WEBVTT - Scrub-aissance

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Beccatelly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody, it is twenty twenty three. It is a

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<v Speaker 1>new year, and it is a new era of scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a scrub aissance.

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<v Speaker 3>It is a scrub aissance.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 4>We never discussed what the scrub aissance meant, like, we

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<v Speaker 4>never said, like what that entailed?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it anything?

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<v Speaker 3>It's a revival, it's a rebirth.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a rejuvenation, and it is exemplified in our what

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<v Speaker 1>do you call that thing that we just updated our logo,

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<v Speaker 1>our logo, and it is represented in our logo. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is twenty fifteen is not us anymore. We

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<v Speaker 1>are twenty twenty three scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right, that's right. Well we didn't start in twenty fifteen, so.

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<v Speaker 3>That scrubbing it is out I'm so glad.

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<v Speaker 4>Not scrubbing in never existed, so therefore it's definitely out right.

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<v Speaker 1>So twenty seventeen, twenty seventeen, scrubbing in is no longer.

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<v Speaker 5>You're two thousand and late, isn't that thing?

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<v Speaker 4>Fergie said that, Yes, Fergie said that about twenty years ago.

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<v Speaker 6>Right exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>So don't be that pink logo was.

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<v Speaker 3>Two late two thousand night.

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<v Speaker 4>But seriously, it is crazy because the original scrubbing in

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<v Speaker 4>photo was just me because I it was just me

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<v Speaker 4>when we started, and we had that for a while,

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<v Speaker 4>just me. Yeah, and then we did me and you

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<v Speaker 4>and that was twenty eighteen and that was right, I

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<v Speaker 4>meant Haley, And that was up against a wall.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember, we were like up against a white wall

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<v Speaker 1>in the break.

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<v Speaker 2>Room right here, back to back in our scrub, back

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<v Speaker 2>to back.

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<v Speaker 3>In our scrubs, and you know, it was cute.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like two gals find two gal pals finding

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<v Speaker 1>their way around town, you know, romping around town, romping

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<v Speaker 1>around around.

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<v Speaker 3>In our scrubs.

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<v Speaker 1>And those two gal pals have blossomed, they have cocooned,

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<v Speaker 1>they have butterflied, and they are women now in suits.

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<v Speaker 2>We are women in suits.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, and you know, like modern women in suits, modern

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<v Speaker 7>women in suits, you know, in like how doctors go

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<v Speaker 7>from wearing scrubs every day and then they they start

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<v Speaker 7>wearing like once they get to a certain level, they

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<v Speaker 7>wear like nice dress clothes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what we did.

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<v Speaker 8>We became.

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<v Speaker 3>Attending attending lead surgeons. No longer interns.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want you all to know that when you

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<v Speaker 4>Google my name, it says healthcare professional next to it,

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<v Speaker 4>so yes, wow, you can look it up right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone pointed out on the scrubbing and Facebook.

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<v Speaker 3>Group, it's so good.

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<v Speaker 2>Professional and you know, it's funny.

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<v Speaker 4>And before I went on The Bachelor, I was a

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<v Speaker 4>chiropractic assistant, which basically no, because like I didn't do

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<v Speaker 4>anything healthcare related.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I in the healthcare world, there were healthcare adjacent.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was definitely adjacent to the Google search. Yeah

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<v Speaker 4>they should say healthcare professional adjacent. Yeah, but yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>just felt like we needed to.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just time.

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<v Speaker 3>It was time. And you know, you know what comes

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<v Speaker 3>with time.

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<v Speaker 1>Wis change and change, wisdom and change hand in hand.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you feel wiser about going into twenty twenty three?

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<v Speaker 3>So many things?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, had I know now in twenty twenty three,

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<v Speaker 1>In twenty eighteen, I probably would have done everything the same,

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<v Speaker 1>But I just feel a lot more knowledgeable now.

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<v Speaker 2>You would have done everything the same, probably.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I don't regret anything.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that self awareness.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like you know yourself enough to like you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>necessarily have done anything different, right, but you would be

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<v Speaker 4>aware of the things that maybe you could have done different.

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<v Speaker 1>Correct, I'd be like, girl, this storm is not lasting forever.

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<v Speaker 1>The sunshine's coming out tomorrow. Yeah, I feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's Is that not how you lived your life?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there was some dark times. It sprinkled in. There's

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<v Speaker 1>some dark moments.

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<v Speaker 2>So what is twenty twenty three hold in your mind?

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<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you what twenty twenty three holds. Can get

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<v Speaker 3>a drum roll? Please?

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Here it comes, get ready and we are one step

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<v Speaker 1>closer to this project.

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<v Speaker 4>Patrick Dempsey, why was I thinking like your book, like

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<v Speaker 4>all these things and Patrick.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean personally, there's a lot going on twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 1>three podcast wise, I think my biggest goal is to

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<v Speaker 1>get Patrick Dempsey on this podcast in the flesh in

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<v Speaker 1>the studio, back to back.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we did have an update on this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, so we have a lead.

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<v Speaker 4>So we know a guy who knows a.

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<v Speaker 3>Guy who knows no hold on this is the connection.

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<v Speaker 1>So this guy, yeah, no, he knows the guys who

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<v Speaker 1>did like he endorses this water and it's a sister

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<v Speaker 1>company to the water that I endorsed at Kiss like

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<v Speaker 1>last year or something. And this is real this is real,

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<v Speaker 1>this is legit, And so he said he's going to

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<v Speaker 1>tell these people about scrubbing in to get Patrick on.

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<v Speaker 6>Listen Wood.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want us to share his name because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if he wants me to share his name.

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<v Speaker 1>But he works for iHeartMedia on the East Coast. He's

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<v Speaker 1>like an on air personality. I was like, so, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, how did you know I did that endorsement?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, but it makes me feel like we're one

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<v Speaker 1>step closer to Patrick Depsy Patrick deps.

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<v Speaker 4>And it might just be one literally one step, like

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's just maybe one step closer, but it's

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<v Speaker 4>closer than we were before.

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<v Speaker 1>That was closer than we were in twenty twenty two. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know what one step closer, just one step

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<v Speaker 1>forward is fine? Oh you it's progress progress, Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's all.

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<v Speaker 3>We're looking for.

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<v Speaker 5>Will we settle for a zoom interview with Patrick Dempsey?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not the goal, right, it's not the goal.

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<v Speaker 4>But yes, but yes, they answer to that, we'll settle.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know that brings up an interesting point about settling.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, okay, I also want to talk about you

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<v Speaker 4>and Robbie's gas station.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I was going to talk about because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like when we settle in life, when we're desperate, Yes, Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>can I help you? No?

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, I just make sure my off because I

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<v Speaker 5>was clearing my.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we were on this I was gonna say

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<v Speaker 3>cross country road trip.

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<v Speaker 1>We were not. We were just on a road trip

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<v Speaker 1>to northern California. But we were desperate for gas and

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<v Speaker 1>it was cold times outside and we were desperate. We

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't seen a gas station in a very long time.

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<v Speaker 5>This isn't California cold. This is legitimate winter cold.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I mean yeah, you're in the mountains.

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<v Speaker 3>In the mountains.

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<v Speaker 1>So we pull over and this like gas station. The

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<v Speaker 1>gas thing is like like making all these like like

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<v Speaker 1>it looks like it's going to explode. I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>are we putting in our cars? This gasoline? I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>quite sure. Go into the bathroom, there's no bathroom. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a porta potty. There's no toilet paper in there. So

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<v Speaker 1>I had a pee in the woods with a napkin

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<v Speaker 1>from our own car, from our own snacks that I packed.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, that was a treacherous experience and

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<v Speaker 1>like crazy, right, we get back in the car, and

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<v Speaker 1>we start making our way back. One foot in front

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<v Speaker 1>of us is a glorious seventy six station and a

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<v Speaker 1>glorious mobile station with bright lights, welcoming signs, snacks, functioning bathrooms.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, this is such a metaphor for life.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're desperate and you just pull over to the

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<v Speaker 1>next best thing that you see, you're gonna end up

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<v Speaker 1>at this rickety gas station wiping your vagina with a.

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<v Speaker 3>Rough napkin from sprouts up the street.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, which is probably biodegradable, yes, for sure. Or you

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<v Speaker 1>can have your standards high and not settle, and right

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<v Speaker 1>up the road you're gonna get a nice, shiny partner.

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<v Speaker 5>Mm hm, I'm not sure this ANALOGI work.

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<v Speaker 2>See, I think it.

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<v Speaker 4>I think both of y'all's analogies really resonated with me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so, then Robbie's counter.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, lawyers love to counter, and he loves counter.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, or is it you're always looking for

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<v Speaker 1>the next best thing. You're not happy satisfied? We got gas,

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<v Speaker 1>Our car got gas, great gas. We're driving, we're on

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<v Speaker 1>the road. We got to use the restroom. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>reliable gas station. We got what we needed. You can

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<v Speaker 1>get what you need? Are you gonna waste your time?

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<v Speaker 1>Just go into the bigger, better thing?

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<v Speaker 4>Which is interesting because your whole thing throughout the years

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<v Speaker 4>of this podcast has been steady Eddie.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, that is correct. I want steady Eddie, but

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want rickety Rick.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure what he's spewing out of his hose.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all got home.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't get home.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened to be gas gasoline, but I wasn't sure

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, this feels.

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<v Speaker 4>I just feel like depending on where you are in

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<v Speaker 4>life depends on whose analogy resonates with you the most,

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<v Speaker 4>because I've been in both. You know, I think we've

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<v Speaker 4>all experienced where we're like, if I had just been

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<v Speaker 4>a little more patient, I could have gotten something maybe better.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, in so many ways.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know what, those new gas stations are gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be old one day, and are you going to be

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<v Speaker 4>looking for the next newest thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, no, I'm just joking, totally loyal, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for the purposes, yes, for the purposes of this debate, yes, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>It was funny to see and that is the most

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<v Speaker 4>Robbie thing I've ever seen him, taking your hopeful analogy

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<v Speaker 4>and being like, let me lawyer this real quick.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It was funny because I shared a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a thing in the instagram cut him off, and so

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<v Speaker 1>many people were dming me like I wanted to hear

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<v Speaker 1>his side, and I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, oh, here, give them, give them what they want.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>You also brought up the snacks that y'all had, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>which was a lot of snacks, healthy pre packed snacks.

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<v Speaker 3>Mostly from the earth.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, mostly from the earth.

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<v Speaker 4>I had an interesting experience on my Haley and I

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<v Speaker 4>went to Joshua Tree and by the way, it takes

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<v Speaker 4>two and a half hours to get there.

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<v Speaker 1>To take you six hours. Oh yeah, yeah with Phoebe.

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<v Speaker 2>Car it was really bad. We left on Friday. It

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<v Speaker 2>was so bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I don't know if people were Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 4>people were just like leaving la.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if Vegas. Is that the same way

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<v Speaker 2>you go?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it took us like eleven to get back from Tahoe.

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<v Speaker 5>Eleven hours from Tahoe.

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<v Speaker 4>That would send me eleven hours from Tahoe, I think

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<v Speaker 4>would send me into.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like double triple what it should have been

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<v Speaker 1>like yours.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, But Haley had ordered all of our groceries because

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<v Speaker 4>we just got an airbnb and like we normally just

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<v Speaker 4>like stand and cook and stuff. And it was all

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<v Speaker 4>from like sprouts, which in Whole Foods, which is like healthy,

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<v Speaker 4>you know. So I was like browsing the snacks on

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<v Speaker 4>the app when she was ordering, thinking, my god, we're

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<v Speaker 4>starting off the new year with organic only. I I

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<v Speaker 4>got like pizza rolls and bagel bites, but they were

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<v Speaker 4>like all natural ingredients.

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<v Speaker 2>They're just still great.

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<v Speaker 4>So that was like it kind of made me think

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<v Speaker 4>like maybe I can do it, like not as so

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<v Speaker 4>much a healthier life, not like a step up, a

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<v Speaker 4>step a step forward.

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<v Speaker 3>Progress progress, yes, Mecca.

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<v Speaker 4>But I was thinking about how I love road trips

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<v Speaker 4>and I love like the snacks on road trips, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was thinking about Rob. Yeah, but he's healthy, so

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<v Speaker 4>he is he is like he do.

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<v Speaker 1>We are very similar. We're like food compatible. We do

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy eating kind of the same way. But it is

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<v Speaker 1>funny because I think I'm I'm like on the totally

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<v Speaker 1>opposite of the pendulum right now because of my hashimotos.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so aware of like every little thing that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>eating and I'm trying to just eat super like whole foods,

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<v Speaker 1>not processed, super clean, and I like threw out all

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<v Speaker 1>of our plastic tupperware and he was trying to like

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<v Speaker 1>find tupperword to put the stuff in, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>where's all of our stuff?

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, so what are you using instead?

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<v Speaker 1>Glass jars and like just like glass containers and.

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<v Speaker 5>Why is that for anyone who's not familiar with the

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<v Speaker 5>reasons to get rid of their tupperware.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of toxins and plastic anything, and so

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<v Speaker 1>it's really bad when it's touching your food. So I

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<v Speaker 1>donated it to the dog shelter with a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>other Sunnies things. I didn't want to just toss in

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<v Speaker 1>the trash. But it was really funny because he was

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<v Speaker 1>like rummaging through and he was just like, where's all

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<v Speaker 1>of our Yeah, you can use these amazing glass jars,

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<v Speaker 1>Mason jars.

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<v Speaker 2>He was not prepared for Tanya twenty three.

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<v Speaker 4>Not prepared, but happy about it. Yeah, yeah, sure, he bumming.

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<v Speaker 4>He's very willing to go along with all your things.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah my antics.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Yeah, he's in.

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<v Speaker 4>It for because he knows he'll probably last for three

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<v Speaker 4>to six months and then you're on to the next thing.

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<v Speaker 3>So not true, Becca Tilly, Not true, Not with this one.

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<v Speaker 1>This is gonna last a full year. Oh good, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how long I have to give it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I had the weirdest holiday season I think ever.

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<v Speaker 4>This is the first well there's been one Christmas where

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't with family, but I was with my well

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<v Speaker 4>I was with family, just like not my whole family.

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<v Speaker 4>This is the first Christmas I wasn't with any family

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<v Speaker 4>on Christmas.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you want to tell us about that?

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<v Speaker 4>In the second you mean after a break, yeah, yeah, break, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we can do that. So I think everyone had interesting

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<v Speaker 4>Christmas holiday season this year, with like the winter storm

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<v Speaker 4>in the Midwest and the eastle flights canceled flights like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 5>We were supposed to fly back from Wisconsin on Southwest

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<v Speaker 5>and we panicked and just canceled it and bought a

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<v Speaker 5>flight home on American. And I gotta say, because every

0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:17.720
<v Speaker 5>airline will screw you at some point, it couldn't have

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<v Speaker 5>gone smoother. Both flights left on time, bags were waiting

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<v Speaker 5>for us when we got there. It was phenomenal. And

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<v Speaker 5>our original Southwest flights that we canceled left three hours late,

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<v Speaker 5>led to a half an hour before our connecting flight,

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<v Speaker 5>and so I don't know that we would have made it.

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<v Speaker 5>We may have gotten stranded in Phoenix all night.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it was wild. That's why I saw this happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Our trip to Tahoe was like last minute, and Robbie's like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just fly into Reno, and I'm like, I am

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<v Speaker 1>not flying anywhere right now because this is just mayhem.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I had booked my flight and was supposed to

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<v Speaker 4>get their Christmas Eve in the morning, and then my sister, Heink,

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<v Speaker 4>who's in Denver, her flight got canceled going out. So

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, well, why don't you fly to l

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<v Speaker 4>so that you're at least with me if anything happens,

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<v Speaker 4>You're not like alone in Denver. So we book her

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<v Speaker 4>flight on Southwest the night before that one gets canceled,

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<v Speaker 4>and I had rebooked us to go on a flight

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<v Speaker 4>together separate from my fight, So I canceled my original flight.

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<v Speaker 4>That one made it to Louisiana. By the way, I

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't on it because I canceled it so that I

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<v Speaker 4>could be with my sister. She never made it to

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<v Speaker 4>LA the flight. The flight I booked for us got canceled,

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<v Speaker 4>and so I was like, you know what, I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>going to stress about it. I'm with Haley's family, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm excited to spend Christmas with Haley. I'm not going

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<v Speaker 4>to like panic. I'll see my family after Christmas. So

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<v Speaker 4>I booked my flight to go home the day after Christmas.

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<v Speaker 4>I on Christmas Day come down with the worst sore throat.

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<v Speaker 4>I am not kidding. I have ever felt as an adult.

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<v Speaker 4>I may have felt bad when I was a kid.

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<v Speaker 2>I had that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I am not kidding. I cannot remember the last

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<v Speaker 4>time my throat felt like this. I had no other symptoms,

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<v Speaker 4>just like, didn't you want to speak, didn't even want

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<v Speaker 4>to swallow my own spit.

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<v Speaker 2>It was horrible. So this happens on Christmas night.

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<v Speaker 4>So I don't even say bye to everyone because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>so sick that I'm like, I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 4>be near anybody. And all night I was just writhing

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<v Speaker 4>in pain. And I got a doctor's appointment and went

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<v Speaker 4>in immediately that morning, I had to cancel my flight.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, Okay, I can't even speak Haley was

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<v Speaker 4>standing outside of the doctor's office and she heard me talking,

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<v Speaker 4>but she was like, I'm not sure if this is

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<v Speaker 4>Becca's room because that is not Becca's voice. And the

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<v Speaker 4>doctor was asking Haley. She was like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>if she tipped. Is this her normal voice? And she

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<v Speaker 4>was like no, I've.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally never heard this before.

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<v Speaker 4>So she did, like a throat swab, give me a

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<v Speaker 4>steroid shot, give me antibiotics, and within the next day,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like significantly improved, but it was horrible. It

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<v Speaker 4>with strep throat, which I got as a kid, like

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<v Speaker 4>all the time. I haven't had it since then, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just so grateful that I was able to get

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<v Speaker 4>in and get medicine because I would have been like,

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<v Speaker 4>it would have been worse. So I might go home tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Unexpected plot twist.

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<v Speaker 3>I got out of here.

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<v Speaker 4>Bye, But it was it was a it was just

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<v Speaker 4>like a different holiday, Like it was kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like hot here. Yeah, it was weird. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>So we were going up to Tahoe the night before.

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<v Speaker 1>We were driving. I'm up all night, every hour, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to the bathroom and I'm like, are you freaking kidding? Me,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a UTI the night before We're about to

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<v Speaker 1>drive to Tahoe. I was like texting back at three

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Used to get these all the time, all the time,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's been so long.

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<v Speaker 5>Knock on wood, the Uti is come.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very it was very unexpected plot twist, and

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<v Speaker 1>happy that it happened to twenty twenty two because I

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<v Speaker 1>am not bringing that energy into twenty twenty three. Ugh no,

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<v Speaker 1>but I like powered through. I like called my GUYO

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<v Speaker 1>right away and like, these doctors are amazing. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>called her office and then I was like, if it's

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<v Speaker 1>an emergency, press eight, and I pressed eight. She's like hello,

0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:15.399
<v Speaker 1>doctor Collins, And I was like what what.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, wow, it's pretty amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never had like that before. I always got urgent care,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeahs call center.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but no, it wasn't after hours. I called like

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. It was like nine am or something.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it was pretty amazing. So I got my

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<v Speaker 1>meds and I was like, you know what, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do this. We're gonna do this. We're gonna we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get there. We get there, Robbie. So excited ski. He

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<v Speaker 1>like loves skiing. Veniver ski just the two of us

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<v Speaker 1>because last time we had the kids.

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<v Speaker 3>And we get there.

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<v Speaker 1>The first day we get there, it's raining and like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you, I don't really know much

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<v Speaker 1>about skiing and stuff, but you can't ski in the

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<v Speaker 1>rain because it like it gets really slushy and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not like a good skier, and so everything was like closed.

0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:57.840
<v Speaker 1>The wind was crazy, so they were closing all the

0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:01.280
<v Speaker 1>whatever the thing's gondolas go through. So it's like it's fine, well,

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<v Speaker 1>ski tomorrow. So we like played cards, got drunk and

0:19:04.400 --> 0:19:07.520
<v Speaker 1>just had like a fun snow day. Right the next day,

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<v Speaker 1>we won't wake up and it's like a blizzard.

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<v Speaker 2>It is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>They're getting so they're getting pounded. Nothing is working on

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<v Speaker 1>the mountains, geez. So we're snowed in again day two.

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<v Speaker 1>So that day we actually like went like frolicked and

0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:23.119
<v Speaker 1>like made like did all that.

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<v Speaker 5>Like pictures are from Yeah, yeah, I got scrubbers. I

0:19:26.760 --> 0:19:29.080
<v Speaker 5>heard from saying Tanya need to stop posting pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>He's engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, so I'm not engaged. I'm not hiding it

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<v Speaker 1>would never hide that. We'll be very excited to not

0:19:39.320 --> 0:19:39.800
<v Speaker 1>hide that.

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<v Speaker 4>Say, like, out of all the people who would hide it.

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<v Speaker 5>It was never gonna no anything.

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<v Speaker 6>No.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so no, I'm not engaged, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>still really just feeling it, just feeling the energy, you know,

0:19:57.760 --> 0:20:01.520
<v Speaker 1>just feeling the bejeweled energy, you know, manifestation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, I have high plans.

0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:06.720
<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of plans for twenty twenty three.

0:20:06.880 --> 0:20:09.680
<v Speaker 1>So it's time to get.

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<v Speaker 3>The show on the road. You know what I'm saying.

0:20:11.080 --> 0:20:11.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm saying.

0:20:11.920 --> 0:20:12.240
<v Speaker 4>I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I know what I'm saying. No, I can't do those

0:20:13.840 --> 0:20:15.600
<v Speaker 2>plans until we got till we got joy.

0:20:15.840 --> 0:20:16.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, till we're jeweled.

0:20:17.040 --> 0:20:20.480
<v Speaker 1>So you know, okay, no pressure or anything, but sure,

0:20:20.920 --> 0:20:22.479
<v Speaker 1>no pressure, No, no, no pressure.

0:20:22.480 --> 0:20:24.240
<v Speaker 2>He's yeah, I'm sure you chill.

0:20:24.320 --> 0:20:25.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, super chill.

0:20:25.359 --> 0:20:31.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm basically like ice Queen, like the ice cool. Yeah.

0:20:32.040 --> 0:20:34.920
<v Speaker 4>We So every time we go on a New Year's trip,

0:20:34.960 --> 0:20:37.800
<v Speaker 4>we typically just do nothing in rest, and it was

0:20:37.880 --> 0:20:42.240
<v Speaker 4>this year was we did nothing. Like Caroline, my sister

0:20:42.280 --> 0:20:45.280
<v Speaker 4>had gotten Haley, this paint by numbers thing for which

0:20:45.359 --> 0:20:46.480
<v Speaker 4>is first all.

0:20:46.359 --> 0:20:48.160
<v Speaker 1>The fact that your sister got Haley that like made

0:20:48.200 --> 0:20:48.800
<v Speaker 1>me emotional.

0:20:49.080 --> 0:20:50.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was really that it's really cute.

0:20:50.720 --> 0:20:53.040
<v Speaker 4>She got it for her in April for her birthday,

0:20:53.080 --> 0:20:56.440
<v Speaker 4>and when we opened it, it was so many tiny

0:20:56.520 --> 0:20:58.480
<v Speaker 4>numbers that we both kind of just rolled it back

0:20:58.560 --> 0:21:01.919
<v Speaker 4>up and we're like, we'll revisit, and so I was

0:21:02.000 --> 0:21:04.160
<v Speaker 4>we were talking about it and Haley before we left,

0:21:04.200 --> 0:21:05.560
<v Speaker 4>she was like, we should bring like a puzzle or

0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:07.080
<v Speaker 4>something to work on. I was like, what about that

0:21:07.280 --> 0:21:10.040
<v Speaker 4>paint by numbers thing? So we opened it, and Haley's

0:21:10.160 --> 0:21:12.919
<v Speaker 4>very much like she loves painting, but she doesn't like

0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:17.320
<v Speaker 4>any rules or restrictions, so like that was very stressful

0:21:17.359 --> 0:21:21.000
<v Speaker 4>for her, whereas I like rules and like borders, like

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<v Speaker 4>I always did well in art if I had.

0:21:22.920 --> 0:21:23.679
<v Speaker 1>Like color inside.

0:21:24.040 --> 0:21:28.439
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, So I just like I'm talking for however

0:21:28.480 --> 0:21:30.560
<v Speaker 4>long five days, I just would like sit and work

0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:32.960
<v Speaker 4>on it, like while we were just relaxing, listen to music,

0:21:33.359 --> 0:21:35.560
<v Speaker 4>and it is the coolest thing. We finished it last

0:21:35.640 --> 0:21:37.400
<v Speaker 4>night and I'm gonna frame it. But it was like

0:21:37.760 --> 0:21:40.040
<v Speaker 4>I had the best time, and I was thinking if

0:21:40.040 --> 0:21:42.239
<v Speaker 4>I was if I lived alone and I was just

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<v Speaker 4>like single, and I would make myself dinner and get

0:21:45.800 --> 0:21:47.760
<v Speaker 4>one of those things and just sit and listen to

0:21:47.840 --> 0:21:50.760
<v Speaker 4>music and or listen to podcasts and just really I

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<v Speaker 4>loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>I learned a lot about myself on this trip.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you What else did you learn?

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<v Speaker 4>I also started reading this book called The Untethered Soul. Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm I need you to read it after I'm done.

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<v Speaker 4>Was I'm just on chapter I'm like on the first

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<v Speaker 4>couple chapters. It's just about like learning about yourself and

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<v Speaker 4>like finding peace. The first chapter is talking about your

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<v Speaker 4>inner voice, like do y'all I'm assuming y'all have like

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<v Speaker 4>inner dialogue, like if you're in a situation. I did

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<v Speaker 4>this a lot while I was like dealing with difficult

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<v Speaker 4>things in my relationship with Haley, like navigating telling people

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<v Speaker 4>or whatever. I would have these internal conversations about how

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<v Speaker 4>it would go, and I would play both roles.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you'll do that? I do this with everything?

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<v Speaker 1>And how's exhausting.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you if you're once, you're aware of it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you realize you do it.

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<v Speaker 4>But he's talking about your inner voice and how if

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<v Speaker 4>if you personified your inner voice, like if you like

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<v Speaker 4>personified that person, gave it a name, and you pretended

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<v Speaker 4>that you were hanging out with him, you would be

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<v Speaker 4>like I am so annoyed by this person.

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<v Speaker 2>They have a thought on everything.

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<v Speaker 4>They're always like doubting or not trusting something, or they

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<v Speaker 4>always have like a negative response if something's like you

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<v Speaker 4>should you know? For me, my inner voice sometimes is

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<v Speaker 4>like don't do that, like what if it goes wrong

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<v Speaker 4>or what if someone has reaction to it? And so

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<v Speaker 4>it was saying like if you personified that voice, you

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<v Speaker 4>would never keep them around. You'd be like, I gotta

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<v Speaker 4>give this person out of my life. And how annoying

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<v Speaker 4>it is and how crucial it is that we like

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<v Speaker 4>listen to that voice so often and there's no truth

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<v Speaker 4>to it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like our own thing made up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but it's so fascinating and I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 4>finish it. I saw this girl that I love on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 4>Amber filler Up, and she recommended she's like a changed

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<v Speaker 4>my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to change my life. That's part of

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<v Speaker 1>the renaissance. Pass that book on over red Rover.

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<v Speaker 4>But anyways, I'm I really enjoyed reading. I just loved

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<v Speaker 4>being I was on my phone, like I took photos

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<v Speaker 4>and stuff, and like I was on social media but

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<v Speaker 4>not I like spent so much time off of it,

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<v Speaker 4>and I loved it. I had the best time.

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<v Speaker 3>Great, I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't wait to get the book, can't wait to give

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<v Speaker 1>it to you. No, another book is coming out in January.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's talk about it. Should we take a break

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<v Speaker 2>and come back?

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<v Speaker 8>And I know there's so.

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<v Speaker 1>Much that I feel like, there's so much more that

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk about, because like we haven't seen

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<v Speaker 1>each other in like a really long time, and like

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<v Speaker 1>there's just so much to get to. Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what order to go in, but I guess we always.

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<v Speaker 3>Have next week.

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<v Speaker 2>There's always next week.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's the good thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's take a break and we'll come back with the

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<v Speaker 2>sunshine mine.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So before we went on a break, we were saying,

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<v Speaker 4>there's another book coming out soon.

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<v Speaker 1>There's another book coming out soon jan thirty one, Jan

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<v Speaker 1>three to one.

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<v Speaker 5>That's four weeks from today to you and me, it's

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<v Speaker 5>so crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>It's happening. It's like so crazy. Because I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of gearing up for stuff around the holidays. I took

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<v Speaker 1>time off. I took like a the two weeks from

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas to New Year, and I was like, I really

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<v Speaker 1>need to get some book stuff done off my plate

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<v Speaker 1>because come Jan, come Jen one, it's gonna be full

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<v Speaker 1>steam ahead. And I'm really glad I did that because

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<v Speaker 1>now it's like not so overwhelming, but it's like so like,

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<v Speaker 1>we just have so much coming up.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna do a book signing at the.

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<v Speaker 2>Grove that is so cool.

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<v Speaker 3>It's gonna be so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's gonna happen, and then we're gonna be on

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning America.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that was so epic, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like just kind of gearing up for all

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<v Speaker 1>of all of the fun of it, the excite, I mean,

0:25:36.359 --> 0:25:39.080
<v Speaker 1>all of it's like really fun and exciting, but it's just, yeah,

0:25:39.080 --> 0:25:42.159
<v Speaker 1>the release, the release, it's like so much build up,

0:25:42.160 --> 0:25:44.440
<v Speaker 1>so much time, so much energy, so much effort into

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<v Speaker 1>this project, and like now it's like here, Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like happening. It's almost like I'm giving birth, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it really you're giving birth.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because you've been working on this for a long

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<v Speaker 4>time years and it's finally come to fruition.

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<v Speaker 1>It has come to ruition. Twenty twenty three, twenty twenty three,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be a published author. Wow, New York

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<v Speaker 1>Times best selling auth that's right, that's right. Fingers crossed.

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<v Speaker 1>But I did have a confession to make okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>I said on the podcast, which was like, I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of months ago, I was like, oh my gosh, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you're gonna do the drum roll. No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>really not that big of a yeah, it's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of.

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<v Speaker 5>A long drum roll.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I have more gray hairs than I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of months ago, I was getting my hair

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh my gosh, I found my

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<v Speaker 1>first gray.

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<v Speaker 3>This is so exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you were excited.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I cut it out.

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<v Speaker 1>I had tawny like cut it out of my head.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh yeah, I saved that sucker. And

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<v Speaker 1>I did a melt before the holidays to give my

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<v Speaker 1>hair a break from the bleach before I like ramp

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<v Speaker 1>up because I'm gonna go full blue each for the

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<v Speaker 1>book release. Oh wow yeah yeah, yeah, she's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>real blonde for a book launch week. But so I

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<v Speaker 1>did give my hair a break over the holidays, and

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<v Speaker 1>so my roots are like really brown, and I'm seeing

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<v Speaker 1>so many more.

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<v Speaker 3>Grays in there now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, maybe it's because my hair is darker.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see them more, and I couldn't see them

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<v Speaker 1>before because my hair was so blonde. But there's like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of grays in there. Well, I mean I

0:27:23.960 --> 0:27:28.320
<v Speaker 1>don't even welcome, like definitely a handful or more.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, I mean, I'm sure when your hair is

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<v Speaker 4>like bleach blonde, you don't see gray hair.

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<v Speaker 8>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But it made me more aware of I guess my

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<v Speaker 1>age because I always feel like I'm twenty five too.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I feel twenty seven. That's like my age, That's

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<v Speaker 4>what I say, twenty six.

0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:45.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel twenty five like I feel twenty five.

0:27:45.520 --> 0:27:47.080
<v Speaker 1>And then I saw those hairs and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I'm in my thirties.

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<v Speaker 2>We are indeed in our thirties.

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<v Speaker 3>Mid thirties.

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<v Speaker 1>I am in my mid thirties, and here we are.

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<v Speaker 4>You may I got my first gray hairs a like

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<v Speaker 4>twenty three, So I'm like way wiser than you, et cetera.

0:28:07.200 --> 0:28:10.000
<v Speaker 2>Way wiser, so way wiser.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was my confession. And then I also watched

0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:15.720
<v Speaker 1>a lot of stuff over the holidays.

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<v Speaker 2>What I just remembered? What did you watch?

0:28:18.960 --> 0:28:20.040
<v Speaker 3>What did you remember?

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<v Speaker 1>I watched so many things, like we could watch we

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<v Speaker 1>could talk about the Harry and Meghan documentary. We could

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:25.040
<v Speaker 1>talk about the Recruit, we.

0:28:25.040 --> 0:28:27.160
<v Speaker 5>Could talk about Glass Onion.

0:28:27.040 --> 0:28:29.320
<v Speaker 1>Glass Onion, we could talk about Matilda the musical. We

0:28:29.359 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 1>could talk about else. I watched, Oh, we started watching

0:28:31.800 --> 0:28:34.120
<v Speaker 1>the show you posted about Sisters. Yeah, and then we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to watch Kaleidoscope too.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I want to watch Kaleidoscope. The only thing I

0:28:37.920 --> 0:28:40.360
<v Speaker 4>watched that you listed was Glass Onion. I saw that

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<v Speaker 4>in theaters a few so lame.

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<v Speaker 1>I hated it too. I loved fun.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know, I had no issue with the second one.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have a confession about that movie, which won

0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:57.360
<v Speaker 1>the first one, the second, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Second one, the Glass Onion.

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<v Speaker 4>We saw it in theaters and I may or may

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<v Speaker 4>not have taken an edible before, thinking like this could

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:10.280
<v Speaker 4>be fun. I got so anxious in the theater and thought,

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<v Speaker 4>what if I I literally I don't do this normally

0:29:13.240 --> 0:29:14.720
<v Speaker 4>want to take an edible because I think I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>at home, comfortable in my house. I was like, what

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<v Speaker 4>if I can't get out of here in the theater,

0:29:20.200 --> 0:29:21.680
<v Speaker 4>Like what if I can't get out of the theater?

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<v Speaker 4>Like and then we were in the middle section, like

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:25.960
<v Speaker 4>we were right in the middle of the road, So would.

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<v Speaker 1>To be able to get out of the theater that's

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<v Speaker 1>like there's doors.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know I could. I just my brain was

0:29:30.480 --> 0:29:34.720
<v Speaker 4>like doing its thing. So I had the worst experience

0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:36.320
<v Speaker 4>watching that movie. So and then on top of that,

0:29:36.400 --> 0:29:37.280
<v Speaker 4>I hated the movie.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was just like all of it was like

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<v Speaker 5>this you or was you the edible responsible for the movie?

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good question, But I Haley also didn't like it,

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<v Speaker 4>So I wonder if also those expectations, like when you

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:49.480
<v Speaker 4>pay money and go to a theater, you have a

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<v Speaker 4>certain amount of expectation.

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<v Speaker 5>I watched it on a plane on Netflix on my

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<v Speaker 5>iPad and I found it delightful because I'm just killing

0:29:55.600 --> 0:29:57.760
<v Speaker 5>time on Yeah, so that might be a difference there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I watched it at home and it was bad.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm kind of like when I go to a theater,

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<v Speaker 4>my expectations really, I'm like, I have popcorn and candy

0:30:06.760 --> 0:30:09.680
<v Speaker 4>and a drink. I'm chilling, like I'm honestly happy, no

0:30:09.720 --> 0:30:12.160
<v Speaker 4>matter what the problem was. I ate all my food

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<v Speaker 4>before we were even like halfway through the movie, So

0:30:15.200 --> 0:30:18.360
<v Speaker 4>then I was just anxious and like full, what's.

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<v Speaker 5>Your beef with it. Tony didn't really articulate properly.

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<v Speaker 3>What like articulated because it's so so bad.

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<v Speaker 5>I like, you're not part of this discussion.

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<v Speaker 7>I know.

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<v Speaker 6>I loved it. I love the Yes. I watched it

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<v Speaker 6>on Netflix and my wife and I loved it every

0:30:32.840 --> 0:30:36.080
<v Speaker 6>second of it. I thought it was such a fun

0:30:36.120 --> 0:30:37.400
<v Speaker 6>improvement from the first movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun improvement. Interesting, that was a step up.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow, the tone had changed completely, Yes, and it was

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<v Speaker 6>I mean much like the first movie was making fun

0:30:48.320 --> 0:30:49.880
<v Speaker 6>of like old money and stuff like that. I thought

0:30:49.880 --> 0:30:51.360
<v Speaker 6>this was a really fun way to make fun of,

0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:55.240
<v Speaker 6>like you know, the the Tesla's and then netflixes and things,

0:30:55.360 --> 0:30:57.160
<v Speaker 6>the disruptors I love.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I did like that.

0:30:58.520 --> 0:31:00.800
<v Speaker 6>Take an air out of those things. I thought it

0:31:00.840 --> 0:31:02.480
<v Speaker 6>was really funny. And I love who Done It's. I

0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:05.400
<v Speaker 6>love mysteries. I love that kind of garbage. I love

0:31:05.400 --> 0:31:07.760
<v Speaker 6>those kind of archetypes, all of those characters. I had

0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 6>a great time.

0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:11.440
<v Speaker 4>Wow, all right, well, fifty to fifty here in the

0:31:11.480 --> 0:31:12.480
<v Speaker 4>scrubbing in room.

0:31:12.560 --> 0:31:15.400
<v Speaker 1>Maybe sound off scrubbers, yea.

0:31:16.480 --> 0:31:18.120
<v Speaker 5>But she was laying on the beach. I probably not.

0:31:18.240 --> 0:31:22.760
<v Speaker 4>Hana was living her best life in the life, She's

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:23.920
<v Speaker 4>living her best life now she was.

0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:25.160
<v Speaker 3>Still another podcast.

0:31:27.240 --> 0:31:29.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay, well we watch.

0:31:29.560 --> 0:31:32.480
<v Speaker 4>Let me just say, since I think my attention span

0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:36.160
<v Speaker 4>has clapped since I've had TikTok, which I'm trying to limit.

0:31:35.960 --> 0:31:38.000
<v Speaker 3>As well, Yeah, I have something too.

0:31:38.480 --> 0:31:40.000
<v Speaker 1>I'll get to after you, okay.

0:31:40.200 --> 0:31:43.640
<v Speaker 4>And so we started watching, and so Haley will start

0:31:43.640 --> 0:31:46.240
<v Speaker 4>a series and if I'm not instantly hooked, I can't

0:31:46.320 --> 0:31:48.240
<v Speaker 4>like pay attention, so I'll just like play on my

0:31:48.280 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 4>phone or something and she'll watch the whole thing and

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:54.440
<v Speaker 4>I'll just like to jime in when I can or

0:31:54.520 --> 0:31:57.640
<v Speaker 4>want to. But we started Bad Sisters. It's on Apple TV,

0:31:58.160 --> 0:32:00.920
<v Speaker 4>you guys. It was one of the best shows I

0:32:00.960 --> 0:32:03.760
<v Speaker 4>have watched in a very long time because then I

0:32:03.840 --> 0:32:04.239
<v Speaker 4>watched it.

0:32:04.280 --> 0:32:06.200
<v Speaker 1>So we watched the first episode and I was hooked.

0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:07.640
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I want to watch it.

0:32:07.640 --> 0:32:11.480
<v Speaker 4>It is everything. It has everything you could want to show.

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:13.360
<v Speaker 4>It has everything that I would want to show. It

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:16.480
<v Speaker 4>had like the sisters, the sister relationship, which I thought

0:32:16.520 --> 0:32:17.400
<v Speaker 4>was so funny.

0:32:17.440 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 2>They're all Irish, so like the accents for great.

0:32:21.040 --> 0:32:23.840
<v Speaker 4>I just love that it's funny, but it's dark and

0:32:23.920 --> 0:32:26.600
<v Speaker 4>like it is just incredible.

0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:28.160
<v Speaker 3>I really like the first episode.

0:32:28.280 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 4>I can't recommend the show enough if you have time

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:33.680
<v Speaker 4>and want to binge a show Bad Sisters on Apple TV.

0:32:33.880 --> 0:32:36.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, give yeah. I'm excited to finish.

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:38.040
<v Speaker 2>And like, I think there's gonna be a season two.

0:32:38.040 --> 0:32:39.680
<v Speaker 4>But I have mixed feelings about it because I'm like,

0:32:40.120 --> 0:32:41.760
<v Speaker 4>it was so good.

0:32:42.280 --> 0:32:42.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:32:43.080 --> 0:32:46.360
<v Speaker 4>I always get weird about like sequels and season twos.

0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:48.000
<v Speaker 4>So that's a little bit about me.

0:32:51.840 --> 0:32:52.040
<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

0:32:52.120 --> 0:32:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the list is going to go on and on

0:32:55.000 --> 0:33:00.000
<v Speaker 1>and on, but this one. So in my new person

0:33:00.000 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 1>suit of my health, health is wealth in twenty twenty three,

0:33:04.800 --> 0:33:06.240
<v Speaker 1>healing from the inside out.

0:33:06.480 --> 0:33:09.720
<v Speaker 3>You are what you eat. Yeah, okay, it's my mentality.

0:33:09.720 --> 0:33:12.200
<v Speaker 2>It's not always been is this, but it's.

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:13.600
<v Speaker 3>Newer because I'm so.

0:33:13.680 --> 0:33:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Focused on like something specific.

0:33:17.120 --> 0:33:21.320
<v Speaker 1>Something specific like beating my hashimotos okay, like in a

0:33:21.400 --> 0:33:23.000
<v Speaker 1>non medical way.

0:33:23.040 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:33:25.000 --> 0:33:28.400
<v Speaker 1>So I started, I was like, I we were in

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:33.479
<v Speaker 1>Tahoe and this like pizza place had all there. They

0:33:33.480 --> 0:33:35.360
<v Speaker 1>were like, we can do any of our pizzas gluten

0:33:35.360 --> 0:33:37.840
<v Speaker 1>free for you, Like they were so accommodating, and I

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:40.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, first of all, I think the waiter that

0:33:40.080 --> 0:33:42.040
<v Speaker 1>we had was the best waiter I've ever had my

0:33:42.160 --> 0:33:42.640
<v Speaker 1>entire life.

0:33:42.720 --> 0:33:45.600
<v Speaker 3>I love that yeah, gave him like the biggest no boot.

0:33:46.280 --> 0:33:46.520
<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

0:33:46.640 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, it was this shoot tied on no better

0:33:49.960 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 1>than no boot because he was just so like not

0:33:54.480 --> 0:33:58.200
<v Speaker 1>just on it, but like kind and courteous and just

0:33:58.240 --> 0:34:00.320
<v Speaker 1>like all I was like, wow, like we literally robb me.

0:34:00.320 --> 0:34:01.760
<v Speaker 3>I could stop talking, like remember.

0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:03.120
<v Speaker 5>His name because you should shout this guy out.

0:34:03.240 --> 0:34:05.600
<v Speaker 1>It was two there was two guys on the he

0:34:05.720 --> 0:34:07.520
<v Speaker 1>wrote like two names. I think it was like Brian

0:34:07.560 --> 0:34:10.520
<v Speaker 1>and Evan on the bill, so.

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:12.360
<v Speaker 5>I don't know which one was.

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:16.080
<v Speaker 1>But I was like we were eating our eating it

0:34:16.160 --> 0:34:17.759
<v Speaker 1>and we were like, oh my gosh, this gluten free

0:34:17.760 --> 0:34:19.360
<v Speaker 1>pizza was like amazing.

0:34:19.480 --> 0:34:20.600
<v Speaker 3>It was so good.

0:34:21.280 --> 0:34:24.000
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, after I've been like doing all

0:34:24.000 --> 0:34:25.879
<v Speaker 1>this stuff and I've been posting about it, people are

0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:30.000
<v Speaker 1>very curious and want to know more about like gluten

0:34:30.040 --> 0:34:32.239
<v Speaker 1>free options and like all this gluten free stuff, and

0:34:32.239 --> 0:34:34.560
<v Speaker 1>it's like very undersaturated, Like there's not like I have

0:34:34.600 --> 0:34:35.840
<v Speaker 1>to do all this research. I'm just doing it on

0:34:35.840 --> 0:34:38.080
<v Speaker 1>my own. Like I'm just buying all the different things

0:34:38.080 --> 0:34:40.799
<v Speaker 1>and seeing what I like best. And so I'm like

0:34:40.840 --> 0:34:43.440
<v Speaker 1>going to be the gluten free gal. Might start a

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:47.799
<v Speaker 1>TikTok of gluten free gal and like rate all my

0:34:48.200 --> 0:34:50.520
<v Speaker 1>experiences at different places that I go to about like

0:34:50.680 --> 0:34:54.840
<v Speaker 1>how gluten friendly they are, best products that I'm consuming,

0:34:55.040 --> 0:34:57.239
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm going to be one of those TikTokers that's

0:34:57.280 --> 0:35:00.280
<v Speaker 1>like rating my gluten free life.

0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:02.239
<v Speaker 4>I love that for you. I love it for me too,

0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:04.200
<v Speaker 4>great idea. I think it's very helpful.

0:35:04.239 --> 0:35:07.240
<v Speaker 1>It's so helpful because I've been doing all this research.

0:35:07.680 --> 0:35:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm like doing all this research and I can't find anything.

0:35:10.080 --> 0:35:12.080
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, I'll just be the guinea pig and

0:35:12.160 --> 0:35:13.280
<v Speaker 1>start doing it myself.

0:35:13.600 --> 0:35:16.160
<v Speaker 2>And you know what's crazy is like Blaize new Child.

0:35:16.280 --> 0:35:21.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, watch, there's like fifty others going free lifestyle has

0:35:21.360 --> 0:35:22.200
<v Speaker 1>been around for a minute.

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:22.880
<v Speaker 8>But I love that.

0:35:23.200 --> 0:35:25.120
<v Speaker 2>You'll have your own take on it, the Tanya take.

0:35:25.000 --> 0:35:27.359
<v Speaker 3>The Tanya take. Yeah, but it was I don't know.

0:35:27.400 --> 0:35:30.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm very like into it, like very very interested in

0:35:30.719 --> 0:35:32.840
<v Speaker 1>this whole world.

0:35:33.000 --> 0:35:34.360
<v Speaker 2>Do you know who Alex Earl is?

0:35:35.560 --> 0:35:35.799
<v Speaker 8>Yes?

0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 1>Why do I know her? I follow her on Instagram?

0:35:38.080 --> 0:35:42.919
<v Speaker 2>Oh on Instagram? Yeah, she's blown up on TikTok. She's

0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:44.160
<v Speaker 2>are you talking about that?

0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:48.200
<v Speaker 1>She's like young Montera. She was just like on a

0:35:48.280 --> 0:35:51.359
<v Speaker 1>yacht somewhere. Yeah, it has.

0:35:51.280 --> 0:35:54.960
<v Speaker 4>Been fascinating because I am a thirty four year old

0:35:55.000 --> 0:35:56.759
<v Speaker 4>woman and she's like twenty two or twenty three, I

0:35:56.760 --> 0:35:57.000
<v Speaker 4>don't know.

0:35:57.160 --> 0:35:59.160
<v Speaker 2>She's like he's young, still in college.

0:36:00.040 --> 0:36:03.960
<v Speaker 4>And I find myself watching every video she makes, and

0:36:04.000 --> 0:36:06.240
<v Speaker 4>there's nothing like it's like get ready with me videos.

0:36:06.280 --> 0:36:09.840
<v Speaker 4>There's nothing like groundbreaking about what she does, right, But

0:36:09.920 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 4>I think it's a fact that she does it in

0:36:12.120 --> 0:36:14.799
<v Speaker 4>a way that's very like she's very open about like

0:36:15.360 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 4>anything she's had done, she has, like she's struggled with acne.

0:36:18.120 --> 0:36:20.040
<v Speaker 2>She talks about her acne shows. You know, she's just

0:36:20.200 --> 0:36:21.760
<v Speaker 2>very like it feels like you're with.

0:36:21.680 --> 0:36:26.800
<v Speaker 1>Your friend, Yeah that's nice, or a young yeah, young galpal.

0:36:27.120 --> 0:36:29.160
<v Speaker 2>But it's fascinating, like she's just blown up.

0:36:29.200 --> 0:36:30.919
<v Speaker 4>And she did a live where she was talking about

0:36:30.920 --> 0:36:34.760
<v Speaker 4>her breakup with her boyfriend who's a major league baseball player.

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:36.719
<v Speaker 8>Oh my, and she.

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:38.799
<v Speaker 4>Was just talking like she was just talking like she

0:36:38.840 --> 0:36:40.640
<v Speaker 4>was on FaceTime with her best friends, but she's on

0:36:40.680 --> 0:36:43.239
<v Speaker 4>a TikTok live and she was just basically saying like

0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:46.080
<v Speaker 4>he wouldn't post photos of her on his Instagram, like

0:36:46.120 --> 0:36:46.600
<v Speaker 4>they went to.

0:36:46.560 --> 0:36:48.680
<v Speaker 2>A wedding and he posted throw me.

0:36:48.920 --> 0:36:51.000
<v Speaker 4>He posts like they took a bunch of photos together

0:36:51.040 --> 0:36:54.040
<v Speaker 4>and he posted just a photo of himself, and she

0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:55.160
<v Speaker 4>was like, what the heck?

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:56.279
<v Speaker 2>Like why won't he post me?

0:36:56.600 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 4>And I think he he had she she mentioned, like

0:36:59.000 --> 0:37:01.000
<v Speaker 4>he had a hard time with like the social media

0:37:01.080 --> 0:37:04.239
<v Speaker 4>world like her blowing up so fast, and and then

0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:06.680
<v Speaker 4>all these people are now like dragging this guy who

0:37:06.680 --> 0:37:10.279
<v Speaker 4>probably was just like I don't know what his story is,

0:37:10.360 --> 0:37:12.480
<v Speaker 4>but she and so she releases it.

0:37:12.560 --> 0:37:13.719
<v Speaker 2>She's like, don't be mean to him.

0:37:13.760 --> 0:37:16.480
<v Speaker 4>Like I'm still getting used to this world of like

0:37:16.600 --> 0:37:19.480
<v Speaker 4>being having these this many So.

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:20.799
<v Speaker 3>Are you saying that I should.

0:37:22.600 --> 0:37:25.239
<v Speaker 1>Talk to emulate my freaking out like I would like

0:37:25.320 --> 0:37:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Alex Earl.

0:37:26.239 --> 0:37:28.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, very different vibe what y'all will be doing, but

0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:31.440
<v Speaker 4>like I think the same tone of just like it

0:37:31.560 --> 0:37:36.399
<v Speaker 4>being your just your experience and not making it too

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:38.320
<v Speaker 4>aesthetic or whatever.

0:37:38.640 --> 0:37:39.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm not an esthetic.

0:37:39.719 --> 0:37:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I know that about you, So I don't have an aesthetic.

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:45.560
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you, I think you'll do really well

0:37:45.560 --> 0:37:45.839
<v Speaker 1>with that.

0:37:46.000 --> 0:37:49.719
<v Speaker 3>Wow, Like that unabridged is that the right word?

0:37:51.000 --> 0:37:52.280
<v Speaker 2>Unfiltered?

0:37:52.400 --> 0:37:53.600
<v Speaker 3>Varnished, unfiltered?

0:37:54.160 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 2>Did you know unfiltered was my word for last year?

0:37:56.680 --> 0:37:57.560
<v Speaker 3>I didn't even know that.

0:37:57.920 --> 0:37:59.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I didn't remember. I went back and listened to

0:37:59.920 --> 0:38:01.000
<v Speaker 2>a podcast.

0:38:00.640 --> 0:38:03.239
<v Speaker 5>What's your Word for twenty three? I know Tanya's renaissance.

0:38:08.680 --> 0:38:11.799
<v Speaker 2>I think that mine. I don't have a word.

0:38:12.440 --> 0:38:14.680
<v Speaker 5>Wow, no word, it's just don't.

0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Know word, no no direction. Well I just didn't have

0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:19.279
<v Speaker 1>lessly living through twenty twenty three.

0:38:19.640 --> 0:38:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:38:19.960 --> 0:38:22.960
<v Speaker 4>But I also I think if a word comes up

0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:24.880
<v Speaker 4>where I'm like, that's my word, it doesn't have to

0:38:24.960 --> 0:38:26.200
<v Speaker 4>be like right now, like it can.

0:38:26.280 --> 0:38:27.759
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to just throw out a word. To

0:38:27.760 --> 0:38:28.480
<v Speaker 2>throw out a word.

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:29.920
<v Speaker 3>You know you know it? Though?

0:38:30.600 --> 0:38:31.279
<v Speaker 2>Do you know it?

0:38:31.360 --> 0:38:32.600
<v Speaker 3>I think you do?

0:38:32.600 --> 0:38:33.040
<v Speaker 4>Do you know?

0:38:33.120 --> 0:38:34.920
<v Speaker 2>One? For me is that you're thinking about?

0:38:35.160 --> 0:38:37.440
<v Speaker 1>No, I think in your gut you know one right now? No,

0:38:37.600 --> 0:38:40.319
<v Speaker 1>I really don't have I think you do.

0:38:41.040 --> 0:38:45.640
<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, if it comes to me like it's come to.

0:38:45.640 --> 0:38:48.319
<v Speaker 1>You, like think about like that water works that you

0:38:48.360 --> 0:38:52.960
<v Speaker 1>were doing Paint by numbers. Yeah, you're in this. You're

0:38:53.000 --> 0:38:54.760
<v Speaker 1>in a very content place.

0:38:56.000 --> 0:38:56.960
<v Speaker 2>I like contentment.

0:38:57.040 --> 0:38:58.640
<v Speaker 4>That was like one word I was thinking about the

0:38:58.640 --> 0:39:01.080
<v Speaker 4>whole time I was in Joshua Trees a contentment.

0:39:01.360 --> 0:39:05.879
<v Speaker 1>It's like I'm a a w S wizard wordsmith. Yeah,

0:39:06.080 --> 0:39:06.839
<v Speaker 1>I just know you.

0:39:07.239 --> 0:39:08.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I told you.

0:39:08.880 --> 0:39:10.319
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'll say it for next week.

0:39:10.520 --> 0:39:15.200
<v Speaker 2>I told, well, that's a tease. I'm curious, what is it?

0:39:15.360 --> 0:39:18.080
<v Speaker 1>Well, because I haven't given you your Christmas gift yet.

0:39:18.160 --> 0:39:20.799
<v Speaker 1>Your Christmas gift was not ready in time, doesn't have

0:39:20.840 --> 0:39:26.000
<v Speaker 1>a word on it for me. Yeah. So what I

0:39:26.000 --> 0:39:28.560
<v Speaker 1>did this year for like my best friends is I

0:39:28.640 --> 0:39:31.400
<v Speaker 1>thought of a word that I saw for them in

0:39:31.440 --> 0:39:34.560
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty three, the word that I want, like that

0:39:34.719 --> 0:39:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I saw for them, like in their lives. And I

0:39:36.560 --> 0:39:38.719
<v Speaker 1>spent a lot of time thinking about these words for them,

0:39:38.719 --> 0:39:40.040
<v Speaker 1>and so I got, well, I don't tell you what

0:39:40.040 --> 0:39:42.640
<v Speaker 1>it is, but it has the word on it time.

0:39:42.719 --> 0:39:44.399
<v Speaker 5>This is the New Year's show. Shouldn't you tell her?

0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:46.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeaht me tell you what it is. The word that

0:39:46.120 --> 0:39:47.520
<v Speaker 1>I fiked for you harmony.

0:39:48.040 --> 0:39:53.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, I love that. That's a great word. Maybe

0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:56.080
<v Speaker 2>that's maybe I just take your.

0:39:55.880 --> 0:39:58.520
<v Speaker 1>Thought for me and and I would be honored if

0:39:58.560 --> 0:39:59.040
<v Speaker 1>you took it.

0:39:59.160 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 2>Harmony.

0:39:59.760 --> 0:40:02.800
<v Speaker 1>I love that, I know, because it's just like really

0:40:02.840 --> 0:40:08.000
<v Speaker 1>embodies I feel like where you're at. But also your goal,

0:40:08.239 --> 0:40:11.280
<v Speaker 1>Like your goal is just like harmony. Everybody getting along,

0:40:11.440 --> 0:40:13.799
<v Speaker 1>everybody like Yeah, wow, I love that.

0:40:14.040 --> 0:40:15.240
<v Speaker 2>I can't wait to see what.

0:40:15.520 --> 0:40:17.040
<v Speaker 1>Robbie helped a lot with that one, because I was

0:40:17.080 --> 0:40:19.400
<v Speaker 1>like I had like the essence I just couldn't think of,

0:40:19.440 --> 0:40:20.719
<v Speaker 1>like I couldn't condense it down.

0:40:20.760 --> 0:40:22.160
<v Speaker 3>Thanks Robby Ying and Yang.

0:40:22.200 --> 0:40:24.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, yeah, that's what we are, A team, team,

0:40:24.280 --> 0:40:27.520
<v Speaker 1>a team where team team partners.

0:40:27.719 --> 0:40:29.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, partners.

0:40:29.440 --> 0:40:30.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's a partner.

0:40:30.520 --> 0:40:31.320
<v Speaker 3>He's a partner.

0:40:32.040 --> 0:40:34.760
<v Speaker 2>What are things you're leaving behind in twenty twenty three.

0:40:34.920 --> 0:40:37.560
<v Speaker 1>That's a great question, Becka. I'm leaving gluten behind.

0:40:37.360 --> 0:40:42.479
<v Speaker 2>No gluten behind. Yeah, yeah, gone, Yeah, she's really gone.

0:40:42.640 --> 0:40:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I'm also trying to like be less stressy. I

0:40:46.840 --> 0:40:49.880
<v Speaker 1>get very stressy about stuff. Like even when we were

0:40:49.920 --> 0:40:52.279
<v Speaker 1>driving back from Tahoe, I was like the roads were

0:40:52.320 --> 0:40:54.160
<v Speaker 1>all closed and took us eleven hours, and I was

0:40:54.160 --> 0:40:55.759
<v Speaker 1>like panicking that we're gonna to spend the night and

0:40:55.800 --> 0:40:58.359
<v Speaker 1>then I'm going through my brain of like I'm gonna

0:40:58.360 --> 0:41:00.319
<v Speaker 1>have to send my trending reports to Sam to type

0:41:00.400 --> 0:41:02.719
<v Speaker 1>up and send into Mark and like I'm going just

0:41:02.920 --> 0:41:05.320
<v Speaker 1>so far down the line. And we ended up getting

0:41:05.320 --> 0:41:07.080
<v Speaker 1>home the same day, you know what I mean. So

0:41:07.080 --> 0:41:09.280
<v Speaker 1>I was just like panicking, and I got mad at Robbie.

0:41:09.360 --> 0:41:12.040
<v Speaker 4>And this is the thing about this book I'm reading

0:41:12.440 --> 0:41:13.520
<v Speaker 4>that's what I'm saying.

0:41:13.600 --> 0:41:14.480
<v Speaker 3>Tell me what is it?

0:41:14.800 --> 0:41:15.719
<v Speaker 2>What's talking about?

0:41:15.760 --> 0:41:18.400
<v Speaker 4>How that inner voice is just like always a like

0:41:18.400 --> 0:41:21.280
<v Speaker 4>it's always there and you can't like once you're able

0:41:21.280 --> 0:41:24.480
<v Speaker 4>to separate it from yourself and go like you're not real,

0:41:24.560 --> 0:41:27.440
<v Speaker 4>Like what you're what you're doing is not actually happening

0:41:27.520 --> 0:41:28.560
<v Speaker 4>right now, it's.

0:41:28.320 --> 0:41:29.879
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you, guys, this is the Okay, I'm

0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:32.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna set the scene for you. We pull up and

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:34.279
<v Speaker 1>there's about one hundred cars stopped right and there's like

0:41:34.280 --> 0:41:36.759
<v Speaker 1>a little police I don't know, it's not a car,

0:41:36.760 --> 0:41:39.080
<v Speaker 1>but it's like a little police stop, and one by one,

0:41:39.160 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 1>the first car in the row is stopping at the

0:41:41.120 --> 0:41:44.319
<v Speaker 1>policeman stop and then turning right around and going back,

0:41:44.360 --> 0:41:46.239
<v Speaker 1>so basically meaning we'd have to go back the two

0:41:46.239 --> 0:41:48.640
<v Speaker 1>and a half hours we already drove back into town

0:41:49.480 --> 0:41:51.319
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sitting here and we're like one hundred cars deep.

0:41:51.320 --> 0:41:53.359
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like and Robbie's like, should we just turn

0:41:53.360 --> 0:41:55.840
<v Speaker 1>around now? And why are we waiting to get to

0:41:55.880 --> 0:41:58.440
<v Speaker 1>the front to then turn around, you know, And He's like, no,

0:41:58.520 --> 0:42:00.160
<v Speaker 1>let's just wait it out. Let's see cause they're was

0:42:00.200 --> 0:42:03.399
<v Speaker 1>like one car that went You're like hmm, one out

0:42:03.400 --> 0:42:05.640
<v Speaker 1>of like a hundred. And then we roll up, roll

0:42:05.680 --> 0:42:09.040
<v Speaker 1>down the window, and uh, Robbie's like, tell me the

0:42:09.040 --> 0:42:11.399
<v Speaker 1>good news first, and he's like, where are you guys headed?

0:42:11.440 --> 0:42:15.319
<v Speaker 1>And we're like la, and he goes go on, oh wow,

0:42:15.480 --> 0:42:18.279
<v Speaker 1>let's us through. And I was like this whole time,

0:42:18.360 --> 0:42:21.320
<v Speaker 1>that whole weight in that line. I'm sitting here thinking

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:23.360
<v Speaker 1>how stressed I am. I have to like all this

0:42:23.360 --> 0:42:25.560
<v Speaker 1>stuff with Sonny. You have to can't talk to her babysitter,

0:42:25.600 --> 0:42:26.799
<v Speaker 1>make sure that they're you know. I mean like I'm

0:42:26.800 --> 0:42:29.279
<v Speaker 1>going through all these things. We're not getting home. We're

0:42:29.320 --> 0:42:30.759
<v Speaker 1>not getting home. And I didn't need to do any

0:42:30.800 --> 0:42:32.040
<v Speaker 1>of it. And I was getting mad at him. I

0:42:32.080 --> 0:42:35.480
<v Speaker 1>was like, we're never coming up to the mountain fountains.

0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:36.799
<v Speaker 3>Again, Like this is so dumb.

0:42:38.000 --> 0:42:40.359
<v Speaker 1>And my I could have saved myself twenty minutes of

0:42:40.400 --> 0:42:45.560
<v Speaker 1>the like panic, Yeah, I just been chill. Yeah, I

0:42:45.560 --> 0:42:47.000
<v Speaker 1>need more chill in my life.

0:42:47.360 --> 0:42:50.520
<v Speaker 4>It's like kind of like letting go of control really,

0:42:50.560 --> 0:42:53.240
<v Speaker 4>because like you didn't have control over the situation right

0:42:53.520 --> 0:42:56.880
<v Speaker 4>regardless of what happened, So it's kind of like you

0:42:56.920 --> 0:43:00.120
<v Speaker 4>don't have control like everything that's gonna happen is going

0:43:00.200 --> 0:43:05.360
<v Speaker 4>to happen, whether you're you're like ready for it or not.

0:43:05.520 --> 0:43:07.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I think my mind was in like I said,

0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:08.920
<v Speaker 1>we should just go to Santa Barbara, And I'm like,

0:43:08.960 --> 0:43:11.440
<v Speaker 1>if we would have gone Santa Barbara had this problem,

0:43:11.440 --> 0:43:13.040
<v Speaker 1>it would have been snowed in and like you know

0:43:13.080 --> 0:43:14.560
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, not where like my mind goes. But

0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:16.399
<v Speaker 1>it's again, it's not a good place to be because

0:43:16.440 --> 0:43:21.280
<v Speaker 1>like we're here, you know. Yeah, it's interesting, it's interesting,

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:24.760
<v Speaker 1>our little new one. You're leaving stress behind.

0:43:24.800 --> 0:43:25.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying.

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:26.680
<v Speaker 1>Okay, she's trying.

0:43:27.000 --> 0:43:30.480
<v Speaker 2>She's got a tight gruss, she got really hold on.

0:43:30.560 --> 0:43:32.640
<v Speaker 1>I live my life being high strong, So this is

0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:35.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna be tough. Yeah, well on clench.

0:43:36.320 --> 0:43:38.480
<v Speaker 5>Well, I have something for us that might be a

0:43:38.560 --> 0:43:40.480
<v Speaker 5>nice way to wrap up the New Year's show. This

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:44.000
<v Speaker 5>from Caitlin Shippy, who sent this to me as a

0:43:44.080 --> 0:43:47.880
<v Speaker 5>DM on Instagram just before Christmas. She said, I just

0:43:47.920 --> 0:43:50.680
<v Speaker 5>wanted to email in to say that the podcast had

0:43:50.719 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 5>to mention in my wedding speech yesterday. Wow, I I

0:43:57.200 --> 0:44:00.960
<v Speaker 5>as the South African Tanya stood by myself African Becca,

0:44:01.320 --> 0:44:03.680
<v Speaker 5>as she said, I do. I thank her for being

0:44:03.719 --> 0:44:05.759
<v Speaker 5>the Beckett and my Tanya in my wedding speech, I

0:44:05.800 --> 0:44:07.680
<v Speaker 5>just wanted to say thank you for touching our hearts

0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:10.160
<v Speaker 5>on a weekly basis. We have often discussed how we

0:44:10.200 --> 0:44:12.279
<v Speaker 5>listen to your podcast if we're having a bad day.

0:44:12.520 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 5>Here is the audio from the actual wedding speech in

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:16.440
<v Speaker 5>South Africa.

0:44:16.840 --> 0:44:18.600
<v Speaker 1>And also, thank you for always being made me.

0:44:18.840 --> 0:44:20.000
<v Speaker 2>Your friendship does mean.

0:44:19.840 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 8>A lot to see.

0:44:21.160 --> 0:44:23.719
<v Speaker 6>And last but not least, my Dix, thank you for

0:44:23.760 --> 0:44:24.960
<v Speaker 6>being the becket to my Tanya.

0:44:25.920 --> 0:44:28.040
<v Speaker 1>You are the most selfless person on this planet.

0:44:28.120 --> 0:44:29.560
<v Speaker 8>I don't know what I would do without you.

0:44:31.160 --> 0:44:34.000
<v Speaker 2>My He's ask everyone to raise their glasses.

0:44:33.480 --> 0:44:34.560
<v Speaker 6>To toast the new couple.

0:44:35.360 --> 0:44:46.640
<v Speaker 5>Congratulations, Hi, congratulations. I think that's so sweet. Is just

0:44:46.719 --> 0:44:49.640
<v Speaker 5>the best And you can almost hear the crowd going, who.

0:44:51.880 --> 0:44:53.200
<v Speaker 2>Mark, that doesn't matter?

0:44:53.200 --> 0:44:56.360
<v Speaker 1>Mark, that was so unnecessary, Like what a blow to

0:44:56.520 --> 0:44:57.400
<v Speaker 1>the end of the show.

0:44:57.400 --> 0:44:58.560
<v Speaker 5>No, it's so sweet.

0:44:58.680 --> 0:44:59.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm very out of our say.

0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:03.800
<v Speaker 5>I thought that was really nice. I love the effect

0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:06.560
<v Speaker 5>that you two have had on your listeners all over

0:45:06.600 --> 0:45:08.439
<v Speaker 5>the world. Have you ever been to South Africa, either

0:45:08.480 --> 0:45:10.239
<v Speaker 5>one of you? No, Well, look at that there are

0:45:10.280 --> 0:45:14.480
<v Speaker 5>South Africans praising you. Guys. Is the inspiration for their relationship.

0:45:14.600 --> 0:45:15.920
<v Speaker 5>And I love that South African.

0:45:15.960 --> 0:45:16.600
<v Speaker 1>Actually, I know.

0:45:16.800 --> 0:45:20.720
<v Speaker 4>It'd be so nice. It's just so peaceful, it's so sweet.

0:45:20.840 --> 0:45:22.080
<v Speaker 4>I love that so much.

0:45:23.400 --> 0:45:26.360
<v Speaker 1>You know what, scrubbing in or scrubbers. We are going

0:45:26.440 --> 0:45:28.640
<v Speaker 1>to deliver in twenty twenty three. We are going to deliver.

0:45:29.640 --> 0:45:30.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we are, We're going to deliver.

0:45:31.320 --> 0:45:34.360
<v Speaker 4>Speaking of, one thing I'm leaving behind in twenty twenty

0:45:34.400 --> 0:45:37.640
<v Speaker 4>three is not getting fast food delivered. Like, if I

0:45:37.680 --> 0:45:39.759
<v Speaker 4>want to have fast food, then I have to get

0:45:39.840 --> 0:45:40.560
<v Speaker 4>up and go get it.

0:45:41.160 --> 0:45:43.480
<v Speaker 2>And I just think, thank you because I think that.

0:45:43.600 --> 0:45:45.560
<v Speaker 4>If it's not fast enough for me to get in

0:45:45.600 --> 0:45:47.839
<v Speaker 4>my car and sit in a drive through to get it,

0:45:48.200 --> 0:45:49.239
<v Speaker 4>then I don't need it.

0:45:49.320 --> 0:45:50.799
<v Speaker 2>Good for you, Thank you so much.

0:45:50.800 --> 0:45:53.200
<v Speaker 5>You're gonna save money, You're gonna save calories in the

0:45:53.239 --> 0:45:55.080
<v Speaker 5>long term. I like it.

0:45:54.960 --> 0:45:56.320
<v Speaker 6>It tastes better when it's fresh.

0:45:57.040 --> 0:46:02.600
<v Speaker 2>It's so much better. Fries bye, Yeah, Saggia Frieser bye.

0:46:02.760 --> 0:46:04.600
<v Speaker 5>They're twenty two, twenty.

0:46:04.320 --> 0:46:06.880
<v Speaker 1>Two two and late two thousand lame.

0:46:07.360 --> 0:46:07.640
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:46:08.520 --> 0:46:11.360
<v Speaker 2>So that was just you've set me up with the

0:46:11.400 --> 0:46:12.520
<v Speaker 2>delivery delivering.

0:46:12.640 --> 0:46:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Wow. I mean, what a great goal.

0:46:15.200 --> 0:46:17.120
<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much for I have other goals too,

0:46:17.200 --> 0:46:19.200
<v Speaker 4>but I was just one that felt, what are you

0:46:19.200 --> 0:46:19.920
<v Speaker 4>all leaving behind?

0:46:19.960 --> 0:46:20.600
<v Speaker 2>Mark and Easton?

0:46:22.680 --> 0:46:25.160
<v Speaker 4>What's one thing you're leaving behind and one thing you're

0:46:26.080 --> 0:46:27.719
<v Speaker 4>wanting to do in twenty twenty.

0:46:27.480 --> 0:46:32.600
<v Speaker 6>Three, I am leaving behind doing saying yes to everything

0:46:33.400 --> 0:46:36.719
<v Speaker 6>that comes across my desk because I don't need to.

0:46:37.440 --> 0:46:39.560
<v Speaker 6>And you know, I said no to someone this morning

0:46:39.560 --> 0:46:41.640
<v Speaker 6>and it felt so good. It may have involved another

0:46:41.680 --> 0:46:43.840
<v Speaker 6>podcast that we do, and I was very happy to

0:46:43.840 --> 0:46:46.719
<v Speaker 6>say no to that. And what is something I'm bringing

0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:49.360
<v Speaker 6>into twenty twenty three As I'm going to bed earlier?

0:46:49.600 --> 0:46:52.000
<v Speaker 6>Dang it, I'm getting more sleep. I went to bed

0:46:52.000 --> 0:46:54.120
<v Speaker 6>early last night. It felt so good when I woke

0:46:54.200 --> 0:46:58.080
<v Speaker 6>up at four am today and getting sleep is number

0:46:58.080 --> 0:46:58.720
<v Speaker 6>one baby.

0:46:58.880 --> 0:46:59.800
<v Speaker 3>You know what's so funny?

0:46:59.840 --> 0:47:01.799
<v Speaker 1>I had that like giddy feeling last night because we've

0:47:01.840 --> 0:47:04.480
<v Speaker 1>been off for like two weeks and so I like

0:47:04.520 --> 0:47:06.600
<v Speaker 1>get I get that giddy like first day back at

0:47:06.600 --> 0:47:08.600
<v Speaker 1>school thing. Like last night, I couldn't go to sleep

0:47:08.640 --> 0:47:11.480
<v Speaker 1>till like eleven PM, and like Robbie was like, you

0:47:11.520 --> 0:47:12.919
<v Speaker 1>need to go to sleep. We're waking up early.

0:47:12.920 --> 0:47:13.560
<v Speaker 3>I was like I can't.

0:47:13.640 --> 0:47:15.719
<v Speaker 1>Like but what if it's what if the roads are

0:47:15.880 --> 0:47:18.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, still wet in the morning and there's any

0:47:18.680 --> 0:47:19.040
<v Speaker 1>more traffic.

0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:19.200
<v Speaker 4>Sho.

0:47:19.239 --> 0:47:21.000
<v Speaker 1>I set my alarm earlier, like, I'm like, I've never

0:47:21.000 --> 0:47:21.720
<v Speaker 1>done this before.

0:47:21.760 --> 0:47:22.960
<v Speaker 3>It's so funny.

0:47:23.560 --> 0:47:25.680
<v Speaker 2>I love that. That means you're doing something you love.

0:47:26.000 --> 0:47:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was very giddy last night, but now I'm

0:47:28.200 --> 0:47:28.880
<v Speaker 1>tired because.

0:47:28.680 --> 0:47:32.040
<v Speaker 4>I imagine most people had like the well Monday scaries

0:47:32.400 --> 0:47:33.600
<v Speaker 4>of like going back, you know.

0:47:33.719 --> 0:47:35.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I imagine most people felt that. But I love

0:47:35.920 --> 0:47:37.000
<v Speaker 2>that you were giddy.

0:47:37.040 --> 0:47:38.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I was like packed all my stuff. I

0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:40.360
<v Speaker 1>packed my you know, like my normally my clothes in

0:47:40.400 --> 0:47:42.279
<v Speaker 1>the bathroom so that I could like change, you know,

0:47:42.360 --> 0:47:43.440
<v Speaker 1>I did my whole routine.

0:47:44.000 --> 0:47:44.520
<v Speaker 3>It was fun.

0:47:45.239 --> 0:47:45.479
<v Speaker 2>Mark.

0:47:45.840 --> 0:47:49.080
<v Speaker 5>I'm looking for simplicity in twenty twenty three, a little

0:47:49.080 --> 0:47:52.680
<v Speaker 5>bit more calmness, because having two teenagers is very hectic,

0:47:52.760 --> 0:47:55.600
<v Speaker 5>especially when one they're both performers and they've got shows

0:47:55.600 --> 0:47:57.920
<v Speaker 5>and rehearsals and fittings and all this kind of crazy

0:47:57.920 --> 0:48:00.399
<v Speaker 5>stuff going on. It can be very hectic in house.

0:48:00.760 --> 0:48:03.160
<v Speaker 5>So I want things to be simple, calm.

0:48:03.280 --> 0:48:05.400
<v Speaker 1>People are wanting a lot more peace and calmness in

0:48:05.400 --> 0:48:07.120
<v Speaker 1>the new year. I find that to be a theme.

0:48:07.280 --> 0:48:07.640
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm.

0:48:08.440 --> 0:48:11.560
<v Speaker 5>Yeah. It was a lovely break, very relaxing, We had

0:48:11.600 --> 0:48:14.040
<v Speaker 5>lots of fun stuff in Wisconsin. It was really fun.

0:48:14.840 --> 0:48:16.840
<v Speaker 5>We went duck pin bowling. You probably don't even know

0:48:16.840 --> 0:48:19.400
<v Speaker 5>what that is. Nobody seems to. It's like bowling, but miniature.

0:48:19.440 --> 0:48:22.120
<v Speaker 5>It's like miniature bowling. Nope, no ducks involved.

0:48:22.200 --> 0:48:23.719
<v Speaker 6>Really tiny ball right, like a shot put.

0:48:23.760 --> 0:48:26.160
<v Speaker 5>Tiny ball like a shot put, tiny pins, short lane

0:48:26.200 --> 0:48:29.200
<v Speaker 5>and actual teenagers behind the pins setting them back up

0:48:29.239 --> 0:48:31.879
<v Speaker 5>for you. And it was so fun. We lost every

0:48:31.920 --> 0:48:34.200
<v Speaker 5>went sledding, we built the Snowman. We did really fun stuff.

0:48:34.200 --> 0:48:36.600
<v Speaker 5>We watched about one hundred episodes of Family Food because

0:48:36.640 --> 0:48:38.560
<v Speaker 5>my god, there is never a time of day family

0:48:38.560 --> 0:48:39.840
<v Speaker 5>feud is not on television.

0:48:39.920 --> 0:48:42.680
<v Speaker 1>I know it's we should make that a goal of

0:48:42.800 --> 0:48:44.680
<v Speaker 1>if they do not though they do some sort of

0:48:44.719 --> 0:48:48.200
<v Speaker 1>family feuds, but like show style, we should get on it.

0:48:48.440 --> 0:48:50.719
<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's a that's achievable.

0:48:50.920 --> 0:48:53.400
<v Speaker 1>You think so, yeah, I think it'd be so fun

0:48:53.920 --> 0:48:58.680
<v Speaker 1>like the podcast, Yeah, Family, Yeah, it'd be so fun.

0:48:58.719 --> 0:49:00.000
<v Speaker 5>Steve Harvey is very good.

0:49:00.400 --> 0:49:02.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's really really Yeah.

0:49:02.280 --> 0:49:04.600
<v Speaker 3>So timing is just like perfect.

0:49:04.760 --> 0:49:07.280
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, a lot of family feud, a lot of crossroad puzzles,

0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:09.880
<v Speaker 5>very chilling, and want to pull that chill into the

0:49:09.920 --> 0:49:10.319
<v Speaker 5>new year.

0:49:10.480 --> 0:49:13.600
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's all I felt too, of like the like

0:49:13.840 --> 0:49:15.600
<v Speaker 4>because Haley and I both said, it's just been so

0:49:15.719 --> 0:49:16.480
<v Speaker 4>nice to rest.

0:49:16.560 --> 0:49:18.640
<v Speaker 2>I can do nothing, and I was like, we should

0:49:18.719 --> 0:49:19.719
<v Speaker 2>do this more.

0:49:19.640 --> 0:49:22.399
<v Speaker 1>Like I know, I feel like it's so we jam

0:49:22.440 --> 0:49:23.240
<v Speaker 1>pack our schedule.

0:49:23.360 --> 0:49:24.439
<v Speaker 3>Yes, it's why.

0:49:24.920 --> 0:49:27.799
<v Speaker 2>It's like not you can't say no, but you really can.

0:49:28.120 --> 0:49:31.319
<v Speaker 1>Like it's but you can't, so then you do, and

0:49:31.320 --> 0:49:34.120
<v Speaker 1>then you run yourself tired, and then you're running on empty.

0:49:34.239 --> 0:49:36.560
<v Speaker 2>Then you have strap throat on Christmas Day and now to.

0:49:36.600 --> 0:49:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Go to the dingy gas station. Yeah, just a bad cycle.

0:49:40.400 --> 0:49:46.760
<v Speaker 1>Dingy dingy rickety chicken rickety rick rickety slickety rick well

0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:47.680
<v Speaker 1>rinckety dick.

0:49:47.840 --> 0:49:49.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't think we have time for emails.

0:49:49.400 --> 0:49:50.399
<v Speaker 5>I don't do it either.

0:49:50.719 --> 0:49:51.240
<v Speaker 3>It's okay.

0:49:51.480 --> 0:49:54.480
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's up to you do whatever we.

0:49:54.440 --> 0:49:56.719
<v Speaker 5>Want, right, we do want emails. We have to take

0:49:56.719 --> 0:49:59.319
<v Speaker 5>another break up to you guys, but it's twenty three.

0:49:59.360 --> 0:50:00.839
<v Speaker 5>I don't know one of the I feel like.

0:50:00.960 --> 0:50:02.800
<v Speaker 1>Describers would like an email.

0:50:02.880 --> 0:50:03.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I love you.

0:50:03.760 --> 0:50:05.640
<v Speaker 2>We'll take another break and we'll be back with email.

0:50:05.680 --> 0:50:06.680
<v Speaker 1>You're right back, really.

0:50:22.200 --> 0:50:22.600
<v Speaker 5>All right?

0:50:22.640 --> 0:50:24.800
<v Speaker 4>We can't in the first episode of the year without

0:50:24.800 --> 0:50:25.480
<v Speaker 4>an email.

0:50:26.080 --> 0:50:27.200
<v Speaker 3>Nope, we can't.

0:50:27.600 --> 0:50:32.520
<v Speaker 5>Anonymous says advice needed. Should I break up with my boyfriend? Well, honestly,

0:50:32.840 --> 0:50:34.760
<v Speaker 5>if just the fact that you're asking us that question

0:50:34.880 --> 0:50:36.920
<v Speaker 5>is probably a yes. But let's look at the evidence.

0:50:37.400 --> 0:50:39.319
<v Speaker 5>I've been dating my boyfriend two and a half years.

0:50:39.320 --> 0:50:40.840
<v Speaker 5>We moved in to get the last year into a

0:50:40.880 --> 0:50:43.480
<v Speaker 5>new house that he bought. We haven't had the most

0:50:43.520 --> 0:50:46.439
<v Speaker 5>stable relationship. We've had fights where we've said mean things

0:50:46.440 --> 0:50:48.480
<v Speaker 5>to each other when we were drunk. Other than that,

0:50:48.520 --> 0:50:50.960
<v Speaker 5>I'm starting to realize we have nothing in common. I

0:50:51.000 --> 0:50:53.160
<v Speaker 5>love to watch movies and TV shows and read books.

0:50:53.440 --> 0:50:56.600
<v Speaker 5>He can't stand movies or TV shows and is not

0:50:56.680 --> 0:51:01.279
<v Speaker 5>interested in reading. What odd like typical night looks like

0:51:01.360 --> 0:51:03.719
<v Speaker 5>me watching TV alone. My boyfriend's in the other room

0:51:03.800 --> 0:51:07.239
<v Speaker 5>gaming there it is Additionally, he does not know how

0:51:07.239 --> 0:51:09.760
<v Speaker 5>to communicate with me, whether it's planning things or expressing

0:51:09.760 --> 0:51:12.759
<v Speaker 5>his feelings. He cannot communicate with me. I feel like

0:51:12.800 --> 0:51:14.799
<v Speaker 5>he'll never say I love you first or show me

0:51:14.840 --> 0:51:18.120
<v Speaker 5>any affection. These are things I don't think I would need,

0:51:18.160 --> 0:51:19.799
<v Speaker 5>but now that I'm getting older, I feel like it's

0:51:19.880 --> 0:51:21.879
<v Speaker 5>non negotiable for me. I have a lot of self

0:51:21.960 --> 0:51:23.719
<v Speaker 5>esteem issues where I think that I will never have

0:51:23.760 --> 0:51:26.799
<v Speaker 5>anyone else like me physically, and worry that his relationship

0:51:26.800 --> 0:51:28.960
<v Speaker 5>and this relationship is the best I can do.

0:51:30.239 --> 0:51:31.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh No, A couple of.

0:51:31.680 --> 0:51:33.040
<v Speaker 5>Things and there were interesting. I don't know how old

0:51:33.080 --> 0:51:35.239
<v Speaker 5>you are, but you mentioned that you're older, but that

0:51:35.280 --> 0:51:37.880
<v Speaker 5>could be in anything from twenty to sixty, honestly, And

0:51:38.920 --> 0:51:41.360
<v Speaker 5>I will never have anyone else like me physically. What

0:51:41.440 --> 0:51:42.200
<v Speaker 5>does that mean?

0:51:43.000 --> 0:51:44.880
<v Speaker 1>Like she says she has low self esteem, so she

0:51:44.920 --> 0:51:47.200
<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel maybe she'sn't desirable or.

0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:50.840
<v Speaker 5>Worthy or so she's seeking out other fours. But you

0:51:50.920 --> 0:51:54.040
<v Speaker 5>are not a four to somebody else, You're an eight.

0:51:54.920 --> 0:51:58.239
<v Speaker 4>Well, It's also like I think the thing is not

0:51:58.280 --> 0:52:00.840
<v Speaker 4>having things in common isn't a deal breaker to me

0:52:00.920 --> 0:52:04.120
<v Speaker 4>because I think having different interests. To be honest, Haley

0:52:04.160 --> 0:52:05.600
<v Speaker 4>and I have a lot of similar interests, but we

0:52:05.640 --> 0:52:07.680
<v Speaker 4>also have a lot of different interests and it's only

0:52:07.719 --> 0:52:09.919
<v Speaker 4>opened to me up to liking new things and same

0:52:09.960 --> 0:52:12.520
<v Speaker 4>for her. But I think if he's not will the

0:52:12.640 --> 0:52:15.319
<v Speaker 4>problem that I'm seeing is that he's not willing.

0:52:15.080 --> 0:52:16.839
<v Speaker 2>To meet you.

0:52:17.239 --> 0:52:20.600
<v Speaker 4>And I think I really have seen like so much

0:52:20.600 --> 0:52:23.720
<v Speaker 4>improvement with couples therapy in this area of like communication

0:52:23.960 --> 0:52:26.560
<v Speaker 4>and like meeting each other in the middle. But I

0:52:26.600 --> 0:52:28.839
<v Speaker 4>think that he has to be willing to do that.

0:52:28.880 --> 0:52:31.279
<v Speaker 4>And I think that you know that you're settling for

0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:35.319
<v Speaker 4>a relationship that's not great because you're worried you can't

0:52:35.360 --> 0:52:35.759
<v Speaker 4>do better.

0:52:35.800 --> 0:52:38.400
<v Speaker 2>But you can do better. This is the gas station analogies.

0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:43.640
<v Speaker 1>This is littering gas analogy because you don't think you

0:52:43.680 --> 0:52:44.480
<v Speaker 1>can get better.

0:52:45.000 --> 0:52:47.760
<v Speaker 3>But that's the thing, Like you can.

0:52:48.040 --> 0:52:51.360
<v Speaker 1>And the thing is you don't want the rinkity dickity

0:52:51.719 --> 0:53:00.319
<v Speaker 1>gas station and you could be on a throne right

0:53:00.400 --> 0:53:03.200
<v Speaker 1>up the road. Yes, but no, in all honesty, I

0:53:03.200 --> 0:53:06.400
<v Speaker 1>don't think having some different interests is that big of

0:53:06.400 --> 0:53:07.960
<v Speaker 1>a deal because a, yeah, like you can kind of

0:53:07.960 --> 0:53:09.479
<v Speaker 1>me in the middle and you can do different things,

0:53:09.520 --> 0:53:11.520
<v Speaker 1>and like you're never going to find somebody that is

0:53:11.600 --> 0:53:13.600
<v Speaker 1>exactly like you and like to spend their time doing

0:53:13.600 --> 0:53:15.560
<v Speaker 1>exactly what you like to do, you know what I mean?

0:53:15.640 --> 0:53:18.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I same with me and Robbie, Like we don't

0:53:18.120 --> 0:53:20.000
<v Speaker 1>necessarily like when we were driving up, we wanted to

0:53:20.040 --> 0:53:21.839
<v Speaker 1>listen to different things and we met in the middle

0:53:21.840 --> 0:53:24.799
<v Speaker 1>and we found me we both liked. But so it's

0:53:24.800 --> 0:53:26.520
<v Speaker 1>not so much of a different interest to me. It's

0:53:26.280 --> 0:53:29.640
<v Speaker 1>the fighting, and like if you're questioning it so much,

0:53:29.719 --> 0:53:32.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I just to me, why would you settle and

0:53:33.040 --> 0:53:36.200
<v Speaker 1>marry this person now and then spend the rest of

0:53:36.239 --> 0:53:39.920
<v Speaker 1>your life in this miserable type of relationship? Like wouldn't

0:53:39.920 --> 0:53:42.080
<v Speaker 1>you rather be single? Like doing what you want all

0:53:42.120 --> 0:53:45.200
<v Speaker 1>the time, and like getting to enjoy your time and

0:53:45.239 --> 0:53:47.239
<v Speaker 1>your space and like not having to deal with that,

0:53:47.280 --> 0:53:51.239
<v Speaker 1>Like I would rather be single than in a relationship

0:53:51.280 --> 0:53:51.560
<v Speaker 1>like that.

0:53:51.760 --> 0:53:54.920
<v Speaker 5>Picture yourself in five years. This is an exercise.

0:53:55.800 --> 0:53:56.160
<v Speaker 8>Married.

0:53:56.239 --> 0:53:58.560
<v Speaker 5>When I was dating. As I did this, I pictured

0:53:58.600 --> 0:54:00.879
<v Speaker 5>myself in five years married to her, I pictured myself

0:54:00.880 --> 0:54:02.839
<v Speaker 5>in five years. We were totally not part of each

0:54:02.880 --> 0:54:05.360
<v Speaker 5>other's lives, and the idea of not being part of

0:54:05.360 --> 0:54:07.080
<v Speaker 5>each other's lives and not seeing her on a daily

0:54:07.080 --> 0:54:09.640
<v Speaker 5>basis was ludicrous to me. It was laughable. That's when

0:54:09.640 --> 0:54:12.640
<v Speaker 5>I knew it's time to propose. So think about that,

0:54:12.880 --> 0:54:16.040
<v Speaker 5>your life in five years married to him, kids with him,

0:54:16.280 --> 0:54:18.439
<v Speaker 5>or your life in five years and you don't even

0:54:18.440 --> 0:54:22.080
<v Speaker 5>know him, Yeah, which sounds more appealing, Which sounds more ludicrous?

0:54:22.120 --> 0:54:25.000
<v Speaker 5>Just think about that. Because I don't love this. I mean,

0:54:25.640 --> 0:54:28.520
<v Speaker 5>maybe you can make a compromise. You know, you watch

0:54:28.640 --> 0:54:30.840
<v Speaker 5>White Lotus together and then he teaches you one of

0:54:30.880 --> 0:54:32.560
<v Speaker 5>the games that he likes and you can do it

0:54:32.680 --> 0:54:33.640
<v Speaker 5>each other together.

0:54:33.960 --> 0:54:36.719
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I wouldn't want to play any gaming games if.

0:54:36.600 --> 0:54:39.279
<v Speaker 2>That's important to him, Yes, exactly, I think. But he

0:54:39.440 --> 0:54:41.359
<v Speaker 2>has to be willing to do that for her too.

0:54:41.680 --> 0:54:45.120
<v Speaker 4>And I just the non affection, not saying I love you,

0:54:45.160 --> 0:54:47.520
<v Speaker 4>like that's a big deal. I mean that's like, if

0:54:47.520 --> 0:54:50.560
<v Speaker 4>that's important to you, then I think that you need

0:54:50.600 --> 0:54:52.719
<v Speaker 4>to be with someone who's able to fulfill those things

0:54:52.719 --> 0:54:55.080
<v Speaker 4>that you need. And I think, right off the bat,

0:54:55.120 --> 0:54:57.319
<v Speaker 4>Mark said the fact that you're emailing asking I think

0:54:57.400 --> 0:54:58.200
<v Speaker 4>you know the answer.

0:54:58.239 --> 0:55:02.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think you know the answer to and you're

0:55:03.239 --> 0:55:08.280
<v Speaker 1>ceramic what is it? Ceramic throne is right around the corner,

0:55:09.239 --> 0:55:10.920
<v Speaker 1>it really is. And you have to believe what was

0:55:10.960 --> 0:55:16.440
<v Speaker 1>her name? This is an anonymous, anonymous, beautiful name. You

0:55:16.560 --> 0:55:19.759
<v Speaker 1>have to believe it for yourself, like you really really do.

0:55:19.840 --> 0:55:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of people struggle with self esteem issues.

0:55:22.400 --> 0:55:24.680
<v Speaker 1>And it's like because I think you're just constantly comparing

0:55:24.760 --> 0:55:27.239
<v Speaker 1>to this these perfect like I think it happens a

0:55:27.280 --> 0:55:29.719
<v Speaker 1>lot on social media unfortunately, because you're just bombarded with

0:55:29.760 --> 0:55:33.560
<v Speaker 1>these like beautiful, perfect images. But none of it's reality,

0:55:33.600 --> 0:55:36.359
<v Speaker 1>and it's like it's really causing people to have, you know,

0:55:36.520 --> 0:55:39.840
<v Speaker 1>insecurity and self worth issues when it's just not the

0:55:39.880 --> 0:55:42.440
<v Speaker 1>reality and it's not the case. So I think you're

0:55:42.440 --> 0:55:44.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna meet an amazing match. You sound like an awesome

0:55:44.840 --> 0:55:46.000
<v Speaker 1>world if you listen to this podcast.

0:55:46.040 --> 0:55:51.040
<v Speaker 5>You're cool, so agreed, and you are not. I don't

0:55:51.080 --> 0:55:53.680
<v Speaker 5>know what you think about yourself physically, it's not that.

0:55:53.760 --> 0:55:56.520
<v Speaker 1>I hope this gives you the courage or the empowerment

0:55:56.560 --> 0:55:58.880
<v Speaker 1>that you need to make the right step.

0:55:59.000 --> 0:56:01.840
<v Speaker 4>I also think last thing I'll say with the self

0:56:01.920 --> 0:56:02.560
<v Speaker 4>esteem thing.

0:56:02.560 --> 0:56:06.520
<v Speaker 2>You really have to learn to love.

0:56:06.360 --> 0:56:08.799
<v Speaker 4>The person that you are before you can expect someone

0:56:08.800 --> 0:56:09.799
<v Speaker 4>else to do that for you.

0:56:09.840 --> 0:56:12.600
<v Speaker 2>And I think that preach Becca, No, I think it's

0:56:12.600 --> 0:56:13.120
<v Speaker 2>so important.

0:56:13.120 --> 0:56:14.799
<v Speaker 4>Like I don't think people realize, like, you can go

0:56:14.920 --> 0:56:18.239
<v Speaker 4>from the next relationship to relationship a relationship and you're

0:56:18.239 --> 0:56:20.480
<v Speaker 4>always gonna have that same issue of feeling like you're

0:56:20.520 --> 0:56:23.719
<v Speaker 4>not good enough if you don't love yourself. So I

0:56:23.760 --> 0:56:28.120
<v Speaker 4>think you learn to be alone and enjoy the things

0:56:28.160 --> 0:56:30.080
<v Speaker 4>that you love and learn to love who you are

0:56:30.400 --> 0:56:32.400
<v Speaker 4>and find someone who can make.

0:56:32.280 --> 0:56:33.040
<v Speaker 2>You feel that way.

0:56:33.239 --> 0:56:37.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all right, Well on that note, happy twenty twenty three.

0:56:37.840 --> 0:56:40.720
<v Speaker 2>Excited for this year with you all going into our

0:56:41.800 --> 0:56:44.920
<v Speaker 2>sixth year. It'll be six coming up.

0:56:44.960 --> 0:56:45.800
<v Speaker 3>Sweet six.

0:56:46.360 --> 0:56:52.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah you know what they say this sweet six. All right,

0:56:52.480 --> 0:56:54.120
<v Speaker 4>here's to a new scrubbing in era.

0:56:54.440 --> 0:56:59.880
<v Speaker 3>Cheers everybody, We love you.

0:57:01.160 --> 0:57:04.160
<v Speaker 6>Watch we.

0:57:05.920 --> 0:57:06.680
<v Speaker 5>Can keep going.

0:57:06.960 --> 0:57:11.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Wow, we just kidding.

0:57:11.040 --> 0:57:13.680
<v Speaker 3>When we say bye doesn't mean bye. We're still here.

0:57:13.840 --> 0:57:17.200
<v Speaker 4>Wait, so don't forget to watch the Easti's go ahead Easton.

0:57:17.080 --> 0:57:18.840
<v Speaker 6>Thank You Easty Awards are an or show I do

0:57:18.920 --> 0:57:21.560
<v Speaker 6>every year on Instagram Live. There's Sunday, January eighth at

0:57:21.600 --> 0:57:23.840
<v Speaker 6>five pm. Everyone in this room has done the East

0:57:23.960 --> 0:57:26.560
<v Speaker 6>Awards before. We so kind of present. We have a

0:57:26.560 --> 0:57:28.880
<v Speaker 6>lot of really fun celebrity guests this year.

0:57:29.000 --> 0:57:31.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah we were not asked back. Yeah, we were a

0:57:31.440 --> 0:57:31.840
<v Speaker 1>great dog.

0:57:31.920 --> 0:57:33.280
<v Speaker 6>I don't want to bug you guys.

0:57:33.920 --> 0:57:35.000
<v Speaker 3>A book to promote.

0:57:35.160 --> 0:57:36.920
<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, that's the place.

0:57:38.520 --> 0:57:38.800
<v Speaker 8>Viewers.

0:57:38.840 --> 0:57:40.920
<v Speaker 5>Then no, thank you, Good morning America.

0:57:41.400 --> 0:57:43.120
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, if you want to do it, there's a room.

0:57:44.320 --> 0:57:46.000
<v Speaker 5>Why was it moved off of New Year's for the

0:57:46.000 --> 0:57:46.640
<v Speaker 5>first time ever?

0:57:46.800 --> 0:57:50.800
<v Speaker 6>New Year's is always really hectic. I I just wanted

0:57:50.800 --> 0:57:52.000
<v Speaker 6>to move it. I've been wanting to move it and

0:57:52.040 --> 0:57:52.840
<v Speaker 6>I always forget to.

0:57:53.120 --> 0:57:55.360
<v Speaker 5>So this is there a specific person who couldn't do

0:57:55.400 --> 0:57:56.720
<v Speaker 5>it on New Year's and that's why you moved it

0:57:56.720 --> 0:57:58.040
<v Speaker 5>to accommodate that person.

0:57:58.520 --> 0:58:01.560
<v Speaker 6>No, I'm doing it. I decided to do it on

0:58:01.600 --> 0:58:03.360
<v Speaker 6>a Sunday, which is when other award shows do it.

0:58:03.360 --> 0:58:05.920
<v Speaker 6>We're doing it at night like other award shows. It's

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:06.920
<v Speaker 6>a real award show.

0:58:07.360 --> 0:58:07.720
<v Speaker 8>Uh.

0:58:07.800 --> 0:58:10.080
<v Speaker 6>And all the celebrity things are pre recorded, so I

0:58:10.080 --> 0:58:11.120
<v Speaker 6>don't have to worry about their us.

0:58:11.920 --> 0:58:12.040
<v Speaker 4>Uh.

0:58:12.120 --> 0:58:12.560
<v Speaker 3>There you go.

0:58:12.680 --> 0:58:14.840
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, nothing's live. But we got some really big names.

0:58:15.320 --> 0:58:18.040
<v Speaker 6>I got some big musical numbers planned performed by me,

0:58:19.840 --> 0:58:22.360
<v Speaker 6>and I'm really excited. I did a lot of extra

0:58:22.400 --> 0:58:23.680
<v Speaker 6>stuff this year I don't normally do.

0:58:24.400 --> 0:58:27.120
<v Speaker 4>We should rent out like the iHeart Studio or iHeart

0:58:27.120 --> 0:58:29.760
<v Speaker 4>Theater one day and like self like literally do like

0:58:29.760 --> 0:58:33.000
<v Speaker 4>a raffle, sell tickets and stuff and and like have

0:58:33.920 --> 0:58:34.760
<v Speaker 4>do a full thing.

0:58:35.120 --> 0:58:35.600
<v Speaker 6>I would love.

0:58:35.720 --> 0:58:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, but like, who's gonna come up to accept

0:58:37.600 --> 0:58:39.640
<v Speaker 1>the award for like Fruit of the Year or whatever.

0:58:39.720 --> 0:58:42.440
<v Speaker 4>We'll have the fruit decorated or someone holding us like

0:58:42.720 --> 0:58:45.080
<v Speaker 4>someone yeah.

0:58:44.920 --> 0:58:47.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, probably could be your hand model.

0:58:47.520 --> 0:58:55.120
<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah I did this at the here it kissed one. Yeah,

0:58:55.120 --> 0:58:56.720
<v Speaker 6>there was so much fun. I wanted to do it.

0:58:57.280 --> 0:58:58.880
<v Speaker 6>You know, maybe we will do this that hasn't been

0:58:59.040 --> 0:58:59.960
<v Speaker 6>that hasn't been announced yet.

0:59:00.080 --> 0:59:03.080
<v Speaker 5>Maybe maybe will come fun.

0:59:03.480 --> 0:59:05.600
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, if you're discovering you want to come, let me

0:59:05.640 --> 0:59:08.280
<v Speaker 6>know because we can make this happen. But yeah, it's

0:59:08.280 --> 0:59:11.040
<v Speaker 6>gonna be a lot of fun. And uh again, I

0:59:11.080 --> 0:59:12.400
<v Speaker 6>just want to thank all you guys. You guys have

0:59:12.440 --> 0:59:16.240
<v Speaker 6>all done begging time don multiple times and it means

0:59:16.240 --> 0:59:17.800
<v Speaker 6>so much to me. It's when I call in all

0:59:17.840 --> 0:59:19.960
<v Speaker 6>the favors from everyone we do podcasts with and they're

0:59:20.000 --> 0:59:22.920
<v Speaker 6>also kind. But I'm really excited and it thinks a

0:59:22.920 --> 0:59:23.280
<v Speaker 6>lot of fun.

0:59:23.320 --> 0:59:27.640
<v Speaker 5>Can you tease any celebrity involvement surprises?

0:59:27.720 --> 0:59:31.280
<v Speaker 6>You know, here's the what I can tease icons from

0:59:31.320 --> 0:59:33.760
<v Speaker 6>the nineties to two thousands.

0:59:34.760 --> 0:59:37.760
<v Speaker 2>I have an idea. I have an idea.

0:59:38.160 --> 0:59:40.880
<v Speaker 3>Our stars blind potentially.

0:59:44.600 --> 0:59:47.400
<v Speaker 2>Do they meet anything?

0:59:49.360 --> 0:59:51.080
<v Speaker 6>Yes, yes they do.

0:59:51.800 --> 0:59:52.240
<v Speaker 5>Wow.

0:59:52.760 --> 0:59:54.160
<v Speaker 3>Do they work in coffee shops?

0:59:54.960 --> 0:59:58.720
<v Speaker 6>No? Okay, absolutely not.

0:59:59.640 --> 1:00:03.120
<v Speaker 2>It's like Tanya has on right now. I think that's

1:00:03.160 --> 1:00:03.800
<v Speaker 2>the same person.

1:00:04.640 --> 1:00:05.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't even know.

1:00:07.200 --> 1:00:09.439
<v Speaker 6>No, tune in.

1:00:11.040 --> 1:00:11.880
<v Speaker 2>Enough spoilers.

1:00:12.200 --> 1:00:13.240
<v Speaker 6>Yes, all right.

1:00:13.320 --> 1:00:15.840
<v Speaker 2>On that note, we're officially out by