1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all all 3 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: at all. 4 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 3: Given them. 5 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 4: A million busy yeah listening to to I don't join Yeah, Joy, 6 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 4: you don't do that, you love. 7 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 5: You gotta turn. 8 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:43,759 Speaker 6: I got to turn the mouth. The turn you probably 9 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 6: got to turn mouth. 10 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 4: Turn out, turn the mon aga. Look, come. 11 00:01:58,440 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: Come on, you'll think that. 12 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 2: Uh huh, I sure will come on and everybody you 13 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 2: are listening to the voice, come on now, digny one. 14 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: And only Steve Harvey got a radio shows, thank God 15 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: for it all the time. Too. Well, here we go today. 16 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: I want to share something with you that will help 17 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: you because it's helped me. 18 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 7: You know. 19 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 8: I was. 20 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 2: Telling the story once that in this magazine called Rob Report, 21 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 2: that there was a statue I used to see for years. 22 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: I started buying Rob Report magazines years ago. 23 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,679 Speaker 2: So I just wanted to see what affluent people did, 24 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,399 Speaker 2: you know, just wanted to see what people with means did, 25 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 2: what type of investments they did, what they bought, you know, 26 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 2: where they traveled to the Rob Report. It's just like 27 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 2: a it's like a big boy toy magazine. You can 28 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 2: see what cars is out, you know. I didn't have 29 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 2: money for none of it. I was dreaming, though, you know, 30 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 2: I just wanted to see. And there's a statue inside 31 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 2: this magazine of this man who was coming out of 32 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 2: this bronze rock. And he was completely bronzed, and he 33 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 2: was muscular, and you know, he didn't look nothing like me, 34 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 2: but he was a man coming up out of a rock. 35 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 2: And he had a huge hammer and a chisel in 36 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 2: his hand. And as his body from the waist up 37 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 2: was coming out of this huge piece of stone, you 38 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 2: could see where it was him who had been chiseling 39 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 2: informing himself. 40 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: So the name of the statue was self made man. 41 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: And for years man, I said, Man, I'm gonna get 42 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 2: a big house one day, and I'm gonna put that 43 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 2: statue in the backyard in the corner. That's gonna be 44 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 2: my little spot where I go chill, because I'm a 45 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 2: self made man. Well, after years of working at becoming 46 00:03:56,200 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 2: somebody and having reached a degree of success, I would 47 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 2: have nothing to do with that statue. There's nothing about 48 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 2: that statue that appeals to me anymore, because on my 49 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 2: journey and in my quest to become what I thought 50 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 2: would be this self made man, where I could put 51 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 2: this statue and had this statue in the corner be 52 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: kind of cold symbolizing it. 53 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: I had made it. I realized on my journey there's 54 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: no such thing as a self made man. That we 55 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 1: all need help, and that God places people in our 56 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 1: paths along the way that benefit us oftentimes. And it's 57 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: the most unlikely person often times, and it's the most 58 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: unlikely way that He presents these people in front of you. 59 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 1: It's crazy how he does it. 60 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 5: Man. 61 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 2: And so this is a statue now that I look 62 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 2: at and I go, I see what the creator was saying. 63 00:04:55,720 --> 00:05:01,280 Speaker 2: And that's cool, but not for me, because I needed help. 64 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: And I've learned a lot of things like this along 65 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: the way. And the part I wanted to share with 66 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 2: you all about this is you've got to develop. You've 67 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 2: got to develop a sense of purpose. You have to 68 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 2: develop a sense of purpose. That's different. See, your purpose 69 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 2: is created for you by God because when He created 70 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 2: you as an individual. From whatever to parents you may have, 71 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 2: that's not important here. When he created you, he had 72 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 2: something in mind for you, and it was a purpose. 73 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 2: God has not created a single soul to become a criminal. 74 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 2: God has never created a single soul to be a 75 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 2: drug dealer. This came about through some decisions we made 76 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 2: as sinners, and we stayed in that place. But see 77 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 2: what he created us. He has a wonderful idea for us. 78 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 2: But God gives us human beings this thing called choice, 79 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 2: and we have the power to decide. So you could 80 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 2: decide if you're gonna adhere to the purpose that God 81 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: created you and made you for, or you can go 82 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: ahead and make some choices on your own. So like, 83 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 2: if God wanted to give you a life and give 84 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 2: it to come to you and give you life more abundantly, 85 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 2: and that's his promise if you come to him, if 86 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: you choose him, then cool. 87 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: But if you say, well this ain't moving along fast. 88 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 2: Enough, I'm gonna get my own life of abundance, I'm 89 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 2: gonna start slinging. Well, guess what now, Tada, You made 90 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 2: a decision and seek God's decisions and choices. The one 91 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 2: thing I learned about them, God's decisions, choices, his voice, 92 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 2: It has no sin in it. And it amazing how 93 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 2: many people it came up to you and said, the 94 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 2: Lord wanted me to do this to you, and I'm 95 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 2: doing it. That God is punishing you, and I'm doing 96 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: this to you because God gonna see that you get 97 00:06:59,120 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 2: your day. 98 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 1: Who who is this person? 99 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 2: Who is this person that God all of a sudden 100 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 2: gave this authority and power to God didn't get at 101 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 2: the nobody, man, nobody, This person only had the right 102 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 2: to hold you to your past, the right to make 103 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: you pay. 104 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: So who makes them pay when they make mistakes? Because 105 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 1: they all make them. 106 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 2: So when I say you have to have a sense 107 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 2: of you have to develop a strong sense of purpose. 108 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 2: That means you have to strongly get in touch with 109 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 2: your creator to find out what the purpose you were 110 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 2: created for. See, it's two things that I had to 111 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 2: learn along the way. My career was what I was 112 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 2: paid for. My calling is what I was made for. See, 113 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 2: it's two different things, folks. It took me a long 114 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 2: time to learn it. Some people think that they calling 115 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 2: is to be a performer. Well, that's what you paid for, 116 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 2: and a big part of your life is your performance. 117 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 2: It's tied directly to your gift. But what you made 118 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:04,559 Speaker 2: for though, what you made for is to bring about 119 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 2: some significant change in another human beings lives because we 120 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 2: are all linked together in this chain. 121 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: That's what you are here for. Everybody has a purpose to. 122 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: Do something wonderful, meaningful, or impactful for another person. You 123 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 2: think the God that invented the airplane was merely inventing 124 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 2: the airplane so he could fly. Now, his purpose was 125 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 2: to become an inventor, to come up with this invention 126 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 2: so he could fly and we all fly. 127 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: See. 128 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 2: Sometimes God will make you successful so you can become successful, 129 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 2: so you can turn around to teach other people how 130 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 2: to become successful. God save people, so you can turn 131 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,839 Speaker 2: around it tell other people how wonderful it is to 132 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 2: be saved. 133 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: You see how this thing work. That's what we have 134 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: to do as people. And it's nothing that we have 135 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: to go and discover. We have to go and develop it. 136 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 2: But if you haven't discovered your purpose, it's simply because 137 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 2: here's it. If you haven't discovered your purpose, it's simply 138 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 2: because you have not contacted the creator and maker of 139 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 2: your soul to ask and find out why you were created. 140 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 1: It's as simple as that. 141 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 2: If you buy a toyota, there's an owner's manual on 142 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 2: the inside that will tell you everything you know how 143 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: to best operate your toyota, how to make it work, 144 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 2: what to do they got a trouble shooting section. Your 145 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 2: faith is the same thing as an owner's manual in 146 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 2: your car. Open up that book, man, find out how 147 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 2: to jumpstart your life, how to troubleshoot it and get 148 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 2: on with your life, and find out your purpose and 149 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 2: develop a strong sense of purpose. 150 00:09:56,240 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: All right, Okay here listening to the seve ladies and gentlemen. 151 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 1: Here we go again. 152 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 2: Another gift, another blessing, another opportunity. That's the only way 153 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 2: to look at it. You can't look at this gift 154 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 2: of waking up any other way except the blessing that 155 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 2: it is. You've got to recognize it, acknowledge it, and 156 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 2: be grateful for it. Because I'll tell you what, Let 157 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 2: it not pop off one morning, Miss the band Eternity, 158 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 2: don't answer the alarm. I have yet to meet the 159 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:37,439 Speaker 2: person that can explain that feeling. Sounds pretty permanent to me. 160 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna go on to keep being grateful for 161 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 2: this gift for myself. I thank you, Lord, appreciate it. 162 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: Steve Harvey. More on the show Live and Well, Shirley 163 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 2: Strawberry calling for real Mississippi, Monica Junior and the Legend 164 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 2: that is Nephew Tommy, ladies and gentlemen, Junior, what's happening today? 165 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: Don't? 166 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know. 167 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 3: I'm hungry, Okay, I'm just not eating at home right now. 168 00:10:59,440 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm home. 169 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 9: What let me tell you, because she started doing this 170 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 9: plant based, we gotta be plant based now. 171 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 3: And let me tell you something. 172 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 9: After forty you don't want to spring this on nobody 173 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 9: after forty I'll tell you right now. 174 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:11,959 Speaker 3: We had them tacos and the beings. 175 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: I can keep that. My body ain't built for that. 176 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 3: I need meat, I need I need. I need a chicken. 177 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 5: I need a cow. 178 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 1: You had tacos and beans, yeah, the tacos. 179 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 9: Yeah, and the beans to go on your bean plant 180 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 9: based everything. No, no, but she tried to set it 181 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 9: off like it was good. 182 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 1: I ain't. 183 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 9: I ain't eat all them tacos. Them tacos still downstairs 184 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 9: on that table. I ain't tell you I'm not eating them. 185 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 9: I'm sorry. I want meat. I want I won't. I 186 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 9: want beef tacos, That's what I want. I want beans 187 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 9: with chili meat in. 188 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 1: I want. 189 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 10: I want all of that. 190 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 3: I don't want this plant based Somewhere. 191 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 1: When she go to work, why don't you leave and 192 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 1: go get you something, and she gonna. 193 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 3: Come back in here and find out I've been eating meat. 194 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 6: Oh you. 195 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 9: Know, well, you can't hire the McDonald's bad that bag is. 196 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 9: You can see that bag in that trade hair. She 197 00:11:58,520 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 9: can see that. 198 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: Because right now you got a combination that I can't 199 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 1: fix for you. 200 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 3: Okay, you hungry? 201 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 2: So what you hungry and scared? Now now I can't 202 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: fix that combination. You can't be hungry and scared here 203 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 2: like now, Tommy then gave you the fix she go 204 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 2: to work, Go out and get yourself some meat. 205 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: You scared? 206 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 7: Do that? 207 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: Well, now your answer is hungry and scared. I can't 208 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: fix that. 209 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 2: Hunger usually drives a man into areas of greatness he 210 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 2: didn't know about. 211 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: I'll give you an example. 212 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 2: Sorry to turn this into a motivational moment, but hunger 213 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 2: drives a man into moments he didn't know he had, 214 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 2: Like if you really hungry for food, you might steal some. 215 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 2: You might not have been a theft before, but if 216 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 2: you really get hungry, you might go steal something. 217 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: Or if you need some more money. 218 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 2: If you get hungry for money, you might mess around, 219 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 2: turn yourself into something that makes more money. 220 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 1: If you get tired and losing, and you'll get hungry 221 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 1: for a win. 222 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,439 Speaker 2: You might train longer so you can quench the thirst 223 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 2: and the hunger and become greatness. 224 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 1: Now that's usually what hunger do. But you can't be 225 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: hungry and scared. It's what I'm all right. 226 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 10: Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour. 227 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: We will hear I can't drive you to fear a frame. 228 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 10: Right after this, you're listening morning show. 229 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:51,719 Speaker 2: At the hundred Getaway Sales event. Get deals so right, 230 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 2: it almost feels well. Now it's the best time to 231 00:13:55,520 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 2: get the Hyundai car or suv you've always wanted. 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What do you have on the menu for 241 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:29,119 Speaker 10: us today? 242 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: Me and my Jesus, Let's go catch dog. 243 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 11: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach your sister. How you doing, 244 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 11: I'm giving you a call on behalf of Baptist Church. 245 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 11: You are a member there? 246 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 1: Am I right? 247 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 7: Yes? 248 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 12: I am? 249 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: Okay, listen, I'm calling you. 250 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 11: They some of the members have gotten together and had 251 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 11: a meeting and wanted me to give you a call. 252 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 1: It seems that. 253 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 11: A lot of them are complaining about Sunday services that 254 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 11: go on and wanted for me to give you a 255 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 11: call on their behalf so that we can see if 256 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 11: we can address the problem and talk to you diligently 257 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 11: as possible and try to get the problem rectified. 258 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 7: What's going on. 259 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 1: Well, it seems like that a lot of members are complaining. 260 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 7: I'm sorry, and what is your name again? 261 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 1: My name is ma'am. I'm not actually a member of 262 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: the church. 263 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 11: I've just been the one that have been asked to 264 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 11: give you a call and try to talk on the members' 265 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 11: behalf so maybe we can get this problem rectify that 266 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 11: you that they have as far as you are concerned, now, okay. 267 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 1: Go ahead. 268 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 7: Well, I'm just trying to see what this is in 269 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 7: regards to go ahead. 270 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 11: Well, it seems like the members of the church are 271 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 11: complaining about that you're doing too much shouting at church 272 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 11: on Sunday, and it seems to be going on every Sunday, 273 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 11: you running up and down the aisle and you shouting 274 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 11: all over the place. 275 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: And it's me. 276 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 7: I've been singled out about my shouting. Is that what 277 00:15:59,520 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 7: you're saying? 278 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: Whatever, Then it's distracting, ma'am. 279 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 11: You're distracting everyone from getting the word and listening to 280 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 11: the word and being involved in the service. 281 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: And that's the purpose of the call is to see 282 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: if we can get you to tone it down some. 283 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 7: Okay, So the whole church is complaining about me shouting 284 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 7: the way people run up and down the house every 285 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 7: Sunday and almost turning cart wheels and flips, and they 286 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 7: singling me, I complained about me. 287 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: Well, ma'am, I. 288 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 11: Don't know how it is that you can see everybody 289 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 11: else doing cart wheels when you're the ones that they 290 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 11: say is the one that's doing them. 291 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 7: How am I being singled out? 292 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: Man? 293 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 11: All I'm saying is that they saying that you're doing 294 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 11: too much shouting and too much running at this church. 295 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: Now I'm just the message. 296 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 7: Okay. Well, they can't tell me how to shout, They 297 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 7: can't tell me what's. 298 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 13: Going on in my life? 299 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 7: What's gonna keep me from praising God? And they, I mean, 300 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 7: they could just they could go somewhere else with that, 301 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 7: But they're not gonna tell me that I can't praise 302 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 7: my God. They don't know how good God has been 303 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 7: to me. 304 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 11: And you know what, I understand that I agree with 305 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 11: you wholeheartedly, but it's becoming a distraction. I mean, well, 306 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 11: they they was at the point last night talking about 307 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 11: should we put some seat belts on the pews so 308 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:05,360 Speaker 11: so you can stay down? 309 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 7: We state will put some seat But I only gonna 310 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 7: tell people they can't shout in church and praise God. 311 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 7: What can we come to church? 312 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 1: Farm? Will you do? 313 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 7: Come to We need to be trying to praase God 314 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 7: and get their own shout on and stop looking at 315 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 7: me and worried about what I'm doing. 316 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: We gonna need you to quit running up and down 317 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:20,679 Speaker 1: these aisles and. 318 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 7: Doing what you now. I'm sorry, you know, I'm trying 319 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 7: to stay calm. I'm trying my best. Who Jesus, she said, 320 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 7: that's not happenying. You can't tell me I gotta stop shouting. 321 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 1: Okay, man, but let me ask you, are you running now? 322 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: Aren't you just standing still talking? 323 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 7: But I don't have to run right now? 324 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: Okay, what I'm trying to get you. 325 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 7: To, I'm like, I don't want to run up and 326 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:41,879 Speaker 7: down this street right now. I can run up and 327 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 7: down the street and praise God, but they're not gonna 328 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 7: tell me to stop shouting at church. 329 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 11: Can we get you to be a little bit more 330 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 11: reserved as what we see? Man, let me let me 331 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 11: go ahead and go further on. 332 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 7: What they don't how the spirit moves. 333 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 1: Okay, well, let me move and tell you what they've 334 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: told me. Now. 335 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 11: If we can't get to the point when you can, 336 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 11: you know, tone it down, then we may have to 337 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 11: ask you to leave. 338 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 7: I want to ask me, ool Jesus, Oh Jesus, wool Jesus, 339 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:12,120 Speaker 7: you ask me, why would they want me to leave 340 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 7: a church. I've been at that church for fifteen years. 341 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 7: I'm not leaving the church. I'm gonna run up and die. 342 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 7: I'm not gonna run on the church. I may even 343 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 7: turn me some slip where am I I. 344 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 5: Feel like it not? 345 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:24,360 Speaker 1: Now? 346 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,199 Speaker 7: Listen, that's all I'm okay, go ahead, but. 347 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be there. 348 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 11: I'm going to I am going to be there on Sunday, man, 349 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 11: and I have been the person that's been appointed to 350 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 11: make sure that you're not running up and down these 351 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 11: hous and shotting like this. You have to keep yourself 352 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 11: reserved so people can hear the word of God. You 353 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 11: are standing in people's word. That's what you're doing. 354 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:44,880 Speaker 1: You in the whale I want. 355 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 7: If they come trying to send me down, I'm gonna 356 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:48,360 Speaker 7: give them a word. It ain't gonna be a God. 357 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 7: So let's you put that hands up on me here. No, listen, 358 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 7: I'm telling you that now. You could say I have 359 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 7: been in that church fifteen years. If I want to 360 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,359 Speaker 7: run and dance, shout, jump clenty, whatever I want to do, 361 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,879 Speaker 7: I'm gonna doing it. Ain't nobody gonna stop me. 362 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 1: You're gonna have to stop this. 363 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 11: This past Sunday was your last Sunday doing it, and 364 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:07,679 Speaker 11: you're not finna do it this Sunday. 365 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 7: Like I said, just why. And I'm telling you could 366 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 7: tell the ernswers, the deacon boys, the deaconess, the minister's wives, 367 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 7: or whoever else you want to tell. Let them put 368 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 7: their hands on me and see if I don't swing on, 369 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:20,120 Speaker 7: I'm gonna come right up out the spirit and swing 370 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 7: on it. I'm telling you that now because see, sir, 371 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 7: you don't really push me there out of tried, out 372 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:27,399 Speaker 7: of try. Let me ask you this, what is trying 373 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 7: to show that I'm saying, Remember, but you make it, 374 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 7: you making me re right back to my own ways, 375 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 7: and you you really finna put me out, that's what 376 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 7: you're finna do. 377 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let me ask you this. Where is the 378 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 1: God at right now in you? 379 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 5: Where is the one that the God was me when. 380 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 7: I was trying to be called at you at first 381 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 7: to tell you don't be calling me with this polishness, 382 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 7: But now even have made the other side of me 383 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 7: ro he's up. 384 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,479 Speaker 1: Well, you wouldn't raise it up in there. You wouldn't 385 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:51,479 Speaker 1: raise it up in me too. 386 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,119 Speaker 11: Guess what come Sunday, You're gonna set you in that 387 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 11: pew and you ain't gonna maok you know you. 388 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 5: People? 389 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 7: Okay, all right, all right, we're gonna see how well 390 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 7: I'm not sitting at you. A matter of fact. First, 391 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 7: same time in the morning, I'm going to past Oh yeah, 392 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 7: gotta deacon, whatever you want, whatever your name is, I'm 393 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 7: gonna tell him about it. God, matter how long we 394 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 7: got you you need to lose. 395 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 11: I would be talking to pastor myself and letting him 396 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 11: know about this situation. 397 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,400 Speaker 7: You don't talk. You don't know we can come past 398 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 7: your way. 399 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 1: You don't talk to pastor. 400 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 7: I talked the pastor at this church fifteen years. Like 401 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 7: I said, I tell you, oh Jesus, Oh mean you 402 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 7: feel old Jesus not not not not. 403 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 11: Now see just like this, you'll see how you calling 404 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:37,719 Speaker 11: on him and you standing here. 405 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, because I'm calling on him to keep me from 406 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 7: just really going to cush you out right now because 407 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:43,399 Speaker 7: you don't really hit my nerves. 408 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say to 409 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 1: you ladies. What you want? 410 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,239 Speaker 7: You gotta say it real quick because you're gonna talk 411 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 7: to this operator that's his nephew. Time. 412 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: It from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got 413 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 1: pray by your girl. 414 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:02,640 Speaker 7: Oh you know, oh see, you know I'm a kick. 415 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:11,719 Speaker 11: But the Okay, I got one more thing, baby, Let 416 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 11: me ask you something. What is the baddest of talking 417 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 11: about the baddest radio show in the land. 418 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 10: Good harm and morning, all right, nephew, thank you. 419 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 14: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO with our 420 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 14: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This message is brought to 421 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 14: you by Pfizer. Let's talk health. 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Yogi says, my husband and I grew up 432 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 14: with my hairstylist. He has never talked to her unless 433 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 14: he is with me. Last week he went to her 434 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 14: to get his hair dyed, and he made the appointment 435 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 14: on his own. I think he should have run it 436 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 14: by me. 437 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 1: What do you think he didn't? 438 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 2: Y'all been friends, y'all grew up together, and he can't 439 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 2: make a hair appointment and he just went on there. 440 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 2: I mean, what can he do at the shot? He 441 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 2: had to shop in front of all the people getting 442 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 2: to get his hair doed. You got some other issues 443 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 2: you need to talking here about. What is he getting 444 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:48,159 Speaker 2: his hair dosh that Well, you're trying to get me. 445 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 2: You're writing down you got to go down there now. 446 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you that right now. They got just 447 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:56,919 Speaker 2: from me and do everything right. Bring out all that man. 448 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,160 Speaker 2: He ain't got to go down there, get your hair dyes. 449 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 1: Come on, that's why he should have talked to him. 450 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:02,120 Speaker 11: White. 451 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 2: They got, well, you know black, Yeah, don't get that 452 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,719 Speaker 2: jet black. You be looking at your duds on them, 453 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 2: uh seal flex commercially with that yet black hair. Don't 454 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 2: get yet, boy, you'll be looking so unreal you get 455 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 2: jet black. 456 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: Man, your healthy. Your hair looked like liquish. 457 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 5: Today. 458 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 1: I died my mustache one time with some jet black. Man. 459 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 2: I had to put uh baby powder on it. That 460 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:43,399 Speaker 2: tone it now, I said, man out here, God, a 461 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 2: little mustache looked like hat left. I just had on 462 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:52,400 Speaker 2: some shining past and I said, no, you gotta get 463 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 2: you gotta get real black. 464 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: Don't get jet black. Get real. Don't do that. Don't 465 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:00,959 Speaker 1: get all right? 466 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:05,160 Speaker 14: Uh, moving on, I guess we answered your yogi. Moving 467 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,919 Speaker 14: on to twilet in Gulfport. Twilt writes, my husband had 468 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 14: sex by a lake and somebody was filming him and 469 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 14: his mistress. It has caused our family a lot of embarrassment, 470 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 14: so I want to find out who was low down 471 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 14: enough to film it. My friends say, I'm focused on 472 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 14: the wrong thing. 473 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:24,400 Speaker 10: Why am I real? 474 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 1: That's what I don't care about the low down person 475 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:30,200 Speaker 1: that was at the lake. 476 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,679 Speaker 10: Right, So your low down husband, it's called. 477 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,680 Speaker 1: Your family a bunch of beef. If his ass wasn't 478 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: down at the lake, what happened to. 479 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 6: A room. 480 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 3: Get down at the lake? 481 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:42,640 Speaker 6: Lake? 482 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 1: Maybe the lake was sexy? 483 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,400 Speaker 10: Maybe to them, yeah, to them. 484 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 1: Okay, well we're not sex to them. 485 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 10: To everyone, yes. 486 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 3: They didn't film, So you filmed it, so you knew. 487 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,280 Speaker 15: Just how did she get How did they know? 488 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 7: Yeah? 489 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah. 490 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 10: Somebody they feel this, they would lie And your friends 491 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 10: are right, you are focused on the wrong Twila girl, 492 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 10: all right. 493 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 14: Moving on to Odessa and Queen's Odessa said, I met 494 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 14: a man online and all he wants to do is 495 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,400 Speaker 14: talk on the phone and text. He takes me out 496 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 14: on the first of the month, and his money might 497 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:32,359 Speaker 14: get tight after that. His cell phone was disconnected. Recently 498 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 14: so do you think he is broke or what? 499 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 1: Well? I think he old he on uh, he on 500 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 1: special payments. He gets paid. Was a month? He owe 501 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:46,399 Speaker 1: your name? Odessa? Already Oh I. 502 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 2: Know, I already know he old he get his money, 503 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 2: wants a month. He's gonna take you out the first dinner. 504 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 2: After that, it's gonna get tight. That's so sec you 505 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 2: know what this is? 506 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 1: Come on, now? What made him on line? 507 00:25:59,680 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 13: Oh? 508 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,360 Speaker 2: You got Odessa? It could be Walter, Yeah, it could 509 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 2: mean Alfred. Oh, it could be Oldish Oldis, or it could. 510 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 16: Be Quentin, Joshua, anybody in the Bible, Lazarus, Lazar. 511 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 1: Names Lazare. You ain't got long day him nowhere? 512 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 12: You need to hear up Moses, Moses, Pharaoh, Pharaoh Jenkins, gentlemen, 513 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:47,360 Speaker 12: Sharrol Jenkins. 514 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, yeah, yeah, he's struggling a little bit, 515 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:55,200 Speaker 2: you know. But hey, hey, from the first through the 516 00:26:55,240 --> 00:27:01,640 Speaker 2: eight y'all party, yeah, turn up right twenty three days, 517 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 2: y'all need to be steel though. 518 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 1: He ain't gonna haul packed. 519 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 2: First of the moment, yeah, round about the twenty third 520 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,360 Speaker 2: you sit anywhere you want to see? 521 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 14: All right, Last one, Steve, last one. This is from 522 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 14: Chantey in Corinth and Corinth Shanty says, I was going 523 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 14: out with the guy, and the first time I stayed 524 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 14: at his house, I could tell that I wasn't the 525 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,119 Speaker 14: only girl he's had over. He has a nice place, 526 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 14: but he needed to wash his sheets and clean his 527 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,399 Speaker 14: bathroom up before my next visit? Is it rude to 528 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:38,000 Speaker 14: tell him? 529 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 11: Now? You need to tell you. 530 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 2: I mean, you can't be the only one. I don't 531 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 2: know how y'all think y'all gonna meet people without history. 532 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 2: Everybody had done, had somebody. Now it was just recent 533 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 2: where he ain't changing sheets and all this hit. Now 534 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,640 Speaker 2: you laying down there and all that, come over there 535 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 2: they want to be If you want to be that helpful, 536 00:27:58,320 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: then you need to come over there with your sheet. 537 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 1: Yeah the way stop by to get yourself some Yeah. 538 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 2: I don't know if they make them disposable or not. 539 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 2: I've been out that game quite some time now. I 540 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 2: look into that. 541 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, you need to go. 542 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 2: You need to hear what you need to go when 543 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 2: you go over there. You need to get yourself some 544 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 2: fresh linens. You need to get yourself a can of 545 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 2: lies off. You need some baby wipes. That's it, and 546 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 2: you need to get some type of anybody prescribe. 547 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: You need to take. 548 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 2: So you go over there because you can't catch something. 549 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 2: When doctor asked you went wrong, just count tell her 550 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 2: you got to sew to go in there both prepared. 551 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 2: It's probably the most important thing outside of them sheets. 552 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 2: Definitely get pre medicator. And if your name is Odessa, 553 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 2: just asked for some penicula, you are crazy. Gowere and 554 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 2: get yourself ready. You know, here's all this is the 555 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 2: old people information. A lot of people watching our show. 556 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 1: That's real. They need no type of infor They ain't 557 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 1: been in the dating game in. 558 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,000 Speaker 3: A long time, you know, pre medicator. 559 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 1: But what he was listening life song. 560 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 14: I thought I was gonna say, bleachmonia coming. 561 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 1: Up in the top of some clok rocks and you 562 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: can watch the sheet. Why you're using your fresh cloth rock. 563 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 10: Thank you, Celo. 564 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 1: This is Steve Harbin Martin show Man. Line three. We 565 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: got a Cinnamon. Is that your real name? 566 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 5: Yes? 567 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 17: Gi your boats honey, look Bobby Nutt Man, my Lady Wilson. 568 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:12,200 Speaker 17: I'm gonna name my baby gunpowd smell. 569 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show coming up right after you. 570 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Jay is here. Yes, 571 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 10: you wrote another book. You said it was a twenty 572 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 10: eighth one, Steve. 573 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 18: Probably this book was really home hitting and everybody can 574 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 18: relate to this. The name of this book is called 575 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 18: if You're the only one in the house working, damn it. 576 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 15: These are the rules. That's the name of the book. 577 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 18: Okay, if you don't, if you're the only one in 578 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 18: the house working, you can change the channel. Don't matter 579 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:58,240 Speaker 18: what nobody else is watching. If they say I'm watching that, 580 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 18: you can say I'm paying for that, so you can. 581 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 15: Change the damn town. 582 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 10: Yeah, great feeling. 583 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 18: I'm the only one in the house working. In my 584 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 18: new book, chapter this is chapter thirteen. 585 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 15: You only only you. 586 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 18: Since you're working, only you get to use the good towels. 587 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 18: You don't have a job. You use them rough ass towels. 588 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 18: The value behind them it. Okay, yeah, I'm the only 589 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 18: one with the world with the holes in it. 590 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 1: But those are the ones you. 591 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 2: Use as towels. The word we keep under the sink. 592 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:32,959 Speaker 2: Then where your towels at? 593 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 15: Yes, that's where your towels. 594 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 2: Minor fluff is soft and naked, turtle, lie, salt and 595 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 2: tidy boat and two extra rolls of toilet. 596 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 15: Love it, you love it? 597 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 1: Love it? Go ahead. 598 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 18: If you're the only one working in the house, you 599 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 18: set the curfew as to when people can come in. 600 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 15: I may or may not give you a key, Okay, 601 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:58,480 Speaker 15: I may or may not. 602 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 1: If you have a clock, all these jones is locked. 603 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 15: That's what I'm seeve read. 604 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:05,920 Speaker 1: I'm not getting up. 605 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm asking no dough bells. Did don't lock at twelve? 606 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 2: Matter of fact, soon did the news go off? 607 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to fuck up. I'm going to bed. 608 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 15: Thank you. Here's another chapter. This is a lung chapter. 609 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 18: If you have If I allow you to have a pet, 610 00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 18: I don't need to see him. I don't need to 611 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,479 Speaker 18: hear him, and I don't need to smell him, Okay, 612 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 18: I don't. I need to know that that pet is 613 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 18: not in the damn house. Well, your ass is down 614 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 18: to fish, thank you. They gonna be coming here with 615 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 18: no damn bunny rabbits. 616 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 4: Thank you. 617 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 1: Can't you dogs, chabo. 618 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be watching nothing run around on no wheel. 619 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 2: You can have a fish, and his ass got to 620 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:50,720 Speaker 2: be in the corner. 621 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 15: If I feel like you should have a fish. This 622 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:55,040 Speaker 15: is very important. 623 00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 18: I will have my own and I'm I'm gonna count 624 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:04,680 Speaker 18: the little sections my very own role of toilet paper 625 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 18: that will not be touched. 626 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 15: Okay, damn my role. 627 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 2: My damn it, that's my roleroom into the bathroom and 628 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 2: back with me. 629 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 15: Thank you if I touch Yeah what what I'm counting 630 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 15: the squash? 631 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 1: What them ragged ass tiles is fault? 632 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 15: Use them, rach them out and dry them out and 633 00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 15: hang them up. 634 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, rancher, So. 635 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 10: Jay, this isn't all in your new book, my brand 636 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 10: new work. 637 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,959 Speaker 15: I'm the only one working in this house. These are 638 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 15: the rules. 639 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:43,800 Speaker 1: Damn it. 640 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 15: Number one hits another chapter of this chapter sixteen. 641 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 18: If I allow you to have a side hustle in 642 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:55,040 Speaker 18: that house, meaning you're doing hair, you're doing hell, you're 643 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 18: sitting on a personal trainer. 644 00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 15: I get a cut and expecs expecially if you sell 645 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 15: it weed p fifty. 646 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 19: Ff half whatever. Yeah of a housetop hald hey Jay 647 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 19: had Yeah? Yeah I like chapter number or thirty two? 648 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 15: Oh which what I like that? 649 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 2: Yeah? 650 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 1: The name of this. 651 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 2: Chapter is because I say it so, uh yeah, like 652 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 2: your parents, because I said so. Anybody ask a question 653 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 2: in this damn house. Refer to chapter thirty two. 654 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 1: Damn it because I said said so, that's it. That's 655 00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 1: a good book. It's another another. 656 00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:50,040 Speaker 18: Chapter, chapter chapter forty. Good boy, this is good chapter Steve. 657 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: How many chapters in the book. 658 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 15: Oh oh, this is a big book. 659 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: Talking about about one hundred and eighteen. 660 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 15: Forty. 661 00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 18: It says if I go to bed, ear, I go 662 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 18: to bed early. Everybody goes to bed early. 663 00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 15: That yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no, we all go 664 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 15: to bed at this. I don't have to be in 665 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,800 Speaker 15: the bed hearing you up. Look what you up for? 666 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:20,000 Speaker 1: Put you up for a person. 667 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,839 Speaker 15: You ain't got to go to work. I go to bed, 668 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 15: You go to bed, Okay. 669 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 1: Going there, walk to but the TVs go off? 670 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:30,800 Speaker 15: Yes, and the last. 671 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 2: No, no, I'm gonna let you do your last one. 672 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,600 Speaker 2: But man, I want to thank you for Chapter sixty four. 673 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:37,640 Speaker 15: What you got let me. 674 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 2: When I'm sitting on the tilet uh huh. I like 675 00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 2: the door open, do not fully shut. 676 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 1: You're right, you're right. Chapter sixty four. 677 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:56,360 Speaker 2: I'm sitting on the tarlet. I like that door open. 678 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 2: I need to see you not in my house, walk 679 00:35:59,320 --> 00:35:59,840 Speaker 2: past and. 680 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 1: Pull it shut. I'm shutting the house. No, you're not 681 00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 1: shutting nothing. I'm shutting the door. 682 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 11: If you're in there using the bathroom with dot. 683 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 1: No, you won't. 684 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 20: Work. 685 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 1: You don't be there. 686 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,320 Speaker 15: Yeah, you're not working. 687 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is you don't pay for Go. 688 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 18: When I wake up in the morning to go to work, 689 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,640 Speaker 18: I can make as much damn noise as. 690 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 1: I want to make. Don't say a damn thing. 691 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 15: Don't be shifting me. 692 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 7: Now. 693 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 1: What you need to do is get some work. Now, 694 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:43,840 Speaker 1: that's what you need to do. 695 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,439 Speaker 2: But you can't get out this house because you ain't 696 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 2: got nowhere else to go. 697 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 15: Mister Tom Now when you wake up, no, hell don't know. 698 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,160 Speaker 10: I ain't keeping good Jay's new book. If you're the 699 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:55,560 Speaker 10: only one working in the house. 700 00:36:55,840 --> 00:37:01,879 Speaker 1: Uh, this heavy chap all right? 701 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 10: Coming up next more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 702 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 10: Right after this. 703 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:12,439 Speaker 14: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. This message is brought 704 00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,280 Speaker 14: to you by Pfizer. If you're fifty or older, getting 705 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 14: sick can keep you away from where you need to be. 706 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:21,240 Speaker 14: You don't want surprises like new micacle pneumonia or invasive 707 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,600 Speaker 14: new macaccle disease. You're six point four times more likely 708 00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:27,800 Speaker 14: to get new macacle pneumonia compared with adults eighteen to 709 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 14: forty nine. It's recommended that people fifty or older get vaccinated. 710 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 14: Being sick could get between you and the people who 711 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:39,839 Speaker 14: rely on you, So schedule your shot at vaxsist dot com. 712 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 14: It is time now for a round of would you rather? 713 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 14: Would you rather ignore your wife during an argument? Or 714 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,799 Speaker 14: would you rather just keep disagreeing with her? 715 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:50,760 Speaker 1: Junior? 716 00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:55,319 Speaker 3: Go ahead, yes, just just ignore non say then. 717 00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 1: That's probably the better of two. I mean, yeah, that's 718 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 1: the better of the two. I'm listening. Yeah, that's the better. 719 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:07,360 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, keep on. 720 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,960 Speaker 2: I'm not even listening. I'm not I'm not even listening. 721 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:13,279 Speaker 2: I ain't got no feedback. I don't know what you 722 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:19,560 Speaker 2: say and blocked you out. Yeah, I'm in my mind. 723 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:26,279 Speaker 2: I'm replaying the third quarter of the Browns game. I'm 724 00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,400 Speaker 2: talking about completely out all out here. 725 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,240 Speaker 1: Why wow, wow, wow, wow. 726 00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 2: All out here. When I'm block might listen to all this. 727 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:42,680 Speaker 2: I just I just did it yesterday, so this is fresh. 728 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, she was just talking and talking and talking. I 729 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:47,600 Speaker 1: ain't give a damn. 730 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 2: I've been through with that conversation because that's your problem, though, 731 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 2: See y'all like to y'all like to keep having the 732 00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 2: same conversation, re re regurgitated, go back over it, rephrase it, 733 00:38:59,000 --> 00:38:59,399 Speaker 2: keep talking. 734 00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 1: I'm through. I heard you, all right? All right? 735 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:06,520 Speaker 10: Would you rather connect your phone to bluetooth in your 736 00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:08,760 Speaker 10: car or just always share your location? 737 00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 1: Who writes this stuff? Man? Who does this? 738 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:13,719 Speaker 10: Just answer it? 739 00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:21,360 Speaker 2: Okay, it don't matter to me. I don't get no 740 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 2: phone call, so you know, but even the phone calls 741 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:25,920 Speaker 2: I do. 742 00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:30,960 Speaker 1: Got she you got to share my location? Hell, I'm 743 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 1: at home. I got you. 744 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,120 Speaker 2: All you got to do is come downstairs. I'm in 745 00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 2: my office sleep. The hell you got to look for 746 00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:39,320 Speaker 2: me phone? 747 00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 15: My phone is with me. 748 00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,760 Speaker 1: It's right there. I'm at the house. I don't go nowhere. 749 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm at the house where you being downstairs? That we're 750 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:49,920 Speaker 1: always been. 751 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,640 Speaker 2: I ain't ever beat my wife to bed ever. I 752 00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,240 Speaker 2: can't remember the times I went to bed before Margie. 753 00:39:58,360 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 2: I can't even remember that. 754 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:00,800 Speaker 4: Let me tell you. 755 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,440 Speaker 1: She came down said, woke me up. So you're just 756 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,520 Speaker 1: gonna stay down here? Oh it was quiet, all right? 757 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:11,439 Speaker 14: Would you rather tear tattoo your hairline in or would 758 00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,360 Speaker 14: you rather tattoo your wife's name. 759 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:21,319 Speaker 6: On your neck? Yeah? 760 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 9: I'm showing your neck I'll a tattooed in. 761 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:29,360 Speaker 1: That's it. 762 00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:33,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you ain't gonna tatch Let me tell you something. 763 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,839 Speaker 2: If you tattoo that hairline and me and Thomas see 764 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:42,080 Speaker 2: you see that Texas hat you got on you permanent? 765 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,239 Speaker 1: Right, get that on your head. 766 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 10: We'll be back with more of the Steve Hardy Morning 767 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,560 Speaker 10: Show right after this. Hey, y'all, this is Monica. 768 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:53,440 Speaker 1: This is Spike Lee. 769 00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 10: Hey, this is Mary J. 770 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:54,800 Speaker 1: Blood. 771 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 7: Yo. 772 00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,759 Speaker 1: This is Stephen A. Smith. Hey, this is k You 773 00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,479 Speaker 1: have no idea what it is. This is called Miller 774 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,880 Speaker 1: and this may or may not be the Steve Harvey 775 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:03,520 Speaker 1: Morning Show. 776 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 777 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 14: It is time now to check Steve's voicemail and if 778 00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,160 Speaker 14: you want to leave a message for Steve, call him 779 00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 14: eight seven seven twenty nine. 780 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 6: Steve. 781 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 10: All right, Steve, this first caller has a spiritual question 782 00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:18,960 Speaker 10: for you. 783 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 13: Good evening, Steve. Thank you so much for sharing your 784 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:26,720 Speaker 13: inspirational relationship with God with the world. My question is simple, 785 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:30,480 Speaker 13: how does one stop longing for something that God has 786 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:35,719 Speaker 13: obviously said no to that particular quest? Thank you by I. 787 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:41,240 Speaker 1: That's a question that's everybody's dilemma. 788 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 10: We want what we want. 789 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's everybody's delima. 790 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:52,360 Speaker 2: And then also sometimes what you want, Jess is in 791 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:57,880 Speaker 2: the form of temptation. You know, it's not always longing 792 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 2: for something you ask God for held. You know, sometimes 793 00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,320 Speaker 2: God makes moves he know you wouldn't make because he 794 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:09,320 Speaker 2: heard conversations you didn't hear, and he made decisions that 795 00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:13,439 Speaker 2: you just not gonna make for the betterment of yourself. Example, 796 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 2: I want this relationship to work with this person. God 797 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 2: know that ain't the one you need, So sometimes he 798 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:23,759 Speaker 2: don't aid you in doing that. Now you can run 799 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,400 Speaker 2: off and do it yourself, but you're gonna get beat up. 800 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 2: He not coming back. You quit asking God for him 801 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 2: to come back. He not coming back. That ain't got 802 00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 2: nothing to do with God. The dude you want and 803 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:39,120 Speaker 2: made a decision that he don't want you. Now, once 804 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:43,120 Speaker 2: you keep asking God for him fault instead, you should 805 00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:46,480 Speaker 2: ask God for somebody that want you. So sometimes and 806 00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:50,160 Speaker 2: I had to learn this myself. The thing that I'm 807 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 2: asking God for that I keep getting a know to 808 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:58,400 Speaker 2: is for a reason. Yeah, and it's usually been because 809 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,480 Speaker 2: God has something better for me all the time. But 810 00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,560 Speaker 2: you got to open up yourself to the better and 811 00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,239 Speaker 2: stop thinking you got the answer. You can't ask God 812 00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 2: to bless you and did tell him how to do it, 813 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 2: how to do it? 814 00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:10,960 Speaker 1: That's just that a man brother. 815 00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 10: Uh huh, all right, you better preach up in here. 816 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:19,000 Speaker 14: You met a minister, all right, this caller, all right. 817 00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 14: Last week we had a colo question, Steve. 818 00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:23,080 Speaker 10: It was about the Uh. 819 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,960 Speaker 14: It was from the married woman who had emailed us. 820 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,240 Speaker 14: She asked us if she was wrong because she purchased 821 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 14: Raider season football tickets but changed them from her husband's 822 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,480 Speaker 14: name to her name after he told her he preferred 823 00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,600 Speaker 14: attending the games with his boys instead of going with her. 824 00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,040 Speaker 10: So this caller has a comment about that. 825 00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 7: Say, Steve, come. 826 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,320 Speaker 15: Using your radio show this morning, and I agree with you. 827 00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,240 Speaker 10: My husband is one of the three brothers. 828 00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:50,560 Speaker 4: The brothers needs to be. 829 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,440 Speaker 7: To Gefo sometimes just the men. 830 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 10: I'm okay with him hanging with his brothers. 831 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,279 Speaker 7: You don't need me around all the time. 832 00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 10: We didn't get it once in four seven, seven days 833 00:43:59,560 --> 00:43:59,879 Speaker 10: a week. 834 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 1: Let that man have some men time. 835 00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:05,680 Speaker 15: If you don't, you gonna drive him crazy and you're. 836 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 20: Gonna want to know why he ain't home or he's 837 00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 20: coming home, and go straight to. 838 00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,320 Speaker 7: Leave these women need to let her loose. If you 839 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,640 Speaker 7: want to hang with your girls, you hang with your tirls. 840 00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:14,879 Speaker 7: He don't ask to come. 841 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,320 Speaker 1: I love it when my husband hang with his brothers. 842 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:19,399 Speaker 1: Let them men have that many time. 843 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:21,279 Speaker 10: Y'all have a good day. 844 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 15: I love that. 845 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:31,879 Speaker 2: Didn't that because list everybody needs me time. Yeah, say 846 00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,040 Speaker 2: when I tell my wife I'm going on the golf trip, 847 00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:34,920 Speaker 2: she want to be talking. 848 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,960 Speaker 1: Them cannot go? No, she know I don't want her 849 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,920 Speaker 1: to go right now. 850 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:43,080 Speaker 2: I want to go play golf, talk trash, get through, 851 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,560 Speaker 2: go eat without showering. 852 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:47,800 Speaker 1: Then I want to take a shower. 853 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:51,839 Speaker 2: All these speeches you got, you've been playing golf. I'm 854 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:57,960 Speaker 2: hungry now, I'm hungry now, I'm hungry now and now 855 00:44:58,080 --> 00:44:58,839 Speaker 2: here she come? 856 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 1: She'd have walked in the rule. I do want to 857 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:02,879 Speaker 1: go where you ain't? 858 00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:08,920 Speaker 2: You ain't get out of this studio, Mandrie. You're not 859 00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 2: going to play golf. You are not going to play golf. No, 860 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 2: you don't want to go, You're not going. 861 00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:23,439 Speaker 15: I want to talk. 862 00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to shower when you asked me to shout. 863 00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:31,320 Speaker 2: I want to eat now, Why don't you take a 864 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,160 Speaker 2: shower first, you'll enjoy your food better who need a 865 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:35,520 Speaker 2: shower to enjoy. 866 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 4: The man. 867 00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:42,160 Speaker 1: Man? Can we go to break? 868 00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:42,879 Speaker 19: Yeah? 869 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:44,480 Speaker 1: About that time? 870 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:48,319 Speaker 3: We love all right? 871 00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:53,439 Speaker 10: Coming up next, it is the nephew today's break phone call. 872 00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 10: We'll get into it right after this. 873 00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:59,520 Speaker 1: Hey is Kevin Hart? Hold tight? The nephew has another 874 00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,480 Speaker 1: prank call coming up next. You're listening to the Steve 875 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:03,640 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. 876 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,239 Speaker 14: Coming up at the top of the hour right about 877 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:09,960 Speaker 14: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, the 878 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:13,040 Speaker 14: subject my mom and my baby Daddy. Wait till you 879 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,799 Speaker 14: hear this when you're not gonna believe it Right now though, 880 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,319 Speaker 14: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. 881 00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:21,160 Speaker 1: What you got for his nep Let me dig in 882 00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,320 Speaker 1: my stupid bag? Here? You pull out something and you 883 00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:28,719 Speaker 1: ain't got to go deep, just getting right off the 884 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:29,320 Speaker 1: top of it. 885 00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,360 Speaker 11: I got, I got, I got, I got stuff at 886 00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,520 Speaker 11: the top, stuff in the middle, way down deep. I 887 00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:37,359 Speaker 11: mean it's I got a I got a nice bag 888 00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,960 Speaker 11: of stupid here. Now, don't know what the whole bag stupid. 889 00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:43,160 Speaker 11: It's what we're trying to take. Yeah, right right, I 890 00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 11: understand it. What its levels are? Stupid? 891 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,440 Speaker 1: Why do I have to teach you about stupid. Why 892 00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,640 Speaker 1: don't you most of us don't know. 893 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,920 Speaker 11: You know what, I'm gonna start teaching a stupid class, 894 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:56,239 Speaker 11: so people are no stupid is stupid does pay off? 895 00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,800 Speaker 1: I am already you already doing one. You come on 896 00:46:58,880 --> 00:46:59,719 Speaker 1: the radio every day. 897 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,879 Speaker 11: But I'm am I not an example that stupid pays off. 898 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,080 Speaker 11: Don't play my stupid week. Don't do me like that. 899 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,320 Speaker 11: Don't do me like that. I'm better than that. 900 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,839 Speaker 1: Frank stupid devau. 901 00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 11: I almost say, stupid lounge a Diva lounge, diva lounge. 902 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:19,840 Speaker 1: Okay, cat dog, let's go. He cat dog respects my stupid. 903 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:26,239 Speaker 5: Come on, yeah, Lornette, I'm trying to did you want 904 00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,400 Speaker 5: to own the Diva lounge? Right? Yes? All right, okay, 905 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,960 Speaker 5: my aunt trying to miname Phyllis, was trying to get 906 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,560 Speaker 5: an appointment. Say y'all rejected her or something like that. 907 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:39,400 Speaker 5: Don't getting an appointment? Uh for this past saraed that 908 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 5: she wanted to get get in and get get her 909 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 5: hair dead. 910 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,680 Speaker 20: I'm sorry, sorry, No one rejected her. Right now, I'm 911 00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 20: not accepting any new clients. 912 00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,480 Speaker 5: Hold on, so what do you mean You're not accepting 913 00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,720 Speaker 5: no clients? That's the part I'm not trying to understand 914 00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,160 Speaker 5: because Maam Phyllis, you know, she done call up there 915 00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,360 Speaker 5: like two times. From what she's telling me about she 916 00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 5: can't get in there, uh Deva Lounge, that she can't 917 00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:00,439 Speaker 5: get in there and get her hair done because every 918 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,280 Speaker 5: time she called, they saying that, you know, won't nobody 919 00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:05,280 Speaker 5: take her or give her an appointment. 920 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,400 Speaker 20: Sir, I am the only Sallad at the Deva Lounge, 921 00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,080 Speaker 20: and right now I am not accepting any new clients. 922 00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:13,680 Speaker 20: I am so sorry for your aunt, but there are 923 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:15,920 Speaker 20: other ones in the area, but right now I am 924 00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,320 Speaker 20: not accepting any new clients. No, I don't know. 925 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 5: Wait wait a minute, my anyone that you want to 926 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:26,399 Speaker 5: come there. That I'm just saying is here her weave 927 00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,040 Speaker 5: mi Anie trying to get her weave done. 928 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:32,520 Speaker 20: You can excuse me. You just cursed me out for 929 00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:33,479 Speaker 20: north parent reason. 930 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 5: I just I can live that because basically, what I'm 931 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,160 Speaker 5: trying to say is I don't understand how it is 932 00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:40,960 Speaker 5: you can't get my any hair done. She tried to 933 00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,120 Speaker 5: get a weave done so she can be right for church. 934 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:44,400 Speaker 5: So I don't understand the problem. 935 00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:48,400 Speaker 20: What the problem is you're attacking me. I think you're 936 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 20: gonna call me talking about your damn wants the damn apartment. 937 00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:54,520 Speaker 7: But you're cursing me out. You want to get an 938 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 7: apartment with me. 939 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 20: Talking to me like that? 940 00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:57,279 Speaker 5: Now, Okay, so what. 941 00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,680 Speaker 20: She let me talk because it just curse me out. 942 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,080 Speaker 20: Now he's gonna hear what I have to say. 943 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:04,719 Speaker 7: Try. 944 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:08,600 Speaker 20: I'm not accepting any new clients at this time. Now 945 00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:11,399 Speaker 20: she could have called, but right now I'm not. I'm 946 00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:15,000 Speaker 20: just not accepting any clients. I apologize, but there's nothing else. 947 00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 7: I can do. 948 00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:17,640 Speaker 5: I've worked on because you know what, I already know 949 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,080 Speaker 5: the deal because I didn't already asked around town. You 950 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,399 Speaker 5: you got all the everybody over there, got all these 951 00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,759 Speaker 5: big time cards, beamers and raised rovers. So them, the 952 00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 5: people them are only the people you do. You can't do. 953 00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 5: So my Miami, listen, let me tell. 954 00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:32,080 Speaker 7: You one damn thing. 955 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 20: I don't discriminate. I don't give a damn what you drive. 956 00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 20: He brought down fourth PENSI for all I fell. I 957 00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,640 Speaker 20: don't right now, my damn schedule is books and I 958 00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:45,080 Speaker 20: cannot take anyone who clients. There are thousands theirn tolds 959 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:46,400 Speaker 20: in Montgomery that you can go to. 960 00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,680 Speaker 5: Final let me, let me, let me let me say, 961 00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,520 Speaker 5: let me say this to you. What's your name again, lawnette. 962 00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:54,319 Speaker 5: Let me tell you this right here. I'm gonna brame 963 00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:58,080 Speaker 5: my any up there. I'm bringing my You're gonna shut 964 00:49:58,120 --> 00:49:59,759 Speaker 5: up while I'm talking. Hey, look, I'm gonna blame my 965 00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:08,560 Speaker 5: up there. I'm sorry, no, no, but you ain't gonna 966 00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,200 Speaker 5: just reject mi Ami. She's trying to get our hair. 967 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 20: Okay, hold on, Professionalism is about to go out the 968 00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,040 Speaker 20: door with your Now. I have been trying to be 969 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:22,080 Speaker 20: professional with your and you just called me. But you 970 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,680 Speaker 20: you insist on cursing me out and I haven't got 971 00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:28,160 Speaker 20: anything to you. I have since said, but I cannot 972 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,239 Speaker 20: take on any new clients, but. 973 00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:31,959 Speaker 1: You just house. 974 00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:33,760 Speaker 7: I insist. 975 00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 1: I am. 976 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,319 Speaker 5: I insist on somebody doing my any hair, somebody. 977 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,680 Speaker 7: Another damn salon. You won't get it done here. I'm trying. 978 00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:45,120 Speaker 5: No, you, Donna. You're gonna do it because I'm gonna 979 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:46,040 Speaker 5: bring Miami up there. 980 00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:46,920 Speaker 6: On do it. 981 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:47,960 Speaker 5: I'm gonna do it. 982 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,680 Speaker 7: You're gonna make me what I'm gonna do. 983 00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,840 Speaker 5: What you're gonna do with you, Somebody gonna put somebody 984 00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:56,319 Speaker 5: gonna put this wing in my hand. 985 00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:58,960 Speaker 20: I'm telling you that I can go from de bo 986 00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:00,960 Speaker 20: to one hundred real quick. I'm trying to be professional 987 00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,080 Speaker 20: with your but right now that's going out the door 988 00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:06,640 Speaker 20: because right now you've been so disrespectful to me. 989 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:10,120 Speaker 5: Ladies again, saday, I'm coming up there somebody putting my 990 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,759 Speaker 5: amy weed in huge weed. 991 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,279 Speaker 7: Sorry. I don't do weeds. I only do short hair. 992 00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:17,640 Speaker 20: That's what I specialize in. 993 00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 7: That's my strength. 994 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,160 Speaker 20: So you definitely have to find another salad. 995 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:22,479 Speaker 7: I don't do weed killing. 996 00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 5: Who have got a hand salon? Don't do no weed? 997 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:25,560 Speaker 5: Who do that? 998 00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 7: Me? 999 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,000 Speaker 5: I don't do no damn there, don't make no damn 1000 00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,320 Speaker 5: saying what kind of down hairstyle? You just a short 1001 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:34,279 Speaker 5: hairstyle that don't make no damn sense. 1002 00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,839 Speaker 20: Well, that's what the specialized in. As a matter of fact, 1003 00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:39,120 Speaker 20: I'm damn good at it. 1004 00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:39,799 Speaker 2: Fast. 1005 00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 20: For if you you research me, you've already done your 1006 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:47,279 Speaker 20: damn research on around. Google me. 1007 00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,160 Speaker 7: That's what you do, Google me. 1008 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:53,360 Speaker 5: I have best don't call me, don't tell you what 1009 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,360 Speaker 5: I tell you. Let me say this. 1010 00:51:58,040 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 20: Don't come for me now, because I'm ready for you. 1011 00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,160 Speaker 5: You know what, I'm not even gonna be sitting here 1012 00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,520 Speaker 5: going back and forth with you. I'm gonna say this, sardy, 1013 00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:06,799 Speaker 5: I'm coming up there and somebody gonna do Miami weed. 1014 00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:10,320 Speaker 5: Bottom line, we gonna be done for church on Sunday. 1015 00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:14,120 Speaker 20: Oh you think you talking to you? 1016 00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:14,920 Speaker 7: Listen to me. 1017 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:17,800 Speaker 20: I'm so it's trying to go pocket. If you're the 1018 00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:21,239 Speaker 20: one about asking everybody about me, you're possible to note 1019 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,120 Speaker 20: that I don't do nothing but short hair. I don't 1020 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:26,520 Speaker 20: do no five for god else to do your damn 1021 00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 20: your aunt hair, you lay your antun go. 1022 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:30,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's what you can do. 1023 00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:33,239 Speaker 20: Because I don't know about you. I PRIs to be 1024 00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:36,200 Speaker 20: professional with you, which is stupid. If it is tell 1025 00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:39,160 Speaker 20: and then yell, I can't be no fail. She gotta 1026 00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,440 Speaker 20: be quitting to sell to be with you stupid. 1027 00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:47,080 Speaker 7: Son't call me because I don't. I don't put check. 1028 00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:49,480 Speaker 7: You call my damn cell phone. I don't know who. 1029 00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:53,279 Speaker 20: Don't get any my damn number because this is a 1030 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,520 Speaker 20: damn private number. I haven't either given no damn buck. 1031 00:52:55,640 --> 00:53:00,000 Speaker 20: There ain't some damn parting my damn part like I listen, don't. 1032 00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 5: Pot me, Hey, hey, hold on, let me you know what. 1033 00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:12,239 Speaker 5: Let me just tell you this here, Tommy one gave 1034 00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:14,439 Speaker 5: me your damn number. Told me that if I talked 1035 00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:17,800 Speaker 5: to you, you would do my eighty hair. Cool Tommy, 1036 00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:19,279 Speaker 5: Tommy one Gate, say what. 1037 00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:23,040 Speaker 1: You do? 1038 00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:23,640 Speaker 5: Yes? 1039 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 7: You do? 1040 00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,839 Speaker 5: You know Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Marty Show. 1041 00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:27,759 Speaker 5: You know him, don't you? 1042 00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:41,359 Speaker 7: Oh gosh, oh me from the Steel Harky Show. 1043 00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:53,680 Speaker 5: That be me, Miss Lanett. Let me. 1044 00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:56,040 Speaker 20: Jesus you are. 1045 00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 5: Let me tell you something. Tammy and Paul told me 1046 00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:03,920 Speaker 5: law Netta is real cool, but she's twenty five percent ghetto. 1047 00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:10,200 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, put you on. 1048 00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:13,000 Speaker 20: I tell you this right here, Tommy, you was gonna 1049 00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:14,400 Speaker 20: get the disiness because. 1050 00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,520 Speaker 7: To me, I don't know. Listen, I'm from the hood, 1051 00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:22,160 Speaker 7: so I am. I'm gonna have my partners to come 1052 00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,719 Speaker 7: up there. Start with my brother, right you know, all 1053 00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:25,520 Speaker 7: of us would. 1054 00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:25,600 Speaker 1: Have been there. 1055 00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:29,359 Speaker 20: She said, I'm sorry, but my god, this has been 1056 00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:31,600 Speaker 20: a crazy serious for me. 1057 00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,799 Speaker 7: But you and I love the show. 1058 00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:36,360 Speaker 5: You gotta do this for me. What is the baddest 1059 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:37,600 Speaker 5: radio show. 1060 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:38,000 Speaker 4: In the list? 1061 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 7: See Harvey Morning Show? 1062 00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:44,920 Speaker 13: All right? 1063 00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,480 Speaker 11: Next weekend, Oklahoma City, the Nephew is coming to town. 1064 00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,960 Speaker 11: Bricktown that's Bricktown Comedy Club. 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If you need advice on relationship, sex, dating, work, parenting, 1089 00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:11,600 Speaker 14: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve BARBFM 1090 00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:13,680 Speaker 14: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 1091 00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:17,000 Speaker 10: We could be reading your letter live on the air, 1092 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:18,759 Speaker 10: just like we're going to read this one right here, 1093 00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:19,359 Speaker 10: right now. 1094 00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:22,440 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you. 1095 00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:24,239 Speaker 1: Here it Strawberry Letter. 1096 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:25,600 Speaker 10: Thank you, nephew. 1097 00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:29,280 Speaker 14: Subject my mom and my baby Daddy. Dear Stephen Shirley. 1098 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,920 Speaker 14: I have known my baby daddy since high school. When 1099 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:35,000 Speaker 14: I was twenty, I got pregnant and we moved in together. 1100 00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:38,040 Speaker 14: But he cheated a lot, so when my son was six, 1101 00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:41,239 Speaker 14: we broke up and my mom offered to let him 1102 00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,920 Speaker 14: live with her temporarily. My son is sixteen now and 1103 00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 14: my baby daddy still lives with my mom. My mom 1104 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:52,719 Speaker 14: has seven sisters that are very messy and there they've 1105 00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,480 Speaker 14: always joked with my mom about having a fine young 1106 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 14: man living with her. One of my aunts has said 1107 00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,440 Speaker 14: for years that she's one hundred percent sure that my 1108 00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,960 Speaker 14: mom and baby daddy are messing around. She swears that 1109 00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:07,239 Speaker 14: my mom got drunk at a house party and went 1110 00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:09,480 Speaker 14: into the bathroom with my baby daddy for close to 1111 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,120 Speaker 14: twenty minutes and came out bragging about how. 1112 00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:12,560 Speaker 1: Good he was. 1113 00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:16,440 Speaker 14: Over the years, I heard stuff like, How'sjamma and baby Daddy. 1114 00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,080 Speaker 14: One of my older aunts finally told me the truth, 1115 00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:21,840 Speaker 14: but I didn't want to believe it. She said that 1116 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:25,120 Speaker 14: my mom told her she really likes my baby daddy 1117 00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:28,520 Speaker 14: and it's way more than a sugar mama thing. She said, 1118 00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:31,080 Speaker 14: my mom feels terrible about it, and she's not going 1119 00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,919 Speaker 14: to stop having sex with him or put him out 1120 00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,880 Speaker 14: the short. A short while after that, my baby daddy 1121 00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 14: came over to see our son, and he had been drinking. 1122 00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,920 Speaker 14: They were playing video games and my baby daddy's phone rang. 1123 00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:47,080 Speaker 14: My son heard him say I love you too, baby, 1124 00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,920 Speaker 14: and I'll be home after I beat your grandson in 1125 00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:53,960 Speaker 14: one more game. My son tried to fight his daddy 1126 00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:57,200 Speaker 14: and I had to get between them. My baby daddy 1127 00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:59,520 Speaker 14: told my son he teach him about being a man 1128 00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:03,360 Speaker 14: later and how stuff like this just happened. I tell 1129 00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:06,840 Speaker 14: my son that's not what manhood is about, and how 1130 00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:07,600 Speaker 14: do I fix this? 1131 00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:08,439 Speaker 10: For my son. 1132 00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:12,840 Speaker 14: I'm hurt too, but I'm more worried about him. This 1133 00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:16,840 Speaker 14: is really sad. I mean, this is a horrible, horrible 1134 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:20,120 Speaker 14: situation here. I mean, your mom did the ultimate betrayal, 1135 00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:22,640 Speaker 14: and I could see why you didn't want to hear 1136 00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:26,680 Speaker 14: the truth because you probably already suspected it anyway, but 1137 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,040 Speaker 14: you didn't want to hear it because this is your mother. 1138 00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:33,800 Speaker 14: It's unthinkable. I mean, you know you're beyond mad at 1139 00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:36,000 Speaker 14: this point. I know you want to fight her. You 1140 00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:38,200 Speaker 14: want to fight your mom, and you probably would if 1141 00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:41,000 Speaker 14: it wasn't your mom. I mean, this is not what 1142 00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:46,120 Speaker 14: a mom does to her daughter. This mom don't do this, 1143 00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,919 Speaker 14: and to her grandson for that matter. I mean, both 1144 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,280 Speaker 14: of them are to blame, of course, the baby daddy, 1145 00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:54,560 Speaker 14: oh my god. 1146 00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:58,400 Speaker 10: But it's just it's hard to get over this kind 1147 00:58:58,480 --> 00:58:59,680 Speaker 10: of hurt. It's hard. 1148 00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:02,080 Speaker 14: It doesn't matter if you and the baby daddy were 1149 00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:04,800 Speaker 14: no longer together, that doesn't even matter at this point. 1150 00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:05,840 Speaker 10: It's just wrong. 1151 00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:09,520 Speaker 14: Okay, you told your son right when you said that, 1152 00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:12,840 Speaker 14: this is not what manhood is about. His father is 1153 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,840 Speaker 14: a very poor example of manhood. How can he date 1154 00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:22,240 Speaker 14: his son's grandmother and his mother I mean stuff like that. 1155 00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:25,800 Speaker 10: It just doesn't happen. So he told him wrong. 1156 00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:31,360 Speaker 14: So his you know, he's teaching a son that men 1157 00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:35,280 Speaker 14: have no control over themselves or they just you know, 1158 00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:38,720 Speaker 14: if it's okay, if they date their mom and their grandmother, 1159 00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:43,600 Speaker 14: that's okay. No, that's not okay. It's just really wrong. 1160 00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 7: You know. 1161 00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:48,960 Speaker 14: My suggestion is to, I don't know, get your son 1162 00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:52,680 Speaker 14: to a mentor, a real good mentor a good example 1163 00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:55,600 Speaker 14: of what a man should be in his life, so 1164 00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,080 Speaker 14: he could show him what it really is all about. 1165 00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:01,120 Speaker 14: It's not what his father is talking about, not this mess, 1166 01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:04,360 Speaker 14: but I mean that. That is my suggestion to you 1167 01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:08,400 Speaker 14: talk more to your son, you know, about this situation, 1168 01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:11,040 Speaker 14: because I'm sure he's upset, and why would his dad 1169 01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,840 Speaker 14: say that in front of him anyway, to his grandmother? 1170 01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:16,120 Speaker 10: You know this this is just a mess. 1171 01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:20,200 Speaker 14: But I would look into a mentor some man that 1172 01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:23,320 Speaker 14: will be a shining example to what a man should 1173 01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:24,400 Speaker 14: be for your son. 1174 01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:29,400 Speaker 1: Steve, Okay, sure, I agree. I agree. I have so 1175 01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:30,840 Speaker 1: many problems in this latter. 1176 01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:33,320 Speaker 2: At first I was going to joke about it, but 1177 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:38,520 Speaker 2: then it turned really seriously because there's a little boy involved, y'all. 1178 01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:39,080 Speaker 1: Adults. 1179 01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,600 Speaker 2: I don't care what y'all do, but I do care 1180 01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:47,240 Speaker 2: about what adults do in front of children, and especially men, 1181 01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:51,800 Speaker 2: because men, you just have to do a better job 1182 01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,240 Speaker 2: of setting examples for our sons, you know. 1183 01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:57,880 Speaker 1: I mean, it's for the little things. 1184 01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:00,840 Speaker 2: It's okay to tell your son not to cry, but 1185 01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,640 Speaker 2: you also have to inform him that it's okay to cry, 1186 01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:05,760 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 1187 01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:11,440 Speaker 1: That has to be a balance, right you know, Listen, you. 1188 01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:15,360 Speaker 2: Got pregnant when you was twenty with your high school sweetheart, 1189 01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 2: and y'all moved in together. But he cheated a lot. 1190 01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,520 Speaker 2: The letter just takes a turn right away. So when 1191 01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:25,800 Speaker 2: my son was six, we broke up and my mom offered, 1192 01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:29,040 Speaker 2: and my mom offered to let him live with her temporarily. 1193 01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:34,720 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, HOLDO, I'm confused. You and your boyfriend 1194 01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:38,760 Speaker 2: break up and you have a baby, your mom offers 1195 01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,200 Speaker 2: to let him come live with her. Why an't you 1196 01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:43,320 Speaker 2: and the boy go live with your mama. That's normally 1197 01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:46,480 Speaker 2: how it go in the normal scope of things. The 1198 01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:49,880 Speaker 2: daughter goes with her mom with her son so she'll 1199 01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 2: have some help, and you know, and let this dude 1200 01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:58,400 Speaker 2: fin for hisself. That's all that was so, I was 1201 01:01:58,520 --> 01:02:02,320 Speaker 2: confused about that. Well, my son is now sixteen and 1202 01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:06,000 Speaker 2: my baby daddy still live with his mom. My mom 1203 01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:08,600 Speaker 2: has seven sisters and they're very messing. They've always joked 1204 01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:10,680 Speaker 2: with my mom about having a fine young man living 1205 01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:13,280 Speaker 2: with her. Excuse me, he left when he was sick. 1206 01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:15,960 Speaker 2: Your son said he been at your mama house ten years? 1207 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:16,560 Speaker 14: Right? 1208 01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:21,520 Speaker 1: Ten years? Who need ten years to get on their feet? 1209 01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:33,320 Speaker 1: Who anybody can pull it together in ten years? I'm confused. 1210 01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:34,800 Speaker 1: I have more when we come back. 1211 01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:41,520 Speaker 10: But this is truly Yeah, it really is bad. It's bad, 1212 01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:43,800 Speaker 10: all right, Steve. 1213 01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:46,880 Speaker 14: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 1214 01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:49,120 Speaker 14: twenty three minutes after the hour. My mom and my 1215 01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:51,520 Speaker 14: baby Daddy. We'll get back into it right after this. 1216 01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:54,880 Speaker 14: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1217 01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,400 Speaker 11: This message is brought to you by Let's Talk Hell. 1218 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,280 Speaker 11: You may not know about numa cocco disease, but if 1219 01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:07,000 Speaker 11: you're fifty years older or nineteen or older with certain 1220 01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:10,280 Speaker 11: medical conditions like diabetes, you'll at risk and it can 1221 01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:13,120 Speaker 11: turn your plans big or small, into a hospital visit. 1222 01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:14,280 Speaker 1: So get vaccinated. 1223 01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:16,320 Speaker 11: It's one action you can take to help protect against 1224 01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:19,400 Speaker 11: Newmacaco pneumonia and invasive newmocacco disease. 1225 01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:22,920 Speaker 1: Keepings on everything you looking forward to, even. 1226 01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:26,080 Speaker 11: If it's just the podcast schedule a shot at vaxsassists 1227 01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:26,600 Speaker 11: dot com. 1228 01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:28,760 Speaker 1: That's vasassists dot com. 1229 01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:32,520 Speaker 14: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter, 1230 01:03:32,640 --> 01:03:34,920 Speaker 14: subjects my mom and my baby Daddy. 1231 01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:39,320 Speaker 2: Well, this young lady twenty years old, got pregnant by 1232 01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,400 Speaker 2: her high school sweetheart to move in together. 1233 01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:43,480 Speaker 1: He cheated a lot, so when their son. 1234 01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:47,320 Speaker 2: Was six, they broke up and her mother offered to 1235 01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,320 Speaker 2: let him live with her temporarily. 1236 01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:51,920 Speaker 1: Like I said earlier, that's backward. 1237 01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:54,880 Speaker 2: Usually the girl and the baby go stay with one 1238 01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,160 Speaker 2: of their pairs so they can have some help and 1239 01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:59,960 Speaker 2: assistance and let the guy go fit in for himself. 1240 01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:04,200 Speaker 2: That was backwards already. Well, my son is sixteen now. 1241 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:07,200 Speaker 2: My baby daddy still live with his mama, with your mama. 1242 01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:10,880 Speaker 1: That's ten years. He been at your mama's house for 1243 01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:12,400 Speaker 1: ten years now. 1244 01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:15,520 Speaker 2: If she was honestly trying to help him out in 1245 01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,000 Speaker 2: the beginning, she been helping him for ten years? 1246 01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:22,480 Speaker 1: Has she been helping her daughter and her grandchild or 1247 01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:29,040 Speaker 1: she just helping him? This sucks man. Now, my mom 1248 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:32,440 Speaker 1: has seven sisters that are very messy, and. 1249 01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:35,080 Speaker 2: They've always joked with my mom about having a fine 1250 01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:36,200 Speaker 2: young man living with her. 1251 01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:37,760 Speaker 1: Well, let me throw this in. 1252 01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:41,240 Speaker 2: If your mom got seven sisters that are messy, ain't 1253 01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:44,200 Speaker 2: ain't your mama one of the sisters. Ain't she from 1254 01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:45,120 Speaker 2: a messy family? 1255 01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:45,680 Speaker 8: Oh? 1256 01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:48,520 Speaker 1: Oh, starting to sound like the story to me. 1257 01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,040 Speaker 2: If all seven of your sisters is messy, how does 1258 01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:53,560 Speaker 2: she skip the messiness? 1259 01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,200 Speaker 1: She didn't? What are your aunts has saying for years? 1260 01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:59,360 Speaker 2: And she's one hundred present sure that my mom and 1261 01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:00,880 Speaker 2: baby daddy I'm messing around. 1262 01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,520 Speaker 1: Well he's been there ten years. Who living at this 1263 01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:06,560 Speaker 1: house for ten years? 1264 01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:07,120 Speaker 14: And what. 1265 01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:11,840 Speaker 1: Now? She swears that my mom got drunk at the 1266 01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:14,320 Speaker 1: house party right there. 1267 01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:19,320 Speaker 2: See, we're in the family that's still throwing house party. 1268 01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:25,480 Speaker 2: You see where this is going. There's no progression in 1269 01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:28,280 Speaker 2: this story at all. Your mama got drunk out of 1270 01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:31,880 Speaker 2: house party. How old are you to stop going to 1271 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:35,360 Speaker 2: house parties and get drunk? Let's see this story, ain't 1272 01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:40,320 Speaker 2: got no upside And came and went to the then 1273 01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:42,800 Speaker 2: went into the bathroom with your baby daddy for close 1274 01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 2: to twenty minutes, came out bragging about how good he was. 1275 01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:56,920 Speaker 2: You saw Boomerain, You saw the movie when the late 1276 01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:59,800 Speaker 2: great Witherspoon came out of their bathroom with that jacket. 1277 01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:00,960 Speaker 1: Is you saw him? 1278 01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:01,720 Speaker 5: Yes? 1279 01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:05,440 Speaker 10: You embarrass me At every I heard stuff. 1280 01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:07,920 Speaker 2: Like how your mama and baby daddy. One of my 1281 01:06:08,080 --> 01:06:10,800 Speaker 2: older aunts finally told me the truth, but I didn't 1282 01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:13,080 Speaker 2: want to believe her. What is it You didn't want 1283 01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:17,000 Speaker 2: to believe One of the older aunts finally told her, 1284 01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:18,360 Speaker 2: and you didn't even want to believe her. 1285 01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:23,479 Speaker 1: Why he been over that ten years? She said? 1286 01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:25,960 Speaker 2: Your mom told her she really likes my baby daddy 1287 01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:27,720 Speaker 2: and it's more than a sugar mama thing. 1288 01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:32,040 Speaker 1: Okay, so she taking care of this boy, she said. 1289 01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,600 Speaker 2: My mom feels terrible about it, but she's not gonna 1290 01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:36,960 Speaker 2: stop having sex with him or put him out. 1291 01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:40,040 Speaker 1: Sure. A while after that, my baby daddy came over 1292 01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:43,120 Speaker 1: to see our son. He been drinking. 1293 01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:47,320 Speaker 2: Okay, see there's no progression in this store. Your baby 1294 01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:50,320 Speaker 2: daddy's still drinking. Your baby daddy still live at home 1295 01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:51,640 Speaker 2: with yo mama. 1296 01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:53,000 Speaker 1: You're a boy. 1297 01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:57,880 Speaker 2: He been over that ten years? He thirty four. You 1298 01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:00,440 Speaker 2: got pregnant at twenty. Your husband was six when he 1299 01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:03,560 Speaker 2: left he been over that ten years. Your husband thirty 1300 01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:05,200 Speaker 2: six years old. 1301 01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:09,840 Speaker 1: He said he was six. Ye, No, the boy was sick. 1302 01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:13,600 Speaker 2: The baby was six when he wouldn't live with your mama. 1303 01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:16,320 Speaker 2: He's been over that ten years. He was pregnant at twenty. 1304 01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:23,400 Speaker 2: Your man is boy, your baby's daddy, boy is thirty 1305 01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:27,320 Speaker 2: six and live with your mama, that she taken care of. 1306 01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:30,680 Speaker 2: And she want to have sex with a machine, putting 1307 01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:33,160 Speaker 2: him out. Then your baby daddy came over to see 1308 01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:36,040 Speaker 2: our son. He was drinking at thirty six, still drinking, 1309 01:07:36,120 --> 01:07:37,480 Speaker 2: still living home with your mama. 1310 01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:40,840 Speaker 1: They playing vidego games. My baby daddy phone ring. 1311 01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:44,640 Speaker 2: Your son, who is older now heard him say I 1312 01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:46,600 Speaker 2: love you too, baby, and I'll be home after I 1313 01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:50,200 Speaker 2: beat your grandson in one more girl. Then your son 1314 01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:53,280 Speaker 2: tried to fight his daddy. Why because your son know 1315 01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:57,080 Speaker 2: that's wrong. However old your son is, he already know 1316 01:07:57,240 --> 01:07:58,280 Speaker 2: his daddy wrong for that. 1317 01:07:59,120 --> 01:07:59,919 Speaker 1: I had to get bera. 1318 01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:03,760 Speaker 2: My baby daddy told my son he teach him about 1319 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:06,680 Speaker 2: being a man. Later on, when is he gonna teach him? 1320 01:08:06,680 --> 01:08:07,120 Speaker 1: He don't know. 1321 01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:11,400 Speaker 2: This is a trifling mom. So this a trifling mama. 1322 01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:15,480 Speaker 2: This is a trifling baby Daddy and so Shirley here 1323 01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:18,040 Speaker 2: is correct. You gotta get a male mentor in front 1324 01:08:18,040 --> 01:08:21,680 Speaker 2: of this young man. And it's a damn shame that 1325 01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:24,000 Speaker 2: he gonna teach him about being a man lady. 1326 01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:27,200 Speaker 1: And how stuff like this just happens. It don't just happen. 1327 01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:30,880 Speaker 2: See anything that's been happening for ten years don't just 1328 01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:31,920 Speaker 2: keep happening. 1329 01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:34,960 Speaker 1: At one point we on purpose. 1330 01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:39,160 Speaker 2: You can write to having sex off with your mama, 1331 01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:45,160 Speaker 2: your step mama one time, but unless you've been drunk 1332 01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:52,759 Speaker 2: continuously for ten years, you ain't had a sober moment 1333 01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:57,720 Speaker 2: in ten years to rethink this. I told my son 1334 01:08:57,840 --> 01:09:01,120 Speaker 2: that's not what manhood is about. You are correct? How 1335 01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:03,200 Speaker 2: do I fix this for my son? I'm hurt too, 1336 01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:06,800 Speaker 2: but I'm more worried about him. Get your son around 1337 01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:09,479 Speaker 2: some men, Get your son to church, Let him be 1338 01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:13,000 Speaker 2: around some solid people. He's got to have faith in 1339 01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:18,200 Speaker 2: this situation, and so do you. You may need counseling 1340 01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,640 Speaker 2: and prayer, and you need to get yourself together so 1341 01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:26,080 Speaker 2: you and your son can move forward. And I don't 1342 01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:27,960 Speaker 2: know how you're going to address your mama with this, 1343 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:31,400 Speaker 2: but something, something gotta get bought to light wrong. 1344 01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:33,920 Speaker 1: Put acting like this is happening right here. 1345 01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:38,160 Speaker 14: All right, thanks, I'd like the super glue liv post 1346 01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:41,760 Speaker 14: your comments on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey FM 1347 01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:44,959 Speaker 14: on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast 1348 01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:47,599 Speaker 14: on demand. Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1349 01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:51,280 Speaker 14: Show right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 1350 01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:51,960 Speaker 14: Morning Show. 1351 01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:55,320 Speaker 1: This message is brought to you by Pfizer. 1352 01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:57,600 Speaker 11: If you're fifty hour older, getting sick and keep you 1353 01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:00,719 Speaker 11: away from where you need to be. Don't want surprises 1354 01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:04,200 Speaker 11: like numacacco pneumonia or invasive numacacco disease. 1355 01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:06,639 Speaker 1: You're six point four times more likely to get. 1356 01:10:06,560 --> 01:10:10,320 Speaker 11: Numacacco pneumonia compared with adults eighteen to forty nine. It's 1357 01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:13,519 Speaker 11: recommended that people fifty or old that get vaccinated. Being 1358 01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:16,320 Speaker 11: sick can get between you and the people who rely 1359 01:10:16,520 --> 01:10:19,800 Speaker 11: on you. So scared of your stat at vasassist dot com. 1360 01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:24,599 Speaker 14: So here's a question for you, guys. Did you ever 1361 01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:27,640 Speaker 14: write love letters to your high school sweetheart or to 1362 01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:28,880 Speaker 14: women period? 1363 01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:30,360 Speaker 10: I mean, do you think they work? 1364 01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:31,120 Speaker 7: Now? 1365 01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:31,640 Speaker 5: Yes? 1366 01:10:31,720 --> 01:10:31,920 Speaker 19: You did? 1367 01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:32,400 Speaker 7: Well? 1368 01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:32,720 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1369 01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:40,080 Speaker 1: How did you? I lived this segregation? You ain't write 1370 01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:40,519 Speaker 1: no letter. 1371 01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:43,800 Speaker 2: They may stamp talking about Nicktim trying to hope that 1372 01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:45,280 Speaker 2: this girl would want me back. 1373 01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:48,519 Speaker 1: You're what'd you say, though, Steve? Because I know you 1374 01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:49,599 Speaker 1: drop stuff off. 1375 01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:51,840 Speaker 2: I'll tell you one of the deepest things I did 1376 01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:55,320 Speaker 2: was I was a senior in high school. Man, I 1377 01:10:55,439 --> 01:10:58,679 Speaker 2: wanted this girl man so bad. I wrote the lyrics 1378 01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:02,800 Speaker 2: to Devotion by Earth, Wind and Fire on a poster board, 1379 01:11:03,160 --> 01:11:05,519 Speaker 2: tuck my T shirt in my pants, put it in 1380 01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:07,600 Speaker 2: the back of my T shirt like a like a 1381 01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:10,880 Speaker 2: bow and arrow case, and got on my bike and 1382 01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:13,320 Speaker 2: rode over to her house and rode them down the 1383 01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:16,519 Speaker 2: street till she came out on the porch. And just 1384 01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:18,280 Speaker 2: because I had no way of calling her, you know, 1385 01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:20,680 Speaker 2: so rode them down the street till she came out. 1386 01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,080 Speaker 2: I got off my bike and handed a tour She 1387 01:11:23,240 --> 01:11:26,400 Speaker 2: unrolled it on the thing and read the whole all 1388 01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:28,479 Speaker 2: the whole lyrics to devotion. 1389 01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:30,320 Speaker 10: Oh does she cry? 1390 01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:30,960 Speaker 8: Or was she? 1391 01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:34,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? She cried yeah when her father came out on 1392 01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:36,240 Speaker 1: the porch and put my ass off the porch. 1393 01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:48,800 Speaker 8: Get your ass off the throat, fastic evils, what about you? 1394 01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:54,759 Speaker 11: Definitely high school? Sweetheart, wrote it. Walked to the high school. 1395 01:11:55,120 --> 01:11:59,639 Speaker 11: Sweet that's my grandmama, say my nose was wide over. 1396 01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:09,639 Speaker 9: No, I'm three generations from three months. That's two stuff 1397 01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:10,240 Speaker 9: we over here. 1398 01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:10,559 Speaker 20: Test. 1399 01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:14,480 Speaker 3: I made cassette tape. 1400 01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:14,840 Speaker 1: That's what I had. 1401 01:12:16,680 --> 01:12:17,120 Speaker 4: I had that. 1402 01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:20,560 Speaker 9: I listened to Quiet Stole Press playing Paul for You 1403 01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:22,960 Speaker 9: record song did You Fall the Dog? 1404 01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:25,040 Speaker 1: That's what I had to do. But love letters. 1405 01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:29,920 Speaker 3: We had technoledgey by this time, a little bit of it. 1406 01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:31,920 Speaker 1: We was paying paper boy. 1407 01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:33,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all were paying payp for it. 1408 01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:40,720 Speaker 2: Man, damn the pony expressed with my bike here, yeah, 1409 01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:45,120 Speaker 2: delivered my damn self. I wrote a girl a letter 1410 01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:47,960 Speaker 2: one time, man, and I you know, I just wanted 1411 01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:49,840 Speaker 2: her to like when I drove it over the house 1412 01:12:49,920 --> 01:12:53,360 Speaker 2: and put it in the mailbox and I'm riding up 1413 01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:55,320 Speaker 2: the street and then I come back down the hill 1414 01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:59,800 Speaker 2: just to see and uh she would had reached out 1415 01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:01,800 Speaker 2: there and pull the uh. 1416 01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:04,240 Speaker 1: Let out the mailbox, didn't even open it and just 1417 01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:08,640 Speaker 1: tow it in hand. What man, that broke my heart? Man, 1418 01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:10,560 Speaker 1: was heartbreaking. 1419 01:13:12,560 --> 01:13:14,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, hair, Yeah, I had to write it on there, 1420 01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:17,000 Speaker 2: you know, okay, oh okay, you know, got put it 1421 01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:19,120 Speaker 2: in a mailbox. Got and make sure her mama, daddy 1422 01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:22,720 Speaker 2: don't get it, have a name on and everything. She 1423 01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:25,040 Speaker 2: As soon as I came back down the hill, I said, Man, 1424 01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:27,479 Speaker 2: she reaching in the mailbox to get it, pull it 1425 01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:29,160 Speaker 2: out the mailbox and tow it in half. 1426 01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:38,160 Speaker 14: Sharing didn't Who knew you guys were so romantic? You're 1427 01:13:38,200 --> 01:13:43,000 Speaker 14: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, while a 1428 01:13:43,080 --> 01:13:45,719 Speaker 14: lot of people are out there looking for the one, 1429 01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:49,400 Speaker 14: there are apparently plenty of people who don't think monogamy 1430 01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:53,439 Speaker 14: is for them, even if they're married. And while some 1431 01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:56,760 Speaker 14: people would never be satisfied with an open relationship that 1432 01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:59,519 Speaker 14: allows them and their partner to sleep with other people, 1433 01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:02,439 Speaker 14: a brand new poll finds that there are a lot 1434 01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:06,559 Speaker 14: of people who are curious about them. A new UGV 1435 01:14:06,720 --> 01:14:10,040 Speaker 14: poll of more than twenty three thousand Americans find that 1436 01:14:10,160 --> 01:14:14,479 Speaker 14: twenty six percent of Americans are interested in having an 1437 01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:20,479 Speaker 14: open relationship, while sixty eight percent are absolutely not interested. 1438 01:14:20,960 --> 01:14:22,559 Speaker 10: So here's the question for you, guys. 1439 01:14:23,120 --> 01:14:26,599 Speaker 14: Have you ever been in an open relationship that didn't 1440 01:14:26,680 --> 01:14:27,120 Speaker 14: work out? 1441 01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:31,600 Speaker 10: Or do you want to be in an open relationship? 1442 01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:33,200 Speaker 1: Have you found no? Hell? 1443 01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:34,880 Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean I know you guys are married. 1444 01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:39,400 Speaker 2: We know and heal man, Hell no not being in 1445 01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:43,160 Speaker 2: no damn open My wife gonna be out your mind 1446 01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:43,840 Speaker 2: may get. 1447 01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:46,360 Speaker 1: Out of here. My wife just gonna lead it out. 1448 01:14:46,360 --> 01:14:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm going over dow nails. I'd be back. What you're 1449 01:14:50,040 --> 01:14:50,439 Speaker 1: going with. 1450 01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:53,440 Speaker 3: Open relationships? 1451 01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:55,360 Speaker 1: What you're going to do? Nail? 1452 01:14:56,400 --> 01:14:58,120 Speaker 3: I have trouble making it work with the one. 1453 01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:01,200 Speaker 10: You're right, You get married, that's all. 1454 01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:04,240 Speaker 2: I've been in an open relationship before, but ain't nobody 1455 01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:10,160 Speaker 2: know it? You knew it, you knew I used to 1456 01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:10,639 Speaker 2: be wide. 1457 01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,959 Speaker 1: I was the only one had that information. 1458 01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:21,920 Speaker 3: And when the other party found out, you denied it, 1459 01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:22,240 Speaker 3: didn't you? 1460 01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:23,040 Speaker 5: What? 1461 01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:25,519 Speaker 10: What you your life? 1462 01:15:25,560 --> 01:15:26,680 Speaker 1: When do. 1463 01:15:29,880 --> 01:15:30,040 Speaker 4: Wo? 1464 01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:32,439 Speaker 12: Wow? 1465 01:15:33,080 --> 01:15:34,120 Speaker 1: Open relationship? 1466 01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:34,479 Speaker 7: When? 1467 01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:37,400 Speaker 13: Yeah? 1468 01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:39,120 Speaker 2: Wow? 1469 01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:44,720 Speaker 1: What fault you? 1470 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:47,760 Speaker 10: Why get married if you want to be in an 1471 01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:50,280 Speaker 10: open relationship? That's always my question? 1472 01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:51,040 Speaker 7: What is what? 1473 01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:54,080 Speaker 10: Why get married if you want to be in an 1474 01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:54,959 Speaker 10: open relationship? 1475 01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:56,720 Speaker 2: I didn't even know you were just talking about married, 1476 01:15:56,800 --> 01:15:59,000 Speaker 2: But I'm just talking. You're talking about relationship. But if 1477 01:15:59,040 --> 01:16:01,360 Speaker 2: you married, I don't even understand that at all. 1478 01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:03,280 Speaker 1: Why would you get married? Why are you up there 1479 01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:08,120 Speaker 1: saying vows yeah, yeah, that's beyond me. 1480 01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:09,559 Speaker 20: Huh. 1481 01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:13,559 Speaker 10: I said married couples are in open relationships, so they are? 1482 01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:14,240 Speaker 5: Yeah? 1483 01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:16,519 Speaker 10: I mean, why even get married if you want to 1484 01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:17,759 Speaker 10: be in an open relationship. 1485 01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:23,120 Speaker 2: I don't know anybody that has an open relationship that's 1486 01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:27,439 Speaker 2: going to last, and there are several people talking about it. 1487 01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:29,800 Speaker 2: But if that's what you have, then if that's the 1488 01:16:29,880 --> 01:16:31,800 Speaker 2: type of marriage and this can work for you, didn't 1489 01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:32,519 Speaker 2: go ahead and do you? 1490 01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:37,200 Speaker 1: I don't care, do you boo? I don't care. 1491 01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:41,479 Speaker 2: But you know, but you know, like we were talking 1492 01:16:41,520 --> 01:16:44,320 Speaker 2: about my old interview that was trending the other day, 1493 01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:50,280 Speaker 2: and you know, like you know, once again, it's my opinion, 1494 01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:53,559 Speaker 2: and you're free to have whatever your opinion you want. 1495 01:16:54,600 --> 01:16:58,080 Speaker 2: But this open relationship, I go back to that example, 1496 01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:00,880 Speaker 2: thought about it over and over. If you're in a 1497 01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:04,280 Speaker 2: committed relationship and you have a female friend and you're 1498 01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:06,720 Speaker 2: a man, and you're in bed at two o'clock in 1499 01:17:06,760 --> 01:17:10,280 Speaker 2: the morning and your friend quote unquote, this girl who 1500 01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:12,400 Speaker 2: you say is your friend calls you a two in 1501 01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:15,320 Speaker 2: the morning and says she has a flat tie out 1502 01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:17,920 Speaker 2: on the road, And you get up out your bed 1503 01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:21,920 Speaker 2: and tell your committed partner that you're in a relationship with. 1504 01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:24,320 Speaker 2: You're getting about your bed to put some clothes on 1505 01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:27,640 Speaker 2: to go change the tire of a woman that's just 1506 01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:34,040 Speaker 2: your friend who laying next to you is going for that. 1507 01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:41,680 Speaker 10: Charlene, Uh, Carler, no, no not, I mean we'll both go. 1508 01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:44,439 Speaker 3: She needs you leave me? 1509 01:17:44,920 --> 01:17:47,080 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no no no. When you say 1510 01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:51,120 Speaker 1: we both going, oh that's really not gonna happen. Well, 1511 01:17:51,400 --> 01:17:53,680 Speaker 1: I understand what Shirley is saying. I'll go with you. 1512 01:17:55,040 --> 01:17:56,920 Speaker 10: You're not just gonna leave me right here and go. 1513 01:17:57,320 --> 01:17:58,320 Speaker 1: She got fixed. 1514 01:18:00,600 --> 01:18:01,120 Speaker 10: Triple A. 1515 01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:05,720 Speaker 3: I'm about to say triple A emergency ros. 1516 01:18:06,240 --> 01:18:09,360 Speaker 1: Gonna be because a woman know why she got to 1517 01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:09,920 Speaker 1: call you? 1518 01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:11,000 Speaker 10: Yeah? 1519 01:18:11,479 --> 01:18:12,960 Speaker 1: Uh huh, I wire you to go. 1520 01:18:13,080 --> 01:18:14,960 Speaker 10: To guys because you're my friend. 1521 01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:21,800 Speaker 14: Well, yeah, we'll get more of today's trending stories on 1522 01:18:21,920 --> 01:18:24,040 Speaker 14: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after. 1523 01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:27,519 Speaker 10: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1524 01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:33,519 Speaker 14: According to the Washington Post, getting hot and sweaty between 1525 01:18:33,560 --> 01:18:36,599 Speaker 14: the sheets can feel like a workout, and several recent 1526 01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:42,639 Speaker 14: studies look into answering is sex exercise. Researchers in Spain 1527 01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:46,600 Speaker 14: study couples and found that sex counts as moderate exercise 1528 01:18:47,040 --> 01:18:49,760 Speaker 14: as it revs up the heart rate and burns calories, 1529 01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:52,800 Speaker 14: but just how much varies widely. The amount of time 1530 01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:56,759 Speaker 14: people spend having sex also varies with young, healthy couples 1531 01:18:56,840 --> 01:18:59,679 Speaker 14: going at it for an average of thirty two minutes. 1532 01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:04,040 Speaker 14: Wild couples with health conditions last about nineteen minutes. 1533 01:19:04,320 --> 01:19:05,800 Speaker 10: So here's a question for you, guys. 1534 01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:07,000 Speaker 4: Guys. 1535 01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:08,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's me right there. 1536 01:19:09,160 --> 01:19:10,599 Speaker 10: Yeah, go back to health conditions. 1537 01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:12,280 Speaker 3: That's why I'm in nineteen nineteen. 1538 01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:19,120 Speaker 14: You're all right, So come on, sexy guys. 1539 01:19:19,240 --> 01:19:20,960 Speaker 10: Do you consider sex of workout? 1540 01:19:22,800 --> 01:19:25,280 Speaker 14: And do you ever look at your fitness tracker to 1541 01:19:25,320 --> 01:19:27,680 Speaker 14: see how many calories it burns or your heart rate? 1542 01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:29,519 Speaker 10: That's the question. 1543 01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:33,559 Speaker 2: Okay, I can't have nothing on mean what I mean? 1544 01:19:35,360 --> 01:19:37,519 Speaker 2: I can't have no extra chords or nothing I got. 1545 01:19:39,200 --> 01:19:42,080 Speaker 2: I can't watch Caught on the Sheet, none of that. 1546 01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:44,600 Speaker 2: I can't have nothing to throw my rhythm off. I 1547 01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:46,040 Speaker 2: can't hear no long go off. 1548 01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:51,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. Warning, warning, you're in the red. You're into red. 1549 01:19:51,200 --> 01:19:57,400 Speaker 1: You're a heart riding through hard load. You're dying. You 1550 01:19:57,840 --> 01:20:00,720 Speaker 1: are dying. D you hit it? 1551 01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:05,280 Speaker 14: Coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll 1552 01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:07,360 Speaker 14: play around it, would you rather right after this? 1553 01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:08,800 Speaker 4: Who is this guy? 1554 01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:11,160 Speaker 15: No, No, I don't know him. 1555 01:20:11,520 --> 01:20:15,040 Speaker 14: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This message 1556 01:20:15,120 --> 01:20:17,880 Speaker 14: is brought to you by Pfizer. If you're fifty or older, 1557 01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:20,360 Speaker 14: getting sick can keep you away from where you need 1558 01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:23,400 Speaker 14: to be. You don't want surprises like new micacle pneumonia 1559 01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:26,960 Speaker 14: or invasive new macaccle disease. You're six point four times 1560 01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:30,280 Speaker 14: more likely to get new macacle pneumonia compared with adults 1561 01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:34,000 Speaker 14: eighteen to forty nine. It's recommended that people fifty or 1562 01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:37,920 Speaker 14: older get vaccinated. Being sick could get between you and 1563 01:20:38,080 --> 01:20:41,080 Speaker 14: the people who rely on you, So schedule your shot 1564 01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:44,840 Speaker 14: at vaxsist dot com. It is time now for a 1565 01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:48,160 Speaker 14: round of would you rather? Would you rather ignore your 1566 01:20:48,240 --> 01:20:51,800 Speaker 14: wife during an argument? Or would you rather just keep 1567 01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:53,000 Speaker 14: disagreeing with her? 1568 01:20:54,040 --> 01:21:01,800 Speaker 3: Go ahead, yes, just ignore? No, famous, that's probably. 1569 01:21:01,560 --> 01:21:04,960 Speaker 1: The better of the two. I mean, yeah, that's the 1570 01:21:05,040 --> 01:21:06,679 Speaker 1: better of the two. I'm listening. 1571 01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:10,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the better. Oh no, no, no, keep on, 1572 01:21:10,960 --> 01:21:14,960 Speaker 2: I'm not listening. I'm not I'm not even listening. I 1573 01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:16,680 Speaker 2: ain't got no feedback. I don't know what you say. 1574 01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:23,479 Speaker 2: Block you out. Yeah, I'm in my mind. I'm replaying 1575 01:21:23,560 --> 01:21:30,120 Speaker 2: the third quarter of the Browns game. I'm talking about 1576 01:21:30,240 --> 01:21:32,639 Speaker 2: completely out all out here. 1577 01:21:32,760 --> 01:21:38,360 Speaker 1: Why wow, wow, wow wow all out here. When I'm 1578 01:21:38,760 --> 01:21:42,160 Speaker 1: man might listening A man, I just I just did 1579 01:21:42,200 --> 01:21:47,880 Speaker 1: it yesterday, so this is fresh. Yeah, she was just 1580 01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:50,519 Speaker 1: talking and talking and talking. I ain't careing. 1581 01:21:50,600 --> 01:21:53,280 Speaker 2: Damn, I've been through with that conversation. Because that's y'all 1582 01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:56,040 Speaker 2: problem though. See y'all like to y'all like to keep 1583 01:21:56,080 --> 01:22:00,960 Speaker 2: having the same conversation. Re re regurgitate, go back over it, 1584 01:22:01,240 --> 01:22:02,639 Speaker 2: rephrase it, keep talking. 1585 01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:03,120 Speaker 1: I'm through. 1586 01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:05,479 Speaker 6: I heard you, all right? 1587 01:22:05,840 --> 01:22:06,120 Speaker 11: All right? 1588 01:22:06,120 --> 01:22:09,720 Speaker 10: Would you rather connect your phone to bluetooth in your 1589 01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:11,960 Speaker 10: car or just always share your location? 1590 01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:15,200 Speaker 1: Who writes this stuff? Man? Who does this? 1591 01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:16,920 Speaker 10: Just answer it? 1592 01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:24,560 Speaker 2: Okay, it don't matter to me. I don't get no 1593 01:22:24,720 --> 01:22:28,920 Speaker 2: phone calls, so you know. But even the phone calls 1594 01:22:28,920 --> 01:22:29,479 Speaker 2: I do got. 1595 01:22:29,560 --> 01:22:30,519 Speaker 4: She don't. 1596 01:22:32,280 --> 01:22:34,519 Speaker 1: You got to share my location? Hell, I'm at home. 1597 01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:39,320 Speaker 1: All you got to do is come downstairs. I'm in 1598 01:22:39,439 --> 01:22:41,960 Speaker 1: my office. Sleep the hell you got to look for 1599 01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:44,320 Speaker 1: me phone? My phone is with me. 1600 01:22:44,439 --> 01:22:46,960 Speaker 2: It's right there. I'm at the house. I don't go nowhere. 1601 01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:48,360 Speaker 2: I'm at the house. 1602 01:22:48,560 --> 01:22:53,120 Speaker 1: Where you being downstairs? That we're always been. 1603 01:22:55,280 --> 01:22:56,160 Speaker 4: I ain't ever. 1604 01:22:56,080 --> 01:22:59,240 Speaker 2: Beat my wife to bed ever, I can't remember the 1605 01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:01,320 Speaker 2: times I went to bed before March. 1606 01:23:01,560 --> 01:23:04,479 Speaker 1: I can't even remember that. How me time she came, 1607 01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:06,160 Speaker 1: I said, woke me up. So you're just gonna stay 1608 01:23:06,200 --> 01:23:09,720 Speaker 1: down here quiet, all right? 1609 01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:14,679 Speaker 14: Would you rather tear tattoo your hairline in? Or would 1610 01:23:14,680 --> 01:23:17,559 Speaker 14: you rather tattoo your wife's name. 1611 01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:18,040 Speaker 10: On your neck? 1612 01:23:24,320 --> 01:23:24,519 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1613 01:23:24,640 --> 01:23:27,200 Speaker 1: I'm showing your neck. 1614 01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:31,800 Speaker 9: I'll be tattooed in. 1615 01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:35,720 Speaker 1: That's it. Yeah, Yeah, you ain't gonna tatch. Let me 1616 01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:36,200 Speaker 1: tell you something. 1617 01:23:36,400 --> 01:23:38,720 Speaker 2: If you tattoo that hairline and it be in time 1618 01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:44,080 Speaker 2: to see you see that Texas that you got on. 1619 01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:48,439 Speaker 2: All right, get that sold on your head. 1620 01:23:49,200 --> 01:23:51,800 Speaker 10: That's today's rounded. 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