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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Subject. If he's going, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for three

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Speaker 1: years and my husband had two sons when we got married.

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Speaker 1: I'm cordial with the mom of his nine year old son.

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Speaker 1: It's the mother of the two year old that I

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Speaker 1: don't vibe with. Here's why my husband and I split

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Speaker 1: up a month before our planned wedding date because we

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Speaker 1: were arguing over wedding plans and money. He started sleeping

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Speaker 1: on the couch and we ignored each other for weeks,

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Speaker 1: so we postponed the wedding and he moved in with

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Speaker 1: his cousin. During that time, he met a girl and

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Speaker 1: was having sex with her without protection. She got pregnant quickly,

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Speaker 1: and now he has a son with a woman he

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Speaker 1: barely knows because I know her. I know her because

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Speaker 1: she used to do my braids, and she knew I

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Speaker 1: was engaged to this man. After all the drama over

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Speaker 1: her and the baby, my husband and I work things

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Speaker 1: out and we eloped. Things were pretty good between us

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Speaker 1: until last weekend when we announced. When he announced that

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Speaker 1: he's taking his sons to Disney World next month, I

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Speaker 1: assumed it was a family vacation, but he said his

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Speaker 1: two year old son's mom had planned the trip and

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Speaker 1: invited his nine year old to go. This man knows

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Speaker 1: I'm not with the BS, so I said, if he's going,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to. I am not sure how he thought

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Speaker 1: a trip without me would be okay. He said it's

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Speaker 1: best if I don't go because I would be mean

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Speaker 1: to his child's mom. The entire time, I just knew

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Speaker 1: he had to be joking, but he's serious. Since I

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Speaker 1: can't go on the trip, I told him that I'll

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Speaker 1: be gone from his life when he returns from Florida.

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Speaker 1: He said, I'm being unreasonable and not considering his son.

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Speaker 1: Is he considering his son or his son's mama. You

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Speaker 1: know he's thinking about his son's mama. This whole letter

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Speaker 1: right here is crazy. And how can anyone in their

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Speaker 1: right mind think this is okay, especially your husband. This

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Speaker 1: is not right, This is not nice, This is not cool.

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Speaker 1: What she's doing inviting the nine year old son to

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Speaker 1: Disney World. This is all a trap. Okay, she knows

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Speaker 1: exactly what she's doing. He had a baby on you

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Speaker 1: while you guys were fighting. You were just fighting over

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Speaker 1: money in the wedding date and all that. You weren't

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Speaker 1: even separated or divorced or anything. Wow, and now he's

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Speaker 1: going on a trip with the baby's mama without you.

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Speaker 1: There's definitely more to this story, because he's already accused

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Speaker 1: you of being mean to the baby mama. He didn't

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Speaker 1: question the fact that she knows he has a wife,

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Speaker 1: and she's trying to drag him down there anyway for

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Speaker 1: what's going to be a family vacation with her. This

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Speaker 1: is wrong. There's no way you should stay at home.

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Speaker 1: You got to go on this trip or no one's

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Speaker 1: going period, that's it. Or do like you said and

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Speaker 1: not be there when he comes back. You're not being unreasonable.

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Speaker 1: You are his family, not her. You should definitely go

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Speaker 1: because if you don't go, trust and believe they will

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Speaker 1: be working on baby number two. Okay, Tommy, all right,

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Speaker 1: I'm convinced what.

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Speaker 2: Everybody got something that you don't have. You need a baby.

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Speaker 2: You need a baby, because see that's why you can't go,

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Speaker 2: because you ain't got no baby. You got to get

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Speaker 2: you a baby. Okay, we got to get you a

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Speaker 2: baby in order for you to get the Disney You

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Speaker 2: need a baby, all right. I don't know if you

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Speaker 2: need If you can borrow a baby, you know, rental baby,

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Speaker 2: then they might have some called look up a google

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Speaker 2: rent a baby. You might be a rental baby uber

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Speaker 2: a baby. You need a baby, baby for a day.

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Speaker 2: Babies are us. We got to get you a baby.

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Speaker 2: That's the only way we're gonna get you into this

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Speaker 2: Disney Park. We got to get you.

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Speaker 1: Do.

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Speaker 2: Now, what I do want you to do, because I'm

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Speaker 2: very familiar with this. You want to stay at the

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Speaker 2: Animal Kingdom. Okay, I want you to know that that's

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Speaker 2: where you want to stay. You want to stay in

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Speaker 2: Animal king You want to make sure you ride Soaring.

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Speaker 2: You want to make sure you ride Avatar. You want

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Speaker 2: to make sure you ride all the roller coasts. And

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Speaker 2: you want to get you a guide. Okay, now we're

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Speaker 2: talking rich. Now you want to get you a guide.

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Speaker 2: So when you get you a guy, you can move

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Speaker 2: around all over the place and do whatever you want

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Speaker 2: to do. And you're gonna ride a rod the ride real,

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Speaker 2: real quick. You ain't gonna stand in line nowhere. When

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Speaker 2: you get you a gas pas, yes, fast, pan. But

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Speaker 2: we can't do none of that till we get you

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Speaker 2: a baby. We got to get a baby. Okay, you

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Speaker 2: ain't got time to get pregnant right now and get

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Speaker 2: that at Disney. That's not gonna work for you. You

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Speaker 2: got to get a baby now, so you need to

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Speaker 2: borrow a baby. Get you a baby, and get on this.

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Speaker 2: Get you get your own flight, get on down there

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Speaker 2: to Disney, and guess what. Now that you got your baby,

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Speaker 2: now you can move around and see exactly what's going on.

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Speaker 2: You can see who he's staying with, where they staying at,

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Speaker 2: who's staying in the room with them? You compass by

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Speaker 2: You already cool with the nine year olds. Mama, you

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Speaker 2: cool with her, so you lean on her, lean on her.

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Speaker 2: That's gonna be your ride or die. That's your pot

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Speaker 2: done right there. Okay, but hold on to what hold

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Speaker 2: on to your baby? Keep a baby with you because

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Speaker 2: that's gonna keep you in full because let make sure

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Speaker 2: that baby is old enough to play with either at

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Speaker 2: nine ye old or at two year old. You need

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Speaker 2: a baby right in there that's gonna be able to

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Speaker 2: kick it with the other ones. All right, don't bring

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Speaker 2: no baby at fifteen sixteen, you out of you in

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Speaker 2: our dated yourself. Stay in the middle. Or at two

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Speaker 2: and that nine. You want somebody that's gonna hold the

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Speaker 2: two and be able to play with the nine. You

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Speaker 2: need like a five or seven yo old. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: need to borrow a five or seven year old baby.

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Speaker 2: There's plenty of people who can't get to Disney, who

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Speaker 2: can't afford Disney. They would definitely let you take their

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Speaker 2: baby to Disney. Okay, a five to a seven year old,

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Speaker 2: get you one of them. Are you trying to do

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Speaker 2: is borrow a baby for the weekend. That's all you're

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Speaker 2: trying to do. So you can get down there and

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Speaker 2: keep eye on your man personally. If my uncle was

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Speaker 2: he he'll be saying, why the hell is you chasing

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Speaker 2: this damn man? Hell is she doing that. Fuck, he

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Speaker 2: already messed up before the wed and you still with him.

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Speaker 2: What is you doing going to Disney? This is when

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Speaker 2: your ass need to be leaving. That's what the hell

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Speaker 2: you need to be doing. You need to be finding

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Speaker 2: a way for yourself to hell with him and them

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Speaker 2: women and them babies. That's what you need to do.

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Speaker 2: Go find yourself. When he come back, you need to

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Speaker 2: be gone. That's what you need to be doing.

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Speaker 1: Hello, all right, now you sound just like him.

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Speaker 2: You can ask you can ask the Lord about me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, all of that. I love it. Hello, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll have part two of our responses to this Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: Carlo is gonna join us when we come back at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject

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Speaker 1: is if He's going I'm going to. We'll get back

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Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening Morning show. All right,

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Speaker 1: we're going to recap today's Strawberry letter. This is it's

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Speaker 1: called if He's Going I'm going to? A woman rode in.

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Speaker 1: She's been married for three years. Her husband had two

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Speaker 1: sons before they got married. She's cordial with one of

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Speaker 1: the sons, the nine year old but the mother of

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Speaker 1: this two year old baby, she does not vibe with

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Speaker 1: her at all, and she says, she tells us why

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Speaker 1: she breaks it down. She said she and her husband

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Speaker 1: split up about a month before they're planned wedding date

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Speaker 1: because they were arguing over the plans and the money.

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Speaker 1: They couldn't get it together, so they were just mad

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Speaker 1: walking around now speaking to each other. He started sleeping

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Speaker 1: postponed the wedding. He moved out of the house and

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Speaker 1: started having sex with her without protection. What stupid, stupid,

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Speaker 1: This is really dumb. Then the woman got pregnant very quickly,

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Speaker 1: she adds, And now, yeah, it only takes one time.

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Speaker 1: Now he's got a son with this woman, and he

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Speaker 1: this woman because this woman that he had the baby

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Speaker 1: with used to do her braids and the hairstyle is

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Speaker 1: the braider knew who she was. She knew that the

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Speaker 1: then they finally worked through it. They work through all

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Speaker 1: the husband worked it out and they eloped. So they

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Speaker 1: are married now, have been for three years. And she

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Speaker 1: said things were pretty good between them until last weekend

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Speaker 1: when the mother, the baby mama of the two year

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Speaker 1: you're following me, decided to invite the nine year old

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Speaker 1: son and the daddy to Disney World. What you know,

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Speaker 1: the biggest question though, what what?

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Speaker 2: Who doing her hair? No?

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Speaker 1: I mean right there, kids, that's right, definitely not her anymore.

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Speaker 3: But she probably.

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Speaker 2: All that pat scratching you doing that. It's a lot

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Speaker 2: she don't you.

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Speaker 1: Some baby hare on her edd because she has none? Right,

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Speaker 1: that's a good question, tommy, you're right. So so the

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Speaker 1: wife says. The wife says. The husband knows he's not

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Speaker 1: with the BSh. He doesn't want the wife to go

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Speaker 1: to Disney World with them, because he says, the wife

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Speaker 1: will be treating the baby mama bad all the time.

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Speaker 1: She'll be mad at her all the time. Well, of course,

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Speaker 1: of course you planned a family trip with your This

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Speaker 1: isn't even your family. So anyway, she wants to know.

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Speaker 1: She told the husband, if he goes and she doesn't go,

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Speaker 1: she will be out of his life when he gets

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Speaker 1: back from Disney World. When he gets back from this trip.

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Speaker 1: He said that she's being unreasonable and not considering his son. Uh,

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Speaker 1: and she wants to know is he considering his son

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Speaker 1: or his son's mama? All right, here we go. All right, Carly,

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Speaker 1: we want you to chime in on this one too,

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Speaker 1: because I know you have some opinions. So she is

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Speaker 1: he considering the son or the son's mama? And is

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Speaker 1: she being unreasonable? Like the husband said.

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Speaker 3: No, she's not being unreasonable. There's history with this girl.

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Speaker 3: You had a baby with this girl when they had

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Speaker 3: issues in their relationship, the husband and wife. So he

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Speaker 3: is putting this trip before his wife. So he needs

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Speaker 3: to recognize that you don't need this woman to take

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Speaker 3: both of your sons. You can take them to Disney

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Speaker 3: World on your own, or if you can't budget, do

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Speaker 3: another trip, do something else. First of all, the boys

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Speaker 3: two years old, he's gonna remember half of it. Anyway.

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Speaker 2: The youngest she was too. She doesn't remember, Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: wasted your money, right, yes, yeah, yeah, I mean we

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Speaker 2: took Tasha.

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Speaker 3: Tasha took her first steps at Disney side. Note the

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Speaker 3: place really is magic. I think is really running down

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Speaker 3: all but that was we were all there, we were

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Speaker 3: working for.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But anyway, back to what I'm saying, Noo, he's foul.

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Speaker 3: You're not being unreasonable, he's being disrespectful, and he needs

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Speaker 3: to tell the baby mama, you know what you're doing.

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Speaker 3: You know what this is.

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Speaker 1: This is my wife.

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Speaker 3: I can't go on a trip with you and my

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Speaker 3: son and you're taking my other son. So now she

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Speaker 3: is dangling this trip, especially for the kids. He don't

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Speaker 3: want to hurt his kids feelings and upset them, especially

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Speaker 3: the nine year old. The nine year old is on board. Yes,

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Speaker 3: of course with this trip to Disney.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, she needs to stand firm, or as a kid say,

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Speaker 3: stand on business the wife and put her foot down

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Speaker 3: and let her husband know this is unacceptable and it's

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Speaker 3: no way. This girl the braid. That's the baby mama.

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Speaker 3: She knows that she was married. She knows that she

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Speaker 3: was married. She wouldn't want her husband's baby mama to

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Speaker 3: and she not be included. She needs to really checked

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Speaker 3: and she can check the baby mama, she can't.

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Speaker 2: Why was just going to get out of this? You

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Speaker 2: done looked up? You the one that ain't got a baby.

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Speaker 2: Why don't we just walk away from this? Lea this

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Speaker 2: man alone. Find you a new man, and you a

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Speaker 2: new man and a new hairstylist. Lead, I like it.

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Speaker 1: Tell me like a new man.

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Speaker 2: And a new hairstyle. And you're gonna need a new

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Speaker 2: hairstylist first in order to get a new man. But

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Speaker 2: you need you a new hairstylist and a new man.

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Speaker 2: Gone by your leaders man.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, he still I know we're joking about that. Go

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Speaker 3: find you a new man. But at the end of

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Speaker 3: the day, Tommy, your point is she needs to find

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Speaker 3: a new man if your husband does not have you

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Speaker 3: his wife as a priority.

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Speaker 1: Right, all right, thanks guys, respect period. Lead your comments

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