WEBVTT - Different Frokes, Different Strokes 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:04.920 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.600 --> 0:00:13.000 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in scrub. 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:14.520 A dub dub in the tubatub Dub. 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:18.239 Tanya has her Hanukkah gift on her neck. It is 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:21.960 from Robbie Yes with her new initials, which are t 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:27.240 r y which trying your initials is my favorite thing 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:30.320 ever goes on brand like it was meant to be. 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:33.519 It was so meant to be. Yeah, not to give 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:37.120 me spoilers away, but it's gonna be very significant in 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:38.120 my life of the next year. 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:41.440 What try Yeah, why it. 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:43.440 Just is is that she'll leave you with That's little 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:44.560 Taylor Swift easter egg. 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:48.680 I'm gonna guess that is the twenty twenty four word. 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:50.880 You're just gonna have to wait and find out in 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:52.240 twenty twenty four hour, aren't you. 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:57.440 Well? You did give us some interesting stories, uh, you know, 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:01.600 really alluding to your new year plans yesterday while you 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:05.360 were working out, Yeah, some questionable angles you chose. 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:07.960 I had to tell you. I posted this video of 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:12.960 myself working out and like I'm really good at glue bridges, 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:15.360 Like that's like my those are my claim to fame, 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:17.560 like I can glue bridge like forty five pound weights, 0:01:17.600 --> 0:01:19.280 like I can crush them. 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:23.560 What. So did someone tell you you were good at 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:25.200 glue bridges? Like how do you say? 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:28.080 Robbie's like, babe, you're good at those, and I'm like, 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:31.360 I know, okay, So Robbie says, So I set up 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:33.800 my video to like fill myself doing them. But I 0:01:33.840 --> 0:01:37.320 didn't realize the angle was like straight cross the vagina, 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:39.920 and everybody DM me and was like, I cannot wait 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:41.520 to hear becas thoughts on this angle. 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:46.280 You know, sometimes I just I'll be honest. I saw 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:49.360 it and I just clicked through because I was like why, 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:52.760 And then I also got messages because you were like 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:54.800 people were messaging me about this, and so I went 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:57.600 back and watched and it really lingers on there for 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:00.280 a minute, like you really stayed in that position, and 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:01.840 for yeah. 0:02:01.640 --> 0:02:03.400 I filmed the whole thing about ten minute video. 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:07.000 So the thing is is that you you were like, oh, 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:09.120 I didn't realize it was right up the crotch ye, 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:14.280 but then you still post edited the little montage corect correct. 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:15.480 So that was a choice. 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:18.520 Yeah, many angles I got. You didn't get to the 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:23.519 left to the right, but it really shows the elevation 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:25.600 elevation of my glue bridge. 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:28.320 That just means your glutes are very strong strings. 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:28.760 They are. 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:32.200 Yeah, So congrats to being a glute bridge queen. 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:33.520 Thank you, thank you very much. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:35.560 And hopefully in the new year we get the side 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:40.000 angle more and Robbie gets the other angle that we'll try. 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:43.480 I'll try. I'll be mindful of it. Yeah, I'll keep 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:44.000 it in mind. 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:44.959 I imagine you will. 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:46.560 Yeah. 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:53.440 Also you Okay, I feel like you've been have have 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:55.280 things been heightened for you recently? 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:56.480 In what way? 0:02:56.639 --> 0:03:00.360 Like stressed? Yeah? I feel it why, I don't know 0:03:00.600 --> 0:03:04.320 since it how it's just a feeling. Scorpio things tell me. 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:07.680 I just feel the energy. And I've been like talk 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:08.520 to you a lot, Like. 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:10.400 I'll text you and I'm like, hello, hello, Hello, is 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:13.640 this thing on. 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:16.920 Name your day? That's you? That's not what That's not 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.359 what tipped me off. Oh, it was more just it's 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:21.880 just something I have in tune with. 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:22.360 Yeah. 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:23.480 I do it with all my I can do with 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:24.200 all my friends. 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:26.960 Yeah. I think this is not my word for twenty 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:29.840 twenty four, but I really want to focus on balance 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:33.000 in twenty twenty four because I don't have any balance 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:33.440 right now. 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.280 Balance in like work life, life, work. 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:38.640 Life, all the things. 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:41.760 Let's talk about it. Where do you not feel balanced? 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:46.600 I feel like, Okay, I used to work out every 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:49.040 single day, and now I can barely get myself to 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:50.960 work out one or two times a week. 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:53.000 I feel like you work out every day. 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:54.480 No, I don't work on every day work out like 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:55.040 you're running. 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:56.760 Okay. 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:58.520 Yeah, well that's like an example. 0:03:58.560 --> 0:03:59.600 Why do you feel that is? 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:02.240 Are you trying to like therapy me right now? 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:06.520 No? I'm asking because I feel like how I view 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:09.080 you is that you have unlimited energy. So I'm like 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:10.080 interested in that. 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:12.600 Yeah, it's I'm not working out for lack of energy. 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:13.560 It's lack of time. 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:18.200 Oh I see. 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:19.680 Yeah. 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:21.479 Something that I struggle with I know a lot of 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:22.920 other people do too, is like if you don't have 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:25.320 enough time to do the full workout, It's like I'm 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:25.919 not going to do it. 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:27.479 Right if I don't have the full hour, I'm just 0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:28.080 like whatever. 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:30.919 And I keep trying to tell myself, like I'm wondering 0:04:31.040 --> 0:04:33.240 what you do if, like, is it better to do 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:34.440 a little bit if you don't. 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:34.720 Have the whole? 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:38.800 Yeah. All these YouTube videos that are out there, there's 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:41.000 all these apps and stuff. I'm like, you can do 0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:43.239 it at home for twenty minutes, and that's better than nothing. 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.760 Let me imagine the glup bridges for twenty minutes. 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:49.080 I know, just take a little fifty pound winter on 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:51.200 my my grind and now we go. 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:56.960 Up and down, up and down. Okay, see, I too 0:04:57.800 --> 0:05:00.520 don't well, I don't really think about working out general, 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:02.719 you know, like I'm not like, oh no, I only 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:05.039 have an hour or I don't have an hour, So 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:08.800 like if I don't have a full moment to just 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:11.200 go and like comba, I have to. The thing is 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:13.320 I have to allow time to talk myself up to it, 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:19.359 get there, talk myself through doing it, and then what 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:21.159 happens after and then I have to be like do 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:23.680 I showered? Do I have to shower again? And get 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:24.360 like ready? 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:28.360 Hair washing is a whole other situation. It is a 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:28.800 whole thing. 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:32.440 Yeah. So you know, if you're getting two workouts in 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:35.040 a week, then kudos Anya. 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:37.800 Yeah, I know, but when you went from seven days 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:41.480 to two, there's obviously something off balance, you know what 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:41.800 I mean? 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:45.159 Hm, So twenty twenty four is like getting back into 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:48.960 balance your time. Yeah, yes, but do you do your 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:49.800 sauna every night? 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:53.640 No? Oh, that's another hour that I don't have. 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:57.560 Well that you could really just do, Like I know that. 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:00.559 There's no energy yet, like sit there like a bump 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:01.040 on a log. 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:04.320 All right, well, here's to being balanced. I too would 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:06.240 love to be balanced. I think my hormones are not 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:09.839 balanced because I have been in a rage fest. 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:12.080 But I think you're out of it now, right. 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:14.880 I think I'm coming out of the deep luteal, so 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:15.440 that means. 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.640 Your period, So you're in your mentrel Oh yeah, but. 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:20.920 I think the deep luteal really carried on for this. 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:24.000 It does like the beginning of your menstrul in the 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:26.000 end of your luteal are basically one and the same. 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:29.640 Yeah, yeah, well it wasn't good. Happy. 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:30.520 We're turning the corner. 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:34.640 And apparently mercury is in retrograde correct till like the 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:38.279 first or something the second or the second. And I've 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:39.240 never been one to. 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:40.479 Like actually double checking. 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:43.799 No, I've never been one to blame anything on mercury 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:48.920 being in retro but this time I needed something to 0:06:49.000 --> 0:06:49.560 blame one. 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:51.440 Do you know who's not in retrograde? 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:56.039 You Jeff Probs? Oh wow, wait, I was gonna bring 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:57.839 him up and not in that way. 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:00.719 But yeah, don't even understand, and you know what they like, 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:04.880 don't meet your heroes because like, yikes, it was a 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:07.720 complete opposite, Like it was like, meet your hero and 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:12.720 he becomes Santa Claus. Like I have never experienced meeting 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:15.040 somebody like Jeff Props in my life. 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:16.000 Just what a review. 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:18.560 But no, we are out of Mercury retrograde on New 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:20.600 Year's Day at eight thirty seven. 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:24.760 Am Our time, Jan one, twenty twenty fall. 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:28.040 Okay, great, a couple more weeks. 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:33.840 Yeah, don't sign any contracts. Ooh, and be extra clear 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:38.320 with your communication because communication is gonna go down. Yeah, 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:40.920 it's fine. And who's communicating It's the holidays. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.520 Well I'm communicating with Haley. 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:47.040 Well yea for Hale, Prayers for Haley. 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:53.000 Yeah, okay. So Jeff Probs is the survivor host for 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:56.280 those who have not been around for twenty years. 0:07:56.280 --> 0:07:58.640 Like myself, I have not been around for twenty years. 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:02.160 I'm a news fans, yeah and he is. So I 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:04.680 got invited to this like it was like a fan event, right, 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:06.240 So it was like an advanced screening. You watch it 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:08.920 the day before the show. It's like twenty four hour 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:11.960 advance screening, and it was in this like TV screening 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:16.240 room where they had like all these candies and popcorn 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:19.200 and all this stuff. And nobody knew Jeff Propos was 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:20.920 going to be there, but they told me because they 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:25.040 asked me if I would introduce him. Wow. So we're 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:28.520 all sitting there, we're watching the episode and like, I'm 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:31.520 not gonna lie watching this episode with a crowd of people. 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:33.720 It was the funniest episode I've ever seen in my life. 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:35.280 And I don't know if it was because like we 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:39.000 were watching with the crowd or if the people were funnier. 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:41.120 But I think it's the influence of the crowd. 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:43.640 Yeah, it must have been, because I'm like, Jake's never 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:46.200 been this funny, and he was like one line or 0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:47.280 central that episode. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:49.720 And when the room laughs, everybody laughs. Yeah, You're like, wow, 0:08:49.760 --> 0:08:51.320 this is so funny. And then you watch it at 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:53.080 home later like oh, this is just a regular episode 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:53.559 of Survivor. 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:53.840 Right. 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:56.720 So when the episode wraps up, I come back out 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:59.679 in front and I say, hey, you know, you guys 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:02.120 feel these questions when you walked in, there's somebody special 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:05.800 here to answer them. Please welcome Jeff Probes. So he 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:07.840 comes out, he gives a crowd go a while wild 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:11.439 standing ovation, Wow standing ovation, and he gives me this 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:13.720 hug and he's like, Tanya, thank you for doing this. 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:16.720 And I was like, he said my name, So I'm 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:19.160 like freaking out. So I sit back in my seat 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:22.600 and he's answering all these fan questions. Right, this man 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:25.640 does not just collect a check and bounce. He is 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:29.280 so involved. He cares so much about the show. His 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:32.000 answers were like ten minutes long for everything. It wasn't 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:35.960 just like a yeah, It was so thoughtful, so intentional. 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:40.520 He like really cares about this show. So then he 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:42.000 finishes up to Q and A and he walks to 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:44.760 the backstage right, and the woman that was helping me, Emily, 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:46.960 was like, you four come with me because it was me, 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:50.120 Robbie and the kids. So we go back there and 0:09:50.160 --> 0:09:52.720 there's like a line full of CBS executives like waiting 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:56.480 to talk to him. He is locked in and answering 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:59.360 every single question that the kids ask him about, like 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:03.079 what is it like just the silliest stuff, you know 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:05.520 what I mean. He's answering every question. He's looking them 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:07.280 in the eye, he's not not even looking at these 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:09.840 executives waiting to talk to him. Yeah, he's so like 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:13.560 lasered in taking photos looking at our fantasy draft, like 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:16.240 picking it up, saying like, oh, you know, like blah 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:18.000 blah blah, I can't believe you got the you know, 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:21.320 you're doing good, Oliver, and like da da dada. So 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:23.520 then he takes photos with all of us. This was 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:26.480 probably fifteen twenty minutes in takes photos with all of us, 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:28.800 and we're gonna leave, and he pulls Robbie and I 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:32.600 to the side, away from the kids because he's a 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:36.280 step dad and so he wanted to talk about the 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:40.040 importance of like being a step parent and all that 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:43.839 I know. And like I had a feeling he knew 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:45.920 because when he came out to answer the questions, he 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:47.920 was like so focused on the kids and was like 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:51.400 really attentive to them during the Q and A. But 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:53.640 the fact that he like took his own time to 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:56.360 pull us aside to talk about being a step parent, 0:10:56.440 --> 0:11:01.520 I was like, you are the coolest guy I've ever met. Wow. 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:05.480 I'm so blown away by him, biggest Jeff Probes fan. 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:08.480 I can't say anything else about him. Wow. 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:10.600 Yeah, It's a great experience. 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:12.480 I was Rock and Roll Jeopardy in nineteen ninety nine 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:13.280 and he was the host. 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:14.520 Was he nice then too? 0:11:14.640 --> 0:11:16.920 I mean, couldn't have been nicer? Really, Yeah, and you 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:19.319 got that impression like yeaven just to us as the contestants, 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:22.920 he was incredibly warm and incredibly nice. Yeah, and incredibly 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:25.000 just casual. Yeah. I didn't spend a lot of time 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.200 talking to him. I saw one of the contestants just talking, talking, 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:30.119 talking to him after the taping was done. He's a nice. 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:32.480 Guy, He's yeah, just a nice guy. 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:34.679 Well, if anyone can find the video, it's out there, 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:36.400 I challenge all of you. No one's ever been able 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:40.120 to find it. I rock for years rock and Roll Jeopardy. 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:43.520 I won five grand Wow, because I came in first, 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:45.960 I had the most points. I'm sorry, I'm totally taking 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:48.959 us off track. In those days, if you had the 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:52.280 most points, you got five thousand dollars. The next year 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:56.200 the points became dollars. I had fourteen thousand points in 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:56.840 my episode. 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:57.280 Wow. 0:11:57.440 --> 0:11:59.280 They still owe me nine grand if you ask me. 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:00.760 True. 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:05.880 Unfortunately, they changed the rules and can't argue that they 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:08.960 do that. I hate when the rules change made I know, 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:14.559 just after your after your time, just like rude rude 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:16.400 put some credit on the name. 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:20.760 So the next time you see yeah right, yeah, yeah, 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:21.520 well very good. 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:23.360 I was like, I'm literally like I want to be 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:25.160 his best friend, Like can he come over for brunch 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:27.720 on a Sunday? Can he come on the podcast say. 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:28.560 Like what about the problem? 0:12:28.679 --> 0:12:29.000 Would? 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:30.120 I think he would too? 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:30.520 Yeah? 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:33.679 I mean guy acted like he just didn't care about 0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:35.560 the time. Like I'm like, it's nine PM and he's 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:38.240 talking to the kids like it's nude. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:42.160 Yeah it was nine and he's talking to like it's noon. 0:12:42.320 --> 0:12:43.520 But do you know what I mean, there's a difference 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:45.960 at at nine pm, everyone's like trying to to bed 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:48.040 noon and everyone's like we got the whole day ahead. 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:50.000 Yeah, well some people are night people, Tanya. 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:51.959 He might be a night person because he was just 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:53.080 chatting it up. 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:54.840 Isn't that when the ceremonies happen. 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:59.960 Oh yeah, it's the shows. We don't finish the roast, 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:02.600 you're The sad part is the shows are ninety minutes 0:13:02.679 --> 0:13:05.160 these this season, so it goes from eight to nine thirty, 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:07.840 and we don't finish the episode. In the night we 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:10.240 watched it till nine and then we finished the episode 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:14.599 the next day. 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:16.920 We kind of did that with Amazing Race too, where 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:20.040 it was like like the episodes of it would like, 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:22.280 let's hip pause and see how much longer we have? 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:25.040 Yeah, can we make it. Haley's much more of a 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:27.320 night person because she has to wind down. But yeah, 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:31.760 I'll take my melly Tony and I'm like out, I'm out. Yeah, 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:34.120 you know that'd be like that. 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:37.400 So that was like really a highlight, Like I'm still 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:38.160 buzzing from it. 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:42.040 Wow, you're on a bus. 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.400 I'm on a buzz. I'd like want to be his friend. 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:45.800 I don't know if I should like reach out. 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:47.680 On okay, you know what I think. I think you 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:51.040 had a really good experience and just leave it at that. No, yeah, 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:55.560 but like let things happen in like naturally naturally. Is 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:56.120 he married? 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:58.240 Yeah, he's a stepdad. 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:03.280 Oh so oh so his wife has had children? Correct, 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:05.120 maybe y'all could go on a double date. 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:08.120 Happy to do that. 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:11.480 He was like wanting to talk to you about like 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:13.120 being a step parent. Then I feel like a double 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:15.480 date makes total sense because y'all have a But. 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:17.880 Like, how do I do that? Like do I DM him? 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:21.600 Include Robbie, I mean, yeah, telling you him and all. 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:23.400 No. I tried tagging him in all my things that 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:26.560 I posted, just thinking that he would like respond to me. 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:26.840 Yeah. 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:28.800 I don't know if he's much on the social media. 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:31.400 Maybe he has someone run who runs the social media. 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:32.880 Yeah, yeah, well. 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.360 I think there's I feel good about. 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:37.440 This relationship could form in twenty twenty four. 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:39.600 I feel that. I do feel that. I think the. 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:41.680 Scarbgars would like him on the pod. I got a 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:44.200 lot of dms being like, talk about him, let's get 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:44.920 him on the pod. 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:51.080 Okay, Well I'm down with that. Me too, down for that. Okay. 0:14:51.120 --> 0:14:55.320 So Telly I put a question box on her Instagram 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:58.400 and we got a bunch of questions. So you did 0:14:58.440 --> 0:14:59.960 you pull some of those plus. 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:01.360 Out popped some of them out? 0:15:01.400 --> 0:15:03.320 All right, So we're gonna answer a few of those. 0:15:03.640 --> 0:15:03.840 Oh. 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:10.440 Also, I don't know Bart Johnson, who is Troy Bolton's 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:18.280 dad in High School Musical Series, not the series. 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:19.520 The movies High School Musical, the musical the series. 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:25.480 No No, No, No, no, the og So he So 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:28.640 his wife is Robin Lively, who I am obsessed with. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:31.320 She was on the podcast Many Moons ago. I would 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:33.760 love to have her back, but I love her. She's 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:37.480 one of my friends. And then Bart just they know 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:39.800 I love McDonald So every time he goes to a 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:43.520 new country or like his traveling, he will take a video. 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:45.600 If he sees McDonald's, he'll take a video and he'll 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:48.600 tag me in Instagram post and it's like, just it's 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:51.240 one of my favorite things because they come out of nowhere, 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:53.160 Like I don't talk to him ever, and then I'll 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:55.720 just be like Bart Johnson tagged you in a in 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:58.240 a story and then I'll go look, and he was 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:00.840 in Paris and he like stumbled up on the McDonalds. 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:03.600 So I reposted and everyone's like, this is the most 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:08.080 wholesome thing ever, Like what is this backstory? So it's 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:11.240 really simple, that's the backstory. Just he knows I love McDonald's. 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:14.560 They every time he travels, they he posts about it, 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:16.680 and it's just one of my favorite things. Ever. 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:18.720 You should do that too when you travel. I should 0:16:19.120 --> 0:16:22.360 like find the I tried to pitch like the series 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.480 rob or not. That's not the right word. The like 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:29.560 Pinnacle fast food chain that's at the place you're visiting. 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:31.720 So my right word I'm choosing. 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:35.000 I'm not sure what. I don't really know what. I 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:37.240 don't know what you're looking for. But I did pitch 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:40.040 an idea where I traveled to different places in the 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:43.040 world and tried, like, because every McDonald's in different countries 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:45.560 and places has its own many items. 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:49.680 Oh many items, maybe some sauces to I would imagine 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:51.520 the sauces are different depending. 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:54.000 On some different sauces, but also like totally different. Like 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:55.840 and we went in Japan and they had like all 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:59.880 these crazy desserts and sides. And I tried to pitch 0:16:59.920 --> 0:17:03.400 as like a series but didn't get picked up. So 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:06.920 maybe maybe Bart and I can go on around the 0:17:06.920 --> 0:17:11.040 world journey and do a show together. Yes, yeah, but 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:14.080 everyone's like, oh my gosh, you're like, like, right there, 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:16.640 you're basically best friends with Blake Lively, And I'm like. 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:21.520 No, adjacent, But I'm not an adjacent that's friends with 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:25.160 her sister is pretty close to agree. I'm a degree away, yeah, 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:25.920 one degree. 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:29.879 Yeah, essentially I'm one degree away from besties. 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:31.760 Yeah, I thought, like me and Jeff Probes. 0:17:32.320 --> 0:17:34.640 No, no, no, because that's not adjacent. 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:38.639 That's full heart to heart connection. 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:40.560 Heart to heart. Okay, we will be right back and 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:59.800 answer some questions, all right, we're back, wait before we 0:17:59.840 --> 0:18:02.679 get it started. So I had this moment over the 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:05.959 last few days where Okay, I have never in my 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:09.840 life cared about getting older, and like the age thing. 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:11.800 Don't tell me you're gonna make me spiral. 0:18:12.080 --> 0:18:12.880 No, I'm not well. 0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:15.440 I don't mean to make you spiral. But I don't 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:18.040 know what happened. And maybe it was my deep lutial 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:20.320 that got me in this, but I was just like, oh, 0:18:20.480 --> 0:18:24.040 this is what happened. So I was already in this 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:26.600 head space of just feeling like, oh, I don't I 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:30.040 don't feel good about myself. I just feel I even 0:18:30.119 --> 0:18:32.639 just like the food thing, like I felt tired, no energy, 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:35.000 and it's almost like your body's like, hey, you had 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:40.199 your fun, your metabolism was off charts. Now turn to 0:18:40.280 --> 0:18:43.199 reality at the time. So I've just been feeling it. 0:18:43.240 --> 0:18:45.160 And then Ali and I went to this Mean Girl's event, 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:47.679 which was really cute and fun, but like I was 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:49.679 looking around and I was thinking there were people that 0:18:50.119 --> 0:18:52.880 were not born yet when the original Mean Girls came out, 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:55.720 and that really hit me in the heart. 0:18:56.040 --> 0:18:59.919 Yeah, and made you feel what old? And then. 0:19:01.400 --> 0:19:06.680 Then I was someone said something about the nineteen eighties, 0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:08.359 and I was like, oh, yeah, I was like twenty 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:11.600 years ago. No, that was like almost forty years that 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:15.000 was forty years ago. Yeah, and that because I was 0:19:15.040 --> 0:19:17.879 born in nineteen eighty eight, so that really hit me. 0:19:18.840 --> 0:19:21.919 So anyways, I'm just like really processing the fact that 0:19:21.920 --> 0:19:24.280 I'm getting older. And it's nothing about like, oh, what 0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:27.439 I haven't achieved or done or anything. It's more about 0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:31.439 just like like feeling old around younger people. 0:19:32.040 --> 0:19:34.080 See, you know what's funny, I like don't have. 0:19:34.119 --> 0:19:37.280 That Like you're more of like what you expected to 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:38.080 have done, like. 0:19:38.000 --> 0:19:40.359 The yeah, my h Like I like more of like 0:19:40.400 --> 0:19:44.040 the what's it called the what's the thing called the clock? 0:19:44.160 --> 0:19:48.040 The clock that we have clock, like the biological clock. Really. 0:19:48.480 --> 0:19:51.399 But what really blows my mind is when I'm like 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:54.080 watching these seasons of Survivor and like there's a there's 0:19:54.119 --> 0:19:58.800 a contestant that's like forty three, yeah, and that's Robbie's age. Oh, sorry, 0:19:58.840 --> 0:20:00.639 he's forty four, but whatever. They're like a round Robbie's 0:20:00.640 --> 0:20:03.240 age and this guy looks like Santa Claus, and I'm 0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:06.560 like that blows my mind, Like I'm like, this is 0:20:06.720 --> 0:20:09.200 like you're the same age as my fiance and this 0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:14.119 guy looks like Santa white Beard. Yeah, but it blows 0:20:14.200 --> 0:20:17.320 my mind. I'm like, are we old? Like so confused? 0:20:17.359 --> 0:20:19.320 That night after the mean girl thing where it really 0:20:19.320 --> 0:20:23.680 started spiraling, I was running chasing Phoebe and Haley had 0:20:23.720 --> 0:20:26.919 one of those like exercise bands, you know that you 0:20:27.160 --> 0:20:29.840 like you'd put on for your glue exercise, and they 0:20:29.840 --> 0:20:32.000 have like a sticky like, uh, you know. 0:20:31.920 --> 0:20:33.240 Their grippy on the inside. 0:20:33.280 --> 0:20:36.000 Yeah, just like a grippy material. And it was laying 0:20:36.040 --> 0:20:38.119 in the floor and I was chasing Phoebe and my 0:20:38.160 --> 0:20:40.439 foot got caught in it. But because the material, it 0:20:40.480 --> 0:20:43.720 got like almost like kind of gripped to the floor 0:20:44.520 --> 0:20:47.159 and I tripped and I fell so hard, Like I 0:20:47.560 --> 0:20:49.600 hit the ground so hard. And I'm normal, I'm like 0:20:49.680 --> 0:20:52.400 pretty agile, so even if I tripped, I normally want 0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:55.359 to fall. I'd be able to catch myself. And Haley 0:20:55.480 --> 0:21:00.920 was like, Babe, are you okay? I've ever seen you 0:21:01.000 --> 0:21:04.200 fall before, and just like kept harping on the bag 0:21:04.280 --> 0:21:06.320 that I fell and she's never seen me fall before. 0:21:06.359 --> 0:21:08.639 And I was like, I am like, am I old? 0:21:08.760 --> 0:21:11.600 Like I couldn't catch myself anyway, you know, And I 0:21:11.640 --> 0:21:13.520 know it was just like I honestly take it an 0:21:13.600 --> 0:21:15.119 edible and like it was just like a lot of 0:21:15.280 --> 0:21:18.240 things combined. But I was like, is my body like 0:21:18.280 --> 0:21:21.439 giving out on me? I was like aching, like needed dice. 0:21:22.240 --> 0:21:25.040 So this is a dark time for Beccatilly. 0:21:25.400 --> 0:21:28.960 I'm hoping prayers up, but no worries because I ordered 0:21:28.960 --> 0:21:34.639 a humidifier and that's supposed to promote youthfulness for your skin, hair. 0:21:34.520 --> 0:21:36.800 And wanting to get a humidifier. Actually, I used to 0:21:36.800 --> 0:21:42.960 sleep with one free Robbie, and then I stopped. And 0:21:43.000 --> 0:21:44.000 I don't know why I stopped. 0:21:44.040 --> 0:21:45.000 Okay, I think it also is. 0:21:45.000 --> 0:21:46.080 Like kind of embarrassing. 0:21:46.560 --> 0:21:48.200 Oh why it's like so good for you. 0:21:48.400 --> 0:21:50.840 Yeah, I don't know why. I don't know. I don't know, 0:21:50.960 --> 0:21:54.000 like embarrassing or something like that. I remember why I 0:21:54.040 --> 0:21:55.120 stopped using that thing. 0:21:55.320 --> 0:21:57.480 But I was thinking, I think it gets really dry, 0:21:57.600 --> 0:22:01.720 and that's why Phoebe coughs at night. Oh, so I'm on, 0:22:01.960 --> 0:22:04.760 I think we're onto something here, wow, because Haley was like, 0:22:04.800 --> 0:22:06.640 you know, I wake up and my throat's really dry. 0:22:06.720 --> 0:22:09.680 So maybe at night that's why she's like hacking because 0:22:09.680 --> 0:22:12.320 it mostly happens at night. Yeah, so stay tuned for 0:22:12.320 --> 0:22:15.600 that anyways. Do you ever feel old? 0:22:15.880 --> 0:22:17.919 Oh geez, do you ever just feel like? 0:22:18.160 --> 0:22:20.520 I feel like a boomer? Sometimes it was like I'm 0:22:20.520 --> 0:22:21.879 a boomer and you're and you're. 0:22:21.760 --> 0:22:23.239 At the age now you're both of the age now 0:22:23.240 --> 0:22:25.000 where you're kind of experiencing that for the first time. 0:22:25.080 --> 0:22:26.760 Right when you were in your twenties or early thirties, 0:22:26.760 --> 0:22:28.159 you were a part of that young team, and now 0:22:28.160 --> 0:22:30.359 you're kind of there's a separation a little bit betrayed 0:22:30.440 --> 0:22:32.399 millennials and the Gen zs that are coming up, and 0:22:32.440 --> 0:22:34.679 you're like, oh gosh, I'm not that I'm not the 0:22:34.800 --> 0:22:37.800 young generation anymore. There's a new one now. That's happened 0:22:37.800 --> 0:22:39.320 a couple of times for me because I'm older than 0:22:39.359 --> 0:22:41.640 you guys, and the fact that I have a daughter 0:22:41.680 --> 0:22:44.240 going to college next year really makes me feel old. 0:22:44.440 --> 0:22:47.239 But I've mentioned before on the show, ear gauges make 0:22:47.280 --> 0:22:49.359 me feel old because I don't get it, you know, 0:22:49.400 --> 0:22:52.480 the big holes in the ear lower. Watching people paying 0:22:52.520 --> 0:22:54.600 money to watch other people play video games makes me 0:22:54.600 --> 0:22:56.040 feel old because they don't get it. There's a new 0:22:56.040 --> 0:22:58.080 one to add to the lift. My daughter's on Snapchat. 0:22:59.320 --> 0:23:01.040 I feel like I get most of what they're into 0:23:01.119 --> 0:23:03.960 the music, the TikTok, the TV shows, like I'll really 0:23:03.960 --> 0:23:07.280 try to stay deled in. They send all of their 0:23:07.320 --> 0:23:11.359 friends photos of their faces all day long, and I 0:23:11.520 --> 0:23:14.520 don't get it. They get in the car after school 0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:17.240 and so they've been at school all day, so they've 0:23:17.240 --> 0:23:19.880 got fifty of these to deal with, and they're inbox 0:23:19.920 --> 0:23:24.800 on Snapchat, and each one is just uh, send eh, send, pose, 0:23:24.960 --> 0:23:28.440 send hi. Send. It's not a special thing. Sometimes it's 0:23:28.440 --> 0:23:31.240 just the quarter of their face. Sometimes they're smiling, sometimes 0:23:31.240 --> 0:23:31.520 they're not. 0:23:31.640 --> 0:23:34.480 Is there anything written on them, none, just a photo. 0:23:34.600 --> 0:23:36.840 It's a photo. And they get these streaks going, you know, 0:23:36.880 --> 0:23:37.280 the streets. 0:23:37.560 --> 0:23:39.120 Yeah, that's why they keep They have to keep. 0:23:39.040 --> 0:23:40.720 The streak right, and they do it. So it's like 0:23:40.800 --> 0:23:42.720 fifty and then and then by the time we get home, 0:23:42.800 --> 0:23:45.280 most of those people have now responded to their faces. 0:23:45.320 --> 0:23:47.199 It's like a full time job to be sending your 0:23:47.240 --> 0:23:49.720 face back and forth to these other students. I don't get. 0:23:49.760 --> 0:23:51.520 It makes me feel old. 0:23:52.280 --> 0:23:54.400 Yeah, well add that to my list because I don't 0:23:54.440 --> 0:23:55.040 get that either. 0:23:55.920 --> 0:23:58.639 But like probably like that though, yeah, I probably like that, 0:23:58.800 --> 0:24:00.800 but like also I don't, no, no, I feel like 0:24:01.280 --> 0:24:05.000 I don't want to be young anymore. Like you know 0:24:05.040 --> 0:24:07.359 what I mean. When I look back at Tanya at 0:24:07.359 --> 0:24:11.480 twenty at twenty four, I'm like, she was kind of sad. 0:24:12.280 --> 0:24:14.560 She didn't know her worth, she was lonely. 0:24:15.000 --> 0:24:18.160 Oh, glad that you are happy where you are. 0:24:18.359 --> 0:24:19.160 Yeah, Like on my. 0:24:19.040 --> 0:24:22.720 Own take me back to if I could go back 0:24:22.760 --> 0:24:26.480 to like twenty seven and meet Hayley, then I would 0:24:26.520 --> 0:24:27.680 love to go back to twenty seven. 0:24:27.920 --> 0:24:31.840 Really yeah, yeah, not me. I think I started getting 0:24:31.840 --> 0:24:33.040 pretty good around that age. 0:24:33.280 --> 0:24:35.600 But in my life in general, like my life or 0:24:35.680 --> 0:24:38.720 my life phases, I'm very happy and content. It's more 0:24:38.840 --> 0:24:42.000 like my inner turmoil, right, Like. 0:24:41.960 --> 0:24:44.919 I'm like I like the things that I know. I 0:24:45.000 --> 0:24:47.040 like that I've seen Mean Girls. I wouldn't want to 0:24:47.040 --> 0:24:48.560 grow up now watching Mean Girls. 0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:52.120 No no, no, me too. I'm so honored that I 0:24:52.200 --> 0:24:55.840 was part of the original Mean Girls generation. Right. It's 0:24:55.920 --> 0:24:58.760 more of like the feeling of getting older and then 0:24:58.840 --> 0:25:02.240 like also like feeling like physically you look older. And 0:25:02.240 --> 0:25:03.919 I know it's all like vanity stuff. It's just a 0:25:03.960 --> 0:25:05.800 weird thing. If you've been through it, you know what 0:25:05.840 --> 0:25:10.200 it's like to go like, oh, I notice things like changing, 0:25:10.760 --> 0:25:14.879 you know. Yeah, it's just and maybe it was just 0:25:15.280 --> 0:25:18.760 my period was so dark this time. Yeah, I can 0:25:18.840 --> 0:25:21.280 get you all are so lucky that you. 0:25:21.520 --> 0:25:23.760 Think about it every day, I know every month. 0:25:23.800 --> 0:25:27.960 We just this isn't like lead and say your thing 0:25:27.960 --> 0:25:31.400 where I feel really dark and every. 0:25:31.240 --> 0:25:33.080 Three weeks essentially because you feel like it for like 0:25:33.119 --> 0:25:33.440 a week. 0:25:34.080 --> 0:25:36.800 And I'm in a house now with three periods every month, 0:25:36.920 --> 0:25:38.600 and so yeah, I get it, and I do feel 0:25:38.680 --> 0:25:41.160 very fortunate get it. I don't get it. You're right, 0:25:41.720 --> 0:25:43.879 I don't get it, and I feel very fortunate that 0:25:44.000 --> 0:25:44.720 I don't have to. 0:25:44.880 --> 0:25:47.040 But also being around three people, I have to deal. 0:25:47.160 --> 0:25:47.720 A different way. 0:25:47.960 --> 0:25:49.960 Yeah, that's prickly. 0:25:50.760 --> 0:25:54.600 Okay, let's get to some questions. Thank you everyone. You 0:25:54.600 --> 0:25:57.199 want to take a break, I think so right. 0:25:57.320 --> 0:25:58.160 Love breaks. 0:26:14.480 --> 0:26:18.120 All right, now we will get to the questions. Tanya, 0:26:18.240 --> 0:26:19.960 do you want to kick it off with some of 0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:20.840 your favorites. 0:26:21.680 --> 0:26:26.360 Yes, I'm gonna kick it off with a oh maybe 0:26:26.400 --> 0:26:30.399 I'll said that one for last asking driving back at something, 0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:36.640 what is your six word memoir for twenty twenty three memoir? Yeah, 0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:38.440 six word memoir. 0:26:38.119 --> 0:26:40.879 For I sprung this on me and I gave you 0:26:40.920 --> 0:26:42.720 a good thirty minutes. I know, but I was trying 0:26:42.760 --> 0:26:46.200 to do the podcast. I was doing a podcast. While interesting, just. 0:26:46.119 --> 0:26:49.000 Think about the last year and give us a phrase 0:26:49.080 --> 0:26:51.240 that like embodies that in six words. 0:26:54.560 --> 0:26:57.320 I want to feel more youthful. 0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:04.320 Wow. Okay, Wow, that's not the direction I thought. 0:27:04.119 --> 0:27:06.920 You're gonna know, because I want to feel more youthful. 0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:10.200 I want to I want to like feel good and 0:27:10.280 --> 0:27:14.320 like I want my body to feel better and healthy 0:27:14.440 --> 0:27:15.240 and young. 0:27:15.680 --> 0:27:17.840 You know what you need? You need Dakota Johnson energy. 0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:21.879 Did you see that I have that energy? She sleeps 0:27:21.880 --> 0:27:26.159 fourteen hours a day. I'm like fourteen Yeah, fourteen is 0:27:26.200 --> 0:27:27.240 like what she needs. 0:27:27.560 --> 0:27:33.280 Sleep is the most priority. And also she'll drop anything 0:27:33.320 --> 0:27:37.240 to get to bed. I'm like, no, that is me, Like, 0:27:37.280 --> 0:27:40.440 that is me. So I need to do that. 0:27:40.720 --> 0:27:43.520 I do that. So what is she doing outside of 0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:48.600 that to have energy? You know, maybe she doesn't Maybe energy. 0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:51.040 She just needs a lost sleep. Yeah, mine is gonna be. 0:27:51.800 --> 0:27:56.840 Life is a roller coaster baby. Is roller coaster one 0:27:56.840 --> 0:28:02.119 word that it's two too. Life is a roller coaster baby. 0:28:03.400 --> 0:28:05.400 Because when I think back about this time last year, 0:28:05.600 --> 0:28:10.400 like I was, it was a different time. It went down, up, 0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:11.160 down up. 0:28:11.520 --> 0:28:13.160 A lot happen in a year A lot. 0:28:13.040 --> 0:28:13.840 Can happen in a year. 0:28:14.880 --> 0:28:17.080 Do you remember I used to talk about wanting like 0:28:17.440 --> 0:28:20.280 to sleep in different beds when I was just someone. 0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:23.280 Luck can happen, Luck can change. 0:28:23.000 --> 0:28:26.359 A lot can change. Okay, this is for you Becca specifically. 0:28:26.400 --> 0:28:29.120 If Becca proposed, how would she do it? 0:28:29.600 --> 0:28:30.560 I can't share that. 0:28:31.000 --> 0:28:33.160 Does she think she or Haley will propose? 0:28:33.400 --> 0:28:37.399 Probably me? And I don't know, but I do know 0:28:37.480 --> 0:28:41.120 it needs to be very thoughtful and creative because I 0:28:41.200 --> 0:28:46.360 love like, I love doing stuff. It's like a surprise element. 0:28:46.840 --> 0:28:49.040 Yeah, no one will know, not even me. 0:28:49.240 --> 0:28:52.040 No one will know what. Yeah, no one will know 0:28:52.160 --> 0:28:52.920 till it happens. 0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:54.680 Maybe it's happened already. 0:28:54.920 --> 0:28:56.000 Yeah it hasn't. 0:28:56.040 --> 0:28:56.960 But it wouldn't tell me. 0:28:58.880 --> 0:29:05.000 No one, not a single soul. I'm just kidding. I 0:29:05.040 --> 0:29:08.560 don't know. I'm not good at keeping secrets like that, 0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:11.160 so I think i'd probably have like a select. Actually 0:29:11.840 --> 0:29:13.560 i'd have a select for you because I know I 0:29:13.560 --> 0:29:15.520 would tell you. And then I'd be like, do not 0:29:15.680 --> 0:29:21.160 tell a soul? And you're like, gotcha, Robbie, don't tell anybody? 0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:23.680 Ends there like, who's he gonna tell? 0:29:23.760 --> 0:29:24.360 You? Might tell me? 0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:29.320 No, I would not, No, I would not tell anybody. 0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:32.320 I would tell Robbie, and then that's where the chain ends. 0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:33.720 He's not gonna tell anyone, might tell. 0:29:33.600 --> 0:29:35.360 Me because you need me to prepare something for it. 0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:37.400 In that day's podcast, like, oh, hey, here's the deal. 0:29:37.520 --> 0:29:39.440 So Beck is proposing, so I need you to put 0:29:39.480 --> 0:29:40.080 up these clips. 0:29:40.320 --> 0:29:44.640 Oh maybe Becatin's into kiss that morning and your friend 0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:47.440 has proposed a big secret. 0:29:47.480 --> 0:29:50.520 Who do you tell or like or like it happened? 0:29:50.520 --> 0:29:52.880 And I was like, tonya it happened, don't tell anyone. 0:29:52.920 --> 0:29:54.600 The next thing I know, it's like blasted on the 0:29:54.680 --> 0:29:55.280 morning show. 0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:58.000 Hey, in the same sex relationship, do you have to 0:29:58.000 --> 0:30:00.480 discuss those things in advance? Because what if? What if 0:30:00.480 --> 0:30:02.200 you go to propose and she's like, oh, I was 0:30:02.240 --> 0:30:04.320 going to do this whole thing planned for next Wednesday. 0:30:04.400 --> 0:30:07.440 There's this couple that's like popular on TikTok. They both 0:30:07.480 --> 0:30:10.680 went on this like sailboat and they both proposed. 0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:11.360 Pretty cool. 0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:13.800 Yeah that is pretty great. 0:30:14.320 --> 0:30:18.680 But now we've talked about it, and she was she 0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:21.440 I think I just feel like it would be on 0:30:21.560 --> 0:30:23.440 me to do it first, because I'm the one who's 0:30:23.480 --> 0:30:27.120 not like, oh I I'm dreaming of a wedding, you know, 0:30:28.120 --> 0:30:30.440 I think she would be. I guess it would depend 0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:33.680 on who's more like ready to get like who's like 0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:34.680 waiting for the ring. 0:30:35.280 --> 0:30:37.040 Oh you know what I'm saying, Why is one of 0:30:37.080 --> 0:30:39.280 you waiting for the ring? Wouldn't that person who's waiting 0:30:39.280 --> 0:30:40.680 for the ring just propose? 0:30:42.080 --> 0:30:43.920 No, I'm saying, like, if we were talking about it, okay, 0:30:43.960 --> 0:30:46.160 like we're ready for the next phase of our relationship 0:30:46.200 --> 0:30:51.600 to move into that place, I feel like I would 0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:54.600 be the first one to propose. But I would also 0:30:54.640 --> 0:30:56.360 like a ring. If I'm going to propose, i'd like 0:30:56.400 --> 0:31:00.880 a ring too, right right, like you know tiptat. Yeah, 0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:03.240 let me send some designs ever to you. 0:31:05.680 --> 0:31:07.560 I'll tell you A great thing to do is just 0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:14.880 talk it into their phone. Oh yeah, engage in ring. 0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:16.520 By the way, remember when we had our dinner a 0:31:16.560 --> 0:31:18.440 couple of weeks ago and one of the topics of 0:31:18.440 --> 0:31:21.880 conversation around the table at our big podcast dinner was, uh, 0:31:22.320 --> 0:31:25.000 it was Ben and Dean and Robbie, and the topic 0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:29.040 of lott testosterone came up. Yeah. I've been getting testosterone 0:31:29.080 --> 0:31:30.760 boosting ads on my phone ever since then. 0:31:30.880 --> 0:31:36.880 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that was a hot topic that night. 0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:38.640 But that's what I'm saying you could go into like 0:31:38.720 --> 0:31:41.120 just like if she goes to the restroom, got her phone, 0:31:41.200 --> 0:31:44.120 or just talk into it and say like oval cut. 0:31:44.520 --> 0:31:46.920 Oh no, I'll like, I'll send exactly what I want 0:31:47.000 --> 0:31:48.520 because I'm not I'm like. 0:31:48.560 --> 0:31:50.040 Yeah, I didn't do that either. Yeah. 0:31:50.080 --> 0:31:55.360 Yeah, started looking at rings like a year and a 0:31:55.400 --> 0:31:58.840 half before you go from post to so you also 0:31:58.920 --> 0:32:01.160 knew what you wanted facts. 0:32:02.360 --> 0:32:04.640 God willing, When will tan you want to start having 0:32:04.680 --> 0:32:10.560 a having beautiful babies on my honeymoon or before? Wow? No, 0:32:10.560 --> 0:32:13.480 I'm just kidding. Probably want my honeymoon the minute. 0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:16.160 You'll be ready to pull the goalie as soon as. 0:32:16.640 --> 0:32:20.040 We say I do great, Wow, I'm ready now. Yeah. 0:32:20.080 --> 0:32:22.120 But we also thought that you were gonna have a 0:32:22.200 --> 0:32:25.360 ring on your finger and then by the first weekend 0:32:25.560 --> 0:32:27.960 you would have every single thing playing out. So I 0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:29.920 think I don't. 0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:33.280 Know baby though, is not like I don't need There's 0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:36.360 no people pleasing in having a baby that's like my baby, 0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:36.959 you know what I mean? 0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:37.360 Uh huh. 0:32:37.600 --> 0:32:39.400 There's a lot of people pleasing and having a wedding. 0:32:39.560 --> 0:32:42.560 My gosh, when it comes to your time, you're gonna 0:32:42.560 --> 0:32:47.520 have trouble with it too. No, I think you will yea, Yeah, yeah, 0:32:47.560 --> 0:32:49.640 you don't realize it. I never realized it until I 0:32:49.680 --> 0:32:52.040 was in it and I was like, damn, yeah. 0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:57.000 Uh's the answer is as soon as as soon as 0:32:57.040 --> 0:32:57.480 I say I. 0:32:57.440 --> 0:33:01.880 Do to imagine pregnant Tanya waddling into the morning show 0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:04.160 so odo. 0:33:04.280 --> 0:33:09.240 I can so picture it and also so crazy. 0:33:09.640 --> 0:33:11.280 Yeah, but it's. 0:33:11.120 --> 0:33:12.880 Just like one of those things where all of a sudden, 0:33:13.520 --> 0:33:15.760 you like, don't ever expect to see someone in a 0:33:15.800 --> 0:33:17.960 certain phase of life, and then you do and you're like, oh, 0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:20.560 how did I never picture this? It's so natural? 0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:22.840 Yeah, thank you. I know the fact that I hold 0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:24.920 my dog like a baby. It's it's time for me. 0:33:24.960 --> 0:33:29.080 It's gonna be an emotional time. Life is a roller coaster. 0:33:29.200 --> 0:33:35.560 Baby might be be perfect description for your memoir my memoir. 0:33:35.640 --> 0:33:43.400 Yeah that's true. Okay, biggest takeaway this year personally and professionally. Hmmm. Actually, 0:33:43.440 --> 0:33:45.360 before we do that one, let's go to this one, 0:33:45.360 --> 0:33:47.280 just because it coincides with the baby. What do you 0:33:47.320 --> 0:33:48.440 both use for birth control? 0:33:49.400 --> 0:33:50.800 Wow? What an invasive question. 0:33:52.640 --> 0:33:57.320 People are really feeling comfortable these days. Well that's interesting, 0:34:00.920 --> 0:34:02.040 such a thoughtful question. 0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:04.640 Yeah, thank you. 0:34:04.560 --> 0:34:05.640 For being inclusive. 0:34:05.920 --> 0:34:07.480 Yeah, I am. 0:34:07.400 --> 0:34:14.760 Not on birth control. We're very safe. 0:34:12.560 --> 0:34:13.480 Natural planning method. 0:34:13.760 --> 0:34:18.960 Yeah yeah, and like I'm I've never been on birth control, 0:34:19.000 --> 0:34:21.839 like for maybe I should not let my hormones are 0:34:21.880 --> 0:34:24.640 just like going off the rails. Oh no, I'm just kidding. No, 0:34:24.719 --> 0:34:26.880 I'm very fortunate that I've never needed to be on 0:34:26.920 --> 0:34:31.080 birth control for any reason. So thank you so much 0:34:31.120 --> 0:34:34.080 for including me. And I'm not on it, so thank you. 0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:37.919 So I as well. I am not on birth control. I 0:34:38.000 --> 0:34:41.160 have not been on birth control for like a decade now. 0:34:42.480 --> 0:34:44.640 I was on it. I think I started taking it 0:34:44.640 --> 0:34:46.600 when I was nineteen, I lost my virginity, and I 0:34:46.640 --> 0:34:49.759 was on it through my like big boyfriend, like that 0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:52.680 big breakup. And after he and I broke up, I 0:34:52.719 --> 0:34:55.920 got off birth control and I never got back on it. Oh, 0:34:56.000 --> 0:34:58.120 so I've been off it for a while. A lot 0:34:58.160 --> 0:34:59.560 of people ask me that all the time, which is 0:34:59.560 --> 0:35:00.200 so weird. 0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:07.120 Because they're probably like, how are you uh not getting pregnant? 0:35:07.400 --> 0:35:10.480 Oh? So the I I guess it's natural cycles. Like 0:35:10.520 --> 0:35:15.040 I'm very in tune with my body and when I'm ovulating, 0:35:15.160 --> 0:35:19.600 and so I'm just I take extra precautions in that time. Uh, 0:35:19.840 --> 0:35:21.160 And that's that's. 0:35:21.000 --> 0:35:23.000 There's no condoms involved. 0:35:23.200 --> 0:35:24.160 Thank you for asking. Mark. 0:35:24.239 --> 0:35:26.200 Well, it seems like the question is what birth control 0:35:26.239 --> 0:35:27.360 do you use, and the answer is. 0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:30.360 Condoms, but the answer is natural cycle. 0:35:30.800 --> 0:35:34.560 Really a lot of faith, a lot of faith in. 0:35:34.520 --> 0:35:36.319 My own body, Like I feel like I'm very in 0:35:36.360 --> 0:35:38.920 tune with my cycle. 0:35:39.440 --> 0:35:41.920 Wow. Is that what they call the rhythm method? 0:35:43.000 --> 0:35:43.040 No? 0:35:43.080 --> 0:35:44.360 I think it's called natural cycles. 0:35:44.440 --> 0:35:47.080 Okay, But I also think that like, you're a place 0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:49.600 too where if you were to get pregnant, that you 0:35:49.640 --> 0:35:50.239 would be like. 0:35:50.440 --> 0:35:53.239 Right, fine, let's go. Yeah right right, Yeah, there's not 0:35:53.400 --> 0:35:55.879 like a yeah you're when you're in your twenty. 0:35:55.680 --> 0:35:57.239 Yeah, and you're like, I can't, I can't. 0:35:57.239 --> 0:35:58.080 I don't know what I would do? 0:35:58.160 --> 0:35:59.840 Yeah yeah, yeah. 0:35:59.320 --> 0:36:00.960 Well I use the little think called the vasectomy, and 0:36:01.000 --> 0:36:03.040 I highly recommend it to everyone out there who has 0:36:03.160 --> 0:36:05.200 kids and you're done having kids, have your husband do 0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:06.280 it because it's great. 0:36:06.800 --> 0:36:08.680 Well, actually, you know it's funny. I when I got 0:36:08.760 --> 0:36:11.279 into this relationship, I was gonna get an IUD because 0:36:11.280 --> 0:36:15.560 they have like they have non hormonal iud's. I think 0:36:15.560 --> 0:36:16.200 they're copper. 0:36:17.800 --> 0:36:17.920 Uh. 0:36:18.120 --> 0:36:19.600 But then I really was like looking into it, and 0:36:19.600 --> 0:36:22.000 I was like, I don't want a foreign object just 0:36:22.120 --> 0:36:26.040 chilling up there like who for a while. Yeah, I mean, 0:36:26.080 --> 0:36:28.200 no offense anybody that has them. But like for me, 0:36:28.600 --> 0:36:30.680 I was just like I don't want I don't want it. 0:36:31.719 --> 0:36:35.040 So that makes sense. You're very particular about what you 0:36:35.040 --> 0:36:35.960 put into your body. 0:36:36.040 --> 0:36:41.080 So yeah, like some apparatus up there, like not for me, 0:36:41.840 --> 0:36:43.239 but each to each their own. 0:36:43.800 --> 0:36:45.120 Yeah, different things for everybody. 0:36:45.160 --> 0:36:51.120 Yeah, different sprokes, different strokes, yeah, different frocs. Okay. Biggest 0:36:51.160 --> 0:36:55.239 takeaway this year personally and professionally, hmm. 0:36:57.719 --> 0:37:03.520 Personally, you know. Personally, I think I've realized that as 0:37:03.680 --> 0:37:11.080 I get older, I'm seeing things like my personality. I'm 0:37:11.120 --> 0:37:14.319 noticing things that I want to be better as a 0:37:14.360 --> 0:37:17.040 partner in terms of like or just like a person, 0:37:17.239 --> 0:37:20.760 like in any relationship, whether it's with Haley or my friends, 0:37:20.760 --> 0:37:24.759 whatever it is, is like being patient and like and 0:37:24.840 --> 0:37:28.399 being able to say, like, I realize I have an 0:37:28.400 --> 0:37:30.760 issue where I feel like I need to control things 0:37:30.840 --> 0:37:32.799 and like if if someone does something that's not the 0:37:32.800 --> 0:37:35.560 way that I would do it, it like bothers me 0:37:35.680 --> 0:37:37.360 to my gosh. 0:37:37.040 --> 0:37:39.399 This is my life lesson too, But go continue. 0:37:39.080 --> 0:37:43.080 Because I feel like I go, I go, my brain goes. 0:37:43.320 --> 0:37:45.239 That's not the right way to do it because that's 0:37:45.280 --> 0:37:48.239 not how I would do it, and it causes me 0:37:48.280 --> 0:37:51.279 to get really frustrated and I feel like it it 0:37:51.360 --> 0:37:53.680 works me up, and in my mind, I'm like, why 0:37:53.719 --> 0:37:56.160 do I do that? Because I do things that they 0:37:56.360 --> 0:37:58.360 that would be a way that they want to do it, 0:37:58.400 --> 0:38:00.640 and it doesn't seem to bother them like bothers me. 0:38:01.320 --> 0:38:03.480 So I'm really wanting to work on that of like 0:38:04.320 --> 0:38:06.600 it's called I think I've talked about this before. Mel 0:38:06.680 --> 0:38:08.799 Robbins talked about it. It's on her podcast. It's called 0:38:08.800 --> 0:38:10.600 like the let them theory, and it's just like if 0:38:10.600 --> 0:38:13.000 they want to do something and maybe you're fearful that 0:38:13.160 --> 0:38:14.960 like oh they're going to get hurt or it's going 0:38:15.000 --> 0:38:17.920 to end badly, sometimes you just gotta let them and 0:38:18.040 --> 0:38:20.160 like be there for them, be a good friend, be 0:38:20.239 --> 0:38:22.640 a good partner, but also be like I don't control 0:38:22.680 --> 0:38:28.320 this situation and not basically I just want to relinquish control. 0:38:29.480 --> 0:38:33.240 I can only control myself, my actions, how I treat people, 0:38:33.440 --> 0:38:35.840 how I respond, and I don't want to do it 0:38:35.880 --> 0:38:38.319 for other people anymore because it's it's like taking up 0:38:38.400 --> 0:38:40.440 energy that I don't is not productive. 0:38:40.600 --> 0:38:43.319 It's so crazy that you say that, because that is 0:38:43.360 --> 0:38:47.719 my biggest takeaway from the year also, and it's not 0:38:47.800 --> 0:38:51.920 so much about control. It's like I've experienced I've been 0:38:51.960 --> 0:38:56.200 experiencing a lot of disrespect in certain relationships, certain areas, 0:38:56.760 --> 0:38:59.560 and I I'm a very sensitive person. I'm a cancer 0:39:00.160 --> 0:39:03.239 feelings hurt a lot, and everyone says, just let it 0:39:03.320 --> 0:39:05.680 roll off your back, like just don't care about what, 0:39:05.840 --> 0:39:09.160 and I'm like, I care. I care. I'm a person 0:39:09.200 --> 0:39:13.239 that cares and feels and is sensitive. And so what 0:39:13.320 --> 0:39:16.279 I realized is I can't just keep letting myself get hurt. 0:39:16.800 --> 0:39:20.920 So I'm creating boundaries for myself, for my mental health, 0:39:21.400 --> 0:39:24.080 and I think that's gonna be a game changer for 0:39:24.120 --> 0:39:26.520 me moving forward. Because I was like that that kid 0:39:26.520 --> 0:39:28.239 that like, you know, it's like, don't touch the stove, 0:39:28.280 --> 0:39:30.400 You're gonna burn yourself, And I kept like touching the stove, 0:39:31.080 --> 0:39:32.880 and I'm just not going to touch the stove anymore. 0:39:34.000 --> 0:39:39.680 Yeah, It's it's just like peace entering, like a peaceful state. 0:39:39.880 --> 0:39:42.359 Yeah, but I think what you said about like, you 0:39:42.440 --> 0:39:45.440 can't control anybody else ever, no matter what you do, 0:39:45.560 --> 0:39:49.120 you can only control how you let it affect you. 0:39:49.239 --> 0:39:52.840 Or what like, or your your closeness to the situation 0:39:52.920 --> 0:39:55.719 and sometimes just removing yourself from the situation is like 0:39:56.280 --> 0:39:59.680 brings the biggest piece, the biggest piece, the most piece piece. 0:39:59.760 --> 0:40:02.719 Yeah, in the biggest piece of piece and the biggest. 0:40:02.480 --> 0:40:04.120 I'm always wanting the biggest piece of piece. 0:40:04.280 --> 0:40:09.000 Yeah. Professionally, I would say being like a little more 0:40:09.880 --> 0:40:12.879 of a go getter and not being stuck in the 0:40:13.200 --> 0:40:19.520 feeling of feeling stuck instead of because I know there's 0:40:19.560 --> 0:40:22.120 just lulls where you feel stuck in your career or something. 0:40:22.160 --> 0:40:24.279 But I feel like instead of staying in the lull 0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:26.520 and being like I just feel stuck and waiting to 0:40:26.560 --> 0:40:31.439 feel unstuck, like doing being proactive to not feel stuck anymore. Yeah, 0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:34.600 and saying yes to things that might scare me. That 0:40:34.680 --> 0:40:35.200 would be my. 0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:42.319 Professional Yeah, my professional is I feel like I was 0:40:42.360 --> 0:40:45.560 surviving a lot of twenty twenty three, meaning like just 0:40:45.960 --> 0:40:47.560 doing what I needed to do when I needed to 0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:50.400 do it, and not thriving. And I want to be 0:40:51.120 --> 0:40:51.920 thriving again. 0:40:53.440 --> 0:40:54.480 You want to be thriving. 0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:56.439 I want to be thriving, which again I think comes 0:40:56.440 --> 0:40:59.360 into balance because I'm always just like doing everything that 0:40:59.400 --> 0:41:01.600 I possibly freaking can and I think I need to 0:41:01.640 --> 0:41:04.160 start like working smarter instead of harder. 0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:10.080 Okay, I like that, No, working smarter instead of harder. 0:41:10.200 --> 0:41:12.360 Yeah, Like, but I want to be thriving like I 0:41:12.400 --> 0:41:14.200 want to I think, you know. And like we've talked 0:41:14.200 --> 0:41:16.080 about it too with the podcast, Like we hit a 0:41:16.080 --> 0:41:18.279 point where we're just like, what are we doing? Are we? 0:41:18.520 --> 0:41:18.839 Are? We? 0:41:19.239 --> 0:41:23.640 Is anybody out there? And uh, like we're just doing 0:41:23.680 --> 0:41:26.520 what we need to do to survive instead of doing 0:41:26.560 --> 0:41:28.440 what we need to do to thrive. And there's a 0:41:28.520 --> 0:41:32.520 huge difference, a huge mindset change. I want to thrive again. 0:41:32.680 --> 0:41:35.280 Say I'd love to thrive. 0:41:35.400 --> 0:41:37.279 And then here's like a little easier one who would 0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:40.000 win in Survivor among the four of you, Tanya, Becka, Robbie, 0:41:40.000 --> 0:41:44.279 and Haley. I'll thought, who's not winning is me? Take 0:41:44.320 --> 0:41:45.880 myself right out of that equation. 0:41:46.400 --> 0:41:49.120 I'm gonna go ahead and eliminate Haley as I feel 0:41:49.160 --> 0:41:51.000 her food allergies would be an issue. 0:41:51.320 --> 0:41:52.479 Well she's only eating rice. 0:41:52.600 --> 0:41:57.280 No, Well she can't have rice unless they have brown rice. 0:41:59.200 --> 0:42:01.600 Oh wow, she she needs like every two hours. 0:42:01.680 --> 0:42:06.360 So yeah, so her I would probably so she'd probably out. 0:42:06.200 --> 0:42:08.879 First that, yeah, you might out you might. 0:42:10.160 --> 0:42:16.239 Yeah, so, Robbie, Becca, we might be. 0:42:16.200 --> 0:42:20.440 The final two because of our stubborn both of us 0:42:20.520 --> 0:42:22.360 not letting the other one be be. 0:42:23.120 --> 0:42:26.120 I feel like your athletic abilities would keep you winning 0:42:26.160 --> 0:42:30.120 the immunity challenges more wow, but I feel like he 0:42:30.200 --> 0:42:34.200 might outwit you because he's like chess player. He could 0:42:34.239 --> 0:42:35.120 like play the game. 0:42:35.280 --> 0:42:38.360 I think I'm sma here than you're giving me credit for. 0:42:38.600 --> 0:42:42.399 Oh really, yeah, ke, Yeah, I. 0:42:42.280 --> 0:42:47.920 Don't show all my cards. Yeah, so I don't know. 0:42:47.920 --> 0:42:50.359 It would be a tight race, that sounds it would 0:42:50.400 --> 0:42:52.880 be like our ping pong matches where you never. 0:42:52.760 --> 0:42:54.000 Know you're going to come out of them. 0:42:54.200 --> 0:42:56.879 Yeah, h mm hmm. 0:42:57.200 --> 0:42:57.879 Okay. 0:42:58.640 --> 0:43:00.720 That's really why I think we do well and amazing 0:43:00.800 --> 0:43:03.400 race because I think we I do think Robby and 0:43:03.440 --> 0:43:07.080 I would like maybe have the worst reputation because we'd 0:43:07.080 --> 0:43:10.279 be so mean to each other, but there'd be no 0:43:10.320 --> 0:43:11.000 hard feelings. 0:43:11.120 --> 0:43:12.720 Yeah, truly, like you just be like we're. 0:43:12.600 --> 0:43:16.359 Getting through this to win, but like, well, we're gonna 0:43:16.360 --> 0:43:16.960 be fine after this. 0:43:17.239 --> 0:43:21.799 Yeah, last and final question, who did Becca go on 0:43:21.840 --> 0:43:24.800 a date with right before she met Haley from Gilmore Girls? 0:43:24.920 --> 0:43:31.520 My gosh, we what did it say? 0:43:31.600 --> 0:43:33.920 Who did Becca go on a date with right before 0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:35.600 she met Haley from Gilmore Girls. 0:43:35.640 --> 0:43:37.000 I didn't know Haley was on Gilmore Girl. 0:43:37.080 --> 0:43:38.919 Yeah, that could be worried a bit more clear. 0:43:39.120 --> 0:43:43.000 Oh, I don't understand the press. What is Gilmore Girls? 0:43:43.560 --> 0:43:46.600 Who did Becca go on a date with right before 0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:47.480 she met Haley? 0:43:47.719 --> 0:43:48.200 Period? 0:43:48.560 --> 0:43:49.680 From Gilmore Girls? 0:43:50.080 --> 0:43:51.640 So the person you want to date with us from 0:43:51.640 --> 0:43:52.400 Gilmore Girls? 0:43:52.520 --> 0:43:55.600 Yeah? 0:43:55.719 --> 0:43:57.920 Did you want to date with Scott Patterson holst to 0:43:57.960 --> 0:44:00.240 buy them all? Then? 0:43:59.680 --> 0:44:01.799 I don't the start of the saw movies back in 0:44:01.800 --> 0:44:03.400 the day. I would have loved him gone on a 0:44:03.480 --> 0:44:05.120 date with let me tell you. 0:44:07.480 --> 0:44:09.600 Yeah. 0:44:10.040 --> 0:44:12.120 So still not going to give it up? No, no, 0:44:12.320 --> 0:44:16.480 all right, shot shot Sorry sorry Brentlee Yinglee. 0:44:16.760 --> 0:44:18.560 So I've got a game for it. By the way, 0:44:18.560 --> 0:44:20.080 it's the birthday game from last week. But today is 0:44:20.120 --> 0:44:23.719 such an incredible birthday day that I feel like we 0:44:23.800 --> 0:44:27.520 have to play this game today. Oh, December eighteenth. Everybody 0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:28.120 was born. 0:44:27.880 --> 0:44:30.480 Today, every single person, every single. 0:44:30.200 --> 0:44:31.680 Person was born today. So are you ready to play 0:44:31.719 --> 0:44:35.479 the game? Like? Who? Here we go, It's the birthday game. 0:44:35.560 --> 0:44:37.719 Whoever guess the most points is our winner. We're gonna 0:44:37.719 --> 0:44:40.560 start with Tanya. Tanya today is Billie Eilish's birthday? How 0:44:40.560 --> 0:44:47.680 old is she today? Two twenty two? Becca twenty one, 0:44:47.719 --> 0:44:51.080 twenty one Easton twenty three, she is twenty two years old. 0:44:52.800 --> 0:44:54.320 She got lucky to guess first. 0:44:54.800 --> 0:44:57.520 Also birthday today? See us see you's birthday today? How 0:44:57.520 --> 0:44:59.879 old is see you today? Back to taiy forty eight 0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:04.600 forty eight. Let's go to Easton forty nine forty nine. 0:45:04.680 --> 0:45:07.120 Let's go to Tanya forty three forty three. The first 0:45:07.120 --> 0:45:08.880 guest gets it against he is forty eight. Wait to 0:45:08.920 --> 0:45:11.799 go back up? I'm sorry, there you go. 0:45:12.040 --> 0:45:13.399 This looks good for Yeah, you. 0:45:13.320 --> 0:45:16.400 Know what's's birthdays today? Brad Pitt's birthday is today? 0:45:16.440 --> 0:45:16.760 Wow? 0:45:17.239 --> 0:45:17.520 Easton? 0:45:17.520 --> 0:45:19.600 How old is Brad Pitt today? Brad Pitt is a 0:45:19.920 --> 0:45:25.279 fifty two fifty two Tanya, Brad Pitt is fifty five 0:45:25.360 --> 0:45:29.239 fifty five, beca fifty seven. It's a milestone for Brad 0:45:29.280 --> 0:45:33.040 Pitt today he is sixty years old. So Becca gets 0:45:33.120 --> 0:45:35.960 the point on that one. She is the closest. Happy birthday, Brad. 0:45:35.960 --> 0:45:39.080 Do you know whose birthdays today? Christina Aguilera is having 0:45:39.120 --> 0:45:41.760 your birthday today? Tanya? How old is she? 0:45:41.760 --> 0:45:44.960 She is also in she is also forty three forty three. 0:45:45.040 --> 0:45:47.360 Let's go to Becca. He's forty one, okay, Let's go 0:45:47.360 --> 0:45:47.760 to Easton. 0:45:47.960 --> 0:45:49.399 Ex Tina is forty five. 0:45:49.440 --> 0:45:51.560 Okay, Now by Tanya, why do you say also forty three? 0:45:51.600 --> 0:45:53.600 No one else has been forty three in this particular list. 0:45:53.840 --> 0:45:55.280 I guess forty three for. 0:45:55.080 --> 0:45:56.719 Somebody is see I think, well, you know who is 0:45:56.760 --> 0:46:02.719 forty three Christina agus twenty three two for backy you 0:46:02.760 --> 0:46:05.640 know it's birthday to day Katie Holmes. It's Katie Holmes 0:46:05.719 --> 0:46:08.000 birthday today. Back of hold is Katie Holmes today. 0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:13.919 Katie Holmes is probably I'm gonna she's probably forty five. 0:46:14.040 --> 0:46:18.360 Forty five. Let's go to Easton, Uh forty two, forty 0:46:18.360 --> 0:46:23.520 two Tanya forty four, forty four becas forty five. These 0:46:23.520 --> 0:46:25.719 people know their birthdays. It's three for Becka, two for 0:46:25.800 --> 0:46:29.520 Tanya once again Easton. No points man. So if you 0:46:29.560 --> 0:46:31.279 get this, we'll do it. If Tiny gets that, we'll 0:46:31.280 --> 0:46:31.880 do a tiebreak. 0:46:31.920 --> 0:46:32.200 Okay. 0:46:32.719 --> 0:46:36.239 Otherwise Becca wins. And I chose this person because of 0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:39.920 Tanya's close personal relationship to the family. Steven Spielberg's birthday 0:46:39.960 --> 0:46:42.360 is today. Tanya and her his sister hung out in 0:46:42.400 --> 0:46:44.319 the flight once and I believe I've been in touch since. 0:46:44.400 --> 0:46:46.759 Yes, Nancy Spielberg dinner Robbie and I. 0:46:47.040 --> 0:46:49.960 That is very sweet. How old is Steven? Though? Today? Easton, 0:46:50.040 --> 0:46:51.640 you have the honors this round. 0:46:52.080 --> 0:46:53.920 I'm still in it. I can still pull this together. 0:46:54.760 --> 0:46:57.880 He Steven Spielberg is seventy. 0:46:58.920 --> 0:47:04.440 One, seventy one, eighty eighty, seventy four, seventy four. Well 0:47:04.480 --> 0:47:07.800 we have a tie, oh TONI is he eighty? Spielberg 0:47:07.880 --> 0:47:11.680 is seventy seven, exactly between eighty and seventy four. So 0:47:11.719 --> 0:47:15.200 I throw this one out. No points, so we do 0:47:15.280 --> 0:47:16.880 have another one. So we'll throw that one out and 0:47:16.880 --> 0:47:18.320 do another one. Now we have to go to tomorrow. 0:47:18.680 --> 0:47:22.640 Tomorrow a guy that we know well all too well. 0:47:23.160 --> 0:47:26.759 Jake Jillenhall's birthday is tomorrow. How old is Jake Jillen holding? 0:47:27.000 --> 0:47:28.560 Tanya forty four? Forty four? 0:47:28.640 --> 0:47:29.840 Back up forty three. 0:47:29.760 --> 0:47:33.760 Forty three, Easton forty two for the win, Jake Jillen 0:47:33.840 --> 0:47:39.280 Holidays forty three years up on your winner? 0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:43.120 What does she win? 0:47:43.239 --> 0:47:50.040 Mark back A congratulations you have won the birthday birthday game. 0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:56.520 Congratulations holiday card right, nice picture of his family, And 0:47:56.600 --> 0:48:01.640 so ends today's Birthday game, and today's podcast and our 0:48:01.680 --> 0:48:06.680 podcasts for the year except for one next Monday. My 0:48:06.800 --> 0:48:10.520 popular demand, Our own, our own demand. It's the Market 0:48:10.560 --> 0:48:13.440 Easton Show. That's right. What did it was before? I 0:48:13.440 --> 0:48:15.239 believe it was the last episode of twenty twenty if 0:48:15.239 --> 0:48:17.560 you want to go back and check that out. It 0:48:17.600 --> 0:48:19.440 was very fun. People seem to enjoy it. 0:48:19.480 --> 0:48:20.600 What are y'all doing this year? 0:48:21.400 --> 0:48:23.920 Mostly talking about YouTube? Oh by the way, should we 0:48:23.960 --> 0:48:25.440 talked to you about you a lot in that last one? 0:48:25.520 --> 0:48:27.319 You guys never listened, but we talked about you both 0:48:27.360 --> 0:48:27.600 a lot. 0:48:27.560 --> 0:48:31.480 A lot of complimentary things, very nice in this year. 0:48:32.080 --> 0:48:35.120 Want to anyway, So tune in for that The Mark 0:48:35.160 --> 0:48:37.279 and Easton Show, and then Tanya and Becker are back 0:48:37.320 --> 0:48:38.560 to ring in twenty twenty four. 0:48:38.880 --> 0:48:43.840 That's right, jan second, Yeah, so, and on the docket 0:48:45.040 --> 0:48:50.239 words of the year visions. I want to create a 0:48:50.280 --> 0:48:52.640 guest list, and I'm talking like guests that we really 0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:57.759 want on the pod, like Alen Kashishian. Oh yeah, you 0:48:57.800 --> 0:48:59.320 know what I mean, People that I think our listeners 0:48:59.320 --> 0:49:01.840 would really like to hear from the cool, insightful stories 0:49:02.160 --> 0:49:05.840 in the industry. Maybe not in the industry. So a 0:49:05.880 --> 0:49:08.279 guest list love that, I guess that's it. 0:49:08.400 --> 0:49:08.640 That's it. 0:49:08.800 --> 0:49:13.879 Hey Christmas, Merry Christmas, holidays, whatever you celebrate, we love 0:49:13.920 --> 0:49:16.719 you so much and we will see you next year. 0:49:17.000 --> 0:49:18.040 See on the other side.