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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody. We are scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes we are. It's gonna be one of those episodes

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<v Speaker 3>where I'm a little tired.

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<v Speaker 4>We are straight from the mountains, yeah, Colorado into.

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<v Speaker 3>The or into the or how you where do.

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<v Speaker 2>We even start? It was just like such an amazing weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>It really was, And like, you know what's so funny

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<v Speaker 3>because I was in a sorority. I love being in

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<v Speaker 3>spaces with people. I like sleeping with a bunch of people.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that. I don't know that like togetherness. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking about it. I'm like, had we not,

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<v Speaker 3>like we shared a cabin together, had we not been

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<v Speaker 3>given that assignment for the weekend, we probably would have

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<v Speaker 3>shared like gone separate cabins or whatever or separate rooms,

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<v Speaker 3>and it would have been such an experience. And I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so happy that we had that experience, the four of us.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really fun. Like I think we were all kind.

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<v Speaker 4>Of worried about the well, first of all, we didn't

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<v Speaker 4>know what the cabin layout was, so we didn't know it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Tanya was really on one and.

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<v Speaker 4>She was looking at the website and she was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I think this is our room, which is a real

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<v Speaker 4>it's just like a bed, and then there's a pullout couch.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's like, Robbie and I will take the pull

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<v Speaker 2>out couch.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, there's no way that there's not two

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<v Speaker 4>rooms if they put us in the same cabin, like

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<v Speaker 4>that makes no sense.

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<v Speaker 2>So room, yeah, I did. Yeah, that was another.

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<v Speaker 4>Suggestion that it was like one so it's two rooms.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So.

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<v Speaker 4>Haley and I had the room and we just had

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<v Speaker 4>twin beds pushed together, which I will say that was

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<v Speaker 4>we essentially slept separate because twin beds pushed together there's

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<v Speaker 4>a large crevice in the middle.

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<v Speaker 3>Even still just a little hack, a life hack for everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>If you take two twin beds, you push them together

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<v Speaker 3>and you just take a full sheet, you can basically

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<v Speaker 3>make like one bed.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, But they were all they were like separate main beds.

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<v Speaker 4>So like then he's twin had it separate cover, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was like if I wanted to be not cold,

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<v Speaker 4>I had to be on my little bed section. Haley

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<v Speaker 4>slept great. She was like I was in the corner

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<v Speaker 4>by myself whatever, So it was totally fine. And then

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<v Speaker 4>there was another bedroom that was like they weren't right

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<v Speaker 4>next to each other.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it was a small cabin.

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<v Speaker 4>But and then we had the one bathroom correct, And

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<v Speaker 4>I really appreciated Robbie. Halen and I were saying that

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<v Speaker 4>Robbie it was a game changer because he would just

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<v Speaker 4>go if he needed to. I believe the word Ryan

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<v Speaker 4>used on the Morning show was aroma. If he needed

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<v Speaker 4>to create aroma, he would go to like the main

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<v Speaker 4>lodge or like the bathrooms the general like public bathrooms

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<v Speaker 4>that were part of the main lodge.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd like feel him getting up out of bed at

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<v Speaker 3>like five thirty and where are you go? And he's

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<v Speaker 3>like zipping up his winter coat. He's like I have

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<v Speaker 3>to go to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, wow, what a guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Guy.

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<v Speaker 2>But the thing was we were like, we're so tired,

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<v Speaker 2>like we want to have.

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<v Speaker 3>Especially if you think Becka and Hayley are waking up

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<v Speaker 3>in any close to any sort of hour from.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, you're very over time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we had a full door. So but he was

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<v Speaker 4>just like very He never made it a big deal.

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<v Speaker 4>He's just like, all right, I'm going to go to

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<v Speaker 4>the bathroom. And he and and you did say he

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<v Speaker 4>was in his he was in his element and he

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<v Speaker 4>was like becoming you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Robbie was is a Beverly Hills guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Grew up in the hills of Beverly, Yes, and he

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<v Speaker 4>was thriving in the mountain nature.

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<v Speaker 3>Is he's such a nature mountain man. Like it's very funny,

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<v Speaker 3>like he likes he's like likes that that. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know like.

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<v Speaker 2>That he's not though he's not, but he loves it. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And so he really wants to.

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<v Speaker 3>Throw the axe and he wants to fish, and he

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<v Speaker 3>wants to like hike, and he wants to like be

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<v Speaker 3>mister wilderness. It's so cute.

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<v Speaker 4>I did get a great video of him attempting to

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<v Speaker 4>chop the wood. Yeah, there was a outside there was

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<v Speaker 4>already chopped wood like by the fireplace, so it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>like we needed it, but he really wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>To see if he could chop it.

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<v Speaker 4>And I really gave him a really great angle because

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<v Speaker 4>it made it look like the log was huge.

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<v Speaker 2>It looked like he was cutting like.

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<v Speaker 3>A tree stump and it was his videos, so it

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<v Speaker 3>made the tree really fall and like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I like set him up for success. So that

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<v Speaker 4>was really fun. We had a really great time. We

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<v Speaker 4>all had like portable mirrors that had little lights on

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<v Speaker 4>them that you had beca Tobin had posted, so we

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<v Speaker 4>all ordered them and yeah, we just sat at the

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<v Speaker 4>table and got ready together the girls, which is really cute.

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<v Speaker 3>So cute, Like when when would we ever do that?

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<v Speaker 3>Whenever we go like travel places for the podcast, like

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<v Speaker 3>we always get separate rooms.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah no, and I think that that's obviously like great,

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<v Speaker 4>but it was I felt like it. It was it

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<v Speaker 4>was really special this weekend to be able to do that,

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<v Speaker 4>and yeah, it was really fun. And we did have

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<v Speaker 4>one day We're like the water went out or something.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't know what happened, but Tanya had asked because

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<v Speaker 4>Haley and I got there on Thursday night, so we

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<v Speaker 4>were there by ourselves before y'all got there the next afternoon,

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<v Speaker 4>and we had had no problem like taking shower and

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<v Speaker 4>like it was like it wasn't oh my gosh, this

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<v Speaker 4>pressure is incredible, but it was like decent water pressure,

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<v Speaker 4>and so Tony goes that could come here, I need

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<v Speaker 4>to I need to rinse off.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this what the water pressure was last night? And

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<v Speaker 2>I go in it's like drips like it's literally like.

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<v Speaker 3>Drip drip out of the faucet and I sit in

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<v Speaker 3>the tub like I don't even know what and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>like birdying myself clean. It was actually very comical.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so once that got situated, we were smooth sailing

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<v Speaker 4>with sailing.

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<v Speaker 2>It was great.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't go, like to the bathroom, I can't go

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<v Speaker 4>in public places like it's like I have to be

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<v Speaker 4>very much alone. So at one point we were sitting

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<v Speaker 4>at at the main lodge and I like looked around

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, there's Tanya, Robbie and Hailey. No

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<v Speaker 4>one's in the cabin. I'm going. I just was like

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<v Speaker 4>gotta go. Yeah, don't come in, please, don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Sit here, don't sit here.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even know where to begin with the wedding festivities,

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<v Speaker 4>because it was one of the most beautiful wedding locations

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<v Speaker 4>and setups.

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<v Speaker 2>But also everyone was on the.

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<v Speaker 4>Property, so yeah, I think like sixty five people or

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<v Speaker 4>something were actually on the property staying in the cabins

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<v Speaker 4>on location, and it was so cool to just spend

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<v Speaker 4>time with everybody and be together and like have the

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<v Speaker 4>whole weekend. But also there was everyone could kind of

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<v Speaker 4>do your own thing. They were like hikes, you get fish.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so nice and I actually, like I want,

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<v Speaker 3>like I feel what they created was such a it

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<v Speaker 3>was like it was they called it camp Bell, but

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<v Speaker 3>it felt like a little summer camp get away for

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<v Speaker 3>just a bunch of adults, a lot of couples. And

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<v Speaker 3>we didn't have service outside of the main lodge, so

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<v Speaker 3>we would just like walk down to the main lodge

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<v Speaker 3>see who was there and what they were doing, and

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<v Speaker 3>then like if we wanted to do that with them,

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<v Speaker 3>we would go, and like if somebody was doing something else,

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<v Speaker 3>we'd go with them. And there was a sense of

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<v Speaker 3>like community and camaraderie and just like good old fashioned

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<v Speaker 3>fun as like silly as it sounds like playing chess

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<v Speaker 3>and games and.

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<v Speaker 2>By the fires.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I love that. And actually, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 3>like the first time Robbie ever spent time with Dean

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<v Speaker 3>and Kaylin was. It was one of the trips we

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<v Speaker 3>were supposed to do was like a podcast trip up

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<v Speaker 3>in Napa.

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<v Speaker 4>M hm.

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<v Speaker 3>You ended up getting COVID and so we had to

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<v Speaker 3>end up like we didn't record the podcast there, but

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<v Speaker 3>we didn't cancel the trip. And so it was like

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<v Speaker 3>the first weekend that Robbie Ever spent time with them,

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<v Speaker 3>and we spent the whole weekend like playing fish bowl

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<v Speaker 3>and playing games and like doing dinner and just kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like having that same kind of feel, and so

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<v Speaker 3>it was just really nice because it kind of felt

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<v Speaker 3>this the same way this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they're just It was really cool because it.

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<v Speaker 4>Was very much Dean in the sense that it was

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<v Speaker 4>like rustic and mountaine and that vibe, but then Kaylen

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<v Speaker 4>brought this sense of like beauty and elegance to this

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<v Speaker 4>location that was very like rustic, and it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was just the perfect combo.

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<v Speaker 4>That we had field day on Friday, y'all weren't there yet,

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<v Speaker 4>but we all got separated into teams and they just

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<v Speaker 4>pulled him out of hat so like everyone was just

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<v Speaker 4>paired with people and it was fun because we got

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<v Speaker 4>to know people outside of the people we've known forever.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was really cute because.

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<v Speaker 4>Haley was on ended up being on the winning team,

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<v Speaker 4>which was I think Dean's team, and she has like

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<v Speaker 4>an injured shoulder, so she hasn't like she was a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit nervous about field day because she was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I want to I want to be a part of

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<v Speaker 4>the team.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't risk like injuring myself more for field day,

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<v Speaker 4>you know. But they had a flip cup game where

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<v Speaker 4>it was like flip cup tic tac toe, and she

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<v Speaker 4>volunteered to do that and she ended up winning, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was it's like the most like purror reaction because

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't think anything of it. I looked over and

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<v Speaker 4>she was like celebrating with their like hands in the air,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, yeah, babe, good job.

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<v Speaker 4>But she was like, I just it felt like I

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<v Speaker 4>thought they were gonna like lift me up and chant

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<v Speaker 4>my name, and she was like, I think, I just

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know that I was gonna be able to contribute,

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<v Speaker 4>and to be able to get one of the points

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<v Speaker 4>for my team by doing that was like the coolest thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So everyone would like come up and be like our

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<v Speaker 2>flip cup champ. So it was like really cute.

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<v Speaker 3>All weekend, people kept coming up to Haley being like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>good job, like what the heck did she do? And so.

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<v Speaker 4>And then one of the nights when we were sitting

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<v Speaker 4>in the fire or by the in the lodge, Haley

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<v Speaker 4>started the fire like all these guys were standing around

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<v Speaker 4>and Haley literally started the fire and it was like huge.

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<v Speaker 2>Tanya said it would win, would have.

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<v Speaker 3>Won her the million dollars on Survivor, like if she

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<v Speaker 3>had to go into the fire making competition and it

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<v Speaker 3>would have burned right through that rope and she would

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<v Speaker 3>have gone on.

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<v Speaker 2>She loves she loves building a fire.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was fun having her there and just getting

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<v Speaker 4>to spend time with everybody. I love Ashley and Jared,

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<v Speaker 4>I love Ben and Jazz, Debbie and Josh and Sarah

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<v Speaker 4>and Wells.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like it was so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>It was and like, honestly, I haven't I've known Debbie

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<v Speaker 3>Debbie Ryan. I've known her for years, Like I met

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<v Speaker 3>her years and years and years ago, and I hadn't

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<v Speaker 3>seen her since before the pandemic, So what's that now,

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<v Speaker 3>like three or four years And I didn't even know

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<v Speaker 3>she was gonna be at the wedding, and so I

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<v Speaker 3>saw her and it was just like so sweet, and

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<v Speaker 3>she was like congratulating Robbie I on the engagement, and

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<v Speaker 3>I got to spend time with her husband, who's like

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<v Speaker 3>this was so awesome, so sweet and so kind and

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<v Speaker 3>just like such a gem. Yeah, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 3>just like really just awesome awesome people. There was a

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<v Speaker 3>girl there who started Yellow the label who's friends with Kaylin.

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<v Speaker 3>Her name's MK, and Robbie and I went on like

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<v Speaker 3>the hike. We were kind of like in the back

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<v Speaker 3>with her, so we spent like hours with her and

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<v Speaker 3>we just chatted about marriage and life and being a

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<v Speaker 3>female entrepreneur and like I'm so obsessed with her now,

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<v Speaker 3>and like she doesn't live in LA, unfortunately, I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like we're gonna have to be like long distance friends.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel she might come to LA a lot though

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<v Speaker 3>social media friends. Yeah, but it just kind of had

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<v Speaker 3>that like that feeling of just like meeting people that

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<v Speaker 3>I really loved and want to like stay in touch with,

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<v Speaker 3>and just like such a good fun vibe and everybody

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<v Speaker 3>was like so like it makes me emotional because everybody's

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<v Speaker 3>so welcoming to Robbie because he is kind of like

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<v Speaker 3>the newest person around, Yeah, and like everybody always takes

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<v Speaker 3>him under their wings, and like he always kind of

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<v Speaker 3>bros out with the guys and they have these like

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<v Speaker 3>moments together and it like makes me really emotional.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just it's and Robbie and Haley had an

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<v Speaker 4>emotional chat. It was just cute like I talked to someone.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, we talked a little bit about this

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<v Speaker 4>on Ben and Ashley's Almost Famous podcast. But Ben was

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<v Speaker 4>saying that he was like dealing with some anxiety over

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<v Speaker 4>certain things he said, And I had that moment for

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<v Speaker 4>some reason when I woke up this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, did I overshare? Did I say something uncomfortable?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it weird that I don't have that?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think it's weird that we do have it. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's weird that, like I question.

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<v Speaker 4>I know I didn't do anything that was weird, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>But in my mind, I'm like, did I was I nice?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Did I was I a good wedding guest?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, should I have asked Kaylin if she

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<v Speaker 2>needed stuff?

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<v Speaker 3>Your weekend? Kaylen is like are you having a good time?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh you are? This is your weekend? What

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<v Speaker 3>are you talking about me having good time? Are you

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<v Speaker 3>having good time?

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<v Speaker 4>But I was gonna say I noticed that her two

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<v Speaker 4>best friends that gave the speech at the rehearsal dinner,

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<v Speaker 4>which we'll get to the Mountain Chic Attire soon, they

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<v Speaker 4>said that about Kaylen. They were like, you know, Kaylan

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<v Speaker 4>is the most thoughtful, giving person and even we imagine

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<v Speaker 4>even tomorrow on her wedding day, she's going to be

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<v Speaker 4>asking if anyone needs anything. And I was like, Kaylen

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<v Speaker 4>is obviously like very physically beautiful, you can just see

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<v Speaker 4>that in her photos and videos, But she has the

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<v Speaker 4>sweetest heart that No, she's like the best.

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<v Speaker 2>She's just so kind and caring and.

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<v Speaker 3>It's genuine, Like it's like it's like in her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not like a front. She's just like that.

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<v Speaker 4>And then Dean is just he's still the same, but

0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:19.199
<v Speaker 4>she has her coming into his life has made him

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<v Speaker 4>a better person.

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<v Speaker 3>Yea.

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<v Speaker 4>Just like the way he speaks about her and talks

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<v Speaker 4>about her and what she's done for him is just

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<v Speaker 4>it was really emotional. The wedding was like so sweet

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<v Speaker 4>and intimate.

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<v Speaker 3>It felt really personal. Yeah, like it felt very personal.

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<v Speaker 3>It just felt really intimate is the right word. There

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<v Speaker 3>was so much love coming from them and like just

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<v Speaker 3>like little things that they were saying in their vows

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<v Speaker 3>that are so nuanced that I was picking up on

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<v Speaker 3>that are just so special. You just feels like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>they like they really complete each other. Yeah, and they

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<v Speaker 3>make each other a better person, and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just really special.

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<v Speaker 2>It just felt very much like the both of them,

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<v Speaker 2>which was cool.

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<v Speaker 3>I do want to say. I feel like because we

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<v Speaker 3>were talking about like the we were scared to go

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<v Speaker 3>out with one bathroom and stuff, and I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want Caitlin to feel like, oh yeah, we're like

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<v Speaker 3>making fun of anything is obviously like totally a joke

0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:20.760
<v Speaker 3>and like all fun because I'm honestly grateful that we

0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:23.600
<v Speaker 3>shared that cabin because I like have that memory forever,

0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:25.840
<v Speaker 3>the four of us, Like you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Me too, I feel the same, and I I would

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<v Speaker 4>do it again, like if they did it like a reunion, annis.

0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:35.880
<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't want my like every time we travel. Now

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<v Speaker 3>you know we're getting a big like four of us.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well that'll be a different day to talk about that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's just how it's gonna be.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm uncomfortable. No, it worked out.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it was great, I really And then the last night,

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<v Speaker 4>so the whole time we were kind of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>are we gonna see animals? Like I was really scared

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<v Speaker 4>about bears and like making sure.

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<v Speaker 3>So Ben texted us like two days before we came

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<v Speaker 3>out and was like, make sure, you guys, don't eat

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<v Speaker 3>any stickers bars before you come out, and like just

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<v Speaker 3>really induce the panic. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And then luckily Jess stepped in and was like, Ben

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<v Speaker 4>is being so mean, Like you are fine if you've

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<v Speaker 4>had snickers or any sweets, but don't you know, just

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<v Speaker 4>be aware of where you keep the food, which I appreciated.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was very much on the lookout for bears,

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<v Speaker 4>but we didn't see neither were Did you all know

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<v Speaker 4>chipmunks are really really small?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know this.

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<v Speaker 1>We had chipmunks in Wisconsin growing up.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, did you think they were like chippendale size?

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<v Speaker 2>Like no, I thought they were like squirrel size.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but are they not?

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<v Speaker 2>Pointed them out? Like every time I saw them, they're

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<v Speaker 2>like this big.

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<v Speaker 3>You saw chipmunks.

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<v Speaker 4>They were everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, maybe they're about half the size of squirrels, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a little less than that.

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<v Speaker 2>They're so cute. I think there might be my new

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<v Speaker 2>favorite animal.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think there was one a chipmunk in our

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<v Speaker 3>kitchen one morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I will well, we did see some of our avocados

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<v Speaker 4>had a couple of nibbles, all of them, so we

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<v Speaker 4>do think there was a little something rumbing around a.

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<v Speaker 3>Little country grammar, running around our kitchen country.

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<v Speaker 4>So the last night, we're kind of packing up and uh,

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<v Speaker 4>Haley goes, oh no.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, no, no no, And I was like, what what is it?

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<v Speaker 4>And she's like, there's there's there's mice droppings in my suitcase.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like what.

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<v Speaker 4>And I go look and I see little like black

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<v Speaker 4>dots and I'm like, oh no. And in my mind,

0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:28.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I knew I heard something wrestling around. Like

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<v Speaker 4>one the first night, I was like, babe, she was

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<v Speaker 4>half asleep and I'm like, do you hear something's in

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<v Speaker 4>the cabin, like something's wrestling And she's like, no, you're

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<v Speaker 4>hearing outside. It's fine. So in my mind I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I knew it. I heard something. So she comes out

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<v Speaker 4>and tells Robbie and Tanya and they're both like no.

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<v Speaker 3>So then I'm panicking. I'm like, babe, get your suitcase

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<v Speaker 3>off the floor, like, let's put it up on something.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't want animals scurrying in your stuff. So Tania

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<v Speaker 3>takes yeah, send in the modern woman to investigate. Investigate. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I am brave. Thank you for saying that. I went

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<v Speaker 3>into that suitcase with a tissue paper, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>show me, you said droppings, Hayley. She points me over

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<v Speaker 3>and there's three droppings in the thing. I take my

0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.080
<v Speaker 3>little kleenex and I start moving it.

0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:17.679
<v Speaker 2>It's hardy.

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<v Speaker 3>A couple of nights, yeah, a couple of nights. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>this doesn't feel right. So I pick it up with

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<v Speaker 3>my kleenex and realize that they are rhinestones, three upside

0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:34.520
<v Speaker 3>down rhinestones in her suitcase. That made us all. We

0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:36.720
<v Speaker 3>were frantic, like, I was very uncomfortable for about an hour,

0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:38.680
<v Speaker 3>like mistake, mistake.

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<v Speaker 5>You see the tracker look at that investigating droppings.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I'm going to do this more often in

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<v Speaker 3>my life. Inspect her gadget. Yeah, somebody says something, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to be like, let me see it before I

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<v Speaker 3>believe it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really happy you took initiative because it really gave

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<v Speaker 4>me peace of mind to move forward with the night.

0:17:57.600 --> 0:17:57.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Me tood to like move forward and like going to

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<v Speaker 2>cabin again.

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<v Speaker 3>Me too.

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<v Speaker 4>If it was a chipmunk, I would have been like,

0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:06.159
<v Speaker 4>that's so cute where rat rat crosses them?

0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:08.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah right, yeah, right across the life.

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<v Speaker 6>Something Ben Higgins said about this venue. That made me

0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:14.520
<v Speaker 6>laugh was he was talking about how like he's like,

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<v Speaker 6>I've been to this place before. There's no cell signal.

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<v Speaker 6>It's beautiful, So you know it's going to happen. Everyone's

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<v Speaker 6>going to be present, just talking to each other and

0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:23.520
<v Speaker 6>no one's gonna be on their phones. It's gonna be

0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:25.399
<v Speaker 6>so nice. And actually it's like, so there's no Wi

0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:27.320
<v Speaker 6>Fi or anything, and he's like, no, there's Wi Fi,

0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:29.600
<v Speaker 6>but you know you have to like make a FaceTime

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<v Speaker 6>call instead of like a phone call. And she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>so it's like not different than normal, and he's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>it's yeah, I guess so.

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<v Speaker 3>Because the thing is that you only had Wi Fi

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<v Speaker 3>in like the main lodge. So like when we were

0:18:41.080 --> 0:18:43.640
<v Speaker 3>in our cabin, our phones were dead, like you could

0:18:43.720 --> 0:18:46.680
<v Speaker 3>make a call FaceTime. Yeah, Like you're like in dead

0:18:46.760 --> 0:18:48.920
<v Speaker 3>zone outside like the main so if you need to

0:18:48.960 --> 0:18:50.280
<v Speaker 3>like make a FaceTime or you want to like check

0:18:50.320 --> 0:18:51.919
<v Speaker 3>your emails and stuff, you had to walk to the

0:18:51.920 --> 0:18:52.720
<v Speaker 3>main cabin And.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, that's very cool.

0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:56.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was very shut off. Like I did feel

0:18:56.760 --> 0:18:57.840
<v Speaker 3>very detached this weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>I loved it, though, Like at first I was like, oh,

0:19:01.080 --> 0:19:02.639
<v Speaker 4>you know, I haven't done that in a while. But

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<v Speaker 4>I loved not looking at my phone before bed. I

0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:09.800
<v Speaker 4>loved like not waking up and immediately okurch.

0:19:09.240 --> 0:19:10.800
<v Speaker 3>My phone in the kitchen. Who am I?

0:19:11.640 --> 0:19:14.679
<v Speaker 4>It was just it was just so nice to not

0:19:14.840 --> 0:19:17.359
<v Speaker 4>even like someone said something about Instagram and I was like,

0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:19.359
<v Speaker 4>I haven't even looked. I haven't even even when I

0:19:19.359 --> 0:19:21.560
<v Speaker 4>was in the main lodge. I wasn't like checking or

0:19:21.600 --> 0:19:23.520
<v Speaker 4>posting or anything. It was just I loved it.

0:19:23.680 --> 0:19:23.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:19:24.240 --> 0:19:25.919
<v Speaker 2>Need I need to do that more often.

0:19:26.040 --> 0:19:28.160
<v Speaker 3>I need to do that more often too, I am.

0:19:28.280 --> 0:19:31.520
<v Speaker 3>I do spend a lot of time scrolling and U

0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:33.639
<v Speaker 3>did not do that this weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>Tanya also got a lesson on how to take photos,

0:19:36.960 --> 0:19:40.200
<v Speaker 4>which was much needed because she'll be like, beccha, will

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<v Speaker 4>you take a photo of me and Robbie And.

0:19:41.440 --> 0:19:45.080
<v Speaker 3>I give her just like options like like oreads shoots,

0:19:45.080 --> 0:19:49.120
<v Speaker 3>like I just get like these picturesque like cinematic videos.

0:19:49.480 --> 0:19:52.440
<v Speaker 4>And then I asked Tanya to take a photo of

0:19:52.480 --> 0:19:54.199
<v Speaker 4>me in Haley and I'm like, just snap it, like,

0:19:54.359 --> 0:19:56.320
<v Speaker 4>just can't take it fast. We're going to be moving,

0:19:56.400 --> 0:19:58.440
<v Speaker 4>something will be in their candid I get my phone back,

0:19:58.440 --> 0:20:05.240
<v Speaker 4>there's like seven photos my portrait mode, which I'm.

0:20:03.600 --> 0:20:05.439
<v Speaker 3>So proud of these photos. By the way, they're like

0:20:05.480 --> 0:20:08.320
<v Speaker 3>sitting on the cabin, I'm below them. I was like

0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:10.280
<v Speaker 3>like a like a wooden rod next to Haley, and

0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:12.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh, this is going to frame out so beautifully.

0:20:12.440 --> 0:20:14.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm in portrait mode. I'm like thinking, I'm doing such

0:20:14.840 --> 0:20:17.199
<v Speaker 3>a good job. And I had them back.

0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:22.800
<v Speaker 4>It was so bad that I was like I kind

0:20:22.800 --> 0:20:24.280
<v Speaker 4>of thought like was this a joke?

0:20:24.400 --> 0:20:26.040
<v Speaker 2>Like there was a little bit of me that was like, oh,

0:20:26.080 --> 0:20:27.159
<v Speaker 2>this is like kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I felt like the whole rest of the weekend,

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<v Speaker 3>I need to make it up to her. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was like following them everywhere taking photos.

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<v Speaker 2>Which I didn't ask for. I didn't one. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>looking for that at all.

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<v Speaker 4>So I go the next night for the wedding, I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to show you how to take like to

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<v Speaker 4>set it up so that you can get a good photo.

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<v Speaker 4>So I gave her a lesson and she crushed it

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<v Speaker 4>and thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. It was just like it was just some short

0:20:50.000 --> 0:20:52.040
<v Speaker 2>and sweet lessons that you need it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, I could. I'm I'm a sponge, Just

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<v Speaker 3>give me, give me give me the all of the advice.

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<v Speaker 4>Should we take a break and come back and talk

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<v Speaker 4>about mountain cheek attire? Yes, okay, we'll be here at that.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, we're back. So we talked a lot about

0:21:20.240 --> 0:21:22.960
<v Speaker 4>the attire being mountain cheek and what that meant, what

0:21:23.000 --> 0:21:25.920
<v Speaker 4>we were gonna wear. I felt like you really nailed it.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much. I feel like you really nailed

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<v Speaker 3>it as well. But mountain cheek is like the opposite

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<v Speaker 3>of I would say my style. I'm more like city grunge,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like city gow. Oh my god, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel like your city chic. That's hard to say city she.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd say city grunge gal, okay, So mountain she was

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<v Speaker 3>stress stressful for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I had bought my cowboy boots.

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<v Speaker 4>I was already and then I was like, I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like I need a hat, Like I felt upset that

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't have a hat. So luckily in the main

0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:09.639
<v Speaker 4>cabin they had like a little shop that had like

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<v Speaker 4>boots and a tire and they had like not a

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<v Speaker 4>tie clothes. I don't know if they could have a

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<v Speaker 4>tire in there, so I just wanted to clarify. But

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<v Speaker 4>they had hats, so I purchased a hat to wear,

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<v Speaker 4>which I don't know, me asking where you got that hat.

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<v Speaker 3>From the blewipeup.

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<v Speaker 2>No affiliate link for that one.

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<v Speaker 4>So then Haley's like, wait, do I need a hat?

0:22:35.520 --> 0:22:36.960
<v Speaker 4>And so we were talking about it. She's like, I

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<v Speaker 4>just don't know if I want to buy one. I'll

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<v Speaker 4>literally never wear a cowboy hat again. And Ben was like,

0:22:41.440 --> 0:22:43.720
<v Speaker 4>I brought hats in case anyone needed a hat.

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<v Speaker 2>I have hats.

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<v Speaker 4>So we walk over to the car and he gives

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<v Speaker 4>her a hat and it fits perfectly and goes with

0:22:49.440 --> 0:22:51.880
<v Speaker 4>their outfit and really just like completed her look.

0:22:52.000 --> 0:22:54.040
<v Speaker 2>So that was a really cute little moment.

0:22:54.119 --> 0:22:56.080
<v Speaker 3>But not all heroes wear capes.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they wear cowboy hats and cowboy boots. Yeah, Ben Higgins.

0:23:01.359 --> 0:23:02.000
<v Speaker 3>Ben Higgy.

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<v Speaker 4>But the star of the show obviously was Kaylin that night.

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<v Speaker 4>I I was like, I gasped when I saw her.

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<v Speaker 3>Her Every single outfit she wore was like crazy.

0:23:15.480 --> 0:23:16.280
<v Speaker 2>She I mean, yeah, she.

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<v Speaker 4>Could wear like a trash bag and bee stunning, but

0:23:18.200 --> 0:23:21.439
<v Speaker 4>this was like a silk dress, like white dress with

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<v Speaker 4>the white like cowboy hat.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that a cowboy hat?

0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:25.560
<v Speaker 2>I think so?

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<v Speaker 4>Like a cowboy like a western white hat. She looked

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<v Speaker 4>straight out of a magazine. Yeah, it was crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>The whole wedding felt like every single part of it

0:23:34.920 --> 0:23:36.960
<v Speaker 3>felt like it was straight out of a magazine. Yeah.

0:23:37.119 --> 0:23:39.679
<v Speaker 2>I loved how the chairs are facing the aisle.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've never seen that before.

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<v Speaker 2>It felt like a runways.

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<v Speaker 3>So interesting because I feel like now when I go

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<v Speaker 3>to weddings, I'm like looking at things and taking notes

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<v Speaker 3>of like, yeah, like I really like that that everybody's

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<v Speaker 3>like facing the aisle. I want to do that, you know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to have a tattoo artist at my wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So there was a tattoo artist at the reception, so.

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<v Speaker 4>You had to put your name on the list and

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<v Speaker 4>they had like pre it was like you chose from

0:24:03.760 --> 0:24:05.840
<v Speaker 4>a sheet, so you couldn't just like say, oh I

0:24:05.840 --> 0:24:10.160
<v Speaker 4>want this, and they do it. And I was about

0:24:10.200 --> 0:24:12.520
<v Speaker 4>to get it because they had a little spicy pepper

0:24:12.560 --> 0:24:14.600
<v Speaker 4>and I was like, oh, I could do a spicy margarita,

0:24:14.720 --> 0:24:16.840
<v Speaker 4>like I love a spicy margarita. Do a little tiny

0:24:16.840 --> 0:24:19.800
<v Speaker 4>little pepper. And they're like, yeah, you can't scale it.

0:24:19.800 --> 0:24:20.480
<v Speaker 4>It's the size.

0:24:20.480 --> 0:24:22.520
<v Speaker 2>And it was like this, it was this big giant.

0:24:22.800 --> 0:24:24.840
<v Speaker 4>It was a huge and I was like, I don't

0:24:24.840 --> 0:24:26.240
<v Speaker 4>even know where I could put that.

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<v Speaker 2>Where wouldn't it be like why did I do that?

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<v Speaker 2>Like regret central?

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<v Speaker 4>And then I was like, maybe I'll get a little mounting.

0:24:34.800 --> 0:24:37.440
<v Speaker 4>They had a little mountain like outline, which was really

0:24:37.480 --> 0:24:39.280
<v Speaker 4>cute and small. I think Kalin got it, and I

0:24:39.280 --> 0:24:40.560
<v Speaker 4>was like, I could do that because that would be

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<v Speaker 4>a great memory of the weekend.

0:24:42.320 --> 0:24:44.080
<v Speaker 2>But the line was so long at that point that

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<v Speaker 2>I was like.

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<v Speaker 3>It's okay, so long, like the amount of people that

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<v Speaker 3>got tattoos, it's so cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Though, Like I kind of woke up going, dang, did

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<v Speaker 4>I make a mistake not doing it for the weekend,

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<v Speaker 4>But it's okay, I don't have any.

0:24:57.240 --> 0:24:58.880
<v Speaker 3>So I was like I don't have any either.

0:24:58.960 --> 0:25:01.320
<v Speaker 2>You know. I think if I had already had tattoos,

0:25:01.320 --> 0:25:02.359
<v Speaker 2>it would have been a no brainer.

0:25:02.600 --> 0:25:05.480
<v Speaker 3>I would have like got a dot, oh, just the dots,

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<v Speaker 3>like break myself in you're Phoebe.

0:25:07.440 --> 0:25:10.800
<v Speaker 2>You're literally Phoebe from brind Yeah yeah, yeah.

0:25:10.320 --> 0:25:16.639
<v Speaker 3>This is the earth for a three million yeah yeah.

0:25:16.880 --> 0:25:17.480
<v Speaker 2>But yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just I left being like this is if

0:25:21.520 --> 0:25:24.240
<v Speaker 4>if if or when Haley and I get married, Like

0:25:24.280 --> 0:25:25.080
<v Speaker 4>I would love.

0:25:24.920 --> 0:25:25.840
<v Speaker 2>To do something like that.

0:25:26.400 --> 0:25:26.840
<v Speaker 3>Everyone.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was so fun. I just loved the like togetherness.

0:25:31.600 --> 0:25:34.600
<v Speaker 4>I loved that everyone was on the property, everyone ate together.

0:25:34.840 --> 0:25:35.199
<v Speaker 2>Everyone.

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:38.280
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was just everyone sat around and like but

0:25:38.440 --> 0:25:39.280
<v Speaker 4>did their own things.

0:25:39.320 --> 0:25:40.879
<v Speaker 2>Still, it was just perfect.

0:25:41.160 --> 0:25:44.239
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I agree. I loved the vibe they created, just

0:25:44.240 --> 0:25:48.760
<v Speaker 3>such a great vibe, a great weekend. We're amazing hosts

0:25:49.040 --> 0:25:52.160
<v Speaker 3>and couldn't be happier for them. Yeah, couldn't be happier

0:25:52.160 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 3>for them. It was really really fun.

0:25:55.119 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 4>Some big things happen though, while we were out of

0:25:57.359 --> 0:26:00.440
<v Speaker 4>touch with pop culture and well.

0:26:00.400 --> 0:26:03.840
<v Speaker 3>We were like borderline coming back into touch when it

0:26:03.880 --> 0:26:06.720
<v Speaker 3>all went down. Because I remember Robbie was watching his

0:26:06.800 --> 0:26:10.679
<v Speaker 3>fantasy football stuff and I'm seeing all this like Taylor

0:26:10.720 --> 0:26:13.600
<v Speaker 3>Swift stuff in his feed, and that's when I saw

0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:14.000
<v Speaker 3>the news.

0:26:14.560 --> 0:26:16.040
<v Speaker 2>That's when you heard the news. That's when I heard

0:26:16.080 --> 0:26:17.480
<v Speaker 2>Taylor Swift at the Chiefs game.

0:26:17.600 --> 0:26:17.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>What are your thoughts on this? I don't think it's real.

0:26:22.440 --> 0:26:24.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh you think they're just like going along with it.

0:26:24.640 --> 0:26:27.200
<v Speaker 3>I think they're maybe dating, But I don't think it's

0:26:27.320 --> 0:26:30.760
<v Speaker 3>like because she it was with Joe for six years,

0:26:30.800 --> 0:26:33.080
<v Speaker 3>and that girl likes to hide. She does not like

0:26:33.119 --> 0:26:35.960
<v Speaker 3>her romantic life to be public. And I think the

0:26:36.000 --> 0:26:38.199
<v Speaker 3>fact that these last couple guys have been public have

0:26:38.359 --> 0:26:39.560
<v Speaker 3>shown that it's just like.

0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:43.000
<v Speaker 2>But they're dating, you think, just as casual.

0:26:43.480 --> 0:26:44.879
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, if they're even dating.

0:26:45.080 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know. A. Tony's very down on this

0:26:47.359 --> 0:26:49.360
<v Speaker 1>whole thing. She's very poop pooing the.

0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:52.000
<v Speaker 3>Whole pooing it. I just don't think that everybody thinks

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:54.160
<v Speaker 3>that they're like boyfriend girlfriend. I just don't think it's

0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:54.800
<v Speaker 3>that far down.

0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:57.879
<v Speaker 1>Maybe not, But I say, yesterday was a hard launch.

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<v Speaker 3>Really I do, do you not?

0:27:01.520 --> 0:27:03.919
<v Speaker 4>I like you said, everything she does is private, so like,

0:27:05.160 --> 0:27:08.080
<v Speaker 4>regardless of what it means or what if it's just

0:27:08.240 --> 0:27:11.560
<v Speaker 4>casual or whatever, she wanted everyone to know she was

0:27:11.600 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 4>there exactly.

0:27:13.400 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't disagree.

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:16.640
<v Speaker 1>Why why if not they're sitting next to his mom

0:27:16.720 --> 0:27:19.320
<v Speaker 1>watching him play football. Why what's the motivation if not

0:27:19.359 --> 0:27:21.160
<v Speaker 1>a hard launch of the world that this is a thing,

0:27:21.200 --> 0:27:24.080
<v Speaker 1>because the logistics of Taylor Swift attending a football game

0:27:24.359 --> 0:27:25.400
<v Speaker 1>are not just a whim.

0:27:25.520 --> 0:27:27.600
<v Speaker 3>But that's the same thing with Matty Healy too. Like

0:27:27.640 --> 0:27:30.679
<v Speaker 3>that was very public. We all saw photos, paparazzi shots,

0:27:31.040 --> 0:27:33.119
<v Speaker 3>and that girl when she wants to hide, like she

0:27:33.320 --> 0:27:35.639
<v Speaker 3>knows how to hide, so it's like she wants to

0:27:35.640 --> 0:27:38.600
<v Speaker 3>be seen. I don't know what that wanted.

0:27:38.760 --> 0:27:39.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's the motivation?

0:27:40.080 --> 0:27:41.240
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, but I think it's not.

0:27:41.440 --> 0:27:43.199
<v Speaker 4>Do you see the video of him like looking up

0:27:43.200 --> 0:27:45.879
<v Speaker 4>and seeing her though, and he's like gets this like

0:27:46.359 --> 0:27:47.960
<v Speaker 4>big smile and he's so.

0:27:47.920 --> 0:27:49.800
<v Speaker 1>Cute and sweet. I'm so down too.

0:27:50.040 --> 0:27:52.639
<v Speaker 4>But I can't tell what I think about him, Like

0:27:52.680 --> 0:27:59.040
<v Speaker 4>sometimes I find him to be just kind of like obnoxious,

0:27:59.080 --> 0:28:01.240
<v Speaker 4>Like I don't know, there's something about him that I

0:28:01.680 --> 0:28:03.840
<v Speaker 4>just he's very arrogant and cocky.

0:28:03.880 --> 0:28:06.480
<v Speaker 2>But I think that's the way people like him.

0:28:06.200 --> 0:28:06.399
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:28:06.680 --> 0:28:09.200
<v Speaker 1>I think it's an endearing arrogant and cocky for some reason.

0:28:09.200 --> 0:28:09.600
<v Speaker 3>To me. It is.

0:28:09.640 --> 0:28:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Anyway, when he hosted Saturday Night Live, which not a

0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:12.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of athletes can pull off.

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:14.560
<v Speaker 2>That Saturday Night, he was great.

0:28:15.720 --> 0:28:19.080
<v Speaker 4>And I think he's like swaggy. I think he has

0:28:19.160 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 4>like this or about him that people are drawn to.

0:28:21.119 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 3>He's he's like thinks he's cool.

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:24.800
<v Speaker 4>He knows well he is cool. I think he knows

0:28:24.840 --> 0:28:27.520
<v Speaker 4>he's cool, and so you can feel that. And I

0:28:27.560 --> 0:28:32.000
<v Speaker 4>think that in a way, Taylor Swift is also an

0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:35.159
<v Speaker 4>athlete in her own right. If you've seen the aerostore

0:28:36.000 --> 0:28:40.800
<v Speaker 4>and there's a quiet confidence that she has about her,

0:28:40.880 --> 0:28:44.920
<v Speaker 4>So I think that the power of them works. It's

0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:48.440
<v Speaker 4>just so random to me that I'm like, I don't

0:28:48.480 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 4>know if it's like what the longevity of it is,

0:28:52.080 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 4>but it's fun.

0:28:52.760 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 3>Athletes understand her life more than other people would.

0:28:56.760 --> 0:28:57.680
<v Speaker 1>I think that's great.

0:28:57.880 --> 0:28:58.080
<v Speaker 4>Great.

0:28:58.640 --> 0:29:00.800
<v Speaker 3>I think the way the athletes have to train and

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:02.880
<v Speaker 3>they have to live their lives is probably very similar

0:29:02.880 --> 0:29:04.600
<v Speaker 3>to the way that Taylor has to like train for

0:29:04.640 --> 0:29:06.360
<v Speaker 3>her tour and like live her life on tour.

0:29:06.400 --> 0:29:08.840
<v Speaker 1>In life during a sports season are very similar.

0:29:09.040 --> 0:29:11.040
<v Speaker 5>Ruined venues.

0:29:12.080 --> 0:29:15.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, Like it just feels very parallel.

0:29:15.280 --> 0:29:18.240
<v Speaker 2>Although I am really ready for the songs about him,

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:19.120
<v Speaker 2>whatever they will be.

0:29:19.840 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 1>But don't you think he could be as simple as

0:29:21.440 --> 0:29:23.800
<v Speaker 1>he shut he shot his shot, you know, he joked

0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:26.200
<v Speaker 1>about putting his phone number on the bracelet when she

0:29:26.280 --> 0:29:27.920
<v Speaker 1>was in Kansas City. Didn't get to meet her, but

0:29:27.960 --> 0:29:29.960
<v Speaker 1>that got a lot of press, And couldn't you have

0:29:30.040 --> 0:29:32.280
<v Speaker 1>just been like, hmm, I looked into this guy a

0:29:32.320 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 1>little bit, thought he was handsome, enjoyed his vibe, watched

0:29:36.080 --> 0:29:38.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't know his SNL or his commercials or whatever,

0:29:38.400 --> 0:29:39.480
<v Speaker 1>and thought that's.

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:41.040
<v Speaker 3>Interesting, Yeah, which is what I think she's doing.

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Reached out, Yeah, went out a few times, and he's like,

0:29:44.000 --> 0:29:45.440
<v Speaker 1>you got to come and see you for football. So

0:29:45.440 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>he said, Okay, I will.

0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 3>That's what's happening.

0:29:47.400 --> 0:29:48.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that's a relationship.

0:29:49.000 --> 0:29:49.560
<v Speaker 2>Allegedly.

0:29:50.960 --> 0:29:54.520
<v Speaker 4>I read somewhere that she shut down a whole restaurant.

0:29:54.000 --> 0:29:56.560
<v Speaker 2>So that they could Are you sure I read she did?

0:29:57.280 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 3>I read he did well.

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:00.160
<v Speaker 4>Either way, they shut down a whole rush on to

0:30:00.200 --> 0:30:03.280
<v Speaker 4>go have like a dinner yeah after the game or something.

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:05.480
<v Speaker 3>Though I did. I was like watching I mean the content.

0:30:05.520 --> 0:30:08.320
<v Speaker 3>I couldn't get enough so good. I was watching the

0:30:08.560 --> 0:30:10.400
<v Speaker 3>There's like a photo of her in the suite and

0:30:10.440 --> 0:30:12.440
<v Speaker 3>there's like a plate next to her and has like

0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:15.960
<v Speaker 3>a piece of chicken and ketchup and ranch ranch, yeah,

0:30:16.000 --> 0:30:19.160
<v Speaker 3>seemingly ranch. And like everybody's like, ah, she's so relatable.

0:30:19.280 --> 0:30:22.280
<v Speaker 3>She's just like chicken, ranch and ketchup. I'm like, oh

0:30:22.360 --> 0:30:23.760
<v Speaker 3>my gosh, it's too good.

0:30:24.200 --> 0:30:24.800
<v Speaker 2>It's good.

0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:28.000
<v Speaker 4>It's great for the NFL, it's great for tailors.

0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:30.720
<v Speaker 3>Like everything makes me happy. If like she's involved with

0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:33.560
<v Speaker 3>like football stuff on Sundays, that just makes my Sunday's

0:30:33.600 --> 0:30:37.400
<v Speaker 3>least annoying having to like watch like my fake fantasy

0:30:37.400 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 3>team and Robbie's fantasy team.

0:30:39.000 --> 0:30:41.960
<v Speaker 4>Has there ever been a more powerful person that has

0:30:41.960 --> 0:30:44.440
<v Speaker 4>the influence that she has, like genuinely like, has there

0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:48.360
<v Speaker 4>ever been someone that has this hold on people?

0:30:48.960 --> 0:30:49.600
<v Speaker 5>The Beatles?

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but the Beatles were I mean, yes, there are

0:30:52.520 --> 0:30:54.920
<v Speaker 1>people that were as popular as she is, but they

0:30:54.920 --> 0:30:57.920
<v Speaker 1>didn't they weren't in this era of constant twenty four

0:30:57.960 --> 0:31:02.959
<v Speaker 1>to seven social media and news coverage. Like that convergence

0:31:03.040 --> 0:31:06.480
<v Speaker 1>is interesting. It's kind of like what if Michael Jackson existed? Now, Yeah,

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 1>what wouldn't be like, well, it'd be a lot like this.

0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:11.440
<v Speaker 5>I think I saw a really great tweet about Kelsey.

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:13.040
<v Speaker 6>There was a picture of him just like staring into

0:31:13.040 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 6>the camera as he walks by with Taylor and says,

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:17.040
<v Speaker 6>this is a man who knows he's in too deep

0:31:17.080 --> 0:31:19.960
<v Speaker 6>and sees potential embarrassment around every corner. Millions of women

0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:21.600
<v Speaker 6>are waiting to hate you, and your own fans are

0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:24.320
<v Speaker 6>gonna call your situationship a distraction. But if he backs out,

0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:24.959
<v Speaker 6>he's a coward.

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:28.120
<v Speaker 5>He can't win. It's fascinating, Oh my god, so true.

0:31:28.960 --> 0:31:32.720
<v Speaker 3>I also saw somebody post this that it was during

0:31:32.760 --> 0:31:37.600
<v Speaker 3>Taylor's Red tour, like Red and a fan brought like

0:31:37.680 --> 0:31:43.120
<v Speaker 3>a Kelsey jersey to their meet and greet, So she's

0:31:43.120 --> 0:31:45.040
<v Speaker 3>like holding it up and this is during her Red.

0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:47.320
<v Speaker 5>Invisible string.

0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:50.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was like an invisible string now like tying

0:31:50.440 --> 0:31:52.959
<v Speaker 3>them back together after however many what is this? When

0:31:53.120 --> 0:31:54.680
<v Speaker 3>was the Red album come out forever.

0:31:54.400 --> 0:31:56.120
<v Speaker 5>Ago twenty twelve or something.

0:31:56.200 --> 0:31:57.280
<v Speaker 3>She's holding up his jersey.

0:31:58.040 --> 0:31:59.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, that is so cool.

0:32:00.000 --> 0:32:06.320
<v Speaker 3>Are you all along? There was some shaky invisible stream

0:32:06.760 --> 0:32:07.480
<v Speaker 3>tying you to.

0:32:07.520 --> 0:32:11.080
<v Speaker 2>Me so much?

0:32:11.240 --> 0:32:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Do we agree on this or we don't agree on this?

0:32:13.200 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying this is a budding relationship. They've been

0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:19.160
<v Speaker 1>out a handful of times, they've spent the night together

0:32:19.200 --> 0:32:21.320
<v Speaker 1>a few times, and this is just what we saw

0:32:21.440 --> 0:32:24.920
<v Speaker 1>yesterday was an escalation where she spends the day with

0:32:24.960 --> 0:32:27.880
<v Speaker 1>his mom watches them play football. Maybe we'll see him

0:32:28.360 --> 0:32:32.000
<v Speaker 1>with Taylor's mom at a concert in Belgium in the spring.

0:32:32.040 --> 0:32:33.880
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, It's all heading in this direction.

0:32:34.040 --> 0:32:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh you're saying this is not what's happening.

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:38.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's what's happening.

0:32:38.040 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 1>Do you think this is some sort of publicity stunt.

0:32:39.880 --> 0:32:41.520
<v Speaker 3>No, I don't think it's a publicity. I do think

0:32:41.520 --> 0:32:43.440
<v Speaker 3>that they're dating or have gone on a date. I

0:32:43.520 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 3>just don't think it's anything serious.

0:32:45.680 --> 0:32:46.560
<v Speaker 2>This is what I think.

0:32:47.360 --> 0:32:51.480
<v Speaker 4>I think Travis Kelsey is different than a Matt Healey

0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:54.240
<v Speaker 4>in the sense that he's going to pursue her and

0:32:54.320 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 4>he's going to put in the effort of like trying

0:32:56.840 --> 0:32:57.240
<v Speaker 4>to like.

0:32:59.080 --> 0:33:01.560
<v Speaker 2>Make the relationship work as long as she's in it.

0:33:02.080 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 4>I see that him doing that, and I also have

0:33:04.920 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 4>a vision of both of their moms hanging out.

0:33:08.040 --> 0:33:10.200
<v Speaker 2>They both seem very like sweet and warm.

0:33:10.400 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they do. They do seem sweet and warm. Only

0:33:12.760 --> 0:33:13.520
<v Speaker 3>time will tell.

0:33:13.440 --> 0:33:15.680
<v Speaker 4>Only time to tell. But it's fun. I will say

0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:19.560
<v Speaker 4>it is exciting. And the weekends.

0:33:20.120 --> 0:33:20.280
<v Speaker 6>Her.

0:33:21.080 --> 0:33:22.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's just.

0:33:24.760 --> 0:33:28.320
<v Speaker 4>Something really funny that happened was that Robbie posted a

0:33:28.320 --> 0:33:29.760
<v Speaker 4>photo of the two of you and said, like, what

0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 4>would our country music group be? And Easton said little

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 4>big tongue. And I just thought that was one of

0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:37.160
<v Speaker 4>the funniest.

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:39.360
<v Speaker 6>I submitted a lot of ideas, that was the one

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 6>that made the story.

0:33:41.400 --> 0:33:43.360
<v Speaker 5>It's a great photo.

0:33:43.960 --> 0:33:45.840
<v Speaker 3>It's a great photo, thanks guys.

0:33:47.160 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 4>So, yeah, that was a little bit of the weekend.

0:33:49.480 --> 0:33:53.240
<v Speaker 4>It was wonderful. Taylor Swift and Travis were happy for

0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:53.960
<v Speaker 4>you whatever it is.

0:33:54.040 --> 0:33:57.080
<v Speaker 2>And do we miss anything?

0:33:57.840 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I do feel like we missed a lot. Oh,

0:34:00.160 --> 0:34:01.920
<v Speaker 3>but it's okay.

0:34:02.040 --> 0:34:02.600
<v Speaker 2>Do you have it?

0:34:03.360 --> 0:34:05.360
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm trying to look back at photos. I feel

0:34:05.360 --> 0:34:07.880
<v Speaker 3>like I was very drunk a lot of the weekend.

0:34:08.400 --> 0:34:10.640
<v Speaker 3>So it's going to come back to me in spurts.

0:34:11.120 --> 0:34:15.919
<v Speaker 2>Okay, not great for the podcast, but right, So.

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:18.440
<v Speaker 1>This week we'll do twenty mini podcasts as they come

0:34:18.480 --> 0:34:18.719
<v Speaker 1>back to.

0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:21.279
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, exactly, so if one comes up, you can just

0:34:21.280 --> 0:34:22.919
<v Speaker 4>write it down and be like, oh I thought about

0:34:22.960 --> 0:34:23.200
<v Speaker 4>this and.

0:34:23.239 --> 0:34:24.880
<v Speaker 3>Next actually started doing that now.

0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:27.080
<v Speaker 2>Okay, good, Yeah, but not for this episode.

0:34:27.200 --> 0:34:30.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the turnaround from last night's Yeah, it was very stressed.

0:34:30.840 --> 0:34:32.359
<v Speaker 3>I was trying to get my training reports to Mark

0:34:32.400 --> 0:34:35.160
<v Speaker 3>on time. Our flights were delayed and so I was

0:34:35.239 --> 0:34:37.759
<v Speaker 3>like I had to pick up Sonny. There's like a lot, yeah,

0:34:37.880 --> 0:34:38.480
<v Speaker 3>lot going on.

0:34:38.560 --> 0:34:42.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm with you. I'm in recovery today. Yeah.

0:34:42.480 --> 0:34:44.600
<v Speaker 4>Well, we are going to take a break and we'll

0:34:44.600 --> 0:34:46.440
<v Speaker 4>be back with emails. So maybe something will come to

0:34:46.440 --> 0:35:04.920
<v Speaker 4>you during the break. All right, we are back. What

0:35:05.280 --> 0:35:05.840
<v Speaker 4>were you saying?

0:35:06.360 --> 0:35:09.560
<v Speaker 3>There's something about Robbie and Haley bonding that like really

0:35:09.600 --> 0:35:13.799
<v Speaker 3>does something to my heart, Like it really melts me.

0:35:14.080 --> 0:35:15.160
<v Speaker 2>It's really cute.

0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:16.200
<v Speaker 3>It's really cute.

0:35:16.280 --> 0:35:17.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know what they talked about.

0:35:17.680 --> 0:35:19.880
<v Speaker 4>They talked about something at dinner, but they both I

0:35:19.920 --> 0:35:22.000
<v Speaker 4>don't know what he told you, but she was like, yeah,

0:35:22.160 --> 0:35:25.759
<v Speaker 4>Robbie made me really emotional at dinner, and I was like, what,

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:29.759
<v Speaker 4>like what about And I think he just like gave

0:35:29.760 --> 0:35:32.680
<v Speaker 4>her some like really encouraging words and like it was

0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:35.959
<v Speaker 4>just I think there's something about.

0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:36.680
<v Speaker 2>Someone who's.

0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:40.359
<v Speaker 4>I don't think they're as different as as like they

0:35:40.400 --> 0:35:42.480
<v Speaker 4>seem like they would be, because I think he is

0:35:42.560 --> 0:35:45.359
<v Speaker 4>like very passionate about art and has like a very

0:35:45.360 --> 0:35:50.080
<v Speaker 4>similar personality and drive in certain ways. And I think

0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:53.480
<v Speaker 4>there's something about someone who's so different and him being

0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:55.879
<v Speaker 4>a man and like being very much in like a.

0:35:55.920 --> 0:35:57.320
<v Speaker 2>Very hetero world.

0:35:57.480 --> 0:36:00.319
<v Speaker 4>Like the way he thinks of her and speaks her

0:36:00.400 --> 0:36:03.759
<v Speaker 4>is like really beautiful and like it's very sweet, you know,

0:36:03.840 --> 0:36:06.040
<v Speaker 4>because it's like I don't know if in any other

0:36:06.239 --> 0:36:09.960
<v Speaker 4>world he and Haley would have met or like hung out,

0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:10.319
<v Speaker 4>you know.

0:36:10.520 --> 0:36:12.000
<v Speaker 2>So I think that's one of those things.

0:36:11.760 --> 0:36:16.280
<v Speaker 4>That's just like really cool to watch as obviously their partners.

0:36:16.080 --> 0:36:17.320
<v Speaker 2>It's really sweet.

0:36:17.440 --> 0:36:18.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it is really sweet.

0:36:19.680 --> 0:36:21.680
<v Speaker 2>Okay, we are going to get to emails.

0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:24.560
<v Speaker 1>Mark take it away, all right, Becka, thank you very much.

0:36:24.640 --> 0:36:26.880
<v Speaker 1>This is from anonymous. So my fiance comes from a

0:36:26.880 --> 0:36:30.800
<v Speaker 1>country where weddings are not very culturally significant. It's common

0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:33.680
<v Speaker 1>for people to live together with the intention of staying

0:36:33.680 --> 0:36:36.680
<v Speaker 1>together forever pretty much and having children together without ever

0:36:36.719 --> 0:36:38.520
<v Speaker 1>getting married. I'm not sure what country that would be.

0:36:38.520 --> 0:36:41.120
<v Speaker 1>I've never heard of such a place. Therefore, the whole

0:36:41.120 --> 0:36:43.560
<v Speaker 1>concept of a wedding ceremony and its traditions don't hold

0:36:43.640 --> 0:36:45.360
<v Speaker 1>much weight in his eyes, and he finds many of

0:36:45.360 --> 0:36:47.799
<v Speaker 1>the traditions over the expensive and on of his necessary.

0:36:48.480 --> 0:36:50.640
<v Speaker 1>He also thinks engagement rings are too expensive for what

0:36:50.719 --> 0:36:52.920
<v Speaker 1>they are, but it's still willing to exchange rings if

0:36:52.960 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 1>they're reasonably priced. I settled for a gold band, but

0:36:55.960 --> 0:36:57.640
<v Speaker 1>he said it was too basic. So I found to

0:36:57.680 --> 0:36:59.840
<v Speaker 1>ring that were more interesting, but he said they're too expensive.

0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:03.440
<v Speaker 1>I found cheaper alternatives in sterling silver that have pretty designs,

0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:06.319
<v Speaker 1>but I prefer gold over silver, but getting solid gold

0:37:06.320 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 1>is more expensive than sterling silver. Should I stop being

0:37:09.000 --> 0:37:11.560
<v Speaker 1>picky and settled for silver? Should I go with gold plating,

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:14.279
<v Speaker 1>even though it will eventually fade. Sometimes I feel like

0:37:14.320 --> 0:37:16.720
<v Speaker 1>he only thinks about his way and what he thinks

0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:19.520
<v Speaker 1>is correct. But it may also be that I'm being

0:37:19.520 --> 0:37:22.760
<v Speaker 1>too picky curious to hear your thoughts in this situation.

0:37:24.360 --> 0:37:25.680
<v Speaker 1>This is a new one for us.

0:37:26.080 --> 0:37:31.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think that the last question of like.

0:37:33.920 --> 0:37:37.880
<v Speaker 4>Should Sometimes I feel like it's only his way or

0:37:37.880 --> 0:37:40.400
<v Speaker 4>he only thinks about his way or what he thinks

0:37:40.480 --> 0:37:41.080
<v Speaker 4>is correct.

0:37:42.120 --> 0:37:43.760
<v Speaker 2>That's a very that's a very.

0:37:43.560 --> 0:37:47.720
<v Speaker 4>Telling sentence, because that seems like this isn't the first

0:37:47.719 --> 0:37:50.160
<v Speaker 4>time where she hasn't felt like herd or it's just

0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:54.879
<v Speaker 4>been his what he thinks. I think wanting a ring

0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:58.279
<v Speaker 4>that you're going to wear forever, in wanting it to

0:37:58.320 --> 0:38:00.480
<v Speaker 4>be something that you love and that is going to

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:05.359
<v Speaker 4>fade or tarnish, is a very valid thing. I think

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:09.640
<v Speaker 4>there's a way that you can like the fact that

0:38:09.680 --> 0:38:11.759
<v Speaker 4>she settled for a gold band, but then he thinks

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:14.600
<v Speaker 4>it's too basic, But then she found something else that

0:38:14.640 --> 0:38:14.920
<v Speaker 4>she liked.

0:38:15.000 --> 0:38:21.800
<v Speaker 3>Me too, That whole paragraph made me so uncomfortable, because, Okay,

0:38:22.040 --> 0:38:27.799
<v Speaker 3>I understand somebody like you know, weddings and traditions and

0:38:27.840 --> 0:38:29.920
<v Speaker 3>stuff like, if you're not raised in that and not

0:38:30.040 --> 0:38:32.880
<v Speaker 3>carrying so much weight. But if it means something to

0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:37.840
<v Speaker 3>your partner, then that's important. And I just feel like

0:38:38.239 --> 0:38:42.480
<v Speaker 3>he's just kind of doing it to just like appease you,

0:38:42.560 --> 0:38:44.360
<v Speaker 3>but not really. It's like kind of half assing it

0:38:44.400 --> 0:38:44.799
<v Speaker 3>in a way.

0:38:47.239 --> 0:38:47.479
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:38:47.520 --> 0:38:52.759
<v Speaker 4>I think that your expectations and what you want like

0:38:52.800 --> 0:38:55.160
<v Speaker 4>this is just because it wasn't something he grew up

0:38:55.160 --> 0:38:57.400
<v Speaker 4>in his culture. You did, and that's okay for you

0:38:57.520 --> 0:38:59.400
<v Speaker 4>to want those things. And I think that there's a

0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:02.040
<v Speaker 4>middle grad where it's like, hey, I know I can't

0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 4>have my dream ring right now, but this is like

0:39:05.000 --> 0:39:09.120
<v Speaker 4>what I like, or or looking for options that maybe.

0:39:10.760 --> 0:39:11.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:39:11.239 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 4>I think that you being you settling for something and

0:39:14.760 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 4>then him saying no to that is just a.

0:39:18.760 --> 0:39:20.239
<v Speaker 2>Weird I don't know.

0:39:20.320 --> 0:39:22.239
<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna say manipulation because I don't know if

0:39:22.239 --> 0:39:23.800
<v Speaker 4>it's that, but it's like, you.

0:39:23.640 --> 0:39:25.680
<v Speaker 2>Can't win, right, it's not a partnership.

0:39:25.800 --> 0:39:28.279
<v Speaker 4>You want a gold band and he says no, until

0:39:28.280 --> 0:39:30.720
<v Speaker 4>you pick out something else and he says no, Yeah,

0:39:30.760 --> 0:39:32.799
<v Speaker 4>so what do you do you can't win?

0:39:32.960 --> 0:39:36.840
<v Speaker 1>You say bye, there's a compromise, I think, yeah, right,

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:41.800
<v Speaker 1>Like it's two separate arguments here spending fifty grand on

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:44.359
<v Speaker 1>a wedding or something. I understand the argument that it's

0:39:44.440 --> 0:39:46.680
<v Speaker 1>ludicrous to spend that kind of money on one night.

0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:49.719
<v Speaker 1>It's silly, we should do something small er whatever. I

0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:52.200
<v Speaker 1>think that's fine. If you're buying something you're going to

0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:53.600
<v Speaker 1>have for the rest of your life, you can drop

0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:55.239
<v Speaker 1>a couple of bucks on it, right. I mean you're

0:39:55.239 --> 0:39:56.840
<v Speaker 1>literally going to have I've had this ring on my

0:39:56.880 --> 0:39:59.560
<v Speaker 1>finger for twenty one years now. You know, like this

0:39:59.680 --> 0:40:00.920
<v Speaker 1>is something and that's going to be part of your

0:40:00.920 --> 0:40:04.320
<v Speaker 1>life and part of your hand forever. I think you

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:05.839
<v Speaker 1>got to spend some money on that, and I think

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:07.560
<v Speaker 1>that's fine. I think he needs to understand that. And

0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:10.160
<v Speaker 1>then I think that the trade off is, let's cut

0:40:10.200 --> 0:40:12.040
<v Speaker 1>costs where we can for the wedding and make it

0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:14.040
<v Speaker 1>more of a simple affair, since that's not a major

0:40:14.080 --> 0:40:16.279
<v Speaker 1>part of his culture. If that's cool with you too,

0:40:16.320 --> 0:40:18.360
<v Speaker 1>and if that's a deal breaker for you too, there's

0:40:18.400 --> 0:40:20.439
<v Speaker 1>always got to be compromised. But yes, it does sound

0:40:20.440 --> 0:40:21.440
<v Speaker 1>like his way or the highway.

0:40:21.800 --> 0:40:24.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it sounds like it doesn't even sound like they're

0:40:24.360 --> 0:40:27.120
<v Speaker 2>doing doing a wedding, right.

0:40:27.280 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 4>No, So if he's not willing to meet you and

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:34.000
<v Speaker 4>plan a wet and plan a wedding with you. Then

0:40:34.680 --> 0:40:37.080
<v Speaker 4>he can at least buy you a ring that you love.

0:40:38.440 --> 0:40:41.560
<v Speaker 4>And I agree there is compromise because you don't want

0:40:41.640 --> 0:40:43.759
<v Speaker 4>him to go into debt because he can't afford your ring.

0:40:43.880 --> 0:40:46.120
<v Speaker 4>But I think there's a way of doing something that

0:40:46.560 --> 0:40:48.399
<v Speaker 4>you get what you want and that he.

0:40:50.560 --> 0:40:52.759
<v Speaker 2>Can meet you at I don't know. I don't like it.

0:40:52.840 --> 0:40:53.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't like it.

0:40:53.640 --> 0:40:54.200
<v Speaker 1>It's not great.

0:40:54.239 --> 0:40:55.959
<v Speaker 3>It's robbing me a really wrong way.

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:57.839
<v Speaker 1>But it's far farbi it from us to say don't

0:40:57.880 --> 0:41:01.200
<v Speaker 1>marry this person who is clearly love of your life.

0:41:01.520 --> 0:41:01.719
<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you're being too picky, is all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that he I do think there's a

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<v Speaker 4>conversation of saying, hey, I really I understand where you're

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<v Speaker 4>coming from on the cost of things, and I want

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<v Speaker 4>to be able to meet you in the middle, but

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<v Speaker 4>I need you to also meet me in the middle,

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<v Speaker 4>because we're two people trying to make this work, not

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<v Speaker 4>one person.

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<v Speaker 1>Well put yeah, so much And a one sentence question

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<v Speaker 1>from Katie, what is your number one golden bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship advice you wish you knew sooner? This is

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<v Speaker 1>good because now you both are kind of on the

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<v Speaker 1>other side of this. You've been through it, you're engaged,

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<v Speaker 1>you are deeply committed long term relationships. What is the

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<v Speaker 1>relationship advice you wish you had been told when you

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<v Speaker 1>were younger?

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<v Speaker 3>So much I don't even know, I know where do

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<v Speaker 3>I start? And I think I wish that I am engaged,

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<v Speaker 3>engaged to a man that is very securely attached, so

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<v Speaker 3>therefore he handles arguments very differently than I do. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>anxiously attached. So when we would get into arguments and

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<v Speaker 3>he would want like space, you know, he just want

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<v Speaker 3>to like sleep on it and talk about it tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 3>I would spiral, like I would think everything was the

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<v Speaker 3>end of the relationship, because that's just how an anxious

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<v Speaker 3>attached person kind of lives their life. And I lost

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of sleep over some of these arguments and things.

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<v Speaker 3>So I wish that. I guess my best piece of

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<v Speaker 3>advice would be to learn so much about your partner

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<v Speaker 3>and how they handle situations, and like, is this making

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<v Speaker 3>andy sense? Okay? Learn your partner and like how they

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<v Speaker 3>handle situations and adapt to that, because I wish that

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<v Speaker 3>now whenever we have disagreements we do, we step away

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<v Speaker 3>from it. We both step away from it for a minute.

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<v Speaker 3>We just like watch TV and then like talk about

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<v Speaker 3>the next day, and we're so much clearer headed and

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<v Speaker 3>come to a compromise a lot quicker. And I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like in the beginning of our relationship was met with

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<v Speaker 3>like a lot of anxiety and it would create like

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of turmoil in me that was so unnecessary.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so like kind of learning like how your partner

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<v Speaker 4>communicates essentially, because yeah, I agree, there's times where Haley's

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<v Speaker 4>ready to settle it right there and I'm like I

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<v Speaker 4>can't even think straight because I'm so frustrated and I

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<v Speaker 4>need space. And then she would be like, you're just

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<v Speaker 4>abandoning me, and I'm like, no, no, no, I just

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<v Speaker 4>want to be able.

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<v Speaker 2>To for it to be productive.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say that like focusing on your relationship and

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<v Speaker 4>not listening to outside opinions. I mean, I think you

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<v Speaker 4>have people that you respect in your life, and if

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<v Speaker 4>they come to you and have like a concern or

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<v Speaker 4>want to talk to you about something, and you can

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<v Speaker 4>hear them and listen. But I think like knowing that

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<v Speaker 4>you and your partner are the ones in the relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>I think not listening to opinions on the outside of

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<v Speaker 4>like if it's right, if they're the right person for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I do think there's certain people in your life,

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<v Speaker 4>Like if Tanya came to me and she was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to make sure that you're okay in

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<v Speaker 4>this relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>If Haley's like a great partner to you, I would

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<v Speaker 4>be like, okay, Like I'm gonna think about that.

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<v Speaker 2>But if there's people that.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't know your partner or know you and they're having opinions,

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<v Speaker 4>it's just like it's just outside noise sometimes. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think it's like, you put in the work that you

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<v Speaker 4>want to in this relationship, and I think it's important

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<v Speaker 4>to focus on that and not just let other people's expectations.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a great one. Not letting people's expectations or opinions into.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, infiltrate the relationship. Well that's all for now.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure we may have things that come to our

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<v Speaker 4>mind that we miss. We're just both coming from the

0:44:42.000 --> 0:44:45.480
<v Speaker 4>altitude and the long travel day. I genuinely have two

0:44:45.520 --> 0:44:48.480
<v Speaker 4>brain cells that are actively fighting to work right now.

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<v Speaker 4>So we love you all so much. Have a wonderful weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>We have a fun episode this Thursday with Hunter March

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<v Speaker 4>Yes and.

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<v Speaker 2>We love so much. Week byes

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<v Speaker 4>HM