1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tfley Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back with 3 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: yet another cantfully reckless episode with your girl Jess. 4 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 2: Hilarious. 5 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess y'all. And 6 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: Taylor's not here today because she'd be out because she pregnant, 7 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: so she don't feel good all the time. But she 8 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: is okay, she is okay. I checked on my baby mama, y'all. 9 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 1: That's my baby mama. 10 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 2: Whatever. 11 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 1: I know, I've been in the media, you know, for 12 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: a while, wild'n out, no pun intended, but yes, wild'n out, 13 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: and I've done some things that wasn't the most professional. 14 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: Actually it was mostly unprofessional. And I just want to 15 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: apologize to my fans and the people that do love me, 16 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: because it definitely from where you're sitting, it looked as 17 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 1: if it was a crash out, you know, on my end, 18 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: and I just want to take the time to apologize 19 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: to my supporters, my fans and everything, you know, my followers, 20 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 1: who do you know, who have grown with me, y'all 21 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: seen me since day one, and yeah, getting online and 22 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: to express your feelings that is something. 23 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 2: That I used to do way back when. 24 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: And while I did mean what I said and you know, 25 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: my argument was valid and points I had was valid, 26 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: you know I went about it the wrong way. It 27 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,279 Speaker 1: shouldn't have been done that way, and in that manner. 28 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: Nobody is making me say this. Nobody is you know, 29 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: on my back about, you know, cleaning up what I 30 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: did publicly. This is just a letter of apology to 31 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: the people who support me, and that is you guys 32 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 1: that listen to me every Wednesday and who has been 33 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: with me on this podcast journey since the pandemic. You know, 34 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: that's when I started this part this podcast. And you know, 35 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 1: I love the success that it has brought me. I 36 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: love the connections, you know, the resources that it has 37 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: bought me. It has opened me up to, you know, 38 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: doing things that I never thought that I would be doing. 39 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: And I literally appreciate. I appreciate you, guys. I love you, 40 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: and I do sincerely mean that with everything in me. 41 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: I do appreciate you, and I am sorry about how 42 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: I handled handled that situation a few weeks ago. But 43 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 1: we're gonna jump straight in. 44 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 2: Period. 45 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: We have something written. This is not a voice note. 46 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: I'm so sick of y'all aswer is not sending me 47 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: voice notes. All right, I'm sick of that. I think 48 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 1: y'all really should start doing that again. Y'all know i'd 49 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: be sick of reading y'all shit. And not that I 50 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: can't read, y'all can't write. So that's the thing. That's 51 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: where this shit comes in. That's where the difficulty comes in. 52 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: But I'm going to be struggling because this is it's 53 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,839 Speaker 1: a good story. However, this girl struggle writing this shit. 54 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 1: All right, here we go, Hey, Jos, I'll main Lord, 55 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. I think she's saying. I'll remain anonymous. 56 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: Well good, because I've been stop saying people's name since 57 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: season one. So I listened to your podcast daily catching 58 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 1: up from previous episodes. But I need some advice. I'm 59 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: twenty eight years old from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. I'm currently talking 60 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: to this guy we'll call him D. In his words, 61 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: we took a break and over the past twoish months 62 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: he expressed he's not ready in the right mental space 63 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: for a relationship. Now I'm reading slow because it's a 64 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: bunch of grammatical errors in this, but I am definitely 65 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: trying to get to the end of the story, so 66 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: I'm reading slow so I can kind of piece it together, 67 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: you know, all right, So a switch recently went off 68 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: in my head, and I'm like, well, let me begin 69 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: to move on, because I'm not waiting on no nigga. 70 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: I wasn't even certain we'd get back together. Within the 71 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 1: past week. He all of a sudden expressed loving me 72 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: and wanting to be back together and work on us. 73 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: But now I'm hesitant he needs to work on his 74 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: communication skills. Slash does drink frequent at night, so he basically, well, 75 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: he's not an alcoholic. 76 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say because you didn't say that. 77 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: You said he just drinks a lot at night, which 78 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: makes him sometimes act like a dick. I was honest 79 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: with him that during this quote unquote break, I have 80 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: been texting people because he also said he may or 81 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: may not venture out too, so I started doing me. 82 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: But now he's trying to flip the script and act 83 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: like a victim because he's now mad that I have 84 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: niggas on on my line, like I'm not her left 85 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 1: my ass off. This is what she wrote. It's like 86 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: he wanted me to act like a sad puppy while 87 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: we weren't together. My thing is, if you want to 88 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 1: be back, show me and show me why I shouldn't 89 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 1: entertain these other niggas, like why would I cut people 90 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: off if you're not even applying pressure to show me 91 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: why we should be back together in the first place. 92 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 2: He wants me to. 93 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:26,359 Speaker 1: Cut them off, but I also said he needs to 94 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: show me he values and appreciates me, like I have 95 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 1: no problem with cutting them off because I'm not dating them. However, 96 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to be disappointed again. So you don't 97 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: want to put your eggs and with all your eggs 98 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 1: in one basket. I understand because you've done that before 99 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: and you've been portrayed by this gentleman, and I understand 100 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: that I got you. 101 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 2: I got you. 102 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:48,679 Speaker 1: So she also added this, I do want to add 103 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 1: I do love him. Oh so you ain't make that 104 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 1: clear at first, big head, And she said, he claims 105 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: he'll put in the effort, and if I don't think 106 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: he is, I can drive him. 107 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 2: But should I even give it a try again? Hmm? Okay, 108 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 2: hold up, hold. 109 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: Up, I know this shit getting good, but listen to 110 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, 111 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 1: you'll listen. Well, reading that was a struggle within itself, 112 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 1: because girl proof free before y'all hit send to me, 113 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 1: damn it. But it seems like, you know, if it 114 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: wasn't for you coming back telling me you do love him, 115 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 1: if you didn't add that part, I would have told you, 116 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: girl moved the fuck on. 117 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 2: No, I mean, because. 118 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 1: You want him to take you off the market again, 119 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 1: but you want him to show you. And if he 120 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: had not already shown you, you know what I'm saying, 121 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: then I feel like, no, that's'. 122 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 2: Pointless to wait for him to do that. 123 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: I think it's interesting that he chose to show you 124 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 1: that he loves you and he wants you back after 125 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: you moved on. And sometimes that works, but sometimes it's 126 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: too fucking late. Because shouldn't let a woman get to 127 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: that point where she feels like, you know, she needs 128 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 1: to go talk to somebody else. And this girl got 129 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: a rosta of dude. She said, Now it's no one 130 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: guy that the guy is trying to take her back from. 131 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: She's talking to more than one guy. It's plural, you know. 132 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: I feel like you shouldn't have to do that. You 133 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: should you should not have to take that off of anyone. 134 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: But I do feel like both of y'all, you know, 135 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: play a lot of games, you know what I'm saying, 136 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: because now it's just you were chasing him, but now 137 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: we're chasing you, and you got somebody else, and then 138 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: you know, you have other people at other contenders that 139 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: you are trying to see, if you know what I'm saying, 140 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: you're trying to It's like you ain't even. 141 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: Really interested in the other niggas. 142 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 1: You're just really trying to get up under his skin, 143 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying, And then that becomes a 144 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: toxic game because say he does take you away from 145 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: the guys, you know what I mean, just to prove 146 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: a point, because you're dealing with these guys to prove 147 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: a point, you know what I mean. 148 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 2: You're not really dealing. 149 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: With other guys or talking to other guys to explore 150 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: other shit and to you know, really really date or 151 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: you know, pursue any of them that you're talking to. 152 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: You're doing this to get back at the guy. You're 153 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 1: doing this with the motive of seeing if hell well, 154 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: you're doing this with high hopes that he will come 155 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: back and get you, you know, put his money where 156 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: his mouth is because you don't believe that he's changed, 157 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 1: you know, but in hindsight, you're still kind of living 158 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 1: your life for him, living your love life for him, 159 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It still goes back to 160 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 1: him some type of way. So it's not fair to 161 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 1: the other guys that you're talking to, you know what 162 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying, because you don't plan to be with them anyway. 163 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: So it's just a host of gangs being played. And 164 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: that's when I feel like the toxic comes in. So 165 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: I think you should do work on yourself. I don't 166 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 1: think you should try to get back with this gentleman, 167 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 1: although you know you say you do love him. I 168 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: feel like this is that ship is sailed and it's done, 169 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 1: and then you got to think about it. Maybe you're 170 00:08:56,679 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 1: only twenty eight. You're only twenty eight, you know now, 171 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 1: No that ain't young young young, but you know you 172 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: still got a whole lot of life ahead of you 173 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: in a world out there. 174 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 175 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 1: It's somebody that will treat you right, and you got 176 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: to go through these things, you know, to grow into 177 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: the woman that you are going to be, because who 178 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: you are right now, you will not be in five years, 179 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: and who you are in five years, you will not 180 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: be in ten. You understand what I'm saying. So all 181 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: of this is setting you up for a great relationship. 182 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: Because when I was in my twenties, baby, I was 183 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,199 Speaker 1: doing all types of ripping and running. Okay, you know 184 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: what I mean. I was doing it and doing it well. 185 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 1: But you know, and that's how I ended up with 186 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: my fiance. Now, you know, you're supposed to date, supposed 187 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: to do that, but I don't think you should put 188 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: so much energy into other guys. 189 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 2: To get another guy back. You get what I'm saying. 190 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: Girl, You young, you vibrant, you from Pittsburgh. You know 191 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:56,719 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. A lot of people may not think 192 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: it shit to do that, but it's shit to do 193 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: in Pittsburgh. I think you got you know what I'm saying. 194 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: I think you should. You should date, but not date 195 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 1: to get back at him. You know, date for yourself, 196 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: Date for yourself. Break those shanes, set yourself free, and 197 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 1: date for yourself. Keep me updated, though, baby, girl, Do 198 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: not go back. Do not go back, because better believe 199 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: he's still doing him. You didn't tell me how old 200 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: he was, but someone tells me that he's young as well, 201 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: you know, just like you. So so you're to be 202 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: putting yourself through this shit, girl, But it is also a. 203 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 2: Part of dating. 204 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: A part of dating you have to go through trial 205 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: and error and relationships, you know, to get to that 206 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: happy place, you know. 207 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:36,199 Speaker 2: So I totally understand. 208 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and 209 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: then we'll be right back moving on. Taylor just came 210 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: in here, y'all. Taylor, say hey, say hey to the people. 211 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: Oh all right, now, now you're not Spanish, Relax now, 212 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 1: I said, say hey to the people. I don't know 213 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 1: what you're trying to give because you know this is 214 00:10:58,679 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 1: about the deportation. 215 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 2: What are you what are you trying to prove? What 216 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 2: is coming from damn Oli? 217 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: Like you should feel comfortable with it now. Oh, first 218 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 1: of all, because my baby a little Mexican. 219 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 2: Hey ya, he's stupid. But no girl, Okay, so this 220 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:14,959 Speaker 2: was the story about. 221 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: Okay, So a woman had called up to breakfast club, 222 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: you know, for me to fix some mess, and she 223 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: was saying that her baby father was saying going around 224 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: saying that he knows me because you know, her baby 225 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: daddy is from Baltimore, she's from Baltimore as well, but 226 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 1: he's some producer in Atlanta now or whatever. 227 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 3: Now. 228 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: They got together. He said he didn't want kids. She 229 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: knew she always wanted kids. They ended up getting pregnant. 230 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:39,319 Speaker 1: She got an abortion because he said he didn't want 231 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 1: the child. 232 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: He they broke up. He manipulated her by saying, you 233 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:45,599 Speaker 2: know things like why would you even get rid of 234 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 2: the baby? 235 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: Why would you know what I mean? And she was like, nigga, 236 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:49,959 Speaker 1: you didn't want kids. You made that very clear. Why 237 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: the fuck are we playing games? So they broke up, 238 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 1: then got back together. He said he was ready to 239 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: have kids. Now if it happens, it happens, and we're 240 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna, we're gonna, uh, We're not gonna do 241 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 1: the abortion this time. I'm ready. She ended up getting pregnant. 242 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: Results for the same I don't want the kid, right, 243 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 1: but she had this baby. She said she got rid 244 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: of the baby, the first baby, no problem, no issues. 245 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 2: She was actually cool with doing it. 246 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: She said she was cool with doing it the nigga. 247 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: The second time around, after they got together, she get pregnant. 248 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 1: She not having an abortion this time, She's getting the 249 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,680 Speaker 1: bit she's having the baby. She had the baby. This 250 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 1: nigga's out of there. He don't do nothing for the 251 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: baby girl, nothing at all. And then he busts her window. 252 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 2: She don't. 253 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: She didn't tell me why, but he bust her window 254 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 1: so he won't be yun. Yes, hey, now he wanted 255 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 1: to be jazzys all but yes, pretty much, he would 256 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: like to be Jasmine like. But guess girl, so she's 257 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: all she wants she said, is for him to take 258 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: care of his child. Now what I asked her on 259 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: the show was this right? I said, this is your fault. 260 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. 261 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 2: It's her fault. 262 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,599 Speaker 1: That's just it's no way to cut it, slice it, 263 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 1: look at it or nothing like that. This ship is 264 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: her fault because you allowed this nigga to tell you listen, listen, y'all. 265 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 2: My bad. 266 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: I gotta tell Talor this. He told her the first time. 267 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 1: I would rather die than be a parent. I don't 268 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: want any kids. Damn, yes, Yanks, I would rather die. 269 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 4: If he's showing your car his card first time? 270 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like, no, you let that 271 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:37,199 Speaker 2: nigga die? 272 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 4: Why did you fall? 273 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 3: Like? 274 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 2: No? 275 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 3: And then even you saying, like, you know, I'm ready 276 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 3: this time if it happens to happen, like, are y'all 277 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 3: gonna be intentional with it? 278 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 2: I don't know. 279 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 3: And then even with him though, don't say you don't 280 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 3: want to, don't say you want you don't want to 281 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 3: have kids, and then you're not protecting you. 282 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 2: You're not protecting yourself. 283 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 1: But but you know, oh, this could have all been 284 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 1: soft if she had not gone back to the baby 285 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: the moment a man, yes, a man tells you I 286 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 1: would rather die than be a parent than have a baby. 287 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 2: That's somebody who's never getting in my eggs. I don't 288 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 2: give a fuck. 289 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: You're not ever even entering me raw, you're not going 290 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: I don't even I don't even want to fuck you. 291 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 2: I'm not even attracted to you. 292 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: Now that's your preference, But the severity of how you 293 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: feel about it, I would rather die, Okay? 294 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 2: Cool? 295 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: So you let him manipulate a person who said that 296 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: to you the first time around, and you got an abortion. 297 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 1: You know, you let him shoot the club up and 298 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: get you pregnant again. You let him blind you or 299 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: love bomb you so much the second time around that 300 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 1: you forgot that he said he would rather die than 301 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: be a parent, and you had the baby, and now 302 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: you're surprised. Now you're calling up to the breakfast club 303 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: to me asking me what the fuck. 304 00:14:58,840 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 2: You should do? 305 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: What the fuck you should have been dead? You left 306 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: him the first time, You should have stayed gone. 307 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 4: So he hasn't seen the child or anything. 308 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: Nope, he won't do anything for the baby girl, and 309 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: not at all. But you run around this motherfucker telling 310 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: people you know me, nigga, you don't know me. His 311 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: name is Spud Mackenzie. I kept saying stud Mackenzie. I 312 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: was broadcasting from somewhere else. I was in Atlanta, so 313 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: I really couldn't hear her clearly. I thought she said stud. 314 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 1: That's why I was like, oh, it makes sense. He 315 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: busts the window like a bitch. Okay, you know, studs 316 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: are still women at the end of the day. You know, 317 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: I don't care how long the locks are, how flat 318 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 1: the chest he is, honey, how long the dildo is. 319 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, yes, that's some bit shit. He busted 320 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: your window. That's crazy, crazy, yeah, yeah, But you run 321 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 1: around talking about you know me. Don't say you know me. 322 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 2: I want to define a nigga and blasto him so bad. 323 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: Although it is her fault, he needed to take some 324 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: fucking accountability too, because, yeah, nigga, you shot the club up, 325 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: you're having raw sex, Like. 326 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 2: A result of that is not a baby or std 327 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 2: you know anything. 328 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm saying, was he even like? 329 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 2: Who knows? 330 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: She didn't even say infidelity was one of the problems. 331 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 1: She didn't say he was ever a cheater or anything. 332 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 2: It was the kid. 333 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 3: Think I know someone. That not the same thing. But 334 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 3: why you dance someone if you really want to have kids? 335 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? Who don't? Yeah, that didn't make sense. He told you, no, 336 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 2: you didn't. 337 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 4: Girls. You guys got to start acting y'all can change. 338 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: You gotta stop acting like you will be the one 339 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: to change the guy. And then now you're calling up 340 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: here talking about you don't want your daughter all the time, 341 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 1: you want to break from your child. Look, that's the 342 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: result of dealing with a nigga. That's the result of 343 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 1: letting your guard down. That's the result of being fucking stupid. 344 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and that that's stupid. I can't believe he 345 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: said that the U and then you went back and 346 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 1: got pregnant by him. But that's why I told I 347 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: kept that ship on hunted with her like nah nah, 348 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: when that nigga told you he rather to die to 349 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: be a parent, you just killed the baby for him. 350 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 2: Now you let that nigga die. It's time. 351 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, no, no, no, yeah you're not. I'm sorry, 352 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 1: you go to fuck head. 353 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 3: I just want to know too, Why are you just 354 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 3: spilling in her like that. 355 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:09,880 Speaker 2: Like you think you think. 356 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: Contraception? You know, a contraception is abortion. She didn't even 357 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:16,959 Speaker 1: mention birth control. 358 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 2: No she wasn't. No, no goddamn birth controlling. He knew that 359 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 2: she wasn't. 360 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 4: No. 361 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 1: Niggas just don't give a fuck about abortions. 362 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 2: They don't. 363 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 1: It's not their body. A lot of niggas said to say, 364 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 1: they don't give a fuck. A lot of men don't 365 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 1: have to carry that that guilt in their mind that 366 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 1: they just, you know, killed the baby. You know what 367 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 1: I mean, They just got rid of a baby. They 368 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: have no idea what what women have to go through. 369 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 1: Laying there going back and forth in your mind because 370 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you really don't want to 371 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 1: get rid of the baby, or maybe you do, but 372 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: this is going this is wear and tear on your body, 373 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 1: on your uterus, like I know women who's had who 374 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 1: have had abortions and can't have kids no more because 375 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 1: of abortions, you get. 376 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,399 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like the fuck? You know 377 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 2: what I mean. 378 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 1: So guys don't care about that unless they had to 379 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 1: go through some ship like that, they don't care. You know, 380 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 1: I'm not saying every man, because no, every man is 381 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 1: not like that, but there are a percentage of guys 382 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,359 Speaker 1: and it does not affect them mentally, it does not, 383 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:25,360 Speaker 1: and they don't understand how it affects women in multiple ways. 384 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 1: So I in my opinion, I think, I mean, it's 385 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 1: kind of unfortunate. But she just like, yeah, now this 386 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 1: is your result that do it all for? 387 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah she should. 388 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: She called up it mackenzie Reginald something Reginald McKenzie. 389 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 3: Is his name, if you get cat like, does she 390 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 3: still is she still in contact with him or does 391 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 3: she knows his number? 392 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 1: He just don't do nothing for the baby. And she 393 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 1: said he's going around letting it, telling everybody she won't 394 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 1: let me see. 395 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:59,640 Speaker 2: My daughter and shit like that. Yeah, a very very. 396 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 1: Much him, very much a clown. 397 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 4: Like you know that well, I don't know that anybody. 398 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 3: You fucking know me, sweetheart, but it sounded like, well, 399 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 3: I don't know what happened with the DDG situation, but 400 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 3: like you so. 401 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know, I know, but see it, 402 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: oh that girl? Yeah, I know right, And it's the thing, 403 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 1: so did you see when? 404 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 2: All right? 405 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:29,399 Speaker 1: So going back, DDG dropped the fucking song right about 406 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: Hallie and then. 407 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 2: She won't let me see my son. 408 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,400 Speaker 1: And then also what I felt like, it wasn't all 409 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:40,119 Speaker 1: about Halo because in the in the song, he also 410 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: made it very clear that he wasn't fucking with no 411 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 1: bitches and it was about him. H It was about 412 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 1: you know, like, yeah, her, she can move on if 413 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: she but I know she not, and like I know 414 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: you not moving on? Like you know what I'm saying, 415 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: like stop acting tough or whatever. You know what I'm saying, 416 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: Like my nigga, this ain't all about hello, this is 417 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:03,919 Speaker 1: about Halle. 418 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's just so because even in like him 419 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,120 Speaker 3: son away, like yeah they kick she kissed me out 420 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 3: the house. 421 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 2: Or we're not together, you don't live with me? Yeah 422 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 2: that's what. 423 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 3: Like she was discussing, and she was like, how y'all 424 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,479 Speaker 3: not together, no more, like why do you think she 425 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:24,719 Speaker 3: still wants to be in your presence? 426 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:28,640 Speaker 1: Like what, You're not going to be in my house 427 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: with the baby? It's okay, like no, And then her 428 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 1: and the baby just came down with RSV. I think 429 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 1: the baby had it first, and then he probably gave 430 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: it to you, Halle. 431 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 2: And you have to quarantine you, you know. 432 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 1: So it was just them being sick in the house 433 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: and he was I guess, you know, upset at that 434 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 1: because he just wanted to take care of his baby 435 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: while he was sick. But Halle's like, yo, we gotta 436 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: get better, Like we're both in you're sick, you're gonna 437 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: catch it, then you're gonna give it to people, then 438 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 1: you're gonna get then we're gonna just be passing it 439 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 1: back up ooth to each other, like no, nigga, let 440 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: us get ourselves together. And then you can see him 441 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: because because then a couple of days later, who's. 442 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 2: On a streaming? Who's on stream? 443 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 3: Is? 444 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 2: What is dad? The big reveal? Oh my son came 445 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:07,439 Speaker 2: back to me. 446 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:11,120 Speaker 4: That's just corny, as I couldn't have that much patience and. 447 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 2: Look, this is the thing. 448 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: We also really still gotta think because I said the 449 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 1: same thing. We got to think about ddg's age too, 450 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 1: because they are they are all still young. Let me 451 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: see how old is DDG? Hey, sirih, how old is DDG? 452 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,160 Speaker 2: The answer I found is sixteen years? 453 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 1: Oh no he need she need no DDG, she said, dudugo. 454 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: Oh lord, no, what is this young man's name? Hold 455 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: on DDG. 456 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 2: Age? Okay, let's say he's twenty seven. 457 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:50,439 Speaker 1: Oh I know, but you know, the twenty seven year 458 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 1: old these days, Yeah, he's. 459 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 2: Immature, as young as fuck, you know what I mean. 460 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: And you know when I was twenty seven, I was 461 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 1: immature and not as immature as that, but I was 462 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 1: you know, he little kid, well not a kid, but 463 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: he's still young. 464 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 3: Mind like if at she ain't saying nothing, and then 465 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 3: she hasn't said anything. 466 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 2: You know, Halle is not you know, she doesn't appear 467 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 2: to be h she. 468 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 4: Doesn't live like that. And it probably cusses custom what. 469 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 2: I already know. 470 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,400 Speaker 1: She cusses him the funk out, and you know, it's 471 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 1: just it just gives like fucking clown. 472 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 3: It is because you're putting all of it on this 473 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:28,000 Speaker 3: social media area. 474 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,440 Speaker 2: Is just it's just wicked it's stupid. 475 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 4: But back to back to the girl though, Yeah, yeah, 476 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 4: ma'am you. 477 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 2: It's yeah, ma'am. 478 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 3: I was gonna say, you laid in your bed you 479 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 3: got like, yeah, you. 480 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 1: Know what I mean. 481 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's saying he's this and the third whatever, big 482 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 3: time producer. 483 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what big time now. 484 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 4: I'm just saying though he's saying what he is. 485 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, go to the court. 486 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,680 Speaker 4: I mean, hopefully he appears in the court. 487 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 2: Doesn't matter. If they don't know. 488 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,000 Speaker 1: I think it's it used to be you had to, 489 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:09,479 Speaker 1: Like I forgot how work because I never put Jerome 490 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 1: on child support, so I've never gone through that because I. 491 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 4: Would say, I don't know how, like if. 492 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:20,440 Speaker 3: He could, but he doesn't show what he doesn't show 493 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 3: up did Like, I just don't know how they know. 494 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 2: It's ways to get an on child support. It's ways, 495 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 2: I think it. 496 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 1: I think it's like a paternity test. Do you have 497 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 1: to get a paternity test? I don't know if he 498 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 1: see if he signed the birth certificate. Yeah, but see, 499 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,879 Speaker 1: she didn't even let us know. She didn't tell me 500 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 1: whether he was there or not when she had the baby. 501 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: She didn't tell us if he signed the birth certificate. 502 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 1: There's things that she didn't say. I think she was 503 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,919 Speaker 1: just more so called and like to like air him out, 504 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:56,919 Speaker 1: which is like super what, oh my god, it is, 505 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 1: but like why yeah, yeah, so they have to first 506 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: established paternity if he did not sign the birth certificate 507 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 1: established paternity, which he can be on a run from 508 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: net for fucking ever. But I think there are ways 509 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: now that are in effect where they can still get 510 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 1: you on some type ship because I know, support for 511 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:28,640 Speaker 1: kids that's not even theirs I know, and it's that easy. Yeah, yeah, 512 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 1: but what you're saying. 513 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 3: But I know a guy that always just saying that 514 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 3: his big mom like just takes money, like of course, 515 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 3: just take money out. 516 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 2: Of his account for real, but he'd be lying. I 517 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 2: don't know how all that all the days. 518 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, there's no advice to you, but don't let 519 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 1: it happen again. 520 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:53,919 Speaker 2: That's what I did tell her. 521 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, now, you you chose to lay 522 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,400 Speaker 1: down on your back again, spread your legs wide open, 523 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: and when and nigga told you spend a night or 524 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: you felt that dick stiffing and he already was coming. Yeah, 525 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,400 Speaker 1: that's what happened. You should have got your ways. Something 526 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 1: would to go. Get a fucking plan b right period. 527 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,880 Speaker 1: There's way that this could have been prevented, But then 528 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 1: that would be regretting your child, and let me, your 529 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: child wouldn't be here, and you definitely don't want to 530 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 1: regret your child. You just regretted your actions, but you 531 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 1: can't regret your actions without regretting your child's shame. 532 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 2: So good luck. 533 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: It's just one of those situations you got to deal 534 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 1: with love, And that is the end of this episode 535 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 1: of Carefully Reckless. 536 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 2: Y'all, y'all say bye to Taylor. Okay now, Taylor. 537 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 3: You say bye right now. 538 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 2: Catch you next week on Carefully Reckless. 539 00:25:42,480 --> 00:26:56,399 Speaker 1: Piece Can't Believe Reckless is a production of iHeart Radio 540 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 1: and The Black Effect. For more podcasts from iHeart Radio 541 00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:03,400 Speaker 1: than this is the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever 542 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: you listen to your favorite shows.