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Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on. It's Stay or Go.

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Speaker 2: Seth is here. Good morning, Seth. How you doing?

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Speaker 1: Hey, how's it going, Seth?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the program Group therapy. He's some relationship advice

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Speaker 2: about This is what your girlfriend? Your wife? Who is this?

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Speaker 2: Who are we talking about? Which girlfriend or wife?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, there go, No.

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Speaker 5: I mean I'm calling about a girl I just started dating.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5: So at one point she mentions to me that she

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Speaker 5: switches all of her products self care products to organic.

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Speaker 5: I'm talking to everything, deal around, body wash, all the

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Speaker 5: stuff you know you get fresh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so she's going.

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Speaker 5: All organic, and uh, well she didn't even tell me

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Speaker 5: because I mean I could tell. I mean she solves different,

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Speaker 5: not on life sticks, so she's.

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Speaker 1: Smells different in a bad way.

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Speaker 6: And you say, maybe.

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Speaker 2: You need to go to the doctor for that. In fact,

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Speaker 2: you need to go to my doctor friend for that.

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Speaker 2: If you got that situation, what I shouldn't.

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Speaker 7: Be washing the cat anyways?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well it's another conversation products all right this way?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even mean it to talk to you though.

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Speaker 2: It's like, this is about you. This is the guy

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Speaker 2: who tried to kiss you and he says you smell bad.

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Speaker 2: That's like, hasn't tried to kiss you again. Okay, so

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Speaker 2: this this woman has made a conscious decision. This does

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Speaker 2: sound like something he would do.

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Speaker 7: Caitlin, I do use all organic products.

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Speaker 2: She made a conscious decision to stop using whatever she

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Speaker 2: was using and use these new organic products whatever whatever.

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Speaker 1: And she smells bad. Now, yeah, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean she's perfect otherwise. But it's just like it's all

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Speaker 5: I could tell is is less of facts than the

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Speaker 5: other stuff before, because I mean it, you know, it's

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Speaker 5: something that didn't exist only the first of up and

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Speaker 5: now it's like I gotta put up with this bo

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Speaker 5: just the stuff isn't working for me.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So the question is, then, what do you do when

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Speaker 2: your significant other does something lifestyle wise, we'll call it

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Speaker 2: or hygienically that you don't agree with, that you don't like,

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Speaker 2: that's just distasteful to you. It's unpleasurable, you know. Do

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Speaker 2: you do you speak to them about it? You?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean look, I tried to address it lightly. I

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Speaker 5: tried to basically say, like, you know, these are the

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Speaker 5: only organic products, they're they're they're not working. I tried

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Speaker 5: to say that and but she's very adamate. She said,

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Speaker 5: she's not switching back to the other stuff like she

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Speaker 5: says it's cancerous. She like the first to the soap

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Speaker 5: is detergent. Let's not like like you know, she's saying

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Speaker 5: all the stuff that you know, you see people on

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Speaker 5: YouTube commercial soul and organic stuff like Shay And I mean, look,

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Speaker 5: I really like her. You know it's it's I don't

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Speaker 5: want it to be a deal break here, but hey,

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Speaker 5: I'm asking myself how much I could tolerate the I

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Speaker 5: really can't.

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Speaker 1: You got this.

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Speaker 4: It's just the same, just the same. I think, like

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Speaker 4: when you detox your body and you kind of stink,

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Speaker 4: you got this.

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Speaker 8: Stinky thing you do need to when you switch to

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Speaker 8: like all natural deodorant, like your armpitds do need to detox.

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Speaker 2: H Okay said, let me take some phone calls on

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Speaker 2: this and we'll talk about you behind your back. Thank

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Speaker 2: you for calling. No, good luck with this. Have the

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Speaker 2: radio and we'll see what happens here.

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Speaker 1: Stay strong. Yeah, I mean this is a tough one.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Seth.

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Speaker 6: He sounds pretty congested as it is. I don't know

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Speaker 6: how much it can I was.

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Speaker 2: Gonna say, I hope you just heard our segment about

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Speaker 2: the allergies and congestion taken. He needs to see my

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Speaker 2: coologies and so to see you, apparently, but they can

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Speaker 2: go together. And this is the group talking about group therapy.

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Speaker 8: Have you guys ever really had someone like away eight.

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Speaker 5: Five?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I mean no, The answer is no, no. But what

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Speaker 2: do you? What would you do? What would you? I

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Speaker 2: mean that is honestly all jokes aside. That is a

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Speaker 2: difficult conversation to have with somebody. I mean you're telling

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Speaker 2: them basically that you find them undesirable hygienically, like you're

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Speaker 2: essentially saying that you don't think someone's clean, which is not.

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Speaker 1: And we come on, but how do you.

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Speaker 4: He gotta tell her?

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Speaker 9: You have to I think you have. You just got

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Speaker 9: to have the hard conversation. You have to tell your

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Speaker 9: partner like something ain't right over there.

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Speaker 8: But didn't he say? He told he was really mellow,

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Speaker 8: So it's hard for me to hear. But didn't he

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Speaker 8: say he told her? And she was like, I'm not

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Speaker 8: switching back right?

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Speaker 9: So then I would be like, okay, well I can't leave,

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Speaker 9: do you.

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Speaker 4: If you stink?

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Speaker 9: So either you need to fix the products or like,

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Speaker 9: let's try a different organic product.

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Speaker 1: I think that's where you start. You say, hey, you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't this.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if this stuff is working and I'm

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Speaker 2: not sure maybe if you can't tell as well, but

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Speaker 2: I can, because I will admit it can be difficult

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Speaker 2: to know if you Sometimes other people need other people's

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Speaker 2: perspective on that can be helpful because I think you

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Speaker 2: get used to the way that you smell, and what

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Speaker 2: if you smell bad consistently and that's the way you

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Speaker 2: think you're supposed to smell. I mean someone has to

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Speaker 2: tell you, like would would you guys tell me if

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Speaker 2: I smelled bad?

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Speaker 1: No, you wouldn't, So I might smell bad.

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Speaker 9: I was off for I would offer you a like

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Speaker 9: a spray or like I'm good for like offering people

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Speaker 9: gum like Summer's eve. Yeah, but yeah, like I would

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Speaker 9: be like, oh, look at this nice little spray I

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Speaker 9: found for it, or I would offer you gum if

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Speaker 9: your breath stinks. And so I've done that before and

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Speaker 9: people like, no, thank you, and I just.

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Speaker 6: Look at you like, yeah, wouldn't you wouldn't tell fred

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Speaker 6: if you smell like.

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Speaker 4: No, you out of all people would You've heard?

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Speaker 8: It means Oh, I am honest, I don't know that's

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Speaker 8: that's a I don't think that's.

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Speaker 7: My place to tell Fred that he stinks.

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Speaker 1: Oh, but you're looking.

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Speaker 6: Out at a friend. You know what I'm saying, Like

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Speaker 6: this man gonna go on in public?

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Speaker 7: I mean I told him it's something in his hair

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Speaker 7: and he was upset.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, well, I think you implied it was.

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Speaker 5: It.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I can't say I would be thinking on me.

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Speaker 2: I can't say that I would be happy if you

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Speaker 2: came up to me and we're like, hey, dude, you

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Speaker 2: smell bad. But I also, I mean, no one's gonna

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Speaker 2: be happy about it, but it would be helpful to know.

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Speaker 2: Do you need to tell me? Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 8: No, but like walk me through how I would just

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Speaker 8: even tell someone that because.

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Speaker 4: It's not easy.

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Speaker 8: No.

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Speaker 1: Are we on the radio right now? Like great?

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Speaker 7: Do I do a topic about it?

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Speaker 1: And she don't ever?

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Speaker 7: Like know if you just think I feel like I'm

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Speaker 7: telling I'm same.

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Speaker 9: I'm the first one to be like, Okay, I stink it,

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Speaker 9: A'll announce it and I'd be like, sorry, guys, I stink

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Speaker 9: right now, Like me to me get.

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Speaker 6: Ahead of if you could smell yourself. That means you smell.

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Speaker 1: Everybody around your Yeah, will smell yourselves. You have to.

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Speaker 4: You have to.

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Speaker 1: You have to say something about it right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, I you know, I know you've changed the

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Speaker 2: products around stuff like that, Like I don't know if

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Speaker 2: these are working as well as you might like, like

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Speaker 2: other other options.

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Speaker 1: Can we try other options? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: I think you have to.

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Speaker 2: I think you have to because you don't want this

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Speaker 2: if you're if you if you notice it, other people

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Speaker 2: are noticing it too, you have to say something.

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Speaker 4: Just sprayer down in her sleep.

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Speaker 6: But I don't know that your body goes through a

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Speaker 6: detox if you go to like a switch stool.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's hard.

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Speaker 8: I mean I don't know that I necessarily like it smells,

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Speaker 8: but it definitely like you sweat more.

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's used to one thing.

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Speaker 8: You're also supposed to switch your products every so often

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Speaker 8: because you.

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Speaker 7: Get used to them.

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Speaker 1: I do know that exactly about you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, A bunch of texts eight five, five, five, nine,

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Speaker 2: one three five. Honestly, my girlfriend smells. I still enjoy

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Speaker 2: the smell. You have to do some research. Because it's organic,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't adapt to everyone's pH she might have to

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Speaker 2: try different stuff. Well there you go, like take a

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Speaker 2: scientific approach with it. Hey, maybe this stuff.

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Speaker 1: Isn't working that well, little scientists, nanty ass.

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Speaker 2: I had the same problem with my boyfriend and his breath,

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Speaker 2: and I have no clue what to do.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, he got a cavity girl.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you need the coconut oil.

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Speaker 1: Us.

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Speaker 2: I'm a thirty year vegetarian. I use mostly natural products.

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Speaker 2: If you get to find a deodorant that works effectively,

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Speaker 2: that's natural. The best thing to do is use a

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Speaker 2: natural deodorant and then put some essential oils or sweet

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Speaker 2: smell stuff on to cover it.

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Speaker 7: Oh lord, native, I mean wow.

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Speaker 1: Different centers to right. Yeah, hey, b how you doing?

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Speaker 10: How are you?

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Speaker 2: What do you do here? Stay or go? You gotta

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Speaker 2: stinky ass partner?

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Speaker 3: I would go, he needs to go, okay, and so

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Speaker 3: just don't even say anything, just ghost, just bail, and

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Speaker 3: then he's gonna stake you.

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Speaker 10: Know, at least I mean for me, if we're sharing

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Speaker 10: things together, sharing a mutual space, and if I'm not happy,

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Speaker 10: and if I brought up a reason why I'm not

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Speaker 10: happy and it's not being addressed, and I won't lovely

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Speaker 10: that we want to be loved. So what's the point?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 2: I think you have to say something because what's the

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Speaker 2: alternative this person that you like, you just avoid them,

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Speaker 2: you know, or in this case, according to him, you

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Speaker 2: just leave.

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Speaker 10: I mean I wouldn't just go. I would tell the person, Hey,

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Speaker 10: your new lifestyle seems amazing to you, but to me,

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Speaker 10: it's not, and it's affecting me in this certain way.

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Speaker 10: And if this person does not agree to maybe go

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Speaker 10: back or do something that may avoid that boh, then

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Speaker 10: I have to walk away because in the end, I'm

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Speaker 10: not going to give that person the lovely deserve because

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Speaker 10: I'm bothered by what they're doing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and it's not fair. Have a good day.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, you're lucky.

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Speaker 1: And you called what's the diary? We only made keto?

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Speaker 2: I think you have to say something again, what's the alternative?

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Speaker 10: You just.

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Speaker 1: Just leave their ass. Yeah, don't even have a conversation, Alyssa,

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Speaker 1: just get the hell out.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: If you've already told the person that they smell and

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Speaker 2: a great day. Well did he say that he told

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Speaker 7: He said, and she said, I'm not switching back.

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Speaker 11: I think he should say. I actually used to work

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Speaker 12: Are complaining about the way you smell. And he came

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Speaker 12: But yeah, and he's like, I put the order in

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Speaker 12: Her about like how Caitlin said that she could try

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 8: It is though, I mean some of that stuff is cancerous,

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Speaker 1: But it's not working.

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Speaker 2: So if you expect people to want to be around you,

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Speaker 1: But she could change into products. It won't kill her

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Speaker 2: It won't kill her that maybe maybe she has to moderate.

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe the deodorants not going to work, but she

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Speaker 2: can use organic products in other area.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe, yeah, work together. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: And then you leave, like the love of your life

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Speaker 7: because they they're funky.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, it just seems the love of my

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Speaker 1: life is not funky. Let me assure you of that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know where she is or who she is,

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