Speaker 1: I don't know if this is good or not, but
Speaker 1: the new episode today for your Second Date Update is
Speaker 1: a new single bomb who yes, has only been in
Speaker 1: the dating world a month, and she's already coming to
Speaker 1: us for help. I don't know again if that's a
Speaker 1: good sign or a bad sign, but it's what we're doing,
Speaker 1: and I really help her.
Speaker 2: She's like getting ahead of problems.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that's an optimistic for sure.
Speaker 3: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. And before we
Speaker 3: get to it, let's do some comments.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Marsher said, I almost got fired at work because
Speaker 1: I got caught listening to the Second Date Update.
Speaker 3: Thanks a lot, Brooke with a frownie face, your followers,
Speaker 3: I'll take it. I'll take it. I really all right.
Speaker 3: Your brand new episode starts right now, Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 3: in the Morning, Second Date Updates.
Speaker 2: We know dating in general is hard, but dating when
Speaker 2: you have kids makes it way way easier. Oh, that's
Speaker 2: what it is, especially if you can teach your ten
Speaker 2: year old to drive you to the movies, instant chauffeur
Speaker 2: and designated driver. Yeah. Happy, But aiden don't look in
Speaker 2: the rear view mirror. What's happening back there? Because that's
Speaker 2: how you were made little guy. Well, one of our listeners, Savannah,
Speaker 2: is attempting to do it for the very first time,
Speaker 2: dating while having kids. Savannah, you brave, brave soul. Welcome
Speaker 2: to the show.
Speaker 4: Thank you, You're welcome. Like, that's an interesting perspective you have.
Speaker 2: I know this must be so easy for you right now.
Speaker 2: But tell us about your dating situation. What's going on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I have two girls, eight and ten, and
Speaker 5: you know, the last few years.
Speaker 4: I've just really been focused on them.
Speaker 5: But I feel like they're at an age that i
Speaker 5: can leave with the babysitter and I'm ready to just
Speaker 5: really get out there and dated.
Speaker 3: At ten years old, I was babysitting. I think you're
Speaker 3: fine about that.
Speaker 1: Part of that's also so how long have you been
Speaker 1: on the scene.
Speaker 4: We'll say, uh, yeah, and you wish I'd say about
Speaker 4: a month?
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I'm so curious, like, because it's obviously
Speaker 1: been a long time.
Speaker 3: What's your take on what's available? How is it working? Well,
Speaker 3: she's calling us after one month.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it is a little bit different of
Speaker 4: a world out there right now.
Speaker 5: It feels like there's more accessibility, but it also makes
Speaker 5: people a little flakier attached, Okay, very detachable nowadays.
Speaker 6: Yes, that's a good way of putting it.
Speaker 3: Who did you go out with? Are we going to
Speaker 3: get to that?
Speaker 2: Let's get to the date.
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's get to that. Austen. His name is Austin.
Speaker 4: So I went to a rodeo event and he was
Speaker 4: one of like helpers. I don't know if you call
Speaker 4: him handlers.
Speaker 2: D he's working the event.
Speaker 3: Austin is such a cowboy name too.
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know if I call him a cowboy.
Speaker 5: He he helps out and stuff, but it's not like
Speaker 5: his whole persona.
Speaker 3: Okay, how did you connect with him at the rodeo?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 4: You know, he saw me. We just started chatting and
Speaker 4: he gave him my number. It was fun and kind
Speaker 4: of casual and flirty.
Speaker 5: But I did tell him, like straight off the bat,
Speaker 5: like listen, I have two kids.
Speaker 4: If that's not for you, totally cool, that's great. But
Speaker 4: he seemed totally fine with it.
Speaker 3: So what did you guys do? Where'd you go?
Speaker 4: We went out for darks and drinks.
Speaker 2: You're sorry you went what darts and drinks? Darts? I
Speaker 2: thought you said some dark drinks I'm like, oh, yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: what's darts and drinks?
Speaker 1: I assume playing darts and drinking beers darts and yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a real waste of a question, Jeff, Yeah, what
Speaker 1: is it?
Speaker 4: You know, a dark place like the game darts in
Speaker 4: a bar?
Speaker 7: Uh huh?
Speaker 2: Okay? And what about the drinks?
Speaker 3: What we want to know about?
Speaker 2: I want to know about Okay, no, sure, let's talk
Speaker 2: all about the men. Brookey, Sure, okay. What was this man?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 4: He was great? We just had a pretty casual like appetizers,
Speaker 4: hang out, nice time. I just gotta be honest, like.
Speaker 5: I love my children, but it was really nice just
Speaker 5: to have some time.
Speaker 4: With an adult and feel free and that sort of
Speaker 4: a thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, Especially as a single mom, you never
Speaker 1: get a break.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna clip that audio and play it for your children.
Speaker 1: Were you able to I mean I find like even
Speaker 1: when I go out with my husband on a date,
Speaker 1: like we end up talking about the kids so much?
Speaker 3: Were you able to not do that when you were
Speaker 3: out with Austin?
Speaker 2: That's tricky.
Speaker 4: It did come up a little bit.
Speaker 5: But I actually asked him in the beginning, like, please
Speaker 5: help me not do this because I I'm trying to
Speaker 5: get out of mom all the time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we did a pretty good job.
Speaker 3: Was there any strange moments between you and him?
Speaker 4: I mean, not that I can recall it. I mean,
Speaker 4: we really got along. He asked me if I want
Speaker 4: to go back to his place and hang out some more.
Speaker 1: No, I yeah, the babysitter and said, Mama's going to
Speaker 1: be home late. Yeah.
Speaker 4: The babysitter got a extra dough.
Speaker 2: Oh okay. Yeah, so you ended up back at his place.
Speaker 5: I gotta say, for a single guy, his place was
Speaker 5: surprisingly nice.
Speaker 4: So that was great.
Speaker 1: Always a good sign because you don't want to be
Speaker 1: a mother to a third child.
Speaker 4: No, yeah, exactly, I have enough enough people to clean
Speaker 4: up after.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: All right, So not going to too much detail. How
Speaker 2: did it go back at his place?
Speaker 4: It was good. I mean, he made us some drinks.
Speaker 5: It's like, while he was doing that, I was looking
Speaker 5: through his bookcase and saw his high school yearbook.
Speaker 4: But I thought he was so cute he said that much. Yeah, so,
Speaker 4: I mean he seemed like a little bashful when he
Speaker 4: saw that I had taken it out, But I don't
Speaker 4: think it was a big deal.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. If you're going to put your high school
Speaker 3: yearbook on your books.
Speaker 1: Yeah, every person that's walking into your apartment is going
Speaker 1: to pick that thing.
Speaker 2: And we would all be embarrassed by our yearbook picks.
Speaker 2: I mean, come on, everybody is totally so this all
Speaker 2: sounds very good. How did you two end it?
Speaker 5: We kissed a little bit and he said, you know,
Speaker 5: we'd like to do it again.
Speaker 4: And I don't know.
Speaker 5: It's been five days and he's not making a move
Speaker 5: to ask me out again.
Speaker 3: Here we are push it along.
Speaker 2: We're only going to make you wait a few minutes
Speaker 2: longer before we finally reach out to this guy. We'll
Speaker 2: call Austin and hopefully he picks up and has some
Speaker 2: answers to why he does not want to be the
Speaker 2: father to your two children. Wow, well, okay, maybe that's maybe.
Speaker 3: We should say why he doesn't want to have another
Speaker 3: baby with you. We'll start with.
Speaker 2: You call her friend back. We'll ease into the conversation
Speaker 2: when we do your second date update right after this hold.
Speaker 3: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: Second date update.
Speaker 2: Thirty days in in our list, ser Savannah is already
Speaker 2: calling radio shows to assist with her re entry back
Speaker 2: into the dating world.
Speaker 1: Hey, yeah, maybe we were one of the reasons she
Speaker 1: was ready to start dating again.
Speaker 3: This show how much how much hope we give people.
Speaker 2: Very optimistic take when you hear all of our second
Speaker 2: date updates. Yeah, but a little you should know about Savannah.
Speaker 2: She has two daughters, aged eight and ten. But there
Speaker 2: is a guy that she's interested in, a guy named Austin,
Speaker 2: and he took her for darts and drinks then back
Speaker 2: to his place. But that was days ago and there
Speaker 2: really hasn't been a lot of communication since. So she's
Speaker 2: looking to us to get a little bit of help, right, Brooke.
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. I'm excited for you, Savannah.
Speaker 6: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and if this doesn't work out, you're fresh in this.
Speaker 1: There's plenty more fish in the sea.
Speaker 3: Right totally.
Speaker 6: I do understand that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not ready to move on from this guy
Speaker 2: just yet. We didn't need the plenty of the fish
Speaker 2: talk until we actually talked to.
Speaker 3: Austin mentioned the dating apps yet. I mean there's a
Speaker 3: whole pool men on there.
Speaker 5: Yes, I have been dabbling there, but yeah, it was
Speaker 5: refreshing meeting someone in person, and i'd like to, you know,
Speaker 5: can you just see where that goes?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well, let's call Austin, try to get him
Speaker 2: on the phone, and hopefully he hasn't suffered some horrific
Speaker 2: rodeo injury prevented him from dating ever again.
Speaker 3: He was the clown that jumps out of the barrel.
Speaker 2: It does happen. Are you ready for that, Savannah?
Speaker 3: I'm ready.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see. Let's call his number. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 2: is this Austin. Yes, you don't have to be scared
Speaker 2: of us. We're just a radio show. We're called Brook
Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 7: Okay, okay, what's up?
Speaker 2: Good morning?
Speaker 7: What's going on guys?
Speaker 3: Hey, look at that small talk?
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's just dive right into this Austin. Because the
Speaker 2: reason why we're calling is this is a segment we do.
Speaker 2: It's called a second Date Update. Okay, okay, and that's
Speaker 2: where we try to help out listeners who've gone out
Speaker 2: with someone recently but they're not getting a call back
Speaker 2: for a second meetup. We're trying to figure out if
Speaker 2: there's a reason for it, particularly with you and a
Speaker 2: woman named Savannah.
Speaker 7: What Savannah?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: You remember Savannah?
Speaker 7: Right, Yes, I do remember Savannah. I'm confused.
Speaker 2: Well, she says, you went out on a date recently,
Speaker 2: a date that really stuck out in her mind as
Speaker 2: a good one. Now, granted she hasn't had a ton
Speaker 2: of new dates because she's kind of re entered the
Speaker 2: dating world.
Speaker 3: Why would we set about that, well.
Speaker 2: Just to show that you were great for her re entry.
Speaker 7: Well, she did tell me that she was just starting
Speaker 7: to date. But I mean, this is there's this block
Speaker 7: going on here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, but we want to hear what you
Speaker 2: thought about Savannah and your time together. That's kind of
Speaker 2: our ques.
Speaker 7: Okay, Well, look, she seemed really nice, I mean, very cool,
Speaker 7: great personality. But the toughest thing about it is that
Speaker 7: she basically when she came over, she found my high
Speaker 7: school yearbook.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she told us that you had that out
Speaker 1: on your bookshelves. I mean, come on, man, if you're
Speaker 1: going to put it out there, people are going to
Speaker 1: look at it, right.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I'm totally fine with that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, cool. You brought it up like it was
Speaker 2: an issue though.
Speaker 7: Well, the problem is not so much the seeing of
Speaker 7: the yearbook so much as her fixation on this quote
Speaker 7: from the yearbook.
Speaker 1: A quote, Oh like when you're like a senior and
Speaker 1: you put a quote underneath your name or something like that.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, And so they put predictions and mine
Speaker 7: said by twenty nine, I'm going to be married and
Speaker 7: have two kids.
Speaker 3: Whoa they put that in your yearbook.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I said that a long time ago
Speaker 7: when I was in high school.
Speaker 1: But right when you're at the age that you think
Speaker 1: twenty nine is really sixty four?
Speaker 3: Do you think thirty is like a grammar.
Speaker 2: Or you're married of kids by whatever age?
Speaker 7: Right?
Speaker 3: Yeah, So why did she fixate on it? What do
Speaker 3: you mean by that?
Speaker 7: Well, so she reads it and she says, this is funny.
Speaker 7: You're twenty nine now and I have two kids.
Speaker 2: Oh, oh my gosh, wait.
Speaker 7: A minute, Oh exactly that's how I felt.
Speaker 3: Okay, oh wait my god, wait what did you feel?
Speaker 3: I'm confused, like funny or stressed? I can't tell.
Speaker 7: No stress stress.
Speaker 3: Oh sssh.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: You're assuming she's saying that you two are going to
Speaker 3: get married.
Speaker 7: I mean it's either that or it just feels like
Speaker 7: I'm going to be an instant dad. Either way, Oh.
Speaker 3: Okay, you don't think she was joking.
Speaker 2: And it's being an instant dad? Really the worst thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't have to get up in the
Speaker 1: middle of the night if you have an eight and
Speaker 1: ten year old. That is like really a bonus. I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna say.
Speaker 2: Jump into the easier part of parent.
Speaker 1: You can throw things at them and they'll catch it,
Speaker 1: like balls and stuff.
Speaker 2: You know, are we selling you?
Speaker 7: I hear what you're saying in my dream. I mean,
Speaker 7: thank goodness, I need to write this in my yearbook.
Speaker 7: I mean, I want two boys.
Speaker 2: Oh she has girls.
Speaker 3: Girl, That doesn't mean you can't predict that.
Speaker 1: I mean unless you are coming into a relationship that
Speaker 1: already has kids.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, I mean, who says you can't have more
Speaker 2: kids with her and make your dream control?
Speaker 3: Why are we talking about this right now?
Speaker 2: Know if she would want him to be an act,
Speaker 2: we're talking about his dreams.
Speaker 7: Wait, I know what we're talking about dates now. I'm
Speaker 7: kind to convinced her to have two more kids.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, okay, fair, maybe this is a lot. What
Speaker 2: we really should be doing probably is telling you that
Speaker 2: Savannah is already on the phone with us right now,
Speaker 2: listening in on this conversation. What Yeah, and she wants
Speaker 2: to talk to you about this? Presumably Savannah, Hey, Austin.
Speaker 7: Oh hey Savannah.
Speaker 4: Well, first of all, I'm sorry I freaked you out.
Speaker 6: I just thought it was funny. I was kidding, I
Speaker 6: was I'm not imagining that, you know. I want you
Speaker 6: to meet my kids next week and move in the
Speaker 6: week after. I'm not trying to entrap you or something.
Speaker 7: I feel so bad for not calling you back. I
Speaker 7: just I wish I should have said any of this
Speaker 7: to you. And now here we are, and you know,
Speaker 7: we have an audience, which is cool but so cool.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I just want to say, because you're not
Speaker 5: a parent, you don't know how awesome it was just
Speaker 5: to have a peaceful, fun night out with you.
Speaker 8: I haven't had that in forever, and and like.
Speaker 4: That's what I want. That's where I want to start.
Speaker 4: And you know, I'm on the apps.
Speaker 8: There are plenty of people I could go out with,
Speaker 8: but we met in person. I already know that you
Speaker 8: and I have had fun and have some chemistry and
Speaker 8: I'd rather hang out with you again.
Speaker 7: Right, you have girls? Right?
Speaker 4: Oh my god? Really, I mean, yes, Austin, I have girls.
Speaker 4: But again, this is a very long down the line conversation.
Speaker 5: If you would ever even meet them, And just like
Speaker 5: even just saying we're not that old. If down the
Speaker 5: line it became a thing. I mean the best part
Speaker 5: of having lots of kids is making them so.
Speaker 4: I have a posse of more children maybe eventually.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it's science that the more you want
Speaker 1: one gender, the more likely it is you have the opposite.
Speaker 3: Really need says that.
Speaker 7: Man, I get yeah, I mean, I'd love to go
Speaker 7: back out because you. I had such a good time too,
Speaker 7: But I just I.
Speaker 3: Don't know that she asked you.
Speaker 7: Father.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I'll take it from here, Austin. So what we're trying
Speaker 2: to do in this whole segment is trying to set
Speaker 2: you up with one more date with Savannah.
Speaker 3: Just Savannah, not the children.
Speaker 2: You don't have to worry about fatherhood down the road
Speaker 2: or the future boys that you want to have. Just
Speaker 2: think about one more date, just you and Savannah, and
Speaker 2: if you're open to it, we would pay for that.
Speaker 2: Hopefully this entire conversation has given you less stress about
Speaker 2: the idea of dating and fathering future kids, only a
Speaker 2: little bit more.
Speaker 7: No, it's cool, I do want to go back out
Speaker 7: with Savannah.
Speaker 9: Yes, okay, okay, yeah, cool, that's great, And listen my
Speaker 9: oldest did say that you look like a less creepy
Speaker 9: version for her school principal, which in tween translation means
Speaker 9: she thinks you seem cool and cute.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, her daughter approves of you, Austin. How does
Speaker 2: that feel?
Speaker 7: Is good? I will take it, and like you said,
Speaker 7: we'll just kind of I'm gonna stay in my head
Speaker 7: and we'll try to take it well.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't play this recording for your daughter. I mean,
Speaker 1: the whole thing about him wanting only boys is not
Speaker 1: going to sit well with the ten year old.
Speaker 4: Fair very fair.
Speaker 2: Ye so Savannah, that means, congratulations, you got yourself one
Speaker 2: more date with Austin.
Speaker 4: Yay cool, Thank you so much for the help. I
Speaker 4: appreciate it.
Speaker 3: That's awesome. We're here for jose will babysit for you.
Speaker 2: We got love that, We got love that.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Got a text into seven eighty five nine two that
Speaker 2: says I ended up reading my husband's high school yearbook
Speaker 2: after we were married. Turns out he was voted most
Speaker 2: likely to end up in prison.
Speaker 3: Either saved them or you're making conjugal visits right now.
Speaker 2: Three years later, they were right.
Speaker 3: Oh, wait, okay, and we would option be.
Speaker 2: Oh Man senior superlatives. It's interesting how accurate they really
Speaker 2: can do. But hopefully we'll get an update from the
Speaker 2: two of them soon and see if any of his
Speaker 2: high school predictions or dreams eventually came true.
Speaker 1: I think they're actually pretty cute together. So cute did
Speaker 1: and he overanalyzed more than a typical woman.
Speaker 2: Yes, did any of our high school predictions come true?
Speaker 9: Does it?
Speaker 3: Remember I was supposed to be a pro athlete something
Speaker 3: they said for me. Oh yeah, hey, but you're coaching
Speaker 3: high school tracks.
Speaker 2: I know in high school, I predicted that millions of
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