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Speaker 1: the new episode today for your Second Date Update is

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Speaker 1: a new single bomb who yes, has only been in

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Speaker 1: the dating world a month, and she's already coming to

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Speaker 1: us for help. I don't know again if that's a

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Speaker 1: good sign or a bad sign, but it's what we're doing,

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Speaker 1: and I really help her.

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Speaker 2: She's like getting ahead of problems.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that's an optimistic for sure.

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Speaker 3: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. And before we

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Speaker 3: get to it, let's do some comments.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Marsher said, I almost got fired at work because

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Speaker 1: I got caught listening to the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 3: Thanks a lot, Brooke with a frownie face, your followers,

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Speaker 3: I'll take it. I'll take it. I really all right.

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Speaker 3: Your brand new episode starts right now, Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: in the Morning, Second Date Updates.

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Speaker 2: We know dating in general is hard, but dating when

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Speaker 2: you have kids makes it way way easier. Oh, that's

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Speaker 2: what it is, especially if you can teach your ten

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Speaker 2: and designated driver. Yeah. Happy, But aiden don't look in

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Speaker 2: the rear view mirror. What's happening back there? Because that's

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Speaker 2: how you were made little guy. Well, one of our listeners, Savannah,

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Speaker 2: is attempting to do it for the very first time,

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Speaker 2: dating while having kids. Savannah, you brave, brave soul. Welcome

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Speaker 4: Thank you, You're welcome. Like, that's an interesting perspective you have.

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Speaker 2: I know this must be so easy for you right now.

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Speaker 2: But tell us about your dating situation. What's going on.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I have two girls, eight and ten, and

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Speaker 4: I've just really been focused on them.

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Speaker 5: But I feel like they're at an age that i

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Speaker 3: At ten years old, I was babysitting. I think you're

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Speaker 1: Part of that's also so how long have you been

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Speaker 4: We'll say, uh, yeah, and you wish I'd say about

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Speaker 4: a month?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I'm so curious, like, because it's obviously

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Speaker 3: What's your take on what's available? How is it working? Well,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it is a little bit different of

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Speaker 5: It feels like there's more accessibility, but it also makes

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Speaker 6: Yes, that's a good way of putting it.

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Speaker 3: Who did you go out with? Are we going to

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Speaker 2: Let's get to the date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let's get to that. Austen. His name is Austin.

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Speaker 4: So I went to a rodeo event and he was

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Speaker 3: Austin is such a cowboy name too.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know if I call him a cowboy.

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Speaker 5: He he helps out and stuff, but it's not like

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Speaker 4: You know, he saw me. We just started chatting and

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Speaker 4: If that's not for you, totally cool, that's great. But

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Speaker 3: So what did you guys do? Where'd you go?

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Speaker 4: We went out for darks and drinks.

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Speaker 2: You're sorry you went what darts and drinks? Darts? I

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Speaker 1: I assume playing darts and drinking beers darts and yeah,

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Speaker 2: Okay? And what about the drinks?

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Speaker 4: He was great? We just had a pretty casual like appetizers,

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Speaker 1: Were you able to I mean I find like even

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Speaker 3: Were you able to not do that when you were

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we did a pretty good job.

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Speaker 3: Was there any strange moments between you and him?

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Speaker 4: I mean, not that I can recall it. I mean,

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Speaker 4: The babysitter got a extra dough.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay. Yeah, so you ended up back at his place.

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Speaker 4: No, yeah, exactly, I have enough enough people to clean

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Speaker 4: It was good. I mean, he made us some drinks.

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Speaker 4: But I thought he was so cute he said that much. Yeah, so,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. If you're going to put your high school

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Speaker 1: Yeah, every person that's walking into your apartment is going

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Speaker 2: And we would all be embarrassed by our yearbook picks.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, everybody is totally so this all

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Speaker 5: We kissed a little bit and he said, you know,

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Speaker 4: And I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It's been five days and he's not making a move

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Speaker 3: Here we are push it along.

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Speaker 2: We're only going to make you wait a few minutes

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Speaker 3: We should say why he doesn't want to have another

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Speaker 2: You call her friend back. We'll ease into the conversation

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Speaker 3: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 7: Second date update.

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Speaker 2: Thirty days in in our list, ser Savannah is already

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Speaker 1: Hey, yeah, maybe we were one of the reasons she

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Speaker 3: This show how much how much hope we give people.

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Speaker 2: Very optimistic take when you hear all of our second

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Speaker 2: She has two daughters, aged eight and ten. But there

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Speaker 2: and he took her for darts and drinks then back

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Speaker 2: looking to us to get a little bit of help, right, Brooke.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. I'm excited for you, Savannah.

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and if this doesn't work out, you're fresh in this.

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Speaker 1: There's plenty more fish in the sea.

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Speaker 3: Right totally.

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Speaker 6: I do understand that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well, let's call Austin, try to get him

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Speaker 3: He was the clown that jumps out of the barrel.

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Speaker 2: It does happen. Are you ready for that, Savannah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see. Let's call his number. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 2: is this Austin. Yes, you don't have to be scared

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Good morning?

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Speaker 7: What's going on guys?

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Speaker 3: Hey, look at that small talk?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's just dive right into this Austin. Because the

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Speaker 2: It's called a second Date Update. Okay, okay, and that's

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Speaker 2: there's a reason for it, particularly with you and a

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Speaker 7: What Savannah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You remember Savannah?

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Speaker 7: Right, Yes, I do remember Savannah. I'm confused.

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Speaker 2: Well, she says, you went out on a date recently,

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Speaker 3: Why would we set about that, well.

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Speaker 2: Just to show that you were great for her re entry.

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Speaker 7: Well, she did tell me that she was just starting

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, but we want to hear what you

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I'm totally fine with that.

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Speaker 7: Well, the problem is not so much the seeing of

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, And so they put predictions and mine

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Speaker 3: Whoa they put that in your yearbook.

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Speaker 7: Well, so she reads it and she says, this is funny.

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Speaker 7: You're twenty nine now and I have two kids.

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Speaker 7: A minute, Oh exactly that's how I felt.

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Speaker 3: I'm confused, like funny or stressed? I can't tell.

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Speaker 7: No stress stress.

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Speaker 3: Oh sssh.

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Speaker 3: You're assuming she's saying that you two are going to

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Speaker 7: I mean it's either that or it just feels like

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Speaker 2: And it's being an instant dad? Really the worst thing.

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Speaker 2: Jump into the easier part of parent.

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Speaker 1: You can throw things at them and they'll catch it,

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Speaker 2: You know, are we selling you?

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Speaker 7: I hear what you're saying in my dream. I mean,

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Speaker 7: I mean, I want two boys.

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Speaker 3: Girl, That doesn't mean you can't predict that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, I mean, who says you can't have more

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Speaker 3: Why are we talking about this right now?

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Speaker 2: Know if she would want him to be an act,

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Speaker 7: Wait, I know what we're talking about dates now. I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, okay, fair, maybe this is a lot. What

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Speaker 7: Oh hey Savannah.

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Speaker 4: Well, first of all, I'm sorry I freaked you out.

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Speaker 6: I just thought it was funny. I was kidding, I

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Speaker 7: I feel so bad for not calling you back. I

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Speaker 7: just I wish I should have said any of this

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And I just want to say, because you're not

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Speaker 8: I haven't had that in forever, and and like.

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Speaker 4: That's what I want. That's where I want to start.

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Speaker 8: There are plenty of people I could go out with,

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Speaker 8: I'd rather hang out with you again.

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Speaker 7: Right, you have girls? Right?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god? Really, I mean, yes, Austin, I have girls.

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Speaker 4: But again, this is a very long down the line conversation.

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Speaker 5: If you would ever even meet them, And just like

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Speaker 4: I have a posse of more children maybe eventually.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it's science that the more you want

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Speaker 3: Really need says that.

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Speaker 7: Man, I get yeah, I mean, I'd love to go

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Speaker 3: Don't know that she asked you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'll take it from here, Austin. So what we're trying

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Speaker 3: Just Savannah, not the children.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to worry about fatherhood down the road

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Speaker 2: if you're open to it, we would pay for that.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully this entire conversation has given you less stress about

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Speaker 7: No, it's cool, I do want to go back out

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Speaker 9: Yes, okay, okay, yeah, cool, that's great, And listen my

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, her daughter approves of you, Austin. How does

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Speaker 7: Is good? I will take it, and like you said,

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Speaker 7: we'll just kind of I'm gonna stay in my head

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't play this recording for your daughter. I mean,

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Speaker 4: Fair very fair.

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Speaker 2: Ye so Savannah, that means, congratulations, you got yourself one

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Speaker 4: Yay cool, Thank you so much for the help. I

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Speaker 3: That's awesome. We're here for jose will babysit for you.

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Speaker 2: We got love that, We got love that.

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Got a text into seven eighty five nine two that

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Speaker 2: says I ended up reading my husband's high school yearbook

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Speaker 2: after we were married. Turns out he was voted most

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Speaker 3: Either saved them or you're making conjugal visits right now.

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Speaker 2: Three years later, they were right.

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Speaker 3: Oh, wait, okay, and we would option be.

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Speaker 2: Oh Man senior superlatives. It's interesting how accurate they really

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Speaker 2: can do. But hopefully we'll get an update from the

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Speaker 1: I think they're actually pretty cute together. So cute did

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Speaker 1: and he overanalyzed more than a typical woman.

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Speaker 2: Yes, did any of our high school predictions come true?

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Speaker 9: Does it?

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Speaker 3: Remember I was supposed to be a pro athlete something

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Speaker 3: they said for me. Oh yeah, hey, but you're coaching

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Speaker 2: I know in high school, I predicted that millions of

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Speaker 2: people would subscribe to our podcast at Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: You knew it was going to be on this show.

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Speaker 2: The podcasts weren't even invented yet, but we make this

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Speaker 2: little boys high school dreams come true. Follow us online

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Speaker 2: you get yours at Brooke and Jeffrey