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Speaker 1: Second date of day, Alexis, is there one sentence a

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Speaker 1: instantly want to kiss him? Gentlemen other than ma'am, can

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Speaker 1: I get your license and registration?

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Speaker 2: Please? Oh, he's gonna get.

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Speaker 3: About asking for like my Starbucks order. Oh you know,

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Speaker 3: that's simple, buying me a coffee that changes. Okay, I

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Speaker 3: thought you had a higher price than that espresso rice.

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Speaker 2: I've said, Wow, I don't know about that move.

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Speaker 1: But one of our listeners says he was taught something

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Speaker 1: that he claims can get any member of the opposite

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Speaker 1: sex to go in for the kiss right after you

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Speaker 1: meet them.

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Speaker 4: Kiss.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, after you meet them, right when you meet them.

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Speaker 3: That's wild.

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Speaker 2: I don't believe this. I'm curious to find out what

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Speaker 2: it is. So let's talk to Joseph.

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Speaker 1: Now, Joseph, you gotta be careful because we all might

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Speaker 1: try to kiss you once we hear it.

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Speaker 2: But tell us about this move that you learned.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I want to make this apparent. I want

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Speaker 5: to make this known right now. I didn't even develop this.

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Speaker 5: This came from a female friend of mine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 5: She said, if you've been making eye contact with the

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Speaker 5: maybe a party. All you have to do is welcome

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Speaker 4: Him and say, hey, you're pretty.

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Speaker 5: You want to make out, with the attitude of not

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Speaker 2: Care you're pretty want to make out? How do you

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: How do you come off like you don't want to

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Speaker 3: when you say that?

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Speaker 4: Your entire demeanor?

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Speaker 5: You know, maybe hold a drink, maybe look away, but like, hey,

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Speaker 5: you know what, I find you pretty? You want to

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Speaker 2: Maybe raise an eyebrow, you like, wink a little bit.

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Speaker 2: But Jeff, just why you're on me? Bro's going to.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you it is hard to imagine

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Speaker 3: this working. No, okay, if you're attracted the person works,

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Speaker 1: How did you feel hearing that word of advice from

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Speaker 4: It was horrible. I was so uncomfortable. I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, this is never work. I'm gonna get slapped.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so, despite your better logic, you tried it.

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Speaker 2: We did.

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Speaker 4: We did because she said nine out of ten times.

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Speaker 5: They'll go forward. So she was like, you know, We're

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Speaker 5: going to go to a holiday party and her job

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, works.

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Speaker 4: It's not his, Yeah, it's her, it's hers.

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Speaker 2: But still she's brought the guy.

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Speaker 3: I wish this happened at our holiday party.

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Speaker 1: How many people work at her Oh yeah, at her

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Speaker 4: Man, it's like hundreds, hundreds.

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Speaker 3: They throw actually cool parties.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh yeah, yeah, I've been.

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Speaker 3: With other friends.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, so it was like an open bar and

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Speaker 5: So I was like, okay, you know, with the skepticism,

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Speaker 4: What we did.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because I was worried that you were going

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Speaker 3: to look like the boyfriend you know everyone, Yeah, how

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Speaker 3: are you there? People? How are you with hundreds? When

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Speaker 2: You don't know.

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Speaker 3: Because what department do you work in?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? So you you just went to the party and

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Speaker 5: I was I was standing around for at least an

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Speaker 1: Think about this, meeting someone for the first time who's

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Speaker 2: The first kiss is always nerve wrecking. Doing them at

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Speaker 3: Like a public event. You can't just go to your bedroom.

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Speaker 3: Why you're in and you better not have eaten any

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So, like, at what point did you actually try

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Speaker 5: There when the drinks came and this is the old

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Speaker 3: No, oh my god, it wasn't even just like a

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Speaker 2: She no, we made out another location to kiss. That's

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Speaker 4: Cooled freaking work. It was crazy.

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Speaker 3: You did give a take out? At what point did

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Speaker 3: you learn her name? Oh?

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Speaker 1: In the middle of it, Yeah, did you get the name?

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Speaker 4: She did give me the name her name was Katrina.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, we talked like ten to fifteen minutes after

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, so you made a connection.

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Speaker 2: Get all the all the hard stuff out of the wood.

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Speaker 3: But then what the night? Answered like, do you.

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Speaker 2: How many other women?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: How many other women? Do you use this on at

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Speaker 4: No? No, it was it was just her and she

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Speaker 2: Bro, So did you stop? Did you because you felt chemistry.

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Speaker 4: With her or what? No? I felt like I was

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be.

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Speaker 3: Did you guys get to connect? Did you talk after?

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Speaker 1: Maybe she feels awkward for making out with somebody at

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Speaker 3: A woman who leads a man into a corner is

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Speaker 1: Yeah after an hour and a half of drinking. I mean,

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Speaker 2: Co worker? Like, did you tell her what happened?

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Speaker 4: Kind of? I told my friend at the move work,

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Speaker 4: and she was like, oh my god, who was it?

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Speaker 5: But I didn't want to say, because you know, I

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Speaker 3: She brought you and told you to do it. I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 2: I mean, oh, that's a good point.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of Okay, so your friend doesn't know

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Speaker 1: for how long?

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Speaker 4: Second?

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Speaker 3: Now a little second, oka, Well, can actually have a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a sober date? Are starting sober man? That doesn't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, we'll try and arrange something for you with

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Speaker 2: Get you your second date update. Right after this hold

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Speaker 2: on second date update, today, we learned about a hot dating.

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Speaker 1: Hack yeah, well kind of yeah, short of where apparently

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Speaker 1: if you go up to any woman with a nonchalant

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Speaker 3: Currently, Jeff isn't nonchalant enough because nobody in this room

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Speaker 2: Not do it right.

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Speaker 4: But no.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, we never asked what do you do

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Or just something besides yes, who are you?

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Speaker 3: You were embarrassed and you shy away.

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Speaker 2: That's not a good look.

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Speaker 3: You hope that you never see them again.

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Speaker 1: Let's ask our listener, Joseph, if any of our listeners

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Speaker 4: Well, if they say no, yeah, problem, just find me

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Speaker 3: Ready, Oh, no problem, Just find me when you're Oh

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Speaker 2: That's so. That's because then you really don't care. You're like, okay,

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Speaker 2: I probably change your mind.

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Speaker 3: I would have said me neither. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: The thing is, Joseph liked Katrina, the girl that he

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Speaker 3: Way can we not call him out on this is

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Speaker 3: a move that he like, Oh that it was even

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Speaker 3: a bet, like when she picks up like the trick

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Speaker 2: Why are you looking at me for that? Alexis is

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Speaker 3: Constant you are so self aware.

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Speaker 1: All right, Alexis, pipe down, We're going to call this girl.

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Speaker 1: Don't ruin this for us. Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey is this Katrina?

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Speaker 6: Yes, it's Katrina.

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Speaker 3: Okay, morning, Hey Katrina.

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Speaker 6: Hello, great question.

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Speaker 2: This is a morning show.

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Speaker 1: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we

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Speaker 1: are very very eager to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: You want to do a second date or something whatever?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 6: Okay, how did you reach me? This is kind of odd.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to answer that because we got an email

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Speaker 1: from one of our listeners that met you recently at

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Speaker 1: a holiday party named Joseph.

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Speaker 4: Oh Joseph.

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Speaker 6: Okay, yep, I remember him. How would you describe him

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Speaker 6: flat out? I guess I'd describe him as a liar.

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Speaker 2: A liar, like he lies down a lot. I'm a liar.

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Speaker 6: No, he just completely lied to me. I met him. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wait, yeah, you had such a brief interaction with this guy,

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Speaker 3: at least.

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Speaker 2: According to him what we've heard.

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Speaker 6: Oh so we told you all about it, well about.

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Speaker 3: So.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if this is what Joseph told you,

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Speaker 2: You don't normally do it that way. That's how we

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Speaker 6: No, I do not definitely different for me. But then

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Speaker 3: I don't know why he said that. Okay with me here.

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Speaker 3: made up like, oh, yeah, I work in whatever I mean,

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Speaker 3: that makes sense, alexis like, or it's just easier, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's easier to say, yeah, I work here too.

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Speaker 2: Owner of the company. What was that CBS show Undercover

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Speaker 2: and it's like, oh no, actually I own the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe some maybe some sort of like misunderstand situation

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Speaker 6: Okay, I highly doubt that was the case.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you're just mad because he lied to you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there was.

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Speaker 6: No reason for him too. I mean he specifically said

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Speaker 6: respond to this guy because I don't know who he is.

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Speaker 6: Was he justshing the party? Is he some kind of pervert?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Why you go to perverts? I mean, why don't you

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Speaker 1: You don't have to text him or do anything like that,

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Speaker 1: because actually Joseph is on the other line right now

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Speaker 1: waiting to talk to you. Serious, Yeah, in a non

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Speaker 1: pervy way.

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Speaker 6: Yet the whole time he's been listening.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, no, no, it's because he likes you, Joseph tell.

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Speaker 4: Her, Katrina.

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Speaker 5: I am so sorry.

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Speaker 4: I just let me just start out with that. I

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Speaker 5: I forgot that I did tell you those things, and

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Speaker 5: I want to tell you what ming from.

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Speaker 4: I'm not a pervert.

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Speaker 5: I'm not a stalker, any creepo, nothing like that.

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Speaker 2: Do you work there?

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Speaker 4: I don't work there.

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Speaker 3: Okay, No, he just said that.

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Speaker 4: All right, I'm going to tell you something. I'm going

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Speaker 5: This came from a friend of mine who does work there,

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Speaker 5: and she actually made me kind of like a little

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Speaker 4: Where it wasn't it wasn't a bad not really a bet. No,

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Speaker 4: she gave me a move if I want to say

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Speaker 5: I do this particular thing, if I say, hey, I

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Speaker 5: think you're pretty, do you want to make out?

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Speaker 4: I can make out with any woman at that party.

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Speaker 3: It is a female friend that told him to do this.

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Speaker 3: I think that's very important.

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Speaker 2: Thanks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I just want to say this, Christina, when

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Speaker 4: we did that, you were the only person that I

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Speaker 4: did that too. And then I wanted to do that too.

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Speaker 4: Even afterwards, I just wanted to.

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Speaker 3: Us.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess that's a release. But seriously, it's like

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Speaker 6: you just went there specifically to test out your.

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Speaker 1: Move when it was not his idea. His friend is

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Speaker 1: the one who was encouraging him. Because Joseph did not

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Speaker 3: Free holiday party with the open bar yes, I mean

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Speaker 3: my friend worked at a big company.

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, if you.

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Speaker 1: Should be mad at anybody, be mad at Joseph's friend

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Speaker 1: for pressuring.

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Speaker 2: Him to kiss you female friends. Female.

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Speaker 3: I do think that's so important.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I've crashed parties before, that makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Invited. Yeah, you didn't crash it, and the only was

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Speaker 2: I worked there. That's it, right.

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Speaker 3: You didn't lie about anything else, did you, Joseph?

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, that was it. That was it?

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Speaker 6: Because why about that, Joseph. You could have told me

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Speaker 4: No, not really.

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Speaker 1: I came here to try out this line that my

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Speaker 6: Guess it works. I guess it works. I gotta admit

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Speaker 6: it works. Okay, So I'm kind of curious. Would that

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Speaker 4: Of course?

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Speaker 3: Well, I think it'd work even better.

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Speaker 6: I think it would too. Actually, a hard part is.

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Speaker 3: Going to be finding a guy who you actually want

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Speaker 2: Why are you asking that?

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Speaker 6: To be honest, my boss is recently single, and I

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Speaker 5: Eye on wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

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Speaker 5: no no no no no no no, no, that's not

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Speaker 5: the way.

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Speaker 4: No, what's your boss.

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Speaker 2: You want to try this on your boss.

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Speaker 6: I would like to try it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not smart.

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Speaker 2: Don't do that, trust me.

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Speaker 1: I've tried a lot of moves on our bosses and

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Speaker 1: none of them work. So it's I didn't think it's

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Speaker 1: a good idea.

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey hasn't gotten to raise it over five years.

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Speaker 2: No, keep getting demoted.

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Speaker 6: Listen, I don't even know how you guys are, so

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Speaker 6: don't tell me what to do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you got the idea from us from.

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Speaker 4: Him, Joseph.

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Speaker 6: Joseph's got some smooth moves, and maybe I should.

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Speaker 2: Well, are you going to kiss Joseph again?

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Speaker 1: Because the whole reason that we're doing this call is

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Speaker 1: because after you guys kissed, he felt like you had

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Speaker 2: And we would pay for that date if you're willing

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Speaker 2: to see him again.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, maybe Joseph could be my wingman.

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Speaker 4: No, come on, I'm pouring out my heart here.

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Speaker 6: I like you.

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Speaker 4: I want to get to know you.

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Speaker 2: You guys had a connection.

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Speaker 1: Give it a chance with Joseph, and once that burns out,

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Speaker 1: then you can go after your boss.

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Speaker 2: There you go.

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Speaker 6: You know, I'm willing to go on a friendly date.

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Speaker 6: As friends, friends and friends.

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Speaker 3: Do we cover friendly dates.

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Speaker 6: We can change the dating tricks and tips.

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Speaker 3: Dude, you went from kissing this woman in the first

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Speaker 3: five seconds to now you're her friends absolute friends.

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Speaker 2: Wingman, I've never been not.

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Speaker 3: This excited about friendship my life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning, Man, I feel so

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Speaker 1: bad for Joseph that scenario. He took a risk, decided

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Speaker 1: he was going to be one hundred percent honest and transparent,

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Speaker 1: and admitted he didn't really work at her company. He

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Speaker 1: was just there to do a makeout experiment. And what happens, Well,

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Speaker 1: he goes from mystery hot guy to best friend dating coach.

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Speaker 3: Oh, man, you went too far? He told too much?

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Speaker 3: Like you got to keep your dating secrets to yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yes, when is it okay to be fully honest with

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Speaker 1: your partner, Brooke? How many years into the marriage do

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Speaker 1: you actually open up.

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Speaker 3: If they ask? You got to tell him?

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Speaker 2: Oh? If you never tell them anything? I'm kitty good one, Brook.

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Speaker 1: If you ever want some dating advice, We'll be honest

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