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Speaker 1: about how Tea's essay was so heartfelt and beautiful. I

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Speaker 1: come on, now I know. I know. If you're gonna

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Speaker 1: I trusted her with it, and this is what she did.

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Speaker 1: In a fit of rage, I gathered all the evidence

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Speaker 1: Put in the comments what you would do? Or this

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Speaker 1: expect the outcome to be so severe, it was, I mean,

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Speaker 1: what did you expect the outcome to be? It? Right?

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Speaker 1: Now I feel bad. I feel terrible. I feel like

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Speaker 1: she took advantage of me. But I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: be the cause of something so horrible. I did myself

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Speaker 1: a justice, but at the cost of someone's dreams. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering what I did was justified or not. Am

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Speaker 1: But let us know in the comments that you think, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: put your answers in before you hear our take, John,

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Speaker 1: what are your thoughts? Well? First of all, first of all,

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Speaker 1: you know, regardless of whether let's preserve the whether ops

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Speaker 1: the a hole, Yeah, would you do this yourself? No?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I don't think I would go because also,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't. But if someone like wanted to, like if

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Speaker 1: all my essays, all my tests. Boys help out boys, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: your answers in the comments. He is, in am I

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Speaker 1: the a hole for demanding my husband paying me back

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Speaker 1: the one thousand dollars that he owes to me. Bust

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Speaker 1: ound knows pockets, baby, he spent it behind my back.

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Speaker 1: Run it baby, run it back, baby, Give deposit that

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Speaker 1: shit in my ass crack. It's fun place to get money. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my goodness? All right? My husband thirty three and I

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Speaker 1: wonder what those habits are Starbucks heroin the opposite ends

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Speaker 1: an expensive habit of going to the spa for a

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Speaker 1: So that's me A thousand dollars a month, bro, a

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Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I don't know. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: on TikTok massages? Yes, John and I couple's massage where

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Speaker 1: he's used to sport what exactly? Yeah? Is that? Is

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Speaker 1: that a happy ending massage that you're getting? Are we

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Speaker 1: slobbing on some knobs over here? Yeah? You are? You?

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Speaker 1: Are you leaving with some spiderwebs dangling from your ding

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Speaker 1: dong connecting to the ceiling six foot spread? Tom Holland

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Speaker 1: you know, kids a little? Definitely? Okay? Cool catches any

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Speaker 1: I told him to cut his sessions, but he refused.

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Speaker 1: I told him I won't be paying for them anymore,

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Speaker 1: and he said he'd get the money himself. How are

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Speaker 1: you gonna get the money with no job? Do it?

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Speaker 1: I checked and saw that he's been using my credit

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Speaker 1: He said he didn't tell me because he knew I'd

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Speaker 1: she would have an issue with it. Oh, gurd you

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Speaker 1: would have it? Who would who would it? You're stealing money, bro,

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Speaker 1: You're steeling, You're steely steelers. I demanded he payback the

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Speaker 1: and that this is affecting both of us since he's

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Speaker 1: both their kids, and it's stressful for him. And I

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Speaker 1: keep dismissing his own needs as a human. Bruh, bro. Also, like,

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Speaker 1: if you don't got a job, get the baby supplies

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Speaker 1: the needs of your fetus? Bro? Yeah, Bro, that fetus

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Speaker 1: using his unemployment against him. Bro, you are a deadbeat,

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Speaker 1: dead ass husband. Care for your baby, Mike drop out