WEBVTT - Life on Other Planets with Kendall Long 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:04.720 Hell I Suck at Dating with Denglert and Dared Haven 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:11.280 and I heard radio podcast What's going on Everyone? And 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:15.040 Welcome to an all new episode of Help Suck At Dating. 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:18.360 It's mid January. We've made it through the New Year's 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:21.319 Eve and Christmas slumps. I guess I feel like people 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:23.599 kind of slump around those times. Um, We've got a 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:25.560 great episode in store for you guys. Today. We have 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:30.120 everyone's favorite contested from our season and a couple of 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:33.960 seasons of Paradise. A little controversial this last season in Paradise. 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:37.320 If I do say so, Uh, Kendall Long will be 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:40.080 joining us and uh co hosting the episode with us. 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:43.040 Before we bring Kendall Lynn, I do want to say something. 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:45.600 Not to start off on a sad note, but we 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:48.320 record this podcast on Friday, so I won't come until Sunday. 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:51.640 But yesterday we found out, Oh hello, Kendall, you're here. Hey, 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:55.000 how are you? Ken? I'm wonderful, now how are you? I? 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:56.360 I was just telling Dan, I don't want to start 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:57.800 off the podcast on a sad note, but I do 0:00:57.880 --> 0:01:00.920 want to address this, and I do want to say something. Uh, 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:05.160 fellow bachelorette contestant that was on my season. Clint Arless 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:10.680 passed away yesterday at the age of four. Um, and 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:12.959 I got to know Clint a little bit on the show. 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:15.000 He was only there for not only there, but he 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:17.120 was there for a couple of weeks. UM. I don't know, 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.360 Dean if you remember watching that season or Kendall, but 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:23.720 he had the uh the bromance with j j um oh, 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:29.080 the bromance guy. Yes, and yeah, I was really it's 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:33.800 just very stunning news, shocking news. Sad thirty four gone 0:01:33.840 --> 0:01:37.840 way too long, way too soon. Excuse me, Um, do 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:40.759 we know what happened to him? We do not, And UM, 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:45.160 you know, I'm just sending my condolences out to his family, 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:49.640 UM and everybody that uh, you know he was a 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:52.400 part of with their lives and he just you know, 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:56.120 it was funny because we had um a text threat going. 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:57.720 I'm Dean and Candle. I'm sure you guys have the 0:01:57.720 --> 0:02:00.640 same thing of like all your contestants from the show. 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:04.880 And it was, you know, at first, everybody was kind 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:06.960 of texting back and forth and then it started petering 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:10.440 out and the two guys that kept the text chain 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:13.560 going where JJ and Clint, and they would legitimately just 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:16.880 text back and forth in this group chat. So I 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:20.000 would always look down and there'd be sixty new text 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:22.720 messages on my phone and it would only be JJ 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:26.800 and Clint going back and forth. Um. So I just 0:02:26.840 --> 0:02:30.040 wanted to say that, Uh, you know, Clint was a 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:33.160 good guy. The last time I saw him was JJ's wedding. Uh, 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:36.800 and uh he was happy and um he looked good. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:41.000 So again, just sending my condolences to the family. He's 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:43.600 a bachelorette legend. I uh, you know, I wasn't really 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:45.400 a fan. I thought I wasn't a fan. I just 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:47.440 didn't watch the show much going into when we filmed 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:51.840 our season, and um, the one person, not one, but 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.480 I guess the two people that the producers kept referring 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:56.400 to time and time and time over and over and 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:59.280 over again was Clinton JJ. They would always talk about 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:01.360 how they had like the best bromance and they would 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:03.560 take showers together, but like in a total best friend 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:05.880 kind of way, and they would always like joke about it. 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.079 They always be like, you know, you're here to find love, 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:10.800 You're not here to take showers with guys. No, seriously, 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:12.840 like that used to happen one season these two guys 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:14.839 like fell in love with each other, so they would 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.440 bring it up like every chance they got. So definitely 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:20.120 sad news. I'm sorry that, you know, for everyone involved, 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:24.000 that is never never anything good. But hopefully hopefully more 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:26.000 news comes out about it, we figure out what happened, right, Like, 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:28.160 I don't know, but I just I want you know, 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:30.040 he was a funny guy, made me laugh a lot. 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:32.959 So again, gondolences the family. So I didn't want to 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:34.280 start off on a sad note, but I did want 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:36.960 to address that. Um. Yeah, no, I think that's good. 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:39.400 I appreciate you bringing it up. I I because I 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:41.760 honestly never would have known enough about it to bring 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:43.440 it up. So it's I'm you know, I'm glad that 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:45.280 you did, and I you know, he's a buddy of yours, 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:47.840 so I'm sorry to hear that, and like you said, condolences, 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:50.360 but yeah, we can't. We can't be somber all episode. 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:53.040 So Kendall, welcome to the podcast. Are you had to 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:56.160 jump in at an opportune time? No, that's definitely fine. 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:59.000 I'm glad we talked about it. Yeah, well how are you? 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:01.560 How are you? Candle philis in? What's going on? Over there. 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:04.600 I'm good. H I'm not to add more bad news, 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:07.280 but my my dog just had I v d D 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:10.200 and had to have um spine surgery some kind of 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:15.280 healing him. He's on the mend um he will um 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:18.680 so his disc at his back herding aidd so it 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:22.080 was bleeding around his spine and so he was unable 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:25.159 to use his back legs. Um. So he was just 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:27.120 paralyzed from the waist down. So he just had to 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:30.240 go in for emergency surgery. So not to add more 0:04:30.279 --> 0:04:32.440 sad things, but I've kind of been dealing with that 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:35.560 for the past. Yeah, that's a lot. I've been following 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:40.480 along on your Instagram stories and so that happened today. 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:43.359 Like what is the current status he's in surgery. No, 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:46.160 so he was in surgery probably about five days ago 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:50.400 and now he is, uh he's at home finally and recovering. 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:54.320 So um, he's definitely have much use of his back legs, 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:58.440 but we're kind of like rebuilding rehabilitating him, waiting from 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:01.680 the heal enough so we can start, you know, doing 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:04.760 therapy and stuff like that. But yeah, he's just frustrated 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:07.440 because he likes running around and doing things and following 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.760 people around and getting in everyone's business and he can't 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:12.960 do that, so he's just very frustrated. But do do 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:17.120 dogs have waste? Kendall? I mean, yeah, they have a 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:21.359 good waste, whether you know. Yeah, definitely has a waste. Okay, 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:23.680 I agree, you're right, probably just right above their hips. 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:25.680 That makes sense. Um, I did see I did see 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:28.120 your posts as well. It's very sad. That's pretty Is 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:31.159 that pretty common in doxins, the like those spinal court issues. Yeah, 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:33.279 it's very very common. And I'm his fourth home, so 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:35.240 I don't really know what his past was or his history, 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:37.880 so a lot of things could have started it. It 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:42.120 was very sudden, um and just one morning he woke 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:44.360 up and it was he was just paralyzed. So um 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.840 so yeah, but luckily my sister moved in, so she's 0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:51.640 helping out out a lot with that. So how is 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:53.240 he able to get around? Does he have like a 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:56.800 wheelchair or is he just kinda right now? It's so 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:59.360 soon after surgery, so he gets his staples out in 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:02.960 about like ten days, but we just carry him around everywhere. 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:06.680 Here's a lot of diapers and changing of things. Um, 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:09.680 and I'm actually getting him a stroller, so that's coming 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:11.839 in the mail and a wheelchair, so he's going to 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:15.479 be mobile soon. Yeah. How old is this dash man? 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:19.720 He's three? So yeah, so very young, but usually in 0:06:19.800 --> 0:06:22.440 dashounds it starts around the age of three and two 0:06:22.600 --> 0:06:26.080 three onward. So how has he been rehomed? How has 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.200 he been in four homes? And he's only three years old? 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:30.800 I got him and he was one. I feel like 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.400 you've had him for a long time. Yeah, I have, well, 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:34.920 and they don't only have a lot of records on 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:37.440 his history, but he was at the kill shelter and 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:40.560 then he was at another shelter. Oh yeah, so he 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:42.719 was his original home, then he went to a kill shelter, 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:44.880 that another shelter, and then I took got him from 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:48.640 that shelter. So that's crazy. I know, I know doctins 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:51.000 are kind of a handful, but that's three homes in 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:53.680 one year. I mean, kidness, he came along. Yeah, No, 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:57.320 he's he's great. He's he's my best friend. So you know, 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:59.920 he's gonna be fine, hopefully, but he has an eight 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:04.440 percent chance of walking again before surgery. It was so yeah. Yeah, 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:07.320 it's definitely not easy to watch your best friend and 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:09.760 your favorite little animal go through those things. So yeah, 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:12.080 it's like you're definitely sending you are best as well. 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:14.080 I know it definitely as like a kid. It's crazy 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:16.040 because we talked about this too when when we had 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.160 to put Pappy down. It's you don't realize how attached 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:20.960 you are to your pets until something like this happens 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:22.520 to them where you have to put them down or 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:25.520 they become Oh, I'm fully aware of how attached that 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:27.760 in too. Lois currently I'm drinking coffee out of a 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:31.600 mug that says Lois Is dad. Oh it's so great. Yeah, 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:34.000 that is very great. But I guess it does put 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:36.240 things into perspective, Like Kendall, I'm sure once Pistachio is 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:38.680 running around again, you're really going to appreciate his ability 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:40.760 to like be mobile a lot more than you would 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:43.960 have before. It's just, um, yeah, it's just it's it's 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:45.560 it's definitely tough. So we're sending you our best. We're 0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:48.080 sending Pistachio all the positive vibes we possibly can. I 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:50.280 will hope that he will heal so oh yeah, he's 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:54.920 gonna be no time. Yeah, so we do. Obviously we're 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:57.800 dating podcast Candle and you've been on this podcast numerous times. 0:07:57.840 --> 0:07:59.640 We I always mentioned that the first time I ever 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:02.960 record did a podcast on here was with you and 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:08.680 a while ago. Dude, every time I say this, Dean, 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:12.000 you always say, oh, I didn't know that. That's like 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:14.680 the third time I've mentioned it, and that's the third 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:18.080 time You're like, I didn't. Thanks. Thanks for sharing that 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:21.240 fun fact that I never knew. I appreciate that. So, Kendall, 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:23.760 the last time we saw you was obviously on Bachelor 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:28.200 in Paradise, so you left single. What's been going on 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:31.920 in your life after that? Um? I'm dating around and 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.840 doing stuff. Um it's the dating scene like in l 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:38.480 A right now. UM, it depends. I would say that 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:41.520 you get him a mixture of different kinds of people. UM, 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:44.760 but I usually prefer to meet someone through a friend 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:48.760 or someone that I trust. Um. Dating apps are kind 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:52.280 of they're little intimidating. UM, but yeah, I don't know. 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:57.240 It's it's been interesting. I've gone some fun adventures. So 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.959 there's so you said the dating apps are intimidating for you. 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:04.480 Can you imagine what the guys think? Because I was 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:06.440 when you said it was intimidating for you all. I 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:09.679 could think about was like, if a guy was scrolling through, 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:11.840 and I can say this because I'm married and Ashley 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:13.840 agrees with me. We think you are one of the 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:17.080 most beautiful contestants to ever be on the show, and 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:19.840 you're intelligent and savvy and have so much going for you. 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:22.080 If I was a guy going through and I saw 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:24.120 you and then it was like, oh that girl was 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:27.480 on Bachelor, they would be super intimidated. So how is 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:29.800 it intimidating towards you? Like, what do you find intimidating 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:33.680 about dating apps? Because I feel like some of the 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:36.520 time everyone always does. You know, they're searching and everything, 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:38.600 and if you look look at my name, you see 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:41.360 my face sobbing and you are making out with somebody. 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:44.440 Um So, it just it's weird to have someone know 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:46.400 you so personally before you have a chance to really 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:50.280 get to know them first. Um So, yeah, you just 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:53.920 never really know people's intentions. And I don't only translate 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:57.000 that well over text. I don't think I'm not really 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:58.600 that funny over I don't know. I'm like more like 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:00.600 an in person or phone call kind a person. I 0:10:00.600 --> 0:10:06.720 can see. I can envision a scenario where you're texting 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:09.360 someone and you're thinking, oh, I'm going to give them 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:12.920 the funniest line, and you send it and it just 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:16.360 comes off completely wrong. Yeah, I'm not that. I'm not 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:17.920 that funny. That's why I failed on Twitter, and no 0:10:17.920 --> 0:10:19.360 one thinks I'm funny on Twitter, so I just don't 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:22.760 think that isn't the worst too, when you're like in 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:24.280 a group chat or something and you say something and 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:26.320 you're like, this is gonna everyone's gonna laugh their ass 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:27.720 off at this, and then you send it and like 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:30.160 no one even validates it with a response. You're like, oh, 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:34.559 come on, yeah, I give but perfectly. Yeah. I'm the 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:36.280 same way too. It's like I don't know, maybe like 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:39.120 too sarcastic or to dry humor. So it doesn't like 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:41.040 even my friends they're always like they'll bring up my 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:43.120 texting and they'll be like, yeah, you like you're like 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:44.440 really bad at texting. I'm like, what do you mean? 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:46.920 I text you back pretty regularly, like or pretty quickly, 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:49.200 and they're like no, just like you're like really short 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:51.560 and you're always like cold and texts. I'm like, I'm 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:53.440 intending to be that way. I feel like I just 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:57.559 embellishments and need embellishments. Yeah, there's not enough fluff. I 0:10:57.600 --> 0:11:00.880 guess maybe my lack of capital letters. U um. It 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.040 is funny to Jared's point though, I remember back when 0:11:03.040 --> 0:11:05.640 I was, you know, in my single days, back in 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:07.720 my studying days. So I was on the dating apps 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:10.880 and uh I saw Becka Tilly and Kaylea Quinn on 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:13.040 the dating app on like Bumble or something like that, 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:15.320 and I was like, Wow, these girls are so pretty. 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:17.800 They had like professional photos, they had a little blue checkmark, 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:19.839 and I was like, there's no way in hell these 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.640 girls are ever going to be interested in talking to 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:25.440 someone like me. So, Kendall, if someone were to come 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:27.680 across like, let's say you're dating profile or like meets 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:28.959 you at a bar, what would be that kind of 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:34.520 like their way of getting your attention? Um? Well, I 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:37.800 would say recently, people have drawn my attention if face 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:40.240 can say something that I didn't know about or teach 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:43.760 me something new like um um, or if I bring 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:46.199 up something and they have something to add to the conversation. 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:48.360 Like I was recently talking about like a moon on 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:50.880 Jupiter that could potentially harbor life and there was like 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:53.439 a study about it, and then this one guy was like, Oh, 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:54.800 you mean like this moon and he had like the 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:57.480 name of it, and I was like, that's really dang impressive. 0:11:57.800 --> 0:12:00.040 Um So I don't That's usually something that catches I 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:03.960 when someone can kind of yeah something cool like that. 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:06.320 I mean, it would be pretty cool if you're had 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:11.000 life on it. But it just frozen water all across 0:12:11.000 --> 0:12:12.800 the entire surface of it, isn't it. But it's possible. 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:15.720 If it's frozen water, then that could potentially harbor life. 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.720 Maybe not. I don't know anyway, but yeah, it's interesting. 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:22.360 See there are cool people out there, see I I 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:25.800 kind of envisioned you with somebody opposite of that kindle 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:28.600 if I'm being honest, because I think that you're so 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:32.679 knowledgeable that you even on your Instagram, the way you 0:12:33.000 --> 0:12:37.080 tell people facts about different aspects of life. I think 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:39.640 if you were with someone that that was very receptive 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:42.160 to that but was unaware of some of that, I 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:44.920 think that could work. I've been with a lot of listeners. 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:48.520 I don't like when people are like that. I don't know. 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:50.520 I like when someone can say something else besides like 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:53.559 awesome and cool, you know, because I be in conversation 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:55.680 with people or I don't know anything that they're talking about, 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:58.800 and they're probably thinking, I'm not in putting anything good conversation. 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:02.960 I mean I have interests in very niche subjects. I 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.520 like a good debate or like a good bante. Well. 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.560 I remember one of the first times I ever talking 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:12.000 to you. We were talking about like something in great 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:16.079 not digging up graves. But it's just like the conversation 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:17.800 went off the rails. Do you remember this at all? 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:19.680 Because you gave me a ride. This is when I 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:22.400 was living with Nick and after we record of the podcast, 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:24.439 and you gave me a drive back to my apartment, 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:25.920 which is very nice of you because it was out 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:27.480 of your way. But I didn't have a car in 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:30.280 l A at the time, and I all the way 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:33.440 to downtown. Unbelievable, right, what a sweetheart? So far out 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:35.760 of the way is crazy? I like car and it's 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:38.760 a good conversation, Like long car rides are fun. Like 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:41.520 stuck in the conversation there's no way out, and what 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:44.360 the hell I don't know we got on the conversation. 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:47.280 I think of like, what is it? What is it called? 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.600 What is the event called? When you go to watch 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:54.920 the movie at the graveyard? Oh, the cinema, the something 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:58.079 something like that. Yeah. So anyway, the point is we 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:00.160 got on that conversation and we started talking about you 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:08.000 had like all these interesting facts about death graves and cemeteries. 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:10.760 And I cannot remember what the conversation was now, but 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:13.920 it was pretty enlightening and fascinating. Oh interesting. I'm trying 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:16.679 to think. I go through like a random It depends 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:18.480 on I'm reading at the time, so it's probably reading 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:22.400 something that had to do with that, and but um, yeah, 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:23.960 so if I do remember that, it was a really 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:28.280 interesting conversation. Yeah. Isn't that funny how you're because I haven't. 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:29.440 I do it all the time too. You like read 0:14:29.480 --> 0:14:32.040 a book and uh, it like touches a couple of subjects, 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:33.040 and then all of a sudden you think you're like 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:34.640 an expert on that subject and you try to bring 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:36.080 it up in the conversation as often as you can. 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:37.680 I do that all the time. Oh, It's how It's 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:41.200 how I can have conversation with people. It's like, I'm like, still, 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:45.720 there's this book I was reading. I read Bigcoin Billionaires, 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:48.640 and I was like, oh, I know everything there is 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:52.600 to know about bitcoin. Alright, guys, that's good. That's also 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:54.760 very I don't know anything about that, so that's where 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:57.680 I lack intelligence. So it's good to have conversations with 0:14:57.720 --> 0:15:01.280 people that can like teach something new and give us 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:04.360 a give us a rundown on the bitcoin dude stuff. 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:06.520 It's just the story about how the Winkel Fox twins 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:09.000 became billionaires in bitcoin. It wasn't really, I mean, an 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:11.280 interesting fact was the first First of all, I'm this 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:13.200 is kind of a widely known fact, but no one 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:16.920 knows who actually created bitcoin. It's still unknown. It was 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:19.640 a Toshi Yacumata or whatever the heck his name is. Yeah, 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:24.000 there's a lot of um speculation about who it is, 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:26.200 and a lot of people think it was Elon Musk, 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:29.800 which I don't think it was, but no way, no way. 0:15:29.880 --> 0:15:35.120 But the first transaction ever, uh with bitcoin. I'm sure 0:15:35.120 --> 0:15:37.800 you guys know this as well was pizza. Somebody bought 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:40.680 a pizza with it. And because it was an online forum, 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:44.640 bitcoin was obviously still not mainstream, and it was it 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:48.320 was a forum for just bitcoin. And then somebody was like, hey, 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:52.320 I will give anybody on this forum a hundred bitcoin 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:55.240 if they bring me a large cheese pizza right now. 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:57.840 So somebody said, okay, I'll do it. So he went 0:15:57.960 --> 0:16:00.720 got the pizza, delivered it. They transferred a hundred the 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:02.920 hundred bitcoin and that was the first transaction ever and 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:05.920 that hundred bitcoin is like now worth like two point 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:14.920 five billion dollars or pizza pizza. Yeah right, you want 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.440 to you want to know who I always have envisioned 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.920 to you dating. Not to get off the subject a bitcoin. 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:24.560 I want you. I want you and my best friend 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:30.760 Alex to be boyfriend and girlfriend. He's he's so intelligent, 0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:33.200 he'll he'll you could bring up a fact and hell, 0:16:33.480 --> 0:16:34.960 this is actually one of the reasons that we always 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:37.360 fight is because he speaks a matter of factory all 0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:39.400 the time that even when he doesn't know what he's 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:42.280 talking about, he he sounds like he does, and so 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:44.200 like you have no choice but to believe him because 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:46.520 you don't know what he's talking about. Um, it's funny 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:48.080 because Caitlin says, I do that all the time as well. 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:50.320 But you guys, I could. I would just love to 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:51.480 be on a fly on the wall in one of 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:53.320 your conversations because I feel like you guys would bounce 0:16:53.360 --> 0:16:55.600 off each other really well. Granted, he lives in Gross Point, 0:16:55.680 --> 0:16:58.120 Michigan and you're in Los Angeles. Um, and you're two 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:00.400 weights too good for him anyways. But I just think 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:02.120 that you guys would be a good little pair. No, 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:04.800 I do think. I think. I think he's really fascinating. Um. 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:09.040 I've had conversations without conversations with Alex before, and UM, yeah, 0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:12.359 the distance thing would be very difficult. That's partly I 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:14.720 have a lot of triggering things because of that. I've 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:19.040 had multiple relationships that have ended because of distance. So yeah, 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:21.920 most most famously the one with Joe. I would suppose, right, 0:17:22.359 --> 0:17:28.800 who's that? But um, but yeah, for me, again, like 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:30.639 I'm a very in person kind of person, and the 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.760 lesson with someone in person, it's really hard for me 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:37.080 to grow something. Well, Because I remember you talking about 0:17:37.080 --> 0:17:39.640 a prior on this podcast about how long distance would 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:41.840 be extremely difficult for you because you don't want to 0:17:41.840 --> 0:17:44.440 move from southern California because your twin sister is there, 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:49.919 and I remember you describing it as your twin sister 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:53.120 is your soul mate, so to speak, and you need 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:56.880 someone who can understand that and enter your life. H 0:17:57.119 --> 0:18:00.360 knowing that, would that be an accurate description, I would 0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:02.960 say it's not that I would never move ever. Um, 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:06.120 it's more so that if there can be some form 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:11.440 of relationship that is developed here or in some way 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:13.399 could be developed, and then if there was a proper 0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:16.359 conversation that it made sense to move somewhere else, or 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:17.960 if I can get a job somewhere else, Like I 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:21.240 like being independent. I don't like depending on everyone's friend 0:18:21.320 --> 0:18:23.879 group and job and everything. Like I like to have 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:26.240 my own thing going on or else. You know, I 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:31.560 don't know, I get really frustrated and boards. So yeah, yeah, 0:18:31.560 --> 0:18:33.000 I just don't want to live off of somebody. I'd 0:18:33.080 --> 0:18:37.200 rather live live like equally with somebody right alongside someone. 0:18:37.359 --> 0:18:39.480 I think that's definitely very important too, And that's something 0:18:39.520 --> 0:18:43.400 I always I haven't mentioned in in previous conversations too, 0:18:43.400 --> 0:18:46.040 is I definitely agree. It's like you should be independent 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:47.640 of each other and then you come together and it's great. 0:18:47.640 --> 0:18:49.200 It shouldn't be like one person lying on the other 0:18:49.240 --> 0:18:52.440 person for anything or anything otherwise. But all right, well, Kendall, 0:18:52.520 --> 0:18:55.200 we're gonna take one quick break. We've got some great 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:57.680 dating topics we would like to discuss a little deeper 0:18:57.720 --> 0:18:59.840 with you, So for the listeners, stay tuned through the break, 0:18:59.880 --> 0:19:12.320 We'll be right back, all right, welcome back to help. 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:16.560 I suck at dating Dean myself, Kendall, we do have 0:19:16.640 --> 0:19:19.000 a couple dating topics we do want to get to, 0:19:19.359 --> 0:19:22.199 including one about Kanye West being accused of recreating an 0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:25.320 iconic photo of him and himself with Kim Kardashian, but 0:19:25.359 --> 0:19:27.240 he did it with his new girlfriend. Now. I don't know, 0:19:27.280 --> 0:19:30.919 sounds gonna wacky, but I did have some questions, Kendall, 0:19:31.880 --> 0:19:34.160 about you in this past season of Bachelor in Paradise 0:19:34.240 --> 0:19:38.480 because watching it was I think difficult for a lot 0:19:38.520 --> 0:19:40.560 of audience members because they've fallen in love with you 0:19:40.600 --> 0:19:43.440 and Joe and seeing two people just not work out. 0:19:44.080 --> 0:19:46.640