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Speaker 1: and is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 1: She's been with her boyfriend Robert for about a year,

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Speaker 1: but now she thinks he might be messing around. So

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can figure that out for her.

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Speaker 1: And thanks for coming on the show. It's always tough

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Speaker 1: to come on this way, but hopefully we can help

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Speaker 1: you out and figure this out for you. So what's

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Speaker 1: going on with Robert?

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Speaker 2: Also, we have been together for a year and we've

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Speaker 2: been taking things very slow. Both of us had really

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Speaker 2: rough past relationships, and he's been more than patient with me,

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Speaker 2: which I appreciate it. Like, you know, he respects my boundaries.

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Speaker 2: We spend a lot of time together, you know, usually

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Speaker 2: we're still pretty physical honorary learn until recently, so I'm

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Speaker 2: kind of getting a little suspicious.

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Speaker 1: Okay, tell us what's going on.

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Speaker 2: He's been hanging out with his friend with Mike a lot,

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Speaker 2: like a lot, like he doesn't really come over a

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Speaker 2: no more. And whenever I tried to invite him over,

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Speaker 2: he says that he's been really tired for work. I

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Speaker 3: Like maybe I'm jumping.

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Speaker 2: The gun on something, but you know, he did tell

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Speaker 2: me that, you know, Mike is going through a breakup

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Speaker 2: and he just you know, is there to support him

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Speaker 2: and everything. And but also whenever I am, you know,

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Speaker 2: just been texting at weird hours and you know, I

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Speaker 2: brought that up to him and everything, and he explains

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Speaker 2: or something. You know, I guess Mike is having a

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Speaker 2: really hard time with this breakup. But also if it's

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Speaker 2: so serious, then why does he smile when he's texting Mike?

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Speaker 1: So do you think that Mike is Mike or do

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Speaker 1: you think this is some type of cover?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But one time last week actually Robert said that he

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Speaker 2: was going to go over to Mike's. So I decided

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Speaker 2: I would, you know, ask Mike if he was there,

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Speaker 2: and Mike said that he wasn't there, But then all

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Speaker 2: of a sudden, a couple of minutes later, said that

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Speaker 2: he misunderstood the text and Robert is there, and Mike

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Speaker 2: told me that he would have Robert call me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you could call your girl, bro, Well not even that,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like, how do you misread that text?

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Speaker 1: Like is he there? Or is he not right?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 2: Well, then Mike did call him everything, but it just

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Speaker 2: seemed off, like Mike screwed up covering for him. So

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Speaker 2: I'm on the fence with everything. So I'm like, maybe

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking, oh, really too much about this, or maybe

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Speaker 2: there's something going on and Mike is covering for Robert.

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Speaker 2: Do you know Mike, I've met Mike a few times before,

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Speaker 2: you know, it seems like a nice guy and everything.

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Speaker 1: But okay, so they're not like his best friend from

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Speaker 1: a long time that you've known for a while.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like they've been bett her a while. So of

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Speaker 2: course Mike has been in a picture before I was

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Speaker 2: ever in the picture. Okay, And I don't think Mike

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Speaker 1: Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. Then

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Speaker 1: we'll play a song come back, and then call him.

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Speaker 1: You already told us what grocery store he's a rewards

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Speaker 1: card member at, So we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 1: and then we'll call him and pretend to be from

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Speaker 1: the grocery store and say that every single month, we

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Speaker 1: choose one Rewards Card member who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 1: from our frole department to anybody that they want, and

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Speaker 1: we'll see if he sends them to you or to

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Speaker 1: someone else. Okay, all right, thank you so much. All right,

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Speaker 1: we'll play a song. Come back here to catch teeter. Next,

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Speaker 1: it's time to catch a Cheater only on the table

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Speaker 1: show right in the middle of to Catch a Cheeter

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Speaker 1: if you just joined us and is on the phone

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Speaker 1: and she thinks that her boyfriend Robert might be seeing

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Speaker 1: someone else, So we're about to call him from the

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Speaker 1: they want. We'll see if he sends them to Ann

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Speaker 1: or to somebody else. But before we do that, and

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Speaker 1: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so, basically, Robert has been hanging out with his

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Speaker 2: even though his friend Mike with you real, you know,

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, are you ready to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do this.

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Speaker 1: I want to know right here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: this is Gorbel calling from I was looking for a

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Speaker 1: Rewards Card member named Robert.

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Speaker 3: Yes, sorry, this is ROBERTA. Who is this?

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Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from to let you know that Congratulations, you're

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Speaker 3: Thanks?

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Speaker 1: Where did I win the flowers?

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Speaker 4: I've never I didn't know that they did something like this.

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Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member to

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Speaker 1: say thank you very much for shopping with us by

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Speaker 1: giving them free flowers delivered from our Florida department. You've

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Speaker 1: just won thirty six long stim red roses, a card,

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Speaker 1: be sent to anybody that you want, absolutely free.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cool? So what do I have to do?

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Speaker 1: Pretty simple? If you know who you want, to send

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Speaker 1: it to you right now. Yeah, I can do this

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Speaker 4: Sure, yeah, and you don't you swear you don't need

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Speaker 1: Is there anything you want to put on a card

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Speaker 4: Would need, say something like, here's to another first me

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Speaker 3: Forward to more first to come. I don't know, is

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Speaker 3: that Tom? Is it silly? No?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. I just want to make

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Speaker 1: your girlfriend Ann was able to hear the whole thing again.

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Speaker 1: What that's your girlfriend and she's on the phone. This

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Speaker 1: is actually a radio show. It's called The Jubile Shows.

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Speaker 1: Hi am Nina, Hi, I'm Victoria, and we do a

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Speaker 1: segment called to Catch a Cheater where if you think

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Speaker 2: What's going on? Why are you sending fly flowers to bit? I?

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Speaker 4: Uh oh god, uh well, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I'm a little embarrassed. You know, Mike, Mike and I we've.

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Speaker 3: Each other and have for a long time, and you know, it's.

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Speaker 4: Just all of a sudden, you know, he said that

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Speaker 3: It just felt easy. I mean, I've been very open

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Speaker 4: Dabbled both with you know, men and women, and you know, Mike,

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Speaker 4: Mike and I had never done that. We'd never gone there.

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Speaker 4: We were always just friends and.

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Speaker 4: I feel really guilty about this about everything, and I

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Speaker 3: You know, I didn't know how to bring it up,

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Speaker 3: and I just kind of it was this new.

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Speaker 3: And see how it goes. I'm really sorry.

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Speaker 2: I was way off on this one. I thought it

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry?

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Speaker 4: I love you, You're you know, you're a great friend,

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Speaker 4: and we've we've obviously been through a lot together and

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Speaker 4: Like why, I'm yeah, I wasn't never my intention to

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't want it. I didn't want you

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Speaker 2: Well I did love you, but you really really good

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Speaker 4: He may he may not think that I deserve it,

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Speaker 4: but I really would like to just sit down and

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Speaker 4: just talk and tell you that I'm sorry. It's really

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Speaker 4: weird to talk about it on the radio.

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Speaker 1: But we'll let you guys finish your conversation aff air.

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Speaker 1: But sorry, Anne, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I hope he's happy, but you know, I mean,

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Speaker 2: at least it wasn't like three to five years and

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Speaker 2: then trying to do all of this. Yeah, it's real hard.

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Speaker 1: Of course, there's a lot to work through for you guys. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well good luck. Let us know if you need anything.

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Speaker 2: The Jubile shows to catch a Cheater