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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beccatelly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, it is twenty twenty three. It is a

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Speaker 1: new year, and it is a new era of scrubbing in.

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Speaker 2: It is a scrub aissance.

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Speaker 3: It is a scrub aissance.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: We never discussed what the scrub aissance meant, like, we

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Speaker 4: never said, like what that entailed?

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Speaker 2: Is it anything?

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Speaker 3: It's a revival, it's a rebirth.

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Speaker 1: It's a rejuvenation, and it is exemplified in our what

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Speaker 1: do you call that thing that we just updated our logo,

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Speaker 1: our logo, and it is represented in our logo. Well,

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Speaker 1: the thing is twenty fifteen is not us anymore. We

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Speaker 1: are twenty twenty three scrubbing in.

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Speaker 4: That's right, that's right. Well we didn't start in twenty fifteen, so.

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Speaker 3: That scrubbing it is out I'm so glad.

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Speaker 4: Not scrubbing in never existed, so therefore it's definitely out right.

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Speaker 1: So twenty seventeen, twenty seventeen, scrubbing in is no longer.

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Speaker 5: You're two thousand and late, isn't that thing?

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Speaker 4: Fergie said that, Yes, Fergie said that about twenty years ago.

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Speaker 6: Right exactly.

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Speaker 5: So don't be that pink logo was.

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Speaker 3: Two late two thousand night.

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Speaker 4: But seriously, it is crazy because the original scrubbing in

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Speaker 4: photo was just me because I it was just me

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Speaker 4: when we started, and we had that for a while,

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Speaker 4: just me. Yeah, and then we did me and you

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Speaker 4: and that was twenty eighteen and that was right, I

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Speaker 4: meant Haley, And that was up against a wall.

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Speaker 1: I remember, we were like up against a white wall

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Speaker 1: in the break.

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Speaker 2: Room right here, back to back in our scrub, back

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Speaker 2: to back.

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Speaker 3: In our scrubs, and you know, it was cute.

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Speaker 1: It was like two gals find two gal pals finding

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Speaker 1: their way around town, you know, romping around town, romping

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Speaker 1: around around.

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Speaker 3: In our scrubs.

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Speaker 1: And those two gal pals have blossomed, they have cocooned,

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Speaker 1: they have butterflied, and they are women now in suits.

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Speaker 2: We are women in suits.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and you know, like modern women in suits, modern

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Speaker 7: women in suits, you know, in like how doctors go

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Speaker 7: from wearing scrubs every day and then they they start

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Speaker 7: wearing like once they get to a certain level, they

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Speaker 7: wear like nice dress clothes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we did.

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Speaker 8: We became.

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Speaker 3: Attending attending lead surgeons. No longer interns.

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Speaker 4: I just want you all to know that when you

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Speaker 4: Google my name, it says healthcare professional next to it,

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Speaker 4: so yes, wow, you can look it up right now.

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Speaker 2: Someone pointed out on the scrubbing and Facebook.

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Speaker 3: Group, it's so good.

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Speaker 2: Professional and you know, it's funny.

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Speaker 4: And before I went on The Bachelor, I was a

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Speaker 4: chiropractic assistant, which basically no, because like I didn't do

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Speaker 4: anything healthcare related.

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Speaker 1: Like I in the healthcare world, there were healthcare adjacent.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was definitely adjacent to the Google search. Yeah

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Speaker 4: they should say healthcare professional adjacent. Yeah, but yeah, I

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Speaker 4: just felt like we needed to.

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Speaker 2: It was just time.

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Speaker 3: It was time. And you know, you know what comes

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Speaker 3: with time.

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Speaker 1: Wis change and change, wisdom and change hand in hand.

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Speaker 2: What do you feel wiser about going into twenty twenty three?

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Speaker 3: So many things?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, had I know now in twenty twenty three,

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Speaker 1: In twenty eighteen, I probably would have done everything the same,

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Speaker 1: But I just feel a lot more knowledgeable now.

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Speaker 2: You would have done everything the same, probably.

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Speaker 3: Because I don't regret anything.

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Speaker 2: I like that self awareness.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like you know yourself enough to like you wouldn't

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Speaker 4: necessarily have done anything different, right, but you would be

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Speaker 4: aware of the things that maybe you could have done different.

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Speaker 1: Correct, I'd be like, girl, this storm is not lasting forever.

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Speaker 1: The sunshine's coming out tomorrow. Yeah, I feel.

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Speaker 2: Like that's Is that not how you lived your life?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there was some dark times. It sprinkled in. There's

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Speaker 1: some dark moments.

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Speaker 2: So what is twenty twenty three hold in your mind?

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what twenty twenty three holds. Can get

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Speaker 3: a drum roll? Please?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely you can.

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Speaker 1: Here it comes, get ready and we are one step

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Speaker 1: closer to this project.

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Speaker 4: Patrick Dempsey, why was I thinking like your book, like

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Speaker 4: all these things and Patrick.

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Speaker 1: I mean personally, there's a lot going on twenty twenty

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Speaker 1: three podcast wise, I think my biggest goal is to

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Speaker 1: get Patrick Dempsey on this podcast in the flesh in

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Speaker 1: the studio, back to back.

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Speaker 2: Well, we did have an update on this.

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Speaker 3: Yes, so we have a lead.

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Speaker 4: So we know a guy who knows a.

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Speaker 3: Guy who knows no hold on this is the connection.

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Speaker 1: So this guy, yeah, no, he knows the guys who

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Speaker 1: did like he endorses this water and it's a sister

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Speaker 1: company to the water that I endorsed at Kiss like

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Speaker 1: last year or something. And this is real this is real,

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Speaker 1: this is legit, And so he said he's going to

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Speaker 1: tell these people about scrubbing in to get Patrick on.

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Speaker 6: Listen Wood.

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Speaker 1: I don't want us to share his name because I

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Speaker 1: don't know if he wants me to share his name.

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Speaker 1: But he works for iHeartMedia on the East Coast. He's

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Speaker 1: like an on air personality. I was like, so, I

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Speaker 1: was like, how did you know I did that endorsement?

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Speaker 1: You know, but it makes me feel like we're one

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Speaker 1: step closer to Patrick Depsy Patrick deps.

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Speaker 4: And it might just be one literally one step, like

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Speaker 4: I think it's just maybe one step closer, but it's

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Speaker 4: closer than we were before.

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Speaker 1: That was closer than we were in twenty twenty two. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you know what one step closer, just one step

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Speaker 1: forward is fine? Oh you it's progress progress, Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: that's all.

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Speaker 3: We're looking for.

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Speaker 5: Will we settle for a zoom interview with Patrick Dempsey?

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Speaker 1: It's not the goal, right, it's not the goal.

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Speaker 4: But yes, but yes, they answer to that, we'll settle.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know that brings up an interesting point about settling.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, okay, I also want to talk about you

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Speaker 4: and Robbie's gas station.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was going to talk about because I

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Speaker 1: feel like when we settle in life, when we're desperate, Yes, Mark,

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Speaker 1: can I help you? No?

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Speaker 5: No, No, I just make sure my off because I

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Speaker 3: You know, we were on this I was gonna say

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Speaker 3: cross country road trip.

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Speaker 1: We were not. We were just on a road trip

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Speaker 1: to northern California. But we were desperate for gas and

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Speaker 1: it was cold times outside and we were desperate. We

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Speaker 1: hadn't seen a gas station in a very long time.

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Speaker 5: This isn't California cold. This is legitimate winter cold.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean yeah, you're in the mountains.

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Speaker 3: In the mountains.

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Speaker 1: So we pull over and this like gas station. The

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Speaker 1: gas thing is like like making all these like like

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Speaker 1: it looks like it's going to explode. I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: are we putting in our cars? This gasoline? I'm not

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Speaker 1: quite sure. Go into the bathroom, there's no bathroom. That's

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Speaker 1: a porta potty. There's no toilet paper in there. So

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Speaker 1: I had a pee in the woods with a napkin

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Speaker 1: from our own car, from our own snacks that I packed.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, that was a treacherous experience and

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Speaker 1: like crazy, right, we get back in the car, and

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Speaker 1: we start making our way back. One foot in front

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Speaker 1: of us is a glorious seventy six station and a

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Speaker 1: glorious mobile station with bright lights, welcoming signs, snacks, functioning bathrooms.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, this is such a metaphor for life.

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Speaker 1: If you're desperate and you just pull over to the

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Speaker 1: next best thing that you see, you're gonna end up

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Speaker 1: at this rickety gas station wiping your vagina with a.

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Speaker 3: Rough napkin from sprouts up the street.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, which is probably biodegradable, yes, for sure. Or you

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Speaker 1: can have your standards high and not settle, and right

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Speaker 1: up the road you're gonna get a nice, shiny partner.

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Speaker 5: Mm hm, I'm not sure this ANALOGI work.

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Speaker 2: See, I think it.

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Speaker 4: I think both of y'all's analogies really resonated with me.

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Speaker 3: Oh so, then Robbie's counter.

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Speaker 4: You know, lawyers love to counter, and he loves counter.

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Speaker 1: He was like, or is it you're always looking for

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Speaker 1: the next best thing. You're not happy satisfied? We got gas,

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Speaker 1: Our car got gas, great gas. We're driving, we're on

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Speaker 1: the road. We got to use the restroom. There's a

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Speaker 1: reliable gas station. We got what we needed. You can

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Speaker 1: get what you need? Are you gonna waste your time?

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Speaker 1: Just go into the bigger, better thing?

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Speaker 4: Which is interesting because your whole thing throughout the years

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Speaker 4: of this podcast has been steady Eddie.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that is correct. I want steady Eddie, but

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Speaker 3: I don't want rickety Rick.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure what he's spewing out of his hose.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's fine.

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Speaker 2: Y'all got home.

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Speaker 3: We didn't get home.

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Speaker 1: It happened to be gas gasoline, but I wasn't sure

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Speaker 3: I was like, this feels.

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Speaker 4: I just feel like depending on where you are in

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Speaker 4: life depends on whose analogy resonates with you the most,

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Speaker 4: because I've been in both. You know, I think we've

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Speaker 4: all experienced where we're like, if I had just been

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Speaker 4: a little more patient, I could have gotten something maybe better.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, in so many ways.

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Speaker 4: But you know what, those new gas stations are gonna

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Speaker 4: be old one day, and are you going to be

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Speaker 4: looking for the next newest thing?

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, no, I'm just joking, totally loyal, but you know,

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Speaker 1: for the purposes, yes, for the purposes of this debate, yes, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was interesting.

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Speaker 4: It was funny to see and that is the most

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Speaker 4: Robbie thing I've ever seen him, taking your hopeful analogy

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Speaker 4: and being like, let me lawyer this real quick.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It was funny because I shared a little bit of

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Speaker 1: a thing in the instagram cut him off, and so

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Speaker 1: many people were dming me like I wanted to hear

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Speaker 1: his side, and I was.

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Speaker 3: Like, oh, here, give them, give them what they want.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: You also brought up the snacks that y'all had, yes,

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Speaker 4: which was a lot of snacks, healthy pre packed snacks.

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Speaker 3: Mostly from the earth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, mostly from the earth.

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Speaker 4: I had an interesting experience on my Haley and I

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Speaker 4: went to Joshua Tree and by the way, it takes

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Speaker 4: two and a half hours to get there.

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Speaker 1: To take you six hours. Oh yeah, yeah with Phoebe.

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Speaker 2: Car it was really bad. We left on Friday. It

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't know if people were Yeah, I think

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Speaker 2: I don't know if Vegas. Is that the same way

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it took us like eleven to get back from Tahoe.

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Speaker 4: Not prepared, but happy about it. Yeah, yeah, sure, he bumming.

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Speaker 3: I got out of here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I know what I'm saying. No, I can't do those

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Speaker 3: Yeah, till we're jeweled.

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Speaker 4: numbers that we both kind of just rolled it back

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00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,919
Speaker 4: up and we're like, we'll revisit, and so I was

445
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,160
Speaker 4: we were talking about it and Haley before we left,

446
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 4: she was like, we should bring like a puzzle or

447
00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 4: something to work on. I was like, what about that

448
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 4: paint by numbers thing? So we opened it, and Haley's

449
00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,919
Speaker 4: very much like she loves painting, but she doesn't like

450
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 4: any rules or restrictions, so like that was very stressful

451
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 4: for her, whereas I like rules and like borders, like

452
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Speaker 4: I always did well in art if I had.

453
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Speaker 1: Like color inside.

454
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, So I just like I'm talking for however

455
00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 4: long five days, I just would like sit and work

456
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Speaker 4: on it, like while we were just relaxing, listen to music,

457
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 4: and it is the coolest thing. We finished it last

458
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Speaker 4: night and I'm gonna frame it. But it was like

459
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Speaker 4: I had the best time, and I was thinking if

460
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,239
Speaker 4: I was if I lived alone and I was just

461
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 4: like single, and I would make myself dinner and get

462
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Speaker 4: one of those things and just sit and listen to

463
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,760
Speaker 4: music and or listen to podcasts and just really I

464
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:51,440
Speaker 4: loved it.

465
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Speaker 2: I learned a lot about myself on this trip.

466
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Speaker 1: What did you What else did you learn?

467
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Speaker 4: I also started reading this book called The Untethered Soul. Oh,

468
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 4: I'm I need you to read it after I'm done.

469
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 4: Was I'm just on chapter I'm like on the first

470
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Speaker 4: couple chapters. It's just about like learning about yourself and

471
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Speaker 4: like finding peace. The first chapter is talking about your

472
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 4: inner voice, like do y'all I'm assuming y'all have like

473
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,880
Speaker 4: inner dialogue, like if you're in a situation. I did

474
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Speaker 4: this a lot while I was like dealing with difficult

475
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Speaker 4: things in my relationship with Haley, like navigating telling people

476
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,360
Speaker 4: or whatever. I would have these internal conversations about how

477
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Speaker 4: it would go, and I would play both roles.

478
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Speaker 2: Do you'll do that? I do this with everything?

479
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Speaker 1: And how's exhausting.

480
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Speaker 2: I think you if you're once, you're aware of it.

481
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Speaker 2: I think you realize you do it.

482
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Speaker 4: But he's talking about your inner voice and how if

483
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Speaker 4: if you personified your inner voice, like if you like

484
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Speaker 4: personified that person, gave it a name, and you pretended

485
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Speaker 4: that you were hanging out with him, you would be

486
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 4: like I am so annoyed by this person.

487
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Speaker 2: They have a thought on everything.

488
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Speaker 4: They're always like doubting or not trusting something, or they

489
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:03,439
Speaker 4: always have like a negative response if something's like you

490
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 4: should you know? For me, my inner voice sometimes is

491
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Speaker 4: like don't do that, like what if it goes wrong

492
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 4: or what if someone has reaction to it? And so

493
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 4: it was saying like if you personified that voice, you

494
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 4: would never keep them around. You'd be like, I gotta

495
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,680
Speaker 4: give this person out of my life. And how annoying

496
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 4: it is and how crucial it is that we like

497
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 4: listen to that voice so often and there's no truth

498
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Speaker 4: to it.

499
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 2: It's like our own thing made up.

500
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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's so fascinating and I can't wait to

501
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,360
Speaker 4: finish it. I saw this girl that I love on Instagram,

502
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 4: Amber filler Up, and she recommended she's like a changed

503
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Speaker 4: my life.

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Speaker 1: I would love to change my life. That's part of

505
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Speaker 1: the renaissance. Pass that book on over red Rover.

506
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Speaker 4: But anyways, I'm I really enjoyed reading. I just loved

507
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,199
Speaker 4: being I was on my phone, like I took photos

508
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 4: and stuff, and like I was on social media but

509
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,639
Speaker 4: not I like spent so much time off of it,

510
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Speaker 4: and I loved it. I had the best time.

511
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Speaker 3: Great, I love that.

512
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Speaker 1: Can't wait to get the book, can't wait to give

513
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Speaker 1: it to you. No, another book is coming out in January.

514
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's talk about it. Should we take a break

515
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 2: and come back?

516
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 8: And I know there's so.

517
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 1: Much that I feel like, there's so much more that

518
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Speaker 1: I want to talk about, because like we haven't seen

519
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 1: each other in like a really long time, and like

520
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 1: there's just so much to get to. Like I don't

521
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 1: know what order to go in, but I guess we always.

522
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Speaker 3: Have next week.

523
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 2: There's always next week.

524
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the good thing.

525
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Speaker 2: Let's take a break and we'll come back with the

526
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Speaker 2: sunshine mine.

527
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Speaker 8: Yeah.

528
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Speaker 4: So before we went on a break, we were saying,

529
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Speaker 4: there's another book coming out soon.

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Speaker 1: There's another book coming out soon jan thirty one, Jan

531
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Speaker 1: three to one.

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Speaker 5: That's four weeks from today to you and me, it's

533
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 5: so crazy.

534
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Speaker 2: It's happening.

535
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Speaker 1: It's happening. It's like so crazy. Because I was kind

536
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 1: of gearing up for stuff around the holidays. I took

537
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Speaker 1: time off. I took like a the two weeks from

538
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,360
Speaker 1: Christmas to New Year, and I was like, I really

539
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 1: need to get some book stuff done off my plate

540
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 1: because come Jan, come Jen one, it's gonna be full

541
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Speaker 1: steam ahead. And I'm really glad I did that because

542
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: now it's like not so overwhelming, but it's like so like,

543
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 1: we just have so much coming up.

544
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Speaker 3: We're gonna do a book signing at the.

545
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Speaker 2: Grove that is so cool.

546
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Speaker 3: It's gonna be so cool.

547
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Speaker 1: So that's gonna happen, and then we're gonna be on

548
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Speaker 1: Good Morning America.

549
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Speaker 2: I mean that was so epic, I know.

550
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: So it's like just kind of gearing up for all

551
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: of all of the fun of it, the excite, I mean,

552
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: all of it's like really fun and exciting, but it's just, yeah,

553
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: the release, the release, it's like so much build up,

554
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 1: so much time, so much energy, so much effort into

555
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: this project, and like now it's like here, Yeah, it's

556
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 1: like happening. It's almost like I'm giving birth, you know.

557
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it really you're giving birth.

558
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, because you've been working on this for a long

559
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 4: time years and it's finally come to fruition.

560
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Speaker 1: It has come to ruition. Twenty twenty three, twenty twenty three,

561
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to be a published author. Wow, New York

562
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: Times best selling auth that's right, that's right. Fingers crossed.

563
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: But I did have a confession to make okay, so

564
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: I said on the podcast, which was like, I can't remember.

565
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: A couple of months ago, I was like, oh my gosh, Oh,

566
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: I thought you're gonna do the drum roll. No, it's

567
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 1: really not that big of a yeah, it's a little

568
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 1: bit of.

569
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:25,639
Speaker 5: A long drum roll.

570
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Speaker 1: I think I have more gray hairs than I thought.

571
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Speaker 1: A couple of months ago, I was getting my hair

572
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Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my gosh, I found my

573
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Speaker 1: first gray.

574
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Speaker 3: This is so exciting.

575
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you were excited.

576
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I cut it out.

577
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 1: I had tawny like cut it out of my head.

578
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, I saved that sucker. And

579
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 1: I did a melt before the holidays to give my

580
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 1: hair a break from the bleach before I like ramp

581
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: up because I'm gonna go full blue each for the

582
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: book release. Oh wow yeah yeah, yeah, she's gonna be

583
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 1: real blonde for a book launch week. But so I

584
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: did give my hair a break over the holidays, and

585
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: so my roots are like really brown, and I'm seeing

586
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 1: so many more.

587
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 3: Grays in there now.

588
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, maybe it's because my hair is darker.

589
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: I can see them more, and I couldn't see them

590
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 1: before because my hair was so blonde. But there's like

591
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: a lot of grays in there. Well, I mean I

592
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: don't even welcome, like definitely a handful or more.

593
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I mean, I'm sure when your hair is

594
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 4: like bleach blonde, you don't see gray hair.

595
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 8: I know.

596
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: But it made me more aware of I guess my

597
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 1: age because I always feel like I'm twenty five too.

598
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 4: Well, I feel twenty seven. That's like my age, That's

599
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 4: what I say, twenty six.

600
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel twenty five like I feel twenty five.

601
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: And then I saw those hairs and I was like,

602
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm in my thirties.

603
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 2: We are indeed in our thirties.

604
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 3: Mid thirties.

605
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: I am in my mid thirties, and here we are.

606
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Speaker 4: You may I got my first gray hairs a like

607
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 4: twenty three, So I'm like way wiser than you, et cetera.

608
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 2: Way wiser, so way wiser.

609
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 1: So that was my confession. And then I also watched

610
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff over the holidays.

611
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 2: What I just remembered? What did you watch?

612
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 3: What did you remember?

613
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: I watched so many things, like we could watch we

614
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 1: could talk about the Harry and Meghan documentary. We could

615
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: talk about the Recruit, we.

616
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 5: Could talk about Glass Onion.

617
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 1: Glass Onion, we could talk about Matilda the musical. We

618
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: could talk about else. I watched, Oh, we started watching

619
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 1: the show you posted about Sisters. Yeah, and then we're

620
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,400
Speaker 1: going to watch Kaleidoscope too.

621
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Speaker 4: Okay, I want to watch Kaleidoscope. The only thing I

622
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 4: watched that you listed was Glass Onion. I saw that

623
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 4: in theaters a few so lame.

624
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: I hated it too. I loved fun.

625
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, I had no issue with the second one.

626
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 5: I thought it was really fun.

627
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,239
Speaker 1: I do have a confession about that movie, which won

628
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: the first one, the second, the.

629
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Speaker 2: Second one, the Glass Onion.

630
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Speaker 4: We saw it in theaters and I may or may

631
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 4: not have taken an edible before, thinking like this could

632
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 4: be fun. I got so anxious in the theater and thought,

633
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 4: what if I I literally I don't do this normally

634
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 4: want to take an edible because I think I'm just

635
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 4: at home, comfortable in my house. I was like, what

636
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 4: if I can't get out of here in the theater,

637
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 4: Like what if I can't get out of the theater?

638
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 4: Like and then we were in the middle section, like

639
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 4: we were right in the middle of the road, So would.

640
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: To be able to get out of the theater that's

641
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 1: like there's doors.

642
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 4: I don't know I could. I just my brain was

643
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 4: like doing its thing. So I had the worst experience

644
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 4: watching that movie. So and then on top of that,

645
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 4: I hated the movie.

646
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Speaker 5: So I was just like all of it was like

647
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 5: this you or was you the edible responsible for the movie?

648
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 4: That's a good question, But I Haley also didn't like it,

649
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 4: So I wonder if also those expectations, like when you

650
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Speaker 4: pay money and go to a theater, you have a

651
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 4: certain amount of expectation.

652
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Speaker 5: I watched it on a plane on Netflix on my

653
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 5: iPad and I found it delightful because I'm just killing

654
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 5: time on Yeah, so that might be a difference there.

655
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I watched it at home and it was bad.

656
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 4: But I'm kind of like when I go to a theater,

657
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,719
Speaker 4: my expectations really, I'm like, I have popcorn and candy

658
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 4: and a drink. I'm chilling, like I'm honestly happy, no

659
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 4: matter what the problem was. I ate all my food

660
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 4: before we were even like halfway through the movie, So

661
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Speaker 4: then I was just anxious and like full, what's.

662
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Speaker 5: Your beef with it. Tony didn't really articulate properly.

663
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Speaker 3: What like articulated because it's so so bad.

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Speaker 5: I like, you're not part of this discussion.

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Speaker 7: I know.

666
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,959
Speaker 6: I loved it. I love the Yes. I watched it

667
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 6: on Netflix and my wife and I loved it every

668
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 6: second of it. I thought it was such a fun

669
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 6: improvement from the first movie.

670
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 2: Fun improvement. Interesting, that was a step up.

671
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 6: Wow, the tone had changed completely, Yes, and it was

672
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 6: I mean much like the first movie was making fun

673
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 6: of like old money and stuff like that. I thought

674
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 6: this was a really fun way to make fun of,

675
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 6: like you know, the the Tesla's and then netflixes and things,

676
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 6: the disruptors I love.

677
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did like that.

678
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 6: Take an air out of those things. I thought it

679
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 6: was really funny. And I love who Done It's. I

680
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 6: love mysteries. I love that kind of garbage. I love

681
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 6: those kind of archetypes, all of those characters. I had

682
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 6: a great time.

683
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 4: Wow, all right, well, fifty to fifty here in the

684
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 4: scrubbing in room.

685
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: Maybe sound off scrubbers, yea.

686
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 5: But she was laying on the beach. I probably not.

687
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 4: Hana was living her best life in the life, She's

688
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 4: living her best life now she was.

689
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 3: Still another podcast.

690
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 2: Okay, well we watch.

691
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 4: Let me just say, since I think my attention span

692
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 4: has clapped since I've had TikTok, which I'm trying to limit.

693
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 3: As well, Yeah, I have something too.

694
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: I'll get to after you, okay.

695
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 4: And so we started watching, and so Haley will start

696
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 4: a series and if I'm not instantly hooked, I can't

697
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 4: like pay attention, so I'll just like play on my

698
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 4: phone or something and she'll watch the whole thing and

699
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 4: I'll just like to jime in when I can or

700
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 4: want to. But we started Bad Sisters. It's on Apple TV,

701
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 4: you guys. It was one of the best shows I

702
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 4: have watched in a very long time because then I

703
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:04,239
Speaker 4: watched it.

704
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: So we watched the first episode and I was hooked.

705
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 3: I was like, I want to watch it.

706
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 4: It is everything. It has everything you could want to show.

707
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 4: It has everything that I would want to show. It

708
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 4: had like the sisters, the sister relationship, which I thought

709
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 4: was so funny.

710
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 2: They're all Irish, so like the accents for great.

711
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 4: I just love that it's funny, but it's dark and

712
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 4: like it is just incredible.

713
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 3: I really like the first episode.

714
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 4: I can't recommend the show enough if you have time

715
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 4: and want to binge a show Bad Sisters on Apple TV.

716
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, give yeah. I'm excited to finish.

717
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 2: And like, I think there's gonna be a season two.

718
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 4: But I have mixed feelings about it because I'm like,

719
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 4: it was so good.

720
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

721
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 4: I always get weird about like sequels and season twos.

722
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 4: So that's a little bit about me.

723
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 8: Yeah.

724
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, the list is going to go on and on

725
00:32:55,000 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: and on, but this one. So in my new person

726
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: suit of my health, health is wealth in twenty twenty three,

727
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: healing from the inside out.

728
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 3: You are what you eat. Yeah, okay, it's my mentality.

729
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 2: It's not always been is this, but it's.

730
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 3: Newer because I'm so.

731
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 2: Focused on like something specific.

732
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: Something specific like beating my hashimotos okay, like in a

733
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: non medical way.

734
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 2: Okay.

735
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: So I started, I was like, I we were in

736
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:33,479
Speaker 1: Tahoe and this like pizza place had all there. They

737
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: were like, we can do any of our pizzas gluten

738
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: free for you, Like they were so accommodating, and I

739
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 1: was like, first of all, I think the waiter that

740
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: we had was the best waiter I've ever had my

741
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 1: entire life.

742
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 3: I love that yeah, gave him like the biggest no boot.

743
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 8: Yeah.

744
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was this shoot tied on no better

745
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: than no boot because he was just so like not

746
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 1: just on it, but like kind and courteous and just

747
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: like all I was like, wow, like we literally robb me.

748
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 3: I could stop talking, like remember.

749
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 5: His name because you should shout this guy out.

750
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: It was two there was two guys on the he

751
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: wrote like two names. I think it was like Brian

752
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: and Evan on the bill, so.

753
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 5: I don't know which one was.

754
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 1: But I was like we were eating our eating it

755
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 1: and we were like, oh my gosh, this gluten free

756
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 1: pizza was like amazing.

757
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 3: It was so good.

758
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, after I've been like doing all

759
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,879
Speaker 1: this stuff and I've been posting about it, people are

760
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: very curious and want to know more about like gluten

761
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: free options and like all this gluten free stuff, and

762
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: it's like very undersaturated, Like there's not like I have

763
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 1: to do all this research. I'm just doing it on

764
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: my own. Like I'm just buying all the different things

765
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: and seeing what I like best. And so I'm like

766
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: going to be the gluten free gal. Might start a

767
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: TikTok of gluten free gal and like rate all my

768
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: experiences at different places that I go to about like

769
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 1: how gluten friendly they are, best products that I'm consuming,

770
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 1: Like I'm going to be one of those TikTokers that's

771
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:00,280
Speaker 1: like rating my gluten free life.

772
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 4: I love that for you. I love it for me too,

773
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 4: great idea. I think it's very helpful.

774
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,240
Speaker 1: It's so helpful because I've been doing all this research.

775
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: I'm like doing all this research and I can't find anything.

776
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'll just be the guinea pig and

777
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:13,280
Speaker 1: start doing it myself.

778
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 2: And you know what's crazy is like Blaize new Child.

779
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, watch, there's like fifty others going free lifestyle has

780
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: been around for a minute.

781
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 8: But I love that.

782
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 2: You'll have your own take on it, the Tanya take.

783
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 3: The Tanya take. Yeah, but it was I don't know.

784
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: I'm very like into it, like very very interested in

785
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 1: this whole world.

786
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 2: Do you know who Alex Earl is?

787
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 8: Yes?

788
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 1: Why do I know her? I follow her on Instagram?

789
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:42,919
Speaker 2: Oh on Instagram? Yeah, she's blown up on TikTok. She's

790
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: are you talking about that?

791
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 1: She's like young Montera. She was just like on a

792
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 1: yacht somewhere. Yeah, it has.

793
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 4: Been fascinating because I am a thirty four year old

794
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 4: woman and she's like twenty two or twenty three, I

795
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 4: don't know.

796
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 2: She's like he's young, still in college.

797
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 4: And I find myself watching every video she makes, and

798
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,240
Speaker 4: there's nothing like it's like get ready with me videos.

799
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 4: There's nothing like groundbreaking about what she does, right, But

800
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 4: I think it's a fact that she does it in

801
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 4: a way that's very like she's very open about like

802
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 4: anything she's had done, she has, like she's struggled with acne.

803
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 2: She talks about her acne shows. You know, she's just

804
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:21,760
Speaker 2: very like it feels like you're with.

805
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 1: Your friend, Yeah that's nice, or a young yeah, young galpal.

806
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 2: But it's fascinating, like she's just blown up.

807
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:30,919
Speaker 4: And she did a live where she was talking about

808
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,760
Speaker 4: her breakup with her boyfriend who's a major league baseball player.

809
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 8: Oh my, and she.

810
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 4: Was just talking like she was just talking like she

811
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 4: was on FaceTime with her best friends, but she's on

812
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 4: a TikTok live and she was just basically saying like

813
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 4: he wouldn't post photos of her on his Instagram, like

814
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 4: they went to.

815
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 2: A wedding and he posted throw me.

816
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 4: He posts like they took a bunch of photos together

817
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 4: and he posted just a photo of himself, and she

818
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 4: was like, what the heck?

819
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 2: Like why won't he post me?

820
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 4: And I think he he had she she mentioned, like

821
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 4: he had a hard time with like the social media

822
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 4: world like her blowing up so fast, and and then

823
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 4: all these people are now like dragging this guy who

824
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 4: probably was just like I don't know what his story is,

825
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 4: but she and so she releases it.

826
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 2: She's like, don't be mean to him.

827
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 4: Like I'm still getting used to this world of like

828
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 4: being having these this many So.

829
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 3: Are you saying that I should.

830
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: Talk to emulate my freaking out like I would like

831
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: Alex Earl.

832
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, very different vibe what y'all will be doing, but

833
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 4: like I think the same tone of just like it

834
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 4: being your just your experience and not making it too

835
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 4: aesthetic or whatever.

836
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 3: I'm not an esthetic.

837
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: I know that about you, So I don't have an aesthetic.

838
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I think you'll do really well

839
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:45,839
Speaker 1: with that.

840
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 3: Wow, Like that unabridged is that the right word?

841
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,280
Speaker 2: Unfiltered?

842
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 3: Varnished, unfiltered?

843
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: Did you know unfiltered was my word for last year?

844
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 3: I didn't even know that.

845
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't remember. I went back and listened to

846
00:37:59,920 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 2: a podcast.

847
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 5: What's your Word for twenty three? I know Tanya's renaissance.

848
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 2: I think that mine. I don't have a word.

849
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 5: Wow, no word, it's just don't.

850
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: Know word, no no direction. Well I just didn't have

851
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: lessly living through twenty twenty three.

852
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

853
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 4: But I also I think if a word comes up

854
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 4: where I'm like, that's my word, it doesn't have to

855
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 4: be like right now, like it can.

856
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 2: I don't want to just throw out a word. To

857
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 2: throw out a word.

858
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 3: You know you know it? Though?

859
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 2: Do you know it?

860
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 3: I think you do?

861
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 4: Do you know?

862
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 2: One? For me is that you're thinking about?

863
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 1: No, I think in your gut you know one right now? No,

864
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,319
Speaker 1: I really don't have I think you do.

865
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, if it comes to me like it's come to.

866
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 1: You, like think about like that water works that you

867
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: were doing Paint by numbers. Yeah, you're in this. You're

868
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,760
Speaker 1: in a very content place.

869
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: I like contentment.

870
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 4: That was like one word I was thinking about the

871
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 4: whole time I was in Joshua Trees a contentment.

872
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:05,879
Speaker 1: It's like I'm a a w S wizard wordsmith. Yeah,

873
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 1: I just know you.

874
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I told you.

875
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 3: Oh, I'll say it for next week.

876
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 2: I told, well, that's a tease. I'm curious, what is it?

877
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: Well, because I haven't given you your Christmas gift yet.

878
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 1: Your Christmas gift was not ready in time, doesn't have

879
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: a word on it for me. Yeah. So what I

880
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: did this year for like my best friends is I

881
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 1: thought of a word that I saw for them in

882
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three, the word that I want, like that

883
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: I saw for them, like in their lives. And I

884
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 1: spent a lot of time thinking about these words for them,

885
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: and so I got, well, I don't tell you what

886
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 1: it is, but it has the word on it time.

887
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,399
Speaker 5: This is the New Year's show. Shouldn't you tell her?

888
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 1: Yeaht me tell you what it is. The word that

889
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: I fiked for you harmony.

890
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I love that. That's a great word. Maybe

891
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 2: that's maybe I just take your.

892
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 1: Thought for me and and I would be honored if

893
00:39:58,560 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: you took it.

894
00:39:59,160 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 2: Harmony.

895
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 1: I love that, I know, because it's just like really

896
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 1: embodies I feel like where you're at. But also your goal,

897
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:11,280
Speaker 1: Like your goal is just like harmony. Everybody getting along,

898
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 1: everybody like Yeah, wow, I love that.

899
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:15,240
Speaker 2: I can't wait to see what.

900
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 1: Robbie helped a lot with that one, because I was

901
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 1: like I had like the essence I just couldn't think of,

902
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 1: like I couldn't condense it down.

903
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 3: Thanks Robby Ying and Yang.

904
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, that's what we are, A team, team,

905
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: a team where team team partners.

906
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, partners.

907
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a partner.

908
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 3: He's a partner.

909
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,760
Speaker 2: What are things you're leaving behind in twenty twenty three.

910
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: That's a great question, Becka. I'm leaving gluten behind.

911
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:42,479
Speaker 2: No gluten behind. Yeah, yeah, gone, Yeah, she's really gone.

912
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm also trying to like be less stressy. I

913
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 1: get very stressy about stuff. Like even when we were

914
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: driving back from Tahoe, I was like the roads were

915
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: all closed and took us eleven hours, and I was

916
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 1: like panicking that we're gonna to spend the night and

917
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,359
Speaker 1: then I'm going through my brain of like I'm gonna

918
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 1: have to send my trending reports to Sam to type

919
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: up and send into Mark and like I'm going just

920
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,320
Speaker 1: so far down the line. And we ended up getting

921
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: home the same day, you know what I mean. So

922
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,280
Speaker 1: I was just like panicking, and I got mad at Robbie.

923
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 4: And this is the thing about this book I'm reading

924
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 4: that's what I'm saying.

925
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 3: Tell me what is it?

926
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 2: What's talking about?

927
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 4: How that inner voice is just like always a like

928
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,280
Speaker 4: it's always there and you can't like once you're able

929
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 4: to separate it from yourself and go like you're not real,

930
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 4: Like what you're what you're doing is not actually happening

931
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 4: right now, it's.

932
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, guys, this is the Okay, I'm

933
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 1: gonna set the scene for you. We pull up and

934
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 1: there's about one hundred cars stopped right and there's like

935
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: a little police I don't know, it's not a car,

936
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: but it's like a little police stop, and one by one,

937
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: the first car in the row is stopping at the

938
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 1: policeman stop and then turning right around and going back,

939
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 1: so basically meaning we'd have to go back the two

940
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 1: and a half hours we already drove back into town

941
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 1: and I'm sitting here and we're like one hundred cars deep.

942
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,359
Speaker 1: So I'm like and Robbie's like, should we just turn

943
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 1: around now? And why are we waiting to get to

944
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 1: the front to then turn around, you know, And He's like, no,

945
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: let's just wait it out. Let's see cause they're was

946
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,399
Speaker 1: like one car that went You're like hmm, one out

947
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: of like a hundred. And then we roll up, roll

948
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: down the window, and uh, Robbie's like, tell me the

949
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,399
Speaker 1: good news first, and he's like, where are you guys headed?

950
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 1: And we're like la, and he goes go on, oh wow,

951
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: let's us through. And I was like this whole time,

952
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,320
Speaker 1: that whole weight in that line. I'm sitting here thinking

953
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 1: how stressed I am. I have to like all this

954
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: stuff with Sonny. You have to can't talk to her babysitter,

955
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 1: make sure that they're you know. I mean like I'm

956
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 1: going through all these things. We're not getting home. We're

957
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 1: not getting home. And I didn't need to do any

958
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: of it. And I was getting mad at him. I

959
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 1: was like, we're never coming up to the mountain fountains.

960
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 3: Again, Like this is so dumb.

961
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 1: And my I could have saved myself twenty minutes of

962
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: the like panic, Yeah, I just been chill. Yeah, I

963
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: need more chill in my life.

964
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 4: It's like kind of like letting go of control really,

965
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:53,240
Speaker 4: because like you didn't have control over the situation right

966
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 4: regardless of what happened, So it's kind of like you

967
00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 4: don't have control like everything that's gonna happen is going

968
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:05,360
Speaker 4: to happen, whether you're you're like ready for it or not.

969
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think my mind was in like I said,

970
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: we should just go to Santa Barbara, And I'm like,

971
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: if we would have gone Santa Barbara had this problem,

972
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: it would have been snowed in and like you know

973
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: what I mean, not where like my mind goes. But

974
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:16,399
Speaker 1: it's again, it's not a good place to be because

975
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:21,280
Speaker 1: like we're here, you know. Yeah, it's interesting, it's interesting,

976
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 1: our little new one. You're leaving stress behind.

977
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 3: I'm trying.

978
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: Okay, she's trying.

979
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 2: She's got a tight gruss, she got really hold on.

980
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: I live my life being high strong, So this is

981
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,800
Speaker 1: gonna be tough. Yeah, well on clench.

982
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 5: Well, I have something for us that might be a

983
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 5: nice way to wrap up the New Year's show. This

984
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 5: from Caitlin Shippy, who sent this to me as a

985
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 5: DM on Instagram just before Christmas. She said, I just

986
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 5: wanted to email in to say that the podcast had

987
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 5: to mention in my wedding speech yesterday. Wow, I I

988
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 5: as the South African Tanya stood by myself African Becca,

989
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 5: as she said, I do. I thank her for being

990
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 5: the Beckett and my Tanya in my wedding speech, I

991
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 5: just wanted to say thank you for touching our hearts

992
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 5: on a weekly basis. We have often discussed how we

993
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 5: listen to your podcast if we're having a bad day.

994
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 5: Here is the audio from the actual wedding speech in

995
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 5: South Africa.

996
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: And also, thank you for always being made me.

997
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 2: Your friendship does mean.

998
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 8: A lot to see.

999
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 6: And last but not least, my Dix, thank you for

1000
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 6: being the becket to my Tanya.

1001
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 1: You are the most selfless person on this planet.

1002
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 8: I don't know what I would do without you.

1003
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 2: My He's ask everyone to raise their glasses.

1004
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 6: To toast the new couple.

1005
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 5: Congratulations, Hi, congratulations. I think that's so sweet. Is just

1006
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 5: the best And you can almost hear the crowd going, who.

1007
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 2: Mark, that doesn't matter?

1008
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:56,360
Speaker 1: Mark, that was so unnecessary, Like what a blow to

1009
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 1: the end of the show.

1010
00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 5: No, it's so sweet.

1011
00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 3: I'm very out of our say.

1012
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 5: I thought that was really nice. I love the effect

1013
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 5: that you two have had on your listeners all over

1014
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,439
Speaker 5: the world. Have you ever been to South Africa, either

1015
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 5: one of you? No, Well, look at that there are

1016
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 5: South Africans praising you. Guys. Is the inspiration for their relationship.

1017
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 5: And I love that South African.

1018
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: Actually, I know.

1019
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:20,720
Speaker 4: It'd be so nice. It's just so peaceful, it's so sweet.

1020
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 4: I love that so much.

1021
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 1: You know what, scrubbing in or scrubbers. We are going

1022
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: to deliver in twenty twenty three. We are going to deliver.

1023
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, we are, We're going to deliver.

1024
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 4: Speaking of, one thing I'm leaving behind in twenty twenty

1025
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 4: three is not getting fast food delivered. Like, if I

1026
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 4: want to have fast food, then I have to get

1027
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 4: up and go get it.

1028
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 2: And I just think, thank you because I think that.

1029
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 4: If it's not fast enough for me to get in

1030
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,839
Speaker 4: my car and sit in a drive through to get it,

1031
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 4: then I don't need it.

1032
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:50,799
Speaker 2: Good for you, Thank you so much.

1033
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 5: You're gonna save money, You're gonna save calories in the

1034
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 5: long term. I like it.

1035
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:56,320
Speaker 6: It tastes better when it's fresh.

1036
00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 2: It's so much better. Fries bye, Yeah, Saggia Frieser bye.

1037
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 5: They're twenty two, twenty.

1038
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 1: Two two and late two thousand lame.

1039
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1040
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 2: So that was just you've set me up with the

1041
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 2: delivery delivering.

1042
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 1: Wow. I mean, what a great goal.

1043
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 4: Thank you so much for I have other goals too,

1044
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 4: but I was just one that felt, what are you

1045
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 4: all leaving behind?

1046
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 2: Mark and Easton?

1047
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 4: What's one thing you're leaving behind and one thing you're

1048
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 4: wanting to do in twenty twenty.

1049
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 6: Three, I am leaving behind doing saying yes to everything

1050
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 6: that comes across my desk because I don't need to.

1051
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 6: And you know, I said no to someone this morning

1052
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 6: and it felt so good. It may have involved another

1053
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 6: podcast that we do, and I was very happy to

1054
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 6: say no to that. And what is something I'm bringing

1055
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 6: into twenty twenty three As I'm going to bed earlier?

1056
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 6: Dang it, I'm getting more sleep. I went to bed

1057
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 6: early last night. It felt so good when I woke

1058
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 6: up at four am today and getting sleep is number

1059
00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:58,720
Speaker 6: one baby.

1060
00:46:58,880 --> 00:46:59,800
Speaker 3: You know what's so funny?

1061
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 1: I had that like giddy feeling last night because we've

1062
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 1: been off for like two weeks and so I like

1063
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: get I get that giddy like first day back at

1064
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 1: school thing. Like last night, I couldn't go to sleep

1065
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: till like eleven PM, and like Robbie was like, you

1066
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:12,919
Speaker 1: need to go to sleep. We're waking up early.

1067
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 3: I was like I can't.

1068
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: Like but what if it's what if the roads are

1069
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: you know, still wet in the morning and there's any

1070
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: more traffic.

1071
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 4: Sho.

1072
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: I set my alarm earlier, like, I'm like, I've never

1073
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:21,720
Speaker 1: done this before.

1074
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 3: It's so funny.

1075
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 2: I love that. That means you're doing something you love.

1076
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was very giddy last night, but now I'm

1077
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 1: tired because.

1078
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 4: I imagine most people had like the well Monday scaries

1079
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 4: of like going back, you know.

1080
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:35,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I imagine most people felt that. But I love

1081
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 2: that you were giddy.

1082
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was like packed all my stuff. I

1083
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 1: packed my you know, like my normally my clothes in

1084
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: the bathroom so that I could like change, you know,

1085
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 1: I did my whole routine.

1086
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 3: It was fun.

1087
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:45,479
Speaker 2: Mark.

1088
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 5: I'm looking for simplicity in twenty twenty three, a little

1089
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 5: bit more calmness, because having two teenagers is very hectic,

1090
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 5: especially when one they're both performers and they've got shows

1091
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 5: and rehearsals and fittings and all this kind of crazy

1092
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 5: stuff going on. It can be very hectic in house.

1093
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 5: So I want things to be simple, calm.

1094
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 1: People are wanting a lot more peace and calmness in

1095
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: the new year. I find that to be a theme.

1096
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

1097
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 5: Yeah. It was a lovely break, very relaxing, We had

1098
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 5: lots of fun stuff in Wisconsin. It was really fun.

1099
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 5: We went duck pin bowling. You probably don't even know

1100
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 5: what that is. Nobody seems to. It's like bowling, but miniature.

1101
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 5: It's like miniature bowling. Nope, no ducks involved.

1102
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 6: Really tiny ball right, like a shot put.

1103
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 5: Tiny ball like a shot put, tiny pins, short lane

1104
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 5: and actual teenagers behind the pins setting them back up

1105
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 5: for you. And it was so fun. We lost every

1106
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 5: went sledding, we built the Snowman. We did really fun stuff.

1107
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 5: We watched about one hundred episodes of Family Food because

1108
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 5: my god, there is never a time of day family

1109
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 5: feud is not on television.

1110
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: I know it's we should make that a goal of

1111
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 1: if they do not though they do some sort of

1112
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: family feuds, but like show style, we should get on it.

1113
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 2: I feel like that's a that's achievable.

1114
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 1: You think so, yeah, I think it'd be so fun

1115
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: like the podcast, Yeah, Family, Yeah, it'd be so fun.

1116
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 5: Steve Harvey is very good.

1117
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's really really Yeah.

1118
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 3: So timing is just like perfect.

1119
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, a lot of family feud, a lot of crossroad puzzles,

1120
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 5: very chilling, and want to pull that chill into the

1121
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:10,319
Speaker 5: new year.

1122
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's all I felt too, of like the like

1123
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 4: because Haley and I both said, it's just been so

1124
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 4: nice to rest.

1125
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 2: I can do nothing, and I was like, we should

1126
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 2: do this more.

1127
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:22,399
Speaker 1: Like I know, I feel like it's so we jam

1128
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:23,240
Speaker 1: pack our schedule.

1129
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:24,439
Speaker 3: Yes, it's why.

1130
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 2: It's like not you can't say no, but you really can.

1131
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,319
Speaker 1: Like it's but you can't, so then you do, and

1132
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: then you run yourself tired, and then you're running on empty.

1133
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 2: Then you have strap throat on Christmas Day and now to.

1134
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: Go to the dingy gas station. Yeah, just a bad cycle.

1135
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:46,760
Speaker 1: Dingy dingy rickety chicken rickety rick rickety slickety rick well

1136
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: rinckety dick.

1137
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,240
Speaker 2: I don't think we have time for emails.

1138
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:50,399
Speaker 5: I don't do it either.

1139
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:51,240
Speaker 3: It's okay.

1140
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 2: I mean, it's up to you do whatever we.

1141
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 5: Want, right, we do want emails. We have to take

1142
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 5: another break up to you guys, but it's twenty three.

1143
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 5: I don't know one of the I feel like.

1144
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:02,800
Speaker 1: Describers would like an email.

1145
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love you.

1146
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 2: We'll take another break and we'll be back with email.

1147
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: You're right back, really.

1148
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 5: All right?

1149
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 4: We can't in the first episode of the year without

1150
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 4: an email.

1151
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 3: Nope, we can't.

1152
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 5: Anonymous says advice needed. Should I break up with my boyfriend? Well, honestly,

1153
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,760
Speaker 5: if just the fact that you're asking us that question

1154
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 5: is probably a yes. But let's look at the evidence.

1155
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 5: I've been dating my boyfriend two and a half years.

1156
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 5: We moved in to get the last year into a

1157
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 5: new house that he bought. We haven't had the most

1158
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:46,439
Speaker 5: stable relationship. We've had fights where we've said mean things

1159
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 5: to each other when we were drunk. Other than that,

1160
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 5: I'm starting to realize we have nothing in common. I

1161
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 5: love to watch movies and TV shows and read books.

1162
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 5: He can't stand movies or TV shows and is not

1163
00:50:56,680 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 5: interested in reading. What odd like typical night looks like

1164
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,719
Speaker 5: me watching TV alone. My boyfriend's in the other room

1165
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 5: gaming there it is Additionally, he does not know how

1166
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,760
Speaker 5: to communicate with me, whether it's planning things or expressing

1167
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 5: his feelings. He cannot communicate with me. I feel like

1168
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 5: he'll never say I love you first or show me

1169
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 5: any affection. These are things I don't think I would need,

1170
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 5: but now that I'm getting older, I feel like it's

1171
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 5: non negotiable for me. I have a lot of self

1172
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 5: esteem issues where I think that I will never have

1173
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 5: anyone else like me physically, and worry that his relationship

1174
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 5: and this relationship is the best I can do.

1175
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 1: Oh No, A couple of.

1176
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 5: Things and there were interesting. I don't know how old

1177
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 5: you are, but you mentioned that you're older, but that

1178
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 5: could be in anything from twenty to sixty, honestly, And

1179
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 5: I will never have anyone else like me physically. What

1180
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 5: does that mean?

1181
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 1: Like she says she has low self esteem, so she

1182
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: doesn't feel maybe she'sn't desirable or.

1183
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,840
Speaker 5: Worthy or so she's seeking out other fours. But you

1184
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 5: are not a four to somebody else, You're an eight.

1185
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 4: Well, It's also like I think the thing is not

1186
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:00,840
Speaker 4: having things in common isn't a deal breaker to me

1187
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 4: because I think having different interests. To be honest, Haley

1188
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 4: and I have a lot of similar interests, but we

1189
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 4: also have a lot of different interests and it's only

1190
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,919
Speaker 4: opened to me up to liking new things and same

1191
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 4: for her. But I think if he's not will the

1192
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 4: problem that I'm seeing is that he's not willing.

1193
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 2: To meet you.

1194
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 4: And I think I really have seen like so much

1195
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,720
Speaker 4: improvement with couples therapy in this area of like communication

1196
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 4: and like meeting each other in the middle. But I

1197
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 4: think that he has to be willing to do that.

1198
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 4: And I think that you know that you're settling for

1199
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:35,319
Speaker 4: a relationship that's not great because you're worried you can't

1200
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 4: do better.

1201
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 2: But you can do better. This is the gas station analogies.

1202
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 1: This is littering gas analogy because you don't think you

1203
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 1: can get better.

1204
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,760
Speaker 3: But that's the thing, Like you can.

1205
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 1: And the thing is you don't want the rinkity dickity

1206
00:52:51,719 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 1: gas station and you could be on a throne right

1207
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 1: up the road. Yes, but no, in all honesty, I

1208
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 1: don't think having some different interests is that big of

1209
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: a deal because a, yeah, like you can kind of

1210
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:09,479
Speaker 1: me in the middle and you can do different things,

1211
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: and like you're never going to find somebody that is

1212
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 1: exactly like you and like to spend their time doing

1213
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 1: exactly what you like to do, you know what I mean?

1214
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: Like I same with me and Robbie, Like we don't

1215
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: necessarily like when we were driving up, we wanted to

1216
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 1: listen to different things and we met in the middle

1217
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: and we found me we both liked. But so it's

1218
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 1: not so much of a different interest to me. It's

1219
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: the fighting, and like if you're questioning it so much,

1220
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 1: Like I just to me, why would you settle and

1221
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: marry this person now and then spend the rest of

1222
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 1: your life in this miserable type of relationship? Like wouldn't

1223
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: you rather be single? Like doing what you want all

1224
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: the time, and like getting to enjoy your time and

1225
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 1: your space and like not having to deal with that,

1226
00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: Like I would rather be single than in a relationship

1227
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: like that.

1228
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 5: Picture yourself in five years. This is an exercise.

1229
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 8: Married.

1230
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 5: When I was dating. As I did this, I pictured

1231
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:00,879
Speaker 5: myself in five years married to her, I pictured myself

1232
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:02,839
Speaker 5: in five years. We were totally not part of each

1233
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:05,360
Speaker 5: other's lives, and the idea of not being part of

1234
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 5: each other's lives and not seeing her on a daily

1235
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 5: basis was ludicrous to me. It was laughable. That's when

1236
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 5: I knew it's time to propose. So think about that,

1237
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 5: your life in five years married to him, kids with him,

1238
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,439
Speaker 5: or your life in five years and you don't even

1239
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 5: know him, Yeah, which sounds more appealing, Which sounds more ludicrous?

1240
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 5: Just think about that. Because I don't love this. I mean,

1241
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 5: maybe you can make a compromise. You know, you watch

1242
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 5: White Lotus together and then he teaches you one of

1243
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 5: the games that he likes and you can do it

1244
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 5: each other together.

1245
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 3: I mean, I wouldn't want to play any gaming games if.

1246
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 2: That's important to him, Yes, exactly, I think. But he

1247
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:41,359
Speaker 2: has to be willing to do that for her too.

1248
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 4: And I just the non affection, not saying I love you,

1249
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 4: like that's a big deal. I mean that's like, if

1250
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 4: that's important to you, then I think that you need

1251
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 4: to be with someone who's able to fulfill those things

1252
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 4: that you need. And I think, right off the bat,

1253
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,319
Speaker 4: Mark said the fact that you're emailing asking I think

1254
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 4: you know the answer.

1255
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:02,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you know the answer to and you're

1256
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:08,280
Speaker 1: ceramic what is it? Ceramic throne is right around the corner,

1257
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 1: it really is. And you have to believe what was

1258
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 1: her name? This is an anonymous, anonymous, beautiful name. You

1259
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 1: have to believe it for yourself, like you really really do.

1260
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,320
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people struggle with self esteem issues.

1261
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: And it's like because I think you're just constantly comparing

1262
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,239
Speaker 1: to this these perfect like I think it happens a

1263
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 1: lot on social media unfortunately, because you're just bombarded with

1264
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: these like beautiful, perfect images. But none of it's reality,

1265
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:36,359
Speaker 1: and it's like it's really causing people to have, you know,

1266
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 1: insecurity and self worth issues when it's just not the

1267
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: reality and it's not the case. So I think you're

1268
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,800
Speaker 1: gonna meet an amazing match. You sound like an awesome

1269
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: world if you listen to this podcast.

1270
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 5: You're cool, so agreed, and you are not. I don't

1271
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 5: know what you think about yourself physically, it's not that.

1272
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 1: I hope this gives you the courage or the empowerment

1273
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 1: that you need to make the right step.

1274
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 4: I also think last thing I'll say with the self

1275
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 4: esteem thing.

1276
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 2: You really have to learn to love.

1277
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 4: The person that you are before you can expect someone

1278
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 4: else to do that for you.

1279
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 2: And I think that preach Becca, No, I think it's

1280
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 2: so important.

1281
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 4: Like I don't think people realize, like, you can go

1282
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,239
Speaker 4: from the next relationship to relationship a relationship and you're

1283
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 4: always gonna have that same issue of feeling like you're

1284
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 4: not good enough if you don't love yourself. So I

1285
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 4: think you learn to be alone and enjoy the things

1286
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 4: that you love and learn to love who you are

1287
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,400
Speaker 4: and find someone who can make.

1288
00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 2: You feel that way.

1289
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, Well on that note, happy twenty twenty three.

1290
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,720
Speaker 2: Excited for this year with you all going into our

1291
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 2: sixth year. It'll be six coming up.

1292
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:45,800
Speaker 3: Sweet six.

1293
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 4: Yeah you know what they say this sweet six. All right,

1294
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 4: here's to a new scrubbing in era.

1295
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 3: Cheers everybody, We love you.

1296
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 6: Watch we.

1297
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 5: Can keep going.

1298
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 1: Okay, Wow, we just kidding.

1299
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 3: When we say bye doesn't mean bye. We're still here.

1300
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 4: Wait, so don't forget to watch the Easti's go ahead Easton.

1301
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 6: Thank You Easty Awards are an or show I do

1302
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 6: every year on Instagram Live. There's Sunday, January eighth at

1303
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 6: five pm. Everyone in this room has done the East

1304
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 6: Awards before. We so kind of present. We have a

1305
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 6: lot of really fun celebrity guests this year.

1306
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 1: Yeah we were not asked back. Yeah, we were a

1307
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: great dog.

1308
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 6: I don't want to bug you guys.

1309
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 3: A book to promote.

1310
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, that's the place.

1311
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 8: Viewers.

1312
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 5: Then no, thank you, Good morning America.

1313
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, if you want to do it, there's a room.

1314
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 5: Why was it moved off of New Year's for the

1315
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 5: first time ever?

1316
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 6: New Year's is always really hectic. I I just wanted

1317
00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 6: to move it. I've been wanting to move it and

1318
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 6: I always forget to.

1319
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 5: So this is there a specific person who couldn't do

1320
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 5: it on New Year's and that's why you moved it

1321
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 5: to accommodate that person.

1322
00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 6: No, I'm doing it. I decided to do it on

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Speaker 6: a Sunday, which is when other award shows do it.

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Speaker 6: We're doing it at night like other award shows. It's

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Speaker 6: a real award show.

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Speaker 8: Uh.

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Speaker 6: And all the celebrity things are pre recorded, so I

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Speaker 6: don't have to worry about their us.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 3: There you go.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, nothing's live. But we got some really big names.

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Speaker 6: I got some big musical numbers planned performed by me,

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Speaker 6: and I'm really excited. I did a lot of extra

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Speaker 6: stuff this year I don't normally do.

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Speaker 4: We should rent out like the iHeart Studio or iHeart

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Speaker 4: Theater one day and like self like literally do like

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Speaker 4: a raffle, sell tickets and stuff and and like have

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Speaker 4: do a full thing.

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Speaker 6: I would love.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but like, who's gonna come up to accept

1341
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Speaker 1: the award for like Fruit of the Year or whatever.

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Speaker 4: We'll have the fruit decorated or someone holding us like

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Speaker 4: someone yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, probably could be your hand model.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah I did this at the here it kissed one. Yeah,

1346
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 6: there was so much fun. I wanted to do it.

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Speaker 6: You know, maybe we will do this that hasn't been

1348
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Speaker 6: that hasn't been announced yet.

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Speaker 5: Maybe maybe will come fun.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, if you're discovering you want to come, let me

1351
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Speaker 6: know because we can make this happen. But yeah, it's

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Speaker 6: gonna be a lot of fun. And uh again, I

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Speaker 6: just want to thank all you guys. You guys have

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Speaker 6: all done begging time don multiple times and it means

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Speaker 6: so much to me. It's when I call in all

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Speaker 6: the favors from everyone we do podcasts with and they're

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Speaker 6: also kind. But I'm really excited and it thinks a

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Speaker 6: lot of fun.

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Speaker 5: Can you tease any celebrity involvement surprises?

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Speaker 6: You know, here's the what I can tease icons from

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Speaker 6: the nineties to two thousands.

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Speaker 2: I have an idea. I have an idea.

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Speaker 3: Our stars blind potentially.

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Speaker 2: Do they meet anything?

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Speaker 6: Yes, yes they do.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Do they work in coffee shops?

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Speaker 6: No? Okay, absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: It's like Tanya has on right now. I think that's

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Speaker 2: the same person.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know.

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Speaker 6: No, tune in.

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Speaker 2: Enough spoilers.

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Speaker 6: Yes, all right.

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Speaker 2: On that note, we're officially out by