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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for not allowing my niece

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Speaker 1: to attend my wedding rehearsal dinner? And this is to

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Speaker 1: answer the question of how should you handle complications in

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Speaker 1: the lead up to a wedding? And by the way,

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Speaker 1: you can join us live on YouTube every weekday at

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Speaker 1: three pm Pacific standard time.

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Speaker 2: Do it? Just do it?

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Speaker 1: Good job, brush our little profile. That was good with

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Speaker 1: your finger, that was good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you went, you went.

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Speaker 1: Oh I didn't mean to, so Kattat says I'm getting married.

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Speaker 1: I was seventeenth. The wedding is a bit untraditional, but

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Speaker 1: nothing super out of the norm. First, my four year

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Speaker 1: old son is walking down the aisle with me. You

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Speaker 1: can walk.

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Speaker 2: It took John four years to learn. That can't be true.

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Speaker 1: True, that can't be true.

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Speaker 2: No, dude, it did take John a long time, two years.

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Speaker 2: He cooked in the wound for eleven months. You're cooking,

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Speaker 2: you're cooking.

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Speaker 1: But now you can run.

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Speaker 2: That's true. Oh how we made that joke earlier? Oh

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Speaker 2: so smart, so smart.

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Speaker 1: Second, I have two bridesmen standing up on my side.

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Speaker 1: Both bridesmen are my brother in laws who I've been

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Speaker 1: close to for a long long time. Obviously their wives.

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Speaker 1: My sisters are also standing up on my side. Stick

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Speaker 1: with me. This is important context. One sister is my

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Speaker 1: maid of honor. Let's call her Regina. Regina and her

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Speaker 1: husband's bride'sman son is my ring bearer. I picked him

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Speaker 1: my son. They also have a ten year old daughter,

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Speaker 1: let's call her Sarah. Sarah's a little sad she isn't

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Speaker 1: in the wedding like her mom, dad, and brother. It's understandable,

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Speaker 1: but she also has four other girl cousins her age

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Speaker 1: who are also not in the wedding that she can

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Speaker 1: hang with the day of the wedding. Now for the drama.

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Speaker 2: Uh oh.

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Speaker 1: We had a big camping trip this past weekend with

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Speaker 1: While everyone was starting to pack up to leave and

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Speaker 1: eating breakfast, Regina brought up the rehearsal dinner. She made

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Speaker 1: can rehearse. There is limited space, and I have a

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Speaker 1: lot of nieces and nephews, so wouldn't be fair to

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Speaker 1: allow some to go and others. Can't I explain this

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Speaker 1: for rehearsing for the ceremony. Regina immediately said, well, what

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Speaker 1: I'm not finding a babysitter. I again said, I'm sure

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Speaker 1: we can figure something out. She's ten, she has many

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Speaker 1: I'll stay home with Sarah, to which I replied, you're

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Speaker 1: my maid of honor. You can't not go to the rehearsal.

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Speaker 1: By this point, I'm seeing read she's basically giving me

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Speaker 1: my other sisters, two other sisters try to talk sense

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Speaker 1: to the rehearsal dinner. Things got out of hand quickly

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Speaker 1: Ooh agreed, because at first it was like, oh, maybe

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Speaker 1: the daughter the niece can be the flower girl. But

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Speaker 3: I don't know, there can only be one one, what

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Speaker 3: true god, flower girl?

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Speaker 2: Let them battle it out.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, and Nicole Hadna says, the poor kid would

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Speaker 2: The kid would would be bored out of their minds.

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Speaker 3: All the adults are like, oh, let's not like say

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Speaker 1: Niece isn't allowed to come to the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is this wedding rehearsal.

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Speaker 3: This isn't a crazy like oh can you like you know,

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Speaker 2: And get this like archway that we can put no.

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Speaker 3: It's like, hey, could you just like find a babysitter

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Speaker 3: just makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what are we doing here?

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Speaker 1: Yes, just reach out to your babysitters.

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Speaker 2: Check.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think a family in town.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, Bernie hard Dragon says, in fairness, we'll

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Speaker 1: figure something out. Does not give a mother piece if

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Speaker 1: it feels like she's just not open, like Virgina's not

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Speaker 1: open to any of the options that OPI is suggesting.

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Speaker 2: But and hey, if I'm wrong, here attack me.

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Speaker 1: If I'm wrong, here chain me to a rock and

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Speaker 1: have vultures eat my liver.

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Speaker 2: Damn, that's harsh.

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Speaker 3: But Prometheus, I don't know about No Prometheus.

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Speaker 2: Still I can't read.

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Speaker 1: Still fine from the gods and gave it to humans.

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Speaker 2: Dude, shout out frometheist.

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Speaker 3: But isn't it on the mom to be It's like, hey,

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Speaker 3: I would like there to be like a child free

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Speaker 2: Isn't it on the mom?

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Speaker 3: She's like, giving the solutions is like more than necessity,

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Speaker 1: I also was I was going to see what day

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Speaker 1: the host, but it was posted a day ago. So

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Speaker 1: the Regina has like a month, a whole month to

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Speaker 1: find a babysitter. This isn't like four days before. She's like,

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Speaker 3: What do we this is this is a non conversation. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: just get a babysitter. Just get a babysitter, probably someone remember,

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Speaker 1: And she then she can hang out with her cousins.

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Speaker 3: real question do we cut reginas.

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Speaker 2: Made of honor?

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Speaker 1: M I ah kind of tough, right, yeah, because it's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and she's like her saying, Okay, if my kid

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of thinking in my mind if this is

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Speaker 1: Because you want your maid of honor to like go

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Speaker 3: don't know. This seems like solutions I brought should be

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Speaker 1: I agree, agreed, Look at you, John from not knowing

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Speaker 1: what I said, the offering excellent commentary.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm doing, Sophia, what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: I'm sounding off?

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Speaker 2: I'm sounding off. Yeah, go ahead and try to do

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Speaker 2: that in the check. Go ahead, Briley, you're not allowed

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Speaker 2: to ban people for commenting. Sound off. I'm not going

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Speaker 1: I'll bite your fingers off. Okay, where was I? Things

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Speaker 1: So Sarah the daughter is also saying, hey, I can

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Speaker 1: I refuse. She's just creating issues.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just wants to be a problem. Yes, the dragon

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Speaker 2: Mama is. She's being a problem on purpose. At this point,

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Speaker 2: I'm going cutter is made of honor. Yeah, what I'm

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Speaker 1: They're not listening to any of the solutions.

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Speaker 3: Anything, creating a problem at every single turn. Cut her

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Speaker 3: before she can make more agreed.

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Speaker 1: The conversation ended with me telling her the entire family

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, she's so concerned and the daughter's like, where's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so she's being babysat. Regina and her husband drove

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Speaker 3: So I would have proposed to my boyfriend, but I

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Speaker 2: so do it. This comes from love is cool. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's so funny. I thought it'd be fun if I proposed.

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Speaker 3: Secretly, I've planned everything, got a ring in sanit eight

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Speaker 1: I see and I see you. Also, I think this

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Honestly, why why you spoiled it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It would have been so cute if they both proposed.

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Speaker 1: That was I don't think that his grounds to reveal

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Speaker 2: Mom, you're an idiot. You're a congratulations.

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Speaker 3: And also there's like no further context or explanation of

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Speaker 2: Me if I'm if I'm wrong.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm like trying to It's.

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Speaker 2: Like you're the dad giving away. Oh wait wait wait wait.

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Speaker 1: Wait, He like, I'm about to call you daddy.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I think that's what he's saying. I think that's

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Speaker 1: It's like what I'm about to call you?

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Speaker 1: Dead you?

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Speaker 1: Thank god? I think that Ope, you should still propose.

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Speaker 1: I think that it's I think that she shouldn't go

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Speaker 3: It's in like the worst place, like proposing at their

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Speaker 3: And I will admit it does suck that, like, you know,

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Speaker 3: Doing the proposal, not about getting married. They're both they're

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Speaker 1: I suppose I suppose maybe you just tell them, hey,

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Speaker 3: Yes, Yeah, that's like, oh, you should do it on

442
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Speaker 3: this he's planning to bring you here, you should do

443
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Speaker 3: it then. And then I think the the the double

444
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Speaker 3: proposal or like the other suggestion of like she pulls

445
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Speaker 3: out the ring and has her stuff that she prepares

446
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Speaker 3: as well, Like I think that would be.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, awesome.

448
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Speaker 1: I still am on. I still think she can propose, though,

449
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Speaker 1: I still I think, I still agree.

450
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Speaker 2: I do love it. I do love it, and I

451
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Speaker 2: don't want to.

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Speaker 1: Like no, I get what you're saying, but I think

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Speaker 1: I'm I still think that she could propose only because

454
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Speaker 1: had the mom not said anything, she would.

455
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Speaker 2: Have That's true. Have happened, that's true.

456
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Speaker 1: And it was two days from happening. This is true,

457
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Speaker 1: And so like, what would it have happened?

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Speaker 2: Actually?

459
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Speaker 3: Had it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it would have been.

461
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Speaker 3: I would be crazy if it organically happened. Yeah, actually, yeah,

462
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Speaker 3: I digress. We have an update, ladies and gentlemen. So also,

463
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Speaker 3: February sixth, twenty twenty. What if they had to move

464
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Speaker 3: their wedding date?

465
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Speaker 2: I'm sure.

466
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Speaker 1: So.

467
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Speaker 3: Yesterday he took me to run some errands before he

468
00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,160
Speaker 3: randomly decided we should just have fun instead.

469
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Speaker 2: He took me around the city. We tried all kinds

470
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Speaker 2: of foods and.

471
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Speaker 3: Honestly had the most fun I've had since I was

472
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Speaker 3: a kid, made memories off of little moments.

473
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Speaker 2: I didn't think of it that much.

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Speaker 3: I realized that the whole day had basically been an

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Speaker 3: all date date.

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Speaker 1: Oh got I think to keep going.

477
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Speaker 3: So I knew it had to be coming, and I

478
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,760
Speaker 3: had the ring with me yes, and I was going

479
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Speaker 3: to try and propose at the same past. Someone suggested

480
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Speaker 3: this in my original post, and I thought.

481
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Speaker 2: It would be cute. Which is which is? I think

482
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Speaker 2: that this is? This is amazing?

483
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Speaker 1: Yeah, perfect?

484
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:57,680
Speaker 2: That should be the new norm.

485
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Speaker 3: Somebody decides they want to propose, and whenever the other

486
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Speaker 3: person proposes, they also propose as.

487
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Speaker 1: Well, Yeah, you have that ready.

488
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Speaker 2: Either side, Like that's.

489
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Speaker 1: Both people have to have rings ready.

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Speaker 3: And that's like a fun that like, okay, you gotta

491
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Speaker 3: be on the same page because both you know, I

492
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Speaker 3: want you can make a joke like hey that like, hey,

493
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Speaker 3: get your rings ready, you know, like rings.

494
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Speaker 2: That's good.

495
00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:24,440
Speaker 3: He opened my door, walked me down a beautiful pathway

496
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Speaker 3: and looked me in the eyes and I said yes right.

497
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Speaker 2: He laughed and dropped down to one.

498
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Speaker 3: Knee and I started crying and forgot that I was

499
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Speaker 3: supposed to be proposing to I don't even remember what

500
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Speaker 3: he said, wow.

501
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Speaker 2: But disrespect I would also be like totally totally.

502
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,439
Speaker 3: He was on his knee for a while saying what,

503
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Speaker 3: I'm sure we're the sweetest things but I was too busy.

504
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Speaker 2: Crying like a baby.

505
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,679
Speaker 3: I'd already said yes before he even got down on

506
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Speaker 3: one knee, though he put the ring on my finger.

507
00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 2: We went home and I realized I didn't.

508
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 3: Oh no, he wanted to shower, and we sometimes shower

509
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 3: it together, so I propose him there shower. He smiled

510
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 3: and said, I wonder if when our first kid is born,

511
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 3: it will top this moment. Then, because I was on

512
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 3: my knees in the shower, he made sex joke. He

513
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 3: got him chat would love that, I'm sure. After we

514
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 3: got out, he held me while we called his parents.

515
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 3: I've already called my whole family in a car ride

516
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,840
Speaker 3: home yesterday. It was amazing. And now I'm laying next

517
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Speaker 3: to him while he plays video games and he's talking

518
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,120
Speaker 3: about our engagement to his friends.

519
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 2: And I couldn't be happier. And I don't know how

520
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Speaker 2: to contain all of this. Just uugh, I love you,

521
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:45,440
Speaker 2: tod that, Oh my god.

522
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 3: Edit, thank you to everyone congratulating us. I appreciate it,

523
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 3: Berry love this. And that's when I looked him in

524
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Speaker 3: the eyes and said, I'm.

525
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Speaker 2: Done, just kidding, I'm getting divorcing. Sound of.

526
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yeah, perfect, perfect and perfect complications and

527
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 1: they dealt with them accordingly.

528
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, this was dealt with like there was a

529
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 3: few good options here, but the proposing to him proposing?

530
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Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, I guess my my, my question returning

531
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Speaker 1: to kind of are earlier return to return, Yeah, earlier qualms.

532
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: If OP was not going to propose, would you have

533
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 1: expected the fiance to have given that same kind.

534
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 2: Of If OP was to not propose with this, you.

535
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: Were saying like, oh, well she should like they should

536
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 1: run that by the fiance and stuff, blah blah blah.

537
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 1: But if OP was like never going to propose, would

538
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Speaker 1: you like, do you think that you want that from

539
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 1: the fiance?

540
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Speaker 3: I think only because the only danger you run into

541
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 3: is the other person.

542
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 2: Thinks that they now cannot Okay, I see what you're saying.

543
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's I think the only which can be

544
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 3: solved by a conversation afterwards.

545
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: This is true. Yeah, you can still propose.

546
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's not. Yeah, it's not like the end

547
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,640
Speaker 3: of the world by any means. But I think this

548
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 3: was a worked out and it's really just kind of

549
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 3: like getting on the safe again. It's it's because there

550
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 3: was an there was an is in general an expectation

551
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 3: of the guy to do it. So it's like the

552
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 3: guy plans and does it, and but this this works out, Like, yeah.

553
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Speaker 1: It seems like the relationship is kind of.

554
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 2: And I love the idea of the double proposal.

555
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:27,719
Speaker 1: I love that.

556
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 3: Honestly, that makes so much more sense to me, so

557
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,120
Speaker 3: much more sense. I know what.

558
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Speaker 1: I'm same I said earlier. I think that like both

559
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: sides should get a ring. Why does the woman get

560
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Speaker 1: a ring? I think if we got there's an engagement ring,

561
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 1: but giving I mean both have people have ring? You know?

562
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Speaker 3: But I think yes, because then you can find, like,

563
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Speaker 3: I don't know, there's like different things like if someone

564
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 3: if someone is a super into nature, you could get

565
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 3: like a ring.

566
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: It's like their favorite tree.

567
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Speaker 3: I don't know, Like like you can find like really

568
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 3: cool ways of.

569
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Speaker 1: The ring style ring.

570
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you can find ways of being thoughtful for

571
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 3: each other, which is like a missed opportunity in the relationship.

572
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 2: Because of the patriarchy.

573
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Speaker 1: You get a freaking cool ring.

574
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Speaker 2: Man, Come on, bro, Yeah you what a cool ring?

575
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: Bro?

576
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 2: I think it's by far the better.

577
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Speaker 1: I think the system is corrupt.

578
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 3: We need to fix it down with the patriarchy, with

579
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Speaker 3: the patriarchy, and up with the Rings.

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