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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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Speaker 2: What's up? What's up? My people? This is Robin, Miss

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Speaker 2: Cleo Dixon. Okay, we're gonna get to that in a minute. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Miss Cleo. I'm so glad y'all are here. But you

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Speaker 2: knew that they were going to be here because you

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Speaker 2: are Claire Willance of course. Yes, yes, did you know

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Speaker 2: that you were gonna have? People told me? Your people

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Speaker 2: told you that they were going to be here. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Did your people talk to you about lateness? M I

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Speaker 2: ain't asked them about that about your Okay? Well, first

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Speaker 2: and foremost, happy belated Mother's Day. Oh, yes, yes, Other's Day. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Mother's Day. Thank you saying to you Happy Mother's Day.

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Speaker 1: Happy Mother's Day to all the mama's out there, all

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Speaker 1: the grandma's and auntie yes and mother figures right, this

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Speaker 1: God's mother's.

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Speaker 2: But there in their mothers are not all created equally. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So some people you really don't want to say Happy

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Speaker 2: Mother's Day too, right? What do you mean not my mother?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, some mother's son okay, well, true, true, true, true?

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Speaker 2: Right? So do all mothers deserve a happy Mother's Day?

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Speaker 2: You know that is true?

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Speaker 1: Like, so if you have a shitty mother, like, what

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Speaker 1: do you say to her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? How do you celebrate Mother's Day for that shitty mother?

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Speaker 2: I don't know you figured it, don't you don't? Who

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Speaker 2: knows anyway? But you know there was there was a

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Speaker 2: guy like.

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Speaker 1: You send a text Happy Mother's Day, not even with

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Speaker 1: it to your mom.

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Speaker 2: You just sent a text Happy Mother's Day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, not even no call, no call, no exclamation points,

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Speaker 1: no flower, no emoji flower, not even an emoji flower.

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Speaker 2: It's just like you, a shitty mom, Happy Mother's Day. Okay,

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Speaker 2: but we don't want to, you know, dwell on the

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Speaker 2: shitty one.

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Speaker 1: I know, yes, the amazing ones. Listen, we our job

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Speaker 1: is his art beyond so hard, yes, so much. It's

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Speaker 1: I didn't realize what I signed up for being a mom.

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 1: No? Did you realize everything that went into being a

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Speaker 1: mom before you had children? Now, to be honest with you,

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Speaker 1: I think I didn't think about it. No, right, and

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Speaker 1: then and what's crazy to me is like I know,

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Speaker 1: you know, knowing what we know now, I'm like I

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Speaker 1: do feel bad that as a child, I was like horrible,

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Speaker 1: not as appreciative, you know what I mean? Like I was,

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Speaker 1: I was a good I was a good child, you

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Speaker 1: know when I was being good.

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Speaker 2: But you weren't being a juvenile yes most of the time.

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Speaker 1: But like I look back and I'm like, just think

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Speaker 1: about all the sacrifices my parents would make and everything

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Speaker 1: they would have to do to just make sure that

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Speaker 1: their kids were.

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Speaker 2: Great and yeah whatever.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, we as children did not know.

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Speaker 2: Well, you're not supposed to, I guess, yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: think that's how it's working. You're not really supposed to.

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Speaker 1: But you know now, but right, no, right, we know

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Speaker 1: now we're not supposed to. But I think some children,

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Speaker 1: if they knew, then they would act a little better.

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Speaker 2: True, do you know what I mean? True? True, true, true.

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Speaker 2: I believe that.

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Speaker 1: Because there's some children that are just like ungrateful and

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Speaker 1: you know, just problem children, and if they actually knew

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Speaker 1: the things that their parents had to deal with and

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Speaker 1: the stress that it adds on top of them. It's

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Speaker 1: like on top of having to go to work every

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Speaker 1: day and having to whatever, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: I think my kids see like how hard, like I

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Speaker 2: grind and work and all that, and they so they

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Speaker 2: have there's a level of appreciation there, yeah with it.

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Speaker 2: They forget occasionally, but like they always are like, we

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Speaker 2: appreciate who you are. Yeah, which I'm sure your kids

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Speaker 2: feel the same way about you. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean my kids are amazing, Like I don't

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Speaker 1: have any problems with them. They're you know, it's so weird,

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Speaker 1: Like my relationship with my kids is very different than

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Speaker 2: Moms, you know. And I guess is that a sign

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Speaker 2: of the times. I don't know. Well, it's a different

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Speaker 2: it's a different way of life. These are different kids

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Speaker 2: than us as kids. Yeah, so yeah, it's different. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So my kids like appreciate my grind. But then they

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Speaker 1: also like anytime I leave the house till like when

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Speaker 2: Again, tell me to get over it. I'm like, dude,

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Speaker 2: do you want some new nikes or not?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: He's like a job, like, okay, be safe, I'll see

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Speaker 2: you when you get back. But and then then he

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Speaker 2: goes and sends you a link because he says. Yes.

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Speaker 2: I always want to thank that baby daddy of mine

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Speaker 2: because without him, I would not have the children that

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Speaker 2: I have. So thank you Jamal Bryant forget me all

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Speaker 2: pregnant and stuff I am. He ay, he's very appreciative

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Speaker 2: of me. On Mother's Day, which I typically we always

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Speaker 2: go out to dinner, he wasn't able to do that

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Speaker 2: this year, so he called me. He was like, all right,

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Speaker 2: I'm sending a chef to your house. I was like, no,

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Speaker 2: the hell you not, because I don't want to see

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Speaker 2: a chef.

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Speaker 1: Tell the chef to chef it up wherever he chefs

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Speaker 1: off and drop it off drop it off. Yes, so

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Speaker 1: he in the year after year, I feel like he

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Speaker 1: gets more and more appreciative of the of the mother

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Speaker 1: that I am to the girls because he's you know,

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Speaker 1: they don't cuss him out right, and he appreciates that.

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Speaker 1: You know what would make him like super uber duber

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Speaker 1: most appreciative. What if he had to do your job,

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Speaker 1: like you know, if y'all switch places.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, the girl's not having that.

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Speaker 1: Right, no, I know, but but I'm telling you because

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Speaker 1: even in this short little period of time like since

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Speaker 1: Wan hasn't been working like he's been, you know, doing

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Speaker 1: a lot for the boys. And he's like, man, yes,

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Speaker 1: like I didn't really realize, yes, how much I went

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Speaker 1: into Yes, Yes, while I put.

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Speaker 2: On some mom pants. Yes, okay, yeah, so that's how

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Speaker 2: they really going to know. Yeah, what it takes.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I hope everyone had a beautiful Mother's stay.

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Speaker 2: Yes, indeed, but we we need to reasonably shady. Moment

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Speaker 2: of the week, Robin. Okay, no shade, but you've been

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Speaker 2: married for how long?

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Speaker 1: Well, which like in total or the first one? No,

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Speaker 1: the first wedding, the second one, I mean the second.

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Speaker 2: Wedding, the second one that I wasn't invited to.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yes, so it would, so that would be a

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Speaker 1: year in all gifts.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So can you get an annoment? I'm just curious.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, because your car is not in the

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Speaker 2: garage and I'm having issues, yes, divorce please? Yes, like

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Speaker 2: why because like all things, Yes, that is annoying. Yes.

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Speaker 1: And every week at the top of the week he says,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get the garage clean, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna get the garage, I'm gonna straighten the garage up.

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Speaker 1: I'm straighten the garage up every week at the top

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Speaker 1: of the week, okay, and then the days go by

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Speaker 1: and the garage is not done.

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Speaker 2: It's been like a month now, it's been longer than

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Speaker 2: a month. It's been long okay, Yeah, spend longer than

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Speaker 2: a month. Okay, look up the annulment. Yes, okay, because

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Speaker 2: we might be able to get that done. I'm saying,

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Speaker 2: I know you should present them to Wine like this

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Speaker 2: is grounds for an annulment, and then put at the

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Speaker 2: bottom dirty garage.

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Speaker 1: I can't get my garage back. I need my garage back.

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Speaker 1: So yes, we need to annul and you need to leave. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's and I know it's so funny. I was going

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Speaker 1: to say, like every week on the podcast, I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna update everyone and let them know the right cars

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Speaker 1: still in the garage, and then no, it's still not.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, it's still in the driveway. Yes. When I

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Speaker 2: pulled up, I was like, oh, I saw Robbins car

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Speaker 2: is in trouble again.

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Speaker 1: It is so annoying because I am like, dude, outside.

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Speaker 2: Of going to the gym, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you know, I don't want to you know,

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Speaker 1: of course, we don't want to minimize. Right, you got

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Speaker 1: any laundry, you's gotta you know, make brush his teeth,

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Speaker 1: make phone calls.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yes, he's gotta eat, but like comet, you gotta

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Speaker 2: go number two. Yes, he has to do that. Let's

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Speaker 2: sit there.

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Speaker 1: You gotta do you know, I mean, you know, he's

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's twenty four hours, so he's got to sleep.

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Speaker 2: Yeah wow, Yeah, listens, gotta play the video game. He

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Speaker 2: could have the boys help him. He can make it

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you his method of cleaning this garage.

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Speaker 1: I've probably shared this before. He's going to throw everything away, Fine,

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Speaker 1: get done. That's not fine with me because like it's

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Speaker 1: literally like stuff that is could be useful. So his

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, no.

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Speaker 2: It's not trash. Yeah, okay, well good luck with you know,

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Speaker 2: what is that your reason to be shading home?

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Speaker 1: No, it's okay, Okay, one day I'm gonna end up

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Speaker 1: moving the ship myself, and then that's going to be really.

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Speaker 2: Bad, right, that's really when you're gonna look up a moment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, or anyway, okay, okay, So my recently shady moment,

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Speaker 1: and you know you probably have your shady moment related

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Speaker 1: to this as well. But I recently was traveling. I

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Speaker 1: was in a hotel. Yes, I was on the sixteenth

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Speaker 1: floor at a corner unit. There's glass everywhere. As I

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Speaker 1: went to your room, it was beautiful. Yes, yeah, my

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Speaker 1: room was not. All rooms on this trip were not

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry mine.

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Speaker 1: Was disturbing, but go ahead. Sorry, but mine was like,

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Speaker 1: glass everywhere, blah blah blah. So the hotel were in

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Speaker 1: there's like construction everywhere you look right, left, front, back, up, down,

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Speaker 1: Like I've never seen this much construction in my life.

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Speaker 2: Like now you do know that the construction on one

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Speaker 2: whoa eighty Really they're gonna be They're gonna be doing

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Speaker 2: this built, working on this building for the next six years. Wow. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I found that out, which.

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Speaker 1: Is even more disturbing because it's like, yes, oh that

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Speaker 1: is problematic, thank.

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Speaker 2: You, thank you. Six years. So let's say you're the hotel.

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Speaker 2: You've got to deal with this shit and and your

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Speaker 2: guests have to deal with this for the next six years.

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Speaker 1: It's not but the hotel. I mean, like my the

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Speaker 1: hotel was really cute. I really liked the hotel. I

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Speaker 2: so my recently shady moment is similar to you, not

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Speaker 2: ago she she gave her opinion about dating. Yes, Okay.

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Speaker 2: So she was talking to Alanya Van's aunt who said,

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Speaker 3: You if he owns the bus, if he owns it.

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Speaker 2: If he owns the.

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Speaker 2: And that caused everybody to just lose Ay, damn mine.

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Speaker 2: Now I don't necessarily want to debate that, right, but

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Speaker 2: the question is, Robin, would you date a bus driver? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't have those type of stipulations that she has.

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Speaker 1: I have never known myself to be like, oh, I

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Speaker 2: Well, were strictly because this for me was strictly about money.

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Speaker 2: His drive. I took it like it was the money

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Speaker 2: and let's just deal with people that are good to you,

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Speaker 2: why I think she was trying to say, which I get. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I get that too, And I feel like, unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: I feel like Ebony was sounding elitist a bit.

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Speaker 2: However, I understood what she was saying. She's not at

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Speaker 2: it has to do with children, and like, like I

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah, okay, I can go date a bus

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Speaker 1: you know, as long as they have a job, right

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Speaker 1: For sure, not everyone in a certain time of their

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Speaker 2: To maybe own the bus. Maybe the bus driver.

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Speaker 1: Maybe the man is a bus driver and he's a

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Speaker 2: Yes, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: And it's like I feel like if you're a woman,

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Speaker 2: So if I looked at him like, okay, you're you

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Speaker 1: And then and then it's like okay, well, Ebony, So

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Speaker 2: Things all kinds.

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Speaker 1: It's not fair to just judge a person by, you know,

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Speaker 1: He could have inherited something, right exactly. You don't know

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Speaker 1: and I agree, Like, if, y'all, if this is a

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Speaker 2: Yes, whatever, right, But I don't want to take away

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Speaker 1: I do hate it when people get attacked for speaking

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like, get it, Ebony, Yeah, go for it. Get

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Speaker 2: that bus driver who owns his own business. Now, okay,

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Speaker 2: Carl you don't like that. This is what I think.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna let Carley live over here. This is what

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Speaker 2: I think people, This is what abone should do when

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Speaker 2: which I've never done, by the way, but studies say

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Speaker 2: know anybody who's color blind, because my dad is kind

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine my all on mushrooms.

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Speaker 1: That would be amazing when when you give them to

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Speaker 1: him and bite me over please, thank you?

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Speaker 2: Okay, And mushrooms like like I've seen TV shows, it's

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, Well we can't ask my brother. My brother's

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Speaker 2: Oh, he takes mushrooms all the time. It takes a

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Speaker 1: Now I miss seeing on the internet and I have

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00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:35,880
Speaker 1: to repent, y'all.

432
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,720
Speaker 2: This is probably what you need to do. Okay. Two things.

433
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 2: So you know, Janet Jackson's on tour right now, And

434
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 2: when they said she was going to be going on tour,

435
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,639
Speaker 2: I was like, Dan it stop. You do not need

436
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 2: to be doing this. You just need to just chill

437
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 2: out and bask in your Jackson nests.

438
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 1: Yes, and in like the Saudi billionaire that just paid

439
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 1: you like a half a billion dollars or something.

440
00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 2: Oh he did, I might be making this. I think

441
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 2: you made that up her baby daddy. Yeah, she got it.

442
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 2: She got a lot of money. She got a chunk

443
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 2: of change from him, Okay, which is nothing to him. Yes, yes, exactly.

444
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 2: But I've been seeing clips Janet is doing the damn thing. Yes,

445
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,920
Speaker 2: you don't think so. I saw a couple of clips

446
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 2: on the sea. I'm not gonna be a hater sorry

447
00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 2: right now, because you're about to hate on Beyonce too,

448
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 2: because clips of Beyonce. I sell my ticket, y'all.

449
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So I since seen the content already, first

450
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 1: and foremost.

451
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 2: First and foremost, Janet girl, do your thing. Okay, I

452
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,199
Speaker 2: appreciating what I'm seeing on the Instagram. Now let's get

453
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:33,880
Speaker 2: to the queen bee.

454
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Well, Janet Jackson, I will say, fine, Yes,

455
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:41,200
Speaker 1: she's doing her thing for where she is in life,

456
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,440
Speaker 1: her stage in life. I have been and I say

457
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 1: that because I have been to a Janet Jackson concert

458
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 1: me years and years and years ago, and it's not

459
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,399
Speaker 1: quite the same. But I don't expect it to be

460
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 1: the same. But she, I would say, is moving. She's

461
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 1: doing way more than like Mariah Carey does on stage.

462
00:22:56,040 --> 00:23:00,679
Speaker 1: Mariah does nothing exactly, Okay, but Mariah can sign.

463
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 2: Jannet can't sing like Mariah. True that, so you can't

464
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 2: you can't put them in the same category. That, Yeah,

465
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 2: that's true. But I'm appreciating what Janet is doing.

466
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:12,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, I appreciate that too. I mean, neither

467
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 1: one of us can get up there and do any

468
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 1: of that. So I'm not gonna take that away from her,

469
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: but it's just.

470
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,360
Speaker 2: Don't take it away from the Queen Bee doesn't motivate

471
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 2: me to go. So Queen Bee.

472
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 1: Yes, the Renaissance tour has started, y'all. We have seen

473
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:31,199
Speaker 1: the whole thing on Instagram already, y'all. So you know,

474
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 1: thank you, Beyonce. That show was amazing. Your outfits are amazing.

475
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:40,159
Speaker 1: I mean, the song, the set list, Okay, like a

476
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 1: couple of them I could have skipped, but like you know,

477
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 1: I mean, that was an amazing concert.

478
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 2: I'm so glad I went. Okay, Okay, so a couple

479
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 2: of things. For Robin, who's that Beyonce hater to the

480
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 2: day she dies? So are you selling your tickets? Yeah,

481
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 2: because she's not coming to us until months from Yeah.

482
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 1: So imagine by August fifth, right, I would have seen

483
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 1: every single moment.

484
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 2: That happens now and keeps growing. No. No, if he

485
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:14,920
Speaker 2: keeps going, I'm gonna the.

486
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 1: Mute hashtag Beyonce, hashtag Renaissance tour.

487
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 2: Yes, mutants, yes, the mutant. Well, okay, but I saw

488
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 2: that the people on the people out there are saying that,

489
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 2: you know, she's not dancing enough, and you know, we

490
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,360
Speaker 2: don't understand why she's not moving because.

491
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Speaker 1: She mostly criticizing criticism of people who are watching the

492
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Speaker 1: clips or people who were there, No watching the clips.

493
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: I want to know from the people were there how

494
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: it was. But I don't want to know any of that.

495
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 1: I'm cool with whatever the.

496
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 2: Hell she's doing, right, because you know, I'm gonna get

497
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 2: to my concert. I don't care how many clips I see.

498
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get to my concert as if I'm seeing

499
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 2: it for the first time.

500
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 1: Okay, however, really see, that's hard for me to do.

501
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 1: But you know what she does, she does change her outfits.

502
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 2: A thousand times. No, no, no, no.

503
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 1: I feel like she just her outfits for the whole show,

504
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 1: like halfway through the tour. So I feel like the

505
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: outfits that we're seeing now we might might be like

506
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 1: completely different, but we're still going to see them regardless.

507
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:15,959
Speaker 1: So you've been as many Beyonce concerts as I have, Okay, Like,

508
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 1: what if you do get there and it's underwhelming in

509
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 1: on Beyonce.

510
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 2: Level levels, which okay, so underwhelming on Beyonce level is

511
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: still great. It's I feel like it's still great. Okay.

512
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: And they said she had foot surgery, so apparently she's

513
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 2: not doing her eight counts. She's just doing She's not

514
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 2: doing her sixteen counts, she's doing an eight count.

515
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 1: Oh I see, Yes, okay, you know what honestly, and

516
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 1: let me, I'm okay, I'm just being like a funny

517
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: hater because I'm not really hating, but I am like seriously,

518
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,120
Speaker 1: like I think I need to mute the whole. Yeah,

519
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,160
Speaker 1: I mean, it's need the hashtacks because like I don't

520
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: want to see.

521
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 2: All that's yeah, and it's unfair for people that are

522
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 2: gonna be going yeah, yeah.

523
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 1: The whole it's you know, Yes, Beyonce is amazing. Her

524
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 1: dancing amazing, her singing is amazing. The songs are great.

525
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: It's just the whole production itself, like the set, the everything,

526
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 1: you know, all the screens and the digital stuff. You know,

527
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: like that stuff also contributes to the experience, and so

528
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: I think that's something that you can really only feel

529
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: and appreciate.

530
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 2: When you're in the building.

531
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm gonna keep my ticket show thank God. Still

532
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: might sell two of them. So if somebody needs one

533
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: hundred level tickets DM Robin on August fifth, d x Field,

534
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 1: let me know.

535
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 2: Yes, d M Robin. Okay, so have you heard about Oh,

536
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 2: before we get into this, I do want to say that,

537
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 2: you know, we got to give some love to the

538
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Atlanta Ladys. They did premiere there on

539
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 2: Bravos Sunday nights, eight o'clock The Peach. I did see

540
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 2: their first episode, their season premiere, and it was good. Yeah, yeah,

541
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 2: I was into it. That's great. I haven't watched it yet.

542
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 1: I will I will watch it at some point, yes,

543
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,239
Speaker 1: but it's it's great to have them back on on

544
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 1: I know television. I heard, you know, people enjoyed it,

545
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: so I really hope that the season is amazing for them.

546
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 2: And I feel like, you know, if we're not on,

547
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 2: then Atlanta needs to be on. Really just go Yeah,

548
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 2: if there's fifty two weeks in the year, they need

549
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,959
Speaker 2: to be on twenty thirty six, No, twenty what fifty two?

550
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, fifty two four? No? Whoa two? Oh no,

551
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 2: you're wrong to me, fifty two.

552
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: That would be twenty six, twenty I said thirty six.

553
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, and you try to say I can't. Well,

554
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 2: you said twenty four. That's twenty four is closer than

555
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 2: thirty two.

556
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: I said thirty six, Okay, okay, yeah, I mean I

557
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: said twenty I meant to say twenty six.

558
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 2: Okay, okay. Well, anyway, I think they should be on

559
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 2: for twenty whatever weeks in twenty six, we should be

560
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 2: on for twenty six. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

561
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: I feel like, well, we had twenty episodes including the reunion.

562
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we almost made us.

563
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 1: And then there's like a six week period and then

564
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: I feel like they usually have at least that so

565
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: hm hmm.

566
00:27:55,760 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 2: So there's a whole possible twelve weeks. Yeah that people

567
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: are bored to tiars because it's not us or Atlanta. Yeah,

568
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 2: board to tears. Okay. So California has decided they have

569
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 2: a reparations panel and they've approved payments up to one

570
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 2: point two million dollars for black residents plus an apology.

571
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 2: So they get an I'm sorry and money. Yes, but

572
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 2: the money is like broken down, so it goes a

573
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:35,679
Speaker 2: little something like this. Okay, Okay, So black residents that

574
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 2: were affected by banks redlining them, they get like three

575
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 2: thousand some dollars, okay, and then hold on, if it's

576
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 2: a black resident who were victims of over policing, policing,

577
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 2: i'm sorry, over policing, and mass incarceration, they get two

578
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 2: thousand dollars for each year that they lived in California

579
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 2: between nineteen seventy and twenty twenty.

580
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: Why wow, Okay, wait, so these reparations are so nineteen seventy,

581
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: So the reparations are not related to I guess because

582
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: in California they didn't really have like slavery in California

583
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: because because the boats couldn't get all the way over there, right,

584
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: So I guess that land wasn't even like I don't know,

585
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 1: it wasn't even occupied or well, probably the Native Americans.

586
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 2: Were rebably there. Right, So but if that's to these

587
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: reparation the Native Americans, yes, well they do. Okay, So

588
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 2: long story short, you can some people are getting up

589
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 2: to one point two million dollars.

590
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: That's you're gonna have to have a lot of boxes checked.

591
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 2: Well to get one to one.

592
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: You're talking about three thousand for this, two thousand for that,

593
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: damn you gonna have.

594
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 2: You have to have.

595
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: Had the hardest life ever to get to the one

596
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: million dollars.

597
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 2: I'm just excited that it's happening. Something's happening.

598
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: Well, that's good, right Exactly, I'm trying to figure out

599
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 1: my residence in California, Like how do we get that changed?

600
00:29:58,960 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 2: Right?

601
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: And I'm sure there's residency criteria as well.

602
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 2: What does that mean?

603
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: Like you have to have been a California resident for

604
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 1: since a certain year and for a certain amount of time,

605
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: Like you can't just have lived in California for the

606
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: last two years, or you can't have grown up in

607
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: Ioware your whole life and decide you want to be

608
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: an actress and moved to California.

609
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 2: Right, true, Okay, so we have to figure all that

610
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 2: thing out, right, But I'm I'm gonna get up in

611
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 2: this this this payment situation. I'm trying to figure it out. Okay,

612
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 2: I'm just here to let y'all know, and how do

613
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 2: we do this? But how do we get this like

614
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 2: in Maryland? How do we get this in other states? Right? Yeah?

615
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,959
Speaker 1: Maybe because Maryland, Yes, y'all had slaves. Y'all dropped them

616
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 1: off right here, and governor let me hit out, Hey,

617
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: we need our reparations, y'all, we need something. But you

618
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: know what, I appreciate that, of course. I just hope

619
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 1: that they maybe have some sort of programs that maybe

620
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 1: help people put their reparations to good use.

621
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying?

622
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 1: Because the whole thing is like the you know, African

623
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: Americans were discriminated against and prevented from creating generavenues for

624
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: generational wealth. Yes, so instead of just handing people a

625
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: bunch of money and they just you know, spend it.

626
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 2: I'm really I.

627
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: Really hope there's a way for people to like put

628
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: their money to great use and to build something.

629
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 2: Okay, I get that, but like, after all of this time,

630
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 2: if y'all treat me back, y'all not gonna tell me

631
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: how to spend my money Okay, if I want to

632
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 2: spend it frivoriously. Fivoriously is that a word? Yeah, whatever,

633
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do that. You can't tell me how to

634
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 2: spend money. I don't want to.

635
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 1: They don't have to tell them how, but they can say,

636
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: you know, okay, maybe maybe they can work closely with

637
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: the Small Business Administration or something and say, okay, we're

638
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: helping to establish businesses and here are programs and grants,

639
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: you know, like those are the types of things that

640
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: would be extremely helpful because so that's been the effect

641
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: of of you know, all of discrimination and African Americans

642
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 1: being pretty much treated as a second class citizen.

643
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, we have had no way to build

644
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 2: generational wealth. Right. First of all, we couldn't buy houses

645
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 2: until whenever, I don't know what the year is, and

646
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 2: that's really important. Like we got to be able to

647
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 2: own property, right, Yes, right, we gotta pass stuff down.

648
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 2: But let's let's give California some CODs. But yes, California,

649
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 2: that's awesome, get into it. Yeah with a little fine.

650
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 2: Governor Newsome was his name. Yes he is a cutie. Yes,

651
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 2: let's let that wife slip up. I'm coming okay, So

652
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 2: now speaking of not gonna have any more money. Okay,

653
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 2: So Donald Trump was found guilty. Yes, yes, yes, yes,

654
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: because you know what this is. It's coming like one

655
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 2: time you've you're found guilty.

656
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 1: All the other cases that just gonna be like guilty, guilty, guilty.

657
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: So I was shocked that yes, because I mean it

658
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: is something that's like, how do you well, he wasn't

659
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: guilty of actual rape. He would guilty of of like

660
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: a sexual assault or something, grab the pussy.

661
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 2: Listen, he said, did you see the deposition? This man

662
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, all the stars can do it. No,

663
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 2: he said what he said. So in the deposition, the

664
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 2: lady says to him, so you said that because you're

665
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 2: a star, you can just lean into a woman and

666
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: grab them by the pussy. And he says, yeah, all

667
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 2: the stars do it. They've been doing it since the

668
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 2: beginning of time. Oh my god, what, Oh my god.

669
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: So that's that's crazy. That's what got the guilty. Yes,

670
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: that's what.

671
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're guilty, sir, and you owe her five million dollars.

672
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you say it again. This has become very famous.

673
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 4: In this video. I just started kissing them. It's like

674
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 4: a magnet, just kiss I don't even wait. And when

675
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 4: you're a star, they let you do it. You can

676
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 4: do anything, grab them by the you can do anything.

677
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 4: That's what you said.

678
00:33:58,600 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 2: Well, historically that's true.

679
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: Ours, it's true.

680
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 4: What starts they're thinking, grab women by the Well, that's

681
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 4: what that's If you look over the last million years,

682
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 4: I guess that's been largely true, not always, but largely true.

683
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 1: Unfortunately or fortunate.

684
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 4: And you consider yourself to be a star.

685
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 1: I think you can say that.

686
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you think he's got five million dollars cash?

687
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 1: Yes, because shoot, when he was all that money he

688
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: raised from from when he was arrested. You know, they

689
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: raised so much money and like such a short perioce.

690
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 1: I know, I know he's gonna use that money. He's

691
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: gonna use So this.

692
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 2: Is his slush fund. Yes, okay, So there's gonna be

693
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:43,919
Speaker 2: more cases coming up. This is civil so he don't know,

694
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 2: no jail time, right, But yes, sir, they'll be grabbing

695
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 2: people by the pussy, right. I want to get to

696
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 2: know you, Robin, Okay, So before we get into that, yes,

697
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: we just have to say.

698
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we got to talk about you. Yes, yes, okay,

699
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: what do you have to say? You know you have

700
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 1: a lot to say.

701
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 2: Okay, So guys, I was minding my business, sitting on

702
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 2: my couch as I love to do in my house,

703
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 2: and I was scrolling through the Instagram. And you know,

704
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 2: if I go to Instagram Robin, anytime Robin posts something,

705
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:25,240
Speaker 2: she pops up first, right, That's just how the matrix works. Okay.

706
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 2: So I was scrolling through and I see Robin lost.

707
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 2: I was lost. I wanted to know where I was.

708
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: Robin was walking around aimlessly, lost on the beach and

709
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: on a boardwalk, and I.

710
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,760
Speaker 2: Was like, what is happening to my friend? Who is kidnapped?

711
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 2: My friend? So I said to myself, let me scroll

712
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 2: down and read what the hell she talking about? And

713
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 2: so she said, all of a sudden, I saw something

714
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,399
Speaker 2: about she found peace. And then I scrolled a little

715
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 2: bit more and she said, California Psychics. The California psychics gave.

716
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: You peace as you were aimlessly walking on a boardwalk.

717
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 2: Yes, that hell are you talking about. I was so perplexed,

718
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,919
Speaker 2: and Borderline was like, I don't know this person. Who

719
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:09,760
Speaker 2: is this person?

720
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: She is looking over the boardwalk into the water, she

721
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: is walking on the sands.

722
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 2: It's just I'm confused. Okay, please explain. Yes, I will explain.

723
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 1: So you are not the only person that got a

724
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: kick out of that, Okay, but I will explain. So, Yes,

725
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 1: I was not aimlessly lost walking on the beach.

726
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:34,840
Speaker 2: Okay.

727
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: I was enjoying my vacation. Okay, Okay in the Bahamas,

728
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 1: all right, I'm taking in all the beautiful nature, the

729
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: beauty of the world, right and just at peace because

730
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: I yes, talked to two psychics, Okay, recently. I actually

731
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: talked to three. But I talked to two California psychics recently.

732
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: And you know, it's funny. I feel like people if

733
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: you've never experienced the psychic and and you know, if

734
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: you watched The Real Households of Potomac for a long time,

735
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 1: what season was it?

736
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 2: Season three?

737
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: I think you saw Wan and I talk to a

738
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 1: psychic medium. Yes, And when I tell you, that man

739
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,800
Speaker 1: was the most that was the That was one of

740
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: the most amazing experiences I've had on the show and

741
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: just in life. Just talking to that man was so

742
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: comforting and so enlightening.

743
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:25,280
Speaker 2: Like so, I'm.

744
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: Open to people who have that type of skill.

745
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 2: I'm talent. Okay, I like that, and me too. I

746
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 2: appreciate it, and I don't look at them.

747
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 1: You know, some people I think think it has it's

748
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:40,280
Speaker 1: like an anti Christ type of situation, which I actually

749
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: believe that they kind of can communicate like God communicates

750
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 1: through them, you know what I'm saying. So I don't

751
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: look at talking to a psychic as not Also, you know,

752
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 1: believe in my faith in God. Right, So anyway, So yes,

753
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: I talked to these psychics. They were very comforting. I

754
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: asked them specific questions. They answered me and gave me

755
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 1: hope and they gave me comfort.

756
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 2: And did they tell you how to get off the boardwalk? No?

757
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 2: I didn't need to. I didn't need I didn't need that. Listen,

758
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 2: I didn't need that. Okay, but have you read some

759
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 2: of your comments? Because I saw one and it said,

760
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 2: what is happening? I question Mark? I know it's so funny.

761
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I know like talking to psychics is

762
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: controversy or whatever.

763
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 2: But okay, let's talk about because obviously. Then I scroll

764
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 2: down and it said if you if you want to

765
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: use the psychics, use Robin's name and you get money off.

766
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:42,879
Speaker 2: So I got okay, I got that. Yeah, yeah, could

767
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 2: we could we have done the promotional post in a

768
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 2: different way to do what not walking aimlessly? As if

769
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 2: you are aimlessly? Do you take walks on the beach? Yes?

770
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 2: Do you stand on a on a on a boardwalk?

771
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 2: You staying on a yes? Okay, fine, Robin?

772
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: Do you stand on the borwalk by the ocean and

773
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 1: just sit there and look look at the look at

774
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: the people? Listen, look at this, look at the cat

775
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 1: ski Does everybody go to California's like, just go to

776
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: put it?

777
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 2: Put in at what is it? What is your code?

778
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,919
Speaker 1: Robin twelve? Robin twelve twelve dollars? Off what you said, Curly?

779
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 1: Carly got it. Carly got it, But everybody, the thousand

780
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: people in the comments, they didn't get it. They got

781
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: a kick out of it. It's fine, you know what,

782
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: I don't care. This is the thing about me that

783
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: like people should realize by now, I don't care.

784
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 2: Like I really don't. I gotta I got a key, key,

785
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 2: I take you a key.

786
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 1: You know.

787
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 2: It's funny.

788
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: So one called me I was out because I took

789
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 1: the kids to like a basketball practice, and he called

790
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: me dying laughing, yes, like yeah, I'm cracking up.

791
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 2: I'm cracking up. Your post.

792
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 1: I'm cracking up at these at your at these comments.

793
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 1: He's like, and he was like, I'm about to comment.

794
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: I said, no, do not comment.

795
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,359
Speaker 2: No he should, No, that would have been that got

796
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 2: a lot of traffic. No what his comment gonna be.

797
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 1: He would have he was gonna comment if he if

798
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: he had commented, do you know how many times that

799
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 1: ship would have been reposted?

800
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,280
Speaker 2: That had been great California side Robin twelve.

801
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 3: I did.

802
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 2: I did that amazing. Actually, I did not want that.

803
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 2: I did not want that.

804
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: I did not want to open my phone and then

805
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 1: just see my ship with once comment reposted fifty times.

806
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 2: Okay, but what but depends on what his comment was

807
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 2: going to be.

808
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 1: So he was gonna have some laughing emojis and I

809
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: was like, no, you have to.

810
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, fine, yes I don't do that.

811
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: Yes, but anyway, I love talking to intuitive people me too.

812
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 1: They are very Their spirits are so comforting, like I

813
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: can't even explain it, it's so crazy. And then I'm

814
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: telling y'all, I will tell you what they said when

815
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: it comes true.

816
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 2: Right, But did you ask him about me at all? Okay? Fine?

817
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 2: So I need to I need to do I have

818
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 2: to put in Robin twelve to get mine done. How

819
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 2: much you said's a minute? Twelve dollars a minute.

820
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 1: Well, there's different psychics you can choose from, so certain

821
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: some of them are five dollars a minute, some of

822
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: them are twelve dollars a minute. So you just got

823
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 1: to pick what psychic you want. Who's bootleg? Does anyone

824
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: boot leg? Everybody's good? Well, I mean they have like

825
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: they have ratings how they do Yeah, and then you

826
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: can see like, yeah, they're rated. You can see the

827
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,919
Speaker 1: number of readings that they've done. So some have done

828
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: thousands of readings, you know, on this platform, and some

829
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,280
Speaker 1: have only done you know, a few hundred or whatever.

830
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 1: And then there's some that like do tarot cards, and

831
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 1: some that are mediums and talk to you know, the dead,

832
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,280
Speaker 1: and there's some that are just impaths.

833
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 2: You know. It's just like different.

834
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: Okay, It's really like, it's so funny why I thought

835
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 1: I was crazy Because I would get off the phone

836
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: with the psychic and I would like run to where

837
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 1: he was and he was like, I talked to the

838
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 1: psychic and this is what they said, and it was well,

839
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: I talked to on California psychics. I talked to two

840
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 1: different ones. Okay, so I hang up the phone with one.

841
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I talked to a psychic. Yeah, and

842
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: this is what she said and bo because I asked

843
00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,919
Speaker 1: about him and his job and his all that in

844
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: our lives and whatever, and he was like okay. So

845
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: then I would hang up again, I would talk to

846
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: another one. I hang up, and I talked to another

847
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 1: psychic and they said the same thing.

848
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 2: Okay, is any of it panning out? We gotta give

849
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 2: it time.

850
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're right, We're not there yet yet. We gave

851
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 1: us some time and everything. And then I talked to

852
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: Ashley's friend Eve. She did my child's heart reading, and.

853
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 2: Eve said the same stuff. Listen, this is don't knock it, y'all,

854
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,399
Speaker 2: it's fun. And I actually was like, this is fun. Okay,

855
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: So we'll have one on the show. How about we

856
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: we do a podcast with one of them and the

857
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 2: next in coming. Maybe maybe Carly can set that up

858
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 2: since she's yeah, okay, Carly, y'all. Carly, she's gonna get

859
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 2: on that.

860
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Speaker 1: And we probably could because like when you talk to

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00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: them and then and so like if I asked something,

862
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: say about one and his job, like he didn't have

863
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,360
Speaker 1: to be there or on the phone. They're like, okay,

864
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 1: what's his full name? What is his birthday? Like that's

865
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 1: what all they need and then you ask him like

866
00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:00,080
Speaker 1: a specific question. So I'm thinking even if there's a

867
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: listener that has something that they want us to ask, Okay, okay,

868
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: we could do that for them.

869
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,360
Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, I got some questions from anyway.

870
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: Yes, well, I am glad that I was able to

871
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: entertain you and give you a key. Key If y'all

872
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: want to go to my Instagram page and check it out,

873
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:17,479
Speaker 1: it's going to still be there.

874
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 2: Okay. Just look for a robin walking on the beach.

875
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 2: You see me walking on the beach and my Rasachi

876
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 2: bathe and suit. Yes Masachi okay, yes, Masaji Maasaki. Okay.

877
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 2: So we have one reasonably shady before we get out

878
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:33,359
Speaker 2: of here. Is it reasonable or is it shady? This

879
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:38,840
Speaker 2: is well, this is actually advice needed. Hey, Rabina and Jizzy,

880
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 2: who was Shamion? Oh do we know sha Marian? Yes?

881
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 2: We know. That's all things to see. Oh we love her. Okay,

882
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 2: So hey Rabina and Jizzy, it's your girl. Me me

883
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 2: here and I need some advice to. So, I have

884
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 2: a friend that I've been friends with since elementary school

885
00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 2: and we have been stuck like glue since. So now

886
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 2: that we have graduated high school and we went our

887
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 2: separate ways, but we still manage to spend time with

888
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 2: each other. This is where I need some advice. So

889
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 2: I'm always showing up to everything she has, like her

890
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 2: baby shower, her birthday, her granddaddy's funeral, and basically everything

891
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 2: she invites me to. But she never shows up to

892
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 2: anything I have, Like when my birthday came around, she

893
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 2: was a no show. When we plan trips it's the

894
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 2: day before she always seems to cancel, or even when

895
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 2: I plan us fun think fun outings, she never shows up.

896
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 2: She complains her money is low, so I tell her

897
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 2: just come and enjoy and I'll pick up the bill.

898
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,439
Speaker 2: But she's still a no show. So should I feel

899
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 2: away and cut her off? Or should I tell her

900
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 2: how I feel and move on? Because maybe I'm overreacting. Ooh, Okay,

901
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 2: this is actual. This happens a lot. It does happen

902
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah, I can vouch for that. Maybe I

903
00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 2: was thinking about you as I was reading it, Robin. No,

904
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 2: I'm not that bad I'm not yet. Are you overreacting? No?

905
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:09,240
Speaker 1: Like this definitely, you definitely have the right to feel

906
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: a certain type of way about this, for sure, Right,

907
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:15,240
Speaker 1: But but I say, okay, a lot of times, every

908
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: friend can't be everything to you, right, Okay, So you

909
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 1: know there are some friends that maybe I guess you

910
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: have to wonder like what is your friendship good for

911
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: with with her? Like, what are you getting out of

912
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 1: the friendship? So if it's not her coming up, not

913
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 1: showing up for you in the physical, yeah, do they

914
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: have good conversations on the phone, does she offer good advice?

915
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: Is she supportive? Does she you know, is that a

916
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: shoulder you can cry on or whatever? So you gotta

917
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 1: kind of wonder, ask like what are you getting out

918
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 1: of this friendship?

919
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 2: Robbie, you know you always see all sides. I tried.

920
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 2: I was like, throw that bitch in a transcript, right, Okay,

921
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 2: that bitch got to go.

922
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 1: Okay, I try to, But but I'm saying, like, Mimi,

923
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: you need to ask, like what is the friendship where?

924
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 2: What are you getting out of the friendship?

925
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: So if she's physically not showing up for you, like

926
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 1: hopefully you're getting something out of the friendship. Yes, Now

927
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: I do think she should say something.

928
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,240
Speaker 2: Though there's a conversation.

929
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, she should say something. The thing about the money.

930
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: Maybe she feels guilt, or not guilt, but shame and

931
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,359
Speaker 1: embarrassment right that she doesn't have the money. And even

932
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: though her friends say, oh no girl, we got you, like,

933
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to put her friends in that position

934
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:31,800
Speaker 1: because it's embarrassing for her.

935
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 2: So which I actually wish I had friends like that,

936
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 2: because they don't mind. They don't mind when I pick

937
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 2: up the check. They just like, thanks girl. Right, I'm like,

938
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 2: ain't nobody embarrassed here? I'm paid for all of y'all. No,

939
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 2: I'm kidding.

940
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 1: So so I'm gonna let you talk and finish this.

941
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: So maybe also, Mimi, you can test. You can put

942
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: out a little test and think of something that you

943
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: all can do that.

944
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 2: Does not require money.

945
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 1: Oh I like that, okay, and then see how she

946
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 1: responds or if she shows up I think that that's

947
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 1: well No.

948
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: I say, yes, no, she's not overreacting. This is a

949
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 2: real feeling. I've been through this, not with Robin, but

950
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 2: with another girlfriend of mine that over the years I

951
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 2: had to realize either she doesn't feel comfortable hanging out

952
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 2: like some people want feel comfortable like hanging out whatever

953
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:22,720
Speaker 2: that means.

954
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: Right, So if she had something, you would go to

955
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: something she had. Yeah, if you had something, she wouldn't

956
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:31,479
Speaker 1: feel comfortable maybe being incorporated into like your other friends

957
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 1: and stuff.

958
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 2: Right, So maybe it was that maybe she didn't feel

959
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 2: comfortable with my other friends. I don't know, but I

960
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 2: did state like, I don't get it, I don't understand

961
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 2: why you don't hang out. Doesn't make any sense to me,

962
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 2: and then I left it alone. But you're absolutely correct.

963
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 2: What she does bring to me is the conversations that

964
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 2: we have. And you know, she's always like a friend

965
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,839
Speaker 2: of mine that's very grounded, and you know, I'm out

966
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 2: here sometimes making some bad decisions and she's like, no,

967
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 2: don't do that because blah blah blah. So that's what

968
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 2: she brings to my life currently. But as for us

969
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 2: hanging out, Yeah, and then you get to a place

970
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 2: where it's like these people that don't hang out no more,

971
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:09,399
Speaker 2: they don't know how to hang out, So you don't

972
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 2: even want to hang out with that because they don't

973
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 2: even know what they're doing, right, they don't even know

974
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 2: what's cool and what's not cool? Right, exactly, you don't

975
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 2: be responsible for them, No, leave them at home. Okay,

976
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 2: they take one drink and a on the floor. Oh

977
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:20,840
Speaker 2: wait a minute. And then she did hang out with

978
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 2: oh shit in New York. Oh my god, how can

979
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 2: I forget this? And she did. She had like one drinking,

980
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 2: she was like throwing up. Oh no, she fell asleep

981
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 2: in the club or so. It was something crazy, And

982
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 2: I was like, this is why you need to stay home, right, Yes,

983
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: you're not even hang out. You're not even equipped to

984
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 2: hang out anymore.

985
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: The streets taped for you, right, Yeah, you don't want

986
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: that responsibility, like she's holding you back when you go out.

987
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, no, you don't need that.

988
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, so governed as you get older, you got

989
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,320
Speaker 1: to put your friends in boxes, so to speak. Yeah,

990
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:52,760
Speaker 1: and govern govern yourself accordingly with your friends.

991
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 2: And that is our episode. Guys, we love y'all so much.

992
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:57,839
Speaker 2: Don't ever forget to live your life any reasonable It's

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Speaker 2: shape d or both. Bye. Reasonably Shady is a production

994
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Speaker 2: of the Black Effect podcast Network.

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996
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997
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,040
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