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Speaker 1: Oh her name is Maya on TikTok. It's Nashville Maya.

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Speaker 3: So now you owe this money, you owe like fifty

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Speaker 2: So I'm telling you, I like to I've just learned.

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Speaker 1: If y'all looked at my my bank account right now,

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Speaker 1: Neg I know what you're finna do. Hand over that wallet.

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Speaker 2: You know who I'm talking about, the one you went

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Speaker 1: Okay, he wasn't putting me out there like because it's

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about like back in the day. Yeah, that

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00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 1: nigga and then his head was a show. He had

435
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:36,639
Speaker 1: that thing was knocked. Whoa. You know he's been playing

436
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:39,679
Speaker 1: sports since he was a tiny top bitch who he

437
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:40,720
Speaker 1: had a nugget on him.

438
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,080
Speaker 2: Jesus, that's all right.

439
00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:45,440
Speaker 1: He used to be cutting up in the club. We'll

440
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:49,320
Speaker 1: take that part out when I said, when I said, well,

441
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 1: but yes I do. And he had that thing on him.

442
00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 1: I know it. I used to run it up on him.

443
00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:57,159
Speaker 1: I used to run it up on him. But I

444
00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,119
Speaker 1: mean all jokes aside could set isn't a joke. But

445
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 1: getting back to the financial niggas ain't got it no more.

446
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 1: You need to be the BDB. We don't talk about

447
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 1: bdb's no more because we became the bdb's And I

448
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:11,400
Speaker 1: think that's important. You don't don't stunt your growth by

449
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 1: waiting on somebody. Uh I had you gonna be trying

450
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,960
Speaker 1: to get child supports and you know what, I was

451
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 1: talking to a family member or intended family member the

452
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 1: other day, and it's a family member I really don't

453
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 1: talk to that much. And I was telling her, how

454
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,399
Speaker 1: you know I bought a home and it's late. Everybody

455
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,440
Speaker 1: knows I bought it. I mean, that's my personality trait.

456
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,640
Speaker 1: Now I don't give a fuck cause I made it.

457
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:37,680
Speaker 1: But she was like, why did you get a house?

458
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 1: You need to wait till you have a man. Who huh?

459
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,360
Speaker 1: Why why? Because guess what. The more money you make

460
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 1: is investments. Me getting a man. That ain't gonna stop

461
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:51,640
Speaker 1: me because we can get something else together. I'm gonna

462
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,719
Speaker 1: rent this bitch out. Stop waiting on people to do

463
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:56,919
Speaker 1: things that you want to do. And I know the

464
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Speaker 1: things that we used to talk about on Poor Minds,

465
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Speaker 1: but we ain't talking about it now. You know what

466
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

467
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,360
Speaker 3: I have I say this all the time in real

468
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 3: life and I can't remember if I said it on

469
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,679
Speaker 3: the show before. But again, smart people change their minds

470
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 3: all the time. Like nobody can't ever make me feel

471
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,959
Speaker 3: bad about changing my mind about a lot of things,

472
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 3: or saying, oh, y'all be contradicting y'all sills because y'all

473
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 3: used to say these five years ago, or y'all used

474
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 3: to say these four years ago. Beat you am I

475
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 3: the same person I was five years ago. No, have

476
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:28,439
Speaker 3: I grown and evolved, absolutely, and I've changed my fucking

477
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 3: mind about a lot of time.

478
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Speaker 1: Jeesh, mom, mind.

479
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 3: Okay, but no, for real, Like I think, if you're

480
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 3: intelligent and you're constantly growing and evolving as a person,

481
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,919
Speaker 3: you're always changing your mind. So it's okay to not

482
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 3: be on the same shit you was on four or

483
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:47,640
Speaker 3: five years ago.

484
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 1: People like that are actually like terrifying.

485
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 3: You still think the same that you thought when you

486
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,439
Speaker 3: was twenty seven twenty eight years old. Where's the growth?

487
00:22:55,880 --> 00:23:00,680
Speaker 3: Where's the accountability? Agree, where's the responsibility? So I feel like, yeah,

488
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,360
Speaker 3: we definitely used to talk about a lot of shit,

489
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 3: and the tone of the show used to be a

490
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 3: little different when we were younger, especially in respect.

491
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: To dating and stuff like that.

492
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:12,400
Speaker 3: But like we've grown a lot as people, we've grown

493
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 3: a lot as.

494
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,400
Speaker 1: Business with me and we bost these now.

495
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 3: So yeah, it's like I look at dating from a

496
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 3: whole different perspective than I used to look at it

497
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 3: when I was like talking to dudes because oh I

498
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 3: knew that you had money, Like now I don't give

499
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,719
Speaker 3: them because you're gonna have the money regardless, But do

500
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 3: I like you?

501
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: Right? That's what mattered? Speak do? I like you? Are

502
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 1: you a good person? Cause aren't you a good person?

503
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 1: You don't have the money today need? But that shit

504
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: don't matter for real, But for real.

505
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Speaker 3: I hate when people say that, Like I think it's

506
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 3: so annoying because I see that a lot about us

507
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 3: and like other you know, influencers and media personalities online

508
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 3: people are always like, oh, well, you be contradicting yourself,

509
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 3: for that's not what she was saying two years ago.

510
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: Beat it was two years ago. Let it go.

511
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 2: I'm a different person than I was last week. I

512
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 2: started your.

513
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 1: I do qu I do? That's why it takes one

514
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 1: of no one. Hey, I'm saying I have ct no

515
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:27,719
Speaker 1: because I said I can eyeball work and let me

516
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 1: switch topics real quick. Y'all know I'm a scroller on

517
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 1: TikTok and I saw canceled podcasts did their last episode.

518
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 1: I know you're probably not familiar with them. Uh, Tanna,

519
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how to say her last name. Mong you.

520
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 1: I hope I said it right. And Brooke Schofield it's

521
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:50,199
Speaker 1: two of our sisters and they've had a podcast for

522
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,879
Speaker 1: a really long time and they finally ended it.

523
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 2: Now mind you.

524
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: I have spoke out against them a few times just

525
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: because Brooks was They both said a lot of like

526
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: stuff that's like, hold on now, a little racy, you know.

527
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 1: I don't like to call people racist, but it was

528
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 1: just like day. But outside of that, I love to

529
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: call people racist if they were, and I won't necessarily

530
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: say that, but outside of that, I was watching a

531
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 1: clip from their final episode because I used to listen

532
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: to their podcast, like long long time ago, when I

533
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: used to actually indulge when I was doing more like

534
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: research and stuff. I don't really listen to podcasts now.

535
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: But I was watching a clip of their episode and

536
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 1: it made me so fucking sad because it made me

537
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 1: sad because I was like, oh my gosh, like everything

538
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 1: comes to an end, but they ended it good, like

539
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: when they were at their peak. But I'm like, oh

540
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 1: my gosh, what is that gonna be? Like knock on

541
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: wood when we do our last episode? But I like

542
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: the fact that they did it on their terms. What

543
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 1: was the reason? Though I'm not gonna lie, the last

544
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: year has been really rough for them. They've gotten a

545
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 1: lot of hate they've got, But honestly, what I took

546
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 1: from it cause I haven't listened in a long time.

547
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 1: What I took from it is that they just wanted

548
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 1: to move on to different things. I think Tanna is

549
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: moving to she has a house in la I think

550
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 1: she's moving to Hawaii, if I'm not mistaken. And I

551
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 1: think they just they're ready for the next chapter. And

552
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 1: they're young, they're younger, they're younger than us, and you know,

553
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 1: things are different for our sisters. And she's been popular

554
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: on YouTube for like years. But it was just like,

555
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 1: oh my gosh. But I think they did it the

556
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: right way because I think they saw things kind of

557
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:31,679
Speaker 1: going left and like, you know what, let's end on

558
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 1: the hall horse, you know what I'm saying. But it

559
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: was just like, oh my gosh, one day we're gonna

560
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 1: have our last episode, cause it's gonna be like, hey,

561
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: it's time to move on. And it was like, oh

562
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: my god. It made me really like I started getting emotional.

563
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: Cloth what am I gonna do if I'm not sitting

564
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: on this couch with you?

565
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I guess I just always that's true, that's true.

566
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 3: But I think I look at things from a perspective

567
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 3: of when something ends, something better always comes. Oh my gosh,

568
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 3: just making me sad.

569
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: So nothing.

570
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 3: I know, I know, but it like nothing ever really

571
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 3: ends for real, you know, like it's just always something

572
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 3: else coming. I think I have to even with us,

573
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 3: like with poor Mind's Like when poor minds ends, it's

574
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 3: gonna be because we're doing something.

575
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,160
Speaker 1: Of course way bigger, So.

576
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 3: It is gonna be sad, and I'm sure we're both

577
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 3: gonna cry like Todd.

578
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: So we're all gonna be up here, Oh my god,

579
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: but it's gonna be like.

580
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 3: We're all gonna be up in this bitch crime. It

581
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 3: is gonna be years from now. But yeah, like I

582
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 3: think when that does happen, it's going to be because

583
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 3: the natural progression of things is this next big thing,

584
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 3: Like we're bigger than the podcast now right now, right,

585
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna we're bigger than the podcast now. It's probably

586
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 3: gonna be like a television production or it's going to

587
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 3: be something much bigger than these are, bigger than we

588
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 3: could even fathom. So I think you have to look

589
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 3: at the ending of things in that way.

590
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, but I realized too.

591
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: I think like when we like buy our like forever home,

592
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: not in a case for them, No, Yeah, I have

593
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 1: to I think I gotta be in your neighborhood. All

594
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: we get our dream houses. Yeah, I can't. I don't

595
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 1: like I mean honestly with me moving like it's cool

596
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: you hate, yeah, because I like just knowing that you're

597
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 1: right there. In case I don't like. I do love

598
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 1: where I live.

599
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 2: I love my home.

600
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: My home is gorgeous. By the way, y'all, I changed

601
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: my lighting in my house. It's so ty. But anyways,

602
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: I haven't been sorry, Cybor. I haven't been taking shots

603
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: like for the past few weeks. I just been I

604
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: really am trying to stop.

605
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 3: Drinking hard liquor like that and mostly just drink like

606
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,239
Speaker 3: champagne and wine. But I was like, fuck it, it's

607
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 3: our last episode of the day. I want take a shot.

608
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 3: Is she strongest?

609
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 1: It's good though, But back to you with your beautiful home.

610
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. My home is beautiful, and can I just

611
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: my bathroom is so big that when I take a shower,

612
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: my mirrors don't fall up. I realized that this morning

613
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: I get out and I can look at I can

614
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: see myself. Yoh, okay. I love my home, but I

615
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: do not like not living next to you. Oh that's

616
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 1: gonna make me cry and no, I'm serious. No, But

617
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: I say that to say because like when the pod,

618
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: because I'm.

619
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 3: Weird that you don't live next door anymore though, because

620
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 3: you know, I go on my walks every day for

621
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 3: the most part, and every time I walk past your building,

622
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh. But then I'd be like, don't

623
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 3: live there no more?

624
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: Look it up my way. But no, the reason it

625
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: brought things into perspective for me. And I know we

626
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: get along with it about this, but I said, you

627
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: know what I said, whenever we retire, or whenever poor

628
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 1: Mind's ends, or whenever you buy or we buy or

629
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 1: whatever you buy, like dream home, because like right now,

630
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 1: I'm in my dream home, but it's not my forever home.

631
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: It's my dream home for right now. Whenever we are

632
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: in the space to buy a dream home, we gotta

633
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: be in the same neighborhood. Bro, it has to. I'm sorry,

634
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: I can't. I don't like it. I'm not saying we.

635
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:15,959
Speaker 2: Gotta be next door.

636
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: I got to I can be able to jog, take

637
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: a little walk, and I got to knock on your door.

638
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: Yeah that is. I feel like I'm cool with that.

639
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 3: But the only problem with that is you'll be talking

640
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 3: about you want to retire and live in the country,

641
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 3: and that just that ain't eat for me.

642
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: Boy, You're gonna have your vacation if somebody gonna be

643
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: your neighbor. An you don't want to respiyer in the

644
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: beautiful fields and have a farm and guardields. Garden farm

645
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: was cotton. I ate my basil. I grew some basil

646
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: and I ate it.

647
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 3: And you can grow basil in the city, Army, Okay,

648
00:30:58,480 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 3: I don't want a farm.

649
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 1: You you can have basil in the city. Okay, in

650
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: the city. You can have basil in the city. You

651
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: don't have to be on a farm from basil in

652
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: some time.

653
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 2: But I want like a big garden.

654
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 1: I want like a big because I want like I

655
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: want lemon trees. Avocado trees take years to go. But

656
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: I want like I don't want a regular garden. I

657
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: want like I need. I'm gonna need at least I'm

658
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: gonna need some acres. I'm gonna need some acres for

659
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 1: the type of garden I want. But I'm also gonna

660
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 1: have like a staff to help me with it, because

661
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be I want to get to the point

662
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: to where I'm growing my food, and I gotta go

663
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: to a meat market because I keep pork on my fork.

664
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Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what y'all say, but well,

665
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 1: I won't say nothing. Don't and don't. I never say nothing.

666
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: I just look at and you shouldn't.

667
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 2: That's all right, though, that's all right.

668
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 1: But I eventually want to get to the point to

669
00:31:56,120 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: like my vegetables, my fruits, my herbs are coming from

670
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: my garden, but everything that I eat is gonna take

671
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: a lot of space.

672
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 3: Well, I feel like when I say the city, right, like,

673
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 3: I don't really necessarily mean living in the city because,

674
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 3: to be honest, like I feel like I'm gonna buy.

675
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: Something within the next six months to a year.

676
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 3: I want to get an investment property yep, that I

677
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 3: can rent out, and then I also want to get

678
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 3: like my own home.

679
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: I'm tired of living in the city. It'd be too

680
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: damn noise.

681
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 3: That's how I know I've grown and evolved a lot

682
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 3: as a woman, because when I first moved to Atlanta, like,

683
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 3: I've been living in the city majority of the time, well,

684
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 3: the whole time I've been living here, Like I lived

685
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 3: in Atlantic Station first for a year and then for

686
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 3: the past seven eight years, I've been living in Midtown.

687
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: Money, I had to walk to the east side. Girl,

688
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: shut up.

689
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 3: For real, Like, I've been living in Midtown for the

690
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 3: past eight years, and it's so noisy. It's so loud,

691
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 3: and it's so fucking noisy. Like it's always some soirens

692
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 3: going off. It's always some crackheads walking down the street.

693
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's what they do. Somebody got shot.

694
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 3: Somebody got shot like five six months ago, right across

695
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 3: the street from my house. And I live in like

696
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 3: a nice like I live in meantime like area. But yeah,

697
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 3: it's just it's city living. I feel like you just

698
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 3: never know what can happen, and I'm just over it,

699
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 3: Like I want something a little more peaceful quiet. So

700
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 3: I think where you live is a good medium. I

701
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 3: think like Alpharetta is a good medium. I feel like

702
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 3: Sandy Springs is a good medium. Alpharetta is kind of

703
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 3: far but I feel like what I like about it

704
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 3: is that they have the avalon over there and have

705
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 3: a lot of things to do, right, So it's like

706
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 3: it's a lot of things that you can still do

707
00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 3: in that area to where you don't need to necessarily

708
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 3: come back into the CD all the time here where

709
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,479
Speaker 3: our studio is. At this area, I feel like you

710
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 3: can't really do shit over here.

711
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: Yes, city, you can go to Del tacover here.

712
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: I was really about to say it's a food, doesn't exactly,

713
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: it's a desert, especially if you somebody who like prioritizes

714
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: clean eating and things like that.

715
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 3: It's not as much access over here like that.

716
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: So you need Dell Taco, isn't it. You just proved

717
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: our pointment. It's a taco, it's a Popeye's, it's a KFC.

718
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 1: That's somebody whenever we order call of that shit takes

719
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: like an hour to get here. And I will say, honestly,

720
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: I'm glad I did the High Ras living, but a

721
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 1: year was enough for me. I think that country girl

722
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: and me came out. I'm in the woods, I see greenery,

723
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: I see trees, it's quiet. My neighbor. My neighbor put

724
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: up is halloween stuff. And we were chatting, like, that's

725
00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 1: why you're gonna put up Halloween.

726
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 2: I am, now I don't.

727
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get some little stuff, but I'm too focused

728
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: on getting my house decorated, so I know next year,

729
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 1: I'm really gonna decorate, but I'm gonna get some little stuff.

730
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,959
Speaker 1: But my funds is going to the house right now.

731
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,879
Speaker 1: And I honestly I've been putting money towards my principal too.

732
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to pay this motherfuckerf like I did the calculations. Yeah,

733
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: this thing's gonna be mine in five years for show

734
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 1: for show. Well, we ain't even get in because we

735
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 1: never get ye. So before we do that, Ty will

736
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: be drinking today. Right.

737
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:40,720
Speaker 3: So, because we've been talking about elevation and Q four,

738
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 3: this one we're gonna call the Great lock in because

739
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 3: we all getting focused. We got to end this year

740
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 3: on a blast, on a great note with a blast,

741
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 3: and this one is different.

742
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 1: So this one has some piasco. It's kind of like

743
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 1: a play on a piasco sour if you've ever had that.

744
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: If not, Pisco is a spirit and it's made in

745
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: South America. This one is from Chile, kind of like

746
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 1: if you take a shot of it, it's kind of

747
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: like a mix of vodka, rum and tequila kind of together.

748
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,280
Speaker 1: But it has some pisco, it has some dragon fruit syrup,

749
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 1: it has some lime juice, and then I use an

750
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 1: egg white. So that's where you get that frothiness from

751
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 1: that little velvety texture in it. And then we have

752
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: some pink dragon fruit as the garnage, so very cute.

753
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 3: I decorated the top of the cocktail as well. And

754
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,320
Speaker 3: this is the great Lockey, y'all.

755
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:34,359
Speaker 1: This is good market. Yeah. Love motherfucker. Okay, first, let's

756
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Speaker 1: shout out taylor Port. Our family at taylor Port. Thank

757
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Speaker 1: you so much for usual sponsoring this episode.

758
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Speaker 3: Do you have a por Yeah, shout out to taylor Port,

759
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 3: because one thing about it is tailor Port. Will I

760
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 3: be saying it's gonna make you Teleport because as y'all

761
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 3: can see, we a little tiptoe and let me think,

762
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 3: what is my poor decision for this week? I guess

763
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 3: we can go with the theme of like what the

764
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 3: everything we was just talking about, like still living in

765
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:02,720
Speaker 3: the city.

766
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: I hate it.

767
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 3: It'd be so damn loud once he is tired, I'll

768
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 3: be having to put earplugs in when I go to sleep.

769
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: I'll clear motherfuckers out. I'll clear them out. I appreciate it.

770
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 3: I might have to take you up on it because

771
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 3: I beside.

772
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,879
Speaker 1: Child, I'll be over there, like, get me out of here.

773
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: My poor decision this week is not telling the motherfucker

774
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: where they had me fucked up at. Yeah, because you

775
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: know what, I think, like I had a situation in

776
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: the past, and I think he just thinks, like, you know,

777
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 1: we just went our separate ways. No, bitch, you traumatize

778
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 1: me and you're a bitch and we will never be cool.

779
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 1: And thank God, I am one of God's children and

780
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:56,840
Speaker 1: I'm always on his side. But don't never think that

781
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: you have access to me and shit is cool, But

782
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 1: that's my because I should have told you you got

783
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: me fucked up. And I think a lot of times

784
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: I try to be like, oh, I'm the cool girl. Hey,

785
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: it's cool, I'm not hurt. Take the bigger, take the

786
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: high road. No. Sometimes sometimes no, you don't need to

787
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 1: take the high road. Sometimes you gotta let people know

788
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: you got me fucked up. You're actually a horrible person,

789
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 1: and I don't wish bad on you, but you were

790
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 1: a actual shitty person to me. So that's my poor

791
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 1: decision is not letting that motherfucker that know that he

792
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 1: had me fucked up because something had happened. I'm just like,

793
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 1: are you are you insane? Cutting off access.

794
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 3: I feel like we all have been guilty of that

795
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 3: before because I been feeling the same way. Sometimes I

796
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 3: feel like I let people know where they got me

797
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 3: fucked up at. But then I because, like you said,

798
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 3: you know, you always want to be like.

799
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: Oh, you know, I'm cool.

800
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 3: I'm over it, And I do get over it really easily,

801
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 3: to be honest, I really do. I don't really stay

802
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 3: mad at people for long periods of time about love.

803
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 3: But in doing that, I feel like that makes people

804
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 3: think that like shit all good or they all's forgiving,

805
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 3: and it's like, I remember that you had me fucked

806
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 3: up and I really should have completely denied access forever.

807
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 1: But I let you back in. Yeah, because I'm overy.

808
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, But just because I'm over it, don't mean I

809
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 3: gotta let you back in.

810
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

811
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 3: I don't funk with you, Like I don't got to

812
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 3: prove to you that I'm cool. I don't got to

813
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 3: prove to you that like I don't care or like

814
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:35,359
Speaker 3: it's not a big deal.

815
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 1: It's fine if you think that I don't fuck with

816
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:45,879
Speaker 1: you because I don't bitch. Yeah. Yeah, So what's short time?

817
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 1: I took a very high dose edible.

818
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 3: I was out of there and I needed to get

819
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff done.

820
00:39:56,600 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 1: Yeah that was on Monday. I woke up on Tuesday. Yeah,

821
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: y'all know, I saw a post that said smoking weed

822
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 1: a lot can cause schizophrenia. And they've done, like they've

823
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: ran tests on people and like a lot of people

824
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:17,240
Speaker 1: who have schizophrenia at a young age, they are weed

825
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 1: smokers because it does something to the chemical balance in

826
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 1: your brain. It helps them, No, it takes it. Yeah, yeah,

827
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 1: like if you because like schizophrenia is something that's like

828
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,280
Speaker 1: kind of I don't want to say in his genext

829
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 1: because that's not what he said, but he said a

830
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 1: lot of times it like either speeds it up, or

831
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 1: it triggers it, or it does something to like certain people.

832
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:37,959
Speaker 1: But a lot of things that they've noticed and people

833
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: who have schizophrenia is that they smoke weed.

834
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 3: I do be feeling like I'm in different dimensions sometimes

835
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 3: and I was in five different dimensions.

836
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: Baby mm hmm. How don't be careful with that goanja weed.

837
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: That's why I say give me that rich, I don't

838
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 1: give me that booboo. You're not.

839
00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 3: Weed is something that I have to do like every

840
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 3: once in a while. Every once in a while, it's cool.

841
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 3: I can't do it all the time because I'm too

842
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 3: much of a person who like to be in control

843
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 3: of every game. And I think that when you smoke weed,

844
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 3: you don't have no control, Like you don't know when

845
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 3: the high gonna come down.

846
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,479
Speaker 1: You don't know how high you gonna get, like.

847
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 3: You know, like I think even with liquor, I've been

848
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 3: drinking long enough to where I know, like, okay, this

849
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 3: amount of shots, it's gonna get you to where I.

850
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 1: Need to be. This one might take me over there,

851
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 1: you know.

852
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 3: I feel like with weed, you just really playing Russian roulette,

853
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,240
Speaker 3: like you don't know. And then I'll try to cross fade.

854
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:43,720
Speaker 3: I don't mind it. I'll drink and take an edible.

855
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 3: Usually I'm okay because I do a lower dose. But

856
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,800
Speaker 3: that one, it just it wasn't the right one.

857
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 1: Now, so I'm drunk and I could not keep my

858
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 1: eyes open. Bro, they felt like they were disconnected from that.

859
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: It's not disconnected.

860
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 2: Okay, well those are our poor decisions.

861
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 1: Shout out to port what's up, y'all?

862
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 3: We are back again with another business spotlight, and today

863
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 3: we have.

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Speaker 1: Kendri Or Strong, the founder of Rooted Revival. We have

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Speaker 1: heard here with us today on the college. Hey girl,

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Speaker 1: thanks for having me. Oh my gosh, we're so excited.

867
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Speaker 1: We are too. I'm super excited too. And I do

868
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Speaker 1: want to say because I feel like black women in

869
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Speaker 1: our hair, Yeah it is. It's a big thing. It

870
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Speaker 1: is a love story. Yes, it really is. And I

871
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, growing up, you know, we permed

872
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Speaker 1: our hair. We did this, we did the big chop.

873
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Speaker 1: And so IM want to start from beginning. What made

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Speaker 1: you start rooted revival.

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Speaker 5: Actually, I have been in the beauty industry for fifteen years, okay,

876
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Speaker 5: and I've led product innovation, marketing, commercialization.

877
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Speaker 1: Oh wow.

878
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Speaker 5: And around thirty seven, I was a c sweet executive

879
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 5: and I kind of had that burnout, you know, yeah,

880
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 5: did I climbed the corporate ladder, did all the things,

881
00:42:58,239 --> 00:42:59,799
Speaker 5: and I kind of want to just take a year

882
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 5: back and really buyd myself again.

883
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Speaker 6: And I was ready to walk away from beauty altogether.

884
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Speaker 5: But after taking some time off and really reconnecting with

885
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Speaker 5: my passion, I realized that there's a lot of opportunity

886
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:18,280
Speaker 5: for products that really focused on breakage and specifically tightly

887
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 5: textured hair. A lot of times we talk about all

888
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 5: texture moisture is really the buzzword now, But the structure

889
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 5: of our hair is very different, and I think it

890
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 5: was the opportunity for us to really really focus on

891
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 5: what causes breakage and how can we really fix that

892
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 5: from the inside out. Myself, I was struggling with iron deficiency.

893
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:42,399
Speaker 5: Oh so my strand was very fragile, very weak. It

894
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 5: broke very often, and a lot of medications caused that.

895
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 5: So I really wanted something that goes beyond moisture, that

896
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Speaker 5: we can really feel like we're doing something good and

897
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Speaker 5: treating our hair from the inside out.

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad you said that because I deal with

899
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Speaker 1: that iron deficiency. That's why I'm ball here that that

900
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Speaker 1: makes sense now, So talk about your products and like

901
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,479
Speaker 1: what you have that focuses on breakage and things.

902
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, so we have our cutical mending peptide shampoo, okay,

903
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 5: and we started with the cutal cool. The hair strain

904
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 5: itself has three layers. The outer layer is the cuticle.

905
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:18,720
Speaker 5: That's really where you start to see the main difference

906
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Speaker 5: in textured hair and where porosity lives.

907
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Speaker 1: So you're here.

908
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 5: A lot of people say high perosity low proosity, which

909
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:31,720
Speaker 5: really just means, you know, how close the cuticol scales

910
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 5: lay on top of each other kind of like a roof.

911
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 5: You know, if it has more gaps in it, you

912
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 5: probably have high perosity. If it's very compact that you

913
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:43,879
Speaker 5: have a low prosity, and think about high perosoity hair

914
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 5: is the morsture comes in, but it also escapes very easily, right,

915
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,720
Speaker 5: And so our product really focuses on that cutic cool layer.

916
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 5: You apply to product, it mends and fills in those

917
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 5: gaps and then also helped with the tangling and intensively

918
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 5: strengthen it with peptides, which is really a building block

919
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 5: of hair already, and so it goes in with plant

920
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 5: based pep ties to strengthen the hair at an extra

921
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 5: protective layer onto the hair to help reinforce the strand

922
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Speaker 5: and minimize the breakage. And we're clinically proven to minimize

923
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Speaker 5: breakage by sixty percent. Wow, we've done all the tests,

924
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Speaker 5: We tested all the people. So we had a testing

925
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Speaker 5: group of sixty women and we were able to get

926
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Speaker 5: the claim of being reducing brakish by sixty percent after

927
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 5: your first wash and actually making their hair stronger and

928
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 5: more resistant to help you go through your washday.

929
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Speaker 3: Okay, right, I really wanted to ask you because having

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Speaker 3: high porosity hair is normal when you have like tighter

931
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:45,879
Speaker 3: coiled hair, correct.

932
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 5: Yes and no, So I would say when you have

933
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Speaker 5: tighter cold hair, it really doesn't.

934
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Speaker 6: That really is not a determined of the process.

935
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 5: Okay, so someone can have tightly coiled hair and that's

936
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 5: really just you know how often the hair bends, and

937
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 5: every times it bends is an opportunity for breakage. But

938
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Speaker 5: the actual porosity deals with the cuticle. And what we

939
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 5: do know is afro descendant hair has typically a higher

940
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Speaker 5: porosity point. So I would say your porosity is linked

941
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 5: to the type of treatments you do to your hair.

942
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 5: So if you do a lot of chemical treatments, whether

943
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Speaker 5: it's color or chemical straightening, heat can add and increase

944
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Speaker 5: the damage to the cutical layer and add to the porosity.

945
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 5: But afro descended hair is just naturally higher in porosity.

946
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 5: Most of the time it has less cutical scales, which

947
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 5: is nothing wrong with that, but we do want to

948
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Speaker 5: understand that, you know, using a product that say all texture,

949
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 5: that's great, and when you're using things for moreture, that's great.

950
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 5: But we know if we're knowing that our strand is

951
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 5: actually a little bit more fragile. We want to make

952
00:46:55,600 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 5: sure that we're using those bioactives like pelp ties, teens,

953
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 5: vitamins that can actually put the nutrients.

954
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Speaker 1: Back into the hair.

955
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, And so what was your process like when

956
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 3: when you were formulating all of your products?

957
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 1: Like is everything all natural?

958
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:16,320
Speaker 5: So yeah, we're a plant based so we use plant

959
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 5: based at divs and bioadtips. So I definitely love at

960
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 5: home remedy. You know, I'm a girlfriend the South, So

961
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 5: I love an aloe, you know, Grandma a.

962
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: Little capstule on a South you know, I love that.

963
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 5: Yes, But I'd like to say that we're clinical holistic,

964
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 5: and so the process for me is looking for ingredients

965
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 5: that are plant based that goes beyond some of our

966
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 5: topical treatments. And so what I typically do is write

967
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 5: a product brief. I work with biochemists and say, hey,

968
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:56,760
Speaker 5: I want something that can really treat the cutical level level.

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00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 1: What do we have?

970
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 5: And then we'll say, okay, peptides up tides are smaller

971
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 5: than protein. They're actually the building block of protein, and

972
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 5: so they that's what proteins get their strengths from, right,

973
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 5: And so we'll talk about Okay, what type of plant

974
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 5: derived peptize exists and that has a high affinity with hair.

975
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 5: And that's what bioatdom means. It means that it's biologically

976
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 5: active with whatever host that is given to and in

977
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 5: this case, it's here. And so we're trying to find

978
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:33,959
Speaker 5: plant based bioactive ingredients that can really restore the hair.

979
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 5: And that's typically the process I identify typically the problem

980
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 5: because most of the time, you know, when you have

981
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 5: a problem, you're not like what ingredient can I put

982
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 5: on my hair? You're just like, I need to solve

983
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 5: this problem, right, And so it's really working with chemists myself.

984
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: We're at the table.

985
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 5: We're discussing all the everything that we can do what

986
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 5: can really penetrate the hair, then taking that to the salon,

987
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 5: the tests area, testing the product, going to the clinical study.

988
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 5: Once we feel like we have a good product. That

989
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 5: can take roughly eight months of clinical study to make

990
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 5: sure that it's reducing breakage. If you have a claim

991
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 5: of growth, if you have a claim up and I'm

992
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 5: big on claims. Everything is not claim testing. But if

993
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 5: I tell you it's gonna work, I needed to work.

994
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,240
Speaker 5: And so that process along. Once we finish clinical testing

995
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 5: and finally get to the commercialization stage where we're really

996
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 5: to put it in the bottle and do all the

997
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 5: fun stuff. That process for me took a year and

998
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 5: a half of testing, making sure we have the right products,

999
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,280
Speaker 5: making sure that is like you said, plant to ride,

1000
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 5: that is safe, none toxic, and you can really feel

1001
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 5: good and safe about the products that you're put in

1002
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 5: your hair.

1003
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 3: Okay, period, that's part of with the testing process, because

1004
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 3: a year and a half that is a long that's a.

1005
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:53,439
Speaker 6: Long That is a long time.

1006
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 5: Our formers are proprietary, and you know, in the beauty

1007
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 5: energy in general, you know, owning your own formula is

1008
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 5: a big deal. So going to you know, working with

1009
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 5: the chemists and saying hey, this is what I want

1010
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 5: to do. Of course they're gonna first give you, you know,

1011
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 5: all the formulas that already exist, and you say, no,

1012
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 5: I want to build one, you know, from ground up.

1013
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 6: You know that process.

1014
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 5: If you're doing it safe and you're doing it well,

1015
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 5: and you're not doing it at home in your kitchen,

1016
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:20,399
Speaker 5: you say I really want to go to.

1017
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:21,280
Speaker 6: A mass production.

1018
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 5: That process does take you know a long time to

1019
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 5: get it right.

1020
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: So the argument I have seen online for years. Is

1021
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 1: it's half the people saying, oh, your hair is just genetics.

1022
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what products you use. Either you have

1023
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 1: hair that's gonna grow and it's thick or not. And

1024
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:41,839
Speaker 1: then the other half is like, no, if you do

1025
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: this to your hair, it'll get healthier, it'll grow longer.

1026
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: So what's the truth.

1027
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 6: I think it's fifty to fifty.

1028
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 5: Okay, me personally, I think there is structural differences in

1029
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 5: all that hair. We can all say that, you know,

1030
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 5: we have eyes, you know we get them with the okabc,

1031
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,879
Speaker 5: we have eyes. There is a structural differ. But then

1032
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 5: there is still the maintenance of the hair, right. I

1033
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,440
Speaker 5: think you know, consistency plays a big deal as well.

1034
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 5: There are different ingredients that you can apply to actually

1035
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 5: help the hair, and then there are things that you

1036
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 5: know you're just genetically born, where if you have high

1037
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 5: perosity hair, you have low perosity hair, then that's just

1038
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 5: part of the hair structure. Once you identify the things

1039
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 5: that are fragile about your hair, what's strong about your hair,

1040
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 5: then you can come out with the customized regimen that

1041
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:30,919
Speaker 5: really helps with the hair health. So I personally think

1042
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 5: it's fifty to fifty. I think, to me, the biggest

1043
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 5: factor in haircare is consistency. You know, I'm gonna protect

1044
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 5: a stylid girly myself. You know, sometimes on a good day,

1045
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 5: you know, a good month, I went two weeks before

1046
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 5: I washed my hair, you know, if that's what I

1047
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 5: was about to ask you, Yes, sometimes I recommend, you know,

1048
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 5: when I got back on my game, I'll do like

1049
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 5: two to four weeks, never going more than the month. Okay,

1050
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,280
Speaker 5: but you know sometimes you know, you get a little lazy.

1051
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 5: That wash they a little past dude. So I definitely

1052
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 5: think you need to be more consistent. I think consistency

1053
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:13,720
Speaker 5: can really ending repetition. You know, having a good regiment,

1054
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 5: just like skin can't skincare. I think of it as

1055
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 5: the skinnification of hair. You know, do you have a

1056
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 5: regimen for your skin care? Same thing. You know, you

1057
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 5: wouldn't just apply oils to your skin and assume.

1058
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 1: That it will be okay.

1059
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 5: So you do want to have, you know, something that's

1060
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,799
Speaker 5: structurally healthy. You want to have a good seiling, a

1061
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 5: good moisturizer, you want to have a good cleanser, and

1062
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 5: just have that consistent regimen. I think that coupled with

1063
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 5: knowing your hair intimately will help with overhall hair health.

1064
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 3: So could you talk, could you touch a little bit

1065
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 3: more on that, because I know, especially in the black community,

1066
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 3: like I'll always see girls that are like, oh, I

1067
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 3: don't wash my hair for two moneys, three moneys, or

1068
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 3: I'll just leave it braided up because I feel like leaving.

1069
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: It alone it will row.

1070
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 3: For what you're saying is you need to have a

1071
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:03,919
Speaker 3: consistent regime that you're doing.

1072
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:07,959
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think, and you do exactly what you're saying.

1073
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 5: I always disclaimer, do what's best for you, Okay, all right,

1074
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 5: do it what's best for you.

1075
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:15,319
Speaker 6: And I paired that too as well, Like you know,

1076
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 6: you know your hair if.

1077
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 5: You think you know going six months, I mean not

1078
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:32,360
Speaker 5: six month, but.

1079
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 1: Right they a different wing on top, but for real,

1080
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: for real.

1081
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,760
Speaker 5: But you know, if that's your jam, that's your jam.

1082
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:37,919
Speaker 1: Okay. But I have.

1083
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 5: Seen just through different studies myself included, a healthy scalp

1084
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 5: gives you a healthy foundation. It's not necessarily all ways

1085
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 5: about the hair is the foundation. And so our product

1086
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 5: is a deep cleansing treatment to really make sure that

1087
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:58,240
Speaker 5: you're clearing that build up off of the scalp, making

1088
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 5: sure that you are actually get into the root of

1089
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,760
Speaker 5: the hair and giving room for your hair to breathe,

1090
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 5: your scalp to breathe, for a healthy, healthy hair to

1091
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 5: come out of follow Coole and I also say, I mean,

1092
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 5: I don't know many things in this world that can

1093
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 5: grow without water, right, Okay, So at some point I

1094
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,839
Speaker 5: think even a plan or something, you know, I think

1095
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 5: you really want to get in the place of really

1096
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:27,760
Speaker 5: treating your hair, and that's gonna help with moisture retention

1097
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 5: as well. So I would say, you know, never go

1098
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 5: without go more than six weeks. If you're in a

1099
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 5: protected style, try to stay within a month, and if

1100
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 5: you can, if you're really good, be on that two

1101
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 5: weeks you have tight test your hair. I have tightly

1102
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 5: testured hair. Two weeks can be a little rough. If

1103
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 5: you are not properly detangling the hair properly, you can

1104
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 5: cause more breakage. So I would say, as long as

1105
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:55,800
Speaker 5: you're not going more than you know four to six weeks,

1106
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,720
Speaker 5: you know, giving yourself time to actually maintain ain't a regiment.

1107
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 1: I think that you're fine. Okay. I'm glad you said that,

1108
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 1: because that's me. I'll be feeling like I leave my

1109
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 1: hair braided up, and I'm like, oh, I know it's

1110
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 1: finna be long. Then I take it out of it

1111
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,240
Speaker 1: all it'd be breaking off.

1112
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,879
Speaker 3: But you know, the thing is that I learned over

1113
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 3: the past few years, a lot of the time women

1114
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 3: don't wash their hair while they still have the brazen. Like,

1115
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 3: you still should wash it while you have the brazen.

1116
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 3: You should still do protein treats off.

1117
00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:28,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, Now you.

1118
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 5: Get in there and make sure that you're really drying

1119
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 5: it as well, you know what I mean, because you

1120
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,719
Speaker 5: don't have any mildew under there, all right, and it

1121
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 5: be that build up at the roof and making people

1122
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 5: hair break off.

1123
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 1: May I put that water on it and I with the bag.

1124
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 6: Yes, And you can use the sheffield.

1125
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 5: You can dilute it, you know, put it in a

1126
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 5: applicator bottle, whatever your favorite product is. Of course, I'm

1127
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 5: gonna say us for the revival, but I'm all about

1128
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 5: using what's best for you. Dilute your shampool, put in

1129
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 5: that applicator bottle, Go ahead and wash it while you're

1130
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 5: in your so winds in your braids. Make sure you're

1131
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 5: rented well and just you know, make sure you dry it.

1132
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 5: You don't want to have meldew.

1133
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 2: Let me ask you what I want to know.

1134
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: What is your hair? What is your hair routine? Like

1135
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 1: you said, we have a skincare route. Yes, what is

1136
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 1: your because I'm looking at your.

1137
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 6: Hair, yes, gorgeous?

1138
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: Yes, So what what do you do? Like It's a

1139
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:24,359
Speaker 1: Sunday and you're doing your hair look like.

1140
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 5: So I really try to start with the deep cleansing treatment.

1141
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:32,560
Speaker 5: I start with our pelp tip mining cutical mending pelptalk shampoo.

1142
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 6: Our our product is a entangler as well.

1143
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 5: So I go in on wamp excuse me, on dry

1144
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 5: or missed, damped hair, and I apply to product and

1145
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 5: I entangle first.

1146
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 6: Okay, And so I first actually.

1147
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 5: Start entangling my hair prior to getting into the shower

1148
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 5: wherever you're washing your hair, to make sure that you're

1149
00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:58,239
Speaker 5: removed any knots and making sure you're not entangling on

1150
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 5: very wet hair because that's when your hair is the

1151
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 5: most fragile and more more prone to break.

1152
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: Okay, got it.

1153
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 5: And once I go through my shampoo routine and I

1154
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 5: rent that out, then I go in with the conditioner

1155
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 5: and sometimes I do a double so if I have

1156
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 5: a lot of build up and I'm wearing a lot

1157
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 5: of gels.

1158
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:14,840
Speaker 1: I'll do two washes.

1159
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 5: Once I finish shampooing, I'll go into with the conditioner.

1160
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 5: I like to use a conditioner that has a less

1161
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 5: heavy that can actually absorb into the hair. I try

1162
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 5: to leave it on from ten to fifteen minutes. A

1163
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 5: lot of times people try to leave it on overnight

1164
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:35,919
Speaker 5: and things like that. Yeah, you feel like it's doing

1165
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 5: more conditioning, but honestly, it's the zorbed typically at the

1166
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 5: most thirty minutes. So you know, you you don't necessarily

1167
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 5: have to go overnight or hour, but if you feel good,

1168
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 5: you can do that too.

1169
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: So I'm so glad that you said that's what I'm saying.

1170
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 1: I'm doing something. I'm like, oh, I'm not going to

1171
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 1: go with that grocery band.

1172
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 5: But a lot of times I say, your hair is

1173
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 5: most fragile when it's wet, right, and so a lot

1174
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:07,320
Speaker 5: of times you think that it's it may be doing

1175
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 5: more harm than good because the followup the hair can

1176
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 5: actually get too much moisture within it right and then

1177
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 5: cause a little bit more breakage, especially when you're going

1178
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 5: to the tangle. So I try to get a conditioner

1179
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 5: that's a little bit more lightweight, that can be absorbed

1180
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 5: into the hair. Trying to find something that does have

1181
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:28,520
Speaker 5: bioact is, whether it's a vitamin or some type of

1182
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:32,000
Speaker 5: peptide treatment to actually be absorbed into the hair, and

1183
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 5: then I move in.

1184
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 1: It depends that if I'm gonna do a.

1185
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 5: Blowout, you know, I'll go in with the light leaving

1186
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 5: and then I'll go in with the heat protectant to

1187
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 5: blow it out, and then you know, I go straight

1188
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 5: down into my breakdown after that. So I try to

1189
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 5: keep my hair and scalp as clean as possible. If

1190
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 5: I do like a twist out or something of that nature,

1191
00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:55,919
Speaker 5: I try to make sure that I and I'm using

1192
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:59,520
Speaker 5: a heavy butter and a ceiling or an oil or

1193
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 5: something that nature. I try to make sure that, you know,

1194
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 5: I do the proper routine, but I'm going back to

1195
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 5: wash my hair.

1196
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 1: That's when I wash my hair within.

1197
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 5: Like two weeks or so, because those butters and those

1198
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 5: oils dripped down to the scalping cause a lot of

1199
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 5: build up.

1200
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 3: So you were talking about the importance of the different

1201
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 3: conditioners that you use and leaving them on for a

1202
00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 3: certain period of time. So I want to really talk

1203
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 3: about the new conditioners that you have all for black products.

1204
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 5: I do so, like I said, it takes like two

1205
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 5: years for me to get a good treatment, you know,

1206
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 5: something that's working. So we finally finished and we Bata

1207
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 5: lunched that shampoo in July. We are doing well and

1208
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 5: the conditioners falling and right behind it our conditioner as well.

1209
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: It had.

1210
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 5: It is made with what we call cationic conditioning. That's

1211
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 5: a fancy word for saying that it actually smooths the

1212
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 5: cuticle down the zords quickly into the hair and it's

1213
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 5: going to really feel your make the slip in the

1214
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 5: softness of your hair improved, as well as the smoothness

1215
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 5: of the strand okay, and zorb quickly and then wash

1216
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:03,280
Speaker 5: it off quickly.

1217
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 1: Because we're busy.

1218
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 5: Women, right, we don't have all day, so I wanted

1219
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 5: something that's gonna give me all the pack impact of

1220
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 5: the thirty minutes, but with less time. So I'm excited

1221
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 5: about lunching the conditioner on Black Friday and we'll have

1222
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 5: a wonderful Black Friday.

1223
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 1: So you buy two.

1224
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 5: Shampools to get a conditioner for free, you don't gonna.

1225
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 5: I'm gonna let you test it out, you know, because

1226
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 5: I'm more I'm passionate about what Eric could say.

1227
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 1: I'm passionate about my about my shoes.

1228
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, I tell you yeah, and so yeah, I'm

1229
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 5: very excited.

1230
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,240
Speaker 2: So let me clarify what you said, because I'm taking notes.

1231
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 1: We're not supposed to de tangle our hair when it's

1232
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: soaking wet, because I entangle in the shower now.

1233
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 5: I prefer not to. And I would say that's when

1234
01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 5: your hair is the most fragile. Way till your hair

1235
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 5: is soaking wet, you're probably gonna have a lot more breakage. Okay,

1236
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 5: if you do it in a damp state or a

1237
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 5: lot of people would do it. We'll say, use a

1238
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 5: pre shampoo.

1239
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 1: Okay, do it.

1240
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 5: Our product act as a pre shampoo. So essentially you

1241
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 5: applied the product, you de tangle the hair, then you

1242
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 5: get at water, it turns, it transforms into a lather, okay,

1243
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 5: and then you rinse it out.

1244
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,120
Speaker 6: So you get a two for one with the product.

1245
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 1: Got you. And when we're using the revival, how many

1246
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:29,439
Speaker 1: times do we need when we see some results? Because

1247
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:31,960
Speaker 1: I need some results today. I'm finna go home and

1248
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:35,200
Speaker 1: wash my hair right now. Girl. It's breaking office with speed.

1249
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 1: So like if somebody is using this probably like and

1250
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 1: they have serious passage. How long do they start seeing

1251
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 1: some results?

1252
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 5: Actually, you get sixty percent less breakage after your first

1253
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 5: use because it.

1254
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 6: Is a like I say, is.

1255
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 5: A porosity filler, right, and cutical mender. So what it's

1256
01:01:56,240 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 5: doing is immediately strengthening and adding that to their hair

1257
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 5: to reinforce the strain and make it more resilient as

1258
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 5: you are going through your process.

1259
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: Okay, right, and so over average.

1260
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 5: Older fifty women that we did clinical studies, we saw

1261
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 5: the sixty percent less breakage after first use. With continuous use,

1262
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 5: that's when I see the best benefit. Like I said,

1263
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 5: I surfer with iron deficiency and my hair was breaking

1264
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 5: and very brittle, and I was able to attain length.

1265
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 5: I like to say, we don't make a growth plan.

1266
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 5: We can't you do anything about that, but we can

1267
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 5: help you keep the hair that you grow. I would say,

1268
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:34,439
Speaker 5: over you know, a six month period, you can really

1269
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 5: see a difference with the hair with continuous use in

1270
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 5: that consistency that I'm talking about.

1271
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 1: I like that.

1272
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 3: Yes, Now, what would you say is the biggest misconception

1273
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 3: that you hear all the time about textured hair and

1274
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 3: hair breakage?

1275
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:51,440
Speaker 5: I think the biggest misconception is that is strong and

1276
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 5: very resilient.

1277
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 6: You know, a lot of people say, I got that

1278
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 6: strong hand.

1279
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, But the truth is that it's actually very fragile

1280
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 5: because every bend, if you have very very curly hair

1281
01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:05,520
Speaker 5: or curly hair in general, every times it bends, it

1282
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 5: is a weak spot, right, and opportunity for it to

1283
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:09,480
Speaker 5: break structurally.

1284
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:12,960
Speaker 6: And then also the porosity of the hair makes.

1285
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 1: It very fragile.

1286
01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 5: And I think if we take that and account the

1287
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:20,000
Speaker 5: way we entangle, the way we do our styles, how

1288
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:23,080
Speaker 5: much tension we apply to our hair, it really changed

1289
01:03:23,120 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 5: how we approach the styling of textured hair and really

1290
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 5: change the health outcome of our hair in general. So

1291
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 5: I would say, you know, think of it as being

1292
01:03:32,640 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 5: more fragile than being strong course and resilient.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I do feel like people say that all

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Speaker 3: the time, Like a lot of black women and black

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Speaker 3: people in general.

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Speaker 1: We always like, oh, our hair is so strong.

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Speaker 3: But like you said, I learned that years ago too,

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01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 3: that it's actually the weakiest. Yes, like coily hair and

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01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 3: cruly hair is the weakest type of hair.

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Speaker 1: Yes, to have you I know, ma shat week now,

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01:03:57,120 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 1: now let me ask this for my lot of color

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Speaker 1: systems that do watch.

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01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:03,400
Speaker 2: Is this for you know other thing?

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01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 5: Yes, it is, it is, and I do want to

1305
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 5: say that because porosity. Of course, you can have a

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01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:12,120
Speaker 5: natural high porosity, but like I said, with chemical treatments,

1307
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 5: it can actually increase and cause a higher or a

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01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 5: damaged perosity in the hair. So every time you use color,

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01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 5: every time you use you know, a chemical straightener using

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01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 5: a lot of heat, you know, you start to see

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01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 5: the hair break down, It becomes weak, it starts breaking.

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01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 5: Anyone can use the product if you feel that you

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01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:36,560
Speaker 5: have damage or breakage prone hair, you feel like your

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01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 5: strand is a little bit more fragile, it is great

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01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 5: for that. Of course I started where breakage begins, typically

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01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 5: in higher porosity, and because of that it led me

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01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:50,880
Speaker 5: to tighter textures. But of course as you move through

1318
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 5: your process, your prosody will increase over time, it can

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01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:57,760
Speaker 5: become more damage. And anyone that feels that that hair,

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01:04:57,920 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 5: their hair is fragile or they feel like it needs

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01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 5: a little be more strengthening, it's a great.

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01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 1: Product for it. Okay, I like that because my best

1323
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 1: friend from high school, she colors her hair so much.

1324
01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:11,680
Speaker 1: Shit be breaking off you bomb. Oh, so let people

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Speaker 1: know where they can find Root of Revival and let

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01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:16,200
Speaker 1: the poor crewno like how we can tap in early

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Speaker 1: for that conditioner.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, So you can find us at Rooted Revival

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Speaker 5: with two L's dot com. And you can also please

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01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 5: follow me on Instagram and all the social media platforms.

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Speaker 5: Like I said, we just launched in July, even though

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Speaker 5: I've been at this.

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Speaker 1: For two years. I need the following, y'all.

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Speaker 5: And it's the same rude of Revival Revival with two L's.

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Speaker 5: And then you can tap in if you go to

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Speaker 5: our website. We'll have an early sign up list where

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Speaker 5: you can sign up and we'll text you on Black.

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Speaker 6: Friday to get early access to the deal.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yay. And I feel like I'm like, I have

1340
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:55,959
Speaker 1: to say this, my girl, she's ripping the brain because

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01:05:55,960 --> 01:06:00,600
Speaker 1: I just noticed. I'm like you mentioned, I was like, Okay,

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01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 1: I love it. I didn't. It looks so good. I'm

1343
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:09,320
Speaker 1: I'm a moody color girly, so I love the packaging

1344
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna lie. I'm that girl that when

1345
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 1: I go shopping I look at packaging first. So it's

1346
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 1: like something can have a great product, but it's not

1347
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 1: package that's a bullshit product.

1348
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 2: But they got a package prettier and I'm gonna grab that.

1349
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 1: When I would really grab this, like if I'm walking

1350
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 1: through me, but I would definitely it would catch my eyes. Yes, well,

1351
01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: thank you so much.

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01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 5: It's a little different because we don't have a pump

1353
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 5: or a dispenser, but like I said, I typically pour

1354
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:35,640
Speaker 5: it in because you're pred tangling first.

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01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:39,240
Speaker 1: So what made you want to go with that design

1356
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 1: instead of like the typical pump or dispens.

1357
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 5: It Well, me personally, and most people when they use

1358
01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 5: a pump after a while, you just throw it out

1359
01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 5: away anyway, right, Okay, So I was like, nah, I'm

1360
01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:54,200
Speaker 5: gonna get away from that dispenser because you're pred tangling first.

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01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 1: You want to pour it in.

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01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:57,680
Speaker 5: You want to use a lot of products to actually

1363
01:06:57,760 --> 01:07:01,720
Speaker 5: detang to tangle entangle the hair, so it's actually easier

1364
01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:06,080
Speaker 5: application to do. So many people prefer pump. So we

1365
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 5: are considering maybe going to a.

1366
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 1: Tube next year.

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01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 5: But it was originally designed to mimic more of a

1368
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 5: vitamin bottle. It made the consumer think more of nutrients

1369
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 5: vitility when you and really to set us apart and

1370
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:25,120
Speaker 5: trying to find packaging that's coming but also very different

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01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 5: in the haircare space, and that's how we kind of

1372
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:31,240
Speaker 5: got to that, and trying to use a logo promenade

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01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 5: on the front where it's recognized and put in the

1374
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 5: actual name of the product on the back, just some

1375
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:42,040
Speaker 5: visual cues to know that, Okay, this is different, Yes

1376
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:46,360
Speaker 5: this is not my typical, just so the consumer can

1377
01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 5: see something different and think something different.

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01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:49,959
Speaker 1: I like it.

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01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 3: I love it, and I feel like maybe instead of

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01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:54,760
Speaker 3: the tube, maybe you know how some people they'll put

1381
01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:57,200
Speaker 3: like the pump on the side, so it can still

1382
01:07:57,240 --> 01:07:59,200
Speaker 3: be like this, but then you just have the pump

1383
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 3: on the side. I can make sure if people want

1384
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:02,720
Speaker 3: to put it on there, then they can.

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01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 5: But I actually was thinking about that because I've been

1386
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 5: challenged on that. Everybody's like, you need to go to

1387
01:08:07,240 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 5: the well, not every not the consumers, but you know,

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01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:10,360
Speaker 5: my team.

1389
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 1: But I was like, you know, this is what.

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01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 5: I originally did, So I have been thinking about just

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01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:16,439
Speaker 5: putting the pump on the side.

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01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 3: For yeah, I like it, because that way you could

1393
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:21,080
Speaker 3: keep the esthetics that you want to go with your brand,

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01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 3: but then also give the people who like, oh no,

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01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 3: I need a pump.

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01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:27,720
Speaker 1: Put it on the side, because that's why I say,

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01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 1: you know, I like to add that water at the

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01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 1: end of shake it up. And let me just give

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01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 1: your flowers being a black woman in the beauty industry

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01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:39,320
Speaker 1: and you know, taking the time and thinking about us

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01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 1: who you know have tighter, curlyer hair, and you know,

1402
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:44,960
Speaker 1: thinking about us and giving us products for us. So

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01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 1: thank you so much. We appreciate y'all.

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01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:50,040
Speaker 3: And I always trust the black woman when it comes

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01:08:50,040 --> 01:08:50,599
Speaker 3: to black hair.

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01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: Especially when they got nice hair. If you can't gonna

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01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:59,400
Speaker 1: hear ball he hold on hair is black. You So

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01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 1: thank you, Thank you so much for coming and joining

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01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:05,200
Speaker 1: us today. Y'all. Make sure y'all check out Rooted Revival.

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01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 1: Will put the link in the box, and y'all make

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01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:10,240
Speaker 1: sure y'all go get y'all some champ here. You guys.

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01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 2: My right topic point?

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01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: Go ahead?

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01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:16,479
Speaker 3: Are we too all for celebrity crush shees? Have you

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01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 3: ever not liked your significant other celebrity a celebrity crush

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01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 3: as well? I don't really care about my significant other

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01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:27,519
Speaker 3: having a celebrity crush.

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01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:30,559
Speaker 1: That shit does matter to me because but what if,

1419
01:09:30,760 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: like what if he pulled up like why are we together?

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01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:36,360
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:38,720
Speaker 1: Then yeah, I would definitely have a problem with that.

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01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:44,639
Speaker 3: She oh, sure, But like if he fucked with her

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01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 3: before we met or before we got together, like no,

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01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 3: I wouldn't care.

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01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 1: And like if he just.

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01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:52,479
Speaker 3: Had a crush that he liked, like somebody that he

1427
01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:53,919
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I think she's.

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01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 1: So fine, Like I wouldn't care as long as she fine.

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01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:01,439
Speaker 3: For real, she gotta be fine though, fucking like be like, okay,

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01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 3: I see, I.

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01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:08,719
Speaker 1: See, I don't mind. Like like a guy like for example,

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01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: he was like Meg, Oh, I love Meg. I said,

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01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:14,400
Speaker 1: I get it, I love Megtal you know what I'm saying.

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01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 1: But this is when celebrity crushes get weird for me.

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01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 1: I got ate up on Facebook the other day for this.

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01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 1: Y'all know I'm a facebooker, now, I said, I get,

1437
01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:25,679
Speaker 1: you know, loving celebrities and being a fan. But y'all

1438
01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 1: doing too much with these AI pictures. Once you get

1439
01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:30,160
Speaker 1: to the point where you typing it in on AI,

1440
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:33,639
Speaker 1: make me kiss Chris Brown, put me in a picture

1441
01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 1: with tarajip Hey.

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01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:39,280
Speaker 2: This is not what AI was made for.

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01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:42,479
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if you have ever made an AI picture

1444
01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 1: with you and a celebrity if you're taking it too far,

1445
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:48,799
Speaker 1: and peoples in the comments like, well, Lex, not everybody

1446
01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:51,879
Speaker 1: gets to meet people like you on an everyday basis,

1447
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:53,880
Speaker 1: or I'm not paying a thousand dollars for a meet

1448
01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,560
Speaker 1: and greet, And I'm like, I get that, I understand,

1449
01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:59,160
Speaker 1: but what does that do for you? It's not a

1450
01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:02,720
Speaker 1: real picture, and I think that's where lines get crossed.

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01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:04,640
Speaker 1: And the reason I brought it up is because that

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01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 1: happened to Keeglock the other day. Somebody posted a picture

1453
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:11,240
Speaker 1: and was like him with Keylock, and he was like,

1454
01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:14,320
Speaker 1: what the fuck? Cause it looked real and like they

1455
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:18,040
Speaker 1: were hugged up in the picture. That's scary exactly. It's

1456
01:11:18,080 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 1: scary and it's weird. Y'all could get people in some shit.

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01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: It's just a lot. Yeah, So I think, like, I

1458
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:26,599
Speaker 1: don't care if you have a celebrity crush, just don't

1459
01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:29,240
Speaker 1: get weird with it. Like if my man has a

1460
01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 1: crush on Meghan A Stallion, he not feinna be like,

1461
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:37,759
Speaker 1: damn you see Meg Dayton Clay, Hey are you okay?

1462
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 1: But I do, And that's what I was gonna say.

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01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:41,760
Speaker 3: I feel like it gets to a point thought with

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01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:44,960
Speaker 3: some people where it's a little obsessive. Like we were

1465
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 3: talking to Jessica the other day, Yes, yeah, and she

1466
01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 3: was basically saying that, like, you know, it was this

1467
01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 3: lady who had put that she thought that she was

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01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:58,200
Speaker 3: gonna marry Chris Brown in her wedding vows Like as

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01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:00,519
Speaker 3: she's reading her vowels to her husband, You're like, you know,

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01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:02,920
Speaker 3: I know it's you, but I thought I was gonna

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01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 3: marry Chris Brown. Okay, it gets to a point where, bitch,

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01:12:06,640 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 3: you're weird. That's weird.

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01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:08,679
Speaker 1: It's weird.

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01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 3: And then it does get to a point to where

1475
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 3: we some people are too old, Like you're too old when.

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01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:18,080
Speaker 1: You ain't your teen years, your early twenties.

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01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:21,559
Speaker 3: I understand having like a big celebrity court a big

1478
01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 3: celebrity crush.

1479
01:12:23,479 --> 01:12:25,880
Speaker 1: That coltcha, bit queefit for that cuss.

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01:12:26,760 --> 01:12:29,280
Speaker 3: I know what you mean, honestly, having a big celebrity crush,

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01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:33,600
Speaker 3: But like when you well into your thirties, y'all, forty,

1482
01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:36,880
Speaker 3: your fifties and up, and you still have a crush

1483
01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:40,080
Speaker 3: on a celebrity, it's a little weird because when do

1484
01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 3: we let go of the delusion, Bitch.

1485
01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:45,559
Speaker 1: You ain't happy, it's not gonna happen.

1486
01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 3: Chris Brown is not about to come swoop you up

1487
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:56,679
Speaker 3: and save you at forty two? Is your man, especially

1488
01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:59,599
Speaker 3: as a married woman, like, especially if you're a married

1489
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,760
Speaker 3: woman too, Like it's like, when does he get disrespectful

1490
01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:05,760
Speaker 3: to your partner into your spouse as well? Because I

1491
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:07,679
Speaker 3: don't know how I would feel about that if I'm

1492
01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:10,920
Speaker 3: married to somebody and you always constantly talk about how

1493
01:13:10,960 --> 01:13:13,240
Speaker 3: you got a crush on this celebrity.

1494
01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:16,559
Speaker 1: Beach but I'm your wife? Yeah? Am I not good enough?

1495
01:13:18,160 --> 01:13:21,720
Speaker 1: It was supposed to love me, Curtis, y'all, y'all, but

1496
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:25,200
Speaker 1: you liking but you liking somebody and thinking they're attractive.

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01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck about that.

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01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:28,720
Speaker 3: But it gets weird when it's like, oh, yeah, you know,

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01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 3: that's my wife and I love her down and if

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Speaker 3: I ever get.

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01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 1: A chance, well, if you ever get a chance with her?

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01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:40,120
Speaker 1: What nigga? Yeah, I've seen a post again, y'all know

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01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:42,200
Speaker 1: I love to talk about TikTok. This girl made a

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01:13:42,280 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 1: video and she was like, y'all, I made a TikTok video,

1505
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:49,240
Speaker 1: like I'm a Chris Brown stand. I've been to like

1506
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 1: three of the Breezy Bowls and she said when I

1507
01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 1: came home, I guess his girlfriend's name is like Jade

1508
01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 1: or something. She said, I don't like how Jade is

1509
01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:01,160
Speaker 1: everywhere with him. Every time I see him, she's right there.

1510
01:14:01,560 --> 01:14:03,800
Speaker 1: And I was just like, you know, I'll admit I

1511
01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:05,679
Speaker 1: was just being a hater. I was just being a hater.

1512
01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 1: And people were in the comments were like, hey, you

1513
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:09,920
Speaker 1: need to delete this because if he sees this, he's

1514
01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:12,479
Speaker 1: gonna block you. And so she was like, y'all, why

1515
01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:16,559
Speaker 1: did Chris block me? Because you are you've created a

1516
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 1: pair of social relationship, whether you were joking or not,

1517
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:21,519
Speaker 1: to get on the internet and be like, why is

1518
01:14:21,560 --> 01:14:24,160
Speaker 1: she always there? Y'all don't know what these celebrities and

1519
01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 1: what these people have to go through. So maybe she

1520
01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 1: makes him feel grounded. She makes him feel, you know,

1521
01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 1: he can unwand you don't know why. If you were

1522
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 1: a real supporter, you would be happy that he has

1523
01:14:34,960 --> 01:14:38,479
Speaker 1: somebody that he's happy with. Right. But she made a whole,

1524
01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:41,320
Speaker 1: like two minute video because when I get ready, I

1525
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:44,120
Speaker 1: like to, you know, stay updated with what the kids

1526
01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 1: are doing on TikTok. It was like a whole two

1527
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 1: minute video and she really was not processing why he

1528
01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:49,920
Speaker 1: blocked her.

1529
01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 3: And speaking of Chris Brown, I went to the Chris

1530
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 3: Brown concert out here in Atlanta in the amount of

1531
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 3: forty five plus. When I mean that, I've seen at

1532
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 3: the concert with breezy bowl hoodies and spray painted T

1533
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:08,439
Speaker 3: shirts own and said, wifey mood.

1534
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 1: Listen, I was shug. I did a party with Nick

1535
01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 1: from Love Island. Yeah, don't. I did not get into

1536
01:15:17,160 --> 01:15:18,240
Speaker 1: Love Island. I know nothing.

1537
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 3: I only did it because Crown we were sponsoring a party.

1538
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:23,920
Speaker 3: There were to your point, forty five fifty year old

1539
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 3: women I'm talking stands, Oh my god, shirts flags, They

1540
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:30,519
Speaker 3: did a meet and greet and everything, and they were

1541
01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:33,800
Speaker 3: I've never seen fandom like that for.

1542
01:15:33,840 --> 01:15:38,200
Speaker 1: A reality TV star. That's crazy.

1543
01:15:39,560 --> 01:15:41,800
Speaker 3: I definitely think it's something that you should grow out

1544
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:44,840
Speaker 3: of after a certain point, like at forty five.

1545
01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:47,000
Speaker 1: I just even in y'all thirty.

1546
01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 3: Sometimes it eats a little weird when people be like obsessed,

1547
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,920
Speaker 3: you know, because.

1548
01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:58,479
Speaker 1: Could it happen? Possibly? No, but the I mean but

1549
01:15:58,560 --> 01:15:59,360
Speaker 1: it could though.

1550
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:02,280
Speaker 3: I mean, strange things happen all the time time. It

1551
01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 3: really do strange things be happening, and so I mean.

1552
01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 1: Could it happen? But the maybe? But the likelihood of

1553
01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:17,679
Speaker 1: it happening, Mitch probably night, so like let it go.

1554
01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:20,599
Speaker 2: I was trying to google this documentary I just watched.

1555
01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:24,519
Speaker 1: Wait, y'all. It's called thirst Trap, The Fame, The Fantasy,

1556
01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 1: The Fallout. It's about a TikTok star. His name is

1557
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:32,120
Speaker 1: William White. This boy is like in his early twenties.

1558
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 1: When I tell you it was William White, William White,

1559
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 1: I've never heard of this guy. I just I like

1560
01:16:39,040 --> 01:16:41,520
Speaker 1: to sit on my couch and just watch random documentaries,

1561
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 1: and it just came up. It was like older women

1562
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:47,280
Speaker 1: I'm talking about in their fifties and sixties thirst thing.

1563
01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:50,000
Speaker 1: All he was doing was like lip syncing and stuff,

1564
01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:54,479
Speaker 1: but he was lip syncing to older songs. And when

1565
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:58,320
Speaker 1: I listened to him speak, it was like listening to

1566
01:16:58,439 --> 01:16:59,960
Speaker 1: a twelve year old.

1567
01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:02,320
Speaker 2: And it was so weird.

1568
01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:04,719
Speaker 1: That these women in their forties and fifties were upset.

1569
01:17:04,840 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 1: It was kind of scary cause it's like a lot

1570
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:11,360
Speaker 1: of times we, you know, we just overlook it because

1571
01:17:11,360 --> 01:17:13,120
Speaker 1: we think it's innocent, but a lot of times it's not.

1572
01:17:13,760 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 1: And that line gets really really gray. That's why I

1573
01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:19,320
Speaker 1: don't do all that thirst track. I don't do that stuff.

1574
01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:21,519
Speaker 1: No more. I post pretty pictures and I go because

1575
01:17:21,560 --> 01:17:25,519
Speaker 1: people will create a whole fantasy with you, and you

1576
01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:28,800
Speaker 1: think it's cute until it's not. And then when I

1577
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:33,920
Speaker 1: watched him speak, I'm like, are y'all for real married women?

1578
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:36,360
Speaker 1: I mean it was w It was one woman who

1579
01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:39,360
Speaker 1: actually lost her husband over it because she was obsessing

1580
01:17:39,840 --> 01:17:44,639
Speaker 1: over this boy on tiktop. So I absolutely think that, yes,

1581
01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:48,120
Speaker 1: you can be too old for celebrity crushes. I support

1582
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,479
Speaker 1: people and I like them, Like, yeah, I'm gonna like

1583
01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: a little look at a little a little tyler LEPLI

1584
01:17:53,680 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 1: I like.

1585
01:17:54,160 --> 01:17:57,000
Speaker 2: Look, i'm'a look at a little injuries.

1586
01:17:57,040 --> 01:17:59,439
Speaker 1: I'm go'a look at damnsing. I'm gonna look at them.

1587
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:02,000
Speaker 1: But to be like, oh my god, you need.

1588
01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:04,960
Speaker 3: It, it's like it brings me back to like it

1589
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:07,680
Speaker 3: bring me back to when we were like in elementary

1590
01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:11,160
Speaker 3: school and middle school and everybody used to have like

1591
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:14,960
Speaker 3: the word magazine photos all over the walls. But mind you,

1592
01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:16,240
Speaker 3: bitch you, we're in middle school.

1593
01:18:16,400 --> 01:18:17,960
Speaker 1: Hey, it's appropriate.

1594
01:18:18,840 --> 01:18:21,360
Speaker 3: I feel like people like that be really having shrines

1595
01:18:21,400 --> 01:18:24,760
Speaker 3: of celebrities in their homes at fifty years old. And

1596
01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:29,040
Speaker 3: that's concerning, concerning as fuck it's scary. Those are the

1597
01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:31,080
Speaker 3: type of people that you need to like watch out

1598
01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:33,559
Speaker 3: for coming to your shows, and like you just never know.

1599
01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 1: Like it makes so much.

1600
01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:37,800
Speaker 3: Sense why when you reach a certain level you have

1601
01:18:37,920 --> 01:18:41,320
Speaker 3: to have certain security precautions because you just never know.

1602
01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:46,800
Speaker 1: Like even Yo, le Yon almost took that hell offen

1603
01:18:47,720 --> 01:18:48,599
Speaker 1: beat his ass.

1604
01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:50,080
Speaker 2: That man ran up on stage.

1605
01:18:50,080 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 3: I was trying to dance with No, I was thinking

1606
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:54,840
Speaker 3: about that lady.

1607
01:18:57,479 --> 01:18:59,439
Speaker 1: I was thinking about that lady from the Poor Mine show.

1608
01:18:59,520 --> 01:19:06,439
Speaker 1: And then you better be careful. You better hush. She's

1609
01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:13,080
Speaker 1: probably watching, so I'm gonna see her roll up all

1610
01:19:13,200 --> 01:19:18,679
Speaker 1: right now. I am. She gonna beat your She gonna

1611
01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:23,679
Speaker 1: beat y'all. Oh God, she gotta get through you first,

1612
01:19:23,840 --> 01:19:29,760
Speaker 1: she do, because bitch, you gotta be fucked up. That's

1613
01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:36,639
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do, neo style, bitch, do you much

1614
01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:38,519
Speaker 1: the funk up that way real quickly?

1615
01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:40,920
Speaker 3: Y'all feel like me and be having celebrity crusties because

1616
01:19:40,920 --> 01:19:43,880
Speaker 3: I feel like niggas be having celebrity Christian Oh yeah.

1617
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:44,599
Speaker 1: That's what I was just saying.

1618
01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:47,919
Speaker 2: Like I've talked to like a god's day before.

1619
01:19:47,720 --> 01:19:49,720
Speaker 1: Like he was like yeah, like like Meg is my

1620
01:19:49,960 --> 01:19:54,760
Speaker 1: tight No, I mean, my bad male celebrity crusties me

1621
01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 1: and be having male delivery and crushies. Yes, absolutely, like

1622
01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:05,240
Speaker 1: I ha mean this post niggas love future. Yeah I

1623
01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:10,599
Speaker 1: was not processing. Yeah yeah dog like you didn't. That's

1624
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:13,920
Speaker 1: that nigga. That nigga so one on one, he the goat.

1625
01:20:14,240 --> 01:20:17,599
Speaker 1: They do that about him, ghannam. I like that they

1626
01:20:17,640 --> 01:20:19,880
Speaker 1: do though they have man crushes on. Let me tell

1627
01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:26,519
Speaker 1: you the male celarties that future huh Ghana, Denzel Washington,

1628
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:33,200
Speaker 1: Denzel Lebron. Definitely they do not play about a rest

1629
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:38,280
Speaker 1: in peace Kobe Bryant in Tupac. Oh my god, I don't.

1630
01:20:38,640 --> 01:20:40,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I think they like but I'm talking about that,

1631
01:20:40,640 --> 01:20:43,479
Speaker 1: like I swear it be niggas out here, Like if

1632
01:20:43,479 --> 01:20:46,920
Speaker 1: they could massage Lebron's feet after a long game, they

1633
01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:49,719
Speaker 1: feel like Savannah can't do it like me, Bro, I'm

1634
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:59,160
Speaker 1: telling you them Lebron, oh my god, especially athletes, they

1635
01:20:59,240 --> 01:21:01,680
Speaker 1: be having a we them. Oh they love it and

1636
01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:03,519
Speaker 1: don't let it be like a cool asd like Lebron

1637
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:05,559
Speaker 1: is a cool nigga, like he do lame shit, but

1638
01:21:05,600 --> 01:21:07,840
Speaker 1: we all do you know what I'm saying, Like he

1639
01:21:07,920 --> 01:21:08,320
Speaker 1: don't be.

1640
01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:09,360
Speaker 2: Knowing the words of the songs.

1641
01:21:09,360 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 1: Who cares?

1642
01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:13,599
Speaker 2: But Lebron is like a cool like he did it right. Yeah,

1643
01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:14,639
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

1644
01:21:14,760 --> 01:21:17,439
Speaker 1: Like the stuff that we be like, oh Lebron, you

1645
01:21:17,520 --> 01:21:19,719
Speaker 1: lame for is funny shit like not knowing the lyrics

1646
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:22,000
Speaker 1: and stuff. It ain't nothing serious. He a cool nigga,

1647
01:21:22,200 --> 01:21:23,920
Speaker 1: So don't let it be a nigga who got money.

1648
01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 1: He got the wife, he got the kids, he got

1649
01:21:25,520 --> 01:21:29,479
Speaker 1: the money, and he fucking called as fuck. They'll be like, hey,

1650
01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:32,120
Speaker 1: I'll suck you dig it ain't gay. I just like you.

1651
01:21:32,160 --> 01:21:34,400
Speaker 1: I fuck with you. Bro, let me suck them balls.

1652
01:21:34,600 --> 01:21:36,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's gay.

1653
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:37,960
Speaker 2: But I'm saying it.

1654
01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:38,920
Speaker 1: Don't get no gay.

1655
01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:41,160
Speaker 2: But I'm saying that's the type of time they be on.

1656
01:21:41,600 --> 01:21:46,040
Speaker 1: What about jay Z? Yeah, Oh, niggas like niggas love

1657
01:21:46,120 --> 01:21:48,519
Speaker 1: jas Man man. When I've seen j perform, Bro, he

1658
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:52,040
Speaker 1: spoke to my heart and he's so he articulated so well.

1659
01:21:52,080 --> 01:21:54,639
Speaker 3: Bro, they be like, I feel like he be speaking

1660
01:21:54,720 --> 01:21:55,240
Speaker 3: my life.

1661
01:21:55,120 --> 01:21:58,719
Speaker 1: Story, jay Z. He ain't. He never speaking your life story.

1662
01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:05,559
Speaker 1: Calm down, that's correct. Nipsy too. Yeah, that's another one.

1663
01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:17,600
Speaker 3: Us La No for real, like niggas love niggas, and

1664
01:22:17,640 --> 01:22:19,679
Speaker 3: I feel like that's where it gets to a point

1665
01:22:19,680 --> 01:22:23,120
Speaker 3: where it's like borderline christ Yeah, because it's okay to

1666
01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:26,960
Speaker 3: admire what somebody has done and the work that they've done,

1667
01:22:27,040 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 3: and you know, the success that they have a mask

1668
01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:31,679
Speaker 3: and stuff over the years. But like I be getting

1669
01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:33,439
Speaker 3: to a point where it be a little like you

1670
01:22:33,520 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 3: want to suck his nig dug a little bit?

1671
01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:44,559
Speaker 1: Tell the truth? Oh my god. But I will say

1672
01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:46,439
Speaker 1: I think on the other side, because we got to

1673
01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:48,120
Speaker 1: talk about the women too. A lot of times women

1674
01:22:48,200 --> 01:22:52,720
Speaker 1: have parasocial relationships with women, Like the way y'all can

1675
01:22:52,760 --> 01:22:56,000
Speaker 1: agree or disagree with Cardi for getting pregnant. Whatever, that's

1676
01:22:56,040 --> 01:22:58,479
Speaker 1: not your friend. That's not your sister. You do not

1677
01:22:58,600 --> 01:23:00,479
Speaker 1: know this lady. Why do you care so much that

1678
01:23:00,520 --> 01:23:05,680
Speaker 1: she's pregnant. Yeah, you cannot care that. The long dissertations

1679
01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:07,479
Speaker 1: and this is like you do not you.

1680
01:23:07,439 --> 01:23:08,360
Speaker 2: Don't care that much.

1681
01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:11,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not your friend. Like it lines get crossed

1682
01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:15,080
Speaker 1: where y'all just feel like things affect you and it don't.

1683
01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:18,839
Speaker 1: I mean, you can have an opinion about something, but relax,

1684
01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:22,479
Speaker 1: that's not your friend. That's not your girlfriend. You ain't

1685
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:26,320
Speaker 1: finna eat a koochie, none of that. So now it's

1686
01:23:26,360 --> 01:23:30,360
Speaker 1: time to get into the bed bowl. The bed A

1687
01:23:30,439 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 1: bow A bow bow, So y'all, today's the bed topic

1688
01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:40,720
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1689
01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:43,200
Speaker 1: I love her Fantasy Boxes. They have so many products

1690
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:46,200
Speaker 1: outside of like you know, the kuchie and cleansing.

1691
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:49,599
Speaker 2: I have been using this one lately.

1692
01:23:49,680 --> 01:23:53,839
Speaker 1: It's the body Splash body oil and it's the pineapple cream.

1693
01:23:54,360 --> 01:23:57,240
Speaker 1: It smells so good. I was using it me and

1694
01:23:57,280 --> 01:23:59,439
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1695
01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:02,280
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1696
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:06,280
Speaker 1: I love a good body oil. It's not too greasy.

1697
01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:08,840
Speaker 1: It's not like getting all over your clothes and stuff.

1698
01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:10,400
Speaker 1: Because I had it on my legs. You don't see

1699
01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:12,760
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1700
01:24:12,800 --> 01:24:13,920
Speaker 2: It ain't only yogy y'all know.

1701
01:24:14,040 --> 01:24:16,800
Speaker 1: But it's on the body. It's get it to them

1702
01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:20,160
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1703
01:24:20,240 --> 01:24:22,559
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1704
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1705
01:24:26,760 --> 01:24:28,280
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1706
01:24:28,360 --> 01:24:31,280
Speaker 3: Y'all know, I'm a chlorophyll water girl, so I love

1707
01:24:31,400 --> 01:24:33,760
Speaker 3: that you can also get all of the benefits of

1708
01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:36,559
Speaker 3: the chlorophyll. But in peel forms, all you gotta do

1709
01:24:36,640 --> 01:24:38,719
Speaker 3: is take it in the morning, and yeah, it's gonna

1710
01:24:38,920 --> 01:24:42,640
Speaker 3: help you with your pH. It's also gonna help with

1711
01:24:42,720 --> 01:24:44,719
Speaker 3: like managing like body odor.

1712
01:24:44,760 --> 01:24:48,160
Speaker 1: That's what I love about chlorofils.

1713
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Speaker 2: Be thinking.

1714
01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 1: People need to realize that it's a lot of things

1715
01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:56,880
Speaker 1: that stink. But with that was funny how you said

1716
01:24:56,920 --> 01:24:59,800
Speaker 1: that it will be a lot of things that think,

1717
01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:01,719
Speaker 1: some not fall.

1718
01:25:02,320 --> 01:25:04,920
Speaker 3: But for the people who are having issues with those

1719
01:25:04,960 --> 01:25:08,439
Speaker 3: type of things, chlorophyll is really good for you because

1720
01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:12,360
Speaker 3: I feel like it we'll get rid of the odor

1721
01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:13,639
Speaker 3: anywhere on your body.

1722
01:25:13,680 --> 01:25:15,880
Speaker 1: So your pool and I've been saying for a long

1723
01:25:16,360 --> 01:25:21,360
Speaker 1: your poop, what I said, your boots, Yeah that too.

1724
01:25:22,360 --> 01:25:27,400
Speaker 3: Your poots and your poop won't sink. You won't be musty,

1725
01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:32,120
Speaker 3: your breath won't sink. We encountered a funky breadth person

1726
01:25:32,320 --> 01:25:35,519
Speaker 3: recently and it was very tramatic. Y'all, see how licks

1727
01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:36,559
Speaker 3: over there, she's about to cry.

1728
01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:45,040
Speaker 1: Let's say, are you you got a headache? It was

1729
01:25:45,120 --> 01:25:50,800
Speaker 1: real bad. The breath was surrenders, but I just feel like, yeah,

1730
01:25:51,000 --> 01:26:01,880
Speaker 1: get you some chlorophyll Corfield. She need an extraction. I

1731
01:26:01,880 --> 01:26:03,439
Speaker 1: don't even want to get into it. It was so bad

1732
01:26:03,520 --> 01:26:07,000
Speaker 1: it was, But yes, get you some her fantasy box.

1733
01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:08,479
Speaker 3: It will help with all of that. I love the

1734
01:26:08,560 --> 01:26:11,040
Speaker 3: chlorophyl pills A one in my book.

1735
01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:13,000
Speaker 2: Get you know what we need to do.

1736
01:26:13,120 --> 01:26:15,160
Speaker 1: We need to have a Tailorport event and have Roller

1737
01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:19,120
Speaker 1: Roriguez pull up and perform tailor Port Junkie. That was

1738
01:26:19,160 --> 01:26:23,800
Speaker 1: my song. She a teleport junkie, and now we are

1739
01:26:24,200 --> 01:26:28,240
Speaker 1: shout out to tail port Tailorport. Okay, let's get to

1740
01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:34,479
Speaker 1: this topic. Girl, Could you be intimate with some Could

1741
01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:38,920
Speaker 1: you be intimate with someone who's an amputee? When it

1742
01:26:38,960 --> 01:26:41,559
Speaker 1: came out that Crew Jay was Daddy Deon Sanders, people

1743
01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:45,280
Speaker 1: had a lot to say. Coach Prime had two toes

1744
01:26:45,320 --> 01:26:48,280
Speaker 1: on his left foot, amputated, specifically the big toe in

1745
01:26:48,320 --> 01:26:51,800
Speaker 1: the second toe. If you met someone fine, funny and

1746
01:26:51,840 --> 01:26:54,439
Speaker 1: everything you wanted, but they were amputee, would that make

1747
01:26:54,520 --> 01:26:58,799
Speaker 1: you pause before getting intimate? Whether it's a finger, a limb,

1748
01:26:59,360 --> 01:27:02,519
Speaker 1: a leg, a toe, would that affect your decision in

1749
01:27:02,600 --> 01:27:05,759
Speaker 1: dating them? A finger or a toe? That's light work.

1750
01:27:05,840 --> 01:27:09,200
Speaker 3: We could work around it. You could wear some gloves. Yeah,

1751
01:27:09,360 --> 01:27:14,240
Speaker 3: you could wear some socks. Okay, I won't know a leg.

1752
01:27:15,200 --> 01:27:18,600
Speaker 1: Now we're chartering into dangerous siritory for me.

1753
01:27:18,960 --> 01:27:24,480
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fair, just for me, you know I personally,

1754
01:27:25,000 --> 01:27:28,160
Speaker 3: and it's not nothing wrong with it, nothing wrong with it.

1755
01:27:28,720 --> 01:27:32,639
Speaker 1: You know. I just don't think that I could partake.

1756
01:27:34,360 --> 01:27:35,559
Speaker 2: That's fair, that's your truth.

1757
01:27:35,640 --> 01:27:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just don't think I could partake in that.

1758
01:27:40,560 --> 01:27:43,760
Speaker 1: Maybe though, if you know he kept that half under

1759
01:27:43,800 --> 01:27:49,679
Speaker 1: the cover. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. What do you think?

1760
01:27:50,000 --> 01:27:52,200
Speaker 1: You know what I feel like when the lights go off?

1761
01:27:52,960 --> 01:27:53,960
Speaker 2: Honestly, I could.

1762
01:27:53,880 --> 01:27:56,479
Speaker 1: Date an amputee because I like, but I want you

1763
01:27:56,520 --> 01:28:02,439
Speaker 1: to be advanced in your amputee journey. Like if it's freshening, no,

1764
01:28:02,520 --> 01:28:06,559
Speaker 1: because listen, if you if something just happened, I'm not

1765
01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:10,120
Speaker 1: worried about the physical. It's your mental. Your life just changed.

1766
01:28:10,680 --> 01:28:12,720
Speaker 1: And if we're dating, I think that's a lot to

1767
01:28:12,760 --> 01:28:15,519
Speaker 1: put on me. If we're dating, I'm not speaking. It's

1768
01:28:15,560 --> 01:28:18,320
Speaker 1: like if I'm married and my husband, something happens you

1769
01:28:18,400 --> 01:28:20,320
Speaker 1: my husband, we gonna figure it out. But if it's

1770
01:28:20,360 --> 01:28:23,640
Speaker 1: somebody I'm dating and we're just like light dating and

1771
01:28:23,720 --> 01:28:24,680
Speaker 1: something happens.

1772
01:28:25,320 --> 01:28:27,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. But if it's like somebody who walks

1773
01:28:27,160 --> 01:28:28,559
Speaker 2: up to me and you got.

1774
01:28:28,360 --> 01:28:31,880
Speaker 1: That pag leg on, I don't give a fuck. You

1775
01:28:31,920 --> 01:28:35,599
Speaker 1: can walk. They be putting them legs on, and sometimes

1776
01:28:35,600 --> 01:28:38,120
Speaker 1: it be up to the hip and they can walk.

1777
01:28:38,160 --> 01:28:40,679
Speaker 1: It may be a little limp. I walk with a limb, bitch,

1778
01:28:40,720 --> 01:28:42,519
Speaker 1: I got a bad kneed. We finna be twinning in

1779
01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:46,320
Speaker 1: this motherfuck. Remember that song, I walk with a deal.

1780
01:28:47,120 --> 01:28:49,400
Speaker 1: I don't give a damn. A good man it's hard

1781
01:28:49,439 --> 01:28:51,000
Speaker 1: to find if he ain't got a leg, I don't

1782
01:28:51,040 --> 01:28:54,240
Speaker 1: give a damn. I'm sorry. What if you didn't find

1783
01:28:54,280 --> 01:29:01,360
Speaker 1: out though? Until like that's that's what I'm saying about

1784
01:29:01,400 --> 01:29:03,000
Speaker 1: abou about what if it was time to.

1785
01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:04,479
Speaker 3: Get into the bed and then he took the leg

1786
01:29:04,560 --> 01:29:05,840
Speaker 3: off and put it on the side of the bed.

1787
01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:09,000
Speaker 1: Don't know. By that point we're deep into it, and

1788
01:29:09,040 --> 01:29:11,080
Speaker 1: if he has a leg that means he's deep in

1789
01:29:11,160 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 1: his amputy journey. You don't care about that leg. Long

1790
01:29:14,360 --> 01:29:16,960
Speaker 1: I don't as long as that do. That did get hard,

1791
01:29:17,280 --> 01:29:17,920
Speaker 1: That's all I said.

1792
01:29:17,960 --> 01:29:20,599
Speaker 4: Longer the third one, take that leg off and let's

1793
01:29:20,640 --> 01:29:21,519
Speaker 4: get to work.

1794
01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:23,280
Speaker 1: Okay, that's crazy.

1795
01:29:23,320 --> 01:29:23,920
Speaker 2: I'm just saying.

1796
01:29:23,920 --> 01:29:25,559
Speaker 1: But like I said, you need to be deep in

1797
01:29:25,600 --> 01:29:30,080
Speaker 1: your journey, not a fresh one, not a fresh one,

1798
01:29:30,120 --> 01:29:32,800
Speaker 1: not a fresh because I think that's just a lot.

1799
01:29:32,960 --> 01:29:36,240
Speaker 1: That's it's sad, you know what I'm saying. And I

1800
01:29:36,280 --> 01:29:38,240
Speaker 1: don't think that those pressures. But like, if we're like

1801
01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:41,320
Speaker 1: three years into our relationship and then it happened, we

1802
01:29:41,439 --> 01:29:42,200
Speaker 1: gonna stay together.

1803
01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:44,360
Speaker 2: But I'm talking about if I meet somebody, could I.

1804
01:29:44,320 --> 01:29:46,280
Speaker 3: Be in oh yeah, Like if we weren't in a

1805
01:29:46,320 --> 01:29:49,360
Speaker 3: relationship and then it happened while we're in a relationship,

1806
01:29:49,360 --> 01:29:50,800
Speaker 3: I wouldn't leave, yeah, because of it.

1807
01:29:51,040 --> 01:29:54,200
Speaker 1: But I feel like meeting somebody initially, as long as

1808
01:29:54,240 --> 01:29:57,400
Speaker 1: you're an advanced stamputee, you gonna get some pussy out

1809
01:29:57,439 --> 01:30:02,200
Speaker 1: of me. I ain't. I'm gonna shine that leg up

1810
01:30:02,200 --> 01:30:04,880
Speaker 1: for you if to dick good too, I ain't scatter,

1811
01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:09,720
Speaker 1: no nub bitch, shine that leg of the arm. And

1812
01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:11,880
Speaker 1: it's an arm. I really don't give a fuck.

1813
01:30:12,439 --> 01:30:13,840
Speaker 2: Really, no, I.

1814
01:30:13,800 --> 01:30:16,679
Speaker 1: Care more about the arm than the really how you feel?

1815
01:30:16,800 --> 01:30:20,559
Speaker 1: So I do. One of my best friends, I mean,

1816
01:30:20,560 --> 01:30:22,479
Speaker 1: it's a sad she had cancer and her toes and

1817
01:30:22,520 --> 01:30:24,759
Speaker 1: she has to have them amputated. Like as a teenager.

1818
01:30:24,880 --> 01:30:28,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've seen that, but that doesn't stop her from

1819
01:30:28,040 --> 01:30:30,080
Speaker 3: like living her life. So I agree with you more

1820
01:30:30,120 --> 01:30:31,840
Speaker 3: so on like if it's a finger, if it's a toe,

1821
01:30:31,840 --> 01:30:34,360
Speaker 3: if it's something that's like small, a leg.

1822
01:30:34,640 --> 01:30:37,080
Speaker 1: While I respect it and I honor it, I don't

1823
01:30:37,120 --> 01:30:40,479
Speaker 1: know that's a big because once you take that off

1824
01:30:40,479 --> 01:30:42,920
Speaker 1: before we get into bed, I don't know. Bro.

1825
01:30:43,120 --> 01:30:44,880
Speaker 2: I think it's because I'm lazy. We finish, get in

1826
01:30:44,880 --> 01:30:45,720
Speaker 2: your wheelchairs.

1827
01:30:46,080 --> 01:30:47,559
Speaker 1: Can he prop up on that knee?

1828
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:50,080
Speaker 2: Like yeah, they know how to work that thing.

1829
01:30:50,360 --> 01:30:54,120
Speaker 3: I'm just thinking, like, yeah, I think for me, it's

1830
01:30:54,160 --> 01:30:58,360
Speaker 3: more about like me thinking about the things that we

1831
01:30:58,439 --> 01:31:00,439
Speaker 3: can do versus the things that we can't do.

1832
01:31:00,720 --> 01:31:01,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1833
01:31:01,880 --> 01:31:05,400
Speaker 1: I like the from the side of like about outside

1834
01:31:05,479 --> 01:31:09,640
Speaker 1: of fucking if he ain't got no army, you go

1835
01:31:09,680 --> 01:31:12,280
Speaker 1: to the grocery store? Yeah, or like what if I

1836
01:31:12,320 --> 01:31:13,839
Speaker 1: want to go to Running Canyon?

1837
01:31:15,240 --> 01:31:15,920
Speaker 2: Pick and run.

1838
01:31:16,200 --> 01:31:20,040
Speaker 3: That's what Running Canyon is a mountain. That's what I'm saying.

1839
01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:23,920
Speaker 3: They're not they can walk, maybe I'm serious.

1840
01:31:24,000 --> 01:31:29,000
Speaker 1: If they're advanced, yeah, that's legs and ship They legs

1841
01:31:29,120 --> 01:31:31,320
Speaker 1: a little different, That's what I'm saying. And they be happy.

1842
01:31:31,320 --> 01:31:33,280
Speaker 1: They like they can walk, like, no, I.

1843
01:31:33,240 --> 01:31:35,640
Speaker 3: Know they can walk, but I think that it's a

1844
01:31:35,680 --> 01:31:38,480
Speaker 3: lot of things that's gonna be a little more difficult.

1845
01:31:38,600 --> 01:31:41,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I do agree.

1846
01:31:41,400 --> 01:31:42,920
Speaker 3: I do think they're like, I think you have to

1847
01:31:42,960 --> 01:31:45,920
Speaker 3: think about those things when you've decided to date.

1848
01:31:46,640 --> 01:31:49,280
Speaker 1: You know, I ain't I ain't axing nobody else out

1849
01:31:49,320 --> 01:31:52,559
Speaker 1: though it's too hard to find a man these days.

1850
01:31:52,640 --> 01:31:55,040
Speaker 1: You think a little leg gonna stop me, you're gonna

1851
01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:57,479
Speaker 1: get down there wouldn't stop me. I'm not gonna lie.

1852
01:31:57,640 --> 01:32:00,559
Speaker 1: A tod finger wouldn't stop and stopping.

1853
01:32:00,760 --> 01:32:02,920
Speaker 3: But if you got that ying yang twin up, I

1854
01:32:03,120 --> 01:32:04,439
Speaker 3: just all right that I could.

1855
01:32:05,040 --> 01:32:05,920
Speaker 2: That's all right.

1856
01:32:06,439 --> 01:32:07,120
Speaker 7: I like that.

1857
01:32:07,760 --> 01:32:10,960
Speaker 1: Do it again. I like it.

1858
01:32:11,200 --> 01:32:13,800
Speaker 2: You ain't stopping me. I need it.

1859
01:32:15,160 --> 01:32:17,240
Speaker 1: But that's this is actually a good that is because

1860
01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:19,599
Speaker 1: but but I think it's okay for people to say,

1861
01:32:19,640 --> 01:32:21,400
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't think I could do this,

1862
01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:23,559
Speaker 1: and that's okay. You know what I'm saying. I think that,

1863
01:32:24,320 --> 01:32:27,479
Speaker 1: you know, we do need a little like honesty, And

1864
01:32:27,479 --> 01:32:29,840
Speaker 1: I think that's okay because I think they know that

1865
01:32:29,920 --> 01:32:32,519
Speaker 1: as well. You know, it's a lot because you're not

1866
01:32:32,600 --> 01:32:34,439
Speaker 1: living a normal life at this point, because you have

1867
01:32:34,479 --> 01:32:38,920
Speaker 1: to think about stuff like accessibility for them. Man, you know,

1868
01:32:39,080 --> 01:32:41,080
Speaker 1: it's it's a lot to commit to, you know what

1869
01:32:41,120 --> 01:32:44,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I get I definitely get both sides.

1870
01:32:44,520 --> 01:32:47,240
Speaker 1: What about somebody in a wheelchair? Like is that is

1871
01:32:47,280 --> 01:32:49,440
Speaker 1: that too much of a disability?

1872
01:32:49,439 --> 01:32:52,040
Speaker 3: Because like you said, you want someone more advanced, yeah,

1873
01:32:52,200 --> 01:32:54,320
Speaker 3: and move around on their own, but they're in a

1874
01:32:54,360 --> 01:32:56,160
Speaker 3: wheelchair with that hinder your.

1875
01:32:57,280 --> 01:32:57,880
Speaker 1: That's what said.

1876
01:32:57,880 --> 01:33:00,720
Speaker 2: What kind of wheelchair we're talking motorized?

1877
01:33:00,920 --> 01:33:04,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's worked with advanced. I'm gonna work with a

1878
01:33:04,080 --> 01:33:07,880
Speaker 1: little motorized. I'm not mad at it. Okay, you know

1879
01:33:07,880 --> 01:33:11,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I could work with it too. Motorized. Yeah,

1880
01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:16,479
Speaker 1: if I gotta push you, yeah, i'll upgrade him.

1881
01:33:16,479 --> 01:33:17,240
Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna give him that.

1882
01:33:17,320 --> 01:33:21,400
Speaker 1: He and me too. If I love, I'm gonna hook

1883
01:33:21,439 --> 01:33:23,680
Speaker 1: that shit up. I'm not mad at it.

1884
01:33:23,960 --> 01:33:25,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not mad at it.

1885
01:33:25,240 --> 01:33:27,800
Speaker 1: I feel like I have to. Yeah, I think i'm

1886
01:33:27,800 --> 01:33:29,920
Speaker 1: But honestly, if I'm being honest, I feel like, at

1887
01:33:29,920 --> 01:33:33,160
Speaker 1: thirty six, I'm so far past the physical because in

1888
01:33:33,200 --> 01:33:37,160
Speaker 1: my younger days, being a physical person and being like,

1889
01:33:37,200 --> 01:33:39,840
Speaker 1: oh he gotta have that, he got it. It ain't

1890
01:33:39,840 --> 01:33:42,720
Speaker 1: eat me nowhere. Yeah, So like if I meet a

1891
01:33:42,760 --> 01:33:44,680
Speaker 1: man and he's an amputee, I'm not gonna be like

1892
01:33:45,320 --> 01:33:47,720
Speaker 1: he does not have a look, I can't talk to

1893
01:33:47,800 --> 01:33:49,880
Speaker 1: him like, no, he might be cool. And I think

1894
01:33:49,920 --> 01:33:52,880
Speaker 1: now the way I date, I date and I'm friends

1895
01:33:52,880 --> 01:33:55,680
Speaker 1: with somebody first, I'm very cautious and I'm like, we're

1896
01:33:55,680 --> 01:33:58,120
Speaker 1: gonna be cool for a while. So honestly, whether you

1897
01:33:58,160 --> 01:34:00,240
Speaker 1: got your leg or not, we're gonna have this period

1898
01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:02,679
Speaker 1: of time or we're just friends anyway, So I gotta

1899
01:34:02,720 --> 01:34:04,479
Speaker 1: go to like you whether you got two legs or

1900
01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:08,360
Speaker 1: one anyway, So you might want to hide that leg

1901
01:34:08,439 --> 01:34:11,479
Speaker 1: from me, cause I ain't gonna know the difference. I

1902
01:34:11,600 --> 01:34:15,880
Speaker 1: walk with a limp too, Okay, I just I don't know.

1903
01:34:16,040 --> 01:34:18,920
Speaker 3: I feel like, like you said, I'm more partial to

1904
01:34:19,640 --> 01:34:22,320
Speaker 3: if it's something that ended up happening to my partner

1905
01:34:22,800 --> 01:34:24,840
Speaker 3: while we're together, then cool.

1906
01:34:25,800 --> 01:34:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to.

1907
01:34:26,800 --> 01:34:28,360
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's something that I would just

1908
01:34:28,479 --> 01:34:32,320
Speaker 3: readily put myself into if I have a choice, because

1909
01:34:32,360 --> 01:34:34,280
Speaker 3: it's a lot, like you said, having to do it

1910
01:34:34,320 --> 01:34:37,280
Speaker 3: with it mentally and then also just being realistic, like

1911
01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:39,280
Speaker 3: I get what you're what you're saying about the fact

1912
01:34:39,280 --> 01:34:41,200
Speaker 3: that like, oh, they can still walk in all the day,

1913
01:34:41,280 --> 01:34:43,679
Speaker 3: which I am aware of, But I think that he's

1914
01:34:43,720 --> 01:34:46,640
Speaker 3: definitely going to change the quality of like both of

1915
01:34:46,720 --> 01:34:49,160
Speaker 3: y'all's life together and a lot of things that y'all

1916
01:34:49,200 --> 01:34:49,559
Speaker 3: could do.

1917
01:34:50,520 --> 01:34:52,400
Speaker 2: You know what, I guess I'm speaking on. What's that?

1918
01:34:52,720 --> 01:34:54,280
Speaker 1: Oh, I have to google her name.

1919
01:34:54,720 --> 01:34:55,320
Speaker 2: It's this girl.

1920
01:34:55,520 --> 01:34:58,360
Speaker 1: She is an Olympic runner and she's married to another

1921
01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:01,840
Speaker 1: Olympic runner, but he does you know what I'm talking about?

1922
01:35:01,960 --> 01:35:03,880
Speaker 1: Can you please look up that couple for me? But

1923
01:35:03,920 --> 01:35:07,040
Speaker 1: he doesn't have a leg and he's a sprinter. You

1924
01:35:07,040 --> 01:35:08,880
Speaker 1: would never know he didn't have no legs. So I

1925
01:35:08,880 --> 01:35:10,760
Speaker 1: guess that's the kind of couples I'm looking at too.

1926
01:35:11,439 --> 01:35:13,160
Speaker 1: You know who I'm talking about? Color Wright?

1927
01:35:16,000 --> 01:35:17,479
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my gosh.

1928
01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:19,200
Speaker 1: And I want to know her name because she, like

1929
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:21,439
Speaker 1: I think she I want to say, she broke a record.

1930
01:35:22,520 --> 01:35:24,360
Speaker 2: I can't remember what she ran it.

1931
01:35:24,400 --> 01:35:26,840
Speaker 1: But anyway, she's married and her man is like an

1932
01:35:26,840 --> 01:35:31,679
Speaker 1: amputee and he real fast. Bitch, Yeah, that motherfucker fast.

1933
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:34,200
Speaker 1: But so I look at it more so like that.

1934
01:35:34,320 --> 01:35:36,439
Speaker 1: But there is other ways to look at it too,

1935
01:35:36,439 --> 01:35:37,760
Speaker 1: and there and like you said, I think it's a

1936
01:35:37,760 --> 01:35:40,200
Speaker 1: lot to take on, cause she's probably taken on a lot.

1937
01:35:40,400 --> 01:35:43,360
Speaker 1: But they're married as well, so I see both ways.

1938
01:35:43,360 --> 01:35:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, that's cool if you do, but it's

1939
01:35:46,000 --> 01:35:47,080
Speaker 1: also okay if you don't.

1940
01:35:47,280 --> 01:35:49,080
Speaker 3: But it does make you think about the fact that,

1941
01:35:49,120 --> 01:35:51,320
Speaker 3: like sometimes maybe people do really be missing out on

1942
01:35:51,400 --> 01:35:53,920
Speaker 3: good people because of things like that. Yeah, what if

1943
01:35:53,920 --> 01:35:56,439
Speaker 3: you missed out on your soul mate because of something

1944
01:35:56,880 --> 01:35:57,120
Speaker 3: like that?

1945
01:35:57,320 --> 01:35:59,720
Speaker 1: Like, Oh I met this person. He was really super

1946
01:35:59,760 --> 01:36:00,840
Speaker 1: so we super nice.

1947
01:36:00,880 --> 01:36:02,920
Speaker 3: He had all of these characteristics that I liked that

1948
01:36:02,960 --> 01:36:05,479
Speaker 3: I wanted in a husband, but he didn't have a leg.

1949
01:36:05,600 --> 01:36:08,200
Speaker 3: So I just completely I have to hear down that

1950
01:36:08,400 --> 01:36:13,040
Speaker 3: she well, her husband now they have kids now, but

1951
01:36:13,080 --> 01:36:15,519
Speaker 3: he's a pair of plegic Tera Davis wood Hall.

1952
01:36:15,880 --> 01:36:19,479
Speaker 1: Like she didn't let that Hunter wood Hall. Really it's good,

1953
01:36:19,640 --> 01:36:20,720
Speaker 1: that's beautiful.

1954
01:36:20,320 --> 01:36:20,720
Speaker 2: What she said.

1955
01:36:20,720 --> 01:36:22,120
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but she was just saying one of her

1956
01:36:22,160 --> 01:36:23,880
Speaker 3: friends met a man who was like a pair of

1957
01:36:23,920 --> 01:36:25,679
Speaker 3: alegic and she didn't let that stop.

1958
01:36:25,800 --> 01:36:28,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a couple I'm talking about Tera Davis

1959
01:36:28,840 --> 01:36:34,439
Speaker 1: wood Hall and Hunter wood Hall. And he fast as hell,

1960
01:36:35,640 --> 01:36:37,799
Speaker 1: he is so fast. But they're like an Olympic couple.

1961
01:36:38,600 --> 01:36:40,479
Speaker 1: But they live a normal life.

1962
01:36:41,479 --> 01:36:43,519
Speaker 3: The next episode, I really want to do a lyric

1963
01:36:43,600 --> 01:36:46,280
Speaker 3: breakdown because when you really be thinking about some of

1964
01:36:46,280 --> 01:36:49,080
Speaker 3: the stuff that people would stay in songs, it's like,

1965
01:36:49,120 --> 01:36:51,720
Speaker 3: why would they say that? Because Tad just said a

1966
01:36:51,720 --> 01:36:54,880
Speaker 3: pair of plegic and it made me remember when Lil Wayne.

1967
01:36:54,560 --> 01:36:58,040
Speaker 1: Said pair of polegic, a pair of let park and

1968
01:36:58,040 --> 01:37:00,679
Speaker 1: it red and white thing, old school Atlanta. Why would

1969
01:37:00,720 --> 01:37:03,439
Speaker 1: he say? Then why did he say? And then why

1970
01:37:03,439 --> 01:37:08,880
Speaker 1: did he say tougher than Nigerian hair? Because hey, I'm

1971
01:37:09,800 --> 01:37:13,840
Speaker 1: now we just talked to revival. Now we just talked

1972
01:37:13,840 --> 01:37:16,439
Speaker 1: to our girl, a rooted revival. You got to use

1973
01:37:16,479 --> 01:37:21,200
Speaker 1: your rooted revival, damn it. Okay, So now it's time

1974
01:37:21,280 --> 01:37:27,519
Speaker 1: to get into love. Hey love about Hey love bow Bow.

1975
01:37:28,640 --> 01:37:31,960
Speaker 1: You gotta seen that ship like you mean it? How you?

1976
01:37:33,880 --> 01:37:35,479
Speaker 2: Okay? So my bop of the week.

1977
01:37:35,520 --> 01:37:37,840
Speaker 1: And then Wendy used to say that saying like you mean,

1978
01:37:38,560 --> 01:37:41,040
Speaker 1: I don't know that's what she's a song? I think

1979
01:37:42,040 --> 01:37:43,920
Speaker 1: say it like you read something like that?

1980
01:37:44,280 --> 01:37:45,400
Speaker 2: Okay, So my bop of the week.

1981
01:37:45,439 --> 01:37:47,160
Speaker 1: A listener actually sent this to me and I meant

1982
01:37:47,160 --> 01:37:52,400
Speaker 1: to screenshot his name, but I'm sorry, I forgot October London.

1983
01:37:52,640 --> 01:37:54,920
Speaker 1: I have recently been put onto him, obviously I've been

1984
01:37:55,000 --> 01:37:58,120
Speaker 1: under Actually no, I have not been recently introduced to him.

1985
01:37:58,280 --> 01:38:00,639
Speaker 1: I was introduced to this song back to your Place

1986
01:38:01,240 --> 01:38:05,639
Speaker 1: by October London. This is a vibe like ladies men whoever,

1987
01:38:05,680 --> 01:38:08,240
Speaker 1: when you got company coming over to your house and

1988
01:38:08,240 --> 01:38:10,240
Speaker 1: you're getting ready, you cooking for him, you're getting that

1989
01:38:10,280 --> 01:38:10,760
Speaker 1: house clean.

1990
01:38:10,880 --> 01:38:13,439
Speaker 2: This is the song you play. Y'all been on a

1991
01:38:13,439 --> 01:38:14,400
Speaker 2: few dates.

1992
01:38:14,800 --> 01:38:17,040
Speaker 1: Now it's time to invite them over to your house

1993
01:38:17,479 --> 01:38:19,599
Speaker 1: and you're getting that house ready, you cooking that food.

1994
01:38:20,240 --> 01:38:22,479
Speaker 1: This is the song you play. It's gonna get you

1995
01:38:22,479 --> 01:38:24,679
Speaker 1: in the mood. This is a it's a that old

1996
01:38:24,720 --> 01:38:27,599
Speaker 1: school vibe. So October London, back to your Place, that's

1997
01:38:27,640 --> 01:38:31,080
Speaker 1: my vibe period, Back to your place. Yeah, yeah, you

1998
01:38:31,120 --> 01:38:33,360
Speaker 1: need to listen to that when you're cooking that fish

1999
01:38:33,400 --> 01:38:38,880
Speaker 1: for that man. Okay, I'm still on my Caribbean wave, Drea,

2000
01:38:39,000 --> 01:38:42,040
Speaker 1: what is going on? I don't know. Maybe it's the

2001
01:38:42,080 --> 01:38:46,160
Speaker 1: Dominican in me. Yeah, yeah, you put it in bout

2002
01:38:46,160 --> 01:38:52,320
Speaker 1: to us. I'm putting yeah, I am. They do be mobbed.

2003
01:38:53,479 --> 01:38:59,720
Speaker 1: So Jada Kingdom, you know, I love Twinker. Got a

2004
01:38:59,800 --> 01:39:03,800
Speaker 1: song called Can't tell me that. Okay, you know I

2005
01:39:03,840 --> 01:39:04,280
Speaker 1: love her.

2006
01:39:04,840 --> 01:39:07,040
Speaker 3: Jada Keenan got a song. Can't tell me that, and

2007
01:39:07,080 --> 01:39:09,719
Speaker 3: it's so good. It's like sexual essential.

2008
01:39:09,800 --> 01:39:13,559
Speaker 1: She'd be like, you can tell me that, you can

2009
01:39:13,760 --> 01:39:15,360
Speaker 1: tell me that. It's a good song. I think you

2010
01:39:15,360 --> 01:39:15,960
Speaker 1: would like it.

2011
01:39:16,120 --> 01:39:17,360
Speaker 2: Well, you know, I like Jada.

2012
01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:19,960
Speaker 1: She had I had made her a bop of the

2013
01:39:19,960 --> 01:39:21,200
Speaker 1: week a long time ago.

2014
01:39:21,400 --> 01:39:22,599
Speaker 2: She had that song, What's up?

2015
01:39:23,600 --> 01:39:24,120
Speaker 1: What's up?

2016
01:39:24,439 --> 01:39:25,320
Speaker 2: I got something that?

2017
01:39:26,439 --> 01:39:28,400
Speaker 1: And you know, one thing I love about her is

2018
01:39:28,400 --> 01:39:31,679
Speaker 1: she's always fine. Her weight is always up and down,

2019
01:39:31,720 --> 01:39:34,160
Speaker 1: but it don't matter what if, she doesn't matter. She

2020
01:39:34,320 --> 01:39:37,160
Speaker 1: just always look good, very polished. I love her. I

2021
01:39:37,200 --> 01:39:39,679
Speaker 1: would actually like to have her on the show. Jadah

2022
01:39:39,760 --> 01:39:43,880
Speaker 1: Kingdom come through. Look Craig bobbing that head. It was me,

2023
01:39:44,160 --> 01:39:48,120
Speaker 1: Oh okay, alright, Bapa, okay, I like that. I like that.

2024
01:39:48,439 --> 01:39:50,679
Speaker 1: I feel like you would like it. It's really good. Okay.

2025
01:39:51,080 --> 01:39:53,160
Speaker 3: So yeah, so shout out to Jada Kingdom. So now

2026
01:39:53,240 --> 01:39:54,479
Speaker 3: it's time to get into the item.

2027
01:39:54,320 --> 01:39:54,760
Speaker 1: Of the week.

2028
01:39:55,320 --> 01:39:58,040
Speaker 3: For the item of the week, of course, her fantasy box.

2029
01:39:58,320 --> 01:40:00,960
Speaker 3: What else, Taylor Port, what else?

2030
01:40:01,040 --> 01:40:01,559
Speaker 1: What else?

2031
01:40:01,920 --> 01:40:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I have to talk about this body oil again.

2032
01:40:04,640 --> 01:40:06,880
Speaker 1: If you don't do nothing else, y'all go get this

2033
01:40:06,960 --> 01:40:10,639
Speaker 1: body oil from her fantasy box. I'm not playing, it's

2034
01:40:10,920 --> 01:40:13,880
Speaker 1: the business. Is it a dry oil? No, it's not,

2035
01:40:14,479 --> 01:40:17,840
Speaker 1: because you know, so I use the dry oil. What's

2036
01:40:17,840 --> 01:40:21,000
Speaker 1: the one that I use? The dry oil that I use?

2037
01:40:21,080 --> 01:40:24,400
Speaker 1: I forgot I'm drinking what's the perfect the pink perfume

2038
01:40:24,439 --> 01:40:26,120
Speaker 1: that you so?

2039
01:40:26,160 --> 01:40:27,840
Speaker 2: I use the Delina body oil.

2040
01:40:27,920 --> 01:40:30,800
Speaker 1: Now that's a dry oil. Like if you're trying to

2041
01:40:30,840 --> 01:40:36,040
Speaker 1: get moisturized, no, okay, but it gives you what you need. Now,

2042
01:40:36,200 --> 01:40:40,120
Speaker 1: this is gonna moisture you up, but it's not greasy,

2043
01:40:40,880 --> 01:40:43,080
Speaker 1: but it gives you that shine. I like that shine

2044
01:40:43,120 --> 01:40:45,519
Speaker 1: because that tom Ford oil you're gonna get that.

2045
01:40:45,560 --> 01:40:47,920
Speaker 3: You're gonna get that shine with it. And the Bakarry oil.

2046
01:40:48,000 --> 01:40:52,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the Delina is just for the smell and

2047
01:40:52,640 --> 01:40:55,240
Speaker 1: it's to get that dry off. But it's not gonna

2048
01:40:55,240 --> 01:41:02,040
Speaker 1: moisturize you. But this, mmm, that's that's the one right there.

2049
01:41:02,120 --> 01:41:04,000
Speaker 2: I don't know what you put in that ship her

2050
01:41:04,080 --> 01:41:05,000
Speaker 2: fantasy box, but.

2051
01:41:05,080 --> 01:41:07,759
Speaker 1: You need that. But she put that that box.

2052
01:41:08,439 --> 01:41:12,360
Speaker 3: Shout out to her fantasy and shout out to mus

2053
01:41:12,360 --> 01:41:15,840
Speaker 3: Beauty collection dot com. Make sure you get your lip glosses, lipliners,

2054
01:41:15,880 --> 01:41:19,519
Speaker 3: Madley with lipsticks, blushes. Y'all know the holidays are coming up.

2055
01:41:20,120 --> 01:41:23,840
Speaker 3: Were about to have a huge Black Friday cell, Cyber Monday,

2056
01:41:24,320 --> 01:41:26,200
Speaker 3: Christmas is coming up. We about to have a Christmas

2057
01:41:26,240 --> 01:41:28,400
Speaker 3: cell and like, yeah, I'm just gonna take everything to

2058
01:41:28,439 --> 01:41:29,519
Speaker 3: the next level with music.

2059
01:41:29,680 --> 01:41:31,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what you put in that glaze, but

2060
01:41:31,439 --> 01:41:33,160
Speaker 1: you did your big one with that one, because I

2061
01:41:33,240 --> 01:41:38,120
Speaker 1: be glazed up on the nigga. You do be glazed asshole. Yeah,

2062
01:41:38,400 --> 01:41:41,080
Speaker 1: I can't getting tool drunk and it's time to end

2063
01:41:41,080 --> 01:41:43,800
Speaker 1: the sheep. But before we do that, oh, we gotta

2064
01:41:43,840 --> 01:41:44,880
Speaker 1: go in support your heart out.

2065
01:41:45,240 --> 01:41:48,520
Speaker 3: And you know, if you have any questions or testimony,

2066
01:41:48,600 --> 01:41:50,800
Speaker 3: you'll send them to ask for Minds at gmail dot com.

2067
01:41:50,800 --> 01:41:53,800
Speaker 3: It's as kp oh you are in my NDAs at

2068
01:41:54,120 --> 01:41:55,479
Speaker 3: gmail dot com.

2069
01:41:56,040 --> 01:41:57,920
Speaker 1: We're just gonna do one today. That's all right, that's

2070
01:41:57,960 --> 01:42:00,240
Speaker 1: all right. I don't even got one. You don't have one? Uh,

2071
01:42:00,320 --> 01:42:04,280
Speaker 1: I think? I okay? So how I do mine? Oh?

2072
01:42:04,640 --> 01:42:05,000
Speaker 1: I got it?

2073
01:42:05,040 --> 01:42:05,840
Speaker 2: It's so how I have one?

2074
01:42:05,960 --> 01:42:06,240
Speaker 1: Okay?

2075
01:42:06,760 --> 01:42:09,639
Speaker 3: Heydrea and Legs, please keep me anonymous. I'm a proud

2076
01:42:09,760 --> 01:42:12,320
Speaker 3: Patreon member and just started watching y'all this year.

2077
01:42:12,760 --> 01:42:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm hooked so boom.

2078
01:42:14,400 --> 01:42:17,040
Speaker 3: I just ended up four almost five year relationship after

2079
01:42:17,160 --> 01:42:20,080
Speaker 3: catching my boyfriend cheating again. The first time was two

2080
01:42:20,160 --> 01:42:25,000
Speaker 3: years ago with his friend, which kind of friend, And

2081
01:42:25,120 --> 01:42:27,559
Speaker 3: this time I found him sending nudes and calling another

2082
01:42:27,640 --> 01:42:31,879
Speaker 3: girl boo. I cut it off immediately. He's apologized, admitting

2083
01:42:31,960 --> 01:42:35,479
Speaker 3: he got comfortable and had no ambition and blamed his

2084
01:42:35,640 --> 01:42:38,680
Speaker 3: ego and insecurities. I even started therapy the same week

2085
01:42:38,760 --> 01:42:41,519
Speaker 3: we broke up. I'm twenty four, he's twenty seven. Am

2086
01:42:41,560 --> 01:42:44,439
Speaker 3: I crazy for believing his excuses? And is it wild

2087
01:42:44,560 --> 01:42:48,080
Speaker 3: that I still think maybe once we both love ourselves,

2088
01:42:48,120 --> 01:42:48,880
Speaker 3: we could make it work.

2089
01:42:50,320 --> 01:42:52,559
Speaker 1: You are crazy, but it's okay. You're still young. He's

2090
01:42:52,600 --> 01:42:55,400
Speaker 1: jealous of you. He secretly hates you, and he's envious.

2091
01:42:55,800 --> 01:42:58,360
Speaker 1: If a man loses ambition and he blames you and

2092
01:42:58,439 --> 01:43:00,960
Speaker 1: goes to start fucking on another, he's jealous of you,

2093
01:43:01,040 --> 01:43:03,160
Speaker 1: and you need to get away from him immediately because

2094
01:43:03,160 --> 01:43:09,439
Speaker 1: it's never gonna get better. I have no notes. Y'all

2095
01:43:09,479 --> 01:43:12,479
Speaker 1: got to watch these signs because that's a characteristic. You

2096
01:43:12,680 --> 01:43:14,640
Speaker 1: lose ambition and the first thing you do is go

2097
01:43:14,760 --> 01:43:18,120
Speaker 1: get some pussy from another bitch. Something ain't writ in

2098
01:43:18,160 --> 01:43:20,320
Speaker 1: that head your.

2099
01:43:20,280 --> 01:43:21,560
Speaker 2: Ego and your insecurities.

2100
01:43:22,439 --> 01:43:24,519
Speaker 1: If I'm triggering you now and I'm only twenty seven,

2101
01:43:24,920 --> 01:43:27,000
Speaker 1: you haven't even reached your peak in life yet. So

2102
01:43:27,120 --> 01:43:29,320
Speaker 1: imagine what you gonna do to his insecurities and his

2103
01:43:29,439 --> 01:43:31,920
Speaker 1: ego when you reach your peak. Let that nigga go,

2104
01:43:32,760 --> 01:43:36,160
Speaker 1: oh no, she's twenty four. He's so Yeah, you're twenty four.

2105
01:43:36,240 --> 01:43:40,640
Speaker 1: You haven't even gotten close. Girl. Let that nigga go.

2106
01:43:41,320 --> 01:43:41,880
Speaker 1: I agree.

2107
01:43:42,240 --> 01:43:45,120
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's like even in being young, like, yeah, you

2108
01:43:45,240 --> 01:43:47,880
Speaker 3: can grow with people, but if the signs are already there,

2109
01:43:48,200 --> 01:43:50,479
Speaker 3: Like I mean, he already cheated on you once. And

2110
01:43:50,600 --> 01:43:52,240
Speaker 3: I know that I have said in the past on

2111
01:43:52,320 --> 01:43:57,200
Speaker 3: the show, I cheating isn't necessarily a zeal breaker for me,

2112
01:43:58,160 --> 01:43:59,479
Speaker 3: and I've said that in the past.

2113
01:44:00,640 --> 01:44:04,680
Speaker 1: But I definitely feel like, is it a pattern? Right?

2114
01:44:05,560 --> 01:44:10,679
Speaker 3: Like, sometimes things happen, people slip up and it's something

2115
01:44:10,720 --> 01:44:12,439
Speaker 3: that happened and they wish they could take it back

2116
01:44:12,479 --> 01:44:15,640
Speaker 3: and they'll never do it again. That happens sometimes, right,

2117
01:44:15,720 --> 01:44:17,880
Speaker 3: But then you have people that are habitual cheaters and

2118
01:44:17,960 --> 01:44:20,360
Speaker 3: that's what they do. It's a cheat, nass nigga, and

2119
01:44:20,600 --> 01:44:22,640
Speaker 3: that nigga sound like a cheat. Nass nigga because you

2120
01:44:22,720 --> 01:44:25,960
Speaker 3: said he cheated on you. Then after that you found

2121
01:44:26,000 --> 01:44:29,000
Speaker 3: out he told another girl hey boom ooh not hey boo.

2122
01:44:29,320 --> 01:44:30,240
Speaker 3: So it's a pattern.

2123
01:44:30,280 --> 01:44:32,280
Speaker 1: And if that bitch stay, if she respond back and

2124
01:44:32,360 --> 01:44:34,800
Speaker 1: be like, hey, what's up, daddy, he gonna go fuck

2125
01:44:34,880 --> 01:44:36,960
Speaker 1: that hole. So let that nigga go.

2126
01:44:37,640 --> 01:44:40,120
Speaker 2: I agree one thousand, one thous wow.

2127
01:44:41,040 --> 01:44:43,639
Speaker 1: So y'all know, we always have a bottled Up segment

2128
01:44:43,680 --> 01:44:47,160
Speaker 1: where y'all just send us something of you getting things

2129
01:44:47,200 --> 01:44:50,000
Speaker 1: off of your chest. This is not advice, like pour

2130
01:44:50,080 --> 01:44:51,840
Speaker 1: your heart out, but you just wanna get some things

2131
01:44:51,880 --> 01:44:54,080
Speaker 1: off your chest. So we're gonna play our bottled up

2132
01:44:54,320 --> 01:44:56,760
Speaker 1: portion of the show sponsored by Taylor Port.

2133
01:44:56,800 --> 01:44:57,560
Speaker 2: Go ahead and play it.

2134
01:44:57,880 --> 01:45:02,280
Speaker 8: So I have two friends and they are a little

2135
01:45:02,320 --> 01:45:05,240
Speaker 8: bit closer than me and them are, especially nowadays because

2136
01:45:05,240 --> 01:45:06,599
Speaker 8: I do work a lot more.

2137
01:45:08,840 --> 01:45:09,560
Speaker 1: And I don't know.

2138
01:45:09,760 --> 01:45:11,600
Speaker 8: I just I'm trying to figure out how can I

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Speaker 8: tell if these people are if these two girls are

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Speaker 8: my friends for real? Or I don't know, because even

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Speaker 8: like sometimes I feel like I can I cannot be there,

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Speaker 8: or I'll tell them certain things and it's as if

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Speaker 8: like they're they're talking about had my back like they've

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Speaker 8: discussed this behind my back. So I'm just trying to

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Speaker 8: figure out, how can I tell if my friends are

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Speaker 8: really my friends at this point?

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't know.

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Speaker 8: My gut is telling me one thing. I don't know

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Speaker 8: if it's in my head or not. I don't know

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Speaker 8: if I'm just kind of tripping because I'm not around

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Speaker 8: as much.

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Speaker 1: But let me know what y'all think. Am I tripping?

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Speaker 8: Is it in my head?

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Speaker 1: Are these girls my friends?

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Speaker 8: I don't really know what to think of it, because

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Speaker 8: I don't have any friends that after all.

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Speaker 1: I kind of feel like, if that's the case, y'all

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Speaker 1: not really real friends.

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Speaker 3: Because I don't never feel like if me and two

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Speaker 3: people are friends with each other, that they're talking about

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Speaker 3: me behind my bag or like whatever I tell the

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Speaker 3: both of them when they not around me, they gossiping

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Speaker 3: about me and what I told them amongst each other.

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Speaker 1: I don't never feel that way.

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Speaker 3: I feel like, if you feel that way, that's a

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Speaker 3: and I'm not saying you wrong, but to me, that's

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Speaker 3: more of an intuition, good feeling type of thing. And

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Speaker 3: I think sometimes it's people we need to go with

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Speaker 3: our good feelings and our intuition about stuff, because.

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Speaker 1: Them ain't show friends if.

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Speaker 3: You feel like like, I'll use us for something you're

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Speaker 3: concerned about, Shall I say.

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Speaker 1: Like me and you are both friends with Kiki and Tiffany,

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Speaker 1: Like if you go and hang out with Tiffany and

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Speaker 1: Kiki and I'm not fair, I don't be like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I don't feel I never feel on tope

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Speaker 1: of it, I'd be like next time I'm pulling up

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Speaker 1: or something like that. So I think your intuition is

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Speaker 1: telling you something because I've get how she feels though,

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Speaker 1: because growing up in high school was seven of us,

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Speaker 1: and you know, we had our friend groups on the inside,

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Speaker 1: and we knew who we fucked with and we knew

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Speaker 1: who we didn't fuck with. So your gut intuition is

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Speaker 1: not wrong and you probably should either have a talk

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Speaker 1: with him or separate yourself. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying it like because you're right, I feel

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Speaker 1: like we've all had those feelings before. Like I've had

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Speaker 1: those feelings before.

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Speaker 3: But that's what let me know, you bitch just is

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Speaker 3: not really my friends for real, because I shouldn't be

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Speaker 3: feeling this way like I shouldn't be concerned about what

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Speaker 3: the subject matter is when I'm not around.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree what you think.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know because I've had that feeling where

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Speaker 3: it's been three of us and then one friend feels

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Speaker 3: a certain way about me and the other friend having

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Speaker 3: a closer relationship. So I wouldn't say that it's always negative.

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Speaker 3: I think what we had to do and are just

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Speaker 3: us as the three of us had to have a

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Speaker 3: talk about why that person may have felt excluded a

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Speaker 3: little bit, and then we just worked on it, like

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Speaker 3: because it was no like we weren't intentionally, we just

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Speaker 3: are closer naturally we have each other longer, We just

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Speaker 3: had a tighter relationship, but as friends because we all

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Speaker 3: love each other, we travel together, we've known each other

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Speaker 3: for so long. We just had to talk about it,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, Okay, we need to make sure you

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Speaker 3: feel excluded. Maybe these jokes, we can take it a

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Speaker 3: little a lot easier. Yeah, maybe when we joking with you,

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Speaker 3: you taking it a different way, right, and just having

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Speaker 3: an open conversation.

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Speaker 2: And that's what I said.

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Speaker 1: I think if you bring it up and y'all have

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Speaker 1: a healthy conversation, but if they get.

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Speaker 2: A little defensive talk about you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like if you bring it up and they get defensive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the signs be there, they be there, But it

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Speaker 1: could also be with ta say go with yo good Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I sometimes when we be around people, people be

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Speaker 1: like they're not talking about us, but it's like we

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Speaker 1: just being our own little world. It's not on purpose. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and we also be talking about them. All right.

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Speaker 2: Thank y'all so much. This has been a great episode

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Speaker 2: of Part minds.

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Speaker 1: By y'all, do you give me the word and everything? Then?

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Speaker 1: I want me since Sabby, young girl, my whole life.

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Speaker 9: Has been much better up, been everbaby, for.

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Speaker 1: You got a ten this week. You can't do that

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Speaker 1: That's shu Why I love you so much? Baby?

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Speaker 10: That shu why I can't get in Maybe that shit

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Speaker 10: why I love you so much?

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Speaker 1: Love y.

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Speaker 2: Now you're saying that your jol.

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Speaker 7: You said you won't play around no no, not with

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Speaker 7: my home your boys on around no you're not just

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Speaker 7: respecting me.

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Speaker 1: You're not trying to be it's a wannap bey had.

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Speaker 9: You let them know that I'm your yes do holding me,

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Speaker 9: he kissing me, let them know that for st.

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Speaker 11: Baby, why can't and you know babies I love only.

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Speaker 12: Never say up to ye, yeah, around enough to no,

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Speaker 12: enough to know just what I want.

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Speaker 1: You don't move too fast on make me rold know

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Speaker 1: that we're gonna talk about making love, no doubt.

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Speaker 13: Baby, when the time is wrong, when the when the

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Speaker 13: time is wrong?

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Speaker 1: What was you doing the in order? And oh god

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Speaker 1: the time she was on the album cover like this, no.

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Speaker 13: No, what they're doing so bad?

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Speaker 1: And me you take me and you hold me, You

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Speaker 1: probed me in your arms, Fader and line it off

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Speaker 1: you for that baby, you don't frun in front of

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Speaker 1: your friends and you're falling up to the bedroom.

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Speaker 13: Maria, I love you and I love you and.

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Speaker 1: I love you? Are that b b baby me? Baby?

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Speaker 1: Oh let me northern it's baby me yeah yeah, here.

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Speaker 14: Live baby that yeah, why i'd have you some bad

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Speaker 14: maybe that you why I can't get it over.

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Speaker 1: You like this when the time is wrong monot