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Speaker 1: My girlfriend doesn't want to live with my grieving niece,

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Speaker 1: so I threatened to break up.

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Speaker 2: That's a very unique situation to be in.

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Speaker 3: Isn't it.

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Speaker 1: So my brother passed away in a car accident two

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Speaker 1: months ago. After he passed away, I took responsibility of

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from maxim sympathy to eighty

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Speaker 1: on the r slash okay storytime subreddit. For some backstory,

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Speaker 1: my brother and I both raised my niece together. He

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Speaker 1: had her when he was only seventeen and I was nineteen.

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Speaker 1: Back then, her mom left both her daughter, now fourteen,

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Speaker 1: and my brother and basically just disappeared. I think she

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Speaker 1: was twenty three or twenty four. Whoa, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: and he was seventeen. So you guys can figure out

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Speaker 1: what that situation is.

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Speaker 3: On Where are your eyes? Dang? This is where are

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Speaker 3: your eyes? Where your eyes?

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Speaker 2: The double hat energy has summoned a very hard story.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, let's keep going. Yeah jeh wait, I actually

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Speaker 4: cannot see your eyes.

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Speaker 3: John, What do you mean you're going right here? All

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about? We'll both be like, okay,

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Speaker 2: but I have glasses. So anyways, yes, you do.

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Speaker 3: Serious.

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Speaker 1: My brother took responsibility of his child. I helped him

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Speaker 1: raise her. My brother would often joke that she's our daughter.

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Speaker 3: God dang. I miss him so much, and I spoiled

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Speaker 3: her a lot. My brother restricted her.

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Speaker 1: He didn't let her eat chocolates or buy games, dang,

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Speaker 1: but she would always come to her uncle and I

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Speaker 3: I miss those days. Anyways.

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Speaker 1: After my brother passed away, I took my niece under

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Speaker 1: my care. I'm still going through legal guardianship paper work,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I am going to raise her. A problem

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Speaker 1: for me is that my girlfriend told me yesterday that

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Speaker 2: That's a great reason to abandon a child in need.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I can't freaking bang you as much

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Speaker 4: I cannot take you guys seriously with those hats.

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Speaker 2: Onon, just I can't even know your eyes. We're too

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Speaker 2: cool to have our eyes seen. We're the character from

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Speaker 2: the cartoon that's drawn without eyes because we're cool, and

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Speaker 2: then one day the eyes are revealed in an episode

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about?

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Speaker 3: Anyway, I can't watch anything.

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Speaker 4: So all set of metal and all like emotional and

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Speaker 4: all I see is that and that.

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Speaker 3: No, what are you talking about? Something funny about that?

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Speaker 3: You're right there? We go, h just see your lips

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Speaker 3: the left and the right. Fine, I'm here, I'm out

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Speaker 3: in the open. No, put it back on. I'm still

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Speaker 3: here on the open. And this is what my eyes

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Speaker 3: are gonna look like. Go ahead, John. So I asked

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend said that she's been sleeping in our bed,

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Speaker 1: and I said that that is a normal grieving process

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, that's a huge cringey red flag. What just

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Speaker 2: the chair just exploded?

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Speaker 3: Guys? What just came out of the chair? Oh? A nail.

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Speaker 3: It's like a big screw, a big screw from the chair.

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Speaker 2: Have you seen the pneumatic tubes and chairs like that

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Speaker 3: The bottom of them. No, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: I've seen that before. That's why I have a friend

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Speaker 3: That's not painful.

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Speaker 2: I've just unlocked a new fear for everyone in the chat,

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Speaker 3: You want to put get the other chair?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the shape, but we're also gonna keep reaching.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 1: So she said she doesn't want her to sleep with us.

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Speaker 1: I said it's only been two months, to give her

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Speaker 1: What would she say if we had a daughter and

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Speaker 1: focused on comforting our daughter instead of focusing on you.

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Speaker 1: She said that would be different because she would be

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Speaker 3: We should break up. I told her. Currently, I am

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Speaker 1: That is the One thing is like he's basically her dad,

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Speaker 2: And she should be supporting her at the very least.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, dude, literally, get over yourself. This person

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Speaker 1: Family and remember her mom abandoned her. Yeah too, So

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Speaker 1: it's like it's not like that. That is also happening here,

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Speaker 2: Literally, think of the children, for.

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Speaker 1: God's sake, literally think of the children. My girlfriend has

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Speaker 1: been angry at me since yesterday. She only talks to

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Speaker 1: I just said she's stressed. But I'm wondering why my

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Speaker 1: I have to, choose between them. I will choose my

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Speaker 3: They basically voted ope, not the a hole in the story.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no way, I think you are the a whole.

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Speaker 2: You should just be bang in your girlfriend all right? Sorry,

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Speaker 2: sorry lady, what are you doing? Yeah, I'm taking the

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Speaker 2: wrong side because no, hard, no, it's a deck. Clearly,

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Speaker 2: anyone who actually thinks that this guy's an a hole,

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Speaker 2: re examine your entire personality. Yeah, what is wrong with

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Speaker 2: you if you could ever think that that guy's being

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Speaker 3: Come on. Sophia Callen also says she doesn't want kids.

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Speaker 3: So what it's not your kid?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I'm saying like, so I think the

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Speaker 3: Fact that she doesn't want a child, you know what

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Speaker 1: And when the time comes for them to you know

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Speaker 1: where he's like, hey, I'm ready, I want to have

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Speaker 2: No, She's like, yeah, remember that the niece, Yeah, wasn't

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Speaker 3: Wasn't that a van?

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Speaker 1: And like I feel like I feel like she could

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Speaker 1: I understand niece is like, she's grieving and we need

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Speaker 1: can kind of be be intimate, be alone together, maybe

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Speaker 1: get like a I don't even know, like uh oh

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Speaker 1: uh someone someone said a comment of spicing it up.

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Speaker 3: Uh, but like, oh.

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Speaker 2: Can we could we go get a hotel during the

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Speaker 2: day one day exactly? You know, some sort of conversation

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Speaker 2: is not get rid of the kid. It's yeah, hey,

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Speaker 2: I feel like the bedrooms blackened since we are now,

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Speaker 2: you know, sharing a room with a fourteen year old

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Speaker 2: dude's grieving. Maybe let's get the spanky going at a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when the kid's not around.

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Speaker 2: I just thought of the funniest word I could use

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Speaker 2: to describe it, in spankypankypanky.

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Speaker 3: When we get the spanky going, we can't. Why did

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Speaker 3: you double down on it because I like it? It's funny.

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Speaker 2: No, it's ah, come on, yeah, it's it's it's a conversation,

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Speaker 2: not a demand.

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Speaker 3: That's what it needs to be. And this is coming

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Speaker 3: across his demor that's a good way to put it.

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Speaker 3: It's not at all. That's a great way to put it.

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Speaker 2: Conversation, and it's like, hey, I feel like our physical

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, something to get ahead of, right. I agree.

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Speaker 1: I think there's literally what you said conversation not a demand. Great,

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Speaker 1: great way to sum it up, but there's also some

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Speaker 1: relevant comments so commented Number one says, Honestly, there's no

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Speaker 1: your niece to your face, she will make your niece

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Speaker 1: feel unwelcome, unwanted when you're not around. From this point forward,

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Speaker 1: your girlfriend shouldn't be trusted alone with your niece. Commented

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Speaker 1: number two. Yep, she's openly icing the kid out. Things

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Speaker 1: are only going to escalate from here, and op needs

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Speaker 1: if girlfriend starts mistreating her behind her back. Though personally

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Speaker 1: I'd end things and be done with this, be comage

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Speaker 1: to number three, says OPI, The sad reality is that

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Speaker 1: life that yeah, yeah, yeah, and that is going to

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Speaker 1: which will lead to her treating your daughter like crap.

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Speaker 1: And I mean she's already treating your daughter like crap.

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Speaker 1: It is time to accept reality. Your girlfriend does not

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Speaker 1: want to help you raise your daughter again. It's time

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Speaker 1: to start seeing her now as your daughter because you

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Speaker 1: are a single dad now, which I think OPI totally

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Speaker 3: I would imagine.

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Speaker 1: She's not all in, which means you have to be

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Speaker 1: all out. Your daughter comes first, now and forever. It's

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Speaker 1: time you accept that, not.

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Speaker 3: The a hole. You would be the a hole if you.

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Speaker 1: Continue this relationship, though I don't agree with that. That

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Speaker 1: is an interesting Uh yeah, could we put a whole

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Speaker 1: or not for continuing the relationship, ahole or not for

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Speaker 1: continuing the relationship.

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Speaker 2: It just feels like a commenter who's like extra, like

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: All exactly there. They're saying it to get to get

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Speaker 1: the points.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: It's like, dude, come on stop, Yeah, you can't make

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Speaker 2: that call.

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Speaker 3: I mean, just to like a second. So to be clear,

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Speaker 3: the poll is.

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Speaker 2: Then you don't need to give him a second chance,

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Speaker 4: Also, look at that democracy seventy six votes.

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Speaker 1: By the way we've been, we've been hitting some pretty high.

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Speaker 3: At one point tonight. So yeah, it's kind of how

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Speaker 1: Not people sadly, oh baby, but yeah, let me know

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Speaker 3: Definitely a dicey situation. But yeah, I feel like.

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Speaker 1: The the thing that we've landed on is like, give it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you'll know if there's any actual change

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Speaker 3: We shall see, But let's get back to this update.

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Speaker 3: Ope for it.

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Speaker 1: Update I'm so surprised that that my post blew up

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Speaker 1: I thank all of you, and for those who are

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Speaker 1: asking I have been with my girlfriend for three years.

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Speaker 1: I also confess that I'm in the wrong by not

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Speaker 3: I already tried that.

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Speaker 1: Initially, she was sleeping alone, but she would wake up

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's essentially your surrogate daughter, like it's his daughter.

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Speaker 1: Basically, Obi says to be honest, I don't care if

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Speaker 3: A smart move.

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Speaker 1: I apologize for her for not thinking about how she

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Speaker 3: I had to bring my niece in.

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Speaker 1: I also have to worry about all the legal paperwork,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's just it's all and it all comes

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Speaker 2: at once, and it doesn't stop.

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Speaker 3: Exactly till it's over.

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Speaker 1: Indeed, my girlfriend said that she doesn't want my niece

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Speaker 1: long enough. I said, I understand, it's kind of unfair

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Speaker 1: in exasperation, and when I am going through so much

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Speaker 3: I wanted your support.

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Speaker 1: She said that she will support me, and she doesn't

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Speaker 3: And care for her. Either I choose my niece or her. Damn,

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Speaker 3: that's an easy choice. Well, ooh, yeah, it's it's gonna

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Speaker 3: be the daughter. And for that, sharks, you're getting out

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Speaker 3: of my house. I'm out.

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, out, you're out, Get out of my house.

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Speaker 3: Begone you? Maybe?

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Speaker 2: Is harlot or strumpet a better word.

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Speaker 3: Strumpet?

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Speaker 2: She strumpet begotten from the premises, begone maybe.

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Speaker 1: So I explained to her that I understand your frustration,

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Speaker 1: You already know that I have raised her and now

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Speaker 1: she has lost her family.

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Speaker 3: Only I can help her.

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Speaker 1: She has nowhere else to go except my old parents,

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Speaker 1: but they can barely help themselves. She started crying and said,

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Speaker 1: I am not her first priority. Dull Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: the fourteen year old girl who just lost her only parent. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's kind of my priority right now. Yes, sorry, sorry, Like,

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Speaker 1: oh sorry, are you a teen who lost their only parent?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 2: To me?

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Speaker 2: All the shows is that as soon as anything bad

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Speaker 2: like that we can't. I can't have a boyfriend who's

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Speaker 1: I keep having. I don't like using the itchy stick.

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Speaker 1: It's too much responsibility for me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I want to go on walks with you, but

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Speaker 4: we can't walk because yeah, I didn't really sign up

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Speaker 4: to have a boyfriend with a broken leg. I think

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Speaker 4: I think she's looking for an excuse. And it's been

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Speaker 1: So Lulu says kids have to be the priority and

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Speaker 1: not to like overdo this point, but it's just like

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Speaker 1: you have to protect and prioritize the vulnerable person in

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Speaker 1: this situation. Uh, girlfriend has a life, has years of adulthood,

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Speaker 4: Experience, right, Like, do we break up here on the

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Speaker 4: spot or like, do you like, do you hear yourself? Like,

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Speaker 4: because you're dating this girl for three years, you're like,

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Speaker 3: You try to have an argument with her? Or do

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Speaker 1: I think I, well, yeah, I think you basically say,

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Speaker 1: like listen, if you're gonna say, if I prioritize my daughter.

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Speaker 3: Then you're gonna have to leave. Then that's what it is.

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Speaker 4: Yeahs doors right over there, crazy, don't.

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Speaker 3: Let nor hate you wear the good Lord's pitch. I

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Speaker 3: I think it. I think that's a good one.

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Speaker 2: I think it's she's made it clear over and over

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Speaker 2: don't think there's any point of it going like do

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Speaker 3: She said it over and over and over again. So

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Speaker 3: we done breakup. That's all we're doing.

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Speaker 1: She started crying and saying that I'm not her first priority,

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Speaker 1: and I am sorry, but.

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Speaker 3: I have no choice. I've been in her life ever

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Speaker 1: Not only am I attached to her, I'm also related

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Speaker 1: to her by blood. Now that her father is no more,

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Speaker 1: she's mine and I have to become a parent. It's difficult,

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Speaker 1: but I have no other choice. My girlfriend packed her

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Speaker 1: if we can overcome this. We both decided we will

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Speaker 1: stay in contact to discuss this in the future.

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Speaker 3: But if you want to stay in.

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Speaker 1: Contact with us, if you check the live streams, oh

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Speaker 1: the boys aren't life. If you check and say, oh,

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Speaker 1: where's this post?

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Speaker 3: Where's this video?

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Speaker 1: Go to Spotify, Apple podcasts, wherever you listen, search Okay

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Speaker 1: story Time and you can.

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Speaker 3: Listen to full episodes of stories just like this. They're

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Speaker 3: chocked full to the brim.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what else I'll tell you, but we

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Speaker 1: like another quarter or so left, But anything to add here.

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00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I think we've very much reached the point

444
00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 1: of like we need to break up.

445
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 3: Oh. Yeah, it's like it's like as clear as day.

446
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,440
Speaker 3: It's clear as day. It's like stop point.

447
00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,480
Speaker 2: This would be like if you were in the ocean

448
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 2: right and the water was so clear you could see

449
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 2: all the way down to the bottom of the ocean.

450
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 2: And on the bottom of the ocean there was a

451
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:20,720
Speaker 2: wily coyote style sign that just said.

452
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:24,119
Speaker 3: Break up with her. Ooh, that's how clear.

453
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 2: It is, very clear, very clear, absurdly clear, absurdly clear

454
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 2: at this point, quite literally, absurdly completely.

455
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 3: I agree, lever her leave. Well, let's see if that's

456
00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 3: what Opie does. Okay.

457
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 1: When my niece came back from school, she asked where

458
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,240
Speaker 1: my girlfriend is. I said she went to her parents.

459
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 1: My niece started crying and started blaming herself.

460
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 5: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

461
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 3: No, sweet sweet, sweet baby child.

462
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 1: She said that she is the reason why my life

463
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 1: is falling apart, and she doesn't have any parents. I

464
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 1: guess she picked it up after my girlfriend gave her

465
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 1: the silent treatment.

466
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 3: Ooh.

467
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 1: I comforted her and said that it's not her faults

468
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,440
Speaker 1: and as long as I am with her, she doesn't

469
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 1: have to worry about anything.

470
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 3: There we go, There we go. That's what I'm talking about.

471
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 3: That's how you die. W Dad.

472
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,400
Speaker 1: She is going to stay with me from now on.

473
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 1: She calmed down and I took her out to her

474
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,399
Speaker 1: favorite restaurant. But I didn't feel good at all. I

475
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:29,239
Speaker 1: am happy that I chose my niece over everything else. Uh,

476
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,399
Speaker 1: but I also lost my love, which makes me so

477
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 1: effing angry. And said, yeah, I think you can. You

478
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: can be like, yeah, of course I made the right decision.

479
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: But it still hurts too. You know, any breakup socks, right,

480
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,920
Speaker 1: So yeah, and especially this situation is just like it

481
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 1: just it just feels like crap.

482
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 3: But he made the right decision. He made the right

483
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,640
Speaker 3: decision for sure. Yeah, I agree, you got a leaver.

484
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,199
Speaker 3: Man got a leaver. But we got some relevant comments and.

485
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 2: Just drop her off at the dump, oh, because that's

486
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 2: what she belongs, because.

487
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: You statue shrinking piece of garbage. But we got some

488
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 1: relevant comments. Who might disagree. Oh oh, they might be

489
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: fighting away.

490
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,919
Speaker 3: There are always somebody in neared it. There's always someone.

491
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 3: I love my keyboard Warriors. Hey, is that raw commedge

492
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,199
Speaker 3: to number one? Not the ahle.

493
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 1: I know it doesn't feel like it now, but the

494
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:27,360
Speaker 1: trash just took itself out.

495
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 3: Oh good luck, yo, you stole my whole flow. Hey,

496
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 3: YoY bit your whole flow? Bro word bard for ball?

497
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 3: Oh god?

498
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 1: Uh Opie down voted Okay, we'll see, uh says I

499
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: won't lie. I don't really feel good about how you

500
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 1: are insulting my love by calling her trash, and others

501
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 1: insulting her by calling her names. I also understand what

502
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,479
Speaker 1: she's feeling, but she is oblivious to how I feel.

503
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 1: She isn't trash, just stressed and a bad partner. But

504
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: if I have to choose my partner over my niece,

505
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: I will choose my niece again and again. Don't like

506
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: the way you and others describe her. That's fair, That's fair.

507
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I think he's been he wants to be very.

508
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:11,160
Speaker 2: He's being cordial, but being cordial like a chair.

509
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 3: I have a big butt here, and I know I

510
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,679
Speaker 3: have a big butt. You do You have to right

511
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 3: now tell us about it?

512
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:24,200
Speaker 4: Oh P posted this to the internet. What did you expect?

513
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 4: I mean, you can't fight the internet on something like this.

514
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 4: Your girlfriend is and clear a hole here. You're kind

515
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 4: of defending me to a holary none like to an extent,

516
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:38,120
Speaker 4: but come on.

517
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 2: It's I mean, yeah, it's it's what did you expect?

518
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, like peachy keen on like your girl, like, oh,

519
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 4: that sucks that you have to choose your Yeah, like

520
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 4: come on shea yeah, just says I mean she's kind

521
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 4: of trash, you're like yeah, and the fact that he's

522
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,679
Speaker 4: kind of like, I get it, you love her, but like, also, come.

523
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 3: On, man, yeah, she does suck. She does suck. Sorry,

524
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 3: she sucks. That's true. I think I agree with you.

525
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 3: It's true. Yeah, I agree with my big butt.

526
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 2: I said it first. She belongs in a dumpster, dumpy

527
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 2: dump her stinky dumpy. She is a stinky dumpy and

528
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 2: she belongs with her people.

529
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 1: Oh god, well, Opie responds to the detail of his

530
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend being uncomfortable with the current living situation for

531
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 1: his niece. Opie says, assuming that my girlfriend's main problem

532
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: is that my niece is uh finding comfort by my

533
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 1: side and sleeping next to me, then that is a

534
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: stupid reason to throw the whole relationship away. My niece

535
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 1: is too young and is going through a lot. In time,

536
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 1: she will recover, and as she recovers, I have plans

537
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: to get her into therapy right now. I am too

538
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 1: overwhelmed managing everything. But if that is my girlfriend's only issue,

539
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,439
Speaker 1: we can work through this. But I'm assuming that my

540
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 1: girlfriend wanted me to kick my niece out, which is

541
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: what she said, so we don't even have to assume,

542
00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 1: which is impossible because she's basically my child. Now, I

543
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: imagine saying, kick your kid to the streets. Yay, they're fat,

544
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: that's what she's at fourteen? Yeah, what do you mean?

545
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 3: What do you mean send them to the mind.

546
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 4: In fact, that she's so like the girlfriend is so

547
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 4: like with her chest, like you choose me or her?

548
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: Come on, like, uh, that ain't it, lady, Obi says,

549
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: I guess our priorities change. To be honest, I never

550
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: expected that I would lose my love, but the way

551
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,360
Speaker 1: she's speaking, she doesn't want to be in my niece's life,

552
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: and I will one hundred percent choose my niece over

553
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 1: anything else. I have no choice but to be responsible

554
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: for my niece. After PaperWorks are done, she will officially

555
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 1: become my child. There's only two ways we can go

556
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 1: through with this. Either she is okay with this change,

557
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: or we break up. Unlike her, I don't have a choice.

558
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 1: I will do what's right for my child? Not even

559
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 1: sure if I should call her my niece or my child.

560
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 1: You've earned it, Opie, and I think that's that's you

561
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: are you are, you are father, your her guardian one

562
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 1: hundred percent. Anyway, I should have another honest, open conversation

563
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: with my girlfriend to understand each other and see if

564
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:10,199
Speaker 1: we should part ways. Should he have that combo, Dakota,

565
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 1: tell me, tell me now.

566
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,959
Speaker 3: I think it's already clear. It's clear. We don't need

567
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 3: to talk there. We just need to close the door.

568
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 3: It's different.

569
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: It would be different if she was just like I

570
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 2: just can't see myself like living with and taking care

571
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 2: of a child, that's one thing.

572
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 3: Yes, or I'm scared or overwhelmed.

573
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 2: Right, she's just being like, I we need a bang

574
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 2: more and I hate this stupid kid.

575
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 3: Get out of ease. That's where she went wrong. That's

576
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 3: where it's all wrong.

577
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 1: That ain't his sweeth hats rotten, rotten to the core

578
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: like a bad freakin' apple.

579
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 3: Which she is. Shout out Charlie XCX.

580
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: Hashtag brat summer in the winter anyways. Brinter bnter commentar

581
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: number two says it sounds like your priorities are correct.

582
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 1: I don't think you're going to end up happy with

583
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 1: anyone else who doesn't share it, or at least understand

584
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: and accept these priorities. Opie says. I know that I'm

585
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 1: doing the right thing by taking care of my niece.

586
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: Even if I am her uncle uncle, I am her parent.

587
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 1: Now I will prioritize her well being over my own.

588
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: But the thing is, it's kind of difficult for me

589
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: taking care of my niece, losing my brother, taking care

590
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 1: of his belongings, going through legal and different PaperWorks, and

591
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: on top of that, I broke up with the woman

592
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: I was in love with. I didn't like the way

593
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: people were calling her names, but I guess they are right.

594
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: My girlfriend didn't support me. No matter how many excuses

595
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: I make for her. She emotionally abused my niece by

596
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: giving her the silence trip.

597
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 3: I know true.

598
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: I think I will just focus on my niece's well

599
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 1: being and put everything behind me. She comes first and

600
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: always did before my girlfriend, heck, even my brother. I

601
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: will just put my hesitation behind and care for the

602
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: child I am responsible of. And that is a clap

603
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: worthy ending to that story.

604
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 3: W Dad, W Dad all the way. Indeed, the father

605
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 3: through and through through and through father through. But that's it,

606
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 3: that's all that story that is. That is the end

607
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 3: of that story.

608
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 2: It's the end of that. The AD's the end. But

609
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 2: are you gonna take there?

610
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 3: How are you feeling?

611
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 2: Are you passing the my throat?

612
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 3: Let's have you. Let's go back and forth.

613
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 2: Let's go, hey, Kean, can you pass me the lip grease.

614
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 3: The old lip greaser?

615
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 4: All the lip grease got a wet mall whistle. You're

616
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 4: just mad because it's accurate lip oil, good old.

617
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 3: It's not oil though it's solid. Is grease solid? Yeah?

618
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 3: Is oil solid? Sometimes?

619
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? When it's grease? Dude, I used have you guys

620
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 2: used actual?

621
00:29:55,240 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 3: Like dud y'all did see that?

622
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 2: The chapstick just went on, but it bounced off a light,

623
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 2: off the monitor, off the automan, off the sword, into

624
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 2: my hand like truly, that was a once in a

625
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 2: lifetime moment right there, and we almost had it on camera,

626
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 2: you know, I saw it. There were lots of cameras around.

627
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 3: I saw it. I saw it.

628
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: I tried lip actual lip oil. Have you guys had

629
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: like literal lip oil? You think it would be like

630
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: like very oily, but it's extremely sticky. Oh really, yeah,

631
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: I used I used naimas she put it on my lip.

632
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 3: Lip sap. Yeah, it's like lip sap.

633
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: That's a perfect description on like lip glue like yeah, yeah,

634
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: like glue like sap, more like sap, less less strong

635
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: than glue.

636
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 3: But anyways, random.

637
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 2: Chat, tell me that's not a grease in a tube

638
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 2: in stick form for your lips.

639
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 3: No, it's lip grease.

640
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 2: No, I'm sorry, I'm sorry if it's too much up Jesus,

641
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 2: where do you throw? I speak exactly what I felt

642
00:30:59,160 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 2: when you threw it me.

643
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 4: At least I threw it in yourcity, right, all right,

644
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 4: agree with me.

645
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 2: Let's go lip loop. It's called lip gloss. People are

646
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 2: saying that you put lip gloss on me. Yeah, the

647
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 2: lip basically is that what lip oil is?

648
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 3: She said Sophia count I feel like she said, I

649
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 3: believe that it is called lip oil by some people.

650
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: But it's basically love class in a way more sticky

651
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 1: though lip grease. Anyways, Uh, Sheila, thanks it a five

652
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: bucks usd Any day I get to see Dakota's smile

653
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: is a good day, but today is extra special because

654
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: it's my b.

655
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 3: Day with the best stream. Happy birthday, she loves me, birthday.

656
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 2: She looks today is your birthday?

657
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 3: You said nights things about me.

658
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: Happy birthday, birthday everyone, Happy birthday. Yeah, I want to

659
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: see the chat. Flooded candles and happy birthday wishes for

660
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: Sheila and Emon.

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Speaker 3: We read that one shout as you demon. Did you

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Speaker 3: like your honor?

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Speaker 1: Honor me, honor me, Nazi sin LBC. Thanks for the

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Speaker 1: two seventy nine Canadian bucks. My ex used to call

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Speaker 1: it lip grease.

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Speaker 3: He hated it.

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Speaker 1: Shut out your x vix mix. Thanks for the five

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Speaker 1: bucks on the chut. I will always choose my nephews

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Speaker 1: over my partner. I helped to raise them, and the

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Speaker 1: youngest is twenty five. Absolute facts, Absolute facts.

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Speaker 2: I feel your vic what's funnier than twenty four? Twenty five?

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Speaker 3: Man mellow sixty eight fifteen. Thanks for the two bucks.

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Speaker 3: Duck hold up, please yell at Lindsay.

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Speaker 2: Lindsey, Hey, get in on me. Hello, Lindsey, what are

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Speaker 2: you doing?

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Speaker 3: You need to do the other thing. Go do that

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Speaker 3: other thing now, Lindsey. Yeah, there you have it, uh,

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Speaker 3: tinam We already read that, but we just got one more.

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Speaker 3: Don Why did you tell me to yell at Lindsay Right,

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Speaker 3: uh t X fan the old girl. It's Texas fan.

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Speaker 3: We old girl, Texas fan.

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Speaker 1: Where Old girl thanks for the twenty five bucks usd

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Speaker 1: on the tip link where we saved that sweet.

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Speaker 3: And there we go. That's all donus.

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Speaker 2: There you go, Lindsey, drink water, Lindsay. Lindsay responded to

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Speaker 2: my question of why did you tell.

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Speaker 3: Me you yell at you? She just I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Please tell me to drink water. To drink water.

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Speaker 2: I want everyone in the stream and drink water now immediately.

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Speaker 3: Do you hear that.

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Speaker 6: You're freaking sick os. That's hydracious slashes of ship. You

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Speaker 6: need to transfer that into your organ house your body.

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Speaker 6: Drink water.

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Speaker 3: Nice.

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Speaker 2: I hope they can hear the glugs here? Can you

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Speaker 2: hear my glugs?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let me hear your no glugs? My god, shudder

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Speaker 3: it over the That was a fat one, bro was

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Ew yeah, that was that literally probably sounded like.

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Speaker 3: Person glug. Oh my god.

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00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 2: That that really is what the sound effect I think

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Speaker 2: it sounded like in the movie was drinking blood.

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Speaker 4: That was pretty good. It sounded like man uh I shrieked. Okay,

705
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 4: I'm not a fan of scary movie. I shrieked, it

706
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Speaker 4: got me. I was told there's like, oh, there's three

707
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 4: jump scares. It was kind of spoiling for people. But

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Speaker 4: there's more than three drump scares.

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Speaker 2: Are yes, yes, this guy, this guy's scared of the

710
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Speaker 2: scary movie. He's not scared of the ghost that lived

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Speaker 2: in his bedroom.

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Speaker 3: That's backwards. Sometimes you gotta go backwards to go forwards.

713
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 3: Sometimes you gotta close the door to open a window.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, sometimes you gotta read the next story. Ay, you're right,

715
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Speaker 2: all right, before you got to me, I mean you

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Speaker 2: have the power.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, friend says, I want to hear key on

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Speaker 4: read a story.

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Speaker 3: Go on the clips share you want to read a story.

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Speaker 3: Na's okay, you don't want that.

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Speaker 2: I asked.

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Speaker 3: There's there are there's there are clips. He's on there.

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Speaker 3: His his face is splattered all over the clips channel.

724
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 3: Hey guys splattered, It's all over, okay, short time clips splatter?

725
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Speaker 3: Can I actually freaking? He told me the other one?

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Speaker 2: Please, this is my real hat. The other ones the

727
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Speaker 2: the prop. This one is the real one. I don't know.

728
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Speaker 3: You can tell the difference. They're identical but not same,

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Speaker 3: same but different. The same but different. Okay said, that was.

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Speaker 2: One of the funniest movies I ever saw. When it

731
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Speaker 2: came out, everyone was laughing because we were like, are

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Speaker 2: we gonna get ward as a war gonna start for

733
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Speaker 2: this movie?

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Speaker 3: Anyway? I practically raised.

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Speaker 4: Wait, someone says the thumb. Ezekiel says, the thumbnail from

736
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Speaker 4: your clip from earlier looks suggestive.

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Speaker 2: O oh, he's probably just being cheeky, Ezekiel. Drop the link.

738
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Speaker 2: Ezekiel will be the judge of that.

739
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Speaker 3: Yeah, drop the link so everyone can watch me read.

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Speaker 3: Drop that link. Baby, Oh, he says.

741
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Speaker 2: Kitty Perry is my number one fan. All right, ladies,

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Speaker 2: h you heard it.

743
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Speaker 4: Competition, people are saying, people are saying nice things about me.

744
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Speaker 3: I have a little dimple tube. Al right, go ahead, Okay.

745
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 2: I practically raised my stepdaughter, but now she can't stand me.

746
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 3: Said, you took the you got it, You took it

747
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Speaker 3: right out of my mouth. Oh story over, so said,

748
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Speaker 3: there it is. It's over.

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Speaker 2: I forty five female, have been with my husband for

750
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Speaker 2: fifteen years, married for thirteen. His daughter started living with

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Speaker 2: us part time, and I basically raised her and spent

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Speaker 2: as much time with.

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Speaker 3: Her as her biological mother. By the way. This comes from.

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Speaker 2: User full folk Imperialism, and you can submit your stories

755
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Speaker 2: on the r slash okay story time subreddit.

756
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Speaker 3: So when you said full, you almost had me there, Folk,

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Speaker 3: I know, but he said full full he said folk.

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Speaker 3: He did good boy? Uh you did, good boy? I

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Speaker 3: mean Stan who said Stan?

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Speaker 2: Who metal alchemists? There it is full metal alchemist. My

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Speaker 2: husband and I had conversations where he convinced me not

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Speaker 2: to have kids on our own, as I should consider

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Speaker 2: his daughter as mine, and I was happy to because

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Speaker 2: I started loving this girl immediately. I also liked the

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Speaker 2: quote every other week parents role, as it gave me

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Speaker 2: an opportunity to be a good parent when she was here,

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Speaker 2: and also arranging my workload and business travels when she

768
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Speaker 2: was not with us. The first five or six years

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Speaker 2: together were a blessing. I loved spending time with her,

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Speaker 2: teaching her things, brushing her hair, watching movies together. As

771
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Speaker 2: cooking is my love language, I would always plan the

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Speaker 2: best meals for her and her dad and we'd cook together.

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Speaker 2: And as I'm quite a school nerd, I was the

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Speaker 2: one to take care of all of her homework. Oh

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Speaker 2: don't do that, Let the child do its homework.

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Speaker 3: Let the AI do the homework. I mean at this point, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie like I'm not gonna encourage my

778
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Speaker 3: kids to do it, but I'll be like, Yo, you

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Speaker 3: know I would have done the same. Yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 3: I can't even fight you. I mean, honestly, you gotta

781
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Speaker 3: tell your.

782
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Speaker 2: Kids like I would use all of the tools at

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Speaker 2: my disposal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta like slut you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: By the time they're in school, dude, AI is gonna

786
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Speaker 2: be Dude, the future's nuts.

787
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Speaker 1: I answered my driver's license test completely with Yahoo answers.

788
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Speaker 3: I'm not joking. That's horrifying, Florida. This is America. Oh,

789
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Speaker 3: this is Florida. I hope you can answer it without

790
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Speaker 3: Yahoo answers now.

791
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Speaker 2: To be fair, so many questions on the stupid driving

792
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Speaker 2: test don't matter.

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Speaker 3: Hey they don't.

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm sorry, Okay, I've just had to.

795
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Speaker 3: My husband feel like a spray bottle for you. Yes,

796
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Speaker 3: I need one.

797
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Speaker 2: And as I'm quite a school nerd, I was the

798
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Speaker 2: one to take care of all her homework. My husband

799
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Speaker 2: would drive her to school in the morning and I

800
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Speaker 2: would get her out, make dinner, do homework, and then

801
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Speaker 2: go back to my computer to continue working. It really

802
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 2: sounds like she's doing the homework for this kid, and

803
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 2: I think that's not smart. On weekends, I'd arrange for

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Speaker 2: family activities, go shopping with her, and always push my

805
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Speaker 2: husband and his daughter to have some quality one on

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Speaker 2: one time. I'd take her from time to time to

807
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Speaker 2: my charity activities or bring her to work when exceptionally

808
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 2: the sitter was on sick leave. Husband and I shared

809
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Speaker 2: costs equally at home. Also, my parents that we visited

810
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 2: during vacation loved her and would spoil her as their

811
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Speaker 2: own granddaughter. She loved them back and even learned some

812
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Speaker 2: Spanish as my parents live in a Spanish speaking country.

813
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 2: I really thought we had a great relationship. When she

814
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 2: hit thirteen, her whole demeanor changed, and little by little

815
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Speaker 2: as she really became a very mean and rude teenager.

816
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: I took some distances and my husband hired someone to

817
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Speaker 2: take care of the homework, as I did not want

818
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Speaker 2: to add that extra tension between us.

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Speaker 3: I still did my.

820
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Speaker 2: Best to be a good parent, but still serious about

821
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 2: her education and values. It was never too bad, but

822
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Speaker 2: she would randomly say hurtful things for no reason, like

823
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Speaker 2: you know you'll never be on my mom right ouch.

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Speaker 3: Ooh, Glula dah Ugh, it's like most Faratzu again exactly, Oh.

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Speaker 2: I'm dead, to which I would answer, I know, but

826
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Speaker 2: do you know that I will still always consider you

827
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Speaker 2: and love you as my child? Ooh, nice response, though,

828
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 2: that's a sweet baby response. She would also regularly talk back,

829
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 2: criticize almost everything I would say or do, ignore me,

830
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Speaker 2: and slam doors.

831
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Speaker 3: Sounds like a teenager during years.

832
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Speaker 2: During these years, I felt bullied in my own home,

833
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 2: but tried to focus on something else, as we also had,

834
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,279
Speaker 2: once or twice a year, some good moments where she

835
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:21,439
Speaker 2: would come to tell me about a boy she liked,

836
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 2: asked me advice on choosing clothes, et cetera. What hurt

837
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 2: me the most is that she completely erased from her

838
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 2: memory anything that we had before. Do you remember that

839
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 2: time we went to this museum? Do you remember when

840
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 2: we saw dolphins on our boat trip? No?

841
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:36,959
Speaker 3: Nothing, she says, she.

842
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 2: Doesn't recall any of the things we did together. I

843
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 2: even once told her that her Spanish accent was really

844
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 2: great and that I was happy she got to learn

845
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 2: it with locals at a young age. But she totally

846
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 2: dismissed it. I never learned Spanish with you. I only

847
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Speaker 2: learned it in school.

848
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Speaker 1: She's just lying to get your goat's. She doesn't not

849
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:57,320
Speaker 1: remember it. She's just being petty. She's being a teenager.

850
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Speaker 3: She's being a teenager. She's being a mean teenager. It happens.

851
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 3: It happened, dang. Regardless.

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00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 2: All these years, I kept making sure to cook her

853
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 2: favorite meals, choosing nice gifts. I knew she'd like redecorating

854
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:14,280
Speaker 2: her room to her taste, driving her where she needed

855
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,439
Speaker 2: to go when her father couldn't. At eighteen years old,

856
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 2: she had a big fight with her father. I was

857
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 2: in another room and I heard her screaming how much

858
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 2: she hated me and how much I basically ruined everything

859
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,280
Speaker 2: and took any joy from her life.

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Speaker 3: Damn.

861
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 2: Her father kept asking, what has she done to you?

862
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 2: But she answer, yeah, well she did all my homework,

863
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,839
Speaker 2: and she always cooks, and she cleans my room, and

864
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 2: she also red does the fun shuey.

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Speaker 3: But like she like when she like drives, she like

866
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 3: uses when she like drives me everywhere that I need

867
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 3: to go, like when you can't do it, she like

868
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:53,919
Speaker 3: used the turn segnal. It's like annoying way.

869
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 2: Or she's like so cringe, dude, it's like cringing real,

870
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 2: I just can't stand it.

871
00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 3: She's cringe.

872
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, Hearing that shattered my heart into pieces. My

873
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 2: whole body was aching like I had been hit by

874
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 2: a ton of bricks. Hearing her words, I felt the

875
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 2: most pain I've ever experienced in my whole life. When

876
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 2: my husband found me after she left, I was on

877
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 2: the floor crying like a baby. For two days. I

878
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 2: couldn't leave my bed literally. After that, I suggested to

879
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,840
Speaker 2: my husband we should separate at least for some time

880
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 2: because I didn't feel like I belonged in this family. Dude,

881
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:41,760
Speaker 2: this girl's destroying you. He refused this, but he promised

882
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 2: to go see a therapist for the two of them.

883
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 2: After that, my daughter in law decided to live full

884
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 2: time with her mother. Husband and his daughter went to

885
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 2: family therapy, and she never explained the reason why she

886
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 2: hated me so much. The only thing my husband reported

887
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,800
Speaker 2: back is that she felt I was trying to replace

888
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 2: her real mother on my side. I also went to

889
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 2: therapy because that day broke me for good. I really

890
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 2: felt like my whole life was a lie. My therapist

891
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 2: helped me go through a morning process trying to accept

892
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 2: my own choices and live with the fact that I

893
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 2: had no child. Wow, I mean, yeah, that's that's a

894
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 2: lot to analyze. But it's like, hey, you're doing the

895
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:23,840
Speaker 2: hard work.

896
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 3: Cause it's true. It's like that's actually not your kid.

897
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like if she, if she accepts that, it's

898
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 1: like it's literally like always said mourning. But it's like, Okay,

899
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: on the other side of that, at least you don't

900
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: because right now she's constantly getting disappointed. Yeah, at least

901
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: you won't have this constant disappointment just thrown in your

902
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:43,360
Speaker 1: face every single second.

903
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 2: You can temper your expectations, expectations or what lead us

904
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 2: to disappointment.

905
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 1: What is the I'm curious on the parents here. Where

906
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: is the line where it's like from terrible teenagers or

907
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 1: just you're a terrible person, you know what I mean?

908
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 2: Like when I think a sixteen around sixteen seventeen is

909
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 2: when like the the line between like all right, you're

910
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:13,280
Speaker 2: just like a oo almost you're just here is trouble

911
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 2: trouble to like all right, you're gonna be in trouble

912
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 2: if you don't change. Yeah, Like or you know, you're

913
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 2: you're troublesome, You're it's troubling.

914
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:26,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, Because like I get to a degree, I could

915
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, this kid probably she wants her mom

916
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: and dad together, you know, she just wants like the

917
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 1: old parents back. But the lengths and how far this

918
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 1: kid is going is is evil.

919
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 2: Well, it sounds like the fight with her dad. It's

920
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 2: like she didn't say any of that. I mean, it

921
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 2: was loud and refer to hear, but it's not like

922
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 2: she screamed it at the stepmother. That is true, But

923
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 2: at the same time, it's like she said it, she

924
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 2: said it regardless. So anyway, all right, So since then,

925
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 2: she comes over for dinner with us once or twice

926
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 2: a month on her own. She also once reached out

927
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 2: to me to ask help with her university work. She

928
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:03,840
Speaker 2: stayed with us two weeks so I could help and

929
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 2: review the end to year project she was working on.

930
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 2: Her relationship with her father improved a lot these past years,

931
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 2: and now they are very close. I'm very happy about this,

932
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 2: and I will always find a way to give them

933
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 2: time to be just the two of them when she visits,

934
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 2: as they are having a good quality time together. My

935
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 2: husband now wants me to spend more time with her

936
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 2: and is now frustrated that I do not want to.

937
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 2: What my husband doesn't see is that my situation with

938
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 2: his daughter never improved as we did not live together.

939
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: There are no more fights, but I still know how

940
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 2: much she hates me. To give you some examples, just

941
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 2: last Thanksgiving, while we were all at my in laws,

942
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 2: my stepdaughter would never talk to me, roll her eyes

943
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,720
Speaker 2: literally every time I speak, refuse to say good morning

944
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 2: to me. If I insist, she would always answer, oh,

945
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 2: I didn't hear you, exactly like she did as a teenager.

946
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,280
Speaker 2: Refuse to touch anything I would touch first, and would

947
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 2: not let me even set the table or at least

948
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 2: not her plate or glass.

949
00:47:59,080 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 3: What is this?

950
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 2: If my husband's family is nice to me or congratulates

951
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 2: me for my work achievements or my cooking, she would

952
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,959
Speaker 2: always become very silent, look annoyed, or even leave the room.

953
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 2: She makes snarky comments and mocks me every occasion. She

954
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 2: has always small things that could easily pass.

955
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 3: As oh, it's just a joke, just a joke.

956
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 2: She refuses to eat anything I cook, saying it's not

957
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 2: to her taste, even if I sometimes spot her discreetly

958
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 2: eating it later.

959
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 3: So what happened?

960
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 2: When did she decide to hold the most petty like

961
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 2: potential and when did she decide she hates you?

962
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 1: I think when she literally wasn't her mom, Like I

963
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: feel like it was from the jump of like, Okay,

964
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: my parents are separated.

965
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:42,919
Speaker 3: I want my real mom. I want my mom.

966
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't know if she admit this post.

967
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: I want my mom and dad together. So I'm just

968
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 1: gonna hate you. I'm gonna I'm gonna.

969
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 2: Try to hate you out of you existing and existing

970
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 2: as my like as a as a step mom figure.

971
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

972
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:59,439
Speaker 2: So the the thirteen year old brain hit and it said,

973
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 2: it's not your mom.

974
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 3: She sucks it locked in? Yeah, it locked in.

975
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 4: Do you think like a friend or like, because when

976
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 4: it comes to like being a teenager like thirteen, yeah,

977
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 4: like friends kind of like start putting that nonsense in

978
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 4: your head.

979
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's not thirteen anymore now she's eighteen.

980
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: Can we be honest when we were the three of

981
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 1: us were teenagers, and then the people we knew, right,

982
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:30,840
Speaker 1: I feel like the vast majority of people I knew

983
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: as a teenager from thirteen to eighteen would not behave

984
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: like this.

985
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,280
Speaker 3: Now. Some people you got your your your wackos.

986
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,360
Speaker 1: But I feel like, yeah, I feel like a person

987
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 1: who isn't actually an angry, bitter person at heart.

988
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 3: Like I don't think it's just like a phase.

989
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 2: I think, well, they just sort of going through a lot.

990
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 2: You got the separation, it's true, like everybody, it's true

991
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 2: different and it's like, you know, she's got it, she's

992
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:57,399
Speaker 2: got a hang ups man.

993
00:49:57,719 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 3: True.

994
00:49:58,200 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 2: I don't know what to say. I know a lot

995
00:49:59,920 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 2: of the teenagers who went through a lot of crazy insanity.

996
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 2: It's like, I'll be like you for You is such

997
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 2: a dumb show because it's not realistic. And then I'll

998
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 2: think of some people I knew grown up, and I'm like, wait,

999
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 2: wait a minute, it is which is bad? It's really bad,

1000
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:14,280
Speaker 2: And I fear for all of the children.

1001
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,280
Speaker 3: Any for gen Z. Pray for gen Z, Pray for Geno,

1002
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 3: Pray for gen Beta. God, pray for gen Beta.

1003
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 2: Although my husband saw how my mental health suffered from

1004
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 2: this episode a few years ago, he doesn't seem to

1005
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 2: understand why I don't want to spend more time with

1006
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 2: his daughter. He never sees all the attitudes I see

1007
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 2: and he says it's just me over analyzing everything, but

1008
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 2: I know I'm not, and I'm really at a point

1009
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 2: where I don't know what to do and how to

1010
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 2: make him understand. Here is some additional info. I want

1011
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 2: to thank you all for the support and even the

1012
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 2: harsh words about my responsibility. I realized that in my

1013
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 2: post I only focused on me and did not tell

1014
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 2: you enough about my husband and the bio mom. First,

1015
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 2: I will answer a question that came up in the comments.

1016
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 2: My husband and his ex were separated before we met.

1017
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 2: He had a few girlfriends, but I was the first

1018
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 2: serious one and the only one he introduced to his daughter.

1019
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 2: Second question I saw in the comments. Yes, we also

1020
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 2: went to family therapy, the three of us sometimes when

1021
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,720
Speaker 2: she was fourteen, but my stepdaughter would be very silent

1022
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 2: when I was there, or she would cry, which was

1023
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 2: extremely painful to watch. That is where we were advised

1024
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 2: it would be better to go without me. Up till now,

1025
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 2: I have never received any explanation on the why she

1026
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 2: hates me. The only thing, as I said before, was

1027
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 2: me trying too hard to replace her mom. I never

1028
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 2: felt I was doing that, but I certainly was trying

1029
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 2: to be a good parent. I also feel I need

1030
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 2: to clarify a few things, as a lot of people

1031
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 2: here were mad at my husband, and I need to

1032
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 2: tell you he is a good person, but he's not perfect,

1033
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 2: because who is. My husband is not really the caring kind.

1034
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 2: He's unable to plan anything for others if he's not

1035
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 2: reminded to do so.

1036
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 3: But he has many other good sides.

1037
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: The I'm sorry, this is a classic like, look, my

1038
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: husband is a great guy, but he's terrible at this,

1039
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: terrible with this, terrible that in peril at that.

1040
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 3: But he's a great guy. My husband's great.

1041
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:15,759
Speaker 2: He literally can't think of another person besides himself. But

1042
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 2: there's sides to him that are great him. Yeah, like

1043
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 2: his left side is really his best side, and and

1044
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 2: the side of him that doesn't care about anyone else

1045
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 2: is probably the worst side.

1046
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all the sides. Uh.

1047
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:35,879
Speaker 2: He is very generous with his money to everyone, his

1048
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 2: family and friends. Oh so he's a showboat he's trustworthy, No,

1049
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,120
Speaker 2: he's not. And he is the funniest person I know.

1050
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 3: I bet.

1051
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,839
Speaker 2: He lights up a room when he enters. Oh what's that?

1052
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 2: The darkness is here? Oh sorry, I'll stop being.

1053
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 3: Controlled he turns off the lights so he can.

1054
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 2: He turns off the lights and he and everyone's like,

1055
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 2: oh my god, look at look at Jimmy.

1056
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 3: He's ambiently radiating life. Have you been eating nuclear fuel rods?

1057
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 2: Jimmy, Yeah, Jimmy, we told you to stop doing that.

1058
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,839
Speaker 3: Ah.

1059
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 2: I just wanted to glow in the dark. Also, my

1060
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 2: husband did not.

1061
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:21,800
Speaker 3: Sorry.

1062
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 2: Also, my husband did take care of his daughter on

1063
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,399
Speaker 2: certain aspects I could not as I had no legal

1064
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 2: rights to her, Like he would attend to all the

1065
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 2: teachers meetings with her mother, and he would also take

1066
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 2: care of all things that relate to healthcare. My husband

1067
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,319
Speaker 2: is grateful for everything I did, and he always acknowledges

1068
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 2: how he would have never been able to raise his

1069
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,279
Speaker 2: daughter if it were not for me doing the biggest part.

1070
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 2: Also during the teenage years, he always had my back

1071
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 2: when we had words with my stepdaughter, and that is

1072
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 2: also the reason why I guess his daughter was mean

1073
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 2: to both of us, accusing us of siding against her,

1074
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,479
Speaker 2: and these fights we had it was never her big,

1075
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 2: always just stupid teenage things. The main topic was me

1076
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 2: asking her for respect to me and to the house rules,

1077
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 2: like not insulting me.

1078
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 3: Screaming at me, throwing.

1079
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 2: A tantrum because of little chores like emptying the dishwasher

1080
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 2: or cleaning her room, or having a curfew when she

1081
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,840
Speaker 2: went out to a party. Regarding not having kids of

1082
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 2: my own, that is probably the hardest part, and I

1083
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 2: have to admit that I have some anger towards my

1084
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 2: husband about this, especially as I terminated too pregnancies early

1085
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,279
Speaker 2: in our marriage. Both pregnancies happened when I was on

1086
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 2: birth control. However, this is a topic I worked on

1087
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 2: with my therapist, and I have to accept that I'm

1088
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:37,360
Speaker 2: the one responsible for my choices. I was an insult

1089
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 2: and I should have fought more for it if I

1090
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 2: wanted it. I need to own my mistakes. Although at

1091
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 2: the time I was under the illusion I already had

1092
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 2: a daughter and I did love her from the bottom

1093
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:47,879
Speaker 2: of my heart.

1094
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 3: Dang, that is oh my god.

1095
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: Like it sounds like early in the relationship she was

1096
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 1: on birth control and he was like, hey, not ready yet, like,

1097
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 1: you know, don't have the baby now, and she's like, well,

1098
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 1: at least I have stepdaughter that is my daughter.

1099
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:06,480
Speaker 2: Hey. It's like, well, that's I feel like she's my daughter.

1100
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 3: But nope, and then she grows up.

1101
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 2: And goes, you're literally not my mom. Shut up, you

1102
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:11,959
Speaker 2: are cringe.

1103
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 3: And I guess she can't have children. Now, I guess

1104
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 3: she's too old or something.

1105
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 2: I would assume like, yeah, that's probably that's probably where

1106
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 2: it's at.

1107
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:22,320
Speaker 3: Damn, well, this is awful.

1108
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 2: Regarding the biological mother, yes she might have or probably

1109
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:30,480
Speaker 2: spoke ill about me, but I absolutely have no proof

1110
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:33,359
Speaker 2: of that. I always kept a cordial relationship with her.

1111
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 2: He would meet quite regularly when she came to pick

1112
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 2: up our girl, and I would always invite her for

1113
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 2: a coffee and a piece of cake. If her daughter

1114
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:42,879
Speaker 2: was with us when it was Mother's Day or when

1115
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,240
Speaker 2: it was her birthday, I'd always buy her a bouquet

1116
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,840
Speaker 2: of flowers, and my husband would take his daughter to

1117
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:49,320
Speaker 2: spend some time with her mom.

1118
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 3: Once.

1119
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,840
Speaker 2: I remember once, I remember my stepdaughter was with me

1120
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 2: the whole week as my husband was on a business trip,

1121
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 2: and the bio mom told me she was by her own.

1122
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 2: So I cooked a nice meal and I did her

1123
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 2: over to our place and I went to buy her

1124
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 2: a gift with my stepdaughter. She brought the cake and

1125
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 2: we had a nice, slightly awkward, but overall nice time.

1126
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 3: Just the three of us.

1127
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 2: The only incident I can recall is her once asking me,

1128
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 2: can you please stop making homemade meals as my daughters

1129
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 2: keep comparing our food and now refuses to eat my

1130
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:22,480
Speaker 2: frozen dinners.

1131
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:24,240
Speaker 3: Oh.

1132
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 1: So she was sticking her nose up to and being like,

1133
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: oh every time someone comments their food or was like

1134
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 1: time about her food.

1135
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 3: And she literally won't even eat what you make her

1136
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 3: because her food was that good. Yeah, I mean, dude,

1137
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 3: what a hater? Come on? Man.

1138
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,840
Speaker 2: I laughed it up politely like it was a compliment,

1139
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,800
Speaker 2: and it ended there. I also remember pushing my husband

1140
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 2: for some medical consultation when I thought my stepdaughter needed

1141
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 2: to see an orthopedic surgeon or a dentist or a

1142
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 2: child psychologist.

1143
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:02,279
Speaker 3: I know my Luckily, I know a guy who specializes

1144
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:07,360
Speaker 3: in all three. Aha. H So my brain made that

1145
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 3: joke and I could not say it.

1146
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 2: I know my husband and his ax had words about that,

1147
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,759
Speaker 2: as she did not agree. I ended up being right

1148
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 2: about the need I suspected each time, which might have

1149
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 2: upset her.

1150
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 3: But these are very significant.

1151
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 2: Sorry, but these are very insignificant moments over a fifteen

1152
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 2: year time period. I might also add that the bio.

1153
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 2: Mom never had a serious boyfriend after she split up

1154
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 2: with my husband. She doesn't have many close people around her,

1155
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 2: and her whole life revolves around her daughter. And I

1156
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 2: know for sure she loves her more than life, which

1157
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 2: is why it's hard for me to think she would

1158
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 2: sabotage our relationship as it would be counterproductive for her daughter,

1159
00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 2: because despite everything, I really think I was a good

1160
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 2: caring parent and I have been a great academic support

1161
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 2: to her daughter through the years.

1162
00:57:53,160 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 7: Oh holy oh, and there she blows yes, Hannah dropping

1163
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 7: a ninety six piece chicken nugget, and the.

1164
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 3: Stream continues.

1165
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 2: Thirteen minutes, thirty minutes.

1166
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:16,720
Speaker 3: Fun.

1167
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 2: One last thing I would like to add. All these

1168
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 2: years and even now, sometimes my stepdaughter would be very

1169
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 2: nice to me. It would last a few minutes. He

1170
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:33,920
Speaker 2: would talk about science, as she's interested in this topic,

1171
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 2: or I would share experience about my charity work, or

1172
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 2: she would help or she would need help with something

1173
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 2: like fixing her dress and would ask nicely and thank

1174
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 2: me afterward. But every time that would happen, she would

1175
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 2: always immediately be even meaner right after.

1176
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 3: It is really.

1177
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 2: Weird, like if she forgot to be rude to me,

1178
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 2: for a second and then just remember that she has

1179
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:58,040
Speaker 2: to and proceeded to overcorrect her attitude. I have no

1180
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 2: explanation for this. It's either that or she's like mind

1181
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 2: gaming you. She's she's either like literally forgetting that she's

1182
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 2: supposed to be rude, or she's like, oh, this will

1183
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 2: really throw her for a loop.

1184
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I kind of don't. I love you don't trust her? Yeah,

1185
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:15,919
Speaker 3: I like, you don't trustter, I wouldn't. Well.

1186
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 2: The problem now is that my husband wants us to

1187
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 2: all be united. He wants us to be all together

1188
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 2: in these big family events as a perfect family picture.

1189
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 2: I asked him after Thanksgiving if he noticed how his

1190
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 2: daughter treated me during that week, and he was totally

1191
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 2: oblivious of it. He loves his daughter, and I love

1192
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 2: the fact that he does. But I am done loving her.

1193
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 2: I have no hate in my heart. I really went

1194
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 2: through a grieving process to get myself out of a

1195
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 2: severe depression, and playing a new role is just now

1196
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 2: impossible for me. I just don't want to be bullied

1197
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 2: or feel uncomfortable, and I do not want to be

1198
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 2: forced to spend time with someone who so soh obviously

1199
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:05,080
Speaker 2: despises everything about me and we have an update.

1200
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean your thoughts John before we get into

1201
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 3: the update, or.

1202
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:15,360
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, just what a process OP has

1203
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: got to go through, and how fair she is, Like,

1204
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I would understand if she was like, listen,

1205
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 1: it's not right to be mad at a child. But yo,

1206
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like, I'm kind of her, you know,

1207
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: But she's like, I don't love her because again, like

1208
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 1: I I think it's the process of like if I

1209
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:37,040
Speaker 1: see her as a daughter, I will constantly be disappointed.

1210
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 1: So I can't love her as a daughter, Like I

1211
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 1: literally have to like view her as this like other

1212
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 1: separate entity to be able to just like live my

1213
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: life and not constantly be.

1214
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 2: To have this semblance of good mental health. Also because

1215
01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 2: that was definitely a big point in her life. Dude

1216
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 2: wanting a kid.

1217
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 1: Huge And yeah, just so many red flags about the husband.

1218
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 1: And I think the uh, the thing about him being oblivious. Yes,

1219
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: sometimes people do truly are just like ignorant and oblivious

1220
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 1: to something, but they've had so many therapy sessions and

1221
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 1: everything else. I don't think he can play the ignorance

1222
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 1: card anymore. I think if he was, if he was

1223
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 1: being a active partner, he would be like, Okay, I

1224
01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 1: maybe I'm not naturally observant. I need to lean in

1225
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 1: to make sure I'm noticing whenever my wife is these

1226
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:32,320
Speaker 1: moments happen. So I don't think he can play that

1227
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:34,919
Speaker 1: card anymore. Yeah, it is true, lost it it is.

1228
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 3: True he should know. Hello everyone, Bye.

1229
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 2: I took a few days to reflect on all your

1230
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 2: comments and decided to have a serious.

1231
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 3: Conversation with my husband. Oh.

1232
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 2: I know many of you wanted me to ditch him

1233
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 2: or blame him for robbing me from having my own kids,

1234
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 2: and I somehow do. But I also have to acknowledge

1235
01:01:57,040 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 2: my responsibility for that. It's my fault to have stood

1236
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 2: up for myself in that moment and took the easy

1237
01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 2: road of letting someone else decide for me. Our marriage

1238
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 2: is not perfect, but I still love him and wanted

1239
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 2: to find a way we could continue living together without

1240
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:15,080
Speaker 2: having to add the extra stress. His daughter Mia brings,

1241
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 2: this is how it went. We need to have a

1242
01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 2: serious conversation. Do you remember when we came back from

1243
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving and when I asked you if you noticed me

1244
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 2: as attitude towards me and you said.

1245
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 3: No, no, what do you mean? No?

1246
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 2: You did not ask me if I noticed her attitude.

1247
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:38,440
Speaker 2: You asked me if I noticed how much she hated you?

1248
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 3: Hum, brother, what's the difference.

1249
01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:45,800
Speaker 2: Well, I did notice a few things, but it doesn't

1250
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 2: mean she hates you. It's complicated. Listen, I'm done playing

1251
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 2: with words. I need you to be honest with me.

1252
01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 2: What have you noticed? Well, I saw that she was

1253
01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 2: mean with you. She had tough words words, and and

1254
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 2: she would act very weird around food you cooked or

1255
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 2: touch that I saw, and and I saw her rolling

1256
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:16,040
Speaker 2: her eyes whenever you talked. That was such a relief

1257
01:03:16,200 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 2: to hear him say these words. Finally someone else saw it.

1258
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:20,400
Speaker 3: And I'm not crazy.

1259
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 7: I'm not crazy.

1260
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 3: I have thoughts for later. Oh okay.

1261
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 2: I told him about all the other things and forced

1262
01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 2: to listen, force him to listen and understand. I also

1263
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 2: found out that even my mother in law noticed me

1264
01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:40,840
Speaker 2: A's demeanor. She mentioned it to my husband. Somehow. That

1265
01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 2: is reassuring because I often question what part I'm seeing

1266
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 2: is paranoia or interpretation rather than reality. And it turned

1267
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 2: out I also missed a few things myself, and because

1268
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 2: I kept our interaction to the minimum during that week,

1269
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,560
Speaker 2: I didn't notice that Mia was acting weirds towards my

1270
01:03:57,720 --> 01:04:02,440
Speaker 2: husband as well. And by the way, you know, it

1271
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 2: would be so weird what it would be so weird

1272
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 2: if you.

1273
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 3: You I'm talking to you, did not.

1274
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 2: Find full episodes with stories like this that you can

1275
01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 2: listen to at your leisure, at your pleasure. All you

1276
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 2: have to do is go to Spotify or Apple Podcasts

1277
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:26,800
Speaker 2: or wherever you listen to podcasts and search up Okay

1278
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,840
Speaker 2: story Time, and there you will find the archives and

1279
01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 2: they are complete and you may you may peruse them.

1280
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 3: That would be freaky, Canavila. Yeah, so.

1281
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 1: Jonathan, you had some words to add so before I

1282
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, he can't play the ignorant card. He

1283
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 1: knows but isn't taking it seriously, which is worse.

1284
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 3: M It is worse. He knows what's going on but

1285
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 3: refuses to.

1286
01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, yeah, she just like rolls your eyes

1287
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:01,479
Speaker 1: every time you breathe and like hates on your food,

1288
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 1: then runs away and needs it in the bathroom because

1289
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:06,560
Speaker 1: she loves it. And it's like, bro, do you not

1290
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 1: see You literally know what's going on, but you're not

1291
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 1: confronting it because you don't want to like truly acknowledge

1292
01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:19,960
Speaker 1: Opie's feelings. And like truly deal with what is happening here.

1293
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 3: True.

1294
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 1: I wonder if he is like processed. Oh, every swamp

1295
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:29,640
Speaker 1: says conspiracy theory. Dad is cheating and Mia has to

1296
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:33,160
Speaker 1: be kept in secret, so distancing from the step mom

1297
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:34,800
Speaker 1: is easier for her.

1298
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 2: And that's quite the conspiracy.

1299
01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, Dad is cheating in m I A, that's

1300
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 1: probably what everyone's saying, and has to keep it a secret,

1301
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: so distancing from the step mom is easier.

1302
01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 3: Weaponized and competence every day.

1303
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 2: You know, she's saying that Mia is keeping the cheating secret.

1304
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:56,280
Speaker 2: Oh Mia is the bio mom, stepdaughter.

1305
01:05:56,000 --> 01:06:01,240
Speaker 3: The stepdaughter, Me as the stepwatter. Wow. And he's like, yeah, good,

1306
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 3: Well shouldn't she be more mad at her dad? And

1307
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 3: if that was the case, I mean, of course she should.

1308
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:09,439
Speaker 1: But but but I'm sorry, me, Me is bugging out,

1309
01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:13,560
Speaker 1: like she's at this point. I feel like she really

1310
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 1: should know better. You know, she knows what she's doing now,

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01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:20,360
Speaker 1: she's I feel like she knows what she's doing.

1312
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:23,560
Speaker 3: She's been known, but she needs to also. I don't know.

1313
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 2: I feel like you can continue to do that, but

1314
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 2: like just tell me why, like you can hate me

1315
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:30,600
Speaker 2: like that. I just want to know why.

1316
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:34,760
Speaker 3: Right, you know why? Teenager scare the living the living

1317
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 3: poo poo out of me. I'm just a teenage strt

1318
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 3: bag Baby Golden Boys.

1319
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:49,439
Speaker 2: Those are the only the only lyrics anyone knows that song.

1320
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:50,680
Speaker 3: That's it. That's all I got.

1321
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 2: Besides, I've got to tickets to Aron Made.

1322
01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:57,640
Speaker 4: And Baby and then the guy really hits the high

1323
01:06:57,840 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 4: dy don't say me?

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01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:10,240
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, and no this is to make a parody. Okay,

1325
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 3: I think we'll clear. You'll clear the John. John. I'm

1326
01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 3: gonna need a spray bottle for your You.

1327
01:07:16,360 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: Will get him and Sam, We're gonna get an absurdly

1328
01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 1: long spray bottle.

1329
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:23,920
Speaker 2: I need to see the nozzle like pop out over

1330
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,920
Speaker 2: the monitors. And we're like, please, please find one on

1331
01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 2: Amazon Tomorrow.

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01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 3: We'll buy one. That's amazing fire. Now, my I'm gonna

1333
01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:34,640
Speaker 3: use that spraying water around all these electronics. Don't worry,

1334
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 3: I'll put it in your face point blank.

1335
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 2: That would ac stould be really funny. Just the spray

1336
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 2: bottle just comes in from slope.

1337
01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:49,400
Speaker 3: Okay, fine, I've earned it. Okay, So here is the

1338
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:50,840
Speaker 3: end of the story.

1339
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 2: My husband then confessed that the three first days were amazing.

1340
01:07:56,520 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 3: Mm hmm wait what huh? Well, okay.

1341
01:08:01,240 --> 01:08:04,400
Speaker 2: He then confessed that the three first days were amazing.

1342
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:08,600
Speaker 2: I did see them talking together, joking around, listening to music,

1343
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:12,480
Speaker 2: and running errands, but the last three days were very difficult,

1344
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 2: and his daughter barely talked to him and was in

1345
01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 2: her room most of the time. At this point, I

1346
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:19,519
Speaker 2: asked him if he has any clue why we are here,

1347
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 2: and if he thought maybe Mia was depressed, which might

1348
01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 2: explain the changing mood. My husband's best guess is that

1349
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 2: MIA's biomom has probably called her and poised poisoned her mind,

1350
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 2: which led her to be moody. But this is just

1351
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:34,439
Speaker 2: a guess. Well, to cut it short, I still don't

1352
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 2: know why my stepdaughter hates me. My husband acknowledged that

1353
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 2: he needs to quit pushing me to spend time with her,

1354
01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:42,639
Speaker 2: and he promised he won't do it anymore, even if

1355
01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:45,920
Speaker 2: that means I won't be attending some of the family events. Also,

1356
01:08:46,040 --> 01:08:48,360
Speaker 2: he will talk to his daughter and try to understand

1357
01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 2: what the problem is, although that is no longer my

1358
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 2: problem but his to handle, and I think that's good.

1359
01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 2: Realizing that, hey, you got to take your horse out

1360
01:08:57,000 --> 01:09:02,080
Speaker 2: of the race, here, there's nothing you can do. Thanks

1361
01:09:02,120 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 2: again for the support and for helping me stand my ground.

1362
01:09:07,240 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 2: And that is the end of that story.

1363
01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:13,759
Speaker 3: That's the end. Yep.

1364
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:18,879
Speaker 2: Wow, dude, Sometimes man, it's the the minds of others.

1365
01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 2: They are an enigma.

1366
01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 1: Poor freakin' op Like, what a soldier, that's all I'm

1367
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 1: gonna say.

1368
01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:29,360
Speaker 2: What a sol like there was that was years and

1369
01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 2: years of OPI's life in that story, Like.

1370
01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 1: And he didn't And I felt like she didn't unfairly

1371
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 1: like take she was like very empathetic for everyone else

1372
01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 1: despite her just going through so much.

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01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:47,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, she really made it less about it. It was

1374
01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 3: really all about the child. It's about the kid.

1375
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 2: She's like, I just want the kid be good.

1376
01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:56,400
Speaker 3: I wish we were good. Yep, I just want her

1377
01:09:56,439 --> 01:09:58,000
Speaker 3: to be good. And she's not my daughter. She's not

1378
01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 3: my kid. I wish she was.

1379
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:05,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, damn, there's still time though, still a.

1380
01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 3: Lot of life left.

1381
01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:09,320
Speaker 2: We'll see, we'll be able to swing back in there.

1382
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 3: I think it's also just a maturity thing. Yeah, yeah,

1383
01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:14,479
Speaker 3: I'll see what it's definitely a maturity thing.

1384
01:10:14,520 --> 01:10:18,280
Speaker 4: And hopefully she realizes maybe, oh I was a little

1385
01:10:18,360 --> 01:10:21,799
Speaker 4: bit of a brat and disgusting kid and can make amends.

1386
01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:24,240
Speaker 4: But that's that's just down the line, and you just.

1387
01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:26,559
Speaker 3: Gotta give it some time. One can hope, that's right,

1388
01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:29,760
Speaker 3: One can hope. One can hope. Leave it up to hope.

1389
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:32,679
Speaker 1: Oh, but let's leave it up to these freaking amazing

1390
01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 1: donatorssh Olympus, thanks for the five bucks, my first live

1391
01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:46,559
Speaker 1: after after well of a year of podcasts and Toddler

1392
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:50,120
Speaker 1: is sleeping. Y'all are keeping me alive during the work

1393
01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 1: and the terrible twos. Olympus, we freaking got you, and

1394
01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,799
Speaker 1: shout out to her all of our freaking podcast listeners.

1395
01:10:57,439 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 3: To our listeners, and welcome.

1396
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 2: If you're a snurg is showing up now you get

1397
01:11:01,400 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 2: to see all the visual gags.

1398
01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:05,680
Speaker 3: I mean your ear holes. I'm in your ear holes. Though,

1399
01:11:05,680 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 3: if you're not here, I'm in your ear holes. I

1400
01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 3: mean your ear holes. I'm crawling in your skin. Wow.

1401
01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:14,000
Speaker 2: I like how we we have a sign here that

1402
01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 2: says no visual humor, but I don't listen to it.

1403
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 3: You do a good job of explaining after that, I

1404
01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:18,719
Speaker 3: don't listen.

1405
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 2: To it because I want people to show up to

1406
01:11:20,240 --> 01:11:21,240
Speaker 2: see the visual humor.

1407
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 3: But so we got and we got it. We do explain.

1408
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 3: We've got some deeral only and we also have ladies, the.

1409
01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:38,439
Speaker 5: The one, the only, Shannah Hannah Hannahana ninety six dollars

1410
01:11:38,439 --> 01:11:40,599
Speaker 5: donation that by the way, by the way, in case

1411
01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:41,160
Speaker 5: you are.

1412
01:11:41,200 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 1: Unclear, put us over the line. Hannah is just continues

1413
01:11:45,880 --> 01:11:49,560
Speaker 1: to be the MV mother freakin p m V to

1414
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:49,800
Speaker 1: the p.

1415
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,280
Speaker 3: Let it be freaking known to the M to the

1416
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:53,760
Speaker 3: V to the p O.

1417
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:58,200
Speaker 2: And then oh, I need to say this one, Mari Lawana,

1418
01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:02,479
Speaker 2: thank you for the five dollars. If you guys could

1419
01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:04,480
Speaker 2: be any animal, what animal.

1420
01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 3: Would they would you be? And why? Girafcas That's the

1421
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 3: first thing I thought of.

1422
01:12:09,840 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 2: Okay, well, I'm low kegan to do the exact same thing,

1423
01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 2: and I will say the blue whale. Oh one, no

1424
01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:21,840
Speaker 2: natural predators. Two you get to explore the ocean. That's

1425
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 2: probably where the aliens are.

1426
01:12:23,760 --> 01:12:27,320
Speaker 4: What how does your brain work?

1427
01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:31,960
Speaker 2: If there's aliens on Earth, they are in the guys,

1428
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:33,680
Speaker 2: there's there's drones.

1429
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:34,960
Speaker 3: In New Jersey fly in from the ocean.

1430
01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:38,759
Speaker 2: Brain drones in New Jersey flying in from the ocean.

1431
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:42,719
Speaker 3: How does they're coming from anywhere? Besides aliens?

1432
01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:45,760
Speaker 8: Say what you said to Riley right now, say what

1433
01:12:45,760 --> 01:12:47,280
Speaker 8: you said?

1434
01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:50,639
Speaker 3: What did I say? What you tell us? You tell

1435
01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:52,920
Speaker 3: us why you would be a whale.

1436
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:56,439
Speaker 2: Because one, no natural predators. Two you get to explore

1437
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:58,120
Speaker 2: the oceans and that's probably where the aliens are.

1438
01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 3: But like you can't like you can't like really go

1439
01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:04,240
Speaker 3: down that deep. You're so sweaty s there?

1440
01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:08,880
Speaker 2: What a blue whale can't go that deep? You know

1441
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:10,599
Speaker 2: how deep a blue whale goes Riley?

1442
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:14,680
Speaker 3: In fact, I do you gotta stink to you? You

1443
01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 3: gotta stink and I love it. Hey boy, you gotta

1444
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:20,960
Speaker 3: get it on me.

1445
01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:26,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've got an agreement in the chat. Yep, I'm

1446
01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:29,639
Speaker 2: gonna get aliens in the ocean. Dude, there's there's James

1447
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:30,640
Speaker 2: in New Jersey.

1448
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 3: What Adam would you be?

1449
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 4: Oh?

1450
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:37,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, what an would? I would be a buck because

1451
01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 3: I just would be a buck. I feel like, probably.

1452
01:13:41,320 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 2: Bok if you book so, you would be hunted, so

1453
01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 2: we would hunt you.

1454
01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 3: But you're like, you know why I'd be hunted because

1455
01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:50,639
Speaker 3: my hater's trying to shoot me down but they never

1456
01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:52,880
Speaker 3: catch him. They catch him.

1457
01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 4: Okay, Bambi's mom, all right, I would be a kala? Yes, yeah,

1458
01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 4: drop bear that I love. Koalas are my favorite animal.

1459
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 3: They like all have chlamydia. I would be a koala.

1460
01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:14,760
Speaker 3: We actually we actually have. There's an og story I

1461
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:17,320
Speaker 3: think we read it when we went to Bali in

1462
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 3: the summer of twenty twenty three of basically a couple

1463
01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 3: that thought one person was cheating, but it was literally

1464
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:28,520
Speaker 3: holding the koala. Oh.

1465
01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 1: They they were able to like do the math and

1466
01:14:31,479 --> 01:14:33,960
Speaker 1: like figure it out to get and they basically almost

1467
01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:35,800
Speaker 1: I can't remember if they broke up or a broken

1468
01:14:35,920 --> 01:14:37,880
Speaker 1: or what, but they found out that it was.

1469
01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:42,599
Speaker 3: Just holding the koala too much. Someone said, I look

1470
01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:45,680
Speaker 3: like a koala. I could see that. You know how

1471
01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 3: they like where they your face to something.

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01:14:49,120 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love to hold All koalas do are just

1473
01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 4: like they chill. They get a little a little up

1474
01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 4: there with eucalypus leaves and they just sleep all day.

1475
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 3: Is that where it comes from? That's crazy.

1476
01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:05,560
Speaker 2: Eucalyptus we got everywhere. All my homies hate eucalyptus.

1477
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 3: This is okay, let's read trees.

1478
01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 2: Yes, we got a donation from someone says Mdia.

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01:15:17,160 --> 01:15:19,439
Speaker 3: No, I don't have colmydia. You know, if you're a koala,

1480
01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:22,320
Speaker 3: you do. It's Okay, you can be honest. I think

1481
01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:23,280
Speaker 3: that was Hannah.

1482
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:27,960
Speaker 2: I think Hannah sent a cheeky littleh no with.

1483
01:15:27,960 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 3: A little wing.

1484
01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:32,120
Speaker 2: Don't just your little winking emode, don't discript I I'm

1485
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:35,760
Speaker 2: gonna if it's not Hannah. If you didn't send this,

1486
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:39,559
Speaker 2: then we need to let us know. And we have

1487
01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:42,080
Speaker 2: another donation from God. I love this name so much,

1488
01:15:42,520 --> 01:15:45,800
Speaker 2: Mario Lawana, thank you for the ten dollars first time

1489
01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 2: catching alive. You guys are like an afternoon of top

1490
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 2: us in Spain.

1491
01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 3: So it's so good.

1492
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:57,160
Speaker 2: I love or a delicious Colombian suncho. Uh so glad

1493
01:15:57,200 --> 01:15:58,360
Speaker 2: to have discovered your channel.

1494
01:15:58,360 --> 01:15:59,480
Speaker 3: Greetings from Denmark.

1495
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:02,639
Speaker 2: Wow, we've got Spain, Colombia and Denmark in there.

1496
01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:08,479
Speaker 3: Is this sound concho.

1497
01:16:08,360 --> 01:16:12,360
Speaker 2: Because I need to know my Colombian Casey Leaf says

1498
01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:14,559
Speaker 2: Koalas do have cute little cakes.

1499
01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:21,120
Speaker 3: That's big facts. Can't deny that, can't deny that, dude.

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01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:23,599
Speaker 2: I'm gonna wear a little stew. It's like a little

1501
01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 2: like beef stew potato with corn in it. That looks good.

1502
01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:28,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have.

1503
01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:31,400
Speaker 2: Maria la.

1504
01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:36,120
Speaker 3: I can't.

1505
01:16:36,240 --> 01:16:42,080
Speaker 2: I love that, Maria Maria Lawana, you can't come at

1506
01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 2: me for mine. I mean, we can't affectation because that's

1507
01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:50,640
Speaker 2: like I can don't make me speak Spanish. I think

1508
01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:54,519
Speaker 2: are all I believe that's everything. And then Mirandy Joe,

1509
01:16:54,600 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 2: thanks for the two bucks. Op is better than my

1510
01:16:56,560 --> 01:17:00,200
Speaker 2: bio mom. And that is why step.

1511
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:02,960
Speaker 3: Owner is upset. And that's a rock fact. Oh and

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01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 3: that's a rock fact. Was that it? That was the

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01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:09,080
Speaker 3: only one? Oh? Sorry, I believe did we get this one?

1514
01:17:09,200 --> 01:17:11,880
Speaker 2: Chanzy Mack, Hey, thanks for being a member for nine months.

1515
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 3: You've gone full term.

1516
01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:16,400
Speaker 2: Was listening to the pod from a few days ago

1517
01:17:16,479 --> 01:17:18,400
Speaker 2: when the fire alerts went off and had to hop

1518
01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:20,479
Speaker 2: over to the live to make sure you guys are okay,

1519
01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:23,880
Speaker 2: sending love, Yes, thank you, everyone's cool, everyone's okay.

1520
01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:24,280
Speaker 3: Yep.

1521
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:26,720
Speaker 2: The only thing that's really a problem now is that

1522
01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:31,280
Speaker 2: all the dust and ash and all the toxicity floating

1523
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:33,479
Speaker 2: around in the air, the toxicity in our city.

1524
01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:37,040
Speaker 3: It's still going. I mean they're still burning, but it's

1525
01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:39,720
Speaker 3: like they're way you know, they updated it. Actually I

1526
01:17:39,760 --> 01:17:42,400
Speaker 3: gonna not. Oh yeah, what's what's containment eighteen percent for

1527
01:17:42,439 --> 01:17:43,559
Speaker 3: the Palasis fire? Dude?

1528
01:17:43,680 --> 01:17:47,280
Speaker 2: Seem right because I just inches up? What does that

1529
01:17:47,439 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 2: mean though? Because it's oxtail. I've seen the I've seen

1530
01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 2: like the area of the fire that's like active and

1531
01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:55,320
Speaker 2: it's very small.

1532
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 3: So I don't know. I ain't no expert. I don't

1533
01:17:59,840 --> 01:18:01,639
Speaker 3: know is looking about. I don't know. I can't see

1534
01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:04,799
Speaker 3: from my apartment anymore burning. So that's nice.

1535
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like this just yes, it's I don't know.

1536
01:18:08,240 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 2: It feels like it's gone, but it's not.

1537
01:18:09,400 --> 01:18:09,800
Speaker 3: It's weird.

1538
01:18:11,320 --> 01:18:15,280
Speaker 1: Also, Olympus, dude, that one just come in. Yes, thanks

1539
01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 1: for five bucks. Okay, but John, do you know what

1540
01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:21,599
Speaker 1: the giraffe says? My dad taught me something dumb as

1541
01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:25,120
Speaker 1: a kid. So now I ask everyone, what does the

1542
01:18:25,200 --> 01:18:25,840
Speaker 1: draft say?

1543
01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:30,000
Speaker 3: Does the giraffe say? It is the joke?

1544
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:31,599
Speaker 2: And I just be like, I don't know. He's too

1545
01:18:31,680 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 2: high up, I don't know. I don't speak, I don't

1546
01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:35,719
Speaker 2: speak giraft.

1547
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:39,000
Speaker 3: Let me know, Olympus. I am patiently and eagerly waiting.

1548
01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:42,440
Speaker 2: Maria Lawana says, we need to try sancho.

1549
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:49,040
Speaker 3: I will, we will very shortly. H hint hint and

1550
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:54,800
Speaker 3: bump bum hint. Fine to everyone. I'm a huge foodie.

1551
01:18:54,840 --> 01:18:57,120
Speaker 4: I love food and that's the first thing I do

1552
01:18:57,280 --> 01:18:59,000
Speaker 4: when I visit a country is just trying all their

1553
01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:01,600
Speaker 4: food and drinks.

1554
01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:07,840
Speaker 2: And John, Sorry, I've just been whispering Sam Kocho into

1555
01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:08,120
Speaker 2: the mic.

1556
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:13,280
Speaker 3: Okay, in between every pause, do you want to hit

1557
01:19:13,320 --> 01:19:14,839
Speaker 3: another another story?

1558
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:17,320
Speaker 5: My brain is.

1559
01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:23,920
Speaker 3: Your brain? Sprain is God? Help me fine my brain.

1560
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 3: It's too smooth and full of water. Love that your

1561
01:19:28,040 --> 01:19:29,000
Speaker 3: smooth water brain.

1562
01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:35,719
Speaker 2: Dakota water water, water brain water horse baby sentry egg.

1563
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:38,639
Speaker 3: Y babies fall six feet to the ground at birth.

1564
01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 4: That's hardcore. Baby giraffs grew up foot a day. Oh

1565
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:44,800
Speaker 4: my god, whoa.

1566
01:19:45,280 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 3: They have more than four feet? What I.

1567
01:19:52,880 --> 01:19:52,960
Speaker 2: Like?

1568
01:19:53,160 --> 01:19:55,520
Speaker 3: Actually, I actually hate you.

1569
01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:58,519
Speaker 2: I just like you're walking home tonight, Like I like

1570
01:19:58,600 --> 01:20:02,200
Speaker 2: how my smile appear weird When your just disappeared. Noah

1571
01:20:02,880 --> 01:20:05,040
Speaker 2: started frowning and I immediately.

1572
01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:06,920
Speaker 8: And I and I looked at it. I was like,

1573
01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:11,519
Speaker 8: oh wait, not Hannah is not Hannah. So put some

1574
01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:19,360
Speaker 8: respects we got. That's a newspeom.

1575
01:20:19,479 --> 01:20:21,280
Speaker 1: But guys, let's give you one more story before we

1576
01:20:21,600 --> 01:20:24,320
Speaker 1: get out of here. Unlet's unless you guys go crazy.

1577
01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 2: Let's let's get okay, let's go.

1578
01:20:30,640 --> 01:20:33,280
Speaker 1: My wife didn't come home last night. Now my worst

1579
01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 1: fears are confirmed.

1580
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 3: Oh my she watched the movie without me. That's my

1581
01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:41,720
Speaker 3: worst here.

1582
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:46,160
Speaker 2: Uh yes, my worst fear that my wife will come home.

1583
01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:51,479
Speaker 2: Oh god, you imagine. No, that's that's Rodney Dangerfield. My

1584
01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:53,360
Speaker 2: worst fear, my wife is gonna come home.

1585
01:20:53,439 --> 01:20:56,559
Speaker 3: But now you're got no respect but one reference that

1586
01:20:56,640 --> 01:20:58,120
Speaker 3: I know, nice impression.

1587
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:01,240
Speaker 1: Anyway, let's get into it. Myfe didn't come home last night.

1588
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:03,120
Speaker 1: She went out with a couple of girlfriends, which is

1589
01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:05,800
Speaker 1: pretty normal for her. She's normally back around two am

1590
01:21:05,960 --> 01:21:06,840
Speaker 1: on these nights.

1591
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:09,439
Speaker 3: So I waited up. By the way, this comes from.

1592
01:21:09,400 --> 01:21:11,560
Speaker 1: Throw Off My Chest two three four on the r

1593
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:15,840
Speaker 1: slash Okay story times right, throw it off? So around

1594
01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:19,840
Speaker 1: two thirty I called to check in. She answered, and

1595
01:21:19,960 --> 01:21:22,400
Speaker 1: I could hear people in the background. She told me

1596
01:21:22,439 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 1: they went to a party about We're leaving in a

1597
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:27,080
Speaker 1: couple of minutes. She wasn't home by three, so I

1598
01:21:27,160 --> 01:21:34,400
Speaker 1: texted it delivered, but no reply. Around frigging around four am.

1599
01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:38,080
Speaker 1: I called a couple of times before before she sent

1600
01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:39,120
Speaker 1: me to voicemail.

1601
01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:42,439
Speaker 3: Could we uh check this.

1602
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:48,360
Speaker 1: Story in the database because something is seeming suspiciously from.

1603
01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:51,679
Speaker 2: Perhaps so when you when you search it, put quotes

1604
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:52,080
Speaker 2: around it.

1605
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:56,439
Speaker 3: I know I didn't. I didn't know that until this guy.

1606
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:59,439
Speaker 3: Why do you think I'm here and you're there? I

1607
01:22:00,640 --> 01:22:03,280
Speaker 3: mean a day ago? All I say, diego, I mean

1608
01:22:03,320 --> 01:22:05,720
Speaker 3: this morning. Okay, let me look at you up, John,

1609
01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:07,280
Speaker 3: I will keep waiting, keep reading. Yes.

1610
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:10,679
Speaker 1: So, uh, my wife finally came stumbling through the door

1611
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:14,439
Speaker 1: at six forty seven am this morning. I know the

1612
01:22:14,520 --> 01:22:18,000
Speaker 1: exact time because I was worried. She was wearing a dress.

1613
01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:21,040
Speaker 3: Sorry, it's just the way.

1614
01:22:21,280 --> 01:22:24,120
Speaker 2: I know the exact time because I was worried. It

1615
01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:28,240
Speaker 2: was exactly sixty seven and twenty seven seconds.

1616
01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:30,760
Speaker 1: Except if your wife came home at six forty seven,

1617
01:22:30,760 --> 01:22:34,559
Speaker 1: you're kind of be like, yo, what's up?

1618
01:22:35,080 --> 01:22:37,720
Speaker 3: And no, and ghost it has been ghosted all night.

1619
01:22:37,800 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd be like, hey, it's the morning, so what's good.

1620
01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:45,360
Speaker 1: She was wearing a dress that she didn't leave the house,

1621
01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 1: and with mesh leggings I've never seen either. The leggings

1622
01:22:49,120 --> 01:22:53,360
Speaker 1: had clearly been torn, and her makeup was smudged. My

1623
01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 1: heart sank when I saw her. My immediate worry was

1624
01:22:56,960 --> 01:23:00,519
Speaker 1: that she had been attacked. She had only her head.

1625
01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:00,600
Speaker 3: No.

1626
01:23:00,840 --> 01:23:03,240
Speaker 1: When I asked her that, I asked her what she

1627
01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:06,160
Speaker 1: had been doing. Then she only said that I knew

1628
01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:08,479
Speaker 1: what she had been doing, and that kind of confirm.

1629
01:23:08,560 --> 01:23:10,599
Speaker 1: But the voice in the back of my head had

1630
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:15,080
Speaker 1: been screaming since she walked in. My wife cheated on

1631
01:23:15,160 --> 01:23:21,559
Speaker 1: me last night. I asked her who it was. She

1632
01:23:21,720 --> 01:23:25,240
Speaker 1: shrugged almost casually and said it was somebody they met

1633
01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:25,799
Speaker 1: at the club.

1634
01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:30,599
Speaker 3: So she's just like, she doesn't care. She doesn't care.

1635
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:37,040
Speaker 4: In the clurb, we're all fam in the club, We're

1636
01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 4: all fam up in the club. In the club, we're

1637
01:23:39,960 --> 01:23:40,559
Speaker 4: all family.

1638
01:23:41,520 --> 01:23:48,520
Speaker 3: Family. She's got a bottle hole of bub but she's

1639
01:23:50,160 --> 01:23:53,840
Speaker 3: sitting on doves. They're they're I'm just trying to fuh

1640
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:55,840
Speaker 3: bottle of above.

1641
01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to fuzz that's what That's what she's saying.

1642
01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 1: She went back to his house, hooked up with him,

1643
01:24:02,920 --> 01:24:06,120
Speaker 1: and then ubered home. She then said she didn't want

1644
01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:07,719
Speaker 1: to fight and just wanted to sleep.

1645
01:24:07,960 --> 01:24:10,160
Speaker 3: Damn. So that's what she did.

1646
01:24:10,640 --> 01:24:15,360
Speaker 2: Wow, girl gives no f whatsoever.

1647
01:24:15,600 --> 01:24:20,760
Speaker 3: She gets everything she wants. Yeah, she said, I shows.

1648
01:24:20,520 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 4: Up at six forty five and goes, we're not fighting,

1649
01:24:22,479 --> 01:24:25,280
Speaker 4: I'm going to sleep, and then it happens.

1650
01:24:26,120 --> 01:24:30,160
Speaker 1: Dude, she's still asleep now and didn't even take a

1651
01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:34,200
Speaker 1: shower before passing out. Suffice to say, our relationship is over.

1652
01:24:34,880 --> 01:24:36,720
Speaker 1: We don't have any kids, and we rent, So it

1653
01:24:36,720 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 1: shouldn't be extremely it shouldn't be an extremely complicated process.

1654
01:24:40,200 --> 01:24:40,759
Speaker 3: That's good.

1655
01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:43,320
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reason myself out of it, pretending there

1656
01:24:43,400 --> 01:24:46,400
Speaker 1: might be something to salvage here. I've always maintained that

1657
01:24:46,479 --> 01:24:48,559
Speaker 1: cheating would be a red line for me, though, I

1658
01:24:48,600 --> 01:24:50,280
Speaker 1: think I need to stick to that now.

1659
01:24:50,360 --> 01:24:53,040
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, buddy, one hundred percent, you need to stick

1660
01:24:53,080 --> 01:24:58,680
Speaker 3: to that. What or no? We give her another? Do

1661
01:24:58,720 --> 01:25:00,200
Speaker 3: we do? We double down.

1662
01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:02,479
Speaker 1: And say marry me and have a child with me

1663
01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:04,640
Speaker 1: right now, because that will fix everything.

1664
01:25:04,920 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 2: As we've you know what, That would fix literally every problem.

1665
01:25:11,200 --> 01:25:15,320
Speaker 2: As we all know, marriage and children solves every relationship problem,

1666
01:25:15,400 --> 01:25:18,760
Speaker 2: which is why, yes, every family with children never has

1667
01:25:18,800 --> 01:25:19,280
Speaker 2: a divorce.

1668
01:25:20,040 --> 01:25:23,479
Speaker 1: It it doesn't complicate any it decomplicates everything.

1669
01:25:23,520 --> 01:25:26,439
Speaker 3: It doesn't complicate, it decomplicated. Indeed, it makes everything simple. Well,

1670
01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:29,840
Speaker 3: we got some other relevant comments from x jav four p.

1671
01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:32,880
Speaker 1: Thirteen, who says, you keep trying to reason yourself out

1672
01:25:32,920 --> 01:25:34,920
Speaker 1: of it because this just happened and you're still in shock.

1673
01:25:35,320 --> 01:25:37,559
Speaker 1: The feeling of betrayal is still going to be there

1674
01:25:37,680 --> 01:25:40,880
Speaker 1: when the shock fades, so don't let yourself humor her now. Also,

1675
01:25:41,040 --> 01:25:43,240
Speaker 1: just to be one hundred percent safe, i'd recommend a

1676
01:25:43,479 --> 01:25:46,679
Speaker 1: STI screening. This might not be the first time she's

1677
01:25:46,720 --> 01:25:48,200
Speaker 1: done something of this nature.

1678
01:25:48,760 --> 01:25:49,920
Speaker 3: Oh dang, that's why.

1679
01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:55,280
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I guess if honestly, yeah, if that's

1680
01:25:55,320 --> 01:25:58,160
Speaker 2: how she reacted when she walked in, she just goes

1681
01:25:58,280 --> 01:25:59,920
Speaker 2: you already know what it is.

1682
01:26:00,360 --> 01:26:02,880
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, she might have been doing that for

1683
01:26:02,920 --> 01:26:06,400
Speaker 3: a minute. Who cares. I don't. I don't care about you.

1684
01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:08,599
Speaker 3: I don't care about this, but I'm going to sleep.

1685
01:26:09,040 --> 01:26:12,040
Speaker 3: I don't care. Opie says, I really don't think she's

1686
01:26:12,040 --> 01:26:15,760
Speaker 3: done this multiple times? Are you sure about that? Are

1687
01:26:15,800 --> 01:26:17,800
Speaker 3: you sure about that? Are you sure about that?

1688
01:26:19,200 --> 01:26:21,960
Speaker 1: If she had, she'd likely have come home and told

1689
01:26:22,040 --> 01:26:24,760
Speaker 1: me right away. Anyways, she's always been the type of

1690
01:26:24,800 --> 01:26:27,040
Speaker 1: person who can't keep things bottled up inside.

1691
01:26:27,240 --> 01:26:27,920
Speaker 3: Apparently not.

1692
01:26:28,560 --> 01:26:31,200
Speaker 1: I will get passed though it can't hurt, though I'm

1693
01:26:31,240 --> 01:26:32,760
Speaker 1: a little scared of needles.

1694
01:26:33,439 --> 01:26:39,240
Speaker 3: Uh. And there is an update. TikTok cannot hear us oktok.

1695
01:26:39,439 --> 01:26:45,120
Speaker 3: TikTok is no, they shut down the audio before they talk.

1696
01:26:45,680 --> 01:26:50,720
Speaker 3: TikTok come to YouTube. Come to YouTube. They can't hear

1697
01:26:50,800 --> 01:27:04,040
Speaker 3: us to YouTube. Tell them come tick be talk. We'll

1698
01:27:04,080 --> 01:27:13,240
Speaker 3: get the oo too. Ba YouTube. Come wow.

1699
01:27:13,280 --> 01:27:14,960
Speaker 2: It's hard to talk to people when there's no sound.

1700
01:27:15,000 --> 01:27:18,000
Speaker 1: They got it, They got it. You crushed it, ladies

1701
01:27:18,040 --> 01:27:23,200
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. There is an update. Let's go me again, folks.

1702
01:27:23,520 --> 01:27:25,320
Speaker 1: Sorry I didn't get around to doing this sooner. I

1703
01:27:25,400 --> 01:27:27,400
Speaker 1: wasn't able to get a day off work yesterday because

1704
01:27:27,439 --> 01:27:28,160
Speaker 1: my boss.

1705
01:27:28,000 --> 01:27:28,800
Speaker 3: Kind of sucks.

1706
01:27:29,200 --> 01:27:32,000
Speaker 1: I was a complete mess at work yesterday though, so

1707
01:27:32,120 --> 01:27:33,639
Speaker 1: I was allowed to take the rest of the week

1708
01:27:33,640 --> 01:27:35,280
Speaker 1: as a vacation, thankfully.

1709
01:27:36,040 --> 01:27:39,639
Speaker 2: So like, yeah, brou hey, but your boss doesn't suck.

1710
01:27:39,680 --> 01:27:42,280
Speaker 2: Then your boss gave you a whole week off.

1711
01:27:42,360 --> 01:27:44,920
Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, that's pretty good. Let me talk. Yeah.

1712
01:27:44,960 --> 01:27:46,400
Speaker 1: I feel like he came in and he was like, hey,

1713
01:27:46,439 --> 01:27:48,320
Speaker 1: what's up. He's like, yeah, my wife just came in

1714
01:27:48,360 --> 01:27:50,280
Speaker 1: at like seven am, just like yeah, I just cheat

1715
01:27:50,360 --> 01:27:51,720
Speaker 1: on you. But I'm not gonna talk to you. I'm

1716
01:27:51,720 --> 01:27:56,240
Speaker 1: gonna sleep and we're done. He's probably take some time.

1717
01:27:56,400 --> 01:27:58,920
Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, so I'm gonna need those reports. Actually

1718
01:27:58,960 --> 01:27:59,479
Speaker 2: double time.

1719
01:27:59,560 --> 01:28:02,720
Speaker 3: Now, I need you to work twice.

1720
01:28:03,200 --> 01:28:05,120
Speaker 1: I think I went through all the stages of grief

1721
01:28:05,360 --> 01:28:07,559
Speaker 1: grief while my soon to be ex was sleeping. Wow,

1722
01:28:07,920 --> 01:28:10,200
Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting my posts he had any attention at all.

1723
01:28:10,280 --> 01:28:12,599
Speaker 1: I just figured I needed to try to talk to

1724
01:28:12,600 --> 01:28:13,360
Speaker 1: someone about.

1725
01:28:13,160 --> 01:28:14,000
Speaker 3: It because.

1726
01:28:15,760 --> 01:28:18,200
Speaker 1: He's tired, okay, and he's not going to get in

1727
01:28:18,240 --> 01:28:20,479
Speaker 1: a good headspace. I made the post in the morning,

1728
01:28:20,479 --> 01:28:22,879
Speaker 1: and by noon she was still conked out in the bedroom.

1729
01:28:23,200 --> 01:28:25,080
Speaker 1: I have process things a bit more, and I had

1730
01:28:25,120 --> 01:28:27,320
Speaker 1: a rough plan in my head that I was starting

1731
01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:29,519
Speaker 1: to set in motion. I made a short list of

1732
01:28:29,600 --> 01:28:33,240
Speaker 1: questions I wanted answers to gathered up all my important documents, laptop,

1733
01:28:33,280 --> 01:28:35,599
Speaker 1: et cetera. Then I went to the into the bedroom

1734
01:28:35,600 --> 01:28:38,200
Speaker 1: and started packing myself a suitcase. I know a lot

1735
01:28:38,200 --> 01:28:40,519
Speaker 1: of folks wanted me to kick her out. I did

1736
01:28:40,560 --> 01:28:43,759
Speaker 1: consider it, but honestly, I'm not overly attached to this place.

1737
01:28:44,120 --> 01:28:46,920
Speaker 1: We just rent, and I'm in a and I'm in

1738
01:28:46,960 --> 01:28:49,439
Speaker 1: a lucky enough situation to be able to say that

1739
01:28:49,520 --> 01:28:51,639
Speaker 1: paying half the rent for a few months isn't going

1740
01:28:51,640 --> 01:28:52,600
Speaker 1: to financially end me.

1741
01:28:53,200 --> 01:28:55,639
Speaker 3: That's good. It'll sting a little bit. I won't lie,

1742
01:28:55,680 --> 01:28:56,680
Speaker 3: but I'll make it.

1743
01:28:56,760 --> 01:28:58,920
Speaker 1: And I feel like being around this place is only

1744
01:28:58,920 --> 01:29:01,880
Speaker 1: going to remind me for any so I need to be.

1745
01:29:01,880 --> 01:29:05,000
Speaker 3: Looking forward and not back, not back.

1746
01:29:05,400 --> 01:29:08,640
Speaker 1: She ended up walking about halfway through me packing up

1747
01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:11,840
Speaker 1: my suitcase. There was a momentary confusion as she looked

1748
01:29:11,840 --> 01:29:13,080
Speaker 1: around the room, and then she.

1749
01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:20,200
Speaker 3: Just started bawling. Ooh, I mean, what do you expect?

1750
01:29:21,680 --> 01:29:27,840
Speaker 2: I don't know, Okay, like, okay, we're gonna get to

1751
01:29:27,880 --> 01:29:31,320
Speaker 2: the bottom of this soon, we will sure. Or maybe

1752
01:29:31,360 --> 01:29:33,640
Speaker 2: I'm just worried, like something did happen to her and

1753
01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:36,320
Speaker 2: she doesn't know or something, or like what's going I

1754
01:29:36,320 --> 01:29:37,240
Speaker 2: don't know what's.

1755
01:29:37,080 --> 01:29:37,639
Speaker 3: About to happen.

1756
01:29:37,760 --> 01:29:41,040
Speaker 2: Totally just looking around in confusion and then crying like

1757
01:29:41,120 --> 01:29:42,160
Speaker 2: does not sound good to me?

1758
01:29:42,400 --> 01:29:47,120
Speaker 3: Yep, oh, well, let's keep going. Let's keep going.

1759
01:29:47,160 --> 01:29:48,800
Speaker 2: I hope I'm wrong. I hope I'm wrong and she's

1760
01:29:48,840 --> 01:29:49,799
Speaker 2: just a terrible person.

1761
01:29:49,840 --> 01:29:52,120
Speaker 3: We shall see. We hope that she's terrible.

1762
01:29:53,200 --> 01:29:55,360
Speaker 1: I told her I had the screenshots of her uber

1763
01:29:55,360 --> 01:29:58,439
Speaker 1: and text messages from her phone, and that plus her

1764
01:29:58,479 --> 01:30:01,360
Speaker 1: confirmation was enough that they between us were completely done.

1765
01:30:03,320 --> 01:30:07,760
Speaker 2: Woo tired of this, op, he deserves better. If this

1766
01:30:07,920 --> 01:30:09,880
Speaker 2: is everything we you're seeing, is what's true?

1767
01:30:10,120 --> 01:30:12,880
Speaker 3: Right? Uh? She didn't answer me and just cry louder.

1768
01:30:13,000 --> 01:30:15,679
Speaker 1: I debated trying to continue the conversation, but I decided

1769
01:30:15,720 --> 01:30:17,760
Speaker 1: to just pack the rest of my suitcase and head

1770
01:30:17,760 --> 01:30:19,679
Speaker 1: back out to the living room until she came out.

1771
01:30:19,880 --> 01:30:21,840
Speaker 1: When she finally left the bedroom, she sat next to

1772
01:30:21,880 --> 01:30:23,840
Speaker 1: me on the couch and asked if asked if we

1773
01:30:23,880 --> 01:30:27,200
Speaker 1: could talk things through. I told her as calmly as possible,

1774
01:30:27,560 --> 01:30:29,840
Speaker 1: that wasn't how things were going to work. I was

1775
01:30:29,880 --> 01:30:32,920
Speaker 1: going to ask questions I wanted on honest answers. She

1776
01:30:33,000 --> 01:30:36,000
Speaker 1: told me she'd be honest, so I proceeded. My voice

1777
01:30:36,040 --> 01:30:38,960
Speaker 1: was shaking the entire time. It was taking me everything

1778
01:30:39,000 --> 01:30:41,640
Speaker 1: to hold it together, but I kept going, Was this

1779
01:30:41,720 --> 01:30:44,639
Speaker 1: the first time she had cheated? She started crying before

1780
01:30:44,680 --> 01:30:45,240
Speaker 1: she answered that.

1781
01:30:45,920 --> 01:30:52,200
Speaker 2: She told me, no, Oh, she's just hey, everybody, pack

1782
01:30:52,240 --> 01:30:52,559
Speaker 2: it up.

1783
01:30:52,640 --> 01:30:53,960
Speaker 3: She's just trash.

1784
01:30:54,560 --> 01:30:57,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, whoa, but bro, she is being This is maybe

1785
01:30:57,640 --> 01:30:59,960
Speaker 1: the most honest cheater we have seen in the history

1786
01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:03,200
Speaker 1: the show, because my god, she's just like coming out

1787
01:31:03,200 --> 01:31:03,400
Speaker 1: with it.

1788
01:31:03,760 --> 01:31:05,960
Speaker 2: How wasted what she had been to just walk through

1789
01:31:06,000 --> 01:31:06,760
Speaker 2: the front door and be.

1790
01:31:06,800 --> 01:31:09,320
Speaker 3: Like, you already know what it is. I've been doing

1791
01:31:09,360 --> 01:31:13,519
Speaker 3: it forever. Apparently, look at me, look at me?

1792
01:31:13,920 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 2: Does this look like your girlfriend or someone else's.

1793
01:31:18,600 --> 01:31:22,360
Speaker 3: Eh, I'm going to bed. I'm sorry.

1794
01:31:22,840 --> 01:31:25,320
Speaker 2: I'm sorry everybody.

1795
01:31:25,760 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 3: I'm sorry everybody.

1796
01:31:27,439 --> 01:31:30,519
Speaker 1: She had cheated on me multiple times over the course

1797
01:31:30,560 --> 01:31:33,400
Speaker 1: of our relationship. It was and I'm going to use

1798
01:31:33,439 --> 01:31:37,360
Speaker 1: her words exactly here, just hooking up a way for

1799
01:31:37,479 --> 01:31:38,760
Speaker 1: me to let off some steam.

1800
01:31:38,920 --> 01:31:42,240
Speaker 2: None of it ever meant anything. Oh wow, that's crazy.

1801
01:31:43,080 --> 01:31:44,200
Speaker 2: You don't get to decide that.

1802
01:31:44,479 --> 01:31:44,719
Speaker 4: Ooh.

1803
01:31:46,680 --> 01:31:49,599
Speaker 1: I wrote a comment shortly after making my post that

1804
01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:52,280
Speaker 1: all the love couldn't just fade away in one swoop?

1805
01:31:53,040 --> 01:31:56,920
Speaker 1: Well it can? It hit me right then, and that

1806
01:31:57,120 --> 01:32:00,280
Speaker 1: I wasn't dealing with my wife. The person I was

1807
01:32:00,320 --> 01:32:03,400
Speaker 1: married to literally wasn't in the room. Wait where'd you go?

1808
01:32:03,720 --> 01:32:05,479
Speaker 3: Oh? Oh, this weird?

1809
01:32:06,920 --> 01:32:09,679
Speaker 1: This was someone different. She refused to tell me exactly

1810
01:32:09,720 --> 01:32:11,920
Speaker 1: how many times she had She did just more than

1811
01:32:12,000 --> 01:32:12,559
Speaker 1: last night.

1812
01:32:12,760 --> 01:32:14,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, ex dude, that makes it sound like she

1813
01:32:14,720 --> 01:32:20,599
Speaker 2: doesn't even know She's like and between ten and fifteen,

1814
01:32:21,040 --> 01:32:21,519
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1815
01:32:21,920 --> 01:32:23,760
Speaker 1: Could be, could be a lot, could be. I feel

1816
01:32:23,760 --> 01:32:25,760
Speaker 1: like it was low she would say it. But the

1817
01:32:25,800 --> 01:32:32,839
Speaker 1: next question was has she used protection? She responded no,

1818
01:32:32,840 --> 01:32:35,519
Speaker 1: no hesitation from her.

1819
01:32:36,080 --> 01:32:39,280
Speaker 3: Is this demo? Before she nodded her head emphatically, you.

1820
01:32:39,600 --> 01:32:46,080
Speaker 2: Little cheeky yuy over here, she said, no hesitation, and

1821
01:32:46,120 --> 01:32:48,479
Speaker 2: then sugar head, oh.

1822
01:32:47,280 --> 01:32:51,360
Speaker 3: Uh no, we use protection. But was always acutely aware

1823
01:32:51,400 --> 01:32:53,120
Speaker 3: I was cheating on you. So we believe her after

1824
01:32:53,240 --> 01:32:54,840
Speaker 3: she's been lying this entire time.

1825
01:32:54,960 --> 01:32:57,360
Speaker 1: She could be I mean, I mean, honestly, she has

1826
01:32:57,439 --> 01:33:00,240
Speaker 1: been seemingly pretty forthright.

1827
01:33:00,120 --> 01:33:00,880
Speaker 3: Because she got cut.

1828
01:33:01,320 --> 01:33:03,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta you gotta yeah, but like she didn't

1829
01:33:03,640 --> 01:33:06,000
Speaker 2: even you gotta get your test, bro, she can't trust yeah,

1830
01:33:06,200 --> 01:33:09,000
Speaker 2: still trust her a thousand the test trust no, no,

1831
01:33:09,320 --> 01:33:11,519
Speaker 2: like even before all of this, get the test for sure,

1832
01:33:11,560 --> 01:33:13,000
Speaker 2: for sure, but any idea?

1833
01:33:13,080 --> 01:33:15,559
Speaker 1: So no hesitation from her before she nodded her head

1834
01:33:15,560 --> 01:33:18,679
Speaker 1: emphatically that she did use a protection. She seems surprised.

1835
01:33:18,680 --> 01:33:21,200
Speaker 1: I'd even ask that, I'm still going to get tested,

1836
01:33:21,240 --> 01:33:23,160
Speaker 1: just to be safe. I did some research into timing,

1837
01:33:23,240 --> 01:33:24,960
Speaker 1: and I'm going to look after it.

1838
01:33:25,600 --> 01:33:28,120
Speaker 3: Were her friends also cheating on their spouses?

1839
01:33:29,280 --> 01:33:33,800
Speaker 2: Listen, that's actually a really good I wouldn't even thought

1840
01:33:33,800 --> 01:33:34,240
Speaker 2: about that.

1841
01:33:34,240 --> 01:33:36,360
Speaker 3: That's a good question. Yeah, because they have their little

1842
01:33:36,360 --> 01:33:39,439
Speaker 3: circle and they're like, yeah, that's each other. That's a

1843
01:33:39,439 --> 01:33:40,000
Speaker 3: good question.

1844
01:33:40,680 --> 01:33:43,120
Speaker 2: I would want to know if I was being cheated

1845
01:33:43,160 --> 01:33:45,800
Speaker 2: on I am not the weekend. I would like to

1846
01:33:45,840 --> 01:33:48,519
Speaker 2: know if you're playing me, do not keep it on

1847
01:33:48,560 --> 01:33:48,880
Speaker 2: the low.

1848
01:33:49,000 --> 01:33:53,160
Speaker 3: Let me know I hear you. Uh.

1849
01:33:53,280 --> 01:33:55,439
Speaker 1: I tried to get her to tell me which if

1850
01:33:55,439 --> 01:33:58,679
Speaker 1: her friends were cheating, so I could get in contact

1851
01:33:58,680 --> 01:34:02,120
Speaker 1: with her spouses. She probably should have, because her refusal

1852
01:34:02,200 --> 01:34:04,720
Speaker 1: led me to messaging pretty much the romantic partner of

1853
01:34:04,880 --> 01:34:07,760
Speaker 1: every one of her girlfriends I could find on social media.

1854
01:34:07,960 --> 01:34:10,320
Speaker 1: There are a couple I don't know or couldn't find,

1855
01:34:10,640 --> 01:34:14,439
Speaker 1: but I did my part. Why did she do it?

1856
01:34:15,320 --> 01:34:18,280
Speaker 1: This was the answer that gutted me the most. I'm

1857
01:34:18,320 --> 01:34:20,920
Speaker 1: going to use her exact words again. I need to

1858
01:34:20,960 --> 01:34:24,160
Speaker 1: have to I need to have more spicy sleep variety.

1859
01:34:26,360 --> 01:34:28,880
Speaker 3: What is that? It means that.

1860
01:34:29,200 --> 01:34:31,280
Speaker 2: It just means you want to sleep with other people.

1861
01:34:31,400 --> 01:34:36,240
Speaker 3: It means variety. But it's like you can get that

1862
01:34:36,240 --> 01:34:41,840
Speaker 3: without sleeping with other people who No, she needs a variety.

1863
01:34:42,640 --> 01:34:46,160
Speaker 1: I told her that it's not like our spicy sleep

1864
01:34:46,200 --> 01:34:46,800
Speaker 1: life is dull.

1865
01:34:49,439 --> 01:34:52,719
Speaker 2: She I just made an entire character in my head

1866
01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:54,759
Speaker 2: based on that one voice that you just talked.

1867
01:34:54,760 --> 01:34:58,800
Speaker 3: It like a Dakota just creates whole world in his head.

1868
01:34:58,920 --> 01:35:00,880
Speaker 1: I did, and he he just went through a whole

1869
01:35:00,960 --> 01:35:03,040
Speaker 1: journey where he basically had a whole character and like

1870
01:35:03,120 --> 01:35:06,200
Speaker 1: TV animated TV that he just watched.

1871
01:35:06,240 --> 01:35:09,200
Speaker 2: You were like a bizarre version of Sigmund Freud for

1872
01:35:09,280 --> 01:35:11,360
Speaker 2: like relationship, like counseling.

1873
01:35:11,680 --> 01:35:15,480
Speaker 3: And it was just like she needs more roted variety,

1874
01:35:15,800 --> 01:35:20,720
Speaker 3: and it's just you. Okay, we can continue to go

1875
01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:23,080
Speaker 3: to makes me feel good about myself. I love this guy.

1876
01:35:24,760 --> 01:35:26,679
Speaker 3: So I told her that it's not like our spicy

1877
01:35:26,720 --> 01:35:27,479
Speaker 3: sleep life is dull.

1878
01:35:27,800 --> 01:35:31,400
Speaker 1: She clarified. She clarified, it's not the same as something new.

1879
01:35:32,520 --> 01:35:33,520
Speaker 1: That's not variety.

1880
01:35:34,000 --> 01:35:38,040
Speaker 2: That's but but but but but but but I disagree.

1881
01:35:39,760 --> 01:35:42,360
Speaker 2: Apparently you don't have to you don't need a new

1882
01:35:42,400 --> 01:35:46,919
Speaker 2: person to do new things within the context of the spice.

1883
01:35:47,960 --> 01:35:49,799
Speaker 3: She says, I must, I must sleep with other people.

1884
01:35:50,040 --> 01:35:53,720
Speaker 3: Must can just say that, just say it? I mean

1885
01:35:53,800 --> 01:35:56,800
Speaker 3: she did, Oh, she said variety. Yeah, she's trying to

1886
01:35:56,840 --> 01:35:58,840
Speaker 3: be like, well, no, it's not that, it's just say it.

1887
01:35:58,840 --> 01:35:59,400
Speaker 3: It's what it is.

1888
01:35:59,560 --> 01:36:03,320
Speaker 1: It's it's it's romantically entangled. He's the equivalent.

1889
01:36:03,360 --> 01:36:08,439
Speaker 3: It's the equivalent. It's an entanglement. I didn't even have

1890
01:36:08,560 --> 01:36:09,800
Speaker 3: a response to that one.

1891
01:36:09,920 --> 01:36:12,559
Speaker 1: I had expected something about me working too much or

1892
01:36:12,560 --> 01:36:16,280
Speaker 1: not supporting her emotionally. Nope, she just fed other guys

1893
01:36:16,320 --> 01:36:18,960
Speaker 1: because she felt like it. I wanted to have some fun.

1894
01:36:19,320 --> 01:36:21,360
Speaker 1: Girls just want to have fun on you know.

1895
01:36:22,160 --> 01:36:25,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah.

1896
01:36:25,240 --> 01:36:26,240
Speaker 3: When I didn't respond.

1897
01:36:26,720 --> 01:36:29,479
Speaker 1: When I didn't respond, she started asking me about counseling

1898
01:36:29,520 --> 01:36:34,320
Speaker 1: and therapy. I reiterated that our relationship was over. I'd

1899
01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:38,040
Speaker 1: be leaving. What she did next disgusted me. My ex

1900
01:36:38,160 --> 01:36:41,720
Speaker 1: actually tried to hook up with me. She put her

1901
01:36:41,720 --> 01:36:44,520
Speaker 1: hands on me and started taking off my clothes.

1902
01:36:46,040 --> 01:36:50,040
Speaker 3: Ooh girl, that's bad. That's a bad look. Not the time.

1903
01:36:50,680 --> 01:36:53,360
Speaker 3: I felt like I wanted to vomit and pushed her away.

1904
01:36:53,400 --> 01:36:54,559
Speaker 3: After a couple of seconds.

1905
01:36:54,920 --> 01:36:56,760
Speaker 1: She just kept trying to tell me that she would

1906
01:36:56,800 --> 01:36:58,960
Speaker 1: figure out a way to fix it, that we would

1907
01:36:59,000 --> 01:37:01,400
Speaker 1: work through it together. I told her that there was

1908
01:37:01,400 --> 01:37:04,960
Speaker 1: no way, and she started bawling again. It also is

1909
01:37:05,000 --> 01:37:10,280
Speaker 1: spelled balling like ballin' ballin, so it could be like she's.

1910
01:37:10,160 --> 01:37:10,760
Speaker 3: Find of like.

1911
01:37:13,000 --> 01:37:15,040
Speaker 2: I like the one where she's just playing basketball in

1912
01:37:15,040 --> 01:37:19,080
Speaker 2: the living room. Oh yeah, you just started balling boom

1913
01:37:19,760 --> 01:37:20,519
Speaker 2: dunking on him.

1914
01:37:20,840 --> 01:37:25,519
Speaker 1: Drained the three. She went to the bathroom and locked

1915
01:37:25,560 --> 01:37:28,600
Speaker 1: herself inside. Maybe that's where the little basketball hoop is?

1916
01:37:30,400 --> 01:37:31,320
Speaker 3: She's bawling out.

1917
01:37:32,320 --> 01:37:35,280
Speaker 1: I was sick of everything at that point. I called

1918
01:37:35,280 --> 01:37:37,040
Speaker 1: her mother and told her what.

1919
01:37:37,120 --> 01:37:37,680
Speaker 3: Was going on.

1920
01:37:37,720 --> 01:37:42,280
Speaker 2: Whoa, it smells like fish?

1921
01:37:42,400 --> 01:37:42,800
Speaker 3: It does?

1922
01:37:44,520 --> 01:37:46,919
Speaker 2: That is somebody opened up a stinky fish downstairs.

1923
01:37:47,040 --> 01:37:48,360
Speaker 3: Oh that's true.

1924
01:37:49,080 --> 01:37:51,360
Speaker 1: And told her what was going on, the full story

1925
01:37:51,400 --> 01:37:53,960
Speaker 1: to the cheating, the questions I had asked, and the

1926
01:37:54,000 --> 01:37:54,639
Speaker 1: fact that I.

1927
01:37:54,560 --> 01:37:56,240
Speaker 3: Was leaving that is strong.

1928
01:37:56,880 --> 01:38:00,000
Speaker 1: I've always had a good relationship with my ex's parents.

1929
01:38:00,360 --> 01:38:04,559
Speaker 1: They both decided to drive to town. They both decided

1930
01:38:04,600 --> 01:38:07,240
Speaker 1: to drive to town, which is about an hour from them.

1931
01:38:07,640 --> 01:38:09,920
Speaker 1: Once I knew someone was on the way, I just

1932
01:38:09,960 --> 01:38:13,000
Speaker 1: grabbed my things and left her. Waterworks in the bathroom

1933
01:38:13,000 --> 01:38:15,720
Speaker 1: were just annoying me because it felt hollow to me,

1934
01:38:15,880 --> 01:38:18,840
Speaker 1: especially given the answers to my questions. I ended up

1935
01:38:18,880 --> 01:38:21,040
Speaker 1: packing another bag before I left, just real quick. I

1936
01:38:21,080 --> 01:38:24,840
Speaker 1: feel like she's not crying for him or anything. She's

1937
01:38:24,880 --> 01:38:27,479
Speaker 1: maybe crying that she doesn't have like the I think

1938
01:38:27,520 --> 01:38:29,840
Speaker 1: she wanted the relationship life and the comfort of that,

1939
01:38:30,000 --> 01:38:31,720
Speaker 1: but also to be able to cheat and do whatever.

1940
01:38:31,840 --> 01:38:34,160
Speaker 3: She's like, I can't have my cake and eat it too.

1941
01:38:34,520 --> 01:38:36,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's it's probably a lot coming down

1942
01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:40,920
Speaker 2: on her at once where it's just like, Wow, I'm

1943
01:38:41,000 --> 01:38:42,519
Speaker 2: losing I'm losing it.

1944
01:38:42,600 --> 01:38:42,800
Speaker 3: All.

1945
01:38:43,520 --> 01:38:46,599
Speaker 2: Everything I thought I had literally a day ago, is gone.

1946
01:38:46,840 --> 01:38:47,160
Speaker 3: Yep.

1947
01:38:47,840 --> 01:38:51,559
Speaker 2: Not my apart, not living in the same place, not

1948
01:38:51,680 --> 01:38:56,080
Speaker 2: dating the same person. Not now. I can't cheat on

1949
01:38:56,200 --> 01:39:02,400
Speaker 2: my boyfriend because I don't have one cooking shrimp downstairs.

1950
01:39:02,439 --> 01:39:03,679
Speaker 3: Riley, what's going on? Riley?

1951
01:39:05,479 --> 01:39:05,759
Speaker 4: Cod?

1952
01:39:06,000 --> 01:39:10,880
Speaker 2: Wow, that is a stanky white fish.

1953
01:39:11,160 --> 01:39:12,360
Speaker 3: I love fish totally.

1954
01:39:12,479 --> 01:39:23,040
Speaker 2: Hell oh jees yeah, you smell You smell like a fishmonger. Yeah, dude,

1955
01:39:23,120 --> 01:39:25,519
Speaker 2: let me say how hot and humid it is in here.

1956
01:39:26,000 --> 01:39:28,760
Speaker 3: Oh, don't touch anything with those fish hands. I didn't

1957
01:39:28,800 --> 01:39:32,400
Speaker 3: touch the fish. You were to help the stream. And

1958
01:39:32,439 --> 01:39:33,200
Speaker 3: I'm getting bullied.

1959
01:39:33,400 --> 01:39:33,720
Speaker 2: Look at this.

1960
01:39:34,280 --> 01:39:37,080
Speaker 3: I'm coming up here. I'm to do this. I'm sorry,

1961
01:39:37,400 --> 01:39:37,760
Speaker 3: are you?

1962
01:39:38,040 --> 01:39:41,200
Speaker 2: Riley is here to fix TikTok? Everybody TikTok. The mic,

1963
01:39:41,680 --> 01:39:43,200
Speaker 2: the sound on TikTok's going nuts.

1964
01:39:43,560 --> 01:39:45,680
Speaker 3: It's good. We don't know how to still in the

1965
01:39:45,680 --> 01:39:50,200
Speaker 3: middle of a story. Oh yeah, baby, Oh yeah, baby baby.

1966
01:39:50,280 --> 01:39:57,519
Speaker 1: Anyways, So I ended up packing another bag before I

1967
01:39:57,600 --> 01:39:59,360
Speaker 1: left and took all the things that I could think

1968
01:39:59,400 --> 01:40:01,960
Speaker 1: of that felt sentimental or attached to with me.

1969
01:40:02,400 --> 01:40:03,320
Speaker 3: I found a parking lot.

1970
01:40:04,160 --> 01:40:07,639
Speaker 1: True sat in my parking lot, and I was able

1971
01:40:07,920 --> 01:40:10,160
Speaker 1: to get in contact with a buddy for a place

1972
01:40:10,160 --> 01:40:13,240
Speaker 1: to crash. I tried to take a nap, but I

1973
01:40:13,280 --> 01:40:15,920
Speaker 1: was running on way too much adrenaline. I knew when

1974
01:40:15,920 --> 01:40:18,640
Speaker 1: her parents, Sorry, guys, I knew when her parents had

1975
01:40:18,640 --> 01:40:20,720
Speaker 1: made it to the apartment because she started calling me.

1976
01:40:20,920 --> 01:40:23,439
Speaker 1: When I didn't answer those she started texting me. She

1977
01:40:23,520 --> 01:40:27,040
Speaker 1: had gone from sad and crying too furious. Apparently I'm

1978
01:40:27,040 --> 01:40:30,879
Speaker 1: an effing piece of crap for telling her mom everything. Whoops,

1979
01:40:31,520 --> 01:40:32,520
Speaker 1: I'm not sorry.

1980
01:40:32,479 --> 01:40:34,479
Speaker 2: Like your mom wasn't gonna find out.

1981
01:40:34,680 --> 01:40:39,599
Speaker 3: Dude, you're be mad at yourself. Be mad at yourself.

1982
01:40:39,640 --> 01:40:41,680
Speaker 2: I don't understand when people cheat. It's like and then

1983
01:40:41,720 --> 01:40:45,600
Speaker 2: they feel like, what why did you tell people everything?

1984
01:40:47,160 --> 01:40:51,519
Speaker 3: Perfect? Oh my god, what is that? What is that? Oh?

1985
01:40:51,680 --> 01:40:55,840
Speaker 2: Oh, it's the consequences of your actions, That's what that is.

1986
01:40:56,200 --> 01:40:57,160
Speaker 3: Voice was a little scary.

1987
01:40:57,640 --> 01:41:00,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't know. I'm slipping into the beyond.

1988
01:41:00,479 --> 01:41:01,920
Speaker 3: Realm, we're going into the beyond.

1989
01:41:02,040 --> 01:41:03,960
Speaker 2: I'm in that door in bad bath and beyond that

1990
01:41:04,000 --> 01:41:06,240
Speaker 2: you walk into and it's just beyond. And I get

1991
01:41:06,240 --> 01:41:08,160
Speaker 2: to say that because they don't exist anymore.

1992
01:41:08,960 --> 01:41:12,880
Speaker 3: And we bankrupt ALRIGHTP but no free sponsors, right, but.

1993
01:41:12,920 --> 01:41:18,880
Speaker 2: They don't exist, so even if they can't pay us anyway.

1994
01:41:20,479 --> 01:41:23,360
Speaker 3: Now, they arranged from name calling. Oh.

1995
01:41:23,479 --> 01:41:27,400
Speaker 1: I received roughly one hundred texts from from her since leaving.

1996
01:41:28,000 --> 01:41:30,400
Speaker 1: They arrange from name calling all the way to begging

1997
01:41:30,400 --> 01:41:32,479
Speaker 1: me to come back, to sending me pictures of food

1998
01:41:32,560 --> 01:41:33,920
Speaker 1: she ate for some reason.

1999
01:41:34,040 --> 01:41:39,880
Speaker 3: That is the full spectrum of techs ig eats first. Yeah, angry, remorseful,

2000
01:41:39,960 --> 01:41:43,439
Speaker 3: and hungry. I was just hungry.

2001
01:41:44,320 --> 01:41:46,200
Speaker 1: The phone should have made first. I should have made

2002
01:41:46,240 --> 01:41:48,400
Speaker 1: first mod on my phone. I haven't responded to any

2003
01:41:48,439 --> 01:41:51,200
Speaker 1: of them. I feel like I said my piece before leaving.

2004
01:41:51,840 --> 01:41:55,240
Speaker 1: By the way, if you ever want to say your piece,

2005
01:41:55,320 --> 01:41:57,960
Speaker 1: or more importantly, you see this thing right here here

2006
01:41:58,680 --> 01:42:03,880
Speaker 1: your piece. We have full episodes, chock full stories just

2007
01:42:03,960 --> 01:42:07,280
Speaker 1: like this. Go to Spotify, Apple Podcast, your favorite podcast

2008
01:42:07,320 --> 01:42:10,880
Speaker 1: app search. Okay, story time, The full episodes are there.

2009
01:42:11,720 --> 01:42:14,240
Speaker 3: You are welcome. Go right now, go right now.

2010
01:42:14,240 --> 01:42:17,840
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear anyone channeling Obi Wan saying

2011
01:42:17,960 --> 01:42:19,400
Speaker 2: well they all archives are being complete.

2012
01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:24,760
Speaker 3: They're not. They're not. They're complete, they're complete. Let me

2013
01:42:24,800 --> 01:42:30,160
Speaker 3: tell you something. But uh, Dakota, what are we? What

2014
01:42:30,280 --> 01:42:31,800
Speaker 3: are we thinking here as we approach the end of

2015
01:42:31,840 --> 01:42:32,160
Speaker 3: the story?

2016
01:42:32,280 --> 01:42:34,680
Speaker 2: What what?

2017
01:42:36,080 --> 01:42:37,760
Speaker 3: What? You are better off?

2018
01:42:37,880 --> 01:42:41,439
Speaker 2: Don't look back, move forward, Do not look back. You're

2019
01:42:41,520 --> 01:42:43,760
Speaker 2: better off without this person in your life. They're they

2020
01:42:43,840 --> 01:42:47,240
Speaker 2: are going to learn the hard way that you know.

2021
01:42:48,040 --> 01:42:50,960
Speaker 2: This is what happens when you're the consequences of your

2022
01:42:51,040 --> 01:42:51,839
Speaker 2: actions catch.

2023
01:42:51,720 --> 01:42:55,280
Speaker 3: Up with you. Yep, and there it is, there we go.

2024
01:42:55,479 --> 01:42:59,599
Speaker 3: Riley just clapped for me. I was dumping. Oh sorry,

2025
01:42:59,760 --> 01:43:03,960
Speaker 3: I Kean was doing jumping jacks. Yeah. So I mean

2026
01:43:04,000 --> 01:43:06,760
Speaker 3: that's it. That's really all it is. It says you.

2027
01:43:07,160 --> 01:43:10,280
Speaker 2: She did the you know, at least it wasn't like

2028
01:43:10,840 --> 01:43:15,360
Speaker 2: a long hard process to get the truth out. It

2029
01:43:15,439 --> 01:43:17,960
Speaker 2: came out pretty quick. And then now you can just

2030
01:43:18,000 --> 01:43:19,519
Speaker 2: move forward. Don't worry about her.

2031
01:43:19,680 --> 01:43:23,360
Speaker 3: She'll be fine. Live your life. Brother, you'll both be fine,

2032
01:43:23,680 --> 01:43:27,040
Speaker 3: live your life, better off without her. Also, this is

2033
01:43:27,160 --> 01:43:30,280
Speaker 3: ug I don't know what it is you're talking about,

2034
01:43:30,400 --> 01:43:32,559
Speaker 3: but no, oh.

2035
01:43:34,960 --> 01:43:43,280
Speaker 2: Bie you guys, Hey, we almost had a little boo boo.

2036
01:43:43,680 --> 01:43:46,160
Speaker 2: I hope nobody got a feedback loop of death.

2037
01:43:46,280 --> 01:43:47,920
Speaker 3: No booboos. No, I don't think of.

2038
01:43:49,400 --> 01:43:49,519
Speaker 4: All.

2039
01:43:49,640 --> 01:43:52,200
Speaker 3: We were so close to the feedback loop that would

2040
01:43:52,200 --> 01:43:55,640
Speaker 3: have been so bad. We were close, though. Riley's just

2041
01:43:55,760 --> 01:43:57,240
Speaker 3: working hard to fix TikTok.

2042
01:43:57,360 --> 01:44:00,439
Speaker 2: He's working hard, but working hard lobbying the US government

2043
01:44:00,520 --> 01:44:03,160
Speaker 2: to not be true.

2044
01:44:03,920 --> 01:44:08,120
Speaker 3: Okay, well, let's finish this. Let's finish it.

2045
01:44:09,120 --> 01:44:09,560
Speaker 6: We got it.

2046
01:44:09,720 --> 01:44:10,960
Speaker 3: We've got it in the bag.

2047
01:44:11,880 --> 01:44:15,280
Speaker 1: So that's where I'm at right now. We do not

2048
01:44:15,439 --> 01:44:17,719
Speaker 1: We didn't have joint finances, so that part was easy.

2049
01:44:18,040 --> 01:44:20,200
Speaker 1: I canceled all the subscriptions that go to my credit

2050
01:44:20,280 --> 01:44:24,360
Speaker 1: card just to be sure, and changed all my important passwords.

2051
01:44:24,600 --> 01:44:26,479
Speaker 1: I'm crashing on a friend's couch for the next bit,

2052
01:44:26,640 --> 01:44:29,360
Speaker 1: but I've got some feelers out to some short term

2053
01:44:29,439 --> 01:44:32,479
Speaker 1: rental places, the same way that she had some feelers

2054
01:44:32,520 --> 01:44:33,559
Speaker 1: out on other things.

2055
01:44:34,280 --> 01:44:40,439
Speaker 3: Ooh, like other guys feeling other men. Yep.

2056
01:44:41,439 --> 01:44:44,280
Speaker 1: And until i can find something more permanent, I've got

2057
01:44:44,400 --> 01:44:48,400
Speaker 1: feelers out for a divorce attorney too. A coworker of

2058
01:44:48,439 --> 01:44:51,839
Speaker 1: mine had a recommendation, so barring something better, I'll probably

2059
01:44:52,040 --> 01:44:54,080
Speaker 1: go with them. I also wanted to say that I

2060
01:44:54,200 --> 01:44:57,519
Speaker 1: was shocked how supportive everyone was, and thank you for that, truly,

2061
01:44:57,600 --> 01:44:59,519
Speaker 1: from the bottom of my heart. It isn't easy for

2062
01:44:59,600 --> 01:45:01,640
Speaker 1: me to talk about emotional things with people close to me.

2063
01:45:02,200 --> 01:45:05,720
Speaker 1: This was an invaluable venting place for me. So thank

2064
01:45:05,760 --> 01:45:10,320
Speaker 1: you all so much. And you're welcome. Obie, You're welcome.

2065
01:45:12,479 --> 01:45:16,120
Speaker 3: Yay onwards and upwards.

2066
01:45:16,560 --> 01:45:21,519
Speaker 1: Onwards and mother flipping upwards. You'll be all right, You'll

2067
01:45:21,560 --> 01:45:25,320
Speaker 1: be all right. You know you've you're moving on. You're

2068
01:45:25,360 --> 01:45:27,600
Speaker 1: doing exactly what.

2069
01:45:27,800 --> 01:45:30,240
Speaker 3: You should be doing. Brother. Also, you need to know

2070
01:45:30,320 --> 01:45:34,360
Speaker 3: what a h hernia is? Is that what I had?

2071
01:45:35,360 --> 01:45:37,519
Speaker 3: What you have? It could be what you have. That's

2072
01:45:37,560 --> 01:45:40,000
Speaker 3: what this is. Ugly, I had a hernia at birth?

2073
01:45:40,400 --> 01:45:41,240
Speaker 3: Is that what that means?

2074
01:45:41,600 --> 01:45:41,840
Speaker 2: Huh?

2075
01:45:43,200 --> 01:45:44,880
Speaker 1: I had a hernia at birth. I don't know if

2076
01:45:44,920 --> 01:45:49,120
Speaker 1: this is us I did? Yeah in your throat? No

2077
01:45:49,520 --> 01:45:51,240
Speaker 1: hernie in my ball sack?

2078
01:45:51,320 --> 01:45:58,560
Speaker 2: Brother, that happens there, I think is like up in

2079
01:45:58,640 --> 01:46:00,400
Speaker 2: your esophagus or something.

2080
01:46:00,439 --> 01:46:06,160
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, yeah, but you oh

2081
01:46:06,240 --> 01:46:07,080
Speaker 1: your balls are okay.

2082
01:46:07,800 --> 01:46:10,519
Speaker 3: They they had to be operated on story time.

2083
01:46:10,680 --> 01:46:15,560
Speaker 2: They gave you cyborg balls. No I'm not no, no, no,

2084
01:46:15,600 --> 01:46:17,280
Speaker 2: no no, no, I've got yes, they did.

2085
01:46:17,479 --> 01:46:20,080
Speaker 3: I've got all originals. We'll just tell you lean into that.

2086
01:46:20,280 --> 01:46:23,200
Speaker 2: I guess I don't really you want to you're cyberpunk dude,

2087
01:46:24,080 --> 01:46:25,719
Speaker 2: you're cyberpunk right now.

2088
01:46:25,720 --> 01:46:28,360
Speaker 4: I need to spray it with a bottle. What I

2089
01:46:28,439 --> 01:46:30,760
Speaker 4: need to spray you with a bottle? No, I just

2090
01:46:30,840 --> 01:46:32,559
Speaker 4: want to see how you were act. That was okay,

2091
01:46:32,800 --> 01:46:36,680
Speaker 4: I would go eh eh, I just want to spray them.

2092
01:46:37,520 --> 01:46:38,960
Speaker 3: Let's spray them, see them.

2093
01:46:39,040 --> 01:46:40,680
Speaker 2: But when we when you spray me, we have to

2094
01:46:40,720 --> 01:46:42,600
Speaker 2: do it in the way where it comically comes in

2095
01:46:42,680 --> 01:46:46,160
Speaker 2: from the side of frame, like the hook, like the

2096
01:46:46,200 --> 01:46:47,960
Speaker 2: big hook on stage that people.

2097
01:46:49,400 --> 01:46:50,880
Speaker 3: All right, let's finish up with these.

2098
01:46:52,120 --> 01:46:55,439
Speaker 2: Angelina thirty three fifty five. Thanks for the five dollars.

2099
01:46:55,520 --> 01:46:58,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, my first live. I've been listening to

2100
01:46:58,760 --> 01:47:02,280
Speaker 2: the catalog every day while delivering mail. Well, thank you

2101
01:47:02,320 --> 01:47:04,840
Speaker 2: for delivering that mail, Angelina, I appreciate it. Thank you

2102
01:47:04,920 --> 01:47:07,400
Speaker 2: for listening to us, Awkward Turtle, thank you for the

2103
01:47:07,560 --> 01:47:13,000
Speaker 2: forty dollars. Thanks Awkward just pow right in the tiplingk what.

2104
01:47:14,680 --> 01:47:14,800
Speaker 7: Uh?

2105
01:47:15,160 --> 01:47:18,880
Speaker 2: And Abby's Amazon, thank you for the fifteen dollars. Hello

2106
01:47:19,040 --> 01:47:22,760
Speaker 2: from Canada and the six plus feet of snow. Thanks

2107
01:47:22,800 --> 01:47:25,519
Speaker 2: for keeping me entertained while I watch more snow fall

2108
01:47:25,600 --> 01:47:28,560
Speaker 2: from the sky and question when it will stop.

2109
01:47:29,720 --> 01:47:32,439
Speaker 3: Ibby, we will gladly take send the snow over here.

2110
01:47:32,520 --> 01:47:38,200
Speaker 2: Please send it to Big Bear. Please send over well,

2111
01:47:38,439 --> 01:47:39,280
Speaker 2: send it to the fire.

2112
01:47:39,120 --> 01:47:41,040
Speaker 3: First and then send it to be Bear. Yeah, send

2113
01:47:41,120 --> 01:47:44,800
Speaker 3: to us, send to palisation. Is that is it?

2114
01:47:45,400 --> 01:47:46,559
Speaker 2: Every who?

2115
01:47:48,439 --> 01:47:52,680
Speaker 3: We're done? I guess I guess yes, no, maybe, so

2116
01:47:54,479 --> 01:47:54,800
Speaker 3: there we go.

2117
01:47:54,960 --> 01:47:57,920
Speaker 2: Guess I guess that's that. Hey, you know, all good

2118
01:47:58,000 --> 01:47:59,519
Speaker 2: things must come to an.

2119
01:47:59,520 --> 01:48:04,000
Speaker 3: End, unfortunately, but you know what's great. We're going to

2120
01:48:04,040 --> 01:48:08,519
Speaker 3: be live again tomorrow on a members only on a

2121
01:48:08,560 --> 01:48:11,439
Speaker 3: members only stream on YouTube. That's a So if you

2122
01:48:12,600 --> 01:48:14,599
Speaker 3: you want to join the stream tomorrow, you need a membership.

2123
01:48:15,840 --> 01:48:19,160
Speaker 3: Just get a membership. How m is the number one five?

2124
01:48:19,360 --> 01:48:20,200
Speaker 3: You got five on it?

2125
01:48:21,360 --> 01:48:23,799
Speaker 2: For five bucks a month, you can more than double

2126
01:48:23,880 --> 01:48:27,160
Speaker 2: your stream exposure. That's right, Monday, Wednesday, Friday.

2127
01:48:27,800 --> 01:48:30,360
Speaker 3: That's a lot. That's that's that's triple. And if you

2128
01:48:30,479 --> 01:48:32,919
Speaker 3: can't swing that, hey, guess what we'll be back Thursday.

2129
01:48:33,000 --> 01:48:36,360
Speaker 3: We'll be back. We're still here. So we'll say if

2130
01:48:36,680 --> 01:48:41,400
Speaker 3: you love us, make sure you subscribe. We love you

2131
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Speaker 3: and see it all