1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: When my kid was five years old from Memphis, back 2 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 1: when one of them was five. If they wrote a 3 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: letter to Santa Claus and put a stamp on it, 4 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: does it just get to. 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 2: You, guys? Somehow does the Post office honor that tradition? 6 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: How does it work? That's how it works, no kidding. 7 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 3: It works if it says a guy in the big 8 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 3: red suit. If it says North Pole, you know it's 9 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 3: that Christmas season. If we could be that way all 10 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 3: year long, wouldn't it be wonderful? I mean, everybody along 11 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 3: the way will add an address, will add PO Box one, 12 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 3: Santa Claus, Indiana. This past season we called from Thanksgiving 13 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 3: to Christmas over twenty three thousand letters. 14 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,959 Speaker 1: We'll see three thousand letters that have to be answered. 15 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, and some years it's thirty thousand. 16 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: Welcome to an army of normal folks. I'm Bill Cortney. 17 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: I'm a normal guy. I'm a husband, I'm a father, 18 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: I'm an entrepreneur, and I've been a football coach an 19 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: inner city Memphis. And the last part unintentionally led to 20 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: an oscar for the film about our team. It's called Undefeated. Guys, 21 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: I believe our country's problems will never be solved by 22 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: a bunch of fancy people in nice suits talking big 23 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:31,119 Speaker 1: words that nobody understands on CNN and Fox, but rather 24 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: by an army of normal folks us just you and 25 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: me deciding hey, I can help. That's what Pat Cook, 26 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: the voice we just heard, has done. Pat is the 27 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: chief Elf, believe it or not, of Santa Claus, Indiana, 28 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: a town that somehow got that name and somehow gets 29 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 1: tens of thousands of letters addressed to Santa Claus every 30 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: single year, and Pat and her army of elves have 31 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: carried on a legacy of responding to each of those 32 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: letters every Christmas. I cannot wait for you to meet Pat. 33 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: Right after these brief messages from our general sponsors, today's 34 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 1: episode is really going to be fun. It is after 35 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: having conversations about some really deep subject matter with addiction 36 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: and unwed mothers and tattoo removal and a lot of heavy, 37 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: heavy stuff we've talked about over the last few weeks. 38 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 2: I'm really looking forward to our chat today. 39 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: We're talking with miss Pat Cook from Santa Claus, Indiana 40 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: hat store. He goes way back and it's really interesting 41 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: and Pat, I just want to thank you so much 42 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: for joining me today. 43 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. 44 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 3: I'm glad to be here. Love to talk to people, 45 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 3: love to talk about the town. Really, I'm so in 46 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 3: love with the town and with the wonderful people who 47 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 3: bring joy to so many kids. 48 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 1: Well, you know, my first exposure to Santa Claus, Indiana 49 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: is just a street sign. 50 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: Really. 51 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: I think there's an exit somewhere in Indiana, there's an 52 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: exit on the Interstate that there's a sign that says 53 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: Santa Claus, Indiana. 54 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 2: If I'm not right, isn't that right? Yes? 55 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I was driving down the Interstate going to 56 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: sell lumber up in Elkhart, Indiana, on the way from 57 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: Memphis on my first trip up there twenty something years ago, 58 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: and I remember passing that sign, and of course I 59 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: giggled to myself, like anybody, my giggles, who would name 60 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: a town in Santa Claus, Indiana? 61 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 2: And you know, it just it was kind of a 62 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 2: warm chuckle. And to be speaking with you. 63 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: Now, So first of all, tell me about you, Tell 64 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: me about when you're born, and tell me about you know, 65 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: how you got to Santa Claus, and just give me 66 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:20,679 Speaker 1: a little background on the pat world. 67 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 3: Okay, I was born Patricia Anna in a little German 68 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 3: town called Maria Hilf, which means Mary Help. Very Roman 69 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 3: Catholic part of the world, very German. Was born August fourteenth, 70 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 3: nineteen thirty one. 71 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 2: Nineteen thirty one, you're at least forty. 72 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 3: Now, I am, yes, a little bit over. 73 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 2: Nineteen thirty one. 74 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: Pat, you put the year out there, that's I'm sixty nine, 75 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: seventy nine, how old? 76 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 2: That's ninety I need three or so. 77 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 3: I'm ninety two and a half. 78 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 2: Wow, that is amazing. And I'm gonna tell you something. 79 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 1: You know, an army of normal folks is audio only, 80 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: so people don't get to see you. 81 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 2: But Pat, you are handling ninety three like a champ. 82 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 2: You look great. You don't look ninety three. I don't 83 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 2: know what ninety three is supposed to look like, but 84 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 2: that's not it. 85 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 3: Oh that's right. I don't know either. I don't know 86 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 3: how I'm supposed to look or at so I just 87 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 3: knew me. No, I'm very fortunate. My mother was a beautiful, 88 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 3: lovely woman who lived to be ninety eight, had beautiful 89 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 3: white hair. Grew up there and to the Benedictine's sisters 90 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 3: from Ferdinand Indiana, who have a great beautiful monastery there 91 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 3: only about fifteen miles away where the teachers in the 92 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 3: grade school grades one to eight. So grades one to 93 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 3: four we're in one room. In grades five to eight 94 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 3: we're in another room. And we got an absolutely wonderful education. 95 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:02,119 Speaker 3: We learned to read, write and spell, we learned to pray, 96 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,799 Speaker 3: We learned and learned to spinging, singing German and Latin. 97 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 3: And I'm very grateful, grateful for that wonderful education. How 98 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 3: to write cursive, imagine that. And then I went to 99 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 3: Dale High School, which was also about ten miles away, 100 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 3: and it was actually just a it was not a 101 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 3: Catholic high school. I met some other people from other 102 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:29,799 Speaker 3: religions and other walks of life, small Towndale, great basketball team. 103 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 3: Loved high school, loved every bit of it. Cheerleader on 104 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:38,679 Speaker 3: the student council, all that stuff, got involved, had bunches 105 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 3: of meetings, had a lot of fun. Loved my high 106 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 3: school years. My mother and father they sort of let 107 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,799 Speaker 3: I only had one brother and he was three years 108 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 3: older than me, so he graduated from high school and 109 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 3: joined the navy and left home. My dad had It's 110 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 3: hard for me to tell this whole story. But my dad, 111 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 3: dad had been in the navy for fourteen years and 112 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 3: had left the navy early because he had had that 113 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 3: he and my mother had had my brother, and he 114 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 3: went back to Mura Hill and saw the beauty of 115 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 3: a small town and decided to leave the navy and 116 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 3: come back to Mariah Hill. And that's what he did 117 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 3: in nineteen thirty So I was born. Then the year 118 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 3: later he had had a roadhouse in Chicago during Prohibition. Wonderful, 119 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 3: great stories they told about getting their beer cakes at night, 120 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 3: in the dark of night with men with guns, and well, 121 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 3: I had a childhood of being in My father built 122 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 3: the first tavern that they built, called the Diamond Tavern. 123 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 3: I have pictures of myself in front of that. I 124 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 3: don't know if that burned or I don't know if 125 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 3: he if they just demolished it or what. But then 126 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 3: he built the chateau because he had been in France 127 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 3: during World War One and he loved the chateaus. It 128 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 3: was a beautiful brick structure. It looked like a chateau. 129 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 3: So I grew up in a bar, pool room, and 130 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 3: dance hall, and that was a lot of fun. 131 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 2: I bet it was a lot of fun. It was 132 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 2: a lot of fun. 133 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 3: I learned to play pool at a very young age. 134 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:21,239 Speaker 3: My mother took me to tap dancing lessons. I learned 135 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 3: tap dance, so in the dance part of the room 136 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 3: of the chateau, I would dance, so people would throw 137 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 3: quarters and nickels at me. So I was an entrepreneur 138 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 3: from the very beginning. And of course I lived through 139 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 3: World War Two. I was born in thirty one, so 140 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 3: you're talking forty one, forty seven, and forty six. Saw 141 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 3: the soldiers coming home, sitting at the bar having a 142 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:52,319 Speaker 3: beer and then seeing a flag in the window meaning 143 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 3: a gold star mother, and we lost a lot of 144 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 3: young men, a lot of young men. So I grew 145 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 3: up during that. But that was my high school days. 146 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 3: So except for being aware of rationing gas, rushing sugar, 147 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 3: rationing coffee, we had. My father then went to work 148 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 3: in Evansville as a shipyard supervisor because in Evansville, Indiana, 149 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 3: they made the LSTs on the Ohio River. You know 150 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 3: what the LSTs were? 151 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 2: First? They were? 152 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 3: What my first question. 153 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 2: To you LST. I don't tell me. 154 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: I really want to guess LST were I No, I 155 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: don't know it doesn't sound like an overly large boat, 156 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: so maybe recon boats. 157 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 3: LST stands for landing ships tanks really, and they were 158 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 3: very large. They were made so that they had a 159 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 3: huge There is one still in Evansville that's on display 160 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 3: in his history Oracle LST. And my father accompanied them 161 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 3: to New Orleans and handed them over to the navy. 162 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: Are they the boats with the with the big thing 163 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 1: that flops down so the troops get in them, they 164 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 1: go to an assaulted beach, the front flops down and 165 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: everybody runs off the front office. 166 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 3: They were at Normandy. They were at Normandy. They were 167 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 3: at Evil Regima. 168 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:26,719 Speaker 1: Yes, everybody that's watched the World War two movie has 169 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: seen those. And your father overseed the manufacturing, oversaw the manufacture. 170 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 2: Of those, and my mother Christen, no kidding, that is wow? 171 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 3: What is Yes? So the war came and Dad was 172 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 3: in Evansville, and so my brother, my mother and I 173 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 3: were running the chateau and we had to close. I 174 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 3: think it was ten o'clock. It had to be dark, 175 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 3: I know that. But so I spent more time in 176 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 3: the after school, I'd be in the chateau and it 177 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 3: was an interesting, interesting way to start your life. Then 178 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 3: I went to Dale High School, and somehow or other, 179 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 3: the sisters had put into my being a love for education, 180 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 3: a love for learning. I love to read, I love 181 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 3: to spell, I love to do English. Didn't like math 182 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 3: very much, but so I really wanted an education after 183 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 3: high school. Now that I was a girl, you know, 184 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 3: in nineteen forty eight, I graduated from high school at 185 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 3: the age of sixteen. Because three of us either did 186 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 3: grades two and three at one year, or we skipped. 187 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 3: We don't know. The other girl has passed away. The 188 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 3: other boy is a priest in a nursing home and 189 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:51,439 Speaker 3: he doesn't know either. But we were all three good readers, 190 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 3: good spellers. I don't think we learned much math. But anyway, 191 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 3: I graduated of sixteen, and I thought I want to 192 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 3: go to college. My mom and dad had both had 193 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 3: six grade educations, really weren't very interested in that. So 194 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 3: I worked for a year to be a little older 195 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 3: to be able to apply to a nursing school. And 196 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 3: I tell this story to young women and boys too. 197 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 3: But for some strange reason, first I went into the 198 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:25,680 Speaker 3: principal's office and said I'd like to go to college 199 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 3: because four boys in our class had gone to college. 200 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 3: No girls, are you? They went to Nana University and 201 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 3: I said I'd like to go to college, and my 202 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 3: wonderful principal, who was a good man, said to me, 203 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 3: why would a girl want to go to college. That 204 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 3: was the end of my quest for college. And I 205 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 3: really didn't think I had a chance, but I wanted 206 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 3: an education. So I went to Dale, got on the 207 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 3: greyhound bus by myself, which I have no idea how 208 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 3: I did that, went to Evansville, Indiana where the Sister 209 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 3: Daughters of Charity. I don't know, Bill, if you know, 210 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 3: they're the ones with the big wings, with the find. 211 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 2: The big hats, big hats. 212 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 3: They were in charge of that hospital. And I wrote 213 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 3: myself to nursing school. That was my beginning to I 214 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 3: guess my life. 215 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: And now a few messages from our general sponsors. But first, 216 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 1: if an army of normal folks has impacted you or 217 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 1: inspired you to take action, I really want to hear 218 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: about it. Write me anytime at Bill at normalfolks dot 219 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: us and I'll respond. 220 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 2: I want to hear about it. We'll be right back. 221 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 3: The first year of nurses training made a lot of friends, 222 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 3: had a lot of fun, Big town of Evansville, INDWNA, 223 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 3: which is on the Ohio River, boating out to Duck Island, 224 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 3: doing a lot of fun stuff, but love nursing. The 225 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 3: beginning of the second year of nurses training, a very 226 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 3: charismatic priest named Father I knew his name, I forgot it. 227 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 3: In a big, long black cassock with a belt of 228 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 3: leather and sandals came in to give a retreat and 229 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 3: talk to us about our religion and about you know, 230 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 3: being Catholic and that sort of thing. And he was 231 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 3: so wonderful. He talked about serving and giving and not 232 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 3: thinking of south but thinking of others. And I was hooked. 233 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 3: And so I went home and told my mom and 234 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 3: dad that I wanted to be a sister, and I 235 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 3: wanted to be the kind of sister that ran that 236 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 3: hospital because they were fun. They weren't boring, they were fun, 237 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 3: They laughed, they joked, they were very professional, they were 238 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 3: very smart, they were very educated. And that's what I 239 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 3: wanted to be. And so I had to wait a 240 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 3: year till I was almost eighteen, got into the Daughters 241 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 3: of Charity and was sent to Saint Louis to what 242 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 3: they called the postulancy, and that was three months and 243 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 3: then a year in seminary at the mother House, beautiful, 244 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 3: beautiful building. A year of almost complete silence. We talked 245 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 3: only at recreation, which was twice a day. Big change 246 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 3: from this girl that was having a lot of fun 247 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 3: is training, dating and doing all the things young women do. 248 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 3: But I thoroughly enjoyed it. It was peaceful. I felt 249 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 3: like I was becoming someone I wasn't before. So at 250 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 3: the end of that year and three months, almost a 251 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 3: year and a half, I received the habit, which was 252 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 3: the big hat and the beautiful blue outfit, and was 253 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 3: sent to a hotel, New House of God in New 254 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 3: Orleans to complete my RN and then was spential Loyola 255 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 3: University part time to get a bachelor's degree. So I 256 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 3: spent about five years in New Orleans. 257 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 2: Loved it. 258 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 3: Wonderful town, you know, the people loved the sisters. They 259 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 3: had been in that hospital. They had Charity Hospital, which 260 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 3: was a very poor hospital that took in very poor people, 261 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 3: and I did my pediatric experience there. Psychiatric hospital also 262 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 3: belonged to them, so it was just a wonderful experience. 263 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,679 Speaker 3: But then I had a wonderful the Daughter's to Charity, 264 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 3: the head of the hospital was called the Sister Servant. 265 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:17,679 Speaker 3: I think that's an amazing title. Servant. You know, she 266 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 3: was the servant of the hospital, the servant of the sisters, 267 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 3: the servant of the patients. And she was such a 268 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 3: role model to me. I just admired her. She was 269 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 3: once again, smart, fair, tough, absolutely knew her business, knew 270 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 3: how to. She said to me one time something I 271 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 3: never forgot. I'm not running a person at popularity contest, 272 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 3: I'm running a hospital. And she did that. And so 273 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 3: at some point after the five years there, I got 274 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 3: word that I was to go to Saint Louis University 275 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 3: to get a bachelor's degree in nursing full time. Did 276 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 3: that full time. Love that, loved it, loved going to school, 277 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 3: loved stayed at the mother House where there was prayer 278 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 3: and beautiful chapel. After that mission, which was mean, I 279 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 3: was sent to Chicago, Saint Joseph's Hospital in Chicago, whole 280 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 3: different world, whole different world. I was still, you know, eighteen, 281 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 3: know I was older that I was twenty by that time. 282 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 3: And that hospital, the Sister Servant was not like the 283 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 3: one had been in New Orleans. We worked so very hard, 284 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 3: moving beds empty and garbage, doing laundry. There wasn't as 285 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 3: much time for fun, if that's the right word. In 286 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:46,360 Speaker 3: New Orleans, Sister Carlo said, let us go out into 287 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 3: Carter and buy somebody to look at Christmas lights. We 288 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 3: went out to lake concentrating and jumped in the water. 289 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 3: Things that gave us courage again to keep on going. 290 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 3: But that wasn't the case in Chicago. And one night 291 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 3: I got a call from somebody, and I know not who. 292 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 3: I can't remember that like it happened that my father 293 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 3: had had a heart attack at the American Legion, which 294 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 3: he founded because he was a veteran in Santa Claus. 295 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,239 Speaker 3: Santa Claus American Legion, and they said my father had 296 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 3: had a heart attack and they had brought him home. 297 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 3: My mother was ill, my brother was in the navy, 298 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 3: and I was never The Daughters of Charity were never 299 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 3: allowed to come back home after they entered the Order. 300 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 3: It was a rule that Saint Vincent Paul made because 301 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 3: he went home to his father and mother one time 302 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 3: and then he hesitated to go back to his parish, 303 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 3: so he said, you will not return home ever. So 304 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 3: I was not ever supposed to go home but I said, 305 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 3: I've been taking care of all these people in New 306 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 3: Orleans and in Chicago, and I should be able to 307 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 3: take care of my mother and father. They were alone. 308 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 3: My mother wasn't well, and so I did that. I 309 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 3: left probably one of the hardest things I ever did 310 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 3: in my life. Really, it was just very difficult. I 311 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 3: loved the daughters, I loved nursing. It was a great life. 312 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 1: It is amazing to me that from sixteen to twenty 313 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: you have more life than some people too, back in 314 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 1: their thirties. 315 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:31,440 Speaker 3: Came home on the train from Saint Louis to Washington, Indiana. 316 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 3: It was February and it was sewing like crazy. I 317 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 3: was wearing a It was I think Squad Valley. You 318 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 3: remember Squad Valley Olympics, right skiing yep. And I had 319 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 3: on a cap because we had practically no hair under 320 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 3: all of that. 321 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 2: Had to go. 322 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 3: Find some clothes, didn't have clothes, didn't know what size 323 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 3: of war, didn't know anything, didn't know about a hamburger, 324 00:20:56,280 --> 00:21:01,439 Speaker 3: didn't know much. But got on that train and my 325 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 3: mother said, I can't come get you, and Dad come 326 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 3: catch you. So we're going to send Bill. Bill was 327 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 3: built Cook Koch his family had a business in Evansville, 328 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 3: and his father had come to Santa Claus, Indiana after 329 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 3: he retired with a heart attack, to find out that 330 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 3: there's nothing in Santa Claus, Indiana for children. And he 331 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 3: had nine children, and he was a very good grandpa, dad, 332 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 3: wonderful man, very smart. Cook family is very smart. And 333 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 3: so he went to Santa Claus, Indiana and said, I 334 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 3: have to do something. There's to be something here for children. 335 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 3: So he built a very small theme park called Santa 336 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 3: claus Land, and it was built for small children. At 337 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 3: that time, his son, Bill had been in the Navy, 338 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 3: graduated from the Naval Academy, come back home, started to 339 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 3: get into the family business in Evansville, decided it wasn't 340 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 3: for him and asked his father if he could come 341 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 3: to Santa Claus and take over that little park. And 342 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 3: his father told me that he didn't think it would 343 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 3: make anything. It was just going to be a little 344 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 3: kiddy park. And so he came there in forty seven. 345 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure because grandpa started the park in forty six. 346 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 3: And so the man that my mother sent to pick 347 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,679 Speaker 3: me up at the train station was that Bill. 348 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:45,199 Speaker 1: Cook, who's who ends up being my husband. So you 349 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 1: grow up. Your father's a World War two, a World 350 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 1: War one vat. Then he's building the boats that we 351 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,959 Speaker 1: used to go to Normandy and he would GiMA, you 352 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 1: want to learn and go to college. 353 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 2: You end up coming a nun. 354 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 1: Then you leave being a nun to take care of 355 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 1: your ailing parents, and you end up in lo and 356 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: behold Santa Claus and end up marrying the guy that 357 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: picks you up to take you to your parents' house. 358 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 2: What a crazy story. 359 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 3: So let's we were married forty years. He was sixteen 360 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 3: years older than me, and well, Natalie sitting here, they're 361 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 3: very smart. So my kids are really smart because I'm 362 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 3: married a smart man. 363 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: But I think they have a pretty smart mob too. 364 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 3: It was a great marriage because if you can't tell, 365 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 3: I'm the people person. He was the engineer, graduate, Naval Academy, 366 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 3: numbers guy, planner, dreamer. I was the down to earth 367 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 3: let's get this work done. We were a great team. 368 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 2: That's an awesome story. We'll be right back. 369 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 1: So you're in Santa Claus, and Santa Claus the city 370 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 1: who names the town Santa Claus. 371 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 2: How did that happen? 372 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,719 Speaker 3: Well, you know, I started in a museum, so in 373 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 3: the museum you have to come see us. There is 374 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 3: the document eighteen fifty six. There was a postmaster in Fulda, 375 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 3: and he decided that this little town that my grandmother 376 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:39,960 Speaker 3: called Santa Fe, Grandma Apollonia always called the town center Fee. 377 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 3: Now I thought it was she was wrong that in 378 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 3: my day we didn't correct our grandparents. So she was right. 379 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:51,160 Speaker 3: It was Santa Fe. And we have a plat map 380 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 3: of the town of Santa Fe. Very rural, but it 381 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:59,640 Speaker 3: was laid out in streets. It had creamery, a school, 382 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 3: a doctor and in residence, and it was a very 383 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 3: small town. So the guy from full to the postmaster 384 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,679 Speaker 3: thought they need a post office, and he applied to 385 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 3: Washington City, it says up at the top of the 386 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:19,360 Speaker 3: document for a post office, and gave the description, and 387 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 3: whoever looked at that said, choose another name than Santa Fe. 388 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 3: I don't know if they weren't very smart, or if 389 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 3: they didn't see the two ease, or what happened. But 390 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 3: there was already a post office called Santa Fe in Indiana, 391 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 3: so someone who I can't find out wrote Santa Claus 392 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 3: at the bottom of black ink. Were no computers, so 393 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 3: it's just it said Santa Claus, and that somebody marked 394 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 3: through that, and somebody wrote seed lick or sad lick 395 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 3: over here that was crossed through, and then somebody wrote 396 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 3: Santa Close with an eat, which is not correct. But 397 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 3: the magic of that whole thing is that the postmaster 398 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,440 Speaker 3: who asks for that town to get a post office 399 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,920 Speaker 3: called Santa Claus was named Nicolaus Fisher. 400 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 2: You've got to be kidnaped like Saint Nick. Yep, it's 401 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 2: all that is. 402 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: That is iriny of iriny. And so all this happened 403 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: in the mid eighteen hundreds. 404 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 3: Yes, eighteen fifty six, right, Natalik again unbelievable. 405 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: So now because of the United States Postal Service, this 406 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,479 Speaker 1: little town in Indiana, Santa Fee becomes Santa Claus so 407 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: they can get a post office. 408 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 2: But later when your dad's their letters start arriving. 409 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 3: We are told that letters were arriving in nineteen fourteen, 410 00:26:54,080 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 3: but we can't find any document about that. But we 411 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 3: do have a history of the line of postmasters, and 412 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 3: we do have the original post office building, which was 413 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 3: a log building, and I have that moved on the 414 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:15,160 Speaker 3: grounds of the museum. It is there, very small log 415 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 3: covered over now the logs covered over. But it was 416 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 3: a very small building with a fireplace and no bathroom, 417 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 3: so I'm sure there was an outhouse, probably a spring, 418 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 3: I don't know, but that's how they lived. So yes, 419 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 3: then Dad when he came home in thirty and built 420 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,400 Speaker 3: the Diamond Tavern and then the chateau. You know, he 421 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,439 Speaker 3: was very interested in the town and he would go 422 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:48,119 Speaker 3: visit the postmaster at that time Martin James Martin. A 423 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,880 Speaker 3: lot of people from that area were from Alsis, Lorraine, 424 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 3: which was sometimes under the fringe, sometimes under the German, 425 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 3: so they were actually Marten, but it got changed to 426 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 3: Martin in the United States. And my dad saw how 427 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 3: many letters they were getting that were from children to 428 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 3: the town of Santa Claus, and with his love for 429 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 3: now didn't put in the peace of why my dad 430 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 3: really got interested in helping kids and being Santa Claus. 431 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 3: When he was in the Navy and he was nineteen 432 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 3: years old, he was on a ship called the USS 433 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 3: New York in Brooklyn Navy Yard and they decided to 434 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 3: have a Christmas party for children, they called them disadvantaged children, 435 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,920 Speaker 3: and they were preparing for the party and somebody in 436 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 3: command said, we need a Santa Claus. What will we do? 437 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 3: Somebody else said, there's a guy down in the engine 438 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 3: room that says he's from Santa Claus, Indiana. Why don't 439 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 3: we ask him? That was my dad. 440 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 2: That's hilarious, isn't it. 441 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 3: And I have the picture of him on board ship 442 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 3: in the worst outfit you ever in the life, the 443 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 3: worst beard you've ever seen, this artificial beer. But the 444 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 3: kids all around him just so excited and so happy. 445 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 3: And he told me, and it's in literature that he 446 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 3: made a vow to God that if he lived through 447 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 3: the war, he would be Santa Claus. 448 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 2: And ends up living in Santa Claus. 449 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 3: In Maria Hill, but spent most of his time in 450 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 3: Santa Claus. And that's when he saw the postmaster being 451 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 3: inundated with letters and said, I have to do something 452 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 3: to help these. This postmaster is so busy, he can't 453 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 3: do all of this. So he started picking up letters 454 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 3: and putting him in his car, taking around to schools, 455 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 3: to the sisters of Ferdinand. There's an abbey at Saint 456 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 3: Minrid Typing class Adale High School. Whoever could answer letters? 457 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 3: God letters, you know, it just became his passion. And 458 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,760 Speaker 3: then he just started being Santa Claus more and more 459 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,440 Speaker 3: and more and being more involved in that with going 460 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 3: to lead. He was a big legionaire. So he would 461 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 3: go to legions for Christmas parties and wait. He was 462 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 3: in parades in New York, Miami. He just flew in 463 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 3: a helicopter to in Annapolis, Hotoy, and I'll be sho. 464 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 3: He became famous. Really, he was on so many programs. 465 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 3: But he was such a veteran. He was such a 466 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 3: caring person, He was such a a he loved kids, 467 00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 3: and he was Santa Claus then from nineteen thirty one 468 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 3: until nineteen eighty four when he passed away fifty three years. 469 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: Things are so much different today and handedly I've raised 470 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 1: for kids, and it seems like with more and more TV, 471 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 1: more and more social media, and more and more exposure 472 00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 1: kids expectations and wishes and dreams are vastly different today 473 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 1: when I was only a kid, and I'm sure I 474 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 1: was vastly different than two generations before me. 475 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 2: Do you have a sense of what a kid's. 476 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 1: Letter back in the nineteen thirties and forties to Santa Claus, 477 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:21,600 Speaker 1: what they asked for? 478 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 3: Yes, my father saved them. I have them at the museum. 479 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 1: Amazing, What did they say? Give me a couple of 480 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 1: examples of your favorite. 481 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 3: Almost tell you. This letter comes from Catherine, and Catherine 482 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 3: says that she's writing for her brothers and sisters. She 483 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 3: asks for gloves for John Mitten's first I can't name 484 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 3: the children, but it was gloves, underwear. Mitten sucks shoes. 485 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 3: And then she says, mama's fat, but she doesn't want anything. 486 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 3: And then she names all the children and they were 487 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 3: like twelve, eleven, ten, nine, eight, and she says, and 488 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 3: the others are dead. 489 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 2: Wow. 490 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 3: And she says, I'm writing this for them, and so 491 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 3: if you could bring them something, I would be so happy. 492 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 3: And that letter is in a book that I have 493 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 3: co authored that's Letters to Santa from nineteen thirty on. 494 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 3: They're written on all kinds of paper. They're all like that, 495 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 3: asking just for the things they need, food, clothing. And 496 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 3: then it actually when you see the letters, it's almost 497 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 3: history because you can see how it changed eventually. Now 498 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 3: it's computers. 499 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 1: Well, And I wonder when you think about that context 500 00:32:56,200 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: and people today that say they're broke or they're or 501 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 1: they really have they really are losing sight of what 502 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 1: people only a couple of generations back really suffered. 503 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 2: In our country. 504 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 3: Yes, but I think some people today are suffering like 505 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 3: that because they don't have the means that they would 506 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,479 Speaker 3: like to have. My grandmother who stayed with when we 507 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 3: my moment Dad would be at the chateau, she spoke 508 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 3: German and she would walk out in the garden with 509 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 3: third night in the nineteen forties and she would say, 510 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 3: as he's new molchendo. That translates not well to it 511 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 3: is no longer nice here. So Grandma, who at that 512 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 3: time probably was in her sixties, thought it wasn't nice 513 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 3: in the forties. And I think that's that's culture, or 514 00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 3: that's just the way it is. Things changed, and I 515 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 3: don't like that much change. I know that, he said. Yesterday, No, 516 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,759 Speaker 3: last night, I was at a book club and this 517 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 3: woman said children have no respect these days. And I 518 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 3: stopped and I said, there are some children who don't 519 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:22,400 Speaker 3: have respect. But two weeks ago, I was at the 520 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:26,880 Speaker 3: local high school, lucky to be there when the sophomore 521 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 3: girls from the two high schools in our county, South 522 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 3: Spencer and North Spencer came together in a wonderful program 523 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 3: called Aspire, and it was done by the Chamber of 524 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 3: Commerce and some other organizations that they would bring in 525 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 3: professional women to talk to these young women in sophomore 526 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,840 Speaker 3: classes in our high schools to give them an idea 527 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 3: of what they could do, that they can do things, 528 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 3: that they can get an education. And those young peop 529 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 3: this was a whole high school gym full of young women. 530 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 3: We're so respectful. So they listened, they took part, and 531 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 3: they moved around from table to table to talk to 532 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 3: a doctor, to a chiropractor, to a hairdresser, to a mother, 533 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 3: to a chef, all these different people so they'd get 534 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 3: an idea of what they might want to be. While 535 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,279 Speaker 3: I talked to some children, there was one who wants 536 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,880 Speaker 3: to join the FBI, there was one who wants to 537 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 3: be an engineer. There's one who wanted to be a mother. 538 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:38,320 Speaker 3: And those young people, there are still those young people 539 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,720 Speaker 3: in the world, and we just hear about the bad ones. 540 00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 2: I love that perspective. 541 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 1: And that concludes part one of my conversation with Pat Cook, 542 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 1: and you don't want to miss part two that's now 543 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 1: available to listen to as the Chief Elf will warm 544 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:02,719 Speaker 1: your heart even more. Together, guys, we can change the country, 545 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 1: but it starts with you. I'll see in part two