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Speaker 1: The second date of date. Who do you trust for

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Speaker 1: advice on your dating life? Your friends? Yeah, yes, they're

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Speaker 1: not really looking out for you. Yes, they might say that.

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Speaker 1: Not your coworkers, yikes. Absolutely, chat GPT, I mean probably not.

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Speaker 2: Still trust them, trust all the computer minds.

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Speaker 1: But when chat GPT runs out of date ideas, you

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Speaker 1: got to turn to the sure thing, your therapist for

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Speaker 2: Wait, I mean maybe like relationship advice, but hot dating day.

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Speaker 1: That's what one of our listeners, Hannah did, and the

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Speaker 1: great advice from her therapist has landed her here with

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Speaker 1: us today. Therapist, I think it's all working out well, Hannah,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I want to hear the therapist some time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what did your therapist say?

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Speaker 3: Well, I was talking about my struggles dating and she

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Speaker 3: kind of called me out on that I'm maybe not

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's what you're paying her for, you out professionally.

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Speaker 1: She said, to just be the real you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just encouraging me to be myself the problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so what did you do to accomplish that?

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Speaker 3: So I was kind of racking my brain, like thinking,

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Speaker 2: That I like?

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Speaker 3: And I love the show Cobra Kai.

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Speaker 2: Oh like the Karate Kids spin off?

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Speaker 3: Yes, Cobra Kai.

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Speaker 2: I did not expect us to go there. So did

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Speaker 2: you take a karate class then or something? Uh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm get him there.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, Well I guess who'd you go out with?

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Speaker 3: His name is Mike?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah? Did you meet him at the karate class

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Speaker 3: We took a class together. Interesting, but I met him online?

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Speaker 1: Oh so how did this date happen? Can you like

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well we set up just like a dinner date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So you're matching the Cobra Kai theme to the meal too.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sushi?

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Speaker 2: You have like all kind of Asian culture influences. Yes,

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Speaker 2: nice and sushi was good. You guys had good conversation

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Speaker 2: or like, what's the highlights there?

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Speaker 3: We were just goofing around. We were like play fighting.

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Speaker 2: What you like with the chopsticks his swords? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay. To be honest, I wouldn't normally act like

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So when you brought up Cobra Kai with Mike,

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Speaker 3: He'd actually never seen it, but he had heard of it,

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Speaker 3: and I think he'd been meaning to watch it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's a good that's like.

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Speaker 1: A show him. Yeah, totally if everything goes well, of course.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And you know I tried to go that route

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Speaker 2: You I think that he's probably planning on more than

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm more like cobra thighs.

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Speaker 2: What sorry?

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Speaker 1: So did he say?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, he was kind of like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, that makes sense. I mean literally people that

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Speaker 2: You want to go, you'll stay up. Not every guy

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Speaker 2: wants to hook up on the first date. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: Okay, authentic self. What was that?

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Speaker 3: My authentic self decided that we could like go do

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Speaker 1: Ah, so it's you, Mike and a room full of

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Speaker 2: Went straight from the restaurant to a karate class.

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Speaker 1: A whole plan. He's either going to my house.

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Speaker 2: We're rolling on my bed or rolling on some man.

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Speaker 2: Why do I picture him in jeans trying to do karate?

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Speaker 3: What do they give you?

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Speaker 1: I got some sweet nunchucks in my truck anyway.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't it fun as good? Was it romantic?

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Speaker 1: You right, don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 2: It's a shared experience. You could either laugh at how

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Speaker 2: Did they do that at the beginners? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let's let's let's get to the end of

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Speaker 1: the night. How did you leave things?

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Speaker 3: We just said goodbye to each other, kind of outside hug,

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Speaker 3: Well, it hasn't been that long. But I actually saw

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Speaker 2: Okay, did you giggle through that session too? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I did. I told her about it.

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Speaker 2: So why are you calling us? Then?

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Speaker 3: Well, she kind of made me doubt things because she

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Speaker 4: Too much, too authentic, not necessarily that, but that there

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, like you only focus on martial arts.

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Speaker 2: Tell your therapist. You're not gonna show this guy everything

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's Brooks movies.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe second date material.

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Speaker 1: All right, you got to leave something to learn, open up,

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, hold on.

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Speaker 1: Update. This is the theme song for the original Karate Kids.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're the best around, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Wow, coming on a little strong man, authentic self. I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Everyone loves an underdog story. And that's our listener Hannah today.

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Speaker 1: And Hannah's trophy that she's after is a man named

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Speaker 1: Mike she met online and personally, Hannah, I just want

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Speaker 1: to say your idea for like a Cobra kai themed

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Speaker 1: we never hear women going out of their way to

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Speaker 1: try and arrange a date like this. It is refreshing.

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Speaker 1: I commend you on what you did here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, Oh, I get it. Get it another.

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Speaker 2: I'm striking first like a cobra. I think it's marriage material.

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Speaker 2: Think I think she's marriage material and this guy is

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Speaker 1: All right, we're sitting the bar. Yeah, would you like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's just speed natural and chill about it at Okay,

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Speaker 1: Here we go, let's dial the phone number and hopefully

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Speaker 1: he picks up. Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking

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Speaker 1: for Mike.

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Speaker 5: This is Mike.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Mike, I said we because you're talking to a

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Speaker 5: Uh, what is it about.

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Speaker 1: It's called a second Date update.

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Speaker 2: And it's all about you, Mike.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, just sorry, I don't know what's going on

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, Hannah, Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you remember.

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Speaker 2: Well it sounds like you guys just recently went out,

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Speaker 1: All right, we heard a little bit about your guys's date.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know, what do you want to know?

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Speaker 5: I don't really feel too comfortable about talking about this

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, not the whole show, alexis close your ears?

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Speaker 1: What okay? All right, I think we're meeting your quota now.

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Speaker 1: So what we're looking for though, is just general thoughts

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Speaker 1: like did you like Hannah? How did you feel about her?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 5: You know, I mean okay, if I if I did

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Speaker 5: say anything, it was probably one of the more like

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Speaker 2: That's awesome. It sounds like she put a lot of

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Speaker 2: Is that is that something new that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's that's for sure. I think a lot

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Speaker 1: Talking about like the karate class was like you.

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Speaker 5: Expend energy, Yeah, that would be it. I certainly something

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Speaker 1: Because I could see how people would even say no,

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Speaker 2: Do you think of yourself? Yeah, I mean this guy,

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you're talking a lot about the date

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Speaker 1: about Hannah. Oh, that's a person question.

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Speaker 2: If you got to know who she is, Uh, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I just don't know if we're if we're compatible. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: you be completely honest, Well it was she. I mean

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Speaker 5: it's like it's not her fault. I'm not saying it's

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Speaker 2: But listen, you've got a person even if she's shy,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what's that whole thing? You can't ask us ever

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Speaker 5: I'm saying, I don't know, it's just somethingeling like she is.

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Speaker 1: You know, what, what exactly are you're looking for? What

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Speaker 2: Some people do some people?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know, you know, I think that typically

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Speaker 5: I'm just more attracted to someone with a bit more

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Speaker 1: I know there is a saying that I like to

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Speaker 2: Is this a karate kid thing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, I was like for ruining it, but it's

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Speaker 1: going to segue seedlessly to tell you, you know who

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Speaker 3: What? Yeah, you're you're damn right? Yeah, k never dies. Okay,

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Speaker 5: Clearly a footable here sneaky move.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we want you to talk to each other. I

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Speaker 3: I think that it's kind of ridiculous that you would

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Speaker 3: to my personality. I just was showing the one thing first.

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Speaker 3: I put myself out there. I can be assertive, like

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think you're you're really getting that. So

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Speaker 3: just like, don't confuse being nice with being weak?

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Speaker 1: Is that a quote because that's a good U Hannah,

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Speaker 1: do you have any other examples of how you can

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Speaker 3: You know, like I might like this show for a reason. Okay,

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Speaker 3: because I am a go getter. I try to get

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Speaker 2: Yes, what are you thinking there? So?

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Speaker 5: I mean, are you saying that what you want is

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Speaker 5: another date with me? Is that what you want?

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Speaker 1: Hannah? Strike first, strike hard, no mercy?

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Speaker 2: Where are you kidding? Before we called it?

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Speaker 1: I'm on Google.

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Speaker 4: Listen.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, here's the thing. You're gonna either be quiet

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Speaker 1: I don't even have to ask a question, because she's

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Speaker 2: You don't want to be lame, do you?

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Speaker 5: I mean, listen. I said to them that I wanted

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Speaker 5: So I'm down if you're down.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't me an offer to pay for it.

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Speaker 1: There we go.

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Speaker 2: She's gonna make him pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you got money and pay for it, and

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Speaker 1: you're gonna like it.

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Speaker 1: So it sounds like we're sending you guys out on

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Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, all right, hand, I'm glad you did this. Shoot.

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Speaker 2: Do you not have a cobra kai saying to close

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Speaker 1: No? I was just gonna end with the traditional bow

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Speaker 1: and then we all kiss. This is radio. There's kissing

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Speaker 1: in the karate classes that I went to. There we go, okay,

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Speaker 2: I like it. Jeff is actually blushing.

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Speaker 1: Your hands full with this tiger well a monster looking

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Another prime example of when being

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Speaker 1: true to yourself goes bad.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess you know. I think there's probably

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Speaker 2: a lot of therapists that are like, oh god, that's

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Speaker 2: not exactly what we meant.

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Speaker 1: Now, here's a secret that your therapist or your friends

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Speaker 1: and your family won't tell you what. Nobody likes you

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Speaker 1: WHOA the real you. They don't want to see that person.

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Speaker 2: That's what you take.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you this because I care. This is the truth?

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Speaker 2: Is this the speech that your mother gave you your

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Speaker 1: Look at the Kardashians. Okay, nobody liked the real them,

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Speaker 1: and now look at the look they changed everything and

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Speaker 2: Not the message. That's not the message we're sending out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's the message? Then, Brooke, be true to yourself

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Speaker 1: and then screw the data up.

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Speaker 2: No, it's just maybe that wasn't a good fit for her.

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Speaker 2: He wanted someone that she isn't, and that's okay.

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Speaker 1: It would have been a good fit if she changed

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Speaker 1: everything about herself. All right, I give up, you know,

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Speaker 1: I see the bright side.

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Speaker 2: Go join the Kardashian play all right, we're gonna have

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Speaker 2: a good time together.

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Speaker 1: And then when I come back, I'm willing to help

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Speaker 1: people with their data. Wait to see.

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Speaker 2: I think it's his lips that are going to be

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Speaker 2: way fire.

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Speaker 1: No matter how I look or how I feel. You

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Speaker 1: can always email the show. We'll call that person who

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Speaker 1: isn't calling you back. And check out all of our

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Speaker 1: second day podcasts up wherever you get yours at

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffery Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,