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Speaker 1: Rod and caried to Hot Yeah. Buddy, Welcome to another

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Speaker 1: episode of the Blackout Tips Podcast. I'm your host, Rod,

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Speaker 1: joined us always by my co host, and we're live on.

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Speaker 2: A Saturday morning, ready to do some feedback.

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Speaker 1: That's when we talk about what you guys had to

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Speaker 1: say throughout the week. You left comments on our website,

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Speaker 1: you voted in the post, your left comments on our YouTube,

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Speaker 1: your left voicemails, you mailed us stuff physically, your emailed us.

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Speaker 1: All of that stuff is going to be addressed today

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Speaker 1: for those that are trying to get the posters I've

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Speaker 1: mailed off, like my last of my poster mailers yesterday.

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Speaker 1: I think there's one more person that wants a poster.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think that might be it. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I'll let you know if we get some more back

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Speaker 1: in stock or whatever, but it everybody that sent it in.

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Speaker 1: I've sent them out, so you should be getting them

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Speaker 1: in the mail. You guys should be receiving them soon.

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Speaker 1: I did send them to like lowest costs, so some

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Speaker 1: and you know, if enough people request them or enough

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Speaker 1: people want to buy some, uh, then I'll buy some

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Speaker 1: more poster holders and mail them out to a waiting

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Speaker 1: list of people. The official weapon of the show is

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Speaker 1: the pholding chair. The unofficial sport the bullet ball extremes.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's nothing to be sorry about. Sometimes I

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Speaker 1: just like to say it too. Is that okay?

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Speaker 3: That is fine? We can do it in Unit city

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Speaker 3: at home, and it helps me remember.

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Speaker 1: It's trying to be helpful. Of course. You know, you

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Speaker 1: can go to the black guy who tips dot com

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Speaker 1: look on the right hand side, and you can actually

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Speaker 1: support the show monetarily through PayPal donations, one time, recurring.

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Speaker 1: We don't care any amount. We don't care. We give

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Speaker 1: you a shout out just for doing it, and that's it.

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Speaker 1: That's all you get is the shout out. But people

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Speaker 1: they just love us. They love it to show exists.

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Speaker 1: They don't want nothing extra. They not looking for a

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Speaker 1: Here's some money so y'all can eat. And we give

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Speaker 1: a donation to the best podcast in the world. So

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, and we appreciate y'all appreciate everybody

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Speaker 1: to put in on this all right five star reviews.

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Speaker 1: We got one it said it's from four days ago

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Speaker 1: from Mulock's junior, who says, I am a fan five

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: Your point of view helps me see the other side

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Speaker 1: of some social and political issues. Well, I'm glad. I'm

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Speaker 1: glad to hear that, honestly, because I don't think I'm

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Speaker 1: being contrarian. I'm definitely not what I would consider like

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Speaker 5: And it don't mean you've got to agree, and it

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Speaker 5: don't mean that you even have to understand, because what

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Speaker 5: I've realized a lot of times, for everybody, whenever you're

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Speaker 5: doing something, you're explaining something, you're normally giving it from

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Speaker 5: because everybody has different types of personalities, and so you know,

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Speaker 5: We want you to That's why when you purchase shit

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Speaker 5: TikTok made me buy it, and it's all a bunch

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're selling.

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Speaker 1: I know Amazon's a little suspect these days, but a

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Speaker 1: about the band that we suspect. I met Corey Glover

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Speaker 1: I'm just telling you right now. I've seen it happen

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Speaker 1: Damn it. I wrote this too soon. Rod literally brought

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Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. Your boy be thinking of it

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Speaker 1: these days like this, I really be like, I already

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Speaker 1: sure I brought that up. Michael says, So glad the

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Speaker 1: I knew I had to get them for y'all. Thanks

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Speaker 3: Come on through eBay.

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Speaker 1: Already been burning. I burned through one of them already

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Speaker 1: in the bathroom. You can't find them. Shits, Noel, pineapple cake.

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Speaker 1: Eve said, as not to be a dead horse, but

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Speaker 1: This is not a PSA against TikTok. My biggest bonus

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Speaker 1: I'm not belitterally anyone. I'm on Twitter, I'm on Blue Sky, Instagram, Facebook,

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Speaker 1: or something that like, obviously they have decided that their

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Speaker 1: money is their speech and they're gonna use that to

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Speaker 1: spread as much bad in the world as they can.

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Speaker 1: But when it's just somebody trying to make the difference

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Speaker 1: between like do I need to drive extra twenty minutes

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Speaker 1: go to Walmart or do I go to the target

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Speaker 1: up the street, I'm not judging them, And I think

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Speaker 1: it was a bad mistake that people gave into that

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Speaker 1: and just so that we could all get off on

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Speaker 1: the judgment and being on the high horse of looking

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Speaker 1: at those who make different decisions and go, oh, so

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Speaker 1: that means you're and then take it to the extreme

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Speaker 1: instead of just like I don't know what that means.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 5: And the thing is, particularly with American dollars, it's gonna

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Speaker 5: be messy, like regardless, and that's just real Your dollars spent,

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Speaker 5: particularly here in America.

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Speaker 3: Is going to be messy. And that's just realistic.

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Speaker 5: Because everything we do, everything we touch, everything we infiltrate,

447
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Speaker 5: everything is connected.

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Speaker 3: Like if you dig down to.

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Speaker 5: The root of anything, the foundation of anything in this

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Speaker 5: country is gonna be rooted into something that is not good.

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Speaker 5: You can decide to do what you want to do

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Speaker 5: with your dollars and what you don't want to do

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Speaker 5: with your dollars.

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Speaker 3: The choice is yours.

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Speaker 5: But at the same time, because I said American money

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Speaker 5: is messy, you know, people spend their money in all

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Speaker 5: types of ways out of necessity.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't mean they agree.

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Speaker 5: It doesn't mean It doesn't mean that that me spending

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Speaker 5: my dollar here actually supports the things that you're doing.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes it does, most of the time it doesn't. And

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Speaker 5: so I do agree with what you're saying. Right there

463
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Speaker 5: needs to be more nuanced and people don't have nuance online.

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Speaker 3: So it's if you're this, then you this. And I

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Speaker 3: think a lot of these things.

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Speaker 5: Arguments were applied to the Palestine argument. A lot of

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Speaker 5: these arguments people just got stupid and they just was like,

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Speaker 5: I don't want to hear logic.

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Speaker 3: I think this.

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Speaker 1: Therefore, if you don't me there for fuck you and

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Speaker 1: you're like, no dog. I think giving in all the

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Speaker 1: way to this ecosystem of like a there are no

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Speaker 1: degrees of good and bad, there are no degrees of nuance.

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Speaker 1: It is is extreme one way or extreme the other.

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Speaker 1: I think, you know, I think it does lead to

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Speaker 1: exactly what you're saying, Like I do think it's like

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Speaker 1: a that's how you end up with. Oh, this Democratic

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Speaker 1: politician who has said calling for a ceasefire is as

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Speaker 1: bad as this Republican who has said turn this place

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Speaker 1: into a sheet of glass. And there's no difference to

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Speaker 1: me discernibly. And I'd rather just not vote at all,

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Speaker 1: even though I know not voting means that the cheetah

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Speaker 1: glass people get to be in charge. I really do

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Speaker 1: think that is a huge problem. I don't have a

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Speaker 1: solve for it, and I don't know what we're gonna

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Speaker 1: how you get out.

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Speaker 2: Of this, but yeah, I agree, right, And also.

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Speaker 5: For people that have more nuanced with things, it's like

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Speaker 5: a lot of those people have to fight more because

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Speaker 5: a lot of those extreme people are the loudest and

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Speaker 5: they want to drum everybody else out, and you have

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Speaker 5: to adam it and stand no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 3: We're not doing things. Well. You need to be realistic.

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Speaker 1: You're allowed. You don't first of all, that you don't

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Speaker 1: have to be adamant. You don't actually have to say shit.

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Speaker 2: You're choosing to say stuff.

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Speaker 1: And so uh, if you put something out here knowing

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Speaker 1: the environment that it is. You know, you're gonna get

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Speaker 1: pushed back. Whether you're reasonable or right or not, it

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Speaker 1: just don't even matter at this point. That's why I

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Speaker 1: choose carefully what I say and put out into different formats.

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Speaker 1: I feel much more comfortable on this podcast than I

503
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Speaker 1: do talking about shit on Twitter. It just seemed like

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Speaker 1: a waste of time to me and energy. Yeah was

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Speaker 1: It just seemed like a waste of time. And you

506
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Speaker 1: can't really control it, and you whatever you say that

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Speaker 1: you need to be willing to like let go and be.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you have all right, they decided that this.

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Speaker 1: Means something else. Fuck it, you know, like like you

510
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Speaker 1: have to be able to do that. But a lot

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Speaker 1: of people don't think of it that way because they're

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Speaker 1: not creatives and they don't live in this space and

513
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Speaker 1: they don't have to think about that all the time.

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Speaker 1: So I feel bad for the mental health both of

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Speaker 1: people who have never gone through that or don't experience

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Speaker 1: it and then it habits to them for the first time.

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Speaker 1: I feel bad for people that are like spiraling out

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Speaker 1: and they reach out to social media hoping that it

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Speaker 1: won't be that, but sometimes it is, you know. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: but at any rate. Back to this comment, let's see honestly, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I saw a comment on someone threatening the Black Creator

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Speaker 1: with a new Center tree, and people said they reported

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Speaker 1: the comment, but TikTok found no violation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why that that's okay. Now, that's fine, that's okay.

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Speaker 1: Now, like you, once you capitulate the Trump and conservatives

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Speaker 1: on TikTok, you have to let them do what they do.

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Speaker 1: You can't have the liberal bastion that you painted yourself

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Speaker 1: as for years. You can't be on his dick and

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Speaker 1: also be like, but we're going to control him. He

530
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 1: is the opposite of control, as is his followers as Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that lives of TikTok. Shit is real, like they herass

532
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: and docks people and shit like. I don't know. I

533
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Speaker 1: always worried that people defending that app are the most

534
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: prone to get fucked up over there, because it's different

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Speaker 1: when you know you're in a bad neighborhood. It's like

536
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: you drive through a bad neighborhood, you lock your doors,

537
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 1: you roll your windows up, you turn the music down.

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Speaker 1: You know, you keep your head on the swivel. But

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Speaker 1: the motherfucker, that's just like doors unlocked, windows down, riding

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Speaker 1: slow music blasting. It's like, Okay, well, I guess you

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Speaker 1: don't know what kind of neighborhood you win. Are good

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Speaker 1: luck getting through there? Maybe nothing happens, but maybe you

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Speaker 1: get carjacked. I don't know. Honestly, I won't be sad

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Speaker 1: if against band permanently. Remember when Vin was popular. Now

545
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Speaker 1: it's gone.

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Speaker 2: If TikTok goes, something else will replace it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and whatever replaces it will eventually be bad too.

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Speaker 5: Just what happens, yep, because they promise you things that

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Speaker 5: they can't actually execute.

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Speaker 1: Let's check comments on YouTube. Looks like we got two comments.

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Speaker 1: Let's see enigua, sixty four said, and then go out.

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Speaker 1: Sixty four says had to pause podcast and respond to

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Speaker 1: the voicemail where the man was talking about his daughter

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Speaker 1: and her perspective on Karen. For me personally, it was

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Speaker 1: Karen Hunter that brought me to your show. But what

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Speaker 1: made me stay is Karen. I can't remember what the

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00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: topic was specifically, but it was about the election, and

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Speaker 1: Karen went off and I thought, this is exactly the

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Speaker 1: exactly the viewpoint I need to hear at this space,

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Speaker 1: in this space for me, I mean, this is exactly

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Speaker 1: the viewpoint I needed to hear this is the space

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Speaker 1: for me. I love Karen everything she brings to the show.

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Speaker 1: It absolutely would not be the same without her smiley face.

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Speaker 1: And I did not get to go to the live

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Speaker 1: show this year, but hopefully I can make the next one.

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Speaker 1: But I did look at the pictures on Instagram and

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Speaker 1: Karen did look absolutely beautiful. Oh that is she did agree.

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Speaker 1: And the poll for the episode was do you go

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Speaker 1: to the gym regularly?

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Speaker 2: Twenty five percent? Yes, seventy five percent.

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Speaker 1: No, there you go. Obviously I'm in the twenty five percent.

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Speaker 3: Now, and I guess I'm in this seventy five percent.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't saying no names.

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Speaker 3: I tell on myself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well you know it is what it is. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, let's just move on, all right. The next

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Speaker 1: episode is called thirty sixty five Bigger Bubbles. We got

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Speaker 1: sixteen comments on this one.

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Speaker 3: All right, what was we talk?

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Speaker 1: Glad we only did three episodes this week. Y'all was

581
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Speaker 1: on it. Tanya says, oh boy, yeah, I help a

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Speaker 1: musician friend with fulfilling his merch orders. And when I

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Speaker 1: heard Rod say he was sending the posters international Ikrane

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Speaker 1: International poster postage is ridiculously expended. USPS is definitely the

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00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: best option in most cases, but it is you need

586
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Speaker 1: to get prepaid labels so you can just drop them

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Speaker 1: in the box Joe post office. If they don't have those,

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Speaker 1: just hand them over without the pain and negotiating the purchase.

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Speaker 1: My favorite service for this is Pirate Ship. It's free

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Speaker 1: and it does a great job of leading you through

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Speaker 1: the process. Just by a cheap scale to weighyos packages

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Speaker 1: and you're in business. Yeah I've done that before. I

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Speaker 1: used to do stuff on eBay. I still had to

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Speaker 1: scale in here.

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Speaker 2: But to be honest at this point, part of the

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Speaker 2: reason I like going.

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Speaker 1: To the post office. It's so stupid, and I know

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Speaker 1: I seem like a very liberal hippie type motherfucker for this,

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Speaker 1: but one I do like going in there and like

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Speaker 1: actually using the service my tax dollars pay for. I

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Speaker 1: do like the stories of the environment and seeing the

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Speaker 1: people in there. Some crazy albums always happens when I

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Speaker 1: go to the post office, and yeah, now you know,

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Speaker 1: I buy stamps and stuff and it's hokey. And I

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Speaker 1: like mailing y'all stuff out, and I like mailing the

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Speaker 1: Christmas cars and stuff like, it's a lot of work,

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Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: there's something old school and fun about it. It's like

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Speaker 1: we live in such a digital don't see people in person,

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Speaker 1: do everything through the AI type of world that when

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Speaker 1: I can, if it's not too much hassle, I don't

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Speaker 1: mind going to the mailbox and doing all the stuff.

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Speaker 1: But I do appreciate that advice, and uh, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: could do it that way. I could do it right

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Speaker 1: here from the house, but I just don't.

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Speaker 5: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Strangely, USPS site itself doesn't give you all the options

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Speaker 1: such as first class mail or media mail. Media mail

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Speaker 1: is so cheap if you're sending items like books, vinyl

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Speaker 1: album see these DVDs, etcetera. That are heavy. Having said that,

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Speaker 1: I get your whole experience ended up being very cool,

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Speaker 1: but you may not want to go through that every time.

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Speaker 1: I do want to go through it every time. It

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Speaker 1: made my day to watch that lady, that lady get

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Speaker 1: cussed out. I was an adventure, I tell you that,

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Speaker 1: But and then to watch that video with them afterwards,

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Speaker 1: like I don't I got the time. Fuck it, I'll

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Speaker 1: make the time for some mess Newsy says, nothing makes

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Speaker 1: me happier than watching the interaction with a bad hustming

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Speaker 1: and being the next person in line who gets to

631
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Speaker 1: commiserate with their employee. It's the ultimately high, ain't it?

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Speaker 1: And I took it to the next level, Like even

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Speaker 1: if that white lady was not wrong, I was still like,

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Speaker 1: I'm on y'all side. Y'all got the power in the mail.

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Speaker 3: Ain't that the truth?

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Speaker 2: Y'all can throw my shit away and nobody get shitped Okay.

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Speaker 1: I've gone back to that post office a couple times

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Speaker 1: now throughout the week, so I don't think they listened

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Speaker 1: to the podcast. So I feel safe saying it here, guys, Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're behind we I'm trusting everybody here that's listening to

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Speaker 1: the show, the thousands of you. The black ladies was wrong,

642
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Speaker 1: the white lady was right. But I sold that white

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Speaker 1: lady out. My sense of justice was like, m I

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Speaker 1: just need to get my shit mail. Maybe it's reparations.

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00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, the white lady seemed correct to me.

646
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: She was bullshitting. Now, she shouldn't have been in there

647
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: trying to have a nice day at Foux forty five.

648
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: That part is on her.

649
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 3: That's what she fucked up.

650
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 1: But I feel like almost over the impulse wasn't wrong

651
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: to want everyone to have a nice day. She just

652
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: didn't understand the time. It was not that time. Okay,

653
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: these were not those people. But like on a in

654
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 1: a quarter law, the white lady probably would have won

655
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:25,240
Speaker 1: a case.

656
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. But uh yeah, at any right now.

657
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: She was wrong to me because I needed day services

658
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: and I wasn't fitting to be like, ma'am, there's not

659
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 1: how we talked to our elders. I was like, I

660
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: don't see nothing. I also hate when a person in

661
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 1: line tries to loudly complain about the service to me.

662
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 2: Oh I hate that. Oh I hate that. Leave me

663
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 2: out of it.

664
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: That's your fault that you and I just want to

665
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,399
Speaker 1: get through the line. Ma'am. I don't want them having

666
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 1: an attitude because I was over here key keying with

667
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: your ass, and I don't even agree with you. I

668
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: turned to hell and Keller real fast about to get

669
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: me caught up because you're in patient. Great story of

670
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: love here and stuff like that. Thank you. A lot

671
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: of people love that. Appia says, we live in deer country.

672
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 1: That they home doesn't get smaller here, but they like

673
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: crossing the street anyway. Sometimes we have we here. We

674
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: have bridges on autobahns, especially especially for deer. Once a

675
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: deer ran into my car, but luckily it created only

676
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: some damage on the outside of my car, and like

677
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: a smooth criminal, just disappeared in the forest after the

678
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 1: crime snakes Here, I prefer the deer. Well, you know,

679
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: first of all, the deer sound like they should have

680
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: filled out some insurance paperwork. It was it nice supposed

681
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 1: to not being your country or something. Why did it

682
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: leave so fat? Wonder? Raphael says in response to this,

683
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: Almost everywhere I've been in Dochlanda's deer country, I wonder

684
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: if the meat is on the menu. I've had deer

685
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 1: adobo back during my Virginia days. I'll look for some

686
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 1: to try on my next trip. And she said one

687
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: there's even deer worst, which I believe is like deer sausage.

688
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: Rby also says, I'm a white woman and I can

689
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: get classically aggressive, like yelling and being frightening like my mother.

690
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 1: We are no sweet little flowers. We are strong. I

691
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: try not to go there very often, but I absolutely

692
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 1: can I'm pretty good on it, not to brag. I

693
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: do yoga and meditation to oppose it and it works.

694
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: But I'm pretty sure I'm not like the black woman

695
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: hater say yeah, I don't think I like the dudes

696
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: that hate black women and try to pull out the

697
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,760
Speaker 1: white woman or non black women pokemon card.

698
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: It's just insulting every single type of woman.

699
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 3: It insults everybody.

700
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it just implies that it's people don't mind.

701
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 1: From my understanding, there's this type of person that doesn't

702
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: mind being dehumanized if they find a dehumanization flattering. So

703
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 1: if there's a type of white woman that doesn't mind

704
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: you dehumanizing her, if you're saying, hey, you're better than

705
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 1: black women, it's like, well, I'll take that compliment. And

706
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: that's a bad person that takes that compliment. And the

707
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,959
Speaker 1: same way that I don't feel comfortable with the whole

708
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 1: idea of like the black man is the big penis sex. God.

709
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: I know people are like, wow, what a positive reputation.

710
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,280
Speaker 1: I want people to want me, but it also feel

711
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 1: very fucking dehumanized. In addition to just not being true

712
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: of every black man, it's also just very dehumanizing and

713
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: reduces us to just fucking like sexual breeding partners and shit.

714
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 1: And I don't you know, like I said, it's I

715
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: understand it, and I understand like fetish and stuff. I

716
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,399
Speaker 1: know that that we're talking about a different category. People

717
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,240
Speaker 1: are often into shit that they just like they're attracted

718
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: to what they're apposted. But I'm just speaking in general.

719
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: You'll see this language on like dating websites, and there's

720
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 1: a type of black dude that gets excited by it

721
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: because it is a physical sexual thing or whatever. But

722
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: I often find it a little bit like dehumanizing. And

723
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised when you find out that the people

724
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 1: that you know placate those sensibilities often have no actual

725
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 1: respect for the humanity of the black person that they

726
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: are objectifying, right, you know, I know it's a thin line,

727
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: and you know, we all have our different preferences and

728
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: objectifications and people that we're attracted to and stuff. So

729
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 1: I get all that, but especially once you bring it

730
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,439
Speaker 1: to a romance area, like we're not even just talking

731
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: about being attracted.

732
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 2: To somebody, it seems dehumanize it.

733
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: And so when you say black women angry, all other

734
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: women good and not angry, it's just untrue and fucking insulting.

735
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 5: It is, And like you said, it's insulting to all

736
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 5: the people you're talking about, and you know, and when

737
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 5: you try to explain that, people they just don't want

738
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 5: to hear that because they think they're right.

739
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't get it, but yeah, I don't think

740
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: any no good person I think would take that. I

741
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: don't want to hear that shit, you know what I mean, Like,

742
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that shit. I don't.

743
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 2: I don't like it.

744
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: That is a thing that I will normally disrupt a

745
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: conversation about it as if someone's like doing that in

746
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: front of me, and it's in a selfish way. Is

747
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: because it's not necessarily that I'm like, I'm such a

748
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: good person. Don't you talk about my sisters like that? Brother?

749
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 1: In a selfish way. It's literally like I don't want

750
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 1: you thinking I'm the kind of person you can talk

751
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,399
Speaker 1: like that around, because I don't want to hear this shit, right,

752
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,360
Speaker 1: And so I just had to nip it in the

753
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 1: butt because I've had that happen to me at like

754
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,399
Speaker 1: a YMCA or playing basketball or something, and somebody will

755
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:31,840
Speaker 1: start that conversation on sideline and I'll check them, and

756
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 1: you know I would, I'd love to pat myself on

757
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: the back and be like because I'm just such a

758
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: great guy. But part of it is not about there

759
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: could be no black women around. It's not about like

760
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: standing up for this. It's literally like, bro, I don't

761
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: want to have to hear this bullshit every day. So

762
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 1: just I'm not the one. I'm not the one you

763
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: go and fucking do that shit over there, you know

764
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: what I mean.

765
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 2: That's such bullshit.

766
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,959
Speaker 1: To me and I don't want you thinking like escal

767
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 1: that type of behavior around me. In addition to most

768
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: of the time it's hacking not funny anyway, So it's

769
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 1: just sound like a fucking death gym comedian set. We're

770
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: still doing.

771
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 6: That, right, and it's bad.

772
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 5: And it's also I know with you being at the

773
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 5: line things like that, didn't I remember you were saying,

774
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 5: like one time because I would really come to the buy,

775
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 5: but I think one time you asked me to bring

776
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,240
Speaker 5: you something, they was shocked that your wife was black.

777
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's because at this wise like one of the

778
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 1: most expensive quote unquote wives in the country, and not

779
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: expensive in like how much it cost to join, but

780
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 1: I think they's put there's a rich community. They put

781
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 1: a lot of money into it, so it's a lot

782
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 1: there's black guys that go there all the time. They

783
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 1: play basketball and all this stuff. But there's a certain

784
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: type of black dude that be there. Not everyone, obviously,

785
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 1: not even the majority, but there's enough of them that

786
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: are into that like white culture space shit.

787
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 2: And white women better and black women bad and.

788
00:40:55,400 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 1: All that type of bullshit. Yeah, And I don't know

789
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 1: what would make them assume my wife wasn't black, And

790
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: it wasn't a lot of guys. It was just like

791
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: one or two guys. But I have no reson it

792
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: was shocking to me, not because it was shocking to

793
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: me they assumed anything right, right, Yeah, it's not like

794
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: a conversations where about black women or race or I've

795
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 1: never said anything negative black black women around them. I've

796
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: never agreed with them saying anything negative around So I

797
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: don't know why they assumed that other than just in

798
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 1: their minds.

799
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 2: There was like I assumed you could get.

800
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:37,280
Speaker 1: A white woman because you have this job and whatever

801
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: you come to this why almost like you said so,

802
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,240
Speaker 1: then why wouldn't you have had a white woman or whatever?

803
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what y'all talking about.

804
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 4: I was.

805
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 1: I was more surprised just because the amount of race

806
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: shit I talk. It's very few brothers that got white

807
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: wives that talk the way I talk about race. And

808
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: it's not that there's none of them, but like you know,

809
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: it's very I just have not found that to be

810
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: an experience that happens.

811
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 2: Often where I'm like, oh, okay, anyway.

812
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: Good luck. Ramsey Genius has five stars for the ice

813
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: Cream Post Office Chronicles. Mary says Karen's DNV story took

814
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 1: me out between almost losing her life walking towards that

815
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: crazy man, and this ride is Karen's full time handler.

816
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: Keep the talent safe. Roud runner rold Feel says three

817
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,760
Speaker 1: quick things. Frost Nixon was so good. I'm considering giving

818
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 1: the order to one of my lieutenants to produce a

819
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: baby so I could craft and bestow that him with

820
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: that nickname. Thank you. Two. I love listening to you guys,

821
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: Legends commercial. It's my favorite ad to listen to, especially

822
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: when you guys say Bakara, I only gamble in magic poor,

823
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 1: so forget the spelling if wrong. Awesome tastic. Three Everyone

824
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: listening and in the chat start their applause right now

825
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 1: that Star Wars was right about politics, My goodness, better

826
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: than awesome tastic. I got to find an intergalactic word.

827
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: The best podcast in the world. Thanks Man, thank you. Yeah,

828
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 1: Frost Nixon was I just was giggling thinking about that.

829
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: I tweeted that this weekend, and you know, my tweets

830
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: don't always get traction, but I was like, that, shit's

831
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: funny to me. And then the Star Wars thing was

832
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: just fun because as we kept talking about it, especially

833
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: as Karen was contributing it, the analogy just kept getting

834
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: more and more accurate than me.

835
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, that makes sense.

836
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: George Lucas is really a fucking genius, and we all

837
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:30,879
Speaker 1: should apologize. I'm sorry.

838
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:31,320
Speaker 3: I should.

839
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm sorry George. If you listening to this, bro, I

840
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: I apologize. I've never really ragged you in the first place,

841
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 1: but I like, I know, I've made little quips about

842
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:45,879
Speaker 1: especially Clone Wars, the the Live Act and been like, oh,

843
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 1: the politics. Who wants to see that?

844
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 3: Wrong? It's very much needed apropos. Somebody's saying they racist,

845
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:54,760
Speaker 3: they racist out.

846
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 1: Here, Sinnia says man Rod. Your analysis on the Democratic

847
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: Party was on point, at least my opinion. With talking

848
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 1: to the people in the DIM Party in my state,

849
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: we've all kind of came to the same conclusion that

850
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 1: the problem with Kamala's campaign well that she only had

851
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 1: one hundred days, and also that because the party had

852
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: been so deeply fractured with oustend to Joe Biden, there

853
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: was no unifying mandate, which led to her talking to

854
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:22,479
Speaker 1: anybody and everybody, even those who were inconsequential. Yeah, I yeah, yeah,

855
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: I still remember when they talked to the black men

856
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: that were like wanted Crypto and they came up with

857
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: the black man agenda. I appreciate that they did the work.

858
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: I understand that means they took black men seriously blah

859
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:42,919
Speaker 1: blah blah, but also fuck them niggas, right, right, If

860
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:47,359
Speaker 1: we are this deep in the weeds and it's this late,

861
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 1: I don't know what's wrong with them brothers that they

862
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 1: needed to hear about Crypto, right, whatever their concerns were

863
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: as a black man, those were not my concerns.

864
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 2: And I thought that was very fucking weird. You know,

865
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 2: guys that were.

866
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 1: Pitching comedians and shit pitching like she needed to do

867
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:07,799
Speaker 1: something where we don't need to pay child support, hey man,

868
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:12,359
Speaker 1: not the fucking time. And it sucks because they had

869
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 1: to scramble and do as much as they could, and

870
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: social media was on their ass every step of the way,

871
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: and people were really trying to drum up negative campaigns

872
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: the whole time. You know, It's why I conflicted about

873
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: the Obama talking to black men thing, because my problem

874
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,839
Speaker 1: wasn't that Obama had anything negative to say about some

875
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 1: black men. It was that the black man he was

876
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: talking to literally in that room. Are not those guys, agreed,

877
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: So they don't need to be fussed at at all.

878
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: But are there some brothers I would like to see check? Yes, absolutely,

879
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 1: but there's some of every group, and there's less of

880
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: those brothers than any other male group that need to

881
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 1: be checked. Right, So I like I, like I said

882
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 1: to say, I had conflicted feelings where I was like

883
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: I roll my eyes, but also like do we even

884
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 1: have time for this? Are the black men ain't gonna

885
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 1: be the problem? I don't think that's gonna be the

886
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: problem if she doesn't make.

887
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 3: It and they were not the problem.

888
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 5: It's just a subsection of a subsection, not trying to

889
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 5: find it. A subsection of eight shit niggas, and we

890
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 5: not worried about y'all and making it. Too many people

891
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 5: have made too much content off of black men versus

892
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 5: black women, right, And so I saw people continually moving

893
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 5: the bar to well, I don't care if eighty something

894
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 5: percent of black men voted for Kamala, that's still not

895
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 5: good enough. They still a problem, So they can still

896
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 5: shit on black men. And at that point I have

897
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 5: to say, then, are you also spending that same energy

898
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 5: on the eight percent of black women that voted for Trump? No,

899
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 5: because that would be ridiculous and not productive at all

900
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 5: to put that much energy and time into a group

901
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 5: of people that.

902
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 2: Honestly, at this point, I don't even see.

903
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: What could sway that group of people if they voted

904
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: for Trump again in twenty twenty four. So, like, whatever

905
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 1: those eight percent, six, whatever that number is a black women,

906
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: they're gone. And similarly, whatever the number is a black

907
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: man that decided in this last election to go for

908
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: Trump over Kamala, they're gone. To me, there's no they're

909
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: not coming back, there's no argument to make, there's no

910
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: crypto policy to pass. Fuck them dudes. So I can't

911
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: really get with wasting time on that, But yeah, I

912
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: totally agree with you in that not very much time

913
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 1: was left and with one hundred days it's a lot

914
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 1: of work.

915
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I do agree with you where it started

916
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 5: off fractured like people and I'm just keeping it real.

917
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 5: People under estimated how bad the fallout of Joe Biden

918
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 5: stepping down would be. A lot of people really thought

919
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 5: Joe Biden stepping down it was gonna be this smooth

920
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 5: ass transition and everybody was just gonna rye right rad

921
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 5: and get along.

922
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 3: And for the most part, some people did. Most people did.

923
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,320
Speaker 5: But there is a subsection like me who feel a

924
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,359
Speaker 5: certain way, and I will always feel a fucking way

925
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:56,879
Speaker 5: about it.

926
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 3: So it's still a quote unquote.

927
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 5: You're there, you know, but I'm still gonna vote all

928
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 5: that shit, But I still feel a certain way.

929
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: I just don't know what the fuck was supposed to

930
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,399
Speaker 1: be done, that's all. That's all.

931
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 2: Every like it's a bad situation.

932
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: Everybody is. Everybody is like, uh upset about like what

933
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: seating Uh the seat numbers on the Titanic, And it's

934
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:29,959
Speaker 1: just like, I don't even understand what's the quibble about.

935
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: At this point, it's fucked going down it's fucked up,

936
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: like we just had an emergency situation. And even the

937
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 1: people that say stuff like well they knew he was

938
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: fucked up. If they knew he was fucked up, we

939
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: didn't know he was fucked up, you know, not not enough.

940
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: And part of the reason we didn't know he was

941
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 1: fucked up. And that's why no one will take responsibility

942
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: or ownership of it is because y'all were saying it

943
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:57,839
Speaker 1: before he was fucked up, when he was fucking up,

944
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:00,879
Speaker 1: like just gaffs and all this type of stuff, y'all

945
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: were letting it. Y'all were y'all were acting like he

946
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 1: had he was fucked up the whole time. Well, he

947
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 1: was competent, and so he has this bad debate and

948
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: then it's like we've been telling you the whole time.

949
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 1: It's like, no, this is different. It is scary to me.

950
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: This does feel different to me. I did watch that debate.

951
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 1: I will not deny what I saw. And if you

952
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: got to come up with an emergency plan, then you

953
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 1: have to come up with an emergency plan. But like,

954
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: there's so many assumptions that are being made that just

955
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't see the proof of these assumptions, Like oh

956
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 1: he was always fucked up this whole time? Was he though?

957
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: Or just that just a thing we're saying now to

958
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: make Democrats look the worst we can possibly make them look.

959
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 1: You know, if we had a primary, but did we

960
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: really need a fuck we didn't have time to do

961
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,240
Speaker 1: a primary, but but did we need a primary?

962
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 5: Let's be honest, right, and every name y'all threw up

963
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 5: immediately stepped down, so was there.

964
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 2: But even if they didn't step down, what would have

965
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 2: been the point?

966
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 1: Right, what would have been Let's let's say you have

967
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,759
Speaker 1: a primary, more than likely com Harrison wins anyway, So

968
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 1: now what what what would we ultimately need to be

969
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 1: able to do get in line and vote for her?

970
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: And as far as everything else, I mean, optically, the

971
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 1: rallies were attended numbers wise, we have the data of

972
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: new registrations, We had the data of most volunteer, we

973
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: have the data of most donated money from single donators,

974
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: not fucking big corporate interests, of all fucking time. If

975
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: that's a losing campaign, then I don't know what a

976
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: winning campaign even is at this point. Are so just

977
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: leave me the fuck out of it. It's not my

978
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 1: it's not my responsibility. Also, I don't know what Gavin

979
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 1: Newsom is on with these politicians based too much of

980
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 1: their strategy on media consumption data. The data is is

981
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: biased and unreliable when you consider who owns the top

982
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 1: media platforms or outlets. If he is actually trying to

983
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: position himself for a presidential run, this talking to white

984
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: supremacist strategy is going to keep more progressives at home

985
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: on election day, which is how we lose. Right, I

986
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 1: don't understand what he's saying. I don't know what he's doing,

987
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: and I talked, but you know what, that's a lot.

988
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 1: That's a lot. I know what he's doing, and I

989
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:03,839
Speaker 1: do understand why he's doing it, because I said, that's

990
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 1: what will happen. So actually, yeah, he's doing what I

991
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:11,399
Speaker 1: said was going to happen. Everyone said, if they lose

992
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 1: this election, it'll be a referendum on Democrats and they're

993
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 1: gonna have to get more radical and more progressive. And

994
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 1: I said, that is not what will happen, because that

995
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: has never happened in American history. What will happen is

996
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 1: that they will go How do we get to the

997
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 1: centrist slash conservative voters who might be willing to vote Democrats, right,

998
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 1: And that's what Bill Clinton did, and that's and and

999
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: that's what the fuck is going to happen. That's what

1000
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 1: like Biden had to do it even with him having

1001
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: a progressive presidency.

1002
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 2: He when he campaigned, he had the campaign to.

1003
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: The center of the country. That's what Gavin Newsom is

1004
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: gearing himself up to be. And it's sad because if

1005
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 1: that works, it doesn't make us have more progress progress,

1006
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 1: it makes us any less agree on the progressive side.

1007
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: We have the numbers of people just show up. So

1008
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: what makes people get up and go vote based on

1009
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: buying Obama's campaigns? I'd say inspiration or anxiety? Yeah, yeah,

1010
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 1: I'll get to that and say it. Dems are primeing

1011
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 1: to win twenty six and twenty twenty eight, assuming we

1012
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: can actually have elections, if they can define and simplify

1013
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:15,959
Speaker 1: their agenda and the voters actually show up to the polls.

1014
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: I guess we'll see. Yeah, I'll so this is what

1015
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 1: I'll say about that. I think we do a lot

1016
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 1: of retroactive assigning of credit to campaigns. And my personal,

1017
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: maybe very cynical belief at this moment is that it's

1018
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: not about the messages of the campaign. I think we

1019
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: do a lot of disservice to ourselves when we put

1020
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: that much credit in the campaigns or the politicians hands.

1021
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: I truly think it's the economy.

1022
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 3: Yes, I agree.

1023
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 5: I agree, because because if you sit back and think

1024
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 5: about it, how did we get Obama?

1025
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 3: Y'all? Like people, they were alive and around at.

1026
00:52:56,280 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 5: That time, how did we get Obama? Everything was fucked up, y'all?

1027
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,399
Speaker 5: And they was like, damn, well, I guess we'll give

1028
00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 5: it to a nigga. How did we get Biden? All

1029
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 5: of us about to die. We was like, damn, I

1030
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 5: guess we get somebody out here that actually give a

1031
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 5: fuck it will get vaccines. America does not move unless

1032
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 5: it's forced to move.

1033
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think if the coronavirus pandemic didn't happen under Trump,

1034
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,919
Speaker 1: he gets two terms. That's what I'm resigned to believe. Now.

1035
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: I don't think obviously, with him being reelected, his bigotry

1036
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 1: wasn't the deal breaker for people. It was just my

1037
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 1: job is fucked up, my life is fucked up. All

1038
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: the businesses are closing, and it's not all of us. Obviously.

1039
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: That's probably like a fifty to fifty divide on the

1040
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: people that are committed to just one party or the other,

1041
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: or probably sixty forty divider for being honest. But it's

1042
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: it's that swing between presidents. That's just like, I don't know,

1043
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: a lot of industry is looking fucked up. I guess

1044
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: we should try a different politician. And I don't believe

1045
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: that it's any economic message. I don't believe it's any

1046
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: social message for those type of voters. I think a

1047
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: lot of them is like once democrats get in office

1048
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:16,839
Speaker 1: and they run the country better, and wages and unemployment

1049
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 1: and all this stuff is doing is doing well or

1050
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 1: doing better, Let's not say well, let's say better, but

1051
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 1: it's doing better than before, or feel stable. They go, well,

1052
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 1: we can shake this up and I can either stay

1053
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:33,960
Speaker 1: home or I can swing back to my conservative social ideas,

1054
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: which is now that I have a job and I

1055
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:39,439
Speaker 1: feel secure in this job. I don't want black people

1056
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 1: to have a job. I don't want brown people to

1057
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:42,399
Speaker 1: have a job. I don't want women to have a job.

1058
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: I don't want LGBTQ people to have a job. I

1059
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:47,439
Speaker 1: don't want gay people to have rights. I don't want

1060
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: you know, it's like whatever that shit is it kicked

1061
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 1: back up because they think on Maslow's hierarchy of needs,

1062
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 1: they think that bottom of the pyramid is like satiated.

1063
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 2: So it's like, what are my top my top ones?

1064
00:54:59,000 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: Ooh, my top one.

1065
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 2: It's actually to fuck other people over.

1066
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 1: Shoe booty, says Rod. Description of the Debbie Downer dims

1067
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 1: is so right. We are that meme of the god

1068
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 1: shooting himself and then looking at the camera like, why

1069
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: did the GOP do this to us? Oh? That's Eric

1070
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 1: Andre shooting Hannibal Burds.

1071
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Speaker 3: Yes, ah, I love that damn show.

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Speaker 1: It's like when people give dating advice to say, you

1073
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: can't love someone else if you don't love yourself. Democratic

1074
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 1: party needs more self esteem, less navel gazing, and we

1075
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: are going to be the cultor personality. Yeah, you need

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00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:32,399
Speaker 1: those voters man, Like I'm not even saying like I'm

1077
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Speaker 1: I try not to use them interchangeably. And I try

1078
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,279
Speaker 1: to make this distinction every single time I bring it up.

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Speaker 1: And I know it's a bit confusing, but when I

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Speaker 1: say Democrats, I am mostly talking about the people, yes,

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00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: the not the politician, not the system, not the just

1082
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: the actual human beings that say they're liberal. And progressive

1083
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 1: and they want good things. They gotta get their shit together.

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Speaker 3: Yes they do. You need to be more than words.

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00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: The politicians reflect us, not the other way around. So

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00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: things that happen in this country out the responsibility of

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00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 1: the people that say they're good but didn't sit home

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00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 1: so they can feel like they're even better than participating

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Speaker 1: in the system. Erica says, the DMV in the post

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Speaker 1: office are hell. I'll never forget my six hour adventure

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Speaker 1: to obtain my NC license. I'm dreaded. I'm dreading going

1092
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 1: to a ship these cookies to my sister. Every time

1093
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Speaker 1: I go. There's a line. Evie says. That post office

1094
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: story had me cracking up, and Nope, I would not

1095
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 1: have intervened in mine, in my black business. I do

1096
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:32,400
Speaker 1: kind of have to commend that old white lady for

1097
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 1: not dropping the N bomb in today's political climate. Well,

1098
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Speaker 1: I'm be honest, she ain't. She ain't want that smoke

1099
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Speaker 1: because it's not like them black women behind the count

1100
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Speaker 1: was the only black women.

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00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 2: It wasn't the only black people girls in there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have definitely like kicked her cane from

1103
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: under her if she would have said that shit, Like

1104
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 1: come on, now she knew she was playing an away game.

1105
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:57,879
Speaker 1: She gets no credit for not saying the N word.

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00:56:57,920 --> 00:56:59,399
Speaker 1: She said it when she got in the car, for sure.

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Speaker 2: I bet you say it over there. I bet she

1108
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 2: wanted to.

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Speaker 1: You know what. Welcome to the cookout, Apple says. I

1110
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 1: love that you see the bright side. I agree. Bitch

1111
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:13,359
Speaker 1: is on a nice, non racially offensive. Apply says my privilege.

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00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 1: Our post office is in bodega style shop in my

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00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 1: city is very fast and the people are nice. We

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00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: have this model in Germany where it doesn't have to

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00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 1: be an official post office. The shop can provide a

1116
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: corner and the employees for the post office business is fine.

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00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: They get a course what to do all the equipment.

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Speaker 1: The corner is recognizable by the yellow door. The post

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Speaker 1: office is perfect. I don't ever have to do my

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Speaker 1: DMV because it's a company Volkswag and I drive and

1121
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 1: the company does my DMV stuff for me. That's nice.

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Speaker 1: Now that I got this out, it's time to be

1123
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 1: grateful or if you know me, feel guilty for how

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Speaker 1: good I have it in this context. Yeah, it's interesting

1125
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Speaker 1: because I like here. We have to take a test sometimes,

1126
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 1: and so if your company is doing it for y'all.

1127
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 1: Do y'all not take a driver's licensed test like you

1128
00:57:57,440 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 1: don't have to drive a car? Or is it just

1129
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 1: after you take it one time, you're good for the

1130
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Speaker 1: rest of your life. That's that's interesting. Note. Let's check

1131
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Speaker 1: the YouTube for this episode, Bigger Bubbles three oh six

1132
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Speaker 1: five many people enjoy twenty one comments. God damn we

1133
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Speaker 1: talking about people did like this episode a lot. Atlisha

1134
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Speaker 1: says at twenty twenty, Karen is a mess too. It's

1135
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: the aries we think so outside the box that the

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00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 1: regulars just don't understand. JJ smile says birthright papers, Karen,

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Speaker 1: you got me, Dyn laughing. Nathalie says this episode was

1138
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 1: so good as usual. The part where you call John

1139
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,920
Speaker 1: Stewart a weak ass bitch was especially good and it

1140
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: was straight bars after that made my day. Thank you?

1141
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean I agree with myself.

1142
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 1: I had time to think about it. I don't regret

1143
00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: anything I said. I think that I don't get anyway.

1144
00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 1: I don't get him smart. Dave sixty seve as, in

1145
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Speaker 1: regard to a social media chart, being progressivest to be

1146
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 1: anti corporate and pro worker. So these social media platforms

1147
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 1: which our businesses are less inclined to support progressive channels. Yeah,

1148
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 1: almost all these businesses are like that. There are some

1149
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: where you have leaders and CEOs that have decided to

1150
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 1: their corporation is going to try to be ethical. But

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00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: for the vast majority of these, especially startup social media

1152
00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 1: Silicon Valley ass companies, they have no real value other

1153
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,960
Speaker 1: than to use the users who are on them.

1154
00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 3: Because they're the product.

1155
00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 1: As the product, so we can't think that they're going

1156
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 1: to create an equitable ecosystem. And yeah, a lot of

1157
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: their stuff is going to give into craving capitalism, which

1158
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:46,920
Speaker 1: in America is going to be conservatism. Like whether you

1159
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 1: think capitalism can have ethics or not, that's not really

1160
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:52,440
Speaker 1: for me to decide for you. But I do know

1161
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Speaker 1: that the people who are most cravingly hyper capitalists are conservatives.

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Speaker 1: Are in America. You can't spell Jedi without DEI the

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Speaker 1: ice cream cone Yodel licks says AC that's fat.

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Speaker 2: At one sixteen fourteen. You are so right.

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Speaker 1: You pointed out how frustrating it can be with these

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01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: political parties. So many Democrats had this purity standard where

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01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:17,959
Speaker 1: if the politician is and as liberal as they want

1168
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 1: them they refuse to support them, while the Trump supporters

1169
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:21,800
Speaker 1: will back him no matter what.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: I just want to let me know when y'all tired

1172
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: of losing, man.

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01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 3: Right, let me know when you are.

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01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: I'm here losing. I'm here until the end.

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01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 3: It's gonna be this, It's gonna be washed.

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01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: RNTs repeat the mitas touch might be the only blue

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Speaker 1: bubble in that graphic that is not guilty of them bashing,

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Speaker 1: says Joseph. I don't know that worked, and I'm not dennigrating.

1179
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: I just don't don't know that work like that. Ouchih says,

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Speaker 1: can I ask their origin of the volding chair and

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Speaker 1: bullet ball Shout out to ramsey pH Dunn, who said,

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Speaker 1: here's a list of the episodes that cover the history

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Speaker 1: of bullet ball in the Folding Chair one seventy three,

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Speaker 1: Bulletball Extreme two two seven to one, Bulletball twenty twenty one,

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Speaker 1: seventeen ninety seven, bullet Ball Explained ten ninety five, bullet

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Speaker 1: Ball Reducts and Folding Chair episode twenty seven forty nine.

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01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:15,560
Speaker 1: A Montgomery Sweet Tea Party from April seven, twenty twenty

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01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: three connects a bullet ball or folded chair replace the

1189
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Speaker 1: taser girl. Thank you somebody did that's a fan? Well,

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Speaker 1: I know We've done several episodes of it. Ramsey Pa

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01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 1: Ramsey also says iront with Caaren and the ice cream

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Speaker 1: this past weekend. We went Saturday after seven thirty at

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01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 1: Broms and everyone was out getting ice cream. Yeah, it

1194
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 1: was crazy. It was nuts. Michael says, this is a

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01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 1: brilliant episode. They want a bigger bubble, will follow me

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01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 1: the glory killing the analysis. Thank you, thank you. Look

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: Cool shirt, says unknown user.

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Speaker 1: I thought about your shirt trying to see what shirt

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Speaker 1: I even had on. Oh the shirt that's my man

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01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 1: with the clouds and they used to be on PBS

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01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:09,240
Speaker 1: painting Wild Ross. Yeah, Bob Ross, hello again, I'm your

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Speaker 1: gender critical listener, says letting Lucky Eagles sixty forty. Democrats

1204
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 1: have to move to the middle and make small changes

1205
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: towards the left is the game more power. That's the

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01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 1: only way we progress. If you push too fast and

1207
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 1: too hard, there are people who will rebel. And that's

1208
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 1: what we're living in now with Trump. Trump is the

1209
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 1: devil and his supporters our demons, and they are trying

1210
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 1: to take this make this country hell. I love the

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01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 1: games we made in this country, social Security, Obamacare, ability

1212
01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: for black people to enter the middle class through government jobs,

1213
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 1: voting rightsdi and it kills me to see us lose

1214
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: everything black people fought for for these centuries. We Black

1215
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 1: Americans made this country really great and bled in us

1216
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: soft for generation to make it better. I don't want

1217
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 1: to get it up so easily. Two things I hope

1218
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Speaker 1: Democrats start doing immediately. One, Democrats have to stop bringing

1219
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: up trans people in every interview. This really hurts us.

1220
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Speaker 1: I hope them stop mentioning the trans issues altogether. I'm

1221
01:02:57,520 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 1: not saying trans people should not exist. I like what

1222
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 1: Tim Wallace had to say about it when he said

1223
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 1: everyone should mind their own business about other people's business.

1224
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 1: I agree with this. This is a very small minority.

1225
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 1: Let them do what they do, but we don't have

1226
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 1: to talk about it every single time. We're trying to

1227
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 1: save our democracy. Maybe that means they go back into

1228
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 1: the shadows, but they go into the shadows in the

1229
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 1: country that is still democracy or where people are not

1230
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 1: being disappeared for protesting. Honestly, a lot of moderists just

1231
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 1: don't want to hear about it or think about it anymore.

1232
01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 1: If the dem stopped talking about it so much, they

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01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 1: would be less focused on the community. Well number one,

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Speaker 1: well let me finishing your point. You always compare our

1235
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Speaker 1: struggle to the trans struggle. I completely reject that, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna fight about that. Moderists. I'm talking about

1237
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: our black other black moderists there are. Those are the

1238
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 1: people we have to have we have into getting back

1239
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: to drop this trans stuff. They are not going to

1240
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: be going to be anti black issues.

1241
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Speaker 2: This last sentence made no sense. But let me explain something.

1242
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Speaker 1: To you real quick, Lucky Eagle. The first part of

1243
01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: this is Democrats did not bring up trans issues often

1244
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: at all at all. Like, what's very ironic is that

1245
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 1: you have been, like many other people, you have been

1246
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: completely triggered by your biases against trans people by Trump.

1247
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 2: And the ads that he put out.

1248
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, so many actual trans people, actual LGBTQ advocates will

1249
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 1: tell you Kamala Harris would not talk about those things

1250
01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 1: during their campaign for the most part. You look at

1251
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 1: almost every campaign stop, it was not an issue she

1252
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 1: brought up or broached on her own. If if she

1253
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: did talk about it, as know, only because she was

1254
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 1: asked about it. So you've already conceded a false You've

1255
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:58,440
Speaker 1: already basically put a falsehood out here, and you've and

1256
01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 1: you've conceded that ground, right You're like, oh, yeah, yeah,

1257
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 1: that and it's because you're a bias against trans people,

1258
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:08,320
Speaker 1: you're transphobic. So now you want to turn this into

1259
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 1: a referendum on trans people because Trump put out an

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01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 1: ad that every five minutes said something about Kamala was

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01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 1: giving trans people sex change surgeries and hundreds of thousands

1262
01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 1: of dollars in prison, which wasn't true. So I don't

1263
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 1: fight on lies. You can do that, but I'm not

1264
01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 1: going to fight you on some lies over here. We

1265
01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: have to share the same reality or we can't have

1266
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Speaker 1: this conversation.

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Speaker 2: The other part is I compare.

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Speaker 1: All struggles, all struggles that are about privilege, all struggles

1269
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 1: that are about unfairness, all struggles that are about not

1270
01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:52,200
Speaker 1: letting someone have freedom, to the black struggle. A comparison

1271
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:55,360
Speaker 1: is not saying something is equal. It is simply saying

1272
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 1: that the way that these things are relatable, I can

1273
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:05,160
Speaker 1: analyze both. If you are incapable of such ability to

1274
01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 1: follow that logic, I then we.

1275
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 2: Just can't relate.

1276
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 1: But I don't. I don't really bigger or go back

1277
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 1: and forth with people about it. You are the one

1278
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:18,320
Speaker 1: who lacks the imagination, not me. You're the one who

1279
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 1: cannot follow me, not the other way around. I can

1280
01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:25,919
Speaker 1: follow your simple k man bigotry logic. That's easy. Any

1281
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 1: anybody can see that that you know. I don't have

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Speaker 1: to agree with it to follow it. It's simple. But

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Speaker 1: for me, I don't think it's very complicated. And this

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Speaker 1: is the way my brain works. And then the third

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Speaker 1: thing I'll say about this point is black people were

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01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: not the reason Democrats lost this election. So for you

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Speaker 1: to say, like, well, we need to get these black

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Speaker 1: transfods back in the fold, why why they not? They

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01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 1: didn't lose the election for for Democrats. Black people's turnout

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01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 1: wasn't lower or some shit. Black people didn't vote for

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01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:05,400
Speaker 1: her in less of a If anything, black men voted

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01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,440
Speaker 1: higher for her than they did under Biden. So I

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01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:11,520
Speaker 1: reject the entire lie that you wrote up here with

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01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 1: And whether you just didn't know you were lying, or

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01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 1: whether you thought you were gonna trick us with lies,

1296
01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 1: but these are lies. These are If we can't share facts,

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01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: then we can't really share a conversation.

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Speaker 2: So I reject all of that shit. Now, will this

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Speaker 2: be what happens?

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01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 1: Possibly? I still predict a lot of Democrats are going

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01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 1: to fight over the soul of that party, and it's

1302
01:07:33,840 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 1: gonna become how do we become basically conservatives. But let

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01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 1: me tell you something, Doc, I don't know why they

1304
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:46,160
Speaker 1: would stop at trans people if what you're saying is right,

1305
01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 1: because you know who else needs to take their ass

1306
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 1: back into shadows and stop fucking up progress for everybody else.

1307
01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:57,640
Speaker 1: People that say stuff like defund the police, people that

1308
01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:00,720
Speaker 1: say stuff like black lives matter right, people that use

1309
01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 1: words like white supremacisy and systemic oppression and out, they

1310
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: should take they very inconvenient ass issues that don't affect

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01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,280
Speaker 1: the vast majority of the people in this country as

1312
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:15,880
Speaker 1: far as they're concerned.

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01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:17,080
Speaker 2: Right any negative way.

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01:08:18,040 --> 01:08:20,680
Speaker 1: They should take their ass somewhere and shut up and

1315
01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 1: dribble and just let us cater to the white people

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01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 1: that we think will actually go vote. We don't want

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01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:30,679
Speaker 1: to hear about your issues either. You should be happy

1318
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 1: that you live in a country where they're not abducting

1319
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 1: people or kicking people out for disagreeing. That should be

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01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 1: enough for you. And fuck your rights. That's really what

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01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:45,080
Speaker 1: you're saying. And so that's why you have to reject

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01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 1: my comparison, because you want to have the privilege of

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01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:53,200
Speaker 1: what we would call black activism in America without seeding

1324
01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:56,559
Speaker 1: that ground to anyone else. Everyone else's issues, after eyes,

1325
01:08:56,680 --> 01:08:59,680
Speaker 1: needs to stop mattering. But the issues that you specifically

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01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:02,719
Speaker 1: want to have that you do want the Democratic Party

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01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 1: and the country to uphold. For the thirteen percent of

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01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:08,879
Speaker 1: us that live in that make up the American populace.

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Speaker 1: The thirteen percent meaning the minority of black people of

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01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 1: population in America are black. You want that thirteen percent

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01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 1: to be front and center on that docket. Though you

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01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 1: want our rights to be up there being pushed for.

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01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:24,000
Speaker 2: You want people to be allied with us.

1334
01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:27,439
Speaker 1: And that is the real issue on the Democratic Party side,

1335
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:30,759
Speaker 1: is that y'all selfish motherfuckers don't want to be allied

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01:09:30,760 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 1: with nobody. Everybody want just their ala car ass freedoms.

1337
01:09:34,360 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 1: And then if everybody else supposed to just bend over

1338
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 1: and fucking take it, and I say fuck that, so

1339
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:40,479
Speaker 1: I honest to.

1340
01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 2: God, as.

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01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 1: If this is how we're the Democrats and Democratic voters lose,

1342
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:52,720
Speaker 1: then we deserve it. Then we need to suffer. We

1343
01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:56,519
Speaker 1: must suffer together, and maybe the suffering will be enough

1344
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:58,880
Speaker 1: for your small ass mind to wake up and be like,

1345
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 1: oh damn, maybe I need to stop tripping on trans

1346
01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:04,599
Speaker 1: people because I have bigger problems, got bigger problems, because

1347
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 1: that's not a trans problem.

1348
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:09,280
Speaker 2: Being deported is not a trans problem.

1349
01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 1: Trans people could just as easily write the same fucking

1350
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 1: message about you when some bad shit happened to black people. Hey,

1351
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 1: cops killing a black man for selling lucy cigarettes not

1352
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 1: a trans problem. Fuck them Blacks. What democrats need to

1353
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 1: do is get on this gender affirmation surgery. That's what

1354
01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 1: the fuck they could be saying. But that's not what

1355
01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:31,880
Speaker 1: the big tent is. We all got our little fucking

1356
01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:35,760
Speaker 1: ving diagram, and everybody a little circle overlap, just a

1357
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 1: little bit. And what I'm writing, what I'm saying here

1358
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:41,720
Speaker 1: is concentrate on that overlap, because that is what can

1359
01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 1: bring us together. You know. Uh, it's that Fannie Lou Hammer.

1360
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: Your freedom is shackled and chain the mind. That's that's

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01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:54,200
Speaker 1: what it is. And so I find your selfishness to

1362
01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 1: be defeatist and short sighted and limited, because your selfishness

1363
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 1: is literally stopping that next person from getting their freedom

1364
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 1: and then keeping you from getting your own. I find

1365
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:11,439
Speaker 1: it stupid. Two, we also have to take a different

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01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 1: line on immigration. The majority of Americans are not pro

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01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:16,000
Speaker 1: open borders and feel invaded. Democrats have to change the

1368
01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:18,400
Speaker 1: rhetoric about this, not to be as extreme as Trump,

1369
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:20,879
Speaker 1: but the moves in the middle of this, Democrats are

1370
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:25,519
Speaker 1: are already doing that. Listen like, you sound like a

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01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 1: person that listens to a lot of Republican or you

1372
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:31,599
Speaker 1: listen to a lot of the big bubbles. That's what

1373
01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:34,720
Speaker 1: you sound like. Because the big bubbles Republicans will line

1374
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:36,920
Speaker 1: and tell you Democrats that want open borders and know

1375
01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:40,080
Speaker 1: that's not true. That's not how Biden governed. That's definitely

1376
01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:43,679
Speaker 1: not how Obama governed. So that those things are not true.

1377
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:48,320
Speaker 1: They had an immigration bill that Trump shot down. Yes,

1378
01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 1: so you have accepted the Trump lies as your new truth,

1379
01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 1: and then you right up here with this bullshit to

1380
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 1: us people that don't share these same set off facts

1381
01:11:56,160 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 1: with you because they're not true, and they have and

1382
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:04,040
Speaker 1: Democrats do talk about immigration just because they're like, hey,

1383
01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:07,680
Speaker 1: we should have a program for dreamers or naturalized immigration

1384
01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:09,880
Speaker 1: or whatever, does not mean that they're just like open

1385
01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:11,000
Speaker 1: border guys. Come on in.

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Speaker 2: No one is asking Democrats to change their platform on

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01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 2: black people.

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01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:18,240
Speaker 1: Of course not. You don't want that. Of course you don't.

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01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:21,400
Speaker 1: Why would you want that? You're selfish. You want them

1390
01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:23,680
Speaker 1: to change it on everything else. A large majority of

1391
01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:25,639
Speaker 1: people are asking to change their platform on these other

1392
01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:27,719
Speaker 1: two things. You said I was selfish for worrying about

1393
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 1: black people first, Well I am, that's just what I'll

1394
01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:32,200
Speaker 1: be good. Then I'm gonna stop reading this cause fuck

1395
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:34,479
Speaker 1: your selfish ass. How about that. Now I'm gonna be

1396
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:36,439
Speaker 1: selfish to move on my podcast and don't write up

1397
01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:40,439
Speaker 1: here again. Damn h How I use it from Channel

1398
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:45,080
Speaker 1: niggas Pdr says, I like how Karen mentioned the value

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01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:47,479
Speaker 1: of passport. I got my first passport when a friend

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01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:49,640
Speaker 1: invited me to Mexico. Eight months later, I lost my

1401
01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:50,559
Speaker 1: passport while.

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01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:53,120
Speaker 2: Bar hopping their home. When I got another passport.

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01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 1: I was close to my adult kid's birthday, so I

1404
01:12:55,280 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 1: got a passport for her too, in case in case

1405
01:12:57,840 --> 01:12:59,640
Speaker 1: a friend of hers randomly advice her to travel out

1406
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:01,920
Speaker 1: the country. Now, I think a passport is a great

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01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 1: gift for a child. Niece nephew graduated from high school

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01:13:04,360 --> 01:13:07,040
Speaker 1: of college. They're expensive with nice. Aye, it is.

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01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 5: And I've said this years ago and I will continue

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01:13:10,080 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 5: to say. This passport will eventually be the required form

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01:13:14,520 --> 01:13:15,520
Speaker 5: of identification.

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01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:17,720
Speaker 3: I want to flat say that.

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01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 5: And the biggest reason why I'm pushing that because with

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01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 5: the new IDs, the easiest way to get one is

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01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 5: with a passport. So a lot of people are either

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01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 5: going to have to go through the problem having fourteen

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01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:31,520
Speaker 5: pieces of identification, or either they gonna have to sacrifice

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01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:33,240
Speaker 5: and pay for a passport so they can go, hear,

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01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 5: my passport, yay, yay, and y'all can move on with

1420
01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:37,719
Speaker 5: y'all lives, because you know, you have to consistently renew

1421
01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 5: these things they have to keep coming up. And also,

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01:13:40,360 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 5: I think eventually, if fucking Trump have his way, eventually

1423
01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:46,479
Speaker 5: when it asks for your ID, a passport is gonna

1424
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 5: be required. They'd be like, won't go fuck about that.

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01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:50,400
Speaker 5: Do you got an American issue passport? We need to

1426
01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 5: be sure that you actually hear like you say you're

1427
01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:55,719
Speaker 5: supposed to be here. I'm opening up my third eye

1428
01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:58,320
Speaker 5: because I'm like, they want you to have background checks,

1429
01:13:58,360 --> 01:13:59,839
Speaker 5: you know, cause they want to get rid of legals.

1430
01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 5: So they're gonna be like, did you go through the

1431
01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:04,120
Speaker 5: proper process, did you show your documentation? Like you know,

1432
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:06,720
Speaker 5: people's names and ship like like not matching this ship

1433
01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:08,200
Speaker 5: like that. I'm like, oh, this is going to be

1434
01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 5: a problem. So in my mind, eventually it's gonna be

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01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:13,519
Speaker 5: a required form of ID.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we'll see about all that. I think a

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01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: passport is very useful and valuable if you have, if

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01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:24,600
Speaker 1: you can afford to get one, I would suggest you

1439
01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:28,840
Speaker 1: get it, not under the dire circumstances that Karen is saying.

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01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:30,719
Speaker 1: I just don't find it to be kind of convenient.

1441
01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:35,200
Speaker 1: And uh, I don't you know. I feel like once

1442
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:36,840
Speaker 1: we get to the point where they're asking you to

1443
01:14:36,840 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 1: show your passport, I think it's not gonna matter. If

1444
01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 1: they decide you can't be in this country, you just

1445
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:43,559
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be in this country. I don't think it's

1446
01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:45,680
Speaker 1: gonna matter. You got your passport and all that shit.

1447
01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:48,600
Speaker 1: They'gna be like you black, ain't you get the fuck out? No,

1448
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:50,479
Speaker 1: don't be agreeing. I'm disagreeing with you.

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01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 5: You just said the opposite. I didn't say they ever

1450
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:54,960
Speaker 5: gonna honor it and say you were right. I just

1451
01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:56,680
Speaker 5: said it gonna make it, might have.

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01:14:56,720 --> 01:14:58,320
Speaker 2: It, then you might as well not even have It's

1453
01:14:58,360 --> 01:14:58,719
Speaker 2: my point.

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01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:01,040
Speaker 1: I also don't think it's that difficult to go to

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01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:04,679
Speaker 1: the DMV with some other paperwork. Is I just think

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01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 1: the passport is the most convenient, Like it's just it's

1457
01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:09,760
Speaker 1: the easiest one. But it ain't hard. Like I could

1458
01:15:09,760 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 1: have got my real ID without my passport. It was

1459
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 1: like two other pieces of paper or some shit. It's

1460
01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 1: not like you don't need a lot of paper. It's

1461
01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:20,360
Speaker 1: so if you're listening out there and you're like, I

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01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:21,880
Speaker 1: don't have a passport, am I gonna be able to

1463
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:22,479
Speaker 1: get real ID?

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01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 3: Yes?

1465
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:25,840
Speaker 2: You can go to the website look it up.

1466
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:28,799
Speaker 1: There are other things you can do. There's like bills,

1467
01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:31,840
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of shit, you can birth certificates, social

1468
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 1: Security cards, whatever the fuck. There's other stuff out there

1469
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 1: that you're paced up, Like this shit you can bring

1470
01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:40,280
Speaker 1: just look it up in your state and find out

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Speaker 1: what it is. But all that being said, passport very convenient,

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01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 1: very very worthwhile. All right, Apple, say it's my privileged

1473
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:54,760
Speaker 1: our post office. But wait, we already said this. I

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01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 1: guess you posted this twice? Yeah, okay, or maybe I Oh, no,

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01:15:59,040 --> 01:16:01,000
Speaker 1: I was on YouTube. That's what it was. I'm sorry

1476
01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:03,120
Speaker 1: I look at the wrong comment section. All right, My

1477
01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 1: mom says the Post Office story was time was hilarious.

1478
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:09,720
Speaker 1: Thank you. J Ful said, I love how Karen says, motherfucker.

1479
01:16:09,920 --> 01:16:14,320
Speaker 1: She be singing the hard R on that mother to

1480
01:16:14,400 --> 01:16:18,200
Speaker 1: let niggas know she means business. Candy O.

1481
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 2: Ford says Schumer hopefully was playing the long game.

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01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:23,679
Speaker 1: It's not like the Democratic base has never sent them

1483
01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 1: out on the limb and deserted them at the polls

1484
01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:28,840
Speaker 1: in September. He may go for the shutdown because the

1485
01:16:28,880 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 1: bass is organizing themselves and pushing them to fight. Obama

1486
01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:35,280
Speaker 1: used a lot of capital to get the ACA. Biden

1487
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:39,240
Speaker 1: pushed student loan forgivens, etc. Policies. Sanders and Warren Folks

1488
01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:42,479
Speaker 1: said they needed Harris went anywhere, everyone to everyone to

1489
01:16:42,520 --> 01:16:45,479
Speaker 1: get votes. Promised all the liberal policies that claim they

1490
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:49,080
Speaker 1: want a Democrats still stay home. Yeah, Candy, I just

1491
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 1: think if that's true, then Schumer should have articulated that.

1492
01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:57,400
Speaker 1: That's all. Like, I feel like some people are helping

1493
01:16:57,479 --> 01:16:59,320
Speaker 1: him out in the way he's not helping himself. And

1494
01:16:59,360 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 1: when you're the lead, you need to be the one

1495
01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:04,080
Speaker 1: communicating a message that would make me understand what you

1496
01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:07,800
Speaker 1: just did and what he's been doing on this week

1497
01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:10,479
Speaker 1: long talk circuit that he's been going on trying to

1498
01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:13,040
Speaker 1: sell his book that he can't even now do a

1499
01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:15,920
Speaker 1: tour about because people are so unhappy with him. It

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01:17:15,960 --> 01:17:19,200
Speaker 1: has not given me confidence that he has a plan.

1501
01:17:19,680 --> 01:17:24,280
Speaker 1: It just felt like capitulation for the capitulations sake. Jason says,

1502
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 1: no doubt the conservative podcast Dominus is depressing. The thing

1503
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:29,479
Speaker 1: about the liberal podcast they always say stuff like we

1504
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:31,559
Speaker 1: all know Trump is bad, it should go without saying,

1505
01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:33,760
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna need you to go

1506
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:37,040
Speaker 1: ahead and say it. Though, agree those MAGA podcasts never

1507
01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:40,080
Speaker 1: let anything bad about liberals go without saying. Anyway, the

1508
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:42,960
Speaker 1: post office story was the best I feel for those employees.

1509
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:45,200
Speaker 1: If I'm being honest, my eight am experience and my

1510
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:47,920
Speaker 1: five pm experience are both pretty bad. I hate when

1511
01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:51,200
Speaker 1: someone walks in right when we open. Actually, my neon

1512
01:17:51,280 --> 01:17:55,719
Speaker 1: experience ain't great either. A brother trying to get to lunch.

1513
01:17:55,800 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 1: If you want the optimal Jason, ten am to two

1514
01:17:58,320 --> 01:18:00,960
Speaker 1: pm are your best chances you'll get the full time.

1515
01:18:01,000 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 1: Scott smiling Nego experience. Finally, y'all didn't rank the gender

1516
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:07,920
Speaker 1: Wars those ladies played for you considering it hijack the

1517
01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:11,080
Speaker 1: hijack banter. It has to be considered Hall of Fame level.

1518
01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:13,599
Speaker 1: I thought we said ten out of ten, but yeah,

1519
01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:16,439
Speaker 1: it was ten out of ten Gender Wars. It's amazing, Joe.

1520
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:18,800
Speaker 5: I think we just started clapping, so we don't know

1521
01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:20,519
Speaker 5: if we gave a score or not, but yeah, it was.

1522
01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:21,599
Speaker 3: It was ten out of teen.

1523
01:18:21,680 --> 01:18:23,479
Speaker 1: That was one of the best ones. That was one

1524
01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:24,320
Speaker 1: of the best ones ever.

1525
01:18:24,479 --> 01:18:25,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was.

1526
01:18:26,080 --> 01:18:27,640
Speaker 1: And there was something else she said, Oh, and we

1527
01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:30,400
Speaker 1: went to another post office and the guy was very nice,

1528
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:33,320
Speaker 1: and it was right before they closed, So I don't know,

1529
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:38,679
Speaker 1: different post office, different strokes, I guess. But his post

1530
01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:40,800
Speaker 1: office up and wasn't over everybody rich white people, so

1531
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:43,160
Speaker 1: maybe she'd be dealing with some different type of folks.

1532
01:18:43,560 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 1: That's true too.

1533
01:18:44,400 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 2: All right, let's get some more music and then we'll

1534
01:18:48,120 --> 01:18:48,920
Speaker 2: come right back.

1535
01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:09,400
Speaker 5: Psycho.

1536
01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:22,640
Speaker 1: All right, I forgot to say the Poe. Would you

1537
01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 1: have intervened at the post office if you were riding Karen,

1538
01:19:25,120 --> 01:19:29,920
Speaker 1: Yes or no? Six percent? Yes, ninety four percent no, Yeah,

1539
01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:31,200
Speaker 1: I feel comfortable with my no.

1540
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:34,559
Speaker 3: Me too. I think we made the right decision.

1541
01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:40,439
Speaker 1: Thirty sixty six self evaluations, seven comments. Oh and I

1542
01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:42,600
Speaker 1: just want to bring something back real quick, because I

1543
01:19:42,680 --> 01:19:46,679
Speaker 1: also meant to say this part. Remember when I said

1544
01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:51,599
Speaker 1: post election, I was not the person to be trying

1545
01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 1: to bring people into the fold, even though I recognize

1546
01:19:54,200 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 1: someone needs to do that. That's what I'm talking about.

1547
01:19:58,280 --> 01:20:00,120
Speaker 1: I don't have the patience for somebody come up up

1548
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:02,519
Speaker 1: here and be like, I listen, I don't like trans people,

1549
01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:05,840
Speaker 1: But but what bitch, go find another show to listen to.

1550
01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:08,720
Speaker 1: The fuck kind of what do you think this is?

1551
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:12,639
Speaker 1: It's not a I'm not working for the Democratic Party.

1552
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:14,560
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what you do. If you

1553
01:20:14,600 --> 01:20:16,960
Speaker 1: want to keep suffering and keep us having a shitty

1554
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:19,800
Speaker 1: ass world, then that's your fucking prerogative.

1555
01:20:20,800 --> 01:20:23,960
Speaker 2: You and every Trump supporter agreed on that y'all want.

1556
01:20:24,920 --> 01:20:27,800
Speaker 1: Y'all won. So you know who else agrees trans people

1557
01:20:27,840 --> 01:20:30,320
Speaker 1: need to go away? You and all the fucking Republicans

1558
01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:33,200
Speaker 1: go be with your friends. This ain't the show for you.

1559
01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:36,760
Speaker 3: Fuck out it, and you don't have this isn't like

1560
01:20:36,800 --> 01:20:37,559
Speaker 3: a public form.

1561
01:20:37,560 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 1: You don't have a right to access to us like

1562
01:20:40,600 --> 01:20:42,679
Speaker 1: I said. I remember saying that when that person wrote

1563
01:20:42,680 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 1: that shit a long time and goes like, hey, you

1564
01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:46,639
Speaker 1: can stop writing up here about this. I don't give

1565
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,719
Speaker 1: a fuck. I said what I said, and I feel

1566
01:20:48,760 --> 01:20:51,320
Speaker 1: vindicated and writing. There's nothing you said logically that would

1567
01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:53,760
Speaker 1: make me reconsider that, and my job is to make

1568
01:20:53,800 --> 01:20:56,960
Speaker 1: you reconsider shit. I appreciate when people do right, but

1569
01:20:57,160 --> 01:20:59,400
Speaker 1: I don't get on the mic like, man, they gonna

1570
01:20:59,400 --> 01:21:03,680
Speaker 1: reconsider it. I'm like, I like what people do, but

1571
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:06,400
Speaker 1: if not, if your fucking bigotry is too strong to

1572
01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:08,360
Speaker 1: see it, then it's just too fucking strong to see it.

1573
01:21:08,560 --> 01:21:09,960
Speaker 2: We used to have people that are right up here

1574
01:21:09,960 --> 01:21:10,719
Speaker 2: and they're like, I'm.

1575
01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 1: A Christian, I don't think gay people. I don't agree

1576
01:21:12,280 --> 01:21:15,439
Speaker 1: with their lifestyle first, and our same thing to them.

1577
01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:18,240
Speaker 1: Then stop writing up here because I don't give a

1578
01:21:18,240 --> 01:21:20,040
Speaker 1: fuck that you don't agree with their lifestyle. Then this

1579
01:21:20,080 --> 01:21:20,840
Speaker 1: ain't the show for you.

1580
01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:22,519
Speaker 2: It is not go listen to plenty.

1581
01:21:22,600 --> 01:21:24,880
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's plenty of other ignorant ass niggas that

1582
01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:28,280
Speaker 1: will tell you shit to make you feel good, but

1583
01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:32,880
Speaker 1: that is not my job anyway. Shoe Boody says on

1584
01:21:32,880 --> 01:21:36,560
Speaker 1: our last episode thirty sixty six Self evaluations. Man, just

1585
01:21:36,600 --> 01:21:38,240
Speaker 1: look you dead in the face and say, no one

1586
01:21:38,240 --> 01:21:40,440
Speaker 1: gets succeed expectations.

1587
01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:43,080
Speaker 2: Okay, then stop making me evaluate myself.

1588
01:21:43,160 --> 01:21:45,560
Speaker 3: Right, that's my whole point. What's the point is so

1589
01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:46,559
Speaker 3: nobody gets it?

1590
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:50,479
Speaker 1: So they told you don't do that. It's not there, okay,

1591
01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:54,000
Speaker 1: cause that's a big thing, Karen. The first sentence is, man,

1592
01:21:54,120 --> 01:21:56,519
Speaker 1: just look you dead in the face and say no

1593
01:21:56,520 --> 01:21:58,240
Speaker 1: one gets to exceed expectations.

1594
01:21:58,760 --> 01:22:02,800
Speaker 5: Is the fact that they was like they was like,

1595
01:22:03,840 --> 01:22:06,840
Speaker 5: most people will not get it sez expectations. Like like

1596
01:22:06,880 --> 01:22:09,599
Speaker 5: that was flat saying and it wasn't mean or anything

1597
01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:11,920
Speaker 5: like that. They was like, you would literally have to

1598
01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:15,160
Speaker 5: be like going and getting a fucking promotion. They was like,

1599
01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:18,320
Speaker 5: most people are going to get meet expectations. So they

1600
01:22:18,400 --> 01:22:22,280
Speaker 5: told you this when oh and one of them one

1601
01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:24,720
Speaker 5: on one type of things. So is it after you've

1602
01:22:24,760 --> 01:22:27,960
Speaker 5: already evaluated yourself or is it before you fill it out? Okay, yes,

1603
01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:29,920
Speaker 5: big And they was like, we want to let you

1604
01:22:29,960 --> 01:22:33,160
Speaker 5: know up front so you won't get disappointed when when

1605
01:22:33,200 --> 01:22:36,200
Speaker 5: you when we turn around to give you a meet expectations.

1606
01:22:36,560 --> 01:22:38,760
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I don't think that's the same thing as

1607
01:22:38,880 --> 01:22:41,600
Speaker 1: telling you you can't get expected, Okay, all right, I

1608
01:22:41,760 --> 01:22:44,479
Speaker 1: just want to I just think there's two things happening here,

1609
01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna come out and say it. I

1610
01:22:46,320 --> 01:22:51,000
Speaker 1: think there's the inner voice in your head that you know,

1611
01:22:51,439 --> 01:22:55,880
Speaker 1: the one that sometimes reacts like I'm yelling at them

1612
01:22:55,920 --> 01:22:59,720
Speaker 1: if I say, uh no, Karen, you just need to

1613
01:22:59,760 --> 01:23:02,439
Speaker 1: head like have you tried hitting control out the lead?

1614
01:23:02,520 --> 01:23:04,680
Speaker 1: And then you just freak out on me like like

1615
01:23:04,720 --> 01:23:06,760
Speaker 1: I said, like I jumped up and said, did you

1616
01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:08,600
Speaker 1: hit control out the league? You dumb motherfucker.

1617
01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:13,400
Speaker 2: So there's that, and then there get anxiety, right.

1618
01:23:13,320 --> 01:23:15,559
Speaker 1: In which I think a lot of us have. A

1619
01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:18,559
Speaker 1: lot of us have, especially about self evaluation. You know,

1620
01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:20,240
Speaker 1: it's like every time someone tells us to write an

1621
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:23,280
Speaker 1: excerpt about our podcast, and it's like, can you write

1622
01:23:23,479 --> 01:23:26,200
Speaker 1: your own profile about it? And I'm like, I don't

1623
01:23:26,200 --> 01:23:27,800
Speaker 1: even know what to say. We've done so much stuff,

1624
01:23:27,800 --> 01:23:31,120
Speaker 1: but I feel weird. Saying like Ryan and Karen are

1625
01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:34,479
Speaker 1: married Southern couple that has been one podcast was like

1626
01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:37,519
Speaker 1: it feels weird, right. So there's that, But then there's

1627
01:23:37,520 --> 01:23:39,759
Speaker 1: this other part that is very real, which is corporate

1628
01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:43,840
Speaker 1: structures and double speak and bullshit. Yes, So I'm trying

1629
01:23:43,840 --> 01:23:46,200
Speaker 1: to figure out what is real and what is just

1630
01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:50,240
Speaker 1: people's inner voice. So that's why when you started agreeing

1631
01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:53,200
Speaker 1: like yeah, no one, they said, no one gets see expectations.

1632
01:23:53,240 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, is that a thing that happened or is

1633
01:23:55,800 --> 01:23:58,479
Speaker 1: that a thing you think is the thing that happens.

1634
01:23:58,520 --> 01:24:01,559
Speaker 1: So they said, no one gets to see most people don't.

1635
01:24:01,600 --> 01:24:03,840
Speaker 3: They was like, if you get it, you're going somewhere else.

1636
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:06,080
Speaker 1: Like because I thought you also had told me that

1637
01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:08,960
Speaker 1: you have put exceed expectations on things before, and they

1638
01:24:09,160 --> 01:24:11,800
Speaker 1: agree with you. Yes, But so I feel like, if

1639
01:24:11,840 --> 01:24:14,400
Speaker 1: no one is supposed to put that, why wouldn't they

1640
01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:17,920
Speaker 1: have told you No, Karen, we told you earlier you

1641
01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:19,639
Speaker 1: don't get to say exceed. We don't give a fuck

1642
01:24:19,680 --> 01:24:22,439
Speaker 1: if you came in early, if you worked sixty hours.

1643
01:24:22,720 --> 01:24:25,439
Speaker 2: We told you no one gets that. So you're wrong.

1644
01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:26,240
Speaker 1: Take that off.

1645
01:24:26,360 --> 01:24:29,400
Speaker 5: No. The thing is, it's it's a bunch of shit,

1646
01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:30,960
Speaker 5: and you put exceeds most of them.

1647
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:32,200
Speaker 3: I put meat, right.

1648
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:34,720
Speaker 5: There's a handful I put exceed, But this will be

1649
01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:38,200
Speaker 5: somebody will put exceed for every single solitary category, Like like.

1650
01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:42,720
Speaker 1: All right, but who I don't mean even a dick,

1651
01:24:42,800 --> 01:24:46,800
Speaker 1: But who the fuck would do that? That wasn't full

1652
01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:49,360
Speaker 1: of shit? Like I'm not saying people do that, right,

1653
01:24:49,479 --> 01:24:53,320
Speaker 1: but that don't. So it's the employee always right. What

1654
01:24:53,360 --> 01:24:55,200
Speaker 1: are we saying here? Because like I feel like if

1655
01:24:55,840 --> 01:24:58,719
Speaker 1: if you put exceed expectations for every part of your job,

1656
01:24:58,880 --> 01:25:00,439
Speaker 1: I would be like, what the fuck did you think

1657
01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:01,320
Speaker 1: the expectations were?

1658
01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:04,240
Speaker 3: Yes, Sarah, Yeah that's coming in bus day, bubba gonna ay.

1659
01:25:05,160 --> 01:25:07,839
Speaker 1: So like cause like we've only been on the workers

1660
01:25:07,840 --> 01:25:10,360
Speaker 1: side this time, and I agree, I understand, but like,

1661
01:25:11,840 --> 01:25:13,800
Speaker 1: is there no such thing as that we don't all

1662
01:25:13,800 --> 01:25:16,080
Speaker 1: have a delusional coworker where it's like this bitch thing

1663
01:25:16,160 --> 01:25:18,479
Speaker 1: she got earth to gift of the earth.

1664
01:25:18,600 --> 01:25:20,280
Speaker 3: Yes, we do, Like I.

1665
01:25:21,560 --> 01:25:25,400
Speaker 1: Anyway, I I hear what y'all saying. I think it's

1666
01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:28,479
Speaker 1: just more of an anxiety thing though, Like I don't

1667
01:25:28,479 --> 01:25:31,160
Speaker 1: want to have to think about how good or bad

1668
01:25:31,160 --> 01:25:32,640
Speaker 1: of a job. I want you to come in and

1669
01:25:32,640 --> 01:25:35,080
Speaker 1: do your job and just tell me right. But I

1670
01:25:35,080 --> 01:25:36,840
Speaker 1: think some of it's turning into.

1671
01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:38,519
Speaker 3: Like you make me do your job.

1672
01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like that's what the rejection is not necessary,

1673
01:25:42,479 --> 01:25:46,080
Speaker 1: Like I think self evaluation is actually pretty healthy. I'm

1674
01:25:46,120 --> 01:25:47,960
Speaker 1: sure there's people that came up with this at the

1675
01:25:48,000 --> 01:25:50,240
Speaker 1: company that weren't trying to fuck everybody over. They were like,

1676
01:25:50,840 --> 01:25:53,920
Speaker 1: they were like, you know what would help? I guarante

1677
01:25:53,960 --> 01:25:56,320
Speaker 1: this is why I'm saying. I guarantee you what a

1678
01:25:56,320 --> 01:26:02,680
Speaker 1: self evaluation came from was somebody getting a bad evaluation

1679
01:26:03,200 --> 01:26:05,439
Speaker 1: and saying I should be able to evaluate my fucking

1680
01:26:05,479 --> 01:26:07,640
Speaker 1: self so that when we come to this meeting, I

1681
01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:11,519
Speaker 1: have something to say too. And now everyone's doing it.

1682
01:26:11,520 --> 01:26:13,280
Speaker 1: It's like, fuck this, I don't like, this is not

1683
01:26:13,400 --> 01:26:16,360
Speaker 1: changing anything, But I guarantee you self valuation and come

1684
01:26:16,400 --> 01:26:18,599
Speaker 1: out of nowhere because I remember being in corporate America

1685
01:26:19,120 --> 01:26:22,080
Speaker 1: and having these meetings without a self evaluation and being like,

1686
01:26:22,120 --> 01:26:25,280
Speaker 1: what the fuck? I feel blind sided, Whereas if I

1687
01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:27,120
Speaker 1: went in with my self evaluation, I can at least

1688
01:26:27,160 --> 01:26:32,519
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, you're saying this, here's what I'm saying anyway, Yeah.

1689
01:26:32,320 --> 01:26:35,360
Speaker 5: I get it, and everything's and I understand that perspective,

1690
01:26:36,560 --> 01:26:39,439
Speaker 5: and everything's documented and everything you know too through people

1691
01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:41,800
Speaker 5: look like your manager looks at a supervisor looks at it,

1692
01:26:42,040 --> 01:26:43,559
Speaker 5: HR looks at it, everybody looks at it.

1693
01:26:43,560 --> 01:26:45,160
Speaker 3: Then I get that you.

1694
01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:47,519
Speaker 1: Don't like it. But I'm trying to figure out how

1695
01:26:47,600 --> 01:26:51,679
Speaker 1: much of the not like it is just anxiety about

1696
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:54,800
Speaker 1: evaluating yourself, and how much of it is literally like

1697
01:26:55,800 --> 01:26:58,639
Speaker 1: it just don't matter what you put, period. They don't

1698
01:26:58,640 --> 01:27:00,439
Speaker 1: give a fuck because I I ask.

1699
01:27:00,320 --> 01:27:03,240
Speaker 3: You specific questions ninety five.

1700
01:27:03,600 --> 01:27:06,240
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I asked you specific questions during that segment,

1701
01:27:06,439 --> 01:27:08,639
Speaker 1: and I was checking to see what the answers were.

1702
01:27:08,880 --> 01:27:12,040
Speaker 1: And when you said sometimes you do put exceeds expectations

1703
01:27:12,360 --> 01:27:16,160
Speaker 1: and when you put it they agree with you, I went, okay.

1704
01:27:16,240 --> 01:27:19,120
Speaker 1: So then I'm glad they did the self evaluation because

1705
01:27:19,160 --> 01:27:21,439
Speaker 1: you would not do that. You would never walk in

1706
01:27:21,520 --> 01:27:24,519
Speaker 1: anyone's office and tell them I'm exceeding expectations. You would

1707
01:27:24,520 --> 01:27:27,479
Speaker 1: never do that, and only in that format would you

1708
01:27:27,520 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 1: advocate for yourself.

1709
01:27:28,960 --> 01:27:29,240
Speaker 3: That's it.

1710
01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:31,720
Speaker 2: You would just go to work and you wouldn't do shit.

1711
01:27:32,000 --> 01:27:33,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, So like I don't.

1712
01:27:34,000 --> 01:27:34,160
Speaker 4: So.

1713
01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:37,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I'm forced to.

1714
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:40,280
Speaker 1: So I don't know what other people do with their jobs,

1715
01:27:40,280 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 1: and I don't know how they do their jobs. But

1716
01:27:41,920 --> 01:27:45,519
Speaker 1: like part like, to me, that's a sign that it

1717
01:27:45,640 --> 01:27:48,800
Speaker 1: is working to an extent, even if you don't like it,

1718
01:27:48,880 --> 01:27:51,360
Speaker 1: like it's still I'm not saying yah, I like it.

1719
01:27:52,400 --> 01:27:54,360
Speaker 1: But like if you would have told me, well, no,

1720
01:27:54,439 --> 01:27:56,320
Speaker 1: I don't put exceeds expectation. I just don't want to

1721
01:27:56,320 --> 01:27:59,840
Speaker 1: stick out. I just put meets expectation for everything, then

1722
01:27:59,880 --> 01:28:01,639
Speaker 1: I would be like, okay, yeah, I can see your point,

1723
01:28:01,680 --> 01:28:04,880
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. But when you're like no, sometimes I

1724
01:28:04,920 --> 01:28:06,800
Speaker 1: go above me on and I put that down, I'm

1725
01:28:06,840 --> 01:28:10,000
Speaker 1: like good because if not, you would never go into

1726
01:28:10,040 --> 01:28:12,599
Speaker 1: an office. You would never ask for a raise, you wouldn't.

1727
01:28:12,600 --> 01:28:16,360
Speaker 1: You would never say I expect more better treatment. You

1728
01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:18,439
Speaker 1: would never do that. You would just get a check

1729
01:28:18,479 --> 01:28:20,280
Speaker 1: and then you would go home and you just would

1730
01:28:20,280 --> 01:28:23,160
Speaker 1: not think about it again. But if you're doing more

1731
01:28:23,400 --> 01:28:25,680
Speaker 1: or you complain about it, I'm doing more work than

1732
01:28:25,720 --> 01:28:27,600
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be doing and no one's acknowledging me.

1733
01:28:28,040 --> 01:28:31,200
Speaker 1: But then you have to acknowledge it yourself and then

1734
01:28:31,280 --> 01:28:33,800
Speaker 1: put that in writing and then go meet with your

1735
01:28:33,880 --> 01:28:36,960
Speaker 1: manager and say yeah, I did put that down, and

1736
01:28:37,000 --> 01:28:40,240
Speaker 1: then for them to have to say yeah, you did

1737
01:28:40,280 --> 01:28:43,800
Speaker 1: do that. That was never going to happen without self evaluation.

1738
01:28:44,360 --> 01:28:46,800
Speaker 1: So I'm not really against self evaluation.

1739
01:28:47,400 --> 01:28:51,200
Speaker 5: Now that now that particular statement, that is a true

1740
01:28:51,280 --> 01:28:56,280
Speaker 5: statement because I think for me I do.

1741
01:28:56,400 --> 01:28:58,080
Speaker 3: I get in my own mind. I get it in

1742
01:28:58,160 --> 01:28:59,160
Speaker 3: my own head, and.

1743
01:28:59,800 --> 01:29:03,599
Speaker 5: It's like I think, for me, it's huge anxiety because

1744
01:29:03,640 --> 01:29:06,600
Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, now you're making me have to I

1745
01:29:06,600 --> 01:29:09,520
Speaker 5: don't say, dude. And it also depends on your personality

1746
01:29:09,600 --> 01:29:11,960
Speaker 5: that you have. You know some people. I'm a brag

1747
01:29:12,040 --> 01:29:13,160
Speaker 5: by myself, but I'm like.

1748
01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:16,080
Speaker 1: Hey, I don't know these other people. I know you, yes,

1749
01:29:16,280 --> 01:29:17,800
Speaker 1: And I know that was the point you made, and

1750
01:29:17,840 --> 01:29:20,360
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna know, but you on the show for

1751
01:29:20,400 --> 01:29:23,440
Speaker 1: your banter. But now that it's coming up in the feedback,

1752
01:29:23,479 --> 01:29:25,679
Speaker 1: and I'm sure it's gonna be a lot more people writing,

1753
01:29:25,680 --> 01:29:29,679
Speaker 1: then I'm not really against this, especially when it comes

1754
01:29:29,680 --> 01:29:33,080
Speaker 1: to women, because women almost I mean, we know for

1755
01:29:33,080 --> 01:29:35,559
Speaker 1: a fact women do not advocate for themselves at work.

1756
01:29:35,600 --> 01:29:38,360
Speaker 1: They don't go in for the raise, they don't negotiate

1757
01:29:38,439 --> 01:29:42,920
Speaker 1: the job or the salary. They don't they don't push.

1758
01:29:43,680 --> 01:29:46,880
Speaker 1: They like, if anything, they feel eky for pushing, Like

1759
01:29:47,280 --> 01:29:50,200
Speaker 1: I hate this. You're gonna make me have to say

1760
01:29:50,240 --> 01:29:52,599
Speaker 1: that I did a good job, Like yeah, you should

1761
01:29:52,680 --> 01:29:53,920
Speaker 1: say you did a good job.

1762
01:29:53,720 --> 01:29:56,479
Speaker 5: If you did a good job, yeah, and and and

1763
01:29:57,400 --> 01:30:00,320
Speaker 5: maybe I had to be like this, I personally think.

1764
01:30:00,520 --> 01:30:02,360
Speaker 5: I know some people will be like that no matter what,

1765
01:30:02,400 --> 01:30:05,679
Speaker 5: but I really think society as a whole has failed

1766
01:30:05,800 --> 01:30:10,320
Speaker 5: us because you know, when it comes to that, most

1767
01:30:10,400 --> 01:30:12,519
Speaker 5: women are kind of taught to kind of put themselves

1768
01:30:12,560 --> 01:30:14,920
Speaker 5: and everything, and I think that comes out in these evaluations.

1769
01:30:15,000 --> 01:30:16,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, when you have men that don't know.

1770
01:30:16,560 --> 01:30:18,439
Speaker 5: Shit will swing, they dick and be like, I get

1771
01:30:18,479 --> 01:30:20,479
Speaker 5: all the raisers, you just gonna respect me. They don't

1772
01:30:20,479 --> 01:30:23,120
Speaker 5: even care if they're fucking unqualified for the job. But

1773
01:30:23,200 --> 01:30:26,320
Speaker 5: yet you know, mediocre, but still get the raises, and

1774
01:30:26,360 --> 01:30:28,840
Speaker 5: it's like, well, I'm doing more in him, right.

1775
01:30:28,920 --> 01:30:32,519
Speaker 1: Men are confident. Men will advocate for shit they don't

1776
01:30:32,560 --> 01:30:36,320
Speaker 1: even deserve, right, But yeah, I don't know. Is interesting

1777
01:30:36,360 --> 01:30:37,920
Speaker 1: a lot of the people that seem to hate it.

1778
01:30:37,920 --> 01:30:40,639
Speaker 1: It's a lot of women that seem to hate it

1779
01:30:40,680 --> 01:30:43,080
Speaker 1: in the chat room, ratchet ass signs it just have

1780
01:30:43,200 --> 01:30:46,360
Speaker 1: my avial. I hate it like a lot of women's

1781
01:30:46,400 --> 01:30:50,000
Speaker 1: shoe boody, she don't like it. If this whole song

1782
01:30:50,040 --> 01:30:52,720
Speaker 1: and dance is to see what percentage point raise you've

1783
01:30:52,760 --> 01:30:55,479
Speaker 1: already decided I'll be getting, then let's just say everyone's

1784
01:30:55,479 --> 01:30:57,599
Speaker 1: time here. Give me what I'm getting there, let's move along.

1785
01:30:57,880 --> 01:31:00,559
Speaker 1: But your young lady another woman to him. Not a

1786
01:31:00,600 --> 01:31:03,479
Speaker 1: fan of self evaluations. I've been told many times nobody

1787
01:31:03,479 --> 01:31:07,360
Speaker 1: gets exceed expectations. Well, that makes me feel great. I've

1788
01:31:07,400 --> 01:31:09,360
Speaker 1: always shown up and shown out at jobs. But what

1789
01:31:09,400 --> 01:31:12,000
Speaker 1: difference does it make. At least Karen's job actually works

1790
01:31:12,000 --> 01:31:15,880
Speaker 1: to improve conditions. I've never experienced that. Apia says that

1791
01:31:16,320 --> 01:31:18,720
Speaker 1: Jonathan Majors always worried about his girlfriend or wife as

1792
01:31:18,760 --> 01:31:21,040
Speaker 1: they seem to be married. Now she went all in on.

1793
01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:23,639
Speaker 1: He's a great guy and just misunderstood. Should she experience

1794
01:31:23,720 --> 01:31:27,040
Speaker 1: some of his aggressions, she would be even less likely

1795
01:31:27,080 --> 01:31:29,320
Speaker 1: to admit it because everyone will say, we told you so,

1796
01:31:29,520 --> 01:31:32,400
Speaker 1: Why did you even get with him? It's classical woman

1797
01:31:32,520 --> 01:31:37,439
Speaker 1: savior trap. Yeah, good luck to Meghan Majors is she?

1798
01:31:37,640 --> 01:31:39,200
Speaker 1: I won't to know what did she change her name?

1799
01:31:39,600 --> 01:31:41,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know what they really got married. They

1800
01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:43,000
Speaker 1: said it was like they jumped the broom in the

1801
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:44,680
Speaker 1: living room in front of their parents. I'm like, I

1802
01:31:44,680 --> 01:31:48,400
Speaker 1: don't even know. Just so happened? Yeah, it just so

1803
01:31:48,439 --> 01:31:51,719
Speaker 1: happened at the same time that this leak came out. Anyway,

1804
01:31:52,320 --> 01:31:54,839
Speaker 1: Sean says as an educator and research of the research

1805
01:31:54,840 --> 01:31:57,519
Speaker 1: shows that an education low performance students tend to inflate

1806
01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:00,720
Speaker 1: their self evaluations and high performing students to deflate their

1807
01:32:00,760 --> 01:32:03,880
Speaker 1: self evaluations. From a business perspective, if the research on

1808
01:32:03,920 --> 01:32:07,160
Speaker 1: the educational self evaluation carries over the business self evaluation,

1809
01:32:07,560 --> 01:32:10,839
Speaker 1: if anyone took self evaluation seriously, they would help elevate

1810
01:32:10,880 --> 01:32:15,280
Speaker 1: the less qualified and suppressed exceptional employees. Nev says self

1811
01:32:15,280 --> 01:32:19,000
Speaker 1: evaluations aren't allowed by my union contract because they're pretty

1812
01:32:19,040 --> 01:32:21,760
Speaker 1: unfair and inaccurate. Many people who are high performers tend

1813
01:32:21,800 --> 01:32:24,160
Speaker 1: to devalue that. That's what Sean just said, devalue the

1814
01:32:24,280 --> 01:32:26,240
Speaker 1: work and vice versa. There's no sense in letting that

1815
01:32:26,280 --> 01:32:29,120
Speaker 1: skew things like your pay. Yeah, and that's what I'm

1816
01:32:29,320 --> 01:32:32,799
Speaker 1: That's what I find interesting is like, is Karen Erica

1817
01:32:32,880 --> 01:32:39,160
Speaker 1: and Shoe Boody are they adverse to these evaluations because

1818
01:32:40,040 --> 01:32:42,920
Speaker 1: they are good performers or higher work and they and

1819
01:32:42,960 --> 01:32:46,200
Speaker 1: they're downplaying their shit. They're like, well, nobody gets a

1820
01:32:46,520 --> 01:32:49,679
Speaker 1: gets exceeding expectation, so let me just not say I'm

1821
01:32:49,680 --> 01:32:52,439
Speaker 1: doing that, as opposed to like, no, if you did,

1822
01:32:52,560 --> 01:32:55,960
Speaker 1: you did fuck what they said? They don't them come

1823
01:32:56,000 --> 01:32:58,960
Speaker 1: in this room. And maybe that's just my mind, but

1824
01:32:59,040 --> 01:33:01,640
Speaker 1: come in this room and make me prove that I'm not.

1825
01:33:02,640 --> 01:33:04,960
Speaker 1: If I'm I'm not saying I'm alive, but if I'm

1826
01:33:05,000 --> 01:33:08,880
Speaker 1: exceeding expectations, I'm not gonna not tell you I'm exceeding expectations.

1827
01:33:08,960 --> 01:33:10,840
Speaker 1: If you told me the job is from eight to

1828
01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:13,559
Speaker 1: five and I'm leaving this bitch at six, that happened.

1829
01:33:14,479 --> 01:33:17,679
Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna trick myself into being like, well,

1830
01:33:17,680 --> 01:33:20,280
Speaker 1: fuck me, man, that's just part of job. Now. I'm

1831
01:33:20,280 --> 01:33:23,479
Speaker 1: doing more than you told me to do. If you say, hey,

1832
01:33:23,520 --> 01:33:25,960
Speaker 1: the goal was to do five hundred invoices a month,

1833
01:33:26,120 --> 01:33:30,360
Speaker 1: and I'm doing seven hundred, I'm exceeding expectations. That's that's

1834
01:33:30,400 --> 01:33:34,000
Speaker 1: a fact, like we we don't have to doesn't mean

1835
01:33:34,000 --> 01:33:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a thirty seven percent raised, but it

1836
01:33:36,040 --> 01:33:39,559
Speaker 1: might be I'm putting I'm putting exceeded on this fucking

1837
01:33:39,600 --> 01:33:43,960
Speaker 1: sheet for this. That's just me. Though, not to mention women,

1838
01:33:43,960 --> 01:33:45,920
Speaker 1: A certain minorities of people with anxiety tend to be

1839
01:33:46,000 --> 01:33:48,439
Speaker 1: harder on themselves. I wish less people had to do

1840
01:33:48,479 --> 01:33:52,439
Speaker 1: self advisal scam. Yeah, it's seem like I said, I

1841
01:33:52,560 --> 01:33:56,040
Speaker 1: just take a step back real quick and ask yourself this,

1842
01:33:58,280 --> 01:34:01,400
Speaker 1: why do we have the self value now? We didn't

1843
01:34:01,439 --> 01:34:04,639
Speaker 1: always have them, And I'm guessing that you're gonna arrive

1844
01:34:04,800 --> 01:34:09,040
Speaker 1: at some point that not having them was even worse

1845
01:34:09,080 --> 01:34:12,439
Speaker 1: than having them. That's my guess. A lot of people

1846
01:34:12,520 --> 01:34:14,960
Speaker 1: were like, when I didn't have them, I also didn't

1847
01:34:14,960 --> 01:34:17,720
Speaker 1: get a raise, but also I didn't really know how

1848
01:34:17,720 --> 01:34:19,240
Speaker 1: the fucking good I was doing it, and when I

1849
01:34:19,360 --> 01:34:24,040
Speaker 1: did above me on, it wasn't acknowledged because the managers

1850
01:34:25,200 --> 01:34:28,559
Speaker 1: need you to acknowledge it now so that they can

1851
01:34:28,600 --> 01:34:31,519
Speaker 1: acknowledge it. I think that because most people won't go

1852
01:34:31,560 --> 01:34:35,559
Speaker 1: into that meeting and truly go, like without that self

1853
01:34:35,560 --> 01:34:39,240
Speaker 1: evaluation prompt, will truly go in there and go I

1854
01:34:39,439 --> 01:34:44,160
Speaker 1: did more invoices than y'all said, and that means something. Yeah,

1855
01:34:44,400 --> 01:34:46,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. You're hoping that your manager

1856
01:34:46,160 --> 01:34:48,400
Speaker 1: picks up on it. But what if they don't that's true?

1857
01:34:48,439 --> 01:34:50,680
Speaker 1: What are they just not that good a manager? Don't

1858
01:34:50,680 --> 01:34:53,640
Speaker 1: give a fucking They just like, yeah, so mes expectations.

1859
01:34:53,640 --> 01:34:55,559
Speaker 1: Everything you did was fine, you still got a job,

1860
01:34:55,680 --> 01:34:58,920
Speaker 1: a two percent raise. By it's like, nah, let's talk

1861
01:34:58,960 --> 01:35:02,040
Speaker 1: about it. So I don't know. It's it is difficult,

1862
01:35:02,360 --> 01:35:04,599
Speaker 1: and I do understand as a personal anxiety too. I

1863
01:35:04,680 --> 01:35:08,880
Speaker 1: just think, hmm, I've made my case. I just said

1864
01:35:09,760 --> 01:35:10,719
Speaker 1: we have self value.

1865
01:35:10,800 --> 01:35:13,320
Speaker 5: I just think that, you know, you just need to

1866
01:35:13,439 --> 01:35:17,760
Speaker 5: advocate more for yourself and and and and and.

1867
01:35:19,280 --> 01:35:23,280
Speaker 1: Which no one, not no one. Most people don't do.

1868
01:35:24,439 --> 01:35:25,080
Speaker 3: That's true.

1869
01:35:25,680 --> 01:35:28,200
Speaker 1: You and I noticed we're talking about you at this point.

1870
01:35:28,439 --> 01:35:29,400
Speaker 1: You were not doing that.

1871
01:35:30,720 --> 01:35:32,920
Speaker 2: This is the only way you're going to advocate for yourself.

1872
01:35:33,080 --> 01:35:34,720
Speaker 3: True because I was forced to.

1873
01:35:35,040 --> 01:35:40,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, the thing because because I was kind of forced to,

1874
01:35:40,240 --> 01:35:43,200
Speaker 5: and I don't know, you know what that says about me.

1875
01:35:43,360 --> 01:35:45,240
Speaker 3: But you know, I'm like, can't I just get my

1876
01:35:45,280 --> 01:35:47,880
Speaker 3: paycheck go home? And they like, no, we need for

1877
01:35:48,200 --> 01:35:50,680
Speaker 3: It's almost like tell us about yourself. It's like, well,

1878
01:35:50,840 --> 01:35:53,080
Speaker 3: I'm me. There's like, no, that's not sufficient.

1879
01:35:54,000 --> 01:35:57,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know, man. I get. I get people

1880
01:35:57,280 --> 01:35:58,760
Speaker 1: just don't want to be bothered. They just want that

1881
01:35:58,880 --> 01:36:00,600
Speaker 1: check and they just want to go home. I get that,

1882
01:36:00,720 --> 01:36:03,760
Speaker 1: but I don't know, man. Self evaluation is the one

1883
01:36:03,840 --> 01:36:06,280
Speaker 1: time of year where you're allowed to advocate for yourself.

1884
01:36:08,200 --> 01:36:12,600
Speaker 1: So I don't want to hear. I don't want to

1885
01:36:12,640 --> 01:36:15,880
Speaker 1: hear that even this is bad. You know what I'm saying,

1886
01:36:18,080 --> 01:36:20,840
Speaker 1: Rod really is a man that self advocations for a

1887
01:36:20,840 --> 01:36:23,599
Speaker 1: black woman is hard. I'm not saying. I know I'm

1888
01:36:23,600 --> 01:36:26,040
Speaker 1: a man. I know I got male privileged. I know

1889
01:36:26,160 --> 01:36:29,080
Speaker 1: it's hard. But that's kind of why I'm with the

1890
01:36:29,080 --> 01:36:34,679
Speaker 1: self evaluation cause it's a non confrontational way to do it.

1891
01:36:34,720 --> 01:36:35,880
Speaker 1: All of us have to do it.

1892
01:36:35,880 --> 01:36:37,280
Speaker 3: It's a non confrontational way.

1893
01:36:37,920 --> 01:36:40,000
Speaker 1: We all roll our eyes at it. And if you

1894
01:36:40,240 --> 01:36:43,120
Speaker 1: really are feeling like you are being because you know

1895
01:36:43,160 --> 01:36:47,320
Speaker 1: what else is is true. It's like how many black

1896
01:36:47,360 --> 01:36:49,919
Speaker 1: women feel like they not appreciate it at their jobs.

1897
01:36:51,360 --> 01:36:53,160
Speaker 1: You know how many people will come home and complain

1898
01:36:53,160 --> 01:36:56,800
Speaker 1: about how much they do and then change nothing, be

1899
01:36:56,920 --> 01:36:59,320
Speaker 1: miserable at work every fucking day, or.

1900
01:36:59,320 --> 01:37:01,280
Speaker 3: Just leaving nobody knows why they left.

1901
01:37:02,200 --> 01:37:07,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it's it's worth. I don't know. I

1902
01:37:08,000 --> 01:37:10,280
Speaker 1: could see if y'all were saying like it was better

1903
01:37:10,320 --> 01:37:13,639
Speaker 1: the other way, But all I'm seeing is people being

1904
01:37:13,680 --> 01:37:16,360
Speaker 1: fucked in silence the other way, And in this way,

1905
01:37:16,400 --> 01:37:18,240
Speaker 1: you got a slight chance to be like, no, I

1906
01:37:18,280 --> 01:37:22,519
Speaker 1: did do a good job, that's it. I don't you know,

1907
01:37:22,720 --> 01:37:24,320
Speaker 1: if they gonna give you three percent. They're gonna give

1908
01:37:24,320 --> 01:37:26,080
Speaker 1: you three percent. It's not you know, I can nothing

1909
01:37:26,080 --> 01:37:29,760
Speaker 1: I can change about that. But like, the idea is

1910
01:37:29,800 --> 01:37:34,960
Speaker 1: not a bad idea. Corporate culture is fucked up, so

1911
01:37:35,040 --> 01:37:38,440
Speaker 1: it could be other things, but you know, this corporation

1912
01:37:38,520 --> 01:37:41,439
Speaker 1: you're working for now is actually pretty positive, it is,

1913
01:37:41,880 --> 01:37:44,200
Speaker 1: you know, So I don't I don't, you know, at

1914
01:37:44,200 --> 01:37:47,720
Speaker 1: that point, it just becomes about you. And that's and

1915
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Speaker 1: this isn't being my own brain. Yeah yeah, this isn't

1916
01:37:50,560 --> 01:37:57,639
Speaker 1: me saying like I don't give a fuck black women. Uh,

1917
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Speaker 1: y'all done for not advocating for yourselves whatever other shit.

1918
01:38:01,360 --> 01:38:06,240
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like black women don't advocate for themselves,

1919
01:38:06,720 --> 01:38:09,200
Speaker 1: even with them being excellent at jobs, being better at

1920
01:38:09,280 --> 01:38:13,599
Speaker 1: jobs and all that stuff. There needs to be a solution.

1921
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Speaker 3: Yeah, So what's the solution, y'all?

1922
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Speaker 1: Because if it's not, you got to speak up for

1923
01:38:19,600 --> 01:38:22,280
Speaker 1: yourself in some type of format that's non confrontational like

1924
01:38:22,320 --> 01:38:25,920
Speaker 1: these evaluations. I don't know that. I don't know what

1925
01:38:25,960 --> 01:38:27,479
Speaker 1: it is because you don't want to walk into no

1926
01:38:27,479 --> 01:38:30,960
Speaker 1: one's office and do it and they're never gonna recognize

1927
01:38:31,000 --> 01:38:33,600
Speaker 1: you because they're just good fucking people and they you know,

1928
01:38:33,720 --> 01:38:36,559
Speaker 1: I realize today like that you're put it this way,

1929
01:38:36,760 --> 01:38:41,320
Speaker 1: that can happen, but you're at the whims of having

1930
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Speaker 1: a good boss or no, whereas the evaluation is not.

1931
01:38:45,200 --> 01:38:47,439
Speaker 1: There's no whims to that. That's me, baby, I did

1932
01:38:47,520 --> 01:38:49,759
Speaker 1: more than you told me to do, and I would

1933
01:38:49,800 --> 01:38:52,400
Speaker 1: like to be compensated or at least acknowledged that I'm

1934
01:38:52,400 --> 01:38:55,920
Speaker 1: doing that. That's it, And the last thing I'll say

1935
01:38:56,040 --> 01:38:58,960
Speaker 1: is I'm still a nigga. I've been in corporate America.

1936
01:38:59,040 --> 01:39:01,600
Speaker 1: Y'all have held me talking about corporate America. I was

1937
01:39:01,640 --> 01:39:04,240
Speaker 1: not no mover in climber. I fucking hated corporate America.

1938
01:39:04,280 --> 01:39:08,000
Speaker 1: I was depressed. I did not have any goals. I

1939
01:39:08,200 --> 01:39:10,360
Speaker 1: was the kind of person that was like, I don't

1940
01:39:10,360 --> 01:39:12,360
Speaker 1: want to go in the office and ask for a raise.

1941
01:39:12,800 --> 01:39:15,640
Speaker 1: So I'm not telling you anything that didn't affect me, like,

1942
01:39:15,680 --> 01:39:18,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what. Maybe because you hear this podcast

1943
01:39:18,120 --> 01:39:20,080
Speaker 1: and it's our opinions, you feel a certain way. But

1944
01:39:20,560 --> 01:39:22,680
Speaker 1: you can look at my fucking pictures from working in

1945
01:39:22,760 --> 01:39:25,840
Speaker 1: corporate America. I hated that shit. I was not a

1946
01:39:25,880 --> 01:39:27,640
Speaker 1: guy that walked into the office and said I'm a

1947
01:39:27,720 --> 01:39:31,320
Speaker 1: man and I would like five percent raise please. I

1948
01:39:31,520 --> 01:39:34,880
Speaker 1: was a walking to the office and they just don't

1949
01:39:34,920 --> 01:39:38,599
Speaker 1: fire me for my evaluation. I go, thank God Jesus,

1950
01:39:39,160 --> 01:39:42,400
Speaker 1: that was it. So I'm not telling y'all anything I

1951
01:39:42,439 --> 01:39:44,679
Speaker 1: didn't experience. So let's not try to turn it into

1952
01:39:44,720 --> 01:39:47,760
Speaker 1: some weird old shit like I just I'm just a

1953
01:39:48,120 --> 01:39:51,240
Speaker 1: try to be fair of everybody in the situation, and

1954
01:39:51,400 --> 01:39:54,760
Speaker 1: especially with Karen. I'm like, I know that from experience,

1955
01:39:55,439 --> 01:40:01,520
Speaker 1: you have anxiety about praising yourself. I do praising yourself.

1956
01:40:01,560 --> 01:40:05,200
Speaker 1: You have anxiety about stuff you earned. Yes, no, like

1957
01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:07,960
Speaker 1: no one can stop you from you did that work.

1958
01:40:08,120 --> 01:40:10,920
Speaker 1: You should get that thing. And it's like, I don't

1959
01:40:10,960 --> 01:40:14,519
Speaker 1: want to be a problem, right the self evaluation might

1960
01:40:14,560 --> 01:40:17,640
Speaker 1: be the only way for Karen to do that, And

1961
01:40:17,680 --> 01:40:20,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even when you hate it. Sometimes

1962
01:40:20,439 --> 01:40:22,120
Speaker 1: you have to do things you hate.

1963
01:40:22,280 --> 01:40:25,080
Speaker 5: You do, yeah, you do, and every time I just

1964
01:40:25,160 --> 01:40:28,000
Speaker 5: push through it. And you know, it's one of those

1965
01:40:28,040 --> 01:40:30,439
Speaker 5: things where I do keep a tracking things like that.

1966
01:40:30,560 --> 01:40:33,240
Speaker 5: And also one good thing about it, because it's not

1967
01:40:33,320 --> 01:40:35,360
Speaker 5: all bad. One good thing about it is that it

1968
01:40:35,439 --> 01:40:39,920
Speaker 5: forces you to reflect, because sometimes you're just doing doing

1969
01:40:40,040 --> 01:40:42,800
Speaker 5: doing doom and you might not reflect. You picked up

1970
01:40:43,000 --> 01:40:46,000
Speaker 5: a responsibility or two, or you was asked to pick

1971
01:40:46,120 --> 01:40:49,120
Speaker 5: up an extra task or two, or all of a

1972
01:40:49,200 --> 01:40:51,880
Speaker 5: sudden you learn something else in the system, or you

1973
01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:55,280
Speaker 5: learn something new in the system, or you got a

1974
01:40:55,360 --> 01:40:58,960
Speaker 5: Foremost certification, or you know, you know, you're kind of

1975
01:40:59,000 --> 01:41:00,920
Speaker 5: doing the same thing, but you went from a regular

1976
01:41:00,920 --> 01:41:03,400
Speaker 5: person to a lead or something like that. Like like

1977
01:41:03,600 --> 01:41:06,680
Speaker 5: small changes, but they all changes. And this gives you

1978
01:41:06,720 --> 01:41:10,040
Speaker 5: a chance to actually sit down in your thoughts and

1979
01:41:10,160 --> 01:41:13,320
Speaker 5: write the things out. The thing is, like you say,

1980
01:41:13,360 --> 01:41:17,920
Speaker 5: it is a non confrontational way to get out your

1981
01:41:17,960 --> 01:41:23,720
Speaker 5: achievements without you having to deal with looking somebody in

1982
01:41:23,720 --> 01:41:25,559
Speaker 5: the eye and things like that. Yeah, they're gonna read

1983
01:41:25,560 --> 01:41:28,400
Speaker 5: your words, but that's very, very different.

1984
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Speaker 1: And I guarantee you the self evaluation was the result

1985
01:41:30,880 --> 01:41:33,760
Speaker 1: of somebody's hard work trying to solve this problem. They

1986
01:41:33,800 --> 01:41:35,840
Speaker 1: didn't just wake up and go, how do I fuck

1987
01:41:35,840 --> 01:41:38,040
Speaker 1: everybody over there? They were like, how do I make

1988
01:41:38,080 --> 01:41:40,439
Speaker 1: it a better environment? You know? It's the people.

1989
01:41:40,479 --> 01:41:43,439
Speaker 2: It's like people that complain about like.

1990
01:41:43,479 --> 01:41:46,559
Speaker 1: All this di training. Why we got to do all

1991
01:41:46,560 --> 01:41:49,080
Speaker 1: this training about black people and women and gay people

1992
01:41:49,080 --> 01:41:50,800
Speaker 1: and shit. Just I just want to come to work

1993
01:41:51,080 --> 01:41:53,800
Speaker 1: and go home it's like, because somebody else's job at

1994
01:41:53,840 --> 01:41:56,960
Speaker 1: your job is to make that training because they think

1995
01:41:57,000 --> 01:41:59,040
Speaker 1: it will improve the workplace. That's why I happen on

1996
01:41:59,080 --> 01:42:01,800
Speaker 1: self evaluation. They were like, look, people don't feel heard.

1997
01:42:02,439 --> 01:42:05,120
Speaker 1: People feel ambushed. They don't know what we're gonna talk

1998
01:42:05,160 --> 01:42:06,240
Speaker 1: about in these valuations.

1999
01:42:06,280 --> 01:42:08,479
Speaker 5: People feel shocked. And I guess yeah, and and and

2000
01:42:08,479 --> 01:42:10,200
Speaker 5: and and and that makes sense. They did say that.

2001
01:42:10,240 --> 01:42:12,679
Speaker 5: They was like, hey, people feel We don't want people

2002
01:42:12,680 --> 01:42:15,400
Speaker 5: feel blindsided. That was that was the biggest thing. We

2003
01:42:15,439 --> 01:42:17,280
Speaker 5: want people to know kind of where.

2004
01:42:17,080 --> 01:42:21,640
Speaker 1: They now, the corporate the corporate culture of it. I

2005
01:42:21,720 --> 01:42:25,960
Speaker 1: think this is just my what I'm feeling. My guess

2006
01:42:26,080 --> 01:42:32,599
Speaker 1: is maybe they when they say nobody meets or most

2007
01:42:32,680 --> 01:42:36,080
Speaker 1: people won't get exceeded expectations. I think what they're trying

2008
01:42:36,160 --> 01:42:40,439
Speaker 1: to say is a meats expectations is not bad. No,

2009
01:42:40,520 --> 01:42:43,599
Speaker 1: it's not which a lot of people I think do

2010
01:42:43,720 --> 01:42:46,800
Speaker 1: not feel that way. Like they might hear that, they

2011
01:42:46,880 --> 01:42:50,000
Speaker 1: might understand it intellectually, but it's like if you leave

2012
01:42:50,120 --> 01:42:53,519
Speaker 1: your evaluation and all you got was meets expectations, part

2013
01:42:53,560 --> 01:42:56,120
Speaker 1: of you feels like am I not doing a good job?

2014
01:42:56,320 --> 01:42:56,799
Speaker 3: Yes?

2015
01:42:56,840 --> 01:42:59,960
Speaker 1: And so I think what they're saying to y'all up front,

2016
01:43:00,200 --> 01:43:03,040
Speaker 1: because there's not a better way to say it is, Hey,

2017
01:43:03,040 --> 01:43:07,040
Speaker 1: if you don't get exceeds expectations, it's okay.

2018
01:43:07,120 --> 01:43:09,160
Speaker 2: You're still safe, your job is fine.

2019
01:43:09,520 --> 01:43:12,439
Speaker 1: We don't think the one you don't want is didn't

2020
01:43:12,479 --> 01:43:15,800
Speaker 1: meet expectation. That's the one that's what you don't want.

2021
01:43:16,200 --> 01:43:19,679
Speaker 1: We think ninety five percent of y'all should get meats

2022
01:43:19,760 --> 01:43:22,920
Speaker 1: expectations if you're doing the shit right, and if you

2023
01:43:23,040 --> 01:43:26,040
Speaker 1: get and if you get exceeds, we want you to

2024
01:43:26,160 --> 01:43:28,839
Speaker 1: know that that's because you're in the top blank percent

2025
01:43:28,960 --> 01:43:32,040
Speaker 1: as people that are going above and beyond. Yes, and

2026
01:43:32,360 --> 01:43:34,960
Speaker 1: we are going and we are acknowledging that, and it

2027
01:43:35,040 --> 01:43:37,599
Speaker 1: will come across hopefully in your conversation or whatever.

2028
01:43:37,680 --> 01:43:38,200
Speaker 3: Right.

2029
01:43:38,439 --> 01:43:40,599
Speaker 1: I think that's what they have to say going in

2030
01:43:40,760 --> 01:43:43,200
Speaker 1: so that people because of anxiety.

2031
01:43:43,560 --> 01:43:46,439
Speaker 2: I just but it's just funny, because anxiety is so funny.

2032
01:43:46,680 --> 01:43:50,639
Speaker 1: It flips in your brain to meats expectations, ain't ship

2033
01:43:51,120 --> 01:43:54,000
Speaker 1: as opposed to being like, oh, mis expectation, that's good.

2034
01:43:54,560 --> 01:43:56,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you were like, well, if I'm to get

2035
01:43:56,320 --> 01:43:59,080
Speaker 3: a mes expectation, none, shit the fuck.

2036
01:43:59,280 --> 01:44:02,160
Speaker 1: It's funny romantics, but it's funny i'b just says they

2037
01:44:02,160 --> 01:44:04,040
Speaker 1: don't want to do it very often. Oh she said

2038
01:44:04,040 --> 01:44:08,880
Speaker 1: her last round she got exceeded expectations. They don't want

2039
01:44:08,880 --> 01:44:11,200
Speaker 1: to do it very often because that means paying more money.

2040
01:44:11,240 --> 01:44:13,679
Speaker 1: We have to. We have so so many systems here

2041
01:44:13,920 --> 01:44:15,559
Speaker 1: and my company is Swiss, so it's not even a

2042
01:44:15,560 --> 01:44:17,479
Speaker 1: German thing. I have to write myself goals for the

2043
01:44:17,560 --> 01:44:20,280
Speaker 1: year now and talk them through with my supervisor. I'm

2044
01:44:20,320 --> 01:44:22,360
Speaker 1: reading how the US is behaving towards tourists now, and

2045
01:44:22,400 --> 01:44:24,800
Speaker 1: I'm glad that we have been to our to your

2046
01:44:24,840 --> 01:44:26,640
Speaker 1: country many times in the past, because I'm way too

2047
01:44:26,640 --> 01:44:29,160
Speaker 1: afraid to visit anytime soon. Why should I spend a

2048
01:44:29,240 --> 01:44:31,120
Speaker 1: large amount of money only their land in jail for

2049
01:44:31,160 --> 01:44:31,639
Speaker 1: no reason.

2050
01:44:31,800 --> 01:44:33,480
Speaker 2: Wonder how this will affect the economy?

2051
01:44:33,960 --> 01:44:36,599
Speaker 5: Oh oh yeah, yeah. People already said it was going

2052
01:44:36,680 --> 01:44:37,599
Speaker 5: to impact the economy.

2053
01:44:37,680 --> 01:44:39,040
Speaker 1: Y'all would be straight because y'all white.

2054
01:44:39,080 --> 01:44:42,320
Speaker 5: But yeah, but yeah, it's it's you know because even

2055
01:44:42,400 --> 01:44:45,800
Speaker 5: prior to Trump getting elected, economists were already talking about this.

2056
01:44:45,880 --> 01:44:49,960
Speaker 5: It was like, yeah, the large cities like DC in

2057
01:44:50,000 --> 01:44:55,000
Speaker 5: New York and you know, California and Florida. They was like, yeah,

2058
01:44:55,240 --> 01:44:59,080
Speaker 5: prior to once Trump got elected, they were saying, yeah,

2059
01:44:59,160 --> 01:45:02,080
Speaker 5: tourism drop because people was like, oh no, no, no, no,

2060
01:45:02,240 --> 01:45:04,439
Speaker 5: we were we remember last time, and we don't want

2061
01:45:04,439 --> 01:45:07,080
Speaker 5: to deal with with all the bullshit with the immigration

2062
01:45:07,240 --> 01:45:09,640
Speaker 5: and all those things. So a lot of people just

2063
01:45:09,680 --> 01:45:14,000
Speaker 5: started putting other places on their traveling destination, you know,

2064
01:45:14,120 --> 01:45:18,519
Speaker 5: because particularly all side, particularly DC and New York, they

2065
01:45:18,520 --> 01:45:21,559
Speaker 5: are like one of the largest travel destinations in the world,

2066
01:45:21,600 --> 01:45:24,680
Speaker 5: particularly DC, where people just come from all over and

2067
01:45:24,680 --> 01:45:27,640
Speaker 5: this whole ass economy is built around people coming to

2068
01:45:28,640 --> 01:45:31,920
Speaker 5: the monuments and and all that shit in DC coming

2069
01:45:31,920 --> 01:45:33,360
Speaker 5: to these I mean, I mean New York coming to

2070
01:45:33,439 --> 01:45:36,800
Speaker 5: these places, and that money is getting ready to dry up,

2071
01:45:37,040 --> 01:45:40,559
Speaker 5: you know, because particularly these places are very expensive for

2072
01:45:40,640 --> 01:45:43,000
Speaker 5: the average person, so a lot of them, a lot

2073
01:45:43,040 --> 01:45:46,679
Speaker 5: of the difference is made up by the tourism.

2074
01:45:46,800 --> 01:45:49,360
Speaker 1: Eve says. When I worked at Corporate America, self evaluations

2075
01:45:49,400 --> 01:45:52,160
Speaker 1: pissed me off because no matter what you put, management

2076
01:45:52,200 --> 01:45:54,040
Speaker 1: already made up their minds a kind of employee that

2077
01:45:54,120 --> 01:45:56,840
Speaker 1: saw you as and how much they thought you were worth.

2078
01:45:57,120 --> 01:45:59,360
Speaker 1: I gave myself above averages all the time because I

2079
01:45:59,360 --> 01:46:01,320
Speaker 1: didn't murder the people who would get on my nerves,

2080
01:46:01,360 --> 01:46:02,559
Speaker 1: and I was proud of my restraint.

2081
01:46:02,840 --> 01:46:05,160
Speaker 2: I don't miss that shit at all. You were right

2082
01:46:05,200 --> 01:46:06,200
Speaker 2: about rbrey Rod.

2083
01:46:06,240 --> 01:46:09,400
Speaker 1: The Manu sphere is the only place he can retreat

2084
01:46:09,520 --> 01:46:12,400
Speaker 1: because even a lot of his white fans clowned the

2085
01:46:12,479 --> 01:46:14,439
Speaker 1: R and B album he made last month.

2086
01:46:14,520 --> 01:46:16,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, man, that shit came and win. I still

2087
01:46:16,920 --> 01:46:17,559
Speaker 2: haven't listened.

2088
01:46:18,240 --> 01:46:20,200
Speaker 1: I don't hear anyone talking about it other than to

2089
01:46:20,240 --> 01:46:22,120
Speaker 1: make fun of him. I don't think it even charted.

2090
01:46:22,320 --> 01:46:25,280
Speaker 1: It definitely charted because it's Drake, but I because I

2091
01:46:25,320 --> 01:46:29,000
Speaker 1: remember something like Drake has taken the number one song

2092
01:46:29,080 --> 01:46:32,640
Speaker 1: and then literally twenty four hours later, Kendrick had it back.

2093
01:46:32,880 --> 01:46:35,880
Speaker 2: And I was like, shit, he on his ass because

2094
01:46:35,960 --> 01:46:36,559
Speaker 2: Kendrick's song.

2095
01:46:36,680 --> 01:46:40,120
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't think it even charged da da da.

2096
01:46:40,400 --> 01:46:42,160
Speaker 1: At this point, I'm not sure if he will ever

2097
01:46:42,160 --> 01:46:43,880
Speaker 1: get back to where he once was. He may be

2098
01:46:43,960 --> 01:46:45,840
Speaker 1: able to make a couple hits in time, but he

2099
01:46:45,840 --> 01:46:48,639
Speaker 1: will never be on the top again. Yeah. I don't

2100
01:46:48,640 --> 01:46:51,000
Speaker 1: know what. Yeah, I don't worry about him coming back

2101
01:46:51,000 --> 01:46:52,880
Speaker 1: to the top, Like it's not my job to fix it.

2102
01:46:52,920 --> 01:46:55,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know. I don't see the path

2103
01:46:55,400 --> 01:47:00,439
Speaker 1: for him. Let's see comments on YouTube. He just says,

2104
01:47:00,479 --> 01:47:03,200
Speaker 1: you're so right about those self evaluations. I don't miss them.

2105
01:47:04,560 --> 01:47:08,080
Speaker 1: Do y'all not see the irony that every person that's

2106
01:47:08,080 --> 01:47:10,760
Speaker 1: written and it has been a woman so far. I

2107
01:47:10,800 --> 01:47:12,599
Speaker 1: swear to God, I'm not cherry picking any of these,

2108
01:47:12,680 --> 01:47:15,599
Speaker 1: but yeah, yeah, it's something. Yeah, women are like, y'all

2109
01:47:15,600 --> 01:47:18,559
Speaker 1: don't see it. Like I'm not saying it's easy to

2110
01:47:18,560 --> 01:47:20,720
Speaker 1: be a woman. I'm actually saying it's pretty difficult. But

2111
01:47:21,600 --> 01:47:24,680
Speaker 1: unless you make women do self evaluation, I really do

2112
01:47:24,800 --> 01:47:28,000
Speaker 1: wonder if they would even do it, and they already

2113
01:47:28,160 --> 01:47:30,160
Speaker 1: kind of seem to be downplaying doing it, Like, can

2114
01:47:30,200 --> 01:47:32,080
Speaker 1: we just not ever have to talk about how good

2115
01:47:32,080 --> 01:47:32,840
Speaker 1: a job I'm doing it?

2116
01:47:33,120 --> 01:47:35,479
Speaker 3: Can we never talk about how great I am at

2117
01:47:35,479 --> 01:47:39,360
Speaker 3: my job? Just pay me? But you're doing a great job.

2118
01:47:39,680 --> 01:47:43,280
Speaker 1: This is not a joke. Next person, Sherry, I appreciate

2119
01:47:43,360 --> 01:47:46,880
Speaker 1: Karen's hatred to self a vowals. I can't stand them myself.

2120
01:47:47,200 --> 01:47:49,800
Speaker 1: I say that as someone who helps organizations design the

2121
01:47:49,800 --> 01:47:53,400
Speaker 1: whole performance management process. So you you help to.

2122
01:47:53,439 --> 01:47:57,160
Speaker 5: Do it to make it, you help make the evaluations,

2123
01:47:57,200 --> 01:47:58,240
Speaker 5: and you're like fuck them.

2124
01:47:58,479 --> 01:48:00,960
Speaker 1: To make the process meaningful, you would need leaders who

2125
01:48:00,960 --> 01:48:04,120
Speaker 1: actually care about your career progression. That's facts, but you

2126
01:48:04,120 --> 01:48:06,200
Speaker 1: would need that whether you had to evaluate it or not.

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Speaker 1: So I guess what you're saying is the evaluation just

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01:48:09,000 --> 01:48:14,200
Speaker 1: makes it an extra step. That's bullshit. So all right,

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01:48:15,120 --> 01:48:18,439
Speaker 1: uh EMK says, Oh yeah, I can attest if you

2130
01:48:18,479 --> 01:48:23,599
Speaker 1: put expectations because you and your job exceed expectations. Because

2131
01:48:23,640 --> 01:48:26,200
Speaker 1: you do and your job is really demanding and you

2132
01:48:26,240 --> 01:48:28,559
Speaker 1: do exceed expectations all the time, they will still put

2133
01:48:28,640 --> 01:48:31,240
Speaker 1: me expectations and they will talk to you about how

2134
01:48:31,280 --> 01:48:34,320
Speaker 1: you don't exceed expectations, and they'll think you don't have

2135
01:48:34,360 --> 01:48:37,360
Speaker 1: the ability to accurately evaluate things. It's kind of gross

2136
01:48:37,400 --> 01:48:39,559
Speaker 1: as a point goes as a point against you, jerks.

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01:48:39,720 --> 01:48:47,800
Speaker 1: That's another woman. By the way, women don't.

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01:48:47,600 --> 01:48:48,600
Speaker 3: Like seven evaluates.

2139
01:48:48,720 --> 01:48:50,920
Speaker 2: We're like six or seven.

2140
01:48:52,000 --> 01:48:54,519
Speaker 3: Don't make me talk about myself.

2141
01:48:54,080 --> 01:48:55,920
Speaker 1: Waiting on a dude to come in. I'm sure there's

2142
01:48:56,320 --> 01:49:00,760
Speaker 1: maybe no no dude anyway, big tone, says yo Rod.

2143
01:49:00,960 --> 01:49:04,559
Speaker 1: I never heard of this transgender person hunter Shaeffer. So

2144
01:49:04,600 --> 01:49:07,200
Speaker 1: I looked her up and fam, she looks like a woman.

2145
01:49:07,520 --> 01:49:11,160
Speaker 1: That's why I don't date older women with biological kids. Oh,

2146
01:49:11,200 --> 01:49:14,280
Speaker 1: that's why only date with older women with biological kids.

2147
01:49:14,280 --> 01:49:16,720
Speaker 1: Can't get caught slipping with Dayton rules like that you

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01:49:16,760 --> 01:49:19,639
Speaker 1: feel me, Actually I don't feel you, Big Tom. Here's

2149
01:49:19,640 --> 01:49:24,080
Speaker 1: why I don't feel you though. The idea is that,

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01:49:25,200 --> 01:49:27,160
Speaker 1: first of all, I think that's an insane thing to

2151
01:49:27,160 --> 01:49:30,880
Speaker 1: say that you're only dating older women with biological kids

2152
01:49:30,920 --> 01:49:34,960
Speaker 1: because you're so afraid someone might be trans. That's an

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01:49:35,000 --> 01:49:38,679
Speaker 1: insane thing to say to me, just because how would

2154
01:49:38,720 --> 01:49:41,400
Speaker 1: you let that amount of fear dominate your life that way?

2155
01:49:42,439 --> 01:49:44,960
Speaker 1: Not saying you have to prefer the data trans person

2156
01:49:45,040 --> 01:49:48,040
Speaker 1: or anything, I'm just saying that is a weird way

2157
01:49:48,080 --> 01:49:50,719
Speaker 1: to navigate life, Like, I better give me a fifty

2158
01:49:50,800 --> 01:49:52,920
Speaker 1: year old with six babies so I know what I'm

2159
01:49:52,960 --> 01:49:57,120
Speaker 1: getting into. That's the most important thing. I would never

2160
01:49:57,240 --> 01:49:59,880
Speaker 1: just trust that a woman has a vagina ever again.

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01:50:01,760 --> 01:50:04,360
Speaker 1: So that's one thing that's weird. The second thing that

2162
01:50:04,479 --> 01:50:07,120
Speaker 1: the reason I would say is weird to me is

2163
01:50:07,479 --> 01:50:08,880
Speaker 1: this idea that a.

2164
01:50:09,000 --> 01:50:14,760
Speaker 2: Trans person's entire life and entire.

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01:50:16,160 --> 01:50:22,520
Speaker 1: Outward of peers is about tricking some dude into dating them.

2166
01:50:23,479 --> 01:50:29,320
Speaker 1: I promise you trans people aren't the biggest fear of

2167
01:50:29,360 --> 01:50:33,240
Speaker 1: a trans person, especially a trans woman, is a dude

2168
01:50:33,280 --> 01:50:38,240
Speaker 1: like you, a dude who's feel some sort of entitlement

2169
01:50:38,439 --> 01:50:40,519
Speaker 1: to I'm gonna be tricked and I'm gonna have to

2170
01:50:40,600 --> 01:50:44,559
Speaker 1: do something or prove something, or I'm gonna be upset

2171
01:50:44,600 --> 01:50:47,080
Speaker 1: by this person. They don't want to be around you

2172
01:50:47,200 --> 01:50:50,439
Speaker 1: anymore than you would want to be around them. Period.

2173
01:50:50,720 --> 01:50:52,720
Speaker 1: There's no They don't get a badge of honor for

2174
01:50:52,920 --> 01:50:56,040
Speaker 1: how many guys I tricked in the sex with me

2175
01:50:56,240 --> 01:50:58,280
Speaker 1: or being attracted to me or any of that shit.

2176
01:50:59,800 --> 01:51:03,320
Speaker 1: The number one killer of trans women is men straight

2177
01:51:03,479 --> 01:51:07,920
Speaker 1: cis gender men who who knew for whatever reason, for

2178
01:51:08,040 --> 01:51:10,760
Speaker 1: whatever reason, but not that they were tricked. But that

2179
01:51:10,880 --> 01:51:14,559
Speaker 1: is the biggest lie that men who murder and harm

2180
01:51:14,640 --> 01:51:16,720
Speaker 1: trans women tell people. We've done.

2181
01:51:16,960 --> 01:51:18,920
Speaker 2: We've done story after story after story on this.

2182
01:51:19,000 --> 01:51:23,400
Speaker 1: Show, to the point where I have tried to limit

2183
01:51:23,439 --> 01:51:25,080
Speaker 1: how many of those stories I do because they are

2184
01:51:25,880 --> 01:51:30,120
Speaker 1: there's a certain level of like, uh, I don't want

2185
01:51:30,160 --> 01:51:33,720
Speaker 1: to turn it into like a weird ass like like

2186
01:51:33,720 --> 01:51:36,080
Speaker 1: a oh, man, I'm proving I'm such a better person,

2187
01:51:36,200 --> 01:51:37,960
Speaker 1: y'all because these people are dying.

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01:51:38,040 --> 01:51:38,280
Speaker 5: Man.

2189
01:51:38,439 --> 01:51:40,920
Speaker 1: And it's but like we've done so many of these

2190
01:51:40,960 --> 01:51:43,120
Speaker 1: stories and also low key I feel like people stop

2191
01:51:43,200 --> 01:51:46,120
Speaker 1: covering them as much. But we've done so many stories like,

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01:51:46,280 --> 01:51:48,200
Speaker 1: that's not what's happening. You're not being tricked.

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01:51:48,200 --> 01:51:50,120
Speaker 2: No one gives a fuck. I don't know you, big tone.

2194
01:51:50,200 --> 01:51:52,439
Speaker 1: I don't know what circles you run in, but I

2195
01:51:52,479 --> 01:51:55,000
Speaker 1: doubt that it's just a bunch of trans women constantly

2196
01:51:55,040 --> 01:51:57,200
Speaker 1: walking around like how can I trick you? Transfo aren't

2197
01:51:57,200 --> 01:51:58,840
Speaker 1: trying to trick you to use the bathroom and not

2198
01:51:58,880 --> 01:51:59,639
Speaker 1: trying to trick you.

2199
01:51:59,640 --> 01:52:01,679
Speaker 2: To to go on a date with them.

2200
01:52:01,560 --> 01:52:03,479
Speaker 1: And not trying to trick you to have kids with

2201
01:52:03,560 --> 01:52:05,840
Speaker 1: them or marry them or any of this shit. It's

2202
01:52:05,880 --> 01:52:10,200
Speaker 1: not the crying game. If anyone's telling not upfront about

2203
01:52:10,200 --> 01:52:15,720
Speaker 1: their sexual orientation or sexual like what organs they have

2204
01:52:15,840 --> 01:52:17,840
Speaker 1: under that, it's because you don't need to fucking know,

2205
01:52:18,439 --> 01:52:20,880
Speaker 1: and you're not on the list, and if anything telling

2206
01:52:20,920 --> 01:52:22,800
Speaker 1: you you might be more of a threat to tell you,

2207
01:52:23,080 --> 01:52:26,960
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna tell you. But yeah, that's that's

2208
01:52:27,800 --> 01:52:31,000
Speaker 1: that's a weird thing to write into our show. And also,

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01:52:31,080 --> 01:52:33,200
Speaker 1: you don't get no extra points for being like, I'm

2210
01:52:33,240 --> 01:52:35,880
Speaker 1: so straight, bro, Rod, I know you in me because

2211
01:52:35,880 --> 01:52:39,120
Speaker 1: you didn't right to care. Hey, Rod, you know, and

2212
01:52:39,240 --> 01:52:41,960
Speaker 1: I think low key of the lowest of kids, which

2213
01:52:42,000 --> 01:52:44,759
Speaker 1: is high key for every trans person that's probably listening

2214
01:52:44,800 --> 01:52:49,200
Speaker 1: to clock this already. What your real translation of this

2215
01:52:49,280 --> 01:52:52,320
Speaker 1: sentence that you wrote is is I looked up Hunter

2216
01:52:52,360 --> 01:52:54,000
Speaker 1: Schaeffer and I was attracted to her.

2217
01:52:54,520 --> 01:52:55,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what you're saying.

2218
01:52:55,600 --> 01:52:58,760
Speaker 1: That's what you really said. And something about that made

2219
01:52:58,800 --> 01:53:00,760
Speaker 1: me feel like I need to sing to you Rod

2220
01:53:00,840 --> 01:53:02,960
Speaker 1: that I would never have sex with a trans woman.

2221
01:53:04,000 --> 01:53:05,960
Speaker 1: That's really what you needed to say to get that

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01:53:06,040 --> 01:53:08,400
Speaker 1: off your chest. And I say, keep it in your

2223
01:53:08,400 --> 01:53:11,840
Speaker 1: fucking diary. I don't. I don't give a fuckkar Oh.

2224
01:53:11,880 --> 01:53:16,240
Speaker 5: And there's also one of those things where for trans people,

2225
01:53:16,320 --> 01:53:19,360
Speaker 5: people that they are intimate with they know, because we've

2226
01:53:19,360 --> 01:53:23,200
Speaker 5: read too many articles where people claim that trans panic

2227
01:53:23,360 --> 01:53:25,599
Speaker 5: and come to find out they they.

2228
01:53:25,560 --> 01:53:27,160
Speaker 3: Knew like like they knew a.

2229
01:53:28,800 --> 01:53:32,680
Speaker 5: Friend or they boy somebody found out they panicked and

2230
01:53:32,720 --> 01:53:36,519
Speaker 5: they fucking killed them. They're not intimate with people and

2231
01:53:36,560 --> 01:53:39,639
Speaker 5: the person is don't know. So that the trickery part.

2232
01:53:40,080 --> 01:53:42,000
Speaker 5: I don't know what to tell you, you know about

2233
01:53:42,040 --> 01:53:45,160
Speaker 5: You're not being tricked like they you know, if it

2234
01:53:45,240 --> 01:53:47,240
Speaker 5: gets to the point where it gets serious like that,

2235
01:53:47,360 --> 01:53:48,280
Speaker 5: they will let you know.

2236
01:53:48,640 --> 01:53:51,920
Speaker 3: Like you say, for most of the time, you.

2237
01:53:51,880 --> 01:53:53,920
Speaker 5: Are not close enough to that person for them to

2238
01:53:54,000 --> 01:53:56,519
Speaker 5: feel like it's your only obligation to tell you.

2239
01:53:56,720 --> 01:54:00,479
Speaker 1: It's the male fragility and ego and the home phobia

2240
01:54:00,479 --> 01:54:03,760
Speaker 1: and the transphobia that all combines into this idea of like,

2241
01:54:03,920 --> 01:54:06,240
Speaker 1: they're gonna try to trick me. I bought a drink

2242
01:54:06,280 --> 01:54:08,479
Speaker 1: because I thought she was a sis gender woman, And

2243
01:54:08,880 --> 01:54:10,840
Speaker 1: now what does that mean about me? What is it?

2244
01:54:10,880 --> 01:54:12,400
Speaker 1: What did you do? What did you just say to me?

2245
01:54:12,439 --> 01:54:15,519
Speaker 1: What did you do to me? It's like, what, it's

2246
01:54:15,560 --> 01:54:18,320
Speaker 1: not that big a deal. Calm down? You know what else?

2247
01:54:18,360 --> 01:54:20,719
Speaker 1: I guarantee you've bought somebody else a drink that also

2248
01:54:20,800 --> 01:54:23,439
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna fuck you. So now y'all have that in common.

2249
01:54:24,080 --> 01:54:28,000
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Who cares? Anyway? Thumbs down? Uh? Next time,

2250
01:54:28,200 --> 01:54:30,760
Speaker 1: of course, hide from the channel. That's what we're doing now,

2251
01:54:30,840 --> 01:54:34,440
Speaker 1: we hot they're playing hide and seek on the YouTube channel. Okay,

2252
01:54:34,640 --> 01:54:36,640
Speaker 1: we're not doing this back and forth with the I

2253
01:54:36,680 --> 01:54:40,280
Speaker 1: don't like trans people. Good, go start a fucking uh,

2254
01:54:40,320 --> 01:54:42,720
Speaker 1: go go tell a T shirt. I don't I don't want.

2255
01:54:43,040 --> 01:54:45,920
Speaker 1: It's not for our podcast. This is not that space.

2256
01:54:46,440 --> 01:54:49,640
Speaker 1: Dona Tillo says, I'm I live in the Norfolk area.

2257
01:54:49,680 --> 01:54:53,160
Speaker 1: One business made a candle name local woke Mob. I'm

2258
01:54:53,200 --> 01:54:55,000
Speaker 1: going to get one before they sell out.

2259
01:54:55,200 --> 01:54:55,400
Speaker 4: Yes.

2260
01:54:57,080 --> 01:55:00,360
Speaker 1: Hill Shaw says that father sulbconsciously hates that transgender son.

2261
01:55:00,440 --> 01:55:03,040
Speaker 1: I agree the father who was like, I vote for

2262
01:55:03,080 --> 01:55:05,880
Speaker 1: Donald Trump, but MO about my trains out.

2263
01:55:06,080 --> 01:55:07,880
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't regret voting for Donald Trump.

2264
01:55:08,120 --> 01:55:11,160
Speaker 1: But you know, Damn Candy says, I'm with you, caring

2265
01:55:12,160 --> 01:55:17,240
Speaker 1: those self evaluations are We do them twice a week

2266
01:55:17,320 --> 01:55:19,680
Speaker 1: a year, and we have four to five actions to

2267
01:55:19,680 --> 01:55:22,440
Speaker 1: meet and behavioral target professional goals. Blah blah blah. I

2268
01:55:22,440 --> 01:55:25,240
Speaker 1: didn't have I didn't get any significant raises until after

2269
01:55:25,240 --> 01:55:27,720
Speaker 1: the COVID shutdown lifted that people who were ready for

2270
01:55:27,920 --> 01:55:31,880
Speaker 1: change left the company. Christolph says at the thirty seven

2271
01:55:31,880 --> 01:55:34,520
Speaker 1: to fifty Mark, Okay, I'm mad now, Raphael, do you

2272
01:55:34,560 --> 01:55:36,880
Speaker 1: have the relocation deals of Africa in the work lettering?

2273
01:55:36,960 --> 01:55:37,600
Speaker 1: They say? Or no?

2274
01:55:37,600 --> 01:55:40,560
Speaker 3: Oh no, Jack, Yeah.

2275
01:55:40,360 --> 01:55:42,520
Speaker 2: You're gonna end up in fucking Switzerland.

2276
01:55:43,120 --> 01:55:45,760
Speaker 1: Jason says, Man Drake better be careful hanging out with

2277
01:55:45,800 --> 01:55:46,640
Speaker 1: them tape boys.

2278
01:55:47,080 --> 01:55:49,120
Speaker 2: That's how you end up in the cell block one.

2279
01:55:49,880 --> 01:55:52,360
Speaker 1: Oh. I know. He doesn't seem to be the most

2280
01:55:52,360 --> 01:55:54,480
Speaker 1: informed dude, but turn it maga for him right now?

2281
01:55:54,560 --> 01:55:57,000
Speaker 1: Ain't the move that's not going to fly for him

2282
01:55:57,040 --> 01:56:00,800
Speaker 1: at home? Well, it's interesting because did put out some

2283
01:56:00,960 --> 01:56:04,560
Speaker 1: cryptic Instagram post about how like he was hoping that

2284
01:56:04,680 --> 01:56:07,520
Speaker 1: he was gonna go dark or go not dark, but

2285
01:56:07,600 --> 01:56:11,280
Speaker 1: like do some type of view turn or something that

2286
01:56:11,360 --> 01:56:14,240
Speaker 1: was gonna be publicly harsh, and he was hoping his

2287
01:56:14,280 --> 01:56:16,920
Speaker 1: fans were gonna be willing to follow him or something,

2288
01:56:17,560 --> 01:56:19,560
Speaker 1: And I wonder if it could be this in Cell shit.

2289
01:56:20,520 --> 01:56:22,760
Speaker 1: He's like, look, I'm just going for in Cell and

2290
01:56:22,840 --> 01:56:25,520
Speaker 1: if you're a real fan, gonna fuck with me. Those

2291
01:56:25,560 --> 01:56:29,040
Speaker 1: Canadians are born little girl singing an our anthem. He's

2292
01:56:29,080 --> 01:56:31,720
Speaker 1: gonna end up homeless if he's out. If he out

2293
01:56:31,800 --> 01:56:34,320
Speaker 1: puts out an album called Views from the fifty first.

2294
01:56:34,080 --> 01:56:36,800
Speaker 2: State, he might as well head to Romania with the

2295
01:56:36,840 --> 01:56:37,480
Speaker 2: Tate Boy.

2296
01:56:37,400 --> 01:56:38,680
Speaker 3: Not the fifty first State.

2297
01:56:39,040 --> 01:56:44,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. The Tates of Hazard self evaluations for work eighty

2298
01:56:44,520 --> 01:56:46,640
Speaker 1: seven percent thing it is a waste of time, fourteen

2299
01:56:46,680 --> 01:56:50,800
Speaker 1: percent say it's worthwhile thirteen percent whatever. But all right,

2300
01:56:51,680 --> 01:56:53,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna fight for y'all more than y'all fight

2301
01:56:53,440 --> 01:56:55,440
Speaker 1: for y'all self. So you know, I hope they get

2302
01:56:55,560 --> 01:56:58,040
Speaker 1: rid of him or whatever else will make you'all lives better.

2303
01:56:58,160 --> 01:57:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't care one way or other, but I'm just.

2304
01:57:01,640 --> 01:57:04,400
Speaker 5: Saying that I should just like, like, the more and

2305
01:57:04,480 --> 01:57:08,760
Speaker 5: more you talk, the more logical you make sense.

2306
01:57:08,920 --> 01:57:09,560
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

2307
01:57:09,560 --> 01:57:12,160
Speaker 5: Because for me, like I said, more of me was

2308
01:57:12,200 --> 01:57:15,920
Speaker 5: my anxiety talking on my end, and so I was like, Okay,

2309
01:57:16,000 --> 01:57:19,640
Speaker 5: you gotta point, you gotta point, like like like, I

2310
01:57:19,720 --> 01:57:24,720
Speaker 5: do understand the purpose of it, and it's forcing you

2311
01:57:24,880 --> 01:57:27,480
Speaker 5: to go through a process that you might not like,

2312
01:57:28,280 --> 01:57:31,400
Speaker 5: you know, but the end result is probably better for you,

2313
01:57:31,480 --> 01:57:33,280
Speaker 5: and it probably might be better for the manager because

2314
01:57:33,320 --> 01:57:35,280
Speaker 5: managers and ship out people too, so they might not

2315
01:57:35,320 --> 01:57:38,000
Speaker 5: want to have to go through the conversations and things

2316
01:57:38,040 --> 01:57:38,240
Speaker 5: like that.

2317
01:57:38,360 --> 01:57:40,120
Speaker 3: They'll look at what you said and see if they

2318
01:57:40,160 --> 01:57:40,600
Speaker 3: agree or not.

2319
01:57:41,080 --> 01:58:18,480
Speaker 1: Right, All right? Uh voicemails? All right?

2320
01:58:18,960 --> 01:58:22,800
Speaker 2: I got two callers, don't know the first person.

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01:58:23,800 --> 01:58:27,800
Speaker 6: Hey, my babies, I shall play a pot show. Nate

2322
01:58:28,200 --> 01:58:30,560
Speaker 6: just calling because you know i'd be behind and stuff.

2323
01:58:30,960 --> 01:58:32,760
Speaker 6: I love when we get a little shout out. I

2324
01:58:32,800 --> 01:58:35,760
Speaker 6: love getting teased. Y'all love language, So it makes me

2325
01:58:35,800 --> 01:58:39,840
Speaker 6: feel like family. Come out here, sliping and flying through

2326
01:58:39,840 --> 01:58:43,600
Speaker 6: these streets. Just wanted to say congratulations, I'm another successful

2327
01:58:43,680 --> 01:58:44,280
Speaker 6: live show.

2328
01:58:44,600 --> 01:58:45,720
Speaker 1: I'll be rooting for y'all.

2329
01:58:45,880 --> 01:58:48,400
Speaker 6: Bought my little ticket even though I could fly through

2330
01:58:49,680 --> 01:58:54,280
Speaker 6: basically the TikTok being. In my opinion, my humble opinion,

2331
01:58:54,360 --> 01:58:56,640
Speaker 6: I think people are so defensive of it because you

2332
01:58:56,680 --> 01:58:59,760
Speaker 6: could have so many different experiences, like, for example, I

2333
01:58:59,800 --> 01:59:03,040
Speaker 6: don't get ads on Instagram, so I don't know why.

2334
01:59:03,080 --> 01:59:05,000
Speaker 6: I don't know how when I see people complain about

2335
01:59:05,000 --> 01:59:09,400
Speaker 6: Instagram apps, I'm like, never saw one. So like on TikTok,

2336
01:59:09,680 --> 01:59:12,400
Speaker 6: I'm very protective over my four you page, and I

2337
01:59:12,480 --> 01:59:15,400
Speaker 6: know that that nonsense is a hundent one there, so

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01:59:15,600 --> 01:59:17,320
Speaker 6: I try not to watch more than a few seconds

2339
01:59:17,400 --> 01:59:19,920
Speaker 6: or something. Sometimes I'd be nosy and get into some

2340
01:59:20,600 --> 01:59:23,760
Speaker 6: makeup influencers mess, and now my whole for you page

2341
01:59:23,800 --> 01:59:25,840
Speaker 6: is that mess. So I stay out of all that,

2342
01:59:26,000 --> 01:59:28,560
Speaker 6: and I'm on there in my bed before I go

2343
01:59:28,680 --> 01:59:31,960
Speaker 6: to sleep, rubbing my feet together like a cricket, recipes,

2344
01:59:32,040 --> 01:59:36,080
Speaker 6: Broadway music tips and tricks. Ie bought up half the

2345
01:59:36,120 --> 01:59:40,120
Speaker 6: TikTok shop, so addictive one of the reasons probably why

2346
01:59:40,120 --> 01:59:42,080
Speaker 6: people are protective of it, but also like you could

2347
01:59:42,120 --> 01:59:44,680
Speaker 6: just have so many different experiences. So when I hear

2348
01:59:44,720 --> 01:59:47,400
Speaker 6: about all the drama mess I'm like, oh, sound like

2349
01:59:47,400 --> 01:59:50,080
Speaker 6: a totally different app, like so much so that I

2350
01:59:50,120 --> 01:59:52,640
Speaker 6: turned off my direct messages because I don't want people

2351
01:59:52,680 --> 01:59:54,600
Speaker 6: sending me stuff, and then that takes over my for

2352
01:59:54,800 --> 01:59:59,160
Speaker 6: you page. But either way, people just chill, just the

2353
01:59:59,280 --> 02:00:00,960
Speaker 6: app you brought to love.

2354
02:00:06,200 --> 02:00:11,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and that and like that's the thing I

2355
02:00:11,880 --> 02:00:14,640
Speaker 1: was trying to say. It too, is like I think

2356
02:00:14,880 --> 02:00:23,640
Speaker 1: the customization of the algorithm is so good and so

2357
02:00:23,680 --> 02:00:27,800
Speaker 1: addictive that it can trick people into thinking a mass

2358
02:00:27,880 --> 02:00:30,440
Speaker 1: experience is happening for everybody at the same time. But

2359
02:00:30,520 --> 02:00:30,920
Speaker 1: it's not.

2360
02:00:31,400 --> 02:00:33,840
Speaker 2: But if you take like ten steps back and look

2361
02:00:33,880 --> 02:00:34,520
Speaker 2: at like the.

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02:00:34,560 --> 02:00:37,240
Speaker 1: Bigger stuff, like like like I said, when I Google

2363
02:00:37,360 --> 02:00:40,400
Speaker 1: who are the most followed accounts, that's just most followed

2364
02:00:40,440 --> 02:00:44,120
Speaker 1: the counts. That doesn't matter if your personal experience is

2365
02:00:44,160 --> 02:00:48,040
Speaker 1: like it is showing me bonnets and do rags like cool,

2366
02:00:48,480 --> 02:00:52,000
Speaker 1: But clearly that's a you thing and you can have

2367
02:00:52,120 --> 02:00:54,480
Speaker 1: that experience that which would would make people want to

2368
02:00:54,520 --> 02:00:57,640
Speaker 1: defend it and go But isn't this everybody? No, the

2369
02:00:57,760 --> 02:01:00,720
Speaker 1: general experience is not for everybody, and that and bad

2370
02:01:00,720 --> 02:01:03,720
Speaker 1: stuff happens there too, such as lives of TikTok and

2371
02:01:03,760 --> 02:01:07,600
Speaker 1: ship like that. Like anyway, but yeah, I appreciate your

2372
02:01:07,640 --> 02:01:10,080
Speaker 1: nick ju and uh, you know, I'm glad you're out

2373
02:01:10,080 --> 02:01:12,240
Speaker 1: here slip sliding in the streets. Were keeping up with you.

2374
02:01:12,240 --> 02:01:14,920
Speaker 1: We see you in the I g okay, I'll be

2375
02:01:14,960 --> 02:01:17,160
Speaker 1: in the stories. I'll see you singing out here. I

2376
02:01:17,240 --> 02:01:18,160
Speaker 1: see you in the streets.

2377
02:01:18,480 --> 02:01:18,600
Speaker 5: Uh.

2378
02:01:19,200 --> 02:01:21,240
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say in case they don't follow you,

2379
02:01:21,240 --> 02:01:22,960
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say where'll you be traveling? But I'll

2380
02:01:23,000 --> 02:01:25,320
Speaker 1: be seeing you out here. I'd love to see it.

2381
02:01:25,760 --> 02:01:27,760
Speaker 1: I also just realize that because Skype is in and

2382
02:01:27,760 --> 02:01:30,400
Speaker 1: it won't let me add new contacts, so it's like,

2383
02:01:31,000 --> 02:01:32,520
Speaker 1: so like get the fuck out of here. By may

2384
02:01:32,640 --> 02:01:35,080
Speaker 1: Nigga rent is too, we gonna have to change his number.

2385
02:01:35,160 --> 02:01:37,480
Speaker 3: So we're gonna change the number.

2386
02:01:37,520 --> 02:01:39,680
Speaker 1: Y'all last ones from Allegra.

2387
02:01:41,160 --> 02:01:44,440
Speaker 4: Hi you too. It's Ale. I just got to listening

2388
02:01:44,440 --> 02:01:48,200
Speaker 4: to your Bigger Bubbles episode. I like when you do

2389
02:01:48,320 --> 02:01:52,680
Speaker 4: weird stuff. But also what you're talking about, if I

2390
02:01:52,800 --> 02:01:57,200
Speaker 4: may add another label to it, is what I've been

2391
02:01:57,240 --> 02:02:00,960
Speaker 4: calling like the era of the Bully. It's building for

2392
02:02:01,000 --> 02:02:05,160
Speaker 4: so long and now they've they're reaching their apex. You know,

2393
02:02:05,280 --> 02:02:08,520
Speaker 4: you've got the biggest bully of the moments in the

2394
02:02:08,560 --> 02:02:15,280
Speaker 4: president and the person who's holding his purse strings. And

2395
02:02:15,560 --> 02:02:18,200
Speaker 4: you know, it's the air of the bully. It's the

2396
02:02:18,280 --> 02:02:21,640
Speaker 4: loss of integrity. That's what the bubbles are. There's no

2397
02:02:21,680 --> 02:02:26,720
Speaker 4: more integrity. It's about who's the more popular. And it's

2398
02:02:27,640 --> 02:02:35,360
Speaker 4: fascinating in a psychological evaluation of it. And it's incredibly

2399
02:02:35,360 --> 02:02:39,680
Speaker 4: disturbing and frustrating and sad when you speak about the

2400
02:02:39,800 --> 02:02:43,520
Speaker 4: humanity of it all. Once again, you guys are in

2401
02:02:43,640 --> 02:02:46,720
Speaker 4: my head saying stuff I've been thinking about or saying

2402
02:02:46,800 --> 02:02:50,200
Speaker 4: for many years. So love you guys. Keep up the

2403
02:02:50,240 --> 02:02:52,680
Speaker 4: good work. Sorry that you always have to get mad,

2404
02:02:52,840 --> 02:02:54,960
Speaker 4: but it's maddening.

2405
02:02:56,680 --> 02:02:59,520
Speaker 3: It just means our emotions are work it right, That's

2406
02:02:59,520 --> 02:03:00,160
Speaker 3: one part me.

2407
02:03:00,240 --> 02:03:02,680
Speaker 5: I don't want to cut off like you know, because

2408
02:03:02,720 --> 02:03:05,200
Speaker 5: the thing is it's really easy to kind of cut

2409
02:03:05,200 --> 02:03:07,400
Speaker 5: your heart off and just make your heart cold.

2410
02:03:07,600 --> 02:03:10,280
Speaker 3: But I that's something I never want to do.

2411
02:03:10,320 --> 02:03:12,720
Speaker 5: I don't want to lose my humanity because they want

2412
02:03:12,720 --> 02:03:15,000
Speaker 5: to act inhumane facts.

2413
02:03:15,720 --> 02:03:17,880
Speaker 1: But thank you, Alagra And now that's a good that's

2414
02:03:17,880 --> 02:03:20,440
Speaker 1: a good. Yeah. The era of the bully. That does

2415
02:03:20,560 --> 02:03:25,160
Speaker 1: feel like what we're in right now. Yeah, people, And honestly,

2416
02:03:25,160 --> 02:03:27,520
Speaker 1: it doesn't even feel like it's necessarily a one side thing.

2417
02:03:27,680 --> 02:03:29,920
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people are just even

2418
02:03:30,080 --> 02:03:33,040
Speaker 1: liberal people at this point want a bully that. I

2419
02:03:33,040 --> 02:03:35,040
Speaker 1: don't know if it's possible to have a liberal bully,

2420
02:03:35,040 --> 02:03:36,040
Speaker 1: but they kind of want it.

2421
02:03:36,040 --> 02:03:37,520
Speaker 3: If they could get one, they will.

2422
02:03:37,640 --> 02:03:41,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, they would like a bully for good people if that,

2423
02:03:41,560 --> 02:03:44,800
Speaker 1: if that's possible. That's why everybody's like be mean, yell

2424
02:03:44,840 --> 02:03:48,040
Speaker 1: at the Republicans do something, you know, it's like they

2425
02:03:48,400 --> 02:03:51,839
Speaker 1: want that. That's the vibes. All right, let's do last segment,

2426
02:03:51,920 --> 02:03:55,120
Speaker 1: which is uh, the well, last two segments, but emails

2427
02:03:55,160 --> 02:04:32,040
Speaker 1: and the mail mail. All right, Girl Scout Cookies Crystal says, Hey,

2428
02:04:32,080 --> 02:04:34,280
Speaker 1: I'm listening to episode Scamming is Life where you discussed

2429
02:04:34,280 --> 02:04:36,360
Speaker 1: the Girl Scout Cookie lawsuits. So my daughter is a

2430
02:04:36,400 --> 02:04:39,120
Speaker 1: Girl Scout and it's been one since she was in kindergarten.

2431
02:04:39,160 --> 02:04:42,040
Speaker 1: As soon as you said the Moms across America, I'm

2432
02:04:42,080 --> 02:04:44,880
Speaker 1: sure you probably talked about them before, but they are

2433
02:04:44,880 --> 02:04:47,560
Speaker 1: a right wing group that essentially wants women back in

2434
02:04:47,600 --> 02:04:51,240
Speaker 1: the kitchen. Oh, I didn't it didn't even register, but

2435
02:04:51,440 --> 02:04:54,560
Speaker 1: the name sounded funny. I was like when I read it,

2436
02:04:54,560 --> 02:04:54,960
Speaker 1: I was like.

2437
02:04:55,000 --> 02:04:57,400
Speaker 2: Is this two dudes not from America?

2438
02:04:57,440 --> 02:04:58,920
Speaker 1: Because that's it's never the truth.

2439
02:04:58,960 --> 02:04:59,960
Speaker 3: It's never the truth.

2440
02:05:00,160 --> 02:05:01,440
Speaker 1: The name is always a lie.

2441
02:05:01,520 --> 02:05:04,600
Speaker 5: I know, be moms across them.

2442
02:05:04,640 --> 02:05:07,240
Speaker 2: Now a million dads, I mean a million moms.

2443
02:05:07,720 --> 02:05:08,560
Speaker 1: It's two dads.

2444
02:05:09,560 --> 02:05:09,720
Speaker 5: Uh.

2445
02:05:09,760 --> 02:05:11,800
Speaker 1: They are the ones who target school boards. I'm not

2446
02:05:11,840 --> 02:05:13,320
Speaker 1: going to say that I know for a fact, but

2447
02:05:13,360 --> 02:05:15,960
Speaker 1: that's the rumor of them is so I feel like

2448
02:05:16,000 --> 02:05:18,520
Speaker 1: them trying to take down the Girl Scouts is targeted approach.

2449
02:05:18,840 --> 02:05:22,240
Speaker 1: Whether or not this is facts, because if I feel

2450
02:05:22,240 --> 02:05:24,280
Speaker 1: like you test any food, you're gonna find traces of

2451
02:05:24,320 --> 02:05:27,200
Speaker 1: everything that's been stated. But this is a way to

2452
02:05:27,200 --> 02:05:30,280
Speaker 1: scare people from assuming the cookies, which the sales of

2453
02:05:30,320 --> 02:05:33,320
Speaker 1: the cookies is what funds all the different opportunities the camps,

2454
02:05:33,360 --> 02:05:36,280
Speaker 1: the different team and our learning opportunities for the Girl Scouts.

2455
02:05:36,360 --> 02:05:38,800
Speaker 1: And I know you had mentioned about good luck about

2456
02:05:39,200 --> 02:05:42,880
Speaker 1: safety and the Trump administration, but this is really their

2457
02:05:42,960 --> 02:05:46,560
Speaker 1: way of targeting Girl Scouts because remember Girl Scouts teaches

2458
02:05:46,600 --> 02:05:49,400
Speaker 1: women or girls about stem and being anything you want

2459
02:05:49,400 --> 02:05:51,320
Speaker 1: to be in that girls could be entrepreneurs, and learn

2460
02:05:51,320 --> 02:05:52,560
Speaker 1: about engineering.

2461
02:05:52,120 --> 02:05:53,200
Speaker 3: Being very independent.

2462
02:05:53,360 --> 02:05:56,960
Speaker 1: My daughter's troop even taught them elementary for emergency first day.

2463
02:05:57,080 --> 02:05:59,160
Speaker 1: So it's really about this manly anything that tells girls

2464
02:05:59,200 --> 02:06:01,240
Speaker 1: that they should do anything other than being a wife

2465
02:06:01,360 --> 02:06:03,960
Speaker 1: because a target approach to discredit their reputation. I'm sure

2466
02:06:03,960 --> 02:06:06,080
Speaker 1: they will target barbing next because the message of be

2467
02:06:06,120 --> 02:06:09,320
Speaker 1: anything you want to be a Yeah, I mean, I'm

2468
02:06:09,360 --> 02:06:12,800
Speaker 1: completely with that. Honestly, you have me don't stop eating girls.

2469
02:06:14,600 --> 02:06:15,480
Speaker 1: I was not gonna stop.

2470
02:06:15,920 --> 02:06:20,440
Speaker 3: I was not either. I ordered some cookies online and probably.

2471
02:06:20,560 --> 02:06:24,400
Speaker 1: By the only reason I'm slowing down on cookies is

2472
02:06:24,560 --> 02:06:28,680
Speaker 1: for my health goals. Okay, but Karen is clearly trying

2473
02:06:28,720 --> 02:06:31,520
Speaker 1: to sabotage me and don't care. But but the other

2474
02:06:31,560 --> 02:06:34,440
Speaker 1: thing I will say too is like I noticed a

2475
02:06:34,440 --> 02:06:39,400
Speaker 1: lot of the sources reveal a lot because I feel

2476
02:06:39,400 --> 02:06:42,760
Speaker 1: like that was from a right wing source. And that's

2477
02:06:42,800 --> 02:06:45,720
Speaker 1: also the same place that I remember saying like, don't

2478
02:06:46,600 --> 02:06:51,200
Speaker 1: like get off of avocado oil and such and such oil,

2479
02:06:51,280 --> 02:06:52,560
Speaker 1: only olive oil or whatever.

2480
02:06:52,680 --> 02:06:55,720
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, what has rfk Jr.

2481
02:06:55,920 --> 02:06:56,520
Speaker 1: Been promoting?

2482
02:06:57,840 --> 02:07:00,000
Speaker 3: What is he threw statement? What have you been promot

2483
02:07:00,360 --> 02:07:01,120
Speaker 3: watch this man?

2484
02:07:02,600 --> 02:07:06,360
Speaker 1: Our professor Carritha right saying, dear Rod and Karen, I

2485
02:07:06,360 --> 02:07:08,920
Speaker 1: hope this message finds you well. I'm reaching out because

2486
02:07:08,960 --> 02:07:11,200
Speaker 1: you you'll appreciate this. I was at a conference this

2487
02:07:11,240 --> 02:07:13,840
Speaker 1: weekend and a popular culture scholar I hadn't seen since

2488
02:07:13,880 --> 02:07:16,520
Speaker 1: before the pandemic was there. We had a ball catching up.

2489
02:07:16,560 --> 02:07:19,120
Speaker 1: The next day, when I was in a very serious conversation,

2490
02:07:19,200 --> 02:07:20,840
Speaker 1: he walked up and gave this to me in a

2491
02:07:20,960 --> 02:07:23,720
Speaker 1: very solemn fashion. I hollered when I finally looked at it.

2492
02:07:24,200 --> 02:07:26,360
Speaker 1: I took this picture today in my office. Having you

2493
02:07:26,400 --> 02:07:28,440
Speaker 1: and Cary in the background makes this even funnier to me,

2494
02:07:28,520 --> 02:07:31,000
Speaker 1: because nothing's wrong with it's funny. Also, the new the

2495
02:07:31,000 --> 02:07:34,160
Speaker 1: blackout Tips poster arrived. I'll get eliminated and then put

2496
02:07:34,240 --> 02:07:37,480
Speaker 1: up good vibe. Caritha. I'm gon show y'all picture of

2497
02:07:37,480 --> 02:07:40,600
Speaker 1: what she was handed and I love this. I wish

2498
02:07:40,680 --> 02:07:43,880
Speaker 1: I had one myself, but it's the MLK fan. But

2499
02:07:44,040 --> 02:07:45,200
Speaker 1: he got the do rag home.

2500
02:07:45,880 --> 02:07:53,360
Speaker 3: Yes, that's hilarious. That's hilarious. History Month. You know that

2501
02:07:53,480 --> 02:07:54,680
Speaker 3: was on somebody's poster.

2502
02:07:56,520 --> 02:08:02,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody fired fromotion. Yeah, Rochelle says, Hi riding Karen,

2503
02:08:02,680 --> 02:08:05,240
Speaker 1: I'm still behind all episodes of this social media TikTok

2504
02:08:05,240 --> 02:08:08,160
Speaker 1: debate is really emblematic of how ingrained these mediums are

2505
02:08:08,200 --> 02:08:11,120
Speaker 1: in our lives. It's unfortunate that social media has distorted

2506
02:08:11,160 --> 02:08:12,840
Speaker 1: so much of our reality that there are so many

2507
02:08:12,880 --> 02:08:15,200
Speaker 1: people who can't see it. I listened to a podcast

2508
02:08:15,480 --> 02:08:18,600
Speaker 1: Dakoda ring why do so many coffee shops look the

2509
02:08:18,640 --> 02:08:21,480
Speaker 1: same and how the algorithm is impacting our real lives?

2510
02:08:21,760 --> 02:08:24,040
Speaker 1: Are we in the matrix? Has my third ie being open?

2511
02:08:24,520 --> 02:08:27,480
Speaker 1: I've gotten back into reading and I'm reading not my type.

2512
02:08:27,520 --> 02:08:30,760
Speaker 1: Automating sexual racism and online dating another place where the

2513
02:08:30,800 --> 02:08:33,879
Speaker 1: algorithm can have a negative, negative impact in our real lives.

2514
02:08:35,000 --> 02:08:37,120
Speaker 1: I know that you and Karen are avid readers and

2515
02:08:37,160 --> 02:08:39,440
Speaker 1: have mentioned some books, but I would love a ride

2516
02:08:39,440 --> 02:08:43,920
Speaker 1: of karen recommends recommended reading list. Oh, I have to

2517
02:08:43,960 --> 02:08:44,720
Speaker 1: think about it.

2518
02:08:45,120 --> 02:08:47,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, Rod reads more than me, like as far as

2519
02:08:47,320 --> 02:08:48,320
Speaker 5: like that heavy stuff.

2520
02:08:48,840 --> 02:08:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have to think about it. But I'm sure

2521
02:08:50,800 --> 02:08:52,720
Speaker 1: I can look through my kendle and find some stuff.

2522
02:08:53,840 --> 02:08:56,160
Speaker 1: I heard all the negative energy coming at Karen and

2523
02:08:56,200 --> 02:08:59,160
Speaker 1: it will not stand. Karen is a gym. Thank you

2524
02:08:59,240 --> 02:09:01,880
Speaker 1: Karen for being you. Thanks Rod and Karen for doing

2525
02:09:01,920 --> 02:09:05,960
Speaker 1: what you do. I'll probably catch the heat this week.

2526
02:09:07,400 --> 02:09:10,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, not gonna have somebody gonna have something to say.

2527
02:09:10,080 --> 02:09:12,200
Speaker 1: First of all, don't tell me to say I'm a

2528
02:09:12,240 --> 02:09:15,960
Speaker 1: good at my job. Rod. As a black woman, I

2529
02:09:16,080 --> 02:09:18,560
Speaker 1: suck and I should be allowed to suck.

2530
02:09:19,160 --> 02:09:21,440
Speaker 3: You will never understand as a man.

2531
02:09:21,920 --> 02:09:24,960
Speaker 2: How dare you see my actual value and potential?

2532
02:09:25,280 --> 02:09:27,919
Speaker 5: How dare you push me to be greater and advocate

2533
02:09:28,000 --> 02:09:31,000
Speaker 5: for myself and and and and and put out all

2534
02:09:31,040 --> 02:09:34,480
Speaker 5: my trophies and degrees and accolades and be like I.

2535
02:09:34,440 --> 02:09:35,040
Speaker 3: Did that ship.

2536
02:09:35,440 --> 02:09:37,640
Speaker 1: Oh so you think I'm all that? You must think

2537
02:09:37,640 --> 02:09:38,280
Speaker 1: I'm all.

2538
02:09:38,120 --> 02:09:40,560
Speaker 5: That in the bag of chips, I am, but I

2539
02:09:40,560 --> 02:09:42,360
Speaker 5: don't know how to tell them that I am.

2540
02:09:42,720 --> 02:09:44,960
Speaker 2: You probably think I'm cute, tood.

2541
02:09:45,000 --> 02:09:48,680
Speaker 3: You doing too much making me push myself, and shit.

2542
02:09:49,000 --> 02:09:51,040
Speaker 1: I'm not listening. Do what you want to do. But

2543
02:09:52,040 --> 02:09:55,920
Speaker 1: eleven women rode in in a row, y'all.

2544
02:09:55,960 --> 02:09:58,200
Speaker 3: Fee That goes to tell you how not time for

2545
02:09:58,200 --> 02:10:00,480
Speaker 3: the hot ingrained. It is like like.

2546
02:10:00,400 --> 02:10:05,080
Speaker 1: In women to be like, wa, y'all talk to the therapists.

2547
02:10:05,120 --> 02:10:08,720
Speaker 1: That's not my job. John says, good morning, Rod, and

2548
02:10:08,800 --> 02:10:12,400
Speaker 1: Karen is so hilarious and dumb that dudes pull the

2549
02:10:12,480 --> 02:10:15,480
Speaker 1: biology argument to try and justify non monogamy. They say

2550
02:10:15,520 --> 02:10:18,320
Speaker 1: shit like planting my seed. But let's be real, unless

2551
02:10:18,320 --> 02:10:20,000
Speaker 1: they are Nick Cannon, they don't actually want to have

2552
02:10:20,040 --> 02:10:23,640
Speaker 1: a couple dozen babies, right like Elon Musk and doctor Umar.

2553
02:10:23,720 --> 02:10:25,840
Speaker 1: They don't want all them problems. They just want to

2554
02:10:25,880 --> 02:10:28,040
Speaker 1: fuck lots of women. Nothing wrong with that, but just

2555
02:10:28,120 --> 02:10:30,160
Speaker 1: be honest to find yourself the right partner who's cool

2556
02:10:30,160 --> 02:10:32,760
Speaker 1: with that, and give her the same freedom record scratch.

2557
02:10:34,440 --> 02:10:36,560
Speaker 1: What makes it even more hilarious is that all the

2558
02:10:36,600 --> 02:10:38,920
Speaker 1: biology shit goes right out the window when we look

2559
02:10:38,920 --> 02:10:42,320
Speaker 1: at her perspective. Doctor David Lay, who is a psychologist

2560
02:10:42,400 --> 02:10:45,200
Speaker 1: and the author of the book Insatiable Wives and one

2561
02:10:45,200 --> 02:10:47,919
Speaker 1: of the leading experts on sex fetish a non monogamy,

2562
02:10:48,000 --> 02:10:50,640
Speaker 1: pointed out on the podcast I Listen To that unlike men,

2563
02:10:50,960 --> 02:10:53,360
Speaker 1: women have almost no limit on how many times they

2564
02:10:53,360 --> 02:10:56,120
Speaker 1: can orgasm, how long they can go, how many partners

2565
02:10:56,120 --> 02:10:58,840
Speaker 1: they can enjoy, etc. Whereas for most of us men,

2566
02:10:58,960 --> 02:11:00,800
Speaker 1: unless we are twenty year old, was a porn star,

2567
02:11:00,920 --> 02:11:04,520
Speaker 1: or a steady diet of viagra, we can only go

2568
02:11:05,160 --> 02:11:07,400
Speaker 1: at it a couple times in a single day, if that.

2569
02:11:08,000 --> 02:11:10,280
Speaker 1: If anything, is actually women who can say they are

2570
02:11:10,320 --> 02:11:14,840
Speaker 1: built for multiple partners, assuming that's what they want, not us. Yeah,

2571
02:11:15,000 --> 02:11:26,120
Speaker 1: but also on a purely like naturist, animalistic type of way, right,

2572
02:11:26,560 --> 02:11:28,880
Speaker 1: because men always make this argument that like men should

2573
02:11:28,920 --> 02:11:31,400
Speaker 1: have multiple women because men have so much sperm and

2574
02:11:31,440 --> 02:11:33,760
Speaker 1: they can they want to procreate and make the earth.

2575
02:11:34,720 --> 02:11:38,280
Speaker 1: If a woman, if we're going back to this caveman logic,

2576
02:11:38,360 --> 02:11:41,120
Speaker 1: if a woman wants to diversify her interest and be

2577
02:11:41,280 --> 02:11:45,400
Speaker 1: the most protected possible, she should want to have children

2578
02:11:45,480 --> 02:11:48,760
Speaker 1: by many different men so that she always has some

2579
02:11:48,840 --> 02:11:53,120
Speaker 1: source of somebody providing for her. Correct. If that's if we're.

2580
02:11:53,000 --> 02:11:54,960
Speaker 3: Going to that diversify your assets.

2581
02:11:55,080 --> 02:11:57,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, why would she put our eggs in one basket?

2582
02:11:57,440 --> 02:11:58,280
Speaker 3: One basket?

2583
02:11:58,360 --> 02:12:00,880
Speaker 1: What if that lion dies and now she the pride

2584
02:12:00,920 --> 02:12:04,080
Speaker 1: has no fucking leader. She would be better off having

2585
02:12:04,200 --> 02:12:07,560
Speaker 1: seven babies daddies. So they're like, well, look, only one

2586
02:12:07,640 --> 02:12:09,600
Speaker 1: of them got to strike it big or just take

2587
02:12:09,600 --> 02:12:12,120
Speaker 1: care of take care of enough of us because they

2588
02:12:12,120 --> 02:12:13,840
Speaker 1: don't want to see the mother or their child go

2589
02:12:13,880 --> 02:12:16,800
Speaker 1: back do bad. But nah, we don't take it to

2590
02:12:16,880 --> 02:12:18,960
Speaker 1: that level because all of a sudden, it doesn't look

2591
02:12:19,000 --> 02:12:21,640
Speaker 1: as smart, you know, or it doesn't not look as smart.

2592
02:12:21,680 --> 02:12:26,400
Speaker 1: It doesn't make men feel as value agreed, and so yeah,

2593
02:12:26,440 --> 02:12:32,360
Speaker 1: all the arguments are very h generalized anyway, but yeah,

2594
02:12:32,400 --> 02:12:37,200
Speaker 1: it's just whatever. Just be consenting adults and be up front.

2595
02:12:37,280 --> 02:12:40,760
Speaker 1: You'll be all right. Somebody into everything, and I guarantee

2596
02:12:40,760 --> 02:12:42,840
Speaker 1: you there is a type of woman that's like, you

2597
02:12:42,920 --> 02:12:44,800
Speaker 1: can fuck other women and I don't want to fuck

2598
02:12:44,840 --> 02:12:47,360
Speaker 1: anybody else. I don't know who they are, but they

2599
02:12:47,400 --> 02:12:50,040
Speaker 1: out there somewhere, somebody will agree to every fucking thing.

2600
02:12:50,080 --> 02:12:53,720
Speaker 1: We've all seen it. Everybody doesn't seen somebody in some

2601
02:12:53,840 --> 02:12:55,560
Speaker 1: situation where you like, I don't even know how they

2602
02:12:55,600 --> 02:12:59,880
Speaker 1: made that happen. It happens. It's fine. It ain't my bus.

2603
02:13:00,120 --> 02:13:03,000
Speaker 1: As long as y'all consenting and no one's being abused. Fine,

2604
02:13:03,040 --> 02:13:06,920
Speaker 1: people gonna judge you no matter what. Megan Megan, Meghan

2605
02:13:07,040 --> 02:13:09,400
Speaker 1: Good is being judged right the fuck now, and she

2606
02:13:09,680 --> 02:13:11,800
Speaker 1: and everything seems to be a consented relationship.

2607
02:13:11,880 --> 02:13:14,240
Speaker 2: With that, you can't escape the judgment of it.

2608
02:13:16,000 --> 02:13:16,520
Speaker 5: H D.

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02:13:16,920 --> 02:13:18,440
Speaker 1: He says. But of course the dudes who love the

2610
02:13:18,480 --> 02:13:20,280
Speaker 1: port to biology don't care, because at the end of

2611
02:13:20,320 --> 02:13:22,480
Speaker 1: the day, they're just using it selectively and self servingly

2612
02:13:22,800 --> 02:13:24,760
Speaker 1: to justify patriarchy. Thank you for a tend of about

2613
02:13:24,760 --> 02:13:27,120
Speaker 1: ted talk with respect to the name Jayden. I just

2614
02:13:27,120 --> 02:13:29,000
Speaker 1: wanted to chime in that I definitely would have guessed

2615
02:13:29,040 --> 02:13:32,280
Speaker 1: Black on that story as well stephen A's voice just

2616
02:13:32,320 --> 02:13:35,360
Speaker 1: for one. However, I have had a bunch of students

2617
02:13:35,440 --> 02:13:38,120
Speaker 1: named Jayden over the past ten years that were Asian, American,

2618
02:13:38,160 --> 02:13:42,320
Speaker 1: and Latino. It's a pretty popular name in those communities currently,

2619
02:13:42,440 --> 02:13:46,880
Speaker 1: though not nearly as popular as Aiden. So keep that

2620
02:13:46,920 --> 02:13:49,040
Speaker 1: in mind for when you play Guests the Race in

2621
02:13:49,080 --> 02:13:50,120
Speaker 1: about ten years.

2622
02:13:49,960 --> 02:13:54,120
Speaker 5: Or so, when they start growing up and growing up

2623
02:13:54,160 --> 02:13:54,920
Speaker 5: and becoming an adults.

2624
02:13:55,000 --> 02:13:57,600
Speaker 1: From your lips to God's ears, we're playing Guest the

2625
02:13:57,680 --> 02:14:00,440
Speaker 1: Race ten years from now. We hope right, we do

2626
02:14:00,760 --> 02:14:02,640
Speaker 1: all right? We got a couple of things in the mail.

2627
02:14:02,920 --> 02:14:05,720
Speaker 1: The first one is this one. It came with a

2628
02:14:05,800 --> 02:14:09,480
Speaker 1: card with a flower on it. It says, Hi, Rod

2629
02:14:09,560 --> 02:14:12,840
Speaker 1: and Karen, thanks for a lovely show last week. It

2630
02:14:12,880 --> 02:14:14,960
Speaker 1: was a wonderful visiting Charlotte for the first time, and

2631
02:14:15,000 --> 02:14:17,480
Speaker 1: I can't wait to return. Here are some candles I

2632
02:14:17,520 --> 02:14:21,040
Speaker 1: thought you would enjoy for my favorite uh local candle

2633
02:14:21,080 --> 02:14:24,320
Speaker 1: maker here in New Jersey. Hope you love them all

2634
02:14:24,360 --> 02:14:27,520
Speaker 1: the best. Nadine a k A shoe booty, and she

2635
02:14:27,640 --> 02:14:31,480
Speaker 1: did get these these candles from wick it w which

2636
02:14:31,520 --> 02:14:34,800
Speaker 1: is so clever. W I c k I T wicked candle.

2637
02:14:36,120 --> 02:14:39,720
Speaker 1: Jersey Girl is one of them.

2638
02:14:39,840 --> 02:14:41,720
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they're gonna get barn Baby. Don't worry about

2639
02:14:41,960 --> 02:14:43,400
Speaker 3: de Debbi going by next week.

2640
02:14:43,480 --> 02:14:45,720
Speaker 2: Smells nice males like peonies.

2641
02:14:46,720 --> 02:14:48,120
Speaker 1: Is that how you pronounced thos?

2642
02:14:48,360 --> 02:14:48,560
Speaker 3: Uh?

2643
02:14:48,600 --> 02:14:53,440
Speaker 2: And then sexy man, okay, uh, sexy man.

2644
02:14:55,840 --> 02:14:57,920
Speaker 1: I don't even I don't know what the subtitle is,

2645
02:14:58,000 --> 02:15:02,400
Speaker 1: but uh, I sa, this is gonna smell. Yes, it

2646
02:15:02,520 --> 02:15:04,120
Speaker 1: smells very.

2647
02:15:04,000 --> 02:15:05,240
Speaker 3: Sexy and it's like an action.

2648
02:15:06,880 --> 02:15:08,560
Speaker 1: It smells a lot like me already. I don't know

2649
02:15:08,560 --> 02:15:10,560
Speaker 1: if I'm to be able to smell this one in

2650
02:15:10,600 --> 02:15:14,240
Speaker 1: the house. Probably it probably just smells like nothing to me.

2651
02:15:18,000 --> 02:15:22,520
Speaker 1: That's sorry, my natural aroma. All right. And then we

2652
02:15:22,600 --> 02:15:23,320
Speaker 1: got this one.

2653
02:15:24,640 --> 02:15:27,520
Speaker 2: I haven't opened it yet, No, probably, sir.

2654
02:15:28,800 --> 02:15:31,360
Speaker 1: But the Melander dress is on our website, The Black Autist,

2655
02:15:32,040 --> 02:15:37,160
Speaker 1: like about and we have a wish list on Amazon,

2656
02:15:40,000 --> 02:15:43,280
Speaker 1: and on the Amazon wish list like Karen put stuff,

2657
02:15:43,280 --> 02:15:48,640
Speaker 1: I put stuff. And then y'all can oh shit, Oh

2658
02:15:48,880 --> 02:15:53,680
Speaker 1: it's the Smart Fitness Scale from v SNC oh I

2659
02:15:53,800 --> 02:15:58,800
Speaker 1: literally just put this on there. Let me see where's from,

2660
02:15:58,840 --> 02:16:01,440
Speaker 1: because I got a suspicion on who it's from because

2661
02:16:01,480 --> 02:16:03,720
Speaker 1: that person told me to put it on there, because

2662
02:16:03,720 --> 02:16:04,800
Speaker 1: I was saying, how.

2663
02:16:06,840 --> 02:16:10,040
Speaker 2: Of course it didn't include the fucking Yeah.

2664
02:16:10,080 --> 02:16:12,160
Speaker 3: Sometimes I think they'd be forgetting to put the little

2665
02:16:12,160 --> 02:16:12,680
Speaker 3: thing with.

2666
02:16:12,680 --> 02:16:14,400
Speaker 1: It ship it so fast they didn't even tell me

2667
02:16:14,400 --> 02:16:16,160
Speaker 1: who it was from. But if it's who I think

2668
02:16:16,280 --> 02:16:19,880
Speaker 1: is from, thank you, because she told me. We were

2669
02:16:19,880 --> 02:16:24,760
Speaker 1: talking on the pregame about the end body test. That

2670
02:16:24,960 --> 02:16:28,040
Speaker 1: tells me about my muscle game and stuff. Because sometimes

2671
02:16:28,640 --> 02:16:30,600
Speaker 1: on the scale, you know, the number looks the same,

2672
02:16:30,720 --> 02:16:33,760
Speaker 1: and I have a smart scale, but it's like, I

2673
02:16:33,760 --> 02:16:36,480
Speaker 1: don't know how it's too smart. I don't know them numbers,

2674
02:16:37,480 --> 02:16:39,480
Speaker 1: Like there's a setting that you can stand on it

2675
02:16:39,560 --> 02:16:41,320
Speaker 1: and it just gives you a bunch of fucking numbers

2676
02:16:41,320 --> 02:16:44,360
Speaker 1: that I don't get. And so I was just like, cool,

2677
02:16:44,840 --> 02:16:46,720
Speaker 1: but I'm just gonna look at the weight number because

2678
02:16:46,720 --> 02:16:49,080
Speaker 1: that's the one I know, and the other one that's

2679
02:16:49,200 --> 02:16:52,520
Speaker 1: like three to four times twelve, I'm just gonna assume

2680
02:16:52,520 --> 02:16:56,840
Speaker 1: it's calculus. Well, she said, well, this other scale will

2681
02:16:56,879 --> 02:17:00,440
Speaker 1: give you like very understandable, like here's your muscle mass,

2682
02:17:00,440 --> 02:17:03,879
Speaker 1: here's your this, that and the other and so. And

2683
02:17:03,920 --> 02:17:06,200
Speaker 1: I'm sure it won't give me the exact like like

2684
02:17:06,320 --> 02:17:09,039
Speaker 1: the anybody would be like your right arm has this

2685
02:17:09,160 --> 02:17:13,040
Speaker 1: much muscle and has gained Yeah, so I'm gonna definitely

2686
02:17:13,040 --> 02:17:16,720
Speaker 1: hook this up. I already got a v sync air fry,

2687
02:17:17,200 --> 02:17:20,160
Speaker 1: so maybe it already hooked up with that app and

2688
02:17:20,760 --> 02:17:23,760
Speaker 1: I'll be like, I need the air fry less or more.

2689
02:17:23,920 --> 02:17:26,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I need protein. Air fry me some

2690
02:17:26,760 --> 02:17:30,720
Speaker 1: chicken on scale right now. But yeah, thank you very much.

2691
02:17:30,800 --> 02:17:33,040
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. And uh, you know, I'm sure this

2692
02:17:33,120 --> 02:17:36,439
Speaker 1: will help on my health, uh endeavors.

2693
02:17:36,040 --> 02:17:38,280
Speaker 3: Yes, anything to simplify the process.

2694
02:17:38,360 --> 02:17:41,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and uh that's it for this this feedback show.

2695
02:17:41,360 --> 02:17:43,920
Speaker 1: We'll be back throughout the week. We appreciate y'all.

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02:17:45,200 --> 02:17:47,200
Speaker 2: Until next time, I love you.