WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Cobra Bye

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of date. Who do you trust for

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<v Speaker 1>advice on your dating life? Your friends? Yeah, yes, they're

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<v Speaker 1>not really looking out for you. Yes, they might say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Not your coworkers, yikes. Absolutely, chat GPT, I mean probably not.

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<v Speaker 2>Still trust them, trust all the computer minds.

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<v Speaker 1>But when chat GPT runs out of date ideas, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to turn to the sure thing, your therapist for

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<v Speaker 1>hot dating tips.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, I mean maybe like relationship advice, but hot dating day.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what one of our listeners, Hannah did, and the

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<v Speaker 1>great advice from her therapist has landed her here with

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<v Speaker 1>us today. Therapist, I think it's all working out well, Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I want to hear the therapist some time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what did your therapist say?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I was talking about my struggles dating and she

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<v Speaker 3>kind of called me out on that I'm maybe not

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<v Speaker 3>always being my most authentic self and that could be

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<v Speaker 3>why I'm struggling here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's what you're paying her for, you out professionally.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, to just be the real you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's just encouraging me to be myself the problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so what did you do to accomplish that?

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<v Speaker 3>So I was kind of racking my brain, like thinking,

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<v Speaker 3>what are things.

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<v Speaker 2>That I like?

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<v Speaker 3>And I love the show Cobra Kai.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh like the Karate Kids spin off?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Cobra Kai.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not expect us to go there. So did

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<v Speaker 2>you take a karate class then or something? Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm get him there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, okay, Well I guess who'd you go out with?

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<v Speaker 3>His name is Mike?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah? Did you meet him at the karate class

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<v Speaker 2>or did you take a class together?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>We took a class together. Interesting, but I met him online?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so how did this date happen? Can you like

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<v Speaker 1>run us through it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Well we set up just like a dinner date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>nice and she and it was a fun time and

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<v Speaker 3>like we were hitting it off.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're matching the Cobra Kai theme to the meal too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, sushi?

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<v Speaker 2>You have like all kind of Asian culture influences. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>nice and sushi was good. You guys had good conversation

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<v Speaker 2>or like, what's the highlights there?

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<v Speaker 3>We were just goofing around. We were like play fighting.

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<v Speaker 2>What you like with the chopsticks his swords? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay. To be honest, I wouldn't normally act like

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<v Speaker 3>this on my dates, Like maybe I was a little

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<v Speaker 3>too nerdy, but I kept hearing be my most authentic self,

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<v Speaker 3>kind of saying it like as a mantra.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, So when you brought up Cobra Kai with Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>was he into it?

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<v Speaker 3>He'd actually never seen it, but he had heard of it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think he'd been meaning to watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's a good that's like.

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<v Speaker 1>A show him. Yeah, totally if everything goes well, of course.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. And you know I tried to go that route

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<v Speaker 3>invite him over to watch it at my place.

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<v Speaker 2>You I think that he's probably planning on more than

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<v Speaker 2>Cobra Kai. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm more like cobra thighs.

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<v Speaker 2>What sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>So did he say?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Well, he was kind of like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>how late I can stay out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, that makes sense. I mean literally people that

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<v Speaker 1>before it makes sense. But not in a dating world

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Invite is what every guy is waiting.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to go, you'll stay up. Not every guy

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<v Speaker 2>wants to hook up on the first date. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe she got the one percent, you know, So were

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<v Speaker 2>you okay with that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I was okay with that because I had a

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<v Speaker 3>backup plan.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, authentic self. What was that?

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<v Speaker 3>My authentic self decided that we could like go do

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<v Speaker 3>like a trial martial arts class.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, so it's you, Mike and a room full of

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<v Speaker 1>six year old So you.

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<v Speaker 2>Went straight from the restaurant to a karate class.

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<v Speaker 3>It was actually next door. I sort of might have

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<v Speaker 3>planned that, had.

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<v Speaker 1>A whole plan. He's either going to my house.

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<v Speaker 2>We're rolling on my bed or rolling on some man.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I picture him in jeans trying to do karate?

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<v Speaker 2>Did he have the right outfit for it?

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<v Speaker 3>What do they give you?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they provided us with the Yeah, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>we had Fun'd be awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I got some sweet nunchucks in my truck anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so let me get my throwing stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Wasn't it fun as good? Was it romantic?

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<v Speaker 2>Or?

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<v Speaker 3>I think so? Because really, you know, like the kind

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<v Speaker 3>of fighting, it's like there's tension, it's kind of flirty.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also think just tried anything new with a

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<v Speaker 2>person like helps bond.

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<v Speaker 1>You right, don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a shared experience. You could either laugh at how

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<v Speaker 2>bad you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are or I slowly choke them out.

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<v Speaker 2>Did they do that at the beginners? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, let's let's let's get to the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night. How did you leave things?

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<v Speaker 3>We just said goodbye to each other, kind of outside hug,

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<v Speaker 3>kiss a little kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, that's something. And what's happened since the date?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it hasn't been that long. But I actually saw

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<v Speaker 3>my therapist.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did you giggle through that session too? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I definitely did because I really was trying

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<v Speaker 3>to be my most authentic self.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you told her about the date, then.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I did. I told her about it.

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<v Speaker 2>So why are you calling us? Then?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she kind of made me doubt things because she

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<v Speaker 3>said to me like that might have been a little.

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<v Speaker 4>Too much, too authentic, not necessarily that, but that there

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<v Speaker 4>are other parts to me, like I'm not just copra kai.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, like you only focus on martial arts.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell your therapist. You're not gonna show this guy everything

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<v Speaker 2>in the first night.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's Brooks movies.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe second date material.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you got to leave something to learn, open up,

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<v Speaker 1>show him more of your interests when you meet up

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<v Speaker 1>a second time. So hopefully we can facilitate that. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back call Mike for you and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you your second date. Update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Update. This is the theme song for the original Karate Kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you're the best around, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, coming on a little strong man, authentic self. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>real thoughts right now. But I know it's been a

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<v Speaker 1>while since we've all seen the original movie, but I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you the overall theme of it is an underdog

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<v Speaker 1>who's up against the odds, finally faces his fears and

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<v Speaker 1>his bullies and comes away with the trophy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone loves an underdog story. And that's our listener Hannah today.

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<v Speaker 1>And Hannah's trophy that she's after is a man named

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<v Speaker 1>Mike she met online and personally, Hannah, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to say your idea for like a Cobra kai themed

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<v Speaker 1>date going to sushi and doing a karate class together. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>we never hear women going out of their way to

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<v Speaker 1>set things up like this. It's usually the men that

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<v Speaker 1>try and arrange a date like this. It is refreshing.

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<v Speaker 1>I commend you on what you did here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think, Oh, I get it. Get it another.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm striking first like a cobra. I think it's marriage material.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you're just.

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<v Speaker 2>Think I think she's marriage material and this guy is

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<v Speaker 2>going to be missing out if he doesn't give you

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<v Speaker 2>another chance.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we're sitting the bar. Yeah, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke to tell him that as soon as we get

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone, or we can hold off for

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<v Speaker 1>a second.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's just speed natural and chill about it at Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>And then then we'll get to the waxing on and

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<v Speaker 1>off and all that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, that's a good part of the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go, let's dial the phone number and hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>he picks up. Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking

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<v Speaker 1>for Mike.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Mike, I said we because you're talking to a

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<v Speaker 1>whole show right now, a radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, what is it about.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called a second Date update.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's all about you, Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, just sorry, I don't know what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>with Brooke today. She's a little yeah, and it's not

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<v Speaker 1>just about you. It's about you along with one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners that you went on a date with recently

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<v Speaker 1>named Hannah.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, Hannah, Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you remember.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it sounds like you guys just recently went out,

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<v Speaker 2>which is awesome.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah we did, Yeah, we went out.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we heard a little bit about your guys's date.

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<v Speaker 1>We'd like to get your side of the story, just

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<v Speaker 1>to see how the stories match.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I don't know, what do you want to know?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't really feel too comfortable about talking about this

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<v Speaker 5>kind of stuff for the whole radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, not the whole show, alexis close your ears?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh all right, now you have seventy five percent of

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to miss how it goes headphones off,

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<v Speaker 2>he doesn't listen anyways. Yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 1>What okay? All right, I think we're meeting your quota now.

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<v Speaker 1>So what we're looking for though, is just general thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>like did you like Hannah? How did you feel about her?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I mean okay, if I if I did

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<v Speaker 5>say anything, it was probably one of the more like

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<v Speaker 5>unique experiences I've ever had on a date.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome. It sounds like she put a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>like thought and energy into planning the night for you too.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that is that something new that?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's that's that's for sure. I think a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of energy was expended too, even on the date. I

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<v Speaker 5>can give you that much. Yeah, when you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about like the karate class was like you.

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<v Speaker 5>Expend energy, Yeah, that would be it. I certainly something

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<v Speaker 5>I've never experienced before.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cool though, I mean, what did you think when

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<v Speaker 2>she came up with that idea? She said it was

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<v Speaker 2>kind of a surprise.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well, it absolutely was. And I'll say this, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I thought for me it was like, I don't mind surprises.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just something that like what I was wearing too,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I'm wearing nice, like kind of nice pants.

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<v Speaker 5>I couldn't yeah, you know, I can't do karate in

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<v Speaker 5>those kind of clothes. It was, you know, it was

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<v Speaker 5>it was interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I could see how people would even say no,

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<v Speaker 1>not in a rude way, but like I'm sorry, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of a big ask. Like we just had dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think of yourself? Yeah, I mean this guy,

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<v Speaker 2>you sound adventurous.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you're talking a lot about the date

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<v Speaker 1>and the activities. I want to know what you thought

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<v Speaker 1>about Hannah. Oh, that's a person question.

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<v Speaker 2>If you got to know who she is, Uh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean she seems really nice, but uh, your personality wise.

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't know if we're if we're compatible. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>you be completely honest, Well it was she. I mean

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<v Speaker 5>this is weird to me too. Is that like she

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<v Speaker 5>put all this great idea and energy into this idea

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<v Speaker 5>and then she kind of was a little like meek me,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, just kind of yeah, shy. I guess i'd say, like,

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<v Speaker 5>it's like it's not her fault. I'm not saying it's

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<v Speaker 5>a bad thing. I'm not saying people like that and

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<v Speaker 5>have a problem or anything. It's just for me, it's

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<v Speaker 5>not really what I go for and when I saw that.

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<v Speaker 2>But listen, you've got a person even if she's shy,

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<v Speaker 2>she's going out on a limb. She's surprising you with

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<v Speaker 2>the karate class. Like maybe you just need to get

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<v Speaker 2>to know her more to see like her fun charismatic side.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, what's that whole thing? You can't ask us ever

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<v Speaker 5>to change his stripes or something like that. And then

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<v Speaker 5>I'm saying, I don't know, it's just somethingeling like she is.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, what, what exactly are you're looking for? What

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<v Speaker 1>type of woman do you want? Obnoxious brook type?

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<v Speaker 2>Some people do some people?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't know, you know, I think that typically

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just more attracted to someone with a bit more

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<v Speaker 5>of like an assertive personality. Really, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there is a saying that I like to

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<v Speaker 1>draw up on sometimes. It's that I may not always win,

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<v Speaker 1>but I never quit.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this a karate kid thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Okay, I was like for ruining it, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to segue seedlessly to tell you, you know who

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<v Speaker 1>also doesn't quit. Hannah, who's on the other line right now?

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<v Speaker 3>What? Yeah, you're you're damn right? Yeah, k never dies. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>So it is and I think.

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<v Speaker 5>Clearly a footable here sneaky move.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we want you to talk to each other. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear from Hannah though, Hannah, what what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think about what you just heard?

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<v Speaker 3>I think that it's kind of ridiculous that you would

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<v Speaker 3>judge me that fast, because I clearly have other sides

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<v Speaker 3>to my personality. I just was showing the one thing first.

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<v Speaker 3>I put myself out there. I can be assertive, like

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<v Speaker 3>I can be bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, sounds like he's not quite buying it yet.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't think you're you're really getting that. So

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<v Speaker 3>just like, don't confuse being nice with being weak?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a quote because that's a good U Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have any other examples of how you can

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<v Speaker 1>be an assertive, powerful woman?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, like I might like this show for a reason. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>because I am a go getter. I try to get

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<v Speaker 3>what I want. I mean, I don't give up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, what are you thinking there? So?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, are you saying that what you want is

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<v Speaker 5>another date with me? Is that what you want?

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah? Strike first, strike hard, no mercy?

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<v Speaker 2>Where are you kidding? Before we called it?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on Google.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, here's the thing. You're gonna either be quiet

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<v Speaker 3>and listen to me and just do it and we're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna go out again because there's more there, or you're

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<v Speaker 3>just gonna be lame.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even have to ask a question, because she's

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<v Speaker 1>telling you that we're going to go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to be lame, do you?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, listen. I said to them that I wanted

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<v Speaker 5>someone who was assertive, and this is kind of the assertiveness.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm down if you're down.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I didn't me an offer to pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>There we go.

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<v Speaker 2>She's gonna make him pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you got money and pay for it, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna like it.

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<v Speaker 5>Mike again, I guess I have to now. I literally

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<v Speaker 5>asked for someone to tell me what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>So it sounds like we're sending you guys out on

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<v Speaker 1>another date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, all right, all right, hand, I'm glad you did this. Shoot.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you not have a cobra kai saying to close

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<v Speaker 2>this out?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I was just gonna end with the traditional bow

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<v Speaker 1>and then we all kiss. This is radio. There's kissing

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<v Speaker 1>in the karate classes that I went to. There we go, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody bow and pucker and one two. They've taken control

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<v Speaker 1>of the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it. Jeff is actually blushing.

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<v Speaker 1>Your hands full with this tiger well a monster looking

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. Another prime example of when being

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<v Speaker 1>true to yourself goes bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I guess you know. I think there's probably

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of therapists that are like, oh god, that's

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<v Speaker 2>not exactly what we meant.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, here's a secret that your therapist or your friends

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<v Speaker 1>and your family won't tell you what. Nobody likes you

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA the real you. They don't want to see that person.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what you take.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you this because I care. This is the truth?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this the speech that your mother gave you your

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<v Speaker 2>high school graduation?

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<v Speaker 1>Look at the Kardashians. Okay, nobody liked the real them,

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<v Speaker 1>and now look at the look they changed everything and

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<v Speaker 1>they're the most successful, happiest family in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Not the message. That's not the message we're sending out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's the message? Then, Brooke, be true to yourself

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<v Speaker 1>and then screw the data up.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's just maybe that wasn't a good fit for her.

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<v Speaker 2>He wanted someone that she isn't, and that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It would have been a good fit if she changed

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<v Speaker 1>everything about herself. All right, I give up, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I see the bright side.

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<v Speaker 2>Go join the Kardashian play all right, we're gonna have

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<v Speaker 2>a good time together.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when I come back, I'm willing to help

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<v Speaker 1>people with their data. Wait to see.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's his lips that are going to be

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<v Speaker 2>way fire.

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<v Speaker 1>No matter how I look or how I feel. You

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<v Speaker 1>can always email the show. We'll call that person who

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<v Speaker 1>isn't calling you back. And check out all of our

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<v Speaker 1>second day podcasts up wherever you get yours at

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<v Speaker 4>Brook and Jeffery Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,