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Speaker 1: Kurt is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 1: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Olivia.

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Speaker 1: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 1: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe get

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Speaker 1: him a second date. But first, Kurt, how long has

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Speaker 1: it been since you heard from Olivia?

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Speaker 2: It is going on a whole week now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's too bad. Though, maybe she's just like working.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. She's not responding, she

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Speaker 2: was not calling back, so that's a lot of work.

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Speaker 3: That's not the vibe you're getting. No, Okay, well, why

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Speaker 3: don't you tell us about the date.

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Speaker 2: It was a really good date. I thought we had

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Speaker 2: a good time. She really stood out. You know, she's

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Speaker 2: got like a quick wit, you know, kind of sharp tongue.

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Speaker 2: She had a quick comeback. She's real observe and I

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Speaker 2: like that. Okay, very funny, very funny. And she felt

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Speaker 2: like an independent, grounded person, you know, not fake at all.

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Speaker 2: She had this calm about her, like she's and somethings.

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Speaker 2: She's lived her life, you know, she's kind of cool

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Speaker 2: about that. So I thought that was really attractive in her.

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Speaker 2: We went out at a gate at this market night

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Speaker 2: market style food hall type thing, and you know, really cool,

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Speaker 2: and they have shared tables and stuff.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: We wor up a bunch of different food in different places,

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Speaker 2: and we went back and to share the food, you know,

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Speaker 2: real casual place, and we're having a really good time,

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Speaker 2: a really good time.

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Speaker 1: Nice okay, and how did everything end?

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Speaker 5: Well? Before it ended?

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Speaker 2: While we were eating, I accidentally ate something that was waste,

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Speaker 2: spicier than I expected it to be. I can handle spicy,

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Speaker 2: but this was like a lot. So I tried to

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Speaker 2: play cool and that failed miserably.

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Speaker 5: My eyes were watering.

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Speaker 2: I faced her and red, My voice was squeaking, and

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Speaker 2: I just you know, she was checking on me. I said,

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Speaker 2: I'm fine. I just don't believe in weakness, you know.

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Speaker 2: I was just goofing around. She laughed. And then it

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Speaker 2: got worse because some paramedics came by. We didn't call

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Speaker 2: them with this couple. The couples not that I was

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Speaker 2: having trouble, and they called them and they brought them

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Speaker 2: over to check me out. It was a huge scene.

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Speaker 2: It was a mess, but I was fine. I didn't

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Speaker 2: need the tay. Next I was like over kill.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think. I mean, you must have looked like

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Speaker 3: you were really struggling though for somebody else to grab

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Speaker 2: And I was I was in bad shape. I don't

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Speaker 2: know what I ate, but I was in bad shape.

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Speaker 2: It was not going good.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's see if it was the spice

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Speaker 1: moment that did you in.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope, I hope.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll play a song and then come back

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Speaker 1: and call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 1: she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, we'll get your first day follow

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Speaker 1: up next. It's the Jubile show. Right in the middle

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Speaker 1: of your first day follow up. And if you're just

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Speaker 1: joining us, Kurt is on the phone and he's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted by Olivia. So we're about to call her and

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Speaker 1: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and

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Speaker 1: see if we can also get him a second date.

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Speaker 1: But before we do that, Kurt, why don't you break

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Speaker 1: down your day again for us real quick.

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Speaker 2: We had a really good time that this should play,

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Speaker 2: and she was really fun and cute. We were hitting

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Speaker 2: it off, and of course I ate some super spicy

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Speaker 2: food that I didn't know. Was that spicy? And that

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Speaker 2: turned into a big thing. I don't know that was

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Speaker 2: a huge turnoff for but that that could be it.

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Speaker 2: Otherwise we had a great time.

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Speaker 1: All right, so scary honestly? Are you ready for us

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Speaker 1: to call her?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, yeah, here we go it.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Olivia.

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Speaker 5: Please asked his calling.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you may, Olivia. This is a radio show. It's

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Speaker 1: called The Jubile Show. Hi Olivia. I'm Nina Victoria and

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Speaker 1: my name is Jewel.

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 5: Am I on the radio right now?

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Speaker 1: Yes? You are?

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Speaker 5: Oh? What's up?

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Speaker 2: You?

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Speaker 5: Guys?

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Speaker 1: Not much? Have you ever listened to The Jewel Show before?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Of course I have.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sweet, maybe you've heard a first Date follow up?

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Speaker 1: You know that's the segment where we do on the

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Speaker 1: show where if you end up going on a day

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Speaker 1: with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person

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Speaker 1: can email us to get you on the phone and

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Speaker 1: find out why. And we got an email about you.

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Speaker 1: No you didn't, Yes we did, Yes we did. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah they can. God, No way are you ghosting anybody?

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Speaker 5: Uh? I am currently ghosting one guy.

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Speaker 4: But I don't know why you would reach out that

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Speaker 4: would be absolutely crazy as him and I am certainly

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Speaker 4: not emotionally prepared for this.

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Speaker 3: Oh, okay, do you need a minute or do you

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Speaker 3: think you could tell us who it is, who you

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Speaker 3: think it.

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Speaker 1: Is, or what happened.

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Speaker 5: My money, my money is on it being Kurt.

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Speaker 1: It is Kurt. Yes, Kurt emailed us and told us

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Speaker 1: about your date, said he really liked you, but he

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Speaker 1: can't figure out why you're ghosting him. Would you mind

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know what, if he reached out and

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Speaker 4: I'm on the radio with all the bells and whistles

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Speaker 4: and surprises, I will absolutely tell you, even if it's

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Speaker 4: even wants me to say.

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Speaker 5: This to the public live on air. Okay, great.

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Speaker 4: So when we were like sitting at the shared table,

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Speaker 4: there was you know, it was like a street hall,

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Speaker 5: So there were like some straight.

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Speaker 4: Performers that were there, and this street performer was walking

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Speaker 4: by and he was asking for tips, and I literally

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Speaker 4: saw Kurt reach into his pocket like he's about to tip,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, oh my gosh, he cares about

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Speaker 4: like a patriot of the arts. And he literally pulled

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Speaker 5: And looked this man in the eye and said just kidding.

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Speaker 1: Wow, really, Oh, I don't like.

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Speaker 4: And then he looked at me and he said I

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Speaker 4: how to respond, like to me, that's just mean, like

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Speaker 4: somebody relies on this as their job. Like you can

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Speaker 4: always just say like I don't have any cash on me,

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Speaker 4: or like I like sorry, man, like not today. But

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Speaker 4: I just it really gave me the ick in like

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Speaker 4: this insanely gross way.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well, thank you for telling us, and Olivia,

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Speaker 1: Kurt is actually on the phone wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry he's here.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Kurt, I I h Kurt, did you really do that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I did.

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Speaker 2: It was funny, but God was like he wanted to

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Speaker 2: tip to stand on one slot. I'm not gonna give

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Speaker 2: my hard earned money to a beggar. Come on, Olivia,

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Speaker 2: that was funny, Olivia, come on, that was funny that

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Speaker 2: it was a joke.

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Speaker 5: It was a joke. Was punching down? It was gross.

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Speaker 4: Dude.

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Speaker 2: I didn't punch him. I just didn't tip him out.

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Speaker 2: I didn't touch the guy.

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Speaker 1: Just saying punching down, like you know, like this dude

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Speaker 1: taking the opportunity to make fun of him is like

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Speaker 1: you're in a better position, So it's punching down. She

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Speaker 1: didn't say you literally punched him.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, I don't know. I think I was homeless.

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Speaker 2: I didn't think it was homeless. I was just you know,

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Speaker 2: begging for money for his sony little acrobatic thing what

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Speaker 2: I mean, if he can go get a job, shouldn't

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Speaker 2: try to take my money.

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Speaker 4: Wow, you're hearing this right like I thought I was.

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, they're doing a reboot

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Speaker 4: of Pumped, Like I was like, I'm getting prints like

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Speaker 4: this is ridiculous.

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Speaker 5: Watching this happen. And I was like, I, I.

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Speaker 4: Was like, it put me in such a weird position

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Speaker 5: It made me so uncomfortable. I was at a genuine.

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Speaker 4: Loss for words that like a human being would do

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Speaker 2: Okay, first of all, I didn't know you were just

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Speaker 2: kind of a hippie. As Also, I don't ever want

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Speaker 2: a woman to apologize for me realthing I did. I

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Speaker 2: don't need that. Also, when I pay for the food,

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Speaker 2: I didn't tip either.

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Speaker 4: You know, if you if you literally can't afford to tip,

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Speaker 4: don't go out to eat.

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Speaker 2: I can afford to tip. It's the principal or think

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Speaker 2: I don't have to tip. I can afford to tip.

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Speaker 2: I just don't want to. I mean, I have a

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Speaker 2: good job, all right, I'm not a server. So if

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Speaker 2: they want to make more money, that shoul get a

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Speaker 2: good job like I did.

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Speaker 1: Well, you don't see how this is just a little

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Speaker 1: off putting.

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Speaker 2: This isn't a big a deal. I don't know why

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Speaker 2: everybody's getting nothing out of shapeare.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Olivia, would you like another day with Kurt? Will

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Speaker 1: pay for it? Sorry, I know you don't want to

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Speaker 1: hand out.

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Speaker 4: Well, honestly, I would rather you give that money to

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Speaker 4: servers and waiters and tip them.

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Speaker 1: Well, Kurt, I'm sorry. No, no second date man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's fine. I don't want to go out

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Speaker 2: with you either, Olivia, since you're just trying to give

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Speaker 2: all my money away with only Robin Hood. I didn't

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Speaker 2: know you're going to be such a liberal crivated. You

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Speaker 2: didn't seem that way, you didn't come up that way.

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Speaker 2: This is you misrepresented yourself and we were in a date.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well say you guys. Yeah,