1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: We're back. We're together. Look at this. 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 2: I love it. 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: Thanks for coming out from San Diego. Hey, it's really 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: good to be in person. I'm excited about that to 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: see you. 6 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 3: Come on, come on, are we rolling? Both of them? 7 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 3: And this too is rolling? Everything's rolling. Oh my god, 8 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 3: it's happening. 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: It's totally happening. Hi everybody, and welcome back to another 10 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: episode of Off the Beat. As always, this is your 11 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: host Brian Baumgartner today. Yeah, very special, live in person. 12 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: The Man, the myth, the legend. He's a New York 13 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: Times best selling author. He is the host of his 14 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: new show, Geography of Bliss, and I'm sure you have 15 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: all of his other credits memorized. That's right. Rain Wilson 16 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,559 Speaker 1: aka Dwight Shrut is joining me today. 17 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 3: Hey, Brian, Off the Beat, get it Off the Beat. 18 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 3: Today's episode is Off the Beat. 19 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 4: Farm Bubble and Squeak. I love it, Bubble and Squeakna 20 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 4: Bubble and Squeak. I could get every mole left over 21 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 4: from the nine before. 22 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: Hi Brian, Hi buddy, this is cool. 23 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: What what's happened? 24 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: Well? You know, I mean we hadn't seen each other 25 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: in so long and now twice in a few weeks. 26 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: It's crazy. I love it. Yeah, I need more. I 27 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: need to come to your farm for sure. I really 28 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: want to come to your farm. 29 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 3: You need to bring the kids out to my little. 30 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: Farm, to your farm. Yeah, it's like a petting zoo. 31 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 3: Bring the children out to the farm and there's a 32 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 3: it's like a little petting zoo, and there's fruits. 33 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: Do you let any children come to your petting zoo? 34 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 3: All the children? 35 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 1: You don't invite the children? Yes, I really. 36 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 3: I walk down the streets of Oxnard, California playing the 37 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 3: flute and the children follow, and there's magical animals and yeah. 38 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: You're the pied Piper of ox and ard of Oxnard, California. 39 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: Was that a dream early on to be the pied 40 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 1: piper of Oxnard, California? 41 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 3: That that was out of my wheelhouse? It was out 42 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,079 Speaker 3: of my imaginary field of being. 43 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was great to see you. 44 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: Nice to see you. 45 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, like really, I started watching your show, which we're 46 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: going to talk about later. Obviously you are very this 47 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: is going to be a running theme of this conversation. Okay, 48 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: that you're very open. I have been very open about 49 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: your history, your personal history. Uh huh. You grew up 50 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: in Washington and like in almost the first line of 51 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: the show said you had an unhappy childhood. Yeah, yeah, 52 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: first off, why was it unhappy? 53 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 3: You're going right to it. 54 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going right to it. No, I'm going right 55 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: to it because it's fascinating that you are so open 56 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: in all of your work. I mean, you're open as 57 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: an artist, as an actor. 58 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 3: I don't understand why more people aren't as open to me. 59 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 3: It makes total sense to be open. I guess maybe 60 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 3: I've been in therapy for twenty years, so I'm just 61 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 3: really used to kind of excavating this stuff. And I've 62 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 3: done a lot of therapeutic work in lots of different ways. 63 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 3: So listen in a lot of senses. You know, my 64 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 3: childhood was normal and happy. You know, I wasn't starved, 65 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 3: but I was love starved. And I think it has 66 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 3: to do with, you know, my dad, God rest his soul. 67 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 3: He died a couple of years back. He was really 68 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 3: traumatized as a kid. I mean he had like a 69 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 3: like a Charles Dickens childhood. He was beaten, tortured, like 70 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 3: his dad would take off for weeks at a time, 71 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 3: leaving him to raise his younger sister when he was 72 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 3: like thirteen, and he had to like borrow food from neighbors. 73 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 3: I mean, it was really bad shit, and so that'll 74 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 3: mess with you, right, So he wasn't so good at 75 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 3: the whole intimacy thing. He was a very sweet man. 76 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 3: He was a soft natured man. He wasn't like hard 77 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 3: scrabble abusive, but he was very cut off. And when 78 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 3: my mom left him and me when I was about 79 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 3: a year and a half or two years old, I 80 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 3: didn't really see her again until I was about fifteen, 81 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 3: and then I was kind of raised by my step 82 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 3: mom and they just had a terrible marriage. And you know, 83 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 3: just to cut to the chase. When I was writing 84 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 3: my autobiography, The Bassoon King a couple of years back, 85 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 3: I asked him, I said, when did you know that 86 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 3: your marriage was bad and that you shouldn't have gotten married? 87 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 3: And they both said, like, oh, within about six months 88 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 3: of being married. And they stayed together for fourteen fifteen 89 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 3: more years. And then you know, I grew up a 90 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 3: member of the Bahai faith, which you know I've spoken 91 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 3: about a lot here and there, but one of the 92 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 3: things that has been most difficult for me to kind 93 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 3: of understand and rectify is that in the Bahih faith, 94 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 3: everything is about love. It's about peace, it's about unity, 95 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 3: it's about serving others and being open and serving humanity, 96 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 3: et cetera. And so we had a lot of talk 97 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 3: about love. We talked about love all the time, right, 98 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 3: but there was zero love in the room, right. It 99 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 3: was a really fractured So it's for a child, it's 100 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 3: incredibly gaslighting to kind of be like, we should all 101 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 3: love each other and serve each other and be kind 102 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 3: to one another. And then my parents weren't loving or 103 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 3: kind to each other. And I was kind of stuck 104 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 3: in the middle. 105 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 1: Were you Were you aware of that in the moment? 106 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 1: Like were you aware? 107 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 3: Okay, No, I was, And this is you know, and 108 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 3: this created in me a big a sense of anxiety, loneliness, alienation. 109 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 3: I didn't know what the hell was going on. It 110 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 3: didn't make any sense to me. Like I remember several 111 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 3: times my parents would be fighting and then we would 112 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 3: have a Bahai spiritual gathering at our house. So it 113 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 3: involved like saying prayers or singing or meditating or studying 114 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 3: you know, mystical works of various religious faiths or of 115 00:06:55,400 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 3: the Bahaigh writings themselves and like my stepmom like breaking 116 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 3: dishes in the sink and there's guests over, and then 117 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 3: her stomping through our tiny little living room about the 118 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 3: size of this podcast, both because we didn't have any money, 119 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 3: and going to the door and like slamming the door, 120 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 3: and sometimes you'd even hear screams from the other and 121 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 3: then my dad going okay, well shall we say some prayers? 122 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 3: And you know, I'm nine years old, and I'm like, 123 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 3: this is I know this isn't right right, but everyone's 124 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 3: pretending it's normal. Maybe this is normal. Is this how 125 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 3: other people act? 126 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. 127 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 3: So all of this is, you know, it's Christ for 128 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 3: the mill. And I've said it before and I'll say 129 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 3: it again. I don't think I play kind of weirdo 130 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 3: alienated characters as well. If I don't have that Petrie 131 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 3: dish of an experience growing up. It did give me 132 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 3: some mental health issues that I've kind of dealt with 133 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 3: through my adulthood. And that's been part of the journey too, 134 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 3: So you know, I see it all interwoven. I have 135 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 3: a psychological personal journey through therapy and recovery. I have 136 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 3: a journey a spiritual journey as a behigh and seeking 137 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 3: kind of spiritual meaning and purpose in my life. And 138 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 3: I'm an artist too, and I transform and I play characters, 139 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 3: and I draw on all of this complexity in history 140 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 3: and the playing of those characters, and all three of 141 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 3: those journeys are intricately intertwined. 142 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I was going to ask you, like, 143 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: do you feel like your work as an artist, even young, 144 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,199 Speaker 1: that you used that, even if you couldn't articulate that 145 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: things were maybe not quite right at home, as you said, 146 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: or that you weren't fully happy, do you feel like 147 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: you used the arts and creating characters and beginning your 148 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: sort of passionate journey along those lines you used that, 149 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: I think, so I think you use it. 150 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 3: You don't, you're not even aware you're using it right 151 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 3: when you're starting out in acting. 152 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: But I always played misfits better. 153 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 3: I always played odd balls better, people that didn't fit in, 154 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 3: people that were kind of tortured, And so I definitely 155 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 3: drew on that. When I was in acting school, I 156 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 3: swiftly realized, like, oh, I'm incapable of playing someone well 157 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 3: balanced and popular, and you know, but the more twisted 158 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 3: the character the better I would do. 159 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: Right. 160 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, so you know, in a lot of ways, 161 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 1: I'm grateful. 162 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,719 Speaker 3: I wouldn't have I wouldn't have played quite true had 163 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 3: I had a you know, normal balanced childhood. It's all, 164 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 3: it's all part of the beauty and complexity of being 165 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 3: a human being. 166 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. I just had a conversation with Garrett Dilla Hunt. 167 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: Yes you're old Powell, Yeah, who described you as a 168 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: legend at you dub He was slightly younger, just behind you. 169 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 3: Legend yuh, but yes. 170 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: A legend kind of a legend in the theater department there. 171 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: I mean, did you were you having success? Did you 172 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: feel that in yourself when you were in college? 173 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 3: Not at all. So I started acting later in high 174 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 3: school when I went to this kind of very wealthy, 175 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 3: artsy high school called New Trier north of Chicago. And 176 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 3: I was really grateful because I had some amazing theater 177 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 3: teachers there. I got to be a part of some 178 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 3: incredible productions very early on, very young. And then I 179 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 3: went to Tufts University in Boston. I did a year. 180 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 3: I did a bunch of theater there and that was good, 181 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 3: and I did some plays and then my parents were 182 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 3: getting a divorce my dad and my stepmom and I, 183 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 3: you know, as messed up as their marriage was, I 184 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 3: was still very connected to them, right and I was 185 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 3: kind of having a breakdown as they were having a breakdown. 186 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 3: So I went back to Seattle. Then I ended up 187 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 3: at University of Washington, where I met my now wonderful wife, 188 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 3: Holiday Rhynhorn, and met Garrett, Dilla Hunt, Matt Ross, Lynn Shelton. 189 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 3: A lot of great artists were there at that time 190 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 3: and started doing plays, and I don't remember at all 191 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 3: being a legend Universon of Washington. I played, you know, 192 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 3: a couple of leads, but a couple of smaller parts 193 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 3: and some different plays, and I think Garrett was I 194 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 3: had been acting for a while and Garrett was literally 195 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 3: just starting. So I saw Garrett in his very first play, 196 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 3: and he was so talented, but he was so tense 197 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 3: I thought, I just thought, oh my god, he's going 198 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 3: to explode. The veins on his face are so tight, 199 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 3: you know. But he was just kind of ruggedly handsome, 200 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 3: other worldly, like kind of ethereal David Bowie cowboy from Yakima, 201 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 3: Washington and doing these experimental plays. But he was just terrific. 202 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:51,959 Speaker 3: And then I went to n YU and then two 203 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 3: years later he went to the NYU Graduate Acting Program. 204 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 3: So we kind of followed each other and have both 205 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 3: had pretty nice careers. He's he's an outrageously talented actor. 206 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 3: I love his stuff. But I will say I just 207 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 3: wanted to tell this little story. So I had had 208 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 3: because your question was about the success that I had. 209 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 3: I had success in high school and in two colleges, 210 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 3: and I kind of thought, oh, maybe I'm really good 211 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 3: at this. Okay, I should go be a professional actor. 212 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 3: I should go audition. So I was in Seattle University 213 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 3: of Washington, and I like went down the university avenue 214 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 3: to the photography studio and I got I still have 215 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 3: some of these really cheesy headshots from nineteen eighty six, 216 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 3: and I'm like, you know, and and I typed up 217 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,559 Speaker 3: a resume. I had my dad helped me type up 218 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 3: like the high school and college plays that I had done, 219 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 3: and I just started submitting myself for I looked in 220 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 3: the newspapers and you know, on the ads and stuff 221 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 3: like that, and I started submitting myself and I started 222 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:00,839 Speaker 3: getting some auditions, and I auditioned around at a lot 223 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 3: of little, not community theaters, A semi professional and professional 224 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 3: theaters there, and after about four or five auditions, and 225 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:12,959 Speaker 3: then I auditioned for the Orgon Shakespeare Festival and the 226 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,679 Speaker 3: guy there was like, listen, you need to either come 227 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 3: to the organ Shakespeare Festival and like carry a spear 228 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 3: and understudy roles and do that for five or six years, 229 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 3: or you need to go to like New York and 230 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 3: get acting training. You should do one of those two things. 231 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 3: But it became really clear, like, oh shit, I am 232 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 3: the tiniest fish in a very big pond now, and 233 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 3: I'm really not good enough and I don't have the 234 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 3: skill set to be good enough to act professionally at 235 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 3: that point. And that was twenty nineteen or twenty at 236 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 3: that point, and I'm really grateful that I had the 237 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:51,839 Speaker 3: wherewithal to kind of have that ability to kind of 238 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 3: see myself to kind of go like, oh, you're not 239 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 3: good enough yet, because some actors never have that right. 240 00:13:56,920 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 3: I kind of think that they're ready for Broadway and 241 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 3: there and there, they just they don't have it right. 242 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 3: So I was like, I need to train, And that's 243 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 3: when I went to NYU for actor training. 244 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: When did you decide, I mean, this is slightly different 245 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: a different question. When did you decide it's what you 246 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 1: wanted to do. Yeah. 247 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 3: So my best friend at the time, John Valades, and 248 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 3: we had grown up together since third grade and we 249 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 3: ended up going to NYU together. We went to University 250 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 3: of Washington together. We were like really good friends through 251 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 3: our youth. He was going to India for a year. 252 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 3: He decided to take a year off and just go 253 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 3: to India and he was going to do some service 254 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 3: projects and travel and he's like, come on, man, come 255 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 3: to India, let's do it. 256 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know. 257 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 3: And I was doing these plays and I was really 258 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 3: thinking about acting and whether or not to make it 259 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 3: a career. My parents were supportive but wary. You know, 260 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 3: how am I going to pay the bills? 261 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 1: Sure? 262 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 3: And I had a spiritual, transformative experience that made me 263 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 3: decide to commit one hundred percent. And that was I 264 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 3: was visiting my birth mother, who I was just getting 265 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 3: to know at the time in Boston. I think it 266 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 3: was over Christmas break, sophomore year of college, and the 267 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 3: movie version of A chorus Line was playing in a 268 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 3: little theater in Boston and I just walked in by myself. 269 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 3: I don't know I was wondering in Boston. I saw 270 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 3: it and I just went in. I watched it by myself. Now, 271 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 3: this is a legendarily bad movie version of a musical. 272 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 3: It's really and I knew even when I was watching it. 273 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, this is terrible, but it's all 274 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 3: about acting and actors and it's how much I love 275 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 3: the theater and I really need this job, please God, 276 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 3: who am I? Anyway? Am I my resume? You know 277 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 3: those kind of songs. And I was there and I 278 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 3: just started sobbing and just tears were pouring down my 279 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 3: face and I was like heaving, supplet. 280 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: That. 281 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 3: And then the theater was empty because the movie was terrible. 282 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 3: And I went outside and it was sunset because i'd 283 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 3: seen a matinee and it was a red sunset. Snow 284 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 3: was falling through kind of a red sunset, and I 285 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 3: had like tears on my face and I was like, 286 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 3: that's it. I'm going for this. I'm all in. 287 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: Wow, I'm all in. 288 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 3: I know this is going to be a ten year commitment, 289 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 3: but the only way to do it is to just 290 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 3: completely fully commit. I want to be an actor in 291 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 3: the theater. And that's when I auditioned for these UH 292 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 3: training programs and I was lucky enough to get into 293 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 3: nWay NYU. 294 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: For you, it was about theater. Yeah, and that's what 295 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 1: you wanted to do? Is that where? Because that was 296 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: for me, that's where I saw my life. That's what 297 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: I thought I was going to do forever and ever. Yeah. Amen? 298 00:16:59,360 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 299 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 1: When did that start to change for you? Because your 300 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 1: career was successful, You're traveling around at major regional theaters 301 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: and working in New York. What for you made you 302 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: transition and decide to move to Los Angeles? And did 303 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 1: you view it as a career change? Because I did? 304 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 1: You did? I did? I didn't think about it until 305 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:29,399 Speaker 1: I decided to fully change, which was say no to 306 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 1: any acting roles in the theater. I'm not doing that. 307 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to move to Los Angeles and really recommit 308 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: myself to what I viewed as a career change. Was 309 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: it the same for you or no? It wasn't the 310 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 1: same for me. I mean I was so in love 311 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:48,679 Speaker 1: with the theater and devoted to the theater, and I 312 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 1: had done you know, after three years of theater training 313 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 1: at NYU, I did nine or ten years of NonStop 314 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: theater in New York and regionals. I did a company 315 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: called the Acting Commpany, which was a tour bus and 316 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:04,400 Speaker 1: truck touring company of Shakespeare. When I first got out 317 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: of college and I was on the road with Jeffrey Wright, 318 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 1: you know who's in West World and has been War 319 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 1: nominated and the French Dispatch Angels in America. 320 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's an incredible actor. I was Demetrius, he was 321 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 3: Puck in The Midsummer Night's Dream. And we got back 322 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 3: at the end of a six month theater tour, just 323 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 3: exhausted but draggled. We go and pick up our mail 324 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 3: at the headquarters of the theater company and I opened 325 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 3: up my bank statement and I have like twenty three 326 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 3: hundred dollars in the bank after six months of work 327 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 3: on the road. 328 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh fuck. 329 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 3: And then Jeffrey Wright's opening his mail and he's like, yeah, whoa. 330 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, jeff, what's going on. He's like, check it out. 331 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 3: I got a residual check and he had this check 332 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 3: and it was for thirty five hundred dollars and he 333 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 3: had done two days on a Harrison Ford movie and 334 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 3: he got more money in rezials for those two days 335 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 3: that I had for six months of working and right 336 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 3: then and there is like in my head. I remember 337 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 3: it was like, Okay, this is. 338 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 1: I got it. This is ridiculous. 339 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 3: You know, if I am ever going to pay off, 340 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:18,640 Speaker 3: forget buying a house, if I'm ever going to pay 341 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 3: off my student loans, I have to do TV and film. 342 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:24,880 Speaker 3: See actors in New York. And I do think there's 343 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 3: a you know, a handful of David Costable's when we 344 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 3: both know that do it all. And I love that 345 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,679 Speaker 3: about New York and actors in London that they can 346 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 3: do a play here and a TV show here, and 347 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 3: a movie here and a commercial. 348 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: Here and you get to do it all. You know, 349 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 1: LA doesn't really work like that. 350 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,120 Speaker 3: There's a very few theaters, they're far away, they don't 351 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 3: pay very well, etc. And it's hard to do that 352 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 3: anywhere else. A little bit in Chicago, maybe DC, a 353 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:52,640 Speaker 3: couple places like that, but it's very hard to kind 354 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:54,959 Speaker 3: of balance all of it. But I really was like, 355 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 3: I want to do enough television and films so that 356 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 3: I can come back to New York and get cast 357 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,360 Speaker 3: in leeds in plays, right, because that's what was happening 358 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 3: all the time. You'd have like James Vanderbeek just did 359 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:11,959 Speaker 3: Dawson's Creek and he got offered Hamlet, you know, because 360 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:13,719 Speaker 3: he's been on Dawson's. 361 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: Creek, you know. And that's the reality of the theater. 362 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 3: They got to sell tickets, right, So I was like, 363 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 3: I want a TV show so I can come back 364 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 3: and play Hamlet in New York. It hasn't really worked 365 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 3: out that way. I've been here in LA for over 366 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 3: twenty some years now. 367 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: But now my son is going off to college. 368 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 3: Can you believe it? 369 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:31,959 Speaker 1: Now? 370 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 3: Walter was born. Walter was born during the Hot Girl, 371 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 3: Perse Girl episode of season one. That's right in a 372 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 3: really traumatic berth. 373 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 1: Yes, you ran from set to go to the hospital 374 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,719 Speaker 1: because there was a medical issue. Yes, I know. 375 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 3: And now he's going off to college, so I'm going 376 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 3: to have more time to do theater. 377 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:58,439 Speaker 1: He's the physical embodiment of how long we all were together. 378 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 1: Just as he grow Oh, it was like, oh wow, 379 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,640 Speaker 1: we've been together a long time. And now he's going 380 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: off to college, which is nuts. 381 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 3: Nuts yeah, just not nuts. Yeah. But once he's gone, 382 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 3: he's our only kid, and then I've got a little 383 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 3: more freedom, so I can go do theater for very 384 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 3: little money, for six months here or five months there. 385 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 3: So I'm very excited about about doing that because for me, 386 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 3: you know, I always have a little bit of the mystical, 387 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 3: spiritual nature in me, and for me, acting is about 388 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 3: there is a magic about transforming into characters. Yes, and 389 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 3: people always are like you know, Dwight gets so much 390 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 3: attention and focus about who I am as an actor 391 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 3: and as a person, and that's great. I'm so grateful. 392 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 3: Those nine years were magical, amazing, what a great character. 393 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 1: The writing, the cast. 394 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 3: The thought, the you know, the producers, everything like that, 395 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 3: the fans, the support, it's it's it's been incredible. But 396 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 3: people don't realize this, and a lot of people aren't 397 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:06,640 Speaker 3: in the acting world. Like I played dozens of characters 398 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 3: before I played Dwight, and since I've finished Dwight, I've 399 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 3: played another couple dozen characters. So for me, it's about 400 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 3: transforming into characters and telling stories. I played Hamlet in school. 401 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 3: I did Eugene O'Neil at the Arena stage. I did 402 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,359 Speaker 3: Philadelphia Here I come at the Guthrie. 403 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:25,479 Speaker 1: I did you know? 404 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 3: I did Shakespeare tours. I've done lots of little I 405 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:33,399 Speaker 3: played the creepy guy in Supermarket and CSI. 406 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,200 Speaker 1: But they're all characters. 407 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,880 Speaker 3: They're just like you know, I hope that when I die, 408 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 3: people will Yes, I look at Dwight, but be like, wow, look. 409 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,400 Speaker 1: At all crazy different characters. 410 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 3: This guy played like this was a panopoly of a 411 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 3: very different characters, dozens and dozens and dozens over his life. 412 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 3: And I love that act of transformation. It's so satisfying 413 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 3: to me to just to build and develop and play 414 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 3: a character and then play a completely different character, you know, 415 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 3: than the month after. 416 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel I really feel this way that for 417 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:15,360 Speaker 1: you and I, I think we have a unique bond 418 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 1: and excitement about what you just talked about, like actually 419 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: creating the physicality, the inner life, the external differences from 420 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 1: ourselves and melding that with who we are. That that 421 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 1: for me as well, that is really my favorite thing 422 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:39,120 Speaker 1: in the world. Yeah, Like just it's I keep using 423 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 1: the word transformation. 424 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 3: Yes, you walk different, you speak different, you think different, 425 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 3: you see the world different, you have a different kind 426 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 3: of energy. All of these things need to transform to 427 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 3: create a character. Now, of course I'm it's the basic 428 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 3: building blocks of Rain Wilson. So I'm going to be 429 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 3: using this big, weird ungainly body, and I'm going to 430 00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 3: always see things through a certain lie, so you're always 431 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 3: going to see Rain Wilson in those characters. And that's 432 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 3: also a magical thing. But that's that's what I love 433 00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 3: about the theater. And I think why, you know, people 434 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 3: have always loved the theater and they love to see 435 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 3: their favorite actors transform. 436 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 1: Do you resent that people only want to see you 437 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 1: be Dwight? 438 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,439 Speaker 3: Sometimes I do to be really honest, you know, to 439 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 3: be perfectly frank. It's just like I'll do an independent 440 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 3: film that I worked my ass off on and play 441 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 3: a villain or you know, played something completely different than me, 442 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:44,679 Speaker 3: you know, unhinged person or something you know, really funny 443 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 3: or whatever, and I'll promote it on like social media. 444 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 3: They'll be like, hey, Dwight, Yeah, yeah, Dwight and exactly 445 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,439 Speaker 3: and it's and it's it's like, guys, I get it, 446 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 3: I got it. You love the show. 447 00:24:58,880 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 1: I do too. 448 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 3: It's beautiful, But also can you respect me as an 449 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,680 Speaker 3: artist and that I'm trying to do some other things 450 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 3: here too. But at the end of the day, I've 451 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 3: been really lucky because I even think, like the last 452 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:16,120 Speaker 3: ten years since I got out of the Office. I've 453 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 3: done a lot of really cool stuff. I did this 454 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 3: show Backstrom, No one really watched it. I did the 455 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 3: show Utopia. 456 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 1: Backstrom is the role you stole from me. That is God. 457 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,720 Speaker 1: I wanted to play that role so bad, and they 458 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,959 Speaker 1: just really wanted you. I wanted to play that role. 459 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 1: I mean we've discussed this. It's not in a long time. Yeah, 460 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: but literally, when I look at your at your at 461 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,199 Speaker 1: your when I looked at your sheet and I see Backstrom, 462 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, motherfucker that one. That one's still yeah. Yeah, 463 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: there's another version of Backstrom. There's another. 464 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 3: A lot of maybe it would have worked and been 465 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 3: better and stayed on the air with you as the h. 466 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 1: No I as the cop. 467 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,440 Speaker 3: That's true. Well, but the point I'm making is that 468 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 3: you know this show Utopia and Amazon. I did Harry 469 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 3: Mudd on Star Trek and a bunch of independent films 470 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:10,360 Speaker 3: and some theater, and like, I really love the actor's 471 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 3: life that I've had post office. Yeah, people haven't given 472 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,400 Speaker 3: a shit about any of it. 473 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 1: Like, no one is like what, But. 474 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 3: It's been really Uh, it's been fun for me. And 475 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 3: these have been some really great, satisfying characters. And then 476 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 3: part of me has thought recently, like, oh, this is 477 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,400 Speaker 3: the life I always wanted. Like, I'm living the life 478 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 3: I always wanted. I'm getting to play all of these 479 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 3: cool roles. 480 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 1: People haven't really vibed with them. 481 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 2: That's okay. 482 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: I just started watching Launched today. I know this is 483 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: not going to come out today, but Geography of Bliss, Yeah, 484 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 1: is there a part of you? Is there a conscious 485 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: thought within you to show yourself? We're all performing all 486 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 1: the time. We're performing with our family, with our friends, 487 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 1: with our coworkers, depending on what the relationship is, right, 488 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,479 Speaker 1: I mean, like everyone, not actors. Everyone is performing in 489 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 1: one way or the other. Is there a part of 490 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:34,199 Speaker 1: you that wanted to show yourself really in Rain Wilson, 491 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 1: I mean you are Rain Wilson in Geography of Bliss. 492 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 1: Was there a part of you that wanted that? You know? 493 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 3: It just it was not something that I wanted. It's 494 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 3: just this kind of world of like people want to 495 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 3: know about the guy who played Dwight, and so I 496 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,919 Speaker 3: talk about my life story and people really resonated with 497 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 3: me talking about mental health issues and that was really 498 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 3: people like oh wow, and they that because it's such 499 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 3: a big deal right now, for young people, this mental 500 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,439 Speaker 3: health epidemic that young people are going through, it's just 501 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 3: it's staggering. It's preposterous, it's deadly. It's so any kind 502 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,239 Speaker 3: of celeb says, hey, I have struggled, people are like, 503 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 3: tell me more, because it really can help people. So 504 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 3: when I saw like, oh, me sharing my story is 505 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 3: helping people, and so I started sharing it more. And 506 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 3: your first question is like, Wow, you're so upfront about 507 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 3: sharing this stuff. And you know, maybe it's because I said, like, 508 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 3: I've been in therapy, so I talk about it every week. 509 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 3: It's not that big of a deal to me. It's 510 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 3: just stuff that I work on, right, And I'm very 511 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,920 Speaker 3: blessed with some kind of character trait in me that 512 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 3: I never just kind of settle. I'm always trying to 513 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 3: dig deeper. I want to get to know myself better. 514 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 3: I want to get to know the universe better. I 515 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 3: want to figure out why we're alive deeper. I just 516 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 3: have an insatiable curiosity around that stuff I'm not able to. 517 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 3: I wish I kind of could just be like, hey, bro, like, yeah, 518 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 3: a mellow whatever. Maybe it's maybe it's being wired with 519 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 3: that anxiety that I talked about as a kid. So 520 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 3: just more and more over the years, talking about myself, 521 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 3: telling my stories, people being interested writing about myself and 522 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 3: the bassoon King, and now in this new book Soul Boom, 523 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 3: and then people knowing me as Dwight. It's and part 524 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 3: of me is kind of like, I guess I'm a 525 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 3: celebrity now. I'm like Suzanne Summers doing her diet books 526 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 3: and her aerobus eyes or something like that. It's like, right, 527 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 3: So this is the first time I've done a big 528 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 3: hosting thing, kind of being myself yourself on a TV show. 529 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 3: So it's hopefully I can do it all. I'll hopefully 530 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 3: still keep acting and also get to be myself. I 531 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 3: don't know, we'll see what happens well. 532 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: Geography of Bliss on the Peacock. You were nice enough 533 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 1: to give me some episodes. I didn't wake up at 534 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: two o'clock this morning and start binging them. I love 535 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,760 Speaker 1: it because you were embracing the office in the show. 536 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 1: I mean several times I almost like like I almost 537 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 1: like drew my breath in because it's not you. This 538 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 1: is not something that you do. Is talk about Dwight, 539 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 1: and I feel like they exchange the exchange with the 540 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: Bulgarian cab driver where you start hummaking the theme song, 541 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:18,440 Speaker 1: like trying to plug him into like who you know who? 542 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 2: Right? 543 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 3: You know? 544 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 1: There was something so refreshing about that and an openness 545 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 1: to your journey of trying to find happiness. How did 546 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: you choose where you were going to go? Yeah, so 547 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 1: it was a crazy story. 548 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 3: My manager at the time just got an email from 549 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,160 Speaker 3: this young producer who said, Hey, I got the rights 550 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 3: to this book called The Geography of Bliss that was 551 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 3: a bestseller about this journalist going around the world trying 552 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 3: to figure out what made people happy in various cultures. 553 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:49,680 Speaker 3: And he said, I think this would be a great 554 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 3: travel documentary series, and I think Rain would be perfect 555 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 3: for it. I had spoken a little bit about some 556 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 3: mental health stuff with me and my search for well 557 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 3: being and meaning in my life, and you know, nine 558 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 3: times out of ten, I'm not going to respond to 559 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 3: anything that comes in just cold call like that. But 560 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 3: I was like, he's kind of riot. 561 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: This is interesting. 562 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 3: So I sat down with him and this other young 563 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 3: producer they're both like twenty eight years old, Casey and Evan, 564 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 3: and just totally vibed with them. I read the book. 565 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 3: It was great. It's just just one of those things 566 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 3: that fell together in such a beautiful way. And then 567 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 3: we brought on Radical Media, which is a really top 568 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 3: production house and great showrunner Melissa Wood and great director 569 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 3: in Niharika Desai, and we pitched it around and Peacock 570 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 3: bought it, and then it was like where are we 571 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 3: going to go? At first we were going to go 572 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 3: to Finland and Moldova, and then a little thing happened, 573 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 3: which is the invasion of the Ukraine. So Finland borders Russia, okay, 574 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 3: and Moldova borders Ukraine, and they were like, jeez, we 575 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 3: can't because what if we go shoot there and then 576 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 3: six months later they've been invaded. 577 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,960 Speaker 1: And we can't use the footage because it would just 578 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 1: be weird. So like eugh. 579 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 3: So our Finland alternative was Iceland. Our Moldova alternative was Bulgaria. 580 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 3: We could tell a similar kind of story about those 581 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 3: because Moldova is the unhappiest place in Finland is the 582 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 3: happiest place, so we went to like the second happiest place, 583 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 3: Iceland and the second unhappiest place, Bulgaria. And then we 584 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:26,240 Speaker 3: really wanted to showcase Africa of course, and Ghana has 585 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 3: some amazing statistics about it's optimism. It's one of the 586 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 3: most optimistic places on the planet where people really do 587 00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 3: believe that in ten or twenty years their children are 588 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 3: going to have it way better and that they're going 589 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 3: to build a better and better life there. And in 590 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,160 Speaker 3: a lot of ways they have. Ghana has been one 591 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 3: of the great success stories of the world, you know, 592 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 3: economically and educationally. It's a beautiful culture, English speaking, which 593 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 3: is very helpful. I highly recommend anyone go to Ghana. 594 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 3: It's so much fun, food's great, people are wonderful. And 595 00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 3: then Thailand has a spiritual compone it with its Buddhism 596 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 3: that will be very intriguing to us. And then here's 597 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 3: a funny story. We were gonna go we were gonna 598 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,640 Speaker 3: shoot in Ghana, and then we were going to go 599 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 3: to Dubai and do an episode called like Can Money 600 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 3: by You Happiness, And the day before we flew to 601 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 3: Dubai Real Housewives of Dubai. It's a show aired in Dubai, 602 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 3: and Dubai has a royal family, and the royal family 603 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 3: saw Real Housewives of Dubai and they were flabbergasted and 604 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 3: incensed at all the drunken bacchanalia, backstabbing shenanigans of those 605 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 3: real housewives of Dubai. 606 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,000 Speaker 1: And so they shut down all productions. 607 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 3: We literally showed up in Dubai with our camera. 608 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: Bags and our producers. 609 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 3: And they're like, sorry, your permit's been pulled. So we 610 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 3: had to like shift. So our final episode we did 611 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 3: back in Los Angeles, which I really like. And the 612 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,360 Speaker 3: final episode is about you know, Ken rain else and 613 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 3: find happiness back in La. Can he come back to 614 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 3: La and you know, put into practice what he. 615 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:10,839 Speaker 1: Learned out in the world. So would you do more? Oh? 616 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my god, I've said it before, I'll say 617 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,879 Speaker 3: it again, Like I never thought i'd have a better 618 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:20,680 Speaker 3: job than the office, but getting paid to travel the 619 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 3: world and talk to people about happiness and wellbeing and 620 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 3: meaning is just, oh my god, it's so awesome. 621 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 1: It's so great. Do you feel like you were changed? 622 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:37,839 Speaker 1: Were you able to forget the cameras and you're an 623 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:44,479 Speaker 1: intensely interesting and interested person. Were you able to open 624 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,399 Speaker 1: your be open enough while shooting the show to really 625 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:49,839 Speaker 1: change and have discoveries? 626 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:54,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a great question. It's a weird thing to 627 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 3: have a camera pointed at you and like, hey, go 628 00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,120 Speaker 3: have a discussion with this taxi driver about happiness. And 629 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:04,920 Speaker 3: you're like, okay, it's it's an interesting challenge. And I 630 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 3: got self conscious a lot, and like, am I saying 631 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 3: the right thing? 632 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:08,120 Speaker 1: Is? 633 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 3: This? Is this right? But I would say over the 634 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 3: course of the show, I definitely loosened up and had 635 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,880 Speaker 3: a good time and was really able. And remember I 636 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,839 Speaker 3: was connecting with the people even when the cameras weren't 637 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:22,400 Speaker 3: rolling too so. But I do feel like I was changed. 638 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:26,280 Speaker 3: And the takeaway that I have from Geography of Bliss 639 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 3: is really pretty simple. When I was writing my book, 640 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 3: I came across this very famous study called the Grant 641 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,720 Speaker 3: Study out of Harvard University, and it followed three hundred 642 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:40,240 Speaker 3: men over eighty years from like nineteen thirties on about 643 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,879 Speaker 3: happiness and well being and what it means to live 644 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 3: like a good life. And they studied every aspect of 645 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 3: you know, family life, divorces, health, mental health, spirituality, exercise, travel, income, 646 00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:00,560 Speaker 3: et cetera, on and on, and they boil it down 647 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,799 Speaker 3: to one thing, and one thing only to which is 648 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:08,360 Speaker 3: a good life, and that is community and connection. That's 649 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 3: all that It's about and I think we've learned this 650 00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:14,800 Speaker 3: in COVID. We need to stay connected, We need community. 651 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 3: We thrive in relation to one another. We don't thrive 652 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,640 Speaker 3: kind of on our own in our bubble steering at 653 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 3: our phones. 654 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 1: Right. 655 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,280 Speaker 3: We thrive and this is part of the mental health epidemic. 656 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:30,879 Speaker 3: We thrive in community and connection. And that's what they 657 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,439 Speaker 3: that's what eighty years of study of hard data by 658 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 3: the top scientists, you know, social psychologists in the world 659 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 3: arrived at. And that's what I arrived at. It's pretty simple, 660 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 3: it's pretty obvious. But seeing these incredible thriving communities, whether 661 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 3: it's a tribe or a family, or a work collective 662 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:56,759 Speaker 3: or people that love to do polar plunges together or 663 00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:02,799 Speaker 3: you know, have a band together, but humans thrive in connectivity. 664 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,840 Speaker 3: And so that really is like, oh, I need to 665 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,920 Speaker 3: lean into that more in my life because you know, 666 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 3: I have groups of friends here, here, and there, but 667 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,759 Speaker 3: it's time for me to lean into lean into that 668 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,240 Speaker 3: because that's where the greatest and deepest satisfaction lies. 669 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 1: Isn't that so interesting? Because connection and community and how 670 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:31,320 Speaker 1: much joy and happiness people find in the office. Yeah, 671 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:37,160 Speaker 1: because at its core, we were a community, and we 672 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 1: were connected as characters but also as people. Yeah, and 673 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 1: that palpable energy I believe because I'm told goes out 674 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 1: into the world and makes people happy. I mean, that's 675 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,480 Speaker 1: what I've said many times. The greatest gift for me 676 00:37:54,640 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 1: that the show gave me is thats Asuals. The second 677 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:06,040 Speaker 1: greatest thing that the show gave me, no, is when 678 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 1: someone comes up and I always describe it this way. 679 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,320 Speaker 1: It's not that they're they want their tell they're telling 680 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,799 Speaker 1: me how much the show means. It's that they have 681 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 1: an overwhelming feeling of need to communicate to me how 682 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 1: much the show means, right, like they are. 683 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,239 Speaker 3: Sometimes that can be a bit much though, right, Sometimes 684 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 3: when you're at an event, it's settings, it's setting, it's 685 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:35,760 Speaker 3: all settings. The twelfth the twenty seventh person like grabbed 686 00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 3: your arm and been like, no. 687 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:42,480 Speaker 1: You understands there is settings, but that but that's but 688 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 1: that's what you're talking about, Like that is that is 689 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:51,120 Speaker 1: them wanting this connection and community that they found from 690 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 1: the show. But you're absolutely right to bring that up. 691 00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:56,560 Speaker 3: And I just want to say that what you're talking about, like, 692 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 3: so you me, John Jenna, Bjy Angela, the whole Gang, Oscar. 693 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:05,400 Speaker 1: The list goes on and on, like. 694 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:10,800 Speaker 3: We loved each other. Yeah, and there was a joy 695 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 3: that Greg Daniels helped create the environment for that and 696 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 3: the casting and then that that joy and that love 697 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,960 Speaker 3: may not have been between Dwight and Kevin and Angela 698 00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:27,600 Speaker 3: and Ryan and whatnot, but you can it bleeds in, 699 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 3: you feel it, and people can tell. And then that 700 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,480 Speaker 3: is what people are responding to at the end of 701 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 3: the day. And you know, Pam says to end the series, 702 00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 3: you know, there's beauty in the small things. Isn't that 703 00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 3: what it's really all about? And I think that's what people. 704 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,319 Speaker 3: People aren't watching thirty Rock over and over again. Yeah, 705 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,400 Speaker 3: you know, they're not watching a lot of different shows 706 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,160 Speaker 3: over and over again, but they come back to the 707 00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 3: office for that. And do you remember there was a 708 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:54,640 Speaker 3: director I have to look up his name. I can't 709 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 3: remember his name. 710 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 1: We were in season like seven, and we would come 711 00:39:58,760 --> 00:39:59,680 Speaker 1: in in the morning. 712 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:04,760 Speaker 3: Laughing, hugging, high fiving, kissing each other, you know, tickling 713 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:08,279 Speaker 3: each other. We and he's like, what the fuck is 714 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 3: going on? 715 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 1: You've been seven years and you guys are acting this 716 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 1: way with each other? 717 00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 3: Like he goes you don't understand. I just came off 718 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,720 Speaker 3: the set of Desperate Housewives and half of the cast 719 00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:20,759 Speaker 3: won't talk to the other half of the cast, and 720 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,840 Speaker 3: they won't come out of their trailers until this person 721 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:25,719 Speaker 3: is like on the set and they don't want to 722 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:29,240 Speaker 3: cross that person, and they this person won't do scenes 723 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:31,840 Speaker 3: with this other person, and it's like and there's so 724 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,320 Speaker 3: you hear that about so many different TV shows. 725 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:40,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, do you think travel brings happiness experiencing places, 726 00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 1: whether there are happy places or unhappy places. 727 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think travel is one of my favorite things, 728 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 3: and I think it's uh, it's beautiful. It works on 729 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 3: a lot of different levels. Like you you're interacting with 730 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,279 Speaker 3: a different physical environment, right, it's an advent. You're out 731 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 3: of your comfort zone, so you're your your senses and 732 00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,200 Speaker 3: your brain is kind of firing in a whole different 733 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,879 Speaker 3: way because you're you know, you're in Greece, or you're 734 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 3: in a mountain range, or you're in London or a 735 00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 3: different city or a different language or whatever. So that's 736 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:10,800 Speaker 3: all really exciting. I think the important thing about travel 737 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:15,120 Speaker 3: is a lot of Americans, not just Americans, people from 738 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,480 Speaker 3: all of the Western world kind of want to travel 739 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,320 Speaker 3: and have an experience that's very similar to their home life. 740 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,759 Speaker 3: So they travel and they go to a resort that 741 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 3: has a buffet and has the same foods you know 742 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,160 Speaker 3: that they eat at home, and they sit by a pool, 743 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:31,440 Speaker 3: and then they watch HBO on their iPads and then 744 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,879 Speaker 3: they go back and that's their vacation. Now, there's nothing 745 00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 3: wrong with having a relaxing vacation for hardworking folks, But 746 00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 3: if you're traveling to different cultures, it's so important to 747 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 3: embed with the culture. Whenever you can do to take 748 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 3: a tour, go with guides, visit with a family, you know, 749 00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:52,600 Speaker 3: go on an adventure, like try and speak the language 750 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:57,720 Speaker 3: and respect a culture. And that's when travel really comes alive. 751 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,719 Speaker 1: That is such a great point because I travel quite 752 00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 1: a bit, and there was a period of time that, 753 00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 1: like my first question when going to my hotel was 754 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:18,800 Speaker 1: where's the nearest Starbucks? Like where, because in the morning, 755 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:22,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna want coffee, yeah, and I'm gonna want And 756 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 1: by the way, folks, I'm surprised this is a small one. 757 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,880 Speaker 3: Brian walks around with a big like ice car and 758 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:30,680 Speaker 3: he will nurse. 759 00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 1: He will nurse something like this, Like I don't know 760 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,880 Speaker 1: how he does, like six hours. Yeah, it'll take him 761 00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:37,480 Speaker 1: some ice in. 762 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 3: There, and he's just all day. You just see Brian 763 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:45,120 Speaker 3: like swirling his little ice. It's a little that's for 764 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:46,600 Speaker 3: the people listening in the audio. 765 00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 1: But it's not a Starbucks. It's not it's not a Starbucks. 766 00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,439 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I don't go to Starbucks. And Starbucks please, 767 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 1: if you need to spend your AD dollars anywhere, please 768 00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,800 Speaker 1: off the beat is available to you. But my point 769 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,920 Speaker 1: is because I wanted the same, right it was. It 770 00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:08,280 Speaker 1: wasn't about Starbucks, but it was about well, Starbucks are everywhere, 771 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,640 Speaker 1: and I know what that tastes like. Sure, and I 772 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:16,800 Speaker 1: want the same to your point, and now I try 773 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:20,080 Speaker 1: to do the opposite, like what is the what is 774 00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:24,920 Speaker 1: a local coffee shop? And sometimes it's awful and sometimes 775 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:30,319 Speaker 1: it's mind blowingly amazing because coffee shops are like they 776 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,680 Speaker 1: they reflect in a lot of ways, especially independent coffee 777 00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:37,560 Speaker 1: shops like a community. It's different the food, the way 778 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,919 Speaker 1: the coffee is and anyway, I think what you say 779 00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 1: is really important because you're right, and through your experiences 780 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,719 Speaker 1: on geography Bliss, we see you do that over and 781 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 1: over and over immersing yourself into the culture and to 782 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:52,400 Speaker 1: the people. 783 00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I'm so blessed. It's I'm so fortunate to 784 00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,239 Speaker 3: be able to travel in that way because they they 785 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,680 Speaker 3: hook up families for me to stay with, and people 786 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 3: for me to spend the day with and have and 787 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:07,200 Speaker 3: eat meals with and walk through the woods with, and 788 00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 3: so I get to go much deeper and have made 789 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,320 Speaker 3: some really delightful friends and connections. 790 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:18,040 Speaker 1: There's another part that though, that I really liked, which 791 00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:23,920 Speaker 1: was you connecting in these different places with at times 792 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:28,839 Speaker 1: people that you knew already. The actor in Iceland, iked 793 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:34,840 Speaker 1: Sarria Olifson. Yes, it's fun to see you relax in 794 00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 1: a way with people you have a familiarity. Obviously, the 795 00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,879 Speaker 1: people you don't know, that's amazing too. But seeing you 796 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,760 Speaker 1: with these people that you have met over your life 797 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:50,719 Speaker 1: and now spending time with them in their homeland or 798 00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,040 Speaker 1: the place that they live now, that was really fun 799 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,719 Speaker 1: for me. M Yeah, that was great. It was a 800 00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,800 Speaker 1: great addition. Did that just happen or was that planned? 801 00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 1: Were you like, oh, I know someone here in Bulgaria. 802 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:10,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I knew this psychologist in Bulgaria through the Bahaigh faith. Community, 803 00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:14,320 Speaker 3: which was really interesting and the producers were very resistant, 804 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 3: and I was like, we got to talk to her 805 00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,960 Speaker 3: because she's been living in America for thirty years, but 806 00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:20,919 Speaker 3: she's Bulgarian, so she really knows and she's a psychologist, 807 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:25,200 Speaker 3: she really knows the Bulgarian psyche Like, well, trust me, 808 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:26,560 Speaker 3: we're going to want to talk to her. And it 809 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 3: was a key interview there to really understand the Bulgarians. 810 00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:34,360 Speaker 3: And then dari It does the same thing. They become translators. 811 00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:38,320 Speaker 3: Anthony Bourdain did it so beautifully. God rest his soul, 812 00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,880 Speaker 3: like the people that he would meet and the chefs 813 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 3: and the guides and stuff. And you'd go back to 814 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,560 Speaker 3: Vietnam and meet the guy that had been there twenty 815 00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,719 Speaker 3: years earlier when he had been to Vietnam, and it's 816 00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:54,320 Speaker 3: such a great entree into culture and food and connection. 817 00:45:55,000 --> 00:46:01,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, you go deeper, though, and I feel I feel 818 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:07,799 Speaker 1: you searching for the answers to these questions. I mean, 819 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:11,320 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, you've written books about life, life's 820 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 1: big questions that there truly is no answer, but that 821 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:21,440 Speaker 1: searching that to me is really compelling, Like the searching 822 00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:27,480 Speaker 1: for something as opposed to an experience, which there are 823 00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:30,879 Speaker 1: two different things, and Anthony god Rest his soul Yes 824 00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:35,799 Speaker 1: was brilliant. I felt like that was more having an 825 00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:41,480 Speaker 1: experience this. I feel you searching for something, which to 826 00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 1: me is more interesting. 827 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:44,160 Speaker 3: Oh good, thanks. 828 00:46:44,280 --> 00:47:07,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, you founded soul Pancake and now you have your 829 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 1: new book, soul Boom. How have you? How is the 830 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:16,400 Speaker 1: questions that you're looking to answer changed from your time 831 00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:18,480 Speaker 1: with soul Pancake. Yeah. 832 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:20,960 Speaker 3: So soul Pancake was a digital media company, mostly a 833 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:24,840 Speaker 3: YouTube channel. We worked and created a lot of short 834 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,240 Speaker 3: form video content and a lot of social media content 835 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,920 Speaker 3: about life's big questions. But it was always with an 836 00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:35,719 Speaker 3: aim to inspire and uplift and bring people together. That 837 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:38,879 Speaker 3: was kind of the focus of the platform itself. We 838 00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:43,160 Speaker 3: ended up selling the company to Participant Media, so it's 839 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,560 Speaker 3: kind of been folded into what they do as a 840 00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 3: media company and a film production studio. So sol Boom 841 00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:54,160 Speaker 3: is a little bit different because this is me kind 842 00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 3: of writing a book on big spiritual ideas about the 843 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 3: meaning of life. As I say in the book, I'm 844 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,440 Speaker 3: throwing a bunch of spiritual spaghetti at the wall and 845 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 3: we'll see what sticks. And I talk about life and death. 846 00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:13,720 Speaker 3: I talk about consciousness, the journey of the soul, sacredness God. 847 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,360 Speaker 3: I have a chapter on God called the Notorious Good, 848 00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 3: and then I talk about can we use spiritual tools 849 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 3: for social transformation? How can we use these big, deep, 850 00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,640 Speaker 3: rich spiritual ideas that have been in every faith tradition 851 00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,719 Speaker 3: on the planet from the dawn of time? Can we 852 00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:36,120 Speaker 3: use those ideas to help us transform collectively? Because we're 853 00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 3: hurting so much right now, there's so much disunity, there's 854 00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:45,520 Speaker 3: so much venom, toxic social media and partisanship. How can 855 00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:48,239 Speaker 3: we learn from the Bible, How can we learn from 856 00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:51,320 Speaker 3: the baghavad Gita, from the Torah, you know, from the 857 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 3: damapatas of the Buddha, And can we use those tools 858 00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 3: for a kind of We think a lot about spirituality 859 00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,799 Speaker 3: as personal transformation, like, Oh, I'm going to I'm gonna pray, 860 00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:03,160 Speaker 3: I'm gonna meditate, I'm gonna read holy words, I'm gonna 861 00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:06,279 Speaker 3: try and be a better person. That's that's part of 862 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,400 Speaker 3: our spiritual path. But can we also use them for 863 00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:11,760 Speaker 3: social transformation? So it's a it's a big idea book, 864 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,759 Speaker 3: and at the same time it's I try and make 865 00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,799 Speaker 3: it funny and light and readable at the same time. 866 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,799 Speaker 3: It's not a dissertation or. 867 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:23,400 Speaker 1: Anything like that. No, it's beautiful and I feel like 868 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:27,920 Speaker 1: with Soul Pancake you are searching for the answers to 869 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:34,439 Speaker 1: life's big questions. This to me feels deeply personal, much 870 00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:40,279 Speaker 1: more personal to me in this book and exploring the 871 00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:44,680 Speaker 1: questions that are in the world today through your own 872 00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:47,640 Speaker 1: specific lens, which is always the case, but being so 873 00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:52,920 Speaker 1: open again and sharing your past experience gives it just 874 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:56,279 Speaker 1: a real power. Wow. 875 00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. That's that's very kind. I appreciate that. 876 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,960 Speaker 3: I I tried to share my experience whenever I could. 877 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:05,320 Speaker 3: I just find that people are more receptive to ideas 878 00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,600 Speaker 3: when you share it personally, you know, when you make 879 00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,960 Speaker 3: it say here's what I went through. You know, my 880 00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,839 Speaker 3: chapter on death, which is called Death and How to Live, 881 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,960 Speaker 3: it is framed by the death of my father, which happened, 882 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 3: you know, six months into COVID and he died of 883 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:23,960 Speaker 3: heart disease at age seventy nine. And it was, you know, 884 00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:25,839 Speaker 3: like I said, my mom took off when I was, 885 00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:30,000 Speaker 3: you know, a toddler, so my main parental bond was 886 00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:33,880 Speaker 3: with my dad, and I'm you know, most bonded to 887 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,799 Speaker 3: someone who was really really bad at intimacy because he 888 00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:42,279 Speaker 3: had been so traumatized. So that was a conundrum but 889 00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:46,120 Speaker 3: heartbreaking nonetheless, So I wanted to really share deeply, like 890 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,600 Speaker 3: what I was going through, what I was feeling. I 891 00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:52,160 Speaker 3: tell a very comedic story in it about we were 892 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,640 Speaker 3: preparing the body for burial in a Bahigh tradition, which 893 00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,080 Speaker 3: is very similar to a Jewish tradition, where you wash 894 00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:00,560 Speaker 3: the body and wrap the body in preparation for burial, 895 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:05,440 Speaker 3: and the funeral home didn't have any nice bowls. It 896 00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:08,920 Speaker 3: had like some tupperware containers or a teapot, and that 897 00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,560 Speaker 3: we were up against it because the funeral was starting soon, 898 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,000 Speaker 3: and I had to run to a target to buy 899 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,160 Speaker 3: glass bowls. It was the middle of a heat wave, 900 00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,640 Speaker 3: and I'm pouring sweat and it's COVID and I'm sobbing 901 00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 3: snots running down my nose, and I'm trying to find 902 00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:28,080 Speaker 3: glass bowls to wash my dead father's body. So we 903 00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:28,640 Speaker 3: have a good. 904 00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:33,280 Speaker 1: Time along the way. You talk about your behigh faith, 905 00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:37,520 Speaker 1: You have always been very open about that you left 906 00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:43,160 Speaker 1: in your twenties and then returned to it later on. 907 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:48,200 Speaker 1: How important was that for you? The leaving and the 908 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:51,680 Speaker 1: coming back and what brought you back. 909 00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,279 Speaker 3: Well, it's a key story for me. It's maybe the 910 00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:59,400 Speaker 3: most important story of my life. Was that kind of 911 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,520 Speaker 3: twelve year journey where I left the ba High Faith 912 00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:06,359 Speaker 3: to go to New York to be an actor. I 913 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,319 Speaker 3: just wanted to do theater. I didn't want to think 914 00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:12,759 Speaker 3: about religion, spirituality, God certainly not morality. I wanted to 915 00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:15,080 Speaker 3: kind of party and do what I wanted to do 916 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,920 Speaker 3: when I wanted to do it. And a lot of 917 00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 3: kids do this, you know, this is a very common things. 918 00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:23,719 Speaker 3: Probably probably eighty percent of kids who grew up in 919 00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,600 Speaker 3: some spiritual tradition, when they go off to college or 920 00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,640 Speaker 3: go off to live in the city and have a life, 921 00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,880 Speaker 3: they jettison their faith, the faith of their childhood. So 922 00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:36,480 Speaker 3: I'm not special in this regard. I think what happened 923 00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:41,000 Speaker 3: for me, however, is I started really coming up against 924 00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,480 Speaker 3: some of these mental health issues that I've been talking about. 925 00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,680 Speaker 3: That's when my anxiety kicked in. I used to have 926 00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,799 Speaker 3: I mean, I can't even tell you how crippling these 927 00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,280 Speaker 3: anxiety attacks were. 928 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:50,719 Speaker 1: That I would have. 929 00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:54,760 Speaker 3: I mean I would fall on the floor, shaking and sweating, 930 00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,759 Speaker 3: and I was like I'm having a heart attack. I'm 931 00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:02,200 Speaker 3: going to die. I'm literally dying. Came so close on 932 00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:05,680 Speaker 3: a half a dozen occasions of calling nine one one. 933 00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:10,720 Speaker 3: I mean, I was just and then all the many 934 00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:15,400 Speaker 3: anxiety attacks I was having, and then depression, addiction issues, 935 00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:23,000 Speaker 3: and and this forced me to reinvestigate spirituality. Okay, it's 936 00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:26,680 Speaker 3: interesting because I had a conversation with BJ and and 937 00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 3: BJ was very frank. He's like, that was great that 938 00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 3: you had that it forced you go on a spiritual path. 939 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,360 Speaker 3: But what would you say someone like me, Like, I'm 940 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:37,520 Speaker 3: interested in spirituality and I'm struggling, and I want to 941 00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:40,120 Speaker 3: get to know it more and I want to figure 942 00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,840 Speaker 3: out my life a in a But my life is 943 00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:47,120 Speaker 3: fine right now. You know, I'm I'm fine, I'm functioning, 944 00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:51,200 Speaker 3: I'm pretty happy, I'm doing great projects. So how do 945 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,640 Speaker 3: you how do you do that? And you know, I 946 00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,840 Speaker 3: don't know what the answer is. I mean, I think 947 00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:59,719 Speaker 3: it's to just get more curious and to read a 948 00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:04,040 Speaker 3: little bit, which will fuel that curiosity. But I was 949 00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:06,600 Speaker 3: really fortunate in a way, like I kind of hit 950 00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:10,400 Speaker 3: bottom so bad in a number of ways in my twenties, 951 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:13,759 Speaker 3: and I was really dissatisfied that it forced me to 952 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:17,120 Speaker 3: look at spirituality again, and I read a lot of 953 00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:20,320 Speaker 3: the holy books of the world, and I studied and 954 00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:23,800 Speaker 3: journeyed and read and journaled and did some therapy. And 955 00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,759 Speaker 3: because I felt in my bones like I think that 956 00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:32,480 Speaker 3: there's probably a spiritual solution to this misery that I'm in, 957 00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:37,040 Speaker 3: and that by jettisoning my religion and my spirituality, I 958 00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:41,799 Speaker 3: have done myself a disservice. And I bet this will 959 00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,960 Speaker 3: lead to greater happiness and fulfillment if I re explore 960 00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,840 Speaker 3: that dimension. It was a very long time coming. I 961 00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:52,080 Speaker 3: mean I was still exploring early on in the office, 962 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:55,640 Speaker 3: but came back to the faith, the bhy faith from 963 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:58,799 Speaker 3: my childhood, which has brought me and my wife a 964 00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:00,880 Speaker 3: lot of solace and connection. 965 00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:05,359 Speaker 1: Yeah. The themes that you explore in the book, they 966 00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:09,120 Speaker 1: seem to have a lot in common with geography of bliss, 967 00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:15,120 Speaker 1: self awareness, self improvement, self acceptance. What do you see 968 00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:19,520 Speaker 1: as a relationship between soul Boom and geography of Bliss 969 00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:23,920 Speaker 1: And is there an is there an overall message or 970 00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:29,040 Speaker 1: are you trying to just put people on their own journey? Yeah? 971 00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:32,680 Speaker 3: Great, great, great question. So I knew the book was 972 00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,840 Speaker 3: coming out. What month is this May April, so it 973 00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:39,520 Speaker 3: was coming out in late April. And then Peacock was like, Hey, 974 00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:42,080 Speaker 3: good news, We're gonna we're going to release Geography of 975 00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,879 Speaker 3: Bliss in September. And I was like, wait, whoa, whoa, whoa, 976 00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:47,439 Speaker 3: whoa what? No, no, No, I have a book coming 977 00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:49,279 Speaker 3: out in April that's about this theme and I'm going 978 00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:50,759 Speaker 3: to be promoting it. I'm going to be out there 979 00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,560 Speaker 3: on the road. I'd love to talk about Geography of 980 00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 3: Bliss as well. And they were great about it. And 981 00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,279 Speaker 3: I also said, and also think about it, like, think 982 00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:00,480 Speaker 3: about releasing the show right before people are trying traveling 983 00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:04,040 Speaker 3: over the summer. It's a post COVID show. It's kind 984 00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,719 Speaker 3: of launching into the summer traveling the world. People are 985 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:10,719 Speaker 3: going on vacations, like, and they're thinking about being more expansive. 986 00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:13,960 Speaker 3: Maybe they've traveled traveling for the first time, like it all. 987 00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:16,279 Speaker 1: And they were great about it, and Peacock was like, 988 00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:19,359 Speaker 1: you know what, you're right, then Snell, there you go. 989 00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:20,879 Speaker 3: They shifted the release date. 990 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,200 Speaker 1: They said that, they said, you're right. 991 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,920 Speaker 3: I have to say they've been an amazing partner and 992 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:31,200 Speaker 3: team on this and it's funny Brian Sidebar. There was 993 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:34,960 Speaker 3: this article in the Onion Avy Department and it was 994 00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:40,480 Speaker 3: like Peacock is using its former sitcom stars to have 995 00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:47,280 Speaker 3: documentary series and they they they mentioned some other actors 996 00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:48,920 Speaker 3: that had been on like Parks and Rec and some 997 00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,000 Speaker 3: other shows that were doing some kind of documentary series 998 00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:55,400 Speaker 3: on Peacock and they it was like the article was 999 00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 3: like this scandalous article, like we've exposed this. 1000 00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 1: It's like, duh, what do you think? Like they're trying 1001 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:06,279 Speaker 1: to get people, They're trying to get people to watch 1002 00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:06,720 Speaker 1: the Peacock. 1003 00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:10,480 Speaker 3: But not only that, Like there are office fans turning 1004 00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,279 Speaker 3: to Peacock and they like Rain. They tend to like 1005 00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:15,359 Speaker 3: Rain Wilson and then they turn it on and then 1006 00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,560 Speaker 3: they see that I've got this show, and it's it's 1007 00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,720 Speaker 3: win win, Like it's that's how television works. 1008 00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:23,560 Speaker 1: It's how it's always worked, you know what I mean? 1009 00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:27,560 Speaker 3: Like, you know, uh, TV stars of CBS or TV 1010 00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:32,560 Speaker 3: stars of HBO do other shows on that. You know, Uh, 1011 00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:36,440 Speaker 3: Patricia Arcat is doing a new show on Apple after 1012 00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,960 Speaker 3: severance because they have a nice relationship and people that 1013 00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,960 Speaker 3: go to Apple like Patricia Arcat. It's oh my god, 1014 00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 3: give me a break. So, so what is it about it? 1015 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,320 Speaker 3: To me, It's all about you. You you brought it 1016 00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:51,480 Speaker 3: up before. It's all about asking questions. I'm not a guru. 1017 00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:56,320 Speaker 3: I don't have any answers. I'm a schlubby, chubby, weird guy. 1018 00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:59,680 Speaker 3: I still struggle. I've learned a few things, but I'm 1019 00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:03,240 Speaker 3: not presenting myself as like some kind of guru, know 1020 00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,960 Speaker 3: it all self help guy, like a lot of folks 1021 00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:10,800 Speaker 3: do on social media and whatnot. I'm just I'm a 1022 00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:15,960 Speaker 3: fellow journeer. And let's dig into these big ideas. Let's 1023 00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:19,960 Speaker 3: look at what makes us happy. Let's examine cultures around 1024 00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:22,760 Speaker 3: the world and where we can find great well being 1025 00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,480 Speaker 3: from them and have a blast along the way. And 1026 00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:27,919 Speaker 3: in the book, like, let's dig into what it means 1027 00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:29,720 Speaker 3: to be alive? And is there a God? And do 1028 00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:31,880 Speaker 3: we have a soul? And how do we find what 1029 00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,680 Speaker 3: is sacred and holy in our lives? And what is 1030 00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:39,440 Speaker 3: the miracle of consciousness? And how do science and spirituality intersect? 1031 00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:42,320 Speaker 3: And where do we you know, where do we go 1032 00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:45,880 Speaker 3: from here as a society. I don't have the exact 1033 00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,680 Speaker 3: answers for it, but it all dovetails. So the universe 1034 00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:51,920 Speaker 3: seems to be pushing me in this direction to be 1035 00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:55,440 Speaker 3: telling these kind of stories. Who knows what's next the book. 1036 00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:59,680 Speaker 1: If you haven't gotten it, get it read it. I've 1037 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:06,800 Speaker 1: known Rain twenty twenty plus. I mean, you know, I 1038 00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:09,320 Speaker 1: was at least aware of you for much longer, but 1039 00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:12,040 Speaker 1: known each other twenty plus years. 1040 00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:13,640 Speaker 3: We have to talk about three sisters a little bit. 1041 00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, three sisters. Well, let me finish this legitimate 1042 00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:23,160 Speaker 1: pitch for the book. I learned about Rain by reading 1043 00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:27,439 Speaker 1: this book, and Rain is a very open person. Rain 1044 00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,640 Speaker 1: is I've said this before, I'll say it again. I'll 1045 00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:33,440 Speaker 1: say it till the day I die. He is the lewdest, 1046 00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:39,480 Speaker 1: most inappropriate, most If there was a Dundee Award for 1047 00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:44,360 Speaker 1: most likely to be sent to HR in today's culture, 1048 00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:48,560 Speaker 1: it is Rain Wilson, no question. But at the same time, 1049 00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:55,360 Speaker 1: the kindest, the person that everyone would go to if 1050 00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:59,760 Speaker 1: something were really happening in their lives that they needed 1051 01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:06,280 Speaker 1: vice and input in. Thoughtful, always curious, and the book 1052 01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,320 Speaker 1: reflects that amazingly. 1053 01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:09,080 Speaker 3: You're so kind. 1054 01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:11,600 Speaker 1: Thank you. That's very nice to see. Yes, well, I 1055 01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 1: mean it. And as for geography of Bliss, it's funny, 1056 01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:21,400 Speaker 1: it's funny and will make you think about your own life. 1057 01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:25,080 Speaker 1: And it's beautifully shot, by the way, which you had 1058 01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:29,440 Speaker 1: nothing to do with. So you But it's my parents 1059 01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:31,440 Speaker 1: went to Ice. I've been to. I have been to 1060 01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:36,120 Speaker 1: the Reikievik airport on a layover, so I spent you know, 1061 01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:39,000 Speaker 1: three hours in the middle of the night. Never thought 1062 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:43,720 Speaker 1: of ever leaving the airport or going there again seeing it. 1063 01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:49,080 Speaker 1: Even just the shots of you guys driving around, the's incredible, 1064 01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,680 Speaker 1: is unbelievably beautiful. 1065 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:56,640 Speaker 3: It's I've been five times. That's one thing that was 1066 01:00:56,680 --> 01:00:58,240 Speaker 3: a lie we told in the show. It made it 1067 01:00:58,240 --> 01:00:59,840 Speaker 3: seem like I was going there for the first time. 1068 01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:03,120 Speaker 1: I had been four times before. Oh, just as a person, 1069 01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:04,800 Speaker 1: just as a as a traveler. 1070 01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:09,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, liars, and I love that play. 1071 01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:09,600 Speaker 1: I would. 1072 01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:11,800 Speaker 3: I was very seriously talking to my wife about, like 1073 01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:12,959 Speaker 3: what would it take for us to go. 1074 01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:16,160 Speaker 1: Live here because it is recently or years ago? 1075 01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:18,000 Speaker 3: Two? Three years ago? 1076 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:20,040 Speaker 1: Yeah no, but not when you were just there for 1077 01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:20,440 Speaker 1: the show. 1078 01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:26,920 Speaker 3: No, okay, But it's the black sand beaches, glaciers, volcanoes. 1079 01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:31,760 Speaker 3: It's I say, like our last trip there as a family, 1080 01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:37,040 Speaker 3: we went and like parked under like a five hundred 1081 01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:40,600 Speaker 3: foot waterfall in our camper van and like we're cooking 1082 01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:44,480 Speaker 3: dinner and looking out, like it's pretty nice, pretty nice waterfalls. 1083 01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:48,360 Speaker 3: Like we've seen way bigger. We've seen the three thousand 1084 01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:51,280 Speaker 3: foot waterfalls and like coming off of the side of 1085 01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:55,560 Speaker 3: a glacier and the you know, Onyx Cliffs and this one, 1086 01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,040 Speaker 3: and it was like, wait a minute, I'm parked under 1087 01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:00,600 Speaker 3: a five hundred foot waterfall and I'm like it's like 1088 01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:04,400 Speaker 3: ho hum, you know, it's it's incredible, super fun. 1089 01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:08,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Three Sisters, Three Sisters. 1090 01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,280 Speaker 3: So before the Office and in the early days of 1091 01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:14,919 Speaker 3: the Office, I was directing one of my very favorite plays, 1092 01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:19,800 Speaker 3: Checkov's Three Sisters, and I met Brian through some mutual friends. 1093 01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:22,680 Speaker 3: I had seen you in a play, although in a 1094 01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:27,680 Speaker 3: small role in Minneapolis, and I was like, oh, this 1095 01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,640 Speaker 3: guy's perfect for Andre and three Sisters. And we did 1096 01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:33,440 Speaker 3: this kind of ongoing workshop production that we were The 1097 01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:35,240 Speaker 3: plan was we were going to perform the whole play 1098 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,160 Speaker 3: in people's living rooms. We got to perform the first 1099 01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:40,680 Speaker 3: couple acts a couple of times. You were so great 1100 01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:45,560 Speaker 3: in the role, just perfect combination of heartbreak and comedy, 1101 01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:50,320 Speaker 3: and it was really fun and arduous because we would 1102 01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,560 Speaker 3: just meet on Sunday mornings and like rehearse for three 1103 01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:56,160 Speaker 3: hours every single week and do little chunks of it. 1104 01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,720 Speaker 3: And we all had to like pitch in some money, like, hey, 1105 01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:00,680 Speaker 3: everyone put in twenty bucks to go at the rehearsal 1106 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,560 Speaker 3: space and stuff. But you were you were great and 1107 01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:06,200 Speaker 3: sad and beautiful and I hope you'll do more theater. 1108 01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:11,880 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, thank you. Those were really fun times. Yeah. 1109 01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:14,680 Speaker 1: I was trying to think. I couldn't put the time 1110 01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:19,520 Speaker 1: table together, so it was literally before the office. Yeah, 1111 01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:21,840 Speaker 1: and then and then. 1112 01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:23,400 Speaker 3: And then early on, like when we had shot the 1113 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:26,000 Speaker 3: pilot we had started it. Yeah, and then we shot 1114 01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,000 Speaker 3: the five more episodes of the first season and we 1115 01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:30,960 Speaker 3: kept going. By the time we were into like the 1116 01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:35,240 Speaker 3: second season, other people moved from LA to New York 1117 01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:37,520 Speaker 3: and we were kind of losing the cast and stuff, 1118 01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:39,680 Speaker 3: and then we got really busy and it it kind 1119 01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:40,480 Speaker 3: of petered away. 1120 01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:42,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, you should produce it. 1121 01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:46,480 Speaker 3: Should should. You're a little old f andre now, sorry, 1122 01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:48,720 Speaker 3: am I. 1123 01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:51,400 Speaker 1: It depends on how old everyone else is. Really. 1124 01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, you've got to feel sorry. 1125 01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,919 Speaker 1: Sorry twenty years ago. It was twenty years ago. Yeah, Wow, 1126 01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:03,600 Speaker 1: it's always great to see you. I'm gonna come by 1127 01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:04,960 Speaker 1: the farm, Come. 1128 01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:07,480 Speaker 3: By the farm. We've got pigs to pat and a 1129 01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:08,320 Speaker 3: pea hen. 1130 01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:10,760 Speaker 1: Pigs, a pea hen, a donkey. 1131 01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,439 Speaker 3: Still, yeah, the donkeys that is at my wife's where 1132 01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:15,760 Speaker 3: she has her horses. 1133 01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:16,280 Speaker 1: Okay. 1134 01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:18,880 Speaker 3: And then we have a donkey named Chili Beans, a 1135 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:23,480 Speaker 3: rescue donkey. He's adorable, chili beans. Oh, he's so huggable. 1136 01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:26,240 Speaker 3: He's got fuzzy, big ears. It's like if you've ever 1137 01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:30,720 Speaker 3: nuzzled a donkey. And that's not a dirty euphemism, but 1138 01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:32,680 Speaker 3: I would love for you to nuzzle my donkey. 1139 01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:36,800 Speaker 1: I'm n even bushes chili beans. Chili beans, you can 1140 01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:40,040 Speaker 1: make chili out of him. Oh, that's see. Dark, It 1141 01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:44,360 Speaker 1: all comes around, that's all dark. It sure does, Rain. 1142 01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:50,320 Speaker 3: Wilson, everybody, bomb Gardner, everybody bringing it week after week. 1143 01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:54,880 Speaker 1: Like we just looked. I'm gonna look into the camera. 1144 01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 1: Oh we didn't do any takes to the camera. A 1145 01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:02,320 Speaker 1: hundred and four thirty one of these puppies you are, 1146 01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:05,240 Speaker 1: this is number one forty one, which is anyone, which 1147 01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:07,200 Speaker 1: is a significant number, not at all? 1148 01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:09,480 Speaker 3: Could you have called me like it's not in the 1149 01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:12,320 Speaker 3: first like thirty or forty, because. 1150 01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:14,680 Speaker 1: Hello, well, no. I mean. The funny thing is is 1151 01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:18,600 Speaker 1: the very first time I ever sat down for a 1152 01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:22,280 Speaker 1: podcast interview with me was with you at the old 1153 01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:25,400 Speaker 1: iHeart studios in Hollywood. And I called you and I 1154 01:05:25,440 --> 01:05:27,720 Speaker 1: was like, hey, I'm thinking about putting this thing in 1155 01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:31,720 Speaker 1: oral history of the Office together. And you were, as 1156 01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:40,280 Speaker 1: always like very accommodating with restrictions. You said, absolutely, I 1157 01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:44,040 Speaker 1: have to do it next week because I'm gonna maybe 1158 01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:46,440 Speaker 1: shoot this movie and the show and I'm gonna be busy, 1159 01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:49,040 Speaker 1: so next week, so you don't even know any of 1160 01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:54,080 Speaker 1: this scrambling started, no what we the team hadn't done 1161 01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:55,920 Speaker 1: a brief at that point. We didn't know what the 1162 01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,600 Speaker 1: hell we were doing. And I was like, oh my god, 1163 01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:01,440 Speaker 1: we have to have rain. So we scramble. So we 1164 01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:03,760 Speaker 1: go to IHEARTA, we go to iHeart. 1165 01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:05,240 Speaker 3: I thought you were like in production. 1166 01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:09,959 Speaker 1: No, this was like no, this was like I'm making calls, Hey, 1167 01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,160 Speaker 1: this is what I'm thinking about doing, and yeah, you 1168 01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:16,280 Speaker 1: were just very clearly like, aps, whatever you need, but 1169 01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:21,360 Speaker 1: next week only. It was sent. And we sat down 1170 01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:24,560 Speaker 1: that day over two hours and I left the room 1171 01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:26,720 Speaker 1: and you left and you said hello, nice to everybody. 1172 01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:29,640 Speaker 1: You left and everyone was like, we have a show, 1173 01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:33,840 Speaker 1: we have one. You didn't suck, meaning me, like, you 1174 01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:34,880 Speaker 1: didn't suck, guys. 1175 01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:37,040 Speaker 3: You guys did it. You did it right, I mean 1176 01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:40,800 Speaker 3: you did. You interviewed everybody, every and you spent hours 1177 01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:45,160 Speaker 3: and you you got into the minutia and the seasons 1178 01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:47,960 Speaker 3: and the and the pre the office. How'd you sell? 1179 01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:50,880 Speaker 3: I mean it was it was an incredible accomplishment. It 1180 01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:54,320 Speaker 3: became like a cultural document and it was awesome. You 1181 01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:56,160 Speaker 3: guys just kicked ass with that thing. 1182 01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:58,800 Speaker 1: Man, it was. It was beautiful. Thank you, well, thank you. 1183 01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:03,000 Speaker 1: And now we sit back together. Oh and let's we 1184 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:05,440 Speaker 1: won't it won't be, bestie, it won't be. 1185 01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:07,760 Speaker 3: We used to play tennis together. And then you just 1186 01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,360 Speaker 3: went that's a dark side and just went completely over 1187 01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:11,240 Speaker 3: into golf. 1188 01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:15,440 Speaker 1: Horrible, horrible man. Yeah, thanks Rayin, Thanks Brian, talk to 1189 01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:30,640 Speaker 1: you later, Hie, everybody bye. Off The Beat is hosted 1190 01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:35,160 Speaker 1: and executive produced by me Brian Baumgartner, alongside our executive 1191 01:07:35,160 --> 01:07:39,280 Speaker 1: producer Ling Lee. Our senior producer is Diego Tapia. Our 1192 01:07:39,320 --> 01:07:43,240 Speaker 1: producers are Liz Hayes, Hannah Harris, and Emily Carr. 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