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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Matthew is on the phone today for a first aid

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Selena.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're gonna call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she tell us why she's ghosting him and

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Speaker 2: maybe get him another day. But first, Matthew, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Selena?

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Speaker 3: About a week?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Have you been hitting her up to try to

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Speaker 4: get a hold of her.

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Speaker 3: I'm to ask her what day was agoing about ego?

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Speaker 3: She's so busy.

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Speaker 5: I kind of checked it after that one more time

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Speaker 5: for she had some availability coming up, should responded.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not gonna like keep paying on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it can get creepy real quick with that.

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Speaker 3: I'm not trying to do that.

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Speaker 1: Crush your soul the more times you don't get Yeah, okay, well,

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Speaker 1: how is the date though? Must have been great if

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Speaker 1: you want to get a hold of her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I.

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Speaker 5: Thought it went great. We might at work, I work

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Speaker 5: in the IKE department, or I did as an ad executive.

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Speaker 5: I helped probably some computer issues at work. We had

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Speaker 5: some chemistry. I felt like pretty obvious right from the

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Speaker 5: get go.

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Speaker 3: We worked up in there to ask her out. She

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Speaker 3: said like she was into it.

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Speaker 5: She told me she liked lemons on Martiniz, So I

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Speaker 5: know it's a perfect spot. It's a really cool spots.

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Speaker 5: I got old Hollywood by which I always always liked

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Speaker 5: a lot. We had some drinks. I did not have

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Speaker 5: a lemon drop. I had them dry martini, but but

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Speaker 5: she had some some kind of bed well and everything

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Speaker 5: we talked about dreams features, stuff like that, kind of

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Speaker 5: in a lighthearted way. I mean it felt really good

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Speaker 5: and I was I was really sory. We had a

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Speaker 5: pretty intensive makeout session in the dark corner we were

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Speaker 5: I mean it felt like you know, kids in school.

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Speaker 5: I mean a lot of that kind of giggly energy

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Speaker 5: and set. We have the date split up. That was

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Speaker 5: pretty much it.

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Speaker 3: I thought it looked really good. I a little bit

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Speaker 3: to get hold of her.

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Speaker 5: I would like to understand, you know, I've got to

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Speaker 5: kind of honestly how it cars on.

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Speaker 3: It for a while.

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Speaker 5: So I was pretty broke up that she, you know,

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Speaker 5: doesn't seem to be willing to respond at least.

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Speaker 2: Anything happened on the date that you think could be

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Speaker 2: a resource. She's not calling you back.

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Speaker 5: I mean, the only thing I can think of is

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Speaker 5: I actually did just get let go from the job

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Speaker 5: that we worked together. So she said at the end

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Speaker 5: of the state, you know, see it work, and I

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Speaker 5: had to be like, I don't even want to be

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Speaker 5: the salar. So I told her that I actually, you know,

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Speaker 5: wasn't working there anymore, which I kind of thought would

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Speaker 5: actually be a good thing because it removes the possibility of, like,

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Speaker 5: you know, the office politics and that sort of thing,

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Speaker 5: takes the pressure off of that. That's only the only

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Speaker 5: thing I could think of that might have gone wrong

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Speaker 5: with it, unless I was just totally misread, you know,

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Speaker 5: the signals, and I guess, which is always a possibility.

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Speaker 5: But that's one thing I can think of, is it

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Speaker 5: I got let go?

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Speaker 1: Does she feel kind of a shallow person that would

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Speaker 1: be like I am not dating her guy who's unemployed.

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Speaker 3: I mean, maybe I didn't get that buy from her

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Speaker 3: at all.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she seemed pretty down to earth and like,

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Speaker 5: you know, I mean that strikes me as just being

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Speaker 5: kind of sort of sighted tom So she didn't starting

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Speaker 5: that way at all.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, I guess it's a possibility.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, did you guys kiss and stuff at the

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Speaker 2: end they made out in the dark, We were making.

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Speaker 5: Out, but you were making out, you know, we made

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Speaker 5: out the bar at the very ample. I said that, no,

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Speaker 5: but yeah, maybe that was a little warning sign or

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Speaker 6: But did you guys talk like good bye?

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Speaker 5: We definitely talked about seeing other older in the day. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I mean that was on the table for sure.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 2: for you. Then we'll play a song, come back and

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Speaker 2: call her in social tal so why she's ghosting you,

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, so good,

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Speaker 2: all right, cool, we'll play a song, come back, and

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Speaker 2: get your first a follow up next if you're just

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Speaker 2: joining us for today's first day follow up. Matthew is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Selena. So

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Speaker 2: in a few minutes we're gonna call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us she's ghosting him and maybe get

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Speaker 2: him another date. But before you do that, Matthew, why

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Speaker 2: don't you refresh our memory on your date with Selena?

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, so I thought it went really well. We

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Speaker 5: had some chemistry from when we worked together. The date

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Speaker 5: was great, good drinks, good vibe.

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Speaker 3: We made out.

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Speaker 5: It seemed like it was some definite intensity. I thought

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Speaker 5: things were going great. We started talking about next time,

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Speaker 5: next meetings, next dates, and the one thing I could

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Speaker 5: think of that went wrong is at the end, I

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Speaker 5: had to tell her that I was no longer with

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Speaker 5: the company that we worked at together, and that that's

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Speaker 5: win my guests as to why she's decided ghost, that's

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Speaker 5: just a guest though.

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Speaker 2: All Right, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Sure, I'd love to. I'd love to have another shot.

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Man, Hello him askeweaing to Selena. Please.

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Speaker 6: This is Selena.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Selena, how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, hi, Selena, the whole show's here. I'm Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Hi, Hi, Hi.

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Speaker 2: You listen to the show.

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Speaker 7: I do.

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Speaker 6: I'm a fan. This is exciting.

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Speaker 2: Oh sweet, thank you. Well, do you have any idea

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Speaker 2: why we're calling you?

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Speaker 6: I'm a little bit scared.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, this is the first date follow up.

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Speaker 2: So you went on a date with somebody recently and

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Speaker 2: have been ghosting them, and they emailed us. Do you

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Speaker 2: know who would email us about you?

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Speaker 6: I have a pretty good idea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to take a shot at it?

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Speaker 6: Is it Matthew?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is Matthew. You are correct? Oh no, Matthew

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Speaker 2: emailed us, told us he really liked you told us

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Speaker 2: about your date. But he says, you've been ghosting for

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Speaker 2: over a week now.

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Speaker 4: What happened?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Oh man, I feel bad I'm ghosting Matthew because

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Speaker 6: he told me that he wants to live in.

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Speaker 4: A treehouse when.

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Speaker 6: Ye like for his real house, I think, And like

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Speaker 6: he he told me we worked. I don't know if

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Speaker 6: he told you, but we worked at the same company

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Speaker 6: and he told me that like towards the end of

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Speaker 6: the day, I said, like, oh see you at work,

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Speaker 6: and he told me that he had lost his job there,

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Speaker 6: which was fine, like that that's a that's yeah. I

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Speaker 6: felt really bad for him that that happened. But he

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Speaker 6: just had like he said, he has no plan, and

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Speaker 6: he was like, you know, I'm sure everything's everything's going

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Speaker 6: to be fine, and I living in a treehouse sounds perfect,

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Speaker 6: and like he he did that he wanted to live

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Speaker 6: in like one of the fans. He want like the

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Speaker 6: glamping kind of situation treehouses, But at the same time,

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Speaker 6: I feel like, I mean, I definitely am not interested

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Speaker 6: a serious partner. And like, at first I thought he

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Speaker 6: was joking, because you know, I mean, that's like a

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Speaker 6: into this whole thing about his friend and how his

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Speaker 6: friend lives in a treehouse and how his friend like

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Speaker 6: it's saved him so much money and he has like

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Speaker 6: no more like drama, and you know, he's like a

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Speaker 6: that's all well and good for like a you know,

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Speaker 2: Like to me, I'm kind of interested, but I don't

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Speaker 4: And when it comes to like a relationship though.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm like, what where am I going to like

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Speaker 6: plug in my blow dart? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Do they have like fancy treehouses?

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Speaker 1: I mean it does sound kind of cool at least

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Speaker 1: like anyone that you could can you live in them?

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Speaker 2: You run power to a treehouse for sure.

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Speaker 6: Really you could look in a treehouse, but like you

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Speaker 6: like long term, I'm like, this is going nowhere, so

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Speaker 2: You know, yeah, you probably can. I'm pretty sure there

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Speaker 2: are treehouses that have showers and stuff. Actually there are.

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Speaker 1: I think you could build like technically a real house

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Speaker 2: Well I don't know how big of a house he's

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Speaker 2: trying to build in the tree, right, but you know

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Speaker 4: But that's a good point though, if you're starting to

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Speaker 6: Amazing?

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Speaker 1: I have to build some kind of like what do

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Speaker 1: you call it, hammock net underneath of it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thank you for being honest with us. I

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know if you remember or not, Selena,

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Speaker 2: but during these first day follow ups, the person that

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Speaker 7: Yeah, oh yeah, he told me were cool and the

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Speaker 3: You saying that you always were on the spend the

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Speaker 3: night and one, so it would be like yeah, right,

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like for for vacation. I'm like, I'm I don't

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Speaker 6: want to live in a treehouse. Matthew, Like, I want

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Speaker 6: to like adventure in a treehouse, and then I will

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Speaker 6: like to go back to reality, like go back to

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Speaker 5: I'm not like urge you to live in a treehouse

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Speaker 5: or planning to one that I want. It was just

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Speaker 5: it was just something to talk.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of a good sign though, Matthew. She really

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Speaker 4: like fast forward to see the future with you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, And I guess I just mean like so, I

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Speaker 6: mean it's like beyond the I'm just like you have

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Speaker 3: Well so that I don't have a plan.

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Speaker 5: I just have as a means to take some time

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Speaker 5: and figure out what I'm going to do next. I

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Speaker 5: don't really actually have to work. I just do it

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Speaker 5: because I like it. So if I'm not feeling it,

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Speaker 5: I don't. But there's the same thing as I'm not

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Speaker 5: having a plan.

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Speaker 6: Are you like some what do you mean, like, are

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Speaker 6: you like a secret billionaire or something like you don't

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Speaker 6: have to work.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not a billionaire, but I have some money.

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Speaker 3: I'm independently wealthy able to.

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Speaker 2: Say, oh, so, would probably be a very nice treehouse day.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I gotta say, for me, a tree hout not

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Speaker 5: like what Grandpa made in the backyard when you were

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Speaker 5: a kid. I'm talking about like a house in a

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Speaker 5: tree not okay, with plumbing and showers and you know,

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Speaker 5: you could plug in your phone charger for sure.

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Speaker 3: But I mean if you don't want that, that's that's fine.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Exactly what the next maybe year has more in terms

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Speaker 5: of plans, but I mean all I know is I

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Speaker 5: definitely would like to have the opportunity to more.

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Speaker 2: Time explain Selena, would you like to go out with

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Speaker 2: Matthew again? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I mean, so you would be willing to like live

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Speaker 6: in a house house.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we could. I would be willing to

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Speaker 3: live in a house with not a tree in sight.

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Speaker 2: And you got enough money to cut him down. It

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Speaker 2: sounds like yeah, true.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like you guys really like each other.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of negotiating happening here.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, if that's a sticking point. That could be,

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Speaker 5: that could be, that's that's negotiable.

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Speaker 8: What do you think, Sae more shot he's rich, Nina, Yeah,

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Speaker 8: I would.

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Speaker 6: Be willing to give it another shot. I think I

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Speaker 6: had a different understanding.

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Speaker 7: What you.

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Speaker 2: Okay? Congratulations made you got another date?

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Speaker 3: Agree?

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Speaker 5: Hey Selene, I'm so glad that you're wanting to get

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Speaker 5: another shot. You can appreciate why I wouldn't like lead

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Speaker 5: with money just off the top.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, or three houses was just for fun. So

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Speaker 3: I'm going to ran another shot. Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Money got her back in, though

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Speaker 6: You will first date, follow up