WEBVTT - | Ep 91 | Robyn "Miss Cleo" Dixon

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? What's up? My people? This is Robin, Miss

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<v Speaker 2>Cleo Dixon. Okay, we're gonna get to that in a minute. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Miss Cleo. I'm so glad y'all are here. But you

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<v Speaker 2>knew that they were going to be here because you

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<v Speaker 2>are Claire Willance of course. Yes, yes, did you know

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<v Speaker 2>that you were gonna have? People told me? Your people

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<v Speaker 2>told you that they were going to be here. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Did your people talk to you about lateness? M I

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<v Speaker 2>ain't asked them about that about your Okay? Well, first

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<v Speaker 2>and foremost, happy belated Mother's Day. Oh, yes, yes, Other's Day. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>Mother's Day. Thank you saying to you Happy Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy Mother's Day to all the mama's out there, all

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<v Speaker 1>the grandma's and auntie yes and mother figures right, this

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<v Speaker 1>God's mother's.

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<v Speaker 2>But there in their mothers are not all created equally. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So some people you really don't want to say Happy

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<v Speaker 2>Mother's Day too, right? What do you mean not my mother?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, some mother's son okay, well, true, true, true, true?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? So do all mothers deserve a happy Mother's Day?

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<v Speaker 2>You know that is true?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, so if you have a shitty mother, like, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you say to her?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? How do you celebrate Mother's Day for that shitty mother?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know you figured it, don't you don't? Who

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<v Speaker 2>knows anyway? But you know there was there was a

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<v Speaker 2>guy like.

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<v Speaker 1>You send a text Happy Mother's Day, not even with

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<v Speaker 1>it to your mom.

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<v Speaker 2>You just sent a text Happy Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, not even no call, no call, no exclamation points,

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<v Speaker 1>no flower, no emoji flower, not even an emoji flower.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just like you, a shitty mom, Happy Mother's Day. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but we don't want to, you know, dwell on the

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<v Speaker 2>shitty one.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, yes, the amazing ones. Listen, we our job

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<v Speaker 1>is his art beyond so hard, yes, so much. It's

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize what I signed up for being a mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>No? Did you realize everything that went into being a

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<v Speaker 1>mom before you had children? Now, to be honest with you,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I didn't think about it. No, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>then and what's crazy to me is like I know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, knowing what we know now, I'm like I

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<v Speaker 1>do feel bad that as a child, I was like horrible,

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<v Speaker 1>not as appreciative, you know what I mean? Like I was,

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<v Speaker 1>I was a good I was a good child, you

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<v Speaker 1>know when I was being good.

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<v Speaker 2>But you weren't being a juvenile yes most of the time.

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<v Speaker 1>But like I look back and I'm like, just think

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<v Speaker 1>about all the sacrifices my parents would make and everything

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<v Speaker 1>they would have to do to just make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>their kids were.

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<v Speaker 2>Great and yeah whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, we as children did not know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you're not supposed to, I guess, yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's how it's working. You're not really supposed to.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know now, but right, no, right, we know

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<v Speaker 1>now we're not supposed to. But I think some children,

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<v Speaker 1>if they knew, then they would act a little better.

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<v Speaker 2>True, do you know what I mean? True? True, true, true.

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<v Speaker 2>I believe that.

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<v Speaker 1>Because there's some children that are just like ungrateful and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just problem children, and if they actually knew

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<v Speaker 1>the things that their parents had to deal with and

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<v Speaker 1>the stress that it adds on top of them. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like on top of having to go to work every

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<v Speaker 1>day and having to whatever, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I think my kids see like how hard, like I

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<v Speaker 2>grind and work and all that, and they so they

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<v Speaker 2>have there's a level of appreciation there, yeah with it.

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<v Speaker 2>They forget occasionally, but like they always are like, we

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate who you are. Yeah, which I'm sure your kids

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<v Speaker 2>feel the same way about you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I mean my kids are amazing, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have any problems with them. They're you know, it's so weird,

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<v Speaker 1>Like my relationship with my kids is very different than

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<v Speaker 1>my relationship with some.

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<v Speaker 2>Moms, you know. And I guess is that a sign

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<v Speaker 2>of the times. I don't know. Well, it's a different

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<v Speaker 2>it's a different way of life. These are different kids

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<v Speaker 2>than us as kids. Yeah, so yeah, it's different. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So my kids like appreciate my grind. But then they

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<v Speaker 1>also like anytime I leave the house till like when

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<v Speaker 1>it looks like I'm you know, I'm dressed up and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm made up and stuff, and they're like, you're leaving.

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<v Speaker 2>Again, tell me to get over it. I'm like, dude,

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<v Speaker 2>do you want some new nikes or not?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like a job, like, okay, be safe, I'll see

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<v Speaker 2>you when you get back. But and then then he

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<v Speaker 2>goes and sends you a link because he says. Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>I always want to thank that baby daddy of mine

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<v Speaker 2>because without him, I would not have the children that

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<v Speaker 2>I have. So thank you Jamal Bryant forget me all

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<v Speaker 2>pregnant and stuff I am. He ay, he's very appreciative

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<v Speaker 2>of me. On Mother's Day, which I typically we always

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<v Speaker 2>go out to dinner, he wasn't able to do that

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<v Speaker 2>this year, so he called me. He was like, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sending a chef to your house. I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>the hell you not, because I don't want to see

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<v Speaker 2>a chef.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell the chef to chef it up wherever he chefs

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<v Speaker 1>off and drop it off drop it off. Yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>he in the year after year, I feel like he

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<v Speaker 1>gets more and more appreciative of the of the mother

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<v Speaker 1>that I am to the girls because he's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't cuss him out right, and he appreciates that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what would make him like super uber duber

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<v Speaker 1>most appreciative. What if he had to do your job,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, if y'all switch places.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, the girl's not having that.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, no, I know, but but I'm telling you because

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<v Speaker 1>even in this short little period of time like since

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<v Speaker 1>Wan hasn't been working like he's been, you know, doing

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<v Speaker 1>a lot for the boys. And he's like, man, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>like I didn't really realize, yes, how much I went

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<v Speaker 1>into Yes, Yes, while I put.

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<v Speaker 2>On some mom pants. Yes, okay, yeah, so that's how

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<v Speaker 2>they really going to know. Yeah, what it takes.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, I hope everyone had a beautiful Mother's stay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, indeed, but we we need to reasonably shady. Moment

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<v Speaker 2>of the week, Robin. Okay, no shade, but you've been

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<v Speaker 2>married for how long?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, which like in total or the first one? No,

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<v Speaker 1>the first wedding, the second one, I mean the second.

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<v Speaker 2>Wedding, the second one that I wasn't invited to.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yes, so it would, so that would be a

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<v Speaker 1>year in all gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So can you get an annoment? I'm just curious.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, because your car is not in the

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<v Speaker 2>garage and I'm having issues, yes, divorce please? Yes, like

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<v Speaker 2>why because like all things, Yes, that is annoying. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And every week at the top of the week he says,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get the garage clean, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna get the garage, I'm gonna straighten the garage up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm straighten the garage up every week at the top

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<v Speaker 1>of the week, okay, and then the days go by

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<v Speaker 1>and the garage is not done.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been like a month now, it's been longer than

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<v Speaker 2>a month. It's been long okay, Yeah, spend longer than

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<v Speaker 2>a month. Okay, look up the annulment. Yes, okay, because

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<v Speaker 2>we might be able to get that done. I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 2>I know you should present them to Wine like this

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<v Speaker 2>is grounds for an annulment, and then put at the

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<v Speaker 2>bottom dirty garage.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get my garage back. I need my garage back.

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, we need to annul and you need to leave. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's and I know it's so funny. I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to say, like every week on the podcast, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna update everyone and let them know the right cars

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<v Speaker 1>still in the garage, and then no, it's still not.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, it's still in the driveway. Yes. When I

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<v Speaker 2>pulled up, I was like, oh, I saw Robbins car

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<v Speaker 2>on the driveway. I was like, oh no, yes, Wine

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<v Speaker 2>is in trouble again.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so annoying because I am like, dude, outside.

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<v Speaker 2>Of going to the gym, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, you know, I don't want to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, we don't want to minimize. Right, you got

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<v Speaker 1>any laundry, you's gotta you know, make brush his teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>make phone calls.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Yes, he's gotta eat, but like comet, you gotta

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<v Speaker 2>go number two. Yes, he has to do that. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>sit there.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta do you know, I mean, you know, he's

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<v Speaker 1>got a good two hours out of his day that

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<v Speaker 1>are accounted for.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, there's twenty four hours, so he's got to sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah wow, Yeah, listens, gotta play the video game. He

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<v Speaker 2>could have the boys help him. He can make it

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<v Speaker 2>a game.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you his method of cleaning this garage.

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<v Speaker 1>I've probably shared this before. He's going to throw everything away, Fine,

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<v Speaker 1>get done. That's not fine with me because like it's

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<v Speaker 1>literally like stuff that is could be useful. So his

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<v Speaker 1>thing is like he just I don't know, he don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to bring all that stuff in the house, and

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<v Speaker 1>he just feels like he has to like dispose of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, no.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not trash. Yeah, okay, well good luck with you know,

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<v Speaker 2>what is that your reason to be shading home?

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's okay, Okay, one day I'm gonna end up

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<v Speaker 1>moving the ship myself, and then that's going to be really.

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<v Speaker 2>Bad, right, that's really when you're gonna look up a moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yes, or anyway, okay, okay, So my recently shady moment,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know you probably have your shady moment related

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<v Speaker 1>to this as well. But I recently was traveling. I

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<v Speaker 1>was in a hotel. Yes, I was on the sixteenth

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<v Speaker 1>floor at a corner unit. There's glass everywhere. As I

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<v Speaker 1>went to your room, it was beautiful. Yes, yeah, my

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<v Speaker 1>room was not. All rooms on this trip were not

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<v Speaker 1>created people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm sorry mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Was disturbing, but go ahead. Sorry, but mine was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, super nice. I had like the bedroom, the

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<v Speaker 1>living room area like it was you know, it's corner units. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>glass everywhere, blah blah blah. So the hotel were in

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<v Speaker 1>there's like construction everywhere you look right, left, front, back, up, down,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've never seen this much construction in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Like now you do know that the construction on one

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<v Speaker 2>side was a building that's going to be eighty stories

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<v Speaker 2>whoa eighty Really they're gonna be They're gonna be doing

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<v Speaker 2>this built, working on this building for the next six years. Wow. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I found that out, which.

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<v Speaker 1>Is even more disturbing because it's like, yes, oh that

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<v Speaker 1>is problematic, thank.

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<v Speaker 2>You, thank you. Six years. So let's say you're the hotel.

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<v Speaker 2>You've got to deal with this shit and and your

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<v Speaker 2>guests have to deal with this for the next six years.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not but the hotel. I mean, like my the

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<v Speaker 1>hotel was really cute. I really liked the hotel. I

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<v Speaker 1>like the area, like it was just it's really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>So like outside of the construction, it's a cute hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like walking distance, there's like a lot of little

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<v Speaker 1>like restaurants and live music stuff and has a cute

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<v Speaker 1>little pool deck all that type of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it was it a chain? I can't remember. Was

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<v Speaker 2>it a chain? No, I can't remember the name of you.

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<v Speaker 1>They said it used to be a Kempton but someone

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<v Speaker 1>else took it over.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it's like boutiki, yes, okay, very much. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm so I've been in the room, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>two three days whatever, and so finally on like the

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<v Speaker 1>last the second to last day, I'm at the pool deck, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I look up at the hotel and I noticed,

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<v Speaker 1>like I can I can see in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Rooms, right, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was the moment when I realized, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I have been giving these construction.

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<v Speaker 3>Workers a shave freaking show the whole entire week. Like

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, wait a minute, because the.

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<v Speaker 1>Construction workers are up high. Because another building, an eighty

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<v Speaker 1>story building. I guess, I don't know, maybe it was

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<v Speaker 1>the building that was right next to my room, but yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you've got to be getting me. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>can literally see, like I thought the glass was like

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<v Speaker 1>one of those you know, like the one way glass

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, like you I can see out, but they

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<v Speaker 1>can't see in, or maybe there was some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like mirrored effect or something like. No, these these windows

0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:59.120
<v Speaker 1>were so so clear and bright. You could literally see

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<v Speaker 1>the When I was laying on the pool deck, I

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<v Speaker 1>could literally see like the lamp in somebody's room.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So the reason, Okay, two things. One in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>I was up in the morning. Yeah, the construction workers

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<v Speaker 2>have a meeting on the ground level. I saw them

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<v Speaker 2>as like fifty of them. Yeah, major meeting. I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 2>In the meeting, yeah, they said feel free to look

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<v Speaker 2>at Robin number one, number two. I didn't. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't on that side of the hotel. I was

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<v Speaker 2>on the bullshit side of the hotel where I looked

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<v Speaker 2>out to. I don't know what I was looking out to,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, I didn't have that that okay, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>well oh we got some shorts. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my delivery man brought my my.

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<v Speaker 2>No, not this second, thank you. I appreciate it. No,

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<v Speaker 2>leave it there, leave it yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you delivery man. Yes, okay, so right now I

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<v Speaker 2>think he's going to go clean the garage. I'm convinced

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<v Speaker 2>he had that look in his eyes. He did, like

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<v Speaker 2>he's gonna go clean mission and complete my mission. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so my recently shady moment is similar to you, not

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<v Speaker 2>similar to yours. Yeah, but it happened on the trip. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of the pool, I'm in the pool and I've

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<v Speaker 2>decided because they know, they just know, they had a meeting.

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<v Speaker 2>Birds hate me. I mean like they had a meeting,

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<v Speaker 2>they went to a convention. They went to a bird convention.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, we hate z L. Bright. I'm in the

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<v Speaker 2>pool and I see the bird come at me and

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<v Speaker 2>he poops. Oh literally one inch from my mind. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god. And the ship is laying on top of

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<v Speaker 2>the water.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, I lost my mind, lost my freaking mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. I started screaming at the top of

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<v Speaker 2>my lungs. And I was and I was with some

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<v Speaker 2>other friends and they were like, oh my god, move,

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<v Speaker 2>just help move. I was like, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>tell me to move. I was renting out the pool.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you imagine a sprint out the pool? That was

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<v Speaker 2>a disaster And I never want to see that pool again,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. And I want to go to the

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<v Speaker 2>next bird convention and tell them I'm nice. Yeah, stop

0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:09.920
<v Speaker 2>trying to poop on me. Maybe, isn't that like good

0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:14.960
<v Speaker 2>luck or something? No, no, somewhere, Yeah, there's no trees.

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<v Speaker 2>There will be poop on my car.

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<v Speaker 1>They know they had a convention and they said, get

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<v Speaker 1>that bitch, get that bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Bird bird. Twitter was lighting you up. It is so meny.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to tell them whatever y'all think I did,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, leave me alone. Oh my gosh. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to approach this from a different perspective. Okay, because

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna talk about ebidy k Williams because a minute

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<v Speaker 2>ago she she gave her opinion about dating. Yes, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So she was talking to Alanya Van's aunt who said,

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<v Speaker 2>would you date a bust right, and Abide said, would

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<v Speaker 2>you date a bus driver?

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<v Speaker 3>You if he owns the bus, if he owns it.

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<v Speaker 2>If he owns the.

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<v Speaker 1>Bus, that's a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>And that caused everybody to just lose Ay, damn mine.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I don't necessarily want to debate that, right, but

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<v Speaker 2>the question is, Robin, would you date a bus driver? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't have those type of stipulations that she has.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I have never known myself to be like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>would never date that type of person or a person

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<v Speaker 1>that does that type of work.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, were strictly because this for me was strictly about money.

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<v Speaker 2>So would you date a dude? Well, yeah, because you're married?

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<v Speaker 2>Because so I think.

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<v Speaker 1>So what I what I gathered from her, it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was less about like the money in his bank

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<v Speaker 1>account and more about.

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<v Speaker 2>His drive. I took it like it was the money

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<v Speaker 2>in his bank account and they're not financially equally yoked. So,

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<v Speaker 2>and what Elanya was trying to say to her, I

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<v Speaker 2>think my opinion is, let's take money out of the

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<v Speaker 2>equation when you're dating, Like, let's remove that that factor, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and let's just deal with people that are good to you,

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<v Speaker 2>that are nice to you, to treat you like a

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<v Speaker 2>queen that respects you, that are honest, Like, let's deal

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<v Speaker 2>with those elements and take money out of it. That's

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<v Speaker 2>why I think she was trying to say, which I get. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and at this time in my life, that's all I want.

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<v Speaker 2>I want somebody who's gonna treat me nice, tell me

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<v Speaker 2>the truth, have great sex to keep it pushing.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, I get that too, And I feel like, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like Ebony was sounding elitist a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>However, I understood what she was saying. She's not at

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<v Speaker 2>the place in her life, I think, and unfortunately, and

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<v Speaker 2>somebody's probably gonna kill me for saying this. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it has to do with children, and like, like I

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<v Speaker 2>have my kids, I have my money. I'm not looking

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<v Speaker 2>at a man to grow and build with from that perspective, right,

0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:11.639
<v Speaker 2>she doesn't, Right, So she's looking at a relationship a

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<v Speaker 2>little differently, Like she wants a man that the two

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<v Speaker 2>of them can build a family and shit, kids expensive, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And I understand that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I understand that, but it's it's so

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<v Speaker 1>the question. I mean, yeah, there's like that the question

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<v Speaker 1>has multi levels and because it's like, okay, would you

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<v Speaker 1>date a bus driver?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, yeah, okay, I can go date a bus

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<v Speaker 2>driver like whatever. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So but then the question is would you be open

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<v Speaker 1>to marrying a bus driver? And for me, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>my answer still wouldn't change. I think it would literally

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<v Speaker 1>be about that person, that relationship, how they make me feel,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as long as they have a job, right

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<v Speaker 1>and they are working an honest job. And I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's just I think that's really unfair to

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<v Speaker 1>just to make that broad blanket statement. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I can see why people were offended by her comment.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure, not everyone in a certain time of their

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<v Speaker 1>life has that type of opportunity.

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<v Speaker 2>To maybe own the bus. Maybe the bus driver.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe the man is a bus driver and he's a

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<v Speaker 1>hard working bus driver and he's working to save his

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<v Speaker 1>money so that he can own something at some point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just I would never if I was in

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<v Speaker 1>a dating space, if I met a man that said

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<v Speaker 1>he was a bus driver, I wouldn't like poo pool

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<v Speaker 1>on that. No.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like I feel like if you're a woman,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're a good woman, you can make that man

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<v Speaker 2>into Barack Obama, right, you know what I mean? Like

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<v Speaker 2>when when Jamal and I got married, he didn't have nothing, right,

0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:44.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say nothing, but like he he

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<v Speaker 2>was starting a church right with four d people. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>So if I looked at him like, okay, you're you

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<v Speaker 2>have no potential, You're just I look at you for today. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you broke right. I think that's unfair to anyone. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want anyone to look at me that way. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then and then it's like okay, well, Ebony, So

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<v Speaker 1>would you date a lawyer that doesn't own the firm

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<v Speaker 1>like that sounds like crazy? You know what I'm saying, Like, Oh,

0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:10.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you don't have a problem dating a lawyer.

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<v Speaker 1>He don't have to own the firm like that. That

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<v Speaker 1>sounds it just sounds crazy. Because that bus driver could

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<v Speaker 1>also own real estate. He could have rental property. He

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<v Speaker 1>could be doing other.

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<v Speaker 2>Things all kinds.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not fair to just judge a person by, you know,

0:19:25.280 --> 0:19:28.400
<v Speaker 1>their job or their day job. They could have ambitions.

0:19:28.440 --> 0:19:32.520
<v Speaker 1>He could be shoot a trading stocks and making crazy money.

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<v Speaker 1>He could have inherited something, right exactly. You don't know

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<v Speaker 1>he could ann not somebody over the head and got something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I agree, Like, if, y'all, if this is a

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<v Speaker 1>great man and he makes you happy and you can

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<v Speaker 1>in turn bring something to him and make him better

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<v Speaker 1>or encourage him and he's open to that, then then

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<v Speaker 1>go for it. That's actually amazing. Actually, it would be

0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:54.800
<v Speaker 1>amazing to be like, yeah, when I started dating my

0:19:54.800 --> 0:19:57.280
<v Speaker 1>my husband, he was a bus driver and now he

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<v Speaker 1>owns you know, he's a real estate developer.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, whatever, right, But I don't want to take away

0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:06.679
<v Speaker 2>from Ebone's preferences. Like everyone should have the right to

0:20:06.760 --> 0:20:08.320
<v Speaker 2>their own preference. Yeah.

0:20:08.359 --> 0:20:11.480
<v Speaker 1>I do hate it when people get attacked for speaking

0:20:11.960 --> 0:20:13.160
<v Speaker 1>for what works for them.

0:20:13.280 --> 0:20:16.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like, get it, Ebony, Yeah, go for it. Get

0:20:16.680 --> 0:20:19.680
<v Speaker 2>that bus driver who owns his own business. Now, okay,

0:20:20.359 --> 0:20:22.440
<v Speaker 2>Carl you don't like that. This is what I think.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna let Carley live over here. This is what

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<v Speaker 2>I think people, This is what abone should do when

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<v Speaker 2>she starts dating. She should take some magic mushrooms because

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<v Speaker 2>which I've never done, by the way, but studies say

0:20:35.800 --> 0:20:39.840
<v Speaker 2>that they can cure color blindness. Oh, so do you

0:20:39.840 --> 0:20:41.600
<v Speaker 2>know anybody who's color blind, because my dad is kind

0:20:41.600 --> 0:20:44.679
<v Speaker 2>of colorblind, not really really Okay, I think like he

0:20:44.720 --> 0:20:49.399
<v Speaker 2>doesn't know browns from blacks from blues. Really, yes, like

0:20:49.440 --> 0:20:51.959
<v Speaker 2>he would have to have like when he puts socks together.

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<v Speaker 2>I would help him put his socks. Okay. So you

0:20:55.720 --> 0:20:58.840
<v Speaker 2>know what I'm telling my daddy start taking some from mushrooms. Okay.

0:20:59.160 --> 0:21:00.960
<v Speaker 2>Can you imagine my all on mushrooms.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be amazing when when you give them to

0:21:04.960 --> 0:21:06.800
<v Speaker 1>him and bite me over please, thank you?

0:21:06.920 --> 0:21:11.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, And mushrooms like like I've seen TV shows, it's

0:21:11.840 --> 0:21:17.600
<v Speaker 2>like your vision is get small psychedelic. It's psychedelic and

0:21:17.640 --> 0:21:21.680
<v Speaker 2>your vision that's what's going to be in your head.

0:21:21.760 --> 0:21:24.760
<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, Well we can't ask my brother. My brother's

0:21:24.800 --> 0:21:25.840
<v Speaker 1>all into this type of stuff.

0:21:25.880 --> 0:21:29.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh, he takes mushrooms all the time. It takes a

0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:32.879
<v Speaker 2>lot of stuff. He just does stuff.

0:21:33.080 --> 0:21:34.800
<v Speaker 1>Now I miss seeing on the internet and I have

0:21:34.880 --> 0:21:35.880
<v Speaker 1>to repent, y'all.

0:21:36.200 --> 0:21:38.720
<v Speaker 2>This is probably what you need to do. Okay. Two things.

0:21:39.240 --> 0:21:41.920
<v Speaker 2>So you know, Janet Jackson's on tour right now, And

0:21:42.040 --> 0:21:44.760
<v Speaker 2>when they said she was going to be going on tour,

0:21:44.920 --> 0:21:47.639
<v Speaker 2>I was like, Dan it stop. You do not need

0:21:47.680 --> 0:21:50.040
<v Speaker 2>to be doing this. You just need to just chill

0:21:50.080 --> 0:21:52.040
<v Speaker 2>out and bask in your Jackson nests.

0:21:52.200 --> 0:21:56.720
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and in like the Saudi billionaire that just paid

0:21:56.720 --> 0:21:58.240
<v Speaker 1>you like a half a billion dollars or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh he did, I might be making this. I think

0:22:00.600 --> 0:22:03.000
<v Speaker 2>you made that up her baby daddy. Yeah, she got it.

0:22:03.160 --> 0:22:04.480
<v Speaker 2>She got a lot of money. She got a chunk

0:22:04.520 --> 0:22:08.000
<v Speaker 2>of change from him, Okay, which is nothing to him. Yes, yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>But I've been seeing clips Janet is doing the damn thing. Yes,

0:22:12.720 --> 0:22:15.920
<v Speaker 2>you don't think so. I saw a couple of clips

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<v Speaker 2>on the sea. I'm not gonna be a hater sorry

0:22:18.040 --> 0:22:19.800
<v Speaker 2>right now, because you're about to hate on Beyonce too,

0:22:19.840 --> 0:22:22.440
<v Speaker 2>because clips of Beyonce. I sell my ticket, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, So I since seen the content already, first

0:22:26.040 --> 0:22:26.720
<v Speaker 1>and foremost.

0:22:26.840 --> 0:22:30.600
<v Speaker 2>First and foremost, Janet girl, do your thing. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>appreciating what I'm seeing on the Instagram. Now let's get

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<v Speaker 2>to the queen bee.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, Well, Janet Jackson, I will say, fine, Yes,

0:22:37.680 --> 0:22:41.200
<v Speaker 1>she's doing her thing for where she is in life,

0:22:41.240 --> 0:22:43.440
<v Speaker 1>her stage in life. I have been and I say

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<v Speaker 1>that because I have been to a Janet Jackson concert

0:22:45.359 --> 0:22:48.040
<v Speaker 1>me years and years and years ago, and it's not

0:22:48.119 --> 0:22:50.399
<v Speaker 1>quite the same. But I don't expect it to be

0:22:50.440 --> 0:22:53.480
<v Speaker 1>the same. But she, I would say, is moving. She's

0:22:53.480 --> 0:22:55.920
<v Speaker 1>doing way more than like Mariah Carey does on stage.

0:22:56.040 --> 0:23:00.679
<v Speaker 1>Mariah does nothing exactly, Okay, but Mariah can sign.

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<v Speaker 2>Jannet can't sing like Mariah. True that, so you can't

0:23:03.840 --> 0:23:05.960
<v Speaker 2>you can't put them in the same category. That, Yeah,

0:23:06.040 --> 0:23:09.440
<v Speaker 2>that's true. But I'm appreciating what Janet is doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, no, I appreciate that too. I mean, neither

0:23:12.680 --> 0:23:14.840
<v Speaker 1>one of us can get up there and do any

0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:17.119
<v Speaker 1>of that. So I'm not gonna take that away from her,

0:23:17.160 --> 0:23:18.080
<v Speaker 1>but it's just.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't take it away from the Queen Bee doesn't motivate

0:23:20.359 --> 0:23:23.320
<v Speaker 2>me to go. So Queen Bee.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, the Renaissance tour has started, y'all. We have seen

0:23:27.280 --> 0:23:31.199
<v Speaker 1>the whole thing on Instagram already, y'all. So you know,

0:23:31.359 --> 0:23:35.520
<v Speaker 1>thank you, Beyonce. That show was amazing. Your outfits are amazing.

0:23:36.480 --> 0:23:40.159
<v Speaker 1>I mean, the song, the set list, Okay, like a

0:23:40.200 --> 0:23:43.320
<v Speaker 1>couple of them I could have skipped, but like you know,

0:23:43.760 --> 0:23:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that was an amazing concert.

0:23:45.920 --> 0:23:50.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm so glad I went. Okay, Okay, so a couple

0:23:50.240 --> 0:23:52.800
<v Speaker 2>of things. For Robin, who's that Beyonce hater to the

0:23:52.880 --> 0:23:57.040
<v Speaker 2>day she dies? So are you selling your tickets? Yeah,

0:23:57.320 --> 0:24:00.600
<v Speaker 2>because she's not coming to us until months from Yeah.

0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:06.439
<v Speaker 1>So imagine by August fifth, right, I would have seen

0:24:06.880 --> 0:24:09.680
<v Speaker 1>every single moment.

0:24:10.640 --> 0:24:13.440
<v Speaker 2>That happens now and keeps growing. No. No, if he

0:24:13.520 --> 0:24:14.920
<v Speaker 2>keeps going, I'm gonna the.

0:24:14.920 --> 0:24:18.920
<v Speaker 1>Mute hashtag Beyonce, hashtag Renaissance tour.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, mutants, yes, the mutant. Well, okay, but I saw

0:24:23.240 --> 0:24:26.359
<v Speaker 2>that the people on the people out there are saying that,

0:24:26.400 --> 0:24:29.520
<v Speaker 2>you know, she's not dancing enough, and you know, we

0:24:29.520 --> 0:24:31.360
<v Speaker 2>don't understand why she's not moving because.

0:24:31.200 --> 0:24:34.560
<v Speaker 1>She mostly criticizing criticism of people who are watching the

0:24:34.560 --> 0:24:36.840
<v Speaker 1>clips or people who were there, No watching the clips.

0:24:36.840 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to know from the people were there how

0:24:38.480 --> 0:24:40.240
<v Speaker 1>it was. But I don't want to know any of that.

0:24:40.359 --> 0:24:41.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm cool with whatever the.

0:24:41.359 --> 0:24:44.280
<v Speaker 2>Hell she's doing, right, because you know, I'm gonna get

0:24:44.320 --> 0:24:46.040
<v Speaker 2>to my concert. I don't care how many clips I see.

0:24:46.040 --> 0:24:48.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna get to my concert as if I'm seeing

0:24:48.000 --> 0:24:48.920
<v Speaker 2>it for the first time.

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:53.399
<v Speaker 1>Okay, however, really see, that's hard for me to do.

0:24:53.800 --> 0:24:57.440
<v Speaker 1>But you know what she does, she does change her outfits.

0:24:56.960 --> 0:24:58.600
<v Speaker 2>A thousand times. No, no, no, no.

0:24:59.320 --> 0:25:01.920
<v Speaker 1>I feel like she just her outfits for the whole show,

0:25:02.040 --> 0:25:03.840
<v Speaker 1>like halfway through the tour. So I feel like the

0:25:03.880 --> 0:25:07.040
<v Speaker 1>outfits that we're seeing now we might might be like

0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:09.439
<v Speaker 1>completely different, but we're still going to see them regardless.

0:25:09.760 --> 0:25:15.959
<v Speaker 1>So you've been as many Beyonce concerts as I have, Okay, Like,

0:25:16.000 --> 0:25:20.119
<v Speaker 1>what if you do get there and it's underwhelming in

0:25:20.240 --> 0:25:21.560
<v Speaker 1>on Beyonce.

0:25:21.680 --> 0:25:25.639
<v Speaker 2>Level levels, which okay, so underwhelming on Beyonce level is

0:25:25.680 --> 0:25:28.080
<v Speaker 2>still great. It's I feel like it's still great. Okay.

0:25:28.119 --> 0:25:30.280
<v Speaker 2>And they said she had foot surgery, so apparently she's

0:25:30.320 --> 0:25:33.040
<v Speaker 2>not doing her eight counts. She's just doing She's not

0:25:33.080 --> 0:25:34.960
<v Speaker 2>doing her sixteen counts, she's doing an eight count.

0:25:34.760 --> 0:25:37.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh I see, Yes, okay, you know what honestly, and

0:25:38.040 --> 0:25:41.080
<v Speaker 1>let me, I'm okay, I'm just being like a funny

0:25:41.080 --> 0:25:43.280
<v Speaker 1>hater because I'm not really hating, but I am like seriously,

0:25:43.320 --> 0:25:46.120
<v Speaker 1>like I think I need to mute the whole. Yeah,

0:25:46.119 --> 0:25:48.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's need the hashtacks because like I don't

0:25:48.160 --> 0:25:48.800
<v Speaker 1>want to see.

0:25:48.600 --> 0:25:50.760
<v Speaker 2>All that's yeah, and it's unfair for people that are

0:25:50.840 --> 0:25:52.520
<v Speaker 2>gonna be going yeah, yeah.

0:25:54.240 --> 0:25:56.919
<v Speaker 1>The whole it's you know, Yes, Beyonce is amazing. Her

0:25:57.000 --> 0:25:59.960
<v Speaker 1>dancing amazing, her singing is amazing. The songs are great.

0:26:00.600 --> 0:26:05.040
<v Speaker 1>It's just the whole production itself, like the set, the everything,

0:26:05.200 --> 0:26:08.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, all the screens and the digital stuff. You know,

0:26:08.359 --> 0:26:11.320
<v Speaker 1>like that stuff also contributes to the experience, and so

0:26:11.920 --> 0:26:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I think that's something that you can really only feel

0:26:14.320 --> 0:26:15.600
<v Speaker 1>and appreciate.

0:26:15.080 --> 0:26:15.920
<v Speaker 2>When you're in the building.

0:26:16.080 --> 0:26:20.520
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm gonna keep my ticket show thank God. Still

0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:23.480
<v Speaker 1>might sell two of them. So if somebody needs one

0:26:23.520 --> 0:26:27.879
<v Speaker 1>hundred level tickets DM Robin on August fifth, d x Field,

0:26:27.960 --> 0:26:28.639
<v Speaker 1>let me know.

0:26:28.680 --> 0:26:32.120
<v Speaker 2>Yes, d M Robin. Okay, so have you heard about Oh,

0:26:32.200 --> 0:26:34.920
<v Speaker 2>before we get into this, I do want to say that,

0:26:35.840 --> 0:26:37.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, we got to give some love to the

0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:39.960
<v Speaker 2>Real Housewives of Atlanta Ladys. They did premiere there on

0:26:40.080 --> 0:26:44.199
<v Speaker 2>Bravos Sunday nights, eight o'clock The Peach. I did see

0:26:44.480 --> 0:26:48.600
<v Speaker 2>their first episode, their season premiere, and it was good. Yeah, yeah,

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:50.760
<v Speaker 2>I was into it. That's great. I haven't watched it yet.

0:26:50.760 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 1>I will I will watch it at some point, yes,

0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:56.239
<v Speaker 1>but it's it's great to have them back on on

0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:59.840
<v Speaker 1>I know television. I heard, you know, people enjoyed it,

0:26:59.840 --> 0:27:02.600
<v Speaker 1>so I really hope that the season is amazing for them.

0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:04.679
<v Speaker 2>And I feel like, you know, if we're not on,

0:27:04.760 --> 0:27:07.440
<v Speaker 2>then Atlanta needs to be on. Really just go Yeah,

0:27:07.440 --> 0:27:09.640
<v Speaker 2>if there's fifty two weeks in the year, they need

0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:12.959
<v Speaker 2>to be on twenty thirty six, No, twenty what fifty two?

0:27:12.960 --> 0:27:18.120
<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, fifty two four? No? Whoa two? Oh no,

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:21.120
<v Speaker 2>you're wrong to me, fifty two.

0:27:21.720 --> 0:27:24.440
<v Speaker 1>That would be twenty six, twenty I said thirty six.

0:27:24.560 --> 0:27:26.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, and you try to say I can't. Well,

0:27:26.840 --> 0:27:30.320
<v Speaker 2>you said twenty four. That's twenty four is closer than

0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:30.920
<v Speaker 2>thirty two.

0:27:31.640 --> 0:27:34.000
<v Speaker 1>I said thirty six, Okay, okay, yeah, I mean I

0:27:34.000 --> 0:27:35.640
<v Speaker 1>said twenty I meant to say twenty six.

0:27:35.680 --> 0:27:38.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay. Well, anyway, I think they should be on

0:27:38.520 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 2>for twenty whatever weeks in twenty six, we should be

0:27:41.040 --> 0:27:42.720
<v Speaker 2>on for twenty six. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

0:27:43.119 --> 0:27:48.840
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, well, we had twenty episodes including the reunion.

0:27:49.080 --> 0:27:50.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we almost made us.

0:27:50.720 --> 0:27:52.480
<v Speaker 1>And then there's like a six week period and then

0:27:52.520 --> 0:27:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I feel like they usually have at least that so

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 1>hm hmm.

0:27:55.760 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 2>So there's a whole possible twelve weeks. Yeah that people

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:04.040
<v Speaker 2>are bored to tiars because it's not us or Atlanta. Yeah,

0:28:04.200 --> 0:28:09.960
<v Speaker 2>board to tears. Okay. So California has decided they have

0:28:09.960 --> 0:28:14.280
<v Speaker 2>a reparations panel and they've approved payments up to one

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:18.720
<v Speaker 2>point two million dollars for black residents plus an apology.

0:28:19.760 --> 0:28:24.280
<v Speaker 2>So they get an I'm sorry and money. Yes, but

0:28:24.320 --> 0:28:28.200
<v Speaker 2>the money is like broken down, so it goes a

0:28:28.200 --> 0:28:35.679
<v Speaker 2>little something like this. Okay, Okay, So black residents that

0:28:35.720 --> 0:28:39.400
<v Speaker 2>were affected by banks redlining them, they get like three

0:28:39.440 --> 0:28:46.480
<v Speaker 2>thousand some dollars, okay, and then hold on, if it's

0:28:46.520 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 2>a black resident who were victims of over policing, policing,

0:28:50.600 --> 0:28:54.120
<v Speaker 2>i'm sorry, over policing, and mass incarceration, they get two

0:28:54.160 --> 0:28:57.240
<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars for each year that they lived in California

0:28:57.320 --> 0:28:59.680
<v Speaker 2>between nineteen seventy and twenty twenty.

0:29:00.560 --> 0:29:06.720
<v Speaker 1>Why wow, Okay, wait, so these reparations are so nineteen seventy,

0:29:06.880 --> 0:29:10.040
<v Speaker 1>So the reparations are not related to I guess because

0:29:10.040 --> 0:29:13.680
<v Speaker 1>in California they didn't really have like slavery in California

0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:16.560
<v Speaker 1>because because the boats couldn't get all the way over there, right,

0:29:16.680 --> 0:29:19.440
<v Speaker 1>So I guess that land wasn't even like I don't know,

0:29:19.480 --> 0:29:22.480
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't even occupied or well, probably the Native Americans.

0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:25.120
<v Speaker 2>Were rebably there. Right, So but if that's to these

0:29:25.280 --> 0:29:29.040
<v Speaker 2>reparation the Native Americans, yes, well they do. Okay, So

0:29:29.240 --> 0:29:32.640
<v Speaker 2>long story short, you can some people are getting up

0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:33.920
<v Speaker 2>to one point two million dollars.

0:29:34.480 --> 0:29:37.200
<v Speaker 1>That's you're gonna have to have a lot of boxes checked.

0:29:37.280 --> 0:29:38.400
<v Speaker 2>Well to get one to one.

0:29:38.600 --> 0:29:41.400
<v Speaker 1>You're talking about three thousand for this, two thousand for that,

0:29:42.040 --> 0:29:43.160
<v Speaker 1>damn you gonna have.

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:44.080
<v Speaker 2>You have to have.

0:29:44.080 --> 0:29:48.360
<v Speaker 1>Had the hardest life ever to get to the one

0:29:48.480 --> 0:29:49.560
<v Speaker 1>million dollars.

0:29:49.640 --> 0:29:52.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm just excited that it's happening. Something's happening.

0:29:52.920 --> 0:29:55.440
<v Speaker 1>Well, that's good, right Exactly, I'm trying to figure out

0:29:55.440 --> 0:29:58.600
<v Speaker 1>my residence in California, Like how do we get that changed?

0:29:58.960 --> 0:29:59.240
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:30:00.040 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure there's residency criteria as well.

0:30:02.600 --> 0:30:03.320
<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

0:30:03.720 --> 0:30:06.560
<v Speaker 1>Like you have to have been a California resident for

0:30:06.760 --> 0:30:09.480
<v Speaker 1>since a certain year and for a certain amount of time,

0:30:09.600 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 1>Like you can't just have lived in California for the

0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:14.200
<v Speaker 1>last two years, or you can't have grown up in

0:30:15.040 --> 0:30:16.880
<v Speaker 1>Ioware your whole life and decide you want to be

0:30:16.920 --> 0:30:19.080
<v Speaker 1>an actress and moved to California.

0:30:18.680 --> 0:30:20.680
<v Speaker 2>Right, true, Okay, so we have to figure all that

0:30:20.720 --> 0:30:23.600
<v Speaker 2>thing out, right, But I'm I'm gonna get up in

0:30:23.640 --> 0:30:27.440
<v Speaker 2>this this this payment situation. I'm trying to figure it out. Okay,

0:30:27.440 --> 0:30:29.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm just here to let y'all know, and how do

0:30:29.760 --> 0:30:32.280
<v Speaker 2>we do this? But how do we get this like

0:30:32.560 --> 0:30:35.160
<v Speaker 2>in Maryland? How do we get this in other states? Right? Yeah?

0:30:35.360 --> 0:30:38.959
<v Speaker 1>Maybe because Maryland, Yes, y'all had slaves. Y'all dropped them

0:30:38.960 --> 0:30:45.480
<v Speaker 1>off right here, and governor let me hit out, Hey,

0:30:46.120 --> 0:30:49.760
<v Speaker 1>we need our reparations, y'all, we need something. But you

0:30:49.800 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 1>know what, I appreciate that, of course. I just hope

0:30:55.440 --> 0:30:59.160
<v Speaker 1>that they maybe have some sort of programs that maybe

0:30:59.160 --> 0:31:01.880
<v Speaker 1>help people put their reparations to good use.

0:31:02.080 --> 0:31:02.760
<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I'm saying?

0:31:02.760 --> 0:31:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Because the whole thing is like the you know, African

0:31:06.120 --> 0:31:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Americans were discriminated against and prevented from creating generavenues for

0:31:12.480 --> 0:31:15.880
<v Speaker 1>generational wealth. Yes, so instead of just handing people a

0:31:15.920 --> 0:31:18.560
<v Speaker 1>bunch of money and they just you know, spend it.

0:31:18.960 --> 0:31:19.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm really I.

0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:21.440
<v Speaker 1>Really hope there's a way for people to like put

0:31:21.440 --> 0:31:23.880
<v Speaker 1>their money to great use and to build something.

0:31:24.040 --> 0:31:27.000
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I get that, but like, after all of this time,

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:28.680
<v Speaker 2>if y'all treat me back, y'all not gonna tell me

0:31:28.680 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 2>how to spend my money Okay, if I want to

0:31:30.880 --> 0:31:34.760
<v Speaker 2>spend it frivoriously. Fivoriously is that a word? Yeah, whatever,

0:31:35.000 --> 0:31:37.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do that. You can't tell me how to

0:31:37.720 --> 0:31:38.880
<v Speaker 2>spend money. I don't want to.

0:31:38.920 --> 0:31:40.960
<v Speaker 1>They don't have to tell them how, but they can say,

0:31:41.000 --> 0:31:44.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, okay, maybe maybe they can work closely with

0:31:44.280 --> 0:31:47.400
<v Speaker 1>the Small Business Administration or something and say, okay, we're

0:31:47.640 --> 0:31:52.720
<v Speaker 1>helping to establish businesses and here are programs and grants,

0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:54.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, like those are the types of things that

0:31:54.520 --> 0:31:58.640
<v Speaker 1>would be extremely helpful because so that's been the effect

0:31:58.720 --> 0:32:03.120
<v Speaker 1>of of you know, all of discrimination and African Americans

0:32:03.160 --> 0:32:07.360
<v Speaker 1>being pretty much treated as a second class citizen.

0:32:07.440 --> 0:32:10.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, we have had no way to build

0:32:10.200 --> 0:32:12.720
<v Speaker 2>generational wealth. Right. First of all, we couldn't buy houses

0:32:12.800 --> 0:32:15.360
<v Speaker 2>until whenever, I don't know what the year is, and

0:32:15.400 --> 0:32:17.760
<v Speaker 2>that's really important. Like we got to be able to

0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:20.440
<v Speaker 2>own property, right, Yes, right, we gotta pass stuff down.

0:32:20.560 --> 0:32:24.560
<v Speaker 2>But let's let's give California some CODs. But yes, California,

0:32:24.640 --> 0:32:27.400
<v Speaker 2>that's awesome, get into it. Yeah with a little fine.

0:32:27.400 --> 0:32:31.240
<v Speaker 2>Governor Newsome was his name. Yes he is a cutie. Yes,

0:32:31.520 --> 0:32:34.600
<v Speaker 2>let's let that wife slip up. I'm coming okay, So

0:32:35.000 --> 0:32:38.440
<v Speaker 2>now speaking of not gonna have any more money. Okay,

0:32:38.480 --> 0:32:43.000
<v Speaker 2>So Donald Trump was found guilty. Yes, yes, yes, yes,

0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 2>because you know what this is. It's coming like one

0:32:45.440 --> 0:32:46.800
<v Speaker 2>time you've you're found guilty.

0:32:47.320 --> 0:32:51.160
<v Speaker 1>All the other cases that just gonna be like guilty, guilty, guilty.

0:32:51.480 --> 0:32:55.560
<v Speaker 1>So I was shocked that yes, because I mean it

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:57.640
<v Speaker 1>is something that's like, how do you well, he wasn't

0:32:57.680 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 1>guilty of actual rape. He would guilty of of like

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:04.640
<v Speaker 1>a sexual assault or something, grab the pussy.

0:33:04.920 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 2>Listen, he said, did you see the deposition? This man

0:33:07.520 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 2>was like, yeah, all the stars can do it. No,

0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:14.320
<v Speaker 2>he said what he said. So in the deposition, the

0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:20.040
<v Speaker 2>lady says to him, so you said that because you're

0:33:20.040 --> 0:33:24.040
<v Speaker 2>a star, you can just lean into a woman and

0:33:24.120 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 2>grab them by the pussy. And he says, yeah, all

0:33:27.920 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 2>the stars do it. They've been doing it since the

0:33:30.400 --> 0:33:33.760
<v Speaker 2>beginning of time. Oh my god, what, Oh my god.

0:33:33.920 --> 0:33:36.680
<v Speaker 1>So that's that's crazy. That's what got the guilty. Yes,

0:33:36.800 --> 0:33:37.080
<v Speaker 1>that's what.

0:33:37.200 --> 0:33:40.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're guilty, sir, and you owe her five million dollars.

0:33:40.160 --> 0:33:44.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you say it again. This has become very famous.

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:48.000
<v Speaker 4>In this video. I just started kissing them. It's like

0:33:48.040 --> 0:33:51.760
<v Speaker 4>a magnet, just kiss I don't even wait. And when

0:33:51.800 --> 0:33:54.160
<v Speaker 4>you're a star, they let you do it. You can

0:33:54.240 --> 0:33:57.520
<v Speaker 4>do anything, grab them by the you can do anything.

0:33:57.720 --> 0:33:58.520
<v Speaker 4>That's what you said.

0:33:58.600 --> 0:33:59.720
<v Speaker 2>Well, historically that's true.

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:01.760
<v Speaker 1>Ours, it's true.

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<v Speaker 4>What starts they're thinking, grab women by the Well, that's

0:34:04.600 --> 0:34:07.320
<v Speaker 4>what that's If you look over the last million years,

0:34:07.360 --> 0:34:11.160
<v Speaker 4>I guess that's been largely true, not always, but largely true.

0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Unfortunately or fortunate.

0:34:15.120 --> 0:34:17.560
<v Speaker 4>And you consider yourself to be a star.

0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:19.319
<v Speaker 1>I think you can say that.

0:34:19.440 --> 0:34:21.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you think he's got five million dollars cash?

0:34:22.320 --> 0:34:25.400
<v Speaker 1>Yes, because shoot, when he was all that money he

0:34:25.480 --> 0:34:30.680
<v Speaker 1>raised from from when he was arrested. You know, they

0:34:30.760 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 1>raised so much money and like such a short perioce.

0:34:33.120 --> 0:34:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I know, I know he's gonna use that money. He's

0:34:35.080 --> 0:34:36.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna use So this.

0:34:36.719 --> 0:34:39.560
<v Speaker 2>Is his slush fund. Yes, okay, So there's gonna be

0:34:39.600 --> 0:34:43.919
<v Speaker 2>more cases coming up. This is civil so he don't know,

0:34:43.920 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 2>no jail time, right, But yes, sir, they'll be grabbing

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:56.759
<v Speaker 2>people by the pussy, right. I want to get to

0:34:56.760 --> 0:34:59.520
<v Speaker 2>know you, Robin, Okay, So before we get into that, yes,

0:35:00.040 --> 0:35:01.120
<v Speaker 2>we just have to say.

0:35:01.200 --> 0:35:04.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, we got to talk about you. Yes, yes, okay,

0:35:04.600 --> 0:35:06.680
<v Speaker 1>what do you have to say? You know you have

0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:07.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot to say.

0:35:08.239 --> 0:35:12.279
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So guys, I was minding my business, sitting on

0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:14.920
<v Speaker 2>my couch as I love to do in my house,

0:35:15.680 --> 0:35:18.000
<v Speaker 2>and I was scrolling through the Instagram. And you know,

0:35:18.080 --> 0:35:21.080
<v Speaker 2>if I go to Instagram Robin, anytime Robin posts something,

0:35:21.120 --> 0:35:25.240
<v Speaker 2>she pops up first, right, That's just how the matrix works. Okay.

0:35:25.600 --> 0:35:31.359
<v Speaker 2>So I was scrolling through and I see Robin lost.

0:35:31.600 --> 0:35:33.319
<v Speaker 2>I was lost. I wanted to know where I was.

0:35:33.760 --> 0:35:37.239
<v Speaker 1>Robin was walking around aimlessly, lost on the beach and

0:35:37.280 --> 0:35:39.120
<v Speaker 1>on a boardwalk, and I.

0:35:39.000 --> 0:35:41.760
<v Speaker 2>Was like, what is happening to my friend? Who is kidnapped?

0:35:41.800 --> 0:35:44.880
<v Speaker 2>My friend? So I said to myself, let me scroll

0:35:44.880 --> 0:35:46.840
<v Speaker 2>down and read what the hell she talking about? And

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:49.640
<v Speaker 2>so she said, all of a sudden, I saw something

0:35:49.640 --> 0:35:52.399
<v Speaker 2>about she found peace. And then I scrolled a little

0:35:52.400 --> 0:35:57.200
<v Speaker 2>bit more and she said, California Psychics. The California psychics gave.

0:35:57.000 --> 0:36:00.960
<v Speaker 1>You peace as you were aimlessly walking on a boardwalk.

0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Yes, that hell are you talking about. I was so perplexed,

0:36:05.040 --> 0:36:08.919
<v Speaker 2>and Borderline was like, I don't know this person. Who

0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:09.760
<v Speaker 2>is this person?

0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:14.239
<v Speaker 1>She is looking over the boardwalk into the water, she

0:36:14.480 --> 0:36:16.440
<v Speaker 1>is walking on the sands.

0:36:16.680 --> 0:36:20.680
<v Speaker 2>It's just I'm confused. Okay, please explain. Yes, I will explain.

0:36:21.120 --> 0:36:22.759
<v Speaker 1>So you are not the only person that got a

0:36:22.920 --> 0:36:27.640
<v Speaker 1>kick out of that, Okay, but I will explain. So, Yes,

0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:34.440
<v Speaker 1>I was not aimlessly lost walking on the beach.

0:36:34.520 --> 0:36:34.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:38.920
<v Speaker 1>I was enjoying my vacation. Okay, Okay in the Bahamas,

0:36:39.200 --> 0:36:42.839
<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm taking in all the beautiful nature, the

0:36:42.880 --> 0:36:47.200
<v Speaker 1>beauty of the world, right and just at peace because

0:36:47.520 --> 0:36:51.480
<v Speaker 1>I yes, talked to two psychics, Okay, recently. I actually

0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:54.680
<v Speaker 1>talked to three. But I talked to two California psychics recently.

0:36:55.080 --> 0:36:58.160
<v Speaker 1>And you know, it's funny. I feel like people if

0:36:58.160 --> 0:37:00.520
<v Speaker 1>you've never experienced the psychic and and you know, if

0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:02.600
<v Speaker 1>you watched The Real Households of Potomac for a long time,

0:37:03.120 --> 0:37:03.840
<v Speaker 1>what season was it?

0:37:03.920 --> 0:37:04.640
<v Speaker 2>Season three?

0:37:05.320 --> 0:37:08.040
<v Speaker 1>I think you saw Wan and I talk to a

0:37:08.080 --> 0:37:12.359
<v Speaker 1>psychic medium. Yes, And when I tell you, that man

0:37:12.400 --> 0:37:14.800
<v Speaker 1>was the most that was the That was one of

0:37:14.840 --> 0:37:19.000
<v Speaker 1>the most amazing experiences I've had on the show and

0:37:19.160 --> 0:37:21.520
<v Speaker 1>just in life. Just talking to that man was so

0:37:21.680 --> 0:37:24.239
<v Speaker 1>comforting and so enlightening.

0:37:24.600 --> 0:37:25.280
<v Speaker 2>Like so, I'm.

0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:28.080
<v Speaker 1>Open to people who have that type of skill.

0:37:28.320 --> 0:37:31.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm talent. Okay, I like that, and me too. I

0:37:31.160 --> 0:37:32.600
<v Speaker 2>appreciate it, and I don't look at them.

0:37:32.640 --> 0:37:35.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, some people I think think it has it's

0:37:35.520 --> 0:37:40.280
<v Speaker 1>like an anti Christ type of situation, which I actually

0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:45.680
<v Speaker 1>believe that they kind of can communicate like God communicates

0:37:45.680 --> 0:37:47.359
<v Speaker 1>through them, you know what I'm saying. So I don't

0:37:47.400 --> 0:37:51.120
<v Speaker 1>look at talking to a psychic as not Also, you know,

0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:55.640
<v Speaker 1>believe in my faith in God. Right, So anyway, So yes,

0:37:55.960 --> 0:37:58.480
<v Speaker 1>I talked to these psychics. They were very comforting. I

0:37:58.520 --> 0:38:02.960
<v Speaker 1>asked them specific questions. They answered me and gave me

0:38:05.000 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 1>hope and they gave me comfort.

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:11.960
<v Speaker 2>And did they tell you how to get off the boardwalk? No?

0:38:12.000 --> 0:38:16.560
<v Speaker 2>I didn't need to. I didn't need I didn't need that. Listen,

0:38:16.600 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I didn't need that. Okay, but have you read some

0:38:19.040 --> 0:38:21.680
<v Speaker 2>of your comments? Because I saw one and it said,

0:38:21.800 --> 0:38:25.680
<v Speaker 2>what is happening? I question Mark? I know it's so funny.

0:38:25.719 --> 0:38:27.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Okay, I know like talking to psychics is

0:38:28.120 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 1>controversy or whatever.

0:38:29.400 --> 0:38:34.120
<v Speaker 2>But okay, let's talk about because obviously. Then I scroll

0:38:34.200 --> 0:38:35.960
<v Speaker 2>down and it said if you if you want to

0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:39.480
<v Speaker 2>use the psychics, use Robin's name and you get money off.

0:38:39.520 --> 0:38:42.879
<v Speaker 2>So I got okay, I got that. Yeah, yeah, could

0:38:42.880 --> 0:38:46.040
<v Speaker 2>we could we have done the promotional post in a

0:38:46.080 --> 0:38:51.279
<v Speaker 2>different way to do what not walking aimlessly? As if

0:38:51.280 --> 0:38:56.640
<v Speaker 2>you are aimlessly? Do you take walks on the beach? Yes?

0:38:57.160 --> 0:38:59.600
<v Speaker 2>Do you stand on a on a on a boardwalk?

0:39:00.360 --> 0:39:04.759
<v Speaker 2>You staying on a yes? Okay, fine, Robin?

0:39:04.800 --> 0:39:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Do you stand on the borwalk by the ocean and

0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:09.400
<v Speaker 1>just sit there and look look at the look at

0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:13.040
<v Speaker 1>the people? Listen, look at this, look at the cat

0:39:13.120 --> 0:39:15.799
<v Speaker 1>ski Does everybody go to California's like, just go to

0:39:16.080 --> 0:39:16.320
<v Speaker 1>put it?

0:39:16.800 --> 0:39:19.120
<v Speaker 2>Put in at what is it? What is your code?

0:39:19.239 --> 0:39:22.919
<v Speaker 1>Robin twelve? Robin twelve twelve dollars? Off what you said, Curly?

0:39:25.360 --> 0:39:28.240
<v Speaker 1>Carly got it. Carly got it, But everybody, the thousand

0:39:28.280 --> 0:39:30.319
<v Speaker 1>people in the comments, they didn't get it. They got

0:39:30.320 --> 0:39:32.520
<v Speaker 1>a kick out of it. It's fine, you know what,

0:39:32.920 --> 0:39:35.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't care. This is the thing about me that

0:39:35.360 --> 0:39:37.600
<v Speaker 1>like people should realize by now, I don't care.

0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:39.960
<v Speaker 2>Like I really don't. I gotta I got a key, key,

0:39:40.000 --> 0:39:40.719
<v Speaker 2>I take you a key.

0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:40.880
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:41.279
<v Speaker 2>It's funny.

0:39:41.320 --> 0:39:43.560
<v Speaker 1>So one called me I was out because I took

0:39:43.600 --> 0:39:46.440
<v Speaker 1>the kids to like a basketball practice, and he called

0:39:46.480 --> 0:39:50.480
<v Speaker 1>me dying laughing, yes, like yeah, I'm cracking up.

0:39:50.640 --> 0:39:51.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm cracking up. Your post.

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:54.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm cracking up at these at your at these comments.

0:39:54.800 --> 0:39:57.000
<v Speaker 1>He's like, and he was like, I'm about to comment.

0:39:57.080 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 1>I said, no, do not comment.

0:39:59.280 --> 0:40:01.359
<v Speaker 2>No he should, No, that would have been that got

0:40:01.360 --> 0:40:04.200
<v Speaker 2>a lot of traffic. No what his comment gonna be.

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:06.480
<v Speaker 1>He would have he was gonna comment if he if

0:40:06.520 --> 0:40:08.160
<v Speaker 1>he had commented, do you know how many times that

0:40:08.200 --> 0:40:09.400
<v Speaker 1>ship would have been reposted?

0:40:09.520 --> 0:40:12.280
<v Speaker 2>That had been great California side Robin twelve.

0:40:12.320 --> 0:40:12.520
<v Speaker 3>I did.

0:40:13.520 --> 0:40:16.200
<v Speaker 2>I did that amazing. Actually, I did not want that.

0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:17.080
<v Speaker 2>I did not want that.

0:40:17.080 --> 0:40:19.719
<v Speaker 1>I did not want to open my phone and then

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:23.399
<v Speaker 1>just see my ship with once comment reposted fifty times.

0:40:23.440 --> 0:40:25.719
<v Speaker 2>Okay, but what but depends on what his comment was

0:40:25.760 --> 0:40:26.239
<v Speaker 2>going to be.

0:40:26.320 --> 0:40:28.239
<v Speaker 1>So he was gonna have some laughing emojis and I

0:40:28.320 --> 0:40:30.200
<v Speaker 1>was like, no, you have to.

0:40:32.080 --> 0:40:34.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, fine, yes I don't do that.

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 1>Yes, but anyway, I love talking to intuitive people me too.

0:40:39.120 --> 0:40:42.319
<v Speaker 1>They are very Their spirits are so comforting, like I

0:40:42.360 --> 0:40:45.160
<v Speaker 1>can't even explain it, it's so crazy. And then I'm

0:40:45.160 --> 0:40:48.160
<v Speaker 1>telling y'all, I will tell you what they said when

0:40:48.160 --> 0:40:48.880
<v Speaker 1>it comes true.

0:40:50.000 --> 0:40:52.680
<v Speaker 2>Right, But did you ask him about me at all? Okay? Fine?

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:54.640
<v Speaker 2>So I need to I need to do I have

0:40:54.719 --> 0:40:57.080
<v Speaker 2>to put in Robin twelve to get mine done. How

0:40:57.120 --> 0:40:58.920
<v Speaker 2>much you said's a minute? Twelve dollars a minute.

0:40:59.080 --> 0:41:01.920
<v Speaker 1>Well, there's different psychics you can choose from, so certain

0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:04.600
<v Speaker 1>some of them are five dollars a minute, some of

0:41:04.640 --> 0:41:07.279
<v Speaker 1>them are twelve dollars a minute. So you just got

0:41:07.320 --> 0:41:09.920
<v Speaker 1>to pick what psychic you want. Who's bootleg? Does anyone

0:41:09.960 --> 0:41:13.120
<v Speaker 1>boot leg? Everybody's good? Well, I mean they have like

0:41:13.680 --> 0:41:16.120
<v Speaker 1>they have ratings how they do Yeah, and then you

0:41:16.120 --> 0:41:18.520
<v Speaker 1>can see like, yeah, they're rated. You can see the

0:41:18.600 --> 0:41:20.919
<v Speaker 1>number of readings that they've done. So some have done

0:41:21.280 --> 0:41:24.319
<v Speaker 1>thousands of readings, you know, on this platform, and some

0:41:24.400 --> 0:41:26.280
<v Speaker 1>have only done you know, a few hundred or whatever.

0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:28.920
<v Speaker 1>And then there's some that like do tarot cards, and

0:41:28.960 --> 0:41:32.040
<v Speaker 1>some that are mediums and talk to you know, the dead,

0:41:32.160 --> 0:41:34.280
<v Speaker 1>and there's some that are just impaths.

0:41:34.320 --> 0:41:35.480
<v Speaker 2>You know. It's just like different.

0:41:35.680 --> 0:41:37.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, It's really like, it's so funny why I thought

0:41:37.600 --> 0:41:39.319
<v Speaker 1>I was crazy Because I would get off the phone

0:41:39.360 --> 0:41:42.520
<v Speaker 1>with the psychic and I would like run to where

0:41:42.520 --> 0:41:43.920
<v Speaker 1>he was and he was like, I talked to the

0:41:43.920 --> 0:41:47.719
<v Speaker 1>psychic and this is what they said, and it was well,

0:41:47.760 --> 0:41:50.359
<v Speaker 1>I talked to on California psychics. I talked to two

0:41:50.400 --> 0:41:52.839
<v Speaker 1>different ones. Okay, so I hang up the phone with one.

0:41:52.960 --> 0:41:54.480
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, I talked to a psychic. Yeah, and

0:41:54.520 --> 0:41:56.560
<v Speaker 1>this is what she said and bo because I asked

0:41:56.560 --> 0:41:58.919
<v Speaker 1>about him and his job and his all that in

0:41:59.000 --> 0:42:02.600
<v Speaker 1>our lives and whatever, and he was like okay. So

0:42:02.680 --> 0:42:04.160
<v Speaker 1>then I would hang up again, I would talk to

0:42:04.200 --> 0:42:06.160
<v Speaker 1>another one. I hang up, and I talked to another

0:42:06.160 --> 0:42:07.919
<v Speaker 1>psychic and they said the same thing.

0:42:08.520 --> 0:42:12.160
<v Speaker 2>Okay, is any of it panning out? We gotta give

0:42:12.160 --> 0:42:12.440
<v Speaker 2>it time.

0:42:12.520 --> 0:42:15.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're right, We're not there yet yet. We gave

0:42:15.239 --> 0:42:17.799
<v Speaker 1>us some time and everything. And then I talked to

0:42:18.280 --> 0:42:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Ashley's friend Eve. She did my child's heart reading, and.

0:42:22.480 --> 0:42:27.000
<v Speaker 2>Eve said the same stuff. Listen, this is don't knock it, y'all,

0:42:27.000 --> 0:42:29.399
<v Speaker 2>it's fun. And I actually was like, this is fun. Okay,

0:42:29.400 --> 0:42:31.520
<v Speaker 2>So we'll have one on the show. How about we

0:42:31.520 --> 0:42:33.600
<v Speaker 2>we do a podcast with one of them and the

0:42:33.680 --> 0:42:36.799
<v Speaker 2>next in coming. Maybe maybe Carly can set that up

0:42:36.880 --> 0:42:42.560
<v Speaker 2>since she's yeah, okay, Carly, y'all. Carly, she's gonna get

0:42:42.600 --> 0:42:43.000
<v Speaker 2>on that.

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:45.560
<v Speaker 1>And we probably could because like when you talk to

0:42:45.600 --> 0:42:47.480
<v Speaker 1>them and then and so like if I asked something,

0:42:47.640 --> 0:42:49.600
<v Speaker 1>say about one and his job, like he didn't have

0:42:49.640 --> 0:42:52.360
<v Speaker 1>to be there or on the phone. They're like, okay,

0:42:52.360 --> 0:42:55.120
<v Speaker 1>what's his full name? What is his birthday? Like that's

0:42:55.120 --> 0:42:56.880
<v Speaker 1>what all they need and then you ask him like

0:42:56.880 --> 0:43:00.080
<v Speaker 1>a specific question. So I'm thinking even if there's a

0:43:00.239 --> 0:43:05.640
<v Speaker 1>listener that has something that they want us to ask, Okay, okay,

0:43:05.840 --> 0:43:06.960
<v Speaker 1>we could do that for them.

0:43:07.040 --> 0:43:09.360
<v Speaker 2>I like that. Yeah, I got some questions from anyway.

0:43:09.480 --> 0:43:11.480
<v Speaker 1>Yes, well, I am glad that I was able to

0:43:11.920 --> 0:43:14.080
<v Speaker 1>entertain you and give you a key. Key If y'all

0:43:14.080 --> 0:43:16.040
<v Speaker 1>want to go to my Instagram page and check it out,

0:43:16.040 --> 0:43:17.479
<v Speaker 1>it's going to still be there.

0:43:17.920 --> 0:43:20.319
<v Speaker 2>Okay. Just look for a robin walking on the beach.

0:43:20.600 --> 0:43:22.600
<v Speaker 2>You see me walking on the beach and my Rasachi

0:43:22.760 --> 0:43:26.480
<v Speaker 2>bathe and suit. Yes Masachi okay, yes, Masaji Maasaki. Okay.

0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:28.520
<v Speaker 2>So we have one reasonably shady before we get out

0:43:28.520 --> 0:43:33.359
<v Speaker 2>of here. Is it reasonable or is it shady? This

0:43:33.440 --> 0:43:38.840
<v Speaker 2>is well, this is actually advice needed. Hey, Rabina and Jizzy,

0:43:39.120 --> 0:43:42.879
<v Speaker 2>who was Shamion? Oh do we know sha Marian? Yes?

0:43:42.880 --> 0:43:46.320
<v Speaker 2>We know. That's all things to see. Oh we love her. Okay,

0:43:46.680 --> 0:43:50.719
<v Speaker 2>So hey Rabina and Jizzy, it's your girl. Me me

0:43:50.880 --> 0:43:53.759
<v Speaker 2>here and I need some advice to. So, I have

0:43:53.800 --> 0:43:56.440
<v Speaker 2>a friend that I've been friends with since elementary school

0:43:56.480 --> 0:44:00.600
<v Speaker 2>and we have been stuck like glue since. So now

0:44:01.040 --> 0:44:03.520
<v Speaker 2>that we have graduated high school and we went our

0:44:03.560 --> 0:44:06.000
<v Speaker 2>separate ways, but we still manage to spend time with

0:44:06.080 --> 0:44:09.080
<v Speaker 2>each other. This is where I need some advice. So

0:44:09.120 --> 0:44:12.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm always showing up to everything she has, like her

0:44:12.880 --> 0:44:16.600
<v Speaker 2>baby shower, her birthday, her granddaddy's funeral, and basically everything

0:44:16.600 --> 0:44:19.360
<v Speaker 2>she invites me to. But she never shows up to

0:44:19.560 --> 0:44:23.680
<v Speaker 2>anything I have, Like when my birthday came around, she

0:44:24.160 --> 0:44:28.440
<v Speaker 2>was a no show. When we plan trips it's the

0:44:28.480 --> 0:44:31.160
<v Speaker 2>day before she always seems to cancel, or even when

0:44:31.160 --> 0:44:34.440
<v Speaker 2>I plan us fun think fun outings, she never shows up.

0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:38.040
<v Speaker 2>She complains her money is low, so I tell her

0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:40.799
<v Speaker 2>just come and enjoy and I'll pick up the bill.

0:44:41.080 --> 0:44:43.439
<v Speaker 2>But she's still a no show. So should I feel

0:44:43.440 --> 0:44:45.719
<v Speaker 2>away and cut her off? Or should I tell her

0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:50.640
<v Speaker 2>how I feel and move on? Because maybe I'm overreacting. Ooh, Okay,

0:44:50.920 --> 0:44:53.000
<v Speaker 2>this is actual. This happens a lot. It does happen

0:44:53.000 --> 0:44:56.640
<v Speaker 2>a lot. Yeah, I can vouch for that. Maybe I

0:44:56.760 --> 0:45:01.160
<v Speaker 2>was thinking about you as I was reading it, Robin. No,

0:45:01.239 --> 0:45:05.839
<v Speaker 2>I'm not that bad I'm not yet. Are you overreacting? No?

0:45:06.120 --> 0:45:09.240
<v Speaker 1>Like this definitely, you definitely have the right to feel

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<v Speaker 1>a certain type of way about this, for sure, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>But but I say, okay, a lot of times, every

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<v Speaker 1>friend can't be everything to you, right, Okay, So you

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<v Speaker 1>know there are some friends that maybe I guess you

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<v Speaker 1>have to wonder like what is your friendship good for

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<v Speaker 1>with with her? Like, what are you getting out of

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<v Speaker 1>the friendship? So if it's not her coming up, not

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<v Speaker 1>showing up for you in the physical, yeah, do they

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<v Speaker 1>have good conversations on the phone, does she offer good advice?

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<v Speaker 1>Is she supportive? Does she you know, is that a

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<v Speaker 1>shoulder you can cry on or whatever? So you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wonder, ask like what are you getting out

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<v Speaker 1>of this friendship?

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<v Speaker 2>Robbie, you know you always see all sides. I tried.

0:45:53.280 --> 0:45:56.040
<v Speaker 2>I was like, throw that bitch in a transcript, right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that bitch got to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I try to, But but I'm saying, like, Mimi,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to ask, like what is the friendship where?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you getting out of the friendship?

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<v Speaker 1>So if she's physically not showing up for you, like

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully you're getting something out of the friendship. Yes, Now

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<v Speaker 1>I do think she should say something.

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<v Speaker 2>Though there's a conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yes, she should say something. The thing about the money.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she feels guilt, or not guilt, but shame and

0:46:23.080 --> 0:46:25.359
<v Speaker 1>embarrassment right that she doesn't have the money. And even

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<v Speaker 1>though her friends say, oh no girl, we got you, like,

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't want to put her friends in that position

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<v Speaker 1>because it's embarrassing for her.

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<v Speaker 2>So which I actually wish I had friends like that,

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<v Speaker 2>because they don't mind. They don't mind when I pick

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<v Speaker 2>up the check. They just like, thanks girl. Right, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>ain't nobody embarrassed here? I'm paid for all of y'all. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>So so I'm gonna let you talk and finish this.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe also, Mimi, you can test. You can put

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<v Speaker 1>out a little test and think of something that you

0:46:51.920 --> 0:46:52.680
<v Speaker 1>all can do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Does not require money.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I like that, okay, and then see how she

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<v Speaker 1>responds or if she shows up I think that that's

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<v Speaker 1>well No.

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<v Speaker 2>I say, yes, no, she's not overreacting. This is a

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<v Speaker 2>real feeling. I've been through this, not with Robin, but

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<v Speaker 2>with another girlfriend of mine that over the years I

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<v Speaker 2>had to realize either she doesn't feel comfortable hanging out

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<v Speaker 2>like some people want feel comfortable like hanging out whatever

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<v Speaker 2>that means.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So if she had something, you would go to

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:28.080
<v Speaker 1>something she had. Yeah, if you had something, she wouldn't

0:47:28.120 --> 0:47:31.479
<v Speaker 1>feel comfortable maybe being incorporated into like your other friends

0:47:31.480 --> 0:47:31.800
<v Speaker 1>and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So maybe it was that maybe she didn't feel

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable with my other friends. I don't know, but I

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<v Speaker 2>did state like, I don't get it, I don't understand

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<v Speaker 2>why you don't hang out. Doesn't make any sense to me,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I left it alone. But you're absolutely correct.

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<v Speaker 2>What she does bring to me is the conversations that

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<v Speaker 2>we have. And you know, she's always like a friend

0:47:53.640 --> 0:47:55.839
<v Speaker 2>of mine that's very grounded, and you know, I'm out

0:47:55.840 --> 0:47:57.960
<v Speaker 2>here sometimes making some bad decisions and she's like, no,

0:47:58.320 --> 0:48:00.840
<v Speaker 2>don't do that because blah blah blah. So that's what

0:48:00.920 --> 0:48:03.759
<v Speaker 2>she brings to my life currently. But as for us

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<v Speaker 2>hanging out, Yeah, and then you get to a place

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<v Speaker 2>where it's like these people that don't hang out no more,

0:48:07.880 --> 0:48:09.399
<v Speaker 2>they don't know how to hang out, So you don't

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<v Speaker 2>even want to hang out with that because they don't

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<v Speaker 2>even know what they're doing, right, they don't even know

0:48:12.280 --> 0:48:14.680
<v Speaker 2>what's cool and what's not cool? Right, exactly, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>be responsible for them, No, leave them at home. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>they take one drink and a on the floor. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>wait a minute. And then she did hang out with

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<v Speaker 2>oh shit in New York. Oh my god, how can

0:48:23.560 --> 0:48:26.880
<v Speaker 2>I forget this? And she did. She had like one drinking,

0:48:26.960 --> 0:48:29.360
<v Speaker 2>she was like throwing up. Oh no, she fell asleep

0:48:29.360 --> 0:48:31.840
<v Speaker 2>in the club or so. It was something crazy, And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, this is why you need to stay home, right, Yes,

0:48:35.320 --> 0:48:37.600
<v Speaker 2>you're not even hang out. You're not even equipped to

0:48:37.680 --> 0:48:38.440
<v Speaker 2>hang out anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>The streets taped for you, right, Yeah, you don't want

0:48:40.640 --> 0:48:43.080
<v Speaker 1>that responsibility, like she's holding you back when you go out.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, no, you don't need that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, so governed as you get older, you got

0:48:47.160 --> 0:48:50.320
<v Speaker 1>to put your friends in boxes, so to speak. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and govern govern yourself accordingly with your friends.

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