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Speaker 4: The subject matter for today. Could a tattoo.

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Speaker 5: Be a deal breaker? Oh?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 4: Hey, Mommy's and Poppy, thank you. This might be lengthy,

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Speaker 4: but it's worth it, I promise. I've been dating my

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Speaker 4: man's for almost a year now. We're fully in love,

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Speaker 4: have plans to get engage, kids, the whole damn thing.

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Speaker 4: We've both made a lot of sacrifices and compromises for

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Speaker 4: as the partners that we need each other to be.

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Speaker 4: But there seems to be one hurdle that we can't

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Speaker 4: get past and has been the only thing in this

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Speaker 1: I have two tattoos of two exes.

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Speaker 4: Initials god damn it, one of my ex boyfriends who

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Speaker 4: I was with for five years, and one of an

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Speaker 4: Before y'all start giving your piece, I want to give

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Speaker 4: you guys some backstory. Both my man's and I are

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Speaker 4: fully tatted, and to be honest, you'd have to go

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Speaker 4: on a whole ass scavenger hunt to even find those

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Speaker 4: two tattoos on my body. They are initials, not full names,

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Speaker 4: and both are about one inch by one inch and

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Speaker 4: indiscreet spots. One is on the back of my shoulder

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Speaker 4: surrounded by other pieces, and the other one is down

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Speaker 4: on my ankle. They're not all up in your face.

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Speaker 4: He's never asked me to get them covered up, but

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Speaker 1: What if I had my excess tattooed on me? But

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Speaker 4: I've been with people who had their excess tattooed on them,

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Speaker 4: think where the barrier comes from is that this is

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Speaker 4: to being in something monogamous. I just didn't think this

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Speaker 1: Along with it.

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Speaker 4: We keep revisiting the conversation every few months, but it

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Speaker 4: and feel safer about our future if I were to

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Speaker 4: just get them covered up, But for some reason, that

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Speaker 4: feels like I'm erasing my past or oppressing my bodily autonomy.

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Speaker 4: Another part of me is like girl is dying on

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Speaker 4: the hill for two tiny tattoos of ex's initials really

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Speaker 4: for him to say in this relationship, should that fear

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Speaker 4: be a deal breaker for me? So I'm asking y'all,

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Speaker 4: would two tiny tattoos of two ex's initials be a

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Speaker 5: You want me to be a devil's advocate? You want

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Speaker 5: me to first. I want to give you first.

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Speaker 4: I want both of y'all to say how y'all would feel,

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Speaker 4: and then we'll get into the crutch of the matter.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: I have jokingly, like been like, who is Mary Anne?

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Speaker 4: Who is Antinette? Like I've seen women's names tatted on

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Speaker 4: niggas and it's never They'll be like, man, that's my mama,

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Speaker 4: and that's my grandmama, Man that's my child.

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Speaker 5: What do you what are you trying to say here?

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Speaker 4: Like I've like jokingly been like who that woman name

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Speaker 5: Where So that is the thing the.

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Speaker 4: Nick cannon Mariah Carey full back tat especially because nigga,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying that tattoo is too much.

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Speaker 4: I think also, if it's your first tattoo, however, names

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Speaker 4: and initials. I wouldn't be mad at portraits that insane

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Speaker 4: might have to go initials, initials. I wouldn't be by that,

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Speaker 4: especially if you're chatted person one in. However, she's like,

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Speaker 4: they're not in big places, she said, her shoulder blade.

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Speaker 4: You're taking back shots.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna see it.

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Speaker 1: He is the tattoo. If you I'm up by his

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Speaker 5: The ankles go. I'll be tight.

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Speaker 1: And now he got to look over and SEEO X's initials.

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Speaker 4: To me, though, if this is your person right and

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Speaker 4: you super tatted, you're dying on a hill.

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Speaker 1: That makes me believe this relationship.

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Speaker 4: Isn't that serious, or you haven't fully stepped out of

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Speaker 4: your polly ways and you're still in communication or love.

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Speaker 5: Chorty is definitely talking to them, though you thinks she

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Speaker 5: knows that they're gonna feel some type of way. She

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Speaker 5: takes any of one of them off, especially the ankle one,

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Speaker 5: because the ankle one is the worst one.

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Speaker 1: To me, the ankle one is worse than the shoulder.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely put a shirt on, like I'm chilling the

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Speaker 5: ankle the ankle. I'm like, now I'm taking your panties off,

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Speaker 5: and I'm gonna see this tattoo. I don't care if

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Speaker 5: it's one inch by one is. It looks like a

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Speaker 5: fucking ten foot tattoo every time I see it, and

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Speaker 5: i'ma be sick every time. That being said, she could

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Speaker 5: just put some socks on and we could really just

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Speaker 5: like that. But the principal, the principle tells me that

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Speaker 5: you could take off if you have so many tattoos.

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Speaker 5: That means that you could get you could do that.

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Speaker 4: All I think they're leaning into sharing the backstory of

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Speaker 4: her being newly monogamous and a former polyperson lets me

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Speaker 4: know that she still has not let go of those

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Speaker 4: feelings and those relationships with those exes. Because you're not

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Speaker 4: those memories absolutely, still probably have pictures and all the

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Speaker 4: your partner, if it's bothering them. You should care about

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Speaker 4: It's not erasing the past. I think that a part

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Speaker 4: of you may actually be doing this. The fact that

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Speaker 4: you brought up bodily autonomy makes me feel like you're

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Speaker 4: resenting the power dynamic that you know is a or

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Speaker 4: the possessiveness that's associated.

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Speaker 1: That's what it sounds like to me.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you're rebelling against the possessiveness of monogamy.

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Speaker 4: And that's why you want to keep those tattoos because

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Speaker 5: And you don't have to get him removed. I had

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Speaker 5: a friend who his girlfriend and this current girlfriend now,

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Speaker 5: right right when they started dating, she knew that she

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Speaker 5: had a tattoo. I think it was on her arm, right,

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Speaker 5: And it was a tattoo that an ex designed, right.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't even that big, so it was like a

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Speaker 5: little figurine, right. She got it covered up, but it

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Speaker 5: was for her and for who her partner, like, she knew,

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Speaker 5: like you know what, he might feel some type of way.

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Speaker 5: So let me just do something real quick to make

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Speaker 5: the principle, the principle is I'm not gonna want to

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Speaker 5: see initials of another partner on you. It don't matter

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Speaker 5: right now. Can I put some socks on?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Can you put a shirt on? For sure? Girl, just

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Speaker 5: take that tattoo off or cover it with something nicer

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Speaker 5: removal valid? Yeah, now she'll probably she'll probably cover it.

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Speaker 5: Compare it like knowing, like maybe plus they both tatted, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: so I feel like something like this right And when

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Speaker 5: I tell a lot of my friends is that you

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Speaker 5: have to establish like the base of your relationship. So

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Speaker 5: if you just started, if that's your man for real?

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Speaker 5: Right now, you guys are starting, let's start a little

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Speaker 5: honest and with like good principles, which is yo, I'm

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Speaker 5: gonna be honest. Do you really feel some type of

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Speaker 5: yes or no now and that way you're not? I

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Speaker 5: don't know. Okay, they feel some type of way for sure.

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Speaker 5: I might have to get the ship.

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Speaker 1: Would you guys get matching tattoos?

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Speaker 5: Like being together?

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Speaker 1: No? Not you a wolf together?

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, we could actually put bananas on both

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Speaker 5: First Why would I want a banana? First off, you

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Speaker 4: Now, you have a fucking money bag and an orange

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Speaker 5: First of all, it's a arey. I can't say anything

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Speaker 1: That is crazy.

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Speaker 5: Wor's a commitments. It's a great tattoo.

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Speaker 1: You might actually align yourself as being.

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Speaker 5: Polyded on you, bro, I'm branded. I accepted that when

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you broke up with Rory and mall have

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Speaker 4: First off, but there's actually the their double back. Do

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Speaker 4: you think they would have felt away if you covered

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 5: But when when they like when they had to drop

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Speaker 1: Like a poly relationship. Yeah, pretty much. You laid hands

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Speaker 5: And I shouldn't have done that. And then next thing.

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Speaker 5: They were like, we have to drop him. I was like,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, but first I gotta put pants on.

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Speaker 1: You're shorty because you in a whole other relationship. You

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Speaker 1: know what's crazy? Let me turn this into a relationship.

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Speaker 5: If you pay for I'll do it.

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Speaker 1: What's craziest? Oh, nigga, we got it in the butet.

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Speaker 1: You want to know what's crazy now?

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Speaker 4: I would fill away if I was in a relationship

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Speaker 4: and I'm like, yo, when you're gonna get an MB

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Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, nah, that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: I would feel away if I'm in a relationship with

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Speaker 4: but not.

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Speaker 5: Wanting me tatted damn? So should she ask him to know?

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Speaker 5: Should she should he ask her to get his name

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Speaker 5: tatted on her?

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Speaker 4: But to me because she already has two exes tatted

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Speaker 4: the charm is crazy. Well have you ever considered matching tattoos?

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Speaker 4: So what's crazy is me and my ex send of course,

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Speaker 4: I of course we thought initials at one point him

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Speaker 4: But then what we wanted to do was get like

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Speaker 5: Shut up.

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Speaker 4: First off, I'm a ghetto busting baby. Y'all are so lucky.

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Speaker 4: Y'all are so lucky. Back in the day, I wanted

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Speaker 4: a cupcakesated.

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Speaker 1: On my ass.

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Speaker 5: Oh boy, hey, y'all know, I wanted.

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Speaker 1: To laugh now cry later. I wanted the pawns I

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Speaker 1: have a kiss on the back of it.

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Speaker 5: What I've never seen. I've never looked at the back

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Speaker 5: of your.

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Speaker 4: Night and it hurts so bad as I'm sure it

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Speaker 4: looks like covered when I tell you, I don't know

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Speaker 4: how I don't have a fucking yunion Yang's head it

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Speaker 4: all somewhere.

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Speaker 1: I am the O d original millennial. Y'all are lucky.

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Speaker 4: I ain't got a tramp stamp like I was here

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Speaker 4: to get all of them tattoos.

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Speaker 5: Do you have an ass tattoo? Do you have a

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Speaker 5: what an ass tattoo? What the fuck is that an

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Speaker 5: ass tattoo?

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Speaker 1: You have an ass test?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a long story.

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Speaker 1: And then you do not have an ass tat.

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Speaker 5: I would show you to you, but we don't have any.

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Speaker 5: It's it's a it's right, it's a you ever heard

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Speaker 5: of side talking y C. I have their little logo

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Speaker 5: as it's basically it's like a one inch it's a

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Speaker 5: one inch. Well that's the only one that is cleaning

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Speaker 5: close to my butt. But that's the one inch that

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Speaker 5: I have on my cheek.

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Speaker 1: It's on your cheek.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna hold you. This is going to be

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Speaker 4: very problematic of me. I am questioning the sexuality of idiot.

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Speaker 4: So does everybody understandably just saying like even when I

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Speaker 4: watch porn, I'll be like, now, why you gotta have

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Speaker 1: You look so masculine. I need some maculine energy. Asktat

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Speaker 1: is just not it's really wild.

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Speaker 5: So, like you be doing the bending, do I do

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Speaker 5: the bending?

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Speaker 1: I will?

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Speaker 5: I would know want to do the bend.

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Speaker 4: By the way, if you do not know where that's from.

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Speaker 4: Get off the pot and go watch that guy. Why

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Speaker 4: did I get married? I guess why did you?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: You said you've never even.

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Speaker 4: Considered a tattoo with a matching tad, Like even when

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Speaker 4: you were drunk, you never considered it.

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Speaker 3: That the b I'm the same nigga when I'm drunk.

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Speaker 1: You know what's crazy. I always used to.

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Speaker 5: Be like, you're just more excited.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna blame liquor every time we left the bar.

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Speaker 4: Let's go get matching tad. Never I've never done it

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Speaker 4: with a man. Never wanted to. Well, I clearly wanted to.

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Speaker 1: But I've never done it. I had never loved anybody

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Speaker 1: like the way.

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Speaker 5: So you gotta love them to do.

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Speaker 1: No, you gotta be you.

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Speaker 5: This is why she should take those fucking tattoos off.

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Speaker 5: Oh yes, so I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: However, No, I had a third part. You either you

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Speaker 4: either are in love obsessed.

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Speaker 3: Or delusion.

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Speaker 4: Delusion is another one so four or come from a

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Speaker 4: broken home and so so far.

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Speaker 1: Like you never felt love.

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Speaker 5: All these factors sound like she gott to remove and

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Speaker 5: or cover this tattoo.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like your daddy didn't sign your birth certificate,

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Speaker 4: so now you gotta get name.

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Speaker 5: You got daddy issues.

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Speaker 1: She I agree.

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Speaker 4: So our advice is, if you really love this man,

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Speaker 4: don't cover it, don't you don't?

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Speaker 1: You said she don't? I thought she said cheat on it?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, No, I agree, though, I agree.

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Speaker 1: I think I think that if you truly.

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Speaker 4: Love the relationship dynamic of what this looks like and

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Speaker 4: what it should be, you should just get it covered.

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Speaker 5: Plus, now there's more tats. So you wanted another tat, right.

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Speaker 1: Ass, bitch, girl, I know you create it. Covered that

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Speaker 1: ship with some cherries.

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Speaker 5: I think I think his feelings are very valid. He

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Speaker 5: should also just make sure that he's like very straightforward

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Speaker 5: about like, yo, this is not me me happy, like

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Speaker 5: I'm not a fan of this, Like what can we

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Speaker 4: And I think you may also need to dig deeper

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Speaker 4: into if you are really fully ready for what monogamy,

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Speaker 4: because I personally don't think you are, and I do

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Speaker 4: think that you're harboring feelings.

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Speaker 1: Sacrifice into those, into those tattoos.

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Speaker 6: That's what I feel like, right, Yeah, she already made

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Speaker 6: the worst mistake ever, So you're telling me that what's

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Speaker 6: the worst mistake, The worst mistake. Ever, you're gonna tell

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Speaker 6: me there's remnants of another man present, and you're gonna

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Speaker 6: tell me you're not gonna get rid of it because you.

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Speaker 5: Know what. But you know what that just.

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Speaker 4: About that remnants of another man that you can't get

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Speaker 4: rid of. All I thought of is come fuck your

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Speaker 4: other baby, daddy. You got to get rid of that kid,

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Speaker 4: because now.

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Speaker 1: I'm in here of a man.

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Speaker 3: Was just like, that's that's unacceptable. I can't do that.

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Speaker 5: But a child.

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Speaker 4: Okay, let me ask you this, okay, and let's not

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Speaker 4: be so dramatic and go all the way to kids.

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Speaker 4: If if a man gifted you something like so, if

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Speaker 4: if you're wearing the necklace from an EX or watch

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Speaker 4: from an X or anything like that, do you feel

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Speaker 4: like when you get into a new relationship that those

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Speaker 4: things should come on?

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Speaker 6: Wait, I'm not the right guy to ask. I might

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Speaker 6: not be the right I'm asking girls. I'm like, you

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Speaker 6: wore that around him. Oh I'm saying, I'm just keeping

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Speaker 6: it a stack.

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Speaker 3: I'm like that around here, Like.

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Speaker 5: You wore that around him. It doesn't matter if it's

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Speaker 5: a special night like it means like in general, what.

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Speaker 1: You got the bread to change my whole wardrobe.

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Speaker 4: Let me we talked about nuts, nigga, I wore these

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Speaker 4: pants around that.

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Speaker 3: Away?

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Speaker 5: Wait talking about can we go into possessions real quick?

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Speaker 5: Because I was definitely possessive? No, no, I mean I

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Speaker 5: mean possessions. Okay, So let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 5: Maybe this is my little quick u g D if

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Speaker 5: someone gave me a pricey gift. Okay, let's talk about

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Speaker 5: maybe price Let's say that over a thousand, right, okay? Right? Uh?

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Speaker 5: And it's an every day carry. So it's like, let's

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Speaker 5: say a wallet, right, and we're not we're no longer

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Speaker 5: a thing, right. And let's say and let's say I

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Speaker 5: have a new significant other and my is it okay

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Speaker 5: if I still have said wallet to be used every day?

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Speaker 4: You know what's crazy about both of y'all bringing this up. Yes,

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Speaker 4: it's okay to have the wallet because you know what

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Speaker 4: no nigga ever asked or says, Hey, yo, we need.

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Speaker 1: A new mattress, and mattresses are expensive.

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Speaker 3: You think I'm not asking, You.

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Speaker 1: Are not making a bitch. Bye, You're asking and a.

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Speaker 5: Woman to buy a mattress.

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Speaker 1: You know how.

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Speaker 4: Expensive mattresses are, Nigga, I'm asking particular, Peter, if you

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Speaker 4: think you coming in and I want the ship that

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Speaker 4: I got now that goes up and down because I

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Speaker 4: got asked, read want the numbers.

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Speaker 3: They got paid me plans. We're gonna make it happen.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Oh wow, Wow, you're gonna make her do a

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Speaker 5: beaming bland.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, he gotta buy it.

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Speaker 5: Oh you gontay it.

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Speaker 6: Paint a scenario if we get let's say we get

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Speaker 6: a new apartment. I don't got my mattress or whatever

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Speaker 6: like that, but you got a mattress. You're not moving

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Speaker 6: in the apartment with that mattress, I promise.

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Speaker 1: But what about y'all get together.

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Speaker 4: You both have your own separate apartments, buying her a

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Speaker 4: new mattress that you knew she was just sucking her

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Speaker 4: old niggas on.

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Speaker 3: What I'm saying is.

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Speaker 5: I am.

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Speaker 6: What I'm saying is if it ever comes to a

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Speaker 6: place where we like living together, you know, I mean,

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Speaker 6: I know I just threw that in there.

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Speaker 1: But if you're at it, no, no, you're atted.

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Speaker 5: To it, that's when I will be your vallet.

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Speaker 4: Ladies, keep your mattress, however, remove your tattoo. That's where

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Speaker 4: we're at possessions are not. I think covering your tattoo

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Speaker 4: is fine. And here's what you can do. You ready,

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Speaker 4: when you break up with this nigga, Because nothing lasts forever.

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Speaker 4: Don't go throw your ex's initials somewhere else? Are you

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Speaker 4: just go get the initials back again. Like tattoos, you

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Speaker 4: can always just add them shifts back to your body.

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Speaker 4: Win this relationship, or just don't do it again, or

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Speaker 4: just don't do it again, cover it up.

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Speaker 3: Just wait until you.

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Speaker 5: You know what.

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Speaker 1: No, here we go, ultimatum time. Wait, they're already engaged.

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Speaker 5: There, engaged, engaged gage if you don't don't cover up

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Speaker 5: the tattoo before his wedding, she's super fua.

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Speaker 4: My boyfriend and I have officially been together. No, no, no,

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Speaker 4: that's that's the last one. Hold on, I think they're engaged.

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Speaker 4: I think they're engaged.

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Speaker 5: Let's see.

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Speaker 4: Now we have plans to get engaged.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, cover up the tattoo. Okay, I'm not gonna hold you.

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Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, cover up the tattoo when he

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Speaker 4: can gets you a ring, that's the answer.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm not mad that.

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Speaker 4: If he's making the commitment to really fuck with you,

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Speaker 4: tell him you will get a cover.

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Speaker 5: Up when you get that rings wrong. Yes, should do

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Speaker 5: it before that. I mean, honestly, Loki, she should do

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Speaker 5: before that too.

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Speaker 3: I think she.

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Speaker 6: I think she should be open to doing it before

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Speaker 6: especially if you're really you sure that this is your person.

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Speaker 5: Don't make it a birthday gift. Don't make it a

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Speaker 5: Christmas gift. Don't make it a holiday game.

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Speaker 1: Get my ankle?

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Speaker 5: I mean, and you know what he's gonna say, what

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Speaker 5: like he's not gonna notice?

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Speaker 1: Might at this point be bitch? Is about time?

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Speaker 5: It's about time on good time.

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Speaker 1: You don't get a cookie for that bit you should

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Speaker 1: have been did that?

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Speaker 3: You can get a cookie now?

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Speaker 4: And I did it all for the nookie. Come onokie,

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