WEBVTT - Toxic Games 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.320 Welcome to Can'tfley Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:16.880 the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back with 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:19.280 yet another cantfully reckless episode with your girl Jess. 0:00:19.360 --> 0:00:19.800 Hilarious. 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:23.079 What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess y'all. And 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:28.040 Taylor's not here today because she'd be out because she pregnant, 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:30.920 so she don't feel good all the time. But she 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:33.839 is okay, she is okay. I checked on my baby mama, y'all. 0:00:33.920 --> 0:00:34.840 That's my baby mama. 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:35.400 Whatever. 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:40.239 I know, I've been in the media, you know, for 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:45.560 a while, wild'n out, no pun intended, but yes, wild'n out, 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:50.760 and I've done some things that wasn't the most professional. 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:55.240 Actually it was mostly unprofessional. And I just want to 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:59.120 apologize to my fans and the people that do love me, 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:04.480 because it definitely from where you're sitting, it looked as 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:07.319 if it was a crash out, you know, on my end, 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:12.240 and I just want to take the time to apologize 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:15.400 to my supporters, my fans and everything, you know, my followers, 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:18.680 who do you know, who have grown with me, y'all 0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:21.560 seen me since day one, and yeah, getting online and 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.000 to express your feelings that is something. 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:26.720 That I used to do way back when. 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:31.760 And while I did mean what I said and you know, 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:35.960 my argument was valid and points I had was valid, 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:38.080 you know I went about it the wrong way. It 0:01:38.080 --> 0:01:41.279 shouldn't have been done that way, and in that manner. 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:44.280 Nobody is making me say this. Nobody is you know, 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:47.120 on my back about, you know, cleaning up what I 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:51.560 did publicly. This is just a letter of apology to 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:54.640 the people who support me, and that is you guys 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:58.040 that listen to me every Wednesday and who has been 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:02.400 with me on this podcast journey since the pandemic. You know, 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:07.040 that's when I started this part this podcast. And you know, 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:10.800 I love the success that it has brought me. I 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:13.480 love the connections, you know, the resources that it has 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:16.040 bought me. It has opened me up to, you know, 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:18.640 doing things that I never thought that I would be doing. 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:26.200 And I literally appreciate. I appreciate you, guys. I love you, 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:30.880 and I do sincerely mean that with everything in me. 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:34.160 I do appreciate you, and I am sorry about how 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:38.800 I handled handled that situation a few weeks ago. But 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:39.919 we're gonna jump straight in. 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:42.040 Period. 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:45.600 We have something written. This is not a voice note. 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.400 I'm so sick of y'all aswer is not sending me 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:50.040 voice notes. All right, I'm sick of that. I think 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:53.639 y'all really should start doing that again. Y'all know i'd 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:56.200 be sick of reading y'all shit. And not that I 0:02:56.240 --> 0:03:00.160 can't read, y'all can't write. So that's the thing. That's 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:04.480 where this shit comes in. That's where the difficulty comes in. 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:08.560 But I'm going to be struggling because this is it's 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:11.839 a good story. However, this girl struggle writing this shit. 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:17.600 All right, here we go, Hey, Jos, I'll main Lord, 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:21.720 see what I'm saying. I think she's saying. I'll remain anonymous. 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:24.040 Well good, because I've been stop saying people's name since 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:29.120 season one. So I listened to your podcast daily catching 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:32.639 up from previous episodes. But I need some advice. I'm 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:36.600 twenty eight years old from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. I'm currently talking 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:39.800 to this guy we'll call him D. In his words, 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:43.080 we took a break and over the past twoish months 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:47.800 he expressed he's not ready in the right mental space 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:51.920 for a relationship. Now I'm reading slow because it's a 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:57.520 bunch of grammatical errors in this, but I am definitely 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:00.360 trying to get to the end of the story, so 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.680 I'm reading slow so I can kind of piece it together, 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:07.040 you know, all right, So a switch recently went off 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:09.720 in my head, and I'm like, well, let me begin 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:11.920 to move on, because I'm not waiting on no nigga. 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:17.200 I wasn't even certain we'd get back together. Within the 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:20.160 past week. He all of a sudden expressed loving me 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:23.200 and wanting to be back together and work on us. 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:26.640 But now I'm hesitant he needs to work on his 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:32.920 communication skills. Slash does drink frequent at night, so he basically, well, 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:33.800 he's not an alcoholic. 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:35.200 I wouldn't say because you didn't say that. 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:38.960 You said he just drinks a lot at night, which 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:42.320 makes him sometimes act like a dick. I was honest 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:47.120 with him that during this quote unquote break, I have 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:50.400 been texting people because he also said he may or 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:54.520 may not venture out too, so I started doing me. 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:56.800 But now he's trying to flip the script and act 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:59.520 like a victim because he's now mad that I have 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.920 niggas on on my line, like I'm not her left 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:05.280 my ass off. This is what she wrote. It's like 0:05:05.600 --> 0:05:07.640 he wanted me to act like a sad puppy while 0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:09.760 we weren't together. My thing is, if you want to 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:13.039 be back, show me and show me why I shouldn't 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:17.040 entertain these other niggas, like why would I cut people 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:19.880 off if you're not even applying pressure to show me 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:22.000 why we should be back together in the first place. 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:23.159 He wants me to. 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:26.359 Cut them off, but I also said he needs to 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:29.680 show me he values and appreciates me, like I have 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:33.919 no problem with cutting them off because I'm not dating them. However, 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:36.880 I don't want to be disappointed again. So you don't 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:38.280 want to put your eggs and with all your eggs 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:40.359 in one basket. I understand because you've done that before 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:42.640 and you've been portrayed by this gentleman, and I understand 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:43.279 that I got you. 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:43.760 I got you. 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:48.679 So she also added this, I do want to add 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:51.640 I do love him. Oh so you ain't make that 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:56.160 clear at first, big head, And she said, he claims 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:58.800 he'll put in the effort, and if I don't think 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:00.560 he is, I can drive him. 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:06.000 But should I even give it a try again? Hmm? Okay, 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:07.159 hold up, hold. 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:08.839 Up, I know this shit getting good, but listen to 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:11.200 just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:15.279 you'll listen. Well, reading that was a struggle within itself, 0:06:15.320 --> 0:06:19.599 because girl proof free before y'all hit send to me, 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:24.719 damn it. But it seems like, you know, if it 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:27.600 wasn't for you coming back telling me you do love him, 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:29.280 if you didn't add that part, I would have told you, 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:30.360 girl moved the fuck on. 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:32.120 No, I mean, because. 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:37.839 You want him to take you off the market again, 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:40.160 but you want him to show you. And if he 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:42.520 had not already shown you, you know what I'm saying, 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:44.360 then I feel like, no, that's'. 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:45.640 Pointless to wait for him to do that. 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:49.760 I think it's interesting that he chose to show you 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:52.960 that he loves you and he wants you back after 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:56.400 you moved on. And sometimes that works, but sometimes it's 0:06:56.400 --> 0:06:58.200 too fucking late. Because shouldn't let a woman get to 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:01.880 that point where she feels like, you know, she needs 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:04.080 to go talk to somebody else. And this girl got 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:06.640 a rosta of dude. She said, Now it's no one 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:09.320 guy that the guy is trying to take her back from. 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:14.160 She's talking to more than one guy. It's plural, you know. 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:16.800 I feel like you shouldn't have to do that. You 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:19.160 should you should not have to take that off of anyone. 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:21.440 But I do feel like both of y'all, you know, 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:23.280 play a lot of games, you know what I'm saying, 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:25.640 because now it's just you were chasing him, but now 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:27.560 we're chasing you, and you got somebody else, and then 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:29.680 you know, you have other people at other contenders that 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:33.160 you are trying to see, if you know what I'm saying, 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:36.520 you're trying to It's like you ain't even. 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:37.760 Really interested in the other niggas. 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:39.680 You're just really trying to get up under his skin, 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:41.960 you get what I'm saying, And then that becomes a 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:46.000 toxic game because say he does take you away from 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:48.320 the guys, you know what I mean, just to prove 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:51.720 a point, because you're dealing with these guys to prove 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:53.200 a point, you know what I mean. 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:55.400 You're not really dealing. 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.560 With other guys or talking to other guys to explore 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:02.680 other shit and to you know, really really date or 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:05.080 you know, pursue any of them that you're talking to. 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:07.120 You're doing this to get back at the guy. You're 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:12.520 doing this with the motive of seeing if hell well, 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:16.120 you're doing this with high hopes that he will come 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:18.160 back and get you, you know, put his money where 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:22.800 his mouth is because you don't believe that he's changed, 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:26.680 you know, but in hindsight, you're still kind of living 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.000 your life for him, living your love life for him, 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:30.480 you know what I mean. It still goes back to 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:32.680 him some type of way. So it's not fair to 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:34.959 the other guys that you're talking to, you know what 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:36.920 I'm saying, because you don't plan to be with them anyway. 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:39.160 So it's just a host of gangs being played. And 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:43.040 that's when I feel like the toxic comes in. So 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:45.240 I think you should do work on yourself. I don't 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:46.959 think you should try to get back with this gentleman, 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:51.200 although you know you say you do love him. I 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:54.760 feel like this is that ship is sailed and it's done, 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:56.640 and then you got to think about it. Maybe you're 0:08:56.679 --> 0:09:01.600 only twenty eight. You're only twenty eight, you know now, 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:05.439 No that ain't young young young, but you know you 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:07.760 still got a whole lot of life ahead of you 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:10.800 in a world out there. 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:11.920 You know what I'm saying. 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:14.320 It's somebody that will treat you right, and you got 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:16.400 to go through these things, you know, to grow into 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:20.040 the woman that you are going to be, because who 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:22.040 you are right now, you will not be in five years, 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:24.040 and who you are in five years, you will not 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:26.560 be in ten. You understand what I'm saying. So all 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.800 of this is setting you up for a great relationship. 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:30.480 Because when I was in my twenties, baby, I was 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:33.199 doing all types of ripping and running. Okay, you know 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:36.520 what I mean. I was doing it and doing it well. 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:38.560 But you know, and that's how I ended up with 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:41.000 my fiance. Now, you know, you're supposed to date, supposed 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:42.120 to do that, but I don't think you should put 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:44.960 so much energy into other guys. 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:48.760 To get another guy back. You get what I'm saying. 0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:53.720 Girl, You young, you vibrant, you from Pittsburgh. You know 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:56.719 what I'm saying. A lot of people may not think 0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:58.040 it shit to do that, but it's shit to do 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:00.000 in Pittsburgh. I think you got you know what I'm saying. 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:03.080 I think you should. You should date, but not date 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:05.720 to get back at him. You know, date for yourself, 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:10.360 Date for yourself. Break those shanes, set yourself free, and 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:13.040 date for yourself. Keep me updated, though, baby, girl, Do 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:15.400 not go back. Do not go back, because better believe 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:17.280 he's still doing him. You didn't tell me how old 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:20.040 he was, but someone tells me that he's young as well, 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:23.120 you know, just like you. So so you're to be 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:25.920 putting yourself through this shit, girl, But it is also a. 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:26.600 Part of dating. 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:29.880 A part of dating you have to go through trial 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:33.480 and error and relationships, you know, to get to that 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:34.880 happy place, you know. 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:36.199 So I totally understand. 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:38.920 If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:44.000 then we'll be right back moving on. Taylor just came 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:46.960 in here, y'all. Taylor, say hey, say hey to the people. 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:52.040 Oh all right, now, now you're not Spanish, Relax now, 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:54.679 I said, say hey to the people. I don't know 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:58.640 what you're trying to give because you know this is 0:10:58.679 --> 0:10:59.559 about the deportation. 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:01.320 What are you what are you trying to prove? What 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:02.520 is coming from damn Oli? 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:06.880 Like you should feel comfortable with it now. Oh, first 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:10.439 of all, because my baby a little Mexican. 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:13.960 Hey ya, he's stupid. But no girl, Okay, so this 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:14.959 was the story about. 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:17.520 Okay, So a woman had called up to breakfast club, 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:19.040 you know, for me to fix some mess, and she 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:21.760 was saying that her baby father was saying going around 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:24.040 saying that he knows me because you know, her baby 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:27.120 daddy is from Baltimore, she's from Baltimore as well, but 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:31.480 he's some producer in Atlanta now or whatever. 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:32.240 Now. 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.120 They got together. He said he didn't want kids. She 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:37.360 knew she always wanted kids. They ended up getting pregnant. 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:39.319 She got an abortion because he said he didn't want 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:39.680 the child. 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:43.800 He they broke up. He manipulated her by saying, you 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:45.599 know things like why would you even get rid of 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:45.960 the baby? 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:48.120 Why would you know what I mean? And she was like, nigga, 0:11:48.160 --> 0:11:49.959 you didn't want kids. You made that very clear. Why 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:51.679 the fuck are we playing games? So they broke up, 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:55.000 then got back together. He said he was ready to 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:56.920 have kids. Now if it happens, it happens, and we're 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:59.040 gonna we're gonna, we're gonna, uh, We're not gonna do 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:02.280 the abortion this time. I'm ready. She ended up getting pregnant. 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:04.760 Results for the same I don't want the kid, right, 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:06.880 but she had this baby. She said she got rid 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:10.240 of the baby, the first baby, no problem, no issues. 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:12.080 She was actually cool with doing it. 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:16.600 She said she was cool with doing it the nigga. 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:20.760 The second time around, after they got together, she get pregnant. 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:23.120 She not having an abortion this time, She's getting the 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:25.680 bit she's having the baby. She had the baby. This 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:27.840 nigga's out of there. He don't do nothing for the 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:32.280 baby girl, nothing at all. And then he busts her window. 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:34.280 She don't. 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:37.480 She didn't tell me why, but he bust her window 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:41.000 so he won't be yun. Yes, hey, now he wanted 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:44.440 to be jazzys all but yes, pretty much, he would 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:49.240 like to be Jasmine like. But guess girl, so she's 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.600 all she wants she said, is for him to take 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:55.000 care of his child. Now what I asked her on 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:59.120 the show was this right? I said, this is your fault. 0:12:59.600 --> 0:13:00.960 Yeah, you know what I'm saying. 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:01.920 It's her fault. 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:04.599 That's just it's no way to cut it, slice it, 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.000 look at it or nothing like that. This ship is 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:14.880 her fault because you allowed this nigga to tell you listen, listen, y'all. 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:15.160 My bad. 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:18.200 I gotta tell Talor this. He told her the first time. 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:22.320 I would rather die than be a parent. I don't 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:29.040 want any kids. Damn, yes, Yanks, I would rather die. 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:32.880 If he's showing your car his card first time? 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:36.640 You know what I'm saying, Like, no, you let that 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:37.199 nigga die? 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:39.000 Why did you fall? 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:39.280 Like? 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:41.800 No? 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:44.760 And then even you saying, like, you know, I'm ready 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:47.800 this time if it happens to happen, like, are y'all 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:49.640 gonna be intentional with it? 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:50.520 I don't know. 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:53.240 And then even with him though, don't say you don't 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:55.480 want to, don't say you want you don't want to 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:57.040 have kids, and then you're not protecting you. 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:58.439 You're not protecting yourself. 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:01.199 But but you know, oh, this could have all been 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:03.440 soft if she had not gone back to the baby 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:09.000 the moment a man, yes, a man tells you I 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:11.560 would rather die than be a parent than have a baby. 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:15.080 That's somebody who's never getting in my eggs. I don't 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:15.840 give a fuck. 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:19.600 You're not ever even entering me raw, you're not going 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:21.600 I don't even I don't even want to fuck you. 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:23.640 I'm not even attracted to you. 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:28.800 Now that's your preference, But the severity of how you 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:31.800 feel about it, I would rather die, Okay? 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:32.080 Cool? 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:35.720 So you let him manipulate a person who said that 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.240 to you the first time around, and you got an abortion. 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:41.320 You know, you let him shoot the club up and 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:44.920 get you pregnant again. You let him blind you or 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:47.400 love bomb you so much the second time around that 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:49.480 you forgot that he said he would rather die than 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:52.680 be a parent, and you had the baby, and now 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:54.960 you're surprised. Now you're calling up to the breakfast club 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:59.080 to me asking me what the fuck. 0:14:58.840 --> 0:14:59.400 You should do? 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:03.320 What the fuck you should have been dead? You left 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:04.880 him the first time, You should have stayed gone. 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:07.040 So he hasn't seen the child or anything. 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:09.320 Nope, he won't do anything for the baby girl, and 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:11.640 not at all. But you run around this motherfucker telling 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:14.080 people you know me, nigga, you don't know me. His 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:17.160 name is Spud Mackenzie. I kept saying stud Mackenzie. I 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.560 was broadcasting from somewhere else. I was in Atlanta, so 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:23.240 I really couldn't hear her clearly. I thought she said stud. 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:25.360 That's why I was like, oh, it makes sense. He 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:27.560 busts the window like a bitch. Okay, you know, studs 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:28.960 are still women at the end of the day. You know, 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:31.000 I don't care how long the locks are, how flat 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:33.160 the chest he is, honey, how long the dildo is. 0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:37.320 I'm telling you, yes, that's some bit shit. He busted 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:41.440 your window. That's crazy, crazy, yeah, yeah, But you run 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:44.720 around talking about you know me. Don't say you know me. 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:47.320 I want to define a nigga and blasto him so bad. 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:49.800 Although it is her fault, he needed to take some 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:53.240 fucking accountability too, because, yeah, nigga, you shot the club up, 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:55.600 you're having raw sex, Like. 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:59.880 A result of that is not a baby or std 0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:01.080 you know anything. 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:03.600 Yeah, I'm saying, was he even like? 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:04.720 Who knows? 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:07.200 She didn't even say infidelity was one of the problems. 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:09.000 She didn't say he was ever a cheater or anything. 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:11.160 It was the kid. 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:14.080 Think I know someone. That not the same thing. But 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:17.360 why you dance someone if you really want to have kids? 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:21.440 Yeah? Who don't? Yeah, that didn't make sense. He told you, no, 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:22.040 you didn't. 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:24.480 Girls. You guys got to start acting y'all can change. 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:27.640 You gotta stop acting like you will be the one 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:30.800 to change the guy. And then now you're calling up 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:32.520 here talking about you don't want your daughter all the time, 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:34.440 you want to break from your child. Look, that's the 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:37.480 result of dealing with a nigga. That's the result of 0:16:37.560 --> 0:16:41.280 letting your guard down. That's the result of being fucking stupid. 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:45.560 I'm sorry, and that that's stupid. I can't believe he 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:46.800 said that the U and then you went back and 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:48.520 got pregnant by him. But that's why I told I 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:51.040 kept that ship on hunted with her like nah nah, 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:52.560 when that nigga told you he rather to die to 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:55.240 be a parent, you just killed the baby for him. 0:16:55.720 --> 0:16:57.360 Now you let that nigga die. It's time. 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:01.000 Yeah no, no, no, no, no, yeah you're not. I'm sorry, 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:02.200 you go to fuck head. 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:04.879 I just want to know too, Why are you just 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:09.840 spilling in her like that. 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:09.880 Like you think you think. 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:16.040 Contraception? You know, a contraception is abortion. She didn't even 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:16.959 mention birth control. 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:19.520 No she wasn't. No, no goddamn birth controlling. He knew that 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:20.000 she wasn't. 0:17:20.200 --> 0:17:20.240 No. 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:24.280 Niggas just don't give a fuck about abortions. 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:24.720 They don't. 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:26.840 It's not their body. A lot of niggas said to say, 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:29.000 they don't give a fuck. A lot of men don't 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:31.520 have to carry that that guilt in their mind that 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:34.800 they just, you know, killed the baby. You know what 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:36.400 I mean, They just got rid of a baby. They 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:38.760 have no idea what what women have to go through. 0:17:39.200 --> 0:17:43.280 Laying there going back and forth in your mind because 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:45.600 you know what I mean, you really don't want to 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:47.639 get rid of the baby, or maybe you do, but 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:50.080 this is going this is wear and tear on your body, 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:54.280 on your uterus, like I know women who's had who 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:57.560 have had abortions and can't have kids no more because 0:17:57.800 --> 0:18:00.240 of abortions, you get. 0:18:00.000 --> 0:18:02.399 You know what I'm saying, Like the fuck? You know 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:02.840 what I mean. 0:18:02.920 --> 0:18:06.600 So guys don't care about that unless they had to 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:09.119 go through some ship like that, they don't care. You know, 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:11.639 I'm not saying every man, because no, every man is 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:18.960 not like that, but there are a percentage of guys 0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:21.359 and it does not affect them mentally, it does not, 0:18:21.640 --> 0:18:25.360 and they don't understand how it affects women in multiple ways. 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:30.640 So I in my opinion, I think, I mean, it's 0:18:30.760 --> 0:18:35.040 kind of unfortunate. But she just like, yeah, now this 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:37.280 is your result that do it all for? 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:38.720 Yeah? Yeah she should. 0:18:38.840 --> 0:18:44.240 She called up it mackenzie Reginald something Reginald McKenzie. 0:18:43.880 --> 0:18:45.560 Is his name, if you get cat like, does she 0:18:45.640 --> 0:18:50.520 still is she still in contact with him or does 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:51.480 she knows his number? 0:18:51.480 --> 0:18:53.760 He just don't do nothing for the baby. And she 0:18:53.760 --> 0:18:56.000 said he's going around letting it, telling everybody she won't 0:18:56.040 --> 0:18:56.640 let me see. 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:59.640 My daughter and shit like that. Yeah, a very very. 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:04.840 Much him, very much a clown. 0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:05.920 Like you know that well, I don't know that anybody. 0:19:06.000 --> 0:19:09.480 You fucking know me, sweetheart, but it sounded like, well, 0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:11.880 I don't know what happened with the DDG situation, but 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:12.720 like you so. 0:19:13.400 --> 0:19:18.320