WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Shelter Date

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<v Speaker 1>Second update. We've got a guy on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today. His name is Nathan. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know a lot of people will come onto the

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<v Speaker 1>show and they say, I have no idea why they

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't call me back. I'm the ultimate gentleman. Just ask

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<v Speaker 1>my mom who I live with and share a crossbow collection,

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<v Speaker 1>which that sounds about accurate. But Nathan's not like that.

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<v Speaker 1>He knows that he had a few mishaps on his

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<v Speaker 1>first date and he's looking to get some help. Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing good? How are Yeah? Can I just

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<v Speaker 1>first say thank you? It's always nice to have someone

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone that is somewhat self aware. Yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not asking for total awareness, just a little bit, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just tiny bit of awareness. Yeah, you know we all

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<v Speaker 1>have our faults. Well, yeah, that's true. Don't over generalize.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of us are perfect, but don't lump us in

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Let's talk though about the girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>went out with what's her name? Chloe? Wow? That was

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<v Speaker 1>that was a lot. I feel like you need to

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<v Speaker 1>explain more how you feel about Chloe. Listen, we met

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<v Speaker 1>on a dating west site. We talked back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>for like a week or so. It's really great, super pretty,

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<v Speaker 1>and this kind of shallow. But she's a she's a brunette,

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<v Speaker 1>and like everyone that I've dated in the past, like

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<v Speaker 1>I've been stuck in this blonde rut. I guess. Wow. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't need to call it a rut, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan as a blonde woman myself, I'm sorry. We all

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<v Speaker 1>have low points in our dating life. Well, we all

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<v Speaker 1>went through the blonde phase and stop with a blonde

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<v Speaker 1>phase that's always in the past. Yeah, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>finally met a good brunette girl. That's right, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was just trying to switch it up. He was really great,

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<v Speaker 1>She's super sweet. I'm sorry, continue, Nathan. Yeah, what did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys do on your date? So it was her idea.

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<v Speaker 1>She volunteers and an animal shelter. Yeah, and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that's super great. I'm eat with animals. This will be

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<v Speaker 1>a really great thing. And then she said we could

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<v Speaker 1>grab something a bite to eat after birds, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we met up and I went all in. Was I

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<v Speaker 1>had to like wearing the vest. Okay, you guys are loving,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is so cute. This may be the most

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<v Speaker 1>wholesome first date we have ever heard on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's great because women are always in a great

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<v Speaker 1>mood whenever they're around animals, Like you can't be sad

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<v Speaker 1>while you're petting a puppy. Yeah right. But here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm I really wanted to impress her. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm eating and I'm playing with the animals and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>cleaning up their poop. And you know the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>every single animal I came up to, they were like

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<v Speaker 1>scared of me. They did not like me. Like the

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<v Speaker 1>dogs would just bark at me or go into the

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<v Speaker 1>corner of the cats they would hiss at me. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. It wasn't just one animal though, it was

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<v Speaker 1>every single one then I went up to I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>even the hamster was scared of me. Did Chloe notice it?

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<v Speaker 1>She had to have noticed it, but she didn't say

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<v Speaker 1>anything to me about it. So it's not a good

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<v Speaker 1>sign because animals are supposed to be really good at

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<v Speaker 1>picking up on like humans and whether or not they're

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<v Speaker 1>a good person or not. So she should have put

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<v Speaker 1>bacon in your pocket. That's what you should have done.

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<v Speaker 1>And I am, like, traditionally, I'm really good with animals,

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<v Speaker 1>so I wanted to impress her, But I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I've botched it. Okay, I will say, to your credit,

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<v Speaker 1>because I have kind of a shy, skinnish rescue dog,

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<v Speaker 1>and she can sense when people are overcompensating, like they're overtrying,

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<v Speaker 1>and she is not into that. I'm serious. She can

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<v Speaker 1>tell you're trying to be too friendly to her, you're

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<v Speaker 1>up in her face. She doesn't like that, man, dog,

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<v Speaker 1>you're overcompensating. I'm telling you, my dog doesn't like people

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<v Speaker 1>who overcompensate. But my dog thinks you're trying to Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. And that's the thing too, I guess, is

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<v Speaker 1>like as I went on, I was just more and

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<v Speaker 1>more desperate, and so I maybe maybe biggest film the

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<v Speaker 1>desperation I'm telling you. Were you able to recover over drinks? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we went to dinner afterwards, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't bring it up. I didn't bring it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing where I screwed up. Though I kept saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I had this like nervous tick of like I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe we're meeting and you're cool. You're like, you're this cool,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm thinking, go back to it. I've said it

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of times, and I've never said that before

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<v Speaker 1>to anyone, and so it was heartfelt, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was nervous. I don't know. Yeah, well, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you say it one time and you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so nice, you say it ten times you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you thought? I was like some troll on

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<v Speaker 1>an internet site? And why do you even agree to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with me if you such low expectations to

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<v Speaker 1>begin with? I can understand when you're meeting people online,

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't know what you're getting into, You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what type of person they're going to be. You

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't say it the right way. That's exactly how

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<v Speaker 1>I felt. Okay, good, at least that was like your

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<v Speaker 1>only mistake of the day, Well there is there's one more?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, okay up. And then so when we were done,

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, as a nice thing to do, I

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<v Speaker 1>offered to give her a ride home, okay, and she declined.

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<v Speaker 1>She drove on her own, and so, like I was

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<v Speaker 1>just concerned for her safety, So I followed her home.

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<v Speaker 1>Who safety? Why would you do that? I don't know, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I just felt like I needed to do

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<v Speaker 1>something at least really nice for her. Hold on, So

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<v Speaker 1>you stalked her back to her house. Yeah, wait, did

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<v Speaker 1>you follow her home and leave or did you do

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<v Speaker 1>anything when you followed her lurk outside of her door.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't trying to be creepy or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But when she got inside, the lights flicked on, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think she looked out the window, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>I panicked and I sped off. Oh my god, you

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<v Speaker 1>mean a random dude on the internet and he follows

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<v Speaker 1>to you to your house and then you make weird

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<v Speaker 1>eye contact with him out your window. Heel away like

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<v Speaker 1>an innocent person does. Guys, like I said, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if she saw me before I panicked, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if she even noticed what the animals thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just don't know why she's not calling me back,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why I need your help. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song, come back, call Chloe and

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<v Speaker 1>try and get your second date update. We'll figure out

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<v Speaker 1>if it's reason ABCT or mystery reason that Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, all right, hold on it. When you go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a first date, it's a lot of guys

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<v Speaker 1>that will try to impress a woman by handing them

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<v Speaker 1>a big bouquet of red roses. Oh wow, Yeah, a

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<v Speaker 1>little cliche, but okay. Nathan basically gave his date a

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<v Speaker 1>big bouquet of red flags on their first date. Romantic. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they went to an animal shelter where all the animals

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<v Speaker 1>were barking and hissing at him the whole time. And

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<v Speaker 1>then after that he secretly followed her car home, and

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<v Speaker 1>then when she turned on the lights in her house,

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<v Speaker 1>he sped away. Yeah yeah, presumably knocking over some garbage

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<v Speaker 1>cans and a couple of fruit stands as he peeled out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just how it works. But now Nathan knows it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't his best showing, and he's hoping we can get

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<v Speaker 1>him another shot after that recap. Hey, but you know what, Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>I got good news for you. Yeah. I know. Women,

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<v Speaker 1>they're my people, and we are so good at overlooking

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<v Speaker 1>red flags and just ignoring them. We are so good

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<v Speaker 1>at it. Well, I'm a nice guy. I'm not you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean her any harm. I just was nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, it's not like they're like actual red flags,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm a good guy. Yeah, I think they're pretty

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<v Speaker 1>red flaggy. Oh yeah, well that sounds like something a

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<v Speaker 1>blonde would say, Okay, listen, fair point, Nathan, majority of

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<v Speaker 1>blows are actually brunette. Okay, Oh, that's just saying it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to be natural. All right. We could talk about

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<v Speaker 1>this all but instead we're gonna dial Chloe's phone number

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<v Speaker 1>for you and try and get you your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, all right, thanks guys. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Chloe please? Hi? Speaking Hi Chloe.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing? This is young Jeffrey from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm sorry, what

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<v Speaker 1>is this about? Well, this is about your dating life? Um? What? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because we do a segment on our show called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update. That's where if you go out with

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<v Speaker 1>someone and afterwards they're not calling you back, you can

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to us and we'll contact them for you

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<v Speaker 1>to try and figure out the reason why someone called

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<v Speaker 1>you about me. Yes, specifically a guy named Nathan. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>oh okay, Oh that's really positive. I know that was

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<v Speaker 1>not the reaction that I was expecting at all. Is

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<v Speaker 1>this going to be like quick? Chloe? Like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan just tap got around to calling him back. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like literally that really? Everything's fine. That's interesting. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand what's going on right now. Well, he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out what happened, like what you're feeling

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<v Speaker 1>about their date. Maybe we could just go over the

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<v Speaker 1>date with you and ask you about a few things. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Because he said that you came up with the idea

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<v Speaker 1>to go to an animal shelter together because you like

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<v Speaker 1>to volunteer there. Yeah, I do. Animals are really important

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Okay, So how did that go? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was nine. He seemed like you was trying really hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'd leave the room and come back and he'd

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<v Speaker 1>be trying to like hug some of the animals and

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<v Speaker 1>like stobs don't like being hugs. He seemed like he

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<v Speaker 1>was trying really hard. No, that's what I told him.

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<v Speaker 1>When he was telling us about how the Dodge are

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like standoffs with him, I'm like, dude, you're overcompensating.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I'm picturing him like cornering a dog, be

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<v Speaker 1>like come hug me. He wasn't yelling at the animals.

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<v Speaker 1>He was trying to connect, and I think he missed

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<v Speaker 1>a little. But it was sweet. Yeah, you definitely want

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who's trying too hard than a guy that's

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<v Speaker 1>not trying at all, right, like you can always be like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh well, dogs don't like that. And afterwards he said

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys went to dinner together. How did that go?

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<v Speaker 1>It was fine? I mean he was repeating some things

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<v Speaker 1>he kept saying, but like again he was nervous. It

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<v Speaker 1>seemed fine. So you do like him, Like, had you,

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of your date planned on going out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again? Yeah? Actually I was on vacation for

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<v Speaker 1>like a week, so I was gonna call him today

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<v Speaker 1>or tomorrow now that I'm back. Okay, So he's just

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<v Speaker 1>again trying too hard. I mean it's it's endearing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's really sweet. Well this is simple, all right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I guess one last question, Chloe, we don't need to

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<v Speaker 1>do this. How was your drive home home that night? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>My gosh, it was normal. I guess that that wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>part of our date. I drove myself home. Yeah, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>So how was it? How did it go? Fine? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I care about and I know Nathan cares

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about safety and wants to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you were obeying all the traffic laws. We have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people out there that don't I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing to know. I don't think I was speeding.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's what you're implying, that seems kind of weird. Yeah, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan just mentioned a few things that he was nervous

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<v Speaker 1>about with the drive, So maybe I should let you

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him about it. What because I didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>you this, but he's actually been on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and he heard everything that just said. Oh, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean he's on the phone right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>why didn't you say something? If you're on Hello, Nathan

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<v Speaker 1>answer her? Hey, Hey, this is weird. Yeah. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry I had him call you. Uh. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I was just really nervous. But that makes total sense.

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<v Speaker 1>You were on vacation and you weren't answering, so I uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I just got in my head about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so great to hear that you had a good time. Okay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I was gonna call you, and I should

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<v Speaker 1>have told you I was going on vacations, but everything

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<v Speaker 1>just happened so fast with their date coming together. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes so much sense. Uh. And I've heard what

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<v Speaker 1>you said about the dogs, and I mean, I totally

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<v Speaker 1>get it. I should not hug dogs. I shouldn't do

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<v Speaker 1>that anymore. I'm not gonna do that. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think we can talk about animals are are different,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, And if we did it again, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure it would be like I would be much better

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<v Speaker 1>at it. Okay, you are read so like cute and

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<v Speaker 1>also kind of desperate right now. Yeah, you're a nice guy,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is brutal. Are you Are you embarrassed about

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<v Speaker 1>calling us to call her? Yeah, I'm really I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I just overthought it and this was really simple. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that Nathan is so nervous right now is

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<v Speaker 1>because he feels a little bit guilty about what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we don't we don't have to. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go out totally, absolutely, But don't you think

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you'd feel a little bit better if you were

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent truthful about how the night went. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna do this to him? I don't go back now.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it might be a good thing. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>healthy thing for their relationship going forward. Man seems understanding.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you guys talking about? Oh? This is so cringey.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there's a part of your night that

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't even know what was going on, and Nathan

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<v Speaker 1>should probably come clean about I will say, if I

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<v Speaker 1>was on a internet date, i'd probably want to know

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<v Speaker 1>that he did this too. You guys are freaking me out.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? What are you talking about? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, man, We're here for you. Obviously, not before

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<v Speaker 1>I say anything, Chloe, I just wanted to like say

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<v Speaker 1>that at the end of the day, I had this

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<v Speaker 1>really like deep gut feeling, like I just felt like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he was like, tell me, whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 1>this is weird, Okay. So when you left, um, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a feeling that something bad was going to happen,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just to make sure that you were safe.

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<v Speaker 1>I was concerned about your safety. I followed you back.

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<v Speaker 1>I followed you back and my house, yes, I did.

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<v Speaker 1>But but when we got there, I made sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you got in and I just left. I left right then.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not like, I'm not a purv. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>like I didn't do anything like creepy or pervy. And

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<v Speaker 1>just like, why wouldn't you just like ask me if

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<v Speaker 1>I felt safe going home, why would you follow me

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<v Speaker 1>and not tell me? Great question? I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I should have. I was just nervous and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know how to express that to you. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't feel like I could communicate that. Oh okay, Chloy, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how you feeling? I mean a little weird. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little weird, right, Yeah, but can you understand where he's

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<v Speaker 1>coming from a little bit a little bit? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to us. He's trying. I mean, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>miss but like I get where he's coming from. That's

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<v Speaker 1>that is really good. I mean I think the overall

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<v Speaker 1>theme of Nathan right now is just trying too hard. Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>So with that all in mind, we would love to

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<v Speaker 1>offer to send you guys out on another date and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for it. What do you say, Chloe? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'd want to like talk to him

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<v Speaker 1>if he's worried about my safety and has any more ideas. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he could, like I don't know, drive in front

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<v Speaker 1>of my car like a police escort instead of following me.

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<v Speaker 1>We could talk about it. How does that sound to you, Nathan?

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<v Speaker 1>Sound good? That sounds great. I promise we'll talk about everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, I'll be cool. This time. I'm gonna relax. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>don't make promises. I can try. I can't try. This

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<v Speaker 1>is awesome. Congratulations you guys. I mean I was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call him back before all this all happened to there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no no, don't take this away from us, Chloe,

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<v Speaker 1>we're the heroes. You're welcome. Broken Jeffrey in the morning,