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<v Speaker 1>Remember once in a while we get a request in

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day update. It really isn't so

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<v Speaker 1>much about getting a second date, but they're just really

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<v Speaker 1>angry and want to tell the person they're an a hole.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's what we've got today. It's from Samantha.

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<v Speaker 1>She knows that she's not getting a call back, but

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<v Speaker 1>now she's angry about it and wants to call it

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<v Speaker 1>the guy. So I don't know if she actually wants

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<v Speaker 1>another date or just to call this guy out on

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<v Speaker 1>the air. But we'll find out. What's up, Samantha, How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? I have mad, but I still do like him? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, you don't sound mad at all, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>sound like you can't stop laughing at the situation. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that's funny that people do that because

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<v Speaker 1>they do. Okay, Okay, so you do want to call

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<v Speaker 1>this guy to see if you'll go out with you again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to give me out a chance, like if

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<v Speaker 1>he has a good reason, you know, like if something happened,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But well when I when I read your email,

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<v Speaker 1>it looked more like you just want to tell me

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<v Speaker 1>he's a a hole. Yeah, I mean, like I am

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<v Speaker 1>really mad at him, but I do want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Okay, weird. Well, before we get into it,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you tell us a little bit about him?

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name? His name is Nick? Nick? Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>where did you meet Nick? We met online on a

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<v Speaker 1>dating app and we talked for like a week or

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<v Speaker 1>so and decided to meet up. So we got drink

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<v Speaker 1>at the bar, and I don't really got along really

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<v Speaker 1>well when we were laughing and like chatting and having

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<v Speaker 1>a good time, and he disappeared for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he said he had to go to the restroom,

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<v Speaker 1>but it took a little while, and he wait, how

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<v Speaker 1>long was a little while? It was like maybe fifteen minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>oh so wow, Yeah, yeah, But he came back and

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<v Speaker 1>he said he had a surprise for me. And they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't bring you back a souvenir from the bathroom long trip. Here, honey,

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<v Speaker 1>here's a yurnal cake. Yeah. I was not like confused,

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, okay, all right, what is it?

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<v Speaker 1>And he led me over to the bathroom and he

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<v Speaker 1>showed me where he put his initials, like in the wall,

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<v Speaker 1>like with a pocket knife, and mine were under it

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<v Speaker 1>carved your initials in the wall by the bathrooms. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you think of that? Was that funny to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Or I mean it was silly, but I just thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was really sweet, you know, like in romantic I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I've never had anyone He's gonna be mine

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<v Speaker 1>that for me? So yeah, it did. Okay, So when

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<v Speaker 1>did you get mad at him? WHOA? We could do?

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<v Speaker 1>You have fun? Like I kissed him and it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like, you know, started banking out at the bar

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, things were running really well. And he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't know about you, but if I

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<v Speaker 1>had a good date and I'm really interested in I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really want to see anyone else after that. So

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<v Speaker 1>he was asking you to be exclusive right there on

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<v Speaker 1>your first date. Wow. Yeah, And you know I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of felt the same way. I was like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>really like this guy, might as well see where it

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<v Speaker 1>goes see, it's only weird if people aren't on the

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<v Speaker 1>same page. But it sounds like you were into it,

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<v Speaker 1>like the initials and exclusivity. Yeah, we had a really

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<v Speaker 1>great time, and so he made a suggestion to take

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<v Speaker 1>down our dating profiles. So I agreed to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and we did it like right then and there, like

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<v Speaker 1>we both pulled our phones out and deleted it. Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, we left in a neuber or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and he took me home and I didn't he have

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<v Speaker 1>phones for like two days, so I texted him, was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like, hey, cutie, how are you you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And then a week went by and I still didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear from him. I mean, technically he's your new boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>from the description of the date pretty much. I mean basically,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are like, let's get off the dating world.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get out of the dating world and just date

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Exactly. Think he was just freaking out, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I was drunk. I shouldn't have done that.

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<v Speaker 1>I went too fast. I don't think he was drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>We only had like two drinks at that moment. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. I'm just like it's making me

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<v Speaker 1>because like, he's ditching me obviously, and I tech to

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<v Speaker 1>see his if his profile there and he put it

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<v Speaker 1>back up. Oh wow, okay, so no discussion about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but he did put his dating profile back online. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so obviously that's why I'm mad and I'm piss He's

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<v Speaker 1>a liar, and I want to know what his deal is.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he trying to like sleep with you that night

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<v Speaker 1>and you turned him down or something? I'm just no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he was like, you know, I'll take you

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<v Speaker 1>home because we realized you were kind of along the

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<v Speaker 1>same way and I didn't want to sleep with him

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<v Speaker 1>right off the bat like that, and he respected it.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, no, I agree, let's let's wait a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. And I was like, okay, I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand all the like all the talk on his part

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to be exclusive and take down your profiles if, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what was his motive? Do you think? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I need your help to figure that out because at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, I feel like he's like a two faced jerk.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know what's going on. Okay, So you

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<v Speaker 1>first you want to call him and tell him he's

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<v Speaker 1>a two faced jerk, and then you want to ask

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<v Speaker 1>if you'll go out with you again? Yes, exactly right, perfect, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and then come back and you can call your boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and ask him why his on dating sites and then

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<v Speaker 1>maybe ask him for a second date. Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do it right after this hanging brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Second date update. This might be the first

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<v Speaker 1>second date update we've ever done with a boyfriend and

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend. Just could either end up in a breakup

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<v Speaker 1>or marriage. Who knows how it could go either way.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to hear if you're just joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>Samantha is on the phone and she wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>a dude named Nick. They did go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date to a bar. They met online at a

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<v Speaker 1>great time, and even on that date, decided to take

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<v Speaker 1>down their dating profile so they could not have to

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<v Speaker 1>date anybody else and just date each other. To me,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like they decided to be boyfriend a girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>She says it wasn't that serious yet, but they did

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<v Speaker 1>take down their dating profile. Fast forward to a few

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<v Speaker 1>days later after the date and she noticed his profile

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<v Speaker 1>was back online and he's not responding to her, So

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<v Speaker 1>now she's very angry. Her boyfriend and wants to find

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<v Speaker 1>out why. So we're about to call him. All right, Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>are you ready? Yes? I am ready. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>ask is your dating profile back up? Yeah? I put

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<v Speaker 1>mine back up after I saw he was up. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>take that match with me again. Okay, So are you

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to first yell at him and then ask him out?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, I just want to know why somebody

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<v Speaker 1>would literally pretend like they wanted to be exclusive and

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<v Speaker 1>then ignore somebody. It's just rude. Hopefully you know there's

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<v Speaker 1>something that half and I don't have to tell him

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<v Speaker 1>how rude he is. But okay, okay, okay, Well I'll

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<v Speaker 1>do this one him right now and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can figure it out. Okay, yeah, all right, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello him aspect to Nick please? Yeah, this is Nick. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Man? How are you? This is Jewel from

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Hi, Hi, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it. You're from where Brooke and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. It's a radio show. Uh okay? Cool? Yeah, another,

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<v Speaker 1>we got that out of the way. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to know why I'm calling? Yeah? Perfect, because I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you guys calling you today because we do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then end up not calling them back after,

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<v Speaker 1>they can email us to get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and figure out what happened. And we recently got an

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<v Speaker 1>email about you from your girlfriend. Uh, I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend. Yeah, that's I don't think so. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you might have a girlfriend and might not know it.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this regarding her? Name is Samantha? Oh? Okay, um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I understand what we're talking about. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So Samantha told us about how you guys went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date and had a good time at the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>even took down your dating profiles, and then she tried

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of you after and nothing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's because she's she's a liar. So is a liar. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a liar that can't be trusted. Wow, that's why

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<v Speaker 1>that feels like you came along ways from I mean

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<v Speaker 1>what she described on your date to be awesome. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how much you know about our date,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll tell you. I'll tell you what I know.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, you guys went to the bar, you had

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<v Speaker 1>a good time, even carved your initials near the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Very sweet of you. Also, that's a property damage. You

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<v Speaker 1>could be in trouble. And then she said that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys decided to take down your profile so you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>dating anybody else and made out a little bit. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of the last year from you, which was

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<v Speaker 1>your idea, Like you asked her not to date anyone else,

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys should just date each other. Yeah, things

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<v Speaker 1>went so well. I really thought that we should focus

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<v Speaker 1>on each other and not really spend all our energy

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make this same work as opposed to trying

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<v Speaker 1>to seek out other people. Okay, so why is she

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<v Speaker 1>a liar now? Well, after our date, my roommate master

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<v Speaker 1>with her on another dating site. So she's just on

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<v Speaker 1>multiple dating sites and that's why she's a liar. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my roommate matched with her and then she messaged my roommate.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so they actually started talking. Yeah, she messages him first.

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<v Speaker 1>What did she say? Though? I don't want to get

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<v Speaker 1>into it, but like she's clearly trying to meet other

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<v Speaker 1>guys online. So and you're one of those weird guys

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't want your girlfriend dating other people. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I take it. Yeah that makes me weird then, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you've got to understand. I mean, like, despite you

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<v Speaker 1>guys taking down the dating profile where you two met on,

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<v Speaker 1>you only had one date together. It's not like she

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<v Speaker 1>was cheating on you, right, But we made a thought.

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<v Speaker 1>We were on the same page, you know, like we

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<v Speaker 1>made a commitment to each other and that included taking

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<v Speaker 1>out our profiles, which she didn't do. And so she's

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<v Speaker 1>a liar one you asked? Why not ask her about it?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean to, you know, she messed my roommate.

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<v Speaker 1>She's trying to meet other dudes, and um, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have time someone like that. I'd like to ask her

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<v Speaker 1>about it. And it's it's really convenient because she's actually

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening and lots to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>What so, yeah, can we ask her about it? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>What she's here? Yes? Yes, she I think so? So

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<v Speaker 1>math are you still there? Yeah? Hi? Nick? Hi? Every time?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you Like? Are you serious? Like that's what this

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<v Speaker 1>is all about? Like why are you? Mimi? Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>You message my freaking roommate, Like, what what do you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to do? I'm not a liar. First off,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on multiple sites I delieve the one we were on,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't even use those sites for dating. I

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<v Speaker 1>use him for like networking and meeting front. Okay, that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds the message I sense. My roommate was not now

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<v Speaker 1>where you like you were trying to meet up with him.

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<v Speaker 1>You sent him hey smile leafy, Like, what business are

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<v Speaker 1>you trying to like discuss with my roommate? Okay, fine, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>you only tell me take down the one profile that

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<v Speaker 1>we met on, so I didn't know the other one.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know you were on so many congrats, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you like were committed to me, you would take

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<v Speaker 1>all of them down if you really felt strongly about

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on was with us. We went on

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<v Speaker 1>one date, like you need to get over that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it went really well and I was excited about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly you were still window shopping for other dudes. So okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well that just makes you sound really insecure. Go on

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<v Speaker 1>one date with a girl, and don't you make your

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<v Speaker 1>take on all of our profiles like you found like

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<v Speaker 1>a guy that would cry and like slash tires if

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<v Speaker 1>you see a girl talking another guy. Wow, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>make you take down all your profiles obviously because you've

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<v Speaker 1>clearly used the ones. You still had to network your

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<v Speaker 1>way into my roommate's messages. But don't even I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just kind of like how modern dating works right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't go on one date and then just completely

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<v Speaker 1>pull out of the dating game. I didn't realize I

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<v Speaker 1>was dating a modern dating expert. Why wouldn't you text

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<v Speaker 1>me and say, why are you on another profile or something?

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<v Speaker 1>You showed your true colors, so IM that's it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have time for someone like that. Wow, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it just sounds really weird that we went on one

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<v Speaker 1>really great date and then talking to one other person

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<v Speaker 1>like on another profile for like networking and stuff like.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna get mad about that. You're not being honest, Samantha.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you need to be straightforward and honest. Right

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<v Speaker 1>now you're trying to network into my roommates pants. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I told you I wanted to take

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<v Speaker 1>things slow. I don't immediately do that. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>meet somebody personally, get to know that. Yeah, I just didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to meet a lot of people. I got it,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm not interested in that I just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out with you, Okay, I like you. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what if I took down all the other staff I

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<v Speaker 1>have two other ones. Oh, the damage is done. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you can take down whatever you want, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's your life. I'm not a part of that. Even

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<v Speaker 1>if she talks about Nick, would you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date with Samantha. We'll pay for it if

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<v Speaker 1>she takes down her other dating sites. No, Samantha, you're

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<v Speaker 1>you dumped. Okay, you're dumped. Oh my god, you're so

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<v Speaker 1>a stream. Nick can't dump me. You're not my boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you dodge able at Samantha. He does

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<v Speaker 1>not sound like he's very good at compromising or forgiveness

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<v Speaker 1>for communication. Yeah. Look, y'all can say whatever you want,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was at least I was honest. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>took down my one profile. I did what I said

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<v Speaker 1>I would do, And Samantha was still slinking around, slatting

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<v Speaker 1>in my roommates DM trying to meet other people. So great, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to date someone who shames people all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, it's shaming. Yeah, he's math A girl

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<v Speaker 1>has is trying to date other people like that's controlling.

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<v Speaker 1>He made a commitment to each other and you you

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<v Speaker 1>portrayed that so um. Like I said before, you're officially dumped.

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<v Speaker 1>We are not together anymore. Man. I'm sorry, Samantha, you

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<v Speaker 1>just got dumped. I know I lost another boyfriend. Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>You carved your initials at the bathroom at that bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you what? Are you going to go back and

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<v Speaker 1>take those down? Or I already did? Actually, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>went back to the night I found out. You back

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<v Speaker 1>to the bar the night you found out. I just

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<v Speaker 1>replace my initials with my roommates because I figured, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she'll be with her neck. He's closed. Samantha's dumped. Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for your time, and I'm sorry. No second date, Samantha.

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<v Speaker 1>That's perfectly fine. Ye get through this. I think. Congratulations

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<v Speaker 1>for your information. Nick. All of my profiles are active,

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<v Speaker 1>and for anyone who's hearing this, he can come find

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<v Speaker 1>me because I'm actively looking there, not surprising. Broken Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, I got a text in at seven eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five to nine two that says, I'm so sad I

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<v Speaker 1>had to hear that breakup on the air. Broken Jewe Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>talking about today's second date update if you missed it.

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<v Speaker 1>Samantha wanted to call this dude named Nick. They went

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<v Speaker 1>out and had such a good date that they actually

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to remove their dating profiles. And we got Nick

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and found out the reason that he

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<v Speaker 1>was and calling her back was because Samantha only took

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<v Speaker 1>down one of her dating profiles and actually started chatting

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<v Speaker 1>with his roommate on another app, so she didn't take

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<v Speaker 1>all of her stuff down, and he thought she was

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<v Speaker 1>a liar, but she disagreed because he only specifically told

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<v Speaker 1>her to take down one profile, so she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't say take down all the dating profiles. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>no second date for them. They don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out again, remember, but maybe it'll work out with a

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<v Speaker 1>roommate who knows if you want to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>date up. They all have to do his email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person who didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back. Young Jeffrey's song of the Week is coming

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<v Speaker 1>up in just a few minutes at eight ten. It's

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