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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Cody, good morning, Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you, good morning. I'm okay. I reached out

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Speaker 2: to you guys.

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Speaker 3: I needed to help with somebody that I was trying

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Speaker 3: to connect with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, you've come to the right place. That's

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Speaker 1: what we do around here. It's called waiting by the phone,

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Speaker 1: and we're trying to figure out on your behalf why

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Speaker 1: you may have been ghosted. So Cody, tell us how

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Speaker 1: you met this woman. Give us all the you know,

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Speaker 1: important details, and then we got to know why you

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Speaker 1: think you're being ghosted. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I met Anya when me and some friends

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Speaker 3: we went to the beach.

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Speaker 2: We were drinking and hanging out all day.

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Speaker 3: It was amazing. I thought I made a real connection.

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Speaker 3: It was like one of those like magical days that

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Speaker 3: I just didn't want to end, you know. And we

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Speaker 3: hung out and at the end of it, I asked

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Speaker 3: for her Instagram and she gave me her information and

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Speaker 3: we started dming back and forth again.

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Speaker 2: Like the flirting was like really strong.

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Speaker 3: I thought like she really was into me, and you know,

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Speaker 3: we made plans to.

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Speaker 2: Go out on a date. But it's out of nowhere,

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Speaker 2: Like I couldn't believe it.

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Speaker 3: One second, it was really hot and everything was going

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Speaker 3: really strong, and then out of nowhere, she just unfollowed

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Speaker 3: me and ghosted me.

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Speaker 2: I don't, I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 1: So the date never happened.

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Speaker 3: Then, No, we had made plans and everything and then

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Speaker 3: it just just nothing.

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Speaker 1: Wow. So you go from like great day, you know,

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Speaker 1: good connection, chatting, talking about a date, planning the date,

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Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, this this woman is gone, unfollowed,

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Speaker 1: can't find her, not responding to anything. I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: you gotta go. That mean, it takes effort to go

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Speaker 1: and find people and unfollow them and block them and

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Speaker 1: whatever else. I mean, this person, something happened and you

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Speaker 1: can't you're thinking back and you can't figure out what

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Speaker 1: it might have been.

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Speaker 3: No, I was just being myself and she was liking

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Speaker 3: me and interacting, and I thought everything was going just

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Speaker 3: fine and.

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Speaker 2: We were being really flirty. And no, I was.

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Speaker 3: You know, taking things are gonna move along, and I

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Speaker 3: was gonna see her again in person, because that one

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Speaker 3: day it was just so I mean, times it's not

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Speaker 3: corny but magical, you know.

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Speaker 1: It's a Hallmark movie in the making until until, of course,

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Speaker 1: the unfollowing the block. But let's call this woman. We'll

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Speaker 1: see if we can get her on the phone. You'll

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Speaker 1: be on the phone as well. And the hope here

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Speaker 1: is that we can figure out what's going on, straighten

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Speaker 1: things out, set you guys up on what I guess

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Speaker 1: is a first date, an actual date, and pay for it.

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Speaker 2: All right, that'd be great, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna see what's up Part two of waiting at

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Speaker 1: the phone right after Holy Serra, there's gonna be in

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Speaker 1: our Rheart Radio music festival in Vegas two minutes away.

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Speaker 1: We're back on a friend show on you. You guys

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Speaker 1: met out in person and uh exchange information. You guys

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Speaker 1: were talking about going on a date. You plan the date,

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Speaker 1: but before it could happen, you were unfollowed. And which

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Speaker 1: is I mean again, that's not like it's one thing

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Speaker 1: to go somebody you know, ignore them. It's another thing

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Speaker 1: to ignore them and unfollow them, and like you're trying

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Speaker 1: to erase them, make them go away, and you want

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Speaker 1: to know why?

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Speaker 2: Please? Anything would be great.

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Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna call her now. Good luck, Cody,

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Well, Hi is this Anya Anya?

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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling for the Friend Show,

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Speaker 1: the morning radio show, and I do have to tell

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Speaker 1: you that we are on the radio right now and

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Speaker 1: I do need your permission to continue with a call.

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Speaker 1: You can hang up at any time, but can we

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Speaker 1: chat for just a second. Yeah, okay, Well, thank you

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Speaker 1: very much. We're calling out behalf of a guy named Cody.

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Speaker 1: I guess you met him out and uh, okay, that

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Speaker 1: probably tells him. But he told us that he met

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Speaker 1: you out and you guys are talking about going out,

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Speaker 1: and now you're ghosting him and you've unfollowed him, and

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Speaker 1: he feels like you're avoiding him. Sounds like you are.

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Speaker 1: So what happened?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Yeah, I mean if I'm on the beach, he

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Speaker 2: looked good.

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Speaker 1: We started floorting or whatever, and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: you know, we can go on a date whatever.

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Speaker 2: But then he's just like so annoying. I just can't

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Speaker 2: do it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Why how did he manage to mess up what

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Speaker 1: sounds like a good first impression leading to now nothing?

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Speaker 2: What did he do? A lot from the gym?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, really in the like fitness or whatever, and

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Speaker 1: the you know, Instagram helps me like stay accountable or whatever, and.

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Speaker 2: Every time I post, he responds correcting my form, insisting

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Speaker 2: that he's going to come over and he's going to

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Speaker 2: train me. And it's just like it's condescending.

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Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing.

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Speaker 2: I never asked for your help. No even critique my

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Speaker 2: meal prepping, like I was making something and he was like,

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Speaker 2: you need to call him back rose this way, and

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Speaker 2: I go, okay, but you're the worst over it.

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Speaker 1: Even if he's trying to help. You barely know this guy.

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Speaker 1: So maybe you get to know him and then maybe

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Speaker 1: he I don't know, slides in some some some thoughts

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Speaker 1: that he has once he has some credibility with you.

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Speaker 1: But otherwise it's like I didn't ask for it in

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Speaker 1: general for.

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Speaker 2: It, I didn't look for it. I didn't say I

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Speaker 2: didn't know what I was doing. He just like is

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Speaker 2: offering himself up like he knows so much, and it's like, no,

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Speaker 2: that's not how we're doing any of this.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it happens with parents. I noticed all the time.

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Speaker 1: You know, you post pictures of your kids and stuff.

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh and someone finds something, Oh yeah, they

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Speaker 1: could choke on that or whatever. It's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: you think I'm not paying attention. Let me bring Cody.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm sorry on you. I forgot to mention

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Speaker 1: that Cody is here. Cody. Why what's the deal? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's the deal with the unsolicited advice on fitness and

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Speaker 1: nutrition and everything else? Why can't she just be and you?

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Speaker 1: You obviously liked her, you thought she was good looking.

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Speaker 3: I'm high, Onya. I'm sorry. I didn't think that you

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Speaker 3: thought that that was annoying. I was just trying to help.

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Speaker 3: I'm really into fitness too. I've got a pretty good body,

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Speaker 3: and I'm working all the time, and I always help

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Speaker 2: And I was just noticing that your form was was

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Speaker 3: Off, and you were lifting a lot of weights that

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Speaker 3: didn't kind of seem to like match your your body

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Speaker 3: type in a way that I thought I could help,

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Speaker 3: you know, And that's what I was just trying to help.

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Speaker 2: I didn't want her to hurt herself, that was all

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Speaker 2: I was thinking.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you had more to say than just

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Speaker 1: being concerned about her well being or you know, her

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Speaker 1: physical health. It sounds like you had something to say

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Speaker 1: about everything she was doing, and she didn't really ask

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Speaker 1: for it, and she doesn't really know you, so you

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Speaker 1: don't have any credibility, so you kind of just look

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Speaker 1: like a hater or like like you're nosy, or or

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Speaker 1: like you know it all.

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Speaker 3: I train a lot of like friends and people that

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Speaker 3: ask me all the time for fitness advice.

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Speaker 1: Just say, do they ask for her?

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Speaker 2: Do you just give it to you?

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Speaker 1: Didn't? Are you that guy at the gym that walks

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Speaker 1: up to women and offers to help them spot them?

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Speaker 2: Are you that guy?

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Speaker 1: I mean, yes, that's a yes, But like, can you

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Speaker 1: understand that she's got a system it's working for her.

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Speaker 1: And again, you obviously thought she was attractive, you liked her,

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Speaker 1: and she liked you, so well, why not maybe just

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Speaker 1: keep you know, your comments to yourself until you guys

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Speaker 1: get to know each other, even if you're right.

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Speaker 2: Such right, I just I didn't want to be like

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Speaker 3: I just thought that it'd be better if somebody said

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Speaker 3: something before she injured herself.

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Speaker 2: Ill, yeah, I know I'm here, you have nothing. I'm good.

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Speaker 4: I mean I don't blame her, Like do you want

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Speaker 4: a girlfriend or you want a client? Like if your

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Speaker 4: dream is to be a trainer. Go be a trainer.

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Speaker 4: I didn't ask me that. I mean, that's annoying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And plus, I mean people, if you're posting your progress

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Speaker 1: and you're happy with the way you look and stuff,

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Speaker 1: and you're making gains and all that, like, uh huh,

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Speaker 1: you don't necessarily want unsolicited advice. Plus you probably I'm

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Speaker 1: sure there's somebody in your life that is helping you

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Speaker 1: with this stuff, or you'll ask questions if you need it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Cody didn't come off right.

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Speaker 2: I guess I made a mistake. I thought I had

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Speaker 3: We talked about this at the beach and how we

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Speaker 3: could help each other, you know, and I must have misjudged. Hey,

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Speaker 3: if she wants to be unhealthy and hurt herself and

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Speaker 3: not get any gains, and she could do it her

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Speaker 3: own messed up way, she's not going to help herself

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Speaker 3: at all online.

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Speaker 2: I see.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well you hear that on you. I mean, if

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Speaker 1: you want, he'd be happy to help you out. But

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Speaker 1: if if you want to continue on this path, oh okay,

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Speaker 1: she's over it. She's done, she's had enough. Yeah, all right, Well,

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Speaker 1: I won't ask the question. Then, so it's not there's

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Speaker 1: not going to be a second date, Cody. Maybe you

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Speaker 1: can help somebody else out someday, but maybe wait for

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Speaker 1: them to ask you for the help first.

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Speaker 2: Next time, how about that.

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Speaker 3: I'd like to try, But you know, if it's always

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Speaker 3: going to be like this, what's the point I see?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, i'm your Thank you for your time, Cody,

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Speaker 1: thank you as well. Best of luck to both of you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report is next in two minutes, three hundred

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