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Speaker 1: Thank you. You sounded a little like Don Cornelius this morning,

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Speaker 1: All right, Thank you. Nephew's subject they let their husbands

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Speaker 1: run wild. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for two

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Speaker 1: years and I'm twenty five years old. My husband is

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Speaker 1: twenty six, and he pursued me heavily until I let

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Speaker 1: him take me out. We had a great first date

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Speaker 1: and he told me that he loved me. I fell

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Speaker 1: for him really quick, and we got married in no time.

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Speaker 1: He lived out in the suburbs and I had an

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Speaker 1: and I met three other married couples in his neighborhood.

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Speaker 1: They were all professional men, and they loved to golf,

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Speaker 1: mainly because it was a status thing for them. And

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Speaker 1: I asked my fiance at the time why he never

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Speaker 1: mentioned these friends, and he said they're his neighborhood friends

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Speaker 1: and he didn't really hang out with them because he

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Speaker 1: was rushing into marriage to fit in. He said absolutely not,

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Speaker 1: and I did not nag him about it. Fast forward

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Speaker 1: to present day and we've been married for two years.

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Speaker 1: My husband thinks it's okay to hang out with his

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Speaker 1: they're in the backyard or in one of their man caves,

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Speaker 1: but they like to go to the city to hang out.

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Speaker 1: I'm the only wife in the group that has a

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Speaker 1: problem with it. One of the wives told me that

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Speaker 1: as soon as I start getting tired of my husband,

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Speaker 1: I will look forward to him hanging out at night.

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Speaker 1: My husband said that I'm making us look bad as

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Speaker 1: a unit because I'm always calling around complaining about him

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Speaker 1: being out. I don't like that they let their husbands

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Speaker 1: do whatever they want to do, and I hope it

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Speaker 1: doesn't rough off on my husband. He's not a big drinker,

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Speaker 1: but now he's buying liquor and building up his bar

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Speaker 1: to show off to his friends. Is there any way

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Speaker 1: to keep my husband at home? Well, you could lock

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Speaker 1: the bedroom door and throw away the key, you know,

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Speaker 1: keep them in there. But of course you're not going

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Speaker 1: to do that. I just think this thing started from

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Speaker 1: the very beginning. I mean, you guys went really fast.

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Speaker 1: I mean, to begin with, you said he told you

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Speaker 1: he loved you on the first date. That was quick,

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Speaker 1: very quick. So now that you've been married for two

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Speaker 1: years at twenty eight, he'd rather hang out with his

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Speaker 1: boys on the weekend. At twenty eight, that just seems

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Speaker 1: rather odd. It seems like you guys would still be

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Speaker 1: honeymooning getting it in at this age. He's twenty eight,

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Speaker 1: now you're twenty seven. I do think it's something to

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Speaker 1: him rushing to fit in with the rest of his

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Speaker 1: suburban friends. You mentioned that he denies it, but there

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Speaker 1: is something to that. He is trying to impress him.

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Speaker 1: You mentioned the liquor. He's trying to build up his bar,

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't even drink all that. I mean, they

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Speaker 1: do the same things together, leaving their wives at home

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Speaker 1: when they go to the city and your husband, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I think you guys need to work out

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Speaker 1: some sort of compromise if you want to stay together,

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Speaker 1: because you, guys, at the rate you're going, you might

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Speaker 1: end up in divorce court. I mean, you got to

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Speaker 1: schedule some date nights. You got to work on your marriage.

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Speaker 1: Stop calling around looking for him because he doesn't like that.

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Speaker 1: Stop talking to these other messy wives who seem bitter.

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Speaker 1: They don't even like their husband husbands at this point,

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Speaker 1: they said, you know, when he starts getting on your nerves,

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Speaker 1: you'll be happy. All of that. You don't want to

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Speaker 1: that's what you want, you know, let him know how

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Speaker 1: you feel, don't you know that doesn't require an argument

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Speaker 1: Your marriage is in trouble, and you guys are young.

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Speaker 1: You know you're gonna come up against some hurdles. You

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Speaker 1: might want to consider counseling at least something to try

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Speaker 1: and keep your marriage together. But first, you know, let

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Speaker 3: Really, I'm stuck on this letter in a couple of ways,

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Speaker 3: because there's so many things wrong here, young sister. I

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Speaker 3: hate to tell you that, but all right, here goes

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Speaker 3: uncle Steve. Let me try to help you out. They

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Speaker 3: let their husbands run wild. Let okay, we'll get into

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Speaker 3: that in a minute. You've been married for two years.

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Speaker 3: You're twenty five years old, your husband twenty six. Now

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Speaker 3: this is young. Now, this is young to be married.

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Speaker 3: I just want to tell you that right off the dribble,

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Speaker 3: we had a great first He pursued you heavily until

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Speaker 3: you let him take you out. You had a great

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Speaker 3: first date. He told me that he loved me. I

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Speaker 3: fell for him really quickly, and we got married. It

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Speaker 3: didn't no time. Pump your brakes stop. Here is the

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Speaker 3: whole problem in this whole letter is wrapped up in

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Speaker 3: that statement right there. I fell for him really quickly

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Speaker 3: and we got married in no time. Well, that's the

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Speaker 3: whole problem. You did not take the time to know

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Speaker 3: the score. You did not take the time to read

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Speaker 3: the book. You did not take the time to go

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Speaker 3: over the chapters. You just jumped into it. Anybody that's

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Speaker 3: married will tell you marriage is a challenge it's beautiful,

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Speaker 3: but Lord, have mercy.

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Speaker 2: It's a challenge.

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Speaker 3: And you didn't even have enough information about your mate

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Speaker 3: going in.

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Speaker 2: Now. He lived out in the suburbs.

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Speaker 3: You had an apartment downtown, so he stayed with you

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Speaker 3: most of the time before you got married, right before

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Speaker 3: the wedd and I moved in with him. That's out

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Speaker 3: in the suburbs. I met three other married was in

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Speaker 3: his neighborhood. They were all professional men. They loved to golf,

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Speaker 3: mainly because it's the status thing for them. And I

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Speaker 3: asked my fiance why he never mentioned these friends, and

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Speaker 3: he said, they're his neighborhood friends.

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Speaker 2: And he didn't really hang out with him because he

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Speaker 2: was single right there, right there.

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Speaker 3: And you know why he didn't hang out with him,

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Speaker 3: because as married people, they weren't doing the things that

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Speaker 3: he was doing as a single man.

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Speaker 2: You got that.

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Speaker 3: When we come back, the rest of it will get

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Speaker 3: unfolded right in front of you. Hope you enjoy it,

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Speaker 3: and please stay together after my response, it's not over.

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Speaker 2: It's just troublesome, all right, Steve.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject

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Speaker 1: they let their husbands run wild. We'll get back into

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject they let their husbands run wild.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they do. They let their husbands run wild. Now

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Speaker 3: you're twenty five, you'd have married this man twenty six.

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Speaker 3: You got married really quick. You got married in no time.

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Speaker 3: According to the letter, he lives out in the suburbs.

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Speaker 3: They spend all the time downtown with you in your apartment.

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Speaker 3: When you all got married, you discovered he had three

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Speaker 3: friends out there in the suburbs who all married. You

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Speaker 3: wanted to know why he didn't tell you about him.

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Speaker 3: He said, because they didn't hang out because he was

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Speaker 3: single and they were married. Like I said in the beginning,

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Speaker 3: when you get married in no time, you don't know

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Speaker 3: the whole story. You can't get a better picture of

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Speaker 3: the view of the picture. You haven't read the book,

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Speaker 3: you don't have enough information. So now this is gonna

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Speaker 3: come back to bite you. Now, he didn't really hang

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Speaker 3: out there because he was single. So then you got

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Speaker 3: upset and you asked him if he was rushing into

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Speaker 3: marriage to fit in. He said, no, absolutely not, and

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Speaker 3: so you didn't nag him about it.

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Speaker 2: Fast forward to present day.

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Speaker 3: Now we're talking two years now, two years in past now,

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Speaker 3: and my husband thinks it's okay to hang out with

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Speaker 3: his neighborhood friends every Friday and Saturday night.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Now, part of this is because of two things. One,

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Speaker 3: his friends have been married for a while. Now I

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Speaker 3: guarantee you those three friends are a little older than

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Speaker 3: he is.

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Speaker 2: And also this has something to do with youth.

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Speaker 3: To want to hang out with your boys every Friday

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Speaker 3: and every Saturday. I get to hang out with my

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Speaker 3: main boys twice a year. Twice a year. It's when

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Speaker 3: I get to hang out with my boys. All twelve

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Speaker 3: of us get together, and it's twice a year.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 3: Now it's been twice this year because the funerals sad

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Speaker 3: to say, but that's how long we've been friends. Now

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Speaker 3: we hang it out.

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Speaker 1: You hang it.

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Speaker 3: Out twice a week every Friday and Saturday. And if

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Speaker 3: you like it, okay, if they in the backyard on

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Speaker 3: you and one of their man caves. But then they

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Speaker 3: like to go to the sea to hang out. Now

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Speaker 3: you're the only wife in the group that's got a

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Speaker 3: problem with it. One of the wives told me, as

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Speaker 3: soon as I start getting tired of my husband, I

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Speaker 3: would look forward to him hanging out at night.

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Speaker 2: See.

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Speaker 3: So obviously they've been married longer than two years. They've

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Speaker 3: been married for a while, and this is the feeling

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Speaker 3: that she has. My husband said that you're making us

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Speaker 3: look bad as a unit.

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Speaker 2: That's funny right there, when the dude told.

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Speaker 3: Her, you're making us bad as a unit by complaining

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Speaker 3: to the other wives because you're the only one complaining. Well,

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Speaker 3: the unit dog is a marriage that's a little bit

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Speaker 3: more important than a unit. There is an office space downtown.

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Speaker 3: A unit is a collection of coworkers. You all are

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Speaker 3: a unit. No, No, this is a marriage. It's very different.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that they let they husbands do whatever

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Speaker 3: off on my husband. I don't know what you're hoping

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Speaker 3: against it already. Does he hang out every Friday and Saturday?

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Speaker 3: You hope it don't rub off on your husband? It

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Speaker 3: done rubbed. He with them every Friday Saturday. Ain't there

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Speaker 3: with the letter folk, It done rubbed. He's not a

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Speaker 3: big drinking now, but he's buying, looking, building up his

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Speaker 3: body to show off to his friends. Well that's good

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Speaker 3: because the bars at the house see, you're getting him

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Speaker 2: And they're gonna be drunk, but they all gonna be.

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Speaker 3: Closer to home. Is there any way to keep my

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Speaker 3: your husband at home. But let me tell you what's

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Speaker 3: happening right here. The reason they go out every night,

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Speaker 3: every Friday, and every sight because what's out there in

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Speaker 3: them streets is more exciting than what's happening at home.

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Speaker 2: Period. This is a fact.

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Speaker 3: If your husband is gone every Friday and every Saturday,

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Speaker 3: I'm assuming y'all been at work Monday through Friday, and

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Speaker 3: all of them get together every Friday night and every

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Speaker 3: Saturday night. It's because they're blowing off steam from the workweek,

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Speaker 3: and they're blowing off the steam without their wives. Something

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Speaker 3: is happening out there in them streets. That's more exciting.

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Speaker 3: That's what's happening at home. Whatever happened to date night,

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Speaker 3: it would seem to me like, since all y'all are friends,

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Speaker 3: it would seem to me like as couples, y'all would

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Speaker 3: get together, and it'll be one couple's responsibility to host

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Speaker 3: an event at their house or plan the.

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Speaker 2: Date night for you all.

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Speaker 3: So if if guys did a Friday night, everything would

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Speaker 3: be cool. If the ladies and everybody got Saturday night.

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Speaker 3: You ever seen a mob movie. You ever seen a

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Speaker 3: mob movie? Even the Mob movie, they had a night

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Speaker 3: their girlfriends all met down at the cabana or the

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Speaker 3: cotton club. Even gangsters know, you got to take care

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Speaker 3: your family. These folk foods and got together on the

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Speaker 3: weekends and decide it ain't no damn family. That's about

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Speaker 3: Its dumb. Even they do that in a Gangster movie.

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Speaker 3: You got a night for the girlfriend, you got a

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Speaker 3: night for the wives. Y'all. Both day nights is shot,

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Speaker 3: y'all stupid. Y'all need a date night. Y'all need a

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Speaker 3: couple's night out. So y'all can save y'all's marriage. Because

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you right now, just continue every Friday

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Speaker 3: and every Saturday.

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Speaker 2: You can't stay married like that. I don't care who

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Speaker 2: you are, all right.

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