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Speaker 1: Strawberry Lena on time for that? Okay? Subject my sixties

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Speaker 1: That's when my world fell apart. I saw several text

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Speaker 1: found out they have been communicating for two years. Most

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Speaker 1: After I confronted my wife and she said that it

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Speaker 1: By the way, she has become a sex dynamo in

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Speaker 1: the last thirty days. She has been doing and saying

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Speaker 1: am devastated. What is going on? What should I do?

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Speaker 1: I'm really sorry that this happened. I really am, because

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're planning a party for a birthday that

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Speaker 1: And that's what you did when you look through her

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Speaker 1: sadly you found it. Your wife is sexting and maybe

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Speaker 1: So what should you do? You ask? Um? You need

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Speaker 1: to make a decision, you know, and whether you can

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you're seventy years old. Most men can't.

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Speaker 1: need to make a decision. You need to talk to

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Speaker 1: we have a real situation here. Yeah, this is a

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Speaker 1: letter from a professed seventy year old player. It's hard

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Speaker 1: being a seven year old player? Oh hard? Are trying

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Speaker 1: to be a player? Sixty hard? It's hard being a player? Y, Yes,

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Speaker 1: but there are men who do it. This ain't about

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Speaker 1: who's a vixen. A vixen which is the name Lane,

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Speaker 1: so seven test messages between my wife and another man.

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Speaker 1: Damn player. I showed hate. Like Shirley said, if this

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Speaker 1: all her prescriptions. We've got to slow this woman down.

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Speaker 1: You've got to slow her down. Called the CVS, right

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Speaker 1: Like if you sleep with moting two people and he

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Speaker 1: The next thing I need you to do is called medical.

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Speaker 1: Calling people down in medicare, let her know, let them

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Speaker 1: These these are the suggestions that I have for you.

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Speaker 1: After you've done that medicaid and all that. Yeah, then

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Speaker 1: keep us in suspense. We'll be back. Subject my sixty

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Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey morning. Come on, Steve, part two

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Speaker 1: of your response to today's Berry letter. My year old

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Speaker 1: see the only one he's he's got some things he's

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Speaker 1: He sat me, she's sixty five. This is out of

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Speaker 1: No damn, where is she finding the energy and the

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Speaker 1: I can tell you, old player, is you gotta create

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Speaker 1: if you can create havoc in that just that medicaid

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Speaker 1: stop to this. Number one. Number one, tell all of

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Speaker 1: What you cannot do a seventy is do a detour

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Speaker 1: the third one is become a whole yourself. That is

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Speaker 1: all I can tell you, sir. Now that's gonna require

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Speaker 1: get your medicines now your damn self. Wow, how much.

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Speaker 1: They're very expensive, and you don't want to waste one.

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Speaker 1: Trust me, you want to know you're gonna have sex

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Speaker 1: before you take one. They under damn their fifty dollars. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so this got to be real. Hey, hey, we got

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Speaker 1: to be in the bed naked. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Let me let me tell he just don't go down

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Speaker 1: what take I don't know, No, no, don't go down there.

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Speaker 1: It got about twent twenty five minutes, so you could

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Speaker 1: There's a new segment called Jay Note Straight to j Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I go speak to Jacob. I know he gotta answer,

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Speaker 1: but I'm so found out. They damn there fifty dollars

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Speaker 1: a piece. Now you can't do save some money. You

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Speaker 1: the results. So now you just sit there half performing.

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Speaker 1: And so this letter, this seven year old man, he

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Now here's another section of letter, almost left

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Speaker 1: found by the way. She has become a sex dynamo.

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Speaker 1: In the last thirty days. She has been doing and

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Speaker 1: saying things that I've never heard from her before. I

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Speaker 1: am devastated. Let's stop right here, sir, you're too oldly

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Speaker 1: be devastated. You saved me. If she is not doing

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Speaker 1: the same thing that you never heard before, enjoy yourself.

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Speaker 1: Stop being devastated. Take advantage of this. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what she's saying that you seventy that you ain't heard before. Ever.

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Speaker 1: You need to tape it. You need to tap it

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Speaker 1: I don't know what Steve. Can we can we go

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Speaker 1: to Mr j J knows? Can we ask him what

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Speaker 1: is a sex dynamo? What is what is that? No, Shirley,

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Speaker 1: you're interrupted the jokes now you've been I'm sorry. I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying, stop killing jokes. Sitting right here, I'm looking

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Speaker 1: ask Jake, to go to Jake, can I ask him?

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Your polish dropping letter over? You're turning

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Speaker 1: on me now, man, la girl, He's not just timmy

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Speaker 1: this morning. He was late. Oh man, man, I just

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Speaker 1: wanted to know what a sex dynamo was U s

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Speaker 1: where's the harm in that? About it? Let's think about it.

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Speaker 1: She in here saying stuff. He ain't heard us seventy

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Speaker 1: so what could she be saying? She got to be

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Speaker 1: using mo hip turns. Ah, it's cracking. I like that

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Speaker 1: she using a modern terms. Oh, put the nail on it. Ah,

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Speaker 1: that crack. I wanted to know. Eight