1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com. All 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: you have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter. We 5 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: like we're going to read this one right here, right now, 7 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: and you never know. It could be yours. 8 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: Thank you. A few subjects. He doesn't want me and 11 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: she doesn't either. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for 12 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: almost ten years to a man that has a wandering eye. 13 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: I believe that he has cheated on me multiple times, 14 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: but I could never prove anything. At one point, we 15 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: hadn't had sex in over five months, so I started 16 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 1: sleeping with one of my female co workers, and I 17 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: got so frustrated with my husband that I moved out 18 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,599 Speaker 1: and I lived with my coworker for three months. Our 19 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: sex life went south after about a month, but she 20 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: told me that I did not have to leave. While 21 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: I was living with her, my husband came to talk 22 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: to me several times, and he asked me to come 23 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: back home. I kept saying no. Then he stopped begging 24 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,279 Speaker 1: me to come home, and he unfollowed me on social media. 25 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: I wasn't blocked on his phone, but he stopped answering 26 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: my calls. My coworker that I moved in with decided 27 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: that she was getting back with her ex husband and 28 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: they were moving back in together. I had nowhere to go, 29 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: so I had to crawl my way back to my husband. 30 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: It had only been three months, so I thought it 31 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: would be easy to go back home, but he told 32 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: me that he had a new woman and she was 33 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: taking great care of him. I told him he was 34 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: still married to me, so the woman had to go. 35 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: He let me know that he knew that I was 36 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: sleeping with my coworker while I was living with her. 37 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 1: He said my coworker had begged him to let me 38 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: come back home because she wanted me out of her house. 39 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: My husband said, I can move back home, but he's 40 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: staying with his new girlfriend. How can he admit that 41 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: he's cheating on me and I have to accept it. 42 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: Do I swallow my pride and stay with my man? 43 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: Or do I face embarrassment and go stay with my 44 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: parents for a while. What a mess this is. To 45 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: answer these questions depends now on what you want, and 46 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: you have to face the fact that this marriage is over. 47 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: For the most part, this marriage is over. You both 48 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: have been disrespectful to each other. You with sleeping and 49 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: living with your coworker, him with cheating in the ten 50 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: years of your marriage. You say, but this is your life. 51 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: I mean, it is a mess right now, and you've 52 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: got to figure it out and get it together. You 53 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: and your husband need to have a conversation. But his 54 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: mind is really already made up. You called him your man, 55 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: but he's living with another woman, who he said takes 56 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: great care of him, so he really has no reason 57 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: to come back now. He's her man. In other words, 58 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: he has moved on, and I think you should too. 59 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: You're at the house by yourself, so why don't you 60 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: just stay there, try to get your life together. You 61 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: don't have to go live with your parents. You can 62 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: stay in the house. He's not there anyway, So you know, 63 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: you asked, how could your husband admit he's cheating and 64 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 1: you have to accept it. You don't have to accept it. 65 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: You accepted it before back in the day. But you don't. Now, 66 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: the only thing you have to accept is the fact 67 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: that your marriage is over. Your husband is gone. So 68 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: now what are you gonna do? Steve? 69 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 3: I won't to spread the news that if you feel 70 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 3: there's a good getting used. 71 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 2: Oh, you just keep on using me. 72 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 3: He until you use me boom boom boom on until 73 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 3: you use me up? Where are you being used up? Now? 74 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 2: Just thought I had to give you a little song 75 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: for it. 76 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: This is a letter about a tragedy of a series 77 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 3: of stupid decisions everybody in this letter made. And now 78 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 3: I ain't nobody gonna get nothing. But there's always a 79 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 3: common denominator in every situation. And once you find the 80 00:03:56,240 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 3: common denominator, you did find the source of the problem. 81 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 3: Who is common denominator the lady that wrote the letter? 82 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 2: Why? 83 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 3: Because she is in all the relationships. She is the 84 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 3: one person that's in all the relationships. She's been married 85 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 3: for ten years to a man who's got a wandering eye. 86 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 3: She thinks she'd been cheated on him several times, but 87 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 3: she couldn't prove nothing. 88 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 2: Well, that's cause you're stupid. 89 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 3: If you've been cheated on several times and you can't 90 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 3: prove nothing, but you think he has. Man, You stupid, 91 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 3: because it's hard to get away with the over and 92 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 3: over and over and over and over. Women are too small. 93 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 3: You can get away with once or twice. You know, 94 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 3: cut your losses, get on out. But now if you 95 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 3: keep on, man, they gonna double down on you. Then 96 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 3: at one point they hadn't had sex for five months. 97 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 3: The lady's say, so she started sleeping with her female coworker. 98 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 2: How that conversation gets started? Girl, you know, kill my man. 99 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 3: We just having some of the troubles, girl, and you 100 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 3: know he's slept with me and I think he was cheating, 101 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 3: and then you know, and then all of a sudden, 102 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 3: she started rubbing your thigh. You know. Wife here, this 103 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 3: is the wife talking to the coworker. You know, he 104 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:12,919 Speaker 3: just it just wasn't going right. Now. 105 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: I don't know what is happening. Why is she rubbing 106 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 2: my thigh? 107 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 3: But go ahead, baby, just talk and my husband, you know, 108 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 3: he ain't slept with me in five months. And you're 109 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 3: a little high. Now you're a little high. You rubbing my thigh. 110 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 3: You're high? And anyway, you know my husband. Wait, boy, hey, 111 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 3: you're back up there. You're too close I keep telling 112 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 3: you you're too high, and then so me and my 113 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 3: husband we have these marital problems. Waitmanute, baby, hold up, 114 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 3: I just told you you're there. 115 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 2: You're there. Now you're touching me that you got to stop. Baby. Yeah, 116 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 2: I move in with you Friday, Friday. Say that happened. 117 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 2: That's all that happened. 118 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 3: So now you done told your coworkers all your woes 119 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 3: in trouble. 120 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 2: She'd have rubbed your thigh. Now you have moved in 121 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 2: with your coworker. Who is email. That's your business. 122 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 3: But now we got a situation. When we come back, 123 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 3: I'll tell you all about it. Because your husband had 124 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 3: changed her hearts, went over there and start trying to 125 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 3: beg you back. 126 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 2: We'll talk about that when we come back. 127 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: That's right. Part two of Steve's Strawberry Letter responses coming 128 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 1: up in twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry 129 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: letter subject he doesn't want me and she doesn't either. 130 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:24,039 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 131 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap 132 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject is, he doesn't want me 133 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: and she doesn't either. 134 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 3: Keep this subject in mind, y'all, because this is a 135 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 3: series of tragic mistakes. This woman got a husband she 136 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 3: thinks that has wandering eyes. She feels as though she's 137 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 3: cheated he's cheated on herself times over the ten years, 138 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 3: but she can't prove nothing. Well, so much for that, 139 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 3: and you know, and then it got to a point 140 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 3: where they had had sex in five months. They hadn't 141 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 3: They hadn't had sex in five months. He was having sex. 142 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 3: They wasn't having sex in five months. So then went 143 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 3: over there and was telling one of her coworkers, who 144 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 3: was a female, all her problems, you know. And while 145 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 3: she was telling them how bad her husband was, the 146 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 3: female was just comforting her, you know, and just patting her. 147 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 3: She was just tapping her on the top of her knee. 148 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 3: It started, just pat girl, it's gonna be out right, 149 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 3: And then she kept on talking. Then she had to 150 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: grab a hand a couple of times. A girl, you're 151 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 3: patting a little bit too high. You're too high. Now 152 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 3: you're getting close to the promises, you know, you back 153 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 3: your hand up a little bit. And it just kept 154 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 3: on and the next thing, you know, her hand was 155 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 3: up there again, and she tried to hold her wrist, 156 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 3: but you know, she was kind of persisting. The next thing, 157 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 3: you know, she started touching the promise land. And so 158 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 3: they moved in together Friday. It's what happened. They moved 159 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 3: in Friday, and then she was living with her and 160 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 3: then for three months she stayed with a coworker, and 161 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 3: then and then their sex life went south, you know, 162 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 3: because you know, that's all she was doing with thy pattent, 163 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 3: and she wasn't trying to do no better than that. 164 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 3: All that thy pattern got old after three months, because 165 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 3: thy pattern is you get with mo you know, and 166 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 3: she just didn't have more, you know. So her husband 167 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 3: started coming over there begging her back. And her husband 168 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 3: was sitting there talking to about baby coming back home, 169 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 3: and he was rubbing your thigh too, But you already 170 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 3: had known that, so you pushed his hand off in 171 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 3: there after the fourth trial trying to rub your thigh. 172 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 3: You pushed his hand off, so he just said, hell, 173 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 3: I'm gone skip it. So he quit asking you because 174 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 3: you kept saying no. Then he stopped begging you to 175 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 3: come home, and he unfollowed you on social media. I 176 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 3: wasn't blocked on his phone, but he stopped taking my 177 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 3: calls my coworker that you had moved, that she was 178 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 3: had decided she getting back with her ex husband. See all, 179 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 3: y'all was married, and she decided she getting back with 180 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 3: her ex husband because when he came over and begged 181 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 3: her back, it worked because he didn't use the thigh 182 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 3: rubbing technique. He went something else. Your stupid ass husband 183 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 3: was trying to come back with thigh rubbing. Anyway, she 184 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 3: wanted to move back there with her husband, so they 185 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 3: asked and they was gonna move back in together. So 186 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 3: now you ain't got nowhere to go, so you had 187 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 3: to crawl back to your husband. Now, you said, only 188 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 3: been three months, so you thought it was gonna be easy. 189 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 2: Going back home. 190 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 3: But he told you he had a new woman and 191 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 3: she was taking great care of him. I told him 192 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 3: he was still married to me, so the woman had 193 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 3: to go. He told me that he knew I was 194 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 3: sleeping with the woman that was the coworker while I 195 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 3: was living with her, and said the coworker came to 196 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 3: him and begged him to let me you come back 197 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 3: to the house because she wanted you out the house. 198 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,559 Speaker 3: My husband said, you can come back home. Come on, 199 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 3: but I'm staying with his new chicken. 200 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 2: Right, that's what's happening. 201 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 3: Here is the question in the letter. How can he 202 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 3: admit that he's had cheating on me? And I have 203 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 3: to accept it? 204 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 1: How? 205 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,239 Speaker 3: Because that's what he just told you. 206 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 2: See, you can't get mad at him for cheating on you. 207 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 2: You moved in with the woman. 208 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 3: And was cheating on him, and he knew it because 209 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 3: your coworker came and told it to him and said, 210 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 3: could you take her back? Because I don't want her 211 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 3: because I'm going to get back my ex husband. How 212 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 3: can he admit that he's cheating on me? He just 213 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 3: did it, and I have to accept it. You don't 214 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 3: have to accept it. But he ain't getting rid of. 215 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 2: This new girl? 216 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: Who? 217 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 2: No, she in there? I'm talking. 218 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 3: He gets through here in the corner, sucking his thumb 219 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 3: in a fetal position, sipping on lemonade. 220 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 2: No, no, he done went down and said he she 221 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 2: doing him so good. 222 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 3: He neked in the corner in a fetal position with 223 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 3: his knees up by his chest, sucking his thumb, drinking 224 00:10:56,360 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 3: on a sunny delight with a straw in it. She 225 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 3: done just took him all the way back. He done 226 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: got the Sunday Delight with the little hole in the way. 227 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 3: You pushed a little bit of strange and you be 228 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 3: sucking through. 229 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 2: A cocktail straw. Yeah, she got that boy messed up. 230 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 3: But do I swallow my pride and stay with a man, 231 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 3: or do I face embarrassment and go stay with my parents? 232 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 3: I go stay with my parents. Like Shirley said, the 233 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 3: marriage is over. Come on now, he don't want you. 234 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 3: She don't want you, her ex, her ex husband, that 235 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 3: your coworker, and went back to he don't want. 236 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: Now. What's gonna really mess your mind up? 237 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 3: You try to move back in with your mom and 238 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 3: daddy and you find out they don't the boy your 239 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 3: asking to be out. Girl, you got some you got 240 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 3: You have found out a lot about yourself in three months. 241 00:11:57,040 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 3: You have found out in ninety days that don't that 242 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 3: don't nobody won't. She go on back to your mamma, 243 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,719 Speaker 3: neim house, your daddy. He gonna let you stay there. Now, 244 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 3: your mama gonna put up a fuss. You need to 245 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 3: go on back over there and work your marriage out. 246 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 3: That's what your mama gonna say. You can stay here 247 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:17,199 Speaker 3: long as you can. 248 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: All right, On Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram at Steve 249 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: barb Fm and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 250 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: the free iHeartRadio app. Coming up next, it is Junior. 251 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: You ready, Junior Yeah? And sports talk. You got a 252 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: lot going on Junior. 253 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 2: All right. 254 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Hard Morning Show