WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Moms Night Out

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if this is good or not, but

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<v Speaker 1>the new episode today for your Second Date Update is

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<v Speaker 1>a new single bomb who yes, has only been in

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<v Speaker 1>the dating world a month, and she's already coming to

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<v Speaker 1>us for help. I don't know again if that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good sign or a bad sign, but it's what we're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I really help her.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like getting ahead of problems.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, that's an optimistic for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. And before we

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<v Speaker 3>get to it, let's do some comments.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Marsher said, I almost got fired at work because

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<v Speaker 1>I got caught listening to the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks a lot, Brooke with a frownie face, your followers,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll take it. I'll take it. I really all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Your brand new episode starts right now, Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>in the Morning, Second Date Updates.

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<v Speaker 2>We know dating in general is hard, but dating when

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<v Speaker 2>you have kids makes it way way easier. Oh, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what it is, especially if you can teach your ten

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<v Speaker 2>year old to drive you to the movies, instant chauffeur

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<v Speaker 2>and designated driver. Yeah. Happy, But aiden don't look in

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<v Speaker 2>the rear view mirror. What's happening back there? Because that's

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<v Speaker 2>how you were made little guy. Well, one of our listeners, Savannah,

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<v Speaker 2>is attempting to do it for the very first time,

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<v Speaker 2>dating while having kids. Savannah, you brave, brave soul. Welcome

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<v Speaker 2>to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, You're welcome. Like, that's an interesting perspective you have.

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<v Speaker 2>I know this must be so easy for you right now.

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<v Speaker 2>But tell us about your dating situation. What's going on.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I have two girls, eight and ten, and

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<v Speaker 5>you know, the last few years.

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<v Speaker 4>I've just really been focused on them.

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<v Speaker 5>But I feel like they're at an age that i

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<v Speaker 5>can leave with the babysitter and I'm ready to just

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<v Speaker 5>really get out there and dated.

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<v Speaker 3>At ten years old, I was babysitting. I think you're

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<v Speaker 3>fine about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Part of that's also so how long have you been

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<v Speaker 1>on the scene.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll say, uh, yeah, and you wish I'd say about

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<v Speaker 4>a month?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, I'm so curious, like, because it's obviously

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<v Speaker 1>been a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>What's your take on what's available? How is it working? Well,

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<v Speaker 3>she's calling us after one month.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, it is a little bit different of

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<v Speaker 4>a world out there right now.

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<v Speaker 5>It feels like there's more accessibility, but it also makes

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<v Speaker 5>people a little flakier attached, Okay, very detachable nowadays.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, that's a good way of putting it.

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<v Speaker 3>Who did you go out with? Are we going to

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<v Speaker 3>get to that?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get to the date.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's get to that. Austen. His name is Austin.

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<v Speaker 4>So I went to a rodeo event and he was

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<v Speaker 4>one of like helpers. I don't know if you call

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<v Speaker 4>him handlers.

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<v Speaker 2>D he's working the event.

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<v Speaker 3>Austin is such a cowboy name too.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't know if I call him a cowboy.

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<v Speaker 5>He he helps out and stuff, but it's not like

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<v Speaker 5>his whole persona.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, how did you connect with him at the rodeo?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, he saw me. We just started chatting and

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<v Speaker 4>he gave him my number. It was fun and kind

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<v Speaker 4>of casual and flirty.

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<v Speaker 5>But I did tell him, like straight off the bat,

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<v Speaker 5>like listen, I have two kids.

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<v Speaker 4>If that's not for you, totally cool, that's great. But

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<v Speaker 4>he seemed totally fine with it.

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<v Speaker 3>So what did you guys do? Where'd you go?

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<v Speaker 4>We went out for darks and drinks.

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<v Speaker 2>You're sorry you went what darts and drinks? Darts? I

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<v Speaker 2>thought you said some dark drinks I'm like, oh, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what's darts and drinks?

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<v Speaker 1>I assume playing darts and drinking beers darts and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a real waste of a question, Jeff, Yeah, what

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<v Speaker 1>is it?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, a dark place like the game darts in

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<v Speaker 4>a bar?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh huh?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? And what about the drinks?

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<v Speaker 3>What we want to know about?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know about Okay, no, sure, let's talk

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<v Speaker 2>all about the men. Brookey, Sure, okay. What was this man?

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<v Speaker 7>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>He was great? We just had a pretty casual like appetizers,

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<v Speaker 4>hang out, nice time. I just gotta be honest, like.

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<v Speaker 5>I love my children, but it was really nice just

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<v Speaker 5>to have some time.

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<v Speaker 4>With an adult and feel free and that sort of

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<v Speaker 4>a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure, Especially as a single mom, you never

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<v Speaker 1>get a break.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna clip that audio and play it for your children.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you able to I mean I find like even

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<v Speaker 1>when I go out with my husband on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>like we end up talking about the kids so much?

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<v Speaker 3>Were you able to not do that when you were

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<v Speaker 3>out with Austin?

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<v Speaker 2>That's tricky.

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<v Speaker 4>It did come up a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>But I actually asked him in the beginning, like, please

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<v Speaker 5>help me not do this because I I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 5>get out of mom all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we did a pretty good job.

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<v Speaker 3>Was there any strange moments between you and him?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, not that I can recall it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>we really got along. He asked me if I want

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<v Speaker 4>to go back to his place and hang out some more.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I yeah, the babysitter and said, Mama's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be home late. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>The babysitter got a extra dough.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay. Yeah, so you ended up back at his place.

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<v Speaker 5>I gotta say, for a single guy, his place was

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<v Speaker 5>surprisingly nice.

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<v Speaker 4>So that was great.

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<v Speaker 1>Always a good sign because you don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>a mother to a third child.

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<v Speaker 4>No, yeah, exactly, I have enough enough people to clean

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<v Speaker 4>up after.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So not going to too much detail. How

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<v Speaker 2>did it go back at his place?

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<v Speaker 4>It was good. I mean, he made us some drinks.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like, while he was doing that, I was looking

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<v Speaker 5>through his bookcase and saw his high school yearbook.

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<v Speaker 4>But I thought he was so cute he said that much. Yeah, so,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean he seemed like a little bashful when he

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<v Speaker 4>saw that I had taken it out, But I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think it was a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry. If you're going to put your high school

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<v Speaker 3>yearbook on your books.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, every person that's walking into your apartment is going

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<v Speaker 1>to pick that thing.

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<v Speaker 2>And we would all be embarrassed by our yearbook picks.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, come on, everybody is totally so this all

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<v Speaker 2>sounds very good. How did you two end it?

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<v Speaker 5>We kissed a little bit and he said, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>we'd like to do it again.

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's been five days and he's not making a move

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<v Speaker 5>to ask me out again.

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<v Speaker 3>Here we are push it along.

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<v Speaker 2>We're only going to make you wait a few minutes

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<v Speaker 2>longer before we finally reach out to this guy. We'll

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<v Speaker 2>call Austin and hopefully he picks up and has some

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<v Speaker 2>answers to why he does not want to be the

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<v Speaker 2>father to your two children. Wow, well, okay, maybe that's maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>We should say why he doesn't want to have another

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<v Speaker 3>baby with you. We'll start with.

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<v Speaker 2>You call her friend back. We'll ease into the conversation

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<v Speaker 2>when we do your second date update right after this hold.

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<v Speaker 3>On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Thirty days in in our list, ser Savannah is already

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<v Speaker 2>calling radio shows to assist with her re entry back

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<v Speaker 2>into the dating world.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, yeah, maybe we were one of the reasons she

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<v Speaker 1>was ready to start dating again.

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<v Speaker 3>This show how much how much hope we give people.

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<v Speaker 2>Very optimistic take when you hear all of our second

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<v Speaker 2>date updates. Yeah, but a little you should know about Savannah.

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<v Speaker 2>She has two daughters, aged eight and ten. But there

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<v Speaker 2>is a guy that she's interested in, a guy named Austin,

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<v Speaker 2>and he took her for darts and drinks then back

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<v Speaker 2>to his place. But that was days ago and there

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<v Speaker 2>really hasn't been a lot of communication since. So she's

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<v Speaker 2>looking to us to get a little bit of help, right, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for sure. I'm excited for you, Savannah.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and if this doesn't work out, you're fresh in this.

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<v Speaker 1>There's plenty more fish in the sea.

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<v Speaker 3>Right totally.

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<v Speaker 6>I do understand that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're not ready to move on from this guy

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<v Speaker 2>just yet. We didn't need the plenty of the fish

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<v Speaker 2>talk until we actually talked to.

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<v Speaker 3>Austin mentioned the dating apps yet. I mean there's a

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<v Speaker 3>whole pool men on there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I have been dabbling there, but yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 5>refreshing meeting someone in person, and i'd like to, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>can you just see where that goes?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, Well, let's call Austin, try to get him

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone, and hopefully he hasn't suffered some horrific

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<v Speaker 2>rodeo injury prevented him from dating ever again.

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<v Speaker 3>He was the clown that jumps out of the barrel.

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<v Speaker 2>It does happen. Are you ready for that, Savannah?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we'll see. Let's call his number. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>is this Austin. Yes, you don't have to be scared

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<v Speaker 2>of us. We're just a radio show. We're called Brook

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<v Speaker 2>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, okay, what's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 7>What's going on guys?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, look at that small talk?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's just dive right into this Austin. Because the

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<v Speaker 2>reason why we're calling is this is a segment we do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called a second Date Update. Okay, okay, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>where we try to help out listeners who've gone out

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<v Speaker 2>with someone recently but they're not getting a call back

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<v Speaker 2>for a second meetup. We're trying to figure out if

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<v Speaker 2>there's a reason for it, particularly with you and a

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<v Speaker 2>woman named Savannah.

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<v Speaker 7>What Savannah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>You remember Savannah?

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<v Speaker 7>Right, Yes, I do remember Savannah. I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, she says, you went out on a date recently,

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<v Speaker 2>a date that really stuck out in her mind as

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<v Speaker 2>a good one. Now, granted she hasn't had a ton

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<v Speaker 2>of new dates because she's kind of re entered the

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<v Speaker 2>dating world.

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<v Speaker 3>Why would we set about that, well.

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<v Speaker 2>Just to show that you were great for her re entry.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, she did tell me that she was just starting

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<v Speaker 7>to date. But I mean, this is there's this block

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<v Speaker 7>going on here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, yeah, but we want to hear what you

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<v Speaker 2>thought about Savannah and your time together. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>our ques.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, Well, look, she seemed really nice, I mean, very cool,

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<v Speaker 7>great personality. But the toughest thing about it is that

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<v Speaker 7>she basically when she came over, she found my high

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<v Speaker 7>school yearbook.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, she told us that you had that out

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<v Speaker 1>on your bookshelves. I mean, come on, man, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to put it out there, people are going to

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<v Speaker 1>look at it, right.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean I'm totally fine with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, cool. You brought it up like it was

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<v Speaker 2>an issue though.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, the problem is not so much the seeing of

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<v Speaker 7>the yearbook so much as her fixation on this quote

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<v Speaker 7>from the yearbook.

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<v Speaker 1>A quote, Oh like when you're like a senior and

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<v Speaker 1>you put a quote underneath your name or something like that.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, yeah, And so they put predictions and mine

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<v Speaker 7>said by twenty nine, I'm going to be married and

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<v Speaker 7>have two kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoa they put that in your yearbook.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean I said that a long time ago

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<v Speaker 7>when I was in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>But right when you're at the age that you think

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<v Speaker 1>twenty nine is really sixty four?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think thirty is like a grammar.

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<v Speaker 2>Or you're married of kids by whatever age?

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<v Speaker 7>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So why did she fixate on it? What do

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<v Speaker 3>you mean by that?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, so she reads it and she says, this is funny.

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<v Speaker 7>You're twenty nine now and I have two kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, oh my gosh, wait.

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<v Speaker 7>A minute, Oh exactly that's how I felt.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, oh wait my god, wait what did you feel?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm confused, like funny or stressed? I can't tell.

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<v Speaker 7>No stress stress.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh sssh.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You're assuming she's saying that you two are going to

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<v Speaker 3>get married.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean it's either that or it just feels like

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<v Speaker 7>I'm going to be an instant dad. Either way, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you don't think she was joking.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's being an instant dad? Really the worst thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you don't have to get up in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of the night if you have an eight and

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<v Speaker 1>ten year old. That is like really a bonus. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna say.

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<v Speaker 2>Jump into the easier part of parent.

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<v Speaker 1>You can throw things at them and they'll catch it,

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<v Speaker 1>like balls and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, are we selling you?

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<v Speaker 7>I hear what you're saying in my dream. I mean,

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<v Speaker 7>thank goodness, I need to write this in my yearbook.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I want two boys.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh she has girls.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl, That doesn't mean you can't predict that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean unless you are coming into a relationship that

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<v Speaker 1>already has kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sorry, I mean, who says you can't have more

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<v Speaker 2>kids with her and make your dream control?

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<v Speaker 3>Why are we talking about this right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Know if she would want him to be an act,

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<v Speaker 2>we're talking about his dreams.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait, I know what we're talking about dates now. I'm

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<v Speaker 7>kind to convinced her to have two more kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, okay, fair, maybe this is a lot. What

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<v Speaker 2>we really should be doing probably is telling you that

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<v Speaker 2>Savannah is already on the phone with us right now,

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<v Speaker 2>listening in on this conversation. What Yeah, and she wants

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to you about this? Presumably Savannah, Hey, Austin.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh hey Savannah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, first of all, I'm sorry I freaked you out.

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<v Speaker 6>I just thought it was funny. I was kidding, I

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<v Speaker 6>was I'm not imagining that, you know. I want you

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<v Speaker 6>to meet my kids next week and move in the

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<v Speaker 6>week after. I'm not trying to entrap you or something.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel so bad for not calling you back. I

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<v Speaker 7>just I wish I should have said any of this

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<v Speaker 7>to you. And now here we are, and you know,

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<v Speaker 7>we have an audience, which is cool but so cool.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And I just want to say, because you're not

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<v Speaker 5>a parent, you don't know how awesome it was just

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<v Speaker 5>to have a peaceful, fun night out with you.

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<v Speaker 8>I haven't had that in forever, and and like.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I want. That's where I want to start.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know, I'm on the apps.

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<v Speaker 8>There are plenty of people I could go out with,

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<v Speaker 8>but we met in person. I already know that you

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<v Speaker 8>and I have had fun and have some chemistry and

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<v Speaker 8>I'd rather hang out with you again.

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<v Speaker 7>Right, you have girls? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god? Really, I mean, yes, Austin, I have girls.

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<v Speaker 4>But again, this is a very long down the line conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>If you would ever even meet them, And just like

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<v Speaker 5>even just saying we're not that old. If down the

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<v Speaker 5>line it became a thing. I mean the best part

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<v Speaker 5>of having lots of kids is making them so.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a posse of more children maybe eventually.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure it's science that the more you want

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<v Speaker 1>one gender, the more likely it is you have the opposite.

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<v Speaker 3>Really need says that.

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<v Speaker 7>Man, I get yeah, I mean, I'd love to go

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<v Speaker 7>back out because you. I had such a good time too,

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<v Speaker 7>But I just I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know that she asked you.

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<v Speaker 7>Father.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll take it from here, Austin. So what we're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to do in this whole segment is trying to set

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<v Speaker 2>you up with one more date with Savannah.

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<v Speaker 3>Just Savannah, not the children.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have to worry about fatherhood down the road

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<v Speaker 2>or the future boys that you want to have. Just

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<v Speaker 2>think about one more date, just you and Savannah, and

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<v Speaker 2>if you're open to it, we would pay for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully this entire conversation has given you less stress about

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<v Speaker 2>the idea of dating and fathering future kids, only a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit more.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it's cool, I do want to go back out

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<v Speaker 7>with Savannah.

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<v Speaker 9>Yes, okay, okay, yeah, cool, that's great, And listen my

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<v Speaker 9>oldest did say that you look like a less creepy

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<v Speaker 9>version for her school principal, which in tween translation means

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<v Speaker 9>she thinks you seem cool and cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, her daughter approves of you, Austin. How does

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<v Speaker 2>that feel?

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<v Speaker 7>Is good? I will take it, and like you said,

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<v Speaker 7>we'll just kind of I'm gonna stay in my head

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<v Speaker 7>and we'll try to take it well.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't play this recording for your daughter. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing about him wanting only boys is not

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<v Speaker 1>going to sit well with the ten year old.

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<v Speaker 4>Fair very fair.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye so Savannah, that means, congratulations, you got yourself one

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<v Speaker 2>more date with Austin.

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<v Speaker 4>Yay cool, Thank you so much for the help. I

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<v Speaker 4>appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's awesome. We're here for jose will babysit for you.

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<v Speaker 2>We got love that, We got love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Got a text into seven eighty five nine two that

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<v Speaker 2>says I ended up reading my husband's high school yearbook

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<v Speaker 2>after we were married. Turns out he was voted most

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<v Speaker 2>likely to end up in prison.

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<v Speaker 3>Either saved them or you're making conjugal visits right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Three years later, they were right.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, wait, okay, and we would option be.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Man senior superlatives. It's interesting how accurate they really

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<v Speaker 2>can do. But hopefully we'll get an update from the

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<v Speaker 2>two of them soon and see if any of his

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<v Speaker 2>high school predictions or dreams eventually came true.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they're actually pretty cute together. So cute did

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<v Speaker 1>and he overanalyzed more than a typical woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, did any of our high school predictions come true?

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<v Speaker 9>Does it?

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<v Speaker 3>Remember I was supposed to be a pro athlete something

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<v Speaker 3>they said for me. Oh yeah, hey, but you're coaching

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<v Speaker 3>high school tracks.

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<v Speaker 2>I know in high school, I predicted that millions of

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<v Speaker 2>people would subscribe to our podcast at Brooke and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>You knew it was going to be on this show.

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<v Speaker 2>The podcasts weren't even invented yet, but we make this

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