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Speaker 2: Thomas is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Nanny.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Thomas, what was U?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 1: How long has it been since you talked to Nanny?
Speaker 4: I spent a couple of days some text, no reply.
Speaker 1: Okay, you sound bummed.
Speaker 3: I really thought I nailed this date. I thought this
Speaker 3: was the best date I ever made.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, well, why don't you tell us about the date? Then?
Speaker 6: Well, we went to this night of market. You know,
Speaker 6: it was just like just pop up, mainstream thing, lots
Speaker 6: of food vendors and like you know, street our performers.
Speaker 3: That kind of stuff, and you know, it's actually a.
Speaker 4: Lot more fun than I thought it was going to be.
Speaker 3: The honest, She's taking pictures.
Speaker 6: The whole time and like seeing that you have a
Speaker 6: good time, Like this is like a total like Instagram
Speaker 6: little date, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Okay, so is she like answer or something?
Speaker 6: No, she's an insurance, but like she's business insurance. I'm
Speaker 6: actually trying to stand my own business this year. So
Speaker 6: I was, you know, hell interested in all her insurance knowledge.
Speaker 5: You know, did you guys? I don't know if we
Speaker 5: get close and flirty, like how did that vibe feel
Speaker 5: outside of the instagrammable moments?
Speaker 4: I mean I thought so, I mean, she's crazy.
Speaker 6: I you know, I was so into her, like meh mega,
Speaker 6: Like I could look at this girl.
Speaker 3: For a decade.
Speaker 4: I saw she was sheeling the same without me.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know, maybe shouldn't get my humor or something,
Speaker 4: or the clothes weren't right.
Speaker 7: I don't really know what it was.
Speaker 1: So that was like the conversations during the date.
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I kept making jokes, and I
Speaker 3: think she thought she was. She was like laughing on
Speaker 3: the inside. You know, she's not a big laugher, but like.
Speaker 1: The inside, Okay, I'm asking at her job.
Speaker 3: He's like, I'm saying, I'm trying to start this business.
Speaker 6: Next year, and like she's in business insurance. So I
Speaker 6: had a lot of questions and I thought we were
Speaker 6: having a good report going.
Speaker 5: You know, Okay, did anything happen that was kind of
Speaker 5: awkward on the date other than talking about business the
Speaker 5: whole time.
Speaker 3: So maybe some of my jokes were overhead. There was
Speaker 3: there was one thing.
Speaker 1: It was bad.
Speaker 3: You know, I don't want I don't want to talk
Speaker 3: about on the radio.
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna hope it.
Speaker 7: Wasn't that thing not.
Speaker 1: You don't want to talk about what it was. But
Speaker 1: it's a.
Speaker 5: Safe place Thomas. Well, I mean, let us be the judge.
Speaker 3: Just I just I don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 5: That makes me feel like it's that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, it's it's hard to I just
Speaker 3: don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 4: I don't think it was that.
Speaker 3: It could have been that whatever.
Speaker 5: I don't want Okay, can you just do this forus, Thomas, Like,
Speaker 5: was it perverted? Wasn't funny? Was it awkward?
Speaker 3: No, it was just it was the thing that just happened.
Speaker 3: It could happen anyway.
Speaker 4: Don't let's move on.
Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 8: Po.
Speaker 1: I know now my head's going to a lot of
Speaker 1: the censor us that Dan your pa.
Speaker 4: I did not see my pants?
Speaker 1: Okay, A pause on that. Maybe you think you did.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 2: her and see if to tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another data.
Speaker 3: Right, let's do this.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll play a song, come back, and get your
Speaker 2: first day follow up next. Right in the middle of
Speaker 2: your first day follow up, if you're just joining us,
Speaker 2: Thomas is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Nanni.
Speaker 2: We're about to call her and see if to tell
Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him. But first, Thomas, why don't
Speaker 2: you refresh everybody's memory on your situation.
Speaker 6: We had a good day at the night market, you know,
Speaker 6: taking pictures, a little time.
Speaker 3: Having a good time.
Speaker 4: That's all.
Speaker 6: We were connecting beautiful a boy into Nannie.
Speaker 4: And I don't know why she goes to me.
Speaker 3: Okay, there's one thing I think it could be and whatever,
Speaker 3: but I don't I'm hoping it's not that thing and
Speaker 3: something else and maybe we can work through this.
Speaker 5: I don't want to talk about it, so it makes
Speaker 5: us feel like it is that thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you said it was bad.
Speaker 3: If you know what, you'd understand it's just story.
Speaker 4: But I forget you said it.
Speaker 5: She'll tell us.
Speaker 1: We'll see, all right, you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4: Let's do it.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, Maspectnani? Please?
Speaker 7: Is it hit her?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 1: How are you? My name is Jebel. I'm calling from
Speaker 1: a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 5: Hi, Nanny, my name is Nina, also on the show.
Speaker 5: Hi in Natoria.
Speaker 1: How are you?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 7: Hi? I'm fine? What's going on?
Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I listened before.
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?
Speaker 7: Oh? God, yeah, yeah I actually have.
Speaker 2: That's great. Would you like to be on one?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess I should have sawn this coming. Yeah. Sure.
Speaker 2: You're ghosting somebody and they emailed us because they want
Speaker 2: to know why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 1: Do you know who it is? I mean it has
Speaker 1: to be Thomas, Yes it is.
Speaker 2: You got it right? Do you mind telling us about Thomas,
Speaker 2: like why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 7: Uh? Okay, here you okay? Some of his greatest hits.
Speaker 7: The first thing he said to me.
Speaker 8: He said, oh damn, you're hotter than the Internet, which
Speaker 8: was flattering.
Speaker 5: But like a lot, it's kind of funny. Okay, let's
Speaker 5: hear more.
Speaker 8: That's okay, He commented on my shoes four times, even
Speaker 8: to the point of asking me if I needed to
Speaker 8: take them off, which reminded me of like, I don't know, like.
Speaker 7: A teacher, a parent, I don't know. It was like
Speaker 7: to be my shoes alone. It was a lot. He
Speaker 7: was like tall enough, like it should have mattered. I thought,
Speaker 7: like maybe that who cares that he's so much attention
Speaker 7: in my shoes? Like it was a lot.
Speaker 1: Does he have like a hot fetish?
Speaker 7: Ye oh my god. I didn't even think of that.
Speaker 5: I mean, you're trying to get somebody's shoes off real quick.
Speaker 5: That tells about that.
Speaker 7: Why, oh no. So he also just carried on and
Speaker 7: on and on about this new business, like let's not
Speaker 7: get ourselves. This dude's not starting a business, like okay,
Speaker 7: and then okay. About thirty four and fifty seven times
Speaker 7: throughout the night, he commented on the other women at
Speaker 7: the market. They they worked nearly as hot as I was,
Speaker 7: and like I started to get a little like embarrassed.
Speaker 7: It was embarrassing, so like it was gross honestly, So, no,
Speaker 7: dude's not it.
Speaker 1: I mean that can definitely be a little awkward. I
Speaker 1: feel like, wasn't saying they're hotter than you.
Speaker 5: Sure, oh.
Speaker 4: He wasn't because I farted on you at all?
Speaker 7: Was Oh my god, period, I got cut that cut that.
Speaker 4: No, don't use that.
Speaker 1: Thomas is actually on the phone listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. We can't cut it now, Thomas, you
Speaker 1: said it. I guess you cut it that.
Speaker 3: Night to cut that part.
Speaker 4: Cut that.
Speaker 7: I wasn't even going to bring that up, but like,
Speaker 7: yeah he did, like on you though, How did that happen?
Speaker 7: It was like it wasn't got my shoes? Yeah, he
Speaker 7: gets really excited about feet apparently.
Speaker 1: Okay, this is confusing. So you asked her to take
Speaker 1: off your shoes and.
Speaker 3: Then nice shoes.
Speaker 4: We all know nice shoes heet uncomfortable. I was trying
Speaker 4: to be courteous.
Speaker 1: Okay, how did you bart on her?
Speaker 4: I'm back over.
Speaker 3: I just like, come on, we don't kind of talking
Speaker 3: about that.
Speaker 4: Come on, it happened to me. So that was the
Speaker 4: best one.
Speaker 1: But that wasn't the reason.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean that's one of the reasons.
Speaker 7: One of the reasons.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you were embarrassed.
Speaker 5: You know. It didn't help his cause, yes, no.
Speaker 6: Can't control than whatever. I guess whatever look, I was
Speaker 6: complimenting you though. I was just trying to make you feel,
Speaker 6: you know, seen and secure.
Speaker 3: I mean, if it wasn't the art thing, I mean,
Speaker 3: come on, you you you definitely made me feel seen.
Speaker 7: It was. It was a lot like the one of
Speaker 7: other women, Like I think they heard you saying that
Speaker 7: I was hotter than them, and.
Speaker 8: That's like embarrassing brows.
Speaker 4: How is that embarrassing? You're hot, you guys.
Speaker 3: People don't get embarrassed they're hot, Nanny, would you like
Speaker 3: another date with I'm still pay for it?
Speaker 7: Uh no, I'm good. Thanks though, no pay for it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll pay for it, thanks, Thomas.
Speaker 5: We'll probably say you you're hot again.
Speaker 7: You guys, theft was.
Speaker 4: Bad, Like no, yeah, I really want to go out again.
Speaker 4: But just you don't know this. I always think you're hot.
Speaker 4: If you want to go on a date with someone
Speaker 4: who thinks.
Speaker 3: You're hot, I'm here because I.
Speaker 4: Think you're hot, sak.
Speaker 7: Thank, I appreciate that. Thomas thinks Jubile's first date fall
Speaker 7: up