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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my husband's female

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Speaker 1: friend you are not his best friend?

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Speaker 1: King too is like a hardcore redditor for short or

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Speaker 1: some someone on his team has to be doing something, so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no way he's not.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my husband's female friend.

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Speaker 2: You are not his best friend. This just seems mean,

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Speaker 2: you know, maybe or maybe not. Maybe she deserves it.

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Speaker 2: Let's see, let's get to actually the TikTok god to

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Speaker 2: decide who is wrong. That's what's right.

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Speaker 1: Long story short, my husband has one of those female friends.

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Speaker 2: What are those females? One of those?

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Speaker 1: I guess it's like someone who's like slyly trying to

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Speaker 1: like you.

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Speaker 2: Know, easel their way in her way in I will

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Speaker 2: call her Sarah Sarah going to the grocery store to

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Speaker 2: buy groceries, Sarah, Oh, disgussing. I would never do such

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Speaker 2: a thing.

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Speaker 1: Per and I get along fine, but every once in

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Speaker 1: a while she'll make a comment or sit a little

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Speaker 1: too close, or touch him a little too much, or

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Speaker 1: touch at my man's or even compete with me on

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Speaker 1: how close they are or how well she knows him. Wow,

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Speaker 1: that's that's a little bit much. That's a little much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't ever want to say to someone else's

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Speaker 2: significant other. Yeah, like he's mind so much more about him? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: do you even know blah blah blah about him? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I bet he would never tell you that told me

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Speaker 2: If that's a line right there, I never tell you that,

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Speaker 2: Oh my God killed me deep in the throes of

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Speaker 2: a passion.

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Speaker 1: Now she's one in a big group of about eleven friends.

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Speaker 1: I've talked to my husband about her several times, but

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Speaker 1: it's so many added up micro actions that it's hard

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Speaker 1: to tell her off for one singular thing without looking crazy.

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Speaker 1: So it's like her things are so tiny that it's

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Speaker 1: like it's weird to call her out for one specific thing.

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Speaker 2: I guess it's one of those situations where it's like

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Speaker 2: you're kind of gauging intent, yeah, and like the person

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Speaker 2: knows how to respect the boundary but also disrespected at

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Speaker 2: the same time. It's like towing the line, towing the line.

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Speaker 2: But like I am of the opinion, and I'll wait

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Speaker 2: to hear the story. But I'm kind of of the

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Speaker 2: opinion that if it sounds crazy to call someone out,

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Speaker 2: then you're probably been crazy, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, but

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Speaker 2: we'll see, we'll see. Well. This past weekend, the group

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Speaker 2: of friends got together for the first time since we

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Speaker 2: were all boosted.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I eloped a few weeks ago, and

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Speaker 1: this was the first time that our friends were really

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Speaker 1: seeing us since we got married. Sarah came right up

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Speaker 1: and got in our face as the group was congratulating us,

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Speaker 1: to tell my husband how disappointed she was in him

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Speaker 1: for not telling her about our ceremony, not inviting her,

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Speaker 1: and not even sending her a photo.

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Speaker 2: No photos, this wants to be included, Sarah.

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Speaker 1: He told her nobody except our parents knew, nobody was invited,

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Speaker 1: and we don't have our professional photos back yet. And

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Speaker 1: then the girl started sobbing how could he do this

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Speaker 1: to her? And she wanted him to be her man

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Speaker 1: of honor when she gets married. She's single, by the way,

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Speaker 1: and he didn't even invite her to his and their

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Speaker 1: friendship now needed some serious TLC to recover.

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Speaker 2: What's TLC tender loving care? Ah, okay, this is in

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Speaker 2: front of a whole group, mind you I feel like that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if no one else is invited, like it's

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Speaker 2: your wedding, you don't owe anyone anything.

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Speaker 1: Exactly right now, I couldn't take it anymore and said,

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Speaker 1: he might be your best friend, but you're not his.

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Speaker 2: That was between me and him.

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Speaker 1: You you weren't even a consideration.

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Speaker 2: Oh that last one.

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Speaker 1: That was the twist, baby, Oh that was the twist

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Speaker 1: of the dagger.

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Speaker 2: Damn bro She's like, I think that's that's a lot,

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Speaker 2: a lot. Both of them are going a little, a

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Speaker 2: little hard man.

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Speaker 1: There was some frosty ooh from the crowd and she

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Speaker 1: left the house. The crowd is split. They were all

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Speaker 1: my husband's friends before I came into the picture, and

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Speaker 1: some think it was uncalled for and that I should

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Speaker 1: have just let my husband handle it.

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Speaker 2: I was mad in the moment, but now I don't know,

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Speaker 2: did I go too far? I think I think they're right.

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Speaker 2: I think they should have let the husband handle it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But honestly, like great burn though great bird, great bird,

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Speaker 2: I will I will applaud the sickness of the burn,

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Speaker 2: but I think, like, I mean, if this is something

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Speaker 2: that has been bothering the the wife, like the husband

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Speaker 2: should have done something about this situation. That's a good

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Speaker 2: point for that's a very good point. I'm just thinking

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Speaker 2: of my my girlfriend Ariyan. I was ever uncomfortable with

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Speaker 2: my relationship with one of my one of my girlfriends

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Speaker 2: like that we would have talks about like what is appropriate, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know between my friend and and I, uh, and you.

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Speaker 1: Have to communicate that to that person then, like yeah,

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Speaker 1: like if it's if it's at that point.

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Speaker 2: Exactly exactly, like like, hey, like, you know, I don't

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Speaker 2: know if I feel really comfortable with how you're acting,

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Speaker 2: and you know, neither is my girlfriend. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 2: I think it's somewhat on the boyfriend in general or

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Speaker 2: on the husband. Yeah, I think it's somewhat. I think

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Speaker 2: it's somewhat on the husband in general. But I also

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Speaker 2: think that, uh, the husband should have spoke up in

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Speaker 2: this situation and and been allowed to to speak up

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Speaker 2: and and say, you know, respond to Sarah himself, any thoughts, John, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I kind of agree with you.

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Speaker 1: I think that he definitely should have said something like

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Speaker 1: if it the thing is that it bothered her, so

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Speaker 1: they should have worked on that. Even if before her

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Speaker 1: like little instances were like too small to be a

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Speaker 1: big deal or whatever, like, they should have had that discussion.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I wonder if Op even brought it up to

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Speaker 2: him yet. That's a good question. If she hasn't, that's

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Speaker 2: a good question. Then that's that's like that's kind of

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Speaker 2: on her. That that's on her. You got to communicate that,

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