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Speaker 1: Turn Life from America's Greatest City, Chicago, Kiss FM and

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Speaker 1: I Heart Radio station. It's a friend show, all right.

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Speaker 1: Paulina says she wants to be a man. Why do

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Speaker 1: you want to be a man one day? One day?

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Speaker 1: That you just said? Yeah? Because I feel like sometimes

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Speaker 1: like I would like to have that experience, because I

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Speaker 1: feel like, how do I say this? How do you

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Speaker 1: say it? I really don't know how to say it

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Speaker 1: with thought and not making like I wanted to make sense.

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Speaker 1: I do. Yeah, I feel you want to make sense?

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Speaker 1: Say something and it just like passes, you know, like

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Speaker 1: like a fart, Like it just passes. Paulina, you do

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Speaker 1: that every day you say things and we let it

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Speaker 1: pass it. Every day you're farting all over the place. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it reeks in in here. We've been together for an

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Speaker 1: hour already today. Do you know how many times we've

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Speaker 1: let it pass like a fart, just let it pass?

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Speaker 1: Anything else? Any other reason why you want to be

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Speaker 1: a man for a day? Oh, I wouldn't like experience?

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Speaker 1: Say it? Come on, you can't tell me what one

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Speaker 1: experiencing a woman for it? I would I would absolutely not. Yeah. No,

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Speaker 1: I love you, I love you. I appreciate you. I

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Speaker 1: am so glad that you exist. Okay, I thank god

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Speaker 1: every day that I'm not you. Yeah, that's smart. That

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Speaker 1: part you got down there alone is too complicated for

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Speaker 1: me to be. I got one good week out of

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Speaker 1: every month. Guys, we're talking about that. That's not the

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Speaker 1: first time I've heard of woman say that. But it's like,

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Speaker 1: you got a week that you're omulating, a week that

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Speaker 1: you're pms sing, a week that you're on your period,

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Speaker 1: and then you got a week where there's nothing going on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then usually there's some mental stuff going on that week,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, we get one good week. So like twenty

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Speaker 1: one days or semi complicated, yeah, and seven are cool. Yeah. See,

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Speaker 1: hiding me up sounds awesome. I love it. It's awesome here.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I loving a woman like real talk

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Speaker 1: I do. However, do I love to just be in

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Speaker 1: your shoes for a day. There's a lot of things

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Speaker 1: I would do that day. What would you do? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean that's what I'm trying to get to here. Um,

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Speaker 1: I'd probably stare in the mirror for a while because

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Speaker 1: it's all like new parts, right, I get to day,

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Speaker 1: it's all I get twenty four hours. So I would

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Speaker 1: do that. Um, I would go hit on women because

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Speaker 1: I want to see what it's like from your side

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Speaker 1: to have to like ask a woman out, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. I'm sure something that all women should

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Speaker 1: have to experience. I think so true. I do. Oh

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Speaker 1: I hit on men, but I mean, like you know,

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Speaker 1: like do like like you want to can't call women anybody,

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Speaker 1: no cat calling. I would just like to, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: approach a woman and ask her for drinks. I want

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Speaker 1: to experience that side of it. I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: Probably just get like embarrassed to feel the embarrassed with

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Speaker 1: the rejection. And then I think I would eat a lock.

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Speaker 1: So it's like you guys can eat the house down

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Speaker 1: and you don't see a pound the next thing. That's

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Speaker 1: not true. That's not true. Ye. I feel like you

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Speaker 1: guys dost way easier. For ten years ago, the toxic

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Speaker 1: nuclear way stump, it was me, Oh my god, would

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Speaker 1: eat like I don't know, two big macs and bring

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Speaker 1: three red bulls to work and that would be like

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Speaker 1: that would be the pregame. And then I would work

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Speaker 1: six to ten pm on the on the big station,

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Speaker 1: and just keep rolling. I wish I knew. But that's

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Speaker 1: not dissimilar from women have the same kind of metabolism,

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Speaker 1: don't you. When you're young and you guys can consume

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Speaker 1: you know, whatever, it was better. But I do think

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Speaker 1: guys go on a diet, it kind of falls off faster.

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Speaker 1: Whid that to the list of good stuff? Yeah? No,

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Speaker 1: I mean it sounds dope. I would try it for sure.

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Speaker 1: That sounds fun. Just for like a day, give me

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Speaker 1: twenty four hours, I would. I would have some bde man,

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Speaker 1: that's what it is. I mean, there's plenty of stuff

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Speaker 1: This is not the most important thing you should experience,

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Speaker 1: but one thing approaching a woman, trying to get the

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Speaker 1: in person to talk to them is wild. Yeah, it's wild, Like, oh,

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Speaker 1: he was so creepy? Why was he creepy? He walked

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Speaker 1: right up to me and said, hello, who did that? WHOA?

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Speaker 1: Do you know how much do you know how he

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Speaker 1: probably had the nut up to Do you know how

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Speaker 1: much courage that probably? I don't mean real courage, but

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Speaker 1: like fighting in Ukraine. That's the real courage. I mean,

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Speaker 1: like you know, and and most women I shouldn't say all,

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Speaker 1: but most women don't have to experience that because typically

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Speaker 1: the chase works the other way, and it might give

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Speaker 1: and manly me when you're saying, now, how should we say? No? Well,

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Speaker 1: I just don't think you should be freaked out. You

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Speaker 1: I you know a younger generation where that's weird, Like

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Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm so old timey, this is

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Speaker 1: like two thousand, I don't know. But men should also

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Speaker 1: be okay with being rejected, thank you. They shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: like what you stupid, I wasn't even work. That should

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Speaker 1: go without saying, like you should be like, all right,

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Speaker 1: I totally agree. Yeah, I totally agree. Angry sometimes you

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Speaker 1: can't you can't do huh. Nobody owes you anything, But

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Speaker 1: you can't be weirded out when that's just one thing.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about one single thing here. But but um,

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Speaker 1: we should all be talking to each other because you

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Speaker 1: don't know the number of women I know who will

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Speaker 1: say to me. No one ever comes up to me,

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Speaker 1: but some people have had a bad experience actually speaking

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Speaker 1: No one. I feel like no one really like cold

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Speaker 1: approaches anyone anymore. It's like, I'll just look you up

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Speaker 1: you respond. Yeah, which is that creepier? I don't know

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Speaker 1: if that's great. Maybe not. Anyway, That's that's the other thing.

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Speaker 1: I think men should probably get a period too, at

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Speaker 1: least once in our lives. But I kind of think

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Speaker 1: we have a cycle. I think that's been scientifically proven.

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Speaker 1: I know I do different. I think, well, I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying it's the same, but I you know, did you

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's the sad. I'm not saying it's

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Speaker 1: the same. But I do think there's something psychological that

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Speaker 1: goes on. The problem with with the artist is I

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Speaker 1: here is a little more predictable. I guess nose a

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Speaker 1: Cat's on Good Morning at six thirteen the French shows

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Speaker 1: I assume won't get an update on your dental appointment. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: people are dying to know. I'm sure now they're on

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Speaker 1: is that I have extreme dental anxiety. It's funny. Apparently

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Speaker 1: your mouth gets so dry. Oh my god. Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: one h three five. Kiss, that's what's trends. I stopped

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Speaker 1: watching the game last night, the NCAA Men's Championship Game basketball,

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Speaker 1: consideration for the most and least healthy. This is this

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Speaker 1: is gangs to the women's college rugby team in Vermont.

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Speaker 1: He is accused of waterboarding and branding teammates as part

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Speaker 1: of hazing at Norwich University. An officer went to the

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Speaker 1: school in March twentieth for a report of someone being

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Speaker 1: held at nine point. She spoke to the woman too.

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Speaker 1: This is to be on a rugby team. She spoke

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Speaker 1: to a woman two days later in that person reported

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Speaker 1: that she'd been branded using pliers and lighter by other

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Speaker 1: members of the rugby team. This is like that Nexium cult,

436
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Speaker 1: that that Rainieri guy that's in prison for his life

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Speaker 1: for branding people. The victim said that she was too

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Speaker 1: intoxicated to say no and would not have agreed to

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Speaker 1: being branded. After getting permission, the officer to the victim's

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Speaker 1: cell phone so that what she was being described was

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Speaker 1: it a video? There's another woman? Um was a woman

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Speaker 1: over her washcloth over her face, the red women board

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Speaker 1: liquid into the cloth, some kind of water boarding. An

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Speaker 1: investigation is ongoing. This is for women's college rugby team.

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Speaker 1: It's national an National Carmel Day, National Deep Dish Pete Today,

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Speaker 1: on sexual assault prevention. The entertainment of board got next

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Speaker 1: Lata Pelousa tickets at seven thirties Stay or Go coming

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Speaker 1: up as well on the Fred Shows. The latest entertainment

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Speaker 1: news is on the Fritshaw. Kanye West is no longer

452
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Speaker 1: headlining Coachella this year, leaving the festival with an open

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Speaker 1: spot and hearing Ya was the one to pull the

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Speaker 1: plug also means Travis Scott, who was to post join him,

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Speaker 1: won't be there either. No word on why he pulls out.

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Speaker 1: He's might kind of quiet. Yeah, yeah, he's been a

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Speaker 1: little quiet lately. I hope he's okay, right, I really

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Speaker 1: hope he's okay. I know that I heard that he

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Speaker 1: told Kim he was going to get help of some sort,

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Speaker 1: which I hope is what he's doing. But yeah, he

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Speaker 1: has been quiet, so we pulled out. Um. I don't

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Speaker 1: know who will fill his spot, but Billie Eilish, Harry

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Speaker 1: Styles and Swedish House Mafia are still set to headline.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of Kanye, the Weekend is wondering if he should

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Speaker 1: pull Yay and change his stage name to Abel, which

466
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Speaker 1: is his government name. He was talking to some fans

467
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Speaker 1: on Twitter leading up to the release of his Out

468
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Speaker 1: of Time music video and said maybe I'll pull Yay

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Speaker 1: and just legally change my name to abel no last

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Speaker 1: name like Madonna, chair or Prince. I don't know. It

471
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Speaker 1: seems like a lot fans seemed really to support the decision.

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Speaker 1: Even John Legend wighed in saying able is dope. It

473
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Speaker 1: is dope, but I don't know. The weekend would be

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Speaker 1: an end of an era if he changed his name. Um.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if any of you guys have seen this,

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Speaker 1: but I'm changed, uh O J Simpson, I have the

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Speaker 1: audio of this. Um, there's a swear at the beginning.

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Speaker 1: Did it? Was it in the version that we have? Yes,

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Speaker 1: they're still a swear. Yes. Oh cool, So that's why

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Speaker 1: it was just at the very beginning, there's just swear. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so I'm gonna like the first three seconds, I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna play. Okay, that works for you. I hope there's

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Speaker 1: no other ones two three here? Yeah. I have no

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Speaker 1: idea what why this is happening? Okay, yeah, so I'll

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Speaker 1: describe it. So it's it's going viral. Um OJ's in

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Speaker 1: bed shirtless, uh, something that none of us want to see,

487
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 1: and it doesn't look good. But he's not like in shape. No,

488
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Speaker 1: I mean it's fine, it's just I don't want to

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Speaker 1: see oj shirt list in bed and then these young girls,

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Speaker 1: these young girls are drunk running up to him, playing

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Speaker 1: music on their phones, screaming wakey, wakey, and they're waking

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Speaker 1: him up, and another guy's saying it's party time, and

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Speaker 1: Oja gets up and it looks like before the video ends,

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Speaker 1: he's about to entertain these women. Um, they're so young

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Speaker 1: that I have to wonder, like do they even know

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Speaker 1: who he contextually even know that he murders someone. I

497
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Speaker 1: feel like I'm like, leave them girls alone, oh Jay,

498
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Speaker 1: I don't know. They're so young and like yay, oh Jay.

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Speaker 1: I just want to know, like how that all, Like

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Speaker 1: why were they in the hotel? Why you were in

501
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Speaker 1: the house? They were weird. Yeah, I want to know

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Speaker 1: how that all happened. Yeah, we'll post the video on

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Speaker 1: I guess the woman. One of the women looked like

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Speaker 1: Nicole Brown Simpson and that was part of the deal,

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Speaker 1: which is like even weirder, Like I don't know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she looks a lot like her. It was just I

507
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Speaker 1: wanted to be like, leave ladies, leave um, But I

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Speaker 1: don't know. If you want to see that, that's on

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Speaker 1: our website. Also, you won't believe what this rapper's friends

510
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Speaker 1: did to his body after he passed away. It's on

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Speaker 1: friend show video. Duc. I don't, I don't need it.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't understand it. I want you don't

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Speaker 1: want to. I don't know. If it's hard for me

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Speaker 1: to prop up? Yeah we can. We you can go

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Speaker 1: look at the picture. But yeah, they propped this guy's

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Speaker 1: body up and they dressed him up like he was alive,

517
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Speaker 1: and they propped him up, and everybody came to the

518
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Speaker 1: funeral and he was just standing there. Obviously he's dead.

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Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know. I don't need it. Was

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Speaker 1: that a club or something like that? Right? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think her stay there. I'm telling you I saw another guy.

522
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Speaker 1: The two friends took their dead friend on a motorcycle

523
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Speaker 1: rap up one last time. People are doing weird stuff

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Speaker 1: with dead bodies. Can we just not? Hey, they're gone, guys,

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Speaker 1: They're like, the body is just the body, like there,

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Speaker 1: you know you can do they can join you in

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Speaker 1: spirit without propping the body up, and yeah, you don't

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Speaker 1: have to do all that heavy lifting. No, this isn't

529
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Speaker 1: like the new putting somebody in clouds on a T shirt. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I feel like it is it's a new version. We

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Speaker 1: can have Bernie type thing. Yeah, people are picking people

532
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Speaker 1: up out of caskets. I don't know. It's freaking me out.

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Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, I don't want people to see me like,

534
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Speaker 1: remember me in my greatest form whatever whatever that whatever

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Speaker 1: you think that was, remember me like that. Yeah, I

536
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Speaker 1: don't need you to prop me up and spray me

537
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: down with Abercrombie fierce and you know, tell everybody that

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Speaker 1: just one last time, prop I'm not wait a minute,

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00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 1: that's sound a terrible idea. We might get some help

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Speaker 1: caring you. We might have to do that here, like

541
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Speaker 1: if that happens, because we still got to get paid somehow.

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Speaker 1: First of all, you guys have nothing to worry about.

543
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Speaker 1: You guys would be fine. Other radio shows have survived

544
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Speaker 1: for nearly two decades after the host dies and they

545
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 1: still call it the same name, which I you know,

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Speaker 1: r I P and legendary. But I don't understand that one.

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Speaker 1: I don't, So don't worry. You guys will be just

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Speaker 1: the model has been proven in other cities. It's fine.

549
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: Now if anything happens to me, you will you'll be

550
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: just fine. You know, Rufio will come sit over here

551
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: and and everything will be good, but you'll still have

552
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Speaker 1: to call it the Freend Show for twenty more years. Yeah, well, hello,

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00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: whatever you want, big guys. Well, like I said, I

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Speaker 1: have enough audio. I could make a hole. I was

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Speaker 1: gonna say, I'll tell you what's gonna be great, though,

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Speaker 1: God forbid any happens to me and you piece together

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00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 1: shows for five years. The tweets of people going I've

558
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: already heard this, He's dead, he ain't coming back, like

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Speaker 1: this is always all we got. I already heard this one, dude,

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Speaker 1: ain't no new ones coming man, Jeff Cameron SI five

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Speaker 1: The French Show is one three five Kiss FM, Chicago's

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Speaker 1: number one hit music station. Good morning everyone, glad you

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Speaker 1: are here. We'll get to blogs audio journals in just

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Speaker 1: a second. Stay or Go last week was wild and

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Speaker 1: we have an update on our what we did it

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Speaker 1: on the show yesterday, So it's on the iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: app if you search for the Fred Show also Fred

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Speaker 1: Show radio dot com on Instagram as well. Search for

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show. The update on last week's duke Stay

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Speaker 1: or Ago and I really wanted Carolina to win last night.

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Speaker 1: One to piss that guy off well and two because

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Speaker 1: I'm a Tar Heels fan, but didn't no such luck,

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Speaker 1: and I stayed up until like eleven fifteen, and I'm

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Speaker 1: paying for it today only to watch a team lose.

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Speaker 1: That's the worst. It's the worst. Why I gotta be tired.

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Speaker 1: I mean, at least at least my team could have won,

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Speaker 1: you know, and then I wouldn't feel so like. It's

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Speaker 1: like like that gives you some exuberance when you stay

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00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: up that late sad about it? What makes you think,

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Speaker 1: Klin of this set? Because we get together every morning

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Speaker 1: around three thirty in the writers we haven't found the

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Speaker 1: writers room yet, so we go to where we think

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Speaker 1: the writers might might be and we still haven't found them.

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Speaker 1: But um, we get together. We have deep conversation. Extreme

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Speaker 1: When you listen to the show, you know it's, um,

586
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Speaker 1: it's well thought out and planned. It actually is. It

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Speaker 1: just doesn't actually usually go that way, believe it or not.

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Speaker 1: Like people and this isn't us too, This is not

589
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Speaker 1: me tooting my own horn, but people are like, so

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Speaker 1: do you guys? Is it just like do you write

591
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Speaker 1: all this stuff or whatever? It's like, Actually, we spend

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Speaker 1: hours every day thinking about the next day and what

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Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about and we all share ideas and

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Speaker 1: then Caitlin organizes them, and then I organize them one

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Speaker 1: step further, and I actually have this entire sheet every

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Speaker 1: single morning right in front of me of the stuff

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Speaker 1: that we're gonna do, and we usually do about none

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Speaker 1: of it. Yeah, and we wind up talking about something

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Speaker 1: entirely different. Okay, though that's somehow it works, So it's fine, Um,

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Speaker 1: but how did you think of this this teacher topic? Like, so,

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Speaker 1: what you were talking, what you're referencing, is for some reason,

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Speaker 1: you remembered something strange that a teacher did. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: I was talking with one of my best friends, Ali

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Speaker 1: about I feel like we all have these repressed memories

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Speaker 1: of like a teacher that had like a really weird

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Speaker 1: thing that they did with the students, not like in

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Speaker 1: a bad way, but like that you just thought was

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Speaker 1: normal at the time. So her teacher had um potato

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Speaker 1: Fridays and every Friday they would all bring in a

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Speaker 1: potato I'm not even choking. They would all take terms

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Speaker 1: um microwaving the potatoes, and he would bring toppings like

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Speaker 1: sour cream and cheese, and they would just like every Friday.

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Speaker 1: And she thought, yeah, and she was like, I legit,

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Speaker 1: like thought that every teacher did that every class A

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Speaker 1: very Midwest by the way, but yeah, so she was.

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Speaker 1: She just told me that. And I had a teacher

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Speaker 1: like we would all get on the floor. She had

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Speaker 1: just I was curious if anyone else has like a

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Speaker 1: or maybe you're the teacher doing it. Yeah, five nine

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Speaker 1: Because then that got me thinking of a lot of

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Speaker 1: things I remember, and this is mostly elementary school, but

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Speaker 1: I remember there was a lot of food rewards like

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Speaker 1: um for some reason, it was um Teddy grams. They

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632
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Speaker 1: you could have a Teddy Gram And and I didn't

633
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: just like get the grade, so but sometimes I did.

634
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 1: And there was always that one girl who like had

635
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: like one hundred Teddy grams like stored because she was

636
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: so smart or whatever, but I I don't remember why,

637
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 1: but those teddy Grams tasted so much better than the

638
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 1: ones my mom would buy. I mean, can I come home,

639
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 1: but like I didn't get a Teddygram today, She'd I'll

640
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: go buy you like a bite, so she'd buy me

641
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: the box of them, but they didn't taste. The ones

642
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 1: that you got from her tasted better than the exact

643
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 1: same one. But it got me thinking about, like, these days,

644
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: you can't even do that because right, like the stuff

645
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: that we used to eat at school, like people would

646
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: bring stuff in or we'd have just just food everywhere,

647
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: food everywhere. Also punishments too, Like I remember one of

648
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: my teachers had like a literal like dumps chair. It

649
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: was like if you talk too much, like you would

650
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: have to sit in this chair and like face the corner.

651
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: Like I feel like there are probably a lot of

652
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: punishments that they can't do anymore now. Yeah, yeah, can

653
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: you still do time out? I don't know if you'll

654
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: allowed to do time out anymore. I don't know. And

655
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: they you know, what they don't do anymore is um,

656
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys did popcorn reading where

657
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: they would like rainily call on you to read a

658
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 1: part of a paragraph. That's where my anxiety comes exactly.

659
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: They can't do that anymore because kids who you know,

660
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: have trouble reading, they have so much anxiety. I used

661
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 1: to I would count, like if we were doing like

662
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: paragraph for paragraph, I would count and see where my

663
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 1: paragraph was and I would free read it so that

664
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 1: just to make sure I didn't stumble on anything in

665
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: the middle of a sentence. We had a Spanish teacher

666
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: that used to attach like little fake pasos too, like

667
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: if you got an A, you got this many paces.

668
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: We got a B, you got this many pasos. And

669
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: again there was always like there are two kids that

670
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 1: had like a million pasos, and then we would have

671
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,479
Speaker 1: like an auction. I don't I don't even know if

672
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: this is like allowed anymore, because of course some kids

673
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: who don't get good grades wouldn't have any and then

674
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: it would be like it wouldn't be inclusive, but you

675
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 1: could you could bid on better grades. But the but

676
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 1: the problem was the kids that had all the pasos

677
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: already had the best grades. Yeah, so there was like nothing, Yeah,

678
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: how can how can you get better if you had

679
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: like fifty pasos? Because you got like all the a's,

680
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 1: Like I don't know what you're bidding on now, you know,

681
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: like can I And then so it was like, can

682
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: you can I get my friend the better can I use? Yeah? Yeah?

683
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: But I just remember the rewards for some reason, and

684
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: the same kids had all the rewards. I remember, Um,

685
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: I remember that. But i' me thinking of all these

686
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: different things. Hey Dedra there, Hey, good morning, How are

687
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: you great? How are you very well? So your fifth

688
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,800
Speaker 1: grade teacher, do you do your students bring potatoes on Friday?

689
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,760
Speaker 1: And then we make like, you know, potato bar stuff.

690
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: Uh no, not quite. But my evid traders, who I

691
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: love more than anyone on the planet, are spectacularly annoying,

692
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: like most of the day, right, they can be just

693
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: they're good traders. So I decided that very quietly, I

694
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 1: was going to be really annoying back to them. And so,

695
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 1: starting at like five minutes before dismissal, every single day

696
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 1: I play if I had a million dollars by the

697
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: very daked ladies, just to bother them the way that

698
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: they bothered me every day. Wow, But they have no

699
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 1: idea why I do it. But I do it every

700
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 1: single day because I want them to know that I'm

701
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: well aware of how annoying they are, and I could

702
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: be just as annoying back comes from a place of love, though. Yeah,

703
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: if you wanted, by the way, if you wanted to

704
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: do food in your class, I mean, what would be

705
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: the process, like, I cause I remember there was always

706
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: food in the class, and we had like wild animals

707
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 1: in the class too. Remember we had like there were

708
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 1: like lizards and fish and and yeah, he had a

709
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: graphic rappit. I don't know if they still do that.

710
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's some liability with that too, Like what

711
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 1: if the rabbit bite somebody and then we got to

712
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 1: put it down or whatever? We should be a real bummer.

713
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 1: My first my birders teasing. We had suit I think

714
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: they were like frogs, and we raised his tadpoles and

715
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 1: they called them tee Paint and little Lane. I love that,

716
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: and within like weeks Kee Paint and little Lane both side.

717
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: And I'm not much animal over anything like that. So yeah,

718
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 1: I mooted this kind of the kids bringing food and

719
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 1: they eat it in class without permission that that's annoying too.

720
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: So it's just but like now it's like whoa, I

721
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 1: remember the biggest problem when we were young, and again

722
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 1: it makes me sound so old, but the biggest problem

723
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: was like there had to be enough for everybody, right.

724
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,359
Speaker 1: That was like that you couldn't have favor. But now

725
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: it's probably like what's in that or their peanuts, is

726
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,800
Speaker 1: their flowers, their gluten? Is this vegetarian? Is it vegan?

727
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: You know this? Joey's mom says he can't eat this,

728
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: and Cindy's mom says she could. I can't. I can't

729
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 1: imagine when I was. When I was my birth year

730
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 1: is teaching. I used to make a rule of it.

731
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: The only way you were allowed to bring in cupcakes

732
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: was that they had butter green brosting, because I don't

733
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 1: like what green brosting, and so they get that was

734
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: my rule. But that's just how I am at the teacher.

735
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 1: So that's not a rule around. I just don't like

736
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,440
Speaker 1: what green prosting. I don't think it. They were a

737
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 1: low Well there you go, fair enough. Well, thank you

738
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: so much, thanks for listening, have a great day. I

739
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: don't know why I'm reminded reminded of this, but I

740
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: remember there was some point, maybe it was like fourth

741
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: fifth grade, where you know, you'd asked to go to

742
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,319
Speaker 1: the bathroom, and the teacher was saying no because they

743
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 1: knew you were like wasting time. And then some girl

744
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: found out that like it was illegal for a teacher

745
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: to tell a girl that she couldn't go to the bathroom,

746
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: and so like that was the thing was every girl

747
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 1: would be like I got into the bathroom and then

748
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: it was like, well, we're doing a test right now,

749
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 1: and then then you know, well you can't tell me.

750
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: I can't. It's okay, you're Lauren. Yeah, oh yeah, I

751
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 1: don't remember why, I why I'm remembering all of this,

752
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: but that became a thing. Hey Thomas, good morning, pray,

753
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: good morning everyone. Well, hi Thomas, so your self proclaimed boomer,

754
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: which is fine. We love we love you for that.

755
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 1: What what do you remember about school? Um? Okay, nineteen

756
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: seventy four. I was in the sixth grade. My sixth

757
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 1: grade teacher, her name was Miss East When I still

758
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: remember it to this day. She used to keep a

759
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 1: bottle of Crown Royal out on the window. Still this

760
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: was a dethlete school. I love her. And when when

761
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: she opened like when she drank it during the day

762
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 1: or what I mean, she would periodically she have a

763
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: coffee mug on her desk, and she periodically, like you know,

764
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: go over to the window, potential's looking out there, put

765
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 1: a little bit of a coffee, and continue on with

766
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 1: the class. I love it, Thomas. You're gonna wind up

767
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: an inside edition if you do that. Now. Thank you,

768
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 1: have a great day. Glad you called them, You too,

769
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: by Thomas, I love Thomas. Kind of sounded like the

770
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 1: prison line a little bit. It was calling from a

771
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 1: land line. Honey, he's definitely yeah. Not only is he

772
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: a boomer, he found a pay phone to call from

773
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: me mate. What's up? Hey man, good morning, Hey, thanks

774
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,919
Speaker 1: so much for calling, Thanks for listening. So apparently Kyle

775
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 1: and was reminded of a time when what grade was this?

776
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,399
Speaker 1: It was a third grade Potato Friday, Potato Friday, bringing

777
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: potato and microwave it and put topics on it. Yeah,

778
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: what do you remember from from school? So I had

779
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 1: mine was from second grade, so right around the same

780
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:20,359
Speaker 1: era or time frame kind of thing. My teacher had

781
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: her own little classroom store with her own little classroom bucks.

782
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:27,760
Speaker 1: So kind of like Fred, you had your Teddy grams

783
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: if you did well on tests or something, well, ours

784
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,760
Speaker 1: was you would earn classroom bucks for like A's and Bees,

785
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 1: and then at the end of the week you could

786
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: buy stuff from her classroom store and chade everything from

787
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: like little indie bittie Jolly Ranchers to like king size

788
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 1: reci peanut butter cops and like trapper keepers and all

789
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: kinds of stuff. And it was like a bragging point

790
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: to be in her class because you had all this

791
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: like whole plus or of stuff at your fingertips if

792
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 1: you did well. So it's like it seems super cool.

793
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: And now it's like that's kind of weird, but still

794
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 1: kind of But you remember, Nate, all that stuff, Like

795
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: you could have gone your your mom or you could

796
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: have gone to Geo CVS or whatever and bought the

797
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,359
Speaker 1: Jolly Ranchers and you had a whole bag of them.

798
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: But for some reason, the ones that you got from

799
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: school were better. Oh my god, Yes, I don't know

800
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 1: why exactly. It was like I don't know. You're right,

801
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 1: Thank you, Nate. Have a good day. Thanks guys, love you.

802
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: I love you too. This this is a lot of

803
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: stories there. We may have to come back to this.

804
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:32,280
Speaker 1: Hey taddya, yeah, heyd morning, how are you doing great?

805
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,760
Speaker 1: Great to talk to you guys. Hey, thanks for listening,

806
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling. What's your story. So, both my husband

807
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 1: and I are teachers, and that is stressful sometimes as

808
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 1: a parent. And about fifteen years ago, my son was

809
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 1: in private school and he would come home and be like,

810
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 1: I was in the dog house today, and he was

811
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 1: real excited. But it turns out the dog house was

812
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 1: a punishment more kids that were misbehaving, and it was

813
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 1: one desk next to the teacher's desk, and the kids

814
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: all thought, you know, oh, it was a special thing.

815
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: But in reality, all the parents were like, Um, I

816
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: don't think that you should be able to do that

817
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: in real life. I thought you were going to tell

818
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 1: me it was an actual doghouse that she was taking

819
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 1: people something to take a nap. There was a dog,

820
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: a dog like on her desk. Oh wow, it was

821
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:30,879
Speaker 1: very um, not appropriate. You can't do that. I can't

822
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: do that, I guess. Well, um, Tanya, thank you so much.

823
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: Have a great day, all right. He isn't that like

824
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: an adult term too, like doghouse, Like if you're in

825
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:41,760
Speaker 1: the doghouse, like you're in trouble with your wife or husband.

826
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: Why the how was she doing that with the kid

827
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 1: about later life. Later in life when you screw up

828
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 1: at home and you're in the doghouse. Hey, Erica, Hi,

829
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: good morning, good morning, Thank you for calling, Thank you

830
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: for listening. So what's what's your school story that comes

831
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 1: to mind? So I'm actually a middle school teacher and like,

832
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 1: you know, a lot back then, I guess when I

833
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: was like ten years ago, when I was a student. Um, like,

834
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:14,399
Speaker 1: my kids now are ruthless, Like they roast me all

835
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: the time. So now I've got into the habit where

836
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: every once in a while they like to like roast

837
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 1: me and I'll be like, okay, did I ask? And

838
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: the reactions are priceless, Like this one time one of

839
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:30,800
Speaker 1: my kids was trying to tell me a certain in

840
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: the middle of me teaching a lesson. I literally stopped

841
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,440
Speaker 1: in the middle of it and I looked at him

842
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: and I was like, when did I ask? Like everybody

843
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 1: in the room was like, oh my god. I tried

844
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: to like do that back to me, and I'm like,

845
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: you guys, I act like this is not new to me,

846
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 1: Like keep keep drying roast me because I'm music, because

847
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: I'm the roastmaster over here. Y'all new to this world?

848
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: I've been around for a minute. Yeah, it's really hard

849
00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 1: when like they'd say something really funny and I try

850
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: to be serious, and I just love it. That's fun. Yeah,

851
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: I can't imagine. And how old are the kids that

852
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 1: you're teaching. I teach sixth grade, so I'm I will

853
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: be twenty four, you're twenty four in these sixth grade

854
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: You're like, what eleven? They're not that much younger than

855
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 1: you if you think about it, I mean, they are

856
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: like they are in maturity. But I was thinking about

857
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: that the other day, Like when I was in high school,

858
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: I had a twenty three year old math teacher and

859
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm twenty four, twenty three searches out of college, and

860
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 1: I'm you know, you're eighteen the seventeen like that woman

861
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 1: because I looked her up on Facebook recently because I

862
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: do that stuff, and she's not that much older than me.

863
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, I could date this woman now and I might.

864
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 1: Erica have a good day. Thank you. Um Carlos says, um,

865
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: you had to go over homework first thing, so all

866
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,359
Speaker 1: the kids would copy the same one. Yeah, fourth grade

867
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: teacher reward would get dried spaghetti as a snack. Maddie

868
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: said that Robin said teacher was setting students out of

869
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:01,400
Speaker 1: the principles to get a wooden paddle, and Adriana teacher

870
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: had twenty to thirty guinea pigs that students had to ticket.

871
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 1: That's a lot of guinea pigs. Damn uh, stay or go.

872
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,960
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885
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Speaker 1: from elementary school. These are just all kinds of stories.

886
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Speaker 1: Now it's just become like story time, which is fine. Yeah,

887
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: my father was so excited to go pick me up

888
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,879
Speaker 1: at elementary, was so nice to my teacher. A couple

889
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: of years later, my mom finds out why they're now

890
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: married and I have a brother. Oh, whoa, this is

891
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 1: just trauma. Or now Jen wants to know how you're

892
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Speaker 1: how your dentist appointment win when it was two appointments,

893
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Speaker 1: half a cleaning and a filling repair. Yeah, they couldn't

894
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Speaker 1: use the water pick anymore, so then I had to

895
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Speaker 1: now I feel great. Look at that the interested people

897
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Speaker 1: having your mental and your mental and dental health. It

898
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: was a little over dramatic yesterday, So I don't think so.

899
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Um. She also said, if you

900
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Speaker 1: were caught in high school chewing gum, you had to

901
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: put it on your forehead and walk around all day

902
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 1: with it. Oh yeah, that's wild. I'm going through these

903
00:44:54,640 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: some Catholics. Yeah, my sixth great social studies teacher used

904
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,760
Speaker 1: to allow us to spend ten minutes silent reading, allowing

905
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: her time to lotion her feet. Oh god, nice, oh god,

906
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's traumatic. I'm sorry. I did not

907
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 1: like that. Stairg will debate someone's relationship drama in just

908
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 1: a second the entertainer report after that, What are you

909
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Speaker 1: working on? Kaylin? I got my little hands on one

910
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: of the jokes that was shot down to say at

911
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Speaker 1: the Oscars somebody would have gotten smacked again. Oh okay,

912
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: well that's coming up in a few Actually, I don't

913
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Speaker 1: know what this is. I want to hear it and

914
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: Lana palus it tickets twenty minutes away on The Fred Show.

915
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916
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917
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 1: Hannah's here on stairgo good morning, Hannah. How are you Hannah? Hannah?

918
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Speaker 1: Where's Hannah? I pushed the button Hannah Hannah. Hi? Hi, Yeah,

919
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: Hi Hannah. How you doing? I'm so hoping you guys

920
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: can help me out with something though. Yeah. Let's hear it.

921
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:13,320
Speaker 1: We're here for you. We're here to solve your relationship drama.

922
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: What we decide is going to determine the course of

923
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:20,919
Speaker 1: the rest of your life. Let's hear it please. Um. Well,

924
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:26,439
Speaker 1: I'm calling about my husband, Scott um st So we've

925
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 1: been married. Um, you know, a couple of years now

926
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: and we have a one and a half year old son,

927
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 1: and um, so he actually stays home with our son.

928
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: Um okay, okay, all right, what do you do. Yeah,

929
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:51,959
Speaker 1: I'm a doctor, Oh yeah, okay, and I just always made,

930
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 1: you know, a lot more money than him. So we

931
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: just decided what made sense was, you know, after maternity leaves,

932
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: I would go back to work and he would, you know,

933
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 1: stay home with the baby, because we didn't want to

934
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 1: do daycare, you know, from the from baby with tiny

935
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 1: or anything. We thought we should have somebody stay at home. So, um,

936
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: you know, I'm glad that he was willing to do that,

937
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: and I think he's an amazing father, But just other

938
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:26,360
Speaker 1: things he promised to do haven't been getting done for

939
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: a while, like what well, you know, he promised he

940
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: was going to keep up at the house, um, you know,

941
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: laundry and cleaning, and he was supposed to do the

942
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:44,439
Speaker 1: cooking because I get home exhausted and usually pretty late,

943
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: and most of that stuff has just been getting neglected,

944
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: like almost all the time. And I'm just kind of

945
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: fed up at this point. So this was a decision

946
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: that you guys made together. I mean, This was something

947
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: that you guys sat down and sort of healthfully discussed. Hey, look,

948
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: i'm a doctor and I make X, and you do

949
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: this and you make that, and it would make more

950
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: sense for me to go and make this money and

951
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: pursue my career and then, you know, for you to

952
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 1: stay home with the kid. And those are priorities that

953
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: you share, and these are things that you discussed. It

954
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: just wasn't like, look, this is what you're doing and

955
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 1: he's he begrudgingly does it. No, I mean, if that's

956
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: what it was, he fooled me. It definitely seemed at

957
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 1: the time like we were on the same page and

958
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: he was happy to do it. Okay, So you've discussed

959
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 1: then that part of the expectation of staying at home

960
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,880
Speaker 1: and caring for your child was also to keep the

961
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 1: house in order because you're there, and so like, you know,

962
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: I'm not going to hire a housekeeper. So you know,

963
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: these were all things that you were transparent about. Yeah,

964
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 1: and it seems like, I mean, it used to be

965
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,800
Speaker 1: a little bit better, and then it just seems like

966
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 1: all the cleaning and that kind of stuff has fallen

967
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:07,399
Speaker 1: by the wayside for a long time now. And yeah,

968
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: that's it's a tough one because it is I understand

969
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 1: that he doesn't want if nobody really wants to feel

970
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: like a maid, and I'm sure in some way, yeah,

971
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, because again, there's nothing wrong with you.

972
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 1: You having a career and you being the bread winner.

973
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that. And then he gets to

974
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: stay home with the kid. Sign me up. I mean,

975
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 1: in a lot of ways, that's a I think a

976
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:33,919
Speaker 1: lot of people who work all day sort of wish

977
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 1: that they could be home with their kid and to see,

978
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,360
Speaker 1: you know, how they grow up and help, you know,

979
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 1: in that process and witness moments that I'm sure that

980
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 1: you miss because you're working long hours. I get the

981
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 1: fact that he doesn't want to script toilets, but that's

982
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 1: kind of a byproduct of you know, you're not gonna

983
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,960
Speaker 1: hire You're not gonna have him stay at home and

984
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 1: then hire a babysitter and then hire a housekeeper, because

985
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 1: at that point he may as well go to work,

986
00:49:55,440 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: right exactly, And I just feel like, you know, when

987
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,800
Speaker 1: the baby was brand new, I understood the house was

988
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 1: a wreck because you know, the first two months you're

989
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,879
Speaker 1: not sleeping or whatever. But at this point, I feel

990
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: like he should be on some kind of a schedule

991
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 1: more so, you know, like when I get home now,

992
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: a lot of the time, the baby's in bed and

993
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: he's just sitting on his phone or you know, sleeping

994
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 1: on the couch, or the house isn't shambles. Yeah, And

995
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: I have a couple of thoughts. It's like, there's two things.

996
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:35,839
Speaker 1: If if you two together prioritized Hannah that one person

997
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: should be at home with the kid because you don't

998
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: want a babysitter raising your kid, well, then and if

999
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: he agrees with that then and he's going to be

1000
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: the guy, then I guess there's there are responsibilities to

1001
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: come with that, you know, obviously raising and caring for

1002
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: the child and caring for the house. If that isn't

1003
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:54,879
Speaker 1: important to you necessarily, and it's more important for him

1004
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 1: to have some form of identity outside of just being

1005
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 1: a caregiver and him and a housekeeper and a house man,

1006
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: what you can do is what some of my friends

1007
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: have done. Granted he won't be around the kid, but

1008
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: you know, I know people who who their husband or

1009
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 1: wife has a job that merely pays for those things.

1010
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 1: Really the job only covers the cost of the housekeeper

1011
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 1: or the or the nanny or whatever. But it's so

1012
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 1: important for that person to feel like they have an

1013
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: identity outside of that, Like they got to have a

1014
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: place to go and a thing to do aside from

1015
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:32,319
Speaker 1: husband or wife and mom and dad. So they don't

1016
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 1: make any money on that, but they don't. In fact,

1017
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: in some cases, they actually lose money on that because

1018
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 1: it would be cheaper for the person to stay at

1019
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:40,919
Speaker 1: home because they don't make enough to cover the cost

1020
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:42,879
Speaker 1: of the stuff. But it's kind of like it's worth

1021
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 1: it because now this person feels like they have more value,

1022
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: feels like they're helpful in other ways, you know what

1023
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:53,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So like maybe there's a compromise here. Maybe

1024
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to be the maid, but he wants,

1025
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: so he goes and gets a part time job. I

1026
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: don't know, I'm trying to come with a solution here.

1027
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 1: Maybe he goes and has a part time job that

1028
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 1: pays for the maid, so he's got another thing he's

1029
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 1: got going side hustle. But yet he can still be

1030
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,280
Speaker 1: home sometimes with the kids, so the kid's not completely

1031
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: being raised by nanny. Do you know what I'm saying?

1032
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: Why is it fine, because he's not he's not being

1033
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: a maid, but he's a he's a parent. This is

1034
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:18,399
Speaker 1: all things you have to do if you're at home

1035
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: with your child. It sounds like he's not on board

1036
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:23,280
Speaker 1: with this for whatever reason. It sounds like he doesn't

1037
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 1: want to do at all. And I'm not saying that's

1038
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: right or wrong. If they agreed to this together and

1039
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: she says they had healthy communication, uh, and they agreed

1040
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 1: to this, well then that's what comes with the territory.

1041
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 1: But apparently he's unfulfilled by some aspect of this. So

1042
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 1: how do you fulfill him in a way that you

1043
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: know what's the problem. I think they have to have

1044
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:44,920
Speaker 1: a conversation and be like, I do you want to

1045
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: do this? If not, let's just get a babysitter. Let's

1046
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 1: get then we're gonna have to hire a nanny. Then

1047
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 1: we're gonna have to hire a cleaner. Might and that's

1048
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 1: exactly what I'm saying. And then and then maybe whatever

1049
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: he's doing is gonna have to generate some income to

1050
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 1: pay for this stuff. If he's not gonna do it,

1051
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 1: but at least he's got he's something else. Paulina. I

1052
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 1: just think that yes, he needs to pull his way

1053
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 1: because I know that if this was, if the roles

1054
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 1: were reversed, I feel like women are expected to raise

1055
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 1: the kids and be at home. I have you know,

1056
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: dinner club, through the laundry, and then on top of that,

1057
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: and I'm not a stay at home mother, and I

1058
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 1: know that that many listeners are like on top of that,

1059
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 1: like raising a kid is a full time job in itself,

1060
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So that's why I want

1061
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: to give him kind of the leeway here. I want

1062
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: to kind of let him like I understand in a

1063
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 1: way right of like, Okay, he's raising the kid. There's

1064
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 1: a baby involved, Like he's got other things to do.

1065
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: He's not going to be whipping up you know, dinner

1066
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:33,360
Speaker 1: every night. And I know a lot of stay at

1067
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 1: home moms would probably agree with that. It seems like

1068
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: because I know that, again, it's a full time job.

1069
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 1: But I like your point that maybe there is some

1070
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: unfulfillment in him or he feels like, you know, what

1071
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,439
Speaker 1: else is he contributing? You know, maybe he can start

1072
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 1: with cleaning the house, but with that, you know, on

1073
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: top of that, Okay, maybe he gets the part time job.

1074
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: Maybe there's a side hustle going on. Maybe there's something

1075
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: he brings to the table. But I like the idea

1076
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 1: of having a conversation because communication is key. Yeah, but

1077
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: I do think that like if he was a stay

1078
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: at home if this was the roles reversed and the

1079
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,479
Speaker 1: stay at home mom was involved, I feel like we'd

1080
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 1: be kind of talking about this a little bit differently.

1081
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:07,319
Speaker 1: I think maybe I don't know. I mean, again, if

1082
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: this is what you agreed on, then this is what

1083
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 1: he should be doing. But maybe he feels like he

1084
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: works for you in some ways, you know, and maybe

1085
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 1: it's it's gone. You look at it as he gets

1086
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 1: to stay at home and raise your child while you're

1087
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 1: at work earning money. Maybe he sees it as I've

1088
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:23,279
Speaker 1: become a guy who scrubs toilets too, and I don't

1089
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 1: want to be that guy again. Up, bro, if I

1090
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: didn't have to work and I have, they have to

1091
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: stay home and raise a child and I all have

1092
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 1: to do is clean the house and do the dishes

1093
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: and dinner. But those are those are your terms? Right?

1094
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 1: For whatever reason this guy And by the way, if

1095
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: he's totally unrealistic about it, if it's like, well, I

1096
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: don't want to do any of that, and I also

1097
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: don't want to work. Well, then you know what I mean.

1098
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:45,319
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, you can't do that either the hand.

1099
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,240
Speaker 1: Let me take some phone calls on this. It's tricky

1100
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: because you know, I see both sides. I mean, but

1101
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 1: it's what you agreed upon. And maybe he just needs

1102
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 1: he needs something else in his life, even if it's

1103
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,399
Speaker 1: just part time, to feel like he has a life

1104
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 1: outside of the house. I would say this same thing

1105
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: if it were a woman. Um, but yeah, Hannah, thank you,

1106
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:08,839
Speaker 1: have a good day, good luck. Yeah, thank you. That's

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00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: another thing, like if I had enough money. Let's say

1108
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,400
Speaker 1: there are no kids, we don't have any kids, and

1109
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,360
Speaker 1: I get married and I have enough money that my

1110
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: wife or partner doesn't have to work. I would be

1111
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: resentful if she didn't go and do something that that,

1112
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 1: regardless of the amount of money that she made, that

1113
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: that either made her happy or made the world better.

1114
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 1: Like I would be resentful if I came home every

1115
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 1: day and she was still in bed doing nothing with

1116
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 1: her life. Because you're given the opportunity right to now,

1117
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 1: you can do anything you want. Because let's say I

1118
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: have enough money. Let's say I'm bill gates and I

1119
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: have enough money. My wife can do anything she wants.

1120
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,840
Speaker 1: Money does not matter. She can go rescue animals or

1121
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 1: work in an adoption facility, she can go teach Spanish,

1122
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:56,720
Speaker 1: go work with the poor, she can do whatever she wants. Instead,

1123
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: she chooses to do nothing. I would see that as

1124
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 1: a squaded opportunity. I would be full of that. So

1125
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 1: she's coming this in a different situation, has coming home

1126
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 1: and she's resentful because she'd rather. She's probably rather to

1127
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 1: be home with her kid. But yet they decided that

1128
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:11,759
Speaker 1: this is going to be his responsibility and now no

1129
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: one's doing that stuff. So what's the solution? Amy? Hi, Hi, Hi?

1130
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: How are you good morning? What do you think? So

1131
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:23,360
Speaker 1: I am not a stay at home parent. I do

1132
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:27,320
Speaker 1: work full time and part of that is because it

1133
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:29,399
Speaker 1: is so hard to be a stay at home parent

1134
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 1: that I find it easier to work. And I'm not

1135
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 1: a doctor, so I can't talk on that, but I

1136
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 1: think maybe they need to renegotiate their terms. Yeah, I

1137
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: think that. You know, when you're a stay at home parent,

1138
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:46,440
Speaker 1: things change so much with your child as they, you know,

1139
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:49,399
Speaker 1: get older. So things were probably different when the baby

1140
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 1: was a newborn. And now that you know the baby's

1141
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: like eighteen months old, it's for me, it was harder

1142
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 1: at that point. And like when the baby sleeps, that's

1143
00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:00,320
Speaker 1: when your break is. It's a full time job. So

1144
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 1: I understand why he's not jumping up to run and

1145
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 1: clean the house when he's been chasing after the baby

1146
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: all day. Yeah, that's the one thing I can say

1147
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 1: is and you know this better, Rufio, because you have Ashland,

1148
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 1: but my niece a little bit younger than Ashland, My

1149
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:15,319
Speaker 1: brother in law works at home. My sister works at

1150
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 1: a school, so Polly goes to the school during the day,

1151
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 1: so they have at least that. But I mean they're

1152
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: exhausted just from the part that they do, which is morning, night, weekends.

1153
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 1: They're exhausted. So the idea of you know, one or

1154
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 1: the other of them cleaning and cooking on top of

1155
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 1: all that. And the reason he's probably scrolling through his

1156
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 1: phone at seven o'clock or six o'clock which he gets home,

1157
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 1: is because he's tired. Because it's it's like it can't

1158
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 1: be easy. But like like she, like you say, it

1159
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 1: is a full time job. Being apparent is a full

1160
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 1: time job, even if you're stay at home one. But

1161
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 1: like there's routines like even if your child is napping,

1162
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:47,840
Speaker 1: that that might be your break time. But that's not

1163
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: a time for you to take a nap. That's the

1164
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 1: time for you to to do cleaning and do laundry

1165
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: and clean up the house and do everything like that

1166
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 1: while your child is sleeping for two hours. Yeah. Yeah,

1167
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: to prioritize one needs to get done. Just because your

1168
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 1: child snapping doesn't mean that's your nap time. That's when

1169
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: you should be getting a lot of stuff done, except

1170
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: if you're doing all the parenting, then you're pite tired.

1171
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 1: But like I said, it's it's it's a routine. Like

1172
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: kids are used to a routine, Like you wake up,

1173
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 1: do the same thing, you eat breakfast, you play, they

1174
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 1: watch their tablet. Dude, they they're not running like my

1175
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 1: child is is is on one hundred all day. But

1176
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: we still figure out a way for me to do

1177
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: stuff while he's still awakens and still playing. You know

1178
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We get stuff done. Yeah, he's obviously

1179
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, not entirely fulfilled or not on board

1180
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 1: with all of the obligation, and they either got to

1181
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 1: figure it out or something but because if he's not

1182
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: gonna make any money, then he's gonna have to supplement

1183
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 1: another way, is right. It's a job like you like

1184
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:44,960
Speaker 1: to your point, Amy, I mean parenting and managing a house.

1185
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 1: That's a job in itself. I'm amazed that. I'm amazed

1186
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 1: when two people can work full time and pull that off.

1187
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 1: I mean, which most people have to do. Amy. Thank you,

1188
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 1: have a great day. Thank you. Glad you called. Lisa. Hi, Lisa, Hi,

1189
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 1: you doing good? How are you great? Thanks for calling.

1190
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 1: So Hannah is, I guess kind of upset because she's

1191
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:10,440
Speaker 1: a doctor, she works all day. In her relationship with

1192
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: her husband, they decided that he was going to stay

1193
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 1: at home, manage the house, raise the kids. He doesn't,

1194
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: in her opinion, seem to be doing enough of that.

1195
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 1: You know what's the solution. I will say that I

1196
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 1: would stay at home mom for sixteen years. I have

1197
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: four kids on work full time now. Stay home parenting

1198
00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: is very difficult. It's exhausting work. Making dinner, for example,

1199
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 1: isn't just whipping up a meal. You have to make

1200
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 1: a list, you have to go to the store with

1201
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 1: the kids, you have to come home, prep the food, cricket,

1202
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: clean up before, clean up after. There's a lot more

1203
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 1: work than take care of the baby, clean cook cleaning

1204
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 1: a whole house to take a straight eight or nine

1205
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 1: hours to do. If you had eight or nine hours

1206
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 1: in a row, sometimes you're barely able to pick up

1207
00:59:57,000 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 1: with the kids. Not it's a constant, non stop moving

1208
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: job that you're up at in the middle of the

1209
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: night when we need you during the day, things like that.

1210
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 1: So it is exhausting. And if two people are working

1211
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 1: and they have no kids, they with those other chores

1212
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:18,880
Speaker 1: like cooking, shopping, cleaning. And I don't understand why someone

1213
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,800
Speaker 1: would think, well, I'm working and now you're home with

1214
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: the kids, which is a full time job, so I

1215
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: don't have to do anything else. I think that's horrible,

1216
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 1: and I think she should try to stay home with

1217
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 1: the kids and do it all before criticizing somebody that's

1218
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: trying to survive doing it because it's exhausting. Yeah, that's

1219
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 1: an interesting point. It's like she she has the expectation

1220
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 1: that everything else will be done because she goes to work,

1221
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 1: and maybe that's unfair. Lisa, thank you, have a good day.

1222
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 1: You're welcome. It's so funny because like when I talk

1223
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: to my married friends about this, even the ones that

1224
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 1: have harmony. It's it's like the Okay, let's say my

1225
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:59,680
Speaker 1: male friend is going to work. The woman in the relationship,

1226
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 1: while she's happy to be raising the kid, wishes that

1227
01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 1: she could have the separation from the house. Right. So

1228
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:10,320
Speaker 1: then when when my buddy comes home and he's tired

1229
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 1: from working all day, and she hands him the kid

1230
01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 1: because she wants a break, he's like, but I, it's like,

1231
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 1: now it's your turn, and he's like, when I've been

1232
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 1: working all day, so like, I'm tired. So we gotta

1233
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,200
Speaker 1: figure that out. And then you've got the person who's

1234
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 1: staying at home who's resentful of this outside adult time.

1235
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 1: But yet that don't be resentful because my buddy who's

1236
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: at work all day, would rather, you know, in many cases,

1237
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 1: be going to his kids first day and rather be

1238
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 1: seeing these milestones that they're missing. So it's like the

1239
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 1: grass is always greener on the other side, and it's

1240
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 1: got to be a hard thing to moderate, U, is it? Valeria? Yes, Hi,

1241
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the show. What do you think,

1242
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 1: stare Go? So I think she should stay because I

1243
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 1: so I don't know what she's experiencing yet I just

1244
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: recently got married. But my aunt gave me such good advice.

1245
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: She said that like ten years down the life, like

1246
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 1: I hated that we even awaited this long, but they

1247
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 1: hired a maid, and she said it just made their

1248
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 1: lives easier. She said, we had to figure out budgeting,

1249
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 1: but she said she highly recommends it because it was

1250
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: just one last thing they had to worry about. They

1251
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: can devote more time than their kids, and so she

1252
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 1: just recommended it for me. I haven't done it yet

1253
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 1: because I don't have kids yet, but it's definitely something

1254
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about and going to budget when I do that. Yeah,

1255
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:26,560
Speaker 1: and Valaria, I know that everybody can afford that, but

1256
01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:28,840
Speaker 1: it's like it almost seems like in this case, even

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Speaker 1: if it's a little bit taxing on their budget, it

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Speaker 1: might save their relationship because now this guy's less resentful

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Speaker 1: because he doesn't feel like a maid. And yet at

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Speaker 1: the same time, you know, she comes home to a

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Speaker 1: house that to clean and organized. But you know that

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Speaker 1: that being said, I mean, it might be impossible. Who

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Speaker 1: knows how much money they have, but she's a doctor,

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Speaker 1: so money bags over here. Yeah, thank you, Varia. I

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01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 1: like it made their life so much easier. She said,

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Speaker 1: like it was night yea, just something to think about. Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much, have a good day. Oh I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Hi whoever that was Erica, good morning, good morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So this is you, this is like you you know

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Speaker 1: this situation firsthand. Yeah, this is totally my life. I

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Speaker 1: can see both sides because with my first son, his

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Speaker 1: dad totally did not want me to go back to work. Um.

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Speaker 1: He wanted me to say, be a stay at home

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Speaker 1: mom because that's what his mom did and that's how

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Speaker 1: he was raised. And it completely wrecked havoc on my

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Speaker 1: mental health. It just wasn't good. So the relationships has failed.

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Speaker 1: Communication wasn't there. He was, you know, like the bread winner,

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01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 1: so I should have been grateful when I was home

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Speaker 1: all the time. Um. So this time around with my husband,

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Speaker 1: we had to talk and I'm like, I can't. I

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01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 1: know you're the bread winner, but from my mental health,

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01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: I need to go to work, you know, just part time.

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01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,920
Speaker 1: My money you know, it's just like enough for groceries.

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01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 1: But when the days that I'm working, you know, I

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01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 1: communicate with him throughout the day, like how is the

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Speaker 1: date going? Um, you know, I get to be able

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Speaker 1: to get dinner together by the time we at home,

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Speaker 1: because my days, since I only worked two three days

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Speaker 1: a week, are long days where I'm you know, gone

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Speaker 1: for hours. So and then you know, some days are

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01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:04,960
Speaker 1: great and some days like it's it's rough. You know,

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Speaker 1: I haven't gotten anything done today because he's working from

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01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: home with the baby too. So I think they need

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01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 1: to work on the communication throughout the day, and she

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01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:14,360
Speaker 1: needs to understand that every day is going to be

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Speaker 1: rainbows and sunshine. You know, She's not going to always

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Speaker 1: come home to a clean house. Sarah cooked meal, you know,

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Speaker 1: it with with with like a dome over the plate

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Speaker 1: and he lifts it up and it's like you know,

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Speaker 1: but at the same time, you know, I can see

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Speaker 1: her side too, where she's frustrated if she's coming home

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01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 1: and nothing is being done. There's no excuse for that

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01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,439
Speaker 1: because my husband works from home and manages the baby

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01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 1: and gets a lot done too, you know, so there's

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01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: no excuse for nothing at all. So I think maybe,

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01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 1: you know, this is a mental thing for him where

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01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 1: he may feel like he, you know, he's not bringing

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01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 1: anything to the table that he needs, because that's how

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01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 1: it was with my first son and that relationship, so

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Speaker 1: I think, you know, they need to have another talk

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01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: and see both sides and great joust and maybe he

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01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 1: does eat it, you know, even if it's just two

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01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 1: three days a week to get out the house. Because

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Speaker 1: with my husband working from home, I told him, I

1315
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 1: know you're home twenty post seven, you're going to need

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01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,919
Speaker 1: your new time. So like if when I get home,

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Speaker 1: you need to go meet some friends at the bar

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Speaker 1: or whatever, that's fine. Just communicated with me because I

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01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 1: know how hard it is to be home twenty post

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Speaker 1: seven with the baby plus working from home, so you know,

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01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 1: we have that open communication. Right. Thank you. Erica makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Have a great day too. Well. She says in her

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Speaker 1: email that he's an amazing father, So it's not like

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Speaker 1: he's a neglectful guy or a lazy guy or a

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01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 1: bad dude. Sounds like self esteem. I have another buddy.

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Speaker 1: He's a pilot and he makes great money. His wife

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01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 1: is a flight attendant, and they decided one week a

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01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: month he'll stay home, even though he can make five

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Speaker 1: times what she can on a three day trip, so

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01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 1: that she can go do a three day trip. And

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01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:52,840
Speaker 1: it's basic. It's almost a luxury for her to go

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01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:55,919
Speaker 1: to work, because that's three days that she's not doing

1333
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 1: the parenting and he is. And even though they technically

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01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: lose money on it, I think it probably saves their

1335
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:04,440
Speaker 1: relationship because it's like three days I can sleep in

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01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 1: the hotel bed and I can go to work and

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01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 1: I can be a grown up and I can do

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01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 1: grown up stuff. And then the other three weeks I

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01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 1: do this and so you know, yeah, my friend can

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01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:14,400
Speaker 1: go out and fly and make more money, but he's

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01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 1: worth it to them because she feels like she has

1342
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 1: a multiple you know, there's multifaceted. Her life is multifaceted.

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01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:24,680
Speaker 1: Makes sense. In the meantime, Rufio' is like, I'll marry

1344
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:29,680
Speaker 1: this woman right now, doctor doctor, Yeah, mister mom over here,

1345
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 1: let's go. Hey, just keep Jess on her only fans

1346
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 1: and soon enough it'll do. That'll be your life, man,

1347
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:37,120
Speaker 1: raking in that money. You'll be driving a tesse and

1348
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 1: we'll never see you again. And entertainer important, lot of

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Speaker 1: Pollosic tickets Shelley ten minutes away, one hundred and fifty

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Speaker 1: bucks in the show down. If you could be suck

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Speaker 1: her real law, be entertainber important, just a Second Lilight

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Speaker 1: tickets right now, four day passes July twenty eight through

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Speaker 1: July thirty, First Grant Park. Of course, Dojan Cat Machine Gun.

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Speaker 1: Kelly will be there, My girl do Alipa will be there.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to see her now that we're friends again. Um,

1356
01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:06,919
Speaker 1: she cries tears of joy when she sees me. Now, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what those are. Yeah, he Hey, we locked eyes

1358
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 1: at the I Radio Music Festive. I could tell that

1359
01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:14,320
Speaker 1: all is well in the world. We're fine. She totally

1360
01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:16,360
Speaker 1: knew it was me. Yeah, and she like, I got

1361
01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 1: you know, looked at me and it was like, I

1362
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 1: could we locked eyes that I could just tell that

1363
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Speaker 1: all has been resolved. Where's the lie? There is the one.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that you recognize him. Uh. Tickets at lot

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Speaker 1: of pollus dot com if you'd like to go, call

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Speaker 1: it every twenty five eight five five five nine one him.

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Speaker 1: The latest entertainment news is on the Fred Show. So

1368
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:38,840
Speaker 1: this is the story that I tease. Amy Schumer was

1369
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 1: doing stand up in Vegas and talking about the jokes

1370
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 1: that were shot down while she was hosting the Oscars.

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Speaker 1: The worst one was probably a joke about Alec Baldwin.

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01:07:48,200 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 1: She was going to say, don't look up is the

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01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 1: name of a movie, more like don't look down the

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01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 1: barrel of alcohol. Wow. Wow, Yeah, that was the worst one,

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01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:03,480
Speaker 1: she said. She also said that her lawyer told her

1376
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 1: not to do these jokes in the stand up, but

1377
01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:07,480
Speaker 1: she still did them anyway, which I guess is why

1378
01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 1: we love Amy. But she was ready to go there. No, no, no,

1379
01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 1: dead people jokes are not accidental did people jokes. I

1380
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 1: don't know how funny that is. Yeah, I don't know.

1381
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 1: That seems like too far for me, but I feel

1382
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 1: like I'm really sensitive when it comes to comedy, and

1383
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:26,519
Speaker 1: I guess you're supposed to be a jerk. I don't know. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1384
01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,599
Speaker 1: that's a little far. Yeah, somebody would have slept someone

1385
01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:31,479
Speaker 1: over that one too. I think. I guess everybody has

1386
01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:34,559
Speaker 1: their their line. But I think universally we don't laugh

1387
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 1: at accidental dead people right. Yeah. No, I don't think

1388
01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 1: that's funny at all. So I'm glad that she I

1389
01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 1: think we can all accept that as a society. We

1390
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:43,519
Speaker 1: can all agree. I say, I draw the line, guys,

1391
01:08:43,880 --> 01:08:46,760
Speaker 1: accidental dead people jokes, no can do it. Yeah. I

1392
01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 1: like that. I can't believe we have to end that conversation,

1393
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:51,320
Speaker 1: but we do. I know she did a couple hours too,

1394
01:08:51,400 --> 01:08:53,759
Speaker 1: but that was the worst one. So Selanna Gomez announced

1395
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:56,000
Speaker 1: the launch of her new platform, wonder Mine while she

1396
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 1: was on GMA and said that staying off the internet

1397
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 1: for four and a half year years has improved her

1398
01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:05,479
Speaker 1: mental health. I believe. I believe that. She said, I'm happier,

1399
01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm more present, I connect more with people. I understand

1400
01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: how powerful the Internet is, and in so many ways

1401
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 1: it's done the best things for the world. But for me,

1402
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,559
Speaker 1: I get my news that's actually important through the people

1403
01:09:15,680 --> 01:09:18,040
Speaker 1: in my life. So she has people run her accounts

1404
01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:20,000
Speaker 1: and she has people tell her if there's something big

1405
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:22,160
Speaker 1: going on, because that is what works for her. She's

1406
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: always been really honest about her struggles with her bipolar,

1407
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 1: depression and anxiety, which I'm sure she's helped a lot

1408
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 1: of people, you know, in the process of doing that.

1409
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 1: Now she's using Wondermind to push the conversation of mental

1410
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: health forward, saying she wants the platform to be a

1411
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 1: community and a space for people to feel like they're

1412
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:40,759
Speaker 1: okay and that they're not alone, which we love, especially

1413
01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:42,560
Speaker 1: on this show, because that's the only fans is for me?

1414
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:46,519
Speaker 1: What was it in a place for one A place

1415
01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 1: for people to know that they're not alone? Yeah you, yep,

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01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:51,840
Speaker 1: I know I'm not alone. But only fan you do

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01:09:51,920 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 1: the only only fans, like where you request them to

1418
01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 1: do something, only fans are you're watching it? Oh no,

1419
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 1: I'm a consumer, your consumer. I haven't started my own yet,

1420
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 1: but I'm thinking about it. Said, I don't know if

1421
01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 1: it's in my contract I'm allowed to do that, but

1422
01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:10,120
Speaker 1: I think I can. Okay, yeah, big only fans guys. Yeah, okay,

1423
01:10:11,160 --> 01:10:13,479
Speaker 1: it's just like wonder Mine her new mental health. Yeah, no,

1424
01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 1: that's the same thing. It's a literal and done girl.

1425
01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:21,920
Speaker 1: It's really happening you guys. Mindy Kalen gave a little

1426
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:24,680
Speaker 1: update on Legally Blonde three. She said she's hard at

1427
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:27,280
Speaker 1: work writing the script for the iconic franchise, but wants

1428
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:29,200
Speaker 1: to make sure it's worth it. She said, I love

1429
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:31,800
Speaker 1: this project. I'm so excited about it. We're working on it.

1430
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:34,560
Speaker 1: It's going a little more slowly than we like, but

1431
01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:36,800
Speaker 1: it's just because we want it to be really good.

1432
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:38,600
Speaker 1: I feel like with those remakes, you got to make

1433
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 1: sure that they're good because the first one was so iconic.

1434
01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:44,560
Speaker 1: This isn't really a story, but I just want to

1435
01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:47,719
Speaker 1: quickly mention this crew that was in Vegas together. Okay,

1436
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:53,720
Speaker 1: Kendall Jenner, Angus Cloud, Ryan Cranston, and Scott Disick hanging

1437
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:56,479
Speaker 1: out together. They were all hanging out in Vegas for

1438
01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:59,720
Speaker 1: the opening of taw Beach day Club. So I just

1439
01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:03,680
Speaker 1: cransit at the Towbeat Day Club with Angus Cloud, Like,

1440
01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:06,280
Speaker 1: what the hell's going on? That's I mean, that's a

1441
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:07,960
Speaker 1: lit crew. If we can find a photo, we'll post

1442
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:11,439
Speaker 1: it more to check it online. Today, Olivia Rodrigo made

1443
01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:14,880
Speaker 1: a TikTok with her Grammys. We love her. Also, the

1444
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 1: weirdest video of OJ Simpson I just can't get past

1445
01:11:18,080 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: it is on frenchhaw Radio dot com. I know that

1446
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:23,360
Speaker 1: the suits tell me never to discuss. They think that

1447
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:25,519
Speaker 1: people don't care about the behind the scenes of this

1448
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:29,400
Speaker 1: major motion picture that we're doing each morning. But like,

1449
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 1: they literally built us a multimillion dollars studio. This room

1450
01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 1: probably costs a million bucks. I don't know one, hundreds

1451
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:39,200
Speaker 1: of thousands of dollars, okay, tens of thousands of dollars, right, dollars?

1452
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:42,840
Speaker 1: They forgot the soundproofing and they're conditioning and number of

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Speaker 1: windows they forgot those two and a number of things

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01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:47,519
Speaker 1: that being said, very nice place. They built us here,

1455
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:50,599
Speaker 1: and they put like, there's like a hundred cameras in here.

1456
01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:53,320
Speaker 1: They mounted all these cameras in here. And yet Paulina

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01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:55,839
Speaker 1: is standing next to me holding up her iPhone filming

1458
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Speaker 1: Klin like manually. Yeah, that's where we're fans and my

1459
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Speaker 1: tippytoes reminds me a lot of the only fans I was. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's making she's a content creator. Hey, uncut, Jessica. How

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Speaker 1: you doing, Jessica? Yeah, hello, our phone does net work either?

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01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 1: I don't know. Hi, Jessica, how you doing tens of

1463
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:25,639
Speaker 1: thousands for it? Hi? I'm gonna go down to tens

1464
01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: of hundreds now at this rate. Um, you got a

1465
01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:30,759
Speaker 1: lot of Polluta tickets, Jessica, Good morning, thanks for listening.

1466
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:36,360
Speaker 1: Good morning, you win? Yeah you I am so excited.

1467
01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:41,599
Speaker 1: Thank you. What's going on in Windfield, Indiana? Where is Windfield, Indiana, Illinois?

1468
01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 1: It says, I am, it's Indiana. It's kind of by

1469
01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:49,439
Speaker 1: Crown Point. Look at this. I know Crown Point. I've

1470
01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:53,000
Speaker 1: hung on Crown Point. But a Nighttimes freaking Carmen Sandiego.

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01:12:53,400 --> 01:12:57,280
Speaker 1: It doesn't know where it is. Well, she's not. She's

1472
01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:00,200
Speaker 1: not in that way. She's over by Crown Point. She's

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01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:02,280
Speaker 1: in the two one nine. My bad. Okay? Is that

1474
01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: considered the region yesterday the region today? Why do they

1475
01:13:07,280 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 1: call it that? I don't know. I don't even that.

1476
01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 1: I figured since you were in it, you know. But

1477
01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:15,120
Speaker 1: that's okay. Um. Oh, you're coming from the Region to

1478
01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 1: the Loop to Grant Park. You're going to a lot

1479
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:19,200
Speaker 1: of palooza. I'll be there. Of course you'll see me

1480
01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 1: shirtless all four days with a sombrero on. So I

1481
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:24,080
Speaker 1: can't wait. Um, please come up to me. I might

1482
01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 1: be under the influence, you know, of the drugs I

1483
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 1: buried in Grant Park, but please come up to me

1484
01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 1: when you see me, okay, and say hi, thank you

1485
01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 1: so much. Hold one, stay right there. I'm not going.

1486
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:38,600
Speaker 1: You're the last person I might go. I might go

1487
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 1: if I gotta get some of those special paths. I mean,

1488
01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 1: not that I'm special, but in order for me not

1489
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:44,640
Speaker 1: to have a panic attack, I need some of that

1490
01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:47,120
Speaker 1: crazy stuff that you got last year there, or two

1491
01:13:47,200 --> 01:13:48,880
Speaker 1: years ago, three years ago, whenever it was when you

1492
01:13:49,360 --> 01:13:51,959
Speaker 1: you like peeled, but that you had like a crazy wristband.

1493
01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:54,519
Speaker 1: You have to like sit on Shack's lap or something.

1494
01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 1: I mean he had like a crazy wristband, like dislocate

1495
01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 1: my thumb to get it off, to give it to first. Yeah,

1496
01:14:00,280 --> 01:14:01,840
Speaker 1: it was like it was like a David Blaine trick

1497
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:03,680
Speaker 1: to get the wristband off, and then he gave it

1498
01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: to me. I need that wristband. I gotta find a

1499
01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:11,200
Speaker 1: I gotta find Dominic fikeh. Yeah he's good. Yeah, Elliott

1500
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:15,400
Speaker 1: from Euphoria. Oh yeah, okay, yeah he's performing at Yeah. Yeah,

1501
01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:17,160
Speaker 1: I remember I was telling you how good I thought

1502
01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:20,800
Speaker 1: he was, that he's so cute. I'm gonna go. Yeah,

1503
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:23,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go see Elliott now. I gotta find that man.

1504
01:14:23,240 --> 01:14:25,519
Speaker 1: Maybe he's in Dale will be there too. I doubt it,

1505
01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 1: but I don't know. Maybe maybe he's with Hunter Shape

1506
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 1: for you. Maybe maybe, yeah, she'll be here. I would

1507
01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:33,840
Speaker 1: love that. Yeah, you get your photo with all the

1508
01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:37,880
Speaker 1: Euphoria crew. I'm gonna go, dude, bedazzled eye makeup. Yes,

1509
01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:42,800
Speaker 1: I dressed like Euphoria like we're going to school. Yeah okay, yeah,

1510
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:47,840
Speaker 1: but dazzled me up. Let's do it. Yeah, I just

1511
01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 1: it's not that I think I'm special, because I'm really not.

1512
01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:52,880
Speaker 1: I really am just like not the crowd. It gives

1513
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 1: me like tremendous anxiety like to be but people can

1514
01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:58,120
Speaker 1: like pack in. They talk about like feeling the energy

1515
01:14:58,280 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 1: or something. I'm like, I feel nauseous. You're also six five.

1516
01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:05,160
Speaker 1: It doesn't help me. You could see over everybody. If

1517
01:15:05,200 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 1: I were five five, we wouldn't see me at all.

1518
01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:09,799
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even be there. I'd be on someone's shoulders

1519
01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:12,800
Speaker 1: the whole time. Yeah, I'm just not a crowd guy.

1520
01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 1: But you, I don't know, you seem to do okay

1521
01:15:14,840 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 1: with it. Well I drink, Yeah, I almost seem. But anyway,

1522
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:22,040
Speaker 1: Rufio was way more connected than I was. Uh with

1523
01:15:22,200 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 1: the thing. Yeah, you had some wristband. I'm like, oh,

1524
01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:27,160
Speaker 1: now I got the I got the magic trick. Here

1525
01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 1: I can go. And then I'm like, but the still pass.

1526
01:15:29,560 --> 01:15:32,400
Speaker 1: He's just like, what are y'all doing back here? I

1527
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 1: thought I had like the past that I got to

1528
01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 1: basically like run the mixer board or whatever, and I'm

1529
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 1: I thought I was mister lallapalooza. I thought I was Parry.

1530
01:15:42,040 --> 01:15:44,240
Speaker 1: And then I'm like who are all are you? I

1531
01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:46,280
Speaker 1: got this thing? And then I realized everybody else does

1532
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:48,840
Speaker 1: ring like rufio at the hand, and then there was

1533
01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:51,759
Speaker 1: one of there was one beyond that, there's another wristband

1534
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 1: that's like wild, Yeah, that's like you. That's like you

1535
01:15:54,920 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 1: get to like tell someone to get off the stage ristband.

1536
01:15:57,439 --> 01:15:58,720
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what you get to go

1537
01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:00,600
Speaker 1: on the stage yourself and profly don't know what it was.

1538
01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:03,680
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta get that one. Showby Shelley one

1539
01:16:03,760 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty bucks, showby Shelley, Showdown eight five five

1540
01:16:06,680 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 1: nine one one h three five Let's play next after

1541
01:16:08,479 --> 01:16:10,559
Speaker 1: Billy at least two minutes away on the frend show,

1542
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:16,640
Speaker 1: it's the Fresh Show on one do you have what

1543
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 1: it takes? The Battle show Fish Shelley, and the Showbis Showdown,

1544
01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 1: showby How are you doing? Oh good? I was nervous

1545
01:16:31,080 --> 01:16:33,760
Speaker 1: that if the studio wasn't in tiptop shape today that

1546
01:16:33,840 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 1: maybe this one work. So I'm glad I'm here. Oh no,

1547
01:16:37,360 --> 01:16:40,559
Speaker 1: this always has to work. No, no, no, they they

1548
01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 1: got like a they got like a the highest tech

1549
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:48,120
Speaker 1: material between this studio and your studio where your throne

1550
01:16:48,320 --> 01:16:50,800
Speaker 1: is and your special you know, your special buffet and

1551
01:16:50,920 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 1: the chef and the trainer and all the things that

1552
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,160
Speaker 1: my god, the things that you require. But it's okay

1553
01:16:56,200 --> 01:17:00,200
Speaker 1: because we need you tiptop form girl for this game

1554
01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:06,880
Speaker 1: and trying. I'm doing my best. Thirty one weeks, almost thirty,

1555
01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:09,559
Speaker 1: I'm trying. And how many weeks until the baby comes out?

1556
01:17:09,560 --> 01:17:15,840
Speaker 1: How many total weeks? Oh? God, like nine eighth? Nine? Okay? Nine? Yeah,

1557
01:17:15,840 --> 01:17:17,599
Speaker 1: I thought it was fifty two weeks for a baby,

1558
01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:20,080
Speaker 1: but that's a year, so that would be a problem.

1559
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:23,120
Speaker 1: You don't want to for a year, I think, or something.

1560
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:25,920
Speaker 1: It'd be like a one year old child already popping out, saying,

1561
01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:30,720
Speaker 1: kN be popping out, gorilla up, you know, like already yeah,

1562
01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:33,679
Speaker 1: us not sound pleasant, little do. I don't know anything

1563
01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:35,519
Speaker 1: about it. I really know nothing. I don't know how

1564
01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:42,800
Speaker 1: I survive. Um. Jenna's here, Kenna, Hi, how are you doing?

1565
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:47,439
Speaker 1: Good morning? Good morning? Tell us all about you, Jenna.

1566
01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:51,559
Speaker 1: We gotta learn, we gotta know. Well. I am sitting

1567
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:55,679
Speaker 1: in traffic on like short drive. A. You're talking about

1568
01:17:56,600 --> 01:18:01,599
Speaker 1: du Sable Lake Shore Drive? Is that what you're referring to? Yea? Yeah, okay, good.

1569
01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 1: I want to make sure we get all that in there. UM,

1570
01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 1: And where are you going to work? What does work?

1571
01:18:05,400 --> 01:18:08,719
Speaker 1: What do you do? I'm going to work. I work

1572
01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:13,640
Speaker 1: as a speech language pathologist. Incredible, Okay, some days I

1573
01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:16,840
Speaker 1: need that. UM. Some days is a professional communicator. I

1574
01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 1: don't know, Like, what does that mean when the words

1575
01:18:19,000 --> 01:18:20,840
Speaker 1: are in my head but they don't come out of

1576
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:26,360
Speaker 1: my mouth properly. U. If you're having trouble find words,

1577
01:18:26,479 --> 01:18:30,759
Speaker 1: it's called anomia. Anomia, Yeah, that happens. I think sometimes

1578
01:18:30,840 --> 01:18:33,519
Speaker 1: my brain works. I think most days my brain works

1579
01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:36,080
Speaker 1: faster than my mouth. You know what I'm saying. Like

1580
01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:39,040
Speaker 1: it's like a like a big funnel of ideas going

1581
01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:42,240
Speaker 1: in and a very small little opening at the bottom,

1582
01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:43,760
Speaker 1: and I just can't get them all out fast enough,

1583
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:46,840
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yes, Yeah, she knows what

1584
01:18:46,920 --> 01:18:48,639
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Okay, she does want to talk about work

1585
01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:54,360
Speaker 1: right now. I don't blame your anomia. Um. Okay, one

1586
01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:56,280
Speaker 1: game win streak for Shelley. I was trying to think

1587
01:18:56,320 --> 01:18:59,160
Speaker 1: of another word, missoponia. What's that is that that people

1588
01:18:59,160 --> 01:19:01,800
Speaker 1: who don't like sound? Yes, certain sounds? Yeah, fear of

1589
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:03,640
Speaker 1: sounds or something you could find out if you have

1590
01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:06,320
Speaker 1: that on your twenty three and me. But sometimes people

1591
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:08,800
Speaker 1: when I post pictures of my knees Polly and she's

1592
01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:10,760
Speaker 1: like that. When was she's getting an apple, people said

1593
01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:14,160
Speaker 1: they're missing Ophonia was going crazy because it was like

1594
01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:15,800
Speaker 1: you could hear a little popping and because she was

1595
01:19:15,800 --> 01:19:17,479
Speaker 1: trying to eat the apple. And I was like, I

1596
01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:19,880
Speaker 1: don't really care to keep video. Enjoy one hundred and

1597
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:22,120
Speaker 1: fifty bucks in the Showdown one game win streak five

1598
01:19:22,200 --> 01:19:24,360
Speaker 1: eighty seven to thirty nine is the record. Let's go

1599
01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:31,479
Speaker 1: all right, Jenna, good luck? Okay? Jenna doesn't She's like, whatever,

1600
01:19:31,840 --> 01:19:36,000
Speaker 1: I'm not interested, okay, Jenna. Question number one, who won

1601
01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:45,280
Speaker 1: the Men's NC Double A Championship last night? Good thing

1602
01:19:45,360 --> 01:19:48,680
Speaker 1: they didn't? Which rapper deleted her Twitter after arguing with

1603
01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 1: fans over why she didn't attend the Grammys. Not Cardier,

1604
01:19:57,479 --> 01:20:05,519
Speaker 1: but there I could na. Actress Is Stell Harris died

1605
01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:07,439
Speaker 1: from natural causes over the weekend at the age of

1606
01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:11,519
Speaker 1: ninety three. Is still played George Costanza's mom on this

1607
01:20:11,760 --> 01:20:17,400
Speaker 1: hit sitcom. Morbius took the number one spot during its

1608
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:22,760
Speaker 1: debut weekend. Who stars in the movie and in a

1609
01:20:22,840 --> 01:20:26,280
Speaker 1: Reason to Instagram post, which singer says the paparazzi makes

1610
01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:34,840
Speaker 1: her feel very vulnerable when she's at the beach. Bum bum, Wow,

1611
01:20:34,960 --> 01:20:37,400
Speaker 1: that's a four. That's a four. I may maybe maybe

1612
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:40,000
Speaker 1: I should have given you that one. Maybe maybe maybe

1613
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:44,840
Speaker 1: maybe shouldn't have done that. It's only a buck fifty.

1614
01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:50,639
Speaker 1: We can affords. Bring Shelly back four. I'm here, yeah

1615
01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:52,719
Speaker 1: to four and I and I gave her one, thinking

1616
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:55,280
Speaker 1: that it was going to go very poorly. But yeah,

1617
01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:57,920
Speaker 1: I know, sheldon't worry. You got in the bag. I know,

1618
01:20:58,120 --> 01:21:00,479
Speaker 1: well it was going I had it. I just after

1619
01:21:00,680 --> 01:21:02,560
Speaker 1: years of doing this, I had a gut feeling that

1620
01:21:02,640 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: this wasn't going to go well, and then it went

1621
01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 1: really well. So okay, here we go, Shelley. I need

1622
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:09,240
Speaker 1: you to get a five, so like, get me out

1623
01:21:09,280 --> 01:21:14,720
Speaker 1: of this. Chamwoman who won the Men's NCUBA Championship last night.

1624
01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:21,800
Speaker 1: Oh god you said earlier, Kansas, Yes, thank god, we're

1625
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:25,679
Speaker 1: on all yeah, which rapper deleted her Twitter after arguing

1626
01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:30,120
Speaker 1: with fans over why she didn't attend the Grammys. Cardie

1627
01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 1: Yes actress a Stell Harris died from natural causes over

1628
01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:35,000
Speaker 1: the weekend at the age of ninety three. A. Stell

1629
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:40,280
Speaker 1: played George Castanza's mom on this hit sitcom M Sign

1630
01:21:40,320 --> 01:21:43,240
Speaker 1: follow Yeah. Morbius took the number one spot during his

1631
01:21:43,320 --> 01:21:49,479
Speaker 1: CB weekend. Who stars in that movie? Jared leto Yes

1632
01:21:49,600 --> 01:21:52,120
Speaker 1: And in a recent Instagram post which singer says that

1633
01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:55,559
Speaker 1: paparazzi makes her feel very vulnerable when she's at the beach,

1634
01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 1: what on my brow? Jenna? You did a great job.

1635
01:22:06,920 --> 01:22:08,479
Speaker 1: You got a four, but you did not win. And

1636
01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 1: you know what you have to say. My name is Jenna.

1637
01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:15,120
Speaker 1: I got showed up on the Showdown. My name is Jenna,

1638
01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:18,800
Speaker 1: and I got on the Showdown, and I can be

1639
01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:29,000
Speaker 1: with the gorilla she's using that she has got a

1640
01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:31,840
Speaker 1: speech pathologist trick scenes. All right, that was really good.

1641
01:22:31,920 --> 01:22:33,320
Speaker 1: Were you breathing in your nose and out of your

1642
01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:38,040
Speaker 1: mouth at the same time like a trumpet player. I'm

1643
01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:40,240
Speaker 1: proud of you. That was an excellent job. Hang on

1644
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 1: one second, Jenna, have a great day at work. Okay,

1645
01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:45,960
Speaker 1: thank you, Thank you so much for listening. We appreciate that.

1646
01:22:46,120 --> 01:22:49,519
Speaker 1: Loyalty girl. Shoby Shelley, your program is coming up a

1647
01:22:49,520 --> 01:22:51,880
Speaker 1: little bit later on today. It's ten to noon on

1648
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:54,200
Speaker 1: one or three point five FM. Mega Hurts for that

1649
01:22:54,360 --> 01:23:00,559
Speaker 1: as what's coming on. So I have more tickets to Lala,

1650
01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:03,439
Speaker 1: more tickets to and by holding this exciting Sean Mendes

1651
01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:06,640
Speaker 1: tickets today, he's coming later on this summer, so I

1652
01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:09,720
Speaker 1: have tickets for that. That's a good looking guy, by

1653
01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:11,559
Speaker 1: the way, and I know he's a good looking guy,

1654
01:23:11,680 --> 01:23:13,720
Speaker 1: and I've met him several times. Good looking guy. This

1655
01:23:13,840 --> 01:23:15,320
Speaker 1: a humble brag. You just see how I've hung out

1656
01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 1: with him one time at a dunkin Donuts. It was

1657
01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:20,400
Speaker 1: all good. I remember that. Then I asked him, I said,

1658
01:23:20,400 --> 01:23:22,559
Speaker 1: We're never gonna do this again, are we. He's like, Nope,

1659
01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:25,280
Speaker 1: I don't think so. But he got big. That's famous. Yeah.

1660
01:23:25,560 --> 01:23:27,720
Speaker 1: That being said, he looks really good at the Graham

1661
01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:32,160
Speaker 1: He's like whoever dressed him? Like a Kendall good looking guy? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1662
01:23:32,240 --> 01:23:36,360
Speaker 1: I can appreciate a good looking man and he is that. Yeah. No,

1663
01:23:36,439 --> 01:23:38,720
Speaker 1: he's true. You know he had the hair, he had

1664
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:41,240
Speaker 1: the look. He's been super friendly. Who's the guy that

1665
01:23:41,320 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 1: works it works for E right? That does those Oh yeah,

1666
01:23:44,120 --> 01:23:50,200
Speaker 1: that's a SlowMo Carray I'm talking about exactly. Yeah, And

1667
01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:53,559
Speaker 1: now he's a TikTok star on his own right, he's star.

1668
01:23:53,760 --> 01:23:56,599
Speaker 1: He's bigger than seacrests Man. This guy is he's the thing.

1669
01:23:57,120 --> 01:23:59,880
Speaker 1: No chill with that long hair. He's like, here's how erks.

1670
01:24:00,040 --> 01:24:02,240
Speaker 1: I get so mad when the celebrities don't do enough,

1671
01:24:02,400 --> 01:24:04,639
Speaker 1: Like he's just like be fast about it, and they're

1672
01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:07,280
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, they don't know anything. I'm like, come

1673
01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:12,360
Speaker 1: on from the camera. I love her, Yeah too, I

1674
01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:14,880
Speaker 1: love him. I think I saw a Shamandez looking all

1675
01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:17,080
Speaker 1: fit and snatched in that in that talk, and then

1676
01:24:17,160 --> 01:24:20,320
Speaker 1: I think it inspired me to order Portillo's strawberry shortcake

1677
01:24:20,360 --> 01:24:23,280
Speaker 1: and that's what I did. Nice. Yeah, So I'm on

1678
01:24:23,400 --> 01:24:25,599
Speaker 1: my way to look at like that. Shelley um ten

1679
01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:30,519
Speaker 1: Tonoon Shelby Shelley's show, have an amazing day. Okay, you two,

1680
01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:33,280
Speaker 1: you too. I almost told her, I'm glad you called.

1681
01:24:34,840 --> 01:24:38,120
Speaker 1: I am glad. She called too, glad. She's here waiting

1682
01:24:38,200 --> 01:24:39,519
Speaker 1: by the phone. We'll come back and do it. Got

1683
01:24:39,600 --> 01:24:42,479
Speaker 1: Chicago Fire tickets coming up. The Entertainer Report is on

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01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:46,599
Speaker 1: the way as well. Tripp to Vegas Fame Show Live

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01:24:46,760 --> 01:24:54,200
Speaker 1: from America's Greatest City. W k Chicago Kiss FM and

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01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:58,080
Speaker 1: my Heart radio station. It's fresh morning, everybody. It's Tuesday,

1687
01:24:58,120 --> 01:25:01,000
Speaker 1: April fit the Fred Show, eas On, ok Like, hey,

1688
01:25:01,040 --> 01:25:02,600
Speaker 1: what's coming up in the enner Tamer Report in a

1689
01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:05,400
Speaker 1: little while, so I will tell you who says I'm

1690
01:25:05,439 --> 01:25:11,439
Speaker 1: not pregnant? Leave me alone? Okay, good enough. Yeah, we

1691
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:16,000
Speaker 1: need to stop asking women if they're pregnant. Oh boy,

1692
01:25:16,240 --> 01:25:20,280
Speaker 1: don't be saying. Don't be doing that. It's like being

1693
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:22,960
Speaker 1: a man one on one or just put the seat

1694
01:25:23,040 --> 01:25:26,320
Speaker 1: up like a person. Yeah, put the seat down. We'll

1695
01:25:26,360 --> 01:25:29,639
Speaker 1: put the seat up. Then put the seat down. U huh.

1696
01:25:29,800 --> 01:25:32,599
Speaker 1: And then don't ask you for if she's pregnant. Let

1697
01:25:32,640 --> 01:25:34,120
Speaker 1: her tell you. I can't tell you how many times

1698
01:25:34,120 --> 01:25:35,719
Speaker 1: I fell in the toilet when I lived with guys.

1699
01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:38,040
Speaker 1: That's like the three things you gotta do right. You

1700
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:40,479
Speaker 1: get those three things right, you don't have any problems. Yeah,

1701
01:25:41,200 --> 01:25:45,679
Speaker 1: don't ask a girl. She's p am messing. Oh no, um, Jason,

1702
01:25:45,720 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 1: do you guys put the seat down at all? Just

1703
01:25:47,280 --> 01:25:49,880
Speaker 1: is always up the whole Yeah, no, no, we we

1704
01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:52,960
Speaker 1: put it down. He has a penis tweet peas as well, Like,

1705
01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:54,360
Speaker 1: what do you mean does he put the seat down?

1706
01:25:54,800 --> 01:25:56,800
Speaker 1: That's well, he doesn't have to put the seat down.

1707
01:25:56,840 --> 01:25:58,880
Speaker 1: He lives with it sometimes I'm lazy and I sent

1708
01:25:58,920 --> 01:26:02,160
Speaker 1: a piece. So but he still does both. He's still

1709
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:05,840
Speaker 1: a human. He still goes a NB. You know, he

1710
01:26:05,920 --> 01:26:09,559
Speaker 1: goes bathroom. It doesn't It does not like it's one

1711
01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:12,200
Speaker 1: and then it's any different because two men live there

1712
01:26:12,280 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 1: than than a man and a woman. Yeah, actually, I

1713
01:26:14,439 --> 01:26:17,800
Speaker 1: says down, probably more than up. You sit when you

1714
01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:21,200
Speaker 1: see sometimes sometimes I have bad aim, so I understand

1715
01:26:21,600 --> 01:26:24,000
Speaker 1: to make sure that those things happen. Yeah, do you

1716
01:26:24,040 --> 01:26:27,720
Speaker 1: ever sit to be for no reason? I mean I

1717
01:26:27,800 --> 01:26:30,080
Speaker 1: would at home, I suppose, but like it's certainly not

1718
01:26:30,160 --> 01:26:32,000
Speaker 1: in public, because, as you know, in public, I'm doing

1719
01:26:32,080 --> 01:26:35,640
Speaker 1: my very best not to have to sit anywhere. I mean,

1720
01:26:35,720 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 1: I'm like that lady in Brazil I had to go

1721
01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:40,720
Speaker 1: to the hospital. I hold all bodily functions until I

1722
01:26:40,760 --> 01:26:42,240
Speaker 1: could be in the privacy of my own home. I

1723
01:26:42,280 --> 01:26:43,800
Speaker 1: don't even really like to I don't like to use

1724
01:26:43,840 --> 01:26:46,800
Speaker 1: public bathrooms. I don't have to rest on what what

1725
01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:49,920
Speaker 1: am I missing out? Ripping booty? Yeah, it's just it's

1726
01:26:50,080 --> 01:26:53,120
Speaker 1: great to be rude and just rip it in person people,

1727
01:26:53,160 --> 01:26:57,880
Speaker 1: and you know, yeah, go into the bathroom in public.

1728
01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:00,559
Speaker 1: It's fine. Yeah, I'm missing out, I can say, right,

1729
01:27:00,960 --> 01:27:05,519
Speaker 1: maybe someday. Kevin Hard tickets, Chicago Fire tickets coming up,

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01:27:05,560 --> 01:27:07,479
Speaker 1: a trip to Vegas all this hour. Waiting by the

1731
01:27:07,560 --> 01:27:09,639
Speaker 1: Phone is next, after a little bit of sex fresh

1732
01:27:09,680 --> 01:27:16,120
Speaker 1: shows on Kiss. Why were you left waiting by the

1733
01:27:16,720 --> 01:27:19,800
Speaker 1: Let's see what's going on with mariahim Maria running Night.

1734
01:27:20,280 --> 01:27:22,360
Speaker 1: Welcome to our show. Of course, we call this waiting

1735
01:27:22,400 --> 01:27:24,960
Speaker 1: by the phone. Let's learn about Seth. Tell us about him.

1736
01:27:25,000 --> 01:27:26,840
Speaker 1: I have your email here. It says that you met

1737
01:27:26,920 --> 01:27:29,360
Speaker 1: on Hinge and then what Yeah, so we met on

1738
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:34,080
Speaker 1: Hinge and we exchanged numbers and one out and I

1739
01:27:34,240 --> 01:27:37,040
Speaker 1: had a great time and I really thought that I

1740
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:40,920
Speaker 1: found something special and I really thought he felt the

1741
01:27:41,000 --> 01:27:44,640
Speaker 1: same way too, until he goes through me. Okay, So

1742
01:27:44,880 --> 01:27:47,200
Speaker 1: looking back on this date, a little reflection here. The

1743
01:27:47,320 --> 01:27:51,160
Speaker 1: day was when smoothly you guys got along. The conversation

1744
01:27:51,400 --> 01:27:53,280
Speaker 1: was good. I mean it was, you know, because I've

1745
01:27:53,280 --> 01:27:55,760
Speaker 1: been on a lot of these dating app dates, and

1746
01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:59,000
Speaker 1: you can kind of get a vibe off of somebody

1747
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:01,639
Speaker 1: you know on tech. Then when you sit across from them,

1748
01:28:01,960 --> 01:28:04,160
Speaker 1: it's a whole different story. And when you do really

1749
01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:07,599
Speaker 1: connect with someone, then you obviously want to see them

1750
01:28:07,600 --> 01:28:09,720
Speaker 1: again because you want to get off the stupid app,

1751
01:28:10,040 --> 01:28:12,200
Speaker 1: for sure, but you thought everything went well, like we're

1752
01:28:12,240 --> 01:28:16,880
Speaker 1: looking back. No, no weird pauses or subjects or I

1753
01:28:17,400 --> 01:28:20,760
Speaker 1: know you didn't bring in a tarantula with you a pet,

1754
01:28:20,960 --> 01:28:26,040
Speaker 1: you know, iguana or something. Nothing like that. We've heard

1755
01:28:26,040 --> 01:28:28,120
Speaker 1: a lot of things over the years. But um, okay,

1756
01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:30,640
Speaker 1: So we'll call this guy, Seth. We'll see if we

1757
01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:32,599
Speaker 1: can get them on the phone. We'll ask some questions

1758
01:28:33,600 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 1: and at some point you're welcome to jump in and

1759
01:28:35,560 --> 01:28:37,760
Speaker 1: hopefully we can figure out what's up and set you

1760
01:28:37,840 --> 01:28:40,120
Speaker 1: guys up on another date and we'll pay for that. Okay,

1761
01:28:40,520 --> 01:28:43,360
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Can you hang on for a second, Yeah, totally.

1762
01:28:43,720 --> 01:28:46,360
Speaker 1: Let's see what happened next and Kevin Hard tickets next

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01:28:46,439 --> 01:28:48,720
Speaker 1: on The Fred Show. After Olivia Adrigo one out three five,

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01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:52,759
Speaker 1: Good morning, Olivia Rego one three five Kiss FM, Chicago's

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01:28:52,800 --> 01:28:55,240
Speaker 1: number one hit music station, commercial free for the next

1766
01:28:55,280 --> 01:28:59,120
Speaker 1: half an hour on The Fred Show, Mariah, Oh, welcome back.

1767
01:28:59,160 --> 01:29:01,599
Speaker 1: Let's call Seth. You has met on Hinge exchange numbers

1768
01:29:01,640 --> 01:29:03,439
Speaker 1: on the app. You talked for a bit when on

1769
01:29:03,479 --> 01:29:06,400
Speaker 1: a date, had a great time. You thought you guys click,

1770
01:29:06,479 --> 01:29:08,639
Speaker 1: You thought it was something special on like other dates

1771
01:29:08,680 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 1: that you've been on, and he's now ghosting you, not

1772
01:29:12,520 --> 01:29:14,240
Speaker 1: responding to you, not reaching out. You want to know

1773
01:29:14,320 --> 01:29:24,599
Speaker 1: why totally? Okay, let's call him right now. Good luck? Hello?

1774
01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:28,800
Speaker 1: Hi is this Seth Seth Good morning. It's Fred and

1775
01:29:28,920 --> 01:29:31,200
Speaker 1: Kaylin and the crew from the Fred Show on Kiss

1776
01:29:31,439 --> 01:29:34,040
Speaker 1: FM and Chicago. And I'm starting to bother, but I

1777
01:29:34,080 --> 01:29:35,160
Speaker 1: do have to tell you that we are on the

1778
01:29:35,280 --> 01:29:37,760
Speaker 1: radio right now. I need your permission to continue with

1779
01:29:37,800 --> 01:29:39,439
Speaker 1: our call. Is that okay? If we talked for a minute,

1780
01:29:40,360 --> 01:29:45,240
Speaker 1: idea on the radio and something no, the common question, no,

1781
01:29:45,439 --> 01:29:48,599
Speaker 1: but thank you? Well, yes, you're right, maybe Klin. Um,

1782
01:29:49,080 --> 01:29:51,800
Speaker 1: I'm actually calling on behalf of a woman named Mariah

1783
01:29:52,439 --> 01:29:54,599
Speaker 1: who says she met you on Hinge and you guys

1784
01:29:54,680 --> 01:29:56,519
Speaker 1: went out to dinner, went on a date or something

1785
01:29:56,560 --> 01:30:03,080
Speaker 1: like that. You remember her? Ye? I remember Mariah? Okay laughing, Yeah,

1786
01:30:03,200 --> 01:30:06,679
Speaker 1: this is this is usually headed in one direction. So um, okay,

1787
01:30:07,120 --> 01:30:10,960
Speaker 1: what's going on though? Because she she described a great connection,

1788
01:30:11,080 --> 01:30:13,479
Speaker 1: she liked you, was hoping to see you again, thought

1789
01:30:13,520 --> 01:30:15,160
Speaker 1: the date went well. I really expected to hear from

1790
01:30:15,200 --> 01:30:19,120
Speaker 1: you and you're not reaching out, So what what's the deal? Um?

1791
01:30:19,840 --> 01:30:23,120
Speaker 1: You know, we were having a first date and she

1792
01:30:23,280 --> 01:30:29,240
Speaker 1: called me. I'm sorry, said I love you. I'm like,

1793
01:30:29,439 --> 01:30:34,960
Speaker 1: what are you a serial killer? I'm terrified. Don't you

1794
01:30:35,000 --> 01:30:37,600
Speaker 1: didn't steal it? Here's there's Mariah. Um, I forgot you

1795
01:30:37,680 --> 01:30:40,240
Speaker 1: mentioned Mariah's here. So let's just let's rewind here. Um,

1796
01:30:40,560 --> 01:30:42,920
Speaker 1: take a big step back. So you go on this date,

1797
01:30:43,080 --> 01:30:45,840
Speaker 1: first date. How long did you guys talk before you

1798
01:30:45,880 --> 01:30:48,840
Speaker 1: went on the date? Maybe a couple of weeks, A

1799
01:30:48,920 --> 01:30:51,320
Speaker 1: couple of weeks, one date, and on the date. What

1800
01:30:51,439 --> 01:30:52,840
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, she gives you a

1801
01:30:52,920 --> 01:30:55,840
Speaker 1: hugger kiss or something, and we were like here in

1802
01:30:55,880 --> 01:30:58,760
Speaker 1: the middle, we were, uh, I don't even think we

1803
01:30:58,840 --> 01:31:03,600
Speaker 1: were finished with appetite. This like when you know, you know,

1804
01:31:04,520 --> 01:31:07,240
Speaker 1: it was just like a really deep connection. Yeah, but

1805
01:31:07,320 --> 01:31:09,599
Speaker 1: you know you don't say that. I mean I felt

1806
01:31:09,640 --> 01:31:11,080
Speaker 1: like that too, but you kind of keep that to

1807
01:31:11,120 --> 01:31:13,640
Speaker 1: yourself when until you get into like the normal I

1808
01:31:13,760 --> 01:31:16,840
Speaker 1: love you range. Right, Yeah, I don't think I know

1809
01:31:16,880 --> 01:31:19,600
Speaker 1: what this is. I'm not doing a second day thank you?

1810
01:31:20,160 --> 01:31:23,479
Speaker 1: Uh oh, thank you? Okay, okay, all right, Well that's

1811
01:31:23,880 --> 01:31:27,720
Speaker 1: that's that Mariah. It might have been a little quick

1812
01:31:27,800 --> 01:31:30,559
Speaker 1: look quick on the trigger there. I guess. I mean,

1813
01:31:30,800 --> 01:31:33,560
Speaker 1: you know, this year has been really unpredictable, and I

1814
01:31:33,680 --> 01:31:36,920
Speaker 1: just feel like, you know, when you think something, you

1815
01:31:37,040 --> 01:31:38,960
Speaker 1: just have to get it out there. Yeah, I don't

1816
01:31:38,960 --> 01:31:40,679
Speaker 1: know about I love you, though. I think that's gonna

1817
01:31:40,720 --> 01:31:42,680
Speaker 1: be a lot for a lot of people. I think

1818
01:31:42,720 --> 01:31:44,840
Speaker 1: I think even if you was feeling the same thing,

1819
01:31:44,920 --> 01:31:47,599
Speaker 1: the odds of him going for that are are pretty

1820
01:31:47,640 --> 01:31:50,679
Speaker 1: slim because that's that's a that's a big that's big.

1821
01:31:51,040 --> 01:31:53,160
Speaker 1: And plus, how can you know that you love someone

1822
01:31:53,640 --> 01:31:56,240
Speaker 1: if you really don't know them that well, it's just

1823
01:31:56,400 --> 01:31:59,400
Speaker 1: a god's feeling, like you really just I mean, you

1824
01:31:59,479 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 1: know they say listen to your gut, and I had

1825
01:32:02,200 --> 01:32:06,280
Speaker 1: a feeling and I just acted on it, you know, Well,

1826
01:32:06,760 --> 01:32:09,400
Speaker 1: I mean no regret here, all right? Well in that case,

1827
01:32:09,479 --> 01:32:11,160
Speaker 1: I mean, you said it, you felt it, but don't

1828
01:32:11,160 --> 01:32:13,120
Speaker 1: you feel I mean, if you felt that strongly about

1829
01:32:13,240 --> 01:32:15,120
Speaker 1: him and now he doesn't want to go out with you,

1830
01:32:15,120 --> 01:32:17,000
Speaker 1: I would think you'd be heartbroken. I mean, you said

1831
01:32:17,000 --> 01:32:19,559
Speaker 1: you loved him and now you're like, hey, whatever. I mean,

1832
01:32:19,640 --> 01:32:23,040
Speaker 1: I know I'm just saying like I'm not I'm never

1833
01:32:23,439 --> 01:32:26,680
Speaker 1: going to regret like saying something that I feel like

1834
01:32:26,880 --> 01:32:32,200
Speaker 1: in my soul. Wow. All yeah, I mean, I'm sad

1835
01:32:32,280 --> 01:32:34,360
Speaker 1: that he doesn't feel the same way, but I'm not

1836
01:32:34,560 --> 01:32:39,680
Speaker 1: gonna just you know, I don't know, Okay, whatever, you know. Well,

1837
01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:42,080
Speaker 1: I'm sorry it didn't work out. Best of luck to you,

1838
01:32:42,240 --> 01:32:44,120
Speaker 1: and I hope you guys are feeling again soon. And

1839
01:32:44,920 --> 01:32:47,120
Speaker 1: if you choose to share, and I hope somebody responds

1840
01:32:47,240 --> 01:32:49,680
Speaker 1: with that and or maybe maybe consider keeping it to

1841
01:32:49,720 --> 01:32:52,800
Speaker 1: yourself for you know, a a few dates. But whatever,

1842
01:32:52,960 --> 01:32:56,759
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Speaker 1: coming up. I want to get to this in just

1851
01:33:20,160 --> 01:33:23,960
Speaker 1: a second. But Napoulina has a friend who takes all

1852
01:33:24,040 --> 01:33:27,559
Speaker 1: of his dates to the same place. Oh yeah, first date,

1853
01:33:27,840 --> 01:33:31,000
Speaker 1: first dates always at the same spot. If this is

1854
01:33:31,120 --> 01:33:33,479
Speaker 1: or was you eight five five five nine one three five,

1855
01:33:33,479 --> 01:33:34,479
Speaker 1: I want to know what the spot is. This is

1856
01:33:34,479 --> 01:33:36,080
Speaker 1: the second time in two weeks I've heard about this.

1857
01:33:36,400 --> 01:33:39,360
Speaker 1: I have another friend who takes all of his first

1858
01:33:39,439 --> 01:33:41,920
Speaker 1: dates to the same sushi restaurant simply because it's near

1859
01:33:42,000 --> 01:33:44,400
Speaker 1: his house. Which I don't think it's necessarily because he's

1860
01:33:44,400 --> 01:33:46,880
Speaker 1: trying to take that person home. I think it's because

1861
01:33:47,160 --> 01:33:49,599
Speaker 1: I suppose that's an option, but it's just super convenient

1862
01:33:49,680 --> 01:33:52,120
Speaker 1: for him. Right. It doesn't have to be a restaurant either,

1863
01:33:52,200 --> 01:33:54,479
Speaker 1: like if you always take them to bowl or something

1864
01:33:55,040 --> 01:33:57,560
Speaker 1: all like an activity. Yeah, like if you always do

1865
01:33:57,680 --> 01:33:59,880
Speaker 1: the same thing on your first date, like we always.

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Speaker 1: You want to walk or something? A walk that's so nice.

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01:34:03,960 --> 01:34:06,120
Speaker 1: Get to it in just a second. Uh. This is

1868
01:34:06,160 --> 01:34:08,960
Speaker 1: a talkback from the iHeartRadio app where you can listen

1869
01:34:09,040 --> 01:34:11,000
Speaker 1: to us. You can click on the microphone leave us

1870
01:34:11,040 --> 01:34:13,799
Speaker 1: a comment. I always call us if it's like current,

1871
01:34:13,960 --> 01:34:16,479
Speaker 1: like someone we're actually speaking of, because we don't get

1872
01:34:16,520 --> 01:34:19,680
Speaker 1: these real time. But here listen. This is for me.

1873
01:34:20,000 --> 01:34:24,160
Speaker 1: And by the way, I love this show and your

1874
01:34:24,200 --> 01:34:27,639
Speaker 1: show pretty much amazing and I love technique to show

1875
01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:30,240
Speaker 1: shell you still down because I asked the questions while

1876
01:34:30,320 --> 01:34:33,200
Speaker 1: listening to the radio, So thank you. To the Gorillas.

1877
01:34:34,320 --> 01:34:37,960
Speaker 1: Thank you to Rufio, Paulina, Kaitlin and the rest of

1878
01:34:38,040 --> 01:34:41,639
Speaker 1: the crew. Okay, yeah, there you go. Thanks man, thanks

1879
01:34:41,680 --> 01:34:45,120
Speaker 1: for listening. Yeah. Um, I was trying to get my

1880
01:34:45,160 --> 01:34:49,599
Speaker 1: friend Steve on the phone because Steve runs a Restaurant'm

1881
01:34:49,600 --> 01:34:52,120
Speaker 1: not gonna say which one, not the magician Steve. No,

1882
01:34:52,720 --> 01:34:57,080
Speaker 1: not Lieutenant Steve. You got excited. No, keep it in.

1883
01:34:59,520 --> 01:35:01,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna said the name of the place, which

1884
01:35:01,160 --> 01:35:03,479
Speaker 1: which doesn't really help him out, I guess. But um,

1885
01:35:04,280 --> 01:35:06,280
Speaker 1: maybe another time I'll plugged the place for him. But

1886
01:35:07,840 --> 01:35:10,639
Speaker 1: I have definitely taken my fair share of first dates

1887
01:35:10,640 --> 01:35:15,320
Speaker 1: to this place because I don't really know why it's

1888
01:35:15,360 --> 01:35:18,080
Speaker 1: close to your house. No it's not, it's not actually

1889
01:35:18,400 --> 01:35:20,680
Speaker 1: no this no, not really, I mean it's what kind

1890
01:35:20,680 --> 01:35:22,559
Speaker 1: of cuisine we're talking here? Generally in my name, Well,

1891
01:35:22,560 --> 01:35:24,840
Speaker 1: there are two places. One is close to my house.

1892
01:35:25,439 --> 01:35:27,720
Speaker 1: I have taken many many a first day to a

1893
01:35:27,760 --> 01:35:30,400
Speaker 1: place is close to my house, and it really is twofold.

1894
01:35:30,720 --> 01:35:33,840
Speaker 1: Mainly it's because if someone's driving it. We agree to

1895
01:35:33,920 --> 01:35:37,000
Speaker 1: meet in the loop and someone's ubering or driving to me,

1896
01:35:37,560 --> 01:35:39,120
Speaker 1: Like if I get to pick and you're willing to

1897
01:35:39,160 --> 01:35:41,320
Speaker 1: come to me. Then I pick the place I can

1898
01:35:41,400 --> 01:35:43,400
Speaker 1: walk to, and there aren't that many places I can

1899
01:35:43,479 --> 01:35:45,280
Speaker 1: walk to. You feel like you should always go towards

1900
01:35:45,320 --> 01:35:48,559
Speaker 1: the girl. Yeah, I don't know I should. That's why

1901
01:35:48,600 --> 01:35:54,200
Speaker 1: you're Singlehunt me. Count the ways I don't leave the

1902
01:35:54,280 --> 01:35:58,439
Speaker 1: loop when guys wants to come towards me. Yeah, well

1903
01:35:58,479 --> 01:36:01,640
Speaker 1: I've done that, you know I don't always that's all right.

1904
01:36:02,360 --> 01:36:04,120
Speaker 1: The last time today you got called out for wearing

1905
01:36:04,200 --> 01:36:08,000
Speaker 1: vans for being forty yeah, yeah, yeah, the girl. The

1906
01:36:08,080 --> 01:36:10,200
Speaker 1: girls basically roasted me the whole day. I think I

1907
01:36:10,280 --> 01:36:12,160
Speaker 1: was in wicker Park or something and it was like, oh,

1908
01:36:12,280 --> 01:36:14,280
Speaker 1: you know you're showing it in then, oh, you're such

1909
01:36:14,280 --> 01:36:16,360
Speaker 1: a loser for wearing vans. And I'm like, She's like,

1910
01:36:16,560 --> 01:36:20,479
Speaker 1: everyone's gonna everyone thinks that, and then I remember, yeah,

1911
01:36:20,960 --> 01:36:23,599
Speaker 1: like and she goes. She goes, um, I go, I'll

1912
01:36:23,600 --> 01:36:26,120
Speaker 1: tell you what. I'll do a survey and instagram about

1913
01:36:26,120 --> 01:36:28,080
Speaker 1: my vans, and if I win, you have to pay

1914
01:36:28,120 --> 01:36:29,640
Speaker 1: for dinner. If you're wrong, I have to pay for

1915
01:36:29,760 --> 01:36:31,320
Speaker 1: you have to pay for dinner. Otherwise I'll pay And

1916
01:36:31,360 --> 01:36:33,960
Speaker 1: she goes, okay, And I first of all was home cooking.

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01:36:34,200 --> 01:36:36,400
Speaker 1: It was a dumb followers. To be honest, it was

1918
01:36:36,439 --> 01:36:38,120
Speaker 1: a very dumb thing for her to agree too. She

1919
01:36:38,200 --> 01:36:39,479
Speaker 1: was a smart girl, but it was a dumb thing

1920
01:36:39,520 --> 01:36:42,560
Speaker 1: to agree to. But she did agree to it, and

1921
01:36:42,960 --> 01:36:45,360
Speaker 1: um and I crushed it, mainly because vans are not

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01:36:47,280 --> 01:36:51,280
Speaker 1: inappropriate for age correct. Anybody can wear vans classic and

1923
01:36:51,360 --> 01:36:52,840
Speaker 1: I wear them kind of have to tie them. They

1924
01:36:52,920 --> 01:36:55,800
Speaker 1: go with everything. I don't really care. And so she

1925
01:36:55,880 --> 01:36:57,120
Speaker 1: lost and I made her pay for dinner, and I

1926
01:36:57,160 --> 01:36:59,360
Speaker 1: think she was I think she was not happy about that.

1927
01:36:59,760 --> 01:37:02,400
Speaker 1: But you don't roast someone on a date. I wouldn't

1928
01:37:02,400 --> 01:37:04,040
Speaker 1: have made fun of her outfit on a date and

1929
01:37:04,080 --> 01:37:05,679
Speaker 1: told her that I didn't think it was age appropriate

1930
01:37:05,760 --> 01:37:07,200
Speaker 1: or so. I never would have said that to her.

1931
01:37:08,280 --> 01:37:11,240
Speaker 1: Old On a second, I'll say the name of this

1932
01:37:11,360 --> 01:37:16,600
Speaker 1: place because it's uh, it's called Roca core um and

1933
01:37:16,840 --> 01:37:19,000
Speaker 1: and so I've been known to take a number of

1934
01:37:19,080 --> 01:37:22,840
Speaker 1: first dates there. I know the people there, and there's

1935
01:37:22,840 --> 01:37:24,639
Speaker 1: a couple of things. One I don't have to plan ahead,

1936
01:37:24,960 --> 01:37:27,200
Speaker 1: Like if a date comes together last minute, they'll take

1937
01:37:27,280 --> 01:37:28,920
Speaker 1: care of me. On a Friday, I can get in,

1938
01:37:29,320 --> 01:37:31,400
Speaker 1: you know, so I can make a call and they'll

1939
01:37:31,439 --> 01:37:33,280
Speaker 1: like save seats for me. So I can get in.

1940
01:37:33,520 --> 01:37:36,280
Speaker 1: So that's it's it can be difficult, you know, in

1941
01:37:36,439 --> 01:37:40,400
Speaker 1: Chicago to get a restaurant reservation. Seriously, I think that's

1942
01:37:40,439 --> 01:37:42,400
Speaker 1: why you go to the spots that you like or

1943
01:37:42,479 --> 01:37:45,160
Speaker 1: that you know, and it's the same repetitive spots because

1944
01:37:45,160 --> 01:37:46,880
Speaker 1: I think you want to like look cool from you.

1945
01:37:47,720 --> 01:37:50,360
Speaker 1: I know the owners. I don't say that. I don't

1946
01:37:50,400 --> 01:37:53,439
Speaker 1: say that. I don't say that, but but these people,

1947
01:37:53,600 --> 01:37:58,960
Speaker 1: these are my friends, and they keep my secrets. Steve, Yeah,

1948
01:37:59,200 --> 01:38:03,240
Speaker 1: what's up, buddy? So Steve runs? Uh, real quick? What's

1949
01:38:03,240 --> 01:38:05,040
Speaker 1: the hell kind of daycare? You're running into the mat?

1950
01:38:05,120 --> 01:38:06,800
Speaker 1: What is going on? How many kids do you have? Oh?

1951
01:38:06,920 --> 01:38:10,160
Speaker 1: By Brody, I got three little dudes. I was just

1952
01:38:10,280 --> 01:38:13,400
Speaker 1: trawing god Villa versus King Kong when you called, see

1953
01:38:13,439 --> 01:38:16,599
Speaker 1: I see a way before all this, I knew I've

1954
01:38:16,680 --> 01:38:20,040
Speaker 1: known Steve did. This guy was out and about now.

1955
01:38:20,120 --> 01:38:22,320
Speaker 1: He's got a high wife and a thousand children. But

1956
01:38:22,400 --> 01:38:25,479
Speaker 1: I knew you win Um. So we were talking you

1957
01:38:25,600 --> 01:38:27,960
Speaker 1: did you did? People who go to the same place

1958
01:38:28,000 --> 01:38:29,640
Speaker 1: on first dates all the time. I've been known to

1959
01:38:30,280 --> 01:38:34,320
Speaker 1: frequent your establishment um, mainly because I trust that you

1960
01:38:34,360 --> 01:38:36,400
Speaker 1: guys won't tell my secrets and you always act like

1961
01:38:36,520 --> 01:38:38,360
Speaker 1: you haven't seen me in a long time, which I

1962
01:38:38,479 --> 01:38:40,320
Speaker 1: really appreciate, even though I may have been there like

1963
01:38:40,400 --> 01:38:42,680
Speaker 1: the guy before. But is that what you had to

1964
01:38:42,760 --> 01:38:45,599
Speaker 1: do in your industry? Like you gotta just the secrets

1965
01:38:45,640 --> 01:38:48,960
Speaker 1: you must keep. It's an art, it's an art form.

1966
01:38:49,040 --> 01:38:53,080
Speaker 1: We all we all know that we have certain VIPs

1967
01:38:53,160 --> 01:39:00,120
Speaker 1: that you know we have. You're you're a vip, so

1968
01:39:00,520 --> 01:39:04,120
Speaker 1: we make sure that, uh we act surprised and uh,

1969
01:39:04,920 --> 01:39:08,240
Speaker 1: you know, get you your spot and get you your

1970
01:39:08,320 --> 01:39:12,120
Speaker 1: stocking and you know, put you at the bar with horror. Hey,

1971
01:39:12,360 --> 01:39:15,840
Speaker 1: oh boy, Rory, because that's another thing. And I'm gonna

1972
01:39:15,880 --> 01:39:18,439
Speaker 1: keep it real. And these guys hook me up. So

1973
01:39:18,560 --> 01:39:20,639
Speaker 1: I get to take people do a nice a really

1974
01:39:20,720 --> 01:39:23,720
Speaker 1: classy joint and I get treated really well and I

1975
01:39:23,800 --> 01:39:26,519
Speaker 1: get like hooked up a little bit, and so they

1976
01:39:26,600 --> 01:39:29,679
Speaker 1: think I'm paying like full board, but I'm not because

1977
01:39:29,760 --> 01:39:31,240
Speaker 1: my man hooks me up a little bit. So like

1978
01:39:31,320 --> 01:39:33,560
Speaker 1: it's the whole thing's affront, and I trust them not

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01:39:33,640 --> 01:39:35,920
Speaker 1: to tell my secrets. Have you ever seen have you

1980
01:39:36,000 --> 01:39:37,599
Speaker 1: seen me on a lot of first dates over these

1981
01:39:37,640 --> 01:39:39,080
Speaker 1: a lot? Have you ever seen me with one where

1982
01:39:39,120 --> 01:39:42,759
Speaker 1: you're like maybe this is the last one. The last

1983
01:39:42,840 --> 01:39:47,360
Speaker 1: one is like, you're gonna stop or gonna be the one? Yeah,

1984
01:39:47,920 --> 01:39:50,000
Speaker 1: this is gonna be the one you're gonna marry. Yeah, Like,

1985
01:39:50,040 --> 01:39:51,519
Speaker 1: have you ever seen me on a date with someone?

1986
01:39:51,560 --> 01:39:53,920
Speaker 1: You're like, maybe we won't see other people for a while.

1987
01:39:55,040 --> 01:39:59,439
Speaker 1: We're always hopeful that that's gonna happen. But it's as

1988
01:39:59,479 --> 01:40:02,920
Speaker 1: in MATERI realized you wait, he would lose his VIP customer,

1989
01:40:03,280 --> 01:40:05,280
Speaker 1: he would lose his I would just I would just

1990
01:40:05,360 --> 01:40:08,960
Speaker 1: take her there, you know. Yeah, we we we see

1991
01:40:09,040 --> 01:40:14,120
Speaker 1: lots lots of our former you know, daters that come

1992
01:40:14,200 --> 01:40:16,000
Speaker 1: in now and they come in at five o'clock and

1993
01:40:16,080 --> 01:40:17,960
Speaker 1: they've got they've got one of their kids and they

1994
01:40:18,040 --> 01:40:21,080
Speaker 1: leave by seven. That's that's that's where you're headed. Yeah,

1995
01:40:21,200 --> 01:40:23,640
Speaker 1: well it's And also it's right down the street from

1996
01:40:23,680 --> 01:40:26,040
Speaker 1: my favorite bar where my friends hang out. So I

1997
01:40:26,080 --> 01:40:27,920
Speaker 1: can go to Boss Bar, I can get a little

1998
01:40:27,960 --> 01:40:31,000
Speaker 1: warmed up, a little tuned off. Then I can take

1999
01:40:31,080 --> 01:40:33,360
Speaker 1: him down the street to the Roca Core and then

2000
01:40:33,439 --> 01:40:35,720
Speaker 1: it's a boogie place. But I get treated better than

2001
01:40:35,760 --> 01:40:37,800
Speaker 1: I should for the little amount of money I spend there.

2002
01:40:38,040 --> 01:40:40,320
Speaker 1: And the whole thing is it's a sham. Really it's

2003
01:40:40,320 --> 01:40:43,080
Speaker 1: a front um. But thank you Steve for allowing me

2004
01:40:43,120 --> 01:40:45,040
Speaker 1: to live this sad. We we you know, we we

2005
01:40:45,240 --> 01:40:47,960
Speaker 1: we like to to you know, in our business. Uh

2006
01:40:48,360 --> 01:40:51,400
Speaker 1: you know, we're we're kind of like uh amateur actors,

2007
01:40:51,520 --> 01:40:56,040
Speaker 1: so we like to practice. Okay, these things. Well, you know,

2008
01:40:56,240 --> 01:40:57,680
Speaker 1: by the way, Steve's the guy that hooked me up

2009
01:40:57,680 --> 01:41:00,560
Speaker 1: with all the wind to bougey wine and stuff. He

2010
01:41:00,640 --> 01:41:02,280
Speaker 1: wants to come in here and do a wine tasting.

2011
01:41:02,320 --> 01:41:04,120
Speaker 1: I think we should do it. I think we should

2012
01:41:04,120 --> 01:41:06,240
Speaker 1: do it because I want to see. I want I

2013
01:41:06,360 --> 01:41:09,439
Speaker 1: want to see how you guys's palettes are. I want

2014
01:41:09,439 --> 01:41:11,519
Speaker 1: to see if Rufio can identify, like I want you

2015
01:41:11,560 --> 01:41:14,280
Speaker 1: to bring in some booble a shoe. Yeah, well yeah,

2016
01:41:14,439 --> 01:41:16,479
Speaker 1: follow that. We're gonna do wine drinking though we're not

2017
01:41:16,520 --> 01:41:20,320
Speaker 1: gonna do yeah yeah, there's no spitting in a barrel

2018
01:41:20,439 --> 01:41:22,880
Speaker 1: or something spitting anything. I'm not a huge wine drinker.

2019
01:41:22,880 --> 01:41:25,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna drink wine when it's paired well with food.

2020
01:41:25,479 --> 01:41:32,160
Speaker 1: So oh, look at this guy. Look at this. That's

2021
01:41:32,200 --> 01:41:36,960
Speaker 1: pretty slick. Actually, Ruffio, that's pretty slick. We're gonna, we're gonna,

2022
01:41:37,000 --> 01:41:39,120
Speaker 1: we're gonna see how that all works out, I'll be

2023
01:41:39,240 --> 01:41:41,360
Speaker 1: more than happy to come in and uh and do

2024
01:41:41,520 --> 01:41:44,160
Speaker 1: some wine drinking with you. Yeah, because maybe you can

2025
01:41:44,200 --> 01:41:46,000
Speaker 1: teach us all a little something about this because I

2026
01:41:46,040 --> 01:41:48,160
Speaker 1: don't I really don't know. I talked about it. I

2027
01:41:48,160 --> 01:41:50,120
Speaker 1: think yesterday on our on our podcast Off the Air,

2028
01:41:50,240 --> 01:41:52,160
Speaker 1: is that I you know, you set me up at

2029
01:41:52,160 --> 01:41:54,760
Speaker 1: all these nice places, and they, oh, yeah, they tell

2030
01:41:54,800 --> 01:41:57,320
Speaker 1: these crazy stories about how you know, a UFO came

2031
01:41:57,360 --> 01:41:59,880
Speaker 1: down and dropped the seeds in the ground and grew

2032
01:42:00,240 --> 01:42:03,800
Speaker 1: your greatest wine grape that's ever grown. And then you

2033
01:42:03,840 --> 01:42:07,120
Speaker 1: know the winemaker, you know, a rose from poverty with

2034
01:42:07,240 --> 01:42:09,599
Speaker 1: this recipe in his head for wine and now he's

2035
01:42:09,600 --> 01:42:11,880
Speaker 1: a gazillionaire and scientists around the world trying to do

2036
01:42:12,000 --> 01:42:13,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. They tell these crazy stories and I

2037
01:42:14,120 --> 01:42:16,479
Speaker 1: taste it and I'm like, this tastes good, this tastes bad.

2038
01:42:16,600 --> 01:42:19,040
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. So you got to bring

2039
01:42:19,120 --> 01:42:22,240
Speaker 1: in some like really bouge wine and then bring us

2040
01:42:22,280 --> 01:42:25,040
Speaker 1: some like Sutter homes and let's see if we can

2041
01:42:25,040 --> 01:42:26,720
Speaker 1: figure out the difference, because I don't know that we can.

2042
01:42:26,840 --> 01:42:30,120
Speaker 1: They continued you with all that you know, all that

2043
01:42:30,520 --> 01:42:32,880
Speaker 1: stuff that they're giving you and then they're there, and

2044
01:42:32,960 --> 01:42:35,679
Speaker 1: then you're drinking too, and then you're like getting confused

2045
01:42:35,760 --> 01:42:39,080
Speaker 1: and disoriented, and then everything kind of tastes the same. Yeah, right,

2046
01:42:39,240 --> 01:42:40,840
Speaker 1: and then crates of wine are showing up at my

2047
01:42:40,920 --> 01:42:44,040
Speaker 1: house that I forgot that I ordered because I was drunk. Um.

2048
01:42:44,400 --> 01:42:46,120
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you and say I had a

2049
01:42:46,160 --> 01:42:50,000
Speaker 1: bad and Joey and and all my friends over there.

2050
01:42:50,800 --> 01:42:56,960
Speaker 1: I'll say, h yeah, okay, all right, they love you.

2051
01:42:57,040 --> 01:43:01,559
Speaker 1: By okay, they're Steve from Rocca corver one and people

2052
01:43:01,880 --> 01:43:05,120
Speaker 1: tweeting me I love Rococore. So a call back. Somebody

2053
01:43:06,040 --> 01:43:07,680
Speaker 1: nine one three five. Somebody had a story. It was

2054
01:43:07,720 --> 01:43:09,720
Speaker 1: a server at a restaurant about that. But I got

2055
01:43:09,800 --> 01:43:11,240
Speaker 1: to think, if you're in the industry, you see this

2056
01:43:11,320 --> 01:43:13,559
Speaker 1: all the time because people start to feel comfortable at

2057
01:43:13,600 --> 01:43:16,360
Speaker 1: a place. They know what to expect, they know how

2058
01:43:16,400 --> 01:43:19,160
Speaker 1: to dress. Maybe they have a relationship so they can

2059
01:43:19,200 --> 01:43:21,160
Speaker 1: get in, you know, like last minute. I think there's

2060
01:43:21,200 --> 01:43:24,680
Speaker 1: probably a component of looking like you're connected, you know,

2061
01:43:24,760 --> 01:43:27,680
Speaker 1: but I think you can over here. Yeah, but I

2062
01:43:27,760 --> 01:43:30,000
Speaker 1: think that can backfire though. I think it can backfire

2063
01:43:30,080 --> 01:43:32,280
Speaker 1: on you. For the point that you just made is

2064
01:43:32,320 --> 01:43:35,040
Speaker 1: that if I take someone to a place like that

2065
01:43:35,680 --> 01:43:38,639
Speaker 1: and I get treated like I'm there all the time.

2066
01:43:38,920 --> 01:43:41,200
Speaker 1: Then it's almost like I'm giving away in my hand,

2067
01:43:41,640 --> 01:43:43,559
Speaker 1: you know, it's like, oh, so you bring everybody here,

2068
01:43:43,960 --> 01:43:45,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, I don't think it

2069
01:43:45,160 --> 01:43:47,720
Speaker 1: always works in my favor. Could be I just think

2070
01:43:47,720 --> 01:43:49,800
Speaker 1: it would make me feel really cool if I'm walking

2071
01:43:49,840 --> 01:43:53,200
Speaker 1: around and the whole staff is saying hi, or people

2072
01:43:53,280 --> 01:43:55,519
Speaker 1: think I did it for that reason. They don't realize

2073
01:43:55,560 --> 01:43:58,000
Speaker 1: I did it because I'm kind of lazy, h and

2074
01:43:58,120 --> 01:43:59,840
Speaker 1: I got to hook up. They don't realize I did

2075
01:44:00,200 --> 01:44:02,080
Speaker 1: do it because everybody there knows me, you know what

2076
01:44:02,120 --> 01:44:04,439
Speaker 1: I mean. Date, can you branch out and just try

2077
01:44:04,520 --> 01:44:07,160
Speaker 1: some spot you've never been to in a whole different neighborhood,

2078
01:44:07,200 --> 01:44:11,200
Speaker 1: like I want to see them? Okay, Okay, I lately

2079
01:44:11,200 --> 01:44:16,080
Speaker 1: I've been mixing it up a little bit. Okay, good actor, friends,

2080
01:44:16,120 --> 01:44:18,760
Speaker 1: and I haven't seen you such a long time. Oh

2081
01:44:18,840 --> 01:44:23,040
Speaker 1: my god, there like eight hours ago. I closed the

2082
01:44:23,080 --> 01:44:29,240
Speaker 1: place down, Bunny, Yeah, a long time. Then those kids

2083
01:44:29,240 --> 01:44:34,839
Speaker 1: are getting big, aren't they was at the guy's house yesterday. Hey, Brittany,

2084
01:44:34,960 --> 01:44:38,720
Speaker 1: good morning girl. Morning Brittany. So you're a server at

2085
01:44:38,760 --> 01:44:40,600
Speaker 1: a restaurant and so you know what, you know, the

2086
01:44:40,600 --> 01:44:42,559
Speaker 1: people who bring the same they come to the same

2087
01:44:42,600 --> 01:44:45,680
Speaker 1: restaurant every time, right. So yeah, So I used to

2088
01:44:45,720 --> 01:44:47,360
Speaker 1: be a silver a couple of years ago, and I

2089
01:44:48,000 --> 01:44:50,120
Speaker 1: with this guy. He would come in like at least

2090
01:44:50,280 --> 01:44:52,760
Speaker 1: like every other week with a different girl, and he

2091
01:44:52,840 --> 01:44:55,840
Speaker 1: would act as if like that was his first time

2092
01:44:55,880 --> 01:44:58,360
Speaker 1: at the restaurant, Like he would be like, oh, you know,

2093
01:44:58,400 --> 01:45:00,240
Speaker 1: I've never been here before. I heard you guys said

2094
01:45:00,280 --> 01:45:02,240
Speaker 1: really good steak, and I heard you guy said really

2095
01:45:02,240 --> 01:45:04,479
Speaker 1: good this, and I'm like and most of the time

2096
01:45:04,520 --> 01:45:06,880
Speaker 1: it was that had to serve him, and I'm just like, yeah,

2097
01:45:07,320 --> 01:45:09,160
Speaker 1: I just had to go on with it all the time.

2098
01:45:09,240 --> 01:45:11,479
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, oh my god. You know, I've

2099
01:45:11,520 --> 01:45:14,400
Speaker 1: heard of people maybe you've seen this, but I've heard

2100
01:45:14,400 --> 01:45:16,680
Speaker 1: of people that bring their girlfriend and their wife to

2101
01:45:16,800 --> 01:45:19,120
Speaker 1: the same restaurant. And it's like, you gotta be I mean,

2102
01:45:19,200 --> 01:45:23,880
Speaker 1: that's ballsy. You know, Yeah, that's bad. I would say something,

2103
01:45:24,120 --> 01:45:26,200
Speaker 1: would you really you would, because you'd probably get fired

2104
01:45:26,400 --> 01:45:29,880
Speaker 1: for doing it, but you don't care. I don't care. Yeah,

2105
01:45:30,280 --> 01:45:32,080
Speaker 1: a brit I would just like once you went to

2106
01:45:32,160 --> 01:45:35,120
Speaker 1: the bathroom and be like, hey, you know, you know, yeah, yeah,

2107
01:45:35,200 --> 01:45:37,240
Speaker 1: thank you, Brittany, you have a good day. Thank you.

2108
01:45:37,520 --> 01:45:39,200
Speaker 1: I know the story of a very high end restaurant

2109
01:45:39,240 --> 01:45:43,960
Speaker 1: in this town where the major D welcomed a man

2110
01:45:44,080 --> 01:45:48,160
Speaker 1: in with his wife and said, oh, great to see

2111
01:45:48,200 --> 01:45:51,120
Speaker 1: you twice in one week, and he was trying to

2112
01:45:51,240 --> 01:45:53,640
Speaker 1: like welcome the guy, like relate to him, like I

2113
01:45:53,800 --> 01:45:56,599
Speaker 1: know you, like yeah, welcome home kind of thing. Turned

2114
01:45:56,640 --> 01:45:59,320
Speaker 1: out that homeboy had told us. He's like, oh no,

2115
01:45:59,400 --> 01:46:02,040
Speaker 1: I couldn't, I wouldn't me. You're confused, he told his wife,

2116
01:46:02,080 --> 01:46:04,040
Speaker 1: who's on a business trip. Really, he just moved to

2117
01:46:04,080 --> 01:46:06,920
Speaker 1: a hotel downtown to be with his girlfriend and brought

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01:46:07,000 --> 01:46:08,880
Speaker 1: her in two nights before, and they fired the guy

2119
01:46:08,960 --> 01:46:11,120
Speaker 1: for that. It's like, you got to keep the secret,

2120
01:46:11,800 --> 01:46:13,880
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Not my problem, but why

2121
01:46:13,880 --> 01:46:15,719
Speaker 1: are you taking this two girls at the same place

2122
01:46:16,439 --> 01:46:18,680
Speaker 1: and you're married. You know you had me at meter D.

2123
01:46:18,760 --> 01:46:22,519
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever been to restaurant. I'm sitting

2124
01:46:22,520 --> 01:46:25,200
Speaker 1: there with a server that with the hostess kidding me disgruntled.

2125
01:46:25,240 --> 01:46:27,640
Speaker 1: That doesn't want to be when I say, when I

2126
01:46:27,680 --> 01:46:29,439
Speaker 1: say rufio D, I don't take him to a place

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01:46:29,479 --> 01:46:32,200
Speaker 1: with a major D. Hap me a thousand dollars ally

2128
01:46:32,200 --> 01:46:35,639
Speaker 1: the time we're done. Hey, Russ, Hey, how's it gone?

2129
01:46:35,760 --> 01:46:37,920
Speaker 1: Russ used to serve wine? Where are used to somalia?

2130
01:46:40,200 --> 01:46:42,760
Speaker 1: I'm quite the somalia? Yeah, oh are you? Are you

2131
01:46:43,040 --> 01:46:45,880
Speaker 1: like a like a big palm or what are they called? No, no,

2132
01:46:45,960 --> 01:46:50,960
Speaker 1: you're not a master salm. They're only like two Yeah, no, no,

2133
01:46:51,120 --> 01:46:53,799
Speaker 1: I'm not that Okay. I just used to work serving

2134
01:46:53,840 --> 01:46:57,000
Speaker 1: the wine. But we had a couple of hi, I'm

2135
01:46:57,040 --> 01:46:59,760
Speaker 1: told clients, and I can't tell you who told me

2136
01:46:59,880 --> 01:47:03,559
Speaker 1: or who it's about. But right someone came in, started

2137
01:47:03,600 --> 01:47:05,320
Speaker 1: having some glass of the wine, started telling us about

2138
01:47:05,360 --> 01:47:08,320
Speaker 1: the owner of our franchise and some arrital issues he

2139
01:47:08,400 --> 01:47:10,720
Speaker 1: was going through at the time, and how his wife

2140
01:47:10,760 --> 01:47:13,719
Speaker 1: I found this or that about him, and everyone's collops

2141
01:47:13,760 --> 01:47:15,439
Speaker 1: and he's like, yo, he's pretty up there. Like what

2142
01:47:15,600 --> 01:47:16,880
Speaker 1: was he telling me? Was like, he was telling me

2143
01:47:17,040 --> 01:47:19,920
Speaker 1: nothing at all? Guys. He told me, yeah, you're not

2144
01:47:20,040 --> 01:47:23,360
Speaker 1: getting involved with all that. No, not at all. Man.

2145
01:47:23,400 --> 01:47:25,760
Speaker 1: You gotta keep those secrets. You gotta keeps like, hey,

2146
01:47:26,320 --> 01:47:28,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, I didn't see yesterday. And it's gotta

2147
01:47:28,800 --> 01:47:30,439
Speaker 1: be hard because I'm sure as a server, like you

2148
01:47:30,520 --> 01:47:33,920
Speaker 1: want to do you want to a mix between treat

2149
01:47:33,960 --> 01:47:36,800
Speaker 1: the regulars like regulars, but also like if I don't know,

2150
01:47:37,160 --> 01:47:39,479
Speaker 1: if I'm a businessman and I take all my clients

2151
01:47:39,520 --> 01:47:41,200
Speaker 1: to the same restaurant, you don't want to say that

2152
01:47:41,400 --> 01:47:43,320
Speaker 1: because the clients are gonna feel like, well, I thought

2153
01:47:43,360 --> 01:47:45,160
Speaker 1: this was specialized, you know what I mean? Even though

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01:47:45,200 --> 01:47:47,120
Speaker 1: they know you'd take other people out, they don't want

2155
01:47:47,120 --> 01:47:49,160
Speaker 1: to be reminded of that. So it's like, I don't

2156
01:47:49,160 --> 01:47:52,200
Speaker 1: know how you would moderate between I want, I want

2157
01:47:52,240 --> 01:47:54,040
Speaker 1: you to feel welcome and I remember what your drink

2158
01:47:54,160 --> 01:47:57,320
Speaker 1: order is, but also you weren't here yesterday. That's gonna

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01:47:57,320 --> 01:47:58,720
Speaker 1: be a hard thing to do. Russ, Thank you, have

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01:47:58,800 --> 01:48:03,120
Speaker 1: a good day, No you too, Glad you call. Caitlin. Hi,

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01:48:03,600 --> 01:48:06,840
Speaker 1: how you doing good? How are you, Hayleen? Good morning,

2162
01:48:06,880 --> 01:48:08,280
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling. Thanks for listening. So you used to

2163
01:48:08,280 --> 01:48:10,200
Speaker 1: work at a casino and you saw a lot of

2164
01:48:10,240 --> 01:48:15,200
Speaker 1: these kind of shenanigans. Oh all the time, all the time,

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01:48:15,439 --> 01:48:18,360
Speaker 1: um we I mean, especially with our high rollers. They

2166
01:48:18,360 --> 01:48:21,960
Speaker 1: would come in with mistresses and girlfriend bringing their wives

2167
01:48:22,000 --> 01:48:24,960
Speaker 1: and their families the next weekend, and we would just

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01:48:25,040 --> 01:48:28,000
Speaker 1: have to pretend like we hadn't seen them in monster years.

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01:48:29,280 --> 01:48:31,920
Speaker 1: And our tip was based off of it. You had

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01:48:32,000 --> 01:48:35,600
Speaker 1: to lie your way and kiss some butts just to

2171
01:48:35,720 --> 01:48:37,600
Speaker 1: make a good tip. And if you did, I mean

2172
01:48:37,640 --> 01:48:40,200
Speaker 1: we made out money with it. But all the time.

2173
01:48:40,880 --> 01:48:43,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I thinks you must see. You gotta be

2174
01:48:43,120 --> 01:48:46,719
Speaker 1: a steel trap, you know. And our casino was attached

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01:48:46,760 --> 01:48:50,320
Speaker 1: to a hotel, so we need Oh how convenient, how convenient.

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01:48:50,479 --> 01:48:55,200
Speaker 1: My room's right upstairs. Oh, complimentary room. Oh oh, a

2177
01:48:55,280 --> 01:48:58,760
Speaker 1: complimentary room for my winnings. Oh sure we'll take that. Oh,

2178
01:48:58,840 --> 01:49:01,439
Speaker 1: I mean, we can't waste it, you know. Thank you, Klein.

2179
01:49:01,520 --> 01:49:04,120
Speaker 1: Have a good day, you too, Love you guys, Love

2180
01:49:04,160 --> 01:49:08,760
Speaker 1: you too. Hey Courtney, Hi, Hi Courtney. Okay, so hey,

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01:49:08,960 --> 01:49:11,240
Speaker 1: good morning. So, as a woman, you're about to come

2182
01:49:11,320 --> 01:49:13,240
Speaker 1: clean that you take all your dates to the same

2183
01:49:13,320 --> 01:49:17,840
Speaker 1: restaurant I do as across the streets in my house.

2184
01:49:17,920 --> 01:49:22,400
Speaker 1: And it's a brunch place. So it closes by like three, okay,

2185
01:49:22,479 --> 01:49:25,000
Speaker 1: And so you you set up brunch date and you say,

2186
01:49:25,040 --> 01:49:26,560
Speaker 1: what like, meet me at eleven o'clock. All you have

2187
01:49:26,640 --> 01:49:29,200
Speaker 1: to do is walk across the street. And then what

2188
01:49:29,520 --> 01:49:31,160
Speaker 1: like if you get all boosts and things go, well,

2189
01:49:31,200 --> 01:49:32,720
Speaker 1: do you ever just walk them right back across the

2190
01:49:32,760 --> 01:49:38,080
Speaker 1: street maybe once, maybe once or twice. But the best

2191
01:49:38,120 --> 01:49:39,720
Speaker 1: thing is if it goes bad, I have like the

2192
01:49:39,840 --> 01:49:41,560
Speaker 1: rest of my day ahead of me. I could just

2193
01:49:42,360 --> 01:49:44,760
Speaker 1: go find that's another date, I guess, yeah that. Have

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01:49:44,840 --> 01:49:47,280
Speaker 1: you ever scheduled more than one date m on the

2195
01:49:47,360 --> 01:49:52,040
Speaker 1: same day, Yes, but not at the same place. But like, yeah,

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01:49:52,040 --> 01:49:54,000
Speaker 1: I've done that before. We'd got a waiting by the

2197
01:49:54,000 --> 01:49:56,320
Speaker 1: phone before where people have you gotten caught with it?

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01:49:56,520 --> 01:49:58,800
Speaker 1: We just had one recently, I think where a lady

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01:49:58,840 --> 01:50:00,840
Speaker 1: tried to do two in one at one time at

2200
01:50:00,880 --> 01:50:02,640
Speaker 1: a coffee place and got caught up. And it's like,

2201
01:50:02,720 --> 01:50:05,679
Speaker 1: come on, man, you gotta be a little schedule of stuff.

2202
01:50:05,720 --> 01:50:10,360
Speaker 1: Yet different sides of the city like any how lazy

2203
01:50:10,400 --> 01:50:13,479
Speaker 1: are you? And I'm the guy that goes to places

2204
01:50:13,560 --> 01:50:16,719
Speaker 1: close to his house? Lazy are you? Unbelievable? Thank you, Courtney,

2205
01:50:16,960 --> 01:50:19,800
Speaker 1: of a great day. See look at that. I love that.

2206
01:50:19,800 --> 01:50:21,920
Speaker 1: I love that. She also admitted that occasionally the brunch

2207
01:50:22,000 --> 01:50:24,920
Speaker 1: goes well enough, you know, the bottomless sat Mimosa. I'd

2208
01:50:24,960 --> 01:50:26,920
Speaker 1: take good move I needed. The problem is I don't

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01:50:26,920 --> 01:50:28,880
Speaker 1: want to wake my ass up on Sunday to go

2210
01:50:28,960 --> 01:50:32,000
Speaker 1: to brunch. But that's a that's an unsuspecting move. You know,

2211
01:50:32,120 --> 01:50:36,439
Speaker 1: things can really develop it noon with those bottomless mimosas.

2212
01:50:36,479 --> 01:50:38,600
Speaker 1: Before you know it, boom boom bam. I want it

2213
01:50:38,640 --> 01:50:40,679
Speaker 1: to be dark outside, at least for the first time.

2214
01:50:41,400 --> 01:50:45,320
Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm like, I don't discriminate. Kiss up him.

2215
01:50:45,600 --> 01:50:48,080
Speaker 1: The latest entertainment news is on the Fred Show. We

2216
01:50:48,160 --> 01:50:51,439
Speaker 1: got some breaking news, you guys. Courtney Kardashian and Travis

2217
01:50:51,560 --> 01:50:54,080
Speaker 1: Barker took full advantage of being in sid City for

2218
01:50:54,120 --> 01:50:57,360
Speaker 1: the Grammys, having a wedding ceremony in the middle of

2219
01:50:57,400 --> 01:51:00,679
Speaker 1: the night at a wedding chapel aka. They are married.

2220
01:51:00,840 --> 01:51:03,760
Speaker 1: Travis his husband and wife. They walked in around one

2221
01:51:03,920 --> 01:51:07,160
Speaker 1: thirty in the morning Monday, only hours after he performed.

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01:51:07,400 --> 01:51:10,200
Speaker 1: They brought their own photographer and security and gave their

2223
01:51:10,240 --> 01:51:12,960
Speaker 1: marriage license to the chapel's owner. He was also serving

2224
01:51:13,000 --> 01:51:15,800
Speaker 1: as a witness. I'm hearing it was very important to

2225
01:51:15,880 --> 01:51:20,200
Speaker 1: them that an Elvis impersonator officiate the wedding, so Elvis

2226
01:51:20,320 --> 01:51:22,599
Speaker 1: pronounced them man and wife. This won't be the only

2227
01:51:22,760 --> 01:51:25,280
Speaker 1: ceremony to mark their marriage, of course, there will be

2228
01:51:25,520 --> 01:51:29,439
Speaker 1: several other celebrations to monetize. I'm sure, Oh, I'm sure.

2229
01:51:29,720 --> 01:51:33,160
Speaker 1: Lots of fanfare. M one done a wellness checks start interrupted,

2230
01:51:33,240 --> 01:51:38,400
Speaker 1: calsnyone done a wellness check on Travis Barker. You know

2231
01:51:38,520 --> 01:51:41,240
Speaker 1: we need to he had been there, He was in Vegas.

2232
01:51:41,280 --> 01:51:43,439
Speaker 1: We just talked about the last story. It wasn't Vegas

2233
01:51:43,520 --> 01:51:47,760
Speaker 1: at the TAO opening. Yeah, with NGAs Cloud. Maybe Fez

2234
01:51:47,880 --> 01:51:50,280
Speaker 1: was there. Yeah. I would ruin my night if I

2235
01:51:50,320 --> 01:51:52,840
Speaker 1: were him. Oh yeah, And he already is not having

2236
01:51:52,880 --> 01:51:54,439
Speaker 1: a good time because she wants to move the kids

2237
01:51:54,479 --> 01:51:58,439
Speaker 1: and everything. Um. Speaking of him, Courtney, this is her

2238
01:51:58,479 --> 01:52:00,680
Speaker 1: first marriage because she never married even though they have

2239
01:52:00,760 --> 01:52:04,000
Speaker 1: three children together. This is the third marriage for Travis,

2240
01:52:04,120 --> 01:52:08,479
Speaker 1: so muzzles off you guys, you're married. Speaking of the Grammys,

2241
01:52:08,520 --> 01:52:11,280
Speaker 1: Hailey Bieber is once again shooting down rumors that she

2242
01:52:11,439 --> 01:52:14,880
Speaker 1: is with child. After Radar Online said her grammy's gown

2243
01:52:15,040 --> 01:52:18,040
Speaker 1: was meant to hide a bump, she commented, I'm not pregnant,

2244
01:52:18,280 --> 01:52:20,800
Speaker 1: Leave me alone. I feel so bad for women in

2245
01:52:20,920 --> 01:52:24,160
Speaker 1: Hollywood because I cannot imagine having people constantly ask if

2246
01:52:24,160 --> 01:52:26,679
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, Like I would feel like I was gaining

2247
01:52:26,720 --> 01:52:28,320
Speaker 1: weight or something, you know what I mean. Like it

2248
01:52:28,439 --> 01:52:30,479
Speaker 1: just seems like it's a lot of I would imagine.

2249
01:52:30,479 --> 01:52:33,320
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. It could like force you into some state

2250
01:52:33,360 --> 01:52:37,200
Speaker 1: of body dysmorphia where you're like, I don't know, overcompensating

2251
01:52:37,280 --> 01:52:39,800
Speaker 1: one way or another. You're too skinny, you're too big,

2252
01:52:39,880 --> 01:52:41,880
Speaker 1: you're pregnant, you're not just like God like leave me

2253
01:52:41,880 --> 01:52:44,479
Speaker 1: alonely and people like literally they'll right, like I see

2254
01:52:44,520 --> 01:52:46,880
Speaker 1: a baby bump, it's like, no, I just had a pizza, Like,

2255
01:52:47,000 --> 01:52:48,720
Speaker 1: get off my nut. That is this. And I don't

2256
01:52:48,720 --> 01:52:50,439
Speaker 1: know if she's ever spoken about it, but like, you

2257
01:52:50,520 --> 01:52:53,600
Speaker 1: know what if she is struggling with getting pregnant or

2258
01:52:54,040 --> 01:52:55,720
Speaker 1: she had something happen, you know what I mean. So

2259
01:52:55,800 --> 01:52:58,400
Speaker 1: I think that's why you never ask or never make

2260
01:52:58,439 --> 01:53:01,400
Speaker 1: those comments. Two things. Never ask if someone's pregnant till

2261
01:53:01,400 --> 01:53:03,679
Speaker 1: they tell you. And never touch their bump without asking

2262
01:53:06,600 --> 01:53:10,360
Speaker 1: and she responsibly and she responsibly, And always give it

2263
01:53:10,479 --> 01:53:13,000
Speaker 1: up to someone in the military. Yeah, and don't ask

2264
01:53:13,040 --> 01:53:14,920
Speaker 1: if a woman to be mssing. No, these are the

2265
01:53:15,000 --> 01:53:17,920
Speaker 1: rules that we live by. Here. Put them on a scroll.

2266
01:53:18,040 --> 01:53:20,320
Speaker 1: It's like an Irish bar above the door of the studio.

2267
01:53:20,400 --> 01:53:24,080
Speaker 1: Those those things are this house. We exactly someone cht

2268
01:53:24,080 --> 01:53:26,280
Speaker 1: added wood for a woodworker made that for us. It's

2269
01:53:26,360 --> 01:53:29,840
Speaker 1: right above the door, follow those rules. Chief response, that's beautiful.

2270
01:53:30,720 --> 01:53:34,599
Speaker 1: Up to the military. Always yes, no questions asked, never

2271
01:53:35,200 --> 01:53:38,400
Speaker 1: speaking of award shows. Days after his Oscar smack, Will

2272
01:53:38,479 --> 01:53:41,400
Speaker 1: Smith was flown by his pale, the Crown Prince of Dubai,

2273
01:53:41,520 --> 01:53:43,880
Speaker 1: to the Middle East. So the thirty nine year old

2274
01:53:44,240 --> 01:53:47,800
Speaker 1: Faza as he's known as an entrepreneur, a sportsman. I

2275
01:53:47,800 --> 01:53:50,280
Speaker 1: don't know what that means in a businessman. Will spends

2276
01:53:50,360 --> 01:53:52,880
Speaker 1: lots of time with him in Dubai. Um. He even

2277
01:53:53,120 --> 01:53:55,920
Speaker 1: shot his documentary The Best Shape of My Life there

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Speaker 1: in this dude's private gym. Will also brought his movie

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Speaker 1: Suicide Squad to Dubai in twenty sixteen for a Hollywood premiere.

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Speaker 1: I guess most US movies don't premiere there, but that's

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Speaker 1: his best yet. Had no idea, no word on whether

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Speaker 1: or not Jada went with or he escaped by himself.

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Speaker 1: Real quick, I just want to mention HG TV star

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01:54:13,920 --> 01:54:16,360
Speaker 1: Christina Hack and Joshua Hall is secretly tied the knot

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Speaker 1: in Kelly sometime over the last six months. I guess

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01:54:19,360 --> 01:54:21,960
Speaker 1: they're planning to host an intimate ceremony with close friends

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Speaker 1: and family in the near future to celebrate it's no time. Nope,

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Speaker 1: not her third husband in like three or four year right,

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Speaker 1: So her real estate license already shows her new name,

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Speaker 1: Christina Hall. The license also references some of her old

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Speaker 1: legal names, including at Christina Hack, Christina el Musa, and

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Speaker 1: then there's no mention of Ann stud But she did

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Speaker 1: her second husband Yeah, yeah, yeah, that was most recently.

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Speaker 1: Who she was married to new hobby Josh Josh, excuse me?

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Speaker 1: Is also in real estate. By the way, I'm not judging,

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Speaker 1: by the way, like do you you know whatever makes

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01:54:52,560 --> 01:54:54,080
Speaker 1: you happy? But I also kind of wondered, like, why

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01:54:54,120 --> 01:54:56,600
Speaker 1: don't people take a breath? Well, I mean, you lick

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01:54:56,680 --> 01:54:58,840
Speaker 1: toed with somebody one day, you married the next man.

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Speaker 1: That's how it works. Oh is yeah? Who she like

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Speaker 1: toads with? Oh with this guy? Yeah, maybe they're still high.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. She was married to the other guy,

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01:55:06,360 --> 01:55:08,160
Speaker 1: the Amstate guy, for like twenty minutes. They had a

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Speaker 1: baby and then and then yeah, and they had a

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Speaker 1: show together or he was on a show and that. Yeah,

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01:55:14,400 --> 01:55:16,880
Speaker 1: she's got two with the Turk and then one with

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Speaker 1: the second. Yeah. I did that story strictly for you too,

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Speaker 1: because I don't know anything about this HG TV stuff,

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01:55:24,160 --> 01:55:25,960
Speaker 1: and she just pulled the plug on Flip or Flop,

2310
01:55:26,120 --> 01:55:28,440
Speaker 1: saying she couldn't work with him anymore for some reason

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Speaker 1: because he lives in Nashville now and it wouldn't be fair.

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Speaker 1: She does, Oh, she does. Somebody tells me that she's

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Speaker 1: got something working and that she didn't want him to

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Speaker 1: be a part of it or something like that. She's

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Speaker 1: also got she's got Christine on the Coast, which is

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Speaker 1: a better show than he is Flipping one on one show.

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Speaker 1: But I like them both. I like them together. I

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Speaker 1: watched their separate shows. I like her design style. Um,

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01:55:49,400 --> 01:55:53,200
Speaker 1: it's very minimal, like the gray modern type deal. Yeah. Well,

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Speaker 1: she's very talent. They're both very talented. But it's such

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Speaker 1: a bass. Yeah, every freaking show. Oh my god, we're oh,

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Speaker 1: I believe that there's no roof on this house. We

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01:56:02,000 --> 01:56:05,320
Speaker 1: didn't know. We didn't know there was no roof on

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Speaker 1: the house. And we're gonna lose it all. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: go broke and live in an alley. Oh, it made

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Speaker 1: two million dollars profit and we never saw that coming.

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01:56:12,680 --> 01:56:14,960
Speaker 1: It's like shut out, Benny Lord. It's sold for a

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01:56:15,040 --> 01:56:18,920
Speaker 1: plus profit of two hundred thousand dollars watching the house

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01:56:19,000 --> 01:56:21,600
Speaker 1: had no doors? How do we miss that? I can't

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Speaker 1: believe that we just didn't see that there were no doors.

2331
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Speaker 1: You got to add the drama to these shows. How

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Speaker 1: they're good. And we're to check it online today if

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Speaker 1: you want to see the weirdest video of all time,

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Speaker 1: it involves O. J. Simpson. I am really concerned. Also,

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Speaker 1: a rapper died and you have to see what his

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Speaker 1: boys did to his body after he already passed away.

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Speaker 1: It's on French a radio times. Don't do that to

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Speaker 1: me and then it happens. Don't don't prop me up

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Speaker 1: at boss bar. Please, don't do it. Just one last drink?

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Speaker 1: No fun fact trending stories. Uh, those to Kevin Hard

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Speaker 1: tickets right now? He five five nine one one h

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Speaker 1: three five Kevin Hart you see September twenty second tickets

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Speaker 1: Thanks Live Nation eight five nine. It's true, all right, Paulina.

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Speaker 1: You know what chera phobia is the fear of sharing. No,

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Speaker 1: that's not a terrible guess, I suppose, but chera phobia

2347
01:57:27,320 --> 01:57:28,840
Speaker 1: not a bad guess if you do say so yourself.

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01:57:29,480 --> 01:57:35,200
Speaker 1: Cha phobia is the word. It could also be cheero phobia.

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01:57:35,560 --> 01:57:39,520
Speaker 1: It's the word for the irrational fear of being happy.

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01:57:40,360 --> 01:57:44,480
Speaker 1: It comes from the Greek word chetto, which means to rejoice.

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01:57:45,160 --> 01:57:49,320
Speaker 1: People who suffer from cheri phobia are often afraid cripplingly,

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01:57:49,520 --> 01:57:52,360
Speaker 1: so I'm afraid of that word of doing anything that

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01:57:52,440 --> 01:57:55,600
Speaker 1: might lead to happiness. This includes being involved in fun activities,

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01:57:55,640 --> 01:57:59,080
Speaker 1: rejecting opportunities that might lead to positive outcomes. Chera phobia.

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01:57:59,440 --> 01:58:02,240
Speaker 1: I think I have that. Really, you don't like to

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01:58:02,280 --> 01:58:04,360
Speaker 1: be happy. It's scary because then I'm like, what's going

2357
01:58:04,400 --> 01:58:06,000
Speaker 1: to happen? That's bad? That's right. You do have a

2358
01:58:06,080 --> 01:58:08,960
Speaker 1: sort of a fatalist, pessimistic view about Well I just

2359
01:58:09,040 --> 01:58:11,000
Speaker 1: had a lot of trash stuff happened. But yeah, but

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01:58:11,080 --> 01:58:13,960
Speaker 1: I think you manifest the happiness though I try my best.

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01:58:14,200 --> 01:58:16,800
Speaker 1: If you're looking for bad things to happen, they will happen. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying not to. So then don't be chera phobic.

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01:58:19,640 --> 01:58:22,240
Speaker 1: Well that's like saying don't be anxious. Well, don't don't

2364
01:58:22,240 --> 01:58:27,360
Speaker 1: be that either as an anxious guy. Don't be that either. Hey, Helen, Hey,

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Speaker 1: good morning. Shout out to waiting. You're going to Kevin Hart. Congratulations, Oh,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thanks so much, thanks for listening. What are

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Speaker 1: you doing? Um, I am getting ready to get my

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Speaker 1: day going. I'm a senior sales trainer. I'm gonna teach

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Speaker 1: some folks today. Teach some people. That's what you're doing,

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Speaker 1: teach them how to sell stuff. Yeah, I'm in. I'm

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Speaker 1: medicare advantage of world. Show me this, pe sell me

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Speaker 1: this pe Jordan over here, show me this peen Um hey,

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Speaker 1: hell and have a great tane. Thanks for listening. All right,

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Speaker 1: Oh thank you. Love you guys, love you too, love you.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, stay right there, enjoy Kevin Hart. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this from Kelly and My um My DMS on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Fred on air, Um, the real Well, interesting that Christina

2378
01:59:14,680 --> 01:59:18,480
Speaker 1: hack is no longer able to do a show with Tarik,

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01:59:19,040 --> 01:59:21,040
Speaker 1: you know, because she's not able to dedicate the time

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Speaker 1: that she wants to him, because she's in Nashville. Unique

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01:59:24,720 --> 01:59:27,560
Speaker 1: because she and her husband own their own production company.

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01:59:27,640 --> 01:59:32,000
Speaker 1: Now they're trying to do like what are the Magnolia

2383
01:59:32,080 --> 01:59:34,840
Speaker 1: Network like Chip and go At Joanna Gaines over there.

2384
01:59:35,640 --> 01:59:39,760
Speaker 1: Interesting their own thing. Interesting, Tark, I'm not going to

2385
01:59:39,800 --> 01:59:41,280
Speaker 1: be able to dedicate the time. I need to do

2386
01:59:41,440 --> 01:59:44,400
Speaker 1: these projects because my husband and I own the company.

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01:59:44,520 --> 01:59:50,160
Speaker 1: You know, want you around. That's what this is, what's trending.

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Speaker 1: One shining moment. Tar Heels blew it last night. Damn

2389
01:59:56,840 --> 02:00:01,000
Speaker 1: they did. That's one of those weird teams. Did you have? Um?

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Speaker 1: I feel like most people, maybe most people, especially in

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Speaker 1: the nineties, had a team growing up that there was

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Speaker 1: no real association too. I feel like every everybody had

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Speaker 1: a Cowboys jacket. Where I grew up, everybody had a

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02:00:15,280 --> 02:00:18,520
Speaker 1: Charlotte Hornet's jacket for it was just cool and oh

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02:00:18,600 --> 02:00:22,840
Speaker 1: I'm a Charlotte Hornets fan. Like whatever Raiders d the

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Speaker 1: starter jackets? What was yours? North Carolina? Because Michael Jordan

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Speaker 1: went exactly I used to Like Michael Jordan, He's known

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Speaker 1: to it. He wore his like a practice shorts underneath

2399
02:00:33,960 --> 02:00:36,120
Speaker 1: his NBA shorts, like it's it's known that he did that.

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Speaker 1: So I wore North Carolina shorts like you know, back

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02:00:39,000 --> 02:00:40,360
Speaker 1: in the day it was like Jinko jeans. So I

2402
02:00:40,440 --> 02:00:44,600
Speaker 1: was wearing shorts and then my big old Jenko jeans

2403
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Speaker 1: until I don't know, like all throughout high school is

2404
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Speaker 1: doing it. So yeah, I don't know. I love. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I had no associations in North Carolina. But you still

2406
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Speaker 1: everyone's girlfriend. Yeah, he did. We learned about that in

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Speaker 1: the Tangent yesterday. I for the same reason. I was

2408
02:00:56,640 --> 02:00:58,440
Speaker 1: North Carolina fan because of Jordan, and I got am

2409
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Speaker 1: Eric Montross. Do you remember he played for the Celtics.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I don't know why double zero.

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Speaker 1: I think he was. Yes. Yeah, anyway, so they lost

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Speaker 1: last night, and I was very disappointed, and I stayed

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Speaker 1: up until eleven thirty watching the stupid game because I

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Speaker 1: had fallmo that it was going to be historic and

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Speaker 1: it was because the Jayhawks, down by as many as

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Speaker 1: sixteen in the first half, completed the largest comeback victory

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Speaker 1: in title game history. It's bad enough to lose, it's

2418
02:01:21,600 --> 02:01:24,160
Speaker 1: really bad when you set a record like that. He

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Speaker 1: blew it historically. Well, I mean they were the eight seeds,

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Speaker 1: so you know, going into a one seed, so I

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Speaker 1: mean they beat a lot of good teams to get there, though,

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Speaker 1: So it's anyway, but Kansas was good. Kansas is good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah they are. Yeah. A guy on a Southwest Airlines

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Speaker 1: flight from Seattle of Phoenix is facing federal charges because

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Speaker 1: he pulled down his pants and did his deal a

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Speaker 1: minimum of four times in front of someone. How awful

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Speaker 1: is that? It's terrible. He was arrested and the guy

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Speaker 1: told the cops I didn't do anything wrong. I thought

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Speaker 1: it was kind of kinky. Apparently other people on the

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Speaker 1: flight did not think that. That's not the in flight

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Speaker 1: entertainment I paid for. That is not Southwest does not

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Speaker 1: provide any in flight entertainment. I'll have you know I

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Speaker 1: was looking for. But thanks dad. Um. A Southwest spokesperson

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Speaker 1: said that the man now as a lifetime band him. UM.

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Speaker 1: The Grammy ratings were up slightly from last year's low businesses.

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Speaker 1: I guess that need coins, really need coins. Like people

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Speaker 1: are not using coins is actually as a shortage in

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Speaker 1: the war in the country, at least of coins. Um.

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Speaker 1: The Treasury Department is trying to convince Americans to get

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Speaker 1: coins back in circulation if we don't have enough of

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Speaker 1: them for retailers, laundromats, other businesses that rely on the coins.

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Speaker 1: So if you got coins, I guess start using them.

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Speaker 1: I'll carry those things around. Um. In San Francisco tops

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Speaker 1: wallet Hub's list of the healthiest city in America based

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Speaker 1: on a bunch of different specifications criteria. Brownsville, Texas is

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Speaker 1: the least healthy unhealthiest city in the nation. This is

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Speaker 1: a wild story in form Mott that's trending today. Please

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Speaker 1: are investigating branding and waterboarding, hazing reports involving the women's

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Speaker 1: rugby team at Norwich University, and it's just like it

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Speaker 1: sounds really really wild. National Carmel Day today, National Deep

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Speaker 1: to day to focus awareness on sexual assault prevention. Let's

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Speaker 1: do blogs and I've got Chicago Fire tickets, The Entertainment

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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody, Tuesday, April fifth, The Fred Shows out

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Speaker 1: That's right, amazing sometimes in color. Yeah, I like it.

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Speaker 1: And you're looking better these days. I look less phallic, yeah,

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Speaker 1: which is cool. You got a new microphone, and I'm

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Speaker 1: cool with what's your face? Oh? Christa, who does it?

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Speaker 1: I mean we're cool. I even wrote her a note.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, are we all right? Like? Did I upset

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Speaker 1: you somehow? I don't look like a man part, you know?

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Speaker 1: And she said no, it's just some my artistic creativity.

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Speaker 1: It's you know, who am I to critique the artist?

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Speaker 1: You know exactly? I did look a little fat like them.

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Speaker 1: Back to the writer's room. We go back to the

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Speaker 1: writer's room. Someone show me where it is. The entertainer

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Speaker 1: reported about fifteen minutes was coming up in there. So

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Speaker 1: Kendall Jenner, Angus Cloud, Brian Cranston and Scott Disick walk

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Speaker 1: into a bar. I'll tell you why they were all

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Speaker 1: together wild Chicago fire tickets got those two about ten minutes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they talk better than they tied. These are the radio blogs,

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Speaker 1: so it's like we're running in our diaries stuff that's

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02:04:59,240 --> 02:05:06,040
Speaker 1: going on in the world. Round the room, um round,

2483
02:05:15,480 --> 02:05:19,240
Speaker 1: please kin if you would, unbelievable, dear blog. Um so,

2484
02:05:19,400 --> 02:05:22,200
Speaker 1: I'm feeling a lot less anxious than I was last

2485
02:05:22,200 --> 02:05:26,400
Speaker 1: week because my little sister, seventeen year old little Bella

2486
02:05:26,760 --> 02:05:29,440
Speaker 1: has returned home from spring break. Okay, where did she

2487
02:05:29,560 --> 02:05:32,480
Speaker 1: go again? So she went to Fort Lauderdale. Um, she

2488
02:05:32,760 --> 02:05:34,560
Speaker 1: went with a bunch of her friends to Florida. The

2489
02:05:34,680 --> 02:05:38,600
Speaker 1: moms did go, but they went on many adventures without

2490
02:05:38,680 --> 02:05:43,960
Speaker 1: the moms. And I'm on the secret secret snapchat that

2491
02:05:44,160 --> 02:05:46,160
Speaker 1: my mummy is not on, like literally, she'll be like,

2492
02:05:46,200 --> 02:05:49,520
Speaker 1: by the way, don't tell mom. God. Um. So I'm

2493
02:05:49,560 --> 02:05:51,280
Speaker 1: happy that she was able to go. It looked like

2494
02:05:51,360 --> 02:05:53,160
Speaker 1: it was really fun. It's so funny. My mom texted

2495
02:05:53,240 --> 02:05:55,720
Speaker 1: me day one a news article of like all these

2496
02:05:55,800 --> 02:05:57,440
Speaker 1: people crammed on the beach, and my Mom's like, I

2497
02:05:57,600 --> 02:06:00,360
Speaker 1: guess I have to readjust my expectations, Like I thought

2498
02:06:00,400 --> 02:06:02,320
Speaker 1: we would be the only ones on the beach, and

2499
02:06:02,440 --> 02:06:05,080
Speaker 1: it's like all spring breakers just packed in. I'm like, Mom,

2500
02:06:05,480 --> 02:06:08,640
Speaker 1: where do you live, like se Florida, Florida and March.

2501
02:06:08,720 --> 02:06:11,240
Speaker 1: Hell yeah. My mom like didn't even think about it,

2502
02:06:11,280 --> 02:06:13,560
Speaker 1: and she was like whoa. Um, so they all got

2503
02:06:13,640 --> 02:06:15,520
Speaker 1: a house, like the moms and the kids. But like

2504
02:06:15,640 --> 02:06:18,880
Speaker 1: these kids like they were going out. I think there

2505
02:06:18,920 --> 02:06:22,480
Speaker 1: were some fake ideas involved because it's Florida. Damn. The

2506
02:06:22,680 --> 02:06:25,080
Speaker 1: video showed me they thought they were so cool, saying

2507
02:06:25,160 --> 02:06:30,800
Speaker 1: next to the yes, oh my god, yes, yeah, we're

2508
02:06:30,840 --> 02:06:34,160
Speaker 1: so cool. Was like, come on. They almost gave me

2509
02:06:34,160 --> 02:06:35,840
Speaker 1: a hearty say yeah. So I showed Rufia one of

2510
02:06:35,840 --> 02:06:37,760
Speaker 1: her snapchats. So they were at a bar that looked

2511
02:06:37,760 --> 02:06:39,560
Speaker 1: like I meanbe it was all college kids in high

2512
02:06:39,600 --> 02:06:41,480
Speaker 1: school kids. I don't know. It was very upsetting for me.

2513
02:06:41,960 --> 02:06:44,360
Speaker 1: Some of her friends were like grinding, they were next

2514
02:06:44,440 --> 02:06:47,000
Speaker 1: to the DJ, some like random like white guy. That

2515
02:06:47,120 --> 02:06:49,160
Speaker 1: was really it was just like a table. Yeah, but

2516
02:06:49,280 --> 02:06:51,600
Speaker 1: they thought they were so cool. I am not prepared

2517
02:06:51,640 --> 02:06:54,120
Speaker 1: to have a teenager. I don't know. This is the

2518
02:06:54,200 --> 02:06:57,320
Speaker 1: worst part. I think that she looks up to me

2519
02:06:57,400 --> 02:06:59,480
Speaker 1: too much because her and her friends bought matching I

2520
02:06:59,600 --> 02:07:04,440
Speaker 1: love hot dad's shorts. Oh, Isabella, you're seventeen. Like I'm like,

2521
02:07:04,560 --> 02:07:07,840
Speaker 1: oh my god, what the hell you love on dad.

2522
02:07:08,000 --> 02:07:10,280
Speaker 1: It's kind of a big responsibility when she trusts you

2523
02:07:10,440 --> 02:07:12,800
Speaker 1: enough to like keep her secrets in some ways because

2524
02:07:13,960 --> 02:07:17,160
Speaker 1: you know you want to. It's almost like you're you're liable,

2525
02:07:17,200 --> 02:07:19,840
Speaker 1: You're you're responsible because you know and you want to

2526
02:07:19,880 --> 02:07:22,200
Speaker 1: be the one who knows. But you also don't want

2527
02:07:22,200 --> 02:07:24,120
Speaker 1: to be the one who's responsible if something goes wrong,

2528
02:07:24,200 --> 02:07:26,360
Speaker 1: because it's like, well, Kalen knew it's yeah, you know

2529
02:07:26,400 --> 02:07:28,320
Speaker 1: what I mean. I wouldn't wish it on anyone, because

2530
02:07:28,360 --> 02:07:31,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm really weirdly, Like the age difference put

2531
02:07:31,160 --> 02:07:33,920
Speaker 1: me really weirdly in between my mom and her and

2532
02:07:35,040 --> 02:07:37,760
Speaker 1: she of anyone that's an adult, I'm the only one

2533
02:07:37,800 --> 02:07:40,200
Speaker 1: that knows this information. So I bear the brunt of

2534
02:07:40,280 --> 02:07:42,080
Speaker 1: like the stress and anxiety because I don't want to

2535
02:07:42,080 --> 02:07:44,040
Speaker 1: get my mom worked up, and because I try to

2536
02:07:44,080 --> 02:07:45,560
Speaker 1: work with her on like what's safe and what she

2537
02:07:45,600 --> 02:07:48,640
Speaker 1: should and shouldn't do, like privately so it doesn't cause issues.

2538
02:07:48,680 --> 02:07:50,720
Speaker 1: I mean, my mom's tired. She already raised one kid

2539
02:07:50,760 --> 02:07:53,160
Speaker 1: who's wild, like she can't do another one. Yeah, so

2540
02:07:53,320 --> 02:07:54,680
Speaker 1: I got a step in. I think that's why I

2541
02:07:54,720 --> 02:07:56,960
Speaker 1: like the second. The youngest usually gets away with the

2542
02:07:57,040 --> 02:07:59,320
Speaker 1: most because my parents are tired. It's like I'm done

2543
02:07:59,360 --> 02:08:02,080
Speaker 1: with this. Usually it's that that's the one you should

2544
02:08:02,080 --> 02:08:04,600
Speaker 1: be paying the most attention to, Like my mom just

2545
02:08:04,840 --> 02:08:07,240
Speaker 1: wrote me. And my mom was an incredible mom, but

2546
02:08:07,400 --> 02:08:10,120
Speaker 1: she she insisted I was always up to something I

2547
02:08:10,200 --> 02:08:12,680
Speaker 1: was always thinking I was smarter and credit and I wasn't.

2548
02:08:13,000 --> 02:08:15,920
Speaker 1: I was fearful of my parents. I was scared of

2549
02:08:16,040 --> 02:08:19,000
Speaker 1: my parents as I think he in some ways probably

2550
02:08:19,040 --> 02:08:20,440
Speaker 1: should be not you know what I mean. I was

2551
02:08:20,520 --> 02:08:23,680
Speaker 1: loved and whatever, but like I didn't want to defy them,

2552
02:08:24,280 --> 02:08:26,440
Speaker 1: I didn't want to disappoint them. And she always thought

2553
02:08:26,440 --> 02:08:28,560
Speaker 1: I was up to suf and staying up waiting for

2554
02:08:28,640 --> 02:08:30,240
Speaker 1: me to walk in the door, all the whole thing.

2555
02:08:30,800 --> 02:08:33,360
Speaker 1: And yet my sister got away. There are almost no

2556
02:08:33,480 --> 02:08:36,360
Speaker 1: rules for her, and I'm like, this is the one

2557
02:08:36,880 --> 02:08:40,480
Speaker 1: she's up to stuff. Yeah, the excuses like oh, I'm

2558
02:08:40,520 --> 02:08:42,440
Speaker 1: holding this for a friend this or that. I'm like,

2559
02:08:42,520 --> 02:08:45,080
Speaker 1: you guys are buying this, but I mean whatever, more

2560
02:08:45,120 --> 02:08:47,680
Speaker 1: powered too, But it's just like they are just clearly

2561
02:08:48,200 --> 02:08:50,520
Speaker 1: very exhausted. And the difference between me and her is

2562
02:08:50,560 --> 02:08:53,000
Speaker 1: I did stuff for the social aspect. I've always been

2563
02:08:53,120 --> 02:08:55,520
Speaker 1: very social. She does stuff like rufio for the thrill,

2564
02:08:55,680 --> 02:08:57,600
Speaker 1: Like she likes the thrill of stuff, and that's what

2565
02:08:57,680 --> 02:08:59,520
Speaker 1: scares me. She'd like, dare me to do this, like

2566
02:08:59,680 --> 02:09:00,920
Speaker 1: dare you to jump in the lake with all my

2567
02:09:00,960 --> 02:09:02,400
Speaker 1: clothes on in the middle of winter. I'm like, oh

2568
02:09:02,480 --> 02:09:05,000
Speaker 1: my god, like relax or to get hypothermia. No, yeah,

2569
02:09:05,120 --> 02:09:08,240
Speaker 1: like chill but yeah no, So she's home safely, Thank God.

2570
02:09:08,480 --> 02:09:10,200
Speaker 1: I don't how are you gonna feel when? How are

2571
02:09:10,200 --> 02:09:11,880
Speaker 1: you gonna be when she goes to school next year?

2572
02:09:12,000 --> 02:09:15,280
Speaker 1: You guys are gonna have to just like booze And

2573
02:09:15,960 --> 02:09:17,800
Speaker 1: I don't know because at some point you're gonna have

2574
02:09:17,800 --> 02:09:19,360
Speaker 1: to look the other way because you were doing it.

2575
02:09:19,600 --> 02:09:21,320
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, you can't tell her not to.

2576
02:09:21,640 --> 02:09:24,320
Speaker 1: You just don't know if she's like as street smart

2577
02:09:24,360 --> 02:09:26,720
Speaker 1: as I was. I don't know, Like I was really

2578
02:09:26,800 --> 02:09:30,040
Speaker 1: good at doing bad stuff. That is kind of a burden.

2579
02:09:30,160 --> 02:09:32,800
Speaker 1: But at the same time, at least somebody knows what's

2580
02:09:32,800 --> 02:09:35,040
Speaker 1: going on. And she respects you, and I think she

2581
02:09:35,080 --> 02:09:37,320
Speaker 1: would listen to you if you had like genuine concerns.

2582
02:09:37,480 --> 02:09:39,960
Speaker 1: She does listen to me, but sometimes she rolls her eyes.

2583
02:09:40,000 --> 02:09:43,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, it's a lot, but um, dear blog,

2584
02:09:43,320 --> 02:09:44,800
Speaker 1: I don't know how many people can relate to this.

2585
02:09:45,040 --> 02:09:48,280
Speaker 1: I'm sure a few, maybe not in this room yet

2586
02:09:48,400 --> 02:09:52,080
Speaker 1: or maybe, but um, I love my sister more than anything.

2587
02:09:52,160 --> 02:09:54,760
Speaker 1: I love my mom more than anything, my family, you know,

2588
02:09:55,560 --> 02:09:58,360
Speaker 1: aside from you guys, most important people in my life.

2589
02:09:59,080 --> 02:10:04,000
Speaker 1: And but I'm gonna call out some bus I think

2590
02:10:04,440 --> 02:10:07,520
Speaker 1: I am. I am almost certain that my sister is

2591
02:10:07,680 --> 02:10:11,240
Speaker 1: using my niece Polly as leverage a hundred percent to

2592
02:10:11,440 --> 02:10:14,840
Speaker 1: get things that she wants or things that she doesn't

2593
02:10:14,880 --> 02:10:21,240
Speaker 1: want to pay for, or or to gain position on

2594
02:10:21,440 --> 02:10:23,760
Speaker 1: my mom and maybe on the rest of us. For example,

2595
02:10:24,800 --> 02:10:28,400
Speaker 1: for example, Easter is next weekend. I didn't I thought

2596
02:10:28,440 --> 02:10:30,840
Speaker 1: it was two weekends away, so I'm already behind. Easter

2597
02:10:31,000 --> 02:10:34,440
Speaker 1: is a week from Sunday, and we've been planning on

2598
02:10:34,480 --> 02:10:36,920
Speaker 1: getting together in Arizona because my sister was too busy

2599
02:10:36,960 --> 02:10:38,800
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago when I was on vacation

2600
02:10:38,880 --> 02:10:41,040
Speaker 1: for me to go and see Polly. They had too

2601
02:10:41,080 --> 02:10:43,440
Speaker 1: many activities going on, so I couldn't go see my niece.

2602
02:10:43,680 --> 02:10:47,760
Speaker 1: Too many activities. I'm a little resentful of that, but okay,

2603
02:10:47,920 --> 02:10:51,120
Speaker 1: so okay, fine, Um, So then we with Easter. That

2604
02:10:51,240 --> 02:10:54,200
Speaker 1: was the compromise. We're all gonna go to Arizona where

2605
02:10:54,240 --> 02:10:56,800
Speaker 1: we grew up Easter, and I'm gonna see Polly. It's

2606
02:10:56,800 --> 02:11:00,520
Speaker 1: been six weeks since I've seen Polly, maybe maybe a

2607
02:11:00,520 --> 02:11:05,000
Speaker 1: little bit longer in person, and As of yesterday, it

2608
02:11:05,120 --> 02:11:07,440
Speaker 1: was brought to my attention that no airline ticket has

2609
02:11:07,440 --> 02:11:10,920
Speaker 1: been purchased for this trip, and now it would appear

2610
02:11:11,400 --> 02:11:13,800
Speaker 1: that the tickets are too expensive for them and maybe

2611
02:11:13,840 --> 02:11:15,480
Speaker 1: they won't be able to make it. Now. I don't

2612
02:11:15,680 --> 02:11:18,760
Speaker 1: this is my mom's version of the events. It's possible

2613
02:11:18,800 --> 02:11:21,680
Speaker 1: that I'm incorrect about this, and my mom's like I

2614
02:11:21,800 --> 02:11:23,280
Speaker 1: told her to buy a ticket, you know, I guess

2615
02:11:23,320 --> 02:11:26,240
Speaker 1: we're just not doing it. I have a very hard

2616
02:11:26,280 --> 02:11:30,320
Speaker 1: time believing that Easter will come and go without Polly

2617
02:11:30,600 --> 02:11:34,440
Speaker 1: being in her arms, which means moms buying the airline tickets.

2618
02:11:35,120 --> 02:11:36,600
Speaker 1: And I don't think they do it to be mean

2619
02:11:36,760 --> 02:11:39,000
Speaker 1: or sinister or anything, but I just think it's you know,

2620
02:11:39,120 --> 02:11:41,520
Speaker 1: oh you want it, then you you make it happen.

2621
02:11:42,240 --> 02:11:43,560
Speaker 1: And I think there's a lot of a lot of

2622
02:11:43,640 --> 02:11:47,640
Speaker 1: positioning going on, and we're using the baby. There's leverage

2623
02:11:47,640 --> 02:11:49,880
Speaker 1: because we all want access, we all want to see

2624
02:11:49,920 --> 02:11:53,040
Speaker 1: the baby. What's it gonna take? What's in it for us?

2625
02:11:53,240 --> 02:11:56,040
Speaker 1: Why can't you guys go to them? I don't know.

2626
02:11:56,560 --> 02:11:58,840
Speaker 1: I may have to. I may have to, but my

2627
02:11:58,960 --> 02:12:01,800
Speaker 1: mom is going to be fear us if I wind

2628
02:12:01,880 --> 02:12:04,240
Speaker 1: up in Dallas next weekend and she's not there for

2629
02:12:04,360 --> 02:12:06,400
Speaker 1: Easter's true, so my mom is gonna have my she's

2630
02:12:06,400 --> 02:12:07,720
Speaker 1: gonna have to come to I just don't know what

2631
02:12:07,800 --> 02:12:09,120
Speaker 1: the game is here. I don't know what's going on

2632
02:12:09,240 --> 02:12:12,720
Speaker 1: with surprise. Your mom's an like, hey, pick up your sister. Oh,

2633
02:12:12,760 --> 02:12:15,280
Speaker 1: she tried that, she tried that. My little pup pup

2634
02:12:15,320 --> 02:12:19,200
Speaker 1: playing my mom My mom says this all the time.

2635
02:12:19,200 --> 02:12:21,160
Speaker 1: I got a little my little pup pup playing. You'll know,

2636
02:12:21,200 --> 02:12:22,640
Speaker 1: I fly the dogs in it. You know, it's like

2637
02:12:22,720 --> 02:12:25,440
Speaker 1: my favorite thing. And uh, and my mom will say

2638
02:12:25,440 --> 02:12:26,720
Speaker 1: to me when I go out there, my little pup

2639
02:12:26,800 --> 02:12:28,640
Speaker 1: up thing takes all day to get there. Hey, can

2640
02:12:28,720 --> 02:12:31,080
Speaker 1: you swing? Can you swing into Dallas and pick her

2641
02:12:31,160 --> 02:12:33,240
Speaker 1: up on the way. Have you looked at a map?

2642
02:12:34,920 --> 02:12:38,080
Speaker 1: Are you familiar with geography? I'm not real good at

2643
02:12:38,160 --> 02:12:39,880
Speaker 1: it and I'm a pilot, but I do know that

2644
02:12:40,200 --> 02:12:43,840
Speaker 1: that's pretty far the other way. Can you just pop it?

2645
02:12:43,960 --> 02:12:47,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not a time machine. Oh my god.

2646
02:12:48,120 --> 02:12:52,000
Speaker 1: I feel like the baby's being used as leverage, And yeah,

2647
02:12:52,240 --> 02:12:54,840
Speaker 1: I don't like it. You want to see this, baby,

2648
02:12:55,080 --> 02:12:57,600
Speaker 1: you gotta pay, you gotta pay exactly, baby, you want

2649
02:12:57,640 --> 02:12:59,840
Speaker 1: to see the baby. You better show up down here

2650
02:13:00,280 --> 02:13:04,520
Speaker 1: on our schedule, and you better bring gifts, better have

2651
02:13:04,640 --> 02:13:08,040
Speaker 1: something here, better be something minute for us. Oh now

2652
02:13:08,080 --> 02:13:10,440
Speaker 1: it's gonna be They're gonna go to Dallas, but your

2653
02:13:10,480 --> 02:13:13,480
Speaker 1: mom's gonna be like, hey, come to Arizona first because

2654
02:13:15,600 --> 02:13:20,440
Speaker 1: on the way worse, Well, how do you use ashlands leverage?

2655
02:13:21,240 --> 02:13:23,400
Speaker 1: Or do you yet? As far as like are you

2656
02:13:23,600 --> 02:13:26,240
Speaker 1: do you play? Do you play Ashland? Like, oh, you

2657
02:13:26,280 --> 02:13:28,320
Speaker 1: want to see him? Well you can baby shit him

2658
02:13:28,360 --> 02:13:30,680
Speaker 1: then and then you know whatever, how do you how

2659
02:13:30,720 --> 02:13:32,440
Speaker 1: do you use the kid to your advantage? I mean

2660
02:13:32,560 --> 02:13:35,520
Speaker 1: it's just that we really don't use though. I mean

2661
02:13:35,600 --> 02:13:38,680
Speaker 1: we like I go to my parents' house every weekend,

2662
02:13:38,720 --> 02:13:40,200
Speaker 1: now you know what I'm saying, Like so my dad

2663
02:13:40,240 --> 02:13:42,240
Speaker 1: could see Ashland and my brother could see ash them,

2664
02:13:42,280 --> 02:13:45,120
Speaker 1: but we really don't be like, well you gotta come

2665
02:13:45,160 --> 02:13:47,240
Speaker 1: over here. No, Like I'll get out of the house

2666
02:13:47,280 --> 02:13:49,440
Speaker 1: like where do you want to go? Like and then

2667
02:13:49,480 --> 02:13:51,360
Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh, you haven't seen I do this

2668
02:13:51,520 --> 02:13:54,640
Speaker 1: my dad. So it's like on Sundays and be like, hey,

2669
02:13:55,160 --> 02:13:57,280
Speaker 1: coming over. My dad cooks and I eat and then

2670
02:13:57,400 --> 02:13:59,520
Speaker 1: like he's like, oh, I think Ashley wants to go

2671
02:13:59,560 --> 02:14:02,600
Speaker 1: to the park. So like, my Dad'll be like, Okay,

2672
02:14:02,680 --> 02:14:04,920
Speaker 1: let's go to the park. My asking be like, come on, Dad,

2673
02:14:04,960 --> 02:14:07,440
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm not Dan's gonna stay here. Yeah,

2674
02:14:08,120 --> 02:14:09,920
Speaker 1: Papa's gonna take you to the park for a little bit.

2675
02:14:10,080 --> 02:14:17,000
Speaker 1: Dad's not gonna do anything right now, Dad's tired. That's

2676
02:14:17,040 --> 02:14:20,440
Speaker 1: pretty good. That's pretty good. No, I mean, I guess

2677
02:14:20,480 --> 02:14:24,440
Speaker 1: it happens. I just uh, I don't. I don't like him.

2678
02:14:25,240 --> 02:14:29,360
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm I don't know. We'll see something tells me

2679
02:14:29,440 --> 02:14:32,000
Speaker 1: it all works out. And by the way, I love

2680
02:14:32,080 --> 02:14:35,360
Speaker 1: my sister. I'm not being critical. I love my mom.

2681
02:14:36,200 --> 02:14:39,040
Speaker 1: They got their thing going, they got their completely whatever that.

2682
02:14:39,360 --> 02:14:41,360
Speaker 1: But I think all of a sudden raining from the

2683
02:14:41,440 --> 02:14:43,560
Speaker 1: sky will be Southwest tickets so that one weird I

2684
02:14:43,600 --> 02:14:46,680
Speaker 1: won't be on there. Joe's Cat one of three five

2685
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2686
02:14:50,240 --> 02:14:51,920
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Speaker 1: and Instagram. Search for the Fred Show on the iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 1: The Fred Show TikTok is on there, and Shelby Shelley

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Speaker 1: is coming up next. Nine weeks away from baby show biz?

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Speaker 1: How mmm, how much are you going to leverage this child,

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Speaker 1: the star baby that's emerging from the superstar. I mean,

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Speaker 1: like your mom um, Pam is going to do whatever

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Speaker 1: it takes to see this kid, right, Oh gosh, she'll

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Speaker 1: do what I mean, I don't think I have to

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Speaker 1: really because she'll just show up. I'm sure it's announced

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Speaker 1: many times, but yeah, but I'm what do you think

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Speaker 1: is it? Is it as much leverage as it is,

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Speaker 1: Like it's just hard for them to travel with the baby?

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Speaker 1: You think, like is it just stressful? So that could

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Speaker 1: be part of it. That could be part of it.

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Speaker 1: As if they avoid by buying the ticket, then they

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Speaker 1: don't have to do it, that could be and I

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Speaker 1: respect that they don't. Yeah yeah, but I mean, you

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Speaker 1: know that was my thought because all this stuff I've

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Speaker 1: gotten the house is unreal right now, Like I don't

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Speaker 1: even know what half of it does because we're like,

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Speaker 1: you know, slowly accum letting things for the baby, and

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Speaker 1: it's like, whoa, there's a lot going on here. My

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Speaker 1: mom of course went out and bought double of everything,

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Speaker 1: so like there's a baby basically a full nursery at

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Speaker 1: my mom's house too, so my mom has made no

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Speaker 1: opportunity for excuse. It's like, come on, bring the baby,

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Speaker 1: get out here. I mean when they want to go

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Speaker 1: on a trip for a few days, mom flies out

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Speaker 1: watches the baby, which is wonderful, you know. I mean

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Speaker 1: that's that's what grandparents do. I guess, but um, I

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Speaker 1: you know, I guess it's by appointment only to see

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Speaker 1: the superstar Polly. Now unbelievable. You know, I'm bringing bring

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Speaker 1: food and come and you know, I don't. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: maybe I feel left out. Maybe I feel like I

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Speaker 1: need one for for leverage. So like I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But then my mom seems to like overcompensate with me

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Speaker 1: now because it's like it's basically like is it fair

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Speaker 1: between Polly and me? You know, like she'll buy something

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Speaker 1: for Polly and then she'll call me like she feels guilty.

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Speaker 1: She'd I just bought Polly something and like, you know,

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Speaker 1: do you need anything? And like, Mom, I'm a fully

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Speaker 1: functioning forty one year old man with a career. You

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Speaker 1: don't have to buy me anything. She's like, well, I

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Speaker 1: just want it to be fair. You know. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Is your mom like that with your your siblings, like

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Speaker 1: where she if she does something for one, she wants

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Speaker 1: to do it for everybody. Well, but she's over like

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Speaker 1: but she's very like um, like asking like for very

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Speaker 1: basic needs like oh can I like get this for you?

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Speaker 1: Do you need to go to the bathroom? Like asking

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Speaker 1: me questions that like I'm fully capable if I need

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Speaker 1: to do this thing right, like asking me if I

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Speaker 1: have to do it anyway? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: And that really? I mean, you guys all have siblings,

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Speaker 1: so you're do you think you're a parent and my

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Speaker 1: mom is super generous? But do you think your parents

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Speaker 1: are as aware of fairness between you and your siblings,

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Speaker 1: like things that they do for them they also make

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Speaker 1: sure to do for you. No, no, no, my little

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Speaker 1: sister always got and always will probably get more than me.

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Speaker 1: I've accepted it. I'm fine, Like I'm not hurting about

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Speaker 1: it anymore. I'm peeled, but I know, yeah, I don't,

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Speaker 1: damn it, she's I haven't seen on the couch. Let's

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Speaker 1: talk about it a little bit. Um. I don't you

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Speaker 1: could argue to this because your mom knows that you're

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Speaker 1: more capable. I mean, I don't. I don't not to

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Speaker 1: say you're sisters incapable, but maybe she just she knows

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Speaker 1: you can stand on your own and oh yeah. My

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Speaker 1: mom has admitted that she feels bad for my sister

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Speaker 1: for certain things, and I do too. Don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 1: we have different experiences when it comes to different things. However,

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Speaker 1: I think I've always portrayed more of like a tough

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Speaker 1: exterior than my sister has when it comes to that,

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Speaker 1: and I think that's where it plays a role in it.

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Speaker 1: And she's number two. I always feel like the baby

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Speaker 1: gets taking care of. Yeah, yeah, you think that's true.

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Speaker 1: Feel Yeah, I felt like, I mean, yeah, my brother

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Speaker 1: and I are two years apart, and I felt like

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Speaker 1: I was always like, you know, taking care of because

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Speaker 1: I was the youngest, but like I was also able

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Speaker 1: to do stuff on my own at a younger age.

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Speaker 1: But then at the same time, like when I needed

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Speaker 1: something from my parents are like, oh yeah, sure, whatever,

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Speaker 1: you know. So I think it's because my mom grew

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Speaker 1: up and she didn't necessarily like there was one that

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Speaker 1: was taking that was required my grandparents attention all the time,

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Speaker 1: and I think she resents that so much that for

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Speaker 1: us it's important to her that everything's fair and it

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Speaker 1: doesn't have to be fair, right because like them, having

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Speaker 1: a baby's a much bigger responsibility than me, like waking

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Speaker 1: up and taking an ample are talking on the radio

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Speaker 1: like it doesn't like I can handle it. It's it's okay.

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Speaker 1: But I appreciate that about her. But yeah, your mom's

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Speaker 1: don't like that. My mom does trying to make things fair.

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Speaker 1: But we have such a big age difference that I

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Speaker 1: understand that she. I think she should get more and

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Speaker 1: especially more attention right now. But my mom tries, like

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Speaker 1: money wise on Christmas to keep it the same. Oh yeah, Chris,

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Speaker 1: Holidays are like that, like it's kind of even. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I would understand if it weren't. I mean, alla

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Speaker 1: deserts the shining out of your house. No. When I

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Speaker 1: was growing up, like it was always like a contestacy

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Speaker 1: who had the most boxes in front of them, you know,

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Speaker 1: like interesting, it could be the same money, but like

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Speaker 1: someone could get like a more expensive gift, you know,

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Speaker 1: I guess, but like you know, like you say you

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Speaker 1: want something and then it shows up and then whatever,

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Speaker 1: and then my brother got like socks or something. So

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Speaker 1: I was always hating out with the grandparents. I was

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Speaker 1: with the old people, so nobody was really worried about me.

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Speaker 1: I don't think things are fair with my grandparents. I

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Speaker 1: think I got a lot more than my sister did

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Speaker 1: from my grandparents. I was the first boy. I think

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Speaker 1: that's the deal. So, like my mom, like every now

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Speaker 1: and again, like in a random Wednesday, I'll get a

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Speaker 1: fifteen dollars gift card in my email from Starbucks and

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Speaker 1: it's because my mom bought one from my sister. It's

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Speaker 1: really sweet. No, and she's amazing, Like, it's amazing that

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Speaker 1: she's that thoughtful to think of them. My dad, my

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Speaker 1: dad keeps telling me he could retire if she quit

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Speaker 1: giving away all the money. But like fifteen Bucks, Dad,

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Speaker 1: does she know you go to Duncan day? Um? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: your your mom listens, right, your mom listens every day.

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Speaker 1: I know you could include. I'm gonna have to you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm brand loyal. So they're just plowing up over here.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to get into you guys. I never

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Speaker 1: use them because I constantly a Duncan. I never stop,

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Speaker 1: can't stop, won't stop. Um, Shelley. Shelley showed us up

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Speaker 1: next sense and have a great day. We'll see you guys. Tomorrow,

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Speaker 1: bide