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Speaker 1: Remember once in a while we get a request in
Speaker 1: to do a second day update. It really isn't so
Speaker 1: much about getting a second date, but they're just really
Speaker 1: angry and want to tell the person they're an a hole.
Speaker 1: And I think that's what we've got today. It's from Samantha.
Speaker 1: She knows that she's not getting a call back, but
Speaker 1: now she's angry about it and wants to call it
Speaker 1: the guy. So I don't know if she actually wants
Speaker 1: another date or just to call this guy out on
Speaker 1: the air. But we'll find out. What's up, Samantha, How
Speaker 1: are you? I have mad, but I still do like him? Okay,
Speaker 1: So yeah, you don't sound mad at all, Like you
Speaker 1: sound like you can't stop laughing at the situation. No.
Speaker 1: I just think that's funny that people do that because
Speaker 1: they do. Okay, Okay, so you do want to call
Speaker 1: this guy to see if you'll go out with you again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to give me out a chance, like if
Speaker 1: he has a good reason, you know, like if something happened,
Speaker 1: you know. But well when I when I read your email,
Speaker 1: it looked more like you just want to tell me
Speaker 1: he's a a hole. Yeah, I mean, like I am
Speaker 1: really mad at him, but I do want to go
Speaker 1: out with Okay, weird. Well, before we get into it,
Speaker 1: why don't you tell us a little bit about him?
Speaker 1: What's his name? His name is Nick? Nick? Okay, and
Speaker 1: where did you meet Nick? We met online on a
Speaker 1: dating app and we talked for like a week or
Speaker 1: so and decided to meet up. So we got drink
Speaker 1: at the bar, and I don't really got along really
Speaker 1: well when we were laughing and like chatting and having
Speaker 1: a good time, and he disappeared for a little bit.
Speaker 1: I mean he said he had to go to the restroom,
Speaker 1: but it took a little while, and he wait, how
Speaker 1: long was a little while? It was like maybe fifteen minutes,
Speaker 1: oh so wow, Yeah, yeah, But he came back and
Speaker 1: he said he had a surprise for me. And they
Speaker 1: didn't bring you back a souvenir from the bathroom long trip. Here, honey,
Speaker 1: here's a yurnal cake. Yeah. I was not like confused,
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, all right, what is it?
Speaker 1: And he led me over to the bathroom and he
Speaker 1: showed me where he put his initials, like in the wall,
Speaker 1: like with a pocket knife, and mine were under it
Speaker 1: carved your initials in the wall by the bathrooms. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what did you think of that? Was that funny to you?
Speaker 1: Or I mean it was silly, but I just thought
Speaker 1: it was really sweet, you know, like in romantic I
Speaker 1: don't know, I've never had anyone He's gonna be mine
Speaker 1: that for me? So yeah, it did. Okay, So when
Speaker 1: did you get mad at him? WHOA? We could do?
Speaker 1: You have fun? Like I kissed him and it kind
Speaker 1: of like, you know, started banking out at the bar
Speaker 1: and you know, things were running really well. And he
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know about you, but if I
Speaker 1: had a good date and I'm really interested in I
Speaker 1: don't really want to see anyone else after that. So
Speaker 1: he was asking you to be exclusive right there on
Speaker 1: your first date. Wow. Yeah, And you know I kind
Speaker 1: of felt the same way. I was like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: really like this guy, might as well see where it
Speaker 1: goes see, it's only weird if people aren't on the
Speaker 1: same page. But it sounds like you were into it,
Speaker 1: like the initials and exclusivity. Yeah, we had a really
Speaker 1: great time, and so he made a suggestion to take
Speaker 1: down our dating profiles. So I agreed to do it,
Speaker 1: and we did it like right then and there, like
Speaker 1: we both pulled our phones out and deleted it. Yeah exactly.
Speaker 1: So you know, we left in a neuber or whatever,
Speaker 1: and he took me home and I didn't he have
Speaker 1: phones for like two days, so I texted him, was
Speaker 1: kind of like, hey, cutie, how are you you know,
Speaker 1: And then a week went by and I still didn't
Speaker 1: hear from him. I mean, technically he's your new boyfriend
Speaker 1: from the description of the date pretty much. I mean basically,
Speaker 1: you guys are like, let's get off the dating world.
Speaker 1: Let's get out of the dating world and just date
Speaker 1: each other. Exactly. Think he was just freaking out, like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I was drunk. I shouldn't have done that.
Speaker 1: I went too fast. I don't think he was drunk.
Speaker 1: We only had like two drinks at that moment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I'm just like it's making me
Speaker 1: because like, he's ditching me obviously, and I tech to
Speaker 1: see his if his profile there and he put it
Speaker 1: back up. Oh wow, okay, so no discussion about it,
Speaker 1: but he did put his dating profile back online. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so obviously that's why I'm mad and I'm piss He's
Speaker 1: a liar, and I want to know what his deal is.
Speaker 1: Was he trying to like sleep with you that night
Speaker 1: and you turned him down or something? I'm just no, no,
Speaker 1: I mean, he was like, you know, I'll take you
Speaker 1: home because we realized you were kind of along the
Speaker 1: same way and I didn't want to sleep with him
Speaker 1: right off the bat like that, and he respected it.
Speaker 1: He was like, no, I agree, let's let's wait a
Speaker 1: little bit. And I was like, okay, I just don't
Speaker 1: understand all the like all the talk on his part
Speaker 1: wanting to be exclusive and take down your profiles if, like,
Speaker 1: what was his motive? Do you think? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I need your help to figure that out because at
Speaker 1: this point, I feel like he's like a two faced jerk.
Speaker 1: So I don't know what's going on. Okay, So you
Speaker 1: first you want to call him and tell him he's
Speaker 1: a two faced jerk, and then you want to ask
Speaker 1: if you'll go out with you again? Yes, exactly right, perfect, Okay,
Speaker 1: and then come back and you can call your boyfriend
Speaker 1: and ask him why his on dating sites and then
Speaker 1: maybe ask him for a second date. Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: we'll do it right after this hanging brooking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Second date update. This might be the first
Speaker 1: second date update we've ever done with a boyfriend and
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. Just could either end up in a breakup
Speaker 1: or marriage. Who knows how it could go either way.
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear if you're just joining us.
Speaker 1: Samantha is on the phone and she wants to call
Speaker 1: a dude named Nick. They did go out on a
Speaker 1: first date to a bar. They met online at a
Speaker 1: great time, and even on that date, decided to take
Speaker 1: down their dating profile so they could not have to
Speaker 1: date anybody else and just date each other. To me,
Speaker 1: that sounds like they decided to be boyfriend a girlfriend.
Speaker 1: She says it wasn't that serious yet, but they did
Speaker 1: take down their dating profile. Fast forward to a few
Speaker 1: days later after the date and she noticed his profile
Speaker 1: was back online and he's not responding to her, So
Speaker 1: now she's very angry. Her boyfriend and wants to find
Speaker 1: out why. So we're about to call him. All right, Samantha,
Speaker 1: are you ready? Yes? I am ready. I didn't know
Speaker 1: ask is your dating profile back up? Yeah? I put
Speaker 1: mine back up after I saw he was up. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: take that match with me again. Okay, So are you
Speaker 1: wanting to first yell at him and then ask him out?
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I just want to know why somebody
Speaker 1: would literally pretend like they wanted to be exclusive and
Speaker 1: then ignore somebody. It's just rude. Hopefully you know there's
Speaker 1: something that half and I don't have to tell him
Speaker 1: how rude he is. But okay, okay, okay, Well I'll
Speaker 1: do this one him right now and see if we
Speaker 1: can figure it out. Okay, yeah, all right, here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello him aspect to Nick please? Yeah, this is Nick. Hey,
Speaker 1: what's up? Man? How are you? This is Jewel from
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Hi, Hi, thank you.
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. You're from where Brooke and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. Uh okay? Cool? Yeah, another,
Speaker 1: we got that out of the way. Do you want
Speaker 1: to know why I'm calling? Yeah? Perfect, because I'd like
Speaker 1: to tell you guys calling you today because we do
Speaker 1: a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not calling them back after,
Speaker 1: they can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and figure out what happened. And we recently got an
Speaker 1: email about you from your girlfriend. Uh, I don't have
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. Yeah, that's I don't think so. I think
Speaker 1: you might have a girlfriend and might not know it.
Speaker 1: Who is this regarding her? Name is Samantha? Oh? Okay, um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I understand what we're talking about. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: So Samantha told us about how you guys went on
Speaker 1: a date and had a good time at the bar,
Speaker 1: even took down your dating profiles, and then she tried
Speaker 1: to get a hold of you after and nothing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's because she's she's a liar. So is a liar. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's a liar that can't be trusted. Wow, that's why
Speaker 1: that feels like you came along ways from I mean
Speaker 1: what she described on your date to be awesome. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know how much you know about our date,
Speaker 1: but I'll tell you. I'll tell you what I know.
Speaker 1: She said, you guys went to the bar, you had
Speaker 1: a good time, even carved your initials near the bathroom.
Speaker 1: Very sweet of you. Also, that's a property damage. You
Speaker 1: could be in trouble. And then she said that you
Speaker 1: guys decided to take down your profile so you weren't
Speaker 1: dating anybody else and made out a little bit. And
Speaker 1: that's kind of the last year from you, which was
Speaker 1: your idea, Like you asked her not to date anyone else,
Speaker 1: that you guys should just date each other. Yeah, things
Speaker 1: went so well. I really thought that we should focus
Speaker 1: on each other and not really spend all our energy
Speaker 1: trying to make this same work as opposed to trying
Speaker 1: to seek out other people. Okay, so why is she
Speaker 1: a liar now? Well, after our date, my roommate master
Speaker 1: with her on another dating site. So she's just on
Speaker 1: multiple dating sites and that's why she's a liar. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: my roommate matched with her and then she messaged my roommate.
Speaker 1: Oh so they actually started talking. Yeah, she messages him first.
Speaker 1: What did she say? Though? I don't want to get
Speaker 1: into it, but like she's clearly trying to meet other
Speaker 1: guys online. So and you're one of those weird guys
Speaker 1: that doesn't want your girlfriend dating other people. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I take it. Yeah that makes me weird then, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you've got to understand. I mean, like, despite you
Speaker 1: guys taking down the dating profile where you two met on,
Speaker 1: you only had one date together. It's not like she
Speaker 1: was cheating on you, right, But we made a thought.
Speaker 1: We were on the same page, you know, like we
Speaker 1: made a commitment to each other and that included taking
Speaker 1: out our profiles, which she didn't do. And so she's
Speaker 1: a liar one you asked? Why not ask her about it?
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to, you know, she messed my roommate.
Speaker 1: She's trying to meet other dudes, and um, I don't
Speaker 1: have time someone like that. I'd like to ask her
Speaker 1: about it. And it's it's really convenient because she's actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening and lots to talk to you.
Speaker 1: What so, yeah, can we ask her about it? Wait?
Speaker 1: What she's here? Yes? Yes, she I think so? So
Speaker 1: math are you still there? Yeah? Hi? Nick? Hi? Every time?
Speaker 1: Are you Like? Are you serious? Like that's what this
Speaker 1: is all about? Like why are you? Mimi? Are you serious?
Speaker 1: You message my freaking roommate, Like, what what do you
Speaker 1: want me to do? I'm not a liar. First off,
Speaker 1: I'm on multiple sites I delieve the one we were on,
Speaker 1: and I didn't even use those sites for dating. I
Speaker 1: use him for like networking and meeting front. Okay, that
Speaker 1: sounds the message I sense. My roommate was not now
Speaker 1: where you like you were trying to meet up with him.
Speaker 1: You sent him hey smile leafy, Like, what business are
Speaker 1: you trying to like discuss with my roommate? Okay, fine, listen,
Speaker 1: you only tell me take down the one profile that
Speaker 1: we met on, so I didn't know the other one.
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were on so many congrats, but
Speaker 1: if you like were committed to me, you would take
Speaker 1: all of them down if you really felt strongly about
Speaker 1: what was going on was with us. We went on
Speaker 1: one date, like you need to get over that. Well,
Speaker 1: it went really well and I was excited about it.
Speaker 1: Clearly you were still window shopping for other dudes. So okay,
Speaker 1: well that just makes you sound really insecure. Go on
Speaker 1: one date with a girl, and don't you make your
Speaker 1: take on all of our profiles like you found like
Speaker 1: a guy that would cry and like slash tires if
Speaker 1: you see a girl talking another guy. Wow, I didn't
Speaker 1: make you take down all your profiles obviously because you've
Speaker 1: clearly used the ones. You still had to network your
Speaker 1: way into my roommate's messages. But don't even I mean,
Speaker 1: that's just kind of like how modern dating works right now.
Speaker 1: You don't go on one date and then just completely
Speaker 1: pull out of the dating game. I didn't realize I
Speaker 1: was dating a modern dating expert. Why wouldn't you text
Speaker 1: me and say, why are you on another profile or something?
Speaker 1: You showed your true colors, so IM that's it. I
Speaker 1: don't have time for someone like that. Wow, I mean,
Speaker 1: it just sounds really weird that we went on one
Speaker 1: really great date and then talking to one other person
Speaker 1: like on another profile for like networking and stuff like.
Speaker 1: You're gonna get mad about that. You're not being honest, Samantha.
Speaker 1: All right, you need to be straightforward and honest. Right
Speaker 1: now you're trying to network into my roommates pants. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: First of all, I told you I wanted to take
Speaker 1: things slow. I don't immediately do that. I want to
Speaker 1: meet somebody personally, get to know that. Yeah, I just didn't.
Speaker 1: You want to meet a lot of people. I got it,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm not interested in that I just wanted
Speaker 1: to hang out with you, Okay, I like you. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: what if I took down all the other staff I
Speaker 1: have two other ones. Oh, the damage is done. Okay.
Speaker 1: I mean you can take down whatever you want, but
Speaker 1: that's your life. I'm not a part of that. Even
Speaker 1: if she talks about Nick, would you go out on
Speaker 1: a second date with Samantha. We'll pay for it if
Speaker 1: she takes down her other dating sites. No, Samantha, you're
Speaker 1: you dumped. Okay, you're dumped. Oh my god, you're so
Speaker 1: a stream. Nick can't dump me. You're not my boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I think that you dodge able at Samantha. He does
Speaker 1: not sound like he's very good at compromising or forgiveness
Speaker 1: for communication. Yeah. Look, y'all can say whatever you want,
Speaker 1: but I was at least I was honest. Okay, I
Speaker 1: took down my one profile. I did what I said
Speaker 1: I would do, And Samantha was still slinking around, slatting
Speaker 1: in my roommates DM trying to meet other people. So great, Well,
Speaker 1: I don't want to date someone who shames people all
Speaker 1: of a sudden, it's shaming. Yeah, he's math A girl
Speaker 1: has is trying to date other people like that's controlling.
Speaker 1: He made a commitment to each other and you you
Speaker 1: portrayed that so um. Like I said before, you're officially dumped.
Speaker 1: We are not together anymore. Man. I'm sorry, Samantha, you
Speaker 1: just got dumped. I know I lost another boyfriend. Nick.
Speaker 1: You carved your initials at the bathroom at that bar.
Speaker 1: Are you what? Are you going to go back and
Speaker 1: take those down? Or I already did? Actually, yeah, I
Speaker 1: went back to the night I found out. You back
Speaker 1: to the bar the night you found out. I just
Speaker 1: replace my initials with my roommates because I figured, you know,
Speaker 1: she'll be with her neck. He's closed. Samantha's dumped. Nick.
Speaker 1: Thank you for your time, and I'm sorry. No second date, Samantha.
Speaker 1: That's perfectly fine. Ye get through this. I think. Congratulations
Speaker 1: for your information. Nick. All of my profiles are active,
Speaker 1: and for anyone who's hearing this, he can come find
Speaker 1: me because I'm actively looking there, not surprising. Broken Jewil
Speaker 1: in the morning, I got a text in at seven eight,
Speaker 1: five to nine two that says, I'm so sad I
Speaker 1: had to hear that breakup on the air. Broken Jewe Morning,
Speaker 1: talking about today's second date update if you missed it.
Speaker 1: Samantha wanted to call this dude named Nick. They went
Speaker 1: out and had such a good date that they actually
Speaker 1: agreed to remove their dating profiles. And we got Nick
Speaker 1: on the phone and found out the reason that he
Speaker 1: was and calling her back was because Samantha only took
Speaker 1: down one of her dating profiles and actually started chatting
Speaker 1: with his roommate on another app, so she didn't take
Speaker 1: all of her stuff down, and he thought she was
Speaker 1: a liar, but she disagreed because he only specifically told
Speaker 1: her to take down one profile, so she was like,
Speaker 1: you didn't say take down all the dating profiles. Anyway,
Speaker 1: no second date for them. They don't want to go
Speaker 1: out again, remember, but maybe it'll work out with a
Speaker 1: roommate who knows if you want to do a second
Speaker 1: date up. They all have to do his email the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person who didn't call
Speaker 1: you back. Young Jeffrey's song of the Week is coming
Speaker 1: up in just a few minutes at eight ten. It's
Speaker 1: broken Jube in the Morning.