Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com. Remy is on the
Speaker 1: phone today for a first date follow up and he's
Speaker 1: getting ghosted by Tererka. So in a minute, we're gonna
Speaker 1: call her and tell us why she's ghosting and maybe
Speaker 1: get another date. But first, Remy, how long has it
Speaker 1: been since you heard from Tarika?
Speaker 2: It's been about two weeks.
Speaker 3: Now, Okay, have you reached out to her?
Speaker 4: I mean at first I was reaching out, but no,
Speaker 4: I've kind of gotten the point and you know, held
Speaker 4: back recently.
Speaker 3: Why don't you tell us about your date?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Sure, So we went out to stake place in town
Speaker 4: I really like, and then after that we went out
Speaker 4: for a froyo and then we even went out a
Speaker 4: little dive bar I really like after that. So I
Speaker 4: don't know, it was a great night, you know, you know,
Speaker 4: we met up around seven, and you know, by the
Speaker 4: time I dropped her off, it was you know, almost
Speaker 4: already night. So great night, a lot of fun.
Speaker 5: This is always weird to me when you go to
Speaker 5: three different locations and then you get ghosted, because at
Speaker 5: that point you have a pretty good feeling that like,
Speaker 5: this person wants to spend time with you, like you
Speaker 5: had it out two different times.
Speaker 3: Did you feel like she was super nice?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was she was super nice.
Speaker 4: I like, you know, we talked a while before even
Speaker 4: our first date, and like, I don't know, we're both
Speaker 4: vib being really good together. And yeah, it was really
Speaker 4: weird that she didn't tell me anything was wrong.
Speaker 5: So could it be like work or family related that
Speaker 5: she's not like something's going on in her personal life?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean she she's some like she really had
Speaker 4: her stuff together, But you know, it's definitely possible she
Speaker 4: get just gotten busy. But you know, like I said,
Speaker 4: it's been in a couple of weeks, so I figured
Speaker 4: if she wanted to go out another date, maybe she
Speaker 4: would have answered me. But I really at least, you know, want.
Speaker 5: To know why during the date, Remy, did she give
Speaker 5: you feelings that she liked you?
Speaker 3: Did she say that?
Speaker 5: Or is there something that could have possibly happened that
Speaker 5: would have made the date kind of take a turn?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Like so I guess the one thing is I was
Speaker 4: making like kind of some suggestive comments, like you know,
Speaker 4: because things were going so well, like you know how
Speaker 4: much I liked her and stuff. It seemed like those
Speaker 4: feelings were kind of reciprocated. But I don't know, maybe
Speaker 4: I pushed too hard, Like that's the only thing I
Speaker 4: could really think of.
Speaker 5: But like what did you say? What direction were you pushing?
Speaker 5: Like who I really liked you? I can't reason we
Speaker 5: get married or.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, no, no, nothing like that, but just like, oh,
Speaker 4: you know, next time I have to do this, and
Speaker 4: you know, things like that, like you know kind of
Speaker 4: you know, you know, insinuating that, you know, just want
Speaker 4: to be the only you know, date.
Speaker 3: I think that's some good things.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't think of anything awkward that happened or
Speaker 1: any reason that you'd be getting ghosted.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, Like, uh, I don't know.
Speaker 4: Maybe I wasn't dressed right, like I was wearing like
Speaker 4: corduroy pants or something. Maybe she was chudding me on that.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Corduroys are in now, so ish okay, so maybe you were.
Speaker 3: Getting judged on that, Like I mean, I like them?
Speaker 3: How tight were they?
Speaker 4: They said? Just that's right? Man?
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well we'll see if that is the issue,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song come back and then call her
Speaker 1: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,
Speaker 1: and then maybe get you another date if you still want.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, also appreciate it.
Speaker 3: So we'll play a song, come back and get your
Speaker 3: first day follow up next.
Speaker 1: Right in the middle of your first day follow up
Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, Remy is on the phone
Speaker 1: and he's getting ghosted by Tarika. So in a second
Speaker 1: we're going to call her and see if she tell
Speaker 1: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
Speaker 1: But first, Remy, why don't you catch everybody up on
Speaker 1: your date with Tarica?
Speaker 4: So yeah, we went out to steak place, we had
Speaker 4: frozen yogurt, you know, we went to a dive bar,
Speaker 4: you know, all together. We're together probably for about five hours.
Speaker 4: It's a great day. You know, A text her a
Speaker 4: few times after the date. But now it's been about
Speaker 4: two weeks, haven't heard from her. Don't know if she
Speaker 4: was judging me on my corduroy chain. There's some of
Speaker 4: the talent tele is making, you know, you know, hoping
Speaker 4: that we would you know, it wouldn't be our only
Speaker 4: date or anything like that. And yeah, I'm just really
Speaker 4: like to hear from her again, or at least find
Speaker 4: out like why I haven't heard from her?
Speaker 3: Okay, cool, you're ready for us to call her?
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go, Hi.
Speaker 3: I speak to Erica. Please. This is hey Tarica. How
Speaker 3: are you?
Speaker 1: My name is Jewbell and I'm calling from a radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called the Jebel Show.
Speaker 3: Hi, Sarah, I'm Nina. I'm also on the show. Hi,
Speaker 3: and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6: Please.
Speaker 4: That's cool.
Speaker 3: You listen to the show.
Speaker 1: Ever, Yeah, we do a segment on the show called
Speaker 1: the First Date follow Up, where if you go on
Speaker 1: a date with somebody and ghost them, that person emails
Speaker 1: us to call you up and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 2: Okay, so.
Speaker 3: We got an email about you?
Speaker 6: Okay, all right, it's.
Speaker 3: From a dude named Remy. Oh no, oh yeah, yep,
Speaker 3: you go?
Speaker 6: Can I say yes?
Speaker 3: And no? Okay? Yeah? Would you mind explaining to us
Speaker 3: what that means? Though, I get like, I.
Speaker 6: Definitely put off messaging him back. I'll put it that way.
Speaker 6: I put off.
Speaker 3: Messaging him back, so he's not ghost yet, it's just delayed.
Speaker 3: Just mailed him a letter. At this point, it sounds funny.
Speaker 6: It wasn't anything like I literally just got thrown off.
Speaker 6: That was that was it. Like it wasn't like anything.
Speaker 6: I was just thrown off. Okay, So I couldn't stop
Speaker 6: thinking about what happened where we went to get frozen yogurt,
Speaker 6: like like I don't know what happened, but like he
Speaker 6: he like became like a monster in that proio shop,
Speaker 6: Like he added everything that they had available for toppings
Speaker 6: and stuff, and he went bonkers, like he added everything
Speaker 6: like cookies and gummy bears and sprinkles and the Chobo
Speaker 6: syrup and the strawberry.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like he was having a Yeah, it
Speaker 3: sounds like something I do too.
Speaker 5: I know he's end up sending forty bucks.
Speaker 3: Sppings are so good. I don't understand what you was
Speaker 3: just one right.
Speaker 6: Well it was my thought process, but I was like
Speaker 6: I was like weird. I was like, okay, this thing
Speaker 6: is going to weigh forty pounds. And I was just
Speaker 6: like has you never been to one of these places?
Speaker 6: Like is this first time out of the house, Like no,
Speaker 6: I just I guess I thought about it like way
Speaker 6: too much. And then I was like, well, I'll get
Speaker 6: back to him. You know. I was still in my
Speaker 6: head and then I completely forgot to get back to him.
Speaker 3: Okay, just for that sounds like something, Victoria. Yeah, obviously
Speaker 3: you're judging him on having so many toppings? Does that?
Speaker 5: Does that tell you something about his kid charter? You're
Speaker 5: just really not sure how somebody can mix cookies and
Speaker 5: gummy bears together. I'm not really understanding how this was
Speaker 5: like an ick for you.
Speaker 6: It just it's just like a lot like I think.
Speaker 2: I was just stunned.
Speaker 6: It was kind of like a train wreck kind of thing.
Speaker 6: I was just watching it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I just can't I.
Speaker 6: Just can't stop thinking about it. I don't know.
Speaker 5: Okay, let me ask you this, Erika. This will help
Speaker 5: me understand. What do you put on your frozen yogurt?
Speaker 6: Oh? Well, like the flavors coordinate, like I'll do like,
Speaker 6: you know, two three flavors that like all make sense together,
Speaker 6: but no toppings. I'll do some toppings, but I'll do like, oh, like,
Speaker 6: let's do like a strawberry and a chocolate with like
Speaker 6: some fresh strawberries on it or something like that that
Speaker 6: makes sense, Like I do a couple of things.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, I get it now. Her closet is
Speaker 5: like it's color coordinating.
Speaker 3: It is actually yeah, see okay, it just needed to understand, Okay,
Speaker 3: why the chaos.
Speaker 2: Was the.
Speaker 6: Chaos is a good word for it.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's the reason that you're ghosting is because of
Speaker 1: the toppings on his froyo.
Speaker 6: I was just kind of picturing, you know how, like
Speaker 6: there's those people at the like soda fountains that they
Speaker 6: get like a splash of every single flavor in the
Speaker 6: cup like that always.
Speaker 3: Okay, I do that too. What Yeah, it's a very incoction.
Speaker 3: It's called anina.
Speaker 5: I understand you called your name like Nina aid, you know,
Speaker 5: like lemonade was like.
Speaker 3: Anyways, Erka, thank you for telling us.
Speaker 1: I should also let you know that Remy is on
Speaker 1: the phone listening and wants to talk to a little.
Speaker 4: So yeah, I guess I kind of like you could
Speaker 4: say a fruit punch of frozen yogurt, like, uh, you've
Speaker 4: heard of the kid in the candy store, while I'm
Speaker 4: like the man in the frog place, Like I just
Speaker 4: can't make up my mind. So I guess maybe I
Speaker 4: didn't want to hold on the date, so of deciding
Speaker 4: I just added a little bit of everything. Sorry about that.
Speaker 3: If I don't think you need to apologize.
Speaker 4: I don't know, I'm just pretty offended. So I love it, Okay.
Speaker 6: So I clarification, I'm so sorry. I was not offended.
Speaker 6: I was just blown away flesh. My mind is just
Speaker 6: blown Like I don't think I had the power to
Speaker 6: think after that.
Speaker 4: You know, maybe sometime I could go out for pizza
Speaker 4: or something, but you know, I like to order a
Speaker 4: lot of topics those.
Speaker 6: So I was gonna say, like, how many topics go
Speaker 6: on your pizza? Like are you one of those people
Speaker 6: that puts party contina butter or something, but.
Speaker 4: Maybe some sausage and pine apple and green pepper and
Speaker 4: onion and Canadian bacon and taco and you know pepperoni
Speaker 4: and black oloves green olives, so not too many mushrooms,
Speaker 4: but not too many toppings.
Speaker 6: But I don't know that well, at least like with pizzas,
Speaker 6: you can usually order like a half and half.
Speaker 4: So yeah, so it was just a proo huh. Like
Speaker 4: it was really kind of going around an ear from you.
Speaker 6: Oh Like I wasn't really like ghosting me because of it.
Speaker 6: I just got in my head about it and then
Speaker 6: I honestly I meant to get back to you, and
Speaker 6: then I just.
Speaker 3: I didn't like that.
Speaker 6: That's what like, I wish I had a better use.
Speaker 6: I wish I had a clever and I have.
Speaker 1: Nothe it was just, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: with me again? We'll pay for it. I mean, we'll
Speaker 1: pay for most of it. I don't know how much
Speaker 1: is FROO cost if you guys get Froo, but we'll
Speaker 1: pay for it.
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess the bag. Your question is like,
Speaker 2: is he willing to go out with me again?
Speaker 3: That's fair?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know that, uh pizza with the twenty toppings
Speaker 4: sounded pretty good now, so that'd be awesome.
Speaker 6: Well, I mean, if you want a third date, just
Speaker 6: don't get the tiny topping pizza.
Speaker 3: I'm like, good first date follow up