine if I wore those pants? Yeah? Well literally,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about the pants that why, I guess I

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Speaker 1: guess now I could imagine it. But yeah, they're not

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Speaker 1: your pants. Yeah, it's always very selfish people that. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it is like I wrote a book.

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Speaker 1: Oh well I wrote this, Like I got an A

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Speaker 1: plus an essay when I was in middle school. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like that's not even a one upper. It's like take

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Speaker 1: her away. Yeah, Like it's just taking any conversation away

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Speaker 1: from you. And that's for sure that they're always talking

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Speaker 1: about themselves, Yes, don't matter what it is, Like they'll

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Speaker 1: stretch it and it's just like oh okay. There's when

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Speaker 1: times where I'm talking about something serious or whatever it

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Speaker 1: needs no response by that person and they bring it

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Speaker 1: back to themselves and like I'll just like stop and

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Speaker 1: like I'll look them like okay, yeah, and it's hard

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Speaker 1: to okay, well, anyways, it's hard to go back to it,

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Speaker 1: you know, because you don't want to. Also, in a conversation,

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Speaker 1: do this weird tug of war. Yeah, like, hey, I

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Speaker 1: really want to talk about what I was just talking about.

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Speaker 1: I would also like to talk about what you were

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Speaker 1: talking about. You want to talk about what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 1: But for you, could we keep it over here and

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Speaker 1: you want to keep doing it, but at a certain

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Speaker 1: point gets frustrating, and then for me, I just give up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean too, I'm just like, yeah, whatever.

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Speaker 1: There are a lot of people who do it. They

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Speaker 1: don't even think they know they do it. Yeah. And

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Speaker 1: at that point as well, it's like they're not even

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Speaker 1: showing any interest in what you're saying because they have

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Speaker 1: an us any questions about what you just said. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: exactly what they're doing is they're waiting for you to

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Speaker 1: stop talking so they can tell you what they have

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Speaker 1: in their head that they want to say about themselves. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they picked out one thing from your conversation and they're like, okay,

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Speaker 1: they went to an amusement park. Yeah, I also went

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Speaker 1: to an amusement park once. How can I say mine

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Speaker 1: was better? Yeah, So when you can tell that they're

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Speaker 1: just waiting for you to stop talking, and then they

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Speaker 1: respond with something that was like way early on and

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Speaker 1: not about like really anything about them solves okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then it's like okay, well I'll go back and

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Speaker 1: I'll repeat it too if that happened. Yeah, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: It's actually giving you a look like no, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: don't get to take this away from me. And then

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Speaker 1: you'd be like, like I was saying, it's like carry yeah,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, that's it. People that bring the conversation back

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Speaker 1: to themselves all the time and don't care what other

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Speaker 1: people are talking to you about, and it seems like

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Speaker 1: you're disinterested and don't care, Well, you're probably having a

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Speaker 1: great day because guess what we're talking about you and

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Speaker 1: you are the worst person in the world today that

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Speaker 1: was in the world today, that was as the worst

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Speaker 1: person in the world