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Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm 28 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: thirty eight and I'm married my beautiful wife five years ago. 29 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: We both have great jobs and we bought a big 30 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: house for our family. When we got married. She came 31 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: with three kids and her nephew that she's raising for 32 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: her sister. No problem. I did not have children, and 33 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: I loved being a father. All of a sudden, I 34 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: have a job that involves a lot of travel, and 35 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: for the past year I've been out working overseas and 36 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: I came home as much as possible, but with the pandemic, 37 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: it was challenging to get back home. That ended four 38 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: months ago, and I'm back home for good. Since I 39 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: got back home, I'm beginning to hate my life and 40 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: my wife. She has become a very controlling person, and 41 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: it's all because I left her alone for so long. 42 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: I had this job when we met, and she knew 43 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: what it entailed, so I was surprised by her attitude 44 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: when I got home. She has given me an ultimatum 45 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: to get rid of any female friends that I have, 46 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: even if she's cool with them. Every weekend, she has 47 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: a honey do list for me, so if I want 48 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: to hang out with my boys, that's out. She keeps 49 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: telling me that I have a lot of things to 50 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: take care of around the house since I have been 51 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: gone so long. She goes through my phone when I'm asleep, 52 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: and it's not a problem because I leave it right there. 53 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: If she wants to go through it, I have nothing 54 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: to hide. Sex is always at her command, and she 55 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: determines when it's over. I tried to discipline the kids 56 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: and she always tells me I got it, So I 57 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: let her have that and everything else she wants to control. 58 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: I want to go back to the country I was 59 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: living in last year. How can I get my loving 60 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: wife back? Well, I gotta This is what I see 61 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: in this letter. I see that you, sir, are selfish, 62 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: and you're a little whiny, and you and your wife, 63 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: I mean, and your wife and I are not here 64 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: for it. The thing is, people change, situations change, and 65 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: they're supposed to change. You've been gone, like you said, 66 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: a whole year. You came back expecting things to be 67 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: just like you left them. No, that's not the way 68 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: life works. I mean, have you ever considered for a 69 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: moment how what she's been going through over here by herself. 70 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: I mean, that's why she's so upset with you. Yes, 71 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 1: she knew what kind of job you had initially, but 72 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: that was five years ago, and you were gone for 73 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: a very long time. She had to step way up. 74 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: And may I remind you that she was alone raising 75 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: four kids while she was still working. She was, for 76 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 1: all intents and purposes, she was the man of the house. Okay, 77 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: And it sounds like she doesn't trust you anymore. What 78 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 1: happened while you were away all that time? You didn't 79 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 1: cheat overseas? I know it's not in the letter, but 80 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you didn't cheat overseas, not one time. 81 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, come on, you could tell Steve 82 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 1: and I you could tell us if you did. You 83 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 1: didn't put it in a letter. She doesn't want you 84 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: around any females anymore. She goes through your phone. Something 85 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: has caused her to change. To get her back. What 86 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: I can tell you is you gotta try harder. I mean, 87 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: you guys have got to reconnect. I mean, where's the romance. 88 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 1: Have you tried that? You didn't mention any of that. 89 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: You just came back wanting things to be like they were. 90 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: I mean, where's a consideration for what she's been going through. 91 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: I think you should think about that while you're complaining 92 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: about what your wife isn't doing. Steve, Well, she wants 93 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: to be the man of the house. I see a 94 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: couple of things wrong. I see wrong in both parties myself. 95 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 1: She's thirty eight, you married. He's thirty eight, married to 96 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: the beautiful wife. Five years ago, great jobs, bought a 97 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: big house, got married. She came with three kids and 98 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: her nephew. She was raising for a sister. Guy said, 99 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 1: no problem, said I didn't have children. I love being 100 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: a father. All of a sudden, I got a job 101 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 1: that travels him allot. For the past year, been out 102 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: there overseas working. Came home as much as possible. With 103 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: the pandemic, it was challenging to get back home. That 104 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,799 Speaker 1: ended four months ago, and I'm back home for good. 105 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: Now since he came back home, I'm beginning to hate. 106 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: I'm beginning to hate my life and my wife. Now 107 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: you're gonna tell me why. But and I'm gonna tell 108 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: you why. She has become very controlling person. Well she hasn't. 109 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 1: She had to be because she was in charge of everything. Yeah, 110 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 1: she had to take control with the four kids. Okay, 111 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: And it's all because I left her alone for so long. 112 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: Ta Okay, do you understand, bro, I had this job 113 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: when we met, and she knew what it entailed. She 114 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 1: had no idea you would be gone this long. She 115 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: had no idea that would be a pandemic. She had 116 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: no idea you wouldn't going to be able to come 117 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 1: home for Hold. That's Steve, hold that thought. Okay, we'll 118 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: have part two of your response coming up at twenty 119 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject she 120 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: wants to be the man of the house. We'll get 121 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey 122 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's 123 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject she wants to be the man 124 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 1: of the house. See this guy married this beautiful woman 125 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: been married five years. She came with four kids. He 126 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: loved being a father. They had great jobs, They bought 127 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: a big house, they moved in. Everything was great. He 128 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: has a job that he travels a lot. So that 129 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 1: was it. The pandemic hit. It was hard for him 130 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: to come from overseas. He's been overseas for a whole year, 131 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: and now when he came back, he hates his life 132 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: and his wife because he says that this woman has 133 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: become controlling and it's all because I left her alone 134 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: for so long. Well, you have your answer right there, sir. 135 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: I mean she's been in charge of everything for a year. 136 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: And then you said I had this job when we met, 137 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: and she knew what it did entailed. Well that's not 138 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: entirely true. She may have known what the job entailed, 139 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 1: but she did not know what the pandemic would entail, 140 00:07:56,080 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: as did none of us. No one saw this coming. No, 141 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: she didn't know that you couldn't come back home, but 142 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: a couple of times in the past year, she didn't 143 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: know that she was gonna miss her husband. The pandemic 144 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: had them kids at home too. They couldn't go to school. 145 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: So now she at home. She probably working for home. 146 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: She got them four kids at home. That's a lot. Dog. 147 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: So then she gave you an ultimatum to get rid 148 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: of any female friends that I have, even if she's 149 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: cool with them. Now, that came out of nowhere, So 150 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to assume. Don't nothing just come out of nowhere. 151 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: You have some female friends that takes up whatever, a 152 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: little bit of time you have to make up for 153 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: being gone so long. And now you're sitting up on 154 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: the phone talking to these girls, and you've been gone 155 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 1: all this time, and ain't no telling what conversations you 156 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: had with him while you was gone. On Like Shirley said, 157 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: what you're doing. You've been gone a year? Dog, Come on, Pardner, 158 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: let's get see in the pandemic. So now she told 159 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: you you gotta get altimating. You gotta get rid of 160 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 1: all the female friends out there, even if she's cool 161 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: with them. You're thirty eight, you're married, you're a father. 162 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: I don't even see how you got time for female friends, 163 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,719 Speaker 1: which are taking up time that you would have to 164 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:22,199 Speaker 1: devote to your family since you've been gone every weekend. 165 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: She got a honey due list for me. So if 166 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: I want to hang out with my boys, women. Women 167 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:30,719 Speaker 1: do you've been gone for a year, you're back. You 168 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: got the female friends. You don't really want to give 169 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: them off? Now you want You don't want no honey 170 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: due lists. You don't want nothing to do she been 171 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: doing all year with the kids. You got a honey 172 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: due list on the weekend and you want to hang 173 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 1: out with your boys, partner, Come on, man, it's time 174 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: for her to get a break. See you're coming home 175 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: wanting breaks, but you really be trying to find need 176 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: to be trying to find a way to give her 177 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: a break. You could save your marriage if you would 178 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: take some time out to of her a break. She 179 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 1: keeps telling me I have a lot of things to 180 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: take care of around the house since I've been gone 181 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: so long that that sounds like true. She goes through 182 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:10,439 Speaker 1: my phone when I'm asleep, and it's not a problem 183 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 1: because I leave it right there. If she wants to 184 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: go through it, I have nothing to hide. Well, she 185 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 1: found something before. Ain't a woman just suspiciously going through 186 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 1: your phone without being suspicious? Partners, something happened that you 187 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: ain't putting in the letter? All right? Sex is always 188 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 1: at her command, and she determines when it's over now. 189 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: Ain't that always the case when they're no, that's that's 190 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 1: we're done here. They do determine when it's over. You 191 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: do realize that stop, uh, stay over it. I don't 192 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: want I'm tired. Catch me in the morning. Okay, yeah, Bro. 193 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: So I don't know why you put that in the letter. 194 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: It ain't a man know where going? I feel you, dog. 195 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: I tried to discipline the kids and she always tells 196 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: me I got it. So I let her had that 197 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 1: everything else she wants and everything else she wants to control. 198 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 1: Now here's the key to the letter. I want to 199 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 1: go back to the country I was living in last year. See, 200 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: wasn't all these problems over there? But now she was 201 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: over here catching hell with the four kids. Bro, And 202 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: you don't really see how can I get my loving 203 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: wife back? Well, the only way I think you can 204 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: get her back has become the loving husband. Because right now, man, 205 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: I was trying to be on your side a little 206 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:40,719 Speaker 1: bit dull. But the more I read this letter, you 207 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: got to really you got to come in here and 208 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: make her for lost time. Now she has changed, but 209 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: the pandemic changed her. The little wild sex kidding you 210 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: had and all that had to be a mother at 211 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:57,719 Speaker 1: the house, homeschool and at the house and working from 212 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: the house. The pandemic ate up, ate up, a lottery ships, dog, 213 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 1: the family dynamics change. They are all home now. Now 214 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 1: you're back and you want to sit on the phone 215 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: with the girls and hang out with your boys. She's 216 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: gotten used to handling everything. She's been doing it for 217 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 1: a year. She got a system in place. Now now 218 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: you have things you have to get back to. You 219 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: gotta get you. You gotta get a lot of up 220 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: keep back with the kids in the house. You gotta 221 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: gain her trust back. And if you don't want to 222 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 1: put the work in, bro, then this marriage is over. Yeah. 223 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: And now let me tell you what's gonna happen. She's 224 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: gonna have some proof and all this money you're making 225 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:42,719 Speaker 1: oversees them two good jobs. She's gonna get half that. 226 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: You do understand that. So you can get your loving 227 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: wife back if you get back to being who you're 228 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: supposed to be. Dog. And I hate to dump this 229 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 1: on your player, but really that's what it sounded like 230 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: in this letter. Good luck all right. Post your comments 231 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: on Today'sberry letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, 232 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You're 233 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.