1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter of you need advice 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please submit 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click 4 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: on the air, like we're gonna read this crazy letter 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: right here, right now. Bug it up and hold on tight. 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is a Strawberry Letter. 8 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subjects He treats my mother like a dog. 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty eight year old woman 10 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 1: and I recently got engaged to a man who's almost perfect. 11 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 1: We're on the come up and have promising careers, and 12 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: our life plans are laid out. We want the same things. 13 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: But there's one issue. He hate my mother. I admit 14 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: she was a little tough on him when they first met, 15 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: but she only had my best interests at heart. She 16 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: asked him a lot about his background and ambitions, and 17 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: he took it as criticism. She wanted to make sure 18 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: he was responsible and mature, but instead he got offended 19 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: and thought she was questioning his abilities as a man. 20 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: He nicknamed her the Judge and said he'll never be 21 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 1: worthy of her approval. Since we got engaged, it's gotten worse. 22 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: If I talk to her on the phone, he'll ask 23 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: how the fat witch is doing. If I say I'm 24 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: going out with her, he'll say, I'd better not bring 25 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: her bitter butt back to the house with me. He said, 26 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: ass One time she asked me how much my fiance 27 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: was making at his new job, and his stupid behind 28 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: said to tell that nosy to mind her own business. Yeah, 29 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: he called her the B word. Needless to say, I 30 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: hung up the phone before she could respond. He is 31 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: way too comfortable disrespecting my mother, and I don't think 32 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: she's done anything to make him that evil to her. 33 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: I've asked him to stop, but he said he's marrying me, 34 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: not my family, and she started it by looking down 35 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: on him. I don't think she treated him that badly, 36 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: and I think he's being overly sensitive. My mother has 37 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 1: told my aunt and my brother about how my fiance 38 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: treats her, and now they're all in my business and 39 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: questioning my relationship. Mostly everything else about him is perfect, 40 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: but I hate the way he treats my Mother's my 41 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: mother to blame at all? How do I fix their 42 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: relationship before our wedding. Wedding, wedding wedding, you're still considering 43 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: marrying him? Why he's not worthy of anything like that? 44 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: You don't need to marry this guy. This guy disrespects 45 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: your mother. What are you talking about? Really? I mean, 46 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: you're twenty eight. You said your mother only had his 47 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: best interests at heart, your best interests at heart. But 48 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: he took it at as criticism. That's on him, not 49 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: your mother. That's what parents do before you get married. 50 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: They meet your you know, intended person. They talk to him, 51 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: they get to know him. They want to see where 52 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,239 Speaker 1: his head is. You know, is he good enough? Is 53 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,119 Speaker 1: he worthy enough to be marrying their their child? That's 54 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: what parents do. Okay, he calls her to judge, he's 55 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: calling her to B word? What what you let him 56 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 1: call your mother the B word? You're right, he is 57 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: way too comfortable disrespecting your mother and you shouldn't allow this. 58 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 1: You shouldn't be marrying this guy. Stop this wedding, stop 59 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: all of this, give him his ring back. You don't, 60 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: because guess what, it's not going to get any better. 61 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: It's not going to change, it's only going to get worse. 62 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: If you think about or consider marrying this guy. You 63 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: need to stop this now. I'm sure your brother has 64 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: the right idea because he's gonna let him know. That's 65 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: his mother too. You know. Yeah, you hate the way 66 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: he treats your mother because you should, but you still 67 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: he treats your mother one way, and you still don't. 68 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: Please don't marry this man. No you ask is your 69 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: mother to blame at all for what being a mother 70 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: for looking out for her daughter's best interest. No, your 71 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: mother is not to blame. You can't fix their relationship 72 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: before the wedding because it's ruined because he doesn't respect 73 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: your mother. Because he called your mother a bee, there's 74 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 1: nothing to fix. He called her a fat, which there's 75 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: nothing to fix here. Come on, now, come on, come on, 76 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: come on, don't let this go down like this. Don't 77 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: let this man disrespect and talk to your talk about 78 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 1: your mother like this. Steve, Please, sister, at twenty eight 79 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: years old, I'm gonna have to tell you some things. Now, 80 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: you're twenty eight years old. You got engaged to a man. 81 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: You say it's almost perfect. Nobody is, and nobody ain't 82 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: almost perfect either, Ain't nobody even close. But you think 83 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: you got something perfect, but you got a letter full 84 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: of stuff than ain't perfect. See you're looking at the room. 85 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: You look at a lot of superficial stuff. Y'all want 86 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: the same things. Y'all got some promising careers. But there's 87 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: one issue. He eat your mother, one of the people 88 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: that you love dealing. He manages to hate her all because, 89 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: like you say, you'll admit she was a little tough 90 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: on him when they first met. She only had your 91 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: best interests at heart, like Shelly said, that's what parents do. 92 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: She asked him a lot about his background and ambitious, 93 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: and he took it as criticism. She wanted to make 94 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: sure he was responsible and mature. Okay, well we'll get 95 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: to that in a second, because that's gonna come back 96 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 1: to play. But instead he got offended and thought she 97 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: was questioning his abilities as a man. He nicknamed her 98 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: the judge and said he'll never be worthy of her approval. 99 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: And since we've gotten engaged, has gotten worse. Now, excuse me, 100 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: you mean to tell me that all this hate came 101 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: from a simple line of question. She didn't go out 102 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: there and bust the windows in his car. She ain't 103 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 1: keyed up to car. She broke his glasses. She ain't 104 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: took his cell phone and went through it. She had 105 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: a line of questioning about his intent with his daughter, 106 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 1: just to see maybe if maybe, if the daughter was 107 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: overlooking something. So in this line of questioning, he hates her. 108 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 1: I was talking to on the phone and he'd asked 109 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 1: how that fat which is doing. I say, I'm going 110 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 1: out with He said, you better than not bring that 111 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: big ass back to this house with me. One time 112 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: he asked me, She asked me how much a fiance 113 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: was making at his new job. His stupid behind said, 114 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 1: to hell with that nosy b I and to mind 115 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 1: her own business. Are you serious? All right, We'll have 116 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: part two of Steve's responds coming up at twenty three 117 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. The subject of the Strawberry letter 118 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: is he treats my mother like a dog. Coming back 119 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, 120 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject he treats my mother 121 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: like a dog. Twenty year old woman is engaged to 122 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: this guy. She said, it is almost perfect excep. He 123 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: has one problem. He hates his mother. Her mother Now, 124 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: she said, She'll admitted She was tough on the man 125 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: when he came over, but she only had my best 126 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: interest at heart. She asked him a lot about his 127 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: background ambitions, and he took it his criticism. She wanted 128 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 1: to be sure he was responsible and mature. Let's keep 129 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: that in mind because I'm gonna show you something. But 130 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: instead he got offended and thought she was questioning his 131 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: abilities as a man. Nicknamed her to judge, said it 132 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: never be worth of her approval. Okay, now he's mad 133 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: over a line of questioning, a line of questioning, and 134 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: he's that mad. Now you just said your mother was 135 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: trying to make sure he was responsible and mature. Well, 136 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: a line of questioning has him acting this way. This 137 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: is a line of questioning. I'm gonna show you again 138 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: in the letter. Since you've gotten engaged, it's gotten worse. 139 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: If I talked to her on the phone, he'll ask 140 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: how that fat witch is doing. That's mature, that's what 141 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: you The woman ain't even talking about him. She all 142 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: types of fat witches. Yeah, okay. If I'd say I'm 143 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: going out with her, he'll say, don't bring that bit 144 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: of ass back to the house with you. One time 145 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: she asked me how much my fiance was making at 146 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: his job. His stupid behind said, tell that nosy b 147 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: I to mind her own business. God, needless to say, 148 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: I hung up the phone so she could respond. Wait 149 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: a minute, that was your reaction. Ye, wait a minute, 150 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: needless to say, you hung up the phone before she 151 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: could respond. Wow, that was your reaction. I'm gonna tell 152 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: you right now, you're not calling my mama b I TC. 153 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: You're not going. I don't care who you are. I'm sorry. 154 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 1: Maybe it'scause I'm a man, but I don't know no 155 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: women going with you gonna let you do that either. 156 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 1: And see it's disrespectful, it's immature, and it shows a 157 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:11,719 Speaker 1: nonsense of responsibility. Now he's way too comfortable disrespect to 158 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: my mother. But you letting me Ye see, it ain't 159 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: no repercussions. You disrespect you. My mama hit his ring back. 160 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 1: But you're so caught up in the career and y'all 161 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 1: got the same likes and a promise in future, you're 162 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: letting this man get away with murder. I got news 163 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: for you. Your mama ain't been to only be the 164 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 1: only b I TCH. I got news for you. This 165 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 1: is after a line of questioning what you're gonna be 166 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: when y'all hit a couple of hard rocks in the road, 167 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: Because you're gonna hit him. What are you going to 168 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: be when he when you start staying him, Because you're 169 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: gonna staying just like she stung you with a simple 170 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: line of questions. What about when you started saying him, 171 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: staying him with some accusations? Oh, your wife's gonna accuse 172 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: you of something. It ain't always cheat. She gonna accuse 173 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: you a lying, accuse you looking at somebody. She gonna 174 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: accuse you of being some way you said you wasn't. 175 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: She gonna accuse you or not loving her like you 176 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: used to. She gonna accuse you of not paying her 177 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: proper attention. She's gonna kill your wife, gonna accuse you 178 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: or something. So now what you find to be when 179 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: he gets the calling? When when when you get to 180 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 1: accuse you, you fit to be a being a whole 181 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: lot more, Little girl, I'm telling you it don't stop 182 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,439 Speaker 1: at the mama. So I don't think she treated him 183 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: that badly, and I think he's being over sensitive. My 184 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: mother was told has told my aunt and my older 185 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 1: brother about how my fiance treats her and now they 186 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: all up in my business question in my relationship? Ye, 187 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 1: my older brother yes, ho ho ho ho. My sisters 188 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: would have been married to somebody, and somebody told them 189 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: two damn brothers of mind's heavy in turn that one 190 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: of them called I lost gil or b. I t 191 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: what why I can't tell you? Listen, listen to me. 192 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: I'm telling you what's happening with your damn brother. Y'all 193 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: taking too much in y'all house. Y'all must be bullishie 194 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 1: or something. Mostly everything about him is perfect. What well, 195 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: let me show you a couple of things. But I 196 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:13,840 Speaker 1: hate the way he treats my mother. It's my mother 197 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: to blame it all. How do I fix that relationship? 198 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 1: You keep talking about getting married? Are you stupid? Listen 199 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 1: to me. Let me tell you something. He's irresponsible and immature. 200 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 1: Let me show him to me you. He should care 201 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: about what you care about. He should love the things 202 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: that you love. His job is to protect your heart. 203 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 1: It ain't his job to make you happy, but it's 204 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,439 Speaker 1: his job to protect your heart. A man takes a 205 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: wife to protect a heart. Provide profess protect Now, I 206 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 1: don't he don't let me tell you something. He don't 207 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: just not respect her. He don't respect you at all. 208 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: He's calling your mother a BT's what's are you? Are 209 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: you not understanding this? That disrespect. This disrespect is just 210 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: not aimed at your mother. It's aimed directly at you 211 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 1: when you go out with her. Don't bring this old 212 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: blankety blank back to this house when she want to 213 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: know how much he may tell that knows in b 214 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 1: I tch to mind her business? Are you nuts? Are 215 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: you nuts? I'm surprised your brother ain't feed his ass. Yes, 216 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: I promise you my brothers there is no way they 217 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: let they live die. It ain't no way. Look, little girl, 218 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:42,839 Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing. I don't know how 219 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: you keep calling this man perfect but he not. But 220 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: I am forewarning you this disrespect that he has for 221 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:52,319 Speaker 1: his mother, it's gonna flood over in other areas. A 222 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: disrespectful person is a disrespectful person. It don't stay in 223 00:12:56,280 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 1: a category. It spreads round. And as soon as you, Jim, 224 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:02,319 Speaker 1: you've been to beat that in a whole lot more, 225 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,319 Speaker 1: little girl, All right, coming up at forty six minutes 226 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: after the hour, our girl, Cheryl Underwood, right after this, 227 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: you're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show,