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Speaker 1: Hello, cool, just welcome back to give them Lap podcast.

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Speaker 1: How are we all doing today, Easton? Amazing?

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Speaker 2: Jessica so good.

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Speaker 1: Tell you I'm feeling really really great. We've had like

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Speaker 1: a pretty fantastic week. It's been very eventful, very eventful,

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Speaker 1: very eventful. Before we get into all the things, I

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Speaker 1: want to let you guys know that we have officially

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Speaker 1: dropped a bonus episode, and we will be dropping bonus

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Speaker 1: episodes every single Monday. They will be out exactly where

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Speaker 1: you find this regular podcast, and you will also find

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Speaker 1: the videos on the YouTube channel, and the bonus episode

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Speaker 1: audio and video drop the same day every Monday. You're

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Speaker 1: welcome make a big deal about it, Easton, Like, do.

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Speaker 2: You even care?

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Speaker 3: It's kind of a big deal, exciting, and people have

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Speaker 3: been asky, They're like, I want to listen to you

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Speaker 2: Well, your wish is our command.

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Speaker 4: And we're here for it. Yeah. I enjoyed recording these.

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Speaker 1: I do too. And the bonus is shorter, so you're

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Speaker 1: not gonna get annoyed with us. You know, we're still

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Speaker 1: leaving you with like missing right, wanting more, missing us

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Speaker 1: a bit, and the bonus episodes are much more structured

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Speaker 1: where I want to bring you guys in a little

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Speaker 1: bit more. We're gonna have topics rather than just me

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so fun though.

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Speaker 3: The topics so far are so good, and you guys

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Speaker 3: are all being so active writing it.

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Speaker 2: So they are they Yes, I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: To fix this arm, which you'll probably see on the video,

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Speaker 3: and it keeps falling, so that's okay.

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Speaker 2: I'll go like this, Yeah, better fix it.

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Speaker 1: I think that's how you're supposed to do it anyway.

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Speaker 1: I have been off social media. What's going on on

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Speaker 1: the internet. We're on social media?

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Speaker 2: First off? Can you tell us why.

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Speaker 1: I am in a mode of protecting my energy right

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Speaker 1: now and kind of incubating and creating a very positive

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Speaker 1: environment for myself At this stage in my life, I

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Speaker 1: don't feel that I need to really see what's going

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Speaker 1: on in people's worlds that have nothing to do with

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Speaker 1: my world. I want to live in reality and just

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Speaker 1: protect my well being right now. And I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: that I won't be on socials again soon, but I've

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Speaker 1: been absolutely fabulous. So I've been out and about right,

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Speaker 1: you know, I've been on Katie's socials. But I just

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Speaker 1: I don't feel any desire to see what other people

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Speaker 3: I love it, love this for you, and I do yes.

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Speaker 3: I always encourage people. I encourage mister Bubbs all the time.

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Speaker 3: Is it take a social media break even if it's

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Speaker 3: a day? Yeah, I know you're doing longer, but that

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Speaker 4: Buddy Jake, he put like restrictions on his apps.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so he can only be on like Instagram for

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Speaker 1: I just feel I feel really happy, Like mentally, I

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Speaker 2: Right for a while. Well, let me ask you something.

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Speaker 3: So this is because you ask what's going on on

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Speaker 3: January nineteenth, the premiere for vander Pump Rules that we've

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Speaker 3: the other night. Is that comes out on the thirtieth

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Speaker 3: Will you get back on socials for that or will

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Speaker 2: It's really that was a stunning look. By the way.

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Speaker 3: Right well, for Socials as far as right now. There's

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Speaker 2: Yeah? And I listened to it this morning and I did, oh,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she was uncomfortable. That's what you do. I've done

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Speaker 3: So she said something that you say, which I was like, oh, wow, common,

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Speaker 1: I agree, But we have a podcast, so this is

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Speaker 3: Right right, I hear you. She also brings up so

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Speaker 1: I say one other thing. Yeah, when someone or people

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Speaker 3: that is way too fast. Obviously, I mean seven years

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Speaker 2: Traumatic breakup toxic?

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Speaker 1: Right, or the relationship you were in was toxic and

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Speaker 1: But I have personally only experienced and experienced other people

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Speaker 4: I think that's what separates where Kyle is right, the

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Speaker 4: Kyle is healthy. The relationship ended, right.

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Speaker 4: He knew what he had, he knows what he wants.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a great And just to reiterate, we did

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Speaker 1: This, but you're wanting you have a lot of self

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Speaker 3: Last point she made that I think you wouldn't agree

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we all knew that.

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Speaker 1: I think we all knew that. Believe that, And you know,

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Speaker 1: I just I want Raquel or Rachel I keep doing that,

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Speaker 4: So this is what this girl do? I give her

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Speaker 1: Give her a fucking shower.

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Speaker 2: This is on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Make her famous for five seconds.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, her name is it's Jazz xx Ma Camaggie. Just

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Speaker 1: Want, you can show it.

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Speaker 4: But first, all right, this was last night too. First

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Speaker 1: So both she and her parents are dumb asses, all right, noted?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, perfect, thank you both of them a gift. Go

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Speaker 4: Then you have an issue with Raquel taking her pants off?

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Speaker 4: And then she goes. She's not saying it wasn't wrong,

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Speaker 4: she's explaining what happened. The person who kissed Raquel was

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Speaker 4: No, it's shitty like to.

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Speaker 1: Think with his wiener. No, but he also shouldn't have

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Speaker 3: That is not saying I couldn't.

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Speaker 2: You can fuck it. Yes, you can fuck me. I

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Speaker 2: We love our nurses here at the give them las. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But I'm just saying when I click on their Instagram pages,

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Speaker 2: Not the rude ones.

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Speaker 1: They're the ones that jam the needle into you. Rather

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Speaker 1: I think it's right, came out of left field, but

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Speaker 4: Left field is usually that's yeah, I know where most

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Speaker 2: Like alaa dragging Riquel White, you got a bully.

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Speaker 3: There's not a lot of you, but I've just seen

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. Let's say I'm tough as it gets,

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Speaker 1: to me. It is what it is. I don't know

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about very quickly. The premiere party was absolutely fantastic.

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Speaker 1: It was It was surreal to walk in and be like,

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Speaker 3: It was incredible. The food, the ambiance, the florals.

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Speaker 1: All of that.

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Speaker 4: You did you notice that they changed the florals too?

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Speaker 4: Do you mean you guys didn't notice that. No, So

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Speaker 1: It was like this is meet and greet florals, this

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Speaker 2: It was. It was stunning. Thank you for taking the crew.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Oh we took the whole crew. I loved it. Teresa

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Speaker 2: They ate them all, girl, you were so mad. You

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Speaker 3: Because I've only ever heard the food in prison is

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Speaker 1: I think that's for like murderers. She was in. She

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like different kinds of.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if anybody knows Poushisty, but he's in prison, okay,

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Speaker 4: People got phones, people prison talk. Oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 1: I will say, I have a tremendous amount of respect for.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you she can get whatever she wants in there.

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Speaker 4: I want to try prison food out of side of prison.

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Speaker 1: serve prison time for something her husband did. Your fucking gangster.

441
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Speaker 1: And I have mad respect for you. You went in,

442
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 1: you had, you left four children behind, you held it together,

443
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 1: you came out. Look what you got. I mean, I

444
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 1: love it. And she said she still communicates with some

445
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:32,440
Speaker 1: of her cellmates or people who were in prison with her.

446
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 2: Oh that's cool.

447
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's got to be a bonding experience. Yeah right,

448
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: they really know who you are. They know yeah, they do.

449
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 4: They know her better than anyone outside of prison. That's guaranteed.

450
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, they see you at your most vulnerable moment. Of course,

451
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 1: Madonna's being sued for starting her at New York City

452
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 1: concert I guess concerts late. Two fans of Madonna filed

453
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Speaker 1: a lawsuit against the singer on January seventeenth, accusing her

454
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: of false advertising, negligent misrepresentation, and unfair and deceptive trade practices.

455
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,919
Speaker 2: Fans to me late or for not showing No.

456
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 1: She was late.

457
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 4: Honestly, ain't fans to me?

458
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 3: Have you never been at a concert where I've a

459
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 3: little lil Wayne never shown I've.

460
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Speaker 4: Been to a concert where it's like twelve o'clock and

461
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 4: then it's like one thirty and you're like, all right,

462
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 4: two o' clock comes and you get them for thirty

463
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 4: minutes and you're.

464
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 2: Like, oh whatever, they're high.

465
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 4: Even saying they're just walking around, it's.

466
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: Just plain Madonna. Fans seem like square, Yeah, they're not fans.

467
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 2: It's Madonna. She can be late. Let her be late.

468
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 4: She could come up on stage, smack her ass, walk off,

469
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 4: and I'd be like, I got my Money's right.

470
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Speaker 1: We're talking about the woman who does Vogue, The Vogue.

471
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Speaker 1: I mean, don't don't Donna done.

472
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Speaker 3: Right?

473
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 1: A girl I mean, but Donna can do whatever she wants.

474
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: She would literally be four hours late, come out to

475
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 1: get ship on stage.

476
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:11,920
Speaker 4: And I'd be like standing ovation.

477
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 1: Kanye West got a new titanium grill dentures.

478
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 4: Actually like it's AI on those.

479
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 2: So over him. I've been over him for so.

480
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 1: Long I cannot get anough.

481
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 2: I'm sick of him.

482
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 1: It's like it's like watching a semi truck crash over

483
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 1: and over again and like just hauling using us, taking

484
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:40,239
Speaker 1: everyone up.

485
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 4: Why it's Gnar helping him recreate the semi after it crashes.

486
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 1: These people I don't know.

487
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 4: Get off the semi. It's us that make him feel.

488
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: We're saying the wort a lot on this episode.

489
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 2: Not you, Jess, you said it though I said, Hi, as.

490
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Speaker 1: F it's because Ocean's been gone, and we save all

491
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Speaker 1: of our f words for what she's gone because we

492
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Speaker 1: can't say it when shoes here.

493
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Speaker 3: I thought you were going to say it's because ocean'

494
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 3: has been saying it.

495
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: But listen, they're fixed, so the rep says they are permanent.

496
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: This goes way beyond veneers or grills, the source added,

497
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: and his particular implant is quite unlike anything that has

498
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: ever been done before, because it's extremely hideous. He didn't

499
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Speaker 1: say that. I added that it's experimental dentistry to say

500
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Speaker 1: the least.

501
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 3: If I'm lovely, If I'm going to experiment with anything,

502
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 3: it's not going to be my teeth.

503
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: And have you seen them? They they look like the

504
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,360
Speaker 1: wooden grills that that people used to wear.

505
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:46,640
Speaker 4: Back in the day. I can't they used to the day. Yeah,

506
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 4: they used to have donkey teeth and like horse teeth.

507
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 1: It looks like that, except and guess what, you guys,

508
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 1: they were designed entirely by Yay with the assistance assistance

509
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: of medical and dental experts. I'm sorry it should have

510
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: been he should have been assisting the medical dentistry.

511
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 2: Ors, Like, what do you amazing their assistance? It's all

512
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:12,919
Speaker 2: of It's all of them.

513
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 1: It's all them, It's all them, and it only costs

514
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: you eight hundred and fifty thousand dollars if you want

515
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:24,359
Speaker 1: the Titan for real, eight and fifty g'soget change.

516
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:24,919
Speaker 2: I'm so.

517
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 3: I have two viewpoints on Kanye. Number One, I'm over him.

518
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 3: He to me is like a walking baked potato. I'm like,

519
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 3: what are you doing? And then on the other side.

520
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 3: I feel bad because I know Northwest, like is obsessed

521
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 3: with her dad and it's sometimes really sad to watch.

522
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,360
Speaker 3: She loves him so much, and it's just like, you're

523
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 3: gonna have a lot to deal with and that's not

524
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 3: my business, but that's just what it is is.

525
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,199
Speaker 1: It's kind of our business. We have a podcast and

526
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: we have people to entertain, so you know what, the

527
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: Kardashians are gonna have to take one for the team.

528
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 4: I don't know what his girlfriend's wearing out and about nowadays,

529
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 4: his wives.

530
00:26:57,960 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 2: I love it.

531
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: I love her giant tits flopping everywhere with the tiniest

532
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 1: little bit of nipple cover super.

533
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: Tits, super tis.

534
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 4: I hate it.

535
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 2: You know what, live your life. Beyonca is her name.

536
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: Right, Bianca? Yep, Sun Sorrier problems and they're real.

537
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 2: Stop it.

538
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: They look very real to me.

539
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 4: Good for her, Yeah, they're juicy. Yeah.

540
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 3: Every time I see movies like that, I'm like, I

541
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 3: I want.

542
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 2: Fake tits and I'm going to get them. I don't

543
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 2: know if they're going to be fake, but I'm going

544
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 2: to get something. After I have my first.

545
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 1: The thing is like a okay, because let me tell

546
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: you something, Jessica, you breastfeed and they become volumptuous and yummy,

547
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 1: and then all of the sudden they deflate like little

548
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 1: sad ballue.

549
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,120
Speaker 4: No, they're like little wind sock titties.

550
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 2: Like smaller than they were before the wind socks.

551
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 4: Haven't you seen wind socks?

552
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: No, like the the.

553
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 4: Like a wind sock flag, Just two little wind socks

554
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 4: floating in the air.

555
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 3: Oh, we love all titties here on giving past, making

556
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 3: that clear, even if they're no.

557
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 4: I love a boob with no titties, A good boob.

558
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 2: There we go.

559
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 1: How do you have a boob with no titty? You

560
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: mean nipple?

561
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, isn't that a titty? Nipple a titty?

562
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: Does everybody know boobs are titties? What are you talking about?

563
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 2: Nipple and a titty is the chitty.

564
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 1: There's the ariola, there's the nipple, and then there's.

565
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 4: The breast, so there's the titty.

566
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 3: Speaking of areolas, do you guys watch is it called

567
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 3: Naked Dating on Netflix?

568
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 4: No?

569
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: But I want to because you've talked about this.

570
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: I talk about it so much. I am enthralled with it.

571
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 3: I'm looking you see vagina, penis, titty, you see, you see.

572
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: Every singler is afraid without yeah, but like no, but

573
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 2: you and you.

574
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 3: They start at their feet and the penis, and the

575
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 3: host will go in and she'll be like, oh, that's weird,

576
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 3: that's a little that's quite an interesting willy.

577
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: They have accents. Yes, Also it makes it so classy.

578
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 3: This would never film here. This is a UK show

579
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 3: on Netflix. It's incredible. And I find myself commenting on

580
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 3: the penises, like too much foreskin, not like on the vaginas.

581
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, interesting, laby a choice or like whatever.

582
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 4: But she chose it.

583
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 2: Me talking to God, I can't.

584
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: I'm so dead. Did you mean to make her laby

585
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: on this way?

586
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 4: I don't know?

587
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 2: So funny? I mean, you guys gotta watch it.

588
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:34,959
Speaker 1: Okay, let's start watching.

589
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 4: It's I don't know if I want to just kind

590
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 4: of like sit down with my sister and mother and

591
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 4: watch just naked people.

592
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 3: Well, I do it with Kyle, and it's well and

593
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 3: Kyle each other.

594
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 2: That's true.

595
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 1: It's like basically watching porn with your partner.

596
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 2: That's true.

597
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: I don't watch porn with my brother and my mother.

598
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: I'm sure people would not be shocked if we.

599
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 4: Did, but we don't. Locker.

600
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: Good to know the Family Night does not consist of

601
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: that but Cards against Humanity, which Lisa is extremely inappropriate.

602
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 4: She wins every time, every time. We now know where

603
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 4: we get our minds from because.

604
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 2: She's so funny.

605
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: She's so funny. Did you guys watch American Nightmare the

606
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 1: Kidnapping Hoax with Denise Huskin?

607
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 3: No, but can you tell us about this, because you know,

608
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 3: when you said kidnapping hoax, I thought you were talking

609
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 3: about the hoax where they remembered there was a flying

610
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 3: balloon and they said some child was inside of it

611
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 3: and there was a hoax. Yeah, there was a flying

612
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 3: giant balloon and like everyone was chasing it because a

613
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 3: family said, our child's inside of it.

614
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 2: And then it finally lands, yeah.

615
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 3: Something like not that it's like a weather balloon, but

616
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 3: like big enough. And then it finally lands in a

617
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 3: field and there's no kid and they're like, oh, it's

618
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 3: a hoax, And it was like, you know, there was

619
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 3: so many people involved and the family was just doing

620
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 3: it for fame. Anyway, keep hosting so good you can

621
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 3: remember this.

622
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: No, producer, John, do you remember that? Are you for real?

623
00:30:59,120 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: Google it?

624
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 3: We'll put up a click here. No, I'm not kidding Okay,

625
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 3: go ahead.

626
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: Okay, so it's on Netflix. I do remember it. Easton

627
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: told me last night watch Louder louder Milk, louder Milk,

628
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 1: which I want to start watching louder Milk, louder.

629
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 4: Milk, louder Milk. It's a very it's a dude who

630
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 4: it's like a recovery. So they're in AA and his

631
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 4: last name is just louder Milk.

632
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, but it's like twenty two minutes sitcom

633
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: style or whatever. But he told me to watch that.

634
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 1: But when I put Netflix on, you know, they do

635
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: the preview of like What's New and I and I

636
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: remember this hoax, and to be quite honest, I still

637
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: thought to this day that these people made this shit

638
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: up until I watched this three part series. Okay, okay,

639
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: So there's this woman. It starts with the boyfriend first, Aaron,

640
00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 1: and Aarin calls the police in the morning and says,

641
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: my girlfriend was kidnapped last night, and he's like monotone,

642
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 1: like it doesn't even seem like a big deal, and

643
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: they're so confused and they go, well, what do you

644
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: mean last night? People broke in last night and they

645
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: took my girlfriend. Well, why are you only calling right

646
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: now because I was tied up and they gave me

647
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: a sedative. So they come and get him. They bring

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00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: him in for questioning. He talks about how people broke

649
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: into his house at three am. They zip tied their hands,

650
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 1: they put swim goggles on them with duct tape, and

651
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: he said he was cold, and the guy goes, oh,

652
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, Aaron. I forget how cold it is

653
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 1: in here because I'm wearing a wetsuit. He's telling the

654
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: police this, and he goes and then they put me

655
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: on the couch. They took my girlfriend, Denise, and they

656
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: took my car and left. They kidnapped my girlfriend. And

657
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: the story seems so insane, right whatever. Cut to forty

658
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: eight hours later, a niece is found on a ring

659
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 1: camera walking up to her dad's house in Huntington Beach,

660
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: which is four hundred miles away from where this took

661
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: place in Vallejo, California Bay Area. So now they're like,

662
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 1: I don't think he made it up. I think she

663
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: made this up. And she has the exact same story

664
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: and it is heartbreaking to the only thing I hated

665
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: about her episode was that they kept doing a close

666
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: up of this eyeball going like this, and it made

667
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: me because they were like I was in the trunk

668
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 1: and I had these goggles on, and so they were

669
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: doing but it was like so many close ups of

670
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: an eyeball, and I was like, this has got to end.

671
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: You've got to stop doing a close up of an eyeball.

672
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: I'm going to crawl out of my own skin.

673
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 2: Weird crea.

674
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: I really really hated that part of it about her

675
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: visual It was discussed it kind of both. It was

676
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: just like, you shouldn't see an eyeball that close up

677
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: for an extended period of time. Yeah, she's it's like,

678
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 1: it's the entire screen this eyeballs, and.

679
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: It's a reenactment. That's weird.

680
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: It was such a weird creative choice. So then she

681
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: tells her story exact same as Aaron. They threw me

682
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:18,280
Speaker 1: in a trunk. I was in there for a couple hours.

683
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: I was then taken into a house. He was very

684
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: kind to me, would take me to the bathroom. He

685
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 1: was not violent, but then he came in and told

686
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 1: me that his colleagues needed me to have sex with

687
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: one of them because if we release you, there's a

688
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: chance you could go to the police. So if you

689
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: go to the police, were releasing this sex tape. So

690
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 1: she said, I did not fight back. I knew that

691
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,399
Speaker 1: it would be violent then, so I.

692
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 2: Just took it. Then come he got resulted, yes, yes, okay.

693
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: He comes back in again the next day and says,

694
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: we have to redo it because my colleagues said that

695
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 1: it doesn't look consensual. You need to look like you're

696
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 1: my girlfriend. You have to enjoy it. You have to

697
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: look like you enjoy it.

698
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 2: I'm sick to my stomach.

699
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 1: It is heartbreaking watching her talk about this. So she

700
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: then says that. He then comes in and says it's

701
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: time to release you. I'm taking you home, and she's

702
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: shocked by it. She gets in the front seat, he

703
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: gives her more of the sedative. They drive from Lake Tahoe,

704
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 1: we find out to Huntington Beach and then the police

705
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: Lejo police start pinpointing it on her because it's so

706
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 1: far fetched, and she says that she was not sexually assaulted. Anyway.

707
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: Cut to the third episode and it happens again, okay

708
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 1: to a different to a different family.

709
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,320
Speaker 2: A family said she wasn't sexually assaulted.

710
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: I just want because she was because because she's yes,

711
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 1: because they were going to release the sex tape.

712
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 4: Yes.

713
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: They also threatened her and her family. They said, we'll

714
00:35:58,480 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: take care of you if you go to the police,

715
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: where we will always be watching you. So in the meantime,

716
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 1: in the meantime, the police are putting out that Denise

717
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 1: and her boyfriend this is a hoax. Okay. The kidnapper

718
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: is actively writing this like Bay Chronicle, right, this writer

719
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: who is keeping up on this story and putting out

720
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: the stories you know, daily with updates, and he's emailing

721
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:29,720
Speaker 1: this writer saying it's not a hoax. The Vallejo police

722
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: have X amount of hours to acknowledge that this is

723
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 1: real or I will do this again. He says, I'm

724
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: in the military, I have PTSD, I went to this

725
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: college for this. Like he's giving details about himself. It's

726
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 1: like he wants people to know that what she's saying

727
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 1: is real. So anyway, they then show in the third

728
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: episode Doubling California, forty miles outside of Vallejo. This happens again. However,

729
00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: the kidnapper at this point in time runs away, but

730
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: he originally was going to kidnap this random daughter right

731
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 1: of this couple who calls the police. He left duc

732
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: tee behind something else and a cell phone. They use

733
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 1: the cell phone to call someone. It happens to be

734
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: his mother, right, She goes, Oh, yeah, that's my son.

735
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: He's staying at my house in Tahoe. They roll up

736
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 1: to the house, they collect evidence. There's evidence of the sedative.

737
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 1: There's evidence of this room that looks very sketchy, and

738
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 1: the police are thinking this is very scary. They find

739
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: a bag in the back of his car that has

740
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: the fucking goggles and a strand of hair that leads

741
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: back to this Denise Huskin, I am so utterly terrified

742
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 1: of the police.

743
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

744
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and just the legal system, like to watch what

745
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,760
Speaker 1: these people went through. She goes, it was so crazy

746
00:37:56,760 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: because I was so excited to be released and be

747
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: I thought that the kidnapping was the worst part, and

748
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: she was come to find out. What was waiting at

749
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 1: home was law enforcement thinking that I made this up,

750
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 1: and they tried to paint her out as like a

751
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,359
Speaker 1: whore and like a piece of trash. And even when

752
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 1: they would write Valey Hope police send the emails that

753
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: the guy from the chronicle was getting saying I didn't

754
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: make this up. No fucking response from them. Shame on

755
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: the fucking Valay Hope police and then twenty fifteen, So

756
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 1: then hold.

757
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 3: On, this was proven, yet it's not then blasted all

758
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 3: over the news like they were wrong.

759
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 2: This wasn't a hoax.

760
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 3: So even someone like you who was paying attention to

761
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 3: the story was like, wait, I thought it was a hoax.

762
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, well now it's everywhere obviously since this came out

763
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 1: and devastating.

764
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 2: That is horrific. Oh my god, they asked.

765
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 1: So Denise's lawyer asked for a rape test to be

766
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: conducted on her, and the Valejoll police said, We'll only

767
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 1: do that if she gives us a statement. It's like,

768
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: are you like, this needs this, No, this needs to

769
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,919
Speaker 1: happen immediately, And come to find out, it did show

770
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: that she had had intercourse in the last forty eight hours.

771
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 1: It's a wild like they don't care who did it.

772
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: They just want to pin something on somebody so they

773
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: can say case closed. It's wild to me. So I

774
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: just want to put out there that anybody in law

775
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: enforcement or the legal system who's out in these streets

776
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 1: like really doing God's work and seeking justice and listening

777
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,399
Speaker 1: and putting the pieces of the puzzle together and not

778
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,760
Speaker 1: just to close the case, but to really find the truth.

779
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: Like those people deserve a lot of credit and they

780
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: deserve to be acknowledged.

781
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 2: And thank you and also Bravo too.

782
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: Sorry that was a really long story.

783
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 2: No, that was like I'm going to watch it.

784
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 3: Bravo to these documentarians, these podcasters, all these creatives coming

785
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 3: out of the woodwork because we have platforms now making

786
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:10,800
Speaker 3: stuff like this like this is the stuff crazy, Bravo

787
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 3: because like order podcast things are being solved because there's

788
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 3: like you know, Internet investigative people and just like Bravo

789
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 3: for the creative.

790
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 2: Who make keyboard No, not warriors, that's about it.

791
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: They're called it's called civility.

792
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 4: Civil No, I really do want to know the name

793
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 4: of it, because it is like the people that do

794
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 4: it have brought a lot of people to know. I know,

795
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 4: I'm like rebringing up cases that are like, hey, we

796
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 4: just saw this and we thought.

797
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 1: It was civilian journalism or something.

798
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 2: It's incredible, all of it, all of it, all of it. Yeah.

799
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: Anyway, let's move into House vives. So did you guys

800
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: watch the Reunions of Utah? Yes? Part two?

801
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 2: Like, how do we feel I felt.

802
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 4: I felt like Utah wild d did it feel like

803
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 4: you taugh to you? Like everything was like, it's just the.

804
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: Same, A bunch of very bored people in a bubble.

805
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 4: Yes, talk on my business. I'm a staple and salt leg.

806
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 3: It's like all rightuswives, though, I gotta say fresh in

807
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 3: my mind right now is and I am. I'm saying

808
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 3: this because my tune has changed little since we last

809
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 3: talked about it.

810
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 2: Is Monica's mom psychopath.

811
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 3: I horrified, and I said last time, I was like, oh,

812
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 3: they're both the same in Monica and I did say like, oh,

813
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 3: Monica had grow up with that.

814
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:39,359
Speaker 2: My sense now is like.

815
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 4: Have it.

816
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,479
Speaker 3: That's trauma having your mother like that, having someone leave

817
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 3: like that and say bye bye.

818
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 2: I'm going to chase my dreams.

819
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 4: And it's like and then live her dream through you.

820
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm heart broken.

821
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 3: And then the prayer, the prayer saying for the housewives, Yeah,

822
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 3: crying on your mother's couch.

823
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,239
Speaker 2: Monica's crying on her mom's couching. I don't think I

824
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 2: got it. Blah blah blah. Heartbroken.

825
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,720
Speaker 3: The mom says, let's say a prayer, and she prays

826
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 3: that she that she the mom would become a housewife.

827
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, why the fuck would she become a housewife? Does

828
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 4: she know? I mean very like, Yeah, she's nothing. I

829
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 4: don't want to look at her and I don't think

830
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:18,760
Speaker 4: she's pleasant to hear her speak.

831
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 2: No, it's heartbreaking.

832
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: But see this is but this is where I get

833
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 1: a little bit.

834
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 4: I don't even know her names.

835
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: Like, I don't really know how I feel. Right, because

836
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 1: let's take Rachel Raquel. We have no idea what her

837
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: home life was like, what she experienced in school, Monica,

838
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 1: She's now opened up about what a toxic mom she

839
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 1: grew up with. You sit there and you're like, yes,

840
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 1: we've all been dealt shitty hands, and it's all about

841
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: how you deal with it, right, But I couldn't help

842
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: but feel so heartbroken for her and be like, well, no,

843
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: wonder you are the way you are. But you know,

844
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: at some point, like you, you can't blame your your

845
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 1: bad actions on your upbringing. But at the same time,

846
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 1: I come from a place of such privilege, and I

847
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,879
Speaker 1: had such an incredible upbringing. And even though I may

848
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: not be trolling people on the internet, you know, I've

849
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: certainly done other things that I'm not proud of. So

850
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: it's like, at what point do you do you practice

851
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 1: compassion and sympathy and empathy for someone because of maybe

852
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: what they've been through, but also like keep your guard up.

853
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,319
Speaker 1: It's like a it's a really and it's kind of

854
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: what I struggled with this season, you know, and finding

855
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 1: a softer spot for a cal because I don't know

856
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 1: what she went through as a child, you know, like

857
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: sometimes we just fuck up because we're human. Other times,

858
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 1: like we look at the world differently because we were

859
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 1: raised much different than maybe, you know, our friends were.

860
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 2: No, I agree with you, and I don't think it's

861
00:43:58,200 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 2: such a clear cut line.

862
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 3: I think it is is like, no, I don't think

863
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,760
Speaker 3: it can be an excuse for your actions.

864
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 2: Let's just talk about Monica.

865
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 3: But at the same time, we also have to realize, like, oh, wow,

866
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 3: she went through something with that woman that a lot

867
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 3: of us didn't and we don't know or people who

868
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 3: haven't experienced that. I will never know what it's like

869
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 3: to be raised like that, and just the things that

870
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 3: are programmed into your mind and your brain that is

871
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 3: probably so difficult to unlearn.

872
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 2: So it's like I think it's the same thing.

873
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 3: I think it's like we're not saying she's fine, she

874
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 3: made this mistake, let's give her an excuse because she

875
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 3: is a shit mom. But we're also realizing, like, damn,

876
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 3: you know, she's been delta shitty hand with that mom,

877
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 3: and she maybe made these mistakes because of it, you know.

878
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, same with ray.

879
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 2: I hear you with Rachel. You know, like we don't

880
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 2: know what she went through her upbringing. That's with all

881
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 2: of us.

882
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:57,280
Speaker 1: But that's what I mean. And so for me, maybe

883
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 1: a few years ago, even a few months ago, someone

884
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: could come and tell me their SOB story and I'd

885
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 1: be like, we've all dealt with shit, you know. But

886
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 1: I just don't know that I want to think that

887
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 1: way anymore. That's because I don't really appreciate when I'm

888
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 1: trying to explain where I'm coming from and someone tells

889
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: me we all have our shit, it's like everybody right,

890
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,280
Speaker 1: so let's be a little let's be a little easier

891
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:20,879
Speaker 1: on each other.

892
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the thing. Yeah, everybody comes. That's the one

893
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 4: thing I always say, emotional Like, emotions are personal. You

894
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 4: can't ever, you can't tell me that my emotions are

895
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 4: misplaced because they're personal exactly yours are the same. So

896
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 4: it's like, you got to come from that place of

897
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 4: understanding because everybody may not explain their emotions the way

898
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 4: you may explain the way their emotions are. Do you

899
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 4: get what I'm saying. Yeah, So it's like that. It's

900
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 4: just tough.

901
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 1: It's very tough. I do think there's a chance that

902
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 1: Monica will come back next season.

903
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:50,760
Speaker 4: I have a really good feeling if Monica can dismiss

904
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 4: her mom and maybe yes, a really good comeback. I

905
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 4: think she will make a very good season two for herself,

906
00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 4: and even three, I think she'd have longevity in it. Yeah,

907
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 4: but she has to dismiss her mother. Yeah, I feel

908
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 4: like she's a puppet for her mom right now.

909
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 1: That mom is that mom is a fucking beyond. We

910
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 1: got to stop saying the forties that's an abusive relationship.

911
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 3: I mean, that's all. Like she said, people are like,

912
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 3: why didn't you cut her? I forget who said it?

913
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 3: Why didn't you let her come on the show.

914
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 2: After she talked like that? And mom, because like, yeah,

915
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 2: I'm used to it. That was my mom.

916
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: I loved when she said that. And Andy she goes.

917
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 1: I think it's maybe because I'm so used to it.

918
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: And he goes, yeah, you are, and what I can't remember.

919
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 4: I think it was Lisa and she goes, I kept asking,

920
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 4: why do you not want us to like your mom?

921
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 4: And you just kept saying you'll see it. And I

922
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 4: can understand that because when you when you're asked that,

923
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,240
Speaker 4: and I'm just coming from that point, it's like she's

924
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 4: done so much shit. It's like I'm being asked and

925
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 4: in the moment, it's like I don't even know which

926
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 4: one to pinpoint so you'll see. And even Andy was like,

927
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,799
Speaker 4: you've seen you see yeah, And I like that he

928
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 4: said that too, because it's just like, holy shit, you

929
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 4: can't even pinpoint one thing. She read so many things.

930
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 1: I ran into someone who's in the Housewives circle, like

931
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:04,240
Speaker 1: production and for salt Lake, and just when I said,

932
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 1: you cannot have her back and keep in mind right now,

933
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,760
Speaker 1: you guys are gonna see, maybe even throughout this season,

934
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: even on this podcast, that it seems like I'm a

935
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: bit of a flip flopper, like I'll go really heavy

936
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 1: in the paint and then I kind of ease up

937
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: a bit, and then I may go heavy in the

938
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 1: paint because I'm not quite sure how to navigate things.

939
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: I'm feeling very torn on how to be soft and

940
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 1: let people in but also deal with the things that

941
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 1: I've dealt with and you know, kind of retrain myself

942
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 1: to not have a permanent wallop. So just roll with

943
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: me in this moment where I am practicing compassion, going

944
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: like I get it. When I met this guy, was like,

945
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: you cannot have this woman back, and he just kind

946
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:47,399
Speaker 1: of sat there and stiled, like, we'll see. Oh, interesting, Yeah,

947
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: I think she may be back. The only Oh what

948
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: is it?

949
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, Also, thank you for that journey.

950
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 2: I love you.

951
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 3: I know you've been calling it flip flopping, but allowing

952
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 3: people to see that it's like we're all changing our

953
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 3: minds all the time, and it makes it just a

954
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 3: safer space for us to.

955
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 2: Be like, you know what, I don't feel that way anymore.

956
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 2: I know I said this yesterday.

957
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: But today, well that's well, that's how people call it.

958
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: I don't call it flip flopping. And here's the thing.

959
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 1: I'm not a politician. I'm not like you know, out

960
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: in these streets being like I'm your new candidate for

961
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 1: the Democratic Party. Oh wait, guys, I think I were

962
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: a like I'm just out in these streets trying to

963
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: understand life and emotion. And I'm really tired because, like,

964
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: the human mind is a lot.

965
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 2: It's a lot.

966
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: It is a lot, and sometimes I want to hang

967
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 1: my mind, my personality, my face on the door and

968
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 1: be like, I don't want to see it. I don't

969
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 1: want to hear it. You're annoying walking away.

970
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 4: For a minute.

971
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 2: Welcome to my life.

972
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: But unfortunately I have bills to pay, So here I am.

973
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: Let's quickly touch on bh. So we're back at the

974
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: Homeless not Toothless event. Erica is hit on by her dentist.

975
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:01,760
Speaker 1: I totally relate. Erica probably goes her dentist with giant

976
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 1: sunglasses on hair and a bun, no makeup. Here's my girl,

977
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 1: now here she is at this event looking absolutely fabulous.

978
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,399
Speaker 1: The dentist doesn't recognize her. She's like, what's her name?

979
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 1: He's like doctor so and so, and she was you're

980
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 1: your patience. He was like you look beautiful. She's like,

981
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: thank you, No, you really look beautiful. Thank you, thank you.

982
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:26,720
Speaker 4: I totally relate.

983
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: It's like the people in the building but were like, ah.

984
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 2: Are you hold up?

985
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 1: Are you sure you live here?

986
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 4: With the dog.

987
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, I learned. Anne Marie is very annoying, the

988
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: most annoying. She's very into talking about how she is

989
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: a nurse, that she's in the medical field. I need

990
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: it to end. Guess what, Bet, you are officially not

991
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: in the medical field. You're just a housewife. So all

992
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:02,279
Speaker 1: we know, Yes, you're a housewife. Once you sign up

993
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: for any type of Bravo show, this is your identity, right,

994
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 1: so get used to it. If I hear her say

995
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 1: one more thing about being in the medical profession, I'm

996
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 1: gonna lose my mind, so much so that Crystal becomes

997
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: upset because you know, the esophagus thing with sudden this.

998
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: Anne Marie keeps bringing it up, and she goes, I've

999
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: I looked it up for hours on end, and it

1000
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: doesn't exist. And the only way that happens is if

1001
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: you have an eating disorder, and of course Crystal has

1002
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:33,319
Speaker 1: been open about her eating disorder. So she goes, I

1003
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 1: don't like this, goes toes with her, and Anne Marie

1004
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 1: thinks that it's because she's jealous that she's in the

1005
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:43,919
Speaker 1: medical profession, and that's what Crystal always wanted, so there

1006
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: she's that's why she thinks it's like you cannot get

1007
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 1: out of this bubble of medical profession. It's actually because

1008
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:55,359
Speaker 1: you are labeling that someone has an eating disorder when

1009
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: Crystal clearly has had one, and like you don't just

1010
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 1: like throw that out there also as someone who watched

1011
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: their dad, Like we've talked about, it's very much a

1012
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: real thing. And so Crystal looks it up and it

1013
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: actually is a real thing and it's genetic, which is

1014
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: all what Crystal or what Sutton had said. And Crystal goes,

1015
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 1: it's just crazy that this like woman in the medical

1016
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,879
Speaker 1: field took hours of research and I freaking googled it

1017
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 1: and found it in five minutes. She goes, so it

1018
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 1: seems like I'm also in the medical field, right, I wouldn't.

1019
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 4: Say it just so she can be something else and

1020
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 4: be smarter or looked at as brighter than the other house.

1021
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,320
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, probably you would leg.

1022
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 4: Up because you're in the medical field, you better listen

1023
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 4: to it. It's like what we talk about has nothing

1024
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 4: to do with the medical field. So whatever, Well, who cares,

1025
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:41,439
Speaker 4: I guess.

1026
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: She also told Crystal when they first met that she

1027
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: was like an anesthesiologist, and she's actually not, and she said,

1028
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: I'm a doctor, and she's actually not, She's a nurse.

1029
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,360
Speaker 4: They make like the most money in the medical field.

1030
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 1: Well, she's she's married to like a professional an ex

1031
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 1: professional football player. I think, yeah, it was very cute.

1032
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:04,919
Speaker 4: Anesthesiologists have to like go through the most medical field

1033
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 4: because if you give too much, those are the people

1034
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 4: who are coming in and giving you just the right amount.

1035
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 1: Honey, I've had a boob job a couple of them.

1036
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: You know, you can kill someone or someone could.

1037
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 4: It's for your insurance.

1038
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: That's what I went to college for. That was my first.

1039
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 1: Well, by the way she is, we talked about this.

1040
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 1: She's she's not over the housewives, but at the very

1041
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: beginning she said she was, Well, yeah, so let's make

1042
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 1: it clear. Crystal has outed her and said she that

1043
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: is not what she is. Mauricio didn't go. So Kyle's

1044
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:45,919
Speaker 1: best friends since childhood ends up committing suicide. It is devastating.

1045
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:51,640
Speaker 1: She has this beautiful event for her that's not only

1046
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:55,879
Speaker 1: a celebration of life but also uh for NAMI, which

1047
00:52:55,920 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 1: is National Alliance of Mental Illness. And Morgan Wade performs

1048
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:06,919
Speaker 1: and her friend Loreene's mom is hugging Kyle they're obviously devastated.

1049
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 1: Mauricio's not there, but Mauricio appears at this homeless not

1050
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 1: toothless event, which you guys. I don't want to speak

1051
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: too much on the homeless not toothless because it goes

1052
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: back to the Kathy Hilton thing. But I just find

1053
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 1: it weird that it's like, we'll leave you without a home,

1054
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 1: but not a grill.

1055
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:25,760
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

1056
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 1: I'd rather you house these people.

1057
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,760
Speaker 2: It's not toothless, that's true.

1058
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:34,839
Speaker 3: It's just those toothless not homeless for the longest time.

1059
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 3: And I'm like, I guess that's fine. And then I'm like,

1060
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 3: it's almost not toothless.

1061
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: They're like, you know what, I'm gonta give them a home.

1062
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna be living in this box while you're gonna

1063
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 1: have white And maybe I need to do more research

1064
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: before I'm clowning on it. But they got to change

1065
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 1: the name.

1066
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 2: It's not a good name.

1067
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 1: It is horrific. But anyway, mogoes to that, but was

1068
00:53:55,000 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: working out of town for like this celebration of life

1069
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 1: of his wife's best friend. He's just really not hidden

1070
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 1: for me. I know, he used to be so hot

1071
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 1: and now I look at him and I'm like, you're

1072
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: a pathetic And I look at her like, damn bitch,

1073
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: she's killing it.

1074
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 4: She looks like I saw her. She was always pretty, but.

1075
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: Like she's no, she is on a Yeah, she's on

1076
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 1: a different level.

1077
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 4: I think it's the confidence it is.

1078
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 1: But also, she said, after my friend did, I realized

1079
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 1: that life is too short for me to be around

1080
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:37,840
Speaker 1: people I don't want to be around, and to be

1081
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: around people who do not appreciate me. She also goes

1082
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 1: into I will always have a place in my heart

1083
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,959
Speaker 1: for Los Angeles, but I enjoy being outside. I enjoy

1084
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: going on hikes, being in the outdoors. So when Portia

1085
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 1: is done with school, I want to be somewhere where

1086
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:57,879
Speaker 1: I can enjoy that. I think she'll I think her

1087
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 1: eyes have been opened. She does not care about the

1088
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 1: fluff any longer. She just wants to be happy and

1089
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Speaker 1: enjoy her life.

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00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:08,399
Speaker 2: Tennessee, Is that what you think?

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00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 3: I just think, Tennessee, I just have like a feeling

1092
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:13,439
Speaker 3: or something in Nashville, like outside of Nashville, or like.

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00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:19,360
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe though she has a home and aspen. Anyway,

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00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 1: let's move on to the ache and relief of the week. Jessica,

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00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,200
Speaker 1: would you like to start us off? Sure?

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00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 3: My ache is friend guilt, which you know what I'm

1097
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 3: not going to get into because tune in, you guys

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00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 3: to the next bonus episode that drops, because.

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00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 2: That is going to be discussed.

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00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 1: Okay, I love it.

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00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 2: My relief was the premiere. It was so much fun.

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00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:49,359
Speaker 3: I love that, love the episode. I know this comes

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00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 3: out a few days before. You guys are gonna love

1104
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 3: the premiere episode. I encourage you to watch it with

1105
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 3: an open mind. I I've never been more proud of you,

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00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 3: law Thank you.

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00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 1: I love you. Thirtieth right yep, January thirtieth, the premiere Easton,

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00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: what's your ache? And relief?

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00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 4: My relief is also the premiere seeing all of the

1110
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 4: hard work that you put in, and you know, going

1111
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 4: and watching you film and come home and talking about scenes.

1112
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:20,400
Speaker 4: We now got to see what it was, you know. Yeah,

1113
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 4: So that is my relief of.

1114
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 1: Like Liston's never lived here, so I just kind of

1115
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:25,439
Speaker 1: go out and do my thing. It's never really talked about.

1116
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:25,680
Speaker 4: Now.

1117
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 1: He's like boots on the ground. Can you watch ocean?

1118
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:30,839
Speaker 4: I got a film, so I see like her coming

1119
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:33,239
Speaker 4: home and like it. I it takes a toll on

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00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 4: a lot of people, So I'm excited. The relief is

1121
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,320
Speaker 4: like that you're done with it and we get to

1122
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 4: see everything about it. So I'm excited for that. That

1123
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 4: is a relief of the week, the month, or anything.

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00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:45,360
Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm excited to see you because every scene

1125
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 4: I saw you in. I'm not going to spoil anything,

1126
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,919
Speaker 4: but I loved every scene and people will see why.

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00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 4: And then my ache is I was really thinking hard

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00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:56,439
Speaker 4: about it, and I was like, you know what the

1129
00:56:56,480 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 4: ache is, Like I'm going on more of like New

1130
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:05,280
Speaker 4: Year's resolution and like growth, okay, and when you grow

1131
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 4: close people say it's change and you're changing on them.

1132
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:13,279
Speaker 4: So it's like maybe like the friendship guilt, It's it's

1133
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 4: touching on that almost of like am I like I'm

1134
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 4: trying to grow, but while I'm doing this, my friends

1135
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:23,560
Speaker 4: maybe think I'm changing and I'm trying to grow while

1136
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 4: not putting that stress on friendship or FA totally get

1137
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Like I'm trying to take time for

1138
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:34,120
Speaker 4: me okay, without making other people feel like they're not important. Okay,

1139
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 4: So like it's the guilt of that and me trying

1140
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 4: to find that happy medium of taking care of me

1141
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 4: and growing.

1142
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: I want you to save a little bit of this

1143
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:45,160
Speaker 1: for the bonus episode.

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00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 4: Okay, I can't stop right tune in.

1145
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, it's the next bonus one, the one on

1146
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 2: the twenty nine.

1147
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 1: Wow, we're kind of all on the same page because

1148
00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 1: my ache was going to be one of my guilts,

1149
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 1: but I think, what, we'll save that and I'll pick

1150
00:57:55,680 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 1: a different one. My ache of the week is I

1151
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: was watching the reunions of Southern Charm and as you

1152
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 1: guys know, Shep sat behind me at Bravocon and he

1153
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: was very drunk and it was intense. While the second

1154
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 1: part of the reunion, he opens up to the group

1155
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 1: about Bravocon, he says he was blacked out the entire time.

1156
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 1: Austin was really trying to make him presentable. Andy kind

1157
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 1: of weighs in and says, like it was really, really bad.

1158
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 1: It scared Shep a lot, which makes me very sad

1159
00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 1: because I did see him at Bravocon and I know

1160
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 1: that feeling of being so drunk that you cannot get

1161
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: any drunker. It is not fun. It is not this

1162
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 1: is Vegas. It's called this is my everyday. And I

1163
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 1: don't want to label Shep, but I with what he

1164
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 1: was saying. It really broke my heart. And so it

1165
00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: seems like he's leading up to telling the group that

1166
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 1: he's sober. While he doesn't say that, he says, I

1167
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 1: am not going to be drinking heart alcohol and shots anymore,

1168
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:16,520
Speaker 1: just beer, and the group is looks just like so

1169
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 1: defeated by this. And Craig, who's been a dear friend

1170
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 1: of Shep's for many years. Craig was a hot mess.

1171
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: He has his life together now he's killing it. But

1172
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 1: he says to him, you are driving on a road

1173
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:35,919
Speaker 1: that ends with a cliff, and I have to get

1174
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: out of the car. I cannot participate any longer. So

1175
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:46,280
Speaker 1: my ache is for Shep and really anyone who's struggling.

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00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:50,240
Speaker 1: If you think that you have a problem, don't say

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00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give up hard alcohol and only drink beer,

1178
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: because that is not a fix. My ache is my

1179
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: heart breaks that he went through that at Bravocon. I

1180
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 1: wish that ID could have been a support to him,

1181
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: and I really hope that he really gives up drinking,

1182
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 1: because I think he's going to live a really beautiful

1183
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 1: life when that happens, only drinking beer and wine is

1184
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 1: not the answer. Giving it up is the answer. My

1185
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 1: relief is that I have been off social media and

1186
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 1: I feel just really happy about it. So, going back

1187
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: to what we talked about the beginning, I'm mentally tough.

1188
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm in a really great space. I again don't know

1189
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 1: how you guys will receive this season, and I can't

1190
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 1: really care. This is my real life. I have to

1191
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 1: make sense of my life, and you guys will be

1192
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 1: on a really intense journey with me this season. I

1193
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 1: think the first episode is going to be very different

1194
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 1: from how you last saw me on television at the reunion.

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01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that. I'm okay with being called a

1196
01:00:56,360 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: flip flopper, X, Y and Z. Again, this is my

1197
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 1: real life, and you guys see the entire journey of

1198
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 1: me really coming to grips and finding peace in what

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01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: my reality is and accepting my reality and saying, bitch,

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01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 1: this is what it is and it's not going to change,

1201
01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do? Anyway? Wow, that got

1202
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:27,000
Speaker 1: very intense to see your growth this season. We'll see

1203
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:30,600
Speaker 1: I go from very compassionate to fuck this bitch. I

1204
01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:35,880
Speaker 1: said the effort again too. So we're just trying to

1205
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: find some balance and do the whole thing. It's a lot,

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01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:42,400
Speaker 1: and I hope you participate in.

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01:01:42,280 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 2: The story with me.

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01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 4: Sorry about it's.

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01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:48,480
Speaker 1: Really an up and down roller coaster anyway, Thank you

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01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 1: guys for listening to another episode of the Given La

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01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 1: Lap podcast. I will catch you guys next week and

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01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: remember the visual. The video of this episode will drop

1213
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: on Friday on YouTube at nine am Pacific time. Again,

1214
01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 1: bonus episodes drop every Monday. That's the audio and video.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome. We will catch you next time.