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<v Speaker 1>Broadcasting live from the Abraham Lincoln Radio Studio, the George

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<v Speaker 1>Washington Broadcast Center, Jack Armstrong and Joe Getty.

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<v Speaker 2>Arm Strong and Getty and now he Armstrong and Yetty.

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<v Speaker 2>DeMarcus Williams University of Georgia. C J. Jackson, Wayne State University,

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<v Speaker 2>Tavarious Nith King, Mary mc College, Kyle Royal, Smoochie Wallace

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<v Speaker 2>University of Miami, the Squerious Green Junior University of Notre Dame,

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<v Speaker 2>Ibraheim moy Zeus University of Tennessee of Chattanooga.

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<v Speaker 1>Jack Mary's Tech, Theatrix Michigan State University.

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<v Speaker 2>The Oia T. Billings Clade Coastal Carolina University, the.

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<v Speaker 1>Jack we Probe, and Cruck the Third soft Line of

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<v Speaker 1>State University. Oh my god, that's the genius Key and

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<v Speaker 1>Peel bit from Yesteryeares.

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<v Speaker 2>The names keep getting more. What the hell is that name?

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<v Speaker 2>And uh which you're not supposed to comment on. I

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<v Speaker 2>guess Key and Peel they're black so they can make

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<v Speaker 2>these jokes. I guess because it's kind of a cultural thing.

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<v Speaker 2>How long is that bit? I've never heard the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 2>but that is funny. It goes on for some time.

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<v Speaker 2>We got a little more. The third Leon Maxwell, Jillio

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<v Speaker 2>Heath Carolina University.

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<v Speaker 1>Jamaris Jamar, Jamarris and Lamar University of Middle Tennessee.

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<v Speaker 2>Devoine shower Hand University of Southern Mississippi, Kingo mc kringle

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<v Speaker 2>Berry penn State University.

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<v Speaker 1>Lecarpetron, Duke Marriott Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>And Jncklage Morgoon University of South Florida, ex Miss Jackson

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<v Speaker 2>Flex and Waxing Warning University of Pennsylvania. Oh God, that's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Man Patron number one pick in the NFL Draft

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<v Speaker 1>last night, Young cam Ward, quarterback out of Miami.

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<v Speaker 2>And that concludes our football segment. So speaking of college

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<v Speaker 2>cry with laughter. That is really really funny. I'll bet

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<v Speaker 2>when they were writing those I can see them and

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<v Speaker 2>the writers sitting around just dying making up those names.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's two guys doing all those voices. They really

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<v Speaker 1>are gifted comedians, both of them. So we I think

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<v Speaker 1>we played this yesterday. Michael hit me with the clip fourteen.

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<v Speaker 1>This is anti Israel quote unquote protesters at Yale blocking

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<v Speaker 1>Jewish students from going to class.

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<v Speaker 2>You can only we can only go around probably.

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<v Speaker 3>Blocking Jewish students from going to class, telling them, now

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<v Speaker 3>you walk around the way to class in the United

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<v Speaker 3>States of America into twenty twenty five, and these are

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<v Speaker 3>so called progressives.

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<v Speaker 1>That happened yesterday, two days ago. I believe no way, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you're kidding me. Yeah, yeah, I know. It's crazy. The

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<v Speaker 1>Yale University has stripped the Schools Students for Justice in

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<v Speaker 1>Palestine chapter of its status recognized student group.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I gotta say this, even though I've said it

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred times and it's the most predictable, obvious commentary.

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<v Speaker 2>You shouldn't make money making the most obvious commentary in

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<v Speaker 2>the world, But here it is. If a conservative stopped

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<v Speaker 2>one trans kid from doing anything on a college campus,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, Joe Biden would have given a speech about

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<v Speaker 2>it that night from the overlaps. Correct.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, AOC would have whipped wept bitter tears. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>letting Jewish kids go to class. It's just unbelievable, all right, right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know one of the best definitions of anti Semitism

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<v Speaker 1>I've come across is that you there and there's a

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<v Speaker 1>like two sides through this. A you hold Jews to

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<v Speaker 1>a different set of standards than everyone else, and or

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<v Speaker 1>you hold everyone else to different standards when they're abusing

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<v Speaker 1>Jews than when they're abusing other people. Yeah, that's true, kids, transgender,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, whomever.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what is more troubling. If it's about

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that they're Jewish, or if it's just that

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<v Speaker 2>whole What is that term, the powerful versus the unpowerful? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the victim of pressor Yeah, if it's the because the

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<v Speaker 2>victim pressure thing, that's so troubling because you can just

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<v Speaker 2>to apply it to so many things, and it's just

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<v Speaker 2>a really toxic view of the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. You know, there's some pretty good scholarship on the

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<v Speaker 1>particulars change, but it always ends.

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<v Speaker 2>Up in anti Semitism. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The excuse here is we're not anti Semites, we're anti Zionists. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought i'd to point out that, and to

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<v Speaker 1>their credit, and I haven't dug deep into this so far,

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<v Speaker 1>Yale University seems to be doing at least some of

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<v Speaker 1>the right things, saying we're yanking your accreditation, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>get to do anything on campus anymore. So that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good step. So moving on to Harvard. A couple

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<v Speaker 1>of notes from Harvard, including one final glimpse into Matt

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<v Speaker 1>Tybee's fabulous and hilarious piece recently about them Harvard's endowment

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<v Speaker 1>fifty plus billion dollars or whatever it is, and their

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<v Speaker 1>financial picture. This is maybe apropos nothing, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>found it very very interesting. A lot of people mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>that their university president makes over a million dollars or

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<v Speaker 1>roughly a million dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 1>That wow, But in their last disclosure, the highest salaries

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<v Speaker 1>were earned by the Harvard management company who administers their

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<v Speaker 1>gigantic endowment.

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<v Speaker 2>I was about to say, I don't have a real

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<v Speaker 2>handle on what an endowment is or is used or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I suppose I should look into that. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>if you've got it invested in any way that it's

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<v Speaker 2>earning interest or something, how do you need any money

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<v Speaker 2>from anybody?

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<v Speaker 1>Ever?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Fifty well efty some billion dollars. Well, here's the hilarious part.

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<v Speaker 1>Your your tenth place person at Harvard earns two point two.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you go up to three point nine, four point two,

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<v Speaker 1>five point one, five point one, five point nine, six

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<v Speaker 1>point six, seven point six, and your highest paid Harvard

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<v Speaker 1>employee who runs the Uh, what did I just call it?

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<v Speaker 1>The corporation made nine point six million dollars and their endowment,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a big pot of money you invest to

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<v Speaker 1>grow it's that's it, and you can use it for

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you want. They did worse than an index fund.

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<v Speaker 1>If you'd just bought an index fund of the S

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<v Speaker 1>and P five hundred, it would have outperformed the Harvard Corporation.

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<v Speaker 1>And this guy got paid nine point six You take

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<v Speaker 1>the top ten at totals fifty million subsidized dollars spent

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<v Speaker 1>on a team that would have lost to an S

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<v Speaker 1>ANDP index fund.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, it's funny because I was about to say, well,

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<v Speaker 2>they earned the money if they're investing properly, but you

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<v Speaker 2>just pointed out they're not. Right now, Jack and Wi

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<v Speaker 2>the money because you wouldn't have to be a genius

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<v Speaker 2>to put it in, you know, just follow an index fund.

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<v Speaker 2>Just get a freaking index fund. Yes, no kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>We can either take a break now, or we can

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<v Speaker 1>squeeze some of this in here and have a shorter segment.

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<v Speaker 2>Next.

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<v Speaker 1>Two really interesting pieces of writing. First of all, James Hankins,

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<v Speaker 1>who is a conservative Harvard professor apparently there is one,

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<v Speaker 1>wrote a piece for the Wall Street Journal a conservative

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<v Speaker 1>Harvard professor on how the university can save itself, and

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<v Speaker 1>also in the Wall Street Journal on a different day,

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<v Speaker 1>a long time Ivy League educator wrote a piece entitled

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<v Speaker 1>Harvard is an Islamist outpost.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to squeeze in both of those. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to hear that. That's interesting, and they're both really

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<v Speaker 2>really good.

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<v Speaker 1>The We'll let you decide whether you think the conservative

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<v Speaker 1>professor is right.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Hanson, could you post that key and peel thing

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<v Speaker 2>at Armstrong and getty dot com so it's easily findable

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<v Speaker 2>because as flipping funny, You know.

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<v Speaker 1>What's funny is it goes on for quite some time

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<v Speaker 1>and just keeps getting funnier.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that is l ol funny. Okay, we

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<v Speaker 2>had a lot of them away. Stay here. Dion Sanders kid,

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<v Speaker 2>and Dion Sanders was featured on sixty Minutes last year,

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<v Speaker 2>so I feel like some of you know who he is,

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<v Speaker 2>famous football player. I didn't realize his kid was. At

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<v Speaker 2>one time it thought to be the the number one

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<v Speaker 2>pick in the entire draft, certainly a first rounder, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>high friend rounder. And then he didn't go at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Last night is interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Happens every year. Yeah, it's got to be brutal, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you get over at trust. Well, some people

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<v Speaker 1>thought of.

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<v Speaker 2>It in your life. A lot of it was his

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<v Speaker 2>attitude is to brash, and his dad was like the

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<v Speaker 2>brashest of brash human beings who's ever walked the planet.

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<v Speaker 2>So what did you think? I don't know, Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>uh So.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of different think pieces from a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>different people about Harvard that I found really really interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>The first from a conservative Harvard professor by the name

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<v Speaker 1>of James Hankins, and it's it's long, it's interesting, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just give you some highlights. The first is somewhat ironic.

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<v Speaker 1>Mister Hankins, who I'm sure is a nice fellow. Probably

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Hankins is h I definitely. I think he's got

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of the well, yes, we have beatings here

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<v Speaker 1>at our office, but only one a day.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's gotten so used to his.

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<v Speaker 1>Environs he doesn't quite get how strange they are. He

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<v Speaker 1>mentions that the statistic is off, cited that at most

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<v Speaker 1>three percent of Harvard faculty members identify as conservative, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's one of that three percent. He's been there for

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<v Speaker 1>forty years, he says, But if you look at the numbers,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty two percent say they're very liberal and forty five

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<v Speaker 1>percent liberal. That takes us to seventy seven percent and

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<v Speaker 1>twenty percent or so who confess to being moderate by

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<v Speaker 1>the standards of Harvard.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I'm guessing in your mind ninety seven percent, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm guessing your moderate's a little different than my moderate. Well, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And his point is a lot of the so called

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<v Speaker 1>liberals come up to him and say, please, don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>anyone I said this, and then they unload their disgust.

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<v Speaker 1>The latest activist outrages his point being there a lot

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<v Speaker 1>more reasonable people visa VI, the real radical progressive left,

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<v Speaker 1>the student you know, jackasses.

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<v Speaker 2>But what's funny is he's trying to.

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<v Speaker 1>Explain that it's not as radical left as you think.

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<v Speaker 1>And I came away thinking, you people are insanely left.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that ain't working on me.

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<v Speaker 1>What was that first number of the most the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>number is thirty two percent are very liberal and and

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<v Speaker 1>again that's their definition of very liberal. Would make your

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<v Speaker 1>head spin. Yeah, they think Karl Marx was a moderate. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and forty percent merely liberal. But yeah, Anyway, his effort

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<v Speaker 1>to say it's not as crazy as you think just

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<v Speaker 1>reminded me of how crazy it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically, it's on a couple of university people I know

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<v Speaker 2>who consider themselves moderate liberals, and I never say anything,

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<v Speaker 2>but they are way out there. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>And he said most of the scholars are just scholars

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<v Speaker 1>and scientists who want to get on with their work

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<v Speaker 1>and teach the next generation. And he gets into the

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<v Speaker 1>budget cuts and some of the back and forth with

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<v Speaker 1>the Trump administration, which is, you know, it's fine, it's good,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a discussion worth having. He makes the point that

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<v Speaker 1>the current president, Alan Garber, has actually made some really good,

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<v Speaker 1>strong steps. He's trying to rain in the crazies and

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<v Speaker 1>restore some semblance of the free exercise of speech and

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<v Speaker 1>intellectual honesty and openness.

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<v Speaker 2>Blah blah blah blah blah. What universities.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's like it's like having to remind the

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<v Speaker 1>hospital you remember you're supposed to treat people's medical problems here.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the fact that you have to remind them

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<v Speaker 1>of that is a measure of how insane it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But he says, yeah, the new guy's actually doing some

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<v Speaker 1>good stuff. Yeah, maybe he is, maybe he isn't. But

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<v Speaker 1>at last point I found kind of interesting. And he says,

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<v Speaker 1>the one inescapable truth and higher education is that he

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<v Speaker 1>who pays the piper calls the tune and he and

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<v Speaker 1>he goes into Harvard's finances, which are really interesting but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to bore you with but he finishes

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<v Speaker 1>this way, there are very good reasons for Harvard or

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<v Speaker 1>other universities to reduce our financial dependence on the federal government. Instead,

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<v Speaker 1>we should strengthen ties with loyal alumni you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>love Harvard blah blah blah, because every administration that comes

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<v Speaker 1>in is going to tell you, now, you got to

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<v Speaker 1>do this, got to do that. And he says a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the DEI crap pressures to regulate speech, trigger warnings,

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<v Speaker 1>pronouns came through political pressure as opposed to internal pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So you know to what extent that's true, I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, they are bloated and progressive and radicals and lunatics.

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<v Speaker 1>In my opinion, I wish him luck in his future endeavors.

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<v Speaker 1>But good Lord, ninety seven to three, that's not reassuring.

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<v Speaker 1>Then this from Ruth Weiss or Wissa. She's the author

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<v Speaker 1>of a memoir about Judaism. Really interesting. I read a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about it. But her piece is entitled Harvard

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<v Speaker 1>is an Islamist outpost. For decades, it nurtured resentful leftists

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<v Speaker 1>and anti Semitism, united them in a common cause. And

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<v Speaker 1>she compares and contrasts in two thousand and one in

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<v Speaker 1>the wake of nine to eleven. And oh, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>she taught at Harvard from nineteen ninety three through twenty fourteen,

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<v Speaker 1>so she knows of what she speaks. She says, Harvard's

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<v Speaker 1>leaders don't yet understand the danger that the culture of

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<v Speaker 1>the university poses to the country, or why it required intervention.

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<v Speaker 1>On September eleventh, the Islamist Al Kaida attacked the US

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<v Speaker 1>in a suicide mission. You remember on October seventh, twenty

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<v Speaker 1>three Hamas Islamists exploited Israel's openness by invading the country,

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<v Speaker 1>massacring civilians and kidnapping others. Jihadis used these new forms

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<v Speaker 1>of warfare against those they couldn't conquered by force. What

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<v Speaker 1>concerns us here is their capture of elite American schools,

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<v Speaker 1>as an outpost. As outposts, Harvard became directly implicated on

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<v Speaker 1>October eighth when the Undergraduate Palestine Solidarity Committee issued a

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<v Speaker 1>statement endorsed by more than thirty student groups.

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<v Speaker 2>You remember this, that asserted.

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<v Speaker 1>That quote the Israeli regime was entirely responsible for all

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<v Speaker 1>unfolding violence.

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<v Speaker 2>Thirty student groups got together and signed that.

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<v Speaker 1>Students for Justice in Palestine declared October twelfth a day

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<v Speaker 1>of resistance and had a toolkit ready for the encampments

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<v Speaker 1>and demonstrations.

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<v Speaker 2>Blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>They praised the unity into fought to the resistance.

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<v Speaker 2>Blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>In two thousand and one, there were zero such support

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<v Speaker 1>groups for Islamists at Harvard, not a one. And then

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<v Speaker 1>she gets into the enormous amount of money that Harvard

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<v Speaker 1>gets from Cutter and other Islamist countries.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I remember learning that right after October seventh around

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<v Speaker 2>Princeton and a couple of other universities. You know, Qatar

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<v Speaker 2>gives so much money to these universities, and of course

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<v Speaker 2>you get something for your money.

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<v Speaker 1>She goes into By the nineteen nineties, black campus groups

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<v Speaker 1>were hosting Afrocentric and Nation of Islam speakers who agitating

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<v Speaker 1>against whites and Jews. In ninety two, Professor Henry Louis

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<v Speaker 1>Gates Junior warrened, this is anti Semitism from the top down,

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<v Speaker 1>engineered and promoted by leaders who affect to be speaking

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<v Speaker 1>for larger resentments. And she goes into a fair amount

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<v Speaker 1>of detail of the history of it. And she's been

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<v Speaker 1>warning for years and years about the anti Israeli propaganda

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<v Speaker 1>propagated by a comprehensive program in the Center for Middle

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<v Speaker 1>Eastern Studies, and how the Center for Middle Eastern Studies

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<v Speaker 1>became the center for anti Jewish studies and anti Israeli studies.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's gone further and further down that road. Progressivism

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<v Speaker 1>is now anti Israel and anti jew And one of

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<v Speaker 1>the hottest, richest hotbeds of progressivism is Harvard University. Whether

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<v Speaker 1>that diseased institution can be cured or if it just

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be cut out, and you can say that

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<v Speaker 1>about the entire university system is not clear to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not trying to be exciting or hyperbolic. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's diseased. Much more to come hope you can hang her.

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<v Speaker 2>Out Armstrong and Getty I had a breakthrough yesterday on

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<v Speaker 2>this song, I've been trying to play on the piano.

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<v Speaker 2>It was driving me crazy or I just couldn't figure

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<v Speaker 2>out how to make it work. Did you consider giving up?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually I did not. I was to the point of

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<v Speaker 2>like I was gonna, I was gonna talk to my

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<v Speaker 2>son's band teacher the next time I saw him and say,

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<v Speaker 2>why can't I figure this out? Like what am I

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<v Speaker 2>getting wrong about? You know where the eighth notes come

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<v Speaker 2>in versus the baseline or whatever? And anyway, smile clicked

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<v Speaker 2>in my head. And it's one of the things I

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<v Speaker 2>really like, a way about the way the human brain works,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like when you don't understand something, and there's

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<v Speaker 2>all kinds of examples, math problems, or how to fix something.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had that happen before too, like where I got

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<v Speaker 2>to try to fix my son's dirt bike or something

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<v Speaker 2>like that, and I just can't and then all of

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<v Speaker 2>a sudden, like you work on it in the back

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<v Speaker 2>of your mind while you're asleep or whatever, and the

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<v Speaker 2>answer comes to you. I'm a big fan of stopping

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about it. Yeah, yeah, I do that a lot too.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny how people just intuitively figured out figure out that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna not think about this, and then like this

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<v Speaker 2>afternoon at three o'clock, it's gonna pop into my head. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I know what I gotta do. I gotta take that

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<v Speaker 2>bolt off first to be able to get the tire

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<v Speaker 2>out of there. And it's just it's interesting the way

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<v Speaker 2>the human brain.

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<v Speaker 1>Works like that, which is yet another argument for A

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<v Speaker 1>getting enough sleep and b giving yourself time to daydream.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be taking in input from your phone all day long,

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. That's not the way brains are supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to work.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Something I could not figure out musically like was

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<v Speaker 2>just impossible to me, then all of a sudden was

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<v Speaker 2>completely easy, impossible. Click. Yeah, it's wild. So we talked

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<v Speaker 2>about this yesterday. I don't want to redo the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was our four if you want to

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<v Speaker 2>find the podcast Armstrong and Getty on demand. I usually

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<v Speaker 2>think this stuff is crap. That's one of the reasons

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so fascinated by it. It's this renowned psychologist apparently

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<v Speaker 2>who has studied how many was It's a ton of

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<v Speaker 2>marriages that worked out or didn't work out, and then

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<v Speaker 2>trying to figure out, like, what are the main things

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<v Speaker 2>that cause marriages to fall apart, sort of the biggest

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<v Speaker 2>studies of failed marriages it's ever been done anyway, Again,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to do the whole thing, but the

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<v Speaker 2>number one thing that you can't overcome is contempt, which

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<v Speaker 2>is something Joe has been saying for years, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>but it is a kiss of death and in any relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>And you don't even need to make this a marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>It could be a work relationship, or you and your

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<v Speaker 2>siblings or whatever. I suppose.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you don't think they're worth your respect and effort,

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<v Speaker 1>then you're not going to solve it.

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<v Speaker 2>Ever, the reason it probably applies more to marriages and

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<v Speaker 2>all those other situations work relationships, siblings or whatever. You

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<v Speaker 2>probably just cut them off at the point you have

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<v Speaker 2>contempt for them or they have contempt for you. The

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<v Speaker 2>relationships just split. But obviously with a marriage that's a

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<v Speaker 2>different thing. And they said they could, This particular person

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<v Speaker 2>said they can figure it out from your things you

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<v Speaker 2>do with your face, which I'd never heard this one before.

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<v Speaker 2>One sided mouth rays the subtle smirk of superiority is

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<v Speaker 2>the number one red flag for the divorce. According to

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<v Speaker 2>this psychologist who had watched lots of videos. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>think that's the thing you usually do if you have

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<v Speaker 2>contempt for some buddy, one side of your mouth goes up.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. I'm trying to do it. I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. I will bow to the expertise of this person.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like gas. They have gas. Yeah, Michael, you do

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<v Speaker 2>it for me, Michael, raise one side of your mouth. There.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of this getting now that's more length. Wait

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<v Speaker 2>what yeah? Not? I think you have gas? What an idiot?

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<v Speaker 2>Think about? You're an idiot. I can't stand you. You're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to come up with contempt. Yeah, got, it's beyond

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<v Speaker 2>the thing with contempt is and I've I'm trying to think,

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<v Speaker 2>who have I been contemptuous? Contemptuous of? You could probably

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<v Speaker 2>tell me you would know better than me. Maybe who

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<v Speaker 2>do you think? You don't say their name on the air,

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<v Speaker 2>But Jeese Nick a time right there? Current. I was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go with the current coworker. Oh funny. But once

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<v Speaker 2>you're into contempt territory, there's like they have like there's

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<v Speaker 2>practically no redeeming thing they can say or do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a one in fifty that they work their way

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<v Speaker 1>back unless you realize I missed something completely about their character.

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<v Speaker 2>They're dead to you. Yeah, that's an interesting one. Four

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<v Speaker 2>nasty little habits, criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Stonewalling are

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<v Speaker 2>the four horsemen of the apocalypse for dooming relationships. But

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<v Speaker 2>contempt is the truth is a death, that's the one

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<v Speaker 2>that you couldn't come back from. And they're looking for

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<v Speaker 2>the one sided mouth rays of contempt. They could predict

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<v Speaker 2>divorce with ninety four percent accuracy based on whether or

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<v Speaker 2>not they observed contempt between either one of the people.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's observable contempt, yeah, it's probably doomed. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 2>can't even hide it. The part that I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>bring up because we got so many texts about this,

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<v Speaker 2>was them also mentioning that people tend to have the

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<v Speaker 2>same three arguments over and over again throughout their marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>You just don't realize it. And once you categorize those,

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<v Speaker 2>like figure out what your three points of disagreement are,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you always put that in there. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>it's just easier to deal with. You just say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>this is argument number two, where we know we're in

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<v Speaker 2>a stalemate on this one. We know how this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Goes right right, And it's not about the color of

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<v Speaker 1>pain to ord, you know, the lengthification or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's that same old right can you give me?

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<v Speaker 2>And we got a bunch of texts about that. Can

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<v Speaker 2>you give me an example of one? Doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 2>be from your own wife? But like, oh, I'm trying

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<v Speaker 2>to picture something like that. I mean, like, would it

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<v Speaker 2>be like it's always over money, so this is just

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<v Speaker 2>another money argument that seems too that doesn't seem like

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<v Speaker 2>what he's talking Seah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you have texts, I'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to hear the text. I mean I could,

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<v Speaker 1>I could throw out an idea or two, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, you're too care free and heedless of

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<v Speaker 1>the future. Yeah, you're a stick in the mud. And

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<v Speaker 1>it could be over what you're spending on vacation or

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<v Speaker 1>a car, or you know, investing versus saving, or it

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<v Speaker 1>could take one hundred different forms. I'm a little more

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<v Speaker 1>risk averse than you, that's the big one.

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<v Speaker 2>Or you're too strict on the kids, you're too permissive. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that'd be a good one. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean, because Judy and I one of

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<v Speaker 1>the reasons our relationship works, I think is that I

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<v Speaker 1>am what's the opposite of risk averse in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>trying things and exploring ideas and risking.

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<v Speaker 2>Money or whatever. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I've won, I've lost, I've gotten hit in the face,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's okay. She's much more of a nest builder. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let's make sure that you know we don't end up

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<v Speaker 1>getting hit in the face.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's worked for us occasional. It's, uh, there's advantage

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<v Speaker 2>of not being hit in the face.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, but you know, if you never want to

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<v Speaker 1>get it hit in the face, it's a metaphor for God. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so nobody's playing hockey here, the hockey game of life.

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<v Speaker 1>You refuse to ever get hit in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Face, you can't play. I I will not put even

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<v Speaker 2>close to a fine point on this. I am a

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<v Speaker 2>single man. I have been married. That's all the background

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<v Speaker 2>you need. And I'm not married, not of my own choosing.

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<v Speaker 2>I have been on the wrong end of contempt and

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<v Speaker 2>it is it is insurmountable because everything you do or

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<v Speaker 2>attempt is contemptible.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently, even if it's exactly the right thing. We've I

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<v Speaker 1>think We've all had attitudes toward jobs or people, or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, something in our lives that we really if

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<v Speaker 1>you have any insight whatsoever, you realize, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being completely unfair right now, because I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>like them. You start to you view everything through what's

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite of rose colored glasses, poop colored glasses. Everything

0:26:17.359 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 1>they do you see through the lens of poop colored glasses.

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<v Speaker 2>That's pretty good because that's that's the situation. I felt

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<v Speaker 2>like I was in everything I did was being viewed

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<v Speaker 2>through s colored glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, it's tough to uh to uh persevere to surmount.

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<v Speaker 2>That, even something benign. So and then then the other

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<v Speaker 2>part of reading more in this article, which I've always

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<v Speaker 2>thought was interesting. So I think most people who are

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<v Speaker 2>in relationships that don't work can so if the other

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<v Speaker 2>person goes on to have a you know till death

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<v Speaker 2>do them part happy relationship, to think what was it

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<v Speaker 2>about us in our personalities that didn't allow that? Was

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<v Speaker 2>it you or me or both? Or what?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>What things are going on there? I think that's a

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<v Speaker 2>fascinating topic. And then I've also known because I've observed

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<v Speaker 2>this from people, and you've even heard people say this

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<v Speaker 2>throughout my life. As I was, I spent a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of time single, moving through the world, talking to various

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<v Speaker 2>people in various situations. Is not uncommon to leave a marriage,

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<v Speaker 2>get into another marriage, and then realize, oh, this is

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<v Speaker 2>what marriages are like. It wasn't just that person, this

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<v Speaker 2>is what life is like, having a job, raising kids,

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<v Speaker 2>being married. So okay, probably could have just stayed in

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:43.080
<v Speaker 2>that one. But anyway, many many thousands of dollars in

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<v Speaker 2>broken hearts later, we've learned a lesson, haven't we.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that happens a fair amount. Oh yeah, one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent. It's funny. I love this topic, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>always a little stressful for me, because every topic deserves

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<v Speaker 1>a real fleshing out. I mean, like every subtopic deserves

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<v Speaker 1>a full discussion full of subtleties and nuances and that

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<v Speaker 1>sort of thing, and and like one of the things

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<v Speaker 1>I believe in very firmly, having been married for a

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<v Speaker 1>very long time, is that you must discipline yourself to

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<v Speaker 1>look for the positives and remind yourself of why you

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<v Speaker 1>love your partner, and that the day to day crap

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<v Speaker 1>and the annoyances that come from interacting with another human being,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to put them in perspective and negatives because

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<v Speaker 1>the way the human mind works, negatives are easier to

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<v Speaker 1>let build up than positives. And I could get into

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<v Speaker 1>the anthropology of it, but who has the time. But

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<v Speaker 1>like having said that, I mean, for instance, I constantly

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<v Speaker 1>remind myself of why lo my wife and what her

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<v Speaker 1>great qualities are, because like me, there are things about

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<v Speaker 1>her that all right, well, you know, it's not like perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't focus on those. I intentionally don't focus

0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:19.040
<v Speaker 1>on those. But you know, everything's on a continuum, like

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<v Speaker 1>if you from your falling in love and you couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>perceive a fault. If there was, they could be an

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<v Speaker 1>axe murder, but they're so sweet you know too, you know,

0:29:31.800 --> 0:29:36.560
<v Speaker 1>bitter bitter cynicism and all points in between, and like, uh,

0:29:36.680 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 1>maybe you're a there's a battered spouse situation. The person's

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<v Speaker 1>verbally abusive, emotionally abusive, physically abusive. I don't think for

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<v Speaker 1>a second you should discipline yourself not to emphasize those

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<v Speaker 1>problems and focus on the fact that he brings me

0:29:52.240 --> 0:29:56.240
<v Speaker 1>flowers after he beats me. So that's that's like beyond

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<v Speaker 1>saying into way way way too much. So it's difficult

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<v Speaker 1>to summarize this stuff briefly, know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh yeah, I think that everything's.

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<v Speaker 1>Got to be in the healthy range of dot dot

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<v Speaker 1>dot whatever you're talking.

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<v Speaker 2>About, right. Yeah, the idea of having the same three

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<v Speaker 2>arguments over and over again sounds tiring. Uh yes, that's why.

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<v Speaker 1>But the argument's put on different clothes each time, and

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:24.360
<v Speaker 1>you think it's a new argument.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's not. That's the advantage of being able to identify, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>this is old argument too. Yeah, let's not waste her

0:30:30.320 --> 0:30:33.040
<v Speaker 2>time going and circles on this again. You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so intrigued by this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to my wife and I bicker very very

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<v Speaker 1>rarely these days actually, for like our whole relationship, which

0:30:41.640 --> 0:30:44.600
<v Speaker 1>is nice. But when we do, I will have to think, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what is the what is what is the form of this?

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<v Speaker 1>What is the thirty thousand foot thing here?

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's really intriguing. Oh and I mentioned this a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of weeks ago. I thought it was really great

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<v Speaker 2>that Michelle Obama came out and talked about you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a good peer of years there where she didn't like

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<v Speaker 2>Brock very much and wasn't digging their marriage because yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it said to the whole raising kids, working, making your

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<v Speaker 2>way through life. It's hard. But whatever situation you're in now,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not way it's going to be in a year,

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<v Speaker 2>five years, or ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Right there is if you are in a marriage, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's difficult to picture a happier marriage than mine, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not bragging or anything. I'm incredibly blessed, but

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, we had the grinded out years, we had

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<v Speaker 1>the gritted teeth.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe she's saying that cramp again period of

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<v Speaker 2>our marriage course. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, but I will tell you this a final note,

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<v Speaker 1>in a positive note, as a guy who's been married

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<v Speaker 1>for a long time, when you get to the stage

0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:52.920
<v Speaker 1>we're in right now, it's amazing in ways I never anticipate.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I got a number of friends who are in

0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:58.400
<v Speaker 2>that situation too, and uh yeah, good thing they made

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<v Speaker 2>it last. Anyway, Any thoughts in that text line four

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<v Speaker 2>one FTC.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the Democrats are trying to appear more more manly.

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<v Speaker 4>Just a thought, but they may want to consider first

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<v Speaker 4>getting rid of their man persons. And they're they're organic broccoli, dark, woke,

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<v Speaker 4>light woke, mellow yellow woke, it's still woke. And uh

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<v Speaker 4>and and that's the Democrats problem day.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not exactly sure what old John Kennedy was talking

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<v Speaker 2>about there, but charming as usual.

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<v Speaker 1>It is going to be kind of fun to witness

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<v Speaker 1>the out with the old in with the new blood

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<v Speaker 1>path in the Democratic Party.

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<v Speaker 2>Which direction you think it's going to go, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>certain yet which direction is going.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it can't go towards the old people for long.

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<v Speaker 1>They will die because they are very very old. True,

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<v Speaker 1>So there will be a turnover.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said last week, I think they need to

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<v Speaker 2>do them a govern They need to go full progressive,

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<v Speaker 2>get just stomped, and then that'll take care of that

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<v Speaker 2>and then you can become regular Democratic Party again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they needed to have Bernie be their nominee. It should

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<v Speaker 2>have happened a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh. You need the shot of moderate penicillin to

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<v Speaker 1>get rid of the AOC gonorrhea in the party.

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<v Speaker 2>If I might wax metaphorical. Wow, So I thought this

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<v Speaker 2>was interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>The headline was DeSantis has a solution to Florida's labor

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<v Speaker 1>shortage teenagers and Florida, like several other States is pushing

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<v Speaker 1>to soften child labor laws. It says to help businesses

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<v Speaker 1>struggling to fill jobs and shifts.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't get me start going through a bunch of well,

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<v Speaker 2>that's I intend to get you started.

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<v Speaker 1>They go through Florida and Ohio and gosh, a handful

0:34:02.480 --> 0:34:05.600
<v Speaker 1>of other states are name checked that are all saying

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing. Hey, we've got a little far in

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<v Speaker 1>not letting kids get jobs. Oh my god, whether it's

0:34:12.000 --> 0:34:16.279
<v Speaker 1>liability or various laws. The idea that you can't get

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<v Speaker 1>any kind of job until you're sixteen or seventeen, depending

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<v Speaker 1>on where you live in what kind of job is nuts.

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<v Speaker 1>And it also bothers me as a parent because, like

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<v Speaker 1>I keep looking back, like trying to parent my teenagers,

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<v Speaker 1>I look back on my dad doing it. At the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, it's like I had a job.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to a job every single day all

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<v Speaker 2>summer long, or on the weekends or whatever. My kids

0:34:36.360 --> 0:34:38.759
<v Speaker 2>can't do that. They both want to, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>both my thirteen year old fifteen year old desperately want

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<v Speaker 2>to work. They're always wondering how old do you have

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<v Speaker 2>to be to work there? How old do you have

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<v Speaker 2>to be to work there? It's ridiculous that they can't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>good luck in cal Unicornia. That's going to be the

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<v Speaker 2>last state to come along. But yeah, I mean against this.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's against their teenagers having a job?

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<v Speaker 1>Progressives and do gooders because they think they should be

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<v Speaker 1>studying for college because college is the only thing that matters.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't go to college, you're a miserable failure.

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<v Speaker 1>The trades are a humiliation working blue collars. Good lord,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd rather my kid was dead than wear a blue collar.

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<v Speaker 1>Those people, Barack Obama in his progeny, gotta hate that.

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<v Speaker 1>Let the kids work. Don't have them like overworked in

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<v Speaker 1>a meat packing plant.

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<v Speaker 2>But let them get a damn job. It's good for them.

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<v Speaker 2>If you miss a segment at the podcast Armstrong and

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