1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: million bucks things in it to be true. Good often 4 00:00:24,840 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: together for Please, I don't join joining. You gotta turn 5 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: you're going to do. You gotta turn to turn them out. 6 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:47,199 Speaker 1: Turn You haven't got to turn them out. The water 7 00:01:47,480 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: the water got come Come on your baby, huh. I 8 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: shall well a good mind and everybody y'all listening to 9 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: the voice, come on, dignity now wanted only Steve Harley 10 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 1: got a radio show. Okay, I want to talk to 11 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:23,679 Speaker 1: you today about success. But I want to talk to 12 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: you about it like I usually do in terms of 13 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: a principle of it, but I want to share something 14 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: with you about it now. I was talking to my 15 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: daughter about it. I've talked about my son in law 16 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 1: about it, talked about it with all my children, and 17 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 1: I'm really starting to express it to them now because 18 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: I'm talking to a wide range of people constantly. But 19 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: I want to share something with you. If you have 20 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: any aspiration of being successful, I want you to realize, 21 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: starting right now, the effort that is going to require. 22 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: And that's why I think it stops a lot of people. 23 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are never told or 24 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: don't understand the sheer effort that's that it takes to 25 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: become successful at anything, in any area of your life. 26 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 1: If you think that doing your best is enough, that 27 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: I got news for you. It's not. Well, Steve, What 28 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: if you've done your best, though, and your best ain't 29 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: good enough? Well, let me ask you that same question. 30 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: Hold on. If you want to be successful and you've 31 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: done your best and best isn't good enough? What you through? 32 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: That's it? But Steven, was my best? No, no, no, 33 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: no no. It was the best you had at that time, 34 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: in that particular day. But tomorrow add something to it. 35 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: You've never done everything. There is no you can't go 36 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: no more, you can't add no more. I've seen marathon 37 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: runners end up crawling across the line. I've seen triath 38 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: line people man just staggering in the street and didn't 39 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: want nobody to help them because they knew that would 40 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: disqualify them from the race. You got more? Have you 41 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: ever dipped into your reserve tank? That's what we're talking 42 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: about now. See all of us have a reserve tank. 43 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: You know, I you know, on my ranch. I like 44 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: to ride four wheelers. I have all terrain vehicles and 45 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: all of them have a gas tank on it and 46 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: a gas tank and most of mine, let me see 47 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: all of them. Yeah, all of them have gas tank 48 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: needles on them, and it lets me know. When I 49 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: get down towards eat there's a little lane that's read 50 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: that lets me know. Okay, Steve, you're in the danger zone. 51 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,799 Speaker 1: Now you're riding into the lowest part of your tank. 52 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: But if I keep riding and I forget to get 53 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 1: some gas in there, guess what when it runs out 54 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 1: of gas. All of my all terrain vehe holes, all 55 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: of them, Honda, Polaris, all of them. Those are the makers. 56 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: There's a button on the gas tank itself that I 57 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 1: can click and it says reserve. That means they know 58 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: that for the hardcore riders, they're gonna ride somewhere and 59 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: they're gonna get themselves in a situation and they're gonna 60 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 1: run out of everything. They're gonna run out of road, 61 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: they're gonna run out of gas. They've prepared because they 62 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: know for the hardcore rider, every hardcore rider needs a 63 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: reserve tank. And so there's a button that you can 64 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: click on the gas tank, that clicks it into a reserve, 65 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: and it will give you about fifty miles or twenty 66 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: miles worth of gas in that Now, guess what in 67 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: that reserve That may be all you need to get 68 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 1: you to where you're going, or get you back to 69 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: safety so you can refuel. Don't tell me you've done 70 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: your best. When your best, don't cut it. What you're 71 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 1: gonna do. See when best is possible, then good enough 72 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: ain't enough. See that's good enough. But if the best 73 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: is possible, why would you not shoot for that? And 74 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: you you are all capable of making it. But you've 75 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: got to change your mindset and realize the effort that 76 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 1: has to be put forth in becoming successful. You've got 77 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: to do it relentlessly, over and over and over and 78 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: over and every day. I try to do something to 79 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: progress my life for the better. I try to do 80 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 1: something every day. I wake up every day with the plan. 81 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: Some phone calls, some meetings, some some some interviews. Something 82 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: man that's going to advance and move the brand forward. 83 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: Because here's what's gonna happen. You are Let's say you 84 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: reach your goal. Let's say your goal is to make 85 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars. Well, I got news for you. 86 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: Listen to this. When you make the one hundred thousand dollars, 87 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 1: you can't go on noway and go on vacation and 88 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: put your hand behind your head and say I made 89 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: a hundred thousand dollars. Guess what you got to do. 90 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 1: You got to find a way now to maintain that 91 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: a hundred thousand, to keep it coming in. So you 92 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: can't just get there and stop and rest and whoa. 93 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: It is harder to maintain your success than it is 94 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: to get successful. See. Let's say, let me let me 95 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: show you the supposed it takes you five to eight 96 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: years to find a way to make fifty thousand dollars. 97 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: Let's say it takes you five to eight years to 98 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 1: find a way to make an extra fifty thousand dollars, 99 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: and you finally, through work and effort, you get to 100 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: the fifty thousand dollars. More, that's that's it's only just 101 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 1: begun now, because guess what, in order to keep the 102 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: fifty coming in, you got to duplicate what you did 103 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: to get there. And then, oh, here's what you're going 104 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: to have the audacity being a human being You're gonna 105 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: want another fifty because you're a human being, because you 106 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: gotta have something else to shoot for. Now you're gonna 107 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: want another fifty. Well, now, I guess what you gotta do. Now, 108 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: Now you gotta do what you did before, plus you 109 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: gotta come up with something else. Then after that, you're 110 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: gonna have the audacity. Because you're humans, You're gonna want 111 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: another fifty. Says how this works? And see that that's 112 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 1: the that's the importance of your relationship with God, because 113 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: you're gonna constantly need it and ain't have a point 114 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: where you're gonna be through needing it. But there ain't 115 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: gonna become a point in your life where you're gonna through. 116 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,439 Speaker 1: Won't through, be through, won't nothing unless you don't just 117 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:46,839 Speaker 1: gave up. And if you don't gave up, who wants that? 118 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: Come on, y'all, this is going to take quite a 119 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: bit of effort, and if you think it will come 120 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: to you any other way, you're sadly mistaken. Because of 121 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,199 Speaker 1: all the successful people I know, I know that the 122 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: effort they put out on a daily basis is daunting, 123 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: and I think that the average person just doesn't understand 124 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 1: the requirement of time and effort that it takes to 125 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: get that, and willingness to put it out. You gotta 126 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: cut a lot of monkey business out your life. All 127 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: that hanging out, all that late and all that club 128 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: and all that drinking, all that. You gotta cut a 129 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: whole lot of monkey business out to be successful. Man, 130 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 1: if you're planning on being successful, get up early, stay 131 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:38,199 Speaker 1: up late, work, try, think, meet, greet, smile, attract. It 132 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 1: takes a lot, let's go, but you can do it. 133 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: God is pressed to plassing out blessings all day long. 134 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: Why are you not in line for yours? I'm telling 135 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 1: you right now, I want everything God got for me, 136 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: because what he's shown me so far. Who if he 137 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: got some mo man on man, how good is God? Huh? 138 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: Thursday Thursday? Thank god? It is third. Matter of fact, 139 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: it's Tommy Thursday. How about that. It's Tommy Thursday. So 140 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 1: I'm in control in the booth today and it is Thursday. 141 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 1: It's Tommy is Thursday. I get to I get to 142 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: run things. I don't get to run things that much, 143 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: but today I get to run things. It's Timmy Thursday. 144 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: Good morning to the beautiful ladies that Shirley that's calling. 145 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: That's missus Monica and the one and only killed Junior 146 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: boy as spaces top of the moling. Yeah, Tommy Molin, 147 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:49,559 Speaker 1: you're loud the Tommy Thursday, Yeah, Louie, he can't be 148 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: loud on Willie Wednesday, Tommy thirst will Willie wins because 149 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 1: he can't even say it. That why quill and quins 150 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: it's time and thirsty? Are you gonna do? Like? You know? 151 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 1: Let me yeah, help me out here, let me see 152 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: uh what you got a boy? Yeah? Let me let 153 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: me um? How is it possible that you can be 154 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 1: stupid and sexy at the same time. This is something 155 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: that you know, it is, Oh, it is one of 156 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: the most Yeah, it's one of the most greatest things 157 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:34,959 Speaker 1: in life. That y'all don't really see the geniusness of it, 158 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 1: that I am stupid and a genius all at the 159 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: same time. And the fact that y'all don't see it, 160 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: that lets me know how much more I am a 161 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 1: genius that y'all don't see it. You understand what I'm saying. 162 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 1: I'm I'm really like, I'm really deep. You know what 163 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm really deep. But a lot of people 164 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: don't get the deepness, the depthness of me. But I'm 165 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: sexy and a genius at the same time, Carl, if 166 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: you would, well, I'm just saying, I just I'm really 167 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,839 Speaker 1: only noticing. You know, Shirley bought up Kanye. You love 168 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: yourself like Kanye loves himself, lovesible. But I love my geniosity, 169 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I love my geniosity and 170 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of y'all don't see that, 171 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: and that that bothers me. But it used to bother 172 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,599 Speaker 1: me that that y'all didn't see the genius in me. 173 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: But it lets me know they're not geniuses, so they're 174 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: not gonna see thee so we're losers. You know. You 175 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 1: know I'm not looking, but I'm not. Y'all have been 176 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:33,599 Speaker 1: meeting me and I don't look at you like that, 177 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:35,719 Speaker 1: but you're not. But you're not a genius, you know 178 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And you don't see the geniosity. Yeah, yeah, 179 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: yeah no, because I have something else, like I want 180 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: to just piggyback with colleges said, yes, you and Kanye 181 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: both are the only ones saying your geniuses. Nobody is 182 00:12:53,960 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: contributing to the genius talking but you because that's it. Yeah, 183 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 1: but y'all other geniuses notice us. You see what I'm saying. 184 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: Y'all recognize game. Y'all you and a geniuses. Y'all a geniuses. 185 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't expect you to know me. How much? 186 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:17,319 Speaker 1: How could we could? Wow? You're not gonna see that, 187 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,319 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. A little person don't know 188 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: another person is a little person. They just don't know. 189 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:26,719 Speaker 1: That's another person. You don't see it? Wow? Wow? Was 190 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:33,079 Speaker 1: that that that genius? Wow? Girl? All right, listen, coming 191 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: up at thirty two minutes after the hour, the nephew, 192 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: the self proclaimed genius, will be back. We'd run that 193 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: prank back right after this. You're listening to show. All Right, guys, 194 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 1: it is time to start your morning off with run 195 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 1: that prank back with the nephew. Nephew what you got 196 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: this morning? God is not through with you, but we are. 197 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that one. God is not through with you, 198 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: but hello, we are. Okay, we through with you. God 199 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: is not through with you, but we are. Cat dog. 200 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 1: If you would hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach our 201 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: sister Takara. This is brother Brinkley from the church. How 202 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: you doing Oh, hey, how is it? It's I'm at work. 203 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: Can I call you back? Well, this is this is 204 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: kind of urgent. I call your your house phone and 205 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: I didn't get an answer, and I had this other 206 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: number on file, so I wanted to reach out to you. 207 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 1: But what I won't take long. But it really is 208 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: a hurt. All right, Well that urgent matter. If you 209 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 1: don't man all right, hold on, hold on, let me 210 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: let me step away from our tubericle. Hold on hello, Hello, Yeah, okay, 211 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: so what's uh, brother Brinkley speech? Truly okay. We have 212 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: a bit of a problem here and we're gonna try 213 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: to We're trying to clean up a lot of things 214 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: here at the church. You know, I hate to be 215 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: the one to bring you some bad news. Let me 216 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: just start by by saying that God might not be 217 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: through with you, but we are here at the church. 218 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: It has been brought to our attention, uh, sister car 219 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 1: that you guys are halfway coming to church. You you 220 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: you might come once once out of a month. You're 221 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: not tithing as we expected. You know, the church can't 222 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: really depend on you. Um, it's you you got you know, 223 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: you bring your kids. I think your brother comes to 224 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 1: the church. But everybody is coming every now and then. 225 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: We cannot depend on you all to be the members 226 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: and have the expectation of what we're trying to say. 227 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: You say, your name is yes, and you work, you 228 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: work on the Dacian. I'm sorry, I've never heard of 229 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: you before. I have been officiated by the pastor as 230 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: I'm over actually over the finance and we're going through 231 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: all of the books and looking at all of the 232 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: numbers of the of the members of the church and directory, 233 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: and we're noticing what people are pan tide, what people 234 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: are fantide, who's coming to church, who's participating in different 235 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 1: and different UH ministries and whatnot. And Sister Takar, I 236 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 1: got I have to be honest with you. You you 237 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: am maybe wants every one of the mind. We might 238 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: see you might not see you, you know, and like 239 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: I said, God may not be through with you, but 240 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 1: we are well, okay, you been saying that. Why I 241 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 1: don't understand, like y'all monitoring my my my church going 242 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: like I can't, I can't. I have to go every 243 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 1: single week. I mean, I wh why are you absence 244 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: so much at the church? Explaining that I mean, I 245 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: have three kids, you know, I mean I have, y'all. 246 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't. I mean, I still pray. I don't 247 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 1: understand how a church can are you y'all? Sir? You 248 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 1: got two job? But we're not getting tied like you 249 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 1: got two jobs. You're not tiding like you got two 250 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: jobs because I can't afford you. Just you just said 251 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 1: I got two jobs. That's what you just said, and 252 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:13,959 Speaker 1: that those two jobs are in supporting my church. I mean, 253 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,399 Speaker 1: I can't support the church and my kids. Is the 254 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 1: same rum. I can't do both. I mean, I give 255 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 1: when I can. Let me ask you something. What are 256 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: you making on that other job? Are you serious? Are 257 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 1: you really? You? Really? You really? As I didn't know 258 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 1: the church? God is this deep with you really asking 259 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 1: me how much I make and my fucking y'all that 260 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 1: I to support my kids? Come on, now, did this 261 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,159 Speaker 1: gotta be something? This is I'm gonna say this to 262 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: you again. God may not be through with you, but 263 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:52,880 Speaker 1: we are. You are not gonna pay your ties. If 264 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 1: you're not gonna come to work on a consistent basis, 265 00:17:56,680 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 1: then what what do you benefit the church? What the 266 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 1: church is about? This can't be I'm gonna say this. 267 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this to you. You let me tell 268 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 1: you what the church is all about. The churches hey, 269 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: and you say we go with you again one more time. 270 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,400 Speaker 1: I'm serious. No, I'm gonna tell you this. You're talking 271 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:16,879 Speaker 1: about this, that what the church is about. Let me 272 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 1: tell you what the church is. The church is a 273 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 1: hospital for cripple souls. You understand it, That's what That's 274 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: what the church is. But when when we have the 275 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: souls that are coming in to be saved, we are 276 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:34,959 Speaker 1: doing our job. And guess what those people that are 277 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: coming and you know what they're doing. They're tithing. That's 278 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 1: what they're doing. They're tithing you, says the Dakara. I'm 279 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 1: sure your soul's crippled. You're not coming and you're not tithing. 280 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,639 Speaker 1: You may give us a little some something when you 281 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: show up. If you show up, Am I right? A wrong? Okay? 282 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 1: Hold up? Let me get what this straight. This is 283 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 1: what you call me for in the middle of my 284 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 1: work day to tell me that you're kicking me out 285 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 1: the church because I don't give enough money to the 286 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 1: church while I'm at my job that I can barely 287 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:13,159 Speaker 1: afford to pay my bills with not a fact. I 288 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 1: don't even know who you are. I've never met you 289 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: in my life, and I don't know what this church 290 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,399 Speaker 1: you know, this church? I hate to say it, but 291 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: if that's what the church is about, you had the 292 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 1: nerve to call me. I'm al people on sho Okay, 293 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 1: nna noa, noa. Let me say something now, you being 294 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: very Unchristian like, nah, just as the guard. You're gonna 295 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,879 Speaker 1: watch it done in your language? Him, this is not 296 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: Christian like? Well, well do you do? You know? Brother Dwayne? 297 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 1: Isn't that your brother? Okay? And my brother Duwayne is 298 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: who told me to call you? Really my brother? So what? So? 299 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 1: What is it about? Hum? Brother? Whatever? I don't know. 300 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 1: What is Your name? Name is nephew Tommy from the 301 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your brother Dwayne got me to 302 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 1: brank phone call you. No, Oh my gosh, yo, he's 303 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 1: about to get me buy you from this job. I'm 304 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 1: in the lobby screaming up. Thanks for looking at me. 305 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 1: Oh my harsh you all right? Yeah? What's up? No? No? Normal? 306 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:39,359 Speaker 1: Oh my god, oh my gosh. My heart is racing. 307 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 1: Tell me this the car? What is the baddest and 308 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,640 Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land, Steve Harvey. 309 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew coming up, asked the nephew and Junior, 310 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 1: we'll do that right after this. You're listening to morning 311 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 1: show coming up at the top of the hour and 312 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 1: entertainment news. Rihanna is immortalized as a marble statue. This 313 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 1: happened that the met Gala. Bill Gates admits it. He 314 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,880 Speaker 1: says he did cheat in his marriage and still trending. 315 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: Later on next hour, we'll talk about Dave Chappelle being 316 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:19,679 Speaker 1: attacked on stage. We'll talk about all of these stories 317 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, but right now it 318 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 1: is time for Are you ready for this, asked the 319 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: nephew and asked Junior, huh okay, I can't wait for this. Boy. 320 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:36,360 Speaker 1: That sounds that sounds so refreshing right there, because I'm 321 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 1: because I'm really the clo you know, I'm really that 322 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 1: im and chief love? Do you say that? Why do 323 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:47,400 Speaker 1: you say that? Because I got the TV show that's 324 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: ready to love. I mean, I'm the one that he 325 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 1: don't be able. He judged people. I don't do it. 326 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: I don't judge people. I see if they ready to live. 327 00:21:56,119 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't judge ever. Two he dude, 328 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 1: and somebody, I don't do that. I'm ready to love. 329 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 1: I'm looking for people that want to find love by 330 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: judge and you you right, you were on both y'all right, both, yall, 331 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't, I don't, I don't do all that. And Junior, 332 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 1: you my perspective is very good, seem I have no 333 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 1: one to love that way. I can tell if it 334 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 1: is love or not. So we and tell me together. 335 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: This works perfect. Yeah, he got the DVD and I 336 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: could tell you right now, this lookson sounds like love 337 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: because he don't feel lonely. I noticed, So y'all bring 338 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,399 Speaker 1: it on. This is big, all right? Hurt right here? 339 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 1: Why this all right? Well, let's get to it then, 340 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 1: CB in Memphis, right, I'm a married woman and I 341 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: work as a real church showing luxury properties. I have 342 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 1: a rich client that has offered me a lot of 343 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 1: money to fulfill his fantasy of having sex in someone 344 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 1: else's mansion. I'm considering it doing I'm considering doing it 345 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,959 Speaker 1: for the money, but I also want to sell him 346 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 1: a house. Do you think this will help or hurt 347 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 1: my chances? What? Oh, you're making side money. This is good, girl. 348 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:09,200 Speaker 1: You make it. You're gonna first of all, eventually you 349 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 1: go sell. Yeah, you're making side money, but eventually you're 350 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: gonna sell the house. But don't sell the house too fast. 351 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 1: Make that side money then, but but make sure your 352 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: prices right, girl, Get you some nice double digits to 353 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 1: triple digits up and there you know it's gonna be 354 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 1: ten thousand. We we can go over here and watch 355 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 1: see this mansion. But when we get to this mansion, 356 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 1: we're gonna do it in this mansion, and we're gonna 357 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 1: get ten thousand in this man. I would say about 358 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 1: five six mansions. That put you up there, girl, that 359 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,640 Speaker 1: about sixty you about Yeah, you're talking about sixty thousand. 360 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 1: That's that's pretty good right there. Yeah, yeah, yeah, tell 361 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: you right now. Talk me. This sounds like love. I 362 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 1: really know. This sounds is a lot like love. The 363 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 1: fact I heard the fact that he wants to pay 364 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 1: you money, that man loves you, that I don't give 365 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:06,120 Speaker 1: money to nobody I don't love. And then he said 366 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 1: you considering it? That means you love him. Get the 367 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 1: fact you love because the love is love. It's a 368 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 1: win win. We all win it. In a house. This 369 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 1: is love winning all right, here we go, Gregg and 370 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,680 Speaker 1: Ferguson says, I'm a forty four year old black man 371 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 1: and I've never been outside of Missouri. I know how 372 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 1: it feels to want to move on to better things, 373 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: but she can't. I'm dating a woman that is out 374 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,399 Speaker 1: of my league and I want to impress her, but 375 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 1: the ogs are telling me to be myself and she 376 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,120 Speaker 1: will love me regardless. What do you say? Oh? First 377 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:42,919 Speaker 1: of all, what you need to do is you need 378 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: to go somewhere. You ain't never been nowhere. You ain't 379 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 1: left Missouri at least go to Illinois or the Ozox 380 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,719 Speaker 1: or something. You need to be at least experience you need. 381 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,640 Speaker 1: You need a field trip for you do anything else. 382 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 1: I'm just saying you need a nice little field trip. 383 00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 1: Go to Illinois. What's above the Chicago old Just go somewhere. 384 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 1: Ye ain't done nothing yet, Junior. If you would, yeah, 385 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 1: I'll tell you right now. This don't sound like love. 386 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: This don't have nothing like. This doesn't sound like it 387 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,199 Speaker 1: was nothing like the last question. This was right here death. 388 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 1: You ain't been nowhere for four ain't been nowhere. That 389 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: don't sound like And then the og told you to 390 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 1: be yourself because they won't the last because they know 391 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 1: you want your league. This don't sound like love you need. 392 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: You're not ready to love, and you ain't been nowhere 393 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 1: to love you ain't he want nowhere. He wants to 394 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: impress her though he knows, but he can't because he 395 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 1: ain't never been. No. How you impress somebody and you 396 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:39,440 Speaker 1: ain't never left your neighborhood. Impress if you go somewhere. Yeah, 397 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: you got to go somewhere. They impressed somebody. You go somewhere, 398 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 1: you'll impress them. You can't sing like this time. You 399 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: can't sitting like this time. You can't say this like, 400 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 1: come with me, Come with me to the end of 401 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 1: the street. That's not impressing nobody. You ain't never left 402 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 1: your neighborhood. Come with mister earlive right there. That's not impressed. Now, 403 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:04,679 Speaker 1: let me just don't sound I love. It's not love, okay, 404 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: all right? Uh? Belinda and Philly as we move on, 405 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,440 Speaker 1: says I got written up at work for pushing a 406 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 1: co worker and he fell and fractured his wrist. We 407 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: had sex once and he thinks he can rub on me. Yeah. 408 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 1: This took a turn, didn't it? We had sex once 409 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: and he can. He thinks he can rub on me 410 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 1: and be all in my face at work. So I 411 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:31,879 Speaker 1: pushed him. I want him to leave me alone. How 412 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: do I make it clear to him? Huh? So you 413 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 1: just so one time sex person? That's what this? Il son. 414 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: I can't nobody to touch you no more. But when 415 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 1: we was all love it w but nextd it was cool. 416 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 1: But you just use a use a sex person one time. Nah, 417 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: get off me. I don't want you like that? What 418 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:53,680 Speaker 1: is I don't know? Do you know what if one 419 00:26:53,720 --> 00:27:00,200 Speaker 1: of y'all do me like that? If y'all y'all gonna 420 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,359 Speaker 1: push me right now, one of y'all came, one of 421 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: y'all can't y'all can't push me. Okay, I'm just saying, 422 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 1: y'all can't push me. She pushed, love me, love me unconditionally. 423 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 1: Don't don't don't at work and at home and at 424 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 1: home exactly because if we put our hands on you, 425 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a problem. Yeah, she pushed him hard 426 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: though he fractured his wrist. Carlin has been my work 427 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 1: wife for twelve years. Don't push me, don't push Is 428 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 1: this love? Junior, what you think? Absolutely not. I first 429 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: of all, I know why this ain't love because he 430 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: she tied of that cast come across up her blouse. 431 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 1: See that inches that cas He got to stop rubbing 432 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 1: on people with that cast though. He got to get 433 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,360 Speaker 1: that off fur. It's gonna be at least six Yeah, 434 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: that wrist, that cave's going across the back of her back. 435 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 1: She stopped that inch It doesn't it. She don't want 436 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 1: that cast in her back no more. That's all. It's 437 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,440 Speaker 1: not this this this sounds like you got conditions to it, 438 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 1: like don't touch me. That don't sound like uh huh. Yeah. 439 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 1: She wants him to leave her alone, and she wants 440 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,959 Speaker 1: to know how does she make that clear to him. 441 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,399 Speaker 1: She's sitting that casts on his lap with all them 442 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,679 Speaker 1: signatures on it. She don't want to see that. They 443 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: still put signatures on care all right, still do that? 444 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:24,200 Speaker 1: That's asked the nephew, and asked junior. H We'll be 445 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 1: back with entertainment news at the top of the hour 446 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:32,880 Speaker 1: and some trending headlines right after that. You're listening show, 447 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 1: all right, guys. Before we get to today's entertainment news, 448 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 1: we just want to take a moment to say, happy 449 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: Sinko da Mayo today, who's different? Get a margarita with 450 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: some with some lowries on instead of salt of sugar, 451 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: something with some flavors there, Tony read something different. I 452 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,720 Speaker 1: was gonna ask if you like salt or sugar, and 453 00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: you've taken it. That's spicy. That's spicy. Yeah tahem I 454 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 1: thought it was called though. I said, give me some 455 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 1: of that, tajn. They said yes, all right, but yeah, 456 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 1: happy Sinko de maya. All right, time for some entertainment, 457 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 1: for some entertainment. News now. Bill Gates appeared on The 458 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 1: Today Show yesterday to promote his new book, How to 459 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 1: Prevent the Next Pandemic, but no topics were off limits, 460 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: including his divorce from a Linda Gates. Today Savannah Guthrie 461 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 1: brought up the divorce, and she got in the business 462 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 1: right away. She asked Bill Gates point blank, were you 463 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 1: unfaithful in your marriage? And was that one of the 464 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 1: reasons there was the divorce? I know, right, that's what everybody, 465 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,719 Speaker 1: That's what everyone wanted to know. Gates responded, I certainly 466 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 1: made mistakes, and I take responsibility. I don't think delving 467 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 1: into the particulars at this point is constructive. But yes, 468 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 1: I caused pain and I feel terrible about that. Gates 469 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 1: was rumored to have had multiple affairs over the course 470 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 1: of their marriage, and he admitted to one twenty years ago. 471 00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: He added, I have responsibility for causing a lot of 472 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: pain in my family. It was a tough year. I 473 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: feel good that all of us are moving forward now. 474 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 1: Bill and Melinda ended their twenty seven year marriage last August. 475 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 1: So there you go. How much How much money did 476 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 1: Melinda get? Bill billions upon bit multi twenty eight billions 477 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 1: or something? Yeah, a lot. And that is the pain. 478 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 1: That's the pain, that's the sufferings right there now, he 479 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: is not She's looking good and doing well. She went 480 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: on and got married to her science teacher. Yeah, she's 481 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 1: doing well, science teacher. Yeah. Man us, excuse me, wait 482 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: a minute, let me ask who is she gonna marry 483 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 1: that's gonna make billions? It doesn't matter, ye, don't add up. 484 00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: Marry for love. I believe she married for love. Mary 485 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 1: Oh oh oh, oh, she ready to love her understand, Yeah, 486 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 1: wouldn't you be with billions upon billions? Yeah? Oh for 487 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 1: the side. Yeah, I'm ready to love. But not stop. 488 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 1: You got to watch another billionaire, don't you say, Junior. No, 489 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 1: I'm saying Bill Gates got too much money. All this 490 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: confession we're doing. I don't want that much money. You 491 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: need to stop all this confession. We hope we're talking 492 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 1: about how to prevent the next pandemic. Now you confessor 493 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,920 Speaker 1: to it to Fast twenty years ago. Don't give me 494 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 1: that much money. That's too much truth. Ain't body that 495 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 1: makes fifty thousand dollars. Ain't nobody saying enough for fifty grands. 496 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 1: I don't how to marry, ending don't matter how to 497 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:44,040 Speaker 1: marry end of that fifty THO she want faithful to Maria? No, 498 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 1: we just didn't work. I'm not confessing nothing. Well, I 499 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: hope they will be very continue to be very happy. 500 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: All right, Moving on. You know, we talked a lot 501 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 1: about the met Galla and the costs and everything, but 502 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 1: we missed this one. Scrolling through social media, we missed 503 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 1: this one. How did we miss Russell Westbrook in his skirt? 504 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 1: How did we mi one? Carla Russell had a skirt on? Yeah, 505 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 1: tod does this? Does this? Does? I didn't see this? 506 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 1: Just this top Lenny Kravis in his lace and level. Yes, 507 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 1: Russell Westbrook did the dog on. Yeah, like the short 508 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 1: TOUCHEDO jacket on and everything. Man, yeah, I saw him. 509 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: I said, oh my god, Okay, Russ, that's that's what 510 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: you do in the off season. Now, lebron Lebron Jay said, 511 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:45,560 Speaker 1: do you activate that key card? Oh? But we did not. 512 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 1: You know what we didn't miss. We didn't miss. Rihanna's 513 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 1: marble statue revealed. They were. It was revealed at the met. 514 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:57,400 Speaker 1: The statue of arnaeu Renee, the personification of peace, is 515 00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 1: usually the highest profile Marble goddess. Okay, Rihanna was honored 516 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 1: with that. Rihanna herself at the tribute, referencing the gilded 517 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: glamour theme of a galla by tweeting, shut down the 518 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 1: Marble and Met what's more gilded than that? So congratulations 519 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 1: to Rihanna and her marble tribute, her marble statue tribute. 520 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: That's she wasn't even that's how you down. No, wait, Tommy, 521 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,960 Speaker 1: you're not even there. If you yeah, show up in marble, 522 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 1: y y go Rihanna? I love her? What's your question? 523 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 1: Where should I put Mom? Where should I put mom? Statue? Now? 524 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna I ain't got the money for marble. 525 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: It might have be like Travitine or something. You know 526 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like some vinyl from vinyl, I ain't 527 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 1: doing marb on that in your house. Put in your 528 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: house where you can admire you in your f No, 529 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: I mean I want to I want to be in DC. 530 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 1: I want to be where everybody can see you. People 531 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,960 Speaker 1: to you come see you. Yeah wow yeah yeah, don't 532 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 1: like like if we were in LA. I want to 533 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 1: be outside of ros Goles. You know what I'm saying. 534 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 1: You want somewhere everybody can see him up. Yeah, you 535 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,719 Speaker 1: can be down there with the minions. You put you 536 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 1: right down there with the men universe with the minion. 537 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,799 Speaker 1: Everybody gonna see you, y'all. Y'all got I'm talking. They're 538 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 1: they're gonna time me. I mean, they're gonna see you 539 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,759 Speaker 1: right there, are the right dude can pitch It can 540 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 1: be world wide rock. Everybody to go down there and 541 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 1: see that. How does that? Have you seen the time? 542 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 1: The travitee yet? Travitee time? You ain't seen that yet? 543 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:44,279 Speaker 1: That's that boy's killing statue. Now. I'm just trying to 544 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 1: figure this out. I'm famous wrong with you? What is 545 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:55,719 Speaker 1: wrong with you? Faus? I ain't Marvel famous, but I'm 546 00:34:56,160 --> 00:35:00,760 Speaker 1: I'm some nice trav teine. I ain't I'm bad. Hey, listen, 547 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,319 Speaker 1: we're gonna switch gears when we come back. Coming up 548 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,399 Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll tell you about 549 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:10,800 Speaker 1: a Rochester, New York teacher who was on leave for racism. 550 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,400 Speaker 1: Will tell you why right after this. You're listening to 551 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:21,320 Speaker 1: this story right here, Oh my god, Okay, let me 552 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,440 Speaker 1: get to it. Let me calm down and then get 553 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 1: to it. A white teacher in Rochester, New York is 554 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: on leave right now. This teacher is facing a host 555 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 1: of allegations of racist behavior, including placing handcuffs and leg 556 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 1: shackles on his black students, okay, and making them pick 557 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 1: cotton during a seventh grade social studies class. He referred 558 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 1: to him as massa. One parent said she nearly drove 559 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: off the road when her child told her about this 560 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 1: racist incident in school. The school district has confirmed that 561 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,280 Speaker 1: this lesson did take place, and it is of great 562 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:03,319 Speaker 1: concern and they are investigating. What what are you doing? 563 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: Simply unbelievable that this teacher and I was reading further 564 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 1: on USAToday dot com that he gave them white cotton 565 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 1: balls and told them to pick the cickets out of 566 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:21,720 Speaker 1: the cotton ball. This is a twenty year veteran teacher, 567 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 1: he's an educator, he's a teacher for twenty years. And 568 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 1: this is a curriculum that you chose, you racist, You're 569 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:36,799 Speaker 1: gonna need all these cotton balls off we get through 570 00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:40,760 Speaker 1: your behind. This is why we need critical race theory 571 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 1: in schools. They don't want it, but this is why 572 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,360 Speaker 1: we need it for incidents just like this, you know. 573 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,800 Speaker 1: But what also bothers me, though, Shirley, is what child 574 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,880 Speaker 1: allowed you to shackle them and put handcuffs on them? Well? 575 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 1: How did that even? How do we even get to 576 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,920 Speaker 1: that point? Yeah? I mean I don't blame the I 577 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: don't blame the students. I'm blaming us to Yeah, this 578 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,279 Speaker 1: is all on the teacher, all on the teacher. There's 579 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: no way he can explained out of this. Well I 580 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 1: was trying to show them what it was like. No, 581 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,520 Speaker 1: you can't explain your way out of this. No, no, 582 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 1: then we but but go ahead, go ahead, that's your demonstration, 583 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 1: but let's show it. Let's demonstrate a nice ass whopan 584 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:23,359 Speaker 1: So you understand what comes when you do this. Yes, 585 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 1: we're gonna. We're gonna when you get through teaching, we're 586 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 1: gonna teach you what goes when you when you're bringing 587 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: this up right or the next lesson we have in 588 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 1: tomorrow if my daddy's playing that turner and a lot 589 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 1: different lesson that you're gonna learn. Also, kids in this class, 590 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,959 Speaker 1: that a yes yet, And I'm talking about in real time. 591 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 1: I'm with the parent who said she nearly drove off 592 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 1: the cold when her child told her this. Yeah, I 593 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: mean that would be your reaction, but I leave he 594 00:37:54,880 --> 00:38:06,440 Speaker 1: didn't be fired then right at the five. Then that asswhoop, 595 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 1: and the school district. I'm mad at them. It's of 596 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:17,240 Speaker 1: great concern, and we are investigating. Excuse you, no, alight, cotton, 597 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm not picking non immediately all right? You had cotton cloth, 598 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry you do? Oh my clothes, silk, ray I don't. 599 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 1: I don't have none, all right. Coming up at thirty 600 00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,320 Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, we'll talk more about the 601 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 1: Dave Chappelle incident, because that is still trending. Right after this. 602 00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:43,879 Speaker 1: You're listening to show still trending Tuesday night in Los 603 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 1: Angeles a person ran up on stage in rush. Dave 604 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:52,360 Speaker 1: Chappelle tackled him on stage. As Dave Chappelle was wrapping 605 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:56,719 Speaker 1: up his set, police came in arrested the suspect. They 606 00:38:56,800 --> 00:39:02,319 Speaker 1: confiscated a knife and gun from this suspect. Onepell's personal Yes, yes, yes, 607 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:06,759 Speaker 1: one Chappelle's personal security cleared the Hollywood Bowl stage. Dave 608 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,759 Speaker 1: composed himself and quipped, quote, it was a trans man, 609 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 1: you know, because yeah, they're angry with yeah. Video reportedly 610 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,640 Speaker 1: from the scene shows the suspect being placed on an 611 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 1: ambulance gurnee. His face is rearranged. Right, let's go back. 612 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 1: You said his security cleared the stage. Now I'm just 613 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 1: saying ambulance do you know t let together? Do you 614 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 1: see what hell that's as? Its not right in that part? 615 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,680 Speaker 1: Uh huh uh huh. Well they say his face was 616 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,800 Speaker 1: rearranged and there's a bend. There's a bend in his 617 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:49,279 Speaker 1: right arm. There's a bend in his right arm broke. Yeah, 618 00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 1: that's the cleared part. We cleared. Let's stay yeah, yeah yeah. 619 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:59,440 Speaker 1: Dave Chappelle headlined Tuesday Nights Netflix is a joke best 620 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:04,200 Speaker 1: he It's controversy last year you recall with transphobic jokes 621 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,719 Speaker 1: in his Netflix comedy special. Nonetheless, we all know that 622 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:14,719 Speaker 1: Netflix reassigned to a multi special contract. So there you go. Yeah, 623 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,399 Speaker 1: I see where it's going. I see where where as 624 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,919 Speaker 1: a comedian where I see. No, it's it's about to happen. 625 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 1: It's been just like you know, um football games. It 626 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 1: used to be the thing who was gonna be the 627 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,800 Speaker 1: idiot at the super Bowl to run across the field, 628 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 1: make it. You know what I'm talking about, streaking across 629 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:34,840 Speaker 1: the So now somebody who wants to try it, so 630 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 1: wants to try Okay, all right, all right, I'll tell 631 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 1: you what. July first, I'm in Columbia. Come track, Come 632 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,360 Speaker 1: track Facebook. Gonna be different than next Day, Come track, track, 633 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:49,560 Speaker 1: try track at the Koger. I said that, I said 634 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:59,400 Speaker 1: Kroger to Day at the but come on the Coga 635 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,840 Speaker 1: and try you go, you go thank you at the supermarket. 636 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:10,040 Speaker 1: Yeah you know yeah, And it's very different than Will Smith. 637 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:14,400 Speaker 1: Very different, very good the story. Yeah, the very different. 638 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:19,920 Speaker 1: It's Amberlances. It's rearranged a whole lot of dialogue that 639 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 1: didn't even know what happened. Come on, man, Yeah, you 640 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 1: guys really feel you know with comedy. I mean I 641 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 1: even heard Sheryl Underwood saying on the Talk and she 642 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,879 Speaker 1: was concerned. She was worried about doing comed right after 643 00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:39,439 Speaker 1: the right right after the Will Smith incident. So now 644 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 1: this with Dave Chappelle, how do you guys really fair? 645 00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 1: You know, I'll be honest with you. I am cautious 646 00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 1: when I go out there. I go, I look on 647 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 1: side and stay, I see who's out there after having fun. 648 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,600 Speaker 1: You know, I checked to see what the tempest before 649 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,759 Speaker 1: I walk out there. You know, but you that I 650 00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,920 Speaker 1: never used to do that until the Will Smith thing. 651 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,120 Speaker 1: And now I go on the side SA features act 652 00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,120 Speaker 1: on there and I go out there and look right 653 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 1: before I watched, let me see how they're doing. You know. 654 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 1: It makes sure there's nobody in the audience that's crazy. 655 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, it does have a different effect where I 656 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:12,919 Speaker 1: just can't relax the whole time for our go on stage. 657 00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 1: Now I got to go check to see what's going 658 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,120 Speaker 1: on out there, or send somebody and let me ask 659 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,759 Speaker 1: you this, Tommy there, let me ask you this. Is 660 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:24,719 Speaker 1: there a certain amount of people that should be backstage? Um, 661 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,120 Speaker 1: you know when you're performing and and you know or 662 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,680 Speaker 1: do you prefer stage. A lot of us do not 663 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 1: like clear backstage. We like it clear. We don't like backstage. 664 00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,080 Speaker 1: Your securities. Backstage, you're security really on the side of 665 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:40,520 Speaker 1: the stage. Yeah, he's right there, He's not going anywhere. 666 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,040 Speaker 1: He's there the entire time that you are on stage. 667 00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:46,399 Speaker 1: When when I move, he moved, just like that, He's 668 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 1: always there. I don't when you got a whole gallery 669 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,759 Speaker 1: of people in the back, it's too much going on. 670 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 1: You can't concentrate, and you got these other eyes looking 671 00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,879 Speaker 1: at you that you're like, Okay, this is uncomfortable. There's 672 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,719 Speaker 1: too many people over here, and you start looking over there. 673 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 1: You constantly start looking over there, like and it takes 674 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 1: your focus away from the audience. But I will say 675 00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:14,480 Speaker 1: this run up on me. I'm sorry, I am everybody 676 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,839 Speaker 1: knows if you over if they over fifty, everybody over 677 00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:21,480 Speaker 1: fifty got one more left in us. Run up home us, Tommy. 678 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:25,399 Speaker 1: I felt that one. I felt that one swallow yea, 679 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 1: I have come all right, coming up with the brank 680 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:39,799 Speaker 1: phone call right after this, you're listening Morning show coming 681 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,799 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four 682 00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 1: minutes after it's my strawberry letter for today. The subject 683 00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:51,520 Speaker 1: she doesn't know he's my husband? All right, she doesn't 684 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:57,719 Speaker 1: know he's my husband. We'll get into that. This has 685 00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:00,560 Speaker 1: a twist to it. We'll get into that, uh in 686 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:02,560 Speaker 1: just a few but right now it is a nephew 687 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,719 Speaker 1: here with today's prank phone called nephew? What do you 688 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,239 Speaker 1: have on the menu for us today? Let's see, I 689 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:13,400 Speaker 1: don't know if we want an appetizer, entree or dessert 690 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:18,839 Speaker 1: type of prank. You know, I appetizer, that's just that's 691 00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:20,840 Speaker 1: just that, that's just a warm up prank, you know, 692 00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 1: I just get you there. But entree is fulfilling and 693 00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 1: then but a dessert is also satisfying. So what what Carla? 694 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,759 Speaker 1: What can you want today? You want to appetize the 695 00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 1: entree or dessert or side iem? You know what do 696 00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,600 Speaker 1: you want? Pick a prank that Dave Chappelle would be 697 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 1: proud of? Is that an appetizers? Oh? You want to 698 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:50,319 Speaker 1: go for the gusto? You want it? You want one 699 00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 1: of the specials on that ain't on to meet you? 700 00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:56,440 Speaker 1: You want special? Yeah? Yeah, okay, well that would be 701 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:11,960 Speaker 1: let's go. That's my granddad thinking those noises. I love him. Okay, 702 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:21,719 Speaker 1: My my dad's boat, my daddy's boat. All right. Now 703 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 1: that right there, that's that's that's David Chappelle worthy right there. 704 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:34,839 Speaker 1: My daddy is that dog. If you would hello, I'm 705 00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:39,200 Speaker 1: trying to reach you, mister Wilson, Please, mister Wilson, how 706 00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:45,799 Speaker 1: are you today? My name is Williams. Well, listen, we've 707 00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,800 Speaker 1: been getting a few complaints, sir, about some things on 708 00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:55,799 Speaker 1: your property there. Actually I'm with the homeowners Association. Wanted 709 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,560 Speaker 1: to reach out and give you a call today. Oh well, 710 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:02,640 Speaker 1: how are you doing? Pretty good? Listen. Um, got a 711 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:04,440 Speaker 1: few things I kind of want to discuss with you 712 00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:08,680 Speaker 1: here that seemed to be a problem that's taken place 713 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,960 Speaker 1: in the neighborhood there. Um, it's been brought to our 714 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:15,359 Speaker 1: attention down here at headquarters that you have a few 715 00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,400 Speaker 1: things on your property that are are not functioning that 716 00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,800 Speaker 1: really shouldn't be on the property. You have two cars 717 00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,560 Speaker 1: supposedly in your driveway that are not being used, been 718 00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,319 Speaker 1: sitting there for quite some time. Well, yeah, well one 719 00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 1: of them I'm currently working on. I'm almost I should 720 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,440 Speaker 1: have it repaired. I'm just waiting on getting wait, wait 721 00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 1: and get a little extra money to get it take care. 722 00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:36,120 Speaker 1: But the other cars just function and I just don't drive, 723 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,680 Speaker 1: and I have more than one car. Okay, Now you 724 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:44,440 Speaker 1: you also have a camper that seems to be has 725 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 1: been there for at least eight months now, that's that's 726 00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:50,520 Speaker 1: sitting there? Is that correct as well? Yeah? Yeah, I'm 727 00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,719 Speaker 1: I'm working on getting some storage for that. But it 728 00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,040 Speaker 1: ain't really been there eight months, just maybe around about 729 00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:58,600 Speaker 1: six to seven. You're not in it, not eight months. 730 00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 1: And you know, I'm looking at our past records and stuff. 731 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:06,200 Speaker 1: It seems like there was a complaint before about the 732 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:10,120 Speaker 1: you know, keeping the yard, uh pretty cutting all of 733 00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,319 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. And I'm just looking at past 734 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,840 Speaker 1: complaints that I have here. Now the biggest one that 735 00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:18,160 Speaker 1: I have that that's concerning your property, sir, is uh 736 00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:23,279 Speaker 1: supposedly in your backyard. Now there's a you have an 737 00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 1: old boat that's in your backyard. Yeah, yeah, but I 738 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 1: don't see that both bother nobody. Well, well, I mean 739 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,319 Speaker 1: it's it's it's kind of a sore eye for the people. 740 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,719 Speaker 1: I think. I think you guys backyards actually bump up 741 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,319 Speaker 1: against each other, and you guys have a chain link 742 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:42,120 Speaker 1: fence between the two of you all, and I think 743 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:43,960 Speaker 1: the boat is must be just a sore eye for 744 00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:47,000 Speaker 1: the family that's behind you. All. Well, you know, I 745 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:50,920 Speaker 1: don't see myself getting rid of that boat, so I 746 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,040 Speaker 1: got a cover on it. Everybody else got a boat. 747 00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:56,400 Speaker 1: I don't see. What's the problem is. Well, okay, here's 748 00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,439 Speaker 1: here's what's actually happening, mister Wilson. What's gonna take place 749 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:04,120 Speaker 1: is there? Now, we're gonna give you a fourteen day extension. 750 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:09,800 Speaker 1: Fourteen days actually to move the car that is not functioning, 751 00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,200 Speaker 1: the camper as well, and definitely the boat we need. 752 00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,960 Speaker 1: We're gonna need those three items. We'll get search search. 753 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,120 Speaker 1: I ain't got no we moved the boat. I just 754 00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,480 Speaker 1: told you I was working on so well for storage. 755 00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,759 Speaker 1: You know, I'm a storage call. Now the boat. Now, 756 00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:25,200 Speaker 1: the cab, I'll get that take care. But the boat. 757 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,320 Speaker 1: The boat, the boat my daddy gave me, and my 758 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 1: daddy gave me that that that's the only thing my 759 00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,920 Speaker 1: daddy gave me before he died. Now now I'm not 760 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: moving that boat nowhere. The boat won't get fun. If 761 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,520 Speaker 1: I take you down that to the water, it works, sir, 762 00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:41,760 Speaker 1: and I understand it wholeheartedly. You know, I'm basically I'm 763 00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,279 Speaker 1: just a messenger I have. I'm gonna have to get 764 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,959 Speaker 1: the non functioning car that's not working properly. I'm gonna 765 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,040 Speaker 1: have to get that out within the two week notice, 766 00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:53,000 Speaker 1: as well as the camper, and definitely the boat. Now 767 00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:54,839 Speaker 1: I gotta get that out. That's got to be gone. 768 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,719 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I ain't moving. I'll tell you 769 00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 1: that that plan what you're gonna do, sir, You gotta 770 00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,879 Speaker 1: either move the boat or I'm gonna have somebody come 771 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,279 Speaker 1: over and haul all of these things away. Well, i'll 772 00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,759 Speaker 1: tell you what. I got thirteen reasons why you won't 773 00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:10,799 Speaker 1: go over and touch that boat, and I got two 774 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,879 Speaker 1: moan or two two to thirteen twenty six? I got 775 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:17,160 Speaker 1: thirteen and then I got another twenty six added on 776 00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 1: to that why you won't bring now want me to 777 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,359 Speaker 1: touch my daddy boat because my daddy gave me that bowl. 778 00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:24,839 Speaker 1: I'll be dad at of you. You know, I'm tired 779 00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:28,239 Speaker 1: of you with me instead cross street? Eat what won't 780 00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,440 Speaker 1: report them because I'm not at liberty to give you 781 00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:34,040 Speaker 1: the name who's reporting boone? So you haven't live to 782 00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,520 Speaker 1: give me something because I know down the street that 783 00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,879 Speaker 1: boat you know, eight months and ain't nobody said saint 784 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,080 Speaker 1: to him. So why the hell y'all mean about how 785 00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:44,359 Speaker 1: to fold in the backyard to my Dada gave me, sir, 786 00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:49,360 Speaker 1: The language is not necessary. The bottom line is I 787 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 1: want to camper out. I want to boat out, and 788 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,960 Speaker 1: I want the car that's not functioning move for them 789 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,400 Speaker 1: two weeks or I'm towing it out. I tell you what, 790 00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:00,759 Speaker 1: I give you a personal invitation to come him. Put 791 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:05,239 Speaker 1: the boat, the campbell, and the car, and I will 792 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:09,799 Speaker 1: beat you like that's what beat you, sir? H wow, 793 00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna allow one car to stay. I just want 794 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,279 Speaker 1: to make sure that you know that I've given you 795 00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,960 Speaker 1: the statement over the phone, letting you know that what 796 00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:20,880 Speaker 1: what has taken place here, the state will take it. 797 00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,279 Speaker 1: But I ain't moved my daddy boat. You're gonna move 798 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:29,200 Speaker 1: your dad's stinking vote if you don't bring the loan, 799 00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,359 Speaker 1: Would you bring somebody, sir? Trust me, trust me. If 800 00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,880 Speaker 1: we come there, we're definitely gonna be bringing authorities with us. 801 00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:37,800 Speaker 1: My mighty will go to jail because I love my daddy. 802 00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:40,440 Speaker 1: Ain't now I want you. I'm gonna touch my daddy's boat. 803 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:43,640 Speaker 1: That's left me. I got one one thing I need 804 00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,880 Speaker 1: to say to you, sir, about this in a situation. 805 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:49,920 Speaker 1: Excuse me. All I have to say is this. This 806 00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:53,759 Speaker 1: is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You 807 00:50:54,000 --> 00:51:10,560 Speaker 1: just got pranked by your brother. All right, man, it's 808 00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:12,719 Speaker 1: your brother told me, he said, Man, he'd be going 809 00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,279 Speaker 1: eddie with the homeowner soldier. He said, Man, just call 810 00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,239 Speaker 1: him and tell him he got to move all this thing, 811 00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,160 Speaker 1: he said, but most of all, tell him y'all gonna 812 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,680 Speaker 1: haul off that boat. He said, he would kill you 813 00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:27,520 Speaker 1: the hand that dog on boat. I love that they 814 00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:31,040 Speaker 1: know that, they know that. I got one more question 815 00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:32,960 Speaker 1: for you, though, Baby, tell me this. What is the 816 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:38,920 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land? The show? Let me 817 00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,399 Speaker 1: tell you something. When you're stupid with a purpose, When 818 00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 1: you're stupid with a purpose, you're just when you're stupid 819 00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:49,600 Speaker 1: with a purpose. And let me preach on this thing. 820 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:52,960 Speaker 1: What is that purpose? It's to be It's to be stupid. 821 00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:56,080 Speaker 1: It's the purpose. I mean. Let me tell you something. 822 00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:59,160 Speaker 1: I love my own. He gonna tell you which way 823 00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:04,160 Speaker 1: to go in life. You know, motivation. We gonna motivate 824 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:07,360 Speaker 1: you how to reach your goal. And don't do this 825 00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 1: in ninety days and don't then, just how you get 826 00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,880 Speaker 1: to heal and how he slept in the car ain't slepping, No, 827 00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,880 Speaker 1: damn car, I ain't done it. I have not slep. 828 00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:20,120 Speaker 1: I slept in my bed with my mom next door 829 00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:23,000 Speaker 1: to my mama and them being being room. I ain't slepping. No, 830 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:26,000 Speaker 1: I'm not sleeping in No damn car, I slept in 831 00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 1: my own room. I have my own phone. I struggle 832 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:33,640 Speaker 1: makes you stronger, Yes, this has made me very strong 833 00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:37,600 Speaker 1: to grow up in a in a middle class All right, 834 00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:42,200 Speaker 1: we gotta go. Coming up next strawberry letter, the subject 835 00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:45,000 Speaker 1: she doesn't know he's my husband. We'll get into that 836 00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:51,799 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Morning show. Hey, listen, guys, 837 00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,040 Speaker 1: before we get to the strawberry letter. We're getting there. 838 00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:56,480 Speaker 1: We're getting there, I promise you. I gotta remind you 839 00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,160 Speaker 1: that Mother's Day is coming up this Sunday. I've got 840 00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:02,480 Speaker 1: a special tree for you. I'm introducing my brand new 841 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:06,880 Speaker 1: candle line. It is called the Love Collection. The Love Collection. 842 00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,080 Speaker 1: It is just in time for Mother's Day, and I 843 00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,560 Speaker 1: want to tell you, if you're in the Atlanta area, 844 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 1: please join me this Saturday, May seventh, from one to 845 00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:19,080 Speaker 1: four pm at a store called merge Coo in Atlanta 846 00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:22,360 Speaker 1: Spips Plaza. Merge Coo is a black owned company. I 847 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:25,359 Speaker 1: chose to do my candle launch there because I want 848 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:29,400 Speaker 1: it to get back, give back anyway. It's located directly 849 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,320 Speaker 1: above merge co directly above a Gucci store on the 850 00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:35,120 Speaker 1: second floor in Phipps Plaza. Again. I will be there 851 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:38,799 Speaker 1: this Saturday, May seventh, from one to four pm. It's 852 00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:41,759 Speaker 1: called merge Coo. I will see you there. Please come, 853 00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:45,319 Speaker 1: all right, thank you. Now it's time for the Strawberry Letter. 854 00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,719 Speaker 1: And I know you'll be there, Junior, I know you will, 855 00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:57,360 Speaker 1: but don't talk to me. Yes, it's time for today's 856 00:53:57,360 --> 00:54:01,400 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, aiding, work, sex, parenting, 857 00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:05,000 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEFARVEFM dot 858 00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:08,480 Speaker 1: com and click submit Strawberry Letter and we could be 859 00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:10,359 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 860 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, pop pop, right now 861 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 1: could be yours. You never know, you never know. Buckle 862 00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:19,239 Speaker 1: up and hold on site. We got it for you here. 863 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,920 Speaker 1: It is Strawberry all right, I'm gonna read it, answer it. 864 00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,200 Speaker 1: Then Tommy's gonna come through and then junior for today's 865 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, Say Yeah. The subject is she doesn't know 866 00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,880 Speaker 1: he's my husband. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a fifty one 867 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,320 Speaker 1: year old married woman and my husband and I have 868 00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:39,320 Speaker 1: one child. Were separated for a while because he admitted 869 00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,800 Speaker 1: that he had an emotional affair with the woman he 870 00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:45,080 Speaker 1: met in the airport. I saw text messages between my 871 00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:48,160 Speaker 1: husband and the woman. She was saved in his phone 872 00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,320 Speaker 1: as counselor because he told me that he confided in 873 00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:53,759 Speaker 1: her and she was easy to talk to. I was 874 00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:58,200 Speaker 1: so hurt and confused because I thought I was his everything. 875 00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:01,080 Speaker 1: I do not have many girls friends, and my best 876 00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:04,000 Speaker 1: friend and I are at odds. So I confided in 877 00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,600 Speaker 1: a friend that I worked with. I told her that 878 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,160 Speaker 1: my marriage may be over, but I didn't give her 879 00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:13,520 Speaker 1: any specific details on the issue. She suggested that we 880 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:17,160 Speaker 1: take an overnight girl's trip to a casino to clear 881 00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,680 Speaker 1: my mind and unwind. We shared a suite and there 882 00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 1: was a bottle of champagne in the room when we 883 00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:26,560 Speaker 1: checked in. We finished it within thirty minutes and ordered 884 00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:30,279 Speaker 1: room service. She was tipsy and started telling all of 885 00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:33,200 Speaker 1: her business. She admitted to having an affair with a 886 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,200 Speaker 1: married man, and she said that he's filling a void 887 00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:39,359 Speaker 1: in her life while she figures out if she wants 888 00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,640 Speaker 1: to be with men or women. I was quite tipsy, too, 889 00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:46,320 Speaker 1: so when she kissed me, I led her. The situation 890 00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:49,440 Speaker 1: got hot and heavy rather quickly, and the next morning 891 00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:52,719 Speaker 1: was a bit awkward, so I didn't say much. We're 892 00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:55,360 Speaker 1: about to head out when she got a call. She 893 00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,520 Speaker 1: answered it on speaker, and I got sick to my 894 00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:03,080 Speaker 1: stomach when I heard my husband's voice. He told her, 895 00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,600 Speaker 1: uh huh. He told her that he didn't like sleeping 896 00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,759 Speaker 1: alone and he was eager to see her. She had 897 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,960 Speaker 1: no idea that was my husband on the phone, and 898 00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:16,319 Speaker 1: I sat there and listened. Can I be mad at 899 00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:20,400 Speaker 1: him since we've both slept with her? I'm non confrontational, 900 00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,320 Speaker 1: So how do I address this situation with this woman 901 00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:30,440 Speaker 1: and my husband? Ma'am, ma'am, ma'am, ma'am. This has nothing 902 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:34,480 Speaker 1: to do with being non confrontational or not. I can't 903 00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:37,560 Speaker 1: believe you heard your husband's voice on that woman's phone 904 00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:41,160 Speaker 1: and sat there and didn't say anything. You realized it 905 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:44,160 Speaker 1: was him when he said hello, Like I said, this 906 00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:46,960 Speaker 1: has nothing to do with being non confrontational. You just 907 00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:50,080 Speaker 1: can't let people do this to you. I mean, really, 908 00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,720 Speaker 1: you must have really been struggling at that moment because 909 00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:56,040 Speaker 1: you had messed around with this woman the night before. 910 00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,839 Speaker 1: In the shock of hearing his voice made you shut 911 00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,399 Speaker 1: all the way down, because I'm sure had you been 912 00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,120 Speaker 1: in your right mind, you would not have let this 913 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:10,640 Speaker 1: go down like that. What I just you know, first 914 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,840 Speaker 1: of all, he told you he had an emotional affair. 915 00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,920 Speaker 1: You don't believe that, do you? Come on, I think 916 00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 1: he lied to you. I think that it was a 917 00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:23,920 Speaker 1: physical affair, just like this one is a physical affair. Uh, 918 00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,320 Speaker 1: don't believe what he tells you believe what comes out 919 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:31,400 Speaker 1: of your husband's mouth. Okay, he had a physical affair 920 00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:34,120 Speaker 1: with this woman. I'm sure he probably had something going 921 00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:36,880 Speaker 1: on with this other woman too, And uh, you know, 922 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 1: you guys have been separated for a while. The as 923 00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,440 Speaker 1: the question is and the answer, what are you gonna 924 00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:46,640 Speaker 1: do now? You gotta confront your husband. You gotta let 925 00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,840 Speaker 1: him know what's going on. If you're non confrontational, just 926 00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:53,200 Speaker 1: talk to him. You gotta man up, You have to. 927 00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,640 Speaker 1: You gotta let him know you know what's going on. 928 00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:59,480 Speaker 1: This can't continue or he'll he'll he'll keep doing it 929 00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:03,000 Speaker 1: to you. This man, you know, if you want him back, 930 00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,680 Speaker 1: if you want him back, whether you decide or not 931 00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:09,520 Speaker 1: to tell him, you gotta tell him, okay, just tell him, 932 00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:12,760 Speaker 1: tell him, tell him, tell him. This man has made 933 00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:15,040 Speaker 1: his choice. You gotta make a choice. This man has 934 00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:17,880 Speaker 1: made a choice, and it's her, all right. Don't let 935 00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:20,240 Speaker 1: them do this to you. This makes me so mad 936 00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:24,160 Speaker 1: that she didn't say anything. Tommy, you're looking at this wrong. 937 00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,320 Speaker 1: It's two people that love you. You know what I'm saying. 938 00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:29,680 Speaker 1: You got to It's two people that love you. She 939 00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,880 Speaker 1: love you and he love you. Why don't you see this? 940 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:36,280 Speaker 1: You don't. You don't get it, lady. It's two people. 941 00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:39,800 Speaker 1: Embrace that embrace it when you have two people that 942 00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:43,040 Speaker 1: love you. I'm apparently if y'all couldn't make eye contact 943 00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 1: the next morning, we are read to know what happened 944 00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:48,360 Speaker 1: with you and hood in that in that little room, 945 00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:52,160 Speaker 1: that hotel room. So that would you enjoy that? I 946 00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:54,040 Speaker 1: know how good it is when you can't make eye 947 00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:57,080 Speaker 1: contact in them ament. That's beautiful. And then you got him, 948 00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:59,320 Speaker 1: all right, and then you you have him and he 949 00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:01,080 Speaker 1: loves you and of course, he got to think out 950 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:02,360 Speaker 1: a couple of things going on that you don't know 951 00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 1: nothing about, and he emotionally attaches somebody else, and then 952 00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:07,960 Speaker 1: he got this woman right here. But don't look at that. 953 00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:11,800 Speaker 1: He loves you, and he loves you, love her, and 954 00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:16,280 Speaker 1: he loves her. Everybody loves everybody. So it's just the way. 955 00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:19,520 Speaker 1: This is a different kind of ready to love. You 956 00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:25,440 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Radio ready to love. This is 957 00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:30,280 Speaker 1: radio ready to love. But the love. Hold on, Hold 958 00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:33,760 Speaker 1: that thought, Hold that thought. We'll be back with part 959 00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:37,680 Speaker 1: two of today's strawberry letter. The subject is she doesn't 960 00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:40,200 Speaker 1: know he's my husband. We'll get back into it at 961 00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:42,480 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour when we come back 962 00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:49,680 Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show, All right, we're back. 963 00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:53,120 Speaker 1: We're gonna recap today's crazy Strawberry letter. The subject is, 964 00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:56,320 Speaker 1: she doesn't know he's my husband. A fifty one year 965 00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:58,520 Speaker 1: old married woman wrote in she she and her husband 966 00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,480 Speaker 1: have one child, are separated for a while because her 967 01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:04,600 Speaker 1: her husband admitted to having an emotional fare with a 968 01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:08,000 Speaker 1: woman he met at the airport. The wife says she 969 01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:11,840 Speaker 1: saw text messages between the husband and the woman and 970 01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:15,520 Speaker 1: she was saved in his phone as counselor. All of this, 971 01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:19,920 Speaker 1: she was upset, so they separated. She was hurt and confused. 972 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,760 Speaker 1: She thought she was her husband's everything. She says she 973 01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,920 Speaker 1: doesn't have girlfriends. Her best friend in our and she 974 01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:30,120 Speaker 1: are at odds because so, she confided in a friend 975 01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:33,000 Speaker 1: that she works with. She told the friend that the 976 01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:36,280 Speaker 1: marriage may be over. She didn't give the friend any specifics, 977 01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:39,560 Speaker 1: but she suggested so. The friends suggested that they take 978 01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:43,360 Speaker 1: an overnight girl's trip to a casino to clear their 979 01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:46,840 Speaker 1: minds and unline. They had champagne. One thing led to another. 980 01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:52,120 Speaker 1: The two women got into a trist. Okay, they started 981 01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:57,040 Speaker 1: doing it all right and yeah, and then tangled trist 982 01:00:57,240 --> 01:01:02,200 Speaker 1: a trist but we're gonna say yes a trip a trist. Yeah. 983 01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:07,120 Speaker 1: So anyway, she got tipsy, they did it. Uh and uh. 984 01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:10,720 Speaker 1: The girlfriend told her that she was seeing a married 985 01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:13,600 Speaker 1: man and uh, lo and behold. When they were getting 986 01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,760 Speaker 1: ready to leave, the married man calls and uh. The 987 01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:20,480 Speaker 1: friend put it on speaker and guess who it was. 988 01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:29,320 Speaker 1: It's it's her. It's yes, de serious, it's dearious, it's derrious. Yeah, hell, 989 01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:32,240 Speaker 1: I ain't no damn Darius. But the wife is saying. 990 01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:35,760 Speaker 1: She's non confrontational, so she didn't say anything. She just 991 01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:39,360 Speaker 1: sat there and listened. She never once picked up the phone. 992 01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:42,200 Speaker 1: She never once called his name out. She never once 993 01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:47,240 Speaker 1: said anything to the woman. She didn't say anything anything 994 01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:50,800 Speaker 1: to her husband. She's feeling guilty now because she had 995 01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:54,280 Speaker 1: a tryst with this woman and feeling like, you know, 996 01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:56,880 Speaker 1: she's guilty as her husband because they both, you know, 997 01:01:57,040 --> 01:02:01,040 Speaker 1: had this woman. So this is craziness. She said nothing. 998 01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:03,680 Speaker 1: Her husband still doesn't know that her wife was in 999 01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,600 Speaker 1: the room of the woman. He called this is crazy. 1000 01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:11,040 Speaker 1: Tommy says, they both loved her, so this is a 1001 01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:15,040 Speaker 1: good thing. He would say that, I'm just mad because 1002 01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:18,360 Speaker 1: she didn't say anything. You're not gonna say anything, the 1003 01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:22,080 Speaker 1: Dearius and Junior, what do you say? Oh? Oh, I 1004 01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:23,880 Speaker 1: think this is the wrong title of this letter. I 1005 01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:26,880 Speaker 1: think that off the top, this should be called Everybody 1006 01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:34,160 Speaker 1: know Everybody, because he knows the girl, the girl know him, 1007 01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,760 Speaker 1: He knows his wife, and she knows the girl. His 1008 01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:41,800 Speaker 1: wife know the girl. Everybody know everybody. But very very 1009 01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:44,920 Speaker 1: confused at how this is the first black woman in 1010 01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:48,720 Speaker 1: history to not say nothing on the phone call. You 1011 01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:50,960 Speaker 1: know what's your husband's voice. There are a lot of 1012 01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:54,000 Speaker 1: missing phrases in this letter that we should have heardybody now, 1013 01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:56,200 Speaker 1: we should have been we should have heard. We should 1014 01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 1: have heard like, don't beat that when I get home. 1015 01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:02,320 Speaker 1: We should have heard that by now, like I know 1016 01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:06,240 Speaker 1: good hair wear out? That ain't him. We should have 1017 01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:09,440 Speaker 1: heard some name call it like that was no blake? 1018 01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:14,040 Speaker 1: Nah right, that was nothing. How you difficult? Because see 1019 01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,439 Speaker 1: you had odds with friends, best friend, you got all 1020 01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:20,720 Speaker 1: these other social issues going on. But how you sit 1021 01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:23,240 Speaker 1: on this phone? You ain't snatched the phone. Where's that 1022 01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:26,000 Speaker 1: line it? You ain't snatched the phone and say it's 1023 01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:30,240 Speaker 1: me right. I don't understand. I don't know how you 1024 01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:33,880 Speaker 1: listen this loan? How much was y'all gambet at the table? 1025 01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:35,960 Speaker 1: How much did we win? To shut up? But what 1026 01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:40,120 Speaker 1: is this? This don't make no sense because how is 1027 01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:42,680 Speaker 1: you still having a weekend and you hear your husband? 1028 01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:45,880 Speaker 1: I don't understand how you doing it? Man. I don't 1029 01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:48,000 Speaker 1: know a black woman I know that's gonna do that. 1030 01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:51,480 Speaker 1: I have never seen white woman that would let this go. 1031 01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:54,080 Speaker 1: I don't know white women women. I don't know with 1032 01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:56,960 Speaker 1: white women. I don't know what woman I don't even 1033 01:03:57,000 --> 01:04:00,960 Speaker 1: want Yeah, I don't know anyone who would let this go. 1034 01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:04,800 Speaker 1: And she I know the first thing? She justifies it 1035 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,840 Speaker 1: by saying she's non confrontation or what Tommy, the first 1036 01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:10,760 Speaker 1: thing you're supposed to hear? Yes, I know them. That 1037 01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:17,760 Speaker 1: ain't Dares. I don't know how you sitting over there. 1038 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:23,760 Speaker 1: I don't even know how you're still getting dressed. You're 1039 01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:27,520 Speaker 1: still getting dressed, and how you you're supposed to be 1040 01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:30,520 Speaker 1: in your Brazilian girdle? Is that? Is that Darius? I 1041 01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:34,240 Speaker 1: know that ain't Darius. She's saying something. But the question 1042 01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:36,880 Speaker 1: she asked, can I be madden them? Since we both 1043 01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:42,160 Speaker 1: slept with her? Huh? Why is that the question? Yes? Forget, 1044 01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:44,680 Speaker 1: forget what I've done. I don't care nothing about what 1045 01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:47,360 Speaker 1: I did last night. Is this shoe on this damn phone? 1046 01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:50,520 Speaker 1: Is he wasn't? Yeah, he didn't even know that anyway 1047 01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:53,760 Speaker 1: that I thought her? So? Yeah? Anyway, So how do 1048 01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:57,680 Speaker 1: I address the situation with this woman and my husband? Girl? 1049 01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:03,080 Speaker 1: There's so many ways. There's so many ways, but the 1050 01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:09,000 Speaker 1: slap slap them? You know that? You know I knowed 1051 01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:14,439 Speaker 1: that ain't Darius? Yes, that has to be I can't 1052 01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:22,480 Speaker 1: listen to statements. Is that blanketed blank Darius and then 1053 01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:28,400 Speaker 1: you know she's gonna keep calling his name when she here, Darius, Darius, 1054 01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:33,360 Speaker 1: darry Us, Darius's gonna hang out. Oh I know you 1055 01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:43,320 Speaker 1: hit me Darius, but Tommy dar Darius on second? All right, yeah, yeah, 1056 01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:46,280 Speaker 1: I listen. Thank you guys. Post your coming very one 1057 01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:50,400 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at St Barvy FM on Instagram and Facebook. 1058 01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:53,720 Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on Japan on demand, 1059 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,240 Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, Sports 1060 01:05:56,240 --> 01:06:01,680 Speaker 1: Stop with Junior. Right after Japan you're listening Steven Show, 1061 01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:05,320 Speaker 1: it is time now for Sports Talk with Junior. Junior 1062 01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:08,160 Speaker 1: what you got? Okay, Shirley, But let me just remind 1063 01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:10,560 Speaker 1: the people in the DFW area that happened in jan 1064 01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:13,520 Speaker 1: June fourth, I'm telling you this coming up fast, which 1065 01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:16,880 Speaker 1: is also if y'all know this, this is also Kiers 1066 01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:19,600 Speaker 1: Hope Sickle Sell Awareness Month in the state of Texas. 1067 01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:21,920 Speaker 1: That's happening, so we gotta do something. We're having a 1068 01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:24,560 Speaker 1: five k running fun walk at the Market hunt Hill 1069 01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:26,800 Speaker 1: Bridge on June fourth, or you have to do the 1070 01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:30,320 Speaker 1: registers go to kers Hope dot org. That's k I E. R. S. 1071 01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:33,480 Speaker 1: Hope dot org thousd like to see y'all out there, 1072 01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:37,000 Speaker 1: yeah here, Yeah, it seemed like the Mavericks probably gonna 1073 01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:39,200 Speaker 1: be out there with y'all. I think they may be 1074 01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:44,400 Speaker 1: showing up, Tommy, Man, they might, but you know what, 1075 01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:47,440 Speaker 1: who does come out there? Thought Timmy. The line for 1076 01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:49,840 Speaker 1: the Dallas Mavericks now this time is we're just gonna 1077 01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:54,760 Speaker 1: have some Mavericks out here because after last night, Yeah, 1078 01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:57,919 Speaker 1: the plans is coming to man looking up thirty five, 1079 01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:01,840 Speaker 1: that wasn't enough as they fall again. Man, Now Phoenix 1080 01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:05,200 Speaker 1: leads a series to nothing. Man, but Devin Book on 1081 01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:08,560 Speaker 1: his on his second game back after that head string 1082 01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:12,280 Speaker 1: dropped thirty Chris Paul Trip contributed with twenty eight and eight. Man, 1083 01:07:12,360 --> 01:07:15,480 Speaker 1: it just wasn't like you say, Tommy, they're down to 1084 01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:17,680 Speaker 1: nothing out of Phoenix and they're heading the Dallas on 1085 01:07:17,840 --> 01:07:20,720 Speaker 1: Friday night. But all I know is we may have 1086 01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:23,200 Speaker 1: some Maveri players, but also new who else might be 1087 01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,720 Speaker 1: out there. They may have to travel, but we out 1088 01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:30,919 Speaker 1: there too, man, Philly the seventy sixers. Man, they fell 1089 01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:34,000 Speaker 1: short to the Heat again without Joel and bed one 1090 01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:36,360 Speaker 1: nineteen to one on three to six. The Heat need 1091 01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:40,560 Speaker 1: the series too. Nothing, man, but where's James Hard? Yeah? 1092 01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:42,680 Speaker 1: I think this might be a sweep here, Tommy, this 1093 01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:45,320 Speaker 1: might be the one be looking for because Harden doing 1094 01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:48,960 Speaker 1: a hardened That's all we know. He just I'll tell 1095 01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:51,000 Speaker 1: you right now, Philly and Hus we used to it 1096 01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:53,880 Speaker 1: eighty two games. That boy everything you want for eighty 1097 01:07:53,960 --> 01:07:59,920 Speaker 1: two sold this layoff head game eight it four yea, 1098 01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:03,240 Speaker 1: he is nowhere to be found, man, Tyres massive fished 1099 01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:05,200 Speaker 1: with thirty four hard and finished with twenty. But man, 1100 01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:07,560 Speaker 1: he was one for five behind the art. So yeah, 1101 01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:11,160 Speaker 1: it's it's a little tough. Uh. All I know is 1102 01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:14,720 Speaker 1: this man. If you cannot get joelan be back on 1103 01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:16,640 Speaker 1: this court, I would be going by this house and 1104 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:19,680 Speaker 1: asking about how this eye doing. Y'all need some information. 1105 01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:23,320 Speaker 1: Joelan be got to come back for game three, y'all. 1106 01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:25,280 Speaker 1: I don't see this happening. It's gonna be a sweet 1107 01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:27,920 Speaker 1: let's let's call it swept. Let's pass tense, it's swell, 1108 01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:31,320 Speaker 1: it's swept. Its probably gonna know. I mean, but ask him, dude, 1109 01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:33,920 Speaker 1: what type of glances can't you wearing play? Because you 1110 01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:39,040 Speaker 1: just can't let him sit out. I know he fractured. James. 1111 01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:42,560 Speaker 1: You need something that was tough. James took shots to 1112 01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:45,960 Speaker 1: the eye, never broke, never broke. You ain't lying. He 1113 01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:48,000 Speaker 1: just got to get back out there, man. So we're 1114 01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:51,840 Speaker 1: gonna see what's happening. Man. But the NBA Playoffs, these 1115 01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:56,720 Speaker 1: games be serious. No, No, ain't no games tonight, man. 1116 01:08:56,720 --> 01:09:00,080 Speaker 1: They're playing Saturday. Ain't no games tonight. So we'll just 1117 01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:02,080 Speaker 1: see what happens. So Friday night is going to be 1118 01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:05,000 Speaker 1: the seventy six in the heat and then it's gonna 1119 01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:07,479 Speaker 1: be Dallas maverages in the Phoenix Suns. So that sports 1120 01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:10,760 Speaker 1: force truly all right? Thank you, Junior. Coming up more 1121 01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:13,200 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Stay tuned. We'll be 1122 01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:17,760 Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening to the Morning Show. 1123 01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:22,759 Speaker 1: Mother's Day is on Sunday, and if you haven't gotten 1124 01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:26,639 Speaker 1: anything from mom, you are in luck. Fifty seven percent 1125 01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:29,800 Speaker 1: of Americans plan to give mom a very nice card 1126 01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:33,280 Speaker 1: for Mother's Day. And that's great, isn't it, because it 1127 01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:37,080 Speaker 1: is exactly what mothers say they want. According to a 1128 01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:40,840 Speaker 1: survey conducted by Lending Tree, the top gift on Mom's 1129 01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:44,639 Speaker 1: wish list this year is just that a nice greeting card. 1130 01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:47,920 Speaker 1: Thirty six percent of moms said they'd like that over 1131 01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:54,360 Speaker 1: spending quality time with family car They just want to 1132 01:09:54,960 --> 01:10:00,920 Speaker 1: be by themselves as well. Okay, yeah, but despite all that, 1133 01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,760 Speaker 1: Americans are still expected to spend an average of two 1134 01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:06,639 Speaker 1: hundred and twenty five dollars on Mother's Day gifts this year. 1135 01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:10,639 Speaker 1: That's up from two dollars two hundred and nineteen dollars 1136 01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:13,920 Speaker 1: from last year. And here's some other interesting findings from 1137 01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:17,360 Speaker 1: the survey. Twenty percent of moms say they've been disappointed 1138 01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:20,400 Speaker 1: by Mother's Day gifts in the past. Now, doesn't Steve 1139 01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:23,439 Speaker 1: say that a lot about Father's Day gifts. Now mothers 1140 01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:27,240 Speaker 1: are saying it too. Hey, I don't know who they 1141 01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:31,200 Speaker 1: poland that they just want to I'm sorry, I take 1142 01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:34,360 Speaker 1: care of my mom. Yeah, I gotta take care of mom. Yeah, 1143 01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:39,160 Speaker 1: because this right on this show money. You can't just 1144 01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:46,679 Speaker 1: come in here with no car. Hello, I'm like my grandmother. 1145 01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:50,400 Speaker 1: I'm like my grandmother. Put my mama with something in 1146 01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:53,920 Speaker 1: that car. Yeah, there you go with that. Let's be 1147 01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:57,360 Speaker 1: let's be clear, just so everybody know, Mother's Day is 1148 01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:01,479 Speaker 1: for your mother. It doesn't say that mother stays for 1149 01:11:01,680 --> 01:11:05,599 Speaker 1: mother's mother stays for mothers. If you're a mother, then 1150 01:11:05,680 --> 01:11:10,320 Speaker 1: you're celebrated on Mother's Day. Period. Mother's Day is for 1151 01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:17,840 Speaker 1: your mama, not necessarily Tommy. Women in your life. Yeah, 1152 01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:24,240 Speaker 1: that is a mother, Oh, mama, your sister, your eyes, 1153 01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:29,639 Speaker 1: your wife, your baby, mama. You need to celebrate thing women, Tommy, 1154 01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:33,280 Speaker 1: that theory you have if you're a if you're a mother, 1155 01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:37,320 Speaker 1: Oh no, we have fish to do that. Oh no, 1156 01:11:37,439 --> 01:11:42,240 Speaker 1: no no, no, oh no no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1157 01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:51,080 Speaker 1: excuse you? What Ivan Jones Jones, Mama, what Van Jones 1158 01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:54,760 Speaker 1: call it a consciously? What did you call it? He 1159 01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:57,120 Speaker 1: didn't call it. It is baby mama, but he didn't 1160 01:11:57,160 --> 01:12:02,760 Speaker 1: say that conscious something parents, conscious co parenting. Yeah, your 1161 01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:10,760 Speaker 1: conscious co parent not your baby mama. Yeah. Stop stop yeah, 1162 01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:14,679 Speaker 1: and you're the baby daddy, Van Jones, dad stop. Yeah. 1163 01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:20,120 Speaker 1: But anyway, back to the issue. Mother. Don't give me 1164 01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:22,280 Speaker 1: no c ann ass. I don't want to see any 1165 01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:29,759 Speaker 1: Mother's Days from mother's and she's your baby mama, Van Jones, 1166 01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:34,439 Speaker 1: So get her something from Mother's Day, mutters mutter. Muther's Day, 1167 01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:41,240 Speaker 1: for sure. Absolutely. Are you excited about Mother's Day? Shirley, Yes, 1168 01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:45,400 Speaker 1: of course I am, yes, yes, yes, I'm very excited. 1169 01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:48,960 Speaker 1: You know, I have um an event in Atlanta this weekend, 1170 01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:53,040 Speaker 1: so I'm excited about that. I'm launching my new candle line. 1171 01:12:53,080 --> 01:12:57,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm excited. Very congratulations. Thank you, my sister, 1172 01:12:58,080 --> 01:13:00,720 Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate that. Thank you. I know you 1173 01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:03,599 Speaker 1: would be there supporting your girl, Carla, I know you would. 1174 01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:05,880 Speaker 1: But of course you're a cheer mom, and I know, 1175 01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:08,880 Speaker 1: I know. And it's Mother's Day. I get it, that's 1176 01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:14,920 Speaker 1: what it is. And I'm a week I know, do 1177 01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:20,120 Speaker 1: you I understand. I understand. I'm taking my mama to dinner. Nice, 1178 01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,679 Speaker 1: I'm taking my mama to dinner Jackie. Jackie just happened 1179 01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:26,160 Speaker 1: to be going with us, you know. But I'm thinking, Mama, 1180 01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:33,240 Speaker 1: if my kids, if my kids want to pay for 1181 01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:36,200 Speaker 1: their mama bills, so be it, because that's day mama. 1182 01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:41,439 Speaker 1: I'm taking care of my mama. That is so wrong. 1183 01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:45,439 Speaker 1: She is the mother, Jackie, is the mother of your children. 1184 01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:49,800 Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? Right? And my children should 1185 01:13:49,840 --> 01:13:54,040 Speaker 1: take care of what day mama. Well, as long as 1186 01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:56,760 Speaker 1: they get the money from their daddy to take care 1187 01:13:56,800 --> 01:14:00,599 Speaker 1: of their mama, then it's all good, all right. Happy 1188 01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:08,160 Speaker 1: Mother's Day, everybody. Happy Mother's Day, you're listening show. Well, 1189 01:14:08,280 --> 01:14:09,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if I could do this or not, 1190 01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:12,120 Speaker 1: but Oprah certainly did it. Get a load of this 1191 01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:15,320 Speaker 1: guy's Oprah did not leave her house for three hundred 1192 01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:19,639 Speaker 1: and twenty two days, all right. While many people struggle 1193 01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:22,600 Speaker 1: with social distancing, yeah, during the early days of the 1194 01:14:22,680 --> 01:14:26,519 Speaker 1: COVID nineteen pandemic, Oprah was not one of them. Oprah says, 1195 01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:29,160 Speaker 1: I didn't leave for three hundred and twenty two days. 1196 01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:32,599 Speaker 1: Literally did not leave the house. This is what Oprah 1197 01:14:32,680 --> 01:14:35,439 Speaker 1: told the La Times. She says, what surprised me the 1198 01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:37,439 Speaker 1: most is how well I was able to adjust to 1199 01:14:37,560 --> 01:14:41,040 Speaker 1: the isolation and not being around other people. So the 1200 01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:43,439 Speaker 1: question is do you think you could be alone for 1201 01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:46,599 Speaker 1: three hundred and twenty two days? And when you are alone, 1202 01:14:46,720 --> 01:14:50,559 Speaker 1: do you miss people or find it peaceful? That ain't 1203 01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:55,360 Speaker 1: the question. That's not what's going on. Oprah ain't manly, okay, 1204 01:14:55,760 --> 01:15:01,719 Speaker 1: that's oh ma'amant forever though. Yeah, it's biggest house. Heals 1205 01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:04,800 Speaker 1: called you love biggest house. You ain't lying, Timmy, You 1206 01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:09,559 Speaker 1: ain't lying. Fifty thousand square feet of a house, Okay, 1207 01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:13,679 Speaker 1: you ain't. Hanker goes. You can go some new places 1208 01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:16,800 Speaker 1: every day in the half. It takes two hundred and 1209 01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:19,280 Speaker 1: forty for one trip, so she's seen it but one 1210 01:15:19,320 --> 01:15:26,040 Speaker 1: and a hand turn. I don't know if I could 1211 01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:28,400 Speaker 1: do this because I love people, I love company, and 1212 01:15:28,479 --> 01:15:30,080 Speaker 1: I love you know, so I don't know if I 1213 01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:32,320 Speaker 1: could do this three hundred and twenty two days. Yeah 1214 01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:35,040 Speaker 1: I could, if I had for some money, I sure could. 1215 01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:42,360 Speaker 1: Y'all could be locked up a long spouse. Yeah that's 1216 01:15:42,360 --> 01:15:45,800 Speaker 1: a long time. Three twenty two. That's almost a whole year. Yeah, 1217 01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:48,639 Speaker 1: all right, coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour, 1218 01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:50,439 Speaker 1: guess what we're gonna play a round. I would you 1219 01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:55,880 Speaker 1: rather right after this? You're listening morning show? All right? 1220 01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:58,639 Speaker 1: Time now, guys for a round? I would you rather? 1221 01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:03,400 Speaker 1: Would you rather lose the ability to read or lose 1222 01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:07,519 Speaker 1: the ability to speak? Oh? Well, what if I but 1223 01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:10,080 Speaker 1: if I speak, I can't read. I mean I can't. 1224 01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:16,320 Speaker 1: What am I saying? What is? Yeah? What am I 1225 01:16:16,400 --> 01:16:19,280 Speaker 1: gonna be saying? If I can't? I can't. I can speak, 1226 01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:21,360 Speaker 1: but I can't read. But I can read, but I 1227 01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:24,960 Speaker 1: can't speak. I rather read and not speak. I'd rather 1228 01:16:25,000 --> 01:16:28,439 Speaker 1: read it not speak. At least I'm knowledgeable, you know. 1229 01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:31,840 Speaker 1: I don't. You can't tell anybody. Yeah, you don't know. 1230 01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:35,720 Speaker 1: I'm smart. I'm over here, just quiet and smart. I'd 1231 01:16:35,800 --> 01:16:38,360 Speaker 1: rather not read and just speak. That's what I'd rather 1232 01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:40,280 Speaker 1: not read, just be a speakers. I can see pictures 1233 01:16:40,280 --> 01:16:43,280 Speaker 1: and know that's chicken. I can make. I ain't got 1234 01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:45,439 Speaker 1: to read chicken. I can see that's chicken. I just 1235 01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:46,880 Speaker 1: want you're gonna do it what you're gonna do it? 1236 01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:51,160 Speaker 1: To stop saying if it's read, it must mean dangerous. 1237 01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:54,760 Speaker 1: I know colors. I can't spare red. I know read. 1238 01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be quiet. I am smart, I am can't 1239 01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:04,599 Speaker 1: important you all right? Would you rather work the job 1240 01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:07,360 Speaker 1: you have now for a year at double your salary? 1241 01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:10,640 Speaker 1: Or would you rather hey, or would you rather have 1242 01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:16,280 Speaker 1: a year off with what you're making now? No? I got, yeah, 1243 01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:20,000 Speaker 1: I got yeah. Everybody a on that one. Yeah, everybody 1244 01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:29,599 Speaker 1: not everybody off, not mad at it. But see your mama, 1245 01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:35,719 Speaker 1: she's still gonna be working even Yeah, all right. Would 1246 01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:38,200 Speaker 1: you rather be forced to live the same day over 1247 01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:41,000 Speaker 1: and over again for a full year or would you 1248 01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:44,120 Speaker 1: rather take three years off the end of your life 1249 01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:48,600 Speaker 1: the same day for what? Would you rather live the 1250 01:17:48,680 --> 01:17:50,920 Speaker 1: same day over and over again for a full year, 1251 01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:53,960 Speaker 1: or would you rather take three years off the end 1252 01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:59,400 Speaker 1: of your life same day? Yeah, you would pick the 1253 01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:03,760 Speaker 1: day if you pick today. It doesn't say that, but 1254 01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:11,360 Speaker 1: I know, yeah, I'm doing it all day for a Yeah, 1255 01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:15,720 Speaker 1: I'm doing it. We don't need to know what you're 1256 01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:17,600 Speaker 1: gonna do. You know that day you did it the 1257 01:18:17,680 --> 01:18:22,040 Speaker 1: whole day. You know that's the day. You're just gonna 1258 01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:28,120 Speaker 1: do that over and over. Well, yeah, but I'm so happy. 1259 01:18:29,760 --> 01:18:32,200 Speaker 1: All right? Last one? Would you rather drink sour milk? 1260 01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:38,000 Speaker 1: Drink sour milk? Or brush your teeth with soap? Is 1261 01:18:38,040 --> 01:18:44,320 Speaker 1: this feel factor? What is this? Just answer? Spoil milk? 1262 01:18:44,400 --> 01:18:47,639 Speaker 1: Or what? Brush your teeth with soap? Oh? I'm bleeding, 1263 01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:51,360 Speaker 1: I got I'm all yeah, me is dub all in 1264 01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:56,800 Speaker 1: my teeth. I'm doing the soap for sure, so I 1265 01:18:56,880 --> 01:19:00,640 Speaker 1: can't dour milk. Yeah, all right, guys, thank you. That 1266 01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:06,160 Speaker 1: is today's round. Yeah, all right, that is today's round 1267 01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:08,720 Speaker 1: of would you rather? Now? Coming up at forty nine 1268 01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:11,040 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, guys, it is our last break 1269 01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:13,800 Speaker 1: of the day and we'll be back right after this. 1270 01:19:14,560 --> 01:19:19,639 Speaker 1: You're listening to all right? Here we are last break 1271 01:19:19,760 --> 01:19:22,840 Speaker 1: of the day. It's been a crazy day. As usual 1272 01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:26,959 Speaker 1: of the time, we like right, and here's our fearless 1273 01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:30,320 Speaker 1: leader to take us home with closing remarks today, I 1274 01:19:30,400 --> 01:19:32,960 Speaker 1: just want to pose the question because I try to 1275 01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:39,880 Speaker 1: find different ways to motivate people as as I ask 1276 01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:44,600 Speaker 1: God to help me find new ways. Today I just 1277 01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:47,000 Speaker 1: decided to try this. I just want to ask you 1278 01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:49,200 Speaker 1: a series of questions because I'm just trying to get 1279 01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:53,000 Speaker 1: everybody to get to moving towards their dreams. I'm just 1280 01:19:53,080 --> 01:19:56,680 Speaker 1: trying to get everybody to get started on the pathway 1281 01:19:57,280 --> 01:20:00,479 Speaker 1: of accomplishing your visions and your goals and your dreams. 1282 01:20:01,000 --> 01:20:03,640 Speaker 1: But it's gonna take some action, though. You know, you 1283 01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:06,160 Speaker 1: can't just want something. Have you ever heard people say 1284 01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:10,200 Speaker 1: if you want something bad enough, it'll happen. That's not true, 1285 01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:14,920 Speaker 1: that's that's so not true. Do you know how many 1286 01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:21,080 Speaker 1: times you've actually wanted something really bad and didn't get it? What? Who? 1287 01:20:21,600 --> 01:20:23,559 Speaker 1: I don't know who said that? Why? Why they tell 1288 01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:26,479 Speaker 1: people that if you want something bad enough, it'll really happen. 1289 01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:29,679 Speaker 1: It can happen, No, it won't. It requires an action. 1290 01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:34,360 Speaker 1: Faith without works is dead. If you don't do anything, 1291 01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:38,840 Speaker 1: you can't stop expecting to get everything. If you don't 1292 01:20:38,920 --> 01:20:42,519 Speaker 1: do anything, you can stop expecting to get everything. Now, 1293 01:20:42,600 --> 01:20:44,400 Speaker 1: God is going to give all of us some grace 1294 01:20:45,400 --> 01:20:47,760 Speaker 1: in spite of our shortcomings and lack of effort. He 1295 01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:50,559 Speaker 1: will give all of us some grace and we'll all 1296 01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:54,200 Speaker 1: get some things that we really don't deserve. You know. 1297 01:20:54,240 --> 01:20:57,720 Speaker 1: It just provides us breaks. But in those breaks, He's 1298 01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:00,360 Speaker 1: trying to sustain you, just to get you to say, why, Man, 1299 01:21:00,680 --> 01:21:02,400 Speaker 1: if I had just done a little bit more, what 1300 01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:04,640 Speaker 1: could I have had? Or if I had done a 1301 01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:07,320 Speaker 1: little bit more, what could have happened? So my question 1302 01:21:07,479 --> 01:21:11,200 Speaker 1: today for you is just I'm asking you a series 1303 01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:15,040 Speaker 1: of very very simple questions, maybe four or five. You're 1304 01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:19,280 Speaker 1: waiting for? What? Tell me what is it you're waiting for? 1305 01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:22,880 Speaker 1: Because oftentimes when I talk to people, I get some 1306 01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:27,400 Speaker 1: responses that just throw me off, you know, because what 1307 01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:31,040 Speaker 1: you're waiting for? What what is it going to take 1308 01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:36,439 Speaker 1: to get you started? What is the motivation? What is 1309 01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:40,160 Speaker 1: the button? What is the trigger that fires you to 1310 01:21:40,320 --> 01:21:43,960 Speaker 1: get going to moving towards your dreams and visions? You're 1311 01:21:44,000 --> 01:21:48,559 Speaker 1: waiting for what? I don't understand. Are you perfectly comfortable 1312 01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:53,360 Speaker 1: where you are right now? Have you decided and settled 1313 01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:57,840 Speaker 1: in that this is it for me? Have you gotten 1314 01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:00,400 Speaker 1: tired of waking up and asking the question? And wow, 1315 01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:03,920 Speaker 1: it's got to be more to my life than this. What? 1316 01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:06,519 Speaker 1: Have you just gotten tired of that and you don't 1317 01:22:06,520 --> 01:22:08,240 Speaker 1: want to deal with it no more? So you just 1318 01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:12,040 Speaker 1: decided what that? You're just gonna lock in like where 1319 01:22:12,040 --> 01:22:16,599 Speaker 1: I am? It's cool? You all right with that? Let 1320 01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:20,280 Speaker 1: me ask you another question. Have all the ducks ever 1321 01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:23,760 Speaker 1: lined up in a row? Because if that's what you're 1322 01:22:23,800 --> 01:22:29,920 Speaker 1: waiting for, let me just ask you. Has it never 1323 01:22:30,040 --> 01:22:32,840 Speaker 1: been set that while I see exactly step by step, 1324 01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ge down. Gonn get that everything is perfect. 1325 01:22:35,080 --> 01:22:38,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna start now. If you're waiting on the perfect 1326 01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:41,479 Speaker 1: time to start, you may never start it because there 1327 01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:45,080 Speaker 1: is no such a thing as the perfect time. The 1328 01:22:45,320 --> 01:22:50,800 Speaker 1: perfect time is now. That's the perfect time. If you're 1329 01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:53,400 Speaker 1: waiting on something else to happen, it probably ain't gonna 1330 01:22:53,439 --> 01:22:56,280 Speaker 1: happen because you gotta figure like this, Suppose it don't 1331 01:22:56,320 --> 01:22:59,040 Speaker 1: happen what you're gonna do, then, so you just got 1332 01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:01,880 Speaker 1: to come to that conclude. Suppose it don't happen what 1333 01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:04,400 Speaker 1: you're gonna do, then Suppose you don't get to degree 1334 01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:07,600 Speaker 1: what you're gonna do, then you're gonna fail. Suppose you 1335 01:23:07,640 --> 01:23:09,680 Speaker 1: don't get that job that you got your eyes on. 1336 01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:11,760 Speaker 1: So you don't get that job, So now what you 1337 01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:17,040 Speaker 1: unemployed the rest of your life because you didn't meet 1338 01:23:17,160 --> 01:23:22,439 Speaker 1: that deadline. You can't make another one. You're waiting for. 1339 01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:26,920 Speaker 1: What what's it gonna take to get your started? Have 1340 01:23:27,120 --> 01:23:29,800 Speaker 1: your ducks ever all lined up in a row? The 1341 01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:32,760 Speaker 1: answer is no. The perfect time to start is now. 1342 01:23:34,080 --> 01:23:36,360 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this question. Does it appear to 1343 01:23:36,479 --> 01:23:42,439 Speaker 1: be getting any closer even though you're not moving towards Oh? 1344 01:23:43,880 --> 01:23:48,040 Speaker 1: Does it appear to be getting any closer even though 1345 01:23:48,200 --> 01:23:54,880 Speaker 1: you're not moving towards it? That answer is no, it's 1346 01:23:55,000 --> 01:24:00,280 Speaker 1: not getting closer because you're not walking towards anything. If 1347 01:24:00,320 --> 01:24:04,240 Speaker 1: you don't walk towards something, please stop expecting it to 1348 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:09,120 Speaker 1: get closer. It will not happen. Success is not a 1349 01:24:09,240 --> 01:24:13,080 Speaker 1: magic trick. It's a series of steps that people take 1350 01:24:13,439 --> 01:24:16,639 Speaker 1: over and over and over and over, and in spite 1351 01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:20,680 Speaker 1: of what happens, they take those steps. Anyway, does it 1352 01:24:20,760 --> 01:24:24,519 Speaker 1: appear to be getting closer even though you're not moving 1353 01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:30,759 Speaker 1: towards it? It's probably not but could that be why 1354 01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:33,880 Speaker 1: you're not getting what you want because you ain't moving 1355 01:24:33,920 --> 01:24:40,200 Speaker 1: towards nothing. Last question, Could it be that you just 1356 01:24:40,439 --> 01:24:46,120 Speaker 1: don't want anything more? Maybe that's it. Maybe you don't 1357 01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:50,080 Speaker 1: quit wanting a new car. Maybe you don't quit wanting 1358 01:24:50,120 --> 01:24:53,519 Speaker 1: a bigger house. Maybe you don't quit wanting that second home. 1359 01:24:54,280 --> 01:24:57,760 Speaker 1: Maybe you quit wanting to open up a business. Is 1360 01:24:57,800 --> 01:25:01,640 Speaker 1: it that you just don't want anymore? Just answer him 1361 01:25:01,680 --> 01:25:05,160 Speaker 1: these questions. Now, let me tell all of y'allself. Put 1362 01:25:05,200 --> 01:25:07,000 Speaker 1: God in your life and it can change all of this. 1363 01:25:08,040 --> 01:25:10,600 Speaker 1: You can go to God and ask God to strengthen you. 1364 01:25:11,360 --> 01:25:14,599 Speaker 1: You can go to God right now and ask God 1365 01:25:15,200 --> 01:25:18,000 Speaker 1: to give you the desires of your heart, but enable 1366 01:25:18,120 --> 01:25:21,559 Speaker 1: you with the character to make him come true. Ask 1367 01:25:21,680 --> 01:25:25,639 Speaker 1: God to strengthen your character, Ask him to strengthen your will, 1368 01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:30,960 Speaker 1: Ask him to strengthen your stick tuitiveness. Ask God for 1369 01:25:31,160 --> 01:25:35,639 Speaker 1: his help, because God is going to make your dream 1370 01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:38,679 Speaker 1: come true. Business. Those are my closing remarks today, Drop 1371 01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:55,600 Speaker 1: it baby, drop it out. 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