Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tfley Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and
Speaker 1: the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back with
Speaker 1: yet another cantfully reckless episode with your girl Jess.
Speaker 2: Hilarious.
Speaker 1: What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess y'all. And
Speaker 1: Taylor's not here today because she'd be out because she pregnant,
Speaker 1: so she don't feel good all the time. But she
Speaker 1: is okay, she is okay. I checked on my baby mama, y'all.
Speaker 1: That's my baby mama.
Speaker 2: Whatever.
Speaker 1: I know, I've been in the media, you know, for
Speaker 1: a while, wild'n out, no pun intended, but yes, wild'n out,
Speaker 1: and I've done some things that wasn't the most professional.
Speaker 1: Actually it was mostly unprofessional. And I just want to
Speaker 1: apologize to my fans and the people that do love me,
Speaker 1: because it definitely from where you're sitting, it looked as
Speaker 1: if it was a crash out, you know, on my end,
Speaker 1: and I just want to take the time to apologize
Speaker 1: to my supporters, my fans and everything, you know, my followers,
Speaker 1: who do you know, who have grown with me, y'all
Speaker 1: seen me since day one, and yeah, getting online and
Speaker 1: to express your feelings that is something.
Speaker 2: That I used to do way back when.
Speaker 1: And while I did mean what I said and you know,
Speaker 1: my argument was valid and points I had was valid,
Speaker 1: you know I went about it the wrong way. It
Speaker 1: shouldn't have been done that way, and in that manner.
Speaker 1: Nobody is making me say this. Nobody is you know,
Speaker 1: on my back about, you know, cleaning up what I
Speaker 1: did publicly. This is just a letter of apology to
Speaker 1: the people who support me, and that is you guys
Speaker 1: that listen to me every Wednesday and who has been
Speaker 1: with me on this podcast journey since the pandemic. You know,
Speaker 1: that's when I started this part this podcast. And you know,
Speaker 1: I love the success that it has brought me. I
Speaker 1: love the connections, you know, the resources that it has
Speaker 1: bought me. It has opened me up to, you know,
Speaker 1: doing things that I never thought that I would be doing.
Speaker 1: And I literally appreciate. I appreciate you, guys. I love you,
Speaker 1: and I do sincerely mean that with everything in me.
Speaker 1: I do appreciate you, and I am sorry about how
Speaker 1: I handled handled that situation a few weeks ago. But
Speaker 1: we're gonna jump straight in.
Speaker 2: Period.
Speaker 1: We have something written. This is not a voice note.
Speaker 1: I'm so sick of y'all aswer is not sending me
Speaker 1: voice notes. All right, I'm sick of that. I think
Speaker 1: y'all really should start doing that again. Y'all know i'd
Speaker 1: be sick of reading y'all shit. And not that I
Speaker 1: can't read, y'all can't write. So that's the thing. That's
Speaker 1: where this shit comes in. That's where the difficulty comes in.
Speaker 1: But I'm going to be struggling because this is it's
Speaker 1: a good story. However, this girl struggle writing this shit.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go, Hey, Jos, I'll main Lord,
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. I think she's saying. I'll remain anonymous.
Speaker 1: Well good, because I've been stop saying people's name since
Speaker 1: season one. So I listened to your podcast daily catching
Speaker 1: up from previous episodes. But I need some advice. I'm
Speaker 1: twenty eight years old from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. I'm currently talking
Speaker 1: to this guy we'll call him D. In his words,
Speaker 1: we took a break and over the past twoish months
Speaker 1: he expressed he's not ready in the right mental space
Speaker 1: for a relationship. Now I'm reading slow because it's a
Speaker 1: bunch of grammatical errors in this, but I am definitely
Speaker 1: trying to get to the end of the story, so
Speaker 1: I'm reading slow so I can kind of piece it together,
Speaker 1: you know, all right, So a switch recently went off
Speaker 1: in my head, and I'm like, well, let me begin
Speaker 1: to move on, because I'm not waiting on no nigga.
Speaker 1: I wasn't even certain we'd get back together. Within the
Speaker 1: past week. He all of a sudden expressed loving me
Speaker 1: and wanting to be back together and work on us.
Speaker 1: But now I'm hesitant he needs to work on his
Speaker 1: communication skills. Slash does drink frequent at night, so he basically, well,
Speaker 1: he's not an alcoholic.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say because you didn't say that.
Speaker 1: You said he just drinks a lot at night, which
Speaker 1: makes him sometimes act like a dick. I was honest
Speaker 1: with him that during this quote unquote break, I have
Speaker 1: been texting people because he also said he may or
Speaker 1: may not venture out too, so I started doing me.
Speaker 1: But now he's trying to flip the script and act
Speaker 1: like a victim because he's now mad that I have
Speaker 1: niggas on on my line, like I'm not her left
Speaker 1: my ass off. This is what she wrote. It's like
Speaker 1: he wanted me to act like a sad puppy while
Speaker 1: we weren't together. My thing is, if you want to
Speaker 1: be back, show me and show me why I shouldn't
Speaker 1: entertain these other niggas, like why would I cut people
Speaker 1: off if you're not even applying pressure to show me
Speaker 1: why we should be back together in the first place.
Speaker 2: He wants me to.
Speaker 1: Cut them off, but I also said he needs to
Speaker 1: show me he values and appreciates me, like I have
Speaker 1: no problem with cutting them off because I'm not dating them. However,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be disappointed again. So you don't
Speaker 1: want to put your eggs and with all your eggs
Speaker 1: in one basket. I understand because you've done that before
Speaker 1: and you've been portrayed by this gentleman, and I understand
Speaker 1: that I got you.
Speaker 2: I got you.
Speaker 1: So she also added this, I do want to add
Speaker 1: I do love him. Oh so you ain't make that
Speaker 1: clear at first, big head, And she said, he claims
Speaker 1: he'll put in the effort, and if I don't think
Speaker 1: he is, I can drive him.
Speaker 2: But should I even give it a try again? Hmm? Okay,
Speaker 2: hold up, hold.
Speaker 1: Up, I know this shit getting good, but listen to
Speaker 1: just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me,
Speaker 1: you'll listen. Well, reading that was a struggle within itself,
Speaker 1: because girl proof free before y'all hit send to me,
Speaker 1: damn it. But it seems like, you know, if it
Speaker 1: wasn't for you coming back telling me you do love him,
Speaker 1: if you didn't add that part, I would have told you,
Speaker 1: girl moved the fuck on.
Speaker 2: No, I mean, because.
Speaker 1: You want him to take you off the market again,
Speaker 1: but you want him to show you. And if he
Speaker 1: had not already shown you, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: then I feel like, no, that's'.
Speaker 2: Pointless to wait for him to do that.
Speaker 1: I think it's interesting that he chose to show you
Speaker 1: that he loves you and he wants you back after
Speaker 1: you moved on. And sometimes that works, but sometimes it's
Speaker 1: too fucking late. Because shouldn't let a woman get to
Speaker 1: that point where she feels like, you know, she needs
Speaker 1: to go talk to somebody else. And this girl got
Speaker 1: a rosta of dude. She said, Now it's no one
Speaker 1: guy that the guy is trying to take her back from.
Speaker 1: She's talking to more than one guy. It's plural, you know.
Speaker 1: I feel like you shouldn't have to do that. You
Speaker 1: should you should not have to take that off of anyone.
Speaker 1: But I do feel like both of y'all, you know,
Speaker 1: play a lot of games, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: because now it's just you were chasing him, but now
Speaker 1: we're chasing you, and you got somebody else, and then
Speaker 1: you know, you have other people at other contenders that
Speaker 1: you are trying to see, if you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you're trying to It's like you ain't even.
Speaker 2: Really interested in the other niggas.
Speaker 1: You're just really trying to get up under his skin,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying, And then that becomes a
Speaker 1: toxic game because say he does take you away from
Speaker 1: the guys, you know what I mean, just to prove
Speaker 1: a point, because you're dealing with these guys to prove
Speaker 1: a point, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: You're not really dealing.
Speaker 1: With other guys or talking to other guys to explore
Speaker 1: other shit and to you know, really really date or
Speaker 1: you know, pursue any of them that you're talking to.
Speaker 1: You're doing this to get back at the guy. You're
Speaker 1: doing this with the motive of seeing if hell well,
Speaker 1: you're doing this with high hopes that he will come
Speaker 1: back and get you, you know, put his money where
Speaker 1: his mouth is because you don't believe that he's changed,
Speaker 1: you know, but in hindsight, you're still kind of living
Speaker 1: your life for him, living your love life for him,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It still goes back to
Speaker 1: him some type of way. So it's not fair to
Speaker 1: the other guys that you're talking to, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because you don't plan to be with them anyway.
Speaker 1: So it's just a host of gangs being played. And
Speaker 1: that's when I feel like the toxic comes in. So
Speaker 1: I think you should do work on yourself. I don't
Speaker 1: think you should try to get back with this gentleman,
Speaker 1: although you know you say you do love him. I
Speaker 1: feel like this is that ship is sailed and it's done,
Speaker 1: and then you got to think about it. Maybe you're
Speaker 1: only twenty eight. You're only twenty eight, you know now,
Speaker 1: No that ain't young young young, but you know you
Speaker 1: still got a whole lot of life ahead of you
Speaker 1: in a world out there.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's somebody that will treat you right, and you got
Speaker 1: to go through these things, you know, to grow into
Speaker 1: the woman that you are going to be, because who
Speaker 1: you are right now, you will not be in five years,
Speaker 1: and who you are in five years, you will not
Speaker 1: be in ten. You understand what I'm saying. So all
Speaker 1: of this is setting you up for a great relationship.
Speaker 1: Because when I was in my twenties, baby, I was
Speaker 1: doing all types of ripping and running. Okay, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. I was doing it and doing it well.
Speaker 1: But you know, and that's how I ended up with
Speaker 1: my fiance. Now, you know, you're supposed to date, supposed
Speaker 1: to do that, but I don't think you should put
Speaker 1: so much energy into other guys.
Speaker 2: To get another guy back. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Girl, You young, you vibrant, you from Pittsburgh. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. A lot of people may not think
Speaker 1: it shit to do that, but it's shit to do
Speaker 1: in Pittsburgh. I think you got you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I think you should. You should date, but not date
Speaker 1: to get back at him. You know, date for yourself,
Speaker 1: Date for yourself. Break those shanes, set yourself free, and
Speaker 1: date for yourself. Keep me updated, though, baby, girl, Do
Speaker 1: not go back. Do not go back, because better believe
Speaker 1: he's still doing him. You didn't tell me how old
Speaker 1: he was, but someone tells me that he's young as well,
Speaker 1: you know, just like you. So so you're to be
Speaker 1: putting yourself through this shit, girl, But it is also a.
Speaker 2: Part of dating.
Speaker 1: A part of dating you have to go through trial
Speaker 1: and error and relationships, you know, to get to that
Speaker 1: happy place, you know.
Speaker 2: So I totally understand.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
Speaker 1: then we'll be right back moving on. Taylor just came
Speaker 1: in here, y'all. Taylor, say hey, say hey to the people.
Speaker 1: Oh all right, now, now you're not Spanish, Relax now,
Speaker 1: I said, say hey to the people. I don't know
Speaker 1: what you're trying to give because you know this is
Speaker 1: about the deportation.
Speaker 2: What are you what are you trying to prove? What
Speaker 2: is coming from damn Oli?
Speaker 1: Like you should feel comfortable with it now. Oh, first
Speaker 1: of all, because my baby a little Mexican.
Speaker 2: Hey ya, he's stupid. But no girl, Okay, so this
Speaker 2: was the story about.
Speaker 1: Okay, So a woman had called up to breakfast club,
Speaker 1: you know, for me to fix some mess, and she
Speaker 1: was saying that her baby father was saying going around
Speaker 1: saying that he knows me because you know, her baby
Speaker 1: daddy is from Baltimore, she's from Baltimore as well, but
Speaker 1: he's some producer in Atlanta now or whatever.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: They got together. He said he didn't want kids. She
Speaker 1: knew she always wanted kids. They ended up getting pregnant.
Speaker 1: She got an abortion because he said he didn't want
Speaker 1: the child.
Speaker 2: He they broke up. He manipulated her by saying, you
Speaker 2: know things like why would you even get rid of
Speaker 2: the baby?
Speaker 1: Why would you know what I mean? And she was like, nigga,
Speaker 1: you didn't want kids. You made that very clear. Why
Speaker 1: the fuck are we playing games? So they broke up,
Speaker 1: then got back together. He said he was ready to
Speaker 1: have kids. Now if it happens, it happens, and we're
Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna, we're gonna, uh, We're not gonna do
Speaker 1: the abortion this time. I'm ready. She ended up getting pregnant.
Speaker 1: Results for the same I don't want the kid, right,
Speaker 1: but she had this baby. She said she got rid
Speaker 1: of the baby, the first baby, no problem, no issues.
Speaker 2: She was actually cool with doing it.
Speaker 1: She said she was cool with doing it the nigga.
Speaker 1: The second time around, after they got together, she get pregnant.
Speaker 1: She not having an abortion this time, She's getting the
Speaker 1: bit she's having the baby. She had the baby. This
Speaker 1: nigga's out of there. He don't do nothing for the
Speaker 1: baby girl, nothing at all. And then he busts her window.
Speaker 2: She don't.
Speaker 1: She didn't tell me why, but he bust her window
Speaker 1: so he won't be yun. Yes, hey, now he wanted
Speaker 1: to be jazzys all but yes, pretty much, he would
Speaker 1: like to be Jasmine like. But guess girl, so she's
Speaker 1: all she wants she said, is for him to take
Speaker 1: care of his child. Now what I asked her on
Speaker 1: the show was this right? I said, this is your fault.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It's her fault.
Speaker 1: That's just it's no way to cut it, slice it,
Speaker 1: look at it or nothing like that. This ship is
Speaker 1: her fault because you allowed this nigga to tell you listen, listen, y'all.
Speaker 2: My bad.
Speaker 1: I gotta tell Talor this. He told her the first time.
Speaker 1: I would rather die than be a parent. I don't
Speaker 1: want any kids. Damn, yes, Yanks, I would rather die.
Speaker 4: If he's showing your car his card first time?
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like, no, you let that
Speaker 2: nigga die?
Speaker 4: Why did you fall?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: And then even you saying, like, you know, I'm ready
Speaker 3: this time if it happens to happen, like, are y'all
Speaker 3: gonna be intentional with it?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: And then even with him though, don't say you don't
Speaker 3: want to, don't say you want you don't want to
Speaker 3: have kids, and then you're not protecting you.
Speaker 2: You're not protecting yourself.
Speaker 1: But but you know, oh, this could have all been
Speaker 1: soft if she had not gone back to the baby
Speaker 1: the moment a man, yes, a man tells you I
Speaker 1: would rather die than be a parent than have a baby.
Speaker 2: That's somebody who's never getting in my eggs. I don't
Speaker 2: give a fuck.
Speaker 1: You're not ever even entering me raw, you're not going
Speaker 1: I don't even I don't even want to fuck you.
Speaker 2: I'm not even attracted to you.
Speaker 1: Now that's your preference, But the severity of how you
Speaker 1: feel about it, I would rather die, Okay?
Speaker 2: Cool?
Speaker 1: So you let him manipulate a person who said that
Speaker 1: to you the first time around, and you got an abortion.
Speaker 1: You know, you let him shoot the club up and
Speaker 1: get you pregnant again. You let him blind you or
Speaker 1: love bomb you so much the second time around that
Speaker 1: you forgot that he said he would rather die than
Speaker 1: be a parent, and you had the baby, and now
Speaker 1: you're surprised. Now you're calling up to the breakfast club
Speaker 1: to me asking me what the fuck.
Speaker 2: You should do?
Speaker 1: What the fuck you should have been dead? You left
Speaker 1: him the first time, You should have stayed gone.
Speaker 4: So he hasn't seen the child or anything.
Speaker 1: Nope, he won't do anything for the baby girl, and
Speaker 1: not at all. But you run around this motherfucker telling
Speaker 1: people you know me, nigga, you don't know me. His
Speaker 1: name is Spud Mackenzie. I kept saying stud Mackenzie. I
Speaker 1: was broadcasting from somewhere else. I was in Atlanta, so
Speaker 1: I really couldn't hear her clearly. I thought she said stud.
Speaker 1: That's why I was like, oh, it makes sense. He
Speaker 1: busts the window like a bitch. Okay, you know, studs
Speaker 1: are still women at the end of the day. You know,
Speaker 1: I don't care how long the locks are, how flat
Speaker 1: the chest he is, honey, how long the dildo is.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, yes, that's some bit shit. He busted
Speaker 1: your window. That's crazy, crazy, yeah, yeah, But you run
Speaker 1: around talking about you know me. Don't say you know me.
Speaker 2: I want to define a nigga and blasto him so bad.
Speaker 1: Although it is her fault, he needed to take some
Speaker 1: fucking accountability too, because, yeah, nigga, you shot the club up,
Speaker 1: you're having raw sex, Like.
Speaker 2: A result of that is not a baby or std
Speaker 2: you know anything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm saying, was he even like?
Speaker 2: Who knows?
Speaker 1: She didn't even say infidelity was one of the problems.
Speaker 1: She didn't say he was ever a cheater or anything.
Speaker 2: It was the kid.
Speaker 3: Think I know someone. That not the same thing. But
Speaker 3: why you dance someone if you really want to have kids?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Who don't? Yeah, that didn't make sense. He told you, no,
Speaker 2: you didn't.
Speaker 4: Girls. You guys got to start acting y'all can change.
Speaker 1: You gotta stop acting like you will be the one
Speaker 1: to change the guy. And then now you're calling up
Speaker 1: here talking about you don't want your daughter all the time,
Speaker 1: you want to break from your child. Look, that's the
Speaker 1: result of dealing with a nigga. That's the result of
Speaker 1: letting your guard down. That's the result of being fucking stupid.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and that that's stupid. I can't believe he
Speaker 1: said that the U and then you went back and
Speaker 1: got pregnant by him. But that's why I told I
Speaker 1: kept that ship on hunted with her like nah nah,
Speaker 1: when that nigga told you he rather to die to
Speaker 1: be a parent, you just killed the baby for him.
Speaker 2: Now you let that nigga die. It's time.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, no, no, no, yeah you're not. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: you go to fuck head.
Speaker 3: I just want to know too, Why are you just
Speaker 3: spilling in her like that.
Speaker 2: Like you think you think.
Speaker 1: Contraception? You know, a contraception is abortion. She didn't even
Speaker 1: mention birth control.
Speaker 2: No she wasn't. No, no goddamn birth controlling. He knew that
Speaker 2: she wasn't.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 1: Niggas just don't give a fuck about abortions.
Speaker 2: They don't.
Speaker 1: It's not their body. A lot of niggas said to say,
Speaker 1: they don't give a fuck. A lot of men don't
Speaker 1: have to carry that that guilt in their mind that
Speaker 1: they just, you know, killed the baby. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean, They just got rid of a baby. They
Speaker 1: have no idea what what women have to go through.
Speaker 1: Laying there going back and forth in your mind because
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you really don't want to
Speaker 1: get rid of the baby, or maybe you do, but
Speaker 1: this is going this is wear and tear on your body,
Speaker 1: on your uterus, like I know women who's had who
Speaker 1: have had abortions and can't have kids no more because
Speaker 1: of abortions, you get.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like the fuck? You know
Speaker 2: what I mean.
Speaker 1: So guys don't care about that unless they had to
Speaker 1: go through some ship like that, they don't care. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying every man, because no, every man is
Speaker 1: not like that, but there are a percentage of guys
Speaker 1: and it does not affect them mentally, it does not,
Speaker 1: and they don't understand how it affects women in multiple ways.
Speaker 1: So I in my opinion, I think, I mean, it's
Speaker 1: kind of unfortunate. But she just like, yeah, now this
Speaker 1: is your result that do it all for?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah she should.
Speaker 1: She called up it mackenzie Reginald something Reginald McKenzie.
Speaker 3: Is his name, if you get cat like, does she
Speaker 3: still is she still in contact with him or does
Speaker 3: she knows his number?
Speaker 1: He just don't do nothing for the baby. And she
Speaker 1: said he's going around letting it, telling everybody she won't
Speaker 1: let me see.
Speaker 2: My daughter and shit like that. Yeah, a very very.
Speaker 1: Much him, very much a clown.
Speaker 4: Like you know that well, I don't know that anybody.
Speaker 3: You fucking know me, sweetheart, but it sounded like, well,
Speaker 3: I don't know what happened with the DDG situation, but
Speaker 3: like you so.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know, I know, but see it,
Speaker 1: oh that girl? Yeah, I know right, And it's the thing,
Speaker 1: so did you see when?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 1: So going back, DDG dropped the fucking song right about
Speaker 1: Hallie and then.
Speaker 2: She won't let me see my son.
Speaker 1: And then also what I felt like, it wasn't all
Speaker 1: about Halo because in the in the song, he also
Speaker 1: made it very clear that he wasn't fucking with no
Speaker 1: bitches and it was about him. H It was about
Speaker 1: you know, like, yeah, her, she can move on if
Speaker 1: she but I know she not, and like I know
Speaker 1: you not moving on? Like you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like stop acting tough or whatever. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like my nigga, this ain't all about hello, this is
Speaker 1: about Halle.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's just so because even in like him
Speaker 3: son away, like yeah they kick she kissed me out
Speaker 3: the house.
Speaker 2: Or we're not together, you don't live with me? Yeah
Speaker 2: that's what.
Speaker 3: Like she was discussing, and she was like, how y'all
Speaker 3: not together, no more, like why do you think she
Speaker 3: still wants to be in your presence?
Speaker 1: Like what, You're not going to be in my house
Speaker 1: with the baby? It's okay, like no, And then her
Speaker 1: and the baby just came down with RSV. I think
Speaker 1: the baby had it first, and then he probably gave
Speaker 1: it to you, Halle.
Speaker 2: And you have to quarantine you, you know.
Speaker 1: So it was just them being sick in the house
Speaker 1: and he was I guess, you know, upset at that
Speaker 1: because he just wanted to take care of his baby
Speaker 1: while he was sick. But Halle's like, yo, we gotta
Speaker 1: get better, Like we're both in you're sick, you're gonna
Speaker 1: catch it, then you're gonna give it to people, then
Speaker 1: you're gonna get then we're gonna just be passing it
Speaker 1: back up ooth to each other, like no, nigga, let
Speaker 1: us get ourselves together. And then you can see him
Speaker 1: because because then a couple of days later, who's.
Speaker 2: On a streaming? Who's on stream?
Speaker 3: Is?
Speaker 2: What is dad? The big reveal? Oh my son came
Speaker 2: back to me.
Speaker 4: That's just corny, as I couldn't have that much patience and.
Speaker 2: Look, this is the thing.
Speaker 1: We also really still gotta think because I said the
Speaker 1: same thing. We got to think about ddg's age too,
Speaker 1: because they are they are all still young. Let me
Speaker 1: see how old is DDG? Hey, sirih, how old is DDG?
Speaker 2: The answer I found is sixteen years?
Speaker 1: Oh no he need she need no DDG, she said, dudugo.
Speaker 1: Oh lord, no, what is this young man's name? Hold
Speaker 1: on DDG.
Speaker 2: Age? Okay, let's say he's twenty seven.
Speaker 1: Oh I know, but you know, the twenty seven year
Speaker 1: old these days, Yeah, he's.
Speaker 2: Immature, as young as fuck, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And you know when I was twenty seven, I was
Speaker 1: immature and not as immature as that, but I was
Speaker 1: you know, he little kid, well not a kid, but
Speaker 1: he's still young.
Speaker 3: Mind like if at she ain't saying nothing, and then
Speaker 3: she hasn't said anything.
Speaker 2: You know, Halle is not you know, she doesn't appear
Speaker 2: to be h she.
Speaker 4: Doesn't live like that. And it probably cusses custom what.
Speaker 2: I already know.
Speaker 1: She cusses him the funk out, and you know, it's
Speaker 1: just it just gives like fucking clown.
Speaker 3: It is because you're putting all of it on this
Speaker 3: social media area.
Speaker 2: Is just it's just wicked it's stupid.
Speaker 4: But back to back to the girl though, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: ma'am you.
Speaker 2: It's yeah, ma'am.
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, you laid in your bed you
Speaker 3: got like, yeah, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's saying he's this and the third whatever, big
Speaker 3: time producer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what big time now.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying though he's saying what he is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, go to the court.
Speaker 4: I mean, hopefully he appears in the court.
Speaker 2: Doesn't matter. If they don't know.
Speaker 1: I think it's it used to be you had to,
Speaker 1: Like I forgot how work because I never put Jerome
Speaker 1: on child support, so I've never gone through that because I.
Speaker 4: Would say, I don't know how, like if.
Speaker 3: He could, but he doesn't show what he doesn't show
Speaker 3: up did Like, I just don't know how they know.
Speaker 2: It's ways to get an on child support. It's ways,
Speaker 2: I think it.
Speaker 1: I think it's like a paternity test. Do you have
Speaker 1: to get a paternity test? I don't know if he
Speaker 1: see if he signed the birth certificate. Yeah, but see,
Speaker 1: she didn't even let us know. She didn't tell me
Speaker 1: whether he was there or not when she had the baby.
Speaker 1: She didn't tell us if he signed the birth certificate.
Speaker 1: There's things that she didn't say. I think she was
Speaker 1: just more so called and like to like air him out,
Speaker 1: which is like super what, oh my god, it is,
Speaker 1: but like why yeah, yeah, so they have to first
Speaker 1: established paternity if he did not sign the birth certificate
Speaker 1: established paternity, which he can be on a run from
Speaker 1: net for fucking ever. But I think there are ways
Speaker 1: now that are in effect where they can still get
Speaker 1: you on some type ship because I know, support for
Speaker 1: kids that's not even theirs I know, and it's that easy. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but what you're saying.
Speaker 3: But I know a guy that always just saying that
Speaker 3: his big mom like just takes money, like of course,
Speaker 3: just take money out.
Speaker 2: Of his account for real, but he'd be lying. I
Speaker 2: don't know how all that all the days.
Speaker 1: But yeah, there's no advice to you, but don't let
Speaker 1: it happen again.
Speaker 2: That's what I did tell her.
Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, now, you you chose to lay
Speaker 1: down on your back again, spread your legs wide open,
Speaker 1: and when and nigga told you spend a night or
Speaker 1: you felt that dick stiffing and he already was coming. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what happened. You should have got your ways. Something
Speaker 1: would to go. Get a fucking plan b right period.
Speaker 1: There's way that this could have been prevented, But then
Speaker 1: that would be regretting your child, and let me, your
Speaker 1: child wouldn't be here, and you definitely don't want to
Speaker 1: regret your child. You just regretted your actions, but you
Speaker 1: can't regret your actions without regretting your child's shame.
Speaker 2: So good luck.
Speaker 1: It's just one of those situations you got to deal
Speaker 1: with love, And that is the end of this episode
Speaker 1: of Carefully Reckless.
Speaker 2: Y'all, y'all say bye to Taylor. Okay now, Taylor.
Speaker 3: You say bye right now.
Speaker 2: Catch you next week on Carefully Reckless.
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