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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. Jeff is on the phone

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Speaker 1: today for a first date follow up, and he's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted by a woman named Caitlyn's. In a few minutes,

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Speaker 1: we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 1: she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.

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Speaker 1: But first, Jeff, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 1: talked to Caitlin.

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Speaker 2: It's been like two weeks.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Have you been trying to hit her up in

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Speaker 1: that time?

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Speaker 2: I did. I texted her about four or five times.

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Speaker 1: Oh, sorry, not to be so shocked with that's a lot. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, and you've heard nothing back.

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Speaker 2: Nope, I haven't heard anything back, unfortunately. Yeah, I may.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it was because of the text

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Speaker 2: or what.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what'd you say on the text?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Well, initially said like, you know, hey, no it

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Speaker 2: wasn't technically date, but you know, I had a great

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Speaker 2: time and I really love to take you out for real,

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Speaker 2: you know. And I said like, if you're if you're

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Speaker 2: not feeling I totally understand, you know, just just let

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Speaker 2: me know. And uh yeah, And then after that I

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Speaker 2: don't know, it's been a couple more.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, I think now you need to tell us

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Speaker 1: about the date.

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Speaker 2: You know, we we've been on the same dodgeball team

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Speaker 2: and you know I've been kind of crushing on her

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Speaker 2: all season, and uh, you know, after our team won

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Speaker 2: a big game, we all went out to celebrate at

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Speaker 2: a bar nearby, Okay, and a couple of drinks in, uh,

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Speaker 2: Kaylen started flirting with me pretty hard, and uh, you know,

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Speaker 2: just laughing at everything I said, like touching my arm

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Speaker 2: type of thing. You know, I was. I was pretty

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Speaker 2: sight and one thing led to another and we ended

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Speaker 2: up going home together and you know, chemistry was pretty insane.

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Speaker 2: She seemed really into me, and the next morning we

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Speaker 2: just kissed goodbye and said see you at practice.

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Speaker 1: That was it.

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Speaker 2: Huh. Yeah, everything seemed really perfect. And now you know

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Speaker 2: she's not responding.

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Speaker 1: Have you had practice since?

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Speaker 2: Not since? No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you don't know if she's going to be

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Speaker 1: dodging you there either.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not sure.

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Speaker 1: So how did you leave it?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you said that you'll see each other, but

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Speaker 3: she did it sound like she wanted to see you

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Speaker 3: again outside of practice or it was just more like thanks.

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Speaker 2: I mean, nothing was really like specifically said, but that's

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Speaker 2: the feeling I got, Like I thought we would definitely

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Speaker 2: see each other again considering it went so.

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Speaker 1: Well, Okay, what do you think happened? Why do you

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Speaker 1: think she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think, you know, maybe my text came on too strong,

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Speaker 2: you know, I told her like I you know, I

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Speaker 2: never thought i'd be into a dodgeball girl.

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Speaker 1: And like the dodgeball girl Escape.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I usually played Escape real life. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: you know, you've kind of become a new reason to

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Speaker 2: show up to practice, and you know, I mostly had

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Speaker 2: a great time with you. I can't wait to see

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Speaker 2: you again, and you know, and then I was like,

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Speaker 2: I didn't mean mostly agnt, like I really did, you know,

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Speaker 2: my text were kind of clunky.

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Speaker 1: Jeff is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 1: a woman named Caitlyn. So we're about to call her

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Speaker 1: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him

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Speaker 1: and maybe get him a second date. But before we

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Speaker 1: do that, Jeff, why don't you break down your day

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Speaker 1: to getting with Kaitlyn for us real quick?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we went out to celebrate the big game

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Speaker 2: win and you know, had a few drinks, ended up

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Speaker 2: going back to my place and yeah, everything went great.

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Speaker 2: And upon texting her later, there was no response. And

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Speaker 2: I think I may have came on too strong.

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Speaker 1: And when you say big game, you mean dodgeball game,

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Speaker 1: not the super Bowl. Okay, all right, okay, Well we're

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Speaker 1: gonna try to call her right now. You're ready to go?

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Speaker 2: I'm ready?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Caitlyn. Please.

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Speaker 2: This is she.

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Speaker 1: Hey Caitlin, how are you. This is a radio show.

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Speaker 1: It's called The Jubil Show. Hi, Caitlyn. My name is Nina.

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Speaker 1: I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbell. What's up?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Hi? Is that reason why I'm getting called right now?

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Speaker 1: Yes? There is. Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I have?

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Speaker 1: Okay, cool, Well, maybe Caitlyn you've heard a first Date

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Speaker 1: follow up. That's the segment we do where if you

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Speaker 1: go on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,

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Speaker 1: that person can email us to call you and ask

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Speaker 1: why you're ghosting them. Do you have any idea who

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Speaker 1: would email us?

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Speaker 4: Is it recent?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Pretty recent? I would say, within like three weeks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I know. Yeah, is his name Jeff?

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Speaker 1: Yes, his name is Jeff. Can you tell us why

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Speaker 1: you're ghosting Jeff? He really likes you and wants to know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, isn't a little personal. But he makes these

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Speaker 3: dodgeball sound effects when we were intimate.

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Speaker 1: How he makes dodgeball sound effects when you guys.

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Speaker 3: Are internet whispering things in my ear like incoming and

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Speaker 3: like you can't dodge this one.

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Speaker 4: He like tapped my head, but he yelled, that's a

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Speaker 4: direct hit. The worst part, The worst part was.

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Speaker 3: Like when he finished, he said game, set match, My

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Speaker 3: body was like something to finish.

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Speaker 4: And it was like so comfortable.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting. Yeah, huh, okay, you guys and you guys

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Speaker 1: met on your dodgeball team.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, he's nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but he uses dodgeball like he says dodgeball

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Speaker 1: stuff while you guys are doing stuff.

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Speaker 4: That just really makes me good.

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Speaker 1: So you're just not into dodgeball the same way, not

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Speaker 1: into dodgeball to talk.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I just I don't think it's sexy.

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Speaker 3: It's like someone says sudden death over time, like while

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Speaker 3: we're doing things together, and no, like at one point

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Speaker 3: he rolled away and he whispered, coach would be proud.

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Speaker 1: What Oh yeah, well all right, thank you Caitlin for

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Speaker 1: telling us. Yeah, that's that. I mean, I don't I

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Speaker 1: don't know for some people that might be sexy obviously

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Speaker 1: for Jeff, it is And Jeff is on the phone

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Speaker 1: listening right now and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: No really, yeah, oh my god, no, Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 4: Jeff?

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Speaker 2: I'm good. I was just bummed out that I haven't

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Speaker 2: heard from you. But I get now, I know. Why

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Speaker 2: are you just really like competitive and you know, dodgeball park?

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Speaker 5: Here?

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Speaker 1: I am okay, so you you do do that, Jeff,

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Speaker 1: like in the bedroom you'll say dodgeball stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I thought it was playful banner. I

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Speaker 2: mean she called me m v P at the bar.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, So that was the green light for

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Speaker 3: you to go in with it double down.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like.

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Speaker 5: You know, okay, right, Yeah, I need a man and

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Speaker 5: not a pe teacher with the whistle fantasy.

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Speaker 2: So that's kind of why the teacher. You're a dogball girl,

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Speaker 2: you know, I figured you'd like it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but not in bed, you know, like I have

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Speaker 3: a life outside of dodgeball, like in bed for example,

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Speaker 3: it's just like, you know, for a baker, you're not

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Speaker 3: going to use that in bed baking terms, right, like

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Speaker 3: yeas activator, definitely don't use that in bed.

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Speaker 2: I mean I would. I would totally like going on

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Speaker 2: the baking terms or the case.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she's saying she wants to baking talk.

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Speaker 1: I think she's saying she didn't like the dodgeball talk during.

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Speaker 2: I mean, baking is cool, like we could do baking.

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Speaker 4: No, that's not the toy.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want dodgeball to be like when we were,

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Speaker 3: you know, doing our stuffs.

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Speaker 4: I just yeah, it was. It was a little much

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Speaker 4: for me, you know, But.

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Speaker 2: Like, what are you into then?

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I feel like a.

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Speaker 4: Lot of people are into just like someone who's.

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Speaker 3: Like chill, you know, we just do your thing and

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Speaker 3: let the let the chemistry go. It's way like I.

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Speaker 2: Was at the high spot. Was probably too much, but like.

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Speaker 1: I like to dive five might be kind of fun. No, no, hey, Caitlyn,

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Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Jeff again? We'll

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Speaker 1: pay for it.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I just no, can I five after?

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Speaker 1: Are you sure?

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Speaker 3: I just really can't hear the un here the direct

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Speaker 3: hit in my head. It's you know, it's not the

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Speaker 3: best memory I have.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I could have said Grand Slam, but that

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Speaker 2: would be more date ball.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Hey, well Jeff, I'm sorry you did not get

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Speaker 1: a second date, but you tried.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, thanks for trying. Anyway, if I trying to

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Speaker 2: bring that championship energy, you know, but like didn't work out.

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Speaker 1: It's okay. Now all of them are hell run. He

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Speaker 1: will be somebody's