WEBVTT - No Use Crying Over Spilt Paint 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:03.480 Hell, we suck at being newlyweds with Dean Angler. 0:00:03.400 --> 0:00:06.840 Kaylen Lurkey and Jared haven An, iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:09.160 --> 0:00:12.520 What is going on everyone out there that sucks at 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:13.440 being newlyweds? 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:17.200 Just like, uh, I hate this intro, bro, you're sounding seductive. 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:20.600 It's a beautiful day here in Bali, Indonesia. I'm joined 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:24.320 by my beautiful fiance Kaylen Miller Keys Jared Habn And 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:27.280 before we start today's episode, I just want to say 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:30.320 one thing. Hah Bieber. 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:47.720 Had Biebert, kaylenlyn. 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:51.960 Ah Bieber Day, due. 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:54.720 You. 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:59.400 Thank you so much all you cool cats and kittens 0:00:59.440 --> 0:01:01.760 out there. Really appreciate you taking the time to listen 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:05.440 to us sing that song for the beautiful cabin so much. 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:08.720 All right, well let's start the episode. 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:11.720 Nothing has ever got to sync up, especially when we 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:13.480 start singing Kylen, happy birthday? 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:14.840 Thank you? 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:16.320 Is Dean spoiling you? 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:24.000 No? And my birthday's technically over here in Bali. It's 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:26.560 my birthday in America. So I guess I get two 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:27.319 birthdays this year. 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:32.360 What time is it in Bali? It's eight am Friday 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:35.440 morning right now. It's what it's like eight pm Thursday 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:37.160 night for you in Rhode Island. 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:39.440 Yeah, it's five pm for AA. 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:41.000 Yeah. 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:45.080 Yeah, so we took off. We left LA at twelve 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:51.280 in the morning. On Kaylen's birthday, landed in Taiwan. Was 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:52.000 it Friday? No? 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:52.520 Was it? 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:55.920 It was on her birthday. We were just traveling all 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:57.760 day for the birthday. Which is funny because we were 0:01:57.760 --> 0:02:01.080 traveling all day for my birthday. This year. For my birthday, 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:03.880 I took us to Japan. This year, for Kalin's birthday, 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:06.680 she took us to Bali. Yeah, that's how we do it. 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:09.160 Last year for my birthday, I took us to Mexico City. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:12.200 Yeah, and I took us sky diving. 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:14.600 Well, you guys should definitely keep taking advantage of this, 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:16.920 because I promise you one day in the near future, 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:20.080 your birthday is going to consist of, oh, yeah, it's 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:20.520 your birthday. 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:21.040 Have a birthday. 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:22.360 Do you want to like go to dinner or something, 0:02:23.000 --> 0:02:25.040 if we have time, if the kids aren't acting up. 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:30.720 Yeah, yeah, birthdays. Birthdays are the second most important holidays 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:31.280 out there, I think. 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:33.840 Yeah, it's just hard when you're traveling. Like Dean didn't 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:35.760 have a great birthdays. We were traveling on his birthday. 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:37.880 I didn't have a great birthdays. We were traveling on mine, 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:39.880 but we're making the best of it. 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:41.880 Today. We're gonna go get massages right after this. 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:43.640 Yeah, you're shopping now. 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:46.760 Yeah, we're in Bali. It's just oh my god, I didn't. 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:49.120 I forgot how long it is to get there here. 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:52.680 It's fifteen hours. It was like a twenty twenty five 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:53.560 hour travel day. 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:55.560 Who's a little tired. 0:02:56.280 --> 0:03:01.160 Yeah. I'm the type of person. I'm such a loser. 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:05.280 I judge people who when I say like, oh, what 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:07.280 are some of the things that you like, They're like, oh, 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:09.639 I like to travel, And I'm like, ah, we're just 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:12.440 I don't think you and I are on the same wavelengths. 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:15.600 I hate traveling. I'm the type of person bally looks great, 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:18.800 looks beautiful. I mean, I'm sure, of course I would. 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:20.959 I don't want to go. I gotta be honest. I 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:23.400 have no desire to go because all I could think 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:25.680 about is the twenty hour travel that's going to lead 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:27.920 to and from this destination. 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:31.639 Yeah, now that's reasonable. I've noticed too. Whenever I get 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:34.120 back from like a big trip, I'll tell some of 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:37.200 my friends like, oh, yeah, I just got back from wherever, 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:39.080 and they're like, oh I was it, and every time 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:41.600 I'm like, yeah, I was all right, I don't really Ever, 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:44.000 I'm never really like, oh it was awesome. I mean, 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:47.080 like there are certain trips like Pakistan is awesome, but 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:50.440 like really it wasn't. It's never it's I don't really 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:53.160 enjoy traveling until I'm back home thinking about what I 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:54.240 had just done, you know. 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:58.080 Which I think is just like human nature. We're just 0:03:58.200 --> 0:03:58.920 never really happy. 0:03:59.680 --> 0:03:59.840 Yeah. 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:02.520 We travel just to make ourselves feel better about home. 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:05.480 Yeah yeah, they're like, oh you know what I did 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:06.280 miss this place? 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:09.240 Yeah right, this couch is really comfortable now I think 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.400 about it. It gives you like good stories, and it 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:15.520 makes you more like interesting and gives you interesting experiences. 0:04:15.960 --> 0:04:18.920 But like traveling, you know, it takes a lot out 0:04:18.920 --> 0:04:19.640 of you. It's tiring. 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:23.360 It's funny coming from two people who are constantly traveling. 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:26.359 Yeah, this is our last international trip before the wedding, 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:28.000 so we're soaking it in. 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:29.840 I mean, the only reason I travel so much is 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:32.120 just because I'm like running away from all my problems 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:35.520 in the US, whether I'm like living in the truck 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:39.200 in Colorado flying to Pakistan, I'm just running away from 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.040 all my problems. What are your problems? Oh my god, 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:42.680 where do I begin? How much time do you have? 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:44.240 We'll soft three. 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:50.520 There's so many I don't even know where to begin. Anyways. Anyways, Jared, 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:51.000 what's up with you? 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:51.280 Man? 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:51.800 What's going on? 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:52.680 Oh? 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:54.360 You know, just loving the dreams. Spend a lot of 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:57.560 time at the coffee shop. I golf today, though, which 0:04:57.640 --> 0:04:58.720 was awesome. That was a lot of fun. 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:04.360 I saw that, so that was exciting. What else is 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:06.880 new in the world of Jared? Let's stick Let's stick 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:08.560 on the golf subjects for a second. How'd you do? 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:10.200 How'd you play on golf? Dude? 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:13.120 I can't believe I'm about to say this. I shot 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:14.760 in eighty five. It's the bestuffve ever played. 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:17.080 That's great, I know. 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.480 But we don't have to stick on golf, even though 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:21.400 I do try to get Ashley to come golf with 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:24.480 me because I get why she doesn't want to do it. 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:26.680 Like I view it as a bonding experience. I'm like, hey, 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:28.800 come drive the cart like we've talked about many times. 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:32.560 She's just not into it. But uh yeah, I mean, 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:37.160 what's new in the Haven household? Dawson is getting big. 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:41.880 He's like in his prime right now because a few 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:46.040 months ago, Dawson wasn't sleeping through the night and he 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:50.520 maybe just was going through something because he was constantly crying. 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:53.919 This kid wasn't awake for more than five minutes without 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:58.080 starting to sob, and it was getting very stressful for 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:00.960 Ashley and I to always be constantly around that because 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:03.720 we loved Dawson more than anything, but it was just 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:07.120 he I don't know if it was just growing pains, 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.200 if his body was changing, if he was teething, but 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:11.760 there was like two months where it was like, oh 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:14.880 my god, like he's Dawston. You got to relax, buddy. 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:16.880 He has turned a corner. 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:18.159 He is so happy. 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:20.760 Now I walk through the door, he's able to say dad, dad, 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:22.640 So he literally like he gets excited now. 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:24.120 He puts his arms up. He knows to do that, 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:25.480 and he's like, dadda. 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:29.120 I'm like, ash just kill me now because his life 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:30.240 is never gonna get better than this. 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:33.360 Nice I saw that video you posted. He takes his 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:36.800 sunglasses off, looks out into the distance, puts him back 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:40.120 on speeds away on his little on his little race car. 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:43.280 Yeah, dude, he's just like he's always looking around. He's 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:48.640 discovering things and he gets excited about everything. He's just 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:53.080 really happy right now, much more than I've ever seen him. 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:57.159 And the fact that he's happy, chubby and speaks gibberish 0:06:57.560 --> 0:07:00.320 and as cute as he is, it's just like, you 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:03.520 just need to like stay in this spot for at 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.320 least another seventy years, uh, because I never want you 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:08.480 to change from what you are now. You're sleeping through 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:11.480 the night, you're just happy, and he's just like, boh 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:13.560 that that thought boop bo Like you can tell he's 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:16.720 trying to form words and in his head he's saying 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:20.120 something like he is speaking, but he just can't make 0:07:20.240 --> 0:07:23.040 the words yet. So it's like hot that boop eat 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:26.080 that bo ba And I'm like, yeah, bro, yeah, I 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:27.920 get it man. And then he'll just be like that 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:31.560 ba my mom ba ball and I'm like, bro, you 0:07:31.680 --> 0:07:34.440 were just the You're killing you, Like I literally want 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:37.960 to eat you because you're so fucking cute. Excuse my language, 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:39.840 but it's just like, sometimes you need a good f 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:44.280 bomb to really describe how impactful something is, and his 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:46.880 level of cuteness is like shooting through the roof right now. 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.320 It's pretty were you a pretty chubby baby. Yeah, I 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:50.200 was a little chub chubbs. 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:50.760 Uh. 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:54.800 I stayed chubby till so I was a little chubby baby, 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:58.080 and then I was born chubby, my poor mother. I 0:07:58.240 --> 0:08:01.640 was ten pounds two ounces. I was a big I 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:05.800 was a watermelon, so that was troublesome. And then I 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:08.920 stayed a little chubbs then thinned out at three or 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:11.760 four and then put some more weight back on, probably 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:13.560 because my dad took me in McDonald's all the time. 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:16.800 I have very fond memories of Ronald McDonald though, and 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:18.880 like I would we would like go out to eat 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:21.800 mc McDonald's. Like that's what I want to do with Dawson. 0:08:22.000 --> 0:08:23.840 It's just like go you know how they have those 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:26.760 like plastic booths that are so uncomfortable. 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:28.640 Dude. 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:31.920 That was like at least three nights a week from 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.439 my dad and I and uh, because they had back 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:35.800 then they had like the twenty I don't know if 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:37.319 they still do, but they had like the twenty piece 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:40.640 chicken and nuggets for like two ninety nine. You know, 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:42.880 Fish fil A's. I was a big fish fil A 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:45.120 kid too, But yeah, I was chubby, and then once 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:48.240 I started playing sports in high school, I started thinning out, well, 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:48.760 it would. 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:50.520 Take him three days a week because you don't want 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:53.679 him to be chubby the same way you were. You 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:55.280 want them to lean out a little earlier on the y. 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.280 Yeah, it's gonna be like a once a month saying, hey, 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.679 like tonight we're getting McDonald's, so that's gonna be good. 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:05.360 But I also have no doubt that he's he's actually 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:07.560 I feel like starting thingming out now because he's growing. 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.439 But once he starts walking, because he's still not walking, 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:14.520 he's delayed in that, but he's standing and he definitely, 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.400 like you could see that he's starting to have the 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:17.280 capability of it. 0:09:17.360 --> 0:09:18.040 He's just late. 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:20.679 And as soon as he starts walking, dude, he's going 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:23.160 to thin out so fast because he can't stop crawling now. 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:26.040 And once he starts walking, he's gonna be running. And 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:29.160 only does his throw balls that he just loves it, dude, 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:31.800 it's like my dream cone true. He's just like he's 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:33.439 grabbing balls and throwing. 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:35.360 Them at me. I'm like, yeah, bro, keep throwing. He 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:37.240 throwing Let's see how far you could throw this thing. 0:09:37.960 --> 0:09:38.800 So that's pretty awesome. 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:42.600 Nice dude. Babies are sick, especially with fat cute little 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:44.360 babies that sleep through the night. I know. 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:49.359 So now because we're we're still on the same trajectory 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:51.719 of that, you know, we want to start for a 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:55.319 second probably here in the next couple of months. And 0:09:56.600 --> 0:09:59.480 now I'm we're getting into that stage which is what 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:02.200 everybody tells us, which is at some point it's going 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:05.199 to get easier. And then you get in the mindset, oh, 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:07.240 we could we could have another one, like we could 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.840 do this, and you just kind of like start forgetting 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:13.800 about everything else. Yeah, and we haven't forgotten, but we're 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:17.000 in the stage now which is like, oh, like if 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:19.559 the second kid's easier, like we got this, Dawson's starting 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:22.439 to become easier now. But then of course, like Astuley 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:25.000 will get pregnant, probably throw up constantly, and then you know, 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:26.480 I'll be at the shop and we have to take 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:28.880 care of Dawson, and then our next kid will probably 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:31.040 be just as high maintenance as Dawson and not sleep 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:32.679 in the night, and then we'll be like, what the 0:10:32.760 --> 0:10:33.920 hell did we do to ourselves. 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:36.439 It's kind of like traveling, you know, you go and 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:39.120 you do it and you're like, oh, okay, this this 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:41.880 isn't that great, but then you look back a little 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:43.760 bit later on and you're like, oh, actually this is 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:47.240 really cool. Uh or that was really cool. Yeah, it's 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:48.360 like why do you know? 0:10:48.480 --> 0:10:50.320 You just look back at traveling and you're like, oh, 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:52.120 that's not really that great, and then you end up 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:55.199 in BALI. That's like us with kids. You know, you're like, oh, what, 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:57.160 Like there were some cool parts, but there was not 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:00.640 cool parts too. Yeah, the shade goes down automatically. What's 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:02.960 going on with the automatic shade? How do you get 0:11:03.040 --> 0:11:05.240 that in your house? Ashley's very fancy with this. This 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:08.439 was she I didn't know this was the thing. She 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:12.880 met with blinds and curtain companies. I was like, ash 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:15.800 because we had nothing on. The windows was bare, so 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:17.360 I was like, I can get like, I can get 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:20.240 blind She's like, no, we're just gonna get nice looking blinds. 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:23.000 We're gonna get nice looking curtains. So they came in 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:25.760 and then they started pitching us on all this stuff. 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:28.480 How it like can go automatically down as soon as 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:31.199 the sun sets, and like there's remotes. Bro, I'm not kidding, 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:33.960 there's remotes. I press remote and like I can control 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.880 which curtain is going down, which one's going up. It's 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:40.920 very fancy, also very useless, because I could just go 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:42.960 and then it'd be down. 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:46.439 Sounds expensive. Automatic shades are so expensive. 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:49.599 Dude, it's so expensive. Ashley. I was like, Ashley, what 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:51.440 are we doing? And then she was like, oh, we'll 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:54.199 just spend the extra money. We'll get it nice. And 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:55.920 I'm like, I don't know. And now we're doing the 0:11:56.040 --> 0:12:00.640 lawn too. Dude adds up so fast. Oh oh my god, 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:03.240 it's crazy. I'm like, actually, I will do it. 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:05.360 Those are the two most expensive things. I feel like 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:08.560 window treatments in the backyard, dude. 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:13.599 Dirt freaking dirt. You know how expensive dirt is. Just like, 0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:15.080 I will go shovel some up. 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:18.920 Yeah, rocks too. We spent thousands of dollars on rocks. 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:20.520 We Hey, if you need anyone to build you a deck, 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:22.640 I'll fly out for the weekend and build you a 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:24.040 nice deck. Yeah. 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:25.720 I can't wait for you to come and just buy 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:28.960 me a deck that's like thirty seven degrees and slanted. 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:31.800 Oh no, I'm not gonna buy you. I'm gonna build 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:34.680 you a deck. It's gonna be now flat from side 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:36.800 to side, front to back. It's going to be as 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:38.400 big as you want it, in any shape that you 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:40.840 want it to be. It'll last a couple of years. 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.360 A couple of years, isn't a deck supposed to last? 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:45.199 Way more than that. 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:48.079 The deck will out last the house. Just trust me, 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:51.600 I'll whatever you get quoted on a deck, I'll cut 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:52.959 it in half, come out and build it in a 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:55.520 weekend and then uh and then I'll leave. 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:57.439 He did that to one of our friends. They got 0:12:57.520 --> 0:12:58.640 quoted something insane. 0:12:58.679 --> 0:13:01.679 So Dean built them a little bait deck model and 0:13:01.800 --> 0:13:03.280 brought it to them and he's like, I'll build you 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:04.880 the deck for a quarter of what they charged them. 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:06.719 They were trying to charge him one hundred grand for 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:10.680 a deck, but also like some backyard stuff, well yeah, 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:12.480 and like some rocks and some pavers and stuff. 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:17.040 I've nevers you better get more than just some backyard 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:18.960 stuff for one hundred grand with the deck. 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:21.400 Holy correct. I mean they are kind of like a 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:24.360 little bougieer of a couple. But like the fact that 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:26.360 you could even get one hundred thousand dollars quote in 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:28.880 their backyard, which was like five hundred square feet is 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:31.600 mind blowing to me. It's just expensive and like all 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.160 these contractors know that people want a nice backyard, so 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:49.560 they're like overcharging. I don't know, Caylen. 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:51.559 I got a question for you, is do you think 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:54.280 that would you categorize Dean as a handyman? 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:55.600 Oh? 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:58.040 For sure. He can do anything. He like, literally can 0:13:58.120 --> 0:13:59.040 do anything in the house. 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:03.000 It's so crazy because I was thinking before I was 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:05.199 with Dean, I would task grab it everything. And the 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.040 only thing I used task grab it for now is 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:09.360 for like pulling up the weeds in the front yard. Yeah. 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:10.720 Cool, I don't like pulling weeds. 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:14.719 Yay, No, I get it, you're above that. Ah. But 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:19.480 so when you say you can do anything, like like, 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:22.080 if there's a pipe that's leaking, Dean's on it. 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:23.600 Oh, I'll fix it. I'll fix it. 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:24.480 Yeah. 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:30.480 No, seriously, he can do anything electrical, he can hang things, 0:14:30.560 --> 0:14:31.440 he can build things. 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:33.880 You can do electrical work. You're telling me you're not 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:34.720 gonna zap yourself. 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:37.760 I mean I've zapped myself a few times. I've rerated 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:40.320 a few outlets, I've hung a bunch of new light fixtures. 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:42.400 I did all the electrical in my van that thinks 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:45.440 still hasn't burned down yet. My thing with it is 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:48.520 like a The amount of information out there to learn 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:50.720 how to do this stuff is so plentiful, like YouTube 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:53.120 and blogs and stuff on the internet. You could learn 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:55.280 how to do anything pretty quickly, or at least I 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:57.360 get a general understanding of how to do it. And 0:14:57.520 --> 0:14:59.960 we had contractors come in and do our backyard some stuff, 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:03.920 and they were the worst. They made us a beautiful 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:06.160 pool and we like that, but like they just sucked 0:15:06.160 --> 0:15:08.320 and they were so expensive. And I was like, if 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:11.600 we're gonna get a job done, like if it's going 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:14.520 to be not super super nice, I'll just do it 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:17.320 and it'll be equally as shitty, but we'll save ourselves, 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.760 you know, however, eighty percent of the money and I'll 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:22.400 just do it myself and I'll learn a new skill 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:24.280 in the meantime too, for the next house. 0:15:24.520 --> 0:15:24.720 Yeah. 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:26.680 And I feel like for a pergola, I could be 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:28.960 misquoting them, but I think they quoted us at like 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:32.200 fifteen thousand or something, maybe twenty thousand, and Dean probably 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:33.160 built it for two. 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:37.200 Yeah, yeah, for two. And I built it in a weekend. Yeah, 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:39.440 I built it. The wood was like five hundred, yeah, 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:41.760 and the brackets were like fifteen hundred. So yeah, two 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:43.760 grand beautiful pergola. 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:49.440 Kaylyn, do you find Dean's handiness that's a word that 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:50.800 something you're attracted to. 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:54.400 Yeah, in two ways. 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:56.480 One, I think it's Yeah, it's like hot to see 0:15:56.560 --> 0:15:59.040 him back back in the backyard, like sweaty with his 0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:04.000 muscles stirty. Yeah, also hot that he's saving us thousands 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:05.480 and thousands and thousands of dollars. 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:06.160 Yeah. 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:09.320 Well, I am the stay at home husband, so I 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:12.080 do need to pull my own keep. So I'm saving 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:13.800 us money while you're making us money. It's a good 0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:16.680 system we have. What was I going to say, Oh, 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:20.440 she doesn't love how I'll start a project and get 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:23.000 like halfway through it and then not finish shit, or 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:24.960 like I'll make a mess and she'll be really mad 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:26.560 about the mess in the garage. 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:28.600 Yeah, we now need new stools because he painted the 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:31.040 perkole of black and got black paint on everything. 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:33.600 Oh my gosh, there's a drop of paint on the 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:34.440 stool that we have. 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:37.920 Spelling Easton just reminded me he spilled black paint all 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:40.000 over our carpet and we had to rip up the carpet. 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:42.640 Oh as if we were already planning on ripping. 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:45.880 Up the carpet when I, oh, I still just I 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:48.960 can picture it perfectly in my emotions when I walked 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:52.280 out to see a whole bucket of black paint just spilled. 0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:53.040 Across our carpet. 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.320 Yes, but we had already like it's fine, I'll clean 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:58.160 it up. We had already decided at that point that 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:00.360 we before that point, that we were going to place 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:02.480 the carpet, which I did, by the way, thank you 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:02.920 very much. 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:03.200 You did. 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:05.639 Also, you spilt it in the bathroom all over the 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:07.480 tile in the grout. We had to like go in 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:09.120 with the grout like with toothbrushures. 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:09.720 Oh, we had to. 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:13.040 Yes, yes, I was there, Oh, you were there, and 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:14.560 I helped. I did more than you. 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:18.119 Scrubbed for two seconds and you're like, yeah, you got this. No, 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:19.879 not even that. I was like, I got this, I 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:20.960 spilt it, I'll do it. 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:24.679 We're playing into Easton's hand, but ye just saying. 0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:26.919 I like how Easton just lights a match and then 0:17:27.119 --> 0:17:29.720 just tosses it and lets whatever happen happens. 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:32.239 Whenever I'm whenever I mess up like that, I take 0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:34.639 it upon myself to remedy the situation. I didn't make 0:17:34.680 --> 0:17:36.639 you scrub anything or ask for you to scrub anything. 0:17:36.960 --> 0:17:38.640 I always say, I'll do it. I got it, don't 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:39.159 worry about it. 0:17:39.800 --> 0:17:43.000