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Speaker 8: You are not losing a man, You are shedding a distraction.

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Speaker 2: But Mary reminds you.

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Speaker 8: You don't need the world's approval when you have Heaven's assignment.

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Speaker 3: Mary, the Mother of Jesus, did not fall. God was

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Speaker 3: within her.

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Speaker 8: And so while the battle rage is while all of

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Speaker 8: you guys are going through your own form of spiritual

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Speaker 8: warfare within your family, your friends, your sphere of life,

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Speaker 8: if you will, what feels like a delay is often

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Speaker 8: divine preparation. So just hold on to that, because it

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Speaker 8: could feel like stagnation. Change it in your mind to sanctification,

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Speaker 8: two totally different mindsets.

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Speaker 2: I have to do I get to It's.

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Speaker 8: Powerful when you shift those patterns, the hidden years, the

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Speaker 8: years of uncertainty, in the battlefield of silent faithfulness.

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Speaker 2: They're never wasted.

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Speaker 8: They're refining fire, chiseling your soul so that you can

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Speaker 8: carry the weight of the calling that God has for you.

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Speaker 8: And one day you'll look back on the season, you'd

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Speaker 8: be like, I get it now.

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Speaker 2: I see why I had to let go that guy go.

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Speaker 2: He was the distraction.

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Speaker 8: I'm married to this guy, have amazing babies. I have

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Speaker 8: the life that I've always wanted.

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Speaker 2: You just have to trust.

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Speaker 8: You have to trust, and while you're trusting, don't grow

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Speaker 8: dull agreement without action is disobedience, and the enemy disguises

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Speaker 8: bondage as empowerment.

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Speaker 2: So resist deception.

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Speaker 8: Revival is not going to come through louder politicians and.

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Speaker 2: Other and more influencers. It's just not.

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Speaker 8: Revival is going to come through the living rooms of

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Speaker 8: mothers who are praying with their children, praying over their children,

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Speaker 8: loving on their husbands. It's going to come through college

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Speaker 8: campuses of the You ladies that are students that are

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Speaker 8: going to be like Esther, You're gonna let your voice

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Speaker 8: echo through.

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Speaker 2: Those halls, even when they tell you not to. That's

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Speaker 2: what you're gonna do.

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Speaker 8: And it's gonna come through quiet prayers and bold actions

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Speaker 8: of unshakeable devotion to Jesus Christ. That's how revival is

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Speaker 8: going to happen. So I'm here to say, welcome to

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Speaker 8: the spiritual war. If you're not aware of it, put

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Speaker 8: on the armor, stand your posts.

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Speaker 2: You're a woman of the Word.

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Speaker 8: And when you feel isolated or unseen, go back to

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Speaker 8: that blueprint. Ruth, Deborah, Hannah, Esther mother, Mary, any of them,

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Speaker 8: go back to the blueprint.

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Speaker 2: Fix your eyes on Christ because this is not for

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Speaker 2: the faint of hearts. This spiritual battle. It's not Also

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Speaker 2: for could tell a Christianity where.

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Speaker 8: People are like, I'm just gonna go with the wind

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Speaker 8: of whatever the Christian flow is. Don't no, no, no.

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Speaker 8: This is for or someone who is fixing their eyes

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Speaker 8: on the Lord who speaks truth and love, because you

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Speaker 8: are not some dainty decoration. You are a weapon in

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Speaker 8: the hand of Almighty God. And yes, these women that

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Speaker 8: I talked about, they were in different times, they were

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Speaker 8: in different cultures, they were you know, you can't really

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Speaker 8: relate always to their context.

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Speaker 2: But what you can relate to.

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Speaker 8: Is that they said yes when they didn't see the

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Speaker 8: full picture.

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Speaker 2: They had no idea how history was going to write

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Speaker 2: out there.

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Speaker 8: Yes, when they said yes to God, but Heaven did

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Speaker 8: Heaven knew exactly what was going to happen.

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Speaker 2: So I want you to take heart.

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Speaker 8: Don't worry about the school, don't worry about the job.

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Speaker 8: I actually think that that's some form of feminism to

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Speaker 8: be so caught up and I have to have this

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Speaker 8: career and I have to have this and I have

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Speaker 8: to that.

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Speaker 2: It just distraction.

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Speaker 8: Enemy loves that, but it's a total distraction. I think

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Speaker 8: that that anxiety is what feminism is all about.

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Speaker 2: For what they want.

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Speaker 8: They want you to be anxious, they want you to

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Speaker 8: be on antidepressants. They want you to be numb. They

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Speaker 8: want you they don't want you to feel. They don't

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Speaker 8: want you to feel.

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Speaker 2: So I want to release you from that. Don't shrink back.

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Speaker 8: This world, in this generation, needs women who echo the gospel.

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Speaker 8: This world needs women who are marked by the Cross.

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Speaker 8: So my mission for all of you after you leave here,

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Speaker 8: please go confuse the culture. Confuse the crap out of it.

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Speaker 8: I don't even know if I'm allowed to.

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Speaker 3: Say that, but confuse them. Go and confuse them.

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Speaker 2: Do not conform to it.

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Speaker 3: Let them stare at you, let them write the.

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Speaker 8: Meanest Instagram comments, let them wonder, let them whisper and

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Speaker 8: while they're doing all of that, because that's just noise.

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Speaker 8: Build your family, Go raise a family, Go build a

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Speaker 8: life of holy defiance. Go love your husband, Go love

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Speaker 8: your babies. Go teach your children how to blaze a

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Speaker 8: trail of glory. Go lead in truth, and go be

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Speaker 8: the light. You don't have time for their noise. Don't

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Speaker 8: seek their applause. It's not even worth it, not even

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Speaker 8: worth it.

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Speaker 2: Go fulfill your purpose because you just need Jesus that's

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Speaker 2: all you need.

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Speaker 8: So while the world is watching, Heaven's cheering for you,

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Speaker 8: cheering you on, because just like the women before you,

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Speaker 8: that blueprint, God is within you and you will not fail.

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Speaker 8: You guys are so loved. I'm so proud of you.

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Speaker 8: Pour into each other this weekend. Get everything you can

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Speaker 8: out of this weekend. You're sitting in that chair for

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Speaker 8: a reason, that exact chair, that person that's sitting right

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Speaker 8: next to you was.

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Speaker 2: Meant to sit right next to you.

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Speaker 8: I'm not telling you to figure out why, but just

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Speaker 8: know that nothing is by mistake.

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Speaker 2: Nothing. I will never forget the time.

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Speaker 8: I was in Israel with my husband, and that was

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Speaker 8: the second time, but the first time with my mother

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Speaker 8: on a pilgrimage, and I was standing in the ticket

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Speaker 8: line and I remember looking behind me and in the

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Speaker 8: snake of the ticket line was a guy who looked

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Speaker 8: very familiar.

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Speaker 2: I had no idea who he was.

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Speaker 8: And I told my mom, this guy looks so familiar

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Speaker 8: in as a typical mother, she said, go and say hi, No,

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Speaker 8: we were late for our flight. And I'm not going

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Speaker 8: to come off like a crazy per send with that.

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Speaker 2: That's just weird.

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Speaker 8: That ended up being Charlie, nothing is by coincidence. Now

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Speaker 8: did we know that that? No, not until we were

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Speaker 8: like three months into our relationship and looking at timestam

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Speaker 8: seeing that both of us were in Israel at the

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Speaker 8: same time. But nothing is by coincidence when God is

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Speaker 8: within you. Okay, see you guys, go blaze a trail. Okay,

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Speaker 8: God bless you all.

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Speaker 4: Founder and leader of Turning Point.

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Speaker 8: He's a national treasure and he's also a treasure within

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Speaker 8: the Church of Jesus.

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Speaker 2: Please welcome, Charlie Kirk.

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Speaker 4: We've told women to stop getting married, stop having kids,

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Speaker 4: and the Western woman is so beyond miserable. Child rates

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Speaker 4: are going down. We've lived in this feminist lie, whether

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Speaker 4: we realize it or not, the last forty years, this

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Speaker 4: idea that men and women are exactly the same only

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Speaker 4: unmarried people could come up with an idea as stupid

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Speaker 4: as that. Here I am as a kid that didn't

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Speaker 4: go to college. I'm thinking, do I really have the

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Speaker 4: intellectual capacity to joust with kids that are learning all

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Speaker 4: day long? Yeah? Right, realize they're not learning all day

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Speaker 4: You are part of the most exciting, diverse, powerful movement

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Speaker 4: in the history of this country. Who're a movement of

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Speaker 4: free thinkers. We don't agree on everything, we have different opinions.

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Speaker 4: That's why our movement is going to win me together,

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Speaker 4: are going to do the work to save America. Thank

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Speaker 4: you everybody. How great is Erica? By the way, that's

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Speaker 4: not easy to do. I'll tell you what. It's amazing.

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Speaker 4: She's a incredible mom and doing we're working on Bible

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Speaker 4: in three sixty five and Proclaimed Street and then she

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Speaker 4: gives an amazing address like that, and so so many

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Speaker 4: friends here. You know, this is our tenth annual Young

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Speaker 4: Women's Leadership some we've been doing this for ten years

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Speaker 4: real women only, because there's only such thing as real women.

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Speaker 4: I want to say a special thank you to our

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Speaker 4: friend here, Karen Duddleston from the Dudleson Foundation. They've been

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Speaker 4: so generously supporting us for years, So thank you about you.

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Speaker 4: None of this would be possible. And so we're just

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Speaker 4: going to chat for a second here, and then we

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Speaker 4: want to open it up for questions from you. Which

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Speaker 4: is the most fun but no political question. I'll be

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Speaker 4: here back, I'll be here tomorrow. We can do that

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Speaker 4: if you want to talk about all that fun stuff. Literally,

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Speaker 4: just want questions for both of us about relationships and

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Speaker 4: raising kids and getting married and all that stuff that

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Speaker 4: you might have questions about. That's what we want to

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Speaker 4: focus this Q and A on. So Eric, a great job. Again.

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Speaker 4: I love you.

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Speaker 2: I love you too.

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Speaker 4: And so a lot of these young ladies have competing

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Speaker 4: pressures right now. Some might even have parents that are like, Hey,

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Speaker 4: you got to get a job, you got to build

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Speaker 4: your career, you got to build money. Marriage can come later.

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Speaker 4: Marriage can come later. However, some ladies might be getting

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Speaker 4: different advice from this conference or from even inside. They say, boy,

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Speaker 4: I might want to get married sooner rather than later.

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Speaker 4: How do they balance that in a godly and biblical way.

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Speaker 8: That's hard because usually those voices are coming from your parents.

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Speaker 2: I mean they were for me.

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Speaker 8: And so it's hard because you're in that in between

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Speaker 8: of honoring your parents but also knowing that there's a

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Speaker 8: conviction in your heart.

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Speaker 2: To have a family.

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Speaker 8: If you want, you can literally write down what your career,

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Speaker 8: what you want that to look like on a piece

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Speaker 8: of paper, put in an envelope, go pursue. If you

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Speaker 8: find the right guy. That's ninety percent of the problem

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Speaker 8: is find the right finding the right person first, then

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Speaker 8: building your life. And once you do find the right

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Speaker 8: person and your family loves them, your parents.

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Speaker 3: Are going to be way more understanding and into.

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Speaker 8: The fact of you having a family. I think that's

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Speaker 8: ninety percent of those.

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Speaker 4: So let me ask you raise your hand. If you

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Speaker 4: had to choose between amazing career amazing family, you have

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Speaker 4: to choose who here would choose amazing career.

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Speaker 2: That's fine if you do, please, like seriously, please raise

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Speaker 2: your hand.

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Speaker 4: There's a couple of hands amazing family. Although the hands

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Speaker 4: got it, okay. So for everyone that rowse at the

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Speaker 4: hand of amazing family, how many of you every single

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Speaker 4: day it's your purpose for being is finding a husband,

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Speaker 4: then every hand should then go up. But I thought

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Speaker 4: you said you want an amazing family. You have to

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Speaker 4: prioritize and aim at what you want the most. I

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Speaker 4: might be the only speaker that says this in these

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Speaker 4: next couple of days.

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Speaker 2: You just have to make sure that you find the right.

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Speaker 4: You know, I know you have to prioritize it.

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Speaker 2: I know. But you can't be like you.

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Speaker 8: Can't be like a heath seeking missile where you're like

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Speaker 8: you see a guy in the back room and you're like, hi,

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Speaker 8: like you can't you there's like some new Once I

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Speaker 8: get what you're saying, I understand his sentiment.

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Speaker 4: If you are not if you're not married by the

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Speaker 4: age of thirty, you only have a fifty percent chance

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Speaker 4: of getting married. And if you don't have kids by

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Speaker 4: the age of thirty, of a fifty percent chance of

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Speaker 4: not having kids. You should know that. And now I'm

665
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 4: not telling you anything that is that provocative. It's just

666
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 4: the data. Right, having children our gift from the Lord,

667
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 4: and unfortunately our culture deemphasizes it. And again, you get

668
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 4: what you aim at, you get what you prioritize, and

669
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 4: so yeah, I just it's interesting because every hand accept

670
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:39,840
Speaker 4: a couple. That's what I'm not even saying which answer

671
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 4: is right or wrong. It's just if that matters more

672
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 4: for you, then everything you do on a daily basis

673
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 4: should point towards that.

674
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 8: To add on to that for the women who are

675
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 8: getting married after thirty, that's okay. I'm trying to bridge

676
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 8: the gap here because it is okay, it's not ideal,

677
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 8: it's not probably the best statistical odd position for you,

678
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 8: but it's but God is good and.

679
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 4: Nothing there's nothing wrong with it, right, it's right. I find.

680
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 2: No, it's good.

681
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 4: This is good ie. If you just want happy talk,

682
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:25,479
Speaker 4: that's fine, it's good.

683
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 2: God is good.

684
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 8: You'll find your human I found Mine's amazing.

685
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 4: So how do you tell young ladies to navigate the

686
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 4: pressures of hookup culture on a college campus where they

687
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 4: feel pressured that if they don't get into let's just say,

688
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 4: sexual situations with a male counterpart, then they will not

689
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 4: be able to find a boyfriend or a husband.

690
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 8: He's not meant to be with you like honor. He

691
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 8: needs to honor your purity, save it for your husband.

692
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,240
Speaker 2: That's simple. Students yours man.

693
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 4: Talk more about how they should go about doing that,

694
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 4: because the pressures are so enormous. From free contraceptives to

695
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:15,879
Speaker 4: the podcast they listen to. How many of you feel

696
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 4: as if it's very difficult to maintain your purity on

697
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 4: a college campus? Raise your hand? Okay, not Actually it's

698
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 4: less than I thought, So it's easy. Good, No, I

699
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:28,879
Speaker 4: guess it's fine. How many people would you what percentage

700
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 4: of young ladies by the time they graduate college do

701
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:37,320
Speaker 4: you think still are virgins? Less than twenty five percent?

702
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 4: So it's not that easy. Okay, that's interesting. No, I

703
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 4: just think I'm just trying to process it because I

704
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 4: don't think the church talks enough about purity, right. I

705
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 4: think it's it's incredibly important, and we should tell young

706
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 4: men and young ladies to save themselves from marriage. It's

707
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 4: a beautiful thing.

708
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 2: Right.

709
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 8: No, I agree, because a lot of people will say, well,

710
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 8: how do I know that I'm compatible with that person?

711
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 2: Unless I test drive the car before I buy it.

712
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 2: That's not a real thing.

713
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 8: Don't listen to that lie, because when you make that

714
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 8: covenant with the Lord on that altar, don't let that

715
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 8: fire burn out from the altar.

716
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 2: That love is so special and so powerful.

717
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 8: You will have natural chemistry within that marriage. It's not

718
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 8: like you're marrying a robot like you're. You married your soulmate.

719
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:40,280
Speaker 8: You married the person who God made for you.

720
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:44,359
Speaker 2: You're going to be compatible. Can you should know that?

721
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 4: So then the question that a lot of young ladies have,

722
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:50,240
Speaker 4: but how do you know? How do you know this person?

723
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 4: Is right? And second question, if these young ladies have

724
00:43:54,600 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 4: a liberal boyfriend, sure should should? Should they dump him

725
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 4: on your person?

726
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 3: How many of you have a liberal boyfriend?

727
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 4: You have a liberal boyfriend, don't boo her, pray for her.

728
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you can't change them. That's tell

729
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 4: right now, you can't change No, you're great. But so

730
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 4: how does a young lady know? And is it ever

731
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 4: too early to get married? If they're twenty two and

732
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 4: they feel as if they found the right guy, is

733
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 4: that too early?

734
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 8: I well, if you're either way, whether you're younger, whatever

735
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 8: age you are, I think going through I know it

736
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 8: has a stigma, but premarital is amazing.

737
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 3: You get to learn so much about the person you're with.

738
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 8: And I have seen it prevent marriages that should not

739
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 8: be happening because they are so young and naive with things,

740
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 8: and they're so lustful because they haven't gone down the

741
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 8: road of having you know, they're saving themselves, so they're

742
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 8: just like salivating.

743
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 2: Go to premieritle.

744
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 3: You'll learn a lot when you know he's the one.

745
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 8: Here's an example when Charlie sat across from me and

746
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 8: he said, I want.

747
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 2: To date you.

748
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 8: You want to be with someone who has every intention

749
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 8: to not mess.

750
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 5: With your heart.

751
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 2: You're going to know.

752
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 8: I know it sounds cliche, but you will know he's

753
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 8: not gonna he's not going to treat you like an option.

754
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 4: How what advice would you give to young ladies where

755
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 4: they are much more more motivated than their boyfriend. How

756
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 4: many you have this problem? Raise your hand. Oh that's tough,

757
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 4: it's a big I think it's a big problem.

758
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 9: Yeah.

759
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,240
Speaker 4: Now I think that they you should both be motivated.

760
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 4: But if the if the woman is much more motivated

761
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 4: than the man, would you agree that ends up causing structurally.

762
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,879
Speaker 8: Right, because that because the man then ends up leaving

763
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 8: his pants on the ground and the woman has to

764
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 8: put them on, and so then she becomes the bread

765
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 8: winner because then the husband's just chill and is like,

766
00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 8: I'm fine with.

767
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 2: Not going any further than the.

768
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 8: Level that I'm at, while the woman is aspiring to

769
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 8: be more and more and more. So then you become

770
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 8: uneven and unequally yoked in your relationship or marriage.

771
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 2: And that's just a recipe for me.

772
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 4: It becomes disordered. And there wasn't a ton of hands,

773
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 4: but there were enough where it's a noticeable issue. And

774
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 4: I find it from the young male perspective that there's

775
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,240
Speaker 4: a whole longer speech I could give about the problems

776
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 4: with male masculinity. How many of you think that the

777
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 4: current dating pool of young men is not great? Raise

778
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 4: your hand? Okay, So no, no, this is very important.

779
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 4: Every hand went up. This is very important. What if

780
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,439
Speaker 4: I told you if every hand of young men think

781
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 4: that the dating pool of young women is not great?

782
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 4: So who's right?

783
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 2: Oh?

784
00:46:53,239 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 4: You guys are right? Okay, okay, I encourage you all

785
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 4: to have a little more humility about that. What is

786
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 4: one thing young women can do better to make themselves

787
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:13,760
Speaker 4: more appealing to men who say that the current dating

788
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 4: pool of young women is lackluster? I ask good questions

789
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 4: you Yes, I do this for Eles.

790
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 8: That's why he has such a good podcast and radio show,

791
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 8: The Charlie Kirkshaw.

792
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 4: You guys like any questions?

793
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:36,439
Speaker 8: You know. This might be so simple, but people pick

794
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 8: up on the way you speak. I'm not talking about

795
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,760
Speaker 8: you know. If you sound smart or whatever I'm saying,

796
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 8: they will pick up. If you curse, they will pick

797
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 8: up if you're speaking life over someone. Men hate when

798
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 8: women are gossiping. Literally, the fire behind your lips is

799
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 8: so powerful. And if you can find a way to

800
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 8: harness your tongue in a way that's biblical, and you

801
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 8: dress appropriately, you don't have everything hanging out, you will attract.

802
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 2: A different type of guy.

803
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 8: Now, if you're going to the club or wherever you're going,

804
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 8: and you're trying to appease a guy that is are

805
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 8: you going to bring them to your mom? Are you

806
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 8: going to bring them to your grandparents?

807
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 3: Like?

808
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:25,479
Speaker 8: Really, just be the type of woman, the godly woman

809
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:27,399
Speaker 8: that God needs you to be to attract the man

810
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:28,359
Speaker 8: that he made for you.

811
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 2: That's what you need to be.

812
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:38,319
Speaker 4: What young young men have serious problems. We're working on

813
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 4: fixing that, right. And it's easy to laugh, but you

814
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 4: need you need young men. You do and understand that

815
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 4: young men are in a far sicker position right now

816
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 4: than young ladies are. They're committing suicide more, they're checking

817
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 4: out a society, they are on more anti they're on

818
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,719
Speaker 4: a lot of there's a lot of issues, and it's

819
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 4: easy to kind of make fun of young men, but

820
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 4: a society needs strong men, and we need husbands and

821
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 4: we need fathers, and everyone in this room should be

822
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:05,760
Speaker 4: part of that project of making men strong against everyone.

823
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 4: And so let me first say what young young men

824
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 4: need to embrace. How many of you would agree that

825
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,959
Speaker 4: self control is an attractive quality that's hard to find

826
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 4: in men. Every man every hand goes off, right, I totally,

827
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 4: I say this to young men all the time, that

828
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 4: a young lady cares more that if you can control

829
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 4: your impulses and control your desires, because that is a

830
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 4: signal of what maturity, not of infancy. Self control is

831
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 4: a signal of maturity, and a young lady, whether she

832
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 4: can articulate it or not, when she sees maturity in

833
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:43,399
Speaker 4: a man, she knows that when there's chaos, that man

834
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 4: will be able to navigate the family, the relationship through

835
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 4: that kind of environment. Young ladies need to be willing

836
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 4: to submit to a godly man when you meet one,

837
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 4: and if you're not willing to do that, then you

838
00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 4: got to pray about that. Because a lot of young

839
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 4: men in the dating pool say, I don't want to

840
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 4: be bossed around all the time. I'm just telling you

841
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 4: what I hear from men all the time. The hypertoxic

842
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 4: feminism is very, very off putting to young men. And

843
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:13,320
Speaker 4: I know this is contrary to what a lot of

844
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 4: people here on college campuses. You know, you have to

845
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 4: assert your dominance, you have to kind of call your shot.

846
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 4: That's fine. However, an attitude in the dating pool is

847
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 4: that it can be very off putting to young men

848
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 4: that are already put down so much in our society.

849
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 4: They're called toxically masculine, they're called you know who needs men,

850
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 4: the patriarchy, And so then they just largely disengage, or

851
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 4: they do even a worse thing, which is they get involved,

852
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 4: like I'm just going to sleep with a bunch of women.

853
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 4: We're not going to marry them.

854
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 3: Right.

855
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 4: The problem is on both sides in my personal opinion,

856
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 4: and again I think that Erica hit it perfectly. Last

857
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 4: thing I'll say, and then we'll do some questions, is

858
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 4: men want what they cannot have. Men will do anything

859
00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:03,720
Speaker 4: to solve the problem of scarcity anything. And if men

860
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 4: can get you quite easily, that is not an attractive

861
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 4: quality to be able to have a man go on

862
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 4: a journey with you. I'm just being very very honest

863
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 4: with you. And there's one thing that men want more

864
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 4: than anything else, and it's not bitcoin you know what

865
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 4: it is. And as women have not been saving themselves

866
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 4: for marriage, and men too, in the last thirty or

867
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 4: forty years, we've seen marriage rates collapse, there is a

868
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 4: one to one correlation on those two things. And so

869
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 4: all that to say that, young lady, everybody in this room,

870
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 4: you have more power than I think you could ever imagine.

871
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 4: If everybody in this room collectively said that we are

872
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,879
Speaker 4: only going to save ourselves for our future husbands, men

873
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 4: will grow up in a way that you would never imagine.

874
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 4: You can't believe because all of a sudden they be like, well,

875
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 4: because you understand, hookup culture has given men everything they've

876
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 4: always wanted. They don't have to work for sex, they

877
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 4: don't have to grow up, they don't have to do anything,

878
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 4: and then women will just throw themselves at them and

879
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 4: they could stay as grown infant for the rest of

880
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 4: their life. And unfortunately, there's a lot of damage to

881
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 4: young ladies, a lot. It does a lot of psychological

882
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Speaker 4: damage and a lot of spiritual damage. So if everyone

883
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Speaker 4: here basically said nope, we're gonna combine our power and

884
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Speaker 4: be pure and trust in Jesus and in God for

885
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Speaker 4: our future husband, you would be shocked at how much

886
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Speaker 4: the dating pool improves. Okay, I want to tell you

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Speaker 4: about one thing and then we'll do a question line.

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Speaker 4: We have a spec who would love to meet Erica

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Speaker 4: Riley Gains and get a picture of me. I'm sure

890
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 4: that that would be a lot of fun, right, all right,

891
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Speaker 4: So we have a special giveaway if you, guys, follow

892
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Speaker 4: the QR codes on our screen, subscribe to the podcast,

893
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:47,919
Speaker 4: and then email at Freedom at Charliekirk dot com. We'll

894
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 4: pick ten winners, but you have to follow the QR

895
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Speaker 4: code in the next couple minutes. So follow that QR code,

896
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Speaker 4: subscribe and email us proof of subscription Freedom at Charliekirk

897
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,280
Speaker 4: dot com. You know what's awesome. Women are much better

898
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 4: rule followers than men. So I know that all of

899
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 4: you are going to get that right. No, it's true men.

900
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Speaker 4: If you, guys, one of the most important things that

901
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Speaker 4: I can leave you with before we go to questions.

902
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Speaker 4: If you want to find your future soulmate, you must

903
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Speaker 4: desire to humbly know male nature. How many people here

904
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 4: think you know male nature? Anybody? Only if you are married?

905
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Speaker 4: Can you raise your hand?

906
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Speaker 2: Yeah?

907
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Speaker 4: Okay, male nature is easier to make fun of, but

908
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Speaker 4: a lot deeper than you realize. Raise your hand. Do

909
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Speaker 4: you think that men are better at let me put

910
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Speaker 4: it this way, Raise your hand. If you think that

911
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Speaker 4: men are better at micro tech tasks than women details? Anybody? Okay,

912
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Speaker 4: couple hands. Raise your hand. If you think that men

913
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Speaker 4: are better at macro tasks than women. Raise your hand. Okay,

914
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Speaker 4: you're right, it's not even close. Okay, macro. If two

915
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Speaker 4: people are talking on a college campus and I told

916
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Speaker 4: you they were talking about sports, they were talking about

917
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Speaker 4: the stock market or politics, is it more likely to

918
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Speaker 4: be a man two men or two women two men.

919
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Speaker 4: If I tell you that two people on a college

920
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Speaker 4: campus are talking about their relationships, the conversations they had

921
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Speaker 4: earlier in the day, and what fellow classmates were wearing,

922
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Speaker 4: is it two men or two women micro versus macro.

923
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Speaker 4: You must understand that a man might forget to shower

924
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Speaker 4: for three days because he's too worried that we're going

925
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Speaker 4: to go to a nuclear warthroon. Men are obsessed with

926
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Speaker 4: the macro, and they often forget the micro. This is

927
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Speaker 4: why corporations want to hire you so badly. Understand this

928
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Speaker 4: because you are incredibly good at micro tasks. That is

929
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Speaker 4: why young women have been so well paid in the

930
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Speaker 4: corporate environment, because when it comes to getting details done,

931
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Speaker 4: women are much better than men. No male nature, and

932
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Speaker 4: you'll be in a much better chance to find your

933
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Speaker 4: future husband. Okay, we'll start right there. Is that Okay, Hi,

934
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Speaker 4: what's your name?

935
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Speaker 2: My name is Carrisa, Charlie and Erica.

936
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Speaker 10: Thank you for saying yes and being obedient to what

937
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Speaker 10: God has for you, and it's really shaped my life

938
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Speaker 10: and everyone else here.

939
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Speaker 8: I would love to.

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Speaker 11: Know your thoughts on Sabbath and how practically your family

941
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Speaker 11: practices this and applies it.

942
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Speaker 2: I will let.

943
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Speaker 8: Him, but as the wife, I will say I have

944
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Speaker 8: seen it transform I'm I already. I love my husband

945
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Speaker 8: and he's amazing and an intentional father and husband, but

946
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Speaker 8: him honoring the Sabbath, I have seen it transform him

947
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Speaker 8: in a way that is so powerful that when he

948
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Speaker 8: turns his phone off and it goes in that drawer

949
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 8: and he and I know that it's you know, he's

950
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Speaker 8: all on for the family. There is no distract and

951
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Speaker 8: he finally gets to reset his brain.

952
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Speaker 2: He finally gets to breathe. And as a wife, there.

953
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Speaker 8: Is nothing more precious than my husband's sanity when it

954
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Speaker 8: comes to the echo chamber and everything that he's dealing

955
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Speaker 8: with in his world.

956
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Speaker 2: So I have seen it change him and impact our.

957
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Speaker 8: Family in one of the most beautiful ways.

958
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Speaker 4: But I want him to well, thank you. And we're

959
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Speaker 4: very serious Sabbath keepers. This would be an exception because

960
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Speaker 4: we're here with all of you, but we'll do it

961
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Speaker 4: on Sunday, we actually take the traditional Jewish Sabbath. If

962
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Speaker 4: you don't want to do that, I'm not here to

963
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Speaker 4: debate you on it. It's fine if you want to do

964
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Speaker 4: it privately, I'll beat you. But that's a whole separate issue.

965
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Speaker 4: But it's fine. It doesn't It actually doesn't matter that much.

966
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Speaker 4: What does matter is I think that to our own

967
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Speaker 4: detriment and to our own failure, we as Christians, have

968
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Speaker 4: decided to cast away resting on one of the seven days.

969
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Speaker 4: God rests that after creation that comes before the Hebrews,

970
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Speaker 4: it comes even before the creation of the of the

971
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Speaker 4: of the modern world and civilization as we know it.

972
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Speaker 4: And so we on the Sabbath we are very serious

973
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Speaker 4: about it. We get to spend more time with our family.

974
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Speaker 4: We do no news, we do no work, and it

975
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Speaker 4: says very clearly in the scriptures, for six days you

976
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Speaker 4: shall work, and the seventh day you shall rest. If

977
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:15,400
Speaker 4: you are feeling overrun by society, you might be feeling

978
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 4: depressed or anxious, here's this one way that you might

979
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 4: be able to improve. Turn your phone off for one day,

980
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 4: no contact, no social media, no work, your mental health

981
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 4: will improve dramatically. You can hang out with friends, you

982
00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 4: can go for a walk, but don't work for one day.

983
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 4: That is a day for worship. That is a day

984
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Speaker 4: for the Lord. That is a day to go be

985
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 4: with God. That is a day to read your Bible

986
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 4: and be out of the busyness and the hurry hurriedness,

987
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 4: and that is the anger and the noise of this world.

988
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Speaker 4: Go back to God's natural rhythm. And it's made our

989
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 4: family much tighter knit. And I could be traveling for

990
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Speaker 4: five or six days, but if I at least get

991
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Speaker 4: one good Sabbath with my family, it charges all back up.

992
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Speaker 4: So God bless you. Thank you so much about shalom tonight.

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00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 8: Hi Charlie and Erica.

994
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 3: My name's Savannah.

995
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Speaker 7: This is lyla Esther, and we have another one on

996
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Speaker 7: the way in January. So I did find my godly

997
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Speaker 7: Man and we are making more babies.

998
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Speaker 3: My question for.

999
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Speaker 7: You is, we want to have a lot of kids,

1000
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Speaker 7: and I'm wondering what your best advice is for young

1001
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 7: couples with small children on how to prioritize and nurture

1002
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 7: their marriage amids the busy day to day life of kids.

1003
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 8: That's a very good question, because your marriage came first,

1004
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 8: and your husband is very important. Because your kids, you're

1005
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 8: raising them to fly, You're raising them to leave the nest,

1006
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 8: they'll always come back.

1007
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 2: And once they do. I think that's why people get empty.

1008
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 8: Nest syndrome, because they look at their husband in an

1009
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 8: empty living room and they're like, who are you?

1010
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 2: I have to relearn you. You want to grow with

1011
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 2: your husband.

1012
00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 8: That is going to be very acrobatics, even if that

1013
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 8: means locking yourself in a closet with your husband for

1014
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 8: just an hour to say, can I breathe with you?

1015
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 8: Can I just five minutes? Can I just have a

1016
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 8: second to look at you. Something that Charlie does that's

1017
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 8: really sweet that I love is that, sometimes, especially when

1018
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 8: he's traveling, we don't obviously we figure out the dynamic

1019
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 8: of at least having a date night at least once

1020
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 8: a month at least, but there will be moments where

1021
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 8: he's literally about to rush out the door and I.

1022
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 2: Won't see him for several days.

1023
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 8: Kids are wreaking havoc in the kitchen, pulling things out

1024
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 8: all over, and he just grabs me and he's like

1025
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 8: one minute and we just literally stare at each other

1026
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 8: for a minute and say like, I love you, whatever

1027
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 8: you need to say, but you just we have that

1028
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 8: one minute together to reset our hearts.

1029
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 2: And honestly, that.

1030
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 8: Is something that helps recharge the bucket until you get

1031
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 8: that date night. So just being really intentional about little

1032
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 8: moments that will build into a greater good for the relationship.

1033
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 4: But I know you, I agree with all that. Just prioritize,

1034
00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 4: obviously your marriage actually comes before your kids. That's a

1035
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 4: provocative thing to say, but it's true. Your relationship with

1036
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 4: your kids is important, yes, but it's not covenantal right.

1037
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 4: Your marriage is a covenant. Your relationship with your kids

1038
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:16,400
Speaker 4: is an outgrowth of a covenant. They're under your stewardship.

1039
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 4: But covenantal relationships are ones that we saw with Abraham

1040
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 4: and David and Israel and of course Jesus. That idea

1041
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 4: of marriage being a covenant is a big, big deal.

1042
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 4: In fact, only marriage in the Bible is compared to

1043
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 4: Christ's relationship with the Church. To always prioritize your marriage,

1044
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:37,760
Speaker 4: thank you.

1045
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 12: Yes, Hi, my name is Lindsay Cameron. I'm eighteen years

1046
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 12: old and I was homeschool and I just graduated high school.

1047
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:50,400
Speaker 12: And with graduating high school comes the question of so

1048
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 12: what are you going to do? And to be honest,

1049
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 12: in my career, like I want to be a mom

1050
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 12: and I want to have kids, and I want to

1051
01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 12: homeschool them and I want to stay at home with them,

1052
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 12: and that's just not a really acceptable answer. And I'm

1053
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 12: struggling to really know what i want to do in

1054
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 12: the meantime while I'm waiting to get married and have

1055
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:10,440
Speaker 12: kids because I'm not dating and I don't see anybody

1056
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 12: that I really want to date, and so I'm just

1057
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 12: I'm I have a lot of friends who are in

1058
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 12: the same position too of being in this weird waiting

1059
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:19,720
Speaker 12: period where I don't want to go to college and

1060
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 12: I don't want to commit to a career that I

1061
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:23,200
Speaker 12: know that I'm going to abandon once I have kids.

1062
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 12: So I was just wondering if you'll had any advice

1063
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 12: for that, and if you had any advice with dealing

1064
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 12: with criticism, because I'm having some from the extended family.

1065
01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 8: What I know we talked about don't follow your don't

1066
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 8: follow your heart and all that.

1067
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 4: Don't follow your heart. It's a bad idea to do that,

1068
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 4: you laugh, but the Bible is very clear the heart

1069
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:45,560
Speaker 4: is wicked. Yeah, do not follow your.

1070
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 2: Heart not doing talents right?

1071
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 4: Yes, that's correct. Yeah, I mean so look what are

1072
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 4: you good at?

1073
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 2: What are you talented at?

1074
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 12: I love people, I love talking to people all the time,

1075
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 12: and honestly, turning point USA like Alex Clark has really

1076
01:01:58,880 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 12: shaped my life.

1077
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 3: I got really into culture of Popcario. It is kind

1078
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:04,440
Speaker 3: of changed my life. And I mean I would love.

1079
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 12: To get involved in health and wellness, but I feel

1080
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Speaker 12: like there's not a really clear path for a career

1081
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 12: in that. I feel like most people just kind of

1082
01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 12: happen to fall into it because of life circumstances. And

1083
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 12: I don't really know where to start for that.

1084
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:16,680
Speaker 4: You'd be surprised. I mean, like, so I could give

1085
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 4: you a million ideas, but the first thing is you're

1086
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 4: already thinking about this correctly. Which is your aim? You

1087
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 4: got your aim right, which is important. And by the way,

1088
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:26,959
Speaker 4: if your aim is career, I'm not saying that's bad.

1089
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 4: At least you are clear. Don't confuse yourself of your aim.

1090
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 4: We are aiming creatures. We need something to point at.

1091
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 4: I mean, look, there's a million things you could do.

1092
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 4: You could work at a mobile IV clinic, right as

1093
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:41,439
Speaker 4: an administrator, Like, there's a lot of stuff you could

1094
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:43,560
Speaker 4: do in that kind of Maha space I would have.

1095
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 4: Are you from Texas, I'm guessing.

1096
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Speaker 2: Yet from here?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Yeah, great? And Dallas actually has a huge infrastructure

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01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 4: of like New Maha small businesses. You could work at

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01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 4: those kind of around that kind of genre and that outreach.

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Speaker 4: I will say though, that don't if you find your

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01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 4: future husband and he is godly and it passes premarital counseling,

1102
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 4: which Eric is exactly right, do not appease extended family.

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01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 4: You only really have one thing to worry about, which

1104
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 4: is the fear of the Lord. Right now, let me

1105
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 4: just can we riff on premarital counseling for a second.

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01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 4: It's very, very important and it shouldn't get a bad taboo.

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01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:23,600
Speaker 4: If you are anybody currently engaged right now, I'm sure

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Speaker 4: there's some Okay, awesome, praise the Lord. It's amazing. Aren't

1109
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Speaker 4: you from Canada or something?

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01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 12: Yeah?

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01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 4: I remember you you found a husband. We'll talk in

1112
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Speaker 4: a second. We'll talk in a second. I remember. That's great.

1113
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 4: I hope you did not find your partner here at YWS.

1114
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 4: I hope you. I'm kidding, So now I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

1115
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 4: I'm kidding. So at SaaS right, So primaral counseling, who's

1116
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 4: going to control the finances? Who's going to wake up

1117
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 4: in the middle of the night if the kid is

1118
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:56,840
Speaker 4: an issue? Are you gonna have kids? How many kids

1119
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 4: are you going to raise? The kid's Protestant or Catholic?

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Speaker 4: Are you going to the Bible? Are you Here's a

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01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 4: good question in premarital counseling that most won't ask, and

1122
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 4: you got this will save you a lot of problems.

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Speaker 4: Are you a open or closed house? Who here grew

1124
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:15,439
Speaker 4: up in an open house where all the kids would

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Speaker 4: come by in the neighborhood. You know what I'm talking about, right?

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Speaker 4: How many of you was raised in a closed house

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Speaker 4: where your parents are Okay? That's important, though, Has anyone

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Speaker 4: ever told you you look in a spouse to ask

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01:04:26,080 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 4: that question? Were you raised in an open or closed house?

1130
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 4: It's incredibly important because all of a sudden, if you

1131
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 4: raise you if you marry an open house person. This

1132
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 4: was not an issue for us, thankfully at all, but

1133
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Speaker 4: I've seen it destroy marriages and they've recovered some im

1134
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 4: not an open house person marries a closed house person.

1135
01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 4: They get married, they're inviting all their friends over all

1136
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 4: the time barbecue open up. The closed house person is like,

1137
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 4: this is crazy. I wasn't raised like this, And none

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01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:57,440
Speaker 4: of that gets filtered in the engagement. That's one of

1139
01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 4: like a hundred questions that that would be book. We

1140
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 4: could write at one hundred questions you should ask before

1141
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 4: you get married, right, tell you a good book, right,

1142
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 4: go ahead.

1143
01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I was just saying the homeless sacred.

1144
01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 4: I could go on, but that's like you just have

1145
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:16,360
Speaker 4: to What premarital counseling should do, which it does a

1146
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 4: bad job of in most churches, is you must really

1147
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 4: know the nature of your spouse introvert extrovert? What is

1148
01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 4: their love language? Right? Do they need time alone? Do

1149
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 4: they get filled up when you spend time with them

1150
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 4: or when they come home and they're beat down to

1151
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 4: they need time alone? Here's a good one that almost

1152
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:36,720
Speaker 4: no pastor will ever tell you. What is a vice

1153
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 4: that your spouse struggles with and what is an acceptable

1154
01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 4: vice and an unacceptable vice. So, for example, an acceptable

1155
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:47,640
Speaker 4: device might be that you'll allow alcohol. We don't drink, right,

1156
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:49,320
Speaker 4: So that for us, I'm not saying you have to

1157
01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 4: do that. But for us, that's what works, So it's

1158
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 4: not even a question. Some men like cigars. I think

1159
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 4: they smell like, you know, dead raccoons, But that's fine.

1160
01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 4: Are you willing to smell a cigar? Have you ever

1161
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 4: smelled a cigar? Will your house be able to withstand

1162
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 4: cigar smoke inside? You're laughing? This is the stuff that

1163
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:11,400
Speaker 4: breaks apart marriages. This is the stuff that creates isolation,

1164
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:14,080
Speaker 4: and it must be flushed out in the engagement period,

1165
01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 4: not in the honeymoon period or two years in and

1166
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 4: so other vices, which is like, you know, we're not

1167
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 4: gonna watch R rated movies or we're not gonna swear.

1168
01:06:24,760 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 4: You'd be amazed at how many marriages all of a sudden,

1169
01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 4: you know, the husband's just drop an F bomb. She's

1170
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:32,200
Speaker 4: like whoa, whoa, whoa, Like, we don't do that around here.

1171
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 4: You see this, who's gonna cook?

1172
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Speaker 8: Right?

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01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 4: What does it mean to take time off? Here's another one.

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Speaker 4: What type of vacations are you guys gonna take? This

1175
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 4: is very important? Right? What I should write the book? Yeah? Right,

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01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 4: but no, but think about it because Erica grew up

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Speaker 4: in a camping family, right, yes, we get how many

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Speaker 4: of you guys are camping families? Yes, yeah, how many

1179
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Speaker 4: of you guys think camping is like for Neanderthals? Raise

1180
01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 4: your hand. I I'm an eagle scout. If it's a

1181
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:04,800
Speaker 4: necessity for survival, I'll go camping.

1182
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 2: Okay. His camping is like the force.

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01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:11,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. Okay, No, I have no shame in that. Okay,

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01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 4: I have a busy life. I get like three days

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Speaker 4: off a year. I'm not going to like hang my

1186
01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 4: food by a tree for the three days off I

1187
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Speaker 4: have a year. Okay, that dog's not gonna hunt for

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Speaker 4: other families. They think it's like invigorating and exhilarating, right

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Speaker 4: to like run from the wolves at night or something

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01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:35,800
Speaker 4: I don't know you got, or like, hey, we're gonna

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Speaker 4: go do a road trip. Road trip? Really in an RV?

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01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 4: Oh sounds interesting.

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Speaker 8: That's like Charlie's the wortht nightmare, to be stuck in

1194
01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 8: a moving vehicle at multiple.

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Speaker 4: For multiple hours. I had to go into a trailer

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Speaker 4: that's an RV, and they said, isn't this nice? So

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Speaker 4: I would rather go to Alcatraz. Then you're stuck in

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Speaker 4: this thing. It's just it's just everything a.

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Speaker 8: Cruise ones and that was the last time we'd ever

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Speaker 8: go on to go.

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Speaker 4: It's it's just terrible, which I mean this is important

1202
01:08:06,160 --> 01:08:08,320
Speaker 4: because you might think you know your spouse and all

1203
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 4: of a sudden you book like a seven day cruise

1204
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 4: in a Caribbean and it's non refundable and he has.

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Speaker 8: The head I didn't do this, by the way, I

1206
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 8: just tried, but he Charlie had.

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Speaker 4: The head band I had I was doing. I get

1208
01:08:23,439 --> 01:08:26,320
Speaker 4: totally seasick. It's terrible. Yeah, it's you have to know

1209
01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:31,439
Speaker 4: the nature, right and unfortunately, and we can kind of

1210
01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 4: we say we want to get married early, but that

1211
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 4: does not mean you should get married in a rushed way, right,

1212
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 4: So two different things. Early and rushing are not synonyms.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. I hope that was somewhat helpful that we

1214
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 4: took a lot of detours in Oh, I'm doing to

1215
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 4: hold it. Hey, so you're getting.

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01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:56,880
Speaker 6: Married, yes, amazing. So speaking of which, I have a

1217
01:08:56,880 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 6: wedding planning question. I know that this sounds are so

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01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:07,400
Speaker 6: essentially I am facing visa visa delays. How do I

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01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:13,920
Speaker 6: deal with the disappointment and the feeling a status of

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01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:17,080
Speaker 6: having to plan for a peak winter wedding in the

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01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:18,040
Speaker 6: state of Wisconsin.

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01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:23,960
Speaker 4: Wait, so, okay, is it a visa question or is it?

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Speaker 6: It's so basically because of the visa delays, which is

1224
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 6: beyond anyone's beyond pretty much anyone's control.

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01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:34,360
Speaker 1: How do I plan for?

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01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:38,439
Speaker 6: Okay, I am going to have a wedding in the

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01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:42,200
Speaker 6: peak winter when there's no outside, when when it's really

1228
01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:46,320
Speaker 6: really cold, like and I'm feeling disappointed and sad about it.

1229
01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:47,040
Speaker 2: You shouldn't.

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Speaker 8: The winter is actually really beautiful. There's something really good.

1231
01:09:51,080 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 8: I know, it's cold, you can figure out the outfit.

1232
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:57,080
Speaker 8: You can wear a really beautiful shawl over yourself.

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01:09:57,439 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 3: There's way more options for winter attire.

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01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 2: Than the typical think of it.

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01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 8: This way, your wedding is going to be amazing because

1236
01:10:06,360 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 8: you're not having to have the.

1237
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 3: Florals and the ta sa. You'll save a ton of money.

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01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:13,719
Speaker 2: Amazing.

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01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:17,479
Speaker 8: Yes, you'll get a killer deal. But there's something special

1240
01:10:17,520 --> 01:10:21,760
Speaker 8: about the winter season. There really is. And because what

1241
01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 8: comes after winter spring Metaphorically you are springing into a

1242
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:29,480
Speaker 8: new season of life. You're springing into a beautiful marriage.

1243
01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:33,120
Speaker 8: Embrace the snow, Embrace.

1244
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 2: The beauty of it.

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01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:36,800
Speaker 8: It might not be ideally what you want, and that's

1246
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:40,600
Speaker 8: that's okay, because God's challenging you to release that the

1247
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:43,720
Speaker 8: wedding day is a wedding day, it's really not for you.

1248
01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 8: It's for your family. It's important on the altar that

1249
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:50,120
Speaker 8: is for you. But I'm talking about the party. It's

1250
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 8: really not for you. It's to entertain everyone else. So

1251
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 8: just hold true to the fact that what matters the most,

1252
01:10:57,439 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 8: regardless of the season, is the man in the world

1253
01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:02,439
Speaker 8: standing at the altar and that covenant you're making. It

1254
01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:05,320
Speaker 8: could be raining, it could be snowing. It could be

1255
01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:08,120
Speaker 8: one hundred and some degrees like our wedding, that didn't

1256
01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:12,360
Speaker 8: stop us. What's so important is is that marriage and

1257
01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:15,240
Speaker 8: that because when you guys get married, that's your family.

1258
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 8: Your husband's your family, everyone else's relatives, that's your husband.

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01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:23,240
Speaker 4: Congratulations And I want to use you as an example.

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01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 4: What's your name again, Vicki? And that was last year

1261
01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 4: when you gave the question two.

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01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 6: Years ago, so that was in twenty twenty four, So

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01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 6: that was last year.

1264
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 4: So Vicky came up last year and said, how do

1265
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:36,000
Speaker 4: I meet a husband? And she made her priority and

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01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:40,599
Speaker 4: a year later she's engaged. How oftome. Thank you very much,

1267
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:44,160
Speaker 4: we got thank you. Thank you next question, Yes, Hi,

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01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:45,200
Speaker 4: Erica Charlie.

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Speaker 8: I'm Melissa, and my question is I'm twenty and I'm single,

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01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 8: and I want to get married young. However, every almost every

1271
01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 8: woman in my life is telling me that I'm not

1272
01:11:53,280 --> 01:11:54,120
Speaker 8: missing out at anything.

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01:11:54,200 --> 01:11:56,000
Speaker 2: Do you have any response to that? The women, the

1274
01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:59,599
Speaker 2: women that are married. Yes, well, that's so so sad.

1275
01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 2: That's really sad.

1276
01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 4: What I mean as far as like having kids or

1277
01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 4: the relationship or it's.

1278
01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:09,080
Speaker 2: Like getting married young.

1279
01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:11,800
Speaker 3: Because when I tell people like my parents are really

1280
01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 3: supportive about it, but when I tell other people like

1281
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:16,320
Speaker 3: in church, like outside of church, I won't get at young,

1282
01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:18,559
Speaker 3: they look down on me.

1283
01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:20,519
Speaker 4: Like why they like they tell me to.

1284
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:22,759
Speaker 8: You know, get go to college, to get a career.

1285
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:25,880
Speaker 2: So like what is a good response to that? And

1286
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:27,080
Speaker 2: like what should I be doing?

1287
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:28,960
Speaker 3: Because I don't I don't feel like I'm missing out,

1288
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:30,439
Speaker 3: but I'm not sure what.

1289
01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 2: I should be doing.

1290
01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:35,360
Speaker 4: What church do you go to? I must have missed

1291
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 4: it in Matthew, which is go forth and become a

1292
01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:43,000
Speaker 4: CEO of a shoe company. It'd be fruitful and multiply.

1293
01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 4: Like I mean, first of all, you are hitting a

1294
01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 4: very fundamental and precious point I've said for a long time,

1295
01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:53,640
Speaker 4: we as Christians have done a crappy job of glorifying

1296
01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:56,719
Speaker 4: and celebrating marriage it. In fact, when we first got married,

1297
01:12:56,760 --> 01:12:59,599
Speaker 4: I heard almost more negatives than positives. I go, hope

1298
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 4: you're going to be have your handcuffed, or oh, marriage

1299
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 4: is the most awesome thing ever. Everybody it's amazing.

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01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 8: And I think it's because they didn't have good examples

1301
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 8: to look towards themselves.

1302
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 2: So they either settled.

1303
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 8: Or they're not happy because either something in their life

1304
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 8: they didn't settle and get fixed prior.

1305
01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:23,200
Speaker 2: To getting marriage. They're unequally yoked.

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01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:28,320
Speaker 8: It's sad, but honestly, I feel like it's like I

1307
01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:29,160
Speaker 8: talked about, that's.

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01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 2: A form of spiritual warfare.

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01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:33,799
Speaker 8: Like the enemies will use anybody to keep you from

1310
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:35,720
Speaker 8: where God needs you to be.

1311
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 2: So smile and wave, just be like I'm so sorry.

1312
01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:41,519
Speaker 8: That happened to you. It's not gonna happen to me.

1313
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 8: And you just you say I'll be praying for you.

1314
01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:48,000
Speaker 8: I mean, marriage is beautiful, don't let that deter you.

1315
01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:51,360
Speaker 2: It's another thing too. I'd like motherhood's the same thing.

1316
01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:54,040
Speaker 8: There are so many Christian moms who will get on

1317
01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:58,040
Speaker 8: social media and they'll say I'm so tired, I need wine.

1318
01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:00,800
Speaker 2: My child's driving me none. But it's like.

1319
01:14:02,479 --> 01:14:05,879
Speaker 8: No, no, motherhood is beautiful.

1320
01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 2: It's exhausting, but it's beautiful.

1321
01:14:08,640 --> 01:14:13,639
Speaker 8: And it's not going to be those sleepless nights. Yeah,

1322
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:15,160
Speaker 8: one day, your kid's probably not going to go home

1323
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:17,400
Speaker 8: until midnight. So the sleepless nights gets like a little

1324
01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 8: bit construed.

1325
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:21,040
Speaker 2: But you will sleep again, you.

1326
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 3: Will have you know, your time again.

1327
01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 8: But I feel so bad for the women not being

1328
01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 8: able to have people to look towards for marriage and

1329
01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 8: motherhood because they just complaining about it mostly, which is sad.

1330
01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 4: Great question. We have time for about two or three

1331
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:39,600
Speaker 4: more if we go quick. Really, I have to do

1332
01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 4: this before I forget who here knows, nobody in the

1333
01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:45,200
Speaker 4: room raise your hand anybody. Oh that's cool, all right

1334
01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:48,519
Speaker 4: for those of you that know. Just keep your hands up.

1335
01:14:48,560 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 4: Keep your hands up.

1336
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:49,599
Speaker 2: I like that.

1337
01:14:49,640 --> 01:14:52,240
Speaker 4: Everybody around the people raising your hands. Now you have

1338
01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 4: to introduce yourself and then we fix that problem. No, seriously,

1339
01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:58,080
Speaker 4: go do that right now and say where you're from.

1340
01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:01,360
Speaker 2: I'm sweet.

1341
01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:08,280
Speaker 4: Swee, and now you have friends, You're welcomed. That's what

1342
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 4: the young women's Leadership Summit is all about how great

1343
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 4: is that? Next question?

1344
01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:20,439
Speaker 2: Hi, mister Kirk. My name is Naveah.

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01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:23,080
Speaker 11: I'm eighteen years old and I was homeschooled my whole

1346
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:29,160
Speaker 11: life and just graduated last year, thank you. So right

1347
01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:31,920
Speaker 11: now I'm in that period of my life where I'm

1348
01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:34,960
Speaker 11: trying to establish myself. So I've been working for myself

1349
01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:38,559
Speaker 11: online as a YouTuber and a podcaster from the time

1350
01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:41,160
Speaker 11: I was fifteen. I'm actually trying to work for you

1351
01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:44,600
Speaker 11: right now. So that's what I've been focusing on. But

1352
01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:47,040
Speaker 11: I do have a really strong desire as a Christian

1353
01:15:47,120 --> 01:15:49,680
Speaker 11: to eventually get married and have children, and I want

1354
01:15:49,680 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 11: to homeschool my kids as well eventually. So I'm wondering

1355
01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:55,640
Speaker 11: what your advice is for balancing those two desires and

1356
01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 11: what to prioritize.

1357
01:15:56,720 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 2: At what stage in your life. Since women can't have

1358
01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:01,120
Speaker 2: it all.

1359
01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:06,680
Speaker 8: Women they can't have they can have it all, but

1360
01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:13,800
Speaker 8: it's not simultaneously like different seasons. Your career again, like

1361
01:16:13,840 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 8: I said, is not going anywhere. So what you're establishing

1362
01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:18,679
Speaker 8: now on YouTube and your platform and all that stuff,

1363
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 8: it's not going anywhere. What I will recommend though, is

1364
01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:24,559
Speaker 8: when you do have children, do not use your children

1365
01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:26,639
Speaker 8: as ponds for a discount code.

1366
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 2: Do not use your.

1367
01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 3: Child for a free stroller for.

1368
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 8: Some influencer thing. Your children are sacred. Protect them. That

1369
01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:40,280
Speaker 8: is your role as a mother. Your platform was given

1370
01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:43,160
Speaker 8: to you by God, so stewart it well and Stuart properly.

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01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:45,719
Speaker 2: But it's not going to go anywhere. What you're building

1372
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 2: now is not going to get destroyed.

1373
01:16:47,160 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 8: I think that's what a lot of people get misconstrued

1374
01:16:48,960 --> 01:16:50,800
Speaker 8: is thinking like, Okay, what I'm building now is going

1375
01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:52,760
Speaker 8: to be worthless once I have a family. Now, God

1376
01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:55,840
Speaker 8: will redirect it. He'll turn it into whatever it needs

1377
01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:58,839
Speaker 8: to turn into. Pray on it because it's not always

1378
01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:01,680
Speaker 8: super clear, but it will come to you. And I

1379
01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:04,640
Speaker 8: think that, yes, every season is going to come and

1380
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:08,920
Speaker 8: have its own time and turn. But if you're if

1381
01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:11,360
Speaker 8: this is what you're focusing on right now, like that's

1382
01:17:12,040 --> 01:17:14,559
Speaker 8: what you're focusing on, I mean I don't.

1383
01:17:15,640 --> 01:17:17,559
Speaker 4: I think you're in a great spot obviously, and Erica

1384
01:17:17,600 --> 01:17:22,000
Speaker 4: answered it beautifully. So again, if you have to always

1385
01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 4: prioritize you what matters most, and with that, the Lord

1386
01:17:25,200 --> 01:17:28,240
Speaker 4: will open up the right doors. Thank you. All right,

1387
01:17:28,680 --> 01:17:30,240
Speaker 4: let's see how quick this one is this might be

1388
01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 4: the last question.

1389
01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:34,720
Speaker 13: Yes, okay, Hi guys mining lily. So one thing is

1390
01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:36,960
Speaker 13: a piece of advice I'd love. The other is a

1391
01:17:37,040 --> 01:17:40,000
Speaker 13: question whichever one you guys have time for. So, first

1392
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 13: of all, with gentle parenting, and then you have like

1393
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 13: abusive homes, what is the balance of biblical discipline and love?

1394
01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:49,680
Speaker 13: And also I would love advice for if you know

1395
01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 13: you have a godly guy in your life. You guys

1396
01:17:51,520 --> 01:17:56,360
Speaker 13: agree on a lot of things spiritually and politically, but

1397
01:17:56,439 --> 01:17:58,639
Speaker 13: you still feel like there's a little bit more maturity

1398
01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:00,479
Speaker 13: that ends to go, how do you wait the Lord

1399
01:18:00,520 --> 01:18:01,400
Speaker 13: and how do you go about that?

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01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 8: I'll take the second one, that's say, I'll take the

1401
01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:06,679
Speaker 8: first one too, but I want to hear.

1402
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 2: I mean it's powerful to hear.

1403
01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:11,080
Speaker 4: From the most important thing as a parent is that

1404
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:14,360
Speaker 4: you must instill self control and not self esteem for

1405
01:18:14,479 --> 01:18:18,640
Speaker 4: your kid. Whatever it takes, you must have them understand

1406
01:18:18,720 --> 01:18:21,200
Speaker 4: the power of restraint, which is a fruit of the spirit. Remember,

1407
01:18:21,240 --> 01:18:24,400
Speaker 4: self control is a fruit of the spirit. That's much

1408
01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 4: easier said than done. Right, I can tell you more

1409
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:30,639
Speaker 4: about what not to do and what we're not doing

1410
01:18:30,640 --> 01:18:32,280
Speaker 4: them what we're doing because we're still figuring it out,

1411
01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:34,320
Speaker 4: but we know what not to do. It is a

1412
01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:38,720
Speaker 4: it is a civilizational tragedy. When Eric and I go

1413
01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:41,120
Speaker 4: out with our two kids to eat and we go

1414
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:44,160
Speaker 4: look at another family and everyone has their eyes on

1415
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:47,120
Speaker 4: a screen, it's so sad. I just it is so

1416
01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:50,639
Speaker 4: beyond I don't want to sound judgmental. Maybe they had

1417
01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:53,080
Speaker 4: like a long day at work or something. I really

1418
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:56,920
Speaker 4: find no excuse whatsoever because these kids put on these

1419
01:18:56,960 --> 01:19:00,599
Speaker 4: headphones and they just escape reality staring at these screens

1420
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 4: all day long. And it's really really bad everybody, and

1421
01:19:04,439 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 4: it's totally unnecessary. We have a very hyperactive two year old.

1422
01:19:08,920 --> 01:19:12,040
Speaker 4: You you have to just have them color something, have

1423
01:19:12,120 --> 01:19:12,799
Speaker 4: them right.

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01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:14,879
Speaker 2: I bring an arsenal of a backpack.

1425
01:19:15,160 --> 01:19:18,960
Speaker 8: I have plato, I have paints, I have anything you

1426
01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:19,679
Speaker 8: can imagine.

1427
01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:20,080
Speaker 4: Totally.

1428
01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:22,800
Speaker 8: You just load up that bag, and that's what you're

1429
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:23,760
Speaker 8: teaching them.

1430
01:19:24,439 --> 01:19:26,640
Speaker 2: Make it fun. Here's your fancy napkin. You get to

1431
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:27,719
Speaker 2: order like this.

1432
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 8: Is really special. If they have to get up and

1433
01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:31,840
Speaker 8: go outside and run around, so be it. But you're

1434
01:19:31,880 --> 01:19:34,559
Speaker 8: teaching them how to interact with adults. You're teaching them

1435
01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:36,760
Speaker 8: how to be patient. If you're putting a screen in

1436
01:19:36,760 --> 01:19:38,880
Speaker 8: front of them. You're teaching them a way to escape.

1437
01:19:38,960 --> 01:19:41,680
Speaker 4: The data shows this, but we anecdotally can confirm this.

1438
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:45,560
Speaker 4: Even like five minutes of screen time, they get braddier. Yeah,

1439
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,520
Speaker 4: they get more unruly. They just kind of get disconnected

1440
01:19:48,520 --> 01:19:50,840
Speaker 4: from where they are. We can see a total behavioral

1441
01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 4: difference with our daughter as soon as there's like a

1442
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:55,320
Speaker 4: screen introduced, even.

1443
01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:57,360
Speaker 8: If it's just Spotify, Like even if she's like, I

1444
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,519
Speaker 8: want to choose my song, do you want to do

1445
01:19:59,600 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 8: the film?

1446
01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:03,240
Speaker 3: And she's but like five minutes later she's.

1447
01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:04,479
Speaker 2: Like, you can't.

1448
01:20:04,680 --> 01:20:07,320
Speaker 4: It's like she's droned in. So we have one screen

1449
01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:10,080
Speaker 4: for the whole family Central and it's same as Matt

1450
01:20:10,080 --> 01:20:12,120
Speaker 4: Walsh and I kind of got this from him. There's

1451
01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:15,040
Speaker 4: agreed upon stuff that we're allowed to watch as a family,

1452
01:20:15,080 --> 01:20:17,559
Speaker 4: and it's a very very short list, right, It's like

1453
01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:21,760
Speaker 4: Bob Ross, Mister Rogers, and then the Chicago Cubs and

1454
01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:24,080
Speaker 4: the Charlie Kirks Show and the Charlie kirk Show. And

1455
01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:26,360
Speaker 4: we don't allow it later in the day unless the

1456
01:20:26,400 --> 01:20:28,599
Speaker 4: Cubs are playing. That's a whole separate issue. They happened,

1457
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:31,320
Speaker 4: they happen to be good this year, and then maybe

1458
01:20:31,400 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 4: some college football. But that's like we're so careful because

1459
01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:38,760
Speaker 4: we can do the whole parenting. But as far as this,

1460
01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:40,680
Speaker 4: this is a very difficult thing and it's hard for

1461
01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 4: It's very hard actually, but it must be said, you

1462
01:20:43,400 --> 01:20:46,479
Speaker 4: are not your kid's friend, right, that is like it

1463
01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:50,640
Speaker 4: is I know that it sounds easy to hear you

1464
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:54,720
Speaker 4: are their parents. Is it is an up and down relationship.

1465
01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:57,400
Speaker 4: It is not a horizontal one. You are not there

1466
01:20:57,479 --> 01:21:01,560
Speaker 4: equal And I see in public sometimes these parentings displays

1467
01:21:02,240 --> 01:21:06,840
Speaker 4: that it's so sad where it's just placation. The parent

1468
01:21:06,960 --> 01:21:10,360
Speaker 4: is being held hostage by the child. It is it

1469
01:21:10,439 --> 01:21:14,960
Speaker 4: is like a ongoing blackmail operation. No I'm not kidding

1470
01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:17,679
Speaker 4: where it's like give me candy or else I riot.

1471
01:21:18,280 --> 01:21:21,559
Speaker 4: It's like completely different than like it's no different than BLM.

1472
01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:25,080
Speaker 4: It's like, you know, give me something or else I'm

1473
01:21:25,080 --> 01:21:30,559
Speaker 4: gonna tear. Seriously, it's like, no, you need rules and order.

1474
01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 4: And like Eric has been amazing, she deserves you deserve

1475
01:21:33,040 --> 01:21:37,080
Speaker 4: so much credit. Like sometimes you leave the restaurant sometimes

1476
01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:40,320
Speaker 4: like nope, we're done. Actually you made a fool of yourself.

1477
01:21:40,439 --> 01:21:45,120
Speaker 4: We're done. We gave you one last warning, right, and

1478
01:21:45,560 --> 01:21:48,839
Speaker 4: final thing is that and Alex Clark has been phenomenal

1479
01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:51,559
Speaker 4: in this. She deserves a lot of credit. She does.

1480
01:21:52,320 --> 01:21:55,000
Speaker 4: And it's it's informed us amongst Bobby Kenny and others.

1481
01:21:55,320 --> 01:21:59,480
Speaker 4: What you are putting into your kids really matters, especially

1482
01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:04,759
Speaker 4: sugar carbohydrates. How they behave. If you feed them good stuff,

1483
01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:10,479
Speaker 4: parenting becomes easier, not easy, but easier, truly, truly, I

1484
01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:13,920
Speaker 4: forget what your question gentle parenting and the maturity of

1485
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:16,040
Speaker 4: a man. He's not quite there yet. He's not as

1486
01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:16,960
Speaker 4: mature as she would like.

1487
01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:18,879
Speaker 2: I would have him find someone.

1488
01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:21,040
Speaker 8: If you have a solid church that you go to,

1489
01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:24,280
Speaker 8: I would share that with either the pastor or someone

1490
01:22:24,320 --> 01:22:26,400
Speaker 8: within the church that you look up to, and have

1491
01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:30,200
Speaker 8: a male figure pour into him. Not a stranger or

1492
01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 8: not an uncle or not a brother, someone totally a

1493
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:35,800
Speaker 8: separate party that's not connected. It can be private, but

1494
01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:39,000
Speaker 8: have him go and get mentored once twice a week

1495
01:22:39,280 --> 01:22:41,760
Speaker 8: and really just have someone he can look towards to

1496
01:22:41,880 --> 01:22:44,160
Speaker 8: see like, this is the way to be a bit.

1497
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:46,920
Speaker 4: He needs to hear one thing, just one sentence. You

1498
01:22:47,000 --> 01:22:48,519
Speaker 4: will lose her if you don't grow up.

1499
01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:48,960
Speaker 9: Yeah.

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01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:52,120
Speaker 4: If he hears that, radical change will happen. If the

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01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:54,679
Speaker 4: right person says that he doesn't need a whole feeling session.

1502
01:22:54,840 --> 01:22:57,639
Speaker 4: We don't need that as ment. We don't need emotionality. No, no,

1503
01:22:57,800 --> 01:23:01,320
Speaker 4: you need conviction and order and they challenge and we

1504
01:23:01,360 --> 01:23:04,759
Speaker 4: need like high stakes and if we hear, you're gonna

1505
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 4: lose what you take for granted if you don't watch

1506
01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:10,960
Speaker 4: Radical Change in Soup. Thank you. Last question.

1507
01:23:12,200 --> 01:23:16,800
Speaker 10: Very week sons weeks so awesomele Hi guys, my name

1508
01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 10: is Violet.

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01:23:17,920 --> 01:23:22,639
Speaker 2: I'm from San Antonio. I'm super emotional as well. I'm

1510
01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:23,799
Speaker 2: sure I'm not the only one.

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01:23:24,200 --> 01:23:28,559
Speaker 10: And I also know that men are very logical and

1512
01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:31,360
Speaker 10: kind of have our time with that. So I was wondering, Charlie,

1513
01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:35,160
Speaker 10: what do you do to really nurture Erica's emotional side

1514
01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:37,840
Speaker 10: when your boy brain is like trying to answer every

1515
01:23:37,920 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 10: question and.

1516
01:23:38,400 --> 01:23:39,759
Speaker 2: Be lotical with her.

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01:23:41,520 --> 01:23:46,559
Speaker 4: It's a great question. This is why understanding female nature

1518
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:49,280
Speaker 4: to the best of our ability as men is very important.

1519
01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:53,639
Speaker 4: And again we've had like different configurations of a men's summit,

1520
01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:55,840
Speaker 4: but I talk to men a lot on campus and

1521
01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 4: through my content and stuff. But it's what I tell

1522
01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 4: them is that you must understand God wired us a

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01:24:02,000 --> 01:24:05,920
Speaker 4: lot differently. The biggest thing is really time time with

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01:24:06,040 --> 01:24:08,800
Speaker 4: your spouse. Time to have your spouse be able to

1525
01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:12,160
Speaker 4: think or talk about that specific situation that has them

1526
01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:16,960
Speaker 4: maybe fired up. Right. And then also sometimes men look

1527
01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:19,720
Speaker 4: at we have a problem where we think we are

1528
01:24:19,760 --> 01:24:23,280
Speaker 4: the firefighter to put out a fire. We see problem,

1529
01:24:23,520 --> 01:24:27,080
Speaker 4: we want to fix it. Right. We see broken engine,

1530
01:24:27,160 --> 01:24:32,160
Speaker 4: we come to repair it. Right. Sometimes the solution is

1531
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:35,000
Speaker 4: just talking about the problem, which for us is like

1532
01:24:35,040 --> 01:24:38,400
Speaker 4: an incomprehensible thing. It's like, wait, why would you talk

1533
01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:41,839
Speaker 4: about the problem and not solve the problem, Because sometimes

1534
01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:43,840
Speaker 4: the problem is the fact that hasn't been talked about.

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01:24:44,960 --> 01:24:50,200
Speaker 4: Am I right? I understand female nature And it's like

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01:24:50,240 --> 01:24:51,560
Speaker 4: for men it's like it's like what do you do?

1537
01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:55,880
Speaker 4: It's like a distant thing. And similarly for you when

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01:24:55,880 --> 01:25:00,320
Speaker 4: you have husbands, right, it might drive you crazy that

1539
01:25:02,840 --> 01:25:05,000
Speaker 4: talk about this. You can't get out more than three

1540
01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:09,080
Speaker 4: How was your day? Fine? You know what? Did you

1541
01:25:09,120 --> 01:25:14,759
Speaker 4: do a lot of stuff? It's not an insult to

1542
01:25:14,760 --> 01:25:21,360
Speaker 4: be tired. And our brains work differently, right. It's for women, conversation,

1543
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:28,160
Speaker 4: especially conversation about nothing, is therapeutic. Okay, I'm sorry, it's

1544
01:25:28,280 --> 01:25:34,479
Speaker 4: very cathartic. Okay. For men, it's exhausting. And for us,

1545
01:25:34,600 --> 01:25:38,760
Speaker 4: we like to unplug and we like to watch or

1546
01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:42,960
Speaker 4: see somebody else do something hard. That's what sports is, right,

1547
01:25:43,640 --> 01:25:46,519
Speaker 4: or a movie like For us, we either want to

1548
01:25:46,560 --> 01:25:49,080
Speaker 4: do hard things or watch other people do hard things.

1549
01:25:49,680 --> 01:25:52,800
Speaker 4: It's like men in a nutshell. Okay, we either want

1550
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:55,080
Speaker 4: to be the ones doing the hard thing like mowing

1551
01:25:55,120 --> 01:25:57,840
Speaker 4: the lawn or chopping down a tree, right, or we

1552
01:25:57,880 --> 01:26:00,680
Speaker 4: want to watch other people do hard things. Okay, for

1553
01:26:00,800 --> 01:26:06,120
Speaker 4: women maybe five minutes. And there's nothing wrong about that.

1554
01:26:06,400 --> 01:26:08,840
Speaker 4: Emotionality is a beautiful thing. This is why we are

1555
01:26:08,840 --> 01:26:12,519
Speaker 4: not AI right, we're not chat GPT. We have a

1556
01:26:12,560 --> 01:26:18,560
Speaker 4: soul right for a reason. And I just want to

1557
01:26:18,600 --> 01:26:22,280
Speaker 4: brag on the women of America because there's a lot

1558
01:26:22,280 --> 01:26:24,880
Speaker 4: of bashing of like feminism, and there should be, and

1559
01:26:24,920 --> 01:26:27,080
Speaker 4: there's a lot of bashing of women in the country

1560
01:26:27,439 --> 01:26:30,080
Speaker 4: of like how they veered off track, some of which

1561
01:26:30,080 --> 01:26:32,080
Speaker 4: honestly is warranted. But the one thing that is not

1562
01:26:32,520 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 4: talked about enough is how women have kept church attendance

1563
01:26:37,680 --> 01:26:40,439
Speaker 4: and the faith alive in the West and a much

1564
01:26:40,479 --> 01:26:42,280
Speaker 4: better job than men the last third. No, it's a

1565
01:26:42,360 --> 01:26:47,080
Speaker 4: very real thing. This is why Mother's Day Church service

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01:26:47,160 --> 01:26:49,400
Speaker 4: is one of the highest attendants of the year besides

1567
01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:53,280
Speaker 4: Easter and Christmas. Why what do you want from Mother's Day?

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01:26:53,280 --> 01:26:53,519
Speaker 8: Honey?

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01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:56,760
Speaker 4: I want to bring the entire family to church. What

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01:26:56,800 --> 01:26:58,600
Speaker 4: do you want for Father's Day? Honey? I don't know

1571
01:26:58,720 --> 01:27:02,120
Speaker 4: golf or watch golf. Remember, do hard things, watch people

1572
01:27:02,120 --> 01:27:04,080
Speaker 4: do hard things. I don't want to go to church.

1573
01:27:04,560 --> 01:27:06,080
Speaker 4: By the way, let me just say, for men out

1574
01:27:06,080 --> 01:27:08,680
Speaker 4: there that are listening in the internet, if you do

1575
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:12,439
Speaker 4: not lead your family to church, that your children will

1576
01:27:12,479 --> 01:27:16,439
Speaker 4: not also go to church. But it deserves so the women.

1577
01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:20,240
Speaker 4: You deserve so much credit for keeping church attendance alive,

1578
01:27:20,320 --> 01:27:23,879
Speaker 4: for serving in the churches, for volunteering in the churches,

1579
01:27:24,400 --> 01:27:28,200
Speaker 4: for keeping the entire faith robust. And now we're seeing

1580
01:27:28,200 --> 01:27:31,000
Speaker 4: a resurgence of young men finally come back as something

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01:27:31,040 --> 01:27:33,839
Speaker 4: I don't think that's always articulated of how the American

1582
01:27:33,920 --> 01:27:37,519
Speaker 4: church has really been saved and strengthened by women in America.

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Speaker 8: Final thoughts, So, something that he does support into me

1584
01:27:41,280 --> 01:27:45,800
Speaker 8: emotionally is or to just check in from that standpoint

1585
01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:49,880
Speaker 8: is if he comes home, he's tired, how'd you day great?

1586
01:27:49,880 --> 01:27:54,120
Speaker 8: Blah blah blah, and I'm still cooking whatever on his sabbath,

1587
01:27:54,160 --> 01:27:56,240
Speaker 8: when he has a moment, he writes me a note.

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01:27:56,720 --> 01:27:59,720
Speaker 8: He has not missed one. He writes me a note,

1589
01:28:00,000 --> 01:28:01,800
Speaker 8: either leaves it on my pillow, hands it to me.

1590
01:28:02,280 --> 01:28:04,559
Speaker 8: I've saved every single one of them. In those notes

1591
01:28:05,680 --> 01:28:10,519
Speaker 8: are what refill me emotionally, if I need that filling.

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01:28:11,000 --> 01:28:12,160
Speaker 2: He's very good about that.

1593
01:28:12,520 --> 01:28:15,680
Speaker 8: So when you're in a relationship, how it's important to

1594
01:28:15,720 --> 01:28:18,280
Speaker 8: know your spouse's nature, it's also important to know your own.

1595
01:28:19,120 --> 01:28:21,559
Speaker 8: What do you want him to do to help pour

1596
01:28:21,640 --> 01:28:24,599
Speaker 8: into your emotional side? What is something that makes you

1597
01:28:24,640 --> 01:28:26,320
Speaker 8: tick in your heart tick? Do you want him to

1598
01:28:26,360 --> 01:28:27,639
Speaker 8: write you a note? Do you want him to tell

1599
01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:30,200
Speaker 8: you your or you want Do you want him to

1600
01:28:30,200 --> 01:28:32,880
Speaker 8: bring you flowers? Do you hate flowers? Do you want

1601
01:28:32,880 --> 01:28:36,439
Speaker 8: a cake? Like you learn what will speak to you?

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01:28:37,640 --> 01:28:40,080
Speaker 8: Eat that box in your head, even on a day

1603
01:28:40,080 --> 01:28:42,679
Speaker 8: where he says five words, but he brought you flowers,

1604
01:28:42,720 --> 01:28:44,920
Speaker 8: and you're like, wow, I feel loved.

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01:28:45,240 --> 01:28:45,760
Speaker 2: I get it.

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01:28:46,160 --> 01:28:48,880
Speaker 8: Just like be sure to communicate that though he can't

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01:28:48,920 --> 01:28:52,840
Speaker 8: read your brain. It's the famous thing of where do

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01:28:52,880 --> 01:28:53,960
Speaker 8: you want to go eat for dinner?

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01:28:54,320 --> 01:28:58,000
Speaker 2: I don't care, We'll go to Chipotle. I don't want Chipotle, like.

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01:28:58,040 --> 01:29:00,679
Speaker 8: You need to be able to know your own nature

1611
01:29:00,760 --> 01:29:02,479
Speaker 8: to tell your husband not trained.

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01:29:03,640 --> 01:29:04,439
Speaker 2: It is a team.

1613
01:29:05,080 --> 01:29:08,759
Speaker 8: This is what I want, This is what I please.

1614
01:29:08,840 --> 01:29:10,280
Speaker 2: This is how you can pour into me.

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01:29:10,640 --> 01:29:13,439
Speaker 8: How can I I mean, I'm in with each other

1616
01:29:13,479 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 8: every single day?

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01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:17,599
Speaker 2: How can I serve you better when you get home?

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01:29:17,840 --> 01:29:18,519
Speaker 2: Is there anything that.

1619
01:29:18,479 --> 01:29:19,840
Speaker 8: You need me to have ready for you when you

1620
01:29:19,840 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 8: come back from the office or this trip?

1621
01:29:21,439 --> 01:29:22,960
Speaker 2: X y Z. He asked me the same thing.

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01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:26,519
Speaker 8: If I'm not doing something with the kids, what can

1623
01:29:26,520 --> 01:29:28,679
Speaker 8: I do? How can I make your day better? You're

1624
01:29:28,720 --> 01:29:32,880
Speaker 8: a team and you guys are not at ends with

1625
01:29:32,920 --> 01:29:37,679
Speaker 8: each other, work together, communicate and grow together as equally

1626
01:29:37,800 --> 01:29:39,080
Speaker 8: yoked partnership.

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01:29:39,200 --> 01:29:45,320
Speaker 4: It's beautiful. And I want to plug one thing and

1628
01:29:45,400 --> 01:29:47,200
Speaker 4: I will say one last thing to the whole audience

1629
01:29:47,240 --> 01:29:49,600
Speaker 4: and thank you we have I want all of you

1630
01:29:49,680 --> 01:29:53,960
Speaker 4: to start after at your high school or college. Who's

1631
01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:56,040
Speaker 4: your at turning Point? You say, Chapter leader, raise your hand.

1632
01:29:56,400 --> 01:29:58,960
Speaker 4: We need more of you to go start Turning Point

1633
01:29:59,040 --> 01:30:02,080
Speaker 4: USA chapters. You could do so out there. There's amazing

1634
01:30:02,120 --> 01:30:05,840
Speaker 4: giveaways as so. So I'll say two final things and that Eric,

1635
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:08,720
Speaker 4: could you have any final thoughts before I get to

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01:30:08,760 --> 01:30:10,760
Speaker 4: my two final things I'll go quick while you think

1637
01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:12,840
Speaker 4: about it. The first of which is we're gonna have

1638
01:30:12,880 --> 01:30:14,479
Speaker 4: a whole Q and A for politics or whatever you

1639
01:30:14,520 --> 01:30:17,599
Speaker 4: want tomorrow or more relationship stuff if you want. Do

1640
01:30:17,720 --> 01:30:24,160
Speaker 4: not talk down to men, do masculinity, bashing of men.

1641
01:30:24,320 --> 01:30:26,800
Speaker 4: Not only do we need men. The civilization is God

1642
01:30:26,840 --> 01:30:30,160
Speaker 4: created men and women. And it's very tempting to get

1643
01:30:30,160 --> 01:30:32,880
Speaker 4: into the whole kind of girl dominant society. You do

1644
01:30:32,960 --> 01:30:34,360
Speaker 4: not want to live in that world. I'm telling you

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01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:36,600
Speaker 4: right now, you do not. You want to live in

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01:30:36,640 --> 01:30:39,400
Speaker 4: a world where the best of both sexes are equally balanced.

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01:30:40,360 --> 01:30:42,240
Speaker 4: The other thing I'll say, which is kind of funnier.

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01:30:44,360 --> 01:30:47,880
Speaker 4: It's hard to put into words how much men want

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01:30:47,920 --> 01:30:51,920
Speaker 4: a just like a return to normal things like cooking

1650
01:30:51,920 --> 01:30:57,040
Speaker 4: a meal, like serving in like those fundamental ways like

1651
01:30:57,160 --> 01:31:00,320
Speaker 4: that stuff. As a husband or even a boyfriend goes

1652
01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:02,720
Speaker 4: beyond measure that I can put into words and.

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01:31:02,680 --> 01:31:04,400
Speaker 2: Make it fun, be like, what do you want to eat?

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01:31:04,479 --> 01:31:06,200
Speaker 8: And then like have them make a menu, and then

1655
01:31:06,200 --> 01:31:10,280
Speaker 8: it's a good challenge for you to Like I cooked swordfish.

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01:31:09,760 --> 01:31:10,240
Speaker 4: The other night.

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01:31:10,439 --> 01:31:13,320
Speaker 2: It was okay, it wasn't my best, but like.

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01:31:13,400 --> 01:31:18,160
Speaker 8: Great, but it goes to say, just make things fun.

1659
01:31:18,240 --> 01:31:21,040
Speaker 8: Don't again, don't look at it as I have to.

1660
01:31:21,920 --> 01:31:25,479
Speaker 8: I get to serve my husband. I get to submit

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01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:28,479
Speaker 8: unto my husband because he's submitting himself to the Lord.

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01:31:28,800 --> 01:31:31,800
Speaker 8: There is a balance, and there's something really beautiful about

1663
01:31:31,840 --> 01:31:34,599
Speaker 8: that balance. If you have a situation where you don't

1664
01:31:34,600 --> 01:31:36,639
Speaker 8: have someone in your life that you can look towards

1665
01:31:36,880 --> 01:31:42,360
Speaker 8: as a healthy merit seak that out. Whether that's in

1666
01:31:42,400 --> 01:31:45,600
Speaker 8: your church, whether that's in your community, whether that's something online.

1667
01:31:45,760 --> 01:31:47,960
Speaker 8: Hold on to that so that you can have some

1668
01:31:48,040 --> 01:31:50,840
Speaker 8: form of an understanding of Okay, this is what I

1669
01:31:50,880 --> 01:31:51,880
Speaker 8: have to look forward to.

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01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:52,960
Speaker 2: I'm so excited.

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01:31:53,000 --> 01:31:55,960
Speaker 8: And God will make sure that the right man will

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01:31:55,960 --> 01:31:58,240
Speaker 8: come in your path. He won't walk past you, he

1673
01:31:58,320 --> 01:32:01,880
Speaker 8: won't miss you. Odd is always on time.

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01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:03,280
Speaker 2: And so is your future husband.

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01:32:03,360 --> 01:32:05,719
Speaker 8: So just wait on the Lord and you'll get everything

1676
01:32:05,760 --> 01:32:08,160
Speaker 8: that you've prayed for and more stuff that you prayed.

1677
01:32:09,600 --> 01:32:12,479
Speaker 8: You'll get way beyond that because God knows truly.

1678
01:32:14,600 --> 01:32:18,240
Speaker 4: Anybody that looks lonely, go introduce yourself totally. Make sure

1679
01:32:18,280 --> 01:32:20,280
Speaker 4: you counsel them and make a friend out of them.

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01:32:20,479 --> 01:32:22,639
Speaker 4: We want people to leave friends for a lifetime here

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01:32:22,920 --> 01:32:24,720
Speaker 4: and we are just getting started. The next couple days

1682
01:32:24,720 --> 01:32:26,800
Speaker 4: are gonna be life changing. God bless you all. Thank

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01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:27,360
Speaker 4: you so much.

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01:32:45,479 --> 01:32:48,280
Speaker 9: All right, coming to you live from Dallas, Texas at

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01:32:48,280 --> 01:32:50,920
Speaker 9: the Young Women's Leadership Summit. We were just listening in

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01:32:51,200 --> 01:32:54,519
Speaker 9: to Turning Point ussays founder Charlie Kirk. He just wrapped

1687
01:32:54,560 --> 01:32:57,280
Speaker 9: up his speech a few moments ago. Earlier in the night,

1688
01:32:57,320 --> 01:33:01,120
Speaker 9: we heard from Alex Clark, another Turning Point host. She

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01:33:01,200 --> 01:33:04,600
Speaker 9: hosts the Culture Apothecary Show. The big theme of this

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01:33:04,720 --> 01:33:09,519
Speaker 9: year's summit. This year's event emphasizing faith, femininity, and well

1691
01:33:09,560 --> 01:33:13,000
Speaker 9: being as the foundational aspects of womanhood. Throughout all of

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01:33:13,000 --> 01:33:15,719
Speaker 9: the speeches today, we heard a lot about that theme,

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01:33:15,760 --> 01:33:18,280
Speaker 9: a lot about family values, about the role for women

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01:33:18,600 --> 01:33:21,320
Speaker 9: and the role of mothers in society today. I have

1695
01:33:21,360 --> 01:33:24,000
Speaker 9: a feeling that we'll continue to have these conversations throughout

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01:33:24,040 --> 01:33:27,240
Speaker 9: the weekend. Make sure you're staying tuned to Real America's Voice.

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Speaker 9: Our coverage picks up tomorrow at noon of the Turning

1698
01:33:29,680 --> 01:33:33,360
Speaker 9: Point USA Young Women's Leadership Summit. Will send it over

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01:33:33,400 --> 01:33:34,519
Speaker 9: to Studio six B.

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Speaker 4: This has been a live special report. We now join

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Speaker 4: our programming already in progress.

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Speaker 2: The alarms going