1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached 2 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: my personal voice mailbox for the Dear Cheekyes Podcast. I'm 3 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: here to give you advice on anything and everything you 4 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: need help with, whether you're going through a breakup or 5 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: having issues with your family, or maybe you have a 6 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I 7 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts 8 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious 9 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: All right, Now, go ahead and leave your message at 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: the sound of the beeB. 12 00:00:51,120 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 2: Pilch corft por primeravez la deco and concerto signific I 13 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 2: mean backstory there likes cancion porsmo porque il significant canciones 14 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: if Elissa versa called much as bend. 15 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 3: I particularly in Yes. 16 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: Okay, guys, So Patty is asking me, there's a song 17 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: that my mom sang to me at her last concert 18 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: called Paloma Negra, which is black Dove, and it's basically 19 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: about missing someone and my mom and I were strange. 20 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: We weren't speaking when she past. So she's asking me 21 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: how I felt when I heard that my mom sang 22 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 1: that song to me and dedicated to me at her 23 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: last concert. So I'm gonna go ahead and respond and 24 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: then I'll come back to you, Okay, B definitia, momento 25 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: porceesa como su manrandoen laesur la primeraes came selicoo, mikey 26 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 1: sefue book camp, messasco lego, mandarlo pero, Yeah, loke madre paraque, 27 00:02:54,720 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 1: suijo nos to and quo maas mass pass and micrasson. 28 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 4: I I. 29 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: Tranquila perrone especial. So, guys, I was just telling Patty that, yes, 30 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: I felt amazing when my mom, you know, saying me 31 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: that song at her last concert, because right after that 32 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: concert is when she passed, and we hadn't been talking 33 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: for about two months, as some of you may know, 34 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: and if you don't know, well that's what happened. So 35 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: listening to that song and what it says, it's basically 36 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: saying that you miss someone, but as much as it hurts, 37 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: you don't want them to come back. But for me, 38 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: even if it says that, it still was an indication 39 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: and it still is an indication that she missed me, 40 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: that we were on the verge of speaking, but you know, 41 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: time did what it had to do, and or destiny, 42 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's still something that confuses me sometimes, 43 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: but I have a lot of peace because she sang 44 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,600 Speaker 1: me that song and dedicated to me publicly actually on 45 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: both her last concerts, and I think it was her 46 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 1: way of calling out and maybe for me to reach 47 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 1: out again. I don't know, but it's definitely a special 48 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: song for me and my siblings. She also dedicated to 49 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: my brother years before when he was sent to boot 50 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: camp because he was being a bad boy and she 51 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 1: missed him very much, and she dedicated him that song 52 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: and would cry every time she heard it, and I, 53 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 1: of course, if I'm drinking, I'll for sure cry as 54 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: well when I'm listening to that song. It's so special 55 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: to us, to my family so much as it I says, Pat, 56 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: thank you so much. We're gonna go with yeah yah. 57 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 3: Now hey, Cheeky's So, my question is how often do 58 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 3: you eat tacos? What is your favorite kind of taco? 59 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 3: And then what sasas do you love. 60 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: Using when you eat tacos, if you like salsa, and then, 61 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: because I'm extra nosy, I even want to know what 62 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: you drink. 63 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 3: I want to know, does Jane. 64 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 1: Drink alcoca haritos or like an awa fleska? I don't know. 65 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 1: I feel like everyone is asking you the same question 66 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 1: in a different font, and honestly, I want to. 67 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 3: Know what like your taco order is. Anyway, Thank you, 68 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 3: I love you, and bye. Oh my gosh, I love 69 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 3: this question. Anything that has to do with food. Oh 70 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 3: my god. Yeah, yeah, love it. This is why I 71 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 3: love your cheekies. Guys. 72 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 1: We get to learn about each other and grow together. 73 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: And then you, guys, ask me whatever you want. And 74 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: of course I'm an open book, so yes, my favorite tacos. 75 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: My taco order is usually asada. I sometimes like the 76 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 1: onion and cilantro. Sometimes I like to, you know, put 77 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 1: some lime on them. Sometimes I'll do chicken. But usually 78 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: if I'm ana have tacos, they are gonna be a salad. 79 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: And I like one tortilla. You know how some places 80 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:16,359 Speaker 1: to two tortillas. I always ask for one, just because 81 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 1: I like to have more meat, more protein, and also 82 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: less carbs, but also because I love the taste of 83 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: just one, and I like the smaller tortillas. I'm very particular. Actually, 84 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: I'm glad you're asking me this, but that's how I 85 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:32,919 Speaker 1: like my tacos, one single tortilla. And I love green salsa. 86 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm a green salsa girl because it's 87 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: a little tangy, a little like sour e citrusy, and 88 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 1: sometimes I'll put a little bit of the red. But 89 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: I'm definitely a green salsad type of girl. And I 90 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: like auas frescas. If they have ajualapina, I'll take it 91 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: all day. Love aualapina a coca cola, especially if I'm 92 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: in Mexico eating tacos. Oh, you just have to have 93 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: a coke, you know. But if they don't have a 94 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 1: my second go to Isa Marindo, then Hamaka, then Chata 95 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: another girl, Emilio. So yeah, oh my gosh, I love 96 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: this question. This is fun and we're starting off so great. Yeah, 97 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: thank you girl. If you have any more questions like that, 98 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: bring them on. Okay, guys, last question comes from you. 99 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 4: O lets is the Bible? Who's to. 100 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 5: Mira context? And quatus is a kid you record and 101 00:07:43,360 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 5: this text records mascos quadrupus on the meals the met 102 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 5: in David, you know sentiments and its sentiment India. 103 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 4: Squat. You know, Marc is the. 104 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 5: Is the jo Lances puntaq so so medi mahinando menando. 105 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 4: For Susa. Yeah, permitia ke kundo is gonna be hamas. 106 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: When Corto p the star is the Jose. And before 107 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: I answer you send you guys, I just want to 108 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 1: kind of give you what it is that she's asking. 109 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: So she is asking if she should forgive her mother. 110 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: She was touched by one of her uncles I'm assuming 111 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,959 Speaker 1: her mother's brother when she was around three or four, 112 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: and she asked her uncle one day, why did you 113 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 1: do this to me? And he said, you're imagining it. 114 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: The mom, I guess stayed with that idea on her 115 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 1: head and then started saying that, you know, she it 116 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,439 Speaker 1: was her fault, that it was her fault for basically 117 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: sleeping with them, and then that's when it cut off. 118 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: So look, you guys, I'm huge on forgiveness and forgiving 119 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: is it is very healing and important for us, not 120 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: for the other person. It's a gift for ourselves. So 121 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: let me answer her and I'll get back to you. 122 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: See is algol mente guandros barres olas persona. 123 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 3: No no no scren Lerich himos a j Jose to madre. 124 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: Rosy to my man todavilla ses to coulpa and to 125 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: my man yourrocesi is important an a grand differenzia entreper 126 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:30,199 Speaker 1: donar albi there a persona and tubida Jose to ma 127 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: man respect pres definite amene pero s to my man, 128 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: not estando respect to com um comosu to luar como 129 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 1: joke you know who's gas proper mano familiar le perou 130 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: tou s liste superbo param and the opinion to ma 131 00:10:55,960 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: master madelon parti as av larry to no magusta te 132 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: perdono and normelo piras pero meelnto. No, your croner desto 133 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: form lisner is no star lore or convivi com persons 134 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: cantano posto. It was josefici diferent dieselo en umbireo into 135 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: telephono to telefhano and una carta perot it's important ya 136 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 1: to telets l pork y poet la decision the card boy. Yeah, no, 137 00:11:54,400 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: d less respecto lo crocsi is important paraticile pero no, but. 138 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 3: Espiritoo the well guys. 139 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 1: I'll try to be quick because I went on a 140 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 1: bit of a tangent, but I did tell her that 141 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: I think forgiving is very important. We talk about it 142 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: on the podcast all the time. Forgiving is for yourself, 143 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 1: not necessarily for the other person. If they ask for forgiveness, great, 144 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 1: you know, I think it's important to forgive. I do 145 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: think that there's a big difference between forgiving, forgetting, and 146 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: having that person sell in your life. That is a choice, 147 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,599 Speaker 1: Especially if her mom is not having her back and 148 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: is causing more pain. I think that it is okay 149 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: for her and only fair for Ya Senya to create 150 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: some space. But tell her mom, Look, Mom, I'm gonna 151 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 1: forgive you, but I also need to stay away from 152 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: you because I need to heal from this and you're 153 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: not allowing me to. I love you, but I'm gonna 154 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 1: love you from Afar and hopefully once she tells her 155 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: mom that something sparks in her heart and in her 156 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:25,599 Speaker 1: mind and says, you know what, I need to have 157 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: my daughter's back, no matter what I mean. 158 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 3: This is her daughter. 159 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: Her daughter came out this out of her body. You know, 160 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: I understand her brother or her family member, like she 161 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: has love for that person, but this is her child. 162 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 1: Her god given child. So I don't agree with the 163 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: mother at all. So that's what I told you, Sanna. 164 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: So hopefully Yesenya give us an update and no good 165 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 1: to see this gip us all. It's the equoswuento you guys. 166 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening. Thank you guys for 167 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: your questions. I love to help you guys. I love 168 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 1: to talk to you guys. I love to tell you 169 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: a little bit about what I like. 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