1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: Who's that knocking at the door. It's all your friends. 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: You've filthy horse, your husband's gone, and we've got books 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: and a bottle of wine to kill. It's Hollywood, it's books, 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: it's gossip. I'm sure it's memoir, it's martinis. Celebrity poof Club, 5 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: Read it while it's hot. Celebrity poof Club, Tell your secrets. 6 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: We won't talk celebrity books. No boys are a loud 7 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: celebrity book say it loud and cloud Celebrity book Club. 8 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:37,319 Speaker 2: Buzz me in. I brought the queer vow. 9 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: Heyst, where are you? 10 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 2: Literally? Where am I ware? What? Who? You come to yourself? 11 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:48,319 Speaker 2: I travel so. 12 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: Much travel and at our age, sometimes our heads can 13 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: be elsewhere. 14 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: Luckily, my knees stn't work? 15 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: Oh do they? Because you are your fucking all the time. 16 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 2: This, Oh, how dare you? You're the cocksucker? 17 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 1: And how great reviews? Beautiful reviews? 18 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: And you know what if I did even suck dick, 19 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 2: amazing reviews may be like wonderful, wonderful, wonder wonderful. Listen, 20 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 2: No enough of the bathroom humor. 21 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: Seriously, let's get serious because we have an extremely elegant 22 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:26,919 Speaker 1: topic today. 23 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 2: I know it's actually I'm like, oh, we started off 24 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 2: so rawling elegance and we're talking about butter today. Oh 25 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 2: and we're talking about oh, I don't know, crisp white 26 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 2: wine from the Piedmont region. 27 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, or even can I say it's hilarious, so wrong 28 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,919 Speaker 1: to have I don't know the crispus have ever happened. 29 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 2: I don't know what about. I don't know what insanely 30 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: crisp peanut grease at lunch at one pm with your 31 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 2: older son. 32 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: Who made me a beautiful Welsh rampit because he's really 33 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: coming into his own as a chef, were talking about. 34 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 2: We're talking about none other than the hottest man to 35 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: all moms in the entire world. 36 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 1: That is so true, mom bait. 37 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 2: Literally, mom bait, we were talking about one of the 38 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 2: yummiest Italian Americans in history. 39 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: One of the original metrosexuals. 40 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 2: Literally, No, he's like the last, the original and the last. 41 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 2: And we're going to get into that, someone who is 42 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 2: famous for acting but is now known for. 43 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 1: Food and his guns. Ladies, because he do be working 44 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: out quite often, often with his yoga. 45 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: Instruct Okay, shake, shake, shake your groove thing, that's a 46 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 2: negroni I'm talking about. We are talking about none other than. 47 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: Stanley touch and his brand new book What I Ate 48 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:56,679 Speaker 1: In One. 49 00:02:56,520 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 2: Year and related thoughts. H This whole book is so 50 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 2: like yummy, and it's like jazz. It's like soft jazz, 51 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 2: rainy London afternoon with a good glass of wine. 52 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: This book is full up jazz. And it was so 53 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: perfect that I was reading on the plane from Nantucket 54 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: to La Guardia, having just had a week of being 55 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: like mm so like rich, but also like cozy and 56 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: gloomy because it was like shoulder season late September Nantucket. 57 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 1: I was there. Yeah, I'll spill the beans. 58 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 2: Saw your personal life on this personal trip, but it 59 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 2: was personal yet for your wife's business, yes, which is 60 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 2: so Stanley. So he's always being so like well off 61 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 2: to the Dingly Literary Festival with Felicity. God, she has 62 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 2: so many launches. Okay, So you were having like a gluey. 63 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: And as we do this, I'm gonna make us a 64 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: very Stanley Tucci beverage by just what they had on 65 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: the iHeart fridge, because sometimes you just have to go with. 66 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: It's available, just what's available. 67 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: Some kind of improvised spaghettes, which is a little stella 68 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: with a splash. 69 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 2: Of apaol, which you a true spaghett is Miller high 70 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 2: life an apaol. 71 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: Okay, but he do want one, You're going to try it. 72 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: We love to peer pressure on this pod, and I 73 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 2: think Estella will work because you know, I think the 74 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 2: whole point of like the spaghetti is this high low, 75 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,359 Speaker 2: like really watery beer, and Estella is you know, like 76 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: the most plain airport lounge delta beer. 77 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: So it's like it's a pale European lagger. 78 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: And Stanley Tucci is having to do a collab in 79 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 2: like skinny for it. 80 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: No one is more airport lounge than too cheap. What 81 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: I've realized reading this book is that he really is 82 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: so comfortable in like a pretty new hotel. Yeah, where 83 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: they have like the backlit bar and the high top 84 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: like blonde wood tables. 85 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 2: Blondewood tables but like deep orange hues. 86 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: Yes, or she was on like deep steel window like fenestration. 87 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 2: Oh wait, while you make these, I'm just gonna read 88 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 2: this passage just to kind of put us in place 89 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 2: with this book of him checking into a hotel. Here's 90 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 2: your set, Okay, thank you, darling, Cheers beautiful after Annenna's 91 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 2: arrived from JFK to Manhattan. We checked into the Whitby Hotel, 92 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,679 Speaker 2: which is part of the Firmdale Group. I love staying 93 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 2: in their hotels because there's a consistency of eccentric, cozy design. 94 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: They are spotlessly clean and beautifully appointed, and the staff 95 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 2: is kind. I first stayed and won the Covenant Garden 96 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 2: Hotel in London over twenty years ago with Kate while 97 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 2: promoting Big Night. We had the loveliest time together at 98 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 2: that trip, and it was the first time I'd ever 99 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 2: seen an Honesty bar, which is a stable in all 100 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 2: Firmdale hotels. Another property of theirs, the Charlotte Street Hotel, 101 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 2: is where I stayed while filming Captain American, where Flissy 102 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:50,719 Speaker 2: and I first spent time together. 103 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 1: As they say, this is so crazy because when the 104 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 1: Firmdale Hotel group first comes up, like earlier in the book, 105 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: when you stayed at the Crosby Hotel, which is a 106 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: Firmdale property and so and he just goes more on 107 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 1: that later, and I'm like, more on the Firmdale Group later. 108 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,919 Speaker 2: I was like, girl, what more on that later? 109 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: And lo and behold, there was much more to say 110 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: about their incredible properties. 111 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 2: Because a lot of times when like a book will 112 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 2: be so like and we'll get to that later in 113 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 2: the Luanaway, they don't get to it. But he was 114 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 2: so being like, no, I must finish my thoughts on 115 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 2: the firmiler. 116 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:30,239 Speaker 1: He's a hospitality pilled mama. 117 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 2: So I guess this book is also even though it's 118 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 2: all about like cod and butter, it is also like 119 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 2: a meditation on aging, his wife, dying, his new wife, 120 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 2: his own mortality with his new wife, Emily Blunt's sister, 121 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 2: Felicity Blunt. 122 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: Such a funny name, Felicity Blunt. 123 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 2: Hello, I'm fit and she is a literary agent. 124 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 1: It's just the most literary agent thing that could possibly be. 125 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 2: It's such a movie, like a British John spin off, 126 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 2: being like, oh meet my agent, Felicity Blunt. She'll be 127 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 2: taking you to dinner. 128 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 1: Okay, So let me ask you something before we even 129 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: get into all the journal entries. And this really quite 130 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: lovely book, lovely book. So his wife died of cancer, Kate, 131 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: his wife of fifteen years, has two kids with her. 132 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: She dies in two thousand and nine. 133 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 2: And you know the whole backstory also with their marriage, 134 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: which was he did a play with Edie Falco. They 135 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 2: had an affair, he left his wife Kate. 136 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: And just you know, Stanley, if you're listening, this is 137 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: a literary criticism pot and we will be talking about 138 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: the chart. There's just a little bit of Delbert, but 139 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: of course we're mostly talking about food and literature. 140 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 2: Well, Felicity Blunt, Yeah, the way he left his wife 141 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 2: for her and then his wife had cancer and he 142 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 2: got back with his wife and left Edie Falco and 143 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 2: Edi fa never married. 144 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he got out of cancer guilt. 145 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 2: I don't know I who's out of cancer guilt. I 146 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 2: think he was like, let me get back with my wife. 147 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 2: But some mother my children. 148 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: Yes, And sometimes an illness can throw your priorities into 149 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: stark relief. 150 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know the exact timeline. It could have 151 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 2: been like he needed some relief. And you know, of 152 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 2: course you've done many plays. When you do play and 153 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 2: you're with the cast, emotions. 154 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: Playing chemistry, and that can supersede reality. 155 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 2: Right, we almost get into these romances. Forty five minutes 156 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 2: at the iHeart Offices. 157 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Also just the redness of the iHeart Studio, 158 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: the roomb if you will, and I. 159 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: Saw this quote from felt being like, oh, I'm thrilled 160 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 2: he's back with his wife. I'm sure anyway, I read 161 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 2: his wife did pass sadly, passes. 162 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: Very sadly in two thousand and nine. In two thousand 163 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: and ten, he attends the wedding of John Krasinski and 164 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: Emily Blunt and whoms does he meet at the wedding 165 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: Felicity Bluntity And of course. 166 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 2: He had just done the devil rest pradact with Emily, 167 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 2: which is they were becoming quite close. 168 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: And then one you later he's married to Felicity. 169 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 2: I think to one year later he they hook up 170 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 2: at a firm deal group property and at the Charlotte 171 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 2: Street Hotel. Sorry, okay, they make and then the next 172 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 2: year they're married. I mean, when I read that timeline, 173 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, wife, If illco back with wife, wife dies. 174 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: I mean, he's a talent, it's also passionate. 175 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 2: Also, it's classic man they need women, Yes, they need woman. Also, 176 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 2: I think I don't think it's too soon. No, my 177 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 2: first reaction was absolutely right. 178 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: I said, if I died and my boyfriend. 179 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 2: Married within two years, right. 180 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,439 Speaker 1: Lived would be absolutely corpse. 181 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 2: You'd be rolling in your firm deal group grave. I 182 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 2: think it's also I mean he had two kids and 183 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: was like, I think that just is very classic male. 184 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 2: They're like, okay, I'm a single father. 185 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 1: I need to like But also like Tucci is the 186 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: most eligible man alive, and so just like when he 187 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:04,199 Speaker 1: became an Eli bachelor, it's like, so he's a gorgeous 188 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: man who takes care of his body, wildly successful, elegant, 189 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 1: can cook, loves travel, knows about wine, cares a little 190 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: breast literature. 191 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 2: It's like, he's not gonna stay single. But I also 192 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 2: don't see and to your point of all those things, 193 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 2: I think he is someone that wants like more of 194 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 2: a long term companion. I don't think after the wife 195 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 2: he was probably like, Okay, I'm gonna like fuck around. 196 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:27,559 Speaker 2: He's like, I'm just gonna move on fast and get 197 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 2: a younger wife and younger. She is younger, she is 198 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 2: she's younger than Emily. Yeah, she's twenty one years his junior. 199 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: And there is a place, there's funny part where he's 200 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: just like, and of course my child. And then comes 201 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: the questions, why are you so much older than mommy? 202 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: But why is mommy still taller than you? 203 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 2: The bar was so funny. He was like, this is 204 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,479 Speaker 2: what's happening during bedtime, which. 205 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: Makes them a huge fem tiny butch couple. Yes, but 206 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 1: this makes sense because I heard from someone recently that 207 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: I saw in real life. Oh yeah, he said they 208 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: had seen Stanley Tucci recently in real life, and of 209 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 1: course the Union Square Farmer's market. 210 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 2: Of course, and he was like just picking up what's fresh, 211 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 2: and he's like, I'm so into aliums lately. 212 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: And they said he was short af I mean Italian 213 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 1: guys are short, and he was wearing like when do 214 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 1: you remember? He was wearing an open cartigan kind of 215 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: maybe a khaki pant or a dress pant, a rown 216 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: kind of like leathery sneakery kind of dress shoes like 217 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: Dad Dad, but. 218 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 2: Like it's all Rothman's like he was probably like really 219 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 2: nice leather. 220 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: It was definitely nice, like Milanese, like four hundred and 221 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: fifty dollars, like sneaker dress shoes. 222 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 2: In this book, He's like, well, you know, I like 223 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 2: clothes as much as I like food. 224 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,599 Speaker 1: I certainly does. Yeah, I don't think everyone needs to 225 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: wear a three piece suit every day, but my goodness, 226 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: he was like. 227 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 2: My goodness a T shirt to a premiere and he's like, 228 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 2: this is why I love wool and this is why 229 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 2: I love Autumn. 230 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: This book is very transparent about the job of celebrity 231 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 1: because it's just like he's like, I'm a sanm Pella 232 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 1: greena ambassador, I'm a Tanker Ray. 233 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 2: And also it's like Tanker Ray number three, Like he 234 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 2: really gets specific. 235 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 1: He's like, well take Gray number ten. There's no number three. 236 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 2: I'll leave. 237 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 1: You can see yourself out. 238 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 2: This is like when I heard it, Gay was like, 239 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 2: I'm surprised how much Lily doesn't know. On the podcast, 240 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 2: this is when he's referring to go on. 241 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 1: For the Palace event, I had chosen to wear a 242 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: cream colored linen, double breasted and muted plaid suit, a 243 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: white shirt of brown tie, brown socks, and brown shoes. 244 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: I love clothing as much as I love food, and 245 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 1: I always like to dress not only well but appropriately 246 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: for whatever the occasion might be. I loathe the fact 247 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 1: that our world has become so casual, so many people 248 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: were the same thing for a night on in the 249 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: town or to the theater that they were around the house, 250 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: which is most often a T shirt and jeans, or 251 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: even just sweatpants. When I did some cocktail videos during 252 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 1: lockdown for my Instagram, one person commented very excitedly that 253 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: I was wearing pants and a belt, although to be fair, 254 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 1: that was all people talked about in lockdowns and pants 255 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: with pants and hard pants, hard pants and soft pants. 256 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: Let's face it, adults today dressed like children. Shots fired. 257 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: I'm not suggesting that one down a three piece suit 258 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: every day, but anything other than short sneakers and T 259 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: shirts plastered with oversized logos or catchphrases like I used 260 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: to drink but that was hours ago, or shit I 261 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: don't have time for, followed by a list of that 262 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: quote shit would be a step in the right direction. 263 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:36,319 Speaker 2: Him quoting my sassy Walmartees, I was obsessed. Im go off. 264 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 2: I mean say more, say it more for the people 265 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 2: in the back, and you don't. And that's the thing. 266 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 2: You don't have to be a coastally. It's just like 267 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 2: we think, now, oh, everyone else's casual, so then you 268 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 2: don't dress up, and then it's just casual. Casual casual. 269 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:50,079 Speaker 2: I mean, go to the theater and people aren't. 270 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 1: You go to the theater and people are in sweet 271 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 1: sure vests, disgusting, horrendous. You and I are going to 272 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 1: a film premiere after this, and we're and stun beautiful 273 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 1: slacks kids, ripe slacks and dress shoes and button down 274 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 1: shirts and silver brais. 275 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 2: Silver bracelets, and we didn't plan these outfits to be 276 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 2: max exactly. The thing. What I was so inspired by 277 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 2: reading this book is I kept on like reading, and 278 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 2: then I would get up and go to my fridge 279 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 2: and just make kind of random ship because I feel 280 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 2: like that's what like random shit, because I was like, 281 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 2: this theme is about how he's always like, oh, like 282 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 2: my kids are so picking. He's trying to like push 283 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 2: more things on them, but they're also kind of like 284 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 2: still more advanced than like most I would say, like 285 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 2: American children, Like one of them, who's four, is always 286 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 2: asking for like butter noodles. 287 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: But the other one is like then graduates to wanting apasta, 288 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: wanting to an apasta, which I would have never had 289 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 1: as like an eight year old or whatever. 290 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 2: Now and they're having like pesto at four, which I 291 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 2: feel like. 292 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 1: I arrived home in time to see the kids before school. 293 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: They did pot moments afterwards into the Caravra nanny who's 294 00:14:58,040 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 1: barely mentioned. 295 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, then nanny. But then you're like, obviously they have 296 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: so much nann eating because like Ham and Felicity are 297 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 2: always going out. 298 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: But we'll get to the parenting in a second. Who, 299 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: along with Felicity more than picked up the slack while 300 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: I was away. I scrambled some eggs, pried up some 301 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 1: Cotto cook slice Italian Ham, slapped it all between two 302 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 1: pieces of lightly toasted white bread from the nineteen fifties 303 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: our bakery around the corner, wolfed it down, then collapse 304 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: into bed for longer than I'm disapated. Obviously, the sleeping 305 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: pill decided that it had not completely fulfilled its mission. 306 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: In the evening, after the children in pasta combest though, 307 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: I seen muscles and white wineishchilads and garlic, dressed them 308 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 1: with olive oil and parsley, and serve them with toasted 309 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 1: French bread. I also made spaghetti with fresh tomato sauce 310 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: for me because I was hungry than I had realized. 311 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: Felicity declined my offer to join me for a bit 312 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 1: of it. 313 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 2: Can I just say this to all of you kto 314 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 2: heads out there, and you're like, we need to eat 315 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 2: like eight hundred pounds of like bacon and steak and 316 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 2: like chicken and TikTok girls making duns bean salads is 317 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 2: like you can have pasta. 318 00:15:57,360 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: Fasta around the clock. Yeah, So well, everything he eats 319 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: is so delicious, don't need to have like the most 320 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 1: restaurants he goes. 321 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 2: To, right, which he's always like so annoyed. Yeah, which 322 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 2: I love him talking about bad restaurants. 323 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: And he never names the restaurants, which is which. 324 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 2: Perhaps a bit too Yeah, and he doesn't even mention 325 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 2: like Delta when they piss him off. 326 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: I know, And I'm a little like maybe like name 327 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 1: your enemy a little more, like it's okay. 328 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 2: Like he has pasta probably like every other night, if 329 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 2: not every. 330 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 1: Day, and he looks incredible because he also works out. 331 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 2: With hit Monique, his trainer. He's exercising like two hours 332 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 2: a day and a lot of I think you know 333 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 2: what he's having. And he says, which is so true, 334 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 2: Like it's so much better than like Fanny Singer's like 335 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 2: coming home pasta that's we've roasted to no end of 336 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 2: having like three pots of pasta boiling and like wild garlic. 337 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 2: He says, when he gets to a place, a new place, 338 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 2: he makes a tomato sauce just to ground himself. 339 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: That was so coming home pasta though, but I'm saying. 340 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 2: It's a little more real than coming home pasta. Yes, 341 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 2: is my point of her just being like, get seven pots, 342 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 2: find the wild garlic. He's just being like, what do 343 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 2: I actually have? Okay, I have this one onion, I 344 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 2: have garlic. 345 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 1: I can make canto sauce. 346 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 347 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: So I made in my like gloomy too cheese week 348 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: on Nantucket, we made pasta a la home when no sorry, 349 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 1: pizza Ala home pizza. And I made a tomato sauce 350 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: that I thought was so good, one of the best 351 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 1: tomato sauces I've made, and obviously was so simple. But 352 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 1: I just did one Vodalia. 353 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,439 Speaker 2: Onion so sweet you can almost eat it like an apple. 354 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 2: She's always saying that. He's just been like, hm, Millie, 355 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 2: my fouryerl didn't want to bite into the Vodalia raw, 356 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 2: but I put a little butter and salt on it. 357 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: Well there's one Lunch just makes onions, literally just makes onions. 358 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, onion. 359 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,880 Speaker 2: I I love onions anyway, So you did just garlic 360 00:17:57,160 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 2: basil tomato, no basil in the sauce. 361 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: Okay, the sauce was just the garlic, the onion, tomato paste, 362 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: a whole thing of anchovies, the whole can of San 363 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: Marzana tomatoes, and then a little ban of onion powder, 364 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: a little then of garlic powder. I know that's kind 365 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: of unorthodox, a little bit to put the powders in, 366 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: but it's like you can do. Why pretend that I'm 367 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 1: not just at home, you know, making a pantry pasta sauce, or. 368 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 2: You want to throw powder. 369 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 1: I used to be just a smidge no. 370 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 2: No, I used to be like very hashtag Italians mat 371 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 2: of food, Like I didn't grow up with garlet powder 372 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 2: or like onion powder, right, and I have brought it 373 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 2: into my home and like I'll use it sparingly when 374 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:42,639 Speaker 2: I want it. And it's like, yeah, let's throw this 375 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 2: on the chicken. Let's throw a little onion powder on 376 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 2: a sauce. It's not going to kill it. 377 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes. Yes. The point is my pizza sauce was 378 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: really quite lovey. Did you make the dough? So the 379 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 1: dough was no judgment purchased, but it was local dough. 380 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 1: It was from something natural bakery. It was like a 381 00:18:58,720 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 1: Nantucket Bakery. 382 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 2: No, literally, that's so Stanley Tucci. Yeah, like, oh, we 383 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 2: stopped by and we provisioned like an amazing dough. We 384 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 2: can whip this up. Sirsha Ronan is going over later. 385 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: Sirsha and her lovely brother and his wife and their kids, 386 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:18,640 Speaker 1: and they raise their kids the way that we do 387 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: to behave themselves. 388 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, he talks about parenting and they're going on 389 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 2: this like holiday trip and he's like, I just have 390 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 2: a few rules because I cannot go on holiday with 391 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 2: people that don't parent like me. And my rules are 392 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 2: like say you're pleasing, thank yous, and just like go 393 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 2: to bed at a certain time. 394 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 1: There is something very I would say, unbothered about his 395 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 1: parenting style, which I think is partially so this is 396 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:45,119 Speaker 1: his second round of kids. Yeah, he's also sixty and 397 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 1: rich and has a nanny that goes unmentioned. But there 398 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,440 Speaker 1: is a little bit of this where it's like it's. 399 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 2: A very celebrity where it's just like, oh, he calls 400 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 2: Felicity fee so like maybe they'll be in France or 401 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 2: something like that and like we'll be like, oh we 402 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 2: when with already on who is our host? And we 403 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 2: chased tadpools with the kids, and then it's kind of 404 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 2: drop the kids off, and then Fie and I went 405 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 2: to like seven different like local oyster restaurant. 406 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 1: There's this joy of seeing the world through the kids 407 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,119 Speaker 1: are so which of course happens. We have kids and 408 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: it's wonderful. But like when he's visiting their parents in 409 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,400 Speaker 1: Florida for the most where we did little to nothing 410 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 1: except eat and take million Mateo that's the two younger 411 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 1: kids that he has with Felicity to one of the 412 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 1: small community pools that the part of this sprawling condo 413 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 1: complex where my folks live. We splashed about with them, 414 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 1: play the loudest games of Marco Polo the condo residents 415 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: have probably ever heard, and helped Mateo as best we 416 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 1: could to capture and hold chameleons for hours on end 417 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 1: over our five days stay. My mother made various positives 418 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,639 Speaker 1: from her repertoire chicken cut lit, slap chops. But I 419 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 1: feel like the way he's talking about parenting is a 420 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 1: little bit like it's the first time he's seen the 421 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 1: kids in a while. It's always a little bit like. 422 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 2: Well, because he's traveling so much and he's always like 423 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 2: doing openings for his cookwear line out a Williams Sonoma 424 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 2: and then is like doing a movie where he plays 425 00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 2: a priest, like New Orleans. And then he's like, I 426 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 2: love seeing my kids. 427 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,919 Speaker 1: I love seeing my kids. Oh my god, we caught Solomonders. 428 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:10,919 Speaker 1: It's so cute anyway byeto club. 429 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 2: Okay, are we going to talk about it? Let's finally 430 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:27,400 Speaker 2: talk about it. So on page sixty nine, he starts 431 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 2: dropping little references. 432 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 1: This is the first instance I. 433 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 2: Have where you're like, do you guys have an open marriage? 434 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 2: He says Felicity was out this evening. She said it 435 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 2: was work related. I chose to believe her. And then 436 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 2: just I'm gonna give you this is a whole other 437 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 2: thing that we need to talk about. I made Chip 438 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 2: a lot of sausages for the kids in the new Airfire, 439 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 2: amazing contraption, and a side of rice and peas. 440 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: Now is that I'm surprised he likes the air f 441 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 1: I was really surprised. He also mentions that she makes 442 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 1: a broth at an instant pot. At one point, I 443 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 1: was kind of like, that makes more sense, that's very boomer. 444 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: But the airfire I was kind of shocked by because 445 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 1: He also when he goes that wine bar that has 446 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: the weird. 447 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 2: Oh my god, with the machine marking. 448 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 1: Me that quirks the bottle. I thought he would hate that. 449 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 1: That was so gimmicky and weird. 450 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but there is something. This is why he likes 451 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 2: the Firmdale Group. Yes, no, I feel like blonde. I 452 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 2: feel like there's something metrosexual. Or you may disagree, like 453 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 2: I feel like my Gadgett Gotchet's Sharper Brookstone and he's 454 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 2: been like, wait, so get this. We went to this 455 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 2: wonderful owned by the W Group. So basically it's there's 456 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 2: a bar where you press a button, wine pours out 457 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 2: and then it like corks it back up. And he's like, 458 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 2: and it stays fresh for three weeks. Like, I feel 459 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 2: like it is just dad to be so impressed by that, 460 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 2: even though he's so like Tuscany, like these onions have 461 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 2: gone bad, He's just like, oh my god, what an 462 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 2: amazing contraption that is. 463 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 1: There's also the point in which I don't know if 464 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,640 Speaker 1: it's like Liam Neeson or like Colin fir this over 465 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 1: for dinner, but he's like, we tried to hyper decant 466 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 1: wine in a blender. Insane I really want to try that. 467 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was Colin Firth, and he's like, Firth made 468 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:16,679 Speaker 2: me hyperd decant. Next time we get together, let's totally 469 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:17,479 Speaker 2: hyperd decant. 470 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 1: Okay. So the next kind of like instance that maybe 471 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: like something's rotten in this Denmark being their marriage, he goes, 472 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:29,640 Speaker 1: they're cooking scallops that even Felicity saw taped some scallops, 473 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 1: but they didn't really see it because the pan had 474 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 1: not gotten hot enough, which was my fault because I 475 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: had reduced the heat as the butter was about to 476 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 1: burn and didn't communicate that. They didn't work out as 477 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,399 Speaker 1: well as she had hoped. She ate a few, but 478 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,479 Speaker 1: I had overindulged in cold soup not long before. I 479 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: only had one. 480 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 2: That that was a horror movie to me. That paragraph 481 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 2: like when you put a scallop down and. 482 00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: My god, sitting there baking with baking from the inside. 483 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 2: Out, My god chills. 484 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's just gonna be this kind of sad, thick, 485 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 1: rubbery sweat scallup that isn't getting that gorgeous here, no, Chris, 486 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 1: because this scallop should be seared at the highest he 487 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: possible for the shortest amount of time. 488 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 2: One minute. Then there's a moment where like he's like 489 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 2: stripping outdoor furniture because like they put ugly varnish on it, 490 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,959 Speaker 2: which again was like so metrosexual, and he's like, didn't 491 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 2: eat fee and I are like in an argument, and 492 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 2: I feel awful about it. 493 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 1: Also, when she's sort of out of town for the weekend, 494 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 1: then she comes back, he's making obviously small potatoes and 495 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 1: carrots with garlic and onions, rosemary time and leaks and 496 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: spring onions and larger potatoes and a potato leak soup 497 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: and he's chicken breadth. 498 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 2: It is planning parmasana, but it's not. It's actually the 499 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:54,640 Speaker 2: way my family does it. 500 00:24:55,040 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: And so she's been in France allegedly I'm alone with 501 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,360 Speaker 1: Millia Matteo as Felicity is on a sort of retreating 502 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: Bordeaux with two colleagues, something I almost believe was true. 503 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 2: That line was insane. 504 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,159 Speaker 1: I mean creps that morning for them. That just she 505 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 1: just leaves it there. So I'm just like wait because 506 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: at first, like it happens, You're like, do you try 507 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: to make a joke? Be like, oh, like is that 508 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 1: what she's doing? And then then she comes back Okay, 509 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: so this is when Repack yes. Upon her arrival, she 510 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: was delighted to see the children, of course, smothered them 511 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 1: with hugs and kisses. Cursorally pecked me on the cheek 512 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,920 Speaker 1: and started to eat. Soon afterwards, we all watched a 513 00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,360 Speaker 1: Harry Potter film. She promptly fell asleep beside a wide 514 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 1: awake Millie. Seems that someone had a busy weekend. I 515 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 1: chose to remain in ignorant bliss. 516 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 2: That was insane. What cursory peck on the cheek. 517 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: Which is so something you do after you've been having 518 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:45,920 Speaker 1: an affair. 519 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,159 Speaker 2: Well, also, I remember having this thought as a child, 520 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 2: and like seeing parents always like peck bank on it, 521 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 2: girl pack each other. And I was like, wait, what's 522 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 2: what the peck? I was like, do parents even make out? 523 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 2: Like I've never seen parents make out before? Like do 524 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 2: you just peck when you're older and married? 525 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: I know it's this weird thing because like I'm not 526 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: sure if it's because like old lips are weirder. 527 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 2: Or it's like in old they're always so hum right. 528 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: Well old movies they're always so close mouth kiss. Yeah. 529 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 1: Times where boomers learned to kiss was from old movies. Yeah, 530 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 1: so they don't know how. 531 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,120 Speaker 2: To from Humphrey Bogart and they weren't watching such wild 532 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 2: things and things I hate about Sessions. 533 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 1: But I also feel like they were going to like 534 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,400 Speaker 1: make out mountain in their like nulteen fifty one, Like. 535 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 2: They were victorious and they were being like sucking face. 536 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 2: They were sucking face, and there was so much heavy 537 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 2: padding and like putting their hands up like varsity jackets. O. 538 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, she put her hand up his jacket. So I 539 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 1: feel like if any one over sixties making out, it's 540 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:50,479 Speaker 1: Tanley Tucci. 541 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. So then there's this final this where he names 542 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 2: the puppy yes, and they buy they my mother, yea, 543 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 2: thank you. Our marriage is doing just great. They buy 544 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 2: this house in the British countryside. It's also just like 545 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 2: classic celebrity thing where he's like, oh, it's so expensive 546 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 2: and it's going to take like all my life savings 547 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 2: to fix up this house in the English country stide. 548 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 1: It's just the poverty cosplays the brief poverty cost. 549 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 2: I have to work and I have to renovate, and 550 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 2: I'm gonna die if I don't renovate. We spent the 551 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 2: day at the house with the architects, and the engineer 552 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 2: and the landscapers. I'm very excited about the prospect of 553 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 2: creating a home where we can spend time together as 554 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 2: a family, where friends and extended family can come from 555 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 2: long weekends. Where I can build an art studio in 556 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 2: an auxiliary kitchen in which to film the cooking show 557 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 2: that has been percolating in my hungry mind for a 558 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 2: while now. Where we can plant a vegetable garden and 559 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,159 Speaker 2: a small orchard and put the benefits of them to 560 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,360 Speaker 2: good use every season. Where my daughters or sons can 561 00:27:54,400 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 2: get married, Where Felicity can bring her lover parenthesy s lovers, 562 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 2: where my protologists can visit, where our grandchildren can spend time. 563 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 2: He goes on, so, so. 564 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, actually, Polly dire And at that point you're like, 565 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 1: so that's the poll reveal. Yeah, And I'm like, if 566 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: it was a joke, it would be like more of 567 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,640 Speaker 1: an obvious running joke. But it's only like reference basically, 568 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:23,879 Speaker 1: these three times of him being like, Huh, guess you 569 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:24,639 Speaker 1: had a fun weekend. 570 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 2: Guess you had a fun night. Oh, you had a 571 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 2: book launch tonight. She certainly has a lot of launches. Meanwhile, 572 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 2: he's at a San pellygreena launch every hour of the day, right, 573 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,919 Speaker 2: And he's like, doing, are they open? And is it? 574 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 2: Just like I don't ask, don't tell, because like he's 575 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 2: known for Landra one. Two he's older, so she's like, 576 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 2: you're old, Like I need to have fun. Three he 577 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 2: travels so much, so she's like, I need to have 578 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 2: fun if I'm just. 579 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 1: Gonna be he's twenty two years her senior. It's like, 580 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: I do feel like, you know, she's in a different 581 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: generation in which open marriage is more common. It's weird 582 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 1: that he would like I feel like because he's so 583 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 1: like Instagram video every day of like Risotto, their whole 584 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 1: he might be so like weird interview in parade being 585 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 1: like we're. 586 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 2: Open, but no, I know, and I like then I 587 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 2: started googling Stanley's and there's nothing about it. No. And 588 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 2: there's one interview where he says he'd tried to break 589 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 2: up with her because he was like I felt embarrassed 590 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 2: because I was so much older than her, and like 591 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 2: in this kind of like no, don't. 592 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 1: Leave, no, don't leave me. 593 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 2: Like we're going on holiday with Emily and John and 594 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 2: the kids and Ryan Reynolds and Blake coming over and 595 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 2: he's being like, oh my risotta plan is ruined. So 596 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 2: I kind of think they're open. He thinks he's being 597 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 2: really like funny and dad joke about their. 598 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 1: Open I mean, unless he's just being dad joke in 599 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 1: general and they're not open, and he's just like, these 600 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 1: are just jokes. But I'm just like the amount of 601 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 1: them and the specificity of them, it's a lot, but 602 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 1: it's not that much, you know what I mean. It's 603 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 1: like there's she was. 604 00:29:55,920 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 2: Every page like, oh, yes, so Ryan Reynolds came over, Felicity. 605 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 1: Back, Yeah, you know, right. But it's like just these 606 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: three very specific instances of him being like she allegedly 607 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: went to Bordeaux with her girlfriends. 608 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 2: Choose to believe it cursory peck. 609 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, the peck at the end, it's like that's the thing. 610 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 2: But then also throughout the book he's like, oh, I 611 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 2: feel like which again is so celebrity. He's like, I 612 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 2: feel so at home, Like when in the first part 613 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 2: of the book he's like staying in a hotel he 614 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 2: hates in Italy, and it's like filming. 615 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: With Isabella Roussolini. Ralph finds and they're in this movie 616 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: called Conclave, which is coming. I just saw an ad 617 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 1: for it. 618 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 2: It looks so good and it's like Priests. 619 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 1: It's Priests and it's just like a torrid thriller about 620 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: the Catholic Church and all these cardinals. 621 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 2: Okay. I saw the poster and I was like last night. 622 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,239 Speaker 1: When I was this looks like the best movie ever. 623 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 1: So DIMENTI code and. 624 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 2: He talks about like how the camera. Yeah, but he's 625 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 2: always like and I made Minnestrone to like eat in 626 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 2: my trailer. And then he's like, oh, Ralph and I 627 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 2: finally finally got to have dinner together. 628 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: And then they be good friends. And he's like, you know, 629 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 1: it's hard to make good friends at this age. Oh, 630 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,880 Speaker 1: because he's like, well, we'd worked together and made in Manhattan, oh, 631 00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 1: twenty years ago. 632 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 2: That was amazing. That was like my first note because 633 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,240 Speaker 2: I was like, finally we're actually talking about made of Manhattan. 634 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 1: We worked together before I made Manhattan over twenty years ago, 635 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: very briefly in The King's Man we'd only ever socialized 636 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: a few times, so Filmy gave us the opportunity to 637 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 1: spend time. When I one that era early two thousand, 638 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 1: Stanley two, she played like gay coded straight men who 639 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 1: were like communications assistants. 640 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 2: Den Laware's Prada. 641 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 1: In Made Manhattan, he plays Ralph Kine, who is a 642 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 1: Republican senator. He plays his like head of. 643 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 2: Colm who's like annoyed at Jennifer Lopez's son and is 644 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 2: so just like you better get out of here. 645 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 1: Right, and it's just like make sure that she's not 646 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: a Democrat, because we can't have that in the news 647 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 1: in the New York Post, thank you very much. And 648 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 1: then in del War's Prada, he's just like Gerda Lloins 649 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: and it's just like gay but not. And this is 650 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: also why he's every mom's dream, because hello, he's. 651 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 2: Gay, but not just to gay enough for them to 652 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 2: be like, ugh, I wish my husband would care about 653 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 2: Marino Wool I mean, and like he's so like Codliver. 654 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 1: He's like one of those like illustrated birthday cards for women. 655 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 1: Oh they're like. 656 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 2: Takes me out to dinner, wears fine suits. Right, it's 657 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 2: just like buys me back. 658 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:21,959 Speaker 1: You got me on. It's like a man with like 659 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 1: a hot body like in a vacuum being just like sweetie, 660 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 1: like I just cleaned the living room. And then just 661 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 1: like I thought I'd get you something that didn't exist 662 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 1: for your birthday like he is that. 663 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 2: I mean his like first breakout roll of Big Night, 664 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 2: which I remember watching a young Italian American and you know, 665 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 2: it's about the two Italian brothers who opened a restaurant 666 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 2: in New York, and this line really stuck with me 667 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 2: and some One of the most famous lines is he 668 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 2: serves this American couple of posta meatballs and they asked 669 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 2: for bread, and he phillips his ass on them, and 670 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 2: he's being so like you are having pasta, you don't 671 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 2: also inneed of bread. And then in that movie they 672 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 2: make which I've only made once, timpanello, which is like 673 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 2: pasta pie. It's crazy and it takes all day and 674 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 2: it's a meat sauce but it's like ravioli, but it's 675 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 2: layers and you're baking it and it's pastry. 676 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,680 Speaker 1: I want to talk about food a little bit more. 677 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 1: There's a really great passage where he is making a 678 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 1: tomato and he goes, luckily it was a tomato that 679 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 1: actually tasted like a tomato. Like so many vegetables these days, 680 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 1: tomatoes often taste of nothing. When did that start happening? 681 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 1: Things used to taste like what they were. Now something 682 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: that looks like a tomato or a carrot tastes like 683 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: just a thought of those things and fruit of vegetables 684 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 1: organic they usually taste better, but not always. I remember 685 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 1: pulling carrots on my grandfather's garden and the depth of 686 00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 1: flavor being profound. It was the same with everything you grew, 687 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 1: from onions to plums. I think he's dead right, and 688 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 1: I think there are so many gross tomatoes and we've 689 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 1: actually become so accustomed to the tasteless tomato that we 690 00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 1: forget what a real tomatoes post. 691 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,760 Speaker 2: Well, it's because of our American desire to have food 692 00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 2: all year round, but it's also I feel conservatives. 693 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: So it's your right that it's like, so we have 694 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 1: least tomatoes in February there shitty, but it's like then 695 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,839 Speaker 1: you can go to the supermarket in July and still 696 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:16,879 Speaker 1: get those shitty tomatoes for sale. It's like they're doing 697 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 1: February tomato. 698 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 2: That's why you do, like have to go to like 699 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 2: the farmers market to get a tomato that tastes like 700 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,360 Speaker 2: a tomato. I mean, I feel like most of the 701 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 2: time a farmer's market tomato is pretty good. And that's 702 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:33,520 Speaker 2: what was my Stanley Tucci moment today where I had 703 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 2: this last of the summer tomato and I was reading 704 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 2: this book and I was like, I need to use 705 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,880 Speaker 2: this tomato right now because Stanley Tucci would. So I 706 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,200 Speaker 2: cut up the rest of the half. I saw tata 707 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 2: with garlic, ginger scallions, and then I took leftover Chinese 708 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 2: food rice and made a tomato ginger fried rice, little 709 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 2: sesame oil, a little soy sauce that sounds so and 710 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 2: just threw an egg in there and just left it 711 00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 2: on the stove for Felicity to have later. My literary 712 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 2: age that if so kind of you, what's gonna happen 713 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,279 Speaker 2: in the tomato? If not, it will go? 714 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it will absolutely go. I used tomato is about 715 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:12,360 Speaker 1: to go. This morning I made it delicious, delicious sandwich 716 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: with boar's head. 717 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 2: Ham the stereo vibes. 718 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:24,839 Speaker 1: One raw red on the thick slice of tomato and 719 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:29,520 Speaker 1: then defrosted Portuguese bread that was in a freezer. 720 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean this is another thing of I mean 721 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 2: food and also British food versus us. So he buys 722 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,799 Speaker 2: beef and his parents are visiting and as they call 723 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,600 Speaker 2: it mince and his mom is freaking out, being like 724 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 2: this beef is too lean. 725 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:48,480 Speaker 1: He acts like he's out of petrol. 726 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,279 Speaker 2: I'm like, bitch, no, calm down. 727 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: He's just like And of course in America, you guys 728 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 1: call it a backyard, but we prefer the term garden. 729 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 1: It's so much nicer. I'm like, wee bitch, real it the. 730 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 2: Fucking noll and like mar Worchester or whatever. 731 00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,839 Speaker 1: I love that when he encounters food he doesn't like, 732 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 1: he just literally doesn't eat it. Yes, he's like. We 733 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,799 Speaker 1: were on a weird like boat cruise dinner for the 734 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:18,600 Speaker 1: Oppenheimer France premiere and they served some like god awful aspera. 735 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 1: Guess I had one minus that I can't do it. 736 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go talk to Killian Murphy instead. But I 737 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: think it's like something that maybe you and I could 738 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 1: do a little bit more, because I do feel like when. 739 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 2: Food is I was like, I need to be throwing 740 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 2: we don't like. 741 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 1: It, we're just eating it, and it's like, no, just 742 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 1: don't eat food you don't like. Ever, just be politely declined. 743 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:39,759 Speaker 1: Thank you for saying that, because insulting, like, just don't 744 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 1: eat it. 745 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:40,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 746 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 1: I also love the gastro pub disaster. Oh my god, 747 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 1: he's so honest about when a mule shitty. 748 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:47,759 Speaker 2: Haven't we all been there? 749 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 1: But it was a rather lovely, upscale, cozy place that 750 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,359 Speaker 1: have received several accolades over the years. So it's being 751 00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 1: so like getting like the best of the Cotswalds or whatever. 752 00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:58,080 Speaker 1: It's like in this Redom. 753 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it felt a very Amtrak magazine where it's like 754 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,759 Speaker 2: the Sunday Roast is like, oh, you just go to 755 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,439 Speaker 2: whatever pub. But then are there are these like famous. 756 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:09,840 Speaker 1: Elevated gastro pub that's like this chef is returning to 757 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,440 Speaker 1: his hometown and he. 758 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,319 Speaker 2: Is using and they're being kind of the bear and 759 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 2: they're like they're actually making an elevated. 760 00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: Shirt trying to tie so bare. But like says, they 761 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,960 Speaker 1: were trying to do it like a spin on the classics, 762 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 1: and it had spun out of control. We were all 763 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 1: very excited, but then things took a bit of a turn. 764 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:29,920 Speaker 1: Our food was delayed for an inordinate amount of time 765 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 1: because the customer had spilled beer with a computer system. 766 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 1: In fact, we'd only learned about on our departure. The 767 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,399 Speaker 1: kids who came straight away, I guess their order having 768 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,760 Speaker 1: been put in pre spill. As we waited and waited 769 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 1: and waited, we did find it strange that no staff 770 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:46,359 Speaker 1: never ever alerted that's that there would be a delay, 771 00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,400 Speaker 1: or explain what had happened. We kept asking our service 772 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:49,680 Speaker 1: for the food, only to be told that they would 773 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,840 Speaker 1: check on it. But I guess they never really checked 774 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,120 Speaker 1: because they would disappear yet again from their fifteen minutes. 775 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 1: After we've been waiting an hour and a half, the 776 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:59,800 Speaker 1: food finally came. I had hack with sampfire, which probably 777 00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 1: took all of seven minutes to cook. It was just okay. 778 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:05,960 Speaker 1: Other people had other things like meat, but I was 779 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,760 Speaker 1: too irritated to care. In the end, the owner's apologies 780 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 1: were tipid at best, and he didn't do what any 781 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,759 Speaker 1: good restaurant ur would do, which is not charged for 782 00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:15,960 Speaker 1: the wine or the dessert or something by way of 783 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 1: compensating us for the long wait. In Italy they would overcome. 784 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,200 Speaker 2: No, that is crazy that they didn't get a free 785 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:21,879 Speaker 2: round of drinks. 786 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 1: It's so that I'm just like just the drinks, the dessert, 787 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 1: not the whole meal. 788 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:30,600 Speaker 2: But hour forty five minutes obscene? What in here that 789 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:31,360 Speaker 2: he makes? 790 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 1: Do you want to make mm, that's a really good question. 791 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 2: Well you think on that. For me, it's the historic 792 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:43,720 Speaker 2: goose ragu He's in a town owned by the design 793 00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 2: of Brunella Cucinelli, and it's like this historic goose ragou 794 00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 2: that I guess it's like clergymen would always be eating goose, 795 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 2: and like one day a year they let the peasants 796 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,719 Speaker 2: have goose. So the peasants as a full town put 797 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 2: all these goose into these communal ovens and made like 798 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:00,879 Speaker 2: a goo bolonaise. 799 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,360 Speaker 1: So do you want to do your own goosebulans or 800 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 1: do you want to do it with your whole community. 801 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,040 Speaker 2: I think I want to do my community. I think 802 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 2: it's more like about like, yeah, community of everyone roasting 803 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,680 Speaker 2: goose because the bolonnai is to make it last longer. 804 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 1: Two things I want to do. One is he just 805 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:20,920 Speaker 1: makes a tomato sandwich at one point, but he's like, 806 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 1: oh no, he missed a tomato pasta. It's like a 807 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:25,759 Speaker 1: taglia tel for like I don't know Colin for than Emily. Yeah, 808 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,920 Speaker 1: And he's like, I had these really good in season tomatoes, 809 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:33,319 Speaker 1: but he lets them sit in alive our own salt in 810 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,959 Speaker 1: the fridge for two hours first and then just throws 811 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,279 Speaker 1: them raw into the pasta when the pasta's done. I 812 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:39,920 Speaker 1: want to do that. 813 00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's too bad and honestly sad for you because 814 00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 2: we're almost out of tomato season, so have fun with 815 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 2: your associated tomatoes like raw hard bland. I think, oh, 816 00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 2: this was a beautiful quote, which I think we should 817 00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 2: all buy by it. Like he is just being like 818 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,400 Speaker 2: passaba tomatoes and like a risotto and a fish and 819 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,040 Speaker 2: a salad, which is. 820 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:05,319 Speaker 1: Also is not He makes risotto constantly, and he has 821 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,560 Speaker 1: his nice patch where he talks about like how difficult 822 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,759 Speaker 1: it is, like I've never cooked risota successfully. It's one 823 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,960 Speaker 1: of the hardest things to do. He's like, you need 824 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,359 Speaker 1: to have such a sixth sense for it. I'm still 825 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,560 Speaker 1: learning after all these years. Like, but I'm impressed that 826 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:21,280 Speaker 1: he's constantly throwing together I know I want. 827 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 2: To do it more. And he says this word that 828 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,320 Speaker 2: I learned in this book that I love, this Italian 829 00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,759 Speaker 2: word mentakato, which is mean when you turn off the 830 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 2: heat of the pasta and then you add the cheese 831 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,320 Speaker 2: and the button and then that's when you stir it 832 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 2: with the. 833 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,320 Speaker 1: Pasta water on it, and you let the heat of 834 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 1: the pasta itself. 835 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,920 Speaker 2: Cook it cook because the heat of the pan will 836 00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 2: add too much heat. Of course, I actually learned that 837 00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:46,359 Speaker 2: from Mari Potalley. My idea of Fred One celebrity moment 838 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 2: of his celebrity dinners that I found so funny is it? 839 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,200 Speaker 1: And I just want to say, of course it's crass 840 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 1: to talk about celebrities again. 841 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,279 Speaker 2: Of course, and I'm not trying to name drop here 842 00:40:55,560 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 2: at all. Is when Sam the famous play right an 843 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:04,799 Speaker 2: actor Sam hell is his name whatever, he at the 844 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 2: last minute is like, oh can I bring friends over? 845 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:10,239 Speaker 2: And Stanley Tucci is like he always does this, and 846 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 2: the friend is like Woody Harrelson and sircial Ronan, Oh 847 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,080 Speaker 2: do He'd already planned on having over. And then the 848 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 2: friend is like, I'm gonna come over early. And this 849 00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,840 Speaker 2: is the point where Stanley Tucci is really costplaying. It 850 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,279 Speaker 2: was like a stressed father and he's been like me 851 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,520 Speaker 2: and Fear are still in our workout gear, the kids 852 00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 2: aren't Bathe like, I haven't even stalked my bar with 853 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,600 Speaker 2: like child martini glasses. And then he's like, oh and 854 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,319 Speaker 2: the friend is like kind of come over early, and 855 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 2: he gets like really mad and he's like go to 856 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 2: a fucking bar and the friend is like, put it's raining, 857 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,840 Speaker 2: and he texts back just like it doesn't rain in bars. 858 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:45,399 Speaker 2: And then they come over and he was like, oh, 859 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,680 Speaker 2: I was so excited to cook for Sirsha because I 860 00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,040 Speaker 2: hadn't cooked for her ever. And he was like and 861 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 2: Woody was hilarious, and I was so glad to beat 862 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:53,720 Speaker 2: his new wife. 863 00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,680 Speaker 1: I mean that's where he is like so gay. But 864 00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,880 Speaker 1: I guess also metrosexual is like my kitchen needs to 865 00:41:59,920 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 1: be sparklean, clean. Yeah, it is this cosplay where's like 866 00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 1: pretending like they can't see the kid, like eating cheerios 867 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 1: and it's just. 868 00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,279 Speaker 2: Like but I think his advice at the end of 869 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:11,360 Speaker 2: that was just like have it be clean, have barstock 870 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,319 Speaker 2: with wine, something for a groani, something from martiniz. You 871 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 2: don't need to call back to our original Zoe episode 872 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 2: of last week. You don't need whiskey, gin ruquila, say everything. 873 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,160 Speaker 1: Just have the elements for martinis and you're trying to 874 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,280 Speaker 1: go take a great and pretend please. 875 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,520 Speaker 2: And for those non drinking folks, Sam Pellegrino will go 876 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,120 Speaker 2: just fine at the Square to Flemn. 877 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,440 Speaker 1: This book is really you know, and the related thoughts. 878 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,319 Speaker 1: It is like a lot about death and aging, which 879 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,359 Speaker 1: is quite beautiful, and he has a lot to think 880 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,680 Speaker 1: about because he's in his sixties and his wife is 881 00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 1: twenty years younger, so it's like really in his mind, 882 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,279 Speaker 1: and he has these kind of very poignant ways of 883 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:49,680 Speaker 1: talking about it, like when he talked about how he 884 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:53,640 Speaker 1: is like now thinking about death a lot more because 885 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:55,600 Speaker 1: he realized he has twenty years to go, and twenty 886 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:57,799 Speaker 1: years is amount of time that like he can really 887 00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 1: wrap his head around. Yeah, that really spoke to me 888 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,399 Speaker 1: because I was like, we are and at the age 889 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,399 Speaker 1: of thirty seven, say loud and proud, you know, I've 890 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,919 Speaker 1: maybe got forty fifty years left, and it's like I've 891 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:14,239 Speaker 1: never experienced forty or fifty years. I can't really maybe I. 892 00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 2: Don't know what twenty that just twenty is, and. 893 00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 1: Like I kind of know what like a thirty year 894 00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,759 Speaker 1: chunk is too, Like I mean twenty years ago, like 895 00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,160 Speaker 1: that was yesterday, literally thirty years ago still feels like 896 00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:25,600 Speaker 1: like kind of getting it. 897 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,080 Speaker 2: The scariest part to me that made me feel like 898 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,080 Speaker 2: really fear death, which he talked about now that he 899 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,560 Speaker 2: lives in England and like has his new family is 900 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,239 Speaker 2: He's like, I can't see these friends that I spent 901 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:36,880 Speaker 2: so much time with before, and he was like, if 902 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,800 Speaker 2: you think about that, I'm actually probably only going to 903 00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,440 Speaker 2: see some of these people ten more times in my life. 904 00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:46,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but that's more like when you're so serious 905 00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:49,480 Speaker 1: and straight and like organizing really seriously. 906 00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,680 Speaker 2: That could we could be sixty, it's like not gonna 907 00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,879 Speaker 2: be us, and like we both are on our third 908 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,200 Speaker 2: marriages with like four year olds, and I'm just like, oh, 909 00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:59,320 Speaker 2: I would love to meet you, like in Dingley. 910 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 1: Next fall. 911 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,920 Speaker 2: The same time, he's hanging out with like Colin Firth 912 00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,040 Speaker 2: and like Lotty his manager like constantly knowing like you're 913 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:08,399 Speaker 2: hanging more than no, and. 914 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 1: They're going like he's going to the River Cafere with 915 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:12,359 Speaker 1: Tom Ford and then he's like and I won't tell 916 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 1: you what we discussed, and I'm like, you guys are 917 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,960 Speaker 1: notingly discussing your open marriages and yeah, I'm like wool 918 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,279 Speaker 1: with this one passage where he meets the guy whose 919 00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:24,440 Speaker 1: wife died. This fan who comes up to him, Oh yeah, 920 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:28,279 Speaker 1: and like says that his wife had recently passed, and 921 00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: he's like his hand shook a bit when he took mine, 922 00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:32,520 Speaker 1: to which he held on tightly. I recognized the shaking 923 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 1: was from age as well as nervousness, but I also 924 00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,480 Speaker 1: knew that it was brought about by a flood of 925 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 1: emotion as he held my hand. I knew that the 926 00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,839 Speaker 1: very real and visceral feeling of her presence. So he's 927 00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 1: talking about how like the wife is there brought about 928 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,719 Speaker 1: by this moment, an experience they would have shared where 929 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:49,920 Speaker 1: she's so alive would weigh in over time, But he 930 00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,839 Speaker 1: could not know this then did he need to? That 931 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,839 Speaker 1: realization and knowledge was years ahead of him. Yet her 932 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,720 Speaker 1: presence at times such as these would never disappear completely. 933 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,399 Speaker 1: It would always be there, always, but soon it would 934 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:05,399 Speaker 1: become less prevalent. In time, her presence would slip into 935 00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:09,120 Speaker 1: his body, his heart and thoughts, sometimes gently, sometimes joltingly, 936 00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,640 Speaker 1: but it would never last for as long as it 937 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 1: would today. Eventually, years from now, it would a light 938 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 1: on the tip of his soul for just a second 939 00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,520 Speaker 1: or two, carrying with it a shiver of the past, 940 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,400 Speaker 1: a glimpse of a future that might have been, and 941 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:25,640 Speaker 1: then it would disappear once again. Isn't that so beautiful? 942 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 1: And of course he's talking about his own dead wife, 943 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:32,120 Speaker 1: Kate Kate while talking about using this man as sort 944 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:32,759 Speaker 1: of And. 945 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:34,759 Speaker 2: That's the other thing, whether or not to go back 946 00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 2: as we close this episode, about moving on or not. 947 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 2: I think this book is a lot about like, Okay, 948 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,880 Speaker 2: you also can like get remarried and like still be grieving. 949 00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:45,239 Speaker 2: Yes not, you know, just cut and dry. Obviously there 950 00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 2: are harsher situations like John Edwards. 951 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:55,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and his monster of a way you see rest 952 00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:56,120 Speaker 1: in Hell. 953 00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 2: But you can have a beautiful open marriage with a 954 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,839 Speaker 2: younger literary yes, and still grieve. 955 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:04,600 Speaker 1: And still grieve here and there, and then have these 956 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 1: little precious moments where your wife's presence enters your soul 957 00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 1: for just a moment. 958 00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 2: Maybe you think about texting Eadie Falco just randomly watching 959 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:16,279 Speaker 2: an episode of The Sopranos. 960 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:20,200 Speaker 1: They've put the kids to bed after their pasta, and 961 00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 1: then they're just like season three segments with extra virgin 962 00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 1: olive oil and bistecca ala Fiorentina. What does she wear? 963 00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,239 Speaker 2: What does she eat? How does what does she eat? 964 00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 1: Pasta? Pasta hotel, the hotel, SA Sausage Joes shrim I 965 00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:57,640 Speaker 1: mean he has a very savory palette, as is the 966 00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:02,680 Speaker 1: custom today with the cool kids. Oh, very classic modern 967 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:04,840 Speaker 1: contemporary Mediterranean palette. It's like because he says he's not 968 00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 1: a big dessert person. 969 00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:09,000 Speaker 2: Well he also says like, I'm he's not being like 970 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 2: I'm going to try to like cook like Tetobalki tonight, 971 00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 2: Like he's just like I stick to like what I know. 972 00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:17,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, He's like, maybe I'm actually being like too fearful 973 00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:19,319 Speaker 1: and I need to get out of my comfort zone 974 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 1: and try to cook Asian food more. But then I 975 00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 1: worry I wouldn't have the freedom to kind of adjust 976 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 1: that I. 977 00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:29,160 Speaker 2: Feel with which that part was so smart, and we 978 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 2: need to move fast. But it's like you have to 979 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,359 Speaker 2: really know a cuisine. 980 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:35,480 Speaker 1: To know if it needs a little bit more garlic, oh, 981 00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,800 Speaker 1: if it needs like you know, any It's kind of 982 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:41,360 Speaker 1: where it's like with Chinese food Malaysian food he'sn't known to. 983 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,200 Speaker 2: Do also, which we didn't even mention throughout this entire book. 984 00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:46,400 Speaker 2: This book is also about how he had like a 985 00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:49,240 Speaker 2: tongue tumor and it was like couldn't taste which. 986 00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:52,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but well he discusses that in his previous book 987 00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:56,520 Speaker 1: Taste Right, and so he can be like, as I 988 00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,880 Speaker 1: mentioned in my previous book, and I won't go into two. 989 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,440 Speaker 2: Much because I'm in a book to He can't really 990 00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,840 Speaker 2: do much meat. That's why it is a lot of fishing. 991 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:06,799 Speaker 1: Because he doesn't like produce as much saliva, yeah, which 992 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,960 Speaker 1: is also why he isn't like love as Tannic reds, 993 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,719 Speaker 1: and so he prefers the Northern Italian red, which I 994 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 1: still find has a lovely tan in to it. Because 995 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:17,880 Speaker 1: he's talking about how he's like instead of those like 996 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 1: Central Italian like super big, multiple giano whatever that people 997 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,600 Speaker 1: like I love, who is like men usually want big reds, 998 00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:28,840 Speaker 1: but you know, and he was like absolutely a Northern Italian. 999 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:33,359 Speaker 2: He realizes that other new metrosexuals don't like a huge 1000 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 2: and their big yeah, don't like big cabs. 1001 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:41,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and they like you know, the natty natty one. 1002 00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 2: And the only time he drinks tequila is at the beginning. 1003 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:46,800 Speaker 2: Oh no, he doesn't even he makes a paloma, but 1004 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:47,560 Speaker 2: he does it with jam. 1005 00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:50,520 Speaker 1: That part was so weird when he was like, Felicity 1006 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:53,000 Speaker 1: introduced me to this very interesting new drink called a paloma. 1007 00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:54,799 Speaker 1: I know. I was like, I'm like, what I think 1008 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,799 Speaker 1: is the only Diagio like ambassador. You don't know about 1009 00:48:58,800 --> 00:48:59,600 Speaker 1: polomas and. 1010 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,840 Speaker 2: Then they tequila when Blake and Ryan come over, of 1011 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 2: course because like celebrity, even though Ryan owns a gin company. 1012 00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like Stanley Tucci's a Gin ambassador. Yeah, but 1013 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 1: they're just being like, we're both celebrities. We have so 1014 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:12,680 Speaker 1: we have to like to. 1015 00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,720 Speaker 2: What does he wear? He wears like when it's casual, 1016 00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:21,640 Speaker 2: it's like a stunning Laura Piana. 1017 00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:25,919 Speaker 1: Like Keanna he is keeping the lights on over there 1018 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,160 Speaker 1: at the piano store, and it's. 1019 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,959 Speaker 2: Like what you said, like you know, at the farmer's market, 1020 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:36,600 Speaker 2: a Stunningneker. Yeah, and like a beautiful again like Bruno 1021 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:40,160 Speaker 2: Chanelli or like a Zenya pant Or. It's like a 1022 00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:42,560 Speaker 2: suit made by like a stunning tailor he met in 1023 00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:43,440 Speaker 2: search for Italy. 1024 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:47,520 Speaker 1: And then how does he live? Like Okay, here's the question. 1025 00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:51,520 Speaker 1: What are the countertops? Are they? I think are they marble? 1026 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,600 Speaker 1: I think it's marble. And I think his house is 1027 00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,440 Speaker 1: kind of dark. Okay, yes, for sure, it's like dark 1028 00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:58,279 Speaker 1: remanded colors. I mean his house like I feel like, 1029 00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:00,880 Speaker 1: does look like a boutiqu Kota and like there is 1030 00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:03,440 Speaker 1: a lot of like dark colors in the dark greens 1031 00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,000 Speaker 1: and like the black window panes. 1032 00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,800 Speaker 2: And he's always like making his cocktails like in a 1033 00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,800 Speaker 2: sidebar where there's so many espresso pods. 1034 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: However, I guess I'm like, marble countertops are harder to clean, and. 1035 00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, do you think he's doing something more simple 1036 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 2: because with the kids and like chopping. 1037 00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:25,440 Speaker 1: Like it would be so sexy if you had like 1038 00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 1: butcher block countertops. 1039 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,880 Speaker 2: But maybe he talks about being really jealous of David 1040 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,799 Speaker 2: Beckham's outdoor kitchen, but he. 1041 00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:36,080 Speaker 1: Also has this massive outdoor kitchen with this crazy grill 1042 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:38,040 Speaker 1: and like pizza ovens. 1043 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,480 Speaker 2: I know, but he's like, it's not like backs. We 1044 00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:43,920 Speaker 2: always want something more yea, And I feel like it's 1045 00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,560 Speaker 2: like a navy blue velvet couch. 1046 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,239 Speaker 1: I definitely think there's plenty of jewel tones in there. 1047 00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:52,959 Speaker 1: I think you're right about the darker hues. Okay, here's 1048 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,719 Speaker 1: my question. How present is the ex wife framed black 1049 00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,560 Speaker 1: and white photos frame like on the cape? 1050 00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,640 Speaker 2: Well, because also it's like for the kids, well, I 1051 00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:02,839 Speaker 2: guess the older kids aren't really there. They're like trying 1052 00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,960 Speaker 2: to be makeup artists. Yeah, I think it's like one 1053 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,719 Speaker 2: framed family photo with the ex wife not just. 1054 00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,120 Speaker 1: Wife solo, no solo dead wife. 1055 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,799 Speaker 2: And then it's like some photos of them, and then 1056 00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 2: I think it is like but. 1057 00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:21,560 Speaker 1: They're like I think there's like a bowl they got 1058 00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:26,480 Speaker 1: on a trip to Japan together that's prominently displayed and 1059 00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,319 Speaker 1: it's known. It's like no one says it's Kate's ball, 1060 00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:30,520 Speaker 1: but we all know it's. 1061 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,480 Speaker 2: Kate's ball, and Felicity is of like, oh, I love 1062 00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:38,399 Speaker 2: Kate's bowl. You know, I love Kate's bowl. I think 1063 00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:42,080 Speaker 2: it's a low bed. I think it's glassy, medium low bed. 1064 00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:43,560 Speaker 1: I think it's medium low. 1065 00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:44,520 Speaker 2: He's sixty. 1066 00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,839 Speaker 1: But then I'm like, actually, maybe it's not even medium low. 1067 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:50,160 Speaker 1: It actually may be high in a hotel way. 1068 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:54,120 Speaker 2: And like just so many shit because also like British 1069 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:55,600 Speaker 2: and British they don't do lost. 1070 00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,719 Speaker 1: They are like high beds over there, and they're like 1071 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:01,440 Speaker 1: clutter out the who and like she's not so cluttered, 1072 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,200 Speaker 1: but like she's little cutter. 1073 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 2: Might be a little cluttery, a lid agent agent. And 1074 00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,040 Speaker 2: there's books, pile, bridget shone stuff. 1075 00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think there's like their reception area where calling 1076 00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:15,400 Speaker 1: Furth is having martinis is free of chargers, but it's 1077 00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:17,359 Speaker 1: Charaguers Central. Once you're get into the bedroom. 1078 00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:18,840 Speaker 2: Well, and then there's like the whole part about like 1079 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:23,840 Speaker 2: how much gadget and iguana. I think there's there's air fires. 1080 00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,960 Speaker 1: Right, there is so many fucking gadgets. Yeah, obviously there's 1081 00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,400 Speaker 1: mains that are putting the gadgets away, but then the 1082 00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 1: gadgets are coming out, and there's charging pads and charging 1083 00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:33,000 Speaker 1: stations and like there's an iPod doc that's. 1084 00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:38,600 Speaker 2: So like Hotels iPad doc yeah, for recipes, and like 1085 00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:40,520 Speaker 2: I'm almost just at this point, I'm like, there's the 1086 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,719 Speaker 2: Bows five disc. I mean there isn't, but it's so 1087 00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:46,920 Speaker 2: nose up in that house. And he's like, because. 1088 00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,279 Speaker 1: There's at one point where he's playing music off his phone. 1089 00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,880 Speaker 1: He's like, I played the Great American Songbook off my 1090 00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:54,800 Speaker 1: phone and put it in a cup to amplify it. 1091 00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,480 Speaker 1: I really need to get a speaker because he's so gadget. 1092 00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 1: He's like, I need an amazing and then like Nicol 1093 00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:01,920 Speaker 1: Christmas idea. 1094 00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like getting him a JBL and it's very parently. 1095 00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,960 Speaker 2: They're like getting him like the wrong speaker and no 1096 00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:11,880 Speaker 2: one can connect and it's yeah, so Christmas, I mean 1097 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 2: they're like, Okay, deconnect, Okay, try connecting again. Okay, who 1098 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:16,399 Speaker 2: are you in the book? 1099 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,040 Speaker 1: It's Christmas around the clock over there. 1100 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,560 Speaker 2: I mean to me, I'm Stanley in your Felicity, and 1101 00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:23,600 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna be like, I guess I won't ask 1102 00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:24,720 Speaker 2: about like where. 1103 00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:27,160 Speaker 1: You weren't born to I mean, you're married to a 1104 00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:29,359 Speaker 1: little agent though you're a Wifelicity. 1105 00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:33,960 Speaker 2: Oh oh that she's more Felicity, but it is not 1106 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,560 Speaker 2: involved in the who are you? No she is. No, 1107 00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:38,000 Speaker 2: It's like, well, that's why I feel like i'm standing 1108 00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,799 Speaker 2: because I'm like also married to a lit agent, right, and. 1109 00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:44,000 Speaker 1: You think I'm going on a trip and my husband's 1110 00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:45,720 Speaker 1: just been like, I guess I won't ask. 1111 00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:52,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, though, I guess you're also just like Harry's styles 1112 00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 2: coming over for dinner. 1113 00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,520 Speaker 1: And I'm so nice and we love him. He's such 1114 00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:58,120 Speaker 1: a good friend. 1115 00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,920 Speaker 2: You're also just like Emily Blunt. You're getting together. 1116 00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:02,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm. 1117 00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:05,080 Speaker 2: Emily, and you're like, I can't believe you didn't tell me. 1118 00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:09,080 Speaker 2: You're stopping my system. Ridiculous. 1119 00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,480 Speaker 1: I love going over that, And then I'm being like, oh, 1120 00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:12,840 Speaker 1: I think it's time for us to leave. 1121 00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,520 Speaker 2: Okay, and it's time just to end this episode. Dollars. 1122 00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:21,560 Speaker 2: I get this straight up, yeah, wild Garlic. 1123 00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,719 Speaker 1: I love a diary. I think it's so much more 1124 00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:26,840 Speaker 1: revealing than a traditional memoir. 1125 00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,400 Speaker 2: It is because if someone was writing a memoir, he 1126 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:33,400 Speaker 2: wouldn't say felicity under coach scallops. 1127 00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:35,200 Speaker 1: No, you get that in diary. 1128 00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:39,520 Speaker 2: I'm giving this yeah for under non seared scallops. 1129 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:40,799 Speaker 1: And it's quite inspiring. 1130 00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:44,239 Speaker 2: And and he's being honest. How he doesn't trust his 1131 00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,640 Speaker 2: own line of quickwear, and that's what you get in diary. 1132 00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,759 Speaker 1: I don't trust it either. It's all, yeah, seven hundred dollars. 1133 00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:51,680 Speaker 1: It's look really expensive. I mean I guess it should be, 1134 00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:56,520 Speaker 1: but I'm just like the world need another like non 1135 00:54:56,640 --> 00:55:02,799 Speaker 1: coded ceramic. And he knows that, Yeah, he knows. 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