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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Nila.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Hi Henny. Happy hump Day, Happy hump Day.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's the end of the year.

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Speaker 2: Is this the last hump of the year, the last

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Speaker 2: half of the year. It's been quite a hump, hasn't it.

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Speaker 1: It's been humping. It's been humpy. Yeah, up and down

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Speaker 1: it has. But I've loved it. And wow, I mean

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Speaker 1: we made it. We made it, nigga, we made it.

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Speaker 2: We did.

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Speaker 1: We did a lot of good things this year. So

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Speaker 1: how you doing today, I'm doing good. Was your Christmas?

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Speaker 2: It was good? It was really, you know, jolly.

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Speaker 3: The children, the one child was happy. So I was like,

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Speaker 3: I was semi organized this year. I shopped one day

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Speaker 3: before Christmas and I got her stuff and I almost

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Speaker 3: wrapped it all. And then I got off the tape.

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Speaker 3: I saw an ostagram. I was really rooting for you.

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Speaker 3: I was like, she's gonna find that shit in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Still haven't found the tape.

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Speaker 1: It was two roles, gotta be under the couch.

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Speaker 2: I looked, but yeah, it was good.

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Speaker 3: I went to my baby daddy's family's house, and you know,

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Speaker 3: it's it's jolly.

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Speaker 1: It's jolly. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Same.

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Speaker 1: I went to my mom's IRI got everything she could

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Speaker 1: have wanted. I was really happy that she was really

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Speaker 1: a static about poppets, because although I don't really understand popets,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's like a sensory toy. But

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Speaker 1: it was more so that she's still six, because sometimes

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Speaker 1: I look at her and like, I'm like, you are

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Speaker 1: you need to relax, And the fact that she was

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Speaker 1: excited about poppets was like, Okay, you're six, You're still six.

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Speaker 1: And also I'm happy to confirm or I don't even

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Speaker 1: if I'm happy to confirm this. But she still believes

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Speaker 1: in Santa because I wasn't sure, but she's still believing

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Speaker 1: in Santa. But then I also feel really bad because

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Speaker 1: I'm lying to her and like everyone is perpetuating this

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Speaker 1: lie about Santa, and I just it's kind of fucked up.

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Speaker 1: It's a little strange, like it goes to the point,

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Speaker 1: like to the point where like last year my dad

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Speaker 1: had some strange man call her and act like Santa,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, that's weird, Like an older man

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Speaker 1: is calling my young child to lie to her, Like

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Speaker 1: what what are we telling our kids.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's a mystical fairy tale.

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Speaker 1: And then I was like stopping fucking like the Grinch,

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Speaker 1: Erica and get in line. Lenna still believes in Santa Claus,

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Speaker 1: so that's great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's magical.

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Speaker 1: I know. That's why I was like, it's magical.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, there's I think there's some weird underlying, like

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Speaker 3: weird tale about actual Santa Claus. I think every there's

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Speaker 3: always one. Yeah, there's always one. Literally, it's true. I

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Speaker 3: don't think I ever believed in Santa Claus. So I'm

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Speaker 3: like enjoying watching her believe it.

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Speaker 1: I definitely did.

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 1: Both of the man, I'm good. I'm really excited, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited for next month, you guys. The retreat

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Speaker 1: is coming up. We're going to Costa Rica and it's

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Speaker 1: becoming real.

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Speaker 2: I know. I'm like, we're almost there.

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Speaker 3: I just keep dreaming about it in my head, like

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be in Costa Rica with my shoes

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Speaker 3: up and everything's going to be fine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And you know, I'm just excited to meet all

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Speaker 1: the tropics on the Caribbean side of the Jungles of

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Speaker 1: Costa Rica. It's just going to be so amazing. The

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Speaker 1: place we're staying at is beautiful. I'm just so grateful,

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Speaker 1: like we have that space and it's.

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Speaker 2: Ours, I know.

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Speaker 3: I'm so grateful to just take over the entire space

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Speaker 3: and just like do whatever we want and chill and

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: And we have so many We have Sylvia who's gonna

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Speaker 1: be joining us doing natal chart readings and doing an

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Speaker 1: offside excursion. We have Nurse Mo, who I know some

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Speaker 1: and are so excited to have her full day experience.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I just can't wait. And also you guys,

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Speaker 1: we actually opened up one extra spot for week two.

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Speaker 1: Everyone decided they wanted to come to week two, I know,

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Speaker 1: and we keep getting hit up like can you just

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Speaker 3: And there's one more spot for week two, so that's exciting.

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Speaker 3: And I think only two more spots for week one.

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Speaker 3: So if you need a reason to reset. I mean,

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Speaker 3: we think we all need a reason to reset and

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Speaker 3: recharge in you know, on January, the beginning of the year.

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Speaker 2: This is it.

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Speaker 1: This is the reset, This is the recharge to set

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Speaker 1: up your year to be just exactly how you want it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we all just need to relax, We

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Speaker 1: need to connect.

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Speaker 3: And kind of like embark on the ultimate manifestation, you know,

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Speaker 3: with like a bunch of witchy women harnessing their power

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Speaker 3: and like really tech into this space and the environment

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Speaker 3: and to each other and like visualizing what you want.

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Speaker 1: For the year.

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Speaker 2: I think like that's what I'm most excited, like a.

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Speaker 3: Group manifestation, like setting the tone for my year, because

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Speaker 3: you know, I was just thinking about this past year

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Speaker 3: and like a little whirlwind and like how we started

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Speaker 3: and just like you know, it seems like a year

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Speaker 3: but in hindsight, it's.

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Speaker 1: It's so quick.

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Speaker 2: It's so fast.

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Speaker 1: So if you guys are interested in joining us, come

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Speaker 1: through go to Good Momsbad Choices dot com and click

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Speaker 1: Retreats to get all the info and it's.

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Speaker 2: Not too late. Come hang out. It's not too late.

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Speaker 2: Calm sirits are calling. Come to Costa Rica. Darling.

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Speaker 1: You've manifested this trip. I know you've been talking about

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Speaker 1: a trip all year. This is the one. This is it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is it. Take a chance and come get

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Speaker 1: I'm this is so this week's episode is kind of different.

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Speaker 1: We've never done one like this, and I'm actually kind

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Speaker 1: think sometimes, you know, this is year four, We're coming

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Speaker 1: up on Good Mom's bad choices, and sometimes we like

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Speaker 1: we just are always doing episodes every single week that

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Speaker 1: we often don't ever go back and like revisit like

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Speaker 1: previous guests, previous conversations, And I think this is going

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Speaker 1: to be really interesting to see also like where we

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Speaker 2: We have to do our tearo oh shit, I'm sorry, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: let's take down. We actually had a new deck. I'm

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Speaker 3: We got gifted for Christmas, the Mahogany tarot deck by

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Speaker 3: Kashira Hicks.

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Speaker 2: She's a part of our tribe.

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Speaker 3: She's a good Mom's tribe member, and it's really dope

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Speaker 3: because it's the traditional It's the traditional way, like uh

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Speaker 1: I saw that, and I appreciate that because some of

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Speaker 3: Anyway, today, Erica pulled a card. In today's card is

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Speaker 3: the Ten of Swords. It looks kind of intense, but

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Speaker 1: So yeah, reverse, you guys. If you guys don't know

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Speaker 3: So let's read what biddie has to say. The ten

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Speaker 3: of Swords shows Okay, well, we already discussed that he's

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Speaker 3: a painful yet inevitable ending. But reversed it means hold on,

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Speaker 3: though it may be difficult to understand what you're going through, no,

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Speaker 3: It also may represent an old situation that ended badly.

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Speaker 2: Hmm. Okay, Deep December with the deep cards on.

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Speaker 1: The end December talking about let that shit go, Let

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Speaker 3: Was Last year's manifestation was I don't know if you

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Speaker 3: So it's funny that we're writing back into the year.

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Speaker 1: I need to go back and listen to that meditation. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: We're going to have a meditation this year by trap

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Speaker 3: for that. It was really good last year, it was

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Speaker 3: and a bitch could use all the meditations possible.

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Speaker 2: Give me last year's, give me this year's every day.

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Speaker 3: It's so funny. So we were as we were like

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Speaker 3: like all in love with only fans bay aka Orlando

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure I was like three way kissing everyone.

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Speaker 2: Let's go back down memory lane. Ladies and gentlemen, cue

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Speaker 1: Well, you took your top off, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: He's like, you moan and girl and hallan hump. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: It was just great, great, And I update. He's still

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Speaker 3: He's like, I think it's only it's like only gonna

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was a really You know, it's funny how

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Speaker 2: And then you look up six months later and you've

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Speaker 1: No more howling at the moon getting naked on boats.

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Speaker 1: Could you imagine getting a naked on a boat with

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Speaker 1: Orlando are still besties, and it's it came full circle

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Speaker 3: No man will ever infiltrate this sex system. Unpenetrationable sex system, this.

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Speaker 1: I think it was our audition tape for our homegirl

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Speaker 2: Uh. And of course we said we had to say

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Speaker 1: Because you know that's my best friend. She okay, well

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Speaker 1: that's my mom friend. She are real bad bitch.

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Speaker 2: Let's just let's just play you ready, you're ready for

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Speaker 2: this ship?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I wait. And by the way, if you're watching

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Speaker 4: And that's my mom friend. She can't stand her bee

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Speaker 4: But she reial too. Could she puff a little tree,

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Speaker 4: we twerk and we moms. We don't care what you think.

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Speaker 4: real too. Could she puff a little tree, drop the

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Speaker 4: we twork and we moms, We don't care what you think.

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Speaker 4: My daughter really testy, always got an attitude, even when

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Speaker 2: Yet I'm into testing.

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Speaker 4: But if I'm so nice, then you start trying to

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Speaker 6: Good moms working?

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Speaker 2: Put that thing.

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Speaker 4: If your house and clean and you can't fit in

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Speaker 4: the show show. I got a text for my girl like,

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Speaker 4: just guess what are you taking him to court?

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Speaker 2: Dude making pain up? Keep it real?

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Speaker 6: Should have file.

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Speaker 2: Someones's all broke up and the drink is on. Here's

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Speaker 4: She can't stand her bed, but she real chill because

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we twerk and we moms.

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Speaker 2: We don't care what you think. That's my mom. Friend.

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Speaker 3: Hey wow, we really went into the year with the

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Speaker 2: Will be your girls. You're just a shameless pug.

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Speaker 1: You guys gotta see that video, Like, seriously, go to

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Speaker 1: YouTube right now till this day, Luda request it when

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, sure thing baby.

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Speaker 1: By the way, also, all these episode clips that we're sharing,

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Speaker 3: And you know, also we did a lot of new things.

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Speaker 3: we've come. This year, we introduced actually the Tarot card,

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Speaker 2: What I just made it up. I'm gonna have to

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Oh well, I want to share mine.

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Speaker 1: No, it's fine.

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Speaker 3: We also did a lot of amazing collabs this year,

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Speaker 3: like amazing, amazing collabs, and one of the earlier ones

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Speaker 1: We were on their show too with that episode was

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Speaker 3: You know, it's so cool just like as I mean,

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Speaker 3: I think Jade and Kia have like very different dynamics

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jesus loves me, Oh my god, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah basically that, Yeah, Jesus also loves the Heathens. And

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Speaker 3: liking to anything adults, which is inevitable. But this is

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Speaker 3: a little clip from that too, let's check it out.

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Speaker 6: I think we should create space in our home for

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Speaker 6: kids to explore things and where you can give them

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Speaker 6: context around is this too adult for you perhaps, like

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Speaker 6: you know whatever, but you know, just kind of saying

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Speaker 6: that's grown, like without.

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Speaker 2: Really explaining anything.

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Speaker 6: And I wish that my mom would not giving grown

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Speaker 6: such a negative stigma to me as a young person,

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Speaker 6: because it was because I mean, after I got grown,

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Speaker 6: it took me a long time to be comfortable, you know,

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Speaker 6: moving in this grown adult body because it for so

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Speaker 6: long I had been shamed for it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, those are those are the two favorite words in

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Speaker 1: the black house, the household of Oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: could I could pass out just hearing that ship right now.

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Speaker 2: It's literally I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't think I had a shot.

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Speaker 2: And then I ended up being a little grown ass,

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Speaker 2: little teenager because you can't call me grown. I couldn't

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Speaker 2: wait to get out the house and be grown.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's shit's so true, you know. Like, and

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Speaker 3: you know what, I really enjoy having conversations with other

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Speaker 3: black women and like of all different walks of life

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Speaker 3: and like moms non moms, just because I think sometimes

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Speaker 3: initially like you and like are are our thought process

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Speaker 3: around like how we raise our children, and the honest

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Speaker 3: and transparencies sometimes can be for some abrasive because they're

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Speaker 3: not used to that. You know, some people are so

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Speaker 3: used to traditional ways of raising their children that they're like,

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Speaker 3: ahh that my mom.

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Speaker 2: You know, like if you do this, it's that.

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Speaker 3: But sometimes it's just having like conversations with other women,

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Speaker 3: it kind of you know, that's where the change, the

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Speaker 3: change and.

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Speaker 1: The growth goes out comes or the change in perspective.

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Speaker 2: So I really I enjoyed that conversation too. What other

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Speaker 2: good conversations did we have this year?

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Speaker 1: We had so many. I mean I think that you know,

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Speaker 1: in March, we really were dedicated to upping our financial literacy.

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Speaker 1: So March was dedicated and called Money March, and we

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Speaker 1: interviewed so many amazing guests. That was like an epic month.

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Speaker 1: A yeah, I mean we had the Budgetista, Tiffany, we

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Speaker 1: had earned your Leisure, We had Loose Warrior, the Wealth

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Speaker 1: we Trust. It was really just so insightful, so hopeful,

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Speaker 1: so empowering. I know a lot of you guys went

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Speaker 1: ahead and took Loose's course on stocks and her story

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Speaker 1: was really interesting too. I mean, she has her whole

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Speaker 1: income is based in just investing, and she's teaching brown

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Speaker 1: and black people how to feel empowered in that space

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Speaker 1: and take control of their life in that way. So

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Speaker 1: I think that's really cool and obviously earn your leisure

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Speaker 1: to see their growth too over the last one or

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Speaker 1: two years. I mean they're taking over this space and

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Speaker 1: really giving our community so much knowledge that I'm not

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Speaker 1: I'm sure, we would have never known. There's so many

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Speaker 1: little tips and tricks that they gave us in that

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Speaker 1: month about cryptocurrency, about stocks, about you know, putting in

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Speaker 1: your kidds on payroll, like just you know, the mindset,

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Speaker 1: like the money deficit mindset, and how to untrain this

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Speaker 1: mindset that we have, Yeah, the scarcity mindset, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think so, let's just play this clip from Earner Leisure.

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Speaker 1: This was a good one. Was about why you should

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Speaker 1: invest in stocks and not crypto, which it's a hot

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Speaker 1: topic now, and I'm like, here we go.

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Speaker 5: For me personally, the question about the cryptocurrency. I wouldn't

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Speaker 5: start out with crypto. I would start out with stocks first,

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Speaker 5: and you know, educate myself, become familiar with stock market

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Speaker 5: and dann up.

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Speaker 7: Fuck 'shard. I'm calling you after this call. You're my

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Speaker 7: new financial advisor. Whether you like it or not, I

512
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Speaker 7: still feel like I have so much to learn. And

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Speaker 7: I'm like, I didn't even I didn't even put that

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Speaker 7: much money down because I was scared.

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Speaker 5: Like if I feel like if every cryptocurrency went away today,

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Speaker 5: the world wouldn't change, right, It's still a new technology.

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Speaker 5: There's issues with different platforms, it's a lot of different

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Speaker 5: stuff where stocks It's like if the stock market went away,

519
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Speaker 5: then the world would probably solower correct, So you know,

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Speaker 5: if Apple falls apart, it's ripples all across the world.

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Speaker 5: So I would say that invest in the stock market first,

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Speaker 5: because a has been around a lot, a lot longer.

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Speaker 5: It's a lot less risky, it's way more tangible as

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Speaker 5: far as you're actually investing in solid companies that you know,

525
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Speaker 5: have revenue, have employees, have operations, have systems in place,

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Speaker 5: where a lot of cryptos don't have any of that.

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Speaker 1: One of the big takeaways from that conversation too is

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Speaker 1: like for me was like investing in stock markets. I

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Speaker 1: mean stocks that like you have in your home, like

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Speaker 1: things that you actually use right now, not trying to

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Speaker 1: get too crazy and invest in these like these like

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Speaker 1: like these companies you've never heard of. You have no

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Speaker 1: idea what the fuck they're doing over there, Like investing

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Speaker 1: in like Netflix, investing in just the things you see

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Speaker 1: around your home that you can do. So I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I feel like they're or in your leisure, they're really

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Speaker 1: changing the game and just they're just they're really really

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Speaker 1: impacting the community. And so I'm so happy that we

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Speaker 1: got them on the show.

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Speaker 3: I know that was a really really good episode, and

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Speaker 3: I'd like to share that Erica and I six months later,

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Speaker 3: eight months after that episode, got an accountant.

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Speaker 1: We did we.

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Speaker 3: Are working on our finances together as a couple.

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Speaker 1: As a couple. Oh man, I'm so proud of us

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Speaker 1: for doing that. Like, wow, I feel very mature.

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Speaker 3: I feel so mature filing taxes and shit and I

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Speaker 3: do I feel empowered like little by little. So I'm

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Speaker 3: excited for that.

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Speaker 2: So it worked.

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Speaker 3: I also want to share that if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 3: a lot of the shit that we discuss, a lot

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Speaker 3: of the guests that we bring on the themes of

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Speaker 3: the months are things that we're going through, things that

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Speaker 3: were growing through, things that we're struggling with, and just

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Speaker 3: like hoping that somewhere in our community, at some point

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Speaker 3: someone can benefit from the information because it is evergreen,

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Speaker 3: and I'm sure at some point we're going to have

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Speaker 3: to go back to it and like revisit it because

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Speaker 3: you know, life, it keeps on life in show do

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Speaker 3: so I'm just like it's so nice to go back

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Speaker 3: and like touch on all these gems we.

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Speaker 2: You know, as we worked on money.

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Speaker 3: Obviously, we also have to work on our personal growth,

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Speaker 3: which is obviously always happening for us, and we after

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Speaker 3: money March.

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Speaker 8: Do we have a clip from Loose?

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Speaker 2: Oh, we do have a clip from Louse.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to skip Loose because she's epic, like

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Speaker 1: she is, she really is epic. She is a witch.

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Speaker 3: First of all, she came to us in an epic

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Speaker 3: same day fashion. She agreed, and we did it within

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Speaker 3: like forty five minutes. Yeah, I was like, okay, today

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Speaker 3: you're available. Okay, let's do it. And it was just

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Speaker 3: like we had been looking for like a wealth witch

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Speaker 3: for like weeks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like someone that was tapped into the spirituality of

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Speaker 1: like how to feel more empowered in this money space

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Speaker 1: and how to manifest money as well. So Loose was that.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not sure what we maybe we talked about

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Speaker 1: so many things, talked about the rotech we talked about.

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Speaker 2: She gave us like like.

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Speaker 3: But she did talked about what we talked about, just

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Speaker 3: like the scarcity mindset, and she talked about victimhood when

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Speaker 3: it comes to money and that we like, well, let's

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Speaker 3: just listen to it. What do you think about our

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Speaker 3: tarot cardpool, the Ten of Swords?

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Speaker 2: Do you have that? Oh my god, it's a ten

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Speaker 2: of swords that day, it's ten of swords right today?

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Speaker 1: Crazy?

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Speaker 2: What the fuck?

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Speaker 3: I do?

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Speaker 9: I think it's a really powerful card for so many reasons.

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Speaker 9: The reason that stood out the most to me was

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Speaker 9: how it talked about being in victimhood and a lot

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Speaker 9: of the times coming from a scarcity mindset. A person

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Speaker 9: of color, we are constantly in victimhood when it comes

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Speaker 9: to money, and so shifting your money mentality and really

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Speaker 9: being able to generate wealth requires for us to let

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Speaker 9: go of that victimhood mentality. But how do we do

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Speaker 9: that if we were born into a system that literally

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Speaker 9: taught us to constantly be in victim and mentality, most

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Speaker 9: especially when it comes to money. As you start to

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Speaker 9: move closer to your finances and generating wealth, you're going

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Speaker 9: to be able to identify that you betray yourself constantly

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Speaker 9: with these limiting leafs that we perpetuate. So to me,

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Speaker 9: the card is perfect and it's very truthful matter of

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Speaker 9: fact and the way we should be looking at money,

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Speaker 9: but also incorporating our own personal shadows and where we

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Speaker 9: are in this moment in time, most especially spiritulated.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy that we got pulled that same card. That

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Speaker 1: episode is so good. We did a two part of

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Speaker 1: that one, so make sure he goes literally you have

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Speaker 1: to check out that one. That's that's my favorite episodes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So then we moved on to April.

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Speaker 2: Okay, April April and what.

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Speaker 1: Was the what was the theme?

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Speaker 3: I was wellness April? Wellness? Wow, the most simple shit

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Speaker 3: wellness April. I didn't get very clever that month. Give

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Speaker 3: it simple.

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Speaker 1: So Debbie is a friend of mine and she is

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Speaker 1: the chief Impact Officer at Chopra Globals Deepalk Chopra, and

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Speaker 1: she leads so many of his retreats. She's actually on

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Speaker 1: the app as well, guiding doing guided meditations and she's

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Speaker 1: just an overall just like hi, vibrational human like I

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Speaker 1: don't even know how to describe her. And so she

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Speaker 1: came on the show and we talked about healing your

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Speaker 1: inner child and just ways that you can do that and.

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Speaker 3: The ways that you can avoid doing that and how

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Speaker 3: detrimental it is. And here's a clip of her talking

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Speaker 3: about all the ways we avoid ourselves.

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Speaker 10: I think we get through life without realizing all the

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Speaker 10: tools of avoidance we have for ourselves, Like we avoid

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Speaker 10: ourselves with the packed schedule, we avoid ourselves with friendships,

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Speaker 10: with fun, with perceived happiness, Like we.

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Speaker 11: Can find we can turn anything into a tool of

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Speaker 11: avoidance easy that should get anything. And so it's so

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Speaker 11: important to really create those moments where we're just with us,

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Speaker 11: Like go stare at yourself in the eyes in the

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Speaker 11: mirror with your face two inches away from the mirror.

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Speaker 11: Light a candle and do that for.

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Speaker 2: A minute and see what happens, you know.

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Speaker 1: For real, Like it's really comfortable, you get.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, eye contact period is some shit. It is really

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Speaker 2: some shit, especially with your son.

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Speaker 1: Hey man, that episode was amazing. We got We had

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Speaker 1: so many people write in about about that episode. And

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Speaker 1: actually Debbie also has her own podcast. You should definitely

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Speaker 1: check check her out. I think it's called Dropping Gems

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Speaker 1: with Debbie Brown. But as we ventured deeper into wellness April,

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Speaker 1: I wow, it's.

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Speaker 3: So crazy how you can like reflect back on a

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Speaker 3: time and like look back into the year and just

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Speaker 3: like looking on yourself now that it's over, and like

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Speaker 3: having certain conversations and just I avoided a lot of

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Speaker 3: shit last year too, with.

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Speaker 2: Like Dick and you know, it's just like.

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Speaker 3: Three months, four months, five months, six months. That shit

660
00:31:50,880 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 3: can roll by so quickly, especially when you're getting fucked Okay,

661
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 3: oh my god, it's true. The avoidance, the distractions that

662
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 3: we choose. You know, everyone has their things, some people

663
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 3: go to the gym.

664
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Speaker 1: You know, it's so crazy. Me and you were like

665
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 1: a totally two different spots. I was like saying, I'm

666
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: like renouncing all penis. We're I think this was our

667
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: Dick Talks episode.

668
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 2: I was like, why are you doing this to me?

669
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: Where I was like trying to like encourage the community

670
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 1: to go on an abstinence journey with me because I

671
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: didn't want to go alone, and because that's literally why

672
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: I do all the things we do on the podcast.

673
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: It's like, hey, maybe like if everyone else does it,

674
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: I'll do it. Well, I'll feel more pressure to fucking

675
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: complete it. This episode is our Dick Talks is greater

676
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 1: than Detox episode, which was this episode was me basically

677
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: announcing I think the Dick Talks that I was going

678
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: on and hoping everyone else would join me, including my

679
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: friend Jamila, which she was like fuck that.

680
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 2: I was in a deep digmatization.

681
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 1: And I think in this in this clip, we were

682
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: talking about the expectation of wanting to be kept forever

683
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 1: and kind of showing up yourself early.

684
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I think also I was. I tried to

685
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 3: do that, and somehow I still got digmatized, and I

686
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 3: still was like being challenged to not show up as myself,

687
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 3: and I also wanted to be kept, you know, like

688
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 3: just loving someone and wanting them to love you too

689
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 3: and as you are, and just like not being able

690
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 3: to help that you like to get naked. It's not

691
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 3: your fault, it's just how God made you. But anyway,

692
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 3: here's the clip. It's easy to be radically honest when

693
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 3: you start in a friend's space because I'm not trying

694
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 3: to prove shit to you.

695
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: What did I do last week? Some crazy shit? Why

696
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 2: my friends? That's it too.

697
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: It's the like I think, I'm like, I need you

698
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: to know exactly who I am.

699
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 2: I want you to know. Wait, I want you to

700
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 2: know who exactly who I am.

701
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 3: But it's easier to present myself exactly who I am

702
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 3: without first having the expectation that I want you to

703
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 3: keep me forever. Right, Because when we begin to want

704
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 3: to be kept forever and want a relationship and want someone.

705
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 2: To love us.

706
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 3: You start to feel this in this deep longing for

707
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 3: them to accept you, and then you start to even

708
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 3: self reflect about this the person that you are and

709
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 3: the things that you do and whether they're acceptable, especially

710
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 3: for women as a wife or as a girlfriend, you

711
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 3: know what I mean. And it's just like how we

712
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 3: see ourselves versus how we see ourselves through someone else's

713
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 3: perspective is like those things really need to be like

714
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:23,760
Speaker 3: blurred out and cleared out and cleansed.

715
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 2: Because as long as you're expecting so when to love

716
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 2: you and you don't really love and accept yourself, it's

717
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: going to be fucked up that.

718
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: I think you're having a conversation with yourself.

719
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 2: I'm always having a conversation with you.

720
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: Were literally arguing with yourself in.

721
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 2: That clip, I showed up as myself right right, I'm

722
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 2: being me and I love it's not working. I love me,

723
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 2: I do love me, you don't love me, I love me.

724
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 2: I'll change a little.

725
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 5: Yeah.

726
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 3: I struggled with that, and you know what, it's just

727
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 3: watching just the first half of the year, like I

728
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 3: can't much came in strong and then literally like fell

729
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 3: in love with this person who just couldn't accept me

730
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 3: as I was at all, you know, and loved parts

731
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 3: of me, and I can just see how it like

732
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 3: the down the downfall of it all, like I could

733
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 3: have avoided it, and I did it because I just

734
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 3: wanted to be left.

735
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,359
Speaker 2: And it doesn't work.

736
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 3: It never works, it will never work because you just

737
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 3: are who you are. And thankfully I'm the type of

738
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:29,720
Speaker 3: person that can, like rat I have to be myself.

739
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 2: I don't.

740
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 3: I really don't know any other way to be, and

741
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 3: so even when I try, and it's just like there's

742
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 3: no there's no point in not loving yourself enough to

743
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 3: walk away from things that don't love you enough to

744
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 3: let you be as you are.

745
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 1: Amen, a bar a bar bitch.

746
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 3: You know, just sitting real quick, Oh my god, it's true,

747
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 3: even like being in this holiday weekend with my baby

748
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 3: daddy and you know I love him, but it just

749
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 3: literally it dropped me back into five years ago. I

750
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 3: literally like the music was the same, it's still listening

751
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 3: to only Kanye. I was like, oh my god, and

752
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 3: it's just like just like literally God was just like when.

753
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 2: It flashedback bitch PLoP.

754
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 3: And I just got all these weird feelings of like

755
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 3: just being sucked with my energy and like who I

756
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 3: am and like I don't know, it's just crazy anyway.

757
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: God is saying, hey, twenty twenty two, what you gonna do.

758
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 2: Twenty twenty two? But what you gonna do twenty twenty two?

759
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: What you gonna do?

760
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 3: Every time I do some functionhit, I'm gonna play that

761
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 3: in my head. It's like, what would Jesus do? True?

762
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 1: But twenty twenty two, I think like the next thing

763
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: was like, because we're getting into like this pussy talks thing,

764
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 1: we were like talking about whether men go on these

765
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 1: type of do these do these challenges? Do you men

766
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 1: to any challenges?

767
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 2: Do they do work out?

768
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: They do Instagram challenges? It is just only like a

769
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: woman thing.

770
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 3: Only the pretty ones who puld do that same post

771
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 3: that I hate. I guess I do this post it challenges,

772
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:08,399
Speaker 3: you know the pose.

773
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: Actually, we know a nigga that does that post. And

774
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: I don't think he does challenges with someone's husband that

775
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,359
Speaker 1: we know that we remember, we swell it was an.

776
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 2: Old pictures, an old picture.

777
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 3: Okay, well you guys don't do that fucking pose. Okay,

778
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 3: here's the clip. But I feel like say, like it's

779
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 3: like a fucking teenager having this conversation, like, I want

780
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 3: to stop.

781
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: Having stupid sex, but I will next month.

782
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 3: I know that I don't need to have sex, but

783
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 3: I will three weeks because I love love and I

784
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 3: love attention.

785
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: With May four, I'll stop giving my pissy tes. Maybe

786
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm five five. It's a good number.

787
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 3: Five five twenty one the day, No, I am.

788
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 2: I'm a little embarrassed.

789
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 1: Don't be embarrassed. I don't like you know, do you

790
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: think men?

791
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 2: Do you think men experience this?

792
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 3: Like?

793
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 2: No, I should be more intentional with my dick.

794
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: I don't think men go on dick Maybe.

795
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 2: Texes, Well, that's the thing. When I was talking to.

796
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: My pussy Txes, do you ever going to pussy talks?

797
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: We're talking to David. No, men don't go on pussy toxes.

798
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 1: And my tiktoks lasted. I think when did.

799
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 2: I go to Mexico. I went to Mexico.

800
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: I lost I lost my virginity.

801
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 2: I re lost it.

802
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: I re lost it on the last day because I

803
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: remember it was like the yeah, we're leaving that last

804
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: day of the month, the last day of the month

805
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 1: when you snuck away and didn't tell anyone yeah, I

806
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: like dipped off out to Mexico and like told no

807
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:41,720
Speaker 1: one but left me except her. I was lied to everyone.

808
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I'm up north. Even she was posted.

809
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: I even posted a picture of the Golden gate Bridge.

810
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 2: Was the story.

811
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 1: I thought I'd be more believable. I went and searched

812
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: Golden gate Bridge stories, then found it, scream recorded it,

813
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: then posted it. That's how much I needed people to

814
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 1: not know where the fuck I was. Wow. Mostly I

815
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,720
Speaker 1: would never do that again. This is the growth I've gone,

816
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: me as a grown woman, not being scared of my

817
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 1: mom's judgments. Mom, I am thirty four, I'm going to Mexico.

818
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 1: I'm going to Mexico. Okay, Yeah, that was a good

819
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 1: you know. I will say that ever since I did that,

820
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 1: Dick Tooks, it has radically changed my Like the way

821
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: I have sex. I mean, I don't know how long

822
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: it's gonna last, but so far, like I just it's

823
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: really I don't have sex a lot anymore. We'll accept

824
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 1: this week. Last week, Yeah, it's changed a lot, but

825
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 1: I'm just more intentional. I mean, yes, have I had

826
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: sex with like one or two people that are like,

827
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: you didn't need to do that. Yeah, But I think

828
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:57,280
Speaker 1: before I was more inclined to just like have fun sex,

829
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: but then that fun sex would end up making me

830
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: feel like not great later. So like, I feel more

831
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 1: balanced in my access and I feel more balanced the

832
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: access I give people to my body and how often

833
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 1: I want to give and how often I want to

834
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:17,320
Speaker 1: have sex. Really, I've tapped into my masturbation at a

835
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: higher deeper level than ever. I've been able to like

836
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 1: really really really like get to levels of like pleasure

837
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: and I think manifesting even outside of my pleasure than

838
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,439
Speaker 1: I've ever done before, which has been really cool as well.

839
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: Sex is sex is health.

840
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 3: You know, it's a new year, and going into a

841
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 3: new year, I'm looking to hone in even more on

842
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:45,840
Speaker 3: my manifestation skills, and I really want to specifically hone

843
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:50,000
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844
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Speaker 1: Oh okay, girl, I know there's sexy secret. Panti Vibe

848
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Speaker 1: is still my favorite. I also love the Love Triangle.

849
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Speaker 1: It has the airpools plus the vibration I agree. I

850
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Speaker 1: think going into the new year, it's time to get

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Speaker 2: You're welcome. Sex as hell.

860
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: I don't advise doing it forever.

861
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 3: Sexual wellness is a word because they go together because

862
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 3: to have to be well, you should have some sex.

863
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,240
Speaker 3: Even this is even if it is with yourself. Amen,

864
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 3: even though I'm still working on that, still working on

865
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 3: having more sex with myself, even though I've been I

866
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 3: have you?

867
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: Have you have been doing it? Next is a clip

868
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,399
Speaker 1: that I didn't think everyone would love so fucking much.

869
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 1: But apparently I'm a superstar rapper. So if you didn't

870
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: know in my former life, you guys, I had a

871
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,280
Speaker 1: music career. Okay, I was gone the verge of being

872
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,359
Speaker 1: a rapper, writer on the rise, not rapper. That's not true.

873
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: I really wanted to be a writer, and actually, when

874
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: I was younger, I wanted to be a singer because

875
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: I loved Derek about don't wanted to be a neo

876
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 1: soul singer. I took singing lessons and everything real always

877
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:29,240
Speaker 1: laughs at my musical career in the past. It's really hurtful,

878
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: but whatever, I was actually good. Ask my friends. I

879
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 1: used to perform at my high school and I did

880
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 1: talent shows at TV's Oh My God, o Catest Thing

881
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 1: Ever and R and B Live. If you're from LA,

882
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: then you know what the fun multiple times?

883
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 2: That's great.

884
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 1: I know, I'm told told you I was legit. Okay,

885
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: well let's hear if you can. Also, can you look

886
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 1: up E and J. Yeah you can if you want

887
00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: to her epic do. I had a a dance group,

888
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: a dance like electro hip hop group with my bestie Jared.

889
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 1: Shout out to Jared, and it was called it was

890
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: the first E and J because now this is the

891
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 1: new J remix. But my first collapse with a Jay

892
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: was called Ian J and yeah, it was wonderful. It was.

893
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: It was Actually, we have some good songs. I'm not

894
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: gonna fucking lie. Some of them are not that.

895
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 2: Good but.

896
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: Balance silence baby. But anyway, we did a month where

897
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 1: we read our diaries live on the pod and this

898
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: was kind of inspired because we went to Costa Rica

899
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: in June. Was it in June?

900
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 2: It was in June.

901
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 3: The first time went to Costa Rica was in June.

902
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 3: And we initially went to write our book and we

903
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 3: had previously like went through some journals to kind of reflect,

904
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 3: to just give us some inspiration for the book, and like,

905
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 3: it just brought up all these childhood memories and like

906
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 3: all these things that we went through that sounded similar

907
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,320
Speaker 3: to the shit we go through as adults, just on

908
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 3: an adult scale. And we discovered some of our shit.

909
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 2: And here's what.

910
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: I've I just discovered that I wrote a lot of

911
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: poetry and it was the bark kind of like reps.

912
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 1: So here we go. Oh, to give context, this was

913
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: a journal entry about my ex who I was just

914
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: tired of him not posting me on Instagram because I

915
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: felt like, what the fuck? And he was posting other

916
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 1: shit and I felt like it was a real disrespect

917
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,879
Speaker 1: because he was avoiding the post of me and I'd

918
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:29,439
Speaker 1: been with him for a long time. Drop it, drop

919
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: the clip it was like claiming he loved me still

920
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 1: and wanted me back, and I was just so annoyed,

921
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 1: and I was like, why don't you ever post me

922
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: on Instagram? And so I wrote this poem to express

923
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: myself and it goes a little something like this January twentieth,

924
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:49,479
Speaker 1: twenty fourteen. It seems petty, but it's not. It makes

925
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: me feel small, So stop? Am I a secret? Like

926
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: the thoughts you go to sleep with? We had this

927
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: talk before social media and whoores? I know you think

928
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 1: it's still My friends ask what's the daily? So post

929
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: my picture? Let them know you my nigga. Ain't afraid

930
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: to show post my picture just one time. Let these

931
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 1: girls know you are mine.

932
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 12: Wow.

933
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: Still still good. But I think it's really beautifully written,

934
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: really clear, exactly what I'm trying to get across, melodic

935
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 1: rhy It flowed, May is dying in the corner. What's

936
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 1: the My friends want to know what's so post my

937
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: pictures let them know you're my nigga.

938
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 2: For show the gems we drop in the two thousands.

939
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:48,320
Speaker 3: Wow, I'm so happy to have this library of content,

940
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 3: all these amazing conversations and gems that we've dropped. If

941
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,839
Speaker 3: anyone ever tries to check me, like, let me check

942
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 3: my let me check my files. I have something for this,

943
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 3: including a PSA announcements. As I listened to these episodes,

944
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, I've been a doctor, been a philosophist, I

945
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 3: am an expert of any things you are.

946
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: You had a PSA, and it was very important, this.

947
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 2: Is a PSA.

948
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 3: I'm co parenting because everybody knows. I've got that figured out.

949
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:21,439
Speaker 1: So we had our girl, Zosha Rock Moron and she's

950
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: fucking First of all, Zosh's hilarious.

951
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 2: She really is.

952
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 1: Need to check her out. She's an actress. She's been

953
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: on She's been in Precious, she was in on the

954
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:31,280
Speaker 1: MINDI Project for years. She's in what's they called Black

955
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 1: Blackwall Street, Blackwall Street, Black Monday, Black Monday on I

956
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:39,800
Speaker 1: think that's on HBO Showtime, Space Jam. She's fucking amazing alien.

957
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 2: So I had to tell my girlfriend. She was like,

958
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 2: very unhappy that she wasn't pre warn and shit. But

959
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 2: I was like, bitch, you got a free babysitter.

960
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 3: If she wasn't over there acting like a preschool teacher,

961
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 3: you wouldn't get a break.

962
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 2: That nigga would be trying to ditch and dodge.

963
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 3: You everything like true moms. This is this is a

964
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 3: PSA announcement for all moms. If your former baby daddy

965
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 3: dating someone else who here as old she is, if

966
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 3: the bitch looks like a good babysitter, this is your

967
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 3: cue to let that nigga play that out of the

968
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 3: week and bounce.

969
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: That's so true.

970
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 3: Let that nigga take him, let her, him and his

971
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 3: two year old girlfriend go to Disneyland, do all that

972
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 3: she'd have, all the sleep over, his supply popcorn, whatever

973
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 3: you gotta do, get back up and let it go easy.

974
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 1: Ry do you know what This PSA announcement is fucking true.

975
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 1: And I'm living it right now currently. I have Bray's

976
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 1: been with her dad and he's you know, doing his

977
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: you know, his family duties over there, and he has

978
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 1: all the kids, all his kids there, including her. I

979
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: was like feeling all guilty because I haven't had her

980
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 1: for eight days. I was like, you know what, no,

981
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: go hey, you got go homegirls there, make sure my

982
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:52,800
Speaker 1: child's fed, maybe do her hair if you can. Bye.

983
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:57,800
Speaker 3: I know, I think that baby daddy is seeing someone.

984
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 3: And I was low key triggered because I was like

985
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 3: He's like, oh, we might go to Candy Cane Lane.

986
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 3: And I was like, Oh, do you guys want me?

987
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 3: He was like, I don't know. I was like, I

988
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 3: was like, okay, he's like just kidding. I don't think

989
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 3: he was kidding though.

990
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: Why why why would you invite yourself why?

991
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 2: I don't know.

992
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: Absolutely nuts. I just let the record stay right here.

993
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:25,400
Speaker 1: It's fucking crazy, okay.

994
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 3: And then I was like, oh, okay, wow, okay, anyway

995
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 3: you were going to go, you would go.

996
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 1: You can't go with her and him.

997
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,720
Speaker 2: We're just going to drive through the neighborhood, drink hout chocolate.

998
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know because I'm still I still,

999
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1000
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: Take her on your own. If it's free. You could

1001
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 1: drive through the neighborhood for free, bitch. It's not a group.

1002
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,439
Speaker 1: You're not going to Disneyland. It's not like you're getting

1003
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: the group right, you just go alone.

1004
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 3: It just seemed like a fucking jolly time to hear

1005
00:48:56,840 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 3: to have a holly jelly Christmas. Okay, anyway, speaking of

1006
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 3: this one on too so. After Zosia, we went to

1007
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 3: Costa Rica in June to write the book, and we

1008
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 3: met up with our girl Monique in the jungles on

1009
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 3: the Caribbean side of Costa Rica. And that's you know,

1010
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 3: where we manifested her coming on this retreat and where

1011
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 3: we manifested this retreat and realized like this was the

1012
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 3: next thing we needed to do. And you know, at

1013
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 3: that time, was pregnant, Yes, she.

1014
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 1: Was like seven. She was beautiful, seven months pregnant.

1015
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 3: In the jungle, and she was We struggled to like

1016
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 3: record in the jungle, but Eric and I must record

1017
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 3: wherever we go, even if it's difficult as fuck. And

1018
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:47,319
Speaker 3: it was first of all, it's beautiful. We should watch

1019
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 3: that on YouTube too.

1020
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 1: It's beautiful. It's beautiful. But she was she basically was

1021
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: sharing her story and pregnancy and how she kind of

1022
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: just left everything here in the US. She was a

1023
00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 1: nurse here, left everything in the US and and just

1024
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 1: moved to Costa Rica and fell in love, got pregnant,

1025
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: had a baby, didn't work out.

1026
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 2: So a lot of love decided to keep this.

1027
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 1: Sapy, keep the baby and you know, raise her child

1028
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 1: in Costa Rica because it should. Being a black boy

1029
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: in America is honestly terrifying, and the quality of life

1030
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 1: there is just it's pretty beautiful and incredible. I mean

1031
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 1: it's pretty simple, but yeah. So she was really inspiring

1032
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: and really inspired a lot of us and the listeners

1033
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: to like consider, like, why is it that we are

1034
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 1: so attached to America? Like why do we feel like

1035
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: this is this is like the land of dreams and

1036
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: shit and.

1037
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 3: Not just America, like attached to the idea of a

1038
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 3: family structure, attached to the idea of which it's supposed

1039
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 3: to look like, how.

1040
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 1: What stability looks like and.

1041
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 3: What happiness looks like, and especially as women, and she

1042
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 3: spit some gems about if a father is draining you

1043
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 3: or mother is draining you, then it's probably not for you.

1044
00:50:58,200 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 13: So all the women out there, I just want to

1045
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 13: let you know you don't have to settle. I think

1046
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 13: the hardest thing for me was like, oh my god,

1047
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 13: like I want my child's father in their life. I want,

1048
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 13: But if the child's father is fucking draining you and

1049
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 13: not making you feel like your highest vibratory self, it

1050
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 13: might be time for a cord cut in that situation.

1051
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 13: And that's what was there for me, And I think

1052
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:21,760
Speaker 13: it's really important that we let go of that fairy

1053
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 13: tale and that narrative because the situation that I was

1054
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 13: in with my child's father was very beautiful, very powerful,

1055
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 13: but very temporary. We got together so that he could

1056
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 13: bring me to this place to raise my child and

1057
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 13: feel comfortable and free, so you know, I could hold

1058
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 13: on to the idea of what we're supposed to be

1059
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 13: and become the baby mama that's like I want this,

1060
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 13: or I can utilize this beautiful land and this beautiful

1061
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,879
Speaker 13: baby that I get to raise and do how I want.

1062
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: I think that that is obviously like a really I

1063
00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 1: think a lot of women can resonate with that. I

1064
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 1: think that a lot of people around because they feel

1065
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 1: like they have to but you don't have to do anything.

1066
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 3: And then after we left Costa Rica, we made our

1067
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 3: way to New York, where we had a number of

1068
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 3: interviews and pretty fun experiences. We were like on an

1069
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 3: adventure this year, and we hung out with a bunch

1070
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,840
Speaker 3: of cool people in New York, including black girls texting

1071
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 3: horrible decisions. But we caught up with Jade and fran.

1072
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:27,759
Speaker 1: Fran Is from the friend Zone and Jade is you know,

1073
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 1: from Getting Grown, which we already talked about, and they're

1074
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 1: best friend next to their best friends, and so we

1075
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 1: had a bestI Besties episode we.

1076
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 3: Did, and we got kind of deep and we talked

1077
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 3: about we did.

1078
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm always crying Jesus Chris, And you.

1079
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 1: Know what, I think that we cried. And I think

1080
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 1: in that time too, like our friendship. We had been

1081
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 1: together for like months and months and days and days

1082
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 1: on end, and like we were like kind of in

1083
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:53,760
Speaker 1: a tense place.

1084
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, and its intense in general. Yeah, the kids had

1085
00:52:58,480 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 3: just come. We hadn't been with the kids and like

1086
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,759
Speaker 3: two weeks and then we had been together for two

1087
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 3: weeks and then the kids came. Then we're in New York.

1088
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 3: We were in a tiny hotel room. Yeah, we were

1089
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:08,360
Speaker 3: like with two children.

1090
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 1: I think we asked each and one of us to

1091
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 1: go through and say like what we love about each other.

1092
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you know, like and I was.

1093
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Speaker 1: I think we got emotional. But this clip is about

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00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 1: the relationship that that Fran realized that she had to

1095
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 1: nurture in herself before she could date anymore. Like she

1096
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: went abstinent and just completely stopped dating period to really

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00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 1: go within and get to know who she was.

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00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 2: I've never heard anyone say, you know, I was cellibant

1099
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 2: because I needed to get clear, clear, all the all

1100
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 2: of that energy out of me.

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00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 14: Oh my god, all those men's thoughts of me. I

1102
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 14: was like, who am I outside of relationships? And then

1103
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:51,320
Speaker 14: it was also that feeling of like how can I

1104
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 14: tell a man what I need if I haven't even

1105
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 14: cultivated what I need with myself? Like I didn't know,

1106
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 14: I didn't know what felt good to me, and so

1107
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 14: it's like I can't have that conversation with someone else

1108
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 14: before solidifying what that feels like and sounds like and

1109
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 14: looks like.

1110
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: And then shortly after this episode, we went straight and

1111
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: interviewed a dom dominatrix. We went from friendships to dominatrixes.

1112
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:20,280
Speaker 3: Within minutes, we changed her clothes into our spicy nighttime

1113
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 3: dominatrix clothes, and dominatrix came Our favorite dominatrix, mistress Marley

1114
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 3: came in with a man on a leash.

1115
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 1: It was that, you know what, I always have moments

1116
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 1: like this, but that day I was like, fuck, I

1117
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 1: love my job. Yeah, how the fuck do I get

1118
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,400
Speaker 1: to have like these deep ass conversations with women? And

1119
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:40,240
Speaker 1: then also like have some weird just some weird, wild

1120
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 1: fun shit like so in this clip, Mistress Marley allows

1121
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 1: Mila and I to dominate her sub and who do

1122
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 1: you think is the better dom?

1123
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 2: So you call me daddy Nila?

1124
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 1: Do it again? Do you like it?

1125
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 2: Say it louder, Yes, more enthusiasm. Okay, Now you want

1126
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 2: to want to switch? Okay, Beta, go to Erica.

1127
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 1: And down here you go. Okay, I'm mistress e.

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00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 2: Super super mistress love Okay, Beta, get ready? Do you

1129
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 2: like that?

1130
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: Where else do you want to be spank? Say it louder?

1131
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: Can she pull your.

1132
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 1: Hair a little bit?

1133
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 2: Pull that ponytail? Tell me you like the spank? What's

1134
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 2: my name? Good job? Not tell me you like the spank?

1135
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: You're the better dom. You're really tapped into your dom space.

1136
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: I need to work on it. I think just because

1137
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm a sub, I'm not comfortable doming. But that was

1138
00:55:59,120 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 1: really fun.

1139
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 3: That was really fun. I enjoyed that. I did enjoy that.

1140
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,400
Speaker 3: I might have to tap more into my dominatrix. You know,

1141
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 3: sex kittenis. We also went to a sex party in

1142
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 3: New York, a really cool sex party, and had some

1143
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 3: We had some pretty epic times.

1144
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,479
Speaker 2: We did. We had a flashback of the whole ship.

1145
00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:18,280
Speaker 1: We did. We did an exclusive episode for Patreon on

1146
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:20,719
Speaker 1: the sex party. So if you're interested in learning about

1147
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: our experience at this amazing, pretty much all black and

1148
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 1: brown sex party in Brooklyn. Yeah, we participated, so you're

1149
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: definitely gonna want to hear about that.

1150
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 2: It was Yeah, we did, and it was fun.

1151
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, so click click the link to go to our

1152
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:40,360
Speaker 1: Patreon and searched for that video.

1153
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 2: Our job is so funny, I know.

1154
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 3: Also, if you want to hear about when we went

1155
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 3: to sex party on the same Refield research trip.

1156
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 1: So after Missus Marley, then we met our new bestie,

1157
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 1: we did a new friend.

1158
00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 2: A new bay friend, Trap Trap Yoga Bay came on

1159
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:00,560
Speaker 2: the show and we immediately became besties.

1160
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 3: We actually formed the Ethical Hoe Counsil shortly after that episode.

1161
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 3: We even named the group chat that And she really

1162
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 3: really is such a light and really came and dropped

1163
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 3: a lot of gems on.

1164
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 1: Us, so many gems.

1165
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 2: So many gems.

1166
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 3: She's she's so incredibly smart, and she's helped us in

1167
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 3: our business.

1168
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 2: She offers coaching.

1169
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 3: I need.

1170
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: I need to do her coaching in twenty twenty two, right,

1171
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 1: I do. She actually just launched a new coaching program.

1172
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 1: You guys, check it out. I'm telling you like, she

1173
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: will get.

1174
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 2: Your shit to get there.

1175
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 3: And one of those reasons she gets your shit together

1176
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:39,160
Speaker 3: is because she teaches you how to make it hard

1177
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 3: for people to take advantage of you.

1178
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 2: And this isn't the clip of her telling us.

1179
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 1: The gems you guys, ever heard of the yes.

1180
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:50,960
Speaker 2: And yes and I will do this for you? Or right?

1181
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: Like can I borrow your car? Yes?

1182
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 15: And you will need to pay my car note for

1183
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 15: six months? And people be like, I only need to

1184
00:57:58,520 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 15: borrow your car for twenty minutes.

1185
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 1: Okay, I guess you don't need it.

1186
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 15: I guess you don't need it. Like it's low key

1187
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:05,480
Speaker 15: game of like how bad do you want it? But

1188
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 15: it's it's it's boundary setting for beginners. It's saying, like,

1189
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 15: at what level I will be comfortable with you using

1190
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 15: me in the way that you want to use And

1191
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 15: most of the time you realize that people make you

1192
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:19,760
Speaker 15: feel like you were their last resort. And here comes

1193
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:21,920
Speaker 15: another match of affirmation. You were not that stuck as

1194
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 15: the last resort.

1195
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 1: You were only the.

1196
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 15: Most convenient one. And make it not so convenient to

1197
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 15: use the fuck out of you.

1198
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 2: Amen, ay men, The gems on gems On gems.

1199
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:37,040
Speaker 1: And then after trap Yoga Bay that's not those really dope.

1200
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 1: We had some really strong, strong, like super just empowering

1201
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 1: and like these women know, like I now understand the

1202
00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: power of being a motivational speaker. Yeah, and being a coach,

1203
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 1: because this is this is some they were doing some

1204
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 1: real coaching.

1205
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 3: Like just being smart is not enough. You have to

1206
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 3: be able to really connect with your audience. And the

1207
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 3: way that these women were able to just like come

1208
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 3: right in here and knock that shit out of the ballpark.

1209
00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1210
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 3: Well and just like yeah, I meant connects to me,

1211
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 3: to you, Like I was just like, oh my god,

1212
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 3: you just touch my soul.

1213
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: Bitche So our next guest was Mel Robbins. Mel Robbins

1214
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 1: is is a the highest paid female motiv motivational speaker

1215
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 1: in the world. She's like an audible legend, like all

1216
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 1: of her books sell millions and millions of copies. She's

1217
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:31,480
Speaker 1: a mom, she is she's she's been like so many things.

1218
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 1: She's like a tedech speaker. She was on CNN as

1219
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: a correspondent, like she's but she's a badass.

1220
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 2: Yes, she's real and she's raw and she lets you

1221
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 2: know like it is.

1222
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 1: M so Mel no to set up this clip. It's

1223
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 1: called First of all, the episode is called stop Apologizing,

1224
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 1: and in this clip, she's explaining why we need to

1225
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 1: stop apologizing. And one of those the reason why we

1226
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 1: started talking about this was because actually we were supposed

1227
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 1: to meet with mel and interview her, and like, our

1228
00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:00,439
Speaker 1: calendars got fucked up and we ended up now being

1229
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 1: at the studio while she was there at the front

1230
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 1: door knocking waiting to get in us dumb asses. We

1231
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 1: were somewhere else and Jamala called her because I was

1232
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 1: too pussy to call.

1233
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 2: I was like, please just call her and figure it out.

1234
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 1: She was like, I'm so sorry, and she literally Jamala

1235
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 1: came back in. After talking to her, I was like, bitch,

1236
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: she just got me the together, okay. She was like,

1237
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: stop apologizing. Your business is growing, don't disrespect your business.

1238
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 1: Just get it together. I'll see you next week.

1239
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 3: Basically I was like what like and then and then

1240
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 3: I was like, who is this woman? Yeah, but this

1241
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 3: is her telling us how to stop apologizing.

1242
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 8: That you were literally apologizing for ordering gluten free bread. Right,

1243
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 8: I'm really sorry. I'm sorry that I'm a pain in

1244
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 8: the ass when I order. I'm sorry but could I

1245
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 8: please have gluten free with that that that you are

1246
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 8: taking away, you're right to take up space. You are

1247
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 8: invalidating what you need because in that moment you were

1248
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 8: like i'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. The focus goes

1249
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 8: on you making the mistake, so you feel terrible. It

1250
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 8: also makes the person on the receiving end of the

1251
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 8: i'm sorry feel like I need to reassure you.

1252
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 1: You think that you're doing them a service almost by

1253
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: saying I'm sorry, when really it's it's not.

1254
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 2: It doesn't change whatever has been done.

1255
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: Well, it makes them have to like, like she said, reassure.

1256
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 2: Wow.

1257
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: I also just realized after that episode how much I apologize.

1258
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 1: It's crazy. I know I have the dumbest shit, Like

1259
01:01:29,760 --> 01:01:31,240
Speaker 1: I know that I'm not sorry.

1260
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 3: For right, And I also was crying on that that

1261
01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 3: that episode, like well.

1262
01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 1: She I know, she she's a motivational speaker and she

1263
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 1: was coaching you through it. She really was, And yeah,

1264
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 1: like live on the show, it's crazy.

1265
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 2: The following month in October.

1266
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:54,160
Speaker 3: In October, we got a narcissist expert.

1267
01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 1: Megan Doherty was on the show and she kind of

1268
01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 1: walked us through just all the signs of a narcissist

1269
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: and basically how to get the fuck away.

1270
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 2: And how the trauma bonding begins with the narcissist and

1271
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 2: how you have to be careful of it.

1272
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 1: So let me just wait until it blows up into

1273
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 1: a fire of smoke, and then I'll have a reason

1274
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: to leave.

1275
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 2: I need a real reason to leave. Like if I

1276
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 2: try to leave right here, he's going to fight me

1277
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,280
Speaker 2: and confuse me to stay. It doesn't feel like this

1278
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 2: is a big enough deal.

1279
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:24,760
Speaker 3: Shoot me, nigga, go shoot me, and.

1280
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 2: Then I'll leave in the head or something that's good.

1281
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,360
Speaker 2: I could probably be like, make this sign.

1282
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:34,440
Speaker 1: I don't worry, baby, I'll put that Jordan on.

1283
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 2: No one'll know.

1284
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,360
Speaker 15: An important thing though, like when it comes to this

1285
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 15: trauma bonding, you're physically addicted to that person. Your body

1286
01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 15: is bio chemically addicted to it. It's like stress hormones

1287
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 15: mixed with Aussie toastin. When you leave sometimes it feels

1288
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 15: like you're like detoxing from.

1289
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 1: A I think everyone is a narcissist in their life.

1290
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 1: So if you you know what that is, you know

1291
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 1: the trauma bonding, you know what if you don't know

1292
01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,439
Speaker 1: what love bombing is, definitely check out that episode, because

1293
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 1: that's kind of like step one, or it's at least

1294
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 1: always included in one of the steps usually of how

1295
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 1: a narcissist keeps you. Yeah, that was a really good one.

1296
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 2: That was a really good one. I learned a lot.

1297
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 3: And then we had an episode where Eric and I

1298
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 3: played a little game called We're Not Really Strangers, and

1299
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 3: we revealed some.

1300
01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 2: Very top secret This is very.

1301
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 1: Top secret information I've never told anyone except the people.

1302
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 2: Who listened to this episode, and it was very.

1303
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 1: Very deep, deep secret. Well, here we go, write down

1304
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: something others would never guess about you just by looking

1305
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 1: at you.

1306
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 2: Wow, are you ready for this? Yeah? I've had at

1307
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 2: least six wet dreams about Emin like you came. I'm

1308
01:03:52,520 --> 01:03:54,440
Speaker 2: grossed out. I don't even know if we're ratchelor friends.

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Speaker 2: I'm shocked. It's better than fucking Howard Stern. Have you

1310
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:00,400
Speaker 2: ever told someone I love you but didn't mean it?

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01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 2: If so, why not?

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Speaker 1: I'm ashamed? Okay, but I so I loved Eminem when

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01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 1: I was like ten, Like I really fucking loved him.

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01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:15,680
Speaker 1: He was just you know, I went to school with a

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Speaker 1: bunch of white people. I was like, oh, my god

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01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: like he's kind of hood though, like my hood dreams.

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01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: But I'll like assimilate to my my white counterparts.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I too loved Eminem. He was an edgy

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Speaker 3: white He was kind of cute.

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Speaker 2: It was a little short cut.

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01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 1: It's a little short, little blonde, bleached, big white tea,

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01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 1: baggy pants.

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Speaker 6: He was.

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Speaker 2: He was a vibe in the early two thousand, writing.

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01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: Some poetry but also like fuck the shit out of.

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01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:43,960
Speaker 3: Me and maybe kill you yeah yeah, maybe murder you yeah,

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01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 3: like Kim Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That was quite the shocker for me.

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01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:52,040
Speaker 3: You're bestie, because I would have never guessed it, so disappointing.

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01:04:53,240 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 3: Speaking of rappers ex rappers, we also had a rather

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01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 3: influence She'll ex Rapper podcast through on the show this

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01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:06,360
Speaker 3: year Joe Button, which we got a lot of mixed.

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01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 2: Feedback about because.

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01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 3: Well, we you know, people have shit to saybout everybody.

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01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 3: But he said some very triggering things he did.

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01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:18,959
Speaker 1: He was He's a polarizing guy that.

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01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 3: One, but very charming, very sweet, but then also very

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Speaker 3: what are you talking about?

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01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we were talking about co parenting. We talked

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01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,440
Speaker 1: about a few different things. We talked about cheating, we

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01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: talked about co parenting. We talked about, you know, the

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01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,479
Speaker 1: role of a father and a mother, and who takes

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01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 1: on most of the you know, who should take on

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01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 1: most of the responsibility. All the things were very upsetting.

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01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 1: I'd have to say we were all pretty upsetting. But

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01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 1: let's get with it. Let's go with this first clip,

1347
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: because this first clip was really the one that I

1348
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 1: think the internet was like, what the fuck? And it

1349
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: was Joe talking about this idea of a primary parent.

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01:05:55,080 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 12: She'll stay fast, listen to that. Dads aren't primary parents.

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01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 12: To get half the rights that y'all have, have to

1352
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 12: sign a paper when our child is born, and y'all

1353
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 12: have to agree to it. So, yes, your responsibility in

1354
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 12: motherhood as the primary parent is greater than the dads primary.

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01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 1: We didn't sign up to be the primary parent. We

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01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 1: signed up to both of us being primary.

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01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 2: Now in the world, you.

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01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 1: Know what, it's still fuck you, Joe. I don't agree.

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01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 1: I still do not agree. And it's it's interesting because

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01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:31,120
Speaker 1: there were a lot there were even some women that

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01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 1: agreed with him. Yeah, I got what he was trying

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01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 1: to say. I don't like how he said. I don't

1363
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: think that he was trying to say what you think

1364
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 1: he's trying to say. I think he said exactly what

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01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 1: he meant. Okay, I don't think that there was anything

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01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 1: that he was trying to say. I think he said

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01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 1: he tried to say that because men have to don't

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01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 1: have don't sign the birth certificate, then that has nothing

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01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:51,120
Speaker 1: to do with actually what we were actually trying to

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01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: get across, which was the fact that both parents should

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01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 1: take on equal responsibility. There's not and he was suggesting

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01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 1: that women just automatic that's just how it is, and

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01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 1: that if you especially if you leave, especially if you

1374
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 1: leave your partner, then you basically forfeit, right, you have quality,

1375
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 1: which is nuts. Yeah, if you're not happy, nuts Okay,

1376
01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:18,240
Speaker 1: but yeah, definitely check out that episode with Joe Budden.

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01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:19,960
Speaker 1: That was a good one. You should watch that one

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01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 1: on YouTube. Okay. So then then the next moment that

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01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:24,840
Speaker 1: kind of my viral on the internet was just taught

1380
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:27,560
Speaker 1: us talking about you know, I think this episode was

1381
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 1: five Ways to Please your Partner, and it was us

1382
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:33,600
Speaker 1: talking about, you know, the role that women play in sex.

1383
01:07:33,880 --> 01:07:38,040
Speaker 1: That it's very it's like a we have it's it's

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01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:40,240
Speaker 1: hard for us to just show up and just get

1385
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: a nut. We have to like put on this whole show,

1386
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 1: and or at least we think we do.

1387
01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 2: And this is what we went viral for. Men are

1388
01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 2: almost taught like show up a nut and you're doing

1389
01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 2: a good job. Women are like, you got to keep

1390
01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:56,520
Speaker 2: your man, You gotta do those tricks, bitch, or so

1391
01:07:56,560 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take your man, and like, okay, do the tricks.

1392
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:03,080
Speaker 2: Come jacket, shut the hair, look sexy.

1393
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 1: Look, oh you're writing, like look beautiful.

1394
01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:08,520
Speaker 2: Like we can't even enjoy sex. We're too busy looking sexy. Fu,

1395
01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 2: spake yourself, don't spake him, spake him. Don't touch his asshole,

1396
01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 2: touch his ass whole. Wow, it's true.

1397
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:24,320
Speaker 1: Just so many rules, so many rules on the male

1398
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:27,160
Speaker 1: body too. It's just like men have so many fucking.

1399
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:28,120
Speaker 2: Rules, so annoying.

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01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 3: It's like, Okay, I can't touch your buttle, Okay, I

1401
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:32,280
Speaker 3: can touch your its only right there, three and she can.

1402
01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 1: Only suck your balls. Can because I can't seuck your dick.

1403
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:35,639
Speaker 2: Don't go too high on those balls.

1404
01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:37,559
Speaker 1: And then we talked, and then we had we had

1405
01:08:37,600 --> 01:08:39,640
Speaker 1: such amazing guests. Song We had like Sir Marvelous who

1406
01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 1: did fire play on us, which I thought was really

1407
01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 1: fun and cool and you guys love that clip too,

1408
01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 1: and that's another one that you should watch. I mean,

1409
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:50,320
Speaker 1: he is a spy, a fire dominatrix dominate, what's the

1410
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:53,799
Speaker 1: what's the male version of dominatrix? Dominator thinks still dominate

1411
01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,240
Speaker 1: a dom a domb and he uses fire and sensory

1412
01:08:56,280 --> 01:09:01,720
Speaker 1: play on his clients and definitely tested that out. And

1413
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 1: now in December, I mean we're in deeper December, we're

1414
01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 1: just talking about, you know, getting deep, letting shiit, like

1415
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:09,680
Speaker 1: letting the things that you've been avoiding kind of come

1416
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 1: to the surface and facing.

1417
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 2: Them, healing them, healing them.

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01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:18,240
Speaker 1: We had you know, Devon who is a tantra expert,

1419
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:23,320
Speaker 1: and her perspective on just pleasure this and pleasure yeah,

1420
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 1: and how it's our birthright, that good orgasms are our birthright,

1421
01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 1: and that there's so much shame associated with kind of

1422
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:33,600
Speaker 1: acknowledging that. It's just been a good year, a girl.

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01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 2: It has.

1424
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 3: I'm so happy for you and for us and like

1425
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 3: the growth and for us as a community. We made it,

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01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 3: and this next year is going to be even greater

1427
01:09:41,760 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 3: and even better and as ready as.

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01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 1: Ready too, as ready too, and now you know what,

1429
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful for all of you guys. Thank you

1430
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 1: guys for sticking with us. If you just joined us,

1431
01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:53,519
Speaker 1: welcome to the tribe. Enjoy the journey. If you've been

1432
01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 1: with us from the beginning, then you know the evolution.

1433
01:09:57,080 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 1: And I just love what we do. Love that we

1434
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 1: get to connect with you guys every day, literally, whether

1435
01:10:03,520 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 1: it's on Instagram, YouTube.

1436
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 3: If you haven't connected with us on Patreon, it's worth it.

1437
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 3: We're blogging, we're doing a lot of other extra shit

1438
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 3: over there, and.

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01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:14,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're really launching it. We're really reorganizing our Patreon

1440
01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 1: for twenty twenty two. Yeah, we're really focusing on the

1441
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 1: content over there. So it's a good time to join us.

1442
01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:20,760
Speaker 1: So you get to join our close friends, join the

1443
01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 1: Slack community where you can connect with other women in

1444
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 1: your city.

1445
01:10:23,800 --> 01:10:25,639
Speaker 3: If you need some mom friends, you need your Erica

1446
01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 3: to your Mila, so make sure you.

1447
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 2: Do that in twenty twenty two.

1448
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:32,400
Speaker 1: Well, happy New Year, you guys. I hope you guys

1449
01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 1: have a really safe and fun New Year's.

1450
01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:39,280
Speaker 2: I hope to see you in Costa Rica.

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01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: We'll see you in the jungle, baby, Bye bye.

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01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:01,960
Speaker 2: The like I did the Lasses Prey Als